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where are the questions?
So where are the "Can you..." questions for today and the last couple of days? Come on Mr That wud be tellin', get your fucking act together and starting pissing us all off like you used to ... thought you said you'd never give up??
RE: where are the questions?
Lol! Some might say don't encourage him, Banana. But as someone else observed, the secondary fallout is rather entertaining and you are obviously among those who miss it! lol! I don't find him as irritating as some, but I can see why he generates the reactions he gets. Thinking how to describe his character, it occurred to me that he is rather like a cross between Mr. Bean and Pee Wee Herman.
Perhaps That Wud is just taking a well-deserved vacation. Either that or Captain Cave Man and others met him in a back alley with a Louisville Slugger. If I see him, I'll be sure to tell him you asked about him! lol! Cheers:)
Perhaps That Wud is just taking a well-deserved vacation. Either that or Captain Cave Man and others met him in a back alley with a Louisville Slugger. If I see him, I'll be sure to tell him you asked about him! lol! Cheers:)
RE: where are the questions?
Sorry dude, I post them but they do not display. I guess "the others" finally win
RE: where are the questions?
That's a shame That wud! Not being posted? I like your irritating questions cos of the irritated responses they provoke!
P.S. I was gonna write 16 pages then I thought you might not read em. Crazy place this! loool
P.S. I was gonna write 16 pages then I thought you might not read em. Crazy place this! loool
RE: where are the questions?
Charlotte, Can you offer a more literal translation form the Romanian so we can see Psy's point? Or does she mean just from a point of view of sonority? There is also the funny image of: "He's got lead in his pencil, but nobody to write to." lol!
RE: where are the questions?
Te mananca-n cur si vrei sa te scarpini?
This is the romanian expression :P And yes it sounds better because it seems to make more sense in romanian than english :D
This is the romanian expression :P And yes it sounds better because it seems to make more sense in romanian than english :D
RE: where are the questions?
His newest was "can you do without my questions for a day" and the answer now...thanks to you...is no.
RE: where are the questions?
I kind of enjoyed the "normal" questions the past few days and not the ones a 10 year old would ask, oh wells. Hey thanks Banana, next time why not wish for a root canal :D
RE: the reason
Keana,
You ask a good question, but I'm sure the greatest earnings are a function of many things, among the most obvious being price, how much time a host spends online per day, category, policies of local studio bosses and less quantifiable things like beauty, brains and charm.
In purely economic terms, the most desirable thing for hosts is to earn the most money for the least amount of time, whereas for guests it is just the opposite: to get the most amount of time for the least amount of money. But all these elements are a part of how the market plays out.
Take but one example, when I looked at the three Adult Categories in Girls Alone (A Little Shy..Not So Shy, and Instant Action), they were # 1, 2 and 3 in terms of the number of girls presently online in each. So, if a girl is in the first, she has more competitors for---in theory at least, since the guests are not in categories---the same number of viewers.
So, it's a bit more complex than one might think at first. Does CC give hosts any advice (or statistics) about how to increase your earnings? I would imagine a smart studio boss must also pay attention to the factors that likely account for the success of his most successful employees. Independents who work at home--who may have first worked in a studio---may also have some helpful observations to offer you and your fellow hosts.
Hoping and praying is fine, but I think objective statistical analysis will more likely deliver. Good Luck!
You ask a good question, but I'm sure the greatest earnings are a function of many things, among the most obvious being price, how much time a host spends online per day, category, policies of local studio bosses and less quantifiable things like beauty, brains and charm.
In purely economic terms, the most desirable thing for hosts is to earn the most money for the least amount of time, whereas for guests it is just the opposite: to get the most amount of time for the least amount of money. But all these elements are a part of how the market plays out.
Take but one example, when I looked at the three Adult Categories in Girls Alone (A Little Shy..Not So Shy, and Instant Action), they were # 1, 2 and 3 in terms of the number of girls presently online in each. So, if a girl is in the first, she has more competitors for---in theory at least, since the guests are not in categories---the same number of viewers.
So, it's a bit more complex than one might think at first. Does CC give hosts any advice (or statistics) about how to increase your earnings? I would imagine a smart studio boss must also pay attention to the factors that likely account for the success of his most successful employees. Independents who work at home--who may have first worked in a studio---may also have some helpful observations to offer you and your fellow hosts.
Hoping and praying is fine, but I think objective statistical analysis will more likely deliver. Good Luck!
RE: to all anal lovers
My thought exacly!! By this standard, 60+ surely must be ancient and 80+ antediluvian! lol!
RE: to all anal lovers
Yes! When I was in high school---in my mid-teens---I thought the teachers in their 20's were young, those in their 30's middle aged, and those 40+ ---just as our friend here---"old." As you can tell, I've revised my opinion! :))
RE: to all anal lovers
Babe, Perhaps you could write a book entitled , "The Art of Fudge Packing: The Proper Use Of The Tradesmen's Entrance."
RE: to all anal lovers
I prefer the girl NOT clean, the little chunks of peanuts and corn make it feel "ribbed for his pleasure"
RE: to all anal lovers
The girl can excuse herself for a few minutes "to get ready". Tell the guy to light the candles and pour the wine.
hmmm
America - the richest country in the world because half of its population is made by the cashiers who have run away from the Europe and their descendants.
Kazimierz Bartoshevich
Kazimierz Bartoshevich
RE: hmmm
America is the richest because it has been the freest country - the emporers, socialists and communists ran the best and brightest off of the continent of Europe and they only return as America becomes more socialist itself.
RE: hmmm
"they didn't learn geograpgy" is that how it is spelled in your country? Talk about the pot calling the kettle black :D
RE: hmmm
we don't care about being the richest in money, we have too manhy other things like the ability to live free, no women wearing burkhas and other bullshit
why don't you people just go get lives
why don't you people just go get lives
RE: hmmm
I would, but the KGB forced me to bash you guys otherwise I would be sent to the gulag forced to make Russian Nesting Dolls to sell to rich foreign tourist.
A question for hosts on anal sex
Do you hosts out there really enjoy anal sex? I mean in real life? How many women out there really want this?
Is it a good or bad thing for a man to have an obsession with your asshole?
Is it a good or bad thing for a man to have an obsession with your asshole?
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
""Some"" women like anal sex, because at them the person an arrangement of a uterus
Not All women :) so its can be true, right? :)
Not All women :) so its can be true, right? :)
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
To me it looks as if your bad english has confused Charlotte4u. Your original post did seem to say that most women don't like it but some women do because of how their uterus is arranged. You did not appear to suggest that any women with a normal uterus would enjoy it. So I think it is very rude of you to reply to her post like that.
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
I will do what I want and to answer how I want
Next time when you solve that you can judge someone, think are you sacred? When church and ppl will decide that you are sacred when you will judge anyone you want, ok? :)
Next time when you solve that you can judge someone, think are you sacred? When church and ppl will decide that you are sacred when you will judge anyone you want, ok? :)
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
Your earlier post implied that only women who had there uterus arranged unusually "rejected (sic) back" actually got pleasure from anal sex. There was nothing rude in Charlotte4u's reply.
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
Maybe you are having a bad day but I get the feeling you must be about the rudest and most ignorant host I have seen post here :(
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
Then i do always have the bad days :)
And if i have my opinion and do not afraid to say something or react how i want it doesnt meant that i am the rudest host here. Coz sometimes any others things looks mich more rude than this my words or any acts :)
And if i have my opinion and do not afraid to say something or react how i want it doesnt meant that i am the rudest host here. Coz sometimes any others things looks mich more rude than this my words or any acts :)
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
\"Some women like anal sex, because at them the person an arrangement of a uterus: it is rejected back and at anal sex receives strong stimulation.\" - You made it sound like only the women with a \"deranged\" uterus can feel pleasure from anal sex. I was replying considering your statement and saying that even me - with a \"normal\" uterus - I could feel great pleasure from anal, so having a deranged uterus is not a condition to have pleasure from anal sex.
Got me now? :P
I wasn\'t saying is impossible, I was just saying that the source u have is a bit wrong ;)
Got me now? :P
I wasn\'t saying is impossible, I was just saying that the source u have is a bit wrong ;)
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
"You made it sound like only the women with a \"deranged\" uterus can feel pleasure from anal sex. "
Should i repeat again? :)
""Some"" women like anal sex, because at them the person an arrangement of a uterus
Not All women :) so its can be true, right? :)"
Should i repeat again? :)
""Some"" women like anal sex, because at them the person an arrangement of a uterus
Not All women :) so its can be true, right? :)"
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
hmmm you have inspired my entrepreneur spirits.........a sexual odometer called a holemeter........thx.
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
Double personality and developing the third one? Hmm... Welcome to the club :P
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
Buna Charlotte,
i am reading ur posts for a long while and i enjoy a lot ur personality, but now i must admit i like u even more, cause u seem to listen Parazitii too :) go girl :)
Alex
i am reading ur posts for a long while and i enjoy a lot ur personality, but now i must admit i like u even more, cause u seem to listen Parazitii too :) go girl :)
Alex
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
Ha ha, I adooooore Parazitii!! They are sooo damn smart! :D And funny :D
I was with a friend on Easter Saturday and I played in his car Ombladon - Condoleante :D He liked it, though he's australian and I am not sure how much of romanian he knows, but it was nice to see he liked the beat at least :D
(K) and good luck dear :)
I was with a friend on Easter Saturday and I played in his car Ombladon - Condoleante :D He liked it, though he's australian and I am not sure how much of romanian he knows, but it was nice to see he liked the beat at least :D
(K) and good luck dear :)
RE: A question for hosts on anal sex
used to be a host here who did great anal shows but said she'd never do it in real life
many woman like it
I would say that about 1/2 the women I have been with in my life like anal, not all the time but some. That a pretty hi percentage. Also I think the woman in Eastern Europe (including Russia), especially Romania are more conservative and uptight (no pune intended) about anal. They are also are more HOMOphonbic in thinking that just because you like a woman ass mean you are gay—WRONG! They are a little behind the times.
RE: many woman like it
If being "in the times" or ahead of them means to have an ass hole as big as China, than no thanks! I rather stay behind!
Not to mention all the deseases u can take or start having from too much anal!
Oh and by the way: how would u like your ass fucked hard? I can arrange that for you and tell me afterwards how does it feel to know that women wanna "touch you there" .... with a huge strap on I mean, a natural size one, as big as yours... And we'll talk after,ok?
Cheers.
Not to mention all the deseases u can take or start having from too much anal!
Oh and by the way: how would u like your ass fucked hard? I can arrange that for you and tell me afterwards how does it feel to know that women wanna "touch you there" .... with a huge strap on I mean, a natural size one, as big as yours... And we'll talk after,ok?
Cheers.
RE: many woman like it
now now pls chill a bit and let your mind open a bit so that maybe your sphincter can also. If you take the right precautions and liberally lube it up a good ass fuck is as good as any vaginal one even for the woman. As far as China is concerned assholes have been stretching for the entire existence of homo sapiens and will not disappoint you now.
Now having said that I'm not denigrating using the standard outlet :) just don't eliminate your thinking from getting such a high just because you have not perfected the technique.............
Now having said that I'm not denigrating using the standard outlet :) just don't eliminate your thinking from getting such a high just because you have not perfected the technique.............
RE: many woman like it
http://www.christian.org.uk/html-publications/13000leaflet.htm
save yourselves people.
save yourselves people.
Charlotte
Sorry Charlotte you are misinformed. Actually I am a Doctor and you have a lot of myths and misinformation, or shall I say INCOMPLETE information.
RE: many woman like it
You may not think China is a big country but you wouldn't want to stick it up your ass :)
to charlotte and others
Everyone like what the like, as the old wisdom says: "there is no accounting for taste." If you don't like it fine, no problem, but what I find interesting is your DEEP intense negative reaction to it, which say more about you and your psychological and emotional state than about the act you are commenting on.
RE: to charlotte and others
Believe what you want. And fine you don't like it, you are free to not like it the same as people are free to like it. If you did try it something must be wrong with you lol, what are you dating gay men? or just women that need to dominate you? grow up girl.
RE: to charlotte and others
Pualie perhaps you should follow your own advice as you come across as the childish one in this discussion.You say she is free to have her own opinion and then berate her for having that opinion.
mock
Its called MOCKING Deeks, to make a reflective point. Look at all the posts not just one to make your decisions.
RE: mock
Ahhhhh got you now Paulie. MOCKING that thing that children do when they don't have a valid point to argue.
RE: mock
Your not to objective are you? very bias obviously toward charlotte, and selectively ignore what most of what I said. Maturity isn't only define how you think it is Deeks.
Tell Me A Book To Read
what was the last book you had read lately---okie dokie don't laugh at me because I cursed a lot, but I just finish the book call Something Beautfiful for (the big man upstairs) the journey of Mother Teresa.
Now I need another book to read, any recommendations out there.
Now I need another book to read, any recommendations out there.
RE: Tell Me A Book To Read
back in 1959 I read Moby Dick. Dont know about a good book to read, but know a couple of good books to look at pictures in "Hustler" and "Playboy"
RE: Tell Me A Book To Read
Playboy, yes good book, very interesting articles, new's stories and interviews.-okie `<0><0>`
RE: Tell Me A Book To Read
last book read: A Place Called Rainwater. Book recommend you to read: Arts and Crafts the Busy Book
RE: Tell Me A Book To Read
Lol...No i mean BOOR. You prove my point, thank you. Perhaps instead of your next video session you should spend the money on a good dictionary...roflmfao
RE: Tell Me A Book To Read
amen brother, yyeahh tho I have walked to the local liquor store, I will fear no weivel for I have big shoes to fill and I carried you my son.
Spagetti taste good.
Spagetti taste good.
RE: Tell Me A Book To Read
Yes, its offended me :) coz my screenanme is \"Hypnosis\". not \"Hypno\", right? :)
You no need know my surname and second name :)
If i posted here \"Hypnosis\" i expect that ppl will call me exactly so :)
Will be enought if you will not loose any letters from this my webname :)
Thank you :)
You no need know my surname and second name :)
If i posted here \"Hypnosis\" i expect that ppl will call me exactly so :)
Will be enought if you will not loose any letters from this my webname :)
Thank you :)
RE: Tell Me A Book To Read
It would be very quite good
Did not call earlier - and now it is not necessary :)
Thank you.
Did not call earlier - and now it is not necessary :)
Thank you.
RE: Tell Me A Book To Read
Austin, Since you just read a book about Mother Theresa, you might want to read a book by one of her boldest critics. I did not read the book and so I am not recommending it, just pointing it out. It has the blaspheous title, "Missionary Position," by British author, Christopher Hitchens. As I said, I never read it, but I read reviews and it created quite a storm. The reaction from the Catholic Church was, understandably, one of swift condemnation.
From what I read, one of Hitchens' main criticisms was the fact that Mother Theresa would never make public the books detailing the finances of her organization. And he pointed to her willingness to take money from people who had--it was later shown--stolen it from others. For example, she took money from one of the biggest crooks in the US Savings & Loan scandal in the 80's, Keating, who stole millions of dollars from depositers. After the theft had been exposed, Mother Theresa made no apparent attempt or offer to return the money. If I recall correctly, there was also some contoversy concerning a publicized meeting and gift made by the late tyrannt, Ceausescu.
These are not, of course, illegitimate criticisms, but overall, I think there were few who would have characterized Hitchens' character asault as anything but a real cheap shot.
From what I read, one of Hitchens' main criticisms was the fact that Mother Theresa would never make public the books detailing the finances of her organization. And he pointed to her willingness to take money from people who had--it was later shown--stolen it from others. For example, she took money from one of the biggest crooks in the US Savings & Loan scandal in the 80's, Keating, who stole millions of dollars from depositers. After the theft had been exposed, Mother Theresa made no apparent attempt or offer to return the money. If I recall correctly, there was also some contoversy concerning a publicized meeting and gift made by the late tyrannt, Ceausescu.
These are not, of course, illegitimate criticisms, but overall, I think there were few who would have characterized Hitchens' character asault as anything but a real cheap shot.
RE: OK - blues - Fantastic REDS
How wonderful are the REDS then ???
7 seven ???
wow
Manchester United - maybe best performance in champions league this year ?>
7 seven ???
wow
Manchester United - maybe best performance in champions league this year ?>
RE: OK - blues - Fantastic REDS
Behave .... no one has scored this season at Valencia in Champions League ...
RE: OK - blues - Fantastic REDS
But the REDS are not playing untill tomorrow?? Why do the Manc's always wanna be LIVERPOOL so much?? are they jealous of all the sustained success?? ;))
RE: OK - blues - Fantastic REDS
actually im a neutral - just English ,, so supporting English teams..
well done Liverpool too.. will be a good semi F ... i will be shouting for liverpool, against Chelsea,,,
but there were some great goals in that manchester 7..
well done Liverpool too.. will be a good semi F ... i will be shouting for liverpool, against Chelsea,,,
but there were some great goals in that manchester 7..
Hint for the Hosts
A simple e-mail to a member (viewer) will bring him back sooner. Tell them you miss them......tell them Hello.......tell them Thank you. You will be suprised how this increase repeat members to your room.
RE: Hint for the Hosts
Seems so Obvious..
I have a few who realise this..
and guess what ... they are busy and happy hosts..
useing CC mail ,, but more often Yahoo or msn .. IM ..
and not " im online come to Vid "
or
Hi babe.. hunny .. etc .. personal works best..
So simple .. but so few do it.
many are just not as smart as they think they are..
as some of the " im so wonderful already brigade " say to themselves
im too good i dont need that .. i never need to actualy make any effort,
that would just be ...um .......
friendly ?
sensible ?
NIce .!! ?
thoughtful ?
or just smart .
Noooo i dont need to be any of those things..
head back into sand lol...
I have a few who realise this..
and guess what ... they are busy and happy hosts..
useing CC mail ,, but more often Yahoo or msn .. IM ..
and not " im online come to Vid "
or
Hi babe.. hunny .. etc .. personal works best..
So simple .. but so few do it.
many are just not as smart as they think they are..
as some of the " im so wonderful already brigade " say to themselves
im too good i dont need that .. i never need to actualy make any effort,
that would just be ...um .......
friendly ?
sensible ?
NIce .!! ?
thoughtful ?
or just smart .
Noooo i dont need to be any of those things..
head back into sand lol...
RE: Hint for the Hosts
Usually when someone says they miss me I just tell them to practice their marksmanship and next time they won't miss.
RE: Hint for the Hosts
I like to receive emails from hosts on cc. I like to just know that they acknowlege my visit with them. I am more likely to visit with them again.
RE: Hint for the Hosts
Oh, well... I don't send e-mails after the fist visit because if I enjoy them I tell them when they r live with me - text or video chat - and I invite them back. Plus you can always know if I enjoy you or you bore me, it's easy to read it on my face :D
So, I write e-mails to the guys with whom I have become friendly, not just to everyone who visits me, because I got my share of weirdos and not in the mood to try again..
And no, when I miss a viewer I miss the witty or funny conversation and the good time we have, not the money. Again, another reason for which I don't say "I miss you" way too often...
So, the hint is good, but it has to be applied carefuly, not with everyone.
So, I write e-mails to the guys with whom I have become friendly, not just to everyone who visits me, because I got my share of weirdos and not in the mood to try again..
And no, when I miss a viewer I miss the witty or funny conversation and the good time we have, not the money. Again, another reason for which I don't say "I miss you" way too often...
So, the hint is good, but it has to be applied carefuly, not with everyone.
RE: Hint for the Hosts
Hi all, ye i think the email thing would be better for video chathosts to tell viewers about whats new, discounts etc... this isnt spamming and isnt annoying
For fun
A man and his wife are dining at a table in a plush restaurant, and the husband keeps staring at an old drunken lady swigging her gin as she sits alone at a nearby table, until the wife asks,
"Do you know her?"
"Yes," sighs the husband, "She's my ex-wife. She took to drinking right after we divorced seven years ago, and I hear she hasn't been sober since."
"My God!" says the wife, "Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?"
"Do you know her?"
"Yes," sighs the husband, "She's my ex-wife. She took to drinking right after we divorced seven years ago, and I hear she hasn't been sober since."
"My God!" says the wife, "Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?"
RE: What's in your box?
when I send an email I like to receive at least an acknowledgement that they have read it or I stop sending and visiting them in return.
RE: What's in your box?
Well of course they read it. At least out of curiosity, if not for another reason :P
Which reminds me: I am behind with my e-mails, I should start replying "blushing"
Which reminds me: I am behind with my e-mails, I should start replying "blushing"
RE: What's in your box?
and alas, none of those email have ever been to me Gort :( What is the world coming too ...
RE: What's in your box?
Received more than I have sent but most of those were from hosts saying things like "Fuck off and stop annoying me or I will report you to cc and then cut your balls off and stuff them down your throat".
The rest I sent to myself using another name so I'm not sure if they count or not. Surprisingly they were also the rudest ones I received.
The rest I sent to myself using another name so I'm not sure if they count or not. Surprisingly they were also the rudest ones I received.
RE: What's in your box?
i send more than i receive.i never receive any at all.my box is forever empty.
RE: What's in your box?
but see HINT
some think its smart they get more than they send ....????
obviously not so smart ....
who is the customer here ?
who is trying to make the $$
the penny has just not dropped for so many here...
The smart few ,,
they realised this way back .....
I still see many asking why its so quiete ...
and i still see empty rooms...
yet still many of these same people ..
dont make any effort to be polite , or make friends, or even say Hi,,,
smart ?
i think not..
some think its smart they get more than they send ....????
obviously not so smart ....
who is the customer here ?
who is trying to make the $$
the penny has just not dropped for so many here...
The smart few ,,
they realised this way back .....
I still see many asking why its so quiete ...
and i still see empty rooms...
yet still many of these same people ..
dont make any effort to be polite , or make friends, or even say Hi,,,
smart ?
i think not..
RE: What's in your box?
Sounds right miss Gorty ..
Sounds like you are a smart lady .. respect to u.
what sales organisation/ person would u ever expect to get more replies/ interest / orders / sales /
than they send out ....
NON... returns on any sales are usualy 30% at best..
mailshots can be 2-4 % and still be succesful..
any girl here sitting on her hands,, and not making contacts is wasting her time..
if u dont sow ..........you dont reap..
Sounds like you are a smart lady .. respect to u.
what sales organisation/ person would u ever expect to get more replies/ interest / orders / sales /
than they send out ....
NON... returns on any sales are usualy 30% at best..
mailshots can be 2-4 % and still be succesful..
any girl here sitting on her hands,, and not making contacts is wasting her time..
if u dont sow ..........you dont reap..
RE: What's in your box?
It's amazing what some hosts can get in their box. I remember this one host....
RE: What's in your box?
I remeber this one host, I dared her to do a double penetration with 2 base ball bats, Bought 2 hours of video that day...
She did it !!!
Never saw her again, on either site she worked on...
Gosh I missss her :((
She did it !!!
Never saw her again, on either site she worked on...
Gosh I missss her :((
I can't believe
You bastards never said happy birthday to ChickoryBlue. Be ashamed, and choke on your easter eggs!!
RE: I can't believe
Ok I'm one who didn't say happy birthday because I was not around during the days in question. So belated Happy Birthday Chica.
RE: I can't believe
He has one, but it's a secret one involving Irontail, Montresor the bat, and a pair of Wellington B. Bunny's Y-fronts ... you're not the only one having fun in April Valley Peter ...
RE: do you??
Yep many - if we moved to any city in the world we would still find someone..
But of course if u never get out you will never meet anyone..
Traveling and being open to say hello ,, is the first step
by travel i mean .open the front door..step outside... hehehe.
and when you meet someone .. say Hi..
and for everyone there are many partners...
and we all need different partners at different times in our lives..
so smile .. be happy and look out ..
remember .. girls are looking just as much as the guys are ..
just more usual we guys have to say hi first ..
.
But of course if u never get out you will never meet anyone..
Traveling and being open to say hello ,, is the first step
by travel i mean .open the front door..step outside... hehehe.
and when you meet someone .. say Hi..
and for everyone there are many partners...
and we all need different partners at different times in our lives..
so smile .. be happy and look out ..
remember .. girls are looking just as much as the guys are ..
just more usual we guys have to say hi first ..
.
RE: do you??
yes i believe there is someone for everyone. i think there are 2 types of people in our lives...
one that is just passing through... whether they are friends or lovers or whatever, our relationships with them teach us lessons we need to learn, help us learn about others and ourselves and to grow alot in a short period of time. these type of people usually have something in common with something we are dealing with in our lives at that particular period of our lives.
the second type stays a lifetime, not only helping us to grow but also lifting us up when we stumble. they share in all our joys and sorrows and know us almost as well as we know ourselves.
i believe every person enters our life for a reason, even if we do not yet understand the reason why...the tricky part is being able to tell who is meant to stay in our life and who is just passing through. i think our greatest pains in life come from trying to keep someone in our life that was only meant to pass through.
one that is just passing through... whether they are friends or lovers or whatever, our relationships with them teach us lessons we need to learn, help us learn about others and ourselves and to grow alot in a short period of time. these type of people usually have something in common with something we are dealing with in our lives at that particular period of our lives.
the second type stays a lifetime, not only helping us to grow but also lifting us up when we stumble. they share in all our joys and sorrows and know us almost as well as we know ourselves.
i believe every person enters our life for a reason, even if we do not yet understand the reason why...the tricky part is being able to tell who is meant to stay in our life and who is just passing through. i think our greatest pains in life come from trying to keep someone in our life that was only meant to pass through.
RE: do you??
well at first I thought so, but now Im beginning to wonder, just turn another year older and it seems time is passing by quick
RE: do you??
There is no one more anal that you paco. Sorry to say dude, but your gonna be alone.
RE: do you??
I'll tell you what paco why don't you and I give it another 2 years. If we both haven't met anyone special by then we'll hook up together. What do you say ?
RE: do you??
sounds good to me.when do we start counting the days?now?yesterday?just let me know when the time is up. LOL
RE: do you??
yes I believe...but this someone sometimes can`t be with U...that`s the sad part but dreams are nice.....(" fullfilled dreams/wishes make U older" so U choose stay young or get old)
RE: do you??
There's got to be lots of potential partners out there for any person. For some there's more than others. The whole "there's one special person out there" is romanticisied hollywood bullshit imho
Ted, Say it isn't so!!!
Ted, You're not saying that Hollywood is involved in the production, manufacture and distribution of bullshit are you?!!! Do the authorities know about this?!! What? The authorities are in bed with them?!! There's payola...uh uh...I mean campaign contributions?!!
You mean guys don't really save prostitutes the way it happened in "Pretty Woman?" You mean we aren't likely to find people's travails so easily redeemed in reality? Ted, Ted, Say it isn't so dude.
You mean guys don't really save prostitutes the way it happened in "Pretty Woman?" You mean we aren't likely to find people's travails so easily redeemed in reality? Ted, Ted, Say it isn't so dude.
Melomane... Re Noir.
Hi... See list of Noir titles under "Smokey Thoughts "
Cheers... Alan.
Cheers... Alan.
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Film_noir ...This is a particularly informative article on the subject
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
Thanks Barry, I'll look up the Wikipedia artical. Reviewed any good flicks lately ??
Cheers.... Alan
Cheers.... Alan
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
Hi again...Re the movies you mentioned in a previous post. All great examples of Film Noir, and yes, i've seen them all.
"The Postman Always Rings Twice". John Garfield was one of my great favourites and was incapable of giving a poor performance. As for Lana Turner, not a great actress, but with that face and body who cares ?!!
"Touch of Evil". Another Wells masterpiece. Full of atmosphere and tension. I believe the opening camera shot was, at that time, the longest single take ever made.
"The Third Man". That guy Wells again !! What is there left to say, apart from a fine performance by Joseph Cotton and perfect direction by Carol Reed.
Detour". It's many years now since I saw it and at the time I was not too impressed. But I think I should see it again. Many times I've changed my opinion of a film after a second viewing.
"The Night of the Hunter". Another great Mitchum performance and a complete change of character for him. Mitchum is one of my all time favourites. Never gives a bad perfromance. A real pro.
Tarantino ? Not a great favourite of mine, although I thought that "Pulp Fiction" was excellent. Also liked "Jackie Brown". Hated the vampire things !!!
Noir directors. One of the best, if not the best, was Robert Soidmak.
Two more recommendations..."Phantom Lady" (vintage noir) and "The Usual Suspects" (modern noir)
That's all for now....Cheers.... Alan
"The Postman Always Rings Twice". John Garfield was one of my great favourites and was incapable of giving a poor performance. As for Lana Turner, not a great actress, but with that face and body who cares ?!!
"Touch of Evil". Another Wells masterpiece. Full of atmosphere and tension. I believe the opening camera shot was, at that time, the longest single take ever made.
"The Third Man". That guy Wells again !! What is there left to say, apart from a fine performance by Joseph Cotton and perfect direction by Carol Reed.
Detour". It's many years now since I saw it and at the time I was not too impressed. But I think I should see it again. Many times I've changed my opinion of a film after a second viewing.
"The Night of the Hunter". Another great Mitchum performance and a complete change of character for him. Mitchum is one of my all time favourites. Never gives a bad perfromance. A real pro.
Tarantino ? Not a great favourite of mine, although I thought that "Pulp Fiction" was excellent. Also liked "Jackie Brown". Hated the vampire things !!!
Noir directors. One of the best, if not the best, was Robert Soidmak.
Two more recommendations..."Phantom Lady" (vintage noir) and "The Usual Suspects" (modern noir)
That's all for now....Cheers.... Alan
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
Alan, I'm not surprised you've seen these films. Re: "Detour," it is not an especially good movie from the point of view of craft, but I understand why it has a cult following.
I'm with you on Tarantino and even Pulp Fiction was a bit too self-consciously "hipper-than-thou." At the time of Pulp Fiction's release, it seemed that every film critic declared him a wunderkind, a young genius whose artistic vision would change the history of film. And, of course, he did not disagree with their assessment.
What do you think of Jim Jarmusch?
I'm with you on Tarantino and even Pulp Fiction was a bit too self-consciously "hipper-than-thou." At the time of Pulp Fiction's release, it seemed that every film critic declared him a wunderkind, a young genius whose artistic vision would change the history of film. And, of course, he did not disagree with their assessment.
What do you think of Jim Jarmusch?
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
In Mystery Train, when Screamin' Jay wolfed down that plum - Man, I'm not even sure really why, but that scene just made me laugh and laugh.
And there was a moment like that in Night On Earth too if I remember right. When Helmut in New York put on a red clown nose, then pulled out a slide whistle and played a little tune - it was his fare's reaction that was the funny part, I think.
Oh yeah, and Roberto Begnini - from begining to end, his entire part in Night On Earth is hilarious - almost too damn funny.
Wow, it's been forever since I saw either of those movies. Think I'll make a run to Blockbusters and pick them up.
Thanks for bringing them back to mind, man.
And there was a moment like that in Night On Earth too if I remember right. When Helmut in New York put on a red clown nose, then pulled out a slide whistle and played a little tune - it was his fare's reaction that was the funny part, I think.
Oh yeah, and Roberto Begnini - from begining to end, his entire part in Night On Earth is hilarious - almost too damn funny.
Wow, it's been forever since I saw either of those movies. Think I'll make a run to Blockbusters and pick them up.
Thanks for bringing them back to mind, man.
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
I must catch up on Jarmusch's later films. I just know 3: the first two, Stranger Than Paradise and Down By Law, and the one---title escapes me---about the Japensese couple who come to the US for a pilgramage to Elvis' Graceland.
I think the music by composer/actor John Lurie is first rate. (In fact the Chronos String Quartet recorded a piece of Lurie's called, "Bela by Barlight."---a play on the jazz standard "Stella by Starlight" with a nod to Hungarian composer, Bela Bartok.)
My favorite scene in Down By Law was a lingering frame of Waits sitting on a milk crate, smoking a cigarette in front of the gas station where he is an attendant. Begninni appears, back turned, in the forground, nervously flipping through an English phrase book. He says, "Es cuzza me. It is a sad but berautiful day." Waits looks up but doesn't anwer. Again B. tries: "Es-cussa me. It is a sad but beautiful day.", to which Waits responds, "Buzz off!!" B. then frantically looks in his phrase book mumbling " Buzza off....buzza off...." That cracked me up!!!
I think the music by composer/actor John Lurie is first rate. (In fact the Chronos String Quartet recorded a piece of Lurie's called, "Bela by Barlight."---a play on the jazz standard "Stella by Starlight" with a nod to Hungarian composer, Bela Bartok.)
My favorite scene in Down By Law was a lingering frame of Waits sitting on a milk crate, smoking a cigarette in front of the gas station where he is an attendant. Begninni appears, back turned, in the forground, nervously flipping through an English phrase book. He says, "Es cuzza me. It is a sad but berautiful day." Waits looks up but doesn't anwer. Again B. tries: "Es-cussa me. It is a sad but beautiful day.", to which Waits responds, "Buzz off!!" B. then frantically looks in his phrase book mumbling " Buzza off....buzza off...." That cracked me up!!!
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
Yeah. but ones better than none !! We just gotta keep trying . Have faith kiddo. lol
Cheers.
Cheers.
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
Of course we both know there are many forums where one could discuss film with other film buffs, but we perhaps entertain the idea that a lovely bare-breasted siren---who also knows film---might combine carnal and intellectual stimulation. Perhaps CC would entertain a new category: Girls Alone: Sinners & Cinephiles
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
Hey, what a great idea. Why didn't I think of that..Duh !!!!! Perhaps we should copyright it before submitting it to cc !!! Get yourself the right host (any suggestions very welcome) and it would be just like sex used to be in the back row of the stalls.
Ah !!! Memories. Mmmmm lol !!!!
Cheers Alan
Ah !!! Memories. Mmmmm lol !!!!
Cheers Alan
RE: Melomane... Re Noir.
...or in "Drive-In" theatres. Alan, I take it you are from the UK? My bet was that you guys didn't have Drive-In Theatres. There are, I imagine, a handful left, but they are for the most part a thing of the past here; very big though in the 50's and 60's. Those who went on dates, often didn't see much of the film. The film was just a pretext for "getting down" and steaming up the windows! lol!
RE: This is advertising :P
But no specials between Easter and Christmas?!! Wow, that's a long time to wait. You sure drive a hard bargain Charlotte! lol! Will you be pursuing business studies at universtiy? Perhaps you could do as the woman did, that comic Rodney Dangerfield joked about. He said this woman studied business and psychology. For $100, she'd blow your mind. lol!
Might I suggest you offer specials on May Day, the Romanian holidays Ziua Copilului (June 1) and Ziua Imnului National (July 29), anniversaries of significant dates in military history (with lower prices as commemoration of the war dead) such as Hiroshima (Aug 6), the German Invasion of Poland (Sept). And for good measure, you might want to throw in the Summer Solstice and the Autumnal Equinox. That way we'd have something nearly every month. What do you think dear? :))
Might I suggest you offer specials on May Day, the Romanian holidays Ziua Copilului (June 1) and Ziua Imnului National (July 29), anniversaries of significant dates in military history (with lower prices as commemoration of the war dead) such as Hiroshima (Aug 6), the German Invasion of Poland (Sept). And for good measure, you might want to throw in the Summer Solstice and the Autumnal Equinox. That way we'd have something nearly every month. What do you think dear? :))
RE: This is advertising :P
To be honest I don't remember about that national anthem day either :D But I thought is just me with my lost memory :D
RE: This is advertising :P
Angel, You mean Wikipedia mislead me?!! I'm shocked! lol! Perhaps it's one of those innocuous holidays like "Flag Day" in the US. I know it exists, but I couldn't tell you the date if you offered me a million dollars! (Although, if you did offer, I'd sneak off to Wikipedia to find out! lol!)
I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
Charlotte, $0.59? Now that’s a bon marché. Merci! I’ll be sure to stop by. :)
* N.B. Melomane does not presently own not has he ever owned shares in "Charlotte4U Enterprises Ltd." lol! (Pssst, Charlotte, I need the payment in cash, ok?)
* N.B. Melomane does not presently own not has he ever owned shares in "Charlotte4U Enterprises Ltd." lol! (Pssst, Charlotte, I need the payment in cash, ok?)
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
Lol! I like the way it sounds too! Before long, you could start a line of sexy undergarments that would be every bit as sexy as Victoria Secret, but at more affordable prices. Then your own line of perfume. What shall we call it? How about..hmmm.."Fleur de Charlotte." ? Or perhaps something a little more provocative like, "Torride" or "Ardente."
If you go with the latter two, you'll have to have one of those fancy Madison Avenue fashion photographers do a (B & W) photo session of a woman, perhaps in a sauna, with a shot from torso up, holding a towel in front of her shimmering naked body, just barely covering her breasts, with her other hand reaching below the photo's lower boarder, but in an unmistakably suggestive position. Her head should be tilted back slightly, eyes closed, with a look of near ecstasy on her face. That will be the magazine version, to appear in magazines like the NY Times Sunday magazine, Cosmo (American & European editions.) The TV version will follow suit: a b & w still, the only addition being a voice-over by a man with a French accent, who, in a hushed baritone voice will say, "Torride. [or Ardente]....pour les femmes"
If you go with the latter two, you'll have to have one of those fancy Madison Avenue fashion photographers do a (B & W) photo session of a woman, perhaps in a sauna, with a shot from torso up, holding a towel in front of her shimmering naked body, just barely covering her breasts, with her other hand reaching below the photo's lower boarder, but in an unmistakably suggestive position. Her head should be tilted back slightly, eyes closed, with a look of near ecstasy on her face. That will be the magazine version, to appear in magazines like the NY Times Sunday magazine, Cosmo (American & European editions.) The TV version will follow suit: a b & w still, the only addition being a voice-over by a man with a French accent, who, in a hushed baritone voice will say, "Torride. [or Ardente]....pour les femmes"
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
Charlotte, I know you've got to dominate and I defer to you a lot bb. Didn't I let you get on top again last night?!! Forward and Reverse Cowgirl?!! But you've got to trust me on certain things as regards marketing. I live only about 3-4 hours from the epicenter (NY) of advertising bullshit. There is no bullshit machine as powerful as Madison Avenue. You could combine the skills of Gobels and the Ministries of Propaganda of every totalitarian State and they could not hold a candle to Madison Avenue. Why do you think that in the US, beginning with the Reagan Administration, the White House began employing the skills of these upscale hucksters?
While I disagree with your idea about "Firey" as a name, I think your idea of modeling for your own product is brilliant! As regards the name, we are essentially thinking in the same vein. Both "Torride" and "Ardente" imply firey, hot, burning, impassioned. And the words have this advantage: Both words are cognates in English, so people will recognize them. We use the words "torrid" and "ardent." But unlike firey---which sounds too pedestrian and more like a name for a barbecue sauce---"Torride" & "Ardente" have the allure of French sophistication and unbridled passion. Firey, on the other hand, is ordinary and cannot banish from the mind the possibility that a Puritan might be lurking in the background with a hose to extinguish the passions.
While I disagree with your idea about "Firey" as a name, I think your idea of modeling for your own product is brilliant! As regards the name, we are essentially thinking in the same vein. Both "Torride" and "Ardente" imply firey, hot, burning, impassioned. And the words have this advantage: Both words are cognates in English, so people will recognize them. We use the words "torrid" and "ardent." But unlike firey---which sounds too pedestrian and more like a name for a barbecue sauce---"Torride" & "Ardente" have the allure of French sophistication and unbridled passion. Firey, on the other hand, is ordinary and cannot banish from the mind the possibility that a Puritan might be lurking in the background with a hose to extinguish the passions.
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
You mean you are going to ignore the wisdom of Madison Avenue?!!! Anathema!! Lol!
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
I hardly know some places in France, exotic, hard to find.. south wasn't that exotic, but we could go in the West Indies, that's exotic allright! And I think you'd look great on the white sand.. or under the green water hehe
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
Ohh Psy.... "drooling" I love both sand and water! You are a sweetheart (K)
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
Psy, Why don't you stop by my office tomorrow afternoon. I'd love to see your work, so bring your portfolio. I would be in favor of doing as much in-house production as possible and I think it it would be an excellent move to have a photographer (not to mention psychologist) in residence.
Charlotte will have the final word about any hire, but my opinion will count a great deal and I'm sure she will see the wisdom of combining her business skills and your skills as a psychologist. Together they will create a revolution in the fashion world and give a whole new meaning to "mind blowing" experience.
Charlotte will have the final word about any hire, but my opinion will count a great deal and I'm sure she will see the wisdom of combining her business skills and your skills as a psychologist. Together they will create a revolution in the fashion world and give a whole new meaning to "mind blowing" experience.
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
Should I bring as well the nudes? well, they're autoportraits, but still..
:D
It would be a pleasure to work with both of you.. problem is tomorrow I'm starting work (for real) not as a psychologist, not yet.. so I'll sort of be absent...
:D
It would be a pleasure to work with both of you.. problem is tomorrow I'm starting work (for real) not as a psychologist, not yet.. so I'll sort of be absent...
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
Darn!
Good luck with your job :)
And I won't mind an e-mail of yours :) ;-)
Good luck with your job :)
And I won't mind an e-mail of yours :) ;-)
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
Psy, Come whenever you can my dear. Hey, can I join you and Charlotte in the West Indies? How about Martinique? Ca me plairait :) Je t'embrasse: muahhhh!
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
Martinique, you say? My fave :D Salines it's the best, though crowded.. but the north is even better hehe
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
It has been many years since I was last there....I remember taking a "taxi collectif" (6-7 people stuffed into a Renault station wagon lol!) from the airport to....the city center (Fort de France, n'est pas?). and I remember reading Aime Caesar's "Le Retour a Mon Payee Natale." He was (still is?) the mayor of Fort de France?...Governor of the island? Can't recall.
I'm told the island has changed a great deal since I was there..(I bet before you were born!) Btw, Psy, what is your screen name?
I'm told the island has changed a great deal since I was there..(I bet before you were born!) Btw, Psy, what is your screen name?
RE: I am NOT Charlotte's Shill.
I honestly don't know much, hear about Aimée, but I don't know if he's still alive.. been last in there two years ago, and loved it.. and yes, the main city is Fort de France, but the airport is at Lamentin, near by..
Not a host anymore ;) just hanging around, giving ramblers reasons to ramble :P
Not a host anymore ;) just hanging around, giving ramblers reasons to ramble :P
RE: This is advertising :P
well worth the few pennies.She even laughs at your jokes
I do not own any shares either but if ever she becomes a limited company put me down for some preferentials
i cant wait for the dividend pay out i will take extra shares please
oh she is looking for a man to work under her
anyone want that position, i said i have to be chairman so i get on top
I do not own any shares either but if ever she becomes a limited company put me down for some preferentials
i cant wait for the dividend pay out i will take extra shares please
oh she is looking for a man to work under her
anyone want that position, i said i have to be chairman so i get on top
RE: This is advertising :P
Of course we anticipate the company going public one day James, but if you're interested, here's an opportunity to get in on the "ground floor" as the business cliche goes. We are looking for venture capitalists and any investment the original investors make, will be issued preferred shares in proportion to their original investment and the current total capitalization figure, with an option to by shares at a discount to current value.
Charlotte makes it clear she is dominant and she always likes to be on top. But if I understand you correctly, you are asking who would like to be on the bottom...and you, as chairman, want to be on top? James, don't tell me you are suggesting a....D---uh---uh---P?!!! We must consult Charlotte about this of course, but I think we'd all agree, as a way of sealing the deal it would create a special "bond"---more memorable than a handshake! :) But before the three of us meet to discuss this, it occurs to me that we need to fill one more hole...uh...uh...I mean position to meet incorporporation requirements. As founder, Charlotte must fill three holes...[damn! I can't explain all these Freudain slips!]... I mean positions to meet legal requirements. Perhaps she has a candidate she would like to fill that hole----ahhhhhhh ..position. Charlotte?
Charlotte makes it clear she is dominant and she always likes to be on top. But if I understand you correctly, you are asking who would like to be on the bottom...and you, as chairman, want to be on top? James, don't tell me you are suggesting a....D---uh---uh---P?!!! We must consult Charlotte about this of course, but I think we'd all agree, as a way of sealing the deal it would create a special "bond"---more memorable than a handshake! :) But before the three of us meet to discuss this, it occurs to me that we need to fill one more hole...uh...uh...I mean position to meet incorporporation requirements. As founder, Charlotte must fill three holes...[damn! I can't explain all these Freudain slips!]... I mean positions to meet legal requirements. Perhaps she has a candidate she would like to fill that hole----ahhhhhhh ..position. Charlotte?
RE: This is advertising :P
I can see you like my idea and you've already taken the ball and begun to run with it. Good. I will assume the position of Creative Director--Senior Vice President for Marketing & Media Relations.
During the hiring process, I would appreciate it if you would interview some worthy young female candidates---sexy and smart of course. I will need a good assistant. :)
During the hiring process, I would appreciate it if you would interview some worthy young female candidates---sexy and smart of course. I will need a good assistant. :)
RE: This is advertising :P
I know a blonde, smart, sexy girl :D never met her in person, but maybe this summer..
But I'm sure of what I said hehe
But I'm sure of what I said hehe
RE: This is advertising :P
Hehe, great! Maybe we convince her to come to the photo shooting or to work in the big company we'll start soon :D
(I love ciggs breaks on a busy busy day :D)
(I love ciggs breaks on a busy busy day :D)
RE: This is advertising :P
Tried that too... Didn't work... The guy always wanted to be the boss, no matter how many guys I tried :D And since is my life at stake I decided to take care of it the way I want it...
So no, side by side is not an option for now... Maybe later, when I'll find someone smart enough to know to appreciate the side by side thing....
So no, side by side is not an option for now... Maybe later, when I'll find someone smart enough to know to appreciate the side by side thing....
RE: This is advertising :P
Over here that's "don't look a gift horse in the mouth". Seems to be the same sayings all over the world...
RE: This is advertising :P
Personally, if someone gave me a horse I wouldn't bother looking it in the mouth, I'd just say "where the hell am I supposed to keep this"? :)
"Gift horse," but a memory like an elephant! :)
Charlotte, I can tell you reward those who are loyal, and punish those who can't get with your program--i.e.those who have the temerity to not recognize you are boss! But these guys intrigue you most, because they challenge you! Touche!
Att: Members: Recommendation: Five Great Hosts that Won't Break the Bank
I've just posted on the Viewers Only Forum five of my favorites, all great ladies with reasonable fees. Not posting the names here to avoid possible feelings of envy. I'd love to hear others' recommendations.
RE: Att: Members: Recommendation: Five Great Hosts that Won't Break the Bank
ummmm..... and this prevents envy because? everyone can read the Viewers' Forum.
RE: Att: Members: Recommendation: Five Great Hosts that Won't Break the Bank
Perhaps I misunderstood that Forum. I thought, just as the Chathost Forum is for Chathosts only, I thought Viewers Forum was for Viewers (i.e. paying guests) only---as opposed to the General Forum for both guests and hosts. Not true?
RE: Att: Members: Recommendation: Five Great Hosts that Won't Break the Bank
Melomane, guests and anyone can view the Viewer only forum, they just cannot post there.
RE: Att: Members: Recommendation: Five Great Hosts that Won't Break the Bank
Unfortunately not true Melomane.
Only members can post on it but everyone can read it.
Only members can post on it but everyone can read it.
RE: Att: Members: Recommendation: Five Great Hosts that Won't Break the Bank
Host do read the viewer forum, and make posts here regarding what they read there. Pretty stupid to start this thread dude, you will not prevent anything.
RE: Att: Members: Recommendation: Five Great Hosts that Won't Break the Bank
Bebe, Did it on an assumption that I see I should not have made. Well, no harm. I'm not maligning anyone, just didn't want to stir up envy among the ladies. Some---not all---can get very jealous if they are not the Queen bee. You know how viscious they can sometimes be towards one another! In fact, some hosts have even posted about this very subject. When two fight, it's like two cats in a bag.
I've quoted the famous American journalist, H. L. Mencken (who may have been a bigger curmudgeon than even our own CC Curmudgeon in Residence, "I'm Not Your Friend" lol!) , before, but it's worth repeating here. He defined a "misogynist" as, "a man who hates women as much as they hate each other." lol!
I've quoted the famous American journalist, H. L. Mencken (who may have been a bigger curmudgeon than even our own CC Curmudgeon in Residence, "I'm Not Your Friend" lol!) , before, but it's worth repeating here. He defined a "misogynist" as, "a man who hates women as much as they hate each other." lol!
i wonder
I wonder if this place makes us all less respectful of each other. We viewers treat hosts like cattle and they in turn treat us like cash machines.When you make he mistake of telling a host that you love them they instantly switch from a little shy to fetish dungeon queen.
Is it me
Is it me
RE: i wonder
sometimes we make the mistake of thinking we are actually here with them. then we make mistakes in translation or differences in culture or language. If you were in love with them you must believe that they love you as well, before commiting to them.Maybe you just pushed to hard,trust me its easy t do when you love one so much.
I am in love with a host and she is the most wonderful lady, but we still get it wrong now and again.
I just hope she keeps forgiving me.
I am in love with a host and she is the most wonderful lady, but we still get it wrong now and again.
I just hope she keeps forgiving me.
RE: i wonder
It certainly hasn't made me less respectful. I never had any respect for anyone else here in the first place :P
RE: i wonder
INYF, Lol! If you ever decide to leave, I hope you will pass the torch to one worry of carrying on the necessary work of Curmudgeon in Residence. Perhaps you can sympathize with Groucho Marx's remark; "I'd never like to join a club that would have me as a member," huh? lol!
All fooling aside, we can indeed all respect each other, but not BECAUSE we are HERE! Rather, because we are human beings. And while being here might not be grounds for disrespecting others (and ourselves), at the same time I don't think anyone would find it a basis for admiring their virtue---members or hosts. It's not something we'd wear like a badge of honor or put on our resume. As the late Rodney Dangerfield quipped, "The kinda job I had, when I quit nobody knew!" lol!
All fooling aside, we can indeed all respect each other, but not BECAUSE we are HERE! Rather, because we are human beings. And while being here might not be grounds for disrespecting others (and ourselves), at the same time I don't think anyone would find it a basis for admiring their virtue---members or hosts. It's not something we'd wear like a badge of honor or put on our resume. As the late Rodney Dangerfield quipped, "The kinda job I had, when I quit nobody knew!" lol!
RE: i wonder
Melomane that quote from Groucho Marx is one of my favourites. In fact on one occasion I pharaphrased it when making an excuse as to why I wasn't going to date a girl. I wouldn't go out with anyone that would have me as a bf.
The Marx Brothers were way ahead of their time.
The Marx Brothers were way ahead of their time.
RE: i wonder
In fact, I just recently read a remark Groucho made about a swim club that apparently had a "No Jews allowed" policy. He asked the man, "Since my daughter's only half Jewish, do you think she could go in the pool up to her waist?" lol!
RE: i wonder
Biker, A place like this may engender bad habits in some, but I would be careful not to use the universal "We," as in "WE treat the hosts like cattle." Perhaps you do, or some do, but we don't all do that. If you have behaved in this way, you chose to do so, but I can tell that you do not think such behavior right. In general, if one is respectful of others, they will respond in kind.
RE: judo???
Judo is a martial art. However I thought that it was practised by two people one trying to throw the other to the ground. Perhaps there is also kicking moves and punching moves involved and the guy wants you to do this (Similar to karate moves).
RE: judo???
Not sure what they were refering to. As far as I know Judo is a martial art form charecterized by using your opponants own weight and momentum against them to throw them.
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
Because it's you wearing it :P
I think part of it could be bacause the white coat symbolises someone who is "caring" and also because men would get turned on by a woman wearing a cardboard box.
I think part of it could be bacause the white coat symbolises someone who is "caring" and also because men would get turned on by a woman wearing a cardboard box.
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
Men like the thought of being dominated by the lady in white, then they want to take that power away and be the top man.
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
Doc, In what area of medicine do you specialize? In what country do you practice? I had always wondered how the daily routine of examining womens' genitals affects male gynecologists' experience of sex with their wives. I wonder if these men can actually engage in in cunnelingus without feeling they are doing just one more clinical exam. I also wonder, since more and more women are becoming physicians, what percentage of these women will elect to go into urology as a specialty. And I would have the analagous question for them: Can they give their husbands a bj w/o thinking it's just one more clinical look at a penis?
P.S. A physician friend of mine swears he went to medical school with a guy who went into urology. His name is Seymour Peters!!
P.S. A physician friend of mine swears he went to medical school with a guy who went into urology. His name is Seymour Peters!!
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
I suppose I lot of women share your sentiments. Hey, that would certainly be way for a young gynecologist to build a practice fast, huh sweety? :))) The word would get around that Dr. Feelgood is very good indeed!
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
Just about to head off to work Charlotte but that wonderful image will carry me right through the day. I just hope it was a money spider as that might mean something significant :P
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
If it was a male spider trying to have his way with you, you could always do what female spiders do to the males after they mate: they eat them! And here he thought he might be spared by a female from the human species. Or maybe he had heard about that children's book, "Charlotte's Web," and thought he might find a place to crash for the night.
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
my ex females just ate my bank account :-(
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
Ooops, that is not nice...
Speaking of which... I have to pay the rent today, grrr :D
Speaking of which... I have to pay the rent today, grrr :D
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
Hahahaaa, good one :)))
Glad I made your day INYF :P (K)
Glad I made your day INYF :P (K)
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
A doctor with the nickname poison?.....mmm this gives me an idea :D
RE: Why doctors and nurses are sex fetish for men?:)
ur a doctor? at age 20? must be a child prodigy. i am a brain surgeon, even tho i dont have a brain. LOL
to That wud be tellin'
Can you get a life and stop posting these pointless inane questions ?
RE: to That wud be tellin'
OH MY GOSH, I figured it out, "Wud be" is really AsianDoll...Why mahal ....why? hehe :D
RE: to That wud be tellin'
I hope not.
The drama of all the tweedles pissing themselves trying to shut him up is very entertaining.
The drama of all the tweedles pissing themselves trying to shut him up is very entertaining.
RE: to That wud be tellin'
No I will not stop posting these inane questions 'UrMommasSoFatShesGotPlanetsOrbitingHer'