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which is why I am only here for sex shows and try to get the nastiest shows for the cheapest price and the shortest time that I can

Only the suckers will get scammed, those of us with a brain know what's going on. I say, if you can scam the guy, then more power to you, a fool and his money are soon parted anyways, why not cash in in on a sucker, it might teach him a lesson in the long run.

i think it depends what the members mean by being scammed really - if hosts are just pretending to like them a bit more than they actually do then that is fair game and basically is part of the job.
if we are talking hosts saying that they need money for operations etc etc when in reality they just want to go off on holiday then i think the host has gone past the boundary of what is acceptable within the "job" and is moving closer to stealing/fraud/scamming or whichever word you would like to use.
obviously the members are at fault for sending the money but if they genuinely believe the story and it is not simply an investment hoping for free sexual services at a later date then i think they are entitled to feel they have been scammed.
i am at work and earning money but if a customer comes to me and i overcharge him/charge him twice/pick up some money he dropped/steal his wallet then even though i am here to earn money from him i would still have basically stolen money from him (whether we are calling it scamming or whatever).

what's the big deal? my students now (and my business customers before) consider me one of their best friends - not deceit, it's just marketing - some I really like and so have real friendships with them, the rest I forget as soon as I stop making money from them

your job here is to do a video show, not to scam people or fall in love with them, althought there is nothing against the rules about falling in love but i think you'll find that working here with the intention of scamming people is against the rules.

well i have been a host for the longest I think--well one of the longest, I don't call it scam-I call it making money and not involving a man inside my body (exception of my bf) and members here only in cyber body.

i think it depends what you are saying you don't think is a scam?
are you saying that pretending you need an operation and asking people to send money by western union is not a scam?
or are you saying that saying to members that they are good looking/a nice age/great fun in video in order to earn more money is not a scam?
in my opinion the 2 are very very different

Doing a show and not getting emotionally involved with members is not what i would call a scam. Taking money by deception is what i class as a scam

I have entered cc on my own choice; therefore, I do not consider it a scam. I do not expect to find love, but I have enjoyed some of the friendships that I have developed over time. I know that for the hosts are making money for whatever reason and I wish them good luck.

No , i dont get mad if your scamming me.
members are talking cash machines, if you say the right text you paid.
my question is why is it that some hosts get mad if they are treated as toys or sex robots, like you said, it is a job. so lets play the game and all just have fun.

“I have entered cc on [sic] my own choice; therefore, I do not consider it a scam….I know…the hosts are making money for whatever reason and I wish them good luck.”
Riv


“No, i dont get mad if your [sic] scamming me. members are talking cash machines…my question is ‘why is it that some hosts get mad if they are treated as toys or sex robots…?’
johnzhon

Riv & johnzhon,

It seems to me that neither one of you recognizes the important distinction that both “officeboy and “when?” make above. Riv, I agree with your initial premise. You are here of your own choice, but that does not support your conclusion. It is rather like saying if you were assaulted in a pub, you would not consider it assault because you entered the pub of your own free will. Or maybe your liberal sensibilities are of the sort H.L.Mencken satirized when he defined a liberal as “someone so open-minded, he will not argue his own case.” Lol!

Johnzhon, I’m not sure whether to take your words at face value, or interpret them as subtly ironic and cloaked in a thin veneer of hard realism. If at face value, there’s something that rings false when you say, “I don’t get mad if your [sic] scamming me.” To think that you would not, does not seem credible. In fact, it seems almost self-evident that one would get angry at being scammed and no less self-evident why any host would get angry when treated like an object. In both actions there is a basic disregard for and failure to acknowledge the humanity of the other. Just because the site is by nature one of fantasy, does not mean we are given a dispensation from a basic regard for each other’s dignity.

Mel, johnz is a pastmaster at lateral thinking - just enjoy what is behind his words and don't try to interpret them too literally. :-)

Mel, my post to you meant kindly :-)

...and taken as such, ally :)

what i say is to be taken at face falue, i siad i dont get mad if they are scamming me, but i guess if i was scammed i would be mad. i just look at this in a wierd way, if i like a girl and she knows it and the oh i need money for hospital an later learned it was for new dress, yes i would be mad.as for the dignity and respect to the hosts if you know me well then you know i have only the greatest respect for them and i am always polite. IF they are polite with me. if they are be rude then i am rude to them. such as hosts pvt me many times talking rudely to me.

oic if someone is polite to you then your polite to them, and if someone is rude to you in pvt chat in community room, you have to print it all out on the screen in open instead of printing it in pvt back to the one that is being rude to you for all of us to see it and say shitty words and to show your rudeness to many in the room, just to show how big of a man you are.....wo, you are so full of it, get a life and take a long look in your mirror, I bet your wife is real proud of you

i post it openly in community to avoid saying to host a then host b then host c, and if there are other hosts that are busy flooding another member with their stupidity and will get to me in a few minutes she will hopefully stop flooding him long enough to read the 'shit' i just posted and will not come at my in prvt in 5 minutes. as she works her way down the list pissing all off as she goes.
does that explain it clearly enough? and why the fuck did you drag my wife in this? point of fact if you need i rarely speak to her at all on the phone and when she returns i will speak the same amount, she is of no use to me and is in my way. i have told her twice and i have no need to tell her again. if you have more to say, say it on a new post, i do not intend an scrooling this far anymore.

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well said...(wink wink)..I don't scam them either...(wink wink).
(thanks for keeping the sham alive c4u)

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can only be scammed, if one allows him/her self to be

Mike, that sounds good, but "allowing" means one must be cognizant of it in the first place. To be successfully "scammed" one is, by definition, caught unawares. I recognize, however, that we are all at times wilfully blind, refusing to see what is obvious to everyone else. Thus the saying, "There is none so blind as he who does not want to see." In cases such as these, I would agree with you, one is on some level "allowing" oneself to be scammed. In all others, no.

these scammers have no self respect or morals, and i suspect in real life they rnt very nice people either. They certainly shouldn't be proud about it, I reckon they are crap hosts purely on the make, as a decent living can be made hosting here, if ur genuine & sexy x What goes around in life comes around, so beware. How sick in the head must ub 2 say u need £ 4 a family members operation ?

The best I saw at playing this game was dolores4u or kiss0fangel (zero not letter). She went as far as playing the full part of dumping you saying sorry and begging ur forgiveness, usually when the rent was due on her flat LOL. What I know of and other hosts in same studio she fell in love with every guy she met. Probably went as far as giving a few her phone number too LOL

enough with the small talk, where's the broads?

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leave now Ralph before you get hooked

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lol

hey

Bye!

don't have to worry about me. i'm the kind of loner that locks his door and doesn't go outside for a month after news like this. i can't stand guns, i can't understand anger, and i can't really deal when crap like this happens.

when things don't go your way in life, don't take it personally. don't look to blame anyone, just keep your head on straight and try even harder to spread some decency and goodness into the world.

much love people.

although he is being called a loner, don't forget he had actually managed to get a girlfriend (at least until fairly recently anyway).
i think the loner word is often used slightly simplistically in these cases to explain these things away.
and at least here most of the members are so far away from most of the hosts that they couldn't do any real damage :)
although having said that i am sure i have seen "jacques chirac" in comm chat a few times in the last week and he still has nuclear weapons for a few more weeks - so can i politely suggest that hosts try not to upset him too much for all our sakes!

There was a gentleman on BBC's Radio 5 who was bemoaning the fact that the campus was designated a "Gun Free Zone". His argument was that if the other people had been allowed to carry guns, then the shooter may have been stopped earlier.

I agree completely. Had any or all of those students been armed, the shooter is dead long before he could waste 31 of them.

Guns should be totally banned and whiped out. How can you justify giving other students hand guns? Thats just asking for even more trouble

no, becuse if we all have guns, no one would shoot 1st knowing they would be shot. So I say help keep the violence down by packing heat.

the virginia tech guy shot himself

Wow peace throught superior firepower...
Guns are not the problem, IDOTS with guns are the problem, you should have a test to own a gun,
Question 1 Do you want a gun? any one who answers yes fails.
Anyway that aside its a tragic loss,

It's the American gun culture, from the 1800's the right to bare arms,
get rid of them.. it's 2007

Eliminating guns and removing are rights is not the answer. Drugs are illegal and you can't buy them in stores, but does that stop people from getting them if they want them? NO.

Same with guns, you remove our right to own them, you are hurting millions and millions of honest responsible gun owners while the criminals etc can get what they want anytime.

The cure is tougher laws...eye for eye...you kill...you die.

I don't understand why a handgun can bought with only an instant background check and a waiting period in Virginia, yet the process to get the concealed weapons permit to actually take it anywhere is so much more difficult. If I understand correctly, to get that permit you have to first be approved by a judge to have it.
It just doesn't make sense that a handgun would even be sold to someone without that permit in the first place.
And why assault rifles, whose specific purpose is to be fired at human beings, are legal for common citizens in America, I have no idea.
Care to explain?

The right to "bear arms" does not come from the 1800s. It was written into the constitution in 1791 as Amendment II, part of the "Bill of Rights" (the fist 10 amendments to the US Constitution).

AMENDMENT II

A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.

A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State? what's secure about 33 people being being gunned down by a maniac?????????????
I say no more...

My post was not to challange your point about having weapons. It was about the date.

fair enough, point taken :)

What the hell does a guy need a gun for? Use your fucking fists if you have beef with someone

more guns - more fear in life
more fear - more distrust to all
more distrust - less love to people
less love - less value of human life
less value - easier to kill someone using your gun

I think at the time of writing they were more concerned about kicking the Red coats out, and the good think about a milita is you didnt have to pay them unlike a standing army... also a lot harder to go spree killing with a flinlock musket

I had a wonderful time darling, thank you! kisses

Lol Ally=))

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I'll alert the media!

Did you leave?

OK magazine want to do a photoshoot of you returning ..jeeeeeez

Jeeeez ppl, this message ment to be for ppl who missed me and who care, and if u don't-whatever) Step off:P

Monika, guys like this stand no chance with u in real life so they vent their frustrations here ;-)

pot kettle black .... so ur here for true love right ? lol

yeah man! found it cool! hahahahaha

U were away ?

anywhere nice ?

Thank god. We were out of overpriced stuck up fat girls.

But,as u prove,we will never run out of stupid members.

i think about the same thing,, all I got to say is live and learn I found out after awhile here you have to lie to them now to keep them interesting in you, because the host do the first lying and then hook you into this site and the scamming business of thiers. Why do you think they are here to fall in love with us,,, wake up and smell the roses, this is a business not a dating service,, what a date, try the internet dating services,,they are plenty of them and all kinds, Im a member of one and meet some sexy girls from there, even some that will give you all the pleasure you want. Now I know some are going to ask why I'm still here at cc now. Well my anwser is I like, wait I love coming here and playing out by fantasy here. Where else can you do that. This is a great site. So my advice to you, is lie back to them and see how far it gets you in more action here

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silly little lies an secrets alot,
if you meen a seriuos lie,
1, then its over.

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two, next question

Trueman, As you know, only you can answer that question and remember, you are a part of the dynamic. I say that because it is all-too-human to want to believe your gf/wife/lover is telling you the truth. So, she lies to you and you lie to yourself. But your heart knows otherwise.

So, if you think the relationship can be repaired, as someone above said, talk with her. If she wants to make it work she will stop the dissembling; if not she will continue her lying and insincere behavior. If that is the case, I'd say cut bait now and don't torture yourself a minute longer.

Lie about what?
He says you are skinny when you are really a little fat?
He says the dinner is yummy when you burned it a little?
He says he quit drinking and you smell it on him every day?
He fucks your best friend and says he didn't and that he doesn't even know how to find her?

lies are lies-honest is honest--gamers are gamers--cheaters are whores

Once?

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And you feel the need to write this bollox because.... ?

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Feck me this guy leaves so many times lol .. just go man dont come back , u won't be missed ...

AP, Repairing to the decompression chamber for a bit, or is this a permanent farewell? (The smart money says you'll be back in less than a week, maybe 3-4 days.)

you people just don't have any idea what he is doing,, I think its great you other members here worried about Sean and what he is doing,, read it again, he didnt say he was quitting he told us to have a good day, and maybe seen soon means, he hopes to come back soon and see me,, so why are you people posting your coments like he is quitting, he was posting it to us host to save him some time on e-mailing like you all do with your mail

im quitting

yeah, I think we have some members are just jealous of Sean, well I get jealous of other women I see Sean talking to, so I know how the members feel (hehe)-i'm really not jealous (hehe). Hey host I heard he was going to New York this week, I hope he does returned here. I'm afraid he gets there he might find him a girlfriend, I heard New York has all different nationality girls there, I just hope not to many american indian girls there, I know that's his favorite,,hmmm, now I seen I'm getting jealous again-sorry folks, hey Sean have a good time and hurry back

how would you know that or are you just being insulting?

no im not insulting no one here, that's not my job, my job is to make all members happy and the members job is to try to make all host happy

wasn't directed at you

ok- i sorry

kiss

My favourite song is sleepin, dreamin bout my baby

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Anything by Three Days Grace. Also, Californication by Red Hot Chili's!!!!!

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Rock Around The Clock

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Mine's "I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts"

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Jay-z and Beyonce - Bonnie and Clyde

i just woke up so the only one that comes to mind is that song''pain''

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Jay Z and Beyonce "Hollywood", Justin Timb "My love" and "What goes around comes around"

sick man blues The Goodies

my favorite song is Rock the Boat by some romanina host that doesnt love me any more

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Bit expensive for a vid playback. What exactly do you show?

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As always u make me smile with your answer hehe..

This lady is certainly not here to trick anyone,
and I am certain , her pricing after a show of any kind is never questioned..

Quality , charm and gorgeous ..

just my opinion ..of course..



damn wish mine were blue , hehehe

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wouldnt waste my time--hmmm--well i would waste my time-hmmm-i need to waste time

dont check my change...so no...can u?

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I just assume it's senior citizen discount

can you?

yes,
and when i work i have been known to refuse a tip too large
i.e. an $8 tip for a $22 tab.

Yes, can you? Do you post this question with view to a discussion of the ethical question ?

naaa, he just post to feel important, like he's really contruibiting to the forums...lol

What exactly do you contribute '...'

Don't like it, move on, Dont like it, change it!! Easier to complain than create something yourself.

My answer is yes, It's there mistake and they will be extra careful next time after ringing up the till and finding themselves out of pocket :)

yes

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Yes, They are making a living also.

Divorced, but I always say I'm single !!!! (liar,liar, pants on fire !!!!!) lol

Married ,for 3 months now. If asked, I tell the truth. Anything else is just storing up trouble.

maried with kids, always tell the hosts about them. Why not?

single & when they ask i say i'm single because....

Married with 2 kids, tell the hosts about them if they ask.
And why shouldnt I ???

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possibly they are more likely to lie in real life if they are married but most members here are not really looking for a relationship here and so i suspect generally most will tell the truth about married/gf or being single - after all it doesn't really matter to you (in the same way that it doesn't really matter too much to me whether hosts have a bf/married/single)

why? Is the price going to change if I say yes or no?
I find if I say yes, I'm married, the conversation goes off in a way I don't want, so I say single and keep it simple.

I tell the truth, but do they?

yes
yes
note: zhon knows who i see and for how much i spend

i was married to a russian girl first,, then I married a phillipine girl second, then a romanian girl 3rd--got all divorce from them and looking for another nationality girl here, any volunteers, All my weddings here only lasted about 2 months

lol - like this guy

I am divorced. That is what I tell hosts when they ask.

I say I am single because I am single and if I was taken, I would say so. Why do they give a shit anyway? It's not like they're gonna come meet you because you tell them you are single and I doubt they'll lose any sleep because you say you are taken.

If you tell them you are single, it just opens the door to a shitload of time and money wasting questions like "but why are you single? you're so nice", "what are you looking for in a woman?" and so on and so on, blah blah blllaaahhhh.

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I am single but I say I married because I hate wasting time talking about love. I go to dating sites for love. I come here to see women get naked.

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nope, exploring a viewers desire/fetish is important & seeing them wank on cam over me is tho.xx ha

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It doesn't matter to me. It's not like I'll be meeting up with anyone since I already have a boyfriend.

I allways do my best for those members who told me thay are not married. My logic is simple: if he is not married that means i can be useful for him somewhat like the water in the desert, but if the guy told me he is married it means for me that he is unhonest and flighty and he likes to use us girls like an object so i never do my best with him.

how much you gotta send em?

yes my dad had cancer and watch all the suffereing, my prayers are with your friend chaser and to all others

my son die of Leukemina -know the feeling--may god bless anyone with this disease.

chase man friend stay cool-okie dokie and praying does help

yea, thoughts with her. lets pray she has good shopping tastes :)

know what you mean, I lost my wife 3 years ago with cancer, I pray and it wasnt answer, well maybe it was answer, she doenst have to suffer with the disease or me anymore-keep on praying

i lost a friend to aids and I know its sad too

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yes is sad to hear about those young students that got kill at Virginia Tech University, when young people lose their life at a early age as people who are just minding their own business and trying to be educated better for this world, it makes me sad to think about them and their families--please god be with them and their families during this time and be with the shooter family-

Just listened to BBC radio interview with survivors from Columbine High School massacre - very similar to this one but with fewer dead. Consensus was that there is a feeling of hopelessness in USA about gun control. Any efforts to limit their ownership would be mostly cosmetic - millions of handguns in America. The murderer in this case only had a handgun, not a high-powered assault rifle.

My heart bleeds for America at this time but what can you all actually do to stop it happening again and again?

yes, this is another awful tragedy - and it amazes me that guns are still so easily available over in america - and i even saw this on the yahoo news story about the shootings which i thought was unbelievable even coming from a pro-gun spokesman.........
HEATED GUN DEBATE
More than 30,000 people die from gunshot wounds in the United States every year and there are more guns in private hands than in any other country.
But a powerful gun lobby and support for gun ownership rights have largely thwarted attempts to tighten controls.
Advocates of gun ownership rights saw Monday's massacre as evidence of the need to relax gun laws rather than tighten them.
"All the school shootings that have ended abruptly in the last 10 years were stopped because a law-abiding citizen -- a potential victim -- had a gun," said Larry Pratt, executive director of Gun Owners of America.
"The latest school shooting at Virginia Tech demands an immediate end to the gun-free zone law which leaves the nation's schools at the mercy of madmen."

So a very different perspective in USA to UK. After Dunblane, all guns banned here. Doesn't stop drug dealers in UK shooting each other and innocent bystanders though with smuggled firearms.

Sad time, thoughts with their families.

but 30,000 people dying from gunshot wounds every year in America is a ridiculous number - i seem to remember some months ago someone posted something here saying that a higher proportion of people (or possibly adult males?) in one american city (Washington?) were killed each year than the proportion of American serviceman who have been killed in Iraq - i had assumed that was a joke/not true but that sort of figure makes me wonder if that was actually correct! :(

its a true number and over 100,000 / yr are injured. I live in usa and its a holdover from the days when you needed one here in the wilderness and this strange culture of it being a "right" put in the bill of rights and some perverted part of being free also. I think its also mostly in certain parts of the country like the west where guns are part of the culture and hunting too.

Overall its obsolete for most people but the gun lobby here is very very strong so its one of those things pols stay away from since they are going to lose more than win from going after it. Maybe its nature's way of birth control too :) and just another part of being "too" free.

Violent video games, gangster rap, and Saw 1,2, and 3.
But most of all, I'm guessing that adolescent male machismo/egoism is to blame.
Horrible.

Oh no, don't blame it on the games.. I know several gamers, one is playing for about 7 years now and he played a lot.. and has he killed anyone? Nope. He didn't hurt anyone and he didn't have either the best life, so leave the games and the movies aside. Those influence only the weak, the stupid, the ones that can't make the difference between real life and games.

I'm sorry for all those that got killed.. makes one wonder if your child should be born in such a world.

Reasons or incentives can be different including games and movies, but i see the biggest reason in lack of love. If a child gets enough love from his parents, if parents love each other and build a strong field of love around themselves, then he grows up as a normal healthy personality and nothing can influence him to hurt people (especially without any reason!) It's animal's feral instinct if someone kills another (animals are even kinder in this case, they kill only to survive!) ...Soooo LOVE will save this world! This is my deep belief.

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"I think I'll loose my mind if my kid will be killed like that... Nothing made me loose my mind so far, but that one would make me go insane crazy..."

That's why they say: those who are killed or died with natural death DON'T suffer, but those who left by them DO...and sometimes many years or even whole life!
This is a very difficult moment of life to bear a death of loved ones. This moment can change u entirely. It's a lesson for your soul which will be given to u sooner or later, to EVERYONE in this world, coz we all die someday. And those who fill their hearts with anger to a murder or try to find someone guilty and punish him - will give this world more anger and get much more in return again, like a vicious circle.
I wish everyone to be wise to get out of that circle and forgive those who are guilty even if they don't regret about that (or forgive yourself if u think u are guilty) and continue live and enjoy your life!

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It is impossible to start saying why all this happened and why this individual did what he did because they don't even know who he is yet. After finding out who he is, then maybe we can begin to understand why this all happened. But with him being dead, there is the possibility that we will never fully understand why this person went off the way they did and committed such acts of atrocity.

What movie did Hitler play? What Rap music did the Khemer Rouge listen to? What video game did Sadam Hussian play?

Tipper, I'm assuming you have taken the name "Tipper" here after Tipper Gore, VP Al Gore's wife, who was probably best remembered for her campaign against pop music with violent and/or misogynistic lyrics. (She made a perfect ‘Miss Goody Two Shoes.’) Is my assumption correct? And if so, was your comment ironic, or intended to be taken literally?

When I see all the violence about and see it glorified by Hollywood profiteers---because they know that violence, like sex here, sells---it's hard not to hold the entertainment industry, not directly responsible, but certainly responsible to a very significant degree for creating a cultural climate that for some (even if a small minority) is the precipitating factor. I would not, however, argue there is a direct cause and effect relationship.

I don't think we should try to legislate every potential action. I do, however, say we should regulate handguns. The gun owners association's response was predictable and no less contemptible. Indeed such sophistry is beneath contempt. Yet they dutifully recite their stock phrases, ever ready to put the interests of gun manufacturers over that of the good of society as a whole.

The NRA (National Rifle Association) was not founded to promote the economic interests of gun manufacturers. It was founded, I believe, just after the Civil War by a group of Union Military Officers. The officers were reportedly appalled by the poor marksmanship of the soldiers under their command during the war. The organization’s purpose was to promote and improve marksmanship. This purpose changed very little over the next one hundred years, but private gun ownership increased exponentially during the 1960’s after the assassinations of John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King and Robert Kennedy. It was during this period they became, for all intents and purposes, a lobbying group for gun manufacturers.

A friend of mine is a member of the NRA. He explained their stand on all attempts to regulate handguns. It is a very simple one: Oppose every attempt to regulate, no matter how reasonable the proposal, because once you’ve conceded even one inch, the camel already has its nose in the tent, and little by little the whole house of cards will come down. This approach has served them well for the most part, but any policy that admits of no exceptions is bound to backfire in some way. Such was the case when some years ago they did not support law enforcement agencies’ country-wide opposition to the manufacture of a bullet that could penetrate bullet-proof vests. Their refusal to stand with a traditional ally in opposition to this so-called “cop killer bullet” cost them significant membership losses among law enforcement officials.

Its mostly enabled by the availability of guns in the US. Anyone can get one legal or otherwise including full auto...............its another of America's myths of being the home of the free and the brave. The gun lobby will now use it to promote more gun ownership to protect themselves from crazzies. we don't need terrorists to do this to us we have our own home grown crazzies to do it ..........................long live Amerika..........

There have always been crazy peaple about and always will be. Since the begining of history people have been killed and merderd. The only diferece today is that we all know about it, see it on tv, read it in newspapers. Thankfully we have the political will to fined, catch and punish these people.
I for one think we live in the best of times, life is not perfect and never will be but for us in the west life is as easy and safe as it has ever been.

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Reading this will be much easier to interpret.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/6563565.stm

Don't ban GUNSSS...... ban GIRLFRIENDS

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Great Marty! lol

I prefer boobie, or a cute puffin myself.

i need another good seeing 2

what time will i arrive Olivia ???

whenever u c my oldman go out x

maybe he would enjoy ???

hed enjoy it more if he didnt no lol

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is 43 too old....hehe

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cool, i do...hehe

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I guess that leaves me out

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Age 54, Not handsome

Damn I fit the descrition so well except for age and not quite being a total stranger. I could wear a Tom Cruise mask and that would solve both issues.

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rug or carpet?

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I don't mind an ordinary rug or a carpet but I won't shag piles.

habits i would change---I wouldnt fart so much out loud
attitude i would change-I wouldnt become anger so much
others-well would like to be reborn and start over

so chase are you ready to make that big step

not yet host-love my freedom, my bike, by booze more--stay cool

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cool--love to be at your wedding,,and I have a wedding gift for you,,we must go in the bedroom together to open it--cool
kisses and hugs Galaxy, I missed you and toto anny,

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ohhhh galaxy--it wasnt a joke sweety, but if you think it was--thats cool, the joke is on me,,,by the way, I still want to be in your bedroom-cool

Happy birthday! :)

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happy 38th! Mondo!

mid life crisis ???

BECB = bela?

can't be, cos he's in a Romanian nick for exposing himself in public.

Oi!!! What happened to my Birthday Greeting???

Another lovely post Psy :)

quit complaining about your taxes and pay them.. hey let me tell you a way you can save some money,,, leave cc and save your money to help paid your taxes

I'm not even paying on CC :P
And I'm not complaining, it's a text I got in my e-mail :)

Thank you, though it's not my merit..

stop complaining ;-)

I'm not.. it's something I copy/pasted.

Psy, The story you cut and pasted is intended to convey a moral lesson more than any real tax advice. The truth is, in the US the tax structure is regressive in favor of the rich. Of course, who could be surprised at this. The tax laws are, in the main, written by the rich for the rich. While it is true that people in the highest income bracket are taxed at the highest rate, this is misleading because much of their income is taxed at lower rates (capital gains on stocks, for example) or sheltered, or put in tax-free "instruments" as the financial world calls them now, so it is no exaggeration to say that in some instances a rich man's chauffer may pay more tax than his boss. So, just because a guy earns 2x the salary of another, doesn't mean he will pay 2x the tax.

Some years ago, the Wall Street Journal ran an article about the widow of the late Mr. Dodge (of Dodge Auto fame). He left his wife $100,000,000. She put it all in Gov't tax free bonds that paid 5% interest per yr. Thus she had $5,000,000 in tax-free income per year, or just shy of $100,000 per week. Her chauffer, gardner, housekeeper all paid tax, while she paid $0. Somehow it doesn't seem fair.

I believe it was about an average person, otherwise he wouldn't have complained..
And anyway, most things turn around money, which sort of sucks :)

Do host pay taxes?

nope, my wife knows I visited this site before we met and she even wants to see what kind of shows the hosts do. She dosen't mind, but I don't go into vid nearly as much as when I was single.

personally don't really feel guilty - will not be meeting anyone in real life from here so in my mind it is not cheating (in the same way i wouldn't say that a host working and playing here is cheating on her bf/husband).
maybe slightly guilty about the money spent but to be honest she spends money on things i think are a waste as well.

Of course I feel guilty. The time and money I spend here could be spent elsewhere for other things that are more productive. Sexual addiction is an awful thing and makes you do things you wouldn't do. It would be impossible for most women to understand that you love them with all your heart but still come here to get your rocks off.

gulity? noway, have so much fun here! and encourage my husband and toy boy 2 do the same x they say they'd rather have the real deal with me, they r extremely jealous of who watches me YES, but no i dont feel any guilt, after all its only an electronic image of myself x

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how would u no if u had sexual addiction then ??

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how?

I have never really believed in sexual addiction in the same way as an addiction to drugs or alcohol.It is just as excuse used by the sort of people who never take any responsibility for their own actions.

It's the same. You start watching girls in video and u try to convince yourself you are not spending much and each morning you wake up with a resolution not to come to c.c. that day, but when night starts to fall then you rush to the pc and log in .c.c and you are still telling yourself: I just logged on to see who's online, however you see a new girl and you say to yourself: I will just go 5 minutes just to see her butt, I wank and I go out, however those 5 minutes get carried over 15, then 20, then 30 mins. and u ended up in a 1 hour session with that hot new host you thought u would just be 5 minutes... and you say it's not addiction?!?!

got an idea, think I'll become a host as a kinda sex-aversion therapy for the afflicted

Yikes!!! Good idea! LOL!

if your friends knew the right thing to do they wouldn't commit murder.a murder is a murder is a murder.the question though was to you.would you know & do the right thing if they did commit murder

You really murdered that sentence...lol

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which sentence,einstein.there were 3!!

wo--where this man get his education from and why is he allowed on the streets. Are we paying taxes for people like this,

but your president is a known butcher of language.

yes a butcher of words but a good man to, he gets us women to play with, I mean a secretary for our office.

well you murdered that point.
i guess i should just assume that i do not know how you define murder i thought i was clear in asking.
so i will just shut up and be greatful i have no friends and continue these bodies that keep stacking up.

lol johnzon!!everybody has friends(even if they are only imaginary).my god man if you don't know what murder is then you are excused from ratting on your friends.

hey johnz, some host asked me in chat abt u cos she under the impression I'm ur friend! How did this vicious rumor get abt?

i have net friends, but thats not the same.
are you going to call me at 1am asking for bail or a ride home?
are you going to help me move?

thinking abt it

I'll be your friend if you would pay my bail at 1am :)

I DO!
But not often..

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And so is "hey check out my new pics" and "Happy Birthday to so-n-so" and "can you...?"
This forum is getting old fast...don't worry I won't let the door hit me in the ass on the way out.

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of course.

No, you will only meet scammers and fraudsters. Some are so good you will believe every lie that utters from their mouths. Yes, been there and bought the tshirt.

possible you only meet fraudsters & scammers because you are not honest.you get what you deserve,imo.

In general it is possible but the vast majority of hosts and members DO NOT come here for love. They use the suggestion of love to try and manipulate the other party to keep doing videos (hosts) or to get longer more intimate videos (members) but for most love is a joke here.

do you go to find love?love finds you,you don't find it but you must have open heart & mind.

love is all around in the state capital---run for a office and you will see

It's theoretically possible of course but I honestly think this is the last place you want to be . Most of the hosts work for studios - they have a boss telling them to make money and they talk to this boss and the other girls about how to manipulate the customers. The paying customers are just cash cows - and one big joke to them.

The words they use are to make money from you - not to be sincere. There are a few exceptions of course, but you'll risk getting burnt looking for them.

To anyone who wants to look for love here - don't waste your time.

No doubt I'll get lots of replies from delusional men who honestly think they have real friends here....maybe some of them do, but for every 1 there another 10 being misled.

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I met him here:)

me too :)))

OMG, both of you fell for the same guy, lol

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wonderful reply lol

i don't think so because you know chaser was really talking about intent.still if that's your humor who am i to judge.

it is my humour and i make no apology for it but u r welcome to judge me if u like.

im not juding you--that's for the big man upstairs job, and I wonder if calling a good woman of his creation a whore is cool

now that was amusing,to me.thx!!

damm, I gotta check out a few of these :D

I heard it from a friend of a friend of a friend that your friend of a friend heard it wrong. You hear what I'm saying friend?

reminds me of that song. heard it from a friend who heard it from a friend who heard it from another youve beem messing around.

yeah right and you call yourself a friend-your real funny and your sense of humor is weak -not to put your name here

Those doing it won't read, so your post is more or less useless.. and even if they read, why would they stop doing it? Makes one feel superior.. the internet gives power to the masses.. Girls would better get used and not to care, it's a job, smile, and pass to the next.. You won't resist much, and traumas are not needed from jerks that get off by insulting you..

yes its a job--but all job's should have some respect about in it-see another weak person

It's not me that has to understand that, but them..
I learned over years to manage assholes like that.. the others will have to learn as well.. otherwise they won't make it..

they don't like themselves so insult hosts trying to feel better than them.

enough comments on this topic-i see we have a lot of weak people here that love caling women whores-and I quess some women I see mention with the nicknames above like it to--so cool, but to call this woman I know a whore is not right, don't care what you say about it-not cool

can we call you a whore?

sure you can, I don't mind being call a whore, if that makes you feel better, because I'm not that good of a person anyway--cool
.......and to claudia, what are you doing here sweety, I thought you left us, but good to see your name again and yes I get the idea of what you are saying and your right, thanks for your help, are your coming back as a host........or................................

well it didn't make me feel better but what the hell!

chaser, dear I wish their were more men like you in the world and I know you don't wont be to say that here, but I'm saying it anyway. Let me add if a woman wants to be call a whore and it doesn't bother her,so be it and if a woman is call a whore and don't like it, she is weak herself, shouldn't let words here said my members bothering her that much, although it does hurt sometimes, but easier to get over it quicker since they don't know us that well and thats all they feel like they got to do here is complain,, get mad and call people names, instead of getting to know the woman here for real, they think they can come on here and change our lives by a few videos and chats over a few months. Thanks for being my friend and helping me through-out difficult times.

claudia, im glad we can be compliment grubbing whores together!

Some women love being called whores, its more of an appeal to them than some sweet words like 'baby or 'hon'

Each to their own, you will never change a persons view point... so simply, dont bother trying!

i am protecting the honor of all broads here! and Claudia it was apleaure being yoru friend during your diffiuclt times and as I recommended, an injection of penicillen is all you needed!

it seems we have a phoney chaser going around the general forum room, buddy who ever you think you are--very funny with your words and I don't call women broads (what is a broads by the way)-not cool and far as claudia is concern, leave her name out of please, you can attack me or use by name you chicken coward person, but your a sick dude if you want to attack a woman thats your problem not mine-so get over it -cool

pay no attention to this real loser using your name. I have my yahoo on now, please come to visit me, got to know where I send it to:

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agree

I agree too

Yes, I can

not exactly, I tell em I visit here to learn languages and make international friends which I do, ofc :-)

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they were the one's who told me about it

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can you?