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Well done Chelski:P

Chelsea-Liverpool 1:0:P Well done boysssssssss:)
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Ye ye:P So why didnt they kicked their asses yesterday?:p
COZ THEY CANT:P

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Girls who like football :(

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liverpool played well 2nd half ,, whoever gets through i just hope its not Man Utd in the Final , dont want those tossers to win anything :p

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bad joke ok? Russian Mafia 1 - proper English team 0 :-( ;-)

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Chelsea...the cheque book Champions League team

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They will win;)

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Liverpool resting all their stars this weekend, no luck for Chelski they cannot afford too :) Liverpool will win!

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next game they will be crushed into the mersey

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Ye ye and who is the boss? Liverpool? Nahhhhhhhhh

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RE: who likes BBWs?

last time I tried to inflate my doll into a bbw she exploded! :-(

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RE: who likes BBWs?

Im sure many do like BBW..

not me ..

as many guys here are over 35 ,,
and many have gf / wives etc etc ... many have BIG wives gf who used to be slimmer and now not so ..
so come here to remember ,,,

hehehe..

im divorced by the way ... but was not just she was bigger than when i marry , that was not a prob.

prob was when she asked

does my bum look big in this .........................YES ... she did not want to hear ,,,

i cant wear that .!!!!! look at me !!! dont be silly ,,,,,

and all that ..

pls turn the lights down ...

and all that ...

so here for slim like my gf ...

(i am away on work a lot .. hence my visits here ).

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RE: who likes BBWs?

Do you have no business AmazingBBW?

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As long as she'll fuck me she can be any size she damn well likes :)

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Imnotyourf..................nice one ..

u have a strategy - say whatever it takes and do with anyone who will..

cool lol,
your kinda a male martini guy -

sing along
anyplace anywhere anytime lalalala

hehehe

as long as they say yes ...

nice one..

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RE: who likes BBWs?

lol When you're as successful with women as I am you learn to take the "yes's" whenever and wherever they come along :D

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Alias my post wasn't only about BBW's it was about ANY girl who would say yes be she a BBW, BAW(Average),BUW(Ugly), MBW(Medium), MAW,MUW,SBW(Small),SAW,SUW. And any other combination I have missed :D

But you are right even prostitutes refuse to have sex with me :(

I think I already know the answer but what the hell you've got to try. Any chance of a sex Alias ? I promise at least one of us will leave feeling satisfied :)

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Believe me the person that told you I had a tiny willy was being too kind lol.

I'll be satisfied though and that is all that matters. Any girl worth dating should only be worried about if her partner has been satisfied sexually.

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Ouch !!!

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RE: who likes BBWs?

I actually like BBW. (and slightly older woemn too.)
I like the big breasts and ample butts most have.

the catergories are somewhat arbitrary. I have noticed girls in Normal curvy and BBW that all look the same.

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I see enough fat people on the streets, I come here to see beatuiful women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! =))=))=))

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Why men don't like you ? Quite simple,you don't like 'em either ( i.e everyone in your opinion is a wanker,a moron,an idiot,a jerk,a liar etc ). So if you wanna have some fans around,you'd better change that boring-annoying attitiude you got and be more relaxed. Go out more,get laid sometimes. Be relaxed,most people come here to forget about worries and everyday life,they don't need your nagging and whining.

Give people some credit and respect if you want some in return. If you couldn't care less,don't let the door hit your ass on your way out.

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The 7 series is a bit too big and cumbersome but the 5 series is great. I also like the sleek lines of the 6 series.

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Why is is always big beautiful women and never big ugly women, is this some kind of marketing tool for saps?
Every lady I stayed with for more than 6 months put on weight. why on earth would I want to start out with one already overweight?
Reality can be harsh sometimes.

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but u are a bbw also.big is beautiful?more like repulsive

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I zink ze BBW is a poor mans shevachenko! Zis is the poor man i get from start of ze season... he conspired against chelsea with Roman to remove me from my job, but i will not be moved. my drogba is worth the hottest girls on CC, he will fall down and you will give him ze penalty

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Fat people dont get ze love me, fact!

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Why do you post here? No one in ze video? =)) Move on!

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The question that really needs to be asked is why do you post here?Believe me your posts are not entertaining in the least.

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And you zink that yours are? Who are you kidding chelsea hater!

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No I don't think mine was amusing but it wasn't meant to be.You on the other hand obviously think your pathetic posts are.

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One last point i wud like to mention. I see no other sleepy posts so I zink that you are one of the many anonymous's who like to conspire against chelsea and post bad rude comments. At lease I do it with my own name...

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RE: Ode to oral sex

A very nice ode indeed :)

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RE: Ode to oral sex---for her too!

Not every girl likes cunnilingus
Or the jazz composer Charlie Mingus
But a girl who does is quite obsessed
Her man's tongue can never rest

When a girl gives prolonged head
Her jaw gets tired, so one girl said
Likewise a man’s tongue gets tired
From licking her he’s quite perspired

This is no really good solution
To pain with oral execution
A 69 is possible though
Now that I call a ‘quid pro quo!’



Not every girl likes cunnilingus
Or the jazz composer Charlie Mingus
But a girl who does is quite obsessed
Her man's tongue can never rest

When a girl gives prolonged head
Her jaw gets tired, so one girl said
Likewise a man’s tongue gets tired
From licking her he’s quite perspired

This is no really good solution
To pain with oral execution
A 69 is possible though
Now that I call a ‘quid pro quo!’



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VanillaManil

Hey Come See! Wow, She is beautiful, sexy, fun, sweet, always a great time, and loves to have fun! ;-)
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RE: VanillaManil

yep
your right ,, sexy lady .. i saw her wow too ,, very nice one too :-)

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WHY DO THEY?????????

Why does some Russian host have to have a conversation with each other in Russian in open chat when it is posted English only, please?

Don't they realized that alot of members get bored and just leave?

Are they just rude,or just don't know how to send a private message to themselves?

I won't get started on the ones that does tag now.
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mabey they talk about how boring some members and are polite to not say it in english

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why are you asking us? did you think to ask them? or report it to administrators?

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RE: WHY DO THEY?????????

Send a complaint to help@camcontacts.com and mention the exact time you saw it. They will give warnings and then points against them.

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RE: WHY DO THEY?????????

As an alternative to the officer's suggestion Bubba you could try and stop letting such small petty things upset you so much.

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dear IMPY

It depends on the time of day when he was there. Different times of day have more European or Oriental hosts.

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I am confused. So because others do it makes it ok?

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RE: WHY DO THEY?????????

There's host in chat I love to talk to in purely idiomatic East London dialect. Even AmEng speakers would find it difficult to understand at times so speakers of other languages find it impossible. Live and let live I think. Personally, I like to improve my language skills in Russian, Romanian and Tagalog.

I hate any kind of censorship in CC, enough of that in 'real' life but I can understand your frustration, I just don't share it.

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Bubba just do what i do & imagine they are saying nice things about you.

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not only russians do it. i just look at it like its a type of flooding & enjoy listening to people getting upset by it.worse things happen in life.who cares if you don't know everything being said,there's probably lots said there that the hosts don't understand.

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That is an interesting concept: A monastic "chat" room where everyone takes the vow of silence! :)

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Tina! lol

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You are most welcome A-BBW :) I CAN be brief! (Ally, you're my witness here, right? The sniper has been eerily absent of late!)

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BUBBA, I agree it is rude to speak another language in the company of those who do not understand it, but I suspect that not everyone who does this is attempting to exclude others. Sometimes it may be a case of simply being tired of speaking a foreign language hours on end and needing to revert to the comfort of one's "mother tongue."

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and what is your langauge, it seems we have some people who dont like speaking english all the time in commnunity chat room, hey all I got to say, get over it, why do you want to know what they are saying anyway, you are not in private with them anyway and if you were, im sure they will try their best to speak english with you.

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Horay, I assume you intended this reply for BUBBA. I agree with you, some people just get tired. I have no problem with folks comunicating in their native tongue. I lived in France and would often welcome the opportunity of speaking my native English after speaking French all day. I do have a problem, however, if two people in a larger group suddenly lapse into their native tongue as a way of excluding others immediately around them. That is rude because it is the equivalent of turning your back top someone in the middle of a conversation. I hope you see the distinction I am making.

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dear Melomane

"I have no problem with folks comunicating in their native tongue."

Even when it's against the rules? are you one who says: "I have no problem with folks running stop signs and speeding in the neighborhood."?.

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RE: dear Melomane

It is not a rule, merely a request.

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RE: dear Melomane

Don't be so ridiculous. Jumping a stop sign or speeding through a neighbourhood could easily result in someones death.

A more apt comparison would be someone walking on the grass after seeing a "Do not walk on the grass" sign.

If you haven't got anything bigger to worry about than that then instead of moaning you should be counting your blessings.

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RE: dear Melomane

If you walk on my property, it is against the law. Little law maybe, but if you walk on the grass every day you kill it and turn that spot into mud.

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RE: dear Melomane

never jaywalked,spat on the pavementor littered anywhere for just a few examples traveler?your answer shows whether you are a hypocritical git or a liar!!

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RE: dear Melomane

...and "the rules are the rules," right Traveler? Come on guy, even the laws that inform these rules make distinctions about the relative gravity of offenses. You yourself admit it is a "little rule," but apparently are made uneasy by the prospect that anyone should trangress even the pettitest of offenses. Don't think! Stay within the lines and you'll be okay, right? That's the stuff of religious and politcal orthodoxy. And that, my friend, sets the stage for tyranny!

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RE: dear Melomane

Thank you.

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RE: dear Melomane

Traveler, I do not share your simplistic 'the-rules-are-the-rules' view here. Even so, the distinction I made is consistent with the spirit of the rule. I said I do NOT think it is right for people to speak a language other than English when the intention is to exclude others, but I am sympathetic to those who lapse into their native tongue because they are just plain tired of speaking a foreign language all day. Anyone who speaks a second (or third, fourth...) language knows what I am talking about.

As to your comparison with speeding and running stop signs, there is none.

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dear Melomane

Did you read the rules? If they want to speak a language other than English they are free to talk in private or take it to the ChatHost Chat.

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RE: dear Melomane

You can quite easily argue that it is not a rule... ask CC yourself ;)

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RE: dear Melomane

Understood. Read my responses to "the traveler" above.

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RE: WHY DO THEY?????????

because they just get really bored talking with u! Here s a lot of hosts with higher education and they can talk abt mant things but what can u offer? Stupid chat only abt "hard cocks"?

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Just Breathe ................







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Scenario 1

You have come home early from work to discover moaning in your bedroom. You immediately become suspicious and you head straight to the bedroom. You find you wife in bed with another woman.... Do you...

a) get angry?

b) walk straight out the door

c) join them
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im really really annoyed

why ..


i was divorced 2 years , and now she is bringing her Gf to my house ?
without asking ?

damn how rude ..

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quietly step away (after a moment) and go and make three cups of coffee/tea/juice.
then goto my pc and turn on the hidden camera in the bedroom:D

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Hahahaha niceee. I know my lover would love that, especially if my choosen woman would be a blonde hahaha. I swear i would do it once,................. if i wouldnt be so jelouse

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join them, then after, kick them both out. she was cheating...whether it was with a woman, man or beast. i don't put up with cheating!

but..i do like johnzhon's reply

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RE: Scenario 1

None of the above. For dramatic effect, you have a servant slay them both with a sword. You then throw yourself on the mercy of the court, ask to be forgiven because your wife was caught "in flagrante delicto," and offended your honor and the family name. Agree to give a large sum of money to the Church and enter a monastery for one year to do "penance."

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RE: NEW ARMY GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You can squeeze the trigger on my "little gun" any time you want :P

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doesn't look like there'll be the right kind of trigger pulling if you're in non-adult..but cute pics!

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RE: NEW ARMY GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wow! You are in non-adult and your English language skills are poor. What a treat! Can't wait to join you!!!!

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RE: NEW ARMY GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

will go good with your lack of manners & class Ted.

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RE: NEW ARMY GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, If you want to spend your money exchanging broken English with some random Russian in a bizarre outfit, that's up to you.

Personally, if I was going to pay some girl for a chat, I'd expect some muff action :)

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R.I.P Alan Ball

World Cup winner Alan Ball has died of a heart attack at the age of 61.

Ball was the youngest member of the England side that won the World Cup in 1966 and went on to win 72 caps.

Thx for the memories, RIP
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he may have been english but he was a great player and personality. my heart goes out to his family. may he rest in peace

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RE: R.I.P Alan Ball

Damn! I'm very sad. Thanks for letting us know.

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Huey, Dewey & errrrrrrrrrrrr Louie?

"Say, what's your name?" the bartender asked the first duck.

"Huey," was the reply.

"How's your day been, Huey?"

"Great. Lovely day. Had a ball. Been in and out of puddles all day. What else could a duck want?" said Huey.

"Oh. That's nice," said the bartender. He turned to the second duck, "Hi, and what's your name?"

"Dewey," came the answer from duck number two.

"So how's your day been, Dewey! ?" he asked.

"Great. Lovely day. I've had a ball too. Been in and out of puddles all day myself. What else could a duck want?"

The bartender turned to the third duck and said, "So, you must be Louie?"

"No," she said, batting her eyelashes.

"My name is Puddles."
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love it!

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What do men want???????

A woman with her legs at quarter past nine!
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If it was your legs open forget the beer and sports channel ........ :p

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RE: What do men want???????

Even twenty five past seven would do me.

As for the beer I could live without that.

The sports channels you can definetely keep.

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lol very funny.

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RE: What do men want???????

i prefer 2 45 but then i am from down under!!!

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RE: What do men want???????

If you didn't like my question in previous thread why you asked the question of mine?

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RE: What do men want???????

Since when do you own rights to a question? =)) =))

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RE: What do men want???????

Didn't she just ask a question? =))

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RE: What do men want???????

yes she did but she is claiming copyright for a previous question =)) hehe, hence *to plagiator* =))

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Hi

Any post-op TS here?
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there is now :p

i now that was lame :$

you check back about 30 pages or so, i think someone said something about TS's

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RE: What do woman want???????

Where I live, the ladies appreciate my ability to round up a herd of sheep while singing the 3rd aria from Tosca and being hung like Tom Jones on steroids. Wonder if Charlotte would be interested?

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RE: What do woman want???????

hmmmm...probably not...but the sheep might be..!

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RE: What do woman want???????

Forget Charlotte, you've got me interested :D

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RE: What do woman want???????

$$$

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RE: What do woman want???????

Plagiarism ain't cool, yo.

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RE: What does a man want???????

Sex morning, noon and night Gortensia :)

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RE: What does a man want???????

Oops the title of the post was meant to be Men want not the posting name :P

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RE: What does a man want???????

for you to stop asking so many questions is what i want :)

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RE: What does a man want???????

Me or Gortensia ? Or both :P

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RE: What does a man want???????

you rock INYF =)) she however doesnt =))

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RE: What do woman want???????

it appears that the writer believes that women want a man who she can "hero worship", someone whe can look up to and trust to always keep her interests in the forefront.

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RE: What do woman want???????

wait ... let me get this straight ... there is such a thing as a talkative woman!? Wow, I would never have guessed ...

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RE: What do woman want???????

I don't know if any of the women I know are too talkative. They never shut the fuck up long enough for me to ask them :D

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RE: What do woman want???????

For my money, A very interesting and thoughtful post, probably the most insightful I've ever read here. Agree totally with everything you say. Just one thing, if you could turn your mind to it, why is it a much older man, maybe as old as in his mid 60s, can be far more successful with women as young as 20 than men much younger? I'm not talking about money here - just he himself.

I mean, there is no biological imperative as a motive and he may not have any money to spare. Robert Trivers 'Parental Investment Theory' just doesn't appear to apply in this case: "A man invests in quantity, a woman invests in quality".

Thanks a lot. :-)

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easy to answer - they hoping you drop down dead soon so they collect. ;-)

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RE: What do woman want???????

I could maybe manage No. 2) but on all the rest I'm screwed :(

Especially No. 1) lol

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RE: What do woman want???????

I used to spend hours puzzling about what women want. Then I realised that I really couldn't give a shit as I wasn't put on this earth to pander to them. I'm much happier as a result :)

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RE: What do woman want???????

a fools paradise Ted,that's where you are living.LMAO!!

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hello

RABBIT !!!!!!!
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BUNNIE?

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RE: hello

GERTCHA !!!!!!!

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RE: hello

Sorry missed that post i was Down at Margate....

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Coffee and the forums

I miss the good old days when you used to get a cup and a half of coffee's reading on these forums.

Now I've read everything new and barely started my coffee :(

Unless Melomane posts and then I need to go and make a flask :P

Just joking Melomane :D

Is it called a flask in the USA ?
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Gala you can sit with me, hold hands and we will miss my dog together :)

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Yes I'll just have to fin something else on this site to amuse myself with :D

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RE: Coffee and the forums

Four of clubs - Higher

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Love

is it better to love and get hurt than to never love at all?
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to Charlotte

Charlotte, someone calling themselves traveller moaning about Romania in viewers forum. It is certainly NOT me. Henceforth I'll be Aled. kisses

Talking about love, I'm getting an increasing warm feeling in my loins for you...could this be love? Promise not to hurt you...Yakee da!

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RE: to Charlotte

Its better to love and to get hurt than no love at all...for sure:)

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RE: Love

Love em and leave em :-)

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RE: Love

tell your lover to use more lube before he enters ;)

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RE: Love


Yes always ...

though of course when your at your lowest ....................it seems maybe not..
seems maybe all is lost..

no future

but..

remember when your at your lowest ,, things can only go up ...

been there a few times , and it does not get easier...

but shows your alive,,,
and if we dont have hi and low what is life about ,,,

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Im mature .. well ok old lol , haha..
but

if i learned anything its you cant achieve anything without making mistakes , or getting hurt. So learn but if u want to live ,,,,,,,and feel , and love then you have to be vulnerable , and that means u will get hurt ,, sometimes..

like the man said u cant make an omelet without breaking a few eggs lol..

the man (or woman) that never made a mistake ,, never made anything..

the things that always mean the most , are the things u work hardest to get..

Love takes courage , bravery , commitment , respect, loyalty, and a lot of giving .... not everyone can do this ...
and not everyone you fall in love with can return it..

but dont give up...

this is not a practice run ...............this is IT....

good luck

M

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RE: Love

hump em and dump em, that's what I say

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RE: Love

ah yes,that age old question which really has no answer.my opinion?better to never have loved at all.that hurt feeling of losing a love is the worst feeling one can ever feel.trust me,i know.but love is one of those things that a person has no control over so i'm sure that i'll fall in love again and probably get hurt again but so be it.life goes on.another question is.............how does one know if that person you are so in love with is "the one"? especially when you really,really think the person is "the one" and it doesn't work out.if that person was your idea of "the one",how can you now search for love when the love you had is gone and you honestly thought she/he was "the one"?ok,enough rambling for me.time to get back to work.

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RE: Love

i'm less,would you settle for me charlotte? LOL

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RE: Love

its ok..

because ............. there is more than 1 " the one"

if there was only ever 1 , and he or she was somewhere on this planet , then the chances to meet would be impossible..
as it is .........we find "the one" wherever we happen to live or move to..
and " the one" today ............. would not necessarily be " the one" next year ......we change .. so do they ...

every year that passes means - the one is slightly different , because we look for slightly different things.

we cannot change what happened to us and each day something will effect us.. so tomorrow we cannot be the same as today..

I know for sure that if we go out , meet and chat to people then , by pure numbers , we have more chance to meet the right person.
That can be via here , or when we are in the supermarket.. anywhere.. and everywhere..
and usually when we are least prepared.......

fate and who we meet and when .... wow ... to big to think about ...

if we enter a department store and walk around..... think how many exits and routes we can take .....
just keep your eyes open...

smile...
and you just never know ......

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RE: Love

Once I've fallen in love and got hurt I'll get back to you Dave.

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RE: Love

"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"

Sounds pretty I must admit but it is a bit of a jaded view of life, and
something I am not personally willing to submit to. Have I loved and lost?
Sure. Who hasn't? Was it the worst thing that ever happened to me, yes at
the time I believed it was. I won't go into some of the less clever things
that crossed my mind at the time my world was crumbling around me but I will
say that no matter how hard it felt at the time, looking back on it is quite
possibly the only reason I have something to look forward to now.

"If it doesn't kill you , it makes you stronger"

Yet another gem of wisdom from someone to show the other side of the coin.
And yes.. that I am more inclined to believe is true. For the simple fact
that it is and will always be my lovers and friends who make me who I am
today. They are the ones I learn from, sometimes hard lessons sometimes kind
lessons but learn you do and you grow, and as you grow you realise what it
is you are really searching for. And more often than not you are not
searching for the same thing or the same person you were at 15, 18, 21 or 23
etc.. People change, peoples needs change. And whereas one stage we all just
want to have fun and ditch responsiblity at a later stage we want comfort
and security. Different relationships at different times. It's only natural.

Snuff said.

TNTAHTPW

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No it is not better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all and what does not kill you frequently leaves you wounded and scared, it does not make you stronger. At best it leaves you a wiser weaker person.However if you start feeling sorry for yourself just remember there are millions of people who dream of having a life like yours.

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It is better to love someone. It may not work out and you might get hurt, but that is better then not loving at all. You will always think that I should have loved if you do not.

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knowing now what i do.
i would say it is better to have never loved and wonder what it feels like, then to have had the feeling and lost it.

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There is nothing worse than someone whom never felt love. There is those who fear the pain of a broken heart, but instead make others suffer. I get hurt often, but I continue in the search of love. I don't fall in love with the person, but the feeling itself. Don't blame the other for not being perfect, just forgive and move on. Sooner or later love will find you again. It's hard to find your other half, however not impossible.

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Hey leave us people who have never felt love alone :(

I have felt plenty of lust though :D

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Are you sure you dont feel love? Admit it! You love the feel of lust!!! LOL!

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i lust for love and love lusting but i love the luving lustful feeling of
aww fukit, can i see you boobs now?

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Hey you could have a point there :D

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Galaxy I would wait until the end of time for just one kiss from you (or at least until another host offers to get naked for me). :P

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I hope he is running in doggy heaven chasing the bounciest ball he has ever seen, wagging his tail so much it looks like it might fall off and waiting for him back in his heavenly kennel is the biggest, juiciest bone a dog could ever see :)

But unfortunately I think he is probably just rotting away in the back garden :(

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Dave,

Yes. What's the alternative? To close oneself to the possibility of communing with another---out of fear of getting hurt---is to elect a spiritual death of sorts. But the memory of the ineffable joy that love can bring keeps alive a yearning for love.

A part of the human condition is that we will suffer. We will lose loved ones in death (and we too will die), and we may be disappointed in love---which is a mini-death. We all desire happiness, and love would seem to be a necessary ingredient.

The German poet Rilke said, "For one human being to love another: that is the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation." He then goes on to say that young people so often err in love because they are beginners.

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That guy Rilke knew what he was talking about Melomane.

It's certainly too difficult for me :D

I'm happy and I'm not in love :) - but I do miss my dog :(

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Love you too Gingerbaby :)

I'm getting quicker it only took me 24 hours to reply to you :P

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Better not to love a someone who hurts you

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It's true people often make bad choices, but assuming both parties are sincere and being mindful of the 'other,' I'm sure those in healthy relationships will tell you the good times outweigh the bad. Even so, in a fit of anger or plain old selfishness, people hurt one another form time to time.

Some people seem to gravitate to those with whom only a destructive relationship is possible. It's commonplace for a woman who divorced an abusive, alcoholic husband to find another one just like him!

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I thought true love was supposed to be all selfless and unconditional and junk.
From some of the comments in this thread, it seems there's a lot of poor me/pity party selfishness taking hold

Love isn't what you get from another, it's what you give - and without want for or any consideration for what you might get in return, right?

Come on, peeps, lighten up. Your own happiness is entirely in your own hands. Get that in check, and you can better turn your attention to trying your best to make a special someone all gooey happy too. :)

Peace, y'all.

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You got it right Joe. I say it is better to love and get hurt than to not love at all. I believe that many people lost their loves because of their fears of being hurt. Cause and effect. When you fear being hurt, what you are really saying is I expect my love to fail and if you go into a relationship with that kind of thinking, sooner or later, that is exactly what will happen.... you'll prove yourself right. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Like it or not it is true. You become your own worst enemy.... being cautious, suspicious, withholding pieces of yourself, not doing or saying things you should, questioning everything they do and their motives, over analyzing everything , or worse trying to control them... basically allowing yourself to be controlled by your own fears and slowly driving the other person away little by little. Face the truth people, it doesn't work. You can't love half way. It's all or nothing. You have to put fear out of your mind and jump in with both feet. Give all of yourself and not hold back. That is the only way you find great love, lasting love, the kind of love they write stories about. You can't be afraid of getting hurt, you can't withhold pieces of yourself from the one you love in fear or it just doesn't work.

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To: Joe, Captain & Charlotte

Joe, I agree with you in the main. Love is an act of giving, but the ideal of "selfless" and "unconditional" love and "without want for or any consideration for what you might get in return…" does not accurately reflect even the greatest of loves. Truth is, even at its best, we invest ourselves, make a sincere effort to love another, but we do so in the hope that we will be loved in return--at least eventually. Few, if any people, can sustain a 90/10 relationship. It may not always be 50/50, in fact usually is not, but if love is to abide, the two people need to sustain each other and usually a consistent 90/10 or 100/0 dynamic is not sufficient. Finally, I agree with you that our happiness is in our own hands and to that extent it matters all the more that we make good choices. To invest our love with someone who does not or cannot love in return is to, as Captain put it, bring about a “self-fulfilling prophecy.”

Captain, you put it most eloquently. Your insight into the role fear plays in love is very profound. In fact, I think it could be argued that fear is our greatest enemy. It paralyzes us for action, be it love, work or some other human endeavor. There are legitimate fears, but I am talking about the more insidious, irrational fears that so often cripple us, the fears for which there is no rational basis. These we must confront if we are to live and love.

Charlotte, you say, “[I]t doesn't really matter what you think and how you enter a relationship…” I whole heartedly disagree. It’s essential to enter a relationship with a clear idea about, not only one’s own intentions and disposition, but about those of the other as well. We cannot afford to ‘look through rose colored glasses.’ That kind of romanticism will inevitably lead to failure. The “all or nothing” Captain is talking about is not synonymous with flinging oneself at someone. That makes for confusion and a loss of ‘relation’ and creates the “pink bubble” of which you speak. In the end you seem to agree, as you contradict yourself in concluding, “[I]f one doesn't know or doesn't want to take the right steps, it just falls apart. “

“I’m Not Your Friend” chides me a bit above for quoting the German poet, Rilke, but he has great insight. It is not comforting “happy talk,” but it is the truth, as in the following:

“But young people err so grievously in this: that they (in whose nature it lies to have no patience) fling themselves at each other when love takes possession of them, scatter themselves just as they are, and in all their untidiness, disorder and confusion…What is life to do with this heap of half-battered existence which they call their communion and which they would gladly call their happiness, if it were possible, and their future? Thus each loses himself for the sake of the other…loses…possibilities…divining things for an unfruitful perplexity out of which nothing can come any more, nothing save a little disgust, disillusionment and poverty…” [From Letters to a Young Poet]

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I think its better to love and get hurted. I once thought i will always love and never be loved, now i am loved but im not able to love everybody. I think true love is hard to find and when u finally live it, u shouldnt worry about being hurt. That will happen anyway lol......
:P

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Hmm, assume you not talking about pop song love dave but mature love. I love, it hurts every day but it's my choice. :-)

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Wish I was dave. He handsome, charming got a beautiful body, fabulous penthouse apartment overlooking Manhattan, and lives only 20 minutes drive away from asiandoll! :-(

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it seems we have some more love stories in the making here:
1. Ally194 with Dave
2. xGingerbaby with her self
3. Special Model with a normal model
4. Unique Angel with angels
5. DaringKeana with Joe
6. CriZzZaTa with Hot Tatyananna
7.GalaxylovesU with ImNotYourFriend
8. Melomane with The Naked Truth
9. Johnzhon with me
10.Paco with anyone
11.Traveller with Paco
12. Charlotte with hate

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Wow I came out pretty good in you're matchmaking efforts lol.

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yula and I

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One way to leave CC

http://news.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,30100-1262312,00.html
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That might be it,, hehe

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bad news if we ever lose ours:

http://news.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,30100-1234248,00.html

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turns out he was a bum buddy of mine who suddenly came to the realization that he no longer could live with something that had been inside my putrid asshole ... numerous chicks and dudes have lopped off fingers and tongues for the same reason ...

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you must be jonesing for a good ass-fucking then bananaman.

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New here, looking for contacts

I just registered here, and am looking forward to many fun times in here (I love to show myself on cam).. I have had some chat already with people in here, and they have been very nice to me. Would be really fun to talk to even more people, so drop me a line or contact me when I am online.. Or write a message here!
Take care!
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can't wait to see you in vid! wheeeeee!

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got a gas problem there?

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my blow up doll sprung a leak

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im sorry galaxy, i have gone over to the boys side now. Out of the virtual closet for me!

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they wouldn't have you!!

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not tisme,its almea pining for him!!

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hi tisme, still trying to protect your persona?

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lol i'm not him,i'm a host who knows he hasn't been here for months.you got it bad.

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im here gala, just be walking on the gender bender side of the street

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To:host from around to johnzon from a few days ago..(cont'd)

well i would say that i will try to be less rude, but i wont. like i have said...
i am what i am because i became what i have become.
if you do not like me for what i am, i can completely understand.
i know exactly what i am and i myself am shocked that people are nice to me, but then, most of the time i am a gentleman.
if you feel you can not be friends with someone that is rude to others, then i hope the best for you. i have learned to trust noone, all shall crush your heart at some point in time.
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RE: To:host from around to johnzon from a few days ago..(cont'd)

your right dude!
Some feck will always crush your heart at some point feck being nice!

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RE: To:host from around to johnzon from a few days ago..(cont'd)

Word.

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hey Sem

Do you remember the line from the Snoop Dogg's song and it goes like this?

You say your a pimp but you in love with a stripper! :)

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True love is a nobile feeling,be happy if you tasted it. Nothing lasts forever so enjoy it while you can. And indeed,life goes on no matter what ..Cheer up !

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Only fools laugh all the time or think love lasts forever

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Love & Nostalgia---Encore!

Mlle. Renard,

Ahhh, I see you are, like my friend Charlotte, a true romantic. :) You long for the classic days of Montmartre, when Toulouse-Lautrec frequented the Moulin Rouge and other places along rue Pigalle, and sipped wine in a café where Satie played piano. Like Montparnasse and Place Contrascarpe---the famous quarters for literati---Montmartre is now merely a tourist-trap filled with those seeking the ghosts of yore, and “artistes” (lol!) who sell their schlock to gullible folks who know no better. The Russian equivalent might be those street vendors in Moscow who sell Michael Jordan matrioschkas (sp?)

Btw, I assume when you say “the greatest thing u’ll [sic] ever learn is just to love and be loved in return,” you are quoting the song lyrics from “Nature Boy,” n’est pas? (No version of this song is better than Nat King Cole’s!) Likewise for “Love is a many splendid thing?” It has been some time since I’ve seen Houston’s film. Are these songs in the film?

LaMurrr, you ask interesting questions (like the question of “destiny” in your Forum). So, you say you are “getting closer to something new and unknown but definitely interesting and thrilling.” But if it is “unknown,” how do you know it is “definitely interesting and thrilling?” For your sake, I hope it is, but I wonder how you know it to be so.

Finally, Mlle. “Fox,” you ask yourself, “What can I do for love?” Why? Is this a repayment for what “love” has done for you? And since you said love so often causes pain and suffering, this is because we are often mistaken about love? With these questions, I leave you with a maxim from La Rochefoucauld:

“Love may be delightful, but even more so are the ways in which it
reveals itself.”

Perhaps when we suffer, we are wrongly blaming love. Perhaps we suffer because we discover it was NOT love, merely a 'castle in the air.'

Bon courage

Melomane :)

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KiaraJanell is now xxISAxx

To all her viewers and fans: Ramona had to change her nick and fir reasons she will tell u she is unable to inform u about it. So KiaraJanell is xxisaxx now!
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JUST A LIFESTORY

MY BF BRINGS NO MONEY IN THE HOUSE EVEN IF HE WORKS HE DISRESPECTED ME SO MANY TIMES,HE ALWAYS DISTRUSTED ME,HE HARDLY ANSWEAR THE PHONE WHEN HE S NOT HOME AND AT WORK OR ANYWHERE ELSE -SAYING HE HATES TALKING ON THE PHONE-AFTER ALL OF THIS HE S UPSET I DATED OTHER MAN WHO S PAYING ME MORE ATTENTION,A MAN WHO WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME,BRINGS ME GIFTS HELPS ME OUT ALWAYS-SO MY BF SAYS I M STILL A WHORE AND I DONT DESERVE HIM ANYMORE AND IF TILL NOW HE DIDNT DO MUCH FOR ME THEN THE FACT I CHEATED ON HIM IS A REASON NOT TO EVER DO ANYTHING AT ALL ANYMORE????how s that sound to u people?is it love????loooool
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dump the loser. and blame his small willy for it ;)

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yes i am confused too...

1) Why do you stay with a guy who you say treats you badly and disrespects you? It shows how little respect you have for yourself. It is just as much your fault for staying with a guy that treats you bad as it is his fault for treating you bad. Your not a victim in this. You made the decision to be with and stay with a guy that treats you bad, you are a big girl, accept the responsibility for your decisions and the consequences of them. It's part of being an adult. And when you take responsibility and admit that you are at fault and not just a victim you realize that you also have the power to make things right and move on to better things.

2) Why are you not with the guy who treats you good and buys you things? Or do you really have no romantic interest in him and are only using him for the gifts and free dinners, etc because you know he likes you and will buy you what you want in the hopes that you will be with him?

3) Why would you think your bf would suddenly be telling you sweet words and showing you affection after you cheated on him? Would you suddenly love him more and be extra sweet to him if he cheated on you? Silly.

Sorry, but I have to be honest, and your logic makes absolutely no sense to me in this situation. Here is my advice...

1) Dump your bf.

2) If you like the other guy and would like to be his gf, do it... but if you don't really have any romantic feelings for him and are just using him, stop it's disrespectful, just leave him alone and let him move on to find a woman that will love him and treat him right.

3) Next time your with a bf that is not treating you right, be mature enough to just end the relationship and move on. Cheating is wrong no matter how you look at it. It never makes anything better, just causes more problems in the long run, besides giving you a bad reputation that makes it harder for future lovers to trust you.

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How can you possibly question whether or not this is love?? The answer is obvious. The guy is an inept loser. Get rid of him and don't look back.

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LOL dd,my thoughts exactly ! C'mon girl,have some fucking self-respect and maybe there won't be a next time when you'll be in this kinda situation.

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And why are you with him?

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Are you a whore or not? cuz I have a vacation commng up soon and.....

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Drop the guy!!!

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He said: "(YOU) DONT DESERVE HIM ANYMORE." It seems your answer is: "You're right. Please move out and leave the key on the table. Thank you very much."

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Love? Just shut up and give him more money and be happy he lets you stay around. And stop talking to that other guy, you slut.

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Typical female (Russian?) Illogical crap:
"My BF doesn't treat me like God's gift to humanity that I feel sure I am, so I'll parasite off some other poor b*stard just for his money and attention. Then I'll rub my BFs nose in it and he'll fall down and worship at my feet."
Not really very likely is it?
This is the real world translation:
Your BF has been with you for some time and has grown tired of your whining sh*t and takes every opportunity to go scr*w other women who are more interesting and fun, but hell, at least you do the cooking when he's home. The new guy hasn't been around long enough to get bored of you so he pays attention (More like $$$) to you so reinforcing your inflated image of yourself.
You being the self-centred person you are actually want to keep both guys dangling because you haven't got the guts to make a decision.
Is this love?
Is it Boll*x!

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