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why would you ask me that
i swear i didmt do it
ok ok well i did, but in my defence ,i had to do it because if i didnt do it who would? would you? i think not!
so back off .if your not charging me then i'm leaving.

can you???
zzzzzzzzzzz

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I've been trained to both defend myself and my country

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I know its sometimes uncontrollable to fall in love with the great looking girls from this site, but please always keep your senses and eyes open before you give out your heart completely. I chatted with this girl for some months in video and sometimes in text chat. With time I made my feelings and intentions clear to her. I told her I liked her a lot and that I would love to meet her someday. One day she surprised me when she asked me to be her b/f here. It was great! I was so happy she finally decided to give me a chance. We chatted every time she was online and talked on the phone sometimes. We agreed and made plans to meet this summer in her city Ivanovo. I was so happy... She would say I was part of her life and very important for her. She said she spoke from the heart when she spoke to me. I always thought: This is great! She likes me! A cool and nice good girl and she wants to meet me! Wow! Am I lucky or what? I thought it was the best that could ever happen to me! WoW! I thought I was dreaming. I am a 40 year old fart and I am given the opportunity with a nice looking 20 year old girl! I thanked God many times for giving me the chance to meet her and because she liked me as much as I liked her. She always told me that she would never strip for anyone; not even for me. I never asked her for this; I always liked her and I knew that respecting her was the only way to enter her heart. One day she told me she was going home so I said: take care and see u tomorrow, but I watched her stay online in open vid for 10 more minutes... Next day, she tells me the same... I again watched her stay online in vid and later go. The 3rd time I left and came back in video (she was in open vid) and she immediately fixed the cam not to let me see down what she was doing and she was getting dressed in front of the cam and I saw she was letting the other guy see her fix her clothes back on. She told me many things and promised me the other guy didn't see anything, however I knew it wasn't true, but I decided to believe her just to give her the benefit of the doubt. Today, she again told me: I am going home now, see u tomorrow. Five minutes later she again said: I am going now so I left, but she made a mistake. She typed to me: I will go offline and online. Ha! She went offline, but online back on just to do the same lucky guy a 1 2 1 show. Lucky member, she is in non-adults and he gets to see shows many others don’t see. I sent her an sms and she said I was wrong and she wasn’t doing anything. Ha! She does this for the same guy everyday and I am wrong? Too bad... I really thought she was a great and good girl, but she is worse than the ones that strip in adults. At least the girls in adults are honest and we know what they do... Women always think they can play with our thoughts and hearts… There were times when she had no viewers and I would say why she didn’t do a little strip and she’d always say: No, I am a good girl and never do this. Ha! Some of you will say: Big deal, other girls do it. The problem here is that she always made me believe I was special more than any other member (she said to me many times), but she lie! This other guy is more special, not me! Morale: Never trust these girls. Most of them are a bag full of lies! BTW, her screen name is: Deepfeeling

Love may happen in this CC.
BUT, It takes ALOT of patient for a member to be "gf/bf" with a host, never forget that this is a job for the host. You dont support the financials for living, apartment, clothes and i.e University, the work does.
Even is she actually finds love, she also has to work- Its also logic that she likes a member very much and because of that dont want to hurt his feelings beeing with other members.

As my advices to members who find someone here:
1. Be patient and very open minded. If you start asking questions about what she does, who she does whatever with and blablabla. She gets afraid to be open with you, and sill start hiding things and thoughts.
2. Dont show that you are jealouse, even if just alittle. She already knows, She only gets "bothered" with it. relationships grows apart because of this.
3. If it is serious, then when the time is right, she will be all yours.

There is so many things I could write but you get the picture.
TK

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From what i read, TenderKnight, this was not a matter of patience, but of trust and integrity. As rightspot said in his post, he even suggested to her that she do a little strip sometimes to help earn more money, but it was she herself that said no to it and talked of being a good girl. So there was no need for her to hide something from him that he had suggested she do in the first place and it is the fact that she is hiding it and denying it, even when he saw her getting dressed in video just after her 1-2-1 ended, that destroyed his trust and makes him believe that her relationship with that member is more than just business. I do not blame him for that. Her actions are suspicious and when you lie to someone you invite doubt. When you know someone close to you has looked you in the eyes and lied to you and doubt has taken hold of you, it is difficult to trust anything they say or do. You begin to question everything. Even if she had started doing shows for some member to help earn more and was afraid her bf would think less of her for doing so, she should have come clean and told him so when he entered the vid and saw her dressing rather than denying it and trying to keep the lie going. At that point she could have possibly saved her relationship and rebuilt any broken trust. But that is assuming it was just that, a way to earn some extra cash, and that she isn't actually playing games with this guys heart while she screws around with another guy and has a relationship with him. Hard to know what is what in that kind of situation and even harder being on the outside and trying to figure it out.

What is clear is that these 2 people do not seem to have the kind of relationship that they can talk to each other about anything with honesty and that is necessary if you ever want to make a relationship work. No matter how good your intentions are, lies never help the situation. Sooner or later they always come back to bite you in the ass worse than if you had just told the truth and talked about the problem in the beginning. Trust can take a long time to build, but it can be lost in an instant and perhaps never be regained. Why risk that with someone you love?

Anyway that is my take on things, but who really knows, right?

I agree with much of what you say but I also think rightspot put her in a position that she eventually found impossible to cope with. Even if he sometimes suggested she strip to earn money he made it clear that he disapproves of adult girls "she is worse than the ones that strip in adults" makes his attitude pretty clear. She may have felt sure that if she told him she sometimes stripped she would lose him and decided to just hope he didnt find out. Having said that she does seem t have been pretty dumb in not telling the truth when he had clearly become suspicious but to keep on doing this. I also find it strange that they only communicated via CC never in yahoo. If he is so special to her I would expect her to find a way (after knowing him for several months) of chatting with him and sometimes letting him see her without paying for it, even if she had to go to a net cafe.

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It's a JOB to work on this site....she is ALWAYS going to have other men besides you in her room...deal with it or move on

I have never written here in the forums,but i couldnt help but respond to this topic. There are so many topics about love here in cc both from the viewers and from the members point of view. All of us know what this site is about. It's not a singles bar, its not a brothel, hell i dont even consider it a porn site. It is a chat site. That's it. The reason we visit and/or work here is for ourselves. For the hosts,this place is work. They need the money. They work for it.
How they do it is up to them. If they have no problems with morality and ethics, fine! It's their perogative. For the members, nobody comes here to exchange recipes. 99% of us come here to rub one out when we come up empty handed with our spouses, wives, gf, whatever. I dont think anyone comes here to find love (my opinion only).

Now, if love is a possibility, great!. It's all about trust. Remember, people can lie to you in real life the same way people lie to each other on this site. Lesson is, just be careful! I know it's easier said than done, but its the truth. As for the hosts who get caught lying to their members, well, I'm sorry but you got caught. Now you'll have a reputation as a liar and a cheat. You took the risk of lying to someone and it caught up to you. I see no harm in warning other viewers about these hosts. Now, in all fairness to the hosts, you guys do have to deal with a lot of crap. It is part of your work, and I'm sure you knew it when you first start working here. Just remember that you guys have the last say in what goes on in your chatroom. If you want to bitch about them go ahead. Please don't take it out on all of your viewers. There are a select few that actually respect you as a person regardless of whether or not they respect the job that you do.

I know nobody cares, but like many of you I have experienced what I thought was love here, but unfortunately it did not work out. In my situation, no one was cheated, no one was taken advantage of. I think for the both of us, reality set in and she and I moved on with our own lives. She found a teaching job to take the place of cc, and for myself, well, as you can see I took 1 step forward and 2 steps back by coming back to cc. Why? My divorce is not yet final. So, I have come back to enjoy some good conversation with many of you lovely hosts maybe even have a nice cyber dance or two (wink wink). Will I find love? Who knows. Whatever happens will happen. I'm just out to have some fun. If anyone cares to join me let me know.

Sincerely yours,

Moi

...if I was 40 years old and some hot 20 year old girl told me she wanted me and all that stuff, that would be my first clue right there that she was full of shit. Only rich guys, and rock stars and other celebrities get hot young women half (or less than half) their age.

Pardon moi ... Or whatever the spelling... Excuse me - in english...
But you don't have to be rich, star or politician or god knows what else to be 40 and be liked by a 20 y.o. girl.
I am 24 and I do like a 40 and something guy and you know why? Because everything I met under that age wasn't mature enough and "brave" enough to be with me in a relationship... Because the guy I like is smart and funny and he seems to know how to treat me and make me feel good. We are nothing more than just friends now and even if I am a bit skeptical, I would still like to give it a go and have a bf/gf relationship with him.
And he's not a star, nor damn rich.
Of course, at 40's a guy will have a better financial situation than a girl in her 20's, but this is definitely not a criteria to be in a relationship - at least not for me.
So , honestly, the age is a problem only if u want it to be, if you don't mind it and you r interested in someones personality and character, then u might find what we people generally call: happiness.

Well, I'm just 34, so you mean that every time an 18, 19, or 20 year old hottie on here told me that I was hot and they wish they could fuck me for real, they weren't shitting me?? Damn! And I just shrugged it off. However, all sarcasm aside, Charlotte, I wasn't bashing the poor guy or anything, just trying to offer a suggestion to keep it from happening to him again. Sure, it is likely that such a thing is possible, but I think it is far outwieghed by the unlikely. And if something does happen, how likely is it it will continue for a long time, especially when you consider a, for example, European and an American? Who will make the move and leave all their friends and family behind? Probably a little better if you both love on the same continent at least. Oh my, I am rambling, I didn't mean to go on this long.

I know at least three hosts who were ready to leave everything behind to be with the guy they met on CC and fell in love with. One of these guys was over 40 and in the other the age difference was 16 years. The relationships did not work because the guys turned out to be liars but the love on the host side was genuine.

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whats wrong with just being from the same planet? this world s so big ,but yet so small Iet my g/f here, been to visit russia many times and she will come to live in us soon.Relationships are no different here, it can happen but regardless of where it starts you will only last as long as you both feed it.

Poor guy, he was living a fantasy, but its the trend of sites like c.c. She just said whatever he wanted to hear. It's her job to make all men feel good. She as the other girls here sell a fantasy. I think she is in no fault. I can't believe this guy thought he was getting a free ride with a hot 20 yr chick. Rightspot, please look for ladies your age or you'll get hurt again, ok? Don't look for love here. The girls are here to work and sell fantasies. Conclusion: Dude, the girls are not here falling for old losers like you!!!!

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Sorry to be the one to give the news break, but this girl strips. Val performs nice strip for a few members that she trusts. She is a good girl, she just does her job as others here. I know Val since day 1 when she started in adults, then she moved to non-adults, but she swings back and forth and pleases just a few of us in one2one that kept watching her video as faithful and loyal viewers, LOL. The good question is if you would had been her boyfriend if you should had known this from the beginning? I hope this information aliviates your pain and helps you forget about her and move on with your life.

I've been to Ivanovo to stay with a host and her mother. She showed me the isolated concrete block-house which is the studio where she worked. The temperature was -30C when I was there. I imagined her tramping off to work every day to sell her dignity and self respect. The desolation and despair of it all. I could imagine that a young woman at the tender age of 20 who do almost ANYTHING to escape the sheer drudgery of living in that miserable town and working in that awful place.

Wish all you old guys here would stop whining on about 'can I trust her?' type shit. Be real, you are as old or older than her father! All this young flesh on display has gone straight to your little heads and rapidly exhausted your credit cards.

Enough already, it won't stop you being so foolish so why the fk should I care? lol

I understand your point is many hosts are in desperate situations. You are saying that means they should never be trusted?

'trusted'? wtf are you talking about? Yes, my friend could be trusted to look after her ailing mother. Be trusted to say no to the local pimps. Be trusted to say no to the local mafiosi who banged on her door at 1am demanding a $30 contribution towards Ivanovo's Business Celebration Day! lol

But trusted to tell all to some credit card-laden old tunc who pays to see her body? Get a life!

Please, somebody introduce a sense of reality here!

Yeah! somebody give this rightspot guy a wake up call! These girls need to do what their customers ask otherwise they will not make money. Wtf is bad with showing their bodies? Can someone tell me? It's his head and way of thinking thats f'ckd up! I saw this girl topless a few weeks ago and she was shy, but very nice. Oh boy! I wish I had this guy's chance! She is a beauty and this guy is stupid! Omg!!!

It's not a matter of the conditions where you live or work. It's a matter of respect to others' minds and feelings. She had no right to let me think that she loves me so much and to say she was very happy with me when the fact is perhaps the opposite. She told me many times after her compliments: and I say this from my heart. B.S. she never meant anything she said to me. I wouldn't tell an old lady: You are the most beautiful woman on earth just to grab her fortune. I know where these girls live and work. This is something the girls themselves should consider, not us. They are not little 11 or 13 years old girls. Most of these are in college and Universities and know the type of damage they can cause to someone's heart. They just dont care... Is that something we should smile at just becuase she lives under a tree? Self Respect and Dignity is never for sale. It's called Lies and Advantagous acts on their behalf.

You expect so much from a 20 year old - give her a break -maybe she is just in love with being in love, and you just happened to provide the perfect target for her projected fantasies.

I really think the older man needs to show more understanding of a much younger woman - she doesn't want to be imprisoned by your middle-aged fantasies. If you are not much older than her then mend ur heart and search for another love. It gets better with practice! :-)

A site like this is full of misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Just like real life! :-)

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it's me Charlotte - changed my name until you decide to love us welsh :-)

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Charlotte forget the cards I've changed my mind :P

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Makes a mental note to himself to never ask EASYtouch to strip :P

Or did I do that already ?

EasyTOUCH, many times I entered her video she told me she could dance for me. I told her it was alright and I just wanted to see her smile and chat. I said "he was special, not me", since she will send me away, practically kicked me out just to be left alone with him. I now regret myself of being so foolish and blind since she would not contact me throught yahoo. I was me the one who always looked for her. She even forgot my birthday, we were already bfs and knew each other for 3 months... She always said she was busy and I believed her. Maybe I knowingly acquired a fantasy she decided to build in me, however she should had respected my feelings. Also, I wasn't born in a crystal palace with all the golds and diamonds in the world. I come from a very poor country and with efforts I achieved to be where I am now. I understand the harsh and awful conditions most of you girls face each day in your country, but its not the viewer's fault. Most of us try to help or guide you in life. You can't build an empire stealing people feelings and telling lies. You build a solid future with honesty, knowledge and efforts.

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I know this guy rightspot. I saw his pic from another host. He is fat and bald. Not the type that this girl will like. She maybe said things to him to make him feel alright, but some members think all is serious here. This an adult's playground and we should leave everything behind after we end session. Some people aren't mentally adpat to places like these. I think he is mentally ill. Oh well, I hope he doesn't disturb this girl anymore.

Yes that's why I am glad I am rude and ugly as fuck (and know it).

No girl ever asks me to be her bf on here and if they did I would drop them like a hot potato.

To paraphrase Groucho Marx - I wouldn't date any girl that was willing to sink so low as to have me as her bf :P

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hey .!! why not indeed,, can happen i know it.. like your open minded thoughts ..
well u know that already :-)

have a cool monday ..

cos as you say, she's a girl (girl/woman emotionally), he's a man - 20 yr olds need time to decide what they want, impossible and foolish for them to make promises for the long term - any old guys sniff round my young daughters I get extremely disagreeable - middle-aged men chasing very young women must be suspect (maturity, intentions)

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So why the fuck do you say that traveller is a wise man when he is saying that a guy in his 40's who thinks a 20 year old could fall in love with him is stupid?

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You the term 'in love' like it applies to everybody in exactly the same way. It doesn't. A 20 uses the term to express significantly different feelings and aspirations to the 40+ year old. I don't claim to be wise just if you're a middle-aged man and sniff round my little cherubs I break your face you sad old pervert!

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ok ok loool, I took a deep breath and counted to 10, but you gotta understand how a dad feels when some old man comes round pestering his 'little girls' :-)))

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ahaha,, soeery Ralph.. This is rtruely a site to enjoy..Hope you had a funny reading, hehe

You're right.Destiny,Fate call it what you will it's all made up.

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cool--destiny, thats what im trying to believe in, from the day we are born we play as children, until the time we go to school, then we play some more while learning about history, then we decide to go to college and play even more and learn about how to make a living out there in the world, then as we grow a little older we look back and seen what happen to our destiny, but I still do not give up on destiny and you should not too, if you do you might as say what they say playing in a cards game, you fold your hand and sit back and keep thinking what is next out there for you---destiny is cool--life is great, people live it one day at a time and always hope for the best--stay cool and as my mother would still say today if still here, love your neighbors and give them a kiss

snoooorrrrrreeeee!!!!%

lmao... what goes around comes around! Chelski, u suck!

yup ..i think i hear that fat lady singing :-(

happy birthday galaxy and many more, may your day be full of joy on this special day as in every day to come-stay cool

Happy belated birthday Gala (k).

So does this mean you're not a teenager anymore :P

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"The women were told they posed no risk to society"
Yes they do, by breeding.

lol

makes you wonder what the opposite of evolution is ...?

opposite of evolution = english people

Devolution

wow big sand dog--is something wrong, you either sound like you listening to a sad song or cc love bitten you--cool,,,well hang in there

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Oops...not "fib" on her...rat on her I should have said.

fib is the correct word .believe me .Nature Sin is a very nice host who has always been very special to me .

well we all sin in life-cool, hang in there it be ok

did you just enter 121 or did you go to her textchat 1st and ask if she is busy?
either way i would let cc know about it, you may get your dollar back.
btw
thanks for the warning :)

I finally received an apology from this host. That's all I wanted. It's all good, no hard feelings.

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wish u the best this site rocks hope for you too..gluck

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only things i can think of at this point is
do not flood chatroom with emocons
after you have a session with member, send a short thank you mail
do not beg
try to remember all the mindless crap you and he/she talk about
(it makes us feel special an crap)
dont get offended / angry / sad at the crap we say in comchat, if we say mean things it is that we are just playing with you or we are assholes, either way play along.
also stick your name in comchat so you can get see.
i didnt read your profile , but hopefully you have more details then just smelly feet are turn off
good luck dude

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good luck takeapic-cool

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I'm sure you will find lasting love and a steady relationship here. (Psst...in a few months you will wish you had the ol lady back...it would be cheaper.)

joe90-its cool, now look who name is below you xginerbaby a cool woman looking for a husband if your avaiable (just kidding of course) ginger is a good song writer--cool

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Chelseaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa fan:P

colts-super bowl champs

Congrats :)

i'm sure it's now the beginning of the most exciting time for you.all the best!!

congratulations. my best wishes for a long and happy marriage for the 2 of you.

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I'm not too sure...he tried to break it apart in the middle very carefully...he said the first time he tried he broke the chocolate so he had to get another egg and try again, it was very different that's for sure!

A hot wire cuts through the chocolate easily, then when the piece is replaced a little flame "fuses" it back, the cut is very hard to see if you're not looking for it. Oddly enough in the US this is a felony, it violates federal food tampering laws put in place during the Tylenol scare of the 70s when some idiot was putting cyanide in Tylenol medicine and placing the bottles back on the shelves in stores. The only instance I know of someone being prosectuted for altering the packaging without altering the food was a FL baseball card shop selling "unsearch packs" of baseball cards they previously opened, removed the good cards from and resealed. They were prosecuted for food tampering because the baseball card packages contained gum.

Most kinder eggs when you open them come apart in two halfs anyway!!

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww its soooooooo sweet:))) Im so happy for u, ur bf is so cute:) I was at my friend's wedding yesterday and cried so badly when they were registered as husband and wife:) Its so cool to get married:)

Just in case take my number 07834 ######

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Thanks to everyone for their kind comments!

Maybe for your engagement anniversary next year he will make enough money so his bride to be doesn't have to work on a sex site.

Moron! It seems he is here with her doing Couples.

congradualtions siren--wish you all the best, love, happiness and future to you two--cool, wait to see what he does for you on your 1st year anniversity--cool

My bad man. I didnt realize he was into show business. And how do you know my name?

If you also notice, I don't do many shows here. I'm usually in Playback...I work fulltime at an insurance company but use this site to make a little extra

my kink is to talk insurance, premiums etc with a naked insurance sales lady! when are you on? hope hubby will join in??

well my loved one doesn't work right now, he has been unemployed a couple years, but he is looking!

Confrats SSiren, that wasreally cute. A lost romantic just like me,, hehe..
Wish you all the best:D

Thank you =)

Only difference with me, is that because i'm a fish monger, instead of chocolate, I would hid ethe ring in the body cavity of one raw calamari in bowl containing about 3 kilos of the invertebrates different kind of easter egg hunt.! I love a girl who smells like seafood!

ohh

cool ideas


are there any that dont ?

old yeller-cool

Behind the Green Door

No money no honey

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didn't you get my cc mail telling you i never loved you?

wow, if you find love through cc mails, you live a sheltered life.

Heh you get what you can.............when you are old and ugly :)

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yawns

can you?
(this shit is getting old)

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When I was in the military a few years ago I was stationed in Turkey. There is a popular beachside town full of tourist, it's called Bodrum. Go to the beach in the day, eat in the evening and party at the clubs till dawn. Cost depends on how much you want to spend (1 star hotel vs 4 star, lavish restraunt or a donnar kebab on the side of the road). Check out Borum on any search engine.

Thanks. I could easily buy a Lonely Planet guide book. I ask for a Russian to tell me how much THEY are acustomed to spending and where THEY like to go. I know their budgets (and maybe favorite places) may be different.

I have lost my contact that was telling me about it. It seems a better idea to base a "meet the Russian" tour on her terms rather than mine.

They love Egypt too

Tell me the details. I want to propose a meeting on a mutual vacation.

sorry, seems you only want the Russians to give info...lol

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No, I prefer to meet the Russian host somewhere around the Black Sea. So you say that the Russian budget is about $1000 for them to go there? I guess the host earns better money than I thought.

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she should be in shoe fetish catagagory.for such a beautiful smile where is it? all foot pics in archive. great legs tho.

try SweetHonesty - lovely tongue, lovely girl

Girl??!! What have you been smoking?

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And a great pussy!

Gravity numbnuts

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a naked girl jumping on a trampoline

eating 2 dozen of boil eggs, drinking 6 shots of whiskey, eating a steak dinner, drinking a case of beer and then having sex-

LOL, Since the title of the question is bike season, I would answer with the motorcycle shift lever, 1 down and 4 up to go faster!

my pants ?

hey who answer numbnuts--they dont go down and come up-they bounce around inside the sack---come on man get with the program

opps forgot to answer---what goes down, must come up--i say a bad drug deal--and what does this got to do with bike season,, i thought it was fishing season

fishing-cool--lets go,bike can wait

Welcome back. Did you cry at that song because it reminds you of your work here ?

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Welcome back and thanks for getting us all depressed.

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tina turner--cool singer, listen to the song: Simply the Best,, welcome back prime time (hmm are you deon sanders?)

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nice! very nice indeed! so sexy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thank u!!!!!!kisssessssssss

You have a very cute ass (and your face is nice too) so I like them :P

very nice! A guy would have to be dead not to like those photos! Thx SunMood :)

Very sexy, but you need to show more cock and balls.

yawns

That shit is only funny when Kinky Bob says it, get your own material, you plagiarist!

Where did the old Sun Mood go from a couple of years ago? I liked her better.

sun mood-your pictures are hot-love your legs-cool

emmmmm I'd do you ................the eyes are very sexy

thanks for replays!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:)))