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If it was your legs open forget the beer and sports channel ........ :p

Even twenty five past seven would do me.

As for the beer I could live without that.

The sports channels you can definetely keep.

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lol very funny.

i prefer 2 45 but then i am from down under!!!

If you didn't like my question in previous thread why you asked the question of mine?

Since when do you own rights to a question? =)) =))

Didn't she just ask a question? =))

yes she did but she is claiming copyright for a previous question =)) hehe, hence *to plagiator* =))

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there is now :p

i now that was lame :$

you check back about 30 pages or so, i think someone said something about TS's

Where I live, the ladies appreciate my ability to round up a herd of sheep while singing the 3rd aria from Tosca and being hung like Tom Jones on steroids. Wonder if Charlotte would be interested?

hmmmm...probably not...but the sheep might be..!

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Forget Charlotte, you've got me interested :D

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$$$

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Plagiarism ain't cool, yo.

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Sex morning, noon and night Gortensia :)

Oops the title of the post was meant to be Men want not the posting name :P

for you to stop asking so many questions is what i want :)

Me or Gortensia ? Or both :P

you rock INYF =)) she however doesnt =))

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it appears that the writer believes that women want a man who she can "hero worship", someone whe can look up to and trust to always keep her interests in the forefront.

wait ... let me get this straight ... there is such a thing as a talkative woman!? Wow, I would never have guessed ...

I don't know if any of the women I know are too talkative. They never shut the fuck up long enough for me to ask them :D

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For my money, A very interesting and thoughtful post, probably the most insightful I've ever read here. Agree totally with everything you say. Just one thing, if you could turn your mind to it, why is it a much older man, maybe as old as in his mid 60s, can be far more successful with women as young as 20 than men much younger? I'm not talking about money here - just he himself.

I mean, there is no biological imperative as a motive and he may not have any money to spare. Robert Trivers 'Parental Investment Theory' just doesn't appear to apply in this case: "A man invests in quantity, a woman invests in quality".

Thanks a lot. :-)

easy to answer - they hoping you drop down dead soon so they collect. ;-)

I could maybe manage No. 2) but on all the rest I'm screwed :(

Especially No. 1) lol

I used to spend hours puzzling about what women want. Then I realised that I really couldn't give a shit as I wasn't put on this earth to pander to them. I'm much happier as a result :)

a fools paradise Ted,that's where you are living.LMAO!!

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BUNNIE?

GERTCHA !!!!!!!

Sorry missed that post i was Down at Margate....

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Gala you can sit with me, hold hands and we will miss my dog together :)

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Yes I'll just have to fin something else on this site to amuse myself with :D

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Four of clubs - Higher

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Charlotte, someone calling themselves traveller moaning about Romania in viewers forum. It is certainly NOT me. Henceforth I'll be Aled. kisses

Talking about love, I'm getting an increasing warm feeling in my loins for you...could this be love? Promise not to hurt you...Yakee da!

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Its better to love and to get hurt than no love at all...for sure:)

Love em and leave em :-)

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tell your lover to use more lube before he enters ;)

Yes always ...

though of course when your at your lowest ....................it seems maybe not..
seems maybe all is lost..

no future

but..

remember when your at your lowest ,, things can only go up ...

been there a few times , and it does not get easier...

but shows your alive,,,
and if we dont have hi and low what is life about ,,,

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Im mature .. well ok old lol , haha..
but

if i learned anything its you cant achieve anything without making mistakes , or getting hurt. So learn but if u want to live ,,,,,,,and feel , and love then you have to be vulnerable , and that means u will get hurt ,, sometimes..

like the man said u cant make an omelet without breaking a few eggs lol..

the man (or woman) that never made a mistake ,, never made anything..

the things that always mean the most , are the things u work hardest to get..

Love takes courage , bravery , commitment , respect, loyalty, and a lot of giving .... not everyone can do this ...
and not everyone you fall in love with can return it..

but dont give up...

this is not a practice run ...............this is IT....

good luck

M

hump em and dump em, that's what I say

ah yes,that age old question which really has no answer.my opinion?better to never have loved at all.that hurt feeling of losing a love is the worst feeling one can ever feel.trust me,i know.but love is one of those things that a person has no control over so i'm sure that i'll fall in love again and probably get hurt again but so be it.life goes on.another question is.............how does one know if that person you are so in love with is "the one"? especially when you really,really think the person is "the one" and it doesn't work out.if that person was your idea of "the one",how can you now search for love when the love you had is gone and you honestly thought she/he was "the one"?ok,enough rambling for me.time to get back to work.

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i'm less,would you settle for me charlotte? LOL

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its ok..

because ............. there is more than 1 " the one"

if there was only ever 1 , and he or she was somewhere on this planet , then the chances to meet would be impossible..
as it is .........we find "the one" wherever we happen to live or move to..
and " the one" today ............. would not necessarily be " the one" next year ......we change .. so do they ...

every year that passes means - the one is slightly different , because we look for slightly different things.

we cannot change what happened to us and each day something will effect us.. so tomorrow we cannot be the same as today..

I know for sure that if we go out , meet and chat to people then , by pure numbers , we have more chance to meet the right person.
That can be via here , or when we are in the supermarket.. anywhere.. and everywhere..
and usually when we are least prepared.......

fate and who we meet and when .... wow ... to big to think about ...

if we enter a department store and walk around..... think how many exits and routes we can take .....
just keep your eyes open...

smile...
and you just never know ......

Once I've fallen in love and got hurt I'll get back to you Dave.

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"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"

Sounds pretty I must admit but it is a bit of a jaded view of life, and
something I am not personally willing to submit to. Have I loved and lost?
Sure. Who hasn't? Was it the worst thing that ever happened to me, yes at
the time I believed it was. I won't go into some of the less clever things
that crossed my mind at the time my world was crumbling around me but I will
say that no matter how hard it felt at the time, looking back on it is quite
possibly the only reason I have something to look forward to now.

"If it doesn't kill you , it makes you stronger"

Yet another gem of wisdom from someone to show the other side of the coin.
And yes.. that I am more inclined to believe is true. For the simple fact
that it is and will always be my lovers and friends who make me who I am
today. They are the ones I learn from, sometimes hard lessons sometimes kind
lessons but learn you do and you grow, and as you grow you realise what it
is you are really searching for. And more often than not you are not
searching for the same thing or the same person you were at 15, 18, 21 or 23
etc.. People change, peoples needs change. And whereas one stage we all just
want to have fun and ditch responsiblity at a later stage we want comfort
and security. Different relationships at different times. It's only natural.

Snuff said.

TNTAHTPW

No it is not better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all and what does not kill you frequently leaves you wounded and scared, it does not make you stronger. At best it leaves you a wiser weaker person.However if you start feeling sorry for yourself just remember there are millions of people who dream of having a life like yours.

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It is better to love someone. It may not work out and you might get hurt, but that is better then not loving at all. You will always think that I should have loved if you do not.

knowing now what i do.
i would say it is better to have never loved and wonder what it feels like, then to have had the feeling and lost it.

There is nothing worse than someone whom never felt love. There is those who fear the pain of a broken heart, but instead make others suffer. I get hurt often, but I continue in the search of love. I don't fall in love with the person, but the feeling itself. Don't blame the other for not being perfect, just forgive and move on. Sooner or later love will find you again. It's hard to find your other half, however not impossible.

Hey leave us people who have never felt love alone :(

I have felt plenty of lust though :D

Are you sure you dont feel love? Admit it! You love the feel of lust!!! LOL!

i lust for love and love lusting but i love the luving lustful feeling of
aww fukit, can i see you boobs now?

Hey you could have a point there :D

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Galaxy I would wait until the end of time for just one kiss from you (or at least until another host offers to get naked for me). :P

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I hope he is running in doggy heaven chasing the bounciest ball he has ever seen, wagging his tail so much it looks like it might fall off and waiting for him back in his heavenly kennel is the biggest, juiciest bone a dog could ever see :)

But unfortunately I think he is probably just rotting away in the back garden :(

Dave,

Yes. What's the alternative? To close oneself to the possibility of communing with another---out of fear of getting hurt---is to elect a spiritual death of sorts. But the memory of the ineffable joy that love can bring keeps alive a yearning for love.

A part of the human condition is that we will suffer. We will lose loved ones in death (and we too will die), and we may be disappointed in love---which is a mini-death. We all desire happiness, and love would seem to be a necessary ingredient.

The German poet Rilke said, "For one human being to love another: that is the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation." He then goes on to say that young people so often err in love because they are beginners.

That guy Rilke knew what he was talking about Melomane.

It's certainly too difficult for me :D

I'm happy and I'm not in love :) - but I do miss my dog :(

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Love you too Gingerbaby :)

I'm getting quicker it only took me 24 hours to reply to you :P

Better not to love a someone who hurts you

It's true people often make bad choices, but assuming both parties are sincere and being mindful of the 'other,' I'm sure those in healthy relationships will tell you the good times outweigh the bad. Even so, in a fit of anger or plain old selfishness, people hurt one another form time to time.

Some people seem to gravitate to those with whom only a destructive relationship is possible. It's commonplace for a woman who divorced an abusive, alcoholic husband to find another one just like him!

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I thought true love was supposed to be all selfless and unconditional and junk.
From some of the comments in this thread, it seems there's a lot of poor me/pity party selfishness taking hold

Love isn't what you get from another, it's what you give - and without want for or any consideration for what you might get in return, right?

Come on, peeps, lighten up. Your own happiness is entirely in your own hands. Get that in check, and you can better turn your attention to trying your best to make a special someone all gooey happy too. :)

Peace, y'all.

You got it right Joe. I say it is better to love and get hurt than to not love at all. I believe that many people lost their loves because of their fears of being hurt. Cause and effect. When you fear being hurt, what you are really saying is I expect my love to fail and if you go into a relationship with that kind of thinking, sooner or later, that is exactly what will happen.... you'll prove yourself right. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Like it or not it is true. You become your own worst enemy.... being cautious, suspicious, withholding pieces of yourself, not doing or saying things you should, questioning everything they do and their motives, over analyzing everything , or worse trying to control them... basically allowing yourself to be controlled by your own fears and slowly driving the other person away little by little. Face the truth people, it doesn't work. You can't love half way. It's all or nothing. You have to put fear out of your mind and jump in with both feet. Give all of yourself and not hold back. That is the only way you find great love, lasting love, the kind of love they write stories about. You can't be afraid of getting hurt, you can't withhold pieces of yourself from the one you love in fear or it just doesn't work.

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Joe, I agree with you in the main. Love is an act of giving, but the ideal of "selfless" and "unconditional" love and "without want for or any consideration for what you might get in return…" does not accurately reflect even the greatest of loves. Truth is, even at its best, we invest ourselves, make a sincere effort to love another, but we do so in the hope that we will be loved in return--at least eventually. Few, if any people, can sustain a 90/10 relationship. It may not always be 50/50, in fact usually is not, but if love is to abide, the two people need to sustain each other and usually a consistent 90/10 or 100/0 dynamic is not sufficient. Finally, I agree with you that our happiness is in our own hands and to that extent it matters all the more that we make good choices. To invest our love with someone who does not or cannot love in return is to, as Captain put it, bring about a “self-fulfilling prophecy.”

Captain, you put it most eloquently. Your insight into the role fear plays in love is very profound. In fact, I think it could be argued that fear is our greatest enemy. It paralyzes us for action, be it love, work or some other human endeavor. There are legitimate fears, but I am talking about the more insidious, irrational fears that so often cripple us, the fears for which there is no rational basis. These we must confront if we are to live and love.

Charlotte, you say, “[I]t doesn't really matter what you think and how you enter a relationship…” I whole heartedly disagree. It’s essential to enter a relationship with a clear idea about, not only one’s own intentions and disposition, but about those of the other as well. We cannot afford to ‘look through rose colored glasses.’ That kind of romanticism will inevitably lead to failure. The “all or nothing” Captain is talking about is not synonymous with flinging oneself at someone. That makes for confusion and a loss of ‘relation’ and creates the “pink bubble” of which you speak. In the end you seem to agree, as you contradict yourself in concluding, “[I]f one doesn't know or doesn't want to take the right steps, it just falls apart. “

“I’m Not Your Friend” chides me a bit above for quoting the German poet, Rilke, but he has great insight. It is not comforting “happy talk,” but it is the truth, as in the following:

“But young people err so grievously in this: that they (in whose nature it lies to have no patience) fling themselves at each other when love takes possession of them, scatter themselves just as they are, and in all their untidiness, disorder and confusion…What is life to do with this heap of half-battered existence which they call their communion and which they would gladly call their happiness, if it were possible, and their future? Thus each loses himself for the sake of the other…loses…possibilities…divining things for an unfruitful perplexity out of which nothing can come any more, nothing save a little disgust, disillusionment and poverty…” [From Letters to a Young Poet]

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I think its better to love and get hurted. I once thought i will always love and never be loved, now i am loved but im not able to love everybody. I think true love is hard to find and when u finally live it, u shouldnt worry about being hurt. That will happen anyway lol......
:P

Hmm, assume you not talking about pop song love dave but mature love. I love, it hurts every day but it's my choice. :-)

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Wish I was dave. He handsome, charming got a beautiful body, fabulous penthouse apartment overlooking Manhattan, and lives only 20 minutes drive away from asiandoll! :-(

it seems we have some more love stories in the making here:
1. Ally194 with Dave
2. xGingerbaby with her self
3. Special Model with a normal model
4. Unique Angel with angels
5. DaringKeana with Joe
6. CriZzZaTa with Hot Tatyananna
7.GalaxylovesU with ImNotYourFriend
8. Melomane with The Naked Truth
9. Johnzhon with me
10.Paco with anyone
11.Traveller with Paco
12. Charlotte with hate

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Wow I came out pretty good in you're matchmaking efforts lol.

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yula and I

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That might be it,, hehe

bad news if we ever lose ours:

http://news.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,30100-1234248,00.html

turns out he was a bum buddy of mine who suddenly came to the realization that he no longer could live with something that had been inside my putrid asshole ... numerous chicks and dudes have lopped off fingers and tongues for the same reason ...

you must be jonesing for a good ass-fucking then bananaman.

can't wait to see you in vid! wheeeeee!

got a gas problem there?

my blow up doll sprung a leak

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im sorry galaxy, i have gone over to the boys side now. Out of the virtual closet for me!

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they wouldn't have you!!

not tisme,its almea pining for him!!

hi tisme, still trying to protect your persona?

lol i'm not him,i'm a host who knows he hasn't been here for months.you got it bad.

im here gala, just be walking on the gender bender side of the street

your right dude!
Some feck will always crush your heart at some point feck being nice!

Word.

Do you remember the line from the Snoop Dogg's song and it goes like this?

You say your a pimp but you in love with a stripper! :)

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True love is a nobile feeling,be happy if you tasted it. Nothing lasts forever so enjoy it while you can. And indeed,life goes on no matter what ..Cheer up !

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Only fools laugh all the time or think love lasts forever

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Mlle. Renard,

Ahhh, I see you are, like my friend Charlotte, a true romantic. :) You long for the classic days of Montmartre, when Toulouse-Lautrec frequented the Moulin Rouge and other places along rue Pigalle, and sipped wine in a café where Satie played piano. Like Montparnasse and Place Contrascarpe---the famous quarters for literati---Montmartre is now merely a tourist-trap filled with those seeking the ghosts of yore, and “artistes” (lol!) who sell their schlock to gullible folks who know no better. The Russian equivalent might be those street vendors in Moscow who sell Michael Jordan matrioschkas (sp?)

Btw, I assume when you say “the greatest thing u’ll [sic] ever learn is just to love and be loved in return,” you are quoting the song lyrics from “Nature Boy,” n’est pas? (No version of this song is better than Nat King Cole’s!) Likewise for “Love is a many splendid thing?” It has been some time since I’ve seen Houston’s film. Are these songs in the film?

LaMurrr, you ask interesting questions (like the question of “destiny” in your Forum). So, you say you are “getting closer to something new and unknown but definitely interesting and thrilling.” But if it is “unknown,” how do you know it is “definitely interesting and thrilling?” For your sake, I hope it is, but I wonder how you know it to be so.

Finally, Mlle. “Fox,” you ask yourself, “What can I do for love?” Why? Is this a repayment for what “love” has done for you? And since you said love so often causes pain and suffering, this is because we are often mistaken about love? With these questions, I leave you with a maxim from La Rochefoucauld:

“Love may be delightful, but even more so are the ways in which it
reveals itself.”

Perhaps when we suffer, we are wrongly blaming love. Perhaps we suffer because we discover it was NOT love, merely a 'castle in the air.'

Bon courage

Melomane :)

dump the loser. and blame his small willy for it ;)

yes i am confused too...

1) Why do you stay with a guy who you say treats you badly and disrespects you? It shows how little respect you have for yourself. It is just as much your fault for staying with a guy that treats you bad as it is his fault for treating you bad. Your not a victim in this. You made the decision to be with and stay with a guy that treats you bad, you are a big girl, accept the responsibility for your decisions and the consequences of them. It's part of being an adult. And when you take responsibility and admit that you are at fault and not just a victim you realize that you also have the power to make things right and move on to better things.

2) Why are you not with the guy who treats you good and buys you things? Or do you really have no romantic interest in him and are only using him for the gifts and free dinners, etc because you know he likes you and will buy you what you want in the hopes that you will be with him?

3) Why would you think your bf would suddenly be telling you sweet words and showing you affection after you cheated on him? Would you suddenly love him more and be extra sweet to him if he cheated on you? Silly.

Sorry, but I have to be honest, and your logic makes absolutely no sense to me in this situation. Here is my advice...

1) Dump your bf.

2) If you like the other guy and would like to be his gf, do it... but if you don't really have any romantic feelings for him and are just using him, stop it's disrespectful, just leave him alone and let him move on to find a woman that will love him and treat him right.

3) Next time your with a bf that is not treating you right, be mature enough to just end the relationship and move on. Cheating is wrong no matter how you look at it. It never makes anything better, just causes more problems in the long run, besides giving you a bad reputation that makes it harder for future lovers to trust you.

How can you possibly question whether or not this is love?? The answer is obvious. The guy is an inept loser. Get rid of him and don't look back.

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LOL dd,my thoughts exactly ! C'mon girl,have some fucking self-respect and maybe there won't be a next time when you'll be in this kinda situation.

And why are you with him?

Are you a whore or not? cuz I have a vacation commng up soon and.....

Drop the guy!!!

He said: "(YOU) DONT DESERVE HIM ANYMORE." It seems your answer is: "You're right. Please move out and leave the key on the table. Thank you very much."

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Love? Just shut up and give him more money and be happy he lets you stay around. And stop talking to that other guy, you slut.

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Typical female (Russian?) Illogical crap:
"My BF doesn't treat me like God's gift to humanity that I feel sure I am, so I'll parasite off some other poor b*stard just for his money and attention. Then I'll rub my BFs nose in it and he'll fall down and worship at my feet."
Not really very likely is it?
This is the real world translation:
Your BF has been with you for some time and has grown tired of your whining sh*t and takes every opportunity to go scr*w other women who are more interesting and fun, but hell, at least you do the cooking when he's home. The new guy hasn't been around long enough to get bored of you so he pays attention (More like $$$) to you so reinforcing your inflated image of yourself.
You being the self-centred person you are actually want to keep both guys dangling because you haven't got the guts to make a decision.
Is this love?
Is it Boll*x!

What does appearances have to do with real symphaty and love? I found here many girls that like me not for my physical appearance, but for what I know and how I talk. I am almost 50 years old, bald, fat, short, and I am poor, but girls still like me for what I am. Perhaps I can't find a girl in my town because I dont stop to talk to any or maybe I just dont want to find any. The girls in europe always like older man (at least 10 years older) unlike american women that look for younger boys. It's a matter of personality and how you approach, talk, and treat others.

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Meaning you would more likely to value a man for his looks rather than for his sentiments, principles, and morals?

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Charlotte you are correct of course looks matter to all of us to some degree. If they didn't then even I could get a woman. But then again seeing as I'm a rude obnoxious wanker the answer would still probably still be no even if I was the best looking guy in the world :D

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nope its the plastic leg and blue balls

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You had my heart and you shattered it to really small pieces. I was only your virtual pet. Too bad you thought you were smarter than me. You never thought I would know it? Oh please, nobody is an idiot in this life...

Speak for yourself,i'm a practiscing & successful idiot.

...another delusional one. Yes, you have found many girls "here" that like you. That is because you are paying them to like you. Go to your local bar and see if all the young hotties flock toward you.

That's why i come here.Sick of drunk,hot,young chicks hitting on me in bars!!

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dude, i totally agree with you, but honestly, what do u care? so what if these guys think they found "love." just let them be. all this talk about love on this site is getting to be so old. i cant believe im even responding to this. i say we all just get drunk and crash the community chat.

you need calones for that,so go find yours first.

cajones*

Ted,

In the main I agree with you, but you paint with a very broad brush and make generalizations that ignore the complexities of human nature. No doubt there are many middle-aged guys here who are given over to the agenda of sites like this and somehow believe that the ‘preskrasnaya’ Natalia really loves them. I have seen some pretty sad posts in a host’s personal Forum, in which some desperate soul testifies to his abiding love for this cyber-siren that apparently fills (but ultimately contributes to) the void in his soul. I hasten to add, Ted, that young bucks are being “played” no less than their older counterparts. Love is an elusive thing in the “real world”--–whatever that may be---but all the more so here.

That said, let me address five points that you make:


1. “Chances are in real life you are single because most women just aren't interested in you.” FALSE. Yes, some people, men and women alike, are single because they are in practically every respect undesirable. But there are so many exceptions to this, that your generalization is just not true. I’m sure everyone here could offer examples of desirable men and women who remain single.

2. “If women don't want you in your country, Eastern European women won't want you either.” TRUE, but with the qualifications stated above. I always liked Montaigne’s story of Socrates, who when asked if a man is improved by travel, responded, “Of course not, because he is traveling with HIMSELF!” Lol!

3. “If …they do want to marry you, it's likely owing to the financial security…” FALSE. Again, a woman marrying for money is quite common, but again there are so many exceptions to this that your generalization does not hold up.

4. “These beautiful women can have anyone - why the hell would they want you?” FALSE. Since you seem to pride yourself on being a realist, do not fall victim to the illusion that these beautiful creatures can have “anyone.” No doubt they have many handsome, well-heeled suitors, but the “beautiful” people have a unique set of problems too.

5. "You can't base a good relationship on being a girl's provider." TRUE, BUT…being a good provider is one necessary element, and it often happens that this beautiful woman discovers that her “good provider” has a beautiful soul, even if he’s not the most gainly fellow in the world.

P.S. Have you ever wondered how blind people deal with the element of physical beauty--or lack thereof? I have often wondered if they might use how someone sounds (i.e. their voice) as a more important thing than we who have sight. What do others think about this?

I have a blind friend(since birth).i have asked her about how she knows & judges things.for her the timbre of a persons voice & their smell/odour play a big part.she can tell every article of her clothing by touch,none feels exactly the same & colours are by shape.for example if you said to her green,she has the memory of feeling leaves.she has the most incredible sense of smell i have ever experienced.one day we walking & she stopped.i asked what was wrong"nothing,"she said"i can just smell rubber."i looked could see nothing(also didn't smell a thing).we kept walking & about 500 metres further we passed a disposal store that had on display rubber thongs/flip flops.oh by the way she has had a thing for the smell of rubber since very young but that's another story for another day.

Had a blind gf. 1st time we meet, she ran her fingertips over my face and body. :-)

She said she could 'see' me.

Good provider? What happened to feminism? I won't "provide" for any women unless she cooks the dinner, cleans the house and looks after the kids. You can't have your cake and eat it.

But largely I agree with the points you make - in a general way :)

Oh wise sage,next i hope you turn your talents to world peace or global warming.the world needs you,don't limit yourself to cc!!

Glad someone feels they've been truely educated :)

My Gadfly Friend,

I must leave these nobler tasks to the Dali Lamma and Al Gore respectively. But I see in you the makings of a great satirist. Why you could be the Voltaire of our generation! So, I likewise bid you go forth and leave the confines of CC. Do not waste your lampoons on me. Your talent is needed in the larger world.

Actually, women are BUILT the same everywhere, but their culture and society makes them THINK differently in different places.

Would you say Eastern European women have a markedly different idea of the men they want than western women?

I think East European girls want more stability from a man and are more open as to what type of man they will attach themselves to. I think an East European girl will actually hook-up with an older non-foxy guy much more readily than a Western girl. Whether they STAY hooked-up is up to the guy to vet carefully.

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baby, you gotta learn to chill.

"Baby", I just love who I am and how I am :D No need to cill :D

There might be a need to turn lesbo, though :)))

Charlotte,

Take it easy baby. I'd hate to think guys here at CC would turn you into a 'rug muncher!' Lol!

...would be with an ugly old rich guy for his money. That's where we differ. I'd never use an older woman for her money. I'd take a hot young poor chick over an old rich skank any day!

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Yes I preferred good old Boris so much more than Putin :(

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Nooooo. Putin looks to shifty to me. He always reminds me of a rat caught in the torchlight. His little beady eyes darting from side to side as he plans his next move.

Boris was a man I could take to the pub and have a few voddies with :D

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i think most people in the west are probably happy to see russian economy doing well rather than being a problem for rest of europe - however, many of us have reservations about putin because it is generally felt that he is moving back down the line of suppressing free speech and democracy for his own ends

I thought girls 5 ft 10 in. don't like politics :)

i'm from the US and i have no problems with Russia being a strong country, in fact i would like to see it happen. I would like to see Russia be prosperous. I would like to see Russia strong because of it's people... strong because it has a fair and just government that gives its citizens the freedom to speak about and vote for what they believe is right without fear of being harmed or imprisoned. But I would not like Russia to turn into another dictatorship, which I feel is the direction Putin is taking it. And from what I heard of Putin from documentaries, news stories, etc. I do not consider him to be a strong man anyway. For example, in the beginning he had several millionaires exiled or arrested on silly charges such as tax evasion because he knew they were powerful and could challenge him politically and perhaps take away his job... that shows him to be insecure and fearful. A strong leader is confident in his own abilities and does not fear competitors because he believes his job performance will convince others he is the right choice to be the leader.

As for crime rascals (as u put it) getting everything and the poor getting nothing... isn't it still that way under Putin's leadership? I haven't heard of him bringing down the Russia mafia. From what I have heard the Russian mafia is stronger than ever in Russia, have a great deal of control over the citizens and still control alot of businesses... some of those businesses even being studios that have hosts working here on CC. And I haven't heard of Putin improving the wages or health care for low income families or things of that nature either. So your wrong that people from other countries don't want to see Russia strong, but I think Putin is a step in the wrong direction. Perhaps others feel the same, maybe even some Russians.

Hey, stop calling Putin a rat!He is a gr8 president.Have a lil respect!

I didn't call him a rat i said that's what he reminds me of. I see in the press today he is moaning about the amount of foreign money flowing into Russia and also threatening to withdraw from the 1990 Conventional Forces in Europe (CFE) treaty.

So I'll show him some respect when I feel he deserves it.

Boris was good, he built Russia as it is now, tho its true that i prefer Putin as our president better...Sorry for all russians, its really sad...

yes - is a great shame as he/clinton did seem to herald a new era which has largely changed with putin/bush

Is he going to be cremated? :P :)))

hope not, he'll explode!

A towering personality who put it all on the line for his beliefs. Sadly there are few men like this one.

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Heh Bill Clinton liked him; I'm just following the leader :)

From recent reports of a surge in state control of news media outets, I have to wonder how much most Russians themselves really know about Russia.
But hey, the price of oil is high and Russia's reaping the benefit. No need to find fault ... for now anyway.

i feel very sorry for him. Yeltsin was a great person and did a lot for Russia-good and bad too. the main thing why i like him more then Putin is that nobody was afraid of him, but now many afraid of Putin.

i know where you are "russian too"

But its good that everyone is afraid of Putin dont u think so?If they are afraid of him it means they respect him:P

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i think people had a lot of "respect" for pol pot & hitler too

You are right that the economy crashed while Boris was in charge of the country but I feel that this was almost inevitable as Russia tried to move from a communist economy to a free market trade economy.

I just remember the big guy standing on the tank when the Army tried to take over with their coup.

As "russian too" says in her/his post at least nobody in Russia was afraid of good old Boris and Nikto also raises a very valid point.

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but correct me if i'm wrong, isn't it always said that the russian/soviet people generally believed stalin was a good/just/fair leader throughout the purges etc during the 1930's which suggests that sometimes people just believing what is happening "in real" can be distorted when proper news reporting is not allowed

yes stalin was a good leader and the bad things he did were exaggerated, 6 million ukranians were not starved to death! maybe only 2 million!

oh only maybe 2 million... that changes everything, Stalin was actually a sweetheart and a victim of other peoples limited understanding of his loving, caring ways. NOT! If you did not get it, that was sarcasm.

Are you practicing to be a politican because that sounded like a diplomatic, glass is half full spin on the truth, trying to show some kind of bright side to all of it, such as ---> "You're looking at it all wrong. You shouldn't condemn Stalin for having 2 million Ukranians killed, but instead you should be singing his praises for sparing the other 4 million Ukranians."

2 million or 6 million he still was a cruel bastard that ruled by fear. End of story. No happy ending.

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hi - don't worry about late reply :)
i do agree that stalin and russia did do many good things and i personally do agree that hitler would never have been defeated (and britain would have probably been taken over too) if it was not for the russians (and especially hitler's mistake in opening up the war on the eastern front before finishing the job properly in western europe). although i am sad to say that there are not many movies / people here (or america) that ever properly acknowledge that.
to be honest most american films (and people) don't seem to agree that britain had a very big part to play either!
it certainly is rarely made clear that hitler had basically already been defeated by russia long before d-day (June 1944) when our troops moved back into france.
i do also agree (and this is probably a very rare view in this country (england)) that there were many good things about the whole soviet system but i do feel that any system that is abused by those in power to the level that freedom of speech (whether by manipulation of the news or total and brutal persecution of the people) is unacceptable and that is why i feel glad that the regimes in russia/romania changed/fell (and why i hope the ones in china/north korea/ zimbabwe go the same way soon)
my fear is that putin is moving russia back away from democracy with his persecution of the opposition and investigative journalists within russia (and the "alleged" murder of russian exiles such as alexander litvinenko)

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im 97

I have been a member of site since year 1999

Today? About 20 minutes

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come here baby (if you a male only) i be your friend I like men who do anal

oh how fuckin sad....someone pretendin to b me...not even funny too..try harder next time dude...twat

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Look you Charlotte, no friends from Wales?

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there'll be a welcome in the valleys for you :-)) kiss

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i doubt there would be too many hosts here that have got a welsh friend.

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Little shy and not so shy need freinds too :)

i make new friends face 2 face, when im out, not on an interenet porn site!, this is fantasy. Of course I have friends here but noway would I give my real details out over the net.

I have some good friends, they only screw my wife and daughters in their dreams.

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my post was a joke dear ;-)

yes maybe
I was not here to find friends........... but did find them..

when people talk ,, sometimes , we connect .. just happens..

same here,,

for some anyway -there will always be many hosts who like above, would never exchange numbers/ meet/ or get to know guys here.
and good luck 4 them too, its work here 4 sure.

But there are many here who do like this.
and thank god there are ,,
i met some great friends here , visited them too .
and still get nice cards and messages from them.- so some like to make friends here and some dont..

Im glad to know some great from here, your lovely ladies

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what about russian host ? maybe u r the sad one..

i have had 2 gf s here, both russian, both gorgeous, 1 for 4 months and 1 for 18 months , still friends with both, both have left here now, but still keep in touch..
CC is a cool place ,,

I agree , yes. you made me think - !!!
many in "make new friends" are not nearly as friendly as other areas, ( not all , but most)

many seem very defensive, and secretive,
more so than others you are right,,
I got more real - contact from shy and not shy and even IA girls..
they chat outside of CC. and makes it much nicer..

friends who ask $$ and dont chat outside here , or even say where they are from ,, thats just weird ,,
how can u have a friend and not even know names and places ..

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if you are the same russian host then u seem to be a little confused - like you are arguing against yourself

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many will agree 2 charge 2 make new friends is a rip off. Thats my opinion, and im entitled 2 it. Regardless of what happens on street when you go out with your real friends, this is the virtual world. 4 me charging 2 make a friend is big con.

i personally don't believe in making friends with someone from this site. i did once but i soon found out that they were taking the piss so that scorched me.

I'm envious because you could all make money taking your clothes OFF and I can't :(

you under 0.70?

lol ally 0.70 is the price I pay you to watch.

Yep theres plenty of mugs on here who would pay 2 make a friend, bet your coining it in Charlotte, Good Luck 2 you. Easy Money hey? Maybe il jump out of adult section in non-adult ..ha ha only joking, im a horny lady and want sexual gratification here, chit chat I save 4 friends in the pub.

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Charlotte you're making me frightened :(

I wish my mum was here. :(

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so what do you do here russian host ,, u sound like u dont do anything at all ... ???

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It sounds like you charge people to chat and pretend to be their friend. Perhaps you should move to non adult :D

In my opinion an adult host who does not strip is a lot worse than a non adult host who does.

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but if your in make new friends, hunny you are charging people 2 make friends with you.FACT and if viewers no u hop in2 adult category, then its 2 b expected that ul strip in the 121. Do you really have a problem understanding that, and please dont use the ff word when you trying 2 express yourself, it only lets you down.

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Hey! If hosts made friends with everysingle visitor that visited the category make new friends, then i dont think he/she will have any...
You can't possibly be friends with every everybody!
A host can be here thinking she never gonna have friends here but still end up connecting with some1 and being friends.

It's silly to think that if your in a category make new friends then you dont have to charge strangers.

There is no category: Make new friends for free no charge it's just make new friends, same as friends and family..

Come on! name 1 host who actually sits in friends and family and actually talks to only friends from real life and family.. In European and asian countries atleast!

If you Don't wanna pay and you truelly connect with a person and he respects you then he will give u a free video if they can! if not and they can, then just accept that you just dont connect good enough.

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maybe the hosts could mkae mental notes as to where placement of cam to show their parts, and know that if she moves cam down it will be too dark so she would need to adjust her lamp also, but the ones i see are pretty clueless or take their time moving things and asking ''is this better, or this?'' if they really cared that is. many seem so busy in video or trying to get us into video that they cant find time update photos let alone how to improve thier video

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She is getting rid of her stalkers...lol

i would think the Philippines must hold the record,,infidelity is a way of life with pinays, momey to be made you see.....

And the Aussies like it down under

actually stats show that australia has a very high rate of fidelity.

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Downunder what? :)