General Forum
RE: Wohooooooooo
It seems to be a very good system so far. I've looked at some of my favourites and none of them had less than a three and a half star rating, and ones that I was not so fond of had like 2 stars or les, so I guess I will be avoiding anyone with anything less than a 3 and a half star rating.
RE: Wohooooooooo
This post reflects the problem with ratings systems. They are only as useful as the ability of the individual to interpret their significance. If you want to avoid any host with less than 3 and a half stars that is your privilege, but you will miss out on many of the best experiences if you do.
RE: Wohooooooooo
No it is not particularly great.... the rich get richer! This ratings system will further lead to host animosity.
I have seen plenty of my favourites being rated at 2 stars and 3 stars and personally I would rate them a 5 star after ever visit because the show they give is perfect.
Many members if they go to video and are disappointed the host won't go topless they will rate her a 1 star. I agree they deserve a 1 star rating if they agree to do it first in textchat, but if they have never agreed it and pics don't display it then in my eyes the 1 star is not warranted.
I remember the Birthday Party fiasco.... what a joke.
I have seen plenty of my favourites being rated at 2 stars and 3 stars and personally I would rate them a 5 star after ever visit because the show they give is perfect.
Many members if they go to video and are disappointed the host won't go topless they will rate her a 1 star. I agree they deserve a 1 star rating if they agree to do it first in textchat, but if they have never agreed it and pics don't display it then in my eyes the 1 star is not warranted.
I remember the Birthday Party fiasco.... what a joke.
RE: Wohooooooooo
It's nice looking at stars but it raised a question in my mind."Do the stars relate to the category the host is in?"
RE: Wohooooooooo
how is 4 stars "JUST OK"???
I have my doubts about it... but i like to hear other peoples rating of the girls :)
I have my doubts about it... but i like to hear other peoples rating of the girls :)
RE: Wohooooooooo
I don't consider this a good system to know if a chathost she is or not great. There are 2 problems: first of all few vote with high rates it couldn't be the same than many vote with average rates, the second case it must be considered more indicative of the quality of conversation; than how it's possible check what they are the reasons of a bad vote. My last consideration it's about the vote this is a provocation but i always thought the numbers of stars it's a good system just to know the quality of hotels.... not too know if someone he/she is a good performer or best friend...
RE: Wohooooooooo
the number of stars is an average score and average scores, at best, are not particularly informative ... we need to know the variance and the standard deviation, the total votes cast and the statistical significance of the result, along with a plot to see whether the fit is Gaussian, and then a Maximum Likelihood estimate to give us an idea as to the number of stars this host will get in the future and a probability prediction as to whether or not we should take her 1-2-1 within the next 24 hours or whether we should wait a week or two ... that's what I'd like to see ... but until then, I'll have to make do with the average ...
RE: Wohooooooooo
According to CC's explanation the overall rating is based on the last 10 members who visited and rated the host. It should therefore be fairly current. If a host has a lot of very satisfied members but then just one member marks her down unfairly it should not have a significant effect on her overall rating. The most likely reasons for a host's overall rating to drop are if there are technical problems so the member can't see her or if she is away from the cam when he goes to vid. either of these will earn the host a one star vote from that member. 4 or 5 memebrs entering vid in quick succession and finding this situation will quickly bring the overall rating down. On the other hand if she sorts out the problems and gives some good shows she can soon get her rating up again.
RE: Wohooooooooo
Only the last rating of the day counts.... she could have 10 video's but only the last counts. Unless i have mis-interpreted the chathost page on ratings and every 3rd rating counts.
RE: Wohooooooooo
So in the case of a host that has 1 four hour video in a day, every day, how would that work out? They would not get rated at all yet they are obviously good enough to keep one member happy for 4 hours at a time. Chew on that if you will. ;)
TNTNMWB...
TNTNMWB...
RE: Wohooooooooo
That video rating will be carried forward till the next day. I think it's every 3rd video..... but I suggest you get a host account and have a look on the host page.
Hmmm
Looks like freeda's done a runner. Pics gone, profile cleared and forum empty. Heard she and Mondo broke up and she's left cos of it.
a sad story :(
I'm 47 and I've been a member here for over 3 years and in all that time I have enjoyed chatting with hosts online and left it at that. Recently one of the young ladies I have been talking to here wanted me to meet her while I was in Russia on a business trip. Things started off well ... we had already agreed beforehand on what would happen ... I would take her out for a few meals, take her clubbing and buy her new clothes ... I didn't mind a bit, I really enjoy a nice dinner or two, and a glass of wine, and some dancing, and it sure was fun to see a nice young lady in some new spring clothes.
But then things changed for the worse, and it turned out all she really wanted from me was sex!! God dammit, I had to draw the line somewhere!! It saddens me to think that what she really wanted all the time was my body ... I feel so used now, and so dirty and ashamed. What can I do to get over these feelings?? I would appreciate any comments.
But then things changed for the worse, and it turned out all she really wanted from me was sex!! God dammit, I had to draw the line somewhere!! It saddens me to think that what she really wanted all the time was my body ... I feel so used now, and so dirty and ashamed. What can I do to get over these feelings?? I would appreciate any comments.
RE: a sad story :(
That ain't sad, it's fecking pathetic. I was due to meet a host in Moscow, NO SEX involved. We broke up yesterday.
RE: a sad story :(
well there is nothing yuo can do now that it seems you had sex with her. i assume that when you said that you 2 agreed on what would happen that it was agreed upon that sex was not going to happen.
in the future when you visit a host on a business trip and no sex is agreed upon, that you will just say no and walk away. i womans company is the best thing and should be enjoyed.
in the future when you visit a host on a business trip and no sex is agreed upon, that you will just say no and walk away. i womans company is the best thing and should be enjoyed.
RE: a sad story :(
...you poor thing, and all the while you thought she was actually using you for gifts, but nooooooo, couldn't have been that at all, it was obviously your hot bod!!
RE: a sad story :(
Well, my story is also sad. The other day i went to cam2cam with a girl i had not chatted with for months... and she asked me if i had gained weight... which i did. She hurt my feelings. :(
That didn't stop her from watching my cam anyway :D
That didn't stop her from watching my cam anyway :D
RE: a sad story :(
ok, but it might take me a few weeks to save up enough money. Wining and dining, and buying new clothes can be expensive ... I like to budget on something like US$3000 for a week's visit. Is that enough to get you some nice clothes?
RE: who are?
...I always have a difficult time trying to get a one to one with missdelight because someone always has her in open for hours and hours and I still haven't succeeded. It has always been kind of an unwritten rule that you don't enter when when someone else is already in open with a host, and I have always respected it, but if that is the only way I can meet this beauty, then I will do it. And if the member doesn't like it, he can take her in one to one.
RE: Question for member ...
lol
But there are 2 questions, Do u rate or u do NOT rate the girl after the show ... :)
But there are 2 questions, Do u rate or u do NOT rate the girl after the show ... :)
RE: Question for member ...
forgive my ignorance but i read it again,there is only 1 question i can see.
RE: Question for member ...
There is only one question mark (?) but there are indeed 2 questions, one either side of the word "or". You were right about being ignorant though! lol
RE: Question for member ...
1. yes, i rate a host after a show.
2. no, i do not not rate a host after a show.
:P
2. no, i do not not rate a host after a show.
:P
RE: need friendly advice
Let your conscience guide you. Does he just want a sexual meeting or just as friends?
RE: need friendly advice
never be rushed,wait until you are sure it is what you want.if he is serious he will understand & wait til you are ready.if he does not want to wait,then he is selfish & does not truly think of your feelings
RE: need friendly advice
yepp, my name starts with a T, and sure i am a handsome,charming guy,, though im not that old! :X:X:X:X
RE: need friendly advice
come on ! wake up ! He just wants some young bird to bang thats all ... 25 years :-O he could be your dad for fecks sake ........
RE: need friendly advice
Some guys like to be a "daddy" and some girls need a "daddy."
If it's only that simple then it is doomed because when you become 24 or 25 he will think you are too old. But if you grow together it could work.
If it's only that simple then it is doomed because when you become 24 or 25 he will think you are too old. But if you grow together it could work.
RE: need friendly advice
but you could be an imposter like me just pretending to be the original hmm.....
RE: need friendly advice
He is just some old guy perving on an 18 year old girl. You will probably say that he is not like that and he is sweet and kind and blah blah blah, but he is just telling you everything you want to hear. Some of the answers to your question may have been sarcastic and harsh, but consider them and don't let yourself get taken advantage of by this old perv...you're too young.
RE: need friendly advice
my friendly advice is what are you expecting;
1. A cup of coffee: its ok
2. A date that leads into sex: its no
---matter of fact any other kind of date besides just a stop to have a cup of coffee" its no-----Stay cool sugar blondy
1. A cup of coffee: its ok
2. A date that leads into sex: its no
---matter of fact any other kind of date besides just a stop to have a cup of coffee" its no-----Stay cool sugar blondy
RE: need friendly advice
You've known him 16 days and he wants to meet you?
If that true...I would say don't do it. He wants one thing only, then he'll likely leave you. If you do meet him, have friends and family around and make sure he knows it's not a sexual meeting but only to see how you are together.
I would say, though...you absolutely should not meet him...yet (especially alone).
If that true...I would say don't do it. He wants one thing only, then he'll likely leave you. If you do meet him, have friends and family around and make sure he knows it's not a sexual meeting but only to see how you are together.
I would say, though...you absolutely should not meet him...yet (especially alone).
RE: need friendly advice
where did you get the 16 days from dude?
Anyway, to SugarBlondy, my opinion is to say no, but give him a "maybe later" ... gives you time to gather advice and figure out exactly what this old fart wants.
Anyway, to SugarBlondy, my opinion is to say no, but give him a "maybe later" ... gives you time to gather advice and figure out exactly what this old fart wants.
RE: need friendly advice
I was asking. Her pic history only goes that far back and she said she met him here. I was wondering if she's only been here this long.
RE: Wanted
i'll go to live to moscow at that time.if u wanna we can spend time together there.send mail to me if u wanna.
RE: Wanted
Lol. A non-adult host whose profile says her "special" is the piercing on her clit!!
RE: need ur advice
rent him the flat, leave local currency on the dining room table, about $200 worth and when he arrives you surprise him, naked in his bed. maybe with your gf as well.
RE: need ur advice
Leave him stranded at the airport... that'll teach the bastard!! only when he begs you via phone you should meet, this way your in control and he knows it!! He only after sex...
RE: need ur advice
Based upon your original post, the only kind of help you need is psychiatric! You have GOT to be kidding right ... you are going to rent a flat for a member!?! You chicks must be making FAR too much money on this website!!!
RE: need ur advice
See your doctor and get a shot of penicillin. You are certainly not the first or the last.
RE: need ur advice
tell him to check the city breaks at lastminute.com
it's cheaper to get hotel and flights altogether.
it's cheaper to get hotel and flights altogether.
RE: need ur advice
Help reserve the place, but don't spend your money because he might not come.
Why?..(members' question)
Why do youbreak our hearts, guys? You say,that you loveus, and after some time! If you really likeus, why do you do so?...
RE: Why?..(members' question)
Many hosts said they love me. What they really love is the time I spend in paid video with them.
RE: Why?..(members' question)
he said he would always come to 121 to see me. now nevr 121, only in the lower priced option. he doesnt love me anymore!
RE: Why?..(members' question)
Grow up child! This is no yardstick of love; you certainly sound like one of those hosts who throw the word around casually with no knowledge of its meaning or concern for the repercussions.
RE: Why?..(members' question)
you got it wrong i have the worm(bait)between my legs,not the fish.
RE: Why?..(members' question)
No I didn't get it wrong if you use your immagination a little..... ;-)
RE: Why?..(members' question)
To try and get a hotter and cheaper strip. Men want a GFE. Girl Friend Experience.
RE: Why?..(members' question)
Why do you break our hearts, hosts? Tell us you love us, but love money more.
RE: To Mondo
You don't know? Ask anybody who has been here for more than 6 months. It was all over comm-chat and her profile. Now even that is empty.
RE: Why?..(members' question)
i think the discussion is not about love but about people who specul;ate feelings - hosts who claims they love their veiwers in order to get some cash and member who do they same with hosts just to see "something " for free r in same boat......there is no exuse. to them
RE: Why?..(members' question)
Love and Last are only start with same letter but shouldnt be mixed, it will may lead to a tragedy in the end.Doenst sound as if you are talking about love here:)
RE: Why?..(members' question)
if you really loved us why do you charge us for videos? Tit for tat.
RE: psy?
Today?
I thought France elected it's President some time ago.
What else are they electing there?
I thought France elected it's President some time ago.
What else are they electing there?
RE: psy?
Nope.
I'm not following the things about politics, it has no point for me to decide about the fate of the ones that are in Romania considering I won't be affected. It wouldn't be fair for me to vote :)
I'm not following the things about politics, it has no point for me to decide about the fate of the ones that are in Romania considering I won't be affected. It wouldn't be fair for me to vote :)
RE: psy?
For the election of Basescu, I didn't vote, because I would have had to come to Paris and it's not like anyone from Romania would have given me the 150euros for the ticket.
Yesterday I didn't vote because I don't believe I have the right as long as I don't know how things are, and well,I don't think there's a romanian (among the 30% that voted) that really knows the truth..
Can't expect to make a difference when I don't know what is better..
Yesterday I didn't vote because I don't believe I have the right as long as I don't know how things are, and well,I don't think there's a romanian (among the 30% that voted) that really knows the truth..
Can't expect to make a difference when I don't know what is better..
FA Cup
well done chelsea....was a bad game but the best won it in the end...beers on me :D
RE: FA Cup
was terrible game - much better last year when West Ham played and actually tried to attack
RE: FA Cup
is the final on wednesday? Milan v Liverpool?
Go Milan go go, English football sux :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Go Milan go go, English football sux :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))
RE: do u worry?
If you are gonna worry about that crap then you simple shouldn't do anal! If you wanna, use a rubber.
RE: do u worry?
ROFLAMO
If you want anal shit may be part of the deal.....
Do not worry OR do not do anal
If you want anal shit may be part of the deal.....
Do not worry OR do not do anal
RE: do u worry?
nothing wrong with it,
just do a very small one,
best with normal water instead of soapy.
the easiest way takes seconds, take the shower end off, put the pipe up ur bottom for 2 seconds and then push the water out. Repeat 1-2 times and you wont need to worry for the next 2-3 hours.
just do a very small one,
best with normal water instead of soapy.
the easiest way takes seconds, take the shower end off, put the pipe up ur bottom for 2 seconds and then push the water out. Repeat 1-2 times and you wont need to worry for the next 2-3 hours.
RE: do u worry?
That's an odd comment coz i had never even thought about anal sex until my last 2 gf's insisted upon it from time to time. Gave them far more pleasure than me i can tell you so from my personal experience hetero anal sex is mostly for the girl. Also i think a girl in touch with her body can tell when her arse pipe is clean or not coz i never suffered a cock smothered in crap.
RE: do u worry?
i love reading ignorant posts, makes me feel smart :P Anal does not mean ur gay fool.
RE: do u worry?
What a load of nonsense! How does anyone arrive at the conclusion that if you want anal sex with a woman you really want it with men? Being gay isn't about wanting anal sex - it's about wanting other men sexually and anal sex is just a possible expression of that.
Actually I think you'll find that most men want anal sex with women because it's slightly degrading for her, tigher/feels different and suggests dominance over the women or the earning of her trust in the deepest intimacy. Also it's considered "naughty" which is a turn on for some people.
Actually I think you'll find that most men want anal sex with women because it's slightly degrading for her, tigher/feels different and suggests dominance over the women or the earning of her trust in the deepest intimacy. Also it's considered "naughty" which is a turn on for some people.
Would you intervene?
Say you're walking down the street and you come across a small crowd of people gathering around and looking upon two or three men doing something that strikes you as the most cruel and most heinous thing possible to a single, defenseless person ... You see armed policemen close enough nearby that it's obvious that they must know what's going on, but they've chosen to only look the other way .. What would you do?
RE: Would you intervene?
i think i would ask a few questions to a few people to learn the situation more, i.e. is the 'victim' a victim or is the being treated cruely i piece of human garbage that should be treated as such , and that the people standing by watching accually in line to take thier shots at the person.
however if theone being mistreated is a true victim and the onlookers are the scum , then i think i would look for a weapon , say a stone and start hitting them, then try to run as fast as i can.
however if theone being mistreated is a true victim and the onlookers are the scum , then i think i would look for a weapon , say a stone and start hitting them, then try to run as fast as i can.
RE: Would you intervene?
It depends, did this person deserve the beating?
Did he keep asking silly ass question to the public until they had enough? If so, then I say he had it coming.
Did he keep asking silly ass question to the public until they had enough? If so, then I say he had it coming.
RE: Would you intervene?
I'd video the whole thing and auction it to the media for the highest price
little fact
Cats are smarter than dogs. You can't get eight cats to pull a sled through snow.
RE: little fact
But you do find guys pulling sleds in the snow ..
so ?
I guess maybe another angle is
cats are just lazy
and certainly self centred,,
not sure if thats anything to do with inteligence ,,
so ?
I guess maybe another angle is
cats are just lazy
and certainly self centred,,
not sure if thats anything to do with inteligence ,,
RE: little fact
I'm allergic to cats and afraid of dogs.
Now when it comes to pussy on the other hand...........
Now when it comes to pussy on the other hand...........
RE: little fact
I have a dog and 3 cats . I love all 4 for different reasons. They all are loyal to me.
RE: little fact
One can argue that you can train a dog to say "I love you", but does she really mean it?
RE: little fact
a dog's love to it's owner is unconditional,hence"a dog is a man's best friend".a cat however is a different animal.
RE: little fact
mine sleeps on my pillow and wakes me up in middle of night by licking my hair and face while he is doing his washing :)
RE: little fact
Dogs come right away when you call them; cats take a message and get back to you later.
ever wonder?
Why the heart is smooth and rounded - maybe to soften the sharp painful edges when you let love inside it
Great new functionality
I like the new feature wih forward and back in the picture section - thumbs up!! But i was thinking about another little "easy" feature - what about zooming the pictures? - just use the browser to scale the pictures. Offcourse this should be selectable for the viewer since it would give some distortion of the picture... - but a zoom in general would be nice since the pictures are kinda small and my eyes are not what they used to be (lol)
RE: SPIDERMAN
"If?"...meaning you did not actually have this dream? And are you wondering, given the title of your post, "SpiderMAN," what the significance of a dream in which you become "SpiderWOMAN" is? Or something else?
RE: SPIDERMAN
"If" - doesn't mean she didnt have that dream, Melomane, but I guess she used russian grammar.
RE: SPIDERMAN
"if" you are a man and dream you are spiderwoman it can mean only one thing...your want to be a cross dressing super hero soaring around the city in bright colored tights....time to see a shrink
new feature!! thanx CC
when i check archives, and want to see a photo larger, i click on it and a new little window pops up, now it has at the bottom of it
<< Previuos Next>>
so i can click away on that and see ALL archive pics this size without constantly clicking on previous dates
AWESOME
<< Previuos Next>>
so i can click away on that and see ALL archive pics this size without constantly clicking on previous dates
AWESOME
RE: new feature!! thanx CC
Hm I don't know why I can't see that new feature... It Does sounds like a nice little improvement though!
Character
Who would you choose as the most genuine member and genuine host? If difficult to name, like to hear your definitions.
RE: Character
Whoever gets named only gets attacked by fellow hosts and members. Therefore I will not share my opinion
RE: Character
A guy with nick starting with SCREW hahaha
and Gortensia, tho she can be very annoying sometimes :)
No hard feelings girl pls, I don't want to be involved in arguments.
Mwah
and Gortensia, tho she can be very annoying sometimes :)
No hard feelings girl pls, I don't want to be involved in arguments.
Mwah
RE: Character
I haven't been here long enough to make those guesstimates.Milena you showed some of your character(good)by saying a person who can be annoying to you.You haven't let personal feelings influence your judgement.Anyone who gets"under the skin"of the trolls that seem to frequent here has a good start to having good character,imo.
Request for Clarification
Ally, What do you mean by "genuine?" Honest? Sincere? Or do you simply mean a "character" --i.e. a well defined presence---without regard to his or her virtues? I ask, because we all know there are in the world in general some real "characters" who are scoundrels, and some "genuine" souls who do not especially stand out.
RE: Request for Clarification
Mel, I was thinking of people with positive virtues - so much cynicism on this site yet certain people seem to shine through it, rise above it. I could mention some but it would inevitably attract unwanted attention from the sneerers and the like.
Honesty, kindness, warmth, humour not based on putting others down, those kind of virtues.
Honesty, kindness, warmth, humour not based on putting others down, those kind of virtues.
RE: Request for Clarification
I'm with you Ally, and I think you're right to refrain from citing them. Their virtues are in evidence and need no citation. At the risk of sounding religious and santimonious, it's the meaning of the line in the New Testament, "By their fruits ye shall know them."
RE: Character
I don't know any of the hosts well enough these days to answer that question. There was some but they're all gone now.