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The thing I MOST like about the forums

Where else can you hob-nob with folks famous and infamous? Every day I come here, some new celebrity of the present or past, fictional or real, is here to comment. And I have to admit, not only am I surprised to see them here, but I am appreciative that I have the opportunity to read their thoughts and communicate with them.

Folks like, Shakespeare, Robinson Crusoe, Hillary and Bill Clinton, Gretchen Wilson, The Amazing Kreskin, Carole Fredericks -- these are some of recent days which I remember. There have been so many many more, too numerous to mention.

What an honor and a privilege it is for these folks to be here. Thank you!
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RE: The thing I MOST like about the forums

"Where else can you hob-nob with folks famous and infamous?"

Prison. :)

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lig you're either the most mellow,cool fellow,an acid-taking hippy,a virgin,or any or all of the above!
whatever the answer you rock :--)

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I agree.... You gotta be one of the coolest people I have never met :)

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Please tell me you mean LIG and not tisme.

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Heyyyyy that's not nice tisme is a kewl person...from the time he first started coming around to talk to me he has been a kewl calm person...just because we have not talked in a while and he has moved on to those who do what he likes does not mean he is not a kewl person...

tisme always remember someone is thinking of you and remembers you...take care my dear....:)

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RE: The thing I MOST like about the forums

Shame on you INYF, we all know tisme is way more cool than me :) Right, tis?

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Adayla

intelligent, fluent in English, exotic, sure of yourself, opinionated, not to mention downright cute... AND you love BACKPACKING!!!!!

OMG! you are everything I want in a woman. Are you married? I want you! :-)
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RE: Adayla

She is extremely smart with excellent English skills. And yes very opinionated yet respects you opinion as well. I've never had a more free flowing conversation with any host.

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welcome to the adayla experience lig and opening this thread.
your opinion is respected and often agreed but 'exotic' makes me laugh. in addition she can also do different than 'cute' in her not so exclusive anymore other profiles you just have to know her better.
have read a lot about her here in the forums. she is definitely one of the best hosts here and makes you forget time and sorrows.
we should share. what is your opinion? best session?

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RE: Adayla

Exotic was her own self-description from a thread below.

I have not visited her in videochat, but have only become familiar with her through the forums and her profile. She does impress me very much, tho, of course, the part about marriage was joke, which I'm sure was obvious LOL

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So my opinion after 4 asked: With Adayla there is a comeback of mind fuck even in addition to a sexy young body. She teases sometimes even better than real sex and leaves you satisfied for hours. She is excited for you and really enjoys to push her guests to the limit and beyond. She always gets what she wants from you and she is polite and thankful after it. And with her EL profile open to all now it seems she gets more and more hungry for new guests to cum! We get along well and I think I will get more of her soon!
I am in love meine sexy Fraulein Adayla! And I am not the only one I am sure!

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You lost me on that. What is her "EL profile"?

(By the way, for the benefit of "BiteMyA**" in the Viewer Forum: I'm asking a real question here.)

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ExclusiveLady. She was keeping it under wraps, with password and all, but she decided to go public recently. Although "hungry" is not how I'd describe this lady, but everyone's entitled to their opinion

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yeah. happens. especially when they are more and more desperate and need the money.
was in her profile only once. very nice and smart chat but no show. does she play any games now? what can we expect after winning her trust of course?

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RE: Adayla

Oh, come on! You are being mean now. People can change - They can become more daring, more adventurous! There is nothing wrong with that, is there?
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i have no intention to be mean. if it was i am sorry. but i knew her from her profile where i had one of the best interesting and exciting conversations ever. but not more back then.
back then she just occassionally changed her profile to Glamour shortly for one special member who won her trust i believe.

to what i said in my question i want to set straight that you might agree that especially money changes some people.
i was not mean at all. she appears to be of course nice and smart here in the forum. but i just wanted to ask if it is worth visiting her room now and what services she offers after the change. any change? and that i am willing to invest in a new regular host but i want a fair treatment without deception and stalling. and just read through some posts from previous weeks on Adayla here in the forum. this and her profile descriptions still leave things and possibilities open. and all here seem to be excited to know more of the new stars ssgb, adayla, lillielovely and elle.

so any news on adayla? any must see surprises or special treatments i read so much here? or is it just a hype and no guys visit her at all or are all in my situation and wait for answers and a review?

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RE: Adayla

I do agree that money can greatly influence someone, no question about that. However, I also believe that the same someone can have other reasons for change as well. Could even be more confidence, more trust, less shyness (talking from a CC environment perspective). The reasons can be many. As you can imagine, I don’t know for sure as I don’t know Adayla or her reasons for switching to Glamour. My comment was really pointing out to “especially when they are more and more desperate and need the money”. However, as you said, you didn’t intend to be mean, and I appreciate you clarifying that.
As for your questions – My advice to you, and of course you don’t need to follow it – Why don’t you go and have a chat with her, a nice, open, and honest one, where you can ask her anything you want to know and take it from there? Rather than just waiting for feedback from others. Good luck!
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thank you very much adayla. understanding but also strong answer shows again what a fantastic smart host you still are. it shows that you really know what you want and that makes a great session with input from both sides. whatever you do or not i know it is a game and we both have to be happy and agree to the rules with which we feel comfortable. 

and i am not deceived i just wanted to know from your real members what is true in the forum because i am not the naive who believes it all what is in the forum or in our chat.

all what i hear everywhere it sounds like you are a great person. just the one smiling girl every guy wants to meet once in his life if only for some chat. like somebody else said here for a nice end to my day and for some distraction to make me feel happy and special. 
please stay in a good mood for us all and then just for the effort you put into your honest reply i might join you in your room even if it is just for pillow talk and a high quality conversation with your charming company.

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I can verify as one who has had several pvts with Adayla, that she is 100% honest and makes no false promises. If you ask her a question, you get a straight answer with no spin. I go to her when I want to talk about things. If I am the mood for a nude show I know where to go.

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It's not self-promotion, and if you read my post, you will realize it was directed to Adayla. Hence, why not in viewers forum

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Now, now, no reason to get catty; besides, Ada has been mentioned in the viewer forum too, quite a few times actually.

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She looks great naked and is very flexible

Or so she tells me...

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RE: She looks great naked and is very flexible

The proof is in the pudding, as they say... plump, scrumptious, wiggly pudding...

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RE: Adayla

OK, OK, but is there any possibility of actually seeing her boobs?

If you're paying to "Make new friends", chances are, you're not actually making real friends ;)

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RE: Adayla

I'm curious about something. Does making "real friends" mean you have to be physically present with them in order to do so? Who's to say real friendship cannot happen between people who are oceans apart, without ever being in the same proximity? There are several hosts whom I would say have become real, genuine friends, even though we are from distant countries and have never once been in each others' presence except online.

And I don't agree that because you spend money in a host's room for the privilege of seeing her that that automatically shuts out the opportunity for real friendship.

So I'm curious what you define as "real friends."

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RE: Adayla

oh disregard my previous comment if it posts... you did say "chances are" and with that I won't take issue, because chances are you are correct :)

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LOL, disregard my disregard, since CC chose not to display the original reply to you LOL

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RE: Adayla

LOL Jokes on me, NOW it appears! Funny!

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Text Chat

What do you hosts feel about this?

Since it's free, is it your goal to get people out of there asap and into video if possible, or do some of you enjoy just having a nice conversation in there?

I personally always treat it as....text chat is just a way for me to tell the host what I'd like, make sure it's all good with her, and if so, on to private...asap. If I'm in your text chat, I'm in the mood for a sexy show, and the sooner the better...and also trying to be fair to the host...this is how she either fully or partially makes a living...so I don't want to keep her from that....just like I almost never call a friend at work, unless it's something really important.

Okay..so the reason I ask...many of you hosts, along with being very sexy, would also be great to talk to....and over months of looking at forums, I've gotten kindof a vibe or feeling that some of you might really enjoy just chatting away in text....yes, no, maybe?

Meanwhile, I will continue to treat you all with respect, and from my end, text will be done asap....but would some of you like to just have nice talks in text...even though it's free...but at least fun and passes the time?

Thanks for feedback. Have a great one ladies.
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Thanks for response.

Guess I'll play it by ear, but mostly stick to keeping it brief.

Guys are really jerking off just in your text chat? You must be a real sexy talker :) Either that, or you're so darn hot, just the anticipation alone of being with you gets them off. Wow, pretty impressive.

Just messing with you; thanks again...I'm sure you Are hot :) Have a good one.

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Don't click ignore on me elle. I might jack off in free text but I always but just at that special moment I cum in video :P

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might!? :--)

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Not sure many hosts in Non Adult or Glamour will be too happy to free textchatting...lol (as the previos host mentioned). They ll prefer to chat for money... I m in Glamour and it doesnt mean I ll chat in text for ages 5-10 mins is quite enough-then welcome to videochat. I really save my eyes from monitor screen ( for videos- not for free text)

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RE: Text Chat

"This is why for a uninterrupted session a member should use the private one2one. "

Well of course, who needs free chat when we have 121. All members just click on 121 and take your chances, maybe you see good show and maybe you see host typing.

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RE: Text Chat

For me, a host's online room is like her house (whether she be in a studio or actually at home). I would never enter somebody's house without first knocking at their front door. So I just treat text chat as being that 'front door' and all I am doing there is saying "hi, can i come in".

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You are certainly not alone. Most hosts hate free chat. You actually admit it. Thanks for your honesty. I learned a long time ago there is nothing free on this site . Well ok the membership is free, but that's it. When I log on to this site, I expect to pay. It is after all a pay site.

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Yeah, really. Who cares about asking what you like to do.
It's all about what I tell you to do.

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Yes it is a good idea to tell a viewer in free chat that you do not get naked in pvt.

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I agree with all of your post apart from the bit about not phoning friends at work. My friends can feel free to phone me at work because

1. I still get paid and
2. I'm a lazy bastard :D

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"usually guys from here are not much fun to talk with, so if theythey are in video chat its ok"

That said it all.

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Try "u have pets?"
Oh..that was the one after 30 min video..scratch that.

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Thanks for all the responses so far.

As with many things, it seems to just depend on the indivdual.
So here's an idea for the future ladies...(tongue in cheek)...let's set up a code: after the obligatory hru...
Viewer: How are you?
Host: (Wants to get to video asap) "Very horny"
Host: (Wants to text chat for awhile) "Bored". :P

The other thing...Guys jerking off in text chat...wow. This is just...amazing. That is sooo lame and pathetic. To the point, it literally has never crossed my mind...yet apparently it's somewhat common. Sorry you guys have to put up with people like that. On the other hand, it's so pitiful, it's kinda funny.
"Oh baby, the way you just typed that last sentence, so sexy...oh..oh..I'm cumming!" LoL. Crazy.

Thanks again for all responses. Take care ladies, stay positive.

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"Oh baby, the way you just typed that last sentence, so sexy...oh..oh..I'm cumming!"

No, usually such guys ask funny questions like "what do u like in sex?" "do u like younger (older)guys?" "have u ever had sex like that...?" and etc...and yes, I am pretty sure they need some interaction with women for jerking off not just porno-movie.

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PREGNANT WOMEN

Anyone know any pregnant women on here? email me if u do
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try her

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RE: For anonymous

Yes there really was no need to respond to the post Sarafinah wth the army to that jump to your aide...when ever my name is in forum there is an army that jumps to help cut me down loool...

Your a lucky lady my dear keep on keeping them happy :)

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Hmm...Having seen all this, I've now checked out your profile...and you certainly are a lovely lady. You are also very clear, you seem quite sharp, and to be a very nice, down to earth person.

I for one, now plan on visiting you, and very likely we will have nice long, enjoyable session in private. :)

(On a side note...having recently read the topic regarding the usefulness of the forum itself...as there are soo many girls to choose from here, this visit would probably never have occured otherwise, had my attention not been specifically drawn to you due to this forum....because otherwise, it's pretty much just hit or miss.)

Anyway, I'm glad you posted, and am looking forward to visiting you in the future. Take care.

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damn small army,

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RE: For anonymous

An army of manginas

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RE: For anonymous

Only Registered Viewers can post in the Viewers Forum, even though all can read it. Some hosts are members, but most are not.

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RE: For anonymous

she cant answer him in viewers forum so why not answer him here , seems like a good idea to me .

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RE: For anonymous

There are only two ways to answer a member's question now that cc has changed the mailing system for hosts...either the member enters your video so that you can then send him a mail, or you answer here, or he mails you directly. So really if the first and third options are not given then as hosts our only other option is to answer here...

Good for you Sarafinah, takes guts to answer a viewer forum question here. I did it once and the outcome for me was nothing like your outcome, so good for you pretty lady...have a wonderful day and keep smiling.

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ooops ok I said two ways but wrote three..lol good thing I am not an accountant ...lol

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RE: For anonymous

Have fun; what a novel concept around here. Too many people focus on too much negative and not enough positive.

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RE: For anonymous

The "defenders" can only speak from their experience and what they assume is in the host's mind. To hear from a host is most refreshing and enlightening.

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Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

I think there would be less people coming here, but I suspect that most viewers either are unaware of this forum or don't care. So from the standpoint of actual money being spent in video, I do not feel there would be much of a change, if any.
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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

Given that often perhaps only one or two new threads are started each day; and then view this in the context of how popular the site is (based on published rankings of website traffic) the inescapable conclusion is that either the vast majority of people are unaware of or simply ignore the forum (most likely); or read it but aren't sufficiently engaged enough to ever submit a posting. So, but for a (proportionately) small circle of regular users, the public forums are essentially moribund, and their absence is unlikely to have any impact.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there were no boobs?

yes a little less.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

Traffic would decrease I'm sure, but on a very minor scale.

This is the only adult cam site I know of that has a forum and community chat as well...of the major players, I don't know of any that have either one, let alone both. Therefore, since this is...from what I've seen at least, an exclusive feature...I'm sure some people would leave. Again not too many though. Because...

I'm quite sure the Primary reason....no not the Only reason....yes, yes I know cc has all these other wonderful things going for it...but the Primary reason, people are drawn to cc is the price. Because from what I've seen at least....it has by far...the lowest prices out there, at least of the larger sites that I'm aware of.

I for one, love the forums here though :) I have my television and computer in the same room, so I'll often just quickly check them out...and frequently post while watching some tv show...or duriing commericials if it's a really good show. :) The forums can be very interesting and insightful at times. Almost always, Way too negative, but interesting.

Anyway, have a good one.


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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

I do know one that has 2 chat rooms in some way similar to Comm Chat, but it is only for viewers. But they have no forum like we have here.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

Define traffic.

Do you mean traffic as in persons entering videochat sessions (which is THE primary purpose of the site, as this is the only means by which the site makes money)?

Or do you mean traffic as in persons visiting the site just to have something to do, which might include Comm Chat, Forums, Picture-gazing, or VideoChat?

If by traffic you are referring to videochat, I'd have to say NO, or at least not a noticeable impact. Sites which have no forum seem to flourish just as well as does this site. I do not think it will be the forum or lack thereof which impacts traffic, as much as pricing, user-friendliness, and quality of video experience. (Of course there are always though who are enticed into videochat by experiences elsewhere on the site... e.g., a host's name referred to in the forum, or one of those pestering comm chat hosts who swoop in like vultures to feed on new flesh in the comm chat room)

If you mean overall traffic referring to all the site has to offer, then probably yes, there would be a significant decrease. The site would lose those who come mostly for the forum experience.

I for one do not come here only to videochat. Many is the time, all I do is visit the forums. In fact I'm finding my videochat experience decreasing more and more. I spend a lot of time enjoying and participating in the forums. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood for videochat. Sometimes, I have more important priorities on my money than a 30-60 minute fling via webcam. And sometimes, I'm just plain not desiring -- the old libido just ain't what it used to be.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

Traffic meaning viewers or potential viewers coming on site.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

I misstated something. Videochat is not the "only" way the site makes money, I'm sure.... but it is, I'm sure, the primary way. I imagine advertising and marketing have other income-producing avenues, however.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

Absolutely not. Most people aren't going to waste their time reading the forums. They come here for tits and ass, not a messageboard.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

ur so right, most of men use this site for its point : videochatting , only bored peeps with little money waste their time on forums , I find a very big traffic in public forums than videos.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

I will pretend I didn't read what you wrote, was a waste of my time

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

It's not true DirtyPunk. It's Almighty DirtyPunk.
Please address me properly in any future communication attempts.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

I've also had my time wasted in numerous video sessions that all but put me to sleep...the tragedy of course, is that I actually Paid for Those...and I'm not even into sm..(pain) :)

(After 4 of those dull sessions in a row, I was a hair's breath away from completely tossing this site out...but then I had a few good sessions, with some cool hosts...I always say, everything always balances out). :)

But yes, God forbid people use the forums to exercise their minds as well.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

I also hate every sess, so boring always watch the clock and I know allready their texts , all the same,so not sure who's dull here for more than hi stand up;)yawn

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

you're getting paid for it, so what's your beef? will you pay us to entertain you?

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

"I've also had my time wasted in numerous video sessions that all but put me to sleep...the tragedy of course, is that I actually Paid for Those...and I'm not even into sm..(pain) :)"

I know the feeling.

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RE: Do you think traffic to cc would decrease if there was no public forum?

Thanks a lot for your wonderful assessment. Nice to know that every customer here is so highly regarded by you. I think after that comment, every member here would love to know your screenname so we can make sure not to bother ever boring you with our "little money"

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Two things

Our posts in this thread :P

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RE: Two things

sorry

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how stupid do some hosts think people are

I went to a host's free chat, I said hello, I not get a response, then when I said ok I will go, she says, "in video brb".

No I am sorry but when a host is in a video and she types to you, you can see what she is saying, but you are not able to type to her, and yes I know this for a fact.

Ladies if you can not be bothered to speak with someone then please have the guts to say so, do not lie and say your in a video when that is just not true.
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RE: how stupid do some hosts think people are

she wrote to me and I wrote to her.. if she was in video under that name then I would not have seen what she was typing to me. If she was in video in another room then the room I was in should not have been open. I was going to enter her video till she said that she was in a video already.

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RE: how stupid do some hosts think people are

wait your turn don't be a spoiled kid =)

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RE: how stupid do some hosts think people are

Damn it, was that girl me?? :))
If so, I have 2 screen names, and when I get a video in one of my 2 rooms, I have to pause the second room. BUT if you were already in that room that i have paused, I can still type a few words and explain why I can't make a conversation right in that moment, because pausing a session, doesn't kick out viewers that were already inside the room.
So, before jumping so fast to mean conclusions, think there is a chance out there that you might be wrong in what you think!
Have a nice day "not so stupid" ;)

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RE: how stupid do some hosts think people are

You are not as smart as you think. It depends on what sttings she has for her room. it is possible for a room to be set up so that the host can chat to other members while she is in video but most do not do this.

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RE: how stupid do some hosts think people are

"should not have been open" --

To my knowledge, other rooms don't close automatically when a host has a videochat, whether or not she is in 1-2-1. And unfortunately, some hosts maybe forget to close other rooms that are open, or just simply ignore the rule.

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Hi Mr not so stupid. Yes maybe she was on several sites at the same time.Even if she wasnt on video why you are so frustrated calling her a lier? Some just dont beg "come in video" some just ignore textchat cos its cristal clear the point of this site and people like you make it harder. These girls are just being elegant if so, we are not supposed to be rude with members its a rule, so "I dont wanna talk for free with you" beaks this rule , get it? so ur not not even clever or polite. Thank you.

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RE: how stupid do some hosts think people are

Imagine this scenario - you enter a chathost's freechat saying hello or whatever. Same time, she get's someone in video. She has the courtesy to let you know that she is in video. You get it all wrong and go farting in the general forum claiming you are smart. We laugh.

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I LOVE your descriptive answer! ROFLMAO!

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RE: how stupid do some hosts think people are

I am sorry how you are treated. I will try to make it up to you with my personal program.
1. Channel and vent your anger. Best on a punching bag or sparring partner or forum.
2. Breathe and take a break. Go outside and find your place in the universe. Outside its center.
3. Calm down. Find the reason of your anger and frustration.
4. Relax. Be appreciative of what you have. Think about that some situations and people are more complex to be easily prejudged.
5. Be forgiving. Try again and maybe sort it out next time. Everybody gets a second chance.

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I've had that happen to me often and I appreciate the host telling me she was in vid with another viewer no matter if it was on cc or another site. Sometimes I drop in vid anyway and just watch. I see group shows on other sites I go to. There is an advantage to group shows as it is hard to type with one hand. One on one vid is nice but sometimes group shows work better. And of course you can always go to the next model on cc or another site.

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do men actually speak?)))))

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Let me make this loud and clear to all of you who are jumping on my ass without reason. This host was not in video under the name I was talking to her as both her video options where available.

Meaning I could enter either her open session or her one to one session.

So if she was in video in another room under another name or in video on another site then the rules are very clear, when a host is in video somewhere else then she is to close all her rooms on this site.

Members get cursed for jumping into video and expecting things, we get cursed for going to free chat as it is assumed that all members will just sit and talk. Well this was not the case, I went to her free chat to confirm that she will do a simple request, I was not rude to her or nothing, it took her forever to answer and then when she finally did answer it was a two word answer.

Well that is fine but she should not have had that particular room open so a member sits there patiently waiting for a response.

I happen to make a post about a problem I had with a host and all of you jump on me. I did not demand that she toss the other video that she was else where. Simply put she should have followed the rules and closed her room while in a video else where.

I see other members post their complaints demanding that they are paying and that host should do as told and all that crap...and the one and only time I do post of a problem I get cursed out wow. I have seen posts complaining of hosts and giving the hosts name that are a lot harsher than mine and I do not see such coldness towards them.

Yes I had a shit day and no I did not take it out on anyone, I simply wanted to have a nice distraction and this is what I get.

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RE: how stupid do some hosts think people are

Some have "jumped" but the vast majority of responses have been thoughtful, factual, and non-judgmental.

Now here's my judgmental comment. "Knock the chip off your shoulder... get off your high horse... and listen to what people are saying (both members and hosts)."

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When a host is in video, be it open or 121 and does not choose to type only to the specific member in that video then all in the room can see what she types...that same with the member..when he is in video with a host be it open or 121 and he does not choose to type so only the host can see then everyone in the room including those sitting in free chat can see what is being typed...
No...If a host is in video be it open or 121 and a member who is in the free chat types to her then no the host is not able to see it...Some members who were in free chat said that when I was in video be it open or 121 were not even able to type to me until after the video was finished.
I have had members in free chat try to type to me when I was in video be it open and 121 and I did not get anything they typed..
If I am in a video be it open or 121 and I typed to someone who is in free chat then yes they can see it..
Again in all the time I have been here, I have had members repeat to me what the member in the video (be it one to one or open) who chose to type public rather than so only I could see was typing. Not only that but before writing this response and with the help with a few regular members we tested this out to see what could be seen be who when I was in video. This is a big reason that I do not like when members in video type for all to read because it has created so much jealousy with some members because they did not like thinking that another member was getting something they were not (even tho in most cases the jealous member did not ask for the same thing)...lool

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Ahhh, the great controversy: Is private really private?

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10 reasons

10 reasons to avoid paying for nothing.

1. Trusting manginas posting about their favorite hosts

2. Expecting nude show in open in Fetish

3. Expecting nude show in dungeon in open or 121

4. Trusting a domina to do a regular show

5. Expecting a nude show in Glamour

6. Expecting a nude show in little shy

7. Trusting what so called viewers say about non nude host getting naked for them

8. Trusting promises made by a host in any category.

9. Believing any posts made by hosts' apologists

10. By going into a paid video without checking host profile and archive photos.

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RE: 10 reasons

Actually, given the content of your post, your lead in doesn't make any sense. You should have said, "10 Reasons to Pay for Nothing" At least then it would have made more sense with the rest of what you had to say.

If you want to "avoid" paying for nothing, then you should do the opposite of your 10 item list.

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RE: 10 reasons

It was a parody of the 9 reasons post. Sorry you didn't get my humor.

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RE: 10 reasons

Do you know what a parody is?

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RE: 10 reasons

Lame humor? Yup, it was a parody all right.

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RE: 10 reasons

You're right, I didn't get your humor. Sorry. I only glanced at the 9 reasons thread anyway.

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RE: 10 reasons

I guess the best way to "avoid paying for nothing" is to read category explanations well and understand that girls ain't gonna do everything for money...

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RE: 10 reasons

On CC and under pressure and you still got it! :D

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RE: for members

I've seen that girl's tits they were fantastic. And her pussy. Great ass.

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RE: for members

If you give your name here I may come and see you and post about you in viewer forum. :-)
To answer your question I do not blindly believe everything I read in the viewers forum. I have known several occasions where there have been posts saying a host would not strip when she has happily stripped for me without requiring any strong persuading.

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Most members lie when they say they saw a non nude host naked.

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RE: for members

I saw you naked. Oh wait, you are a viewer.

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Being mentioned in the viewer's forum can be a double-edged sword. I wouldn't worry too much about not being mentioned lol.

I know not to believe certain members who post there, and most other guys are just posturing. Once in a while, a member will post reasonably and articulate what he's looking for, and what he has found, and I might find I have some similarities in interest. But for the most part I don't seek information there.

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"I suppose guys on the forum and in community chat aren't that different from guys in real life: they tend to exaggerate their conquests."
That's a very naive generalisation. You suppose wrong and if you knew men in real life you would conclude: Real life guys don't really come here. And the guys already here are not seeking chemistry but satisfaction.

It's a fantasy site - the guys seek and immerge deeply into their fantasy and we creatively create and engulf them in it. Let's keep it that way :)

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I take issue with this statement: "Real life guys don't really come here"

The fact is, we are ALL "real life guys". Real life guys are as varied in their desires and needs and activities as there are people in this world. And so for some, it is enjoying a site such as this. For others it's not. For some it's being "deeply immersed" for others it's just a passing fancy. For some it is a substitute for real life relationships or intimacy, for others it's an indulgent fantasy.

Your generalization is as blatantly steretypical -- and thereby incorrect -- as was Adayla's.

Sorry, Elle. I don't often disagree with you. But on this one I do :)

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"Real life guys don't really come here. And the guys already here are not seeking chemistry but satisfaction.

It's a fantasy site - the guys seek and immerge deeply into their fantasy and we creatively create and engulf them in it. Let's keep it that way :)"

Finally a host that gets it.

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Personally I'm seeking the formula for H2 SO4

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RE: for members

Um..isn't that a formula already?

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hmmm, well maybe the previous record of not usually disagreeing with you still stands after all! LOL

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RE: for members

you are a smart lady

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And very few of us actually "know" the men we meet in "real life" well enough to say they are different from the men here.

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RE: for members

If I was to exagerate I would have to say that I have slept with every female host on this site rather than just the 20,643 that I have done.

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RE: for members

Men lie. So no, I don't trust any claim I read here.

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Women lie too. I've been lied to many many times here by hosts as well as in the outside world by non-hosts. Lying is part of human nature. It doesn't know gender.

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That makes it alright then.

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Alright? You've got to be kidding! No it doesn't make it alright. But you made it as if guys were the only ones who lied, as if it is a gender trait. yeh, some guys lie. but not all. so don't pile all of them into one basket.

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Lying sucks and is wrong in all forms ...all lying does is hurt people .....even when a person lies to be kind ...that still hurts..because the truth always comes out and then when you find out it was all a lie...it does not seem so kind.....simple as that

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>> hi, my lovely guys) hope u are doing well)

I'm gorgeous, not lovely.

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RE: CCmail

Aren't you supposed to close your other room when you get someone in your paid video?

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If you have 2 rooms open and get a pvt in one you must close the other room. I emailed cc and they told me this.

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They SHOULD close the room, but a BRB always sufficed in the past.

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Hmmm....well I do very much wish you girls could mail us members whenever you wished...ie even if we have not visited you in video. It of course would have helped in your situation.

Also I've seen posts from several hosts that I would love to visit...but they wisely don't use their actual screen name...of course this means I don't know who they are, so to try and visit these very interesting ladies, my only option is hit and miss...with all the hosts on cc, that's an awful lot of hit and miss :) So if you ladies could indeed mail us, without having been visited first in video, that would be great...because it could solve that problem. Then once I expressed an interest, ladies like elle, ssgb, T, etc could contact me if they were so inclined. If not, oh well, their choice, but at least they would have the option.

The argument would be too much junk mail. To me, the potential positive far outweighs that negative.

Anyway, that's my take...hope you have a good one.

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I have got ccmail from a host that I have not video before, sorry host above, but for your information only

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I believe it is a relatively recent change. Maybe you received ccmail from a host before the change was enacted

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" Sorry guys really not take it personally but so far only my regulars know my nick here and in our sessions I really want to absolutely focus on them to give them a nice unique experience every time they choose to join me in my room."

I have no doubt you are password protected for both open and 121 video. You have enough regular viewers that you do not need any new business. But there are many other hosts that do welcome new business.

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How did you get members names, which never had video with you, before CC changed rule?

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By trolling Comm Chat

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Boob Joke

A wife asks her husband for money for a boob job.

The husband says "Why don't you just rub toilet paper between your breasts?".

"How would that work?", the wife asks.

"It's working great on your butt", said the husband, just before the wife smacked him upside the head with a blunt instrument.
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I always wondered why my butt was so big

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9 reasons

Here are 9 reasons for never paying more than $3.00 per minute for 121. In no particular order

1. Monikababe
2. Zoraide
3. Shyhottie
4. Sensualice
5. Myreea
6. RealEmotion
7. AnitaBella
8. xxkarinxx
9. hotplay4u
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RE: 9 reasons

thats a list of some very beautiful ladies .

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RE: 9 reasons

Cute :) and agree. While hosts who charge more, may be awesome, there are just tons of them who don't charge as much, who can meet all the same needs.

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RE: 9 reasons

And your point is?

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RE: 9 reasons

no thank you, I know 9 more

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Really? You don't get the point?

Let me spell it out for you. If you are considering paying over $3/min for a 121 session with a host, you might consider one of these ladies first. You may have a wonderful time and end up spending less.

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Are you their studio boss?

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RE: 9 reasons

None of the girls on this list work in a studio.

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RE: 9 reasons

and there in a few different countrys .

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LouiseLane
xHottieOnex
ExclusiveLady
FreckleBABE

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That's because it's not humble, as you have pointed out lol. But why should it be?

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I pay you 50 cents

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RE: 9 reasons

Wal-Mart girl? My kinda girl :D

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I'm here for the party

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Not sure what I should be "getting over". I was just celebrating the fact that these 9 gorgeous, smart, nice and SEXY girls are fortunately in my price range.

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RE: 9 reasons

Excellent list. You have very good taste.

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:* I wonder what ur screenname is lol. Uve been payng me compliments for ages on here, and i assume ure one of my regulars, but WHOOO?)

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OMG have I really been on here for ages??? Maybe I need to rethink a few things.
Though I have been to the promised land, I am not a regular....just a fan

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In this case, thank u, Fan :P Kiss:*

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Your are surpirsed????? Omg dear look in a mirror.
And you are also soooo nice.

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Anitabella is a very gracious and well-mannered lady. Which makes it all the more surprising when she turns into a wildcat. :P

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I don't like your list by the way and have my own list but will not post here for promotion, check out the viewer forum

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RE: 9 reasons

What's wrong with AnitaBella? I enjoyed spending time with her few years ago

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Nothing wrong with her...she is fantastic..... its a list of this guys favorites

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

Only time dont rate is when i pop into a room and model is honest and tells me she is busy already and i leave fast

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

I always rate a host after a video session and always give 5*. Partly to redress the balance from those members that give 1* for the most unjustified of reasons. And partly because every host is only trying to earn money to the best ot their abilities, equipment, temperament etc. and is not my business to compromise that intention.

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"Partly to redress the balance from those members that give 1* for the most unjustified of reasons"

How do you know how and why other members rate?

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

Because, not infrequently, there are individual postings or forum threads where members feel an irresistable urge to explain/brag/warn (delete as appropriate) why they give 1*. And also because I have experienced on several occasions when another member joins an ongoing video session and, not writing in private, says "your hair colour is different to the pics/you're not wearing the dress from profile pic/your frame rate is too slow (delete as appropriate)..I'm going to rate you 1* ...bitch". Did I forget to also mention what 'charmers' they are?!

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

But certainly not in ever case or even in more than a very few.

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

The same here for the reasons you mentioned but also because I have no desire to help the type of members you mention in your reply below.

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

Always, and fairly.

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

Same. 100% of the time...and fairly...from me at least, you get what you give.

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

Agreed. The range is 1 to 5 and the service I recieve for the money I pay also, unfortunately, ranges from 1 to 5. Who posts comments on the host's boards? I really appreciate those other members who warn about the less
then srupulous hosts who promise much and deliver little.

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

all the time i rate , and 99% im guessing it a 5 star rating .

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

Whenever they suck enough to motivate me to it.

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RE: How often do viewers rate their Chathost?

I rate her every time.

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Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

As a viewer, I know I have 0 influence here or any cam site. That's just the way it is. However, over time I've learned the site rules that apply to members and more importantly to the hosts. I know the culture of cc and other sites I frequent. I know pricing policy and trends. I am a firm believer in knowing as much as possible about cc or any site I belong to, that I will increase my chances of having a good time while spending less money. I'm not cheap but have a limit on what I can afford to spend. Going into a site blind can be very expensive. One can spend a lot of money unnecessarily.

I make sure I read everything I can from the Site Map, ask support questions I may have, make friends with a few hosts and try to get good information from them. I've found that if you treat a host with respect and spend some money in their paid videochat, most will give you valuable information that will enhance your experience on site. And I've found that the hosts on cc as a group have been the most helpful of all the sites I've been to over time. So it pays to know how to navigate this site or any other site.
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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

If I may ask...what does the contents of your post have to do with the title?

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

Nothing any viewer suggests has any impact on how this or any other site operates. It's best to know the way a site operates to the extent possible to maximize your viewing experience.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

i can understand being blind and visiting a webcam site could be a expensive waste of time but the rest of the message i don't really get.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

I never said I spend money in non adult.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

I said by knowing the pricing policies and culture of any cam site, you can spend your money more wisely.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

Actually, I do not agree with you. as I've seen some changes over time of things that have been suggested. Problem is a lot of the changes take quite a while to put into place. And just because someone has an idea, doesn't mean that everyone shares that idea as needed or important.

My experience is that CS does listen to everything we send them. Of course they don't just jump at every suggested change. They need to make sure it's in the best interest of the site as a whole, as well as it is a do-able suggestion. Changes cost money, I'm sure, especially if it requires new software or technology, or paying someone knowledgeable enough to make the changes.

So my recommendation is: if you think something can be done better: suggest it. If it is reasonable and do-able, you may see it in place at some future point. Of course, you may be too old to have any fun here any more beyond looking and drooling, but hey, who's to say it won't happen? ;)

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

"My experience is that CS does listen to everything we send them"

What experience? Please explain?

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

i agree with LIG. 121, Cam2cam, sound, restrictions on the no. of concurrent sessions, bigger video windows, were all introduced follwoing suggestions by members. Sometimes these changes have taken a while to implement and CC does not blindly make every change that is suggested.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

A Member's examples are some of what I am thinking of.

Also, I was referring to the fact that every time I message them with a problem, or a complaint, they are usually quick to reply, and generally they seem to make an honest attempt to answer the email. Once it was quite clear that I got a simple "form letter" response when I was having a problem, and I called them on it, so they replied again in a clearly thoughtful reply and solution to the problem. At other times, CC and I have worked together over a string of emails to resolve a particular problem. Sometimes the problem has been on their end and they have corrected it after my message to them.

And I have to say that at times when I have been censored for something in the forums, CC has occasionally taken the time to message me personally to explain their actions. At times when I have complained about something here in the forums, they have responded to my complaint by CCmail either to explain the problem or to say they are working on it.


I have found Customer Service at CC more responsive and more genuinely concerned about the viewer comments than any other site I have been on.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

Sorry I have to disagree. All of the changes you mention were a result of offering what their competitors have. I joined this site in 2000 and have never received a form letter. But I do agree cc has the best customer service of any site I have ever visited.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

I doubt it's simply because CC Scouts were out and about checking what other sites had... I've been a member since 2001, and in the forums, I have seen member after member as well as host after host asking for certain things, many of which, eventually, became implemented. Had folks not wanted these changes or expressed interest in them, no matter how many other sites may have had them, I seriously doubt CC would have invested the time and resources to developing them.

The form letter, received on numerous occasions was of the essence: "Clear out your cache, update your Flash, blah blah blah." When I finally called them on it, they sent me a bonafide, genuine, helpful response and we engaged in a process of resolving the issues I was having.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

OK I do agree that hosts and members asking for certain things mattered. But, the competition for other sites was more of a factor. If those members and hosts did not get the things they asked for, maybe many would have left here for the other sites that had more of what they wanted. And yes I agree that if both members and hosts did not want a certain thing, it was not going to happen. A case in point, free public video.

As far as the form letter you say you got, maybe I'm missing something or I'm just old and senile, but in my memory, I have only received direct replies to any questions I may have had But we agree customer service is very good, so let's leave it at that.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

regarding the form letter, most of which in my semi-ignorant lack of computer savvy even knew the "answer" had nothing at all to do with the "problem."

I have over the course of years had numerous problems accessing this site, or certain parts of the site. Invariably, after contacting CS the standard response has been (more often than not) the email response I have indicated: regardless of what the problem was.

The real point that I'm making is not to harp on them for a form letter response, but to mention that they do listen, they do respond, and even if at times their response has been less than adequate, they will eventually respond with an appropriate response if pressed. Sometimes, I've had the feeling that Customer Service is buying time to research the issue by sending out a form letter to let customers know that their email has been received.

Over the years, some of the problems I've had have been: Logging in, accessing videochat, being able to communicate in videochat, having credit card approved, viewing the archives and/or enlarging the archives, ccMail notifications. Some have been because of inadequacies on my PC and/or internet, while others have been a problems on CC's end.

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

"Our Mission
4. To listen to the CamContacts.com community of Viewers and Chathosts, with the aim of continuously making it a better place to visit "

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RE: Trying to make or suggest changes on cc is a waste of time

"The CamContacts Network ...created by its members ...run by its members ...for its members."

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Dungeon!

I just browsed the dungeon and read ads and profiles. Of 68 live only 1 was a submissive. Her ad read "submissive gurl " The other 67 was 100% dominatrix. There were 5 or 6 I recognized from Glamour. I guess the 2 categories are interchangable. And who would have thunk that? P
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RE: Dungeon!

thunk hahaha

THOUGHT!!!

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RE: Dungeon!

Definition of THUNK

dialect past and past participle of think

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RE: Dungeon!

Well I'm actually with host on this one.

Also from the internet. "It has, however, never been used in Standard English and its use would not make for effective communication in formal writing."

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RE: Dungeon!

It's a colloquialism at least here in the USA

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My Fav Hosts of All Time

I have compiled a list of my fav hosts of the last 5 Years on CC who are still listed in my favs even though a few have left.Varous critera was used to get my order but here it is the list.Feel free to agree or disagree.

SWEETYOLGA
SASHAVONTEASE
ILIGHTRIVERI
LADYBOND
KATRINA
SWEET4USEXY
NATALIENJOY
LAZERGIRL
ECSTASY
XROSENROTX
TINNYMARINA
SPRINGWIND1
VANILLASKYXX
UKMISTRESS
MARGARET
BOOTYSUPREMME (KMISSDADA)
SOLITARYSOUL
TITANIA
00ADA4LUXURY
MOLEONTEAT
JAKLINKANADY
XSUNRISE
ALONEGIRL
LIENDAJOY
ELEGANCEXX
CUTEKITTEN11
KISSABLELADY
CUTEGIRL25
PRETTYCHARM (DELIGHTLY)
SWEETCURLYXX
SXEBROWNEYES
KINKYHOTWET
SASHULYA
PRISONEROFMORE
ANANDA
ABIGBUSTYGRL (SEXYCOUPLE )
NOISY GIRL
MIRACLEDOLL
GREENEYEDMOM
REDFLOWER2
JUST MIRACLE (BEAUTYMARIYA)
PUREIMAGE
YOURSLAVE89
SHYBOOTZ
SEXYPAM4U
LOVEOFWINDS
SUNDAYSMILE
BLONDALENKA
KBABYDOLL
UNFORGETABL
CLUBNI4A
BBWSNIFUN
MOSCOW WIFE
CUTEBABEUK
PERFECTGIRL6
ELSA777
HOTANDSWEET
CUTEDOLL11
PUREINSTINCT
SEXXYLORA
PELAGEYA
FABULOUS WOMAN
BLONDBABY55
MSTROUBLE
SPBEAUTY
CHERRYCOO
TRUEDREAMS
BLAZENGIRL
ALEXIS4U
WILDPIECE
MONYASTYLE
RROXXANNE
MIRACLECAT
KSHYBLONDE
LUNALSYOURS
UREROTICADREAM
YOURCHARMING
OBSESSI0N1
LUCKYPRETTYCHIK
FREESIA
XINNAMORATAX
STELLABELLA
DREAMGIRL2
CRYSTALDREAM
JULIANE
ALISONUK
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RE: My Fav Hosts of All Time

wow, you must be rich or either lucky, cool

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RE: My Fav Hosts of All Time

Ant therein lies the wonder of CC. There are approximately 75 hosts on your list out of which I only recollect having visited 4 of them, but I could compile my own list of 75 names, probably many of which you have never visited. And many others can compile their own lists, of familiar and unfamiliar names. The point being there is such variety here, there is no excuse for anybody to be a dissatisfied customer. Even if a visit to a host proves disappointing for whatever reason, we must surely all have at least 1 (and often 3, 7, 10, 20!!) hosts that we know will satisfy us EVERY time. And if somebody hasn't, then perhaps they should consider the problem lies elsewhere than with the hosts.

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RE: My Fav Hosts of All Time

I was thinking exactly the same thing. I do not think I have visited any of those hosts and that is a pretty long list. So maybe that old adage "There is someone for everyone" is true.

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a high percentage of them have been gone for some time

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lmao, the irony is clearly accidental, but for someone who is basically available to anyone in the world with an internet connection, the last thing you will ever be is "exclusive"

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RE: My Fav Hosts of All Time

Too much comfort can eliminate any chance of new video business coming to your pvt.

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Surely you simply listed all the hosts ever on cc, quite a list from which i only recognised a couple, therefore i would have to disagree.

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I think you forgot someone.

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RE: strip hi-low

Good question. I've been on the fence about doing this myself. Would be different, and sounds fun as a change of pace; particularly if the host is skilled at doing a sexy strip...but if it's gonna take 20+ min altogether, not sure if it'd be that great.

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I'm not a big fan of strip hi lo because I've had some games take up to an hour and the girl was only topless and using a handbra.

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Always respect you two, and find it interesting what you have to say.
I'm also far from naive, and realize this is just a job...though I must say, I don't know that I've ever seen a response quite so mercenary.

Oh well, no worries. Just...smile ice queen, it only hurts on Mondays.

Sorry, just messing with you a bit :) Again, much respect. Have a good one.

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"I have to say that I am not playing strip that much"

Wow a domina not striping, what a surprise. LMAO

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" Or only a Dom?!" You just proved what I suspected. Have a nice day.

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In other words, if a lady proves to be intelligent and witty, along with having a strong personality and an above average educational background, she must be a Domina.
Come to think of it, the guy's conclusion is partially true, since anything with a penis is s*** easy to manipulate and toy with, by the type of lady described above. If she REALLY wants to, that is. Of course, you don't have to be a Domina for that. It's just how smart ladies roll. lol, trollololol.

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"and you have credits left we will play along and can be anything you need us to be as long we have time and mood."

credits left and host's mood says it all. And you will play along until there are no credits left. Been there, done that.

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It depends on the member and host that are playing...and how you play it...sometimes it can go very fast if you as host loose quickly...

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if you and the member agree to play differently then it can take a bit longer...not everyone member plays the game the routine way....sometimes other games are played if the member is removing his clothes when he looses too...

the game can be played without taking advantage of the member...you simply talk about it before hand...if he only wants to play the normal way then the game can be over quickly..if he wants to play different ways then you do...but the biggest thing to hosts is ....dont stall and dont try to screw the member....it is strip hi-low that means when you loose remove the clothing the rules to the game are very clear....it say be prepared to be nude...does not say remove clothing and cover up...

that game is fun too bad some hosts use it to screw over members and make it not fun!!!

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"that game is fun too bad some hosts use it to screw over members and make it not fun!!!"

Amen to that!

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sometimes mine have lasted longer even after we both nude as we then play additional games of something else. It will always be the member's choice of what he wants to do. But sort that out right from the get go, before the video even starts if the member comes to free chat first. That way there is no problems and all have fun. Bottom line is as long as there are those who use the game to screw members over then not many members will want to play the game.

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Happily Married?

How many REALLY happily married (first marriage) couples do you know? I don't know many.
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7 out of 7, honestly. They have all been together for quite a number of years as well. Fyi, these are all good friends, people I indeed know very well. I know 3 other married couples who have been divorced...they are all quite happy as well.

Now to be completely honest, upfront and accurate as possible...Of the 7, 3 of those couples are out of town...Way out of town, in each case, so obviously I don't see them too often. Nevertheless...people talk, of course, and all indications are that they are doing fine. The other 4 I see frequently, and while they have their ups and downs, all in all, they seem quite happy.

Of course, we've all heard stories, about the nightmare behind the scenes, that we never knew about....however, I'm pretty darn perceptive, and all I can say, without being a fly on the wall, is that they all certainly seem happy, and I'm convinced that they are.

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RE: Happily Married?

Do you happen to know the reasons why all those married couples you know got married?

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guessing of course,but like most i assume.love,comfort,financial,
desperation,convenience,parental etc.any,all or none of these :--)

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Hmm...yep, mostly.

Btw..remembered 2 more out of town couples, that fit. So 9 long term first time, evidently very happy couples. Still 3 happy couples that were formerly divorced.

So I thought about this at some length...wrote down the couples initials, stared at them and looked for common ground, etc. Here's what I came up with. Btw, if you want a more detailed answer, I can give those initials with a comment or two after each. This is in regards to the 9, not the 3 formerly divorced.

So what brought them together. Equally as important, I noticed, and I believe is what did Not bring them together.
Here's what did: Love...truly, they were all, and still are in love. Secondly..in 6 out of 9 casse Religion...didn't bring them together, in and of itself, but was a key factor.
Third: All of the guys, and most of the ladies are easy going people. You could also call that tolerance I guess...they Don't however, let themselves be walked over, but they do have good tact....good diplomacy, even tempers.

Here's what didn Not bring them together:
Money. Most are what I'd call upper middle class...good money, but certainly not rich. Two of the guys were definitely not well off at the time...actually struggling.
Looks. Beauty is all in the eye of the beholder as the saying very correctly goes...and this varies amonst these people naturally...however, I'd pretty safely say that none of the guys are knock-outs. Sure, some are considered fairly attractive, but not overwhelming so. The women: 1 very attractive, 1 fairly attractive, the other 7, definitely not.
Pregnant: Zero. None of them---for sure--100% on this--got married due to pregnancy. 8 of 9 ended up having various amounts of kids later on in marriage--(one couple just didn't want kids at all)--but none were married just because of this.

There you go :) It just so happens that I'm very perceptive, and analytical, so could give you hopefully, a good response. As I originally said, and as someone later restated...they could all just be happy on the surface, and hate each other in private...but I really doubt it. Again...2 things on that...I really am very keenly perceptive, so I would probably figure it out...also as I mentioned...these are very good, long time friends....meaning they are pretty darn open in front of me...they Do have their bad moments, but overall, they are all quite happy. Plus if there were serious problems, the guys would very likely just tell me.
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Interesting and detailed answer - thanks.
I'm all for love and people choosing to devote the rest of their lives to one another, I'm just curious about marriage in general though. Being a religious institution, and considering that a great many people aren't really very religious in our society today, I just wonder sometimes why couples bother to get married at all. I mean, if a man and woman truly love each other, they don't really need to prove it anyone else by going through that particular ritual, do they?

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RE: Happily Married?

I wouldn't marry at all. Although I like the idea of wearing a fairy-tale white dress, sexy white lingerie, stockings etc. (once in a life-time would do, especially when you are young and look good )

Perhaps I could marry because of a mutual child. If not- I strictly prefer long-term relationships where partners are faithful to each other and are together because they like it and not because they cannot find someone else.

Other reasons I can think of- tax breaks for married couples and the pressure the society and relatives put on you from a certain age. Shamefully enough, I myself regard men who are 36 and older and have never been married as immature and somehow 'defect' *shame*.

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speaking for myself, I have married out of feelings. And the guy is really a dream come true. I like his physical appearance and he is an easy-going person of approx. my age.
The only thing I can complain about- the lack or freedom. I mean, I sometimes cannot do what I like- going to places etc. He is not enthusiastic about some (normal) things I would like to do and this constant judgement is kinda oppressing.

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-Not sure I know of any. My parents have been together for like 30 years- constant arguments with the rare moments of reconciliation.

-My friends got married because of the child; after birth (a couple of years ago) they hardly have sex and constantly argue. Both are well over 30.
- Another couple, well-off,- 30 years together- they hardly bear each other but stay addicted to their strange relationship.

Strangely, ppl who are kinda outsiders, for example a very plump girl and a very thin man- they seem to be happy. (I know 2 couples who seem to be in a relaxed, happy marriage).

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8.2 hetero,4 lesbiam,2 gay & 1 mixed. :--)

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emm...excuse me...but 1 mixed...it's gay+lesbian or what o.O ?

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8.2 hetero tisme ? Does that mean you don't know the 9th couple very well or should they really be in the mixed category :P

And just to stop anyone pointing it out to me I know he really meant 8 couples and 2 were heterosexual.

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RE: Happily Married?

I know some happily married, but all those people didn't have any complicated circumstances: immigrant background/ visa issues, a child from a pervious relationship, past as a camgirl:), financial difficulties.

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For a open minded fair and whole person all those things are really not issues at all!

Let's strongly believe in that and respect ourselves.:)

Just for some people these issues may be the source of dependance on their partner at some points...
of course it all depends on the partner you are with:)

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Marriage is first step for divorce... thats why i never agree to marry my wifey, we just happy to live together 14 years, why spoil all this with getting married

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I know two couples, they been together for over 25 yrs and they still are happy, they are open honest and faithful to each other, the only time they do anything behind each others back is when they are buying each other something or planning a something special to surprise each other.

they have told each other of fantasies and have also fulfilled fantasies together. Usually when you ask couples individually if they happy or have complaints. these two couples have said when asked together or asked individually if they are truly happy and they always say yes and they say it is because they are so open honest and faithful to each other. They talk about everything and do not go to bed angry with each other. They admit they have had bumpy patches but have worked those bumps out and those bumps in the road have made their relationship stronger..

They still hold hands...they always kissing each other...they trust each other completely...they respect each other...they actually listen to each other and hear each other....and they do not take each other for granted. they did say that there was a time that one of them was not feeling satisfied sexually, so they talked about it and asked what could be done to help and it did help.

they are very much sexual with each other....have gone on trips and camping and I have even stayed with each couple for periods of times during their marriage, the last time being a few months ago, and to my surprise they are as happy together as when they first started out, in fact they seem happier because of what they have built together.

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RE: Happily Married?

while I am happy for them, it sounds like boring, solid middle-class love life to me.... holding hands, kissing in public, showing understanding... *yawn*

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Well maybe that is boring to you, but try sleeping in their home when they are doing more than kissing and holding hands, what you thought I would talk of them making out in public. Well they have done that too, if you read the whole response you would see that they do enjoy more than just the kissing and holding hands. Their sex life is very much alive and active.

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RE: Happily Married?

Maybe their passion is triggered by the presence of other people.
There are people who like kissing at parties or when they have guests.
That's the question- are they still so much in love alone in their house?

I personally like to see happy couples but not when they constantly touch and kiss- vulgar.

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RE: Happily Married?

There is nothing vulgar about seeing a couple who have gone thru hell and back, holding hands, giving each other a kisses, telling each other that they love each other, showing each other affection, putting little notes in the lunches that they made for each other for work, or writing little notes on a mirror when one wakes up and heads off to work before the other is awake, as well as other things they do to let the other know they are special. The one couple has suffered thru a great loss that many couples dont recover from and end up splitting up from, but this couple supported each other thru it are still very much together and not just pretending to be happy.
No their passion is not only triggered by the presence of other people. Many times I have come into the house and seen them sitting watcing tv holding hands, or cuddled together watching tv. They do not only do it when they have guests or at parties. You make it sound like they are making out infront of people and that is not so.
As one of the Husbands of the two couples said to someone when he was teased for giving his wife a kiss on the cheek, "if I want to give my wife a kiss on her cheek or even on her mouth and tell her that I love her then I will do so"
I am not sure why you would think that a couple who still hold hands or gives each other a kiss is so vulgar. You make it sound like they are making out and pawing each other in public, and that is not the case.
Maybe you are not the type who wants to have someone show you that they still love you and are happy to be with you, but to me seeing such displays of affection between a couple that have been together for well over 25 yrs. is very refreshing to see and is very rare to see.

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RE: Happily Married?

Ok, I do not know them. Besides, you sound like a psychologist who analyses couples' behaviour:)

I believe there is a thin line that separates real feelings from showing off in public. I also like it when I am in the mood and my bf holds the door for me, kisses me in public or holds my hand but some ppl overdo it.

Example- a while ago I sat alone on a bench in a park (its spring after all and I like flowers and greenery) and a medium-young couple (around 30 y.o.) sat in front of me on the grass, although there was plenty of free benches or space around and started to kiss.
It is not that I am extremely offended but I have a romantic streak and I would prefer my private moments- sun, music in mp3-player and flowers than watching two intrusive kissing strangers.

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RE: Happily Married?

No I am not a psychologist nor an analyst of couples. I just happen to know these two particular couples my whole life.

I agree that some couples over do it and some couples just put on a front and I really do not see the point in pretending to be happy, and as for those who over do it well that is their business.

But with these two couples I and those who know them can say they are still happily married. They are not one of those couples that over do it nor do it just because people are around.

It is very rare to find couples that have been married a long time that are truly happily married. I don't know why you are so determined to discredit that I know of two couples who are still happily married, or that it exists.

Just because you don't know any does not mean they don't exist. The thread was started and the question asked. I am simply answering.

If I did not know for sure then I would not have responded to the thread.

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RE: Happily Married?

I do not know why are you determined to think I am attacking your point of view or question the happiness of the couples.

I am just sitting here and trying to imagine how their relationship functions.
I somehow do not belong to the people who hear something and start to right away exclaim Ohhhh how sweeeeeeeet...together ahhh!
Perhaps because I have been on CC for too long and know of people's sins too much lol:)

For example, if I saw one of the husbands in my chatroom with pants down, I would discredit their happyness. For me personally it would be a shitty deal if my husband came here in order to keep going the romantic happiness in the family.....whatever the circumstances.

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I was simply responding to the original posters question... of "How many REALLY happily married (first marriage) couples do you know? I don't know many."

you are the one that started in writing giving the impression that you doubted and you directed it at me and all my responses. my response had nothing to do with anyone being on here, it was simply saying yes I know two couples and that is it wonderful and rare to see people that are Happily married and still in first marriage.

If you had not directed your comments to me and my responses then, I would not have said anything to your comments and just chalked it up to your opinion and what you have seen, simple as that. But then you come up with assuming i am a psychologist and/or an analyzer of relationships.

As far as I am concerned if a person is on here behind their partners back then obviously that person is not in a happy marriage.

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American hosts vs Russian and other eastern European hosts.

I speak only for myself. I am here because I prefer the girls from the east over American hosts. I interact with American women on a daily basis in my home area. The only way I can interact with any Russian women is on line. There are also many more Russian girls to choose from. So for mostly practical reasons, I prefer Russian and other European hosts over American hosts.

This is not an attack of any kind on American hosts. I am only stating my preference for Russian hosts.
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RE: American hosts vs Russian and other eastern European hosts.

ok thanks for that. :--)

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I never said I don't like American hosts. I said I prefer Russian and other eastern European hosts, because I can interact with American women every day, but the only way I can interact with Russian girls is here on cc.

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Yes, completely agree. I also live in USA, and being with these girls, is a nice change of pace from real life. I actually worked with russian girl here for about 6 months, and she was awesome, great girl. Very, very sharp; was going to a private college...very funny, nice person, great work ethic...and yes, also very cute.

Still whoever I have a session with, will be based on all the usual factors: looks, price, what they'll do, etc. So far it has not been a usa girl though; and indeed this is definitely due to availability...usually find about 10 usa girls on, spread across all categories, and roughly 120+ russian ladies. If there were 100+ usa girls, sure I could find someone, but that's just the way it is.

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RE: American hosts vs Russian and other eastern European hosts.

Great post, and dead on.
Yeah, price as always, matters alot.

English matters quite a bit as well...if I really enjoy a girl, I'll certainly return...and their english does not by any means, have to be perfect, but if they have a translator..and that's sooo obvious when they do..then I will probably not go back, unless everything else was incredibly good.

What else...oh, those two you pointed out..hadn't checked them out until now....neither one is on now, but oh my goodness those are lovely ladies...wow. :) Will have to visit them later if I can.

Anyway, great post...lots of long time members, but always interesting to hear from you long time hosts as well. Take care, have a great one.

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Oh agreed! His original post was regarding Russian and Eastern European hosts vs american specifically...but yes a hot girl is a hot girl, regardless of where she's from.
Heck, if she's smoking hot...she could be a green-skinned girl from Orion, and I'd certainly be happy :)
Seriously though, I have many hot memories of lovely Asian, African American (black), Latin girls, etc. Each very different, but all very lovely.

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RE: American hosts vs Russian and other eastern European hosts.

Thanks for sharing.

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RE: American hosts vs Russian and other eastern European hosts.

Yup, that's what forums are for, otherwise would kinda defeat the purpose :)

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RE: American hosts vs Russian and other eastern European hosts.

Sounds like if you not Russian nor eastern European than you might as well not be here. Well it is good to know. No point in wasting my time here any longer.

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RE: American hosts vs Russian and other eastern European hosts.

Ohhh...I at least, for sure didn't say that, if fact quite the opposite :)

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RE: American hosts vs Russian and other eastern European hosts.

No A Member that was not directed at you that was to the whole post all together..:)

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RE: American hosts vs Russian and other eastern European hosts.

I know...it was just in case you hadn't had a chance to read mine. Well anyway, don't leave. I'm sure you won't, but I, of course, get your point. Hugs. :)

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Any ideas?

Dear members, do u have any ideas for hosts shows? Anything that u always wanted to see or seen before and that is impressed u so much? But something not ordinary.
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RE: Any ideas?

do you mean recorded video or live show?

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RE: Any ideas?

live show

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Hmmm, this takes a lot of thought. I think I'd have to say, I would like to see a host swinging from the chandelier, doing a double backward flip to the floor, then doing somersaults from one end of the room to the other, dressed in a pink flamingo costume, wearing a Derby Hat, and smoking a cigar.

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How about a full nude show

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And this from a domina, lol.

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RE: Any ideas?

You are a dungeon host.

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RE: Any ideas?

Dungeon is for both Dominas and subbies. What's your point?

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RE: Any ideas?

Are you her spokesperson?

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RE: Any ideas?

what's YOUR point? She made a comment, didn't try to answer for 1badbabe

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Im amazed you haven't gotten a ton of genuine responses. You are very intelligently and sincerely asking...basically at it's core, why people are here. You pay money to see a show, so what would you like out of that show...I always respect hosts that ask these questions, and it's just plain smart to do so.

Anyway...my answer: Uniforms, costumes, sexy dresses. Those can all be sexy as hell, and are not ...common. So: seeing you in cheerleader outfit, schoolgirl, maid, etc all can be very, very sexy. Also, one of those real nice, short, low cut dresses, very hot.

One other thing: sexy talk can be great. Use your imagination...tell me what sexy things you'd do to me if I was there, or what you'd like me to do to you, etc. ...only if you have audio though; effect is mostly lost in text. But if you know how to talk sexy, that's great...I can give you things to say in session, but better of course, if you can come up with them on your own.

Great post, I think. Thanks for asking it. Take care.

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Ahhh..be creative :)
Schoolgirl: Plaid skirt and solid white blouse...though any color would do.
Nice dress: Just 1 item. Dosen't even have to be all that nice, just short and sexy.
Sexy Secretary or Schooteacher: Skirt, nylons, blouse...maybe a blazer as well. Glasses if you have them.
You must have some of these things. Or not, but I'm guessing you do. So if you wish, have fun with it.
See ya. Have a good one, stay positive :)

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most of us have items in our closet..to make a outfit..like a secretary, student, nice dress for an evening out...you don't have to wear it all the time online, just once in a while.. it is amazing what one can put together with every day clothes in our closet...just about every female has a short skirt...even school girl can be a pleated skirt doesn't have to plaid..

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RE: Any ideas?

If you work at home & have a laptop and a balcony, or hidden spot in a garden, it would be nice to see you acting in daylight. That`s what i am looking for.

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RE: Any ideas?

Along similar lines, I once saw an amazing show on another site where the host was performing using her laptop with built-in cam, in a hotel lobby. Wouldn't be allowed here, because of the rule about unregistered persons appearing on cam: it was a busy lobby, and a very daring show.

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what did she do in lobby? strip? lol

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lol...no, that would have drawn to much attention to herself. The only thing she wasn't wearing was knickers, and she'd positioned herself so the table and laptop monitor itself obsucred what she was doing from the people in the lobby; but the camera itself clearly showed her playing with herself, whilst the mic picked-up all the innocent conversations going on around her. And once or twice she had to just discreetly position a newspaper to further conceal things from public view, but not that of the viewers online. It was all very erotic.

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other high rises? Hey, they'd probably enjoy the show too (with some binoculars maybe) :D

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how long

come on people get a life and post something here interesting to discuss and read about instead of sissy and price stuff. Lets begin with, how long have you been here at cc and how long you expecting to stay here at cc. If your answer is over 5 years being here, all I can say, get out more and if your planning on staying 5 more years, all I can say is stay, you have already past in getting a life outside the virtual world
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No offence, but this doesn't conform to my definition of "interesting" either.

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Yeah. That kind of sucked.

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Mr Dillon, Mr Dillon.

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2004 so I guess I have no life and I'll probably stay until the day I die so no point in me getting a life. But I have to agree that your post wasn't really any more interesting than the other posts but at least you are trying.

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Further off topic:
What is it with chicks and star tattoos these days?

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A quick snapshot of US hosts.

There was some mention of US hosts on a previous thread, so I just did a search by country @ 5pm EDT and found 15 on line. Of that total, 5 were gay guys, 1 boy/girl couple, 1 tranny and the rest were dominas in Dungeon or Fetish. There were none in the Girl categories.

But that's just fine for me, I prefer he very sexy girls from Russia and eastern Europe.
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the us girls are usually higher priced. And some "usa" girls are really in Europe! Look at the time on their profiles and also the electical outlets sometimes visible behind them in the wall

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not sure about this ip address as a locator as lilstar lists USA as country of origin and she'sRussian. There is another I cannot recall did the same listing USA but when she returned to Russia changed over.

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Yeah, plus supply and demand, there are so few of you girls, vs say Russian where there's like 130 or more at any given time. Good English..with of course, no translator, is certainly a big plus as well.

On other side of coin though, Romanian girls ...at least that I've encountered, speak great english. Last couple of sessions were with them in fact.
Anyway, take care.

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Yeah, some of you russian girls do fine with english...I wish in many cases, that translators were not needed, but that's not everybody, and just the way it is.

It's true too, that many europeans speak several languages, while most of us usa people have a hard enough time just with english :)
Actually, I have several friends who speak multiple languages, but that's not common.

As far as what you see in your room though at times...all I know, is that sometimes in my case I hit a wrong key, because I'm trying to hurry and it's ..um...dark :) lol.

Anyway, I think you guys are great, and much respect.
Take care.

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RE: A quick snapshot of US hosts.

I'm not Russian :)

There are mistakes that cannot be blamed on the "it's dark" :P like the huge difference between "your" and "you're", "they're" and "their"...and so on, and so forth.
There are typos, clearly, but there are also real mistakes. I am not going to poke fun at anyone, I was just pointing that we're not far inferior to the English native speakers. That's all :)

You take care too, you sound like a nice guy :)

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RE: A quick snapshot of US hosts.

Yes I have to admit that I do sometimes make the your and you're mistake. I think it's because I pronounce them the same (and I'm to lazy to concentrate). The one that always jumps out at me is using loose for lose. Again probably because I pronounce them differently.

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So you grade a member's English skills in your pvt. Would that be considered a fetish?

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Do you mean you criticize members' spelling and grammar while they are in your paid videochat? And if so, would these members be considered money slaves we read so much about in profiles and in this forum?

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RE: A quick snapshot of US hosts.

Completely agree with Miss T :)
Seriously, she was polite, and not for a second did I see her as being cruel or attacking anybody.

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RE: A quick snapshot of US hosts.

I didn't assume anything. I only asked a question. Really I was just curious. I have some hosts I know tell me some real wild stories about some of the viewers they have had in pvt over the years. And I see you post all the time and you appear to be very well versed a handling your customers in your pvt. And if I don't ask, I'll never know the answer to any questions I may have.

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"But no, I do not make fun of the guys that I have in chat or in private"

Ok, I understand now. I have read profiles where certain hosts advertise for viewers that like to be made fun of in pvt. It's their thing I guess. And hosts that perform these kinds of shows are only doing what the customer requests. And it's only good business acumen to be diversified to appeal to a wide customer base. And I'm sure you would agree with that premise.

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"And I'm not into "I would do anything for money either". Which would explain why I have time to spend here :)"

Well yes of course. I was only saying that any business tries their best to appeal to the widest segment of buyers of whatever it is they sell. I am well aware of the workings of hosts in the Glamour category. And I'm only being honest when I say, it's not for everyone. But to some, you are the perfect choice.

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When people confuse "to" and "too", that one really bothers me two.

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Yeah, later It hit me...she didn't say Russian in there at all, I just assumed that. You can't edit afterwards either. I thought about quickly adding a correction reply, but it was 5am here , so I just fell asleep. :)

But chu know, now dat I be thinking mo straite, I don't c any indicatshun of problems with are enlish, so I shore ain't gonna do nuthin about it. :p

And yes, I do try to be nice, thanks. Wanna go out? Kidding...that be a whole nother topic right thar as I'm sure you know. he he. This messed up english thing can be kind of fun.

Have a good one, stay positive.

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That's lolcat-english ;)

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I agree. I remember being in comm chat and a member was belittling a host for using incorrect English. I gave the definition of what she had said to show that she was, in fact, correct. Unfortunately she thought I was also joining in belittling her and gave me an angry response :P

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You've seriously been attacked Just for your nationality? Wow, that is Way beyond dumb...that's archaic and pathetic. Sorry about that.
Wasn't me, of course, but it sure goes to show how many real backwards thinking idiots are out there.
Later.

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RE: A quick snapshot of US hosts.

Agreed, though on flip side of the coin, having been on this site for several years, I have run across many, many european hosts clearly using translators, which definitely detracts from the show.

It's also true that most europeans speak multiple languages, while many americans struggle with just their own. Further evidence of our education system in decline. It's just a simple, unfortunate fact.

As far as poor english when visiting your rooms, in my case at least...as hot as some of you girls are, I have a hard time just remembering my name, let alone typing coherent sentences. :)

Anyway, I both like and respect you guys very much. Take care.

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It is amazing the reasons one will invoke to see oneself worthier and superior to another. Ego at it’s best! Unfortunately, it is also an ego trap. It is living by comparison. From this perspective, there will always be that someone, seen by the ego, as a bit more superior, that will ultimately make one, feel inferior within its own superiority. We all have different talents :)
Just a thought...
:)

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I choose not to engage in a confrontation with you along the lines of: “you said this”, I said that”. However, please do read your initial post, with a “fresh pair of eyes” and see what it implies.
:)

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Another catfight, sweet! Hold that pose girls, gonna go get some popcorn. For goodness sakes just...kiss and makeup...or makeout...or something. Damn. It's getting hot in here.

Just kidding, having some fun :) Smile ladies....or I'll have to spank you.

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"I am in Fetish. I'm willing to do traditional shows if it's wanted, though my "normal" shows are suited for Glamour Girls, not Instant Action or the like."

A non nude host. Just as in Glamour, nudity is NOT required in Fetish.

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I just call them as I see them. What you do or don't do is your choice. I never said it was a flaw. But there are some of us more traditional pervs that enjoy seeing naked girls. I was only pointing out that he hosts in Fetish are not obligated to do a nude show, the same as it is for Glamour and little shy in softcore. That is a fact, not an opinion.

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So why badger the girl by pointing out the obvious; something she already knows.

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You're welcome. I never said it was a bad thing. Some things you think are obvious are not obvious to all who may read this forum. You stated very clearly your "show" when you said "But if you want an eloquently-speaking Mistress, then I'm your girl. Just because I'm not quite your "thing", that doesn't mean I'm any less popular with others. "

Some new viewers may think that Fetish, since it is in hardcore, that hosts are required to do nude show and they are not. They can if they choose just as the hosts in Glamour and little shy.

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Yeah...was wondering if you were going to see and / or respond to that.

I almost did earlier. Would've been basically this:
Another Member
" Just looks at American Girl, smiles, laughs, and sadly shakes his head"

Meaning of course, some people just don't get it do they? :) Even though I thought you were very clear from word one. And certainly in the last one...very well stated.
Take care, AG.

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"If all they care about is nudity, then they should even be in our category."

I think you meant to say not be in our category and I agree. I have seen postings over time where viewers complained of a host not getting naked in Fetish or requiring he take them to 121 for a nude show. And the hosts in Fetish as in softcore are NOT obligated to ever do a nude show. As you mentioned the slaves and their dominas, there are also hosts that do nail shows and many other non nude shows. Yes hosts can do the hardest hardcore show on earth if they choose, but are under no obligation to do so.

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A response to A response to the Angry thread

Why can't we keep our responses in the thread to which we are responding instead of responding to a new response in a non-responsive new responding thread.
Respond.
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RE: A response to A response to the Angry thread

I know the answer. But I'm gonna have to open another thread later.

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How you or anyone else spends his money is a matter for you to decide. There is no doubt there are a great many hosts in every category, including IA that would be happy to sit and simply chat in pvt with a member. But if hosts get member chatters in their rooms on a regular basis, they tend to start thinking all or at least most members only want to talk in pvt. If I were a host, I'd do the same thing as having long talks in pvt mean much more money in their bi weekly check. So chatters do drive the price up and performance down site wide in my opinion.

I know that is not the intention of chatters, they are only trying to do their thing with no malice towards others. But you do have that supply and demand element present. And again , in my opinion, I think that infuriates some of the members looking for the naked girls cc advertises off site.

But like it or not, it appears to me that CC's formula has worked very well for the site and the core hosts that have been on site for some period of time. So if it ain't broke, don't fix it. And viewers who like to see naked girls, get your Google on, there is no shortage of those sites on the net.
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I love the way, in your scheme of things, hosts seem to have no minds of their own and are but merely respondents to stimuli -- "But if hosts get member chatters in their rooms on a regular basis, they tend to start thinking all or at least most members only want to talk in pvt."

"If I were a host, I'd do the same thing as having long talks in pvt mean much more money in their bi weekly check." -- But you aren't a host, and even if you were and this is how you would respond, how can you say other hosts would as well? Are you not an individual? Are they not individuals?

"So chatters do drive the price up and performance down site wide in my opinion." -- And can you show us the statistical evidence of this? Or is this just your own opinion?

"But like it or not, it appears to me that CC's formula has worked very well for the site . . . So if it ain't broke, don't fix it." -- I wasn't criticizing CC or suggesting CC change anything. My beef is with a certain member (or members) who insist on labeling us who like mostly to chat as "slaves/sissy boys."

"And viewers who like to see naked girls, get your Google on, there is no shortage of those sites on the net." That is true, but I fail to comprehend the need for this statement. There is enough here for everyone, so why send them anywhere else?

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No I never said hosts have no mind of their own. They do indeed and for the most part are good business women. If a host in IA only talks with a viewer, if that is what he wants, she is only doing what her paying customer wants. I have seen first hand viewers simply taking with hosts in IA. The hosts are just trying to meet the market and satisfy the needs of their paying customers. There is no rule on cc that prohibits viewers and hosts simply just talking in pvt even in IA.

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My beef is with a certain member (or members) who insist on labeling us who like mostly to chat as "slaves/sissy boys."

Hmm....ImUrMrNiceGuy, I have not seen this. Since you obviously have no problem showing context from previous posts, please show evidence of this. Any evidence. Apparently you ran across this several times, so it should not be a problem. I am merely a skeptic at this point, not saying anything against you...or anyone else. So please show evidence would be very much appreciated.

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You Go girl! Yes, god forbid someone post not perfectly in place; happens all the time :)

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I'm not "Uhh" but I hope you know that my criticism earlier was not addressing your use of the terms "slave and sissyboy." This is not what I was objecting to. The context in which you use the terms is appropriate.

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I think that sissyboy slave should lose his money however he likes.
Who are we to judge the poor fool?

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