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no but lots of girls decide they can work on this site and look like an unmade bed. no effort = none of my money

Yes but an unmade bed could be a well-used bed. If you know what I mean? :D

well if the lighting or cam is not good you could tell her as we are not able to see exactly what you see. To us the cam and such looks fine, but for a viewer it might be a bit dark...therefore it would be very helpful to know. We can not change something for the better if we do not know the problem.

One host I knew used archives shot with a good studio cam an kept them when she went independent with a cam I think she found in the street.
Many hosts (or studio bosses) don't have the faintest idea of promotion or value-added concepts and don't make half the money here they could.

heyyy the guy that tossed that cam in the street said it was high quality loool..sorry i couldnt resist lol

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some like natural look... so lipstick is not required for every women

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If you see a host you like and she not have lipstick why not just ask her if she will put some on....lipstick does not stay on the whole time even the stuff that is suppose to be long wearing does not stay on and simply some just don't wear any for a change of pace. As has been said not all men and women are into lipstick and like the more natural look without make up or alot of make up....:)

Your setup....cam, lighting and appearance are PERFECT. It shows that you put some thought and effort into it. Not to mention the fact that you are a TOTAL babe.

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Well, to my credit, I am only a 1-minute guy when I can come in 1 minutes or less ;) Or maybe that is to the host's credit?

Who's complaining about 1 minute men? I've got it down to 30 seconds!

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Way to go!

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I'm not sure I understand: so are you a bum, legs or tits man then?

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Do guys like tits cos they remind them of bums or do they like bums because they remind them of tits?

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Hmmm. Well...I certainly understand your point...I'm not a stalker, and the idea of them...or being considered one..makes my skin crawl. So I hear you.

However, I've read all those posts, and in their defense...even though I do find them a bit creepy at times...I think at heart they just want to know if the person is coming back...or not. Some of those posts seem to be from people who do not speak english as their native language, so I'm sure that plays into it as well. I think people were mostly joking about the stalker thing, but who knows. It is a bit creepy sometimes.

As far as hosts looking for soulmates, and having that info in their profiles...I can forgive that pretty easily...Some I'm sure are genuine when they say that...it's a big world, who knows what might happen. For myself, and I've mentioned this before...I have a very simple solution for that...precisely the same as yourself...just don't go there...Ever. If you don't want to get burned, don't put your hand in the fire.

In any case, nothing wrong with venting a bit...and while I always try to see both sides, admittedly some of those posts got a little under my skin as well.

Anyway, have a good one everybody.

<I think at heart they just want to know if the person is coming back>

I agree that in general such postings are entirely innocent, and in the context of a thread if someone replies using the word "stalker" (or whatever) everybody starts picking-up on the cue of the response and the thread soon loses sight of what was originally being said. What I find far more creepy are postings from clearly middle-aged people using the vocabulary, conventions, abbreviations etc of people 30+ years their junior

"What I find far more creepy are postings from clearly middle-aged people using the vocabulary, conventions, abbreviations etc of people 30+ years their junior"

That bothers you....seriously? If an older person is young at heart, and that comes across in their post, I find that Very refreshing. No worries though, to each their own.

I remember that comment from someone almost exactly in those same words, from long time ago, and I don't remember ever seeing the name "purdey" before. Who were you before?

ok. dont meet :)

If you simply come here for adult entertainment and nothing else,why are you reading the posts on here,lol?

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*translation* I have a vested interest in being part of the conduit between customer and model on here and wish to keep it this way.

Does this sort of thinking keep you up at night? if so..you need a hobby..try building ships in bottles..

People meet and fall in like, lust or love or what ever you want to call it every moment of the day on the internet from facebook to porn sites.. don't worry your lil head about it.

true!

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Absolutely right. This is the thing about this site which sets it apart from others. There are a wide range of people who come here for a wide range of reasons and a wide range of hosts with a wide range of reasons for being here (apart from money of course - they all share that reason, and nothing wrong with that). The genius of cc is that it caters for all - from the customer like "realist" with his perfectly legitimate reasons for being here, to the lonely lovelorn individual hoping to find romance. Dangerously creepy guys come here too, but most hosts can figure them out pretty quick and the thousands of miles that separate them from their potential stalkers gives them much protection. If they ever meet a viewer, it is always in a very public place with a friend at hand. So let's all appreciate this site for what it is - something for everyone, a smorgasbord of sexy fun. Long may it continue!

"..the thousands of miles that separate the host from..."
Wow..the plane I just came back on must have been one hell of a rocket, going as fast as "thousands of miles" in just 2 hours!

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Every host, I believe, has the option to offer free public video when she so chooses.

However, unlike certain other sites, one cannot just enter a free video as a regular practice here -- thankfully. Every site I've been to that has it, the host is bombarded with "Stand up" "show your body" "shake your tits" "Stroke your pussy" oh, and the clincher: "If you do, I will come into private session."

All so true.

Maybe a month ago, I saw a girl here that was offering free video for several hours. The icon was a dollar sign with a red line through it. Don't know how that went for her...nor do I remember her name, but I haven't seen it since, so I'm guessing not so well. On the other hand, if she did it just for one day, to bring people in to get to know her, perhaps it worked perfectly.

Unfortunately, I too have seen the abuse of free video in every other site I visit...girls are just badgered to death by those idiots, so I certainly don't blame them for not wanting to have it here.

Hmmm, you really had a pussy? Tabby? Siamese? something else?

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She hates you and she left because of it.

Here kitty, kitty, kitty...Come here, I've got some cream for you :)

Also reminds me of an old famous blooper:

Zsa Zsa Gabor, the beautiful Hungarian actress was on the American talk show: The Tonight Show, hosted by Johnny Carson.
She came on with a beautiful Persian cat which she held in her lap as she talked to Johnny. Suddenly the cat looked up at Carson during the conversation and meows...Zsa Zsa then says to Carson:
"She wants more attention...would you like to pet my pussy Johnny?"
Carson, immediately remarks with wide eyes:
"Sure, if you'll just move the damn cat out of the way". :)

Look down a couple of threads. Just yesterday (13 May) she replied to a post. so she is around. You must just be unlucky in missing her.

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LOL :)

Dont be all crazy stalker .....seems a little to late now since hes asking in both forums .

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i am not a crazy stalker i am just missing you. i dont like it when you dont log on it ruins my day. please just let me know when you will open up your room. i dont care how much just soon. i need my beutiful flower baby.

yeah your just a normal guy , good luck , poor her .

My god! Worse than a stalker! Do you think you own her?
"It ruins my day when you dont log on" - Do you think that will get her running to her pc to log on just for you? Quite the reverse, I would think.That sort of behaviour will get you blocked! Give the lady some slack and relax!

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good idea. Maybe would be good to contact them by ccmail also

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well so what? its first time I saw it. Why when people post a joke do some people feel the need to slam it? Maybe its old for you but maybe for others it is new. Maybe was new for Lig too? Why can't you people just let others enjoy the humor without bashing it? where is your sense of humor?

Thanks. Yes, you are right, it was first time I had seen that one. I'm like you, I can't understand why people feel the need to be critical of jokes. they are meant in fun. Why not just simply accept them as they are intended, and let others enjoy them? Even if you have seen it before, why spoil it for others? It's sad, really. Makes a person not want to bother trying to bring some lighter fare to these forums. God knows they need it! Me, I came across it and thought it was funny and wanted to share it and maybe brighten someone else's day with it. Oh well, I guess I was wrong. God forgive me for passing on a joke someone else has heard.

What's the difference between a street trader and a dachshund?

One bawls out his wares on the street, and the other.....has short legs!

I have already told that to three people! great one!

Well then you learned some new

What? that some people can be real jerks? Didn't learn that. Already knew that one.

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A guy walks into a bar, takes out a big roll of banknotes, peels off a $100 bill and says to the bartender "give me a whiskey, keep the change."
The bartender does as asks, but he's a little confused because the customer has a little man sitting on this shoulder.
The customer orders two more drinks - "keep the change" both times - and beautiful women start to hang around the customer as well. The little man at some point jumps off the customer's shoulder, walks over to the piano and start playing.

Finally, the bartender can't stand it any more and asks the customer what's going on. The customer says: "Well, i saved a forest gnome from a trap and he gave me three wishes. So I wished for a never-ending roll of $100 notes. Oh, and that all beautiful women would find me attractive."
The bartender asks "but what about that little guy at the piano?"
The customer looks grumpy and says "beats me. I sure didn't ask for a 12 inch pianist."

haha, love it!

If you "tried to install your new computer" as in finding out which cable goes into the power connection, then maybe you tried to pay your bills by putting it into the CD/DVD drive and forget about them after too...?

Huh? WTF are you talking about? You totally lost me!

99.9% of the hosts celebrate Woman's Day (March 8) instead.

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Indeed, so!!!

I'm here for you, bb

get real

Soul went off the deep end

a long time ago

who's bithday ?

How can a member block another member?

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Please repeat in good English so we can understand you.

Aww...she was fine with her English....and looking at her profile photos, she is Definitely fine :)

Basically to add just a few words for clarity it would be:

I must be blind; when I first looked at the topic of this post, I thought it said Booking members, and wondered what on earth that could be about. lol :) Sorry for going off topic.

She just abbreviated her response quite a bit, nothing wrong with that. :)

Have a good one.

"...nothing wrong with that..."

hmmm if it is not understandable then u got it wrong - - there be much wrong with that/../

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lmao...given the content of your posting is tempting to think you are being ironic when you write like the wise old woman in Blackadder, but somehow i doubt it!

that's exactly how I read it too. but I wouldn't say she abbreviated so much, as just poor English syntax. Obviously English is not her native language.

But even just a little effort, and her post is understandable.

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the tend to think they're much smarter than us for knowing only english...when we speak fluently in our native language...and know a bunch of other foreign languages...don't be offended...they should be!

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My apologies if I sounded critical. Was not my intent. I simply was pointing out that non-native speakers of English don't always know the correct syntax as syntax in their native tongue is often quite different. Same thing happens when I try to speak Romaneste. My English sentence construction does not fit with Romanian sentence construction. All I was saying it with a little bit of effort it can be understood..

So if I offended you, I'm sorry.

And to exGay... on your comment below, yes your comment did too come across as critical. How can a person who does not know English well-enough be expected to "put it it better English" I found RadioBaby's comment understandable easily enough. Why couldn't you?

so you has got that wrongly.

I got has wrongly what?

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Agreed.

Other than the negativity, I enjoy the forums, and it's always nice to see a fresh face, or voice in this case.

Certainly I always appreciate your thoughts and quips along with several others, but the more people participating the better...definitely including RB and the nice, light-hearted remarks she made. Undoubtedly a fun person, and goodness knows it's very refreshing to see folks like that posting here.

Speaking of other cool people who post, Adayla...where'd you hide ssgb and elle? Guess they must both be off having that torrid tryst that was joked about :)

Anyway, hope you have a great one..both you and everyone else.

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Why you think I was "put down" you got negative outlooks!

I asked to understand what that person wrote.

5 is answer for you.

I would surmise that 'booking a member' would be using the Send Me Mail option to make an appointment.

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Their thinking may be something like "my wife/girlfriend/kids/parents (any or all of these) will be out on that day at that time so I will be able to sit in front of my computer and jerk off without the fear of hearing, 'I'm/we're hoooome!'"

maybe for a more authentic call girl style experience

Some guys fancy any girl who is online when they are and some like to stick with 1 or 2 hosts. Some hosts actually ONLY come to CC when a guy makes an appointment.

26 yo is it old? are u serious or kidding here?

There is nothing to "get"; you already got it, and you've only got one.

"Life is what happens while you're making other plans" Pick something to do, and do it. Something that doesn't depend on others to create your own happiness. Write, do yoga, dance. Play a musical instrument. Take up kayaking. Immerse yourself in what you do, and don't worry that you're doing it "right" or not. Life opens up in ways you can't anticipate.

I wish I had kissed that girl I adored when I was 23. My life might be different now. But there's a girl I adore now, and I do intend to kiss her, and I'm certain she will kiss me back.

My two cents anyway. Good luck dear.

I think the first thing to do is try and stop regretting anything about the past. That is history, cannot be changed and such thoughts won't be productive. So concentrating *only* on the future, what to do next. Well, certainly start perceiving yourself as still young...you ARE, and there is plenty of time to achieve all you want to. I guess you see your peers and they have all progressed in work, relationships etc and the comparison depresses you. Try not to make such comparisons, that is not constructive either. So, what is to be done? It seems you have no specific desires, ambitions, career hopes etc. just a burning wish for some change that will make you feel as if *life* has begun. So deciding on what that 'change' is to be must be your focus. I can't give any suggestions because I don't know you well enough to make any sensible recommendations. But perhaps your first task is to put yourself in the best position to focus your thoughts and make your decisions. And I suggest that might be achieved by removing yourself from your current surroundings and routine, which are holding you back or becoming a crutch. If its possible (financially and otherwise) I suggest you try and take a break from your town and from hosting, go to stay with a trusted friend, an older relative, go anywhere that makes you feel happy...and then when you are relaxed, think, think, think. Good luck.

26 is just the beginning of your life and career which is why your problem here is going to be greeted with incredulity. But obviously that's not going to help or persuade you automatically since you seem to have had some loneliness and maybe depression for too long.
One thing to grab on to - you know how you want 10 years ago back - well imagine in ten years how you will feel about being 26. You will wish you were this person and had the chance to try things with no ties.
We have all felt regrets for last past. These guys' advice is good - just choose some new things, especially if they are free or inexpensive and no risk to you. You will find that still, at 26, having the freedom to fail or switch and try again - which youre not going to keep forever! - will make it easy to enjoy and meet new people whom you can like or hate. It's all fun. Try and pursue at least one dream that you have already given up on - give it another shot, even if it isnt in the big way you once imagined. All these guys have good thoughts and hopes for u, and we dont even know u! Find some people like that in real.

Usually, the best way to tackle that question is to figure out what you would like your life to look like, and then figure out how you get there. For example, if you want more, you need to put yourself in places where you can meet them (and no, here doesn't count). If you want a job you love doing, figure out what you love doing and what it would take for you to do that.

Then do it. Be fearless!

26 - u are young. be positive. and respect ur choice. u decide u want X and not Z, so it was the one right choice. if u choose X but not sure about Z n so on stop it. never happy, get up tomorrow and look around - summer is arriving, life is beautiful. and if u think u could make better choices, change ur life or u shut up unhappy)
about u re missing thiings - well thats normal we re growing and our life and interests change, our friends change. accept it. enjoy every moment of ur life. life s never the same at 18 and 23 and 26 n 30.

So much negativity from someone so young.

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Dear Someone,
Dont look back! Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life! Its a blank page now, so you can create anything you like on that page. All the other replies here are very helpful. Take what you want from all of them and then go for it! Be brave, take a few risks. You are young, not even in your prime yet so enjoy the life you have and make it what you want! You can do it! :-)

travel.travel. travel. meet some nice guy from cc. fall in love. and be happy with him . its simple :)

To also try to help, here are three words to think about: School, Work and Church. Meaning...apart from their primary obvious functions, all three of these, can be major springboards to more of a social life.

Work: Perhaps get a part time job with some company that employs a large number of people at it's location. Such companies often have quite a few social functions, and even if they don't, many good friendships and relationships frequently come out of the work place.

School...same thing..take a class or two of something that interests you.

Church...Im not atheist, however I do not go to church. I do have many friends that do go though...and as a result, have gone to many of their social functions. All sorts of things...Movie night, game night, softball league, camping trips, etc...met many great people that way.

The point is...all three of those are great springboards for new activities and meeting new people.

The advice given from other people has also been very good. So there you go. Now just take your pick and put some of it into action. Take care, dear. :)

Just curious and do not want to start anything...But have you heard of the saying...STOP worrying about what you DO NOT have....

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step 1. relax
step 2. make a list of jobs you think you might like, and a list of skills you might have, that would make you suited for those jobs
step 3. go to interviews, and if i were in your shoes, i would also apply for internships. higher chances with those, since you have no experience.

i strongly believe a job would solve most of your problems, not because of the money, obviously, but because of the social environment it provides, an environment you will never experience if you stick only to your camming job.

Thanx to all of you, guyz. If i spoke about this with anyone from society that is surronding me, I would only get advices like "You should get married", "You need, finally start looking for husband and give a birth", "You need to settle down, get married" And that would make me even more depressed, bcz I dont want it at the moment and it makes me redicilous in ppls eyes.

You guyz can be soo nice, when its not about host -member fights=))) Big big thanks to all of you for spending time and energy to me, I wish all of you to be happy, healthy and loved=)) And your advices are helpfull, im gonna try=)

"guys"?

Well!

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And something else you can try, implicit in what many of these nice people said: think about helping someone else, try to make at least one other person happy or even a little less miserable, if only in a small way. Once you get the habit it gets easier. Then come back here and tell us the difference it made to your own life, getting you free of self-regard for a while.

The past is gone and youth is fleeting. Learn from your mistakes, and then leave the past behind. Ask yourself what kind of person you want to be… and be that person now. Just be the woman you want to be now… for no one knows what the future will bring either? <br />
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What is really making you unhappy? For me, the 3 most important things in life are – to BE a good person; to HAVE good relationships (which means being kind but also being treated with respect); and to DO a job or project in life that is meaningful to me. And if you can, choose to be happy. There is so much to enjoy. You don't have to wait. There is no time like the present. <br />
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I care about you, and i'm sure lots of people care about you.<br />

You said it nicely. You sound like a strong guy who know what he does

I often find when someone tells another to "get a life" it's just an attempt to validate their own life choices. I.e. "I have a life and you should have one just like me to make me feel better about mine."

IMHO Getting a life should be about deciding what your values are and doing something that makes you feel like you're not at odds with them. It's not so hard.

Well Bob, things could always be worse.

agree-sure can, wanker

been done that away to but im over it

if you don't want a host telling you that she wants you,then what do you want? isn't that what you came here for? living a fantasy? and, of course,that means that not everything has to be true...

Thank God hosts work here , and this is their job, to be friendly and pleasant. If this was free, i belive no girl would be here in first place , and if u showed up with your dick in your hand, and demanding see that and that , u`d see what they really think of u( and belive me , its better the way it is now). Btw, stop complaining!! I find it sooo anoying at a grown up man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Dont like it , go away , but do we care these....childish frustrations of yours?

Free webcam chat sites have been around for years... and yes, girls go to them too. There have also been many pay sites (as in the site gets paid, as a subscription service. The people on cam are there of free will for fun and interaction.)
The only real difference being that sex is available on-demand here.

Living a fantasy is the problem. Some people live the fantasy into their real life. They forget it is fantasy, make believe here, not the real thing

"I am so tired of being play for a fool by host here at cc with all this jive talk and making me feel that they really want me"

Sorry, but thats only you, who make yourself fool. You know that is not dating site, girls here working, our duty to entertain men, make you feel nice and happy (even it's all just fantasy).
Grow up and start differ real world from virtual one.

" girls here working, our duty to entertain men, "

Not if they are in softcore. It is the host can choose to entertain or not entertain.

lol you are very stubborn indeed. the entertainment is not the same for every person. why can't you understand it? for some men nice chat is much more entertaining than any sexy shows. that is why cc has many different categories.

Why can't he understand it? Maybe because he thinks with his pecker? That would be my guess :D

"lol you are very stubborn indeed. the entertainment is not the same for every person"

No, not stubborn, just keeping it real.

in maybe 1% of cases it is real, most times it's not. Many times the man will think it's real and not just a "girl friend experience". The host knows this and plays along, often developing a close relationship where admittedly, perhaps neither party is honest.

A host with integrity should be straight from the start that she offers a "GFE" and its not real. Don't try to really be there for the guy. Be the perfect whore, but not the pillar of emotional support and focus of real affection.

Unfortunately I've not met many hosts with real integrity. The camming world tends to attract people of a certain mindset. I know I'll get flamed for this, but I would say many cam hosts are the very manipulative and self-centred type. Note I said many, not ALL. I have met some seriously evil bitches on sites like this. ... And I don't use that term lightly.

Hey Ted. Must say, you've got some balls, buddy :) Becuase indeed, I see you getting pounced on big time for some of your post. Well, here's my take....

Agree that the genuine...Actual gf experience...must be very rare. Sure it Does happen, but 1% is probably about right. Reuglar non gf friendships, a bit more common.

As far as info in profile to that effect...I remember one girl on another site, Did put that...very hot blonde...very positive person, with loads of personality..but in her profile, she simply put: Not here to hook up. That way, no hurt feelings anywhere, and I'd be willing to bet, being honest like that, did Not hurt her business one bit. For myself..I have a simple policy...I just don't go there...ever.

Here's where you will get the most vehement responses, I'm sure:
"Be the perfect whore"
Strictly speaking, the term, as defined, is correct...however, it is Also Extremely derogatory...while some of these ladies are indeed performing sex acts for money...it is not done in person...and that, to me, is a major, major, difference. I'm quite sure, that most of them all but shudder at the thought of having sex with the average member in real life :) Whereas a true whore, literally would not hesitate, or give it a second thought.

How genuine and honest are cam hosts...how much integrity do they have...This has been previously discussed at great length...basically though, just speaking statistically... based on numerous experiences and observations, I agree with you. As I said in a previous post, there seem to be many, good, very genuine hosts out there...(and I mentioned a few names)....however there seem to be many more who are not. In their defense though...as several have said...they are just telling the member what they want to hear. Fair enough. Again in my case, its simple...I just don't go there. All I want to know...text chat..do you have working audio...this is what id like...if yes on to private for a good time. That's it. To me, that's the best soloution...take the site for what it is, and if you don't want to get burned, don't put your hand in the fire.

Anyway, I hope everyone has good one. Have fun, and try to stay positive.

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lol brilliant, very pithily made points - you have to say though: the (slightly nauseating) 'gf experience' is probably the most profitable service a host can offer as shes going to get a lot of long 121s.
This guy the quite common experience: he probably wanted that, even asked for it, but eventually got an inkling she was thinking 'fat old guy with chubby dick' all along.
Not so surprising - Ive also known hosts to get jealous - where have you been for a week, have you 'cheated' with other cc girls? I thought you were different blah blah - let's have 121 where we can be alone, have a date, spend all your money on ME

People need to remember that this is a cam porn site, not a dating service. You are right, the hosts do care about their money. That's why they are here. I won't say all, but the vast majority of them are here to earn a living not to find their Mr. Right. Does that mean they don't also care about their clientele? No, many, maybe all, probably do care. But their priority is to make money.

When people start coming here looking for their Miss Right, or their Mr. Right, they will find Miss D. Point. They are here for the wrong reasons. Go to Match or EHarmony or one of the other numerous dating sites if that is what you are looking for. If people are falling in love here, they need to examine themselves, and ask themselves WHY are they susceptible to that? What is missing in their personal lives? Are they lonely? Are they in a bad relationship, or perhaps an unfulfilling relationship? Maybe they need to do some maintenance work at home in their personal lives and relationships.

It is one thing to come here to have fun, meet interesting people, get their kicks, but guard your hearts. Keep a clear head. Think with your brain, not your pecker.And always remind yourself, This is a Pay Site. In fact, say that over with me: THIS IS A PAY SITE NOT A DATING SERVICE. Now repeat that every time you click "Enter Videochat" or "Enter Text Chat"

the funny thing is that people really expect meetings and doing all the fantasy stuff in reality and if we refuse giving personal information like...phone number,adress,the whole name...it's considered an insult...somehow some of the member who don't separate fantasy from reality really except encounters...if not...we're cheating and lying to them and we're to blame...for manipulating usually a 40-50 y.o. man...us...the evil 20 year old host...well it's not my fault u didn't grow up and u're still naive at that respectable age...

You are automatically a fantasy girl for them, but the fantasy IS that youre real and just like the beautiful 20 y.o. you should be, but cant, pick up down at the pub. But the one online she fancies me, so that's worth the money!
I suggest if you cant contemplate encountering the over 40 fat guys with a chubby little dick cc is going to be a (real) world of pain for u.

Why do over 40, chubby, and little dicks, have to do with each other? Can't someone who is 20, skinny, have a little dick? Why's everybody always picking on us over 40 chubby guys with little dicks? Hmm? Answer that please! :D

it's interesting,indeed...since i didn't mention the chubby and little dick part :D...why do always people have to think of that? that they are the only love addicted guys who can't distinguish real from fantasy?
there are also 60-70 and also 18 to 30 guys who come here,but maybe don't draw the line between fantasy and possibility and they don't always have a little penis and are chubby :P

I'm sorry i understood that you resented 20 y.o. hosts having to deal with resentful, immature 40-50 y.o.s Merely that they are as you already observed such a big bit of the demographic, youre hardly going to get away from them.

i don't resent them...it's just that a few of them loose the barier between fantasy and wanna have this for real...other than that,i really have fun here and hardly considere this a job...some men are really charming and some cute....the immature ones who considere us,the hosts,bad guys and themselvs the victims...these really ruin the fun for all of us...

I agree. Maybe we could meet up in real? (joking)

True what u say not a dating site... If u come here for that most likely will be dissapointed.. But finding love can happen any where even here.. It has happend before here and sure it will happen again... There is no sex here but if u connect with someone and its real then y not go and see if its real... Nothing to lose only to gain..........

thankyou, mr clever, for telling the obvious. even the most stupid knows that we live in a pay world. but the unexpected happens everywhere, even on a site like this

Oh fuck... lol
If you've been a host for that long you definitely have people skills.

Don't go in thinking you have to sell yourself to them; they have to convince you to take the job. By that I mean don't put on an attitude, but think of questions to ask that will show you are serious about working for them, that you want to make sure it's the right fit. Then at least you come off with seeming confidence.

I remember interviewing one poor woman who was so nervous, her palms were sweaty and she was visibly shaking. It was all I could do to help her relax a bit. In the end, I didn't offer the job to her, but it was just not the right fit, not because she was so nervous. But it took me a while to find that out, because first I had to calm her down lol.

So if this one doesn't work out, don't take it personally.
Good luck to you.

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I don't really have any advice but I wish you luck and I hope you get the job. If you find out afterwards that it is not really for you I'm sure we will all welcome you back to cc :P

ahahahahaaaaa tnxxx)))))

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Oo) tnx)

I think you kinda hit a gold mine, with BeautyandShy as far as getting good info for your question. Because she's in that field, and that region. I'm in usa...however I've interviewd well over a thousand people..lost count....in any case, I will try to be helpful.

1. Be on time. Actually about 10-15 min early, looks good, shows interest to some degree. Late is very bad. Don't be too early either....ie 30 min...I have a schedule, and I plan on seeing you at about the time agreed upon...not 30min to an hr sooner.

2. Do Not bring your boyfriend or anyone else with you. You can discuss it with him or whomever later.

3. Dress appropriately to the job, but leaning towards best attire. Any office job...dress as sharp as you can. Let's say as example..fast food or warehouse worker...tone it down, but still slacks, etc...Under no cirmumstances, wear something like say cutoff's and a tank top.

4. Even though you have no experience other than cc, prepare and bring a resume. Plenty of things online to help you with this.

5. Bring a pen. Even with a resume, they will often want you to fill out an application as well. Shows you're prepared. You can also bring a small notepad if you wish.

6. Know the company you're working for, and the job you're going for. Look them up online if need be. Basically you Don't want to have them ask...do you know what we do, etc...something to that effect, and not know the answer.

The interview itself. If they don't ask you these questions directly, they will be trying to figure these things out:

- Will she be here consistently, and on time?
If they don't ask, and if you can give an honest, positive response to this, particularly with an example, do so. whatever it may be...like school or something..never late for class, only missed one day all year...otherwise just assure them, you will be there and be on time.

-Does she get along well with others...so will she get along with her fellow employees here?
So smile, and show your personality.

-How intelligent is she (ties in to how well can she learn the job) and
-How interested is she in getting the job?
So...ask some questions to show both. Such as...if not covered or already known.. and they probably won't cover all of these...

-What are my chances of advancement?
-What benefits do you offer?
-When would I start?

Sealing the deal:
At the end, thank them, shake their hand, tell them you are very interested.
Afterwards...unless they tell you directly not to do either...
-send a thank you letter
-call them

Everything else being about equal, those that express the greatest interest will often get the job. After all, who wants to hire someone who dosen't want the job.

So there you go, hope that helps some. I've been told numerous times, that I hire good people...and I could go into much greater detail, but if this little bit helps you at all, then I'm glad.

Take care, and best of luck to you with this :)



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yeeeep)) will print ur advices) tnx)

Suggest you he meet you for interview in 121.

I say don't go to work for them, be your own independent worker and if cc is giving you enough income after 4 or 5 years I say stay here. Where else can you go to meet all kinds of people from around the world from a click of turning on a computer

... because cc is such a career, isn't it?
the best anyone can do, is use cc to finance their studies, get a good job afterwards, and come to cc in their free time for extra cash and for fun.

so I did... my job on cc paid enormous things in my life and my study too.. tnx cc)

it makes me sad the idea of staying in the office, with horrible boss and earning less then I ear on here (yes europe in crisis, im sttranger on here and dont think emploees will pay me good money.. :s but thats life... :'(

Yes..im sure she can be a good sexatary..:-)

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Hey,
there is no need to be scared. it would have been better if you specified what sort of job you were interviewing for, because the approach is often different depending on the company and the position you are being interviewed for. you already got great answers as to what the interview might be like, so...

what to wear:
you want to pick clothes and colours that put you in the best light, professionally and individually (they express positive traits of your personality).
i will tell you what i usually wear to interviews: classic suits (pants or mid-knee length skirts, never ever shorter) and white or light beige shirts... you can never go wrong with a white shirt.
the suits i wear can be dark blue or various shades of grey. they inspire calm and trust, and don't scream power like black suits do. so unless you're applying for a ceo position, don't go black:))) no pink, orange, red and such, unless they're on a scarf. Classic and conservative shoes and matching handbag, none of that trendy, ready to go clubbing stuff.
no very long nails painted in some freaky colour.
discreet jewelry. I only wear small earrings and a necklace, perhaps a ring, never more than that.
if you choose a skirt over pants, never go bare legs, wear nude stockings. no matter how warm the weather is.
be confident, and good luck!

I will try) tnx!**

Don't over-think it baby. You are used to getting along with people you never saw before and figuring out what they like from their questions. That's one thing at least cc has already done for you.
Try to think of stories you can tell that show your skills and aptitudes, especially if these are relevant to the job. Try to work these into yoour replies. (Most recruiters llike people who are friendly and flexible, good at getting along in teams and service to customers.) If you cant think of your aptitudes get someone who really knows you to tell you what you are good at (we often arent aware!) and look at examples in your past.
You should expect to get better with more interviews so don't stress too much about the first one - try to learn from it and even enjoy the chat if you can.
Good luck.

tnx))!!**

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tnx very much =)

would have thought your bf could have discussed and explained that to you in more detail and better than on this forum.

Girls why are you ashamed tell that you work online at this site? Im sure the boss will hire you at once if tell him ;)

yep but the biggest problem is hr specialists on here are mostly women. not cute, raither fat, without make-up n so on) she will not appreciate my cc career)))
even if HR is a cute woman she sees a competitor in u. so she will never hire someone sexier then her^^))

Try to think of someone else when being interviewed. I am having the same problem- some European women look rather scary, so it is necessary to imagine someone else and stay friendly.

Why do wives preffer gold to husbands?
Gold, has 24 carats and a good weight. Where a husband has only got one carrot and too much too much weight!
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Bravo! Excellent post, dear.

Nice, well said. Good post.

I resisted replying to the original poster, and I'm glad I did. You said it much better than I would have.

Well said, I couldn't agree more.

I agree with SeemsReal. You put my thoughts much better and more eloquently than i could ever have done.

I agree it's a pay site. I was responding to the host that used the term "X" factor in a previous post. I am not complaining, only defining the "X" factor. And yes the resources a man has or lacks in the real world have a great impact on the amount of his "X" factor. Again no complaint, just keeping it real.

Thanks for your reply.

Damn i thougt it was just a tv show??

you sound like the sort of weirdo that whacks it to medical documentaries.

mmmmmmm the breast augmentation surgery channel.... fap fap fap fap fap

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X factor for me: Regardless of where I am, CC or outside CC, stays the same. Because whether I am on here or not, I am me and therefore, nothing changes. The X factor I was talking about, and the only X factor for me, has got nothing to do with any material or financial assets. I was, and am, talking about inner qualities and personality.
X factor – Can be different for everyone. I won’t start listing what it could be. The possibilities, and variations are unlimited, and nothing is set in stone.
CC – a member’s unlimited cc makes no difference to me. Just as an example: I have friends that I have been keeping in touch with, whether on CC or not, for as long as 10 years. So, as you may conclude their cc’s really didn’t/don’t matter to me, they did and do as people not as the value of plastic.
Outside CC - I am quite happy to build up everything with someone. He doesn’t need to have everything, or something, we can do it all together!
I am going to say something now that might sound like: flattery, trying to get your attention or even back side kissing…. Far from the truth!
YOU value far more than any material or financial assets you might possess. Your “reality” at the moment and in any given moment is nothing else but a mirror that reflects what you truly believe about yourself. Not what you consciously want to believe, or think you believe - But what you truly believe. If you are happy with your current “reality”, do not change anything about it. There is no right or wrong here, but a matter of choice. If, however, you are unhappy, than start acknowledging your real value and your “reality” will start reflecting just that.
Either ways, in your position I would ask myself: If I were to lose everything, how would that make me feel? What would my “reality” reflect then?
You have a choice. I wish you all the best, regardless!
:)

"X factor – Can be different for everyone"

That says volumes. In the USA, most women's 2 favorite songs are "Material Girl" by Madonnna and "I am woman, hear me roar" by Helen Reddy.

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Maybe brown teeth is someone's X-factor :) (I'd smile like this :D but I am embarrassed to show my teeth)

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No worries. This is a very good use of the forums.

I'm a guy, and certainly not a relationship counselor, but I will do my best to help. However...fyi...just thought of this...I'm the one that responded to the happy marriage thread/question a while back, if you had a chance to read that, who knows 9 couples...first time marriages...who have all been together for quite some time, and are all quite happy. So maybe, while certainly not an expert, perhaps I do know a bit about this. Anyway, here goes.

This is what seems to be fact...not advice...just fact: You are happy when you are with this fellow...however...he Did cheat on you...more than once. It is extremely likely therefore, that regardless of what you do...or what he says....that he will cheat on you in the future. So the only advice really...you just have to ask yourself...is the happiness you have when you are with him...worth...Knowing...that you will Definitely be cheated on again...not a question of if...but when.
People and situations change...but statistically when it comes to cheating...not so much. So I really think it comes down to that...is the happiness with him worth knowing for sure that you will also be cheated on again in the future.

Now...not all men are cheaters. I myself, for example, would cut off my foot before I'd cheat on my gf or partner as you said. These things, don't ...just happen...or mean nothing...as they often excuse it. The 9 happily married couples have never...and would never...cheat on each other...just fyi. Also...I know 3 remarried couples...ie..previoulsy divorced...one of them...guess why the divorce...because both were cheating on each other. That particular couple...also seemed to be soul mates...a perfect match...as an example....just one thing...but they both had a deep, deep love of music...concerts...girls brother had been in a band, etc..etc..in many ways seemed sooo perfect for each other...except for the cheating. :( Both ultimately remaried, and are now quite happy.

So my advice, based on what I've seen, would be to drop the guy like a bad habit, and find someone who not only loves you, but respects you enough to not cheat on you...ever.

My guess is, that he will continue to use the argument, that this is what it took for both of us to find out how much we really mean to each other blah, blah, blah...which is a load of crap...and that you'll get together, be cheated on several more times, and then eventually get divorced. But I certainly hope not.

What I do hope, is that you find a good guy who loves and respects you and doesn't cheat on you, using lame excuses to justify it. The good ones Are out there.

Take care....good luck to you :)

i never knew about the few moonths ago one off
we had a major rgument and he left home for 2 days and this is when it happened.
It happened with this same woman that he slept with while we werent together anymore.
The woman told me they had a short thing a few months ago and now when he was single. He told her he wasn't in any contact with me and we are truly finished.
I know he was lonely and we had bad times and he realised he has done a mistake. So i found out at the same time he cheated - literally once 6 months ago as this time we werent together. I know he had her again out of desperation lonelines and depression and not a case he wanted some more of her as he liked it so much bk then.
As i mentioned she is way below his normal standards and literaly he could almost be her dad. I am younger then him as well but slightly older then her.
i think i am trying to find some hope here , it's just so hard. He is still on my case begging to take him back making promises and everything i want because we are SOULMATES as he says and as he said he will never give up on me

I'm sure he won't give up on you, because, people want the most what they cannot have. Now that he's lost you, he wants you back....once he has you again, back to taking you for granted, and eventually cheating on you again. People who cheat...Whatever the excuses they give, almost always repeat that pattern.

Soulmates huh? Meant to be together. Sure. Whatever words it takes to get you back. If I had supposedly found my true Soulmate, there is no power on earth, that could get me to cheat on her.

On the other hand...people make mistakes...perhaps this was a one time thing...you are indeed meant to be together...and it will never happen again.I highly doubt that, but it's possible. You're just going to have to use your best judgement and decide. The one thing I know for sure...is that cheaters almost always cheat again. If you're okay with that, go for it. I'm guessing not so much, though.

Hang in there. Sounds like you're fairly young, so whatever you decide, you can work though in time one way or another. :)
Take care.

why did u broke up with him?

We broke up because of other reasons , just not giving enough help round the house , being too jealouse , too possesive and I felt he took me for granted and he stopped making too much effort. We were slightly driftinng apart and he had stress at work etc etc

I agree with NG- don't return to cheaters unless you have children with them...even then there are another options. Go shopping, take some courses etc.- boost your confidence and you will find another, much better man. This one sounds like weak- going cheating on first argument instead of finding the solution- and clingy.

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All together I think you have a good approach. Asking for the advice here is just very nice and easy because it is anonymous here without any risk.
Be careful because you must not lose yourself with only looking into yourself only! This sounds a little egoistic. Also think what your man deserves and how your man feels. All what you say and demand should also be true and count for your partner.
And the life is not short or long. 'Life is too short' is used as a excuse all the time just to have egoistic fun and hurt other people who you like.
The life is also too short to live just with only one penis or vagina all the time. He can say and use that sentence too.

'Life is too short' is used as a excuse all the time just to have egoistic fun and hurt other people who you like.
you are right, but the saying is mostly used in a motivational, positive way, just like "elle" used it here... while your example will apply to a minority of people and situations.
And as a matter of fact life truly is too short to "live with live just with only one penis or vagina all the time", at a certain point in one's evolution. it's called assimilating experience and learning what one truly likes, wants and needs. it takes more than only one penis, vagina or why not both, to figure all that out. what happens once that stage is completed, is different for everyone.

You start by saying he had sex with another woman - the fact you were separated didn't matter, you still felt cheated.
You end by saying "I have no idea what to do. I done nothing since i been with him".
I think most of the things you wrote in between are pretty much irrelevant, mostly excuses for his behaviour, and words of comfort for yourself (like how the other woman is not good looking); your answer is right there, in your last phrase.
You do have an idea what to do, you just need to focus on what you truly deserve, what truly makes you feel happy and secure, then it will come to you.

In other words, just be a domina

"Is your tongue hinged in the middle so that it flaps at both ends?"
For I don't see a different reason for you to go on and on with this. If you see dominas wherever you go, you have an issue, pal, stop going against your will and accept it: you ARE a person that needs to be dominated. So put your harness back on, darling, get back to the stables and wait to be told when it's your turn to be ridden. How about that?

L, I believe you know the answer to your question :)
Good luck!

You are wrong again Miss Know it all. I am a free man, not a slave. Yeah I know that's rare on this site, but it's true.

you're on the right track, since only a free man can truly embrace his submissive side properly. However, stop asking to be publicly humiliated.

A real man has no feminine side!

Therefore, remember ladies.. anything a "real man" has, you can buy at the Nasty Store for under $60, and they always work right.
For more complexity and depth, find an "unreal man" with a feminine side!

wrote the rules?

It is true that I haven't treated him great in the years we been together ! I demand demand and don't give much in return. Everytime we fallen out all he wanted me to say is that I want him back and I never did. He didn't feel wanted and desired and my behaviour maybe has had something to do with this.
I haven't fully opened to him and embraced this relationship because I was always affraid of getting hurt and thought if I walk away or not fully open I will avoid being hurt ! I did in the end walked away and I got hurt anyway! He could of just said he doesn't wants me back and he could have stuck with the other woman/girl. I know she meant nothing to him and he wouldn't have had a relationship with her , but its irrelevant ! I know if I would have done a mistake like this he would have forgiven me ! I threw other men names in his face every 5 minutes and even before he slept with this woman bk when we were together I kept telling him if I'm not getting what I want at home I will get it somewhere elese , I was spending evenings away frm him on my laptop , I was spending the weekends at work just not to be around him as I just felt boreed and uninterested in him , but I still loved him !
I'm not fnding him excuses but there are 2 sides of the story ! I was working here and lied for months about it ! He was going insane when he found out and I don't know if he actually ever got over it!

I'm not flawless, so I'm not blaming him for everything. You are the one asking for advice, perhaps if it was him, the answers would have been different. It takes two to tango, you are both just as guilty. But if things go wrong, you either both try to make things better, point out everything that was wrong and give it a try, putting everything flat in front of each other and try to start it over... You either walk away. But you need to make sure, if you are ready to start over, that the past stays locked where it is, otherwise it will eat you up, daily.

Good luck, stay safe.

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So I was probably expect at least a few men defending him and saying I pushed him into it etc etc. Have u guys never done a mistake you regreted before and u changed and been a good guy ?

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Your kidding right?
I admit i only skimmed thro' your post because the Olympics start soon and i don't wanna miss it, anyway so he is a stalker, a cheater and a liar and your asking for advice? seems obvious, he is a catch, don't let him out of your life.

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YAWN

Depends on what the subject is...in some instances I would say hosts but in other instances I would say members.

If it is to do with members and the experiences shared by hosts with members, then yes hosts have more credibility.

If it is to do with hosts and experiences shared by members with hosts, then yes members have more credibility.

But even in both those circumstances you still have weed out the ones who just speak a load of crap or who post and respond out of anger or jealousy..as well as the motive behind their post or response.

I was talking in general terms. Both lie but in these forums, I think members lie the most.

I would tend to agree.

However, to play devils advocate, if you look at the comments in the "Confussion" thread below, you have some of them admitting to consistently lying, which of course, questions credibility.

The counter point to that is, of course, that while they may lie in video, here in the forums at least, they can be anonymous, and therefore...honest.

Of course, there are people in the world who are consistently genuine. My feeling is that both Adayla and Lillielovely are such people, for example.

It also depends on the topic or subject matter in the fourms. When it's an oppinion, I believe those are all 100% honest.

When it's an experience...a tall tale...the much talked about relationships...meetings..flying to other countries....marriages, etc..take it all with a grain of salt.

When it comes to specific knowledge of experiences and the inner workings of cc ...the web site itself...definitely go with the hosts...in almost every case, employees (and yes, yes I know they are not technically employees... but close enough) will have more knowledge and insight than customers.

Though...yes, yes, of course, members can also have cc experiences that the hosts cannot, and therefore unique perspectives on those.

What a can of worms :) Boils down to this I guess for me:
All oppinions are deemed to be 100% honest and valid. They are, after all, just...oppinions.
All personal experiences...supposedly facts...especially outside of cc, take with a grain of salt.

In all cases though, I will consider the source...ssgb as another example, always seems to be refreshingly honest, and insightful. Then, like everything else, it just comes down to a judgement call.

Interesting question. I anticipate many, many responses. We'll see though. In any case, have a good one.

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it is just that your honesty is calming and welcomed by viewers and hosts altogether as something special you cannot easily come across. you, SSGB, lillielovely and t are just good persons who are true and never pretend or fool people just for money greed or envy.
additionally you always have an open ear for our problems in our chathost forum and you give important and helpful tips or answers!

thank you all that you keep the forums so entertaining and helpful, and although camcontacts support is already the best of all sites i know so far, cc should really think about to reward all of you for your quick help and free support which makes this site and especially the forums so special and alive!

I agree for the most part, but put Adayla at the top of the list of 3. The other are quite honest for the most part, but are also spinners.

Spinners? The way I see it. they are all great people, ones who are singled out among hundreds. And now you are making 1 out to be the better and downing the others? I know the others are just as honest and do not try to play everyone. Unlike most members and hosts here. They are actually good people and respectful to each other and come to the rescue of others who get downed. Why be that way?

INYF does. He's a "take me or leave me kind of person" and he always keeps it short....a huge plus

I agree. Then you have the ones like the post below.

Thank you Ralph

There is only one way to find out who is the most credible. Stop the crazy fantasy. Get real. Make a date with a host in real life. I travelled around the world, spending thousands of dollars, to find the most credible host at CC. She is now the best wife that any man could have

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"She is now the best wife any man could have"

But, unfortunately, she is not married to you? lol

...if the host suggests a date, and it turns out to be a "fantasy", should you fantasy-book your flight? Fantasy-book your hotel? Fantasy-send a message 'here I am'?
Without those, there would be more credibility. Then again, that's not going to happen anytime soon, is it?

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I sniffed the white couch

Needs frequent cleaning. Unless you are with girls from Tver lol.

I really wanted to see what was under that white cover but (rule 58) you never get to see it taken off

phwoaar just think of that firm wooden substructure and those big bouncy big springs underneath

The sofa is very shy, bb

The answer really depends on what the lie was and would the host have known there would be no gain from yourself when she told it.

For some individuals, it's just in their nature. Compulsive liers. Literally.

I once worked with someone like this...like the old joke about politicians...if they're talking, they're lying, only for real. It eventually caught up to her and she was fired, but it took awhile, because she was very good at it. But she was literally that way, it was amazing.

The other two possibilities: privacy and money. Perhaps she was so paranoid about her identity and privacy, that she just automatically lied about everything in order to protect it.

As an example... Some hosts...when I've asked them where they are from, just out of curiosity, respond with Eastern Europe and refuse to say more. They don't even want to say the specific Country! If that's not paranoia, I don't know what is. But it's definitely one way to protect your identity...a bit extreme...and definitely paranoid, but effective. If you have that concern, lying is another way. Just lie about everything to throw them off, if you're that extremely paranoid.

Money. Just always tell them what you think they want to hear all the time....right or wrong. Probably the most likely.

In any case, try not to let it get you down. I can pretty much guarantee that you were not the only one she lied to. However, you Were sharp enough to eventually figure it out. Smile and stay positive. :)

How can you tell a politician is lying? His lips are moving.

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Of course, that's obvious. If you give out your city that's more than needed....but to be afraid to even mention one's entire country is indeed paranoid.

I Knew I should have added even more to my earlier reply covering that particular point :)

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"They're paying us and that's all that should matter. "

That's right. Remember this is a FANTASY site. Only if I was a fat loser with a 2 inch dick like that clown PIG, would I actually want to meet a host in person.

Hmmm, PIG or LIG?

you are too rude to LIG...he is a good person seems

Hmmm, thank you for your support, but actually, I think I may have made those self-descriptions at some point :D Of course, the "truth" is, I'm a rock-hard stud of a man, with a 12-inch cock with an 8-inch girth -- and I actually have done some clowning :-D

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Because some members are stalkers and too much personal information given can mean the difference between safety and un-safety, between life and death (who knows what an irrational person would do, or to what extent he would go?)

Because some members cannot distinguish between virtual fantasy and real life. Some are living in a fantasy world.

Because some members do not know when to draw the line on what is and is not appropriate.

Because a host has a right to her own private life beyond hosting, and that private life is no one's business except those to whom the host chooses it to be such.

Because she owes you absolutely nothing. You chose to visit her she did not come to you. If you spent money on her, you chose to spend it. (But from your post in viewer forum it is clear that you spend all or most of your time in free chat.)

Because friendliness and friendship are really two different things.

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I confess Yes I do have full nude pics of:

NeverYours
and
MerryBaby

This is strange...members bitch that hosts lie yet members lie too...both paying members and non paying members.

Yes members are paying members...they are paying the host to do what she agreed to do...the only honest thing a paying member has a right to is if she full-fills what agreed upon. Nothing more ...

Personally I don't see the need to lie, this is my job and I am here to make money, if friendships develop along the way great.... A member can ask me anything he likes about me and if I don't want to answer a question, I simply say so.

I have no problem saying where I am from, but I won't say the exact town...only the country or state or province.

When it comes to a member asking certain questions (other than will you do a certain request?) it is not always easy to give an answer as it might offend or hurt the member...such as, am I turning you on? Well if he is not then often I will say so, altho this often gets me into trouble, but if I lie about it then he will expect me to show him how turned on I am, I am not good at pretending so it would be very easy to see I am not turned on. Not only that if I were to lie and say yes then he will come round doing the same thing each time and then I am stuck with the lie that I told, well after a while sorry but it will get old and eventually he will know the truth. So why waste everyone's time and money with lying. Be honest and if he not like the answer then he can find someone who will say yes or who is always good at pretending and faking it.

Not all questions are a straight yes or no answer. No matter what we answer. On here after a member has dealt with hosts who do lie they just assume that all hosts lie.

I often say to a member don't ask a question if you are not prepared to hear the truth.

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"Believe in your Credit card statement... it never lies."

I agree completely. I never ask where a host is located. I don't care, this is a fantasy site, she is cyberspace. All I want to know is if she gets naked in pvt. It's all real simple.

They tell me that all the time. Well, they don't call me DIGGER. But they do tell me I'm handsome. They are lying through their teeth, or else they are in serious need of new glasses.

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"U dont have to be handsome to make a good impression of urself."

All you need is a valid credit card

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Let's see moles the size of quarters on my nose and forehead with big black 5 cm long hairs sticking out of them; four teeth missing from the front of my mouth, unibrow eyebrows; my nose twisted and hooked from an old football injury; beady eyes, and ears the size of an elephant's -- if she finds that handsome, then she has got to be lying.

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And honestly now, between two men who ask you out (assuming you are not already in a relationship) -- one is fat, bald, ugly, but nice personality; the other is tall, dark, handsome, extremely handsome, great physical shape, athletic, not a bad personality, just not so great -- which would you choose? (Oh, no fair saying, I'd go out with one on Friday, the other on Saturday -- they are both asking you out for Saturday night at same time). Would it be looks or personality that wins out?

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Carla Bruni and Nicolas Sarkozy.....nuff said !! I guess the attraction of power needs to be thrown into the melting pot.

naah, he is not so ugly, she is not so beautiful...

Whilst there are women who think like you, there is still hope for me yet!!

No going out just sex that is perfect I like you more and more!
So is it a member? And so was it me maybe? And why is it over? A hope to start it up again? Make us hope please. Maybe together with SSGB and LillieLovely?

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I think there is much in what you say, and believe many other women feel the same. But is easier for men to blame their physical attributes for their failure (which in many respects they can't change and therefore can't be held responsible for), rather than those aspects of character etc. which you list, and which they can change (but don't) because then they would have to take responsibility and consider themselves blameworthy.

Thank you for your honest answer. Yes, I agree with you, that one can improve one's appearance. Outer qualities can and do change. and that gorgeous hunk you were attracted to could in time become the fat, bald ugly slob. Like my mama always told me: if you have to choose between a pretty face and a hot body, choose the pretty face. The body will probably get fat and out of shape, but the face will always be pretty. Well, it was something like that she said. and Hmmmm, not sure what that had to do with the topic, but hey I it came to mind when I was reading your post.

All I can say is Damn! I don't have that X factor (but I do have Y and Z.. will that work?)

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I am pretty sure I have the X factor!!

Well are you handsome? or Do you want the host to just say that you are handsome? and if you are not handsome and she does say that you are handsome, then will you turn around and say she is lying?

As the joke says: "When 3 people have sex..its called a three-some. When 2 people have sex.. its called a two-some. Now I know why they call U handsome !" :-)

lol

I hear ya! They make you feel like a piece of meat. I understand the frustration of a viewer getting a compliment bout his looks when he shows up with his willie in his hand. That is why, at this point, I always tell them "Wow, you are so intelligent and generous! I wish I had your babies". Never waste time with cheap compliments...hm, looks!

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"That's because you never been in my room "

I have and I know you do not get naked.

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Does not matter what a person looks like if the inside sucks.

A person can be hot as hell or handsome or pretty or whatever on the outside, but if they are mean or negative in any way on the inside then that will show thru and hide any outer beauty they may have. Whereas a person who is what some might call so so, can be very positive and beautiful on the inside and that will show thru to the outer side.

What one calls hot, good looking, or beautiful, etc ... another might call average or so so or even down right unattractive. Just like what one might call so so or unattractive or average, another might find hot, good looking, beautiful etc.

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There are moments when looks are everything. For instance, the fat ugly mid-aged man with a receding hairline and a wide ass, who happens to have a very hip and cool personality and a kickass sense of humour, will have NOTHING on a good looking random dude with average-everything-else, if they both liked the same chick in a bar. Unless fatty's wallet happens to be as fat as his ass. That can change things a bit.
There are many more examples such as this.
Also, why would one good looking, self aware woman, want to sit around all day, spanking fatty's out of shape rear end, just because he's "beautiful on the inside". Why, when she can have any man she wants? One that is also fuckable, besides "great to be with".
Just asking.

I agree 100%

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Yes, we all have our tastes in men, women or both. To me, fat is not first and foremost physically unattractive. It is a psychological issue.
A fat person, man or woman (note that I can go for a Rubenesque type of lady, as long as we're talking healthy-curvy, not BBW - no offense), equals unhealthy in my book. Unhealthy, lazy, careless. Attributes that I do not feel attracted to.
I do have a few fat co-workers, both male and female. They are too lazy to workout, too weak to give up on greasy, unhealthy food, and so on.
Mean as I may sound, I am not judgemental. I couldn't care less. If one decides the fat tissue that slowly wraps around their heart and chokes it till the point of a stroke, is something minor, that's fine by Me, but I won't feel any erotic arousal whatsoever.
I do like fat slave piglets though.

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Ummm you missed the part where I said what can happen to someone who gains more than what "curvy" stands for.

Regardless, since it's not MY health in line, all I wanna know is, why have you been on diets anyway?

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I was all set to disagree with you but you wrote a very good post so I have changed my mind and I agree with a lot of what you said.

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Hey there. Just wanted to add on a positive note: I've done alot of management over the years....and in one job, my most productive worker was an overweight lady....a definitely fat person.

Sexually...just on a visual basis...extemely fat turns me off...but generally speaking, I'd take someone a bit overweight, instead of too darn thin....I always say: I don't want to be afraid if I hug them, I might break them :)

Anyway it's an involved subject...many points on both sides, but I'll just leave it with those two comments above, and this closing one... It really bois down to this: other than personal visual appeal, it's a classic case of don't judge a book by its cover.

My but it's a beautiful day outside...here at least...hopefully wherever you are as well. Hope everyone has a great one. Take care.

A fat person can also be fat due to a medical condition.

Yes, most people who are fat want to believe that for themselves, but the fact is, those who are fat for medical reasons are far less in number than those who are fat because of bad eating habits and poor exercise activities.

Of course, there are some who argue that there is a genetic cause: fat genes. You know what those are, don't you?

That's when a wife puts on a pair of blue denims, flaunts herself in front of a mirror, and asks her husband: "Do these jeans make me look fat?" The wise man will not answer.

.... and the stupid man answers "No the jeans do not make you look fat. It's the fact you are fat that makes you look fat"

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Have you giving this idea much thought. Just imagine your wife catching you wanking off over pictures, now what would she say.

Are you absolutely sure youve got all the relevant literacy qualifications?

good observation and while I'm thinking about this topic, CC has a lot of photoshop profile pictures, giving me a great idea to fix up my photo.

If you want a social network , why not try Facebook. This is and adult cam sites, where many (can't say all or most on this site) men come to watch girls get naked. They like to watch and wank for a price, not socialize. It's really that simple, no need to make it complicated.

then those people are unlikely to read the forums.here is where we can have post wanking interaction.think of it as pillow talk.the meanderings of the mind after we have lost bodily fluids as our mind unwinds & we prepare for next chapter :--)

How are "these days" different from previous times?
The guy who made the reply seems to be just looking for an excuse to puff his chest out and complain about something in the same manner as an old fart yelling "you kids git offa my lawn." There is no difference between "these days" and whatever broken memory he is trying to conjure up of the "good ol' days." that never existed.

People have always went about documenting, analysing, and discussing every aspect of their personal lives. The only difference now is they do the same thing through a media that makes it easier for the rest of the world to listen in. Instead of the drunk on the next barstool we get the same guy on a keyboard - who knows where.
Like diaries or journals, like artwork, like books, like editorials in the newspaper, like break time at work, like cavemen scratching images on a stone wall?

"Social networks, forums, and other media." Wow, as in people interacting socially in a "place" that was created for people to interact socially? Now way! Get out!

Even in Internet terms general sharing or random thoughts is nothing new. Go back to the original webcam sites of the mid 90s. What basically became known as blogging was then labeled as "E/N" sites, or "everything/nothing."
It's not exactly some new phenomena. What's strange is people who seek it out only to complain that it exists.

I have facebook, twitter and many more sites I go to. Camcontacts is my favorite by far, and no one is complaining, I'm just evaluating my life and if I want to stick my chest out to do that, I will. Anyway did anyone see the movie "Think Like A Man", if so what do you think of Regina Hall performance in it.

was referring to you sticking your chest out.
Your post is the type of post this forum is for.

WHOAAAAAAAAA!that's a way,way,way too considered,rational,logical post.you should be ashamed of yourself punk :--)

Fuck. How do I get drawn into these things :(
Back to that which jiggles! (And I don't mean INYF's ghetto booty shakin either)

You are arguing against yourself. Diaries and journals are essentially for private consumption (at least the honest ones are) which is the exact opposite of the phenomenon that was being criticised. Similarly much creative work is essentially cathartic and will have an existence entirely independent of any need for an audience.

And you missed the point.
But with a limiting assumption that private thought made public must be dishonest, well, that's not really surprising.

'The guy who made the reply seems to be just looking for an excuse to puff his chest out and complain about something in the same manner as an old fart yelling "you kids git offa my lawn." '

DirtyPunk... that is a great analogy, and, I think, a true and accurate assessment of that person

Time will tell AustinPP I have ask the question, now it's up to her

I"m not AustinPP, and I thought DirtyPunk was referring to the person who replied to you in the previous thread who begins his posts with ~

why

why what?

"it"is always of interest to others.for such a small,seemingly insignificant & unassuming word,the connotations & permeatations can be jaw-dropping & mind-blowing.it's the mystery & mystique of this wonderful word.it tells us so little,yet so much.it's a riddle wrapped in an enigma.just my thoughts on"it" :--)

do I hear wedding bells and the master of cc, saying-do you take this woman to be your wife

oh by the way Digger are you okie

Good question. I ask myself that question as well. And I will assume you are asking why members are here and not hosts. I think human motivations are frequently subconscious and unclear. Certainly sex is part of it for many. But I can think of other reasons as well. Such as:
1. Curious.
2. Bored.
3. Lonely.
4. Like to flirt.
5. Chat room is full of people just looking for company.
6. Men here in the middle of mid life crisis.
7. Obsessive compulsive disorder.
etc, etc, etc.
Why do you think you are here Digger?

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Why do people these days feel the need to document, analyse, discuss, every aspect of their personal lives in social networks, forums, and other media. For some tenuous connection with the trappings of celebrity culture. Live your life; enjoy it; but don't assume it is of any interest to anybody else.

They sound like liberal morons

maybe you need to ask khamelion and johnz this question if you get to see them next time your here, their here 24/7 at your service, anyway I have ask myself this question a few times and have always come up with the same answer: entertainment with beautiful women from all around the world since I can't afford to travel to those places.

"entertainment with beautiful women from all around the world since I can't afford to travel to those places"

Ahem, the hosts just go ahead and connect from every free wi-fi part of their city, to show you around, which is as close as possible to traveling there ?

Oh oh, or... are you actually trying to say online pussy from a certain part of the world, is more affordable than realtime pussy from the same location?

I'm confused. Which one is it?

Thats exactly why some guy come to hosts rooms not for sexy shows or at least not only for sexy shows...but for interaction with someone who lives in 1000 kms away and have different mentality. Some people really inerested in it.

maybe it's neither of your options, but the opportunity to interact and socialize with a person from another culture, nationality, language. Whether here or abroad, I find it interesting getting to know people from other nations and cultures. Maybe that's all the guy was saying as well. Why does it always have to be about "pussy"?

"the man"; "entertainment"; "beautiful women". what do these keywords make you think of, backpacking around the world?

A lot more than getting to the pussy

The flirt, the teasing, the innocent yet spicy sexy chit-chat. Bla-bla bla-bla yada-yada. Since the action is taking place HERE, which is quite a determinant factor, let's cut the flirting and all that, since subconsciously, it is all about the pussy and potential release. Here. On this adult paysite. "The man", well, his subconscious anyway, needed an excuse, due to the shame he often feels. Simple as that.

Wow, I love mind-readers who know the mind of every person who comes here :)

Whereas you sound as intelligent as conservative gets...

" intelligent", now I can go for some of that, always in the mood for that. Do, tell me more, please and "notice" the tone of my speech I asked nicely.

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Of course not. Sometimes it is cooking dinner, sometimes it is cleaning up after dinner...

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Ahhh if only I could press a button and she would walk over and change the tv channel for me. That would be perfect.

And how many men does it take to open a can of beer?

None.

She should already have it opened when she brings it to him on the couch

maybe your right AnneCaroline and maybe more. There is something about this place keeps bringing me back

Yeah, the cheap price, and this right here....the forums.

There are several other sites out there which all have many beautiful, intelligent women from all over the world. CC though, has by far, the lowest prices, and is also the only one that I know of at least, that has both a general forum and community chat as well.

Tell me about it. I'm married to one! LOL

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Umm, errrr, well, uhhh, oops

This seems an odd response on Digger's post about why people come to CC. But on the other hand maybe it is not such an anomaly. Pretty much most of the strings in the Discussion Forum degenerate pretty quickly into personal attacks of one kind or another. And try as I might I just can't quite rise to the bait of being called a moron on an Internet chat/porn site. Anyway, this is sort of Digger's string. If you would like to start a string about American politics, or how folks with a different political view from you are all morons, or even a string about how pete9 is a socialist-commie- pinko then go for it. Although frankly it would be nice if you did not post anonymously.

get real, I'm not into politics, sorry. Was just a question and I have found my answer above after reading AnneCaroline comment, thanks

I didn't reply because I wasn't sure if you were asking a riddle, or looking for valid reasons other than sex to be here.

Why do I come here? I can answer that> For sexual fun at times, for interesting interaction with hosts mostly, to enjoy the forums, to give me something to do when i have nothing else to do (or don't feel like doing it), and because the prices here are more reasonable than anywhere else. If it was all about the sexual fun, I could get that from anywhere.

Why? Because May 5 was the "reverse day", when everything was upside down, and you were a profound, extremely intelligent individual, that's why!
Bet thing are back no normal now, eh?

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