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A love Dilema

I am always careful and respectful of ages in real life. I've never dated a woman thats 15 years younger than me. I started chatting to a great young girl from this site and with time we fell in love... Now the dilema is that she is only 20 years old and I am 40 She says it's ok, but I feel awful! Even my family critize me for letting this happen. A friend say it's alright in Europe, but here in the USA it's kind of odd to see these type of couples since most girls never would want to date such an older man. I have spoken to my g/f about this and she says she feels great with me, but I don't know what to do!!! I haven't met her yet, I don't know if her parents will not approve. Have any of you guys been in such situation?
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RE: A love Dilema

how much money you spend in her video per week ?
if you stop paid video will she love you as much ?

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RE: A love Dilema

...just give it some time and it will soon fizzle.

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No, I only saw her once in video about 4 months ago. She told me she doesn't want to see me as a member. We see each other cam to cam from her home.

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im only 37, ask me in a few years. if your happy and she is happy and more importanty her family approves, then fuk the world and be happy dude. good luck.

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i am member number 825 out of thousands here, you people kill me with all this love stuff here, how can you be truely in-love with someone you havent met in real, not even spending time together in real life, doing things together in real life, knowing all the things about each other, instead of this video chatting with each other and talking about fantasy and love you call it, get real and go out more on real dates

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RE: A love Dilema

dude, im tired of going out and meet sticky drunk ladies at bars and clubs. I don't have a problem meeting women. Love is not a matter of choosing, it just happens and you can feel it when it's true. I have been a member of cc for 4 years and I was always skeptical to love here. Also true that new and younger hosts use the I love you phrase to hook members for video, but they stop talking to u after 1 week if u never came back to their video. Also, I found out that you get to know the real person here rather than in real life. Here u have chances to develop a conversation more in depth. In real life there are always things around u that distract your senses and most of the times you are either dinning, dancing, making out or having sex and you really never get to know your couple's inner feelings.

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RE: A love Dilema

I would have no problem with the age difference, Just don't run out of Viagra.

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cool, just give them a bike ride across country once and then they will decide your to old-cool, but hey, what ever floats you and her boat man, go for it, for you take one day at a time, because, well you know, and for her ask her does she know what it's going to be like when your 60 and she 40, hmmm, now that don't sound so bad as age differences,-cool

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RE: A love Dilema

Member, It may not be the convention in the US, but your "dilemma"----as you call it---is hardly rare. She's a grown woman! Why feel "awful?" As W.C. Fields put it more than a half century ago, "I'd rather have two women of 21 than one of 42." lol! (The late, great Spanish cellist, Pablo Casals, married a woman in her early 20's when he was in his late 80's! )

Relax. Meet her, see how it goes and take it from there. You're driving yourself mad, more concerned about what everyone else thinks. Right now it's only about you and her. Leave everyone else out of the equation for now. When you meet and see each other a few times, then you can think about the larger circle. If it works out, great. If not, all that other crap you're worried about will be moot. Bon courage!

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Oh yes, ever since I turned 40. Don't worry about it - let the woman decide - they're more intelligent about such things and have a different agenda to us guys.

I questioned 2 women who married men 30 years older than themselves. Both said the age difference didn't matter, he was the one they wanted.

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On the other hand, a 30 year old woman I know worried about the age of her boyfriend aged 60.

The most successful couple I've ever known married when in their early 20s, the same age as each other. They have now been very happily married for 40 years :-). For me, that is the still best solution for a young woman at least, find the love of your life around the same age group and grow old together.

My much younger women friends I treat more like daughters - I am more comfortable with it that way. Would be stupid to demand an exclusive relationship as I want them to find a young guy someday...marriage...kids.

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without ever meeting? lmao.... it's called Lust mate!

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I mean real life meetings, not virtual ones - both my posts are about that - you are sarcastic for the sake of it - make you feel good?

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Yeah buddy, I see nothing wrong with a near 40 year old "falling in love" with someone half his age and even though you never met in real life I'm sure you have so much in common. Nevermind those that say you are going through a mid-life crisis trying to re-capture your youth, I say go for it nad let me know if she has a younger sister.

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I believe that there are those of us that have been in the reading comprehension of post in the www setting that are quite ableto tell from what'itis we read the difference between lies and truths! Until recently I did not believe one could genuinely fall in love with someone they've met on the internet, but after what I've been through in the last month and a half, plus the extreme feelings of endearment for the beauty mentioned that I say go for it! If you do not feel as if you want to follow thru with it, put her in touch with me if she's near East Texas, and I'll gladly converse with her to see if the spark could also be there for me! She sounds as if she's a strongwilled woman, that is mature enough to know what she wants!

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It's sneering for the sake of it with you isn't it? I'm not talking about life-long relationships necessarily - a quick fuck is nice too so stuff the age difference. lool

Why do you tuncs read everything so literally? But wtf, it's a sex site.............;-)

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something to day to A Member

i know a very nice family who had a very twisted awfull life (and unlike most stories where many dont agree i know on my story they would)
Anyway!

The mother didnt live happy for a very long time, they have 2 kids...
The mother and father lived together for about 18 years, but the reason they did live for 18 years less or more was all because of the kids! The Mother wasnt felt that she was treated well, but she was a very loyal woman, and she is a very nice kind lady and shes the type of person who would never go to someones house without a present or anything... basically the kids adored her and many people respected her because she had a good heart! But the Father was pretty abusive and treated her not well and long time ago The mother thought she had a true love, and in those times they were both very poor, now the father is one of the richest and as the family believe he got too much money and lost his head...

But my main point of this story is the Update!
The mother was a good person but not a happy woman!
But! right now she did find happyness!

She has someone who loves her dearly, who has another child with her, he treats her good, he is a good man of the house, he is a good handy man and he is older just by few years then her older son!
His parents don't like the fact he married with a much older woman, but he is happy himself because he thinks he gets the best treatment, he loves her, she loves him... One is older then 40 the other is half the age!
People will always will talk rubbish and always will find something to hate about... Sometimes it's jealousy, sometimes it's ignorance But most of the time it's because us people thinking we more clever then anyone else and the fact that we so clever we think we can predict future!
The way i look at it is: I see them, they look happy, i can't help but be happy for them...
And remember most young girls do love older because they more experienced in life and know how to treat them better, it's not a fact but it's what they think, they half wrong half right (because every story is different)
Also the family now is not rich, but they working together and everything is ok!
And it doesnt matter whether the Man or the Woman is older, it's whats in the heart...
p.s. It's a true life story and got nothing to do with the internet :)
Peace

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RE: something to say to A Member

sorry i said "day" instead of "say"

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Thanks for the story. It's nice that happiness finally showed up to the great lady.

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welcome and goodluck :)

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RE: something to day to A Member

**And remember most young girls do love older because they more experienced in life and know how to treat them better**
Just out of curiousity, why do you think "most" older men love younger ladies?

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They know how to fuck a guy and they much tighter

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1: i was saying it how most girls say it, so i quoted them. i'm not a good writer so i guess not everybody understood that.
2: why ? because probably for many reasons but really dont know i'm still young :)

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RE: something to day to A Member

Falling in love with someone on the internet is not only possible, but today it's not uncommon. And I don't just mean falling in love/lust during online chats, but eventually meeting in reality and the feelings of attraction becoming even stronger. It's happened to me more than once. My most recent g.f. and I met online and dated for almost 4 years. We are still close friends. (we did not meet in CC but I think CC is as good a place as any to meet a potential mate). I've also met several women from other parts of the world and eventually met them in reality. Because we lived in different parts of the world, I didn't end up dating them, but the time we had together was really special. Again, the attraction was just as strong after we met in person. Anyway, anything is possible, and I would not rule out this person either because of her age, or the fact you fell in love online. Good luck!

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roflmfao

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was that a backup story to a future scam complaint?

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Lol, probably not, since she has already 'tipped her hand.' I agree with your observation, that this would have been a great card to hold for a worthy 'trump.' But such a strategy would make plain a rather advanced case of cynicism (and its usual companion, coniving), which I do not see in this girl.

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When i scam hosts i expect her to buy me a car as well as just furniture or how would i be able to get to work (unless she would be paying for all my food and bills too). I hate it when hosts are mean and don't treat me right.

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You're welcome. I can't promise to be all wise when it comes to relationships but I do know that even with the best intentions things can go awry. I just don't think you should judge yourself too harshly for caring. For myself I would always wish to be accused of caring too much than to be accused of not caring at all. It is your choice, I just felt you could do with someone seeing that as a positive trait and not a negative one.

Best of luck and fortune in all else you do, ok? :)

TNTFSHHMY

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RE: about scamers

Because you didn't tell him, he thought the apartment was furnished as part of the deal. It is common to think that unless you talked to him in advance.

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i really think u shld have kept the receipts of everything that u bought and showed them to him and ask for your money back.Or at least u should have asked him initially if he wants u to buy anything for him, maybe the guy wanted the flat as it was, with a bed and fridge, who knows.I am sure its just a matter of misunderstading, try explaining to him how things really are

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took advantage? wtf

he asked you to help find an apartment, i didnt read anything about ..
if it is empty can you buy me everything and i meen everything to fill it.

speaking as a guy, a bed and a frigo..what else do we need? oh yea tissues!!
NEVER blame him because he didnt offer to pay you for everything he DID NOT ask for, maybe he has no money to buy things because he just moved there. oh no no that cant be it, can it.
i hope next time i go to my machanic to have him change the oil i will get a new car as well.
i guess you believe in the old saying if you give a gift now the gods will return your generousity ten fold, i bet my left nut he said thank you for finding the apartment tho, didnt he ?!!

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RE: took advantage? wtf

Being a guy, I can't imagine someone doing me a solid and then not reciprocating in some way. There's just no way I could, in good conscience, just take from someone without squaring things up by doing something to give something back in return.
I'd feel like such a heel if I didn't.

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RE: took advantage? wtf

men suck. if it were a girl, i bet she would have paid you back in some special way.

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yeah a touch of the old john wayne bobbits

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IF you have all the receipts,you can always go and get your stuff back. As long as it's your name on them.Maybe you could get back some of the money you spent. Just a thought ...

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Prof, With all due respects, there's nothing in "host's..." post that makes plain just what the "deal" was. Was the guy coming for a brief visit to meet her and expecting the accomodations one might expect at a B & B? Was he staying, or settling in, for an extended sojourn? If so, for how long? She also didn't say what her host country is and as such I'm not sure we can draw any conclusion about the standard convention with such rentals. For example, do Muscovites rent their dachas when they are not occupied?

As you said, you assume she didn't ask the guy if he expected the flat to be furnished, but it would appear he did. But why it would be incumbent upon the host---and not the proprietor of the property---to equip the place, she does not make clear. If she did not broach the subject with the guest upon his arrival, it's hardly fair to assume he was being a tight-fisted ingrate, don't you agree?

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...nice to see the tables turned for a change.

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not cool to scam, but what do I know......NOTHING,,,, sorry hun to hear about that happening to you, but cheer up and stay cool

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Obviously Mr. Switch got scammed. Why else would he make such an insensitive comment? Or maybe he's just one of the amazingly rude viewers all my host friends complain about. I find this story really touching, even if the protagonist was a bit naiive. I've helped out one or two hosts that were in a bind, but never felt I was being scammed. Host in Adult, maybe we're both naiive, but we've managed to survive this far!

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If you possess enough reciepts, and other documentation to prove your story, as in the emails asking you to set up the place and such, plus witnesses too. Then start pestering Judge Greg Mathis, and do so until you get a results similar to that you will need to bring your case before him, lay off wise cracks until it's over and you may very well get you compensation. Never can tell, it may work out for you, if you already have the paper work and all, the only thing you can do is try, may get taken well care of in the end!

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Spoken like a true scammer.

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instead of buying everything for the house, like furniture, tv and all other stuff.. Why not ask first?
it's a catch 22! You might be thinking you doing somebody a favour and helping them out, but the guy might be thinking your putting the price up and trying to scam HIM! To most people it's strange that a person without asking will buy everything for him, and maybe most of the stuff you bought he didnt want, maybe he wanted his own stuff to buy... If this happened to me and me as a guy, i'd probably give you the money back, but i will be angry at you in a way... well maybe not, depends on the circumstances BUT I woudlnt feel right and fully happy... Infact i would be thinking: Why couldnt you just ask first???
I bet most of his friends told him that the girl is trying to scam him and that she planned this all to make some money off him!

At the end of the day you meeting someone from the internet and before you met in real life, you can't possibly have a full 100% trust in each other! So the person doesnt exactly know what he got himself into.. Thats why in all relationships people preffer not to do out of the ordinary things without the discussion, another good point discussing things is: what you might feel is right, the other might think it's not!
I think your wrong for what you did, BUT! I don't respect the guy neither!

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well said charlotte, now even though we never met or even had a vid together can you lend me some money out of the kindness of your heart? oh wait..that would be stupid of you to do right?

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just said it twice.

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no - not translated right. alfonses???????

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The fonz?

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RE: about scamers

"Forget what you give ... never forget what you receive..."

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RE: Spring

Thos in touch with nature ....

thats the way it is .....

sun coming out ,,,

flowers too..

and the guys getting their swim stuff out ,,(hoping it still fits,,!! )

and doing a few exercises ,,,, buff up a bit for summer hhehehe..

Nature .. wonderful...

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RE: Spring

Spring = more sun = less clothes on women = more skin = men more horny ;)

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RE: Spring

... and more money for us... :p...

But we will come back later... and we will spend more money with you... :))

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RE: Spring

Me, Perhaps as a remedy you could propose to CC that they introduce a new category: "Live at the Beach," preferably a nudist one! :)

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RE: Spring

as soon as the ground is thawed an its easier to dig holes, im happy with spring : p

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RE: Never Underestimate The Intelligence Of A Woman

It is very easy for a woman to get money from a man. It's in their nature and men are just gullible. Hence cc.

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RE: Never Underestimate The Intelligence Of A Woman

what a freeloader

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RE: Never Underestimate The Intelligence Of A Woman

I agree, Stung, that women often prove quite adept at getting money from men, but I wholeheartedly disagree that "it is in their NATURE." Rather it is an ancient social convention. In fact, Marx called the economic relationship between the first men and women the first "division of labor." "Money," as such is a relatively recent phenomenon, but men and women have always acknowledged the things that possess economic value. (Btw, the English word "economics" comes from the Greek word, "ekonomia," meaning, quite simply, "household management," in which men and women played vital roles.)

That women in the modern era are stereotyped as being adept at plying money from men is understandable, since they had very little opportunity for earning money in those quarters (e.g. medicine, law, architecture, etc) which were strictly male bastions. So, men gave the women money and there was often, if not always, the expectation of a 'quid pro quo,' (='this for that'....and we all know what the "that" is!..mmm).

So, LaMurrr, I don't "underestimate the intelligence of women," nor of all of mankind, in fact.

Now one could side with H.L. Menckin, who said, "No one has ever gone broke underestimating the intelligence of the general public." On the other hand, one could side with Dostoyevsky who said, "But I do not say mankind is stupid, because if mankind is stupid, then who is smart?!" lol! Just like Dostoyevsky to say something like that!

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RE: Never Underestimate The Intelligence Of A Woman

I believe it was Albert Einstein who said"Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I am not sure about the universe". The big secret that nobody wants to admit is that men are in fact the "weaker" sex., lol

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RE: Never Underestimate The Intelligence Of A Woman

Lol! Einstein also answered someone---a reporter I believe---who asked,"Professor Einstein, what is the most profound theory of the universe,?" with the quip, "The theory of compound interest!" :)

As regards the perennial debate as to which sex is weaker, one must necessarily ask, "Weaker [or stronger] in what regard?" Sexual politics is interesting, but the whole question of "who's on top", so to speak, is---I think---more a matter of individual psychology. Of course, there is also the social and political aspect in the larger arena, but that is a different, if related, matter.

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RE: Never Underestimate The Intelligence Of A Woman

You need to have sex more often. lol ,lol

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RE: Hi everybody :)

welcome to the world of CC! enjoy your stay. love the hair in your pics.looks great.you should do just fine here.

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RE: Hi everybody :)

Thank u paco :)

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have you

taken hosting classes yet?

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Not yet :P can u be my coach please? :D

BTW, I would appreciate any advices from all of u! :)
kisses to all,
Yana

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not realy

maybe later

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welcome to cc world drivedance and if john doesn't want to be your manager, im avaiable--cool. Have fun girl and wish you all the sucess here and have fun and always stay cool

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RE: Hi everybody :)

Profile notes very good - you say precisely what you will do, and what you won't, i.e. stripping up to topless. Wish more hosts would do this and thus avoid misunderstandings. I think you are making an excellent start here - good luck! kiss :-)

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RE: Hi everybody :)

Thank u ally and chaser :)

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RE: Hi everybody :) heard it all before

well welcome, your life has just changed, remember this date in life.... happy christmas

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Thank you Keana, that is very sweet.. Probably I'll tell him... Don't know how you did it, but you put in words exactly what it is and how I feel, with one minor exception: he loves me too...
Good luck Keana and thank you again. (K)

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wow, daringKeana, you sound sexy, lets have a drink together and let me tell you my story--cool and by the way to a host, hang in there girl or dude, time will tell and stay cool

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hi
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ho

hi ho,it's off to work i go.....

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lol so we have that selfish git Adam to blame.

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RE: how to...

if ive already peed in the shower i wouldnt pee on the toilet and floor right after.. i would do that later after a few beers or pee in the sink and wipe my weiner on the missus face towel ....

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and boring

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I will believe you as I would imagine you are an expert on all things boring.

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LMAOOOO:D

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Of course it took longer to read than to actually shower :)

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you should try showering like that:P

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my god its me

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FAQ's

Q. How many honest, intelligent, caring men in the
world does it take to do the dishes?
A. Both of them.


Q. How does a man show that he is planning for the
future?
A. He buys two cases of beer .

Q. What is the difference between men and government
bonds?
A. The bonds mature.



Q.. Why are blonde jokes so short?
A. So men can remember them.

Q How many men does it take to change a roll of
toilet paper?
A. We don't know; it has never happened.







Q. What do you call a woman who knows where her
husband is every night?
A.. A widow.



Q. Why are married women heavier than single women?
A. Single women come home, see what's in the fridge
and go to bed. Married women come home, see what's in
bed and go to the fridge.



Q. What is the one thing that all men at singles bars
have in common?
A. They're married.



Man says to God: "God, why did you make woman so
beautiful?" God says: "So you would love her."
But God," the man says , "why did you make her so
dumb?" God says: "So she would love you."
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and boring

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and bigoted and hurtful:(

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Happy Birthday

XxChrisxX have a great day bro...get a few drinks down ya neck for me
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what would you do

what would you do, if me...........
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i would come out of the dungeon and take a break

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RE: what would you do

...get a life

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RE: what would you do

change my name to"catcher".

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RE: what would you do

Oops i meant:"catch-her".

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RE: what would you do

get out more

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if i were u....

id be happy i wasnt johnzhon

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chaser if i was you, i would take advice that juhia gave you, get outta the dungeon and take and ju advice about get out more, when i was in dungeon a lot was costing me a lot of money and then I took Ju advice i got out more and it did really save me a lot of money here spending on video's and as for I would advice about get a life, well we all know life is life and I would re-consider your options about your plans and as of johnzhon advice i be happy if i was him either and for as seldom adivce now that makes since catch her-

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what in the shit are you talking about (hehe)--cool anyway

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now now pretty witch, don't go and do that, stay cool in the dungeon and watch out for the devil hiden in the closet-cool

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Another top tip for hosts

Hosts. If you touch your asshole, don't then sniff your fingers as if the viewer won't notice. It's really quite unnattractive. Thanks.
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RE: Another top tip for hosts

That's one of the funniest things I seen in some time.

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Wazz "UP?"--a reprise from the "UP pity guy"

Your question reminded me of a post from some weeks back by a guy who called himself the "UP pity guy." His post about the word "up" was very interesting, so I saved it. Thought those who missed it the first time might enjoy it, so here it is:

: UP pity Guy Reply New Message
What is "UP" 29/Mar/2007 03:24 (GMT)

There is a two-letter word that perhaps has more meanings than any other two-letter word, and that is "UP."

It's easy to understand UP, meaning toward the sky or at the top of the list, but when we awaken in the morning, why do we wake UP? At a meeting, why does a topic come UP? Why do we speak UP and why are the officers UP for election and why is it UP to the secretary to write UP a report ?

We call UP our friends. And we use it to brighten UP a room, polish UP the silver, we warm UP the leftovers and clean UP the kitchen. We lock UP the house and some guys fix UP the old car . At other times the little word has real special meaning. People stir UP trouble, line UP for tickets, work UP an appetite, and think UP excuses. To be dressed is one thing, but to be dressed UP is special .

And this UP is confusing: A drain must be opened UP because it is stopped UP. We open UP a store in the morning but we close it UP at night.

We seem to be pretty mixed UP about UP! To be knowledgeable about the proper uses of UP, look the word UP in the dictionary. In a desk-sized dictionary, it takes UP almost 1/4th of the page and can add UP to about thirty definitions. If you are UP to it, you might try building UP a list of the many ways UP is used. It will take UP a lot of your time, but if you don't give UP , you may wind UP with a hundred or more. When it threatens to rain, we say it is clouding UP! . When the sun comes out we say it is clearing UP

When it rains, it wets the earth and often messes things UP.

When it doesn't rain for awhile, things dry UP .

One could go on and on, but I'll wrap it UP , for now my time is UP , so........... it is time to shut UP .....!

Oh . one more thing:

What is the first thing you do in the morning & the last thing you do at night? U-P


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UP Guy, Thanks for the post. You’ve given me more food for thought and prompted me to look UP the word in my Shorter OED. As I suspected, the word is a part of English’s earlier Germanic roots. It appears as both “up” and “upp” in Old English. It is spelled “up” in Old Scandinavian and “upp” in Old Norsk. It is related to the Old High German “ūf” from which comes the Modern German “auf”, as in “Wachet auf!” (=Wake UP!) This Shorter OED lists 2 ½ pages of entries for “up” and 6 pages of compound words with the prefix “up.”

I first had occasion to think about how many ways we use the word “up” in English, as a result of living in France! My French girlfriend, a polyglot and lover of languages, pointed it out to me. One evening, as she was leaving my second floor apartment, I said to her, “Let me walk you down,” whereupon she said, “English speakers use ‘up’ and ‘down’ a lot.” When I thought about it, I realized she was right. It also made me think of how Germanic languages make use of compounds to form new words much more frequently than Romance languages.

“Down” is also frequently used. There are 1 ½ pages of listings for it, plus nearly 2 pages of compounds. “Down” is from the Middle English of the same spelling. It may well be related to “down”, from the Old English “dūn,” meaning hill (hence our word dune). “Dūn,” may ultimately be Celtic in origin (In Old Irish “dūn,” meant a fort built on a hill) and related to the Old English, “tūn,” meaning town. So, if one is leaving a hillside “town”, one is going “down” a hill. In modern English we always say “DOWNtown” (or UPtown) to indicate we are going to a city’s center, whether we are descending or ascending a hill. In French, by comparison, DOWNtown is “centreville,” (i.e. “center city”…although come to think of it, Philadelphians always say they are going to “center city)

Finally, one more amusing “up” story for your portfolio. It is apparently peculiar to the denizens of the Mid-Atlantic US city, Baltimore, to use the expression “to go up” when referring to a car or appliance dying. For example one might say, “My transmission went UP,” or “My refrigerator went UP.” I have not found this usage outside of Baltimore. Perhaps it was adopted from some similar German usage, given that Baltimore had a huge German speaking population in the 19th century and well into the early 20th century. Who knows, maybe I could look it UP! I’m UP for that (or as is said in African-American dialect, I’m DOWN for that! Lol!)


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Bacchant,

You are welcome. I thought it was interesting; that's why I saved it and it seemed apt here with the post, "Wazz UP," so I took the liberty of posting it again. (I hope the UP man doesn't sue for copyright violations! lol!)

Should I take your posting name here to mean you are a devotee to Bacchus, a wine lover, or perhaps more broadly just a Bacchanalian? :)

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...and kick Nelly's butt

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As far as I know bunnies don't crawl on trees ;)
You are as cute as a koala though! :)
Oh! Long toe nails would be hard on the bed sheets!

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hmm interesting question, i will get back to it in a minute my male short attention span
hmm what the other post say? brb

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because their brains function differently than ours.
If you read "Why men dont listen and women can't read maps" from Barbara and Allan Pease or "Men are from mars women are from venus" you will be able to answer this and many other questions :))))

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read a what

does it have lots of pretty pictures?
i like..umm
brb

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Milena, I saw these titles along with other best-sellers like "Tuesdays with Mory" and books by that pop psychologist---what's his name...something like "Deep Choke Chicken?" In any case I didn't read the books you cite. It seems self-evident that men and women think differently, but I suspect the differences have just as much to do with social conditioning as with inherent neuro-biological differences. For example, it was always assumed that boys were better at math than girls. However, this is not the case. The observation failed to take into account how our educational institutions tend to encourage girls and boys to pursue different paths. That is why there are more boys than girls in math and science classes.

Conversely, more girls than boys pursue Literary Arts. It has also been observed by many that girls read more than boys. Why? I submit the answer is, once again, social conditioning.

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Awwwwwwwww Aarona, they are not noticing you? hug! :D

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I doit because I'm looking for the wildlife channel, I like to see my monkey friends..

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It's among the great mysteries of the universe, as is, "Why do women always talk to one another about their hair?"

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Why are you so convinced that you've hit the end of the road?

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RE: Art of Letting Go

Very thoughtful and well written, I could not have said it better.It's painful sometimes when someone 'disappears' (see my post under "where is zlenochka"

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RE: Art of Letting Go

http://www.allaboutlove.org/love-addiction.htm

good luck

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sometimes it's just pride that stops things from being reconciled. swallow it and see what happens

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nice website "me", though it doesn't apply for my situation, just kinda miss someone who was nice to chat with

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im still here baby, come and give me some lovin'

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Cool! I am right over! mmmmmmmmmmmm

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drunk

i'm drunk.damn i'm drunk.WEEEEEEEEE
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Lay off the juice paco, or you'll pay for in in the morning, lol

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paco stay cool--make sure you get a designated driver tonight

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wot a shame ur 2 far away 4 me 2 take advantage of u in that pist up state he he

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http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org

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HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL YOU MOTHERS OUT THERE

To all you ladies of cc that are mothers out there, I just want to wish you all a happy's Mothers day. I hope this day brings you joy and happiness. And to all you wankers give your mom a call and wish her a Happy Mother's Day. Peace out.
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that would be then - hot MILF ha thanks
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happy mother day to my mother with the big man upstairs-cool

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RE: HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL YOU MOTHERS OUT THERE

Seems Mothers day is celebrated all year round. Different countries, different dates.

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Votes ?

Hay, can anyone shed any light on the votes that are asked at the end of a cam session ?
Maybe ive missed out on a post about it so far.
Whats it for, do girls/guys get something from it ?
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Scroll down to Post on 9 May, "Ratings," for a discussion. I think CC has info. on home page too.

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we say it to get you to suck cock (lol)

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I could turn that around and say do you girls really like sucking cocks as I would imagine that does not exactly stimulate the taste buds either (as neither does sucking toes,fingers,kissing).So I personally like licking pussies from a sexual point of view and leave the Hawiaain pizza to stimulate the tase buds.If I can combine the two I am even happier.

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It's not so much the taste as the act itself...so erotic....I love it ;)

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Second that wholeheartedly. Seems to excite m GFs too, so it's a win-win situation. :P

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I also tasted both, pusy and cock and i like cock. i like to feel the cock in my lips and watch his face of pleasure. the cocks i tasted are much better than the pusies i had. at me cocks taste better. but u r right about cum. when its clear is healthy, if white then it means it tastes salty and yuck!!!!!

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well its not the taste that matters,,

its the intimacy ,, the closeness , when a woman wants you there , she has made a very intimate connection with you.
lets say more that good friends lol..

so then there is the look on her face,, the feeling you get as she gets more excited , and wants u not to stop , that , control , the teasing ,,
the knowing how much she is enjoying this, the experimenting to find the nicest moves, (have u tried mints ? )
every woman is slightly differnt there , and I love that giving
(see viewer forum a many girls have a lot down there to eat on hehe some a bit too much for me lol but ,, i guess all is of interest to try )
most women really really like oral there , a few less so, but its not a bad way to show how much you care for her,,

what do u girls think,,?

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Agree with you T, but you forgot to mention my favorite part. Her little gasps, moans and wiggles that let you know she's really enjoying herself.

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Noooooo I love it:)) I love when he does it in agressive way:) Its so hottttt and wild.:P

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Yes, my GF said to me recently "How come you do that so nicely and you're not a woman"
I felt rather chuffed. :D

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ok lets say i am not too crazy about licking the whole cat but just it's clitoris :) Love it! Especially if it's my love's :) (ok ok shes not a cat) :)

BUT!

If you not to keen or you just don't get it... There's always: Ice cubes ;) Chocolate syrup ;)and actully many added flavours...

Heck! you can even find the special knickers for her where it's all made out of candy, or some lickerish ones :)

aaaa It's so much fun :))) (by the way didnt read everybody's post so maybe i missed the whole point) But! ummm pussy :) me give kissy kissy :)

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yeah, and the resulting yeast infections are always such fun too.

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heeey! Kat you not for me i was talking about my love :P

And Itchy :( why you trying to spoil my fun :(

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Depends if you like the taste of Marmite I guess...

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i LOVE doing that.it's one of my favorite things to do to a woman.true,some taste different than others but knowing that she is getting pleasure while i'm doing that is such a huge turn on and i could stay there licking her all day if she would let me.MMMMM I LOVE IT! keep that in mind ladies. ;-) LOL

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im keeping it in mind Paco hun, in fact cant get it out of my mind he he xxxxxx

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i'm glad to hear that olivia.now it's on my mind too and now i want to do it.damn it! any takers??

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2 far from me paco babes, dam ud need a long tongue LOL

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Oh Paco, u r such a liar!!! You had ur chance and u blew it!....

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what? i'm a liar about what? what do you mean i blew my chance? i'm lost but it could be cuz i'm drunk as hell too.LOL

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Free Video

thanks 4 swinging in guys, for the info regarding these FREE Vids, please see my personal forum.
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No Thx

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y be so negative, ??? SOMETHING 4 EVERY1 on this site, btw my free vids r well popular with my regular viewers. Might not be for u, fine no probs, just pass me by..dont even comment.

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i like the last word lolz

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sad, theres a word 4 u

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is there

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and undesireable springs 2 mind x

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Really :-O theres a word for you too but im too polite to say ..

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i thought u wanted the last word x

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i no funny isnt it, have u seen his comments in viewers

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who pulled ur chain ?

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ahh ur such a sweetie, dont worry hun, my nerves are fine...just get me a drink ...LOL
The nice guys sure make up 4 it xxxx

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Ice with ur drink ?

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because Joe90 is related to Ted or they are members of the same male loser club.

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plenty of ice 4 me yes, bet u like a bitter hey LOL

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i'll have a guinness lol

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while you're up, I'll have a Speights and gete will have a VB ...

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