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make babies!! hehehe

I prefer quite wide apart.

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Depends..on the lengh of the girl`s legs..and where she wants it in ...

spoken by a true veteran! Someone who knows!

And I meant that as a compliment, btw, not sarcasm

Wait, while I ask my little guy.....

He says, "For me it depends also on how big the girl's ass and thighs are. The bigger the butt, the thicker the thighs, the wider the spread, or I may not make it in. But for those skinny girls with bony butts, close in and tight is what's just right."

I couldn`t wrote it better myself..;-)

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And is this judgment? lol

“Oh Great Spirit, keep me from ever judging a man until I have walked a mile in his moccasins.”
~Attributed to a Sioux prayer.

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The simplest explanation for the abundance of the "rude members" topic, is that there truly ARE gobs of rude members on this site, hence the effect - hosts complaining on the Forums. Occam's razor.
There are also way too many posts regarding who does not get naked, and why, in the viewers Forum. So, there's balance, and it must be preserved.
Who cares what would a first time forum reader's conclusions would be. I don't. Why do you?

OK by gobs you mean that most viewers are crude and rude? Are you saying there are only a small number of polite viewers? And what is Occam's razor? I never heard that term before. Can you enlighten me?

By "gobs", I mean many. Not most. Just many. Like, let's say a quarter of a typical vanilla category host's members can be considered rude, by that particular host's standards. I can't give you personal numbers. I never get rude members. Just as you correctly assumed, slaves and subs are anything but rude. Most of all, they are educated people.

Occam's razor is a principle by a nominalist/logician named Ockham. It mainly states that if in a given context, other things being equal, from a sum of solutions/answers, the simpler is better than the more complex ones.

Thank you for the information. For some reason I thought you were a viewer and was wondering how you knew so much about viewers. So ok then in the "vanilla" as you say 25% of their viewers are crude? But the other 75% of us are ok? Well that sounds more reasonable than the impression given by some posts I've seen here. But in some way it has the effect of painting all viewers as being rude. What I mean is, some hosts may stereotype all viewers as being rude.

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That's nice to hear. Thank you.

all other things being equal then a simpler explanation is better than a more complex one.

and the most used 3 letters on this site must be CBT or SPH. Especially if you limit the count to those posts that have viewer somewhere in the posting name.

and the most used 3 letters on this site must be CBT or SPH. Especially if you limit the count to those posts that have viewer somewhere in the posting name.

SPH. It's a small world filled with small cock. CBT is only for the select few, the strong, the chosen ones.

Small and large are relative words. Just out of curiosity what size do you consider small? And since hosts are not allowed to use torture in their shows, why is ok to torture even willing viewers?

To answer your first question: In summer or in winter? Cause it's very important. Season changes everything, it really does; yes.
Hosts are not allowed to use torture, but that does not equal Bondage (or self-bondage). It does not equal sensation play either, nor spanking/caning/whipping. It is usually related to extreme acts.
" Why is ok to torture even willing viewers?" - That will hopefully become possible in the next 30-40 years, through the use of some badass computer controlled tactile perception modulator, or whatever name they'll have for it. Until then, it is impossible for a host to torture a viewer, no matter how bad they would want that to happen. Unless they're in for a OMG-WHAT-IS-THIS-I-DONT-EVEN mind fuck. That sort of torture can totally be applied while behind a computer, and with great results.
Why is it ok, anyway? Because whatever happens between two adults, while being done in a Safe, Sane and Consensual manner, as long as each participant's limits and desires are respected, IS OK.

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And you know it too, so we rule together! Haha
Smooches mylady!

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Interesting, my dick is the same size all year long. On the torture issue, I didn't do a good job explaining myself. A host is not allowed to injure herself on cc in a cam show. But a viewer at the insistance of a host can harm himself in a live cam show on cc? And yes I agree 100% about consenting adults doing whatever to each other.

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Some very well reasoned and eloquent posts. I especially enjoyed the reference to the contemporary American philosopher and free thinker. Welcome back. Although Sepethrea does not appear as a host name I am pretty sure i recognise your style.

what about the respect of some chathosts for the viewers. They are in paid session here and also stay in freechat on other sites well as long as the stupid who is in paid session pays , why should they bother about a word like RESPECT which obvious doesn't exist for them , and after they complain about rude members well... some get what they really deserve I guess.

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especially if you post the same thing twice

From talking with the hosts I have got to know well a very small percentage (less than 10pct) of members here are verbally rude. One of the reasons why hosts like this site is that the members are generally nicer than on many other sites. One of the reasons why rudeness by members is a common topic is because it is the exception rather than the rule. Another reason is a very rude member can upset a host and spoil her mood for a session.

The host Sepethrea put that figure at 25%. and I've had hosts tell me in pvt they get about a 50/50 mix of rude and polite viewers. So it depends on who you talk to. Since there is no public video here, we viewers can not see rude members in public view. So the only way to know is to read these forums or ask hosts we know.

Sepethrea's 25pct figure was not from her personal experience but her estimate, presumably from talking with other hosts. I deliberately said verbally rude. If the host's definition of a rude member is one who leaves without saying goodbye or enters and leaves within a couple of minutes then the figure may well be closer to 25pct. I jave never spoken with a host who hs had as high as 50pct rude members as an overall average so I feel this may be an exception.

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On this site there are both rude and crude viewers ...there are also nice and polite viewers...just like there are nice hosts and there are not nice hosts...

but we also have both nice and not nice people on any site as well as in real life too....sometimes what one person thinks is rude and crude another sees it as being overly blunt...and what some think as being nice and polite ...another will think ass kisser or pussy whipped or something...

It will always depend on the people involved and the situation...but it is not really fair to say that because a host posts about it means that she should change her career choice...if I am just grateful for those that are nice and polite and treat us like people and not something that they stepped in...to those I say thank you.

Thank you for your very reasonable replies. The part about hosts being more diplomatic in this forum makes good business sense in my opinion. I only suggested that in general terms, there may be some cases that a girl did make a mistake when she chose to be a cam girl. It's not for everyone like any other job. The percentage of rude viewers varies from none to 50% depending on what host you talk to.

Again in my opinion, I think posters like T can sometimes be very negative and abrasive. I don't doubt their honesty, but I don't like being lumped in with rude viewers, since I am never rude. I believe in being polite in free chat, open and 121 video in all categories. In my opinion there is nothing to be gained by being rude. I think a host should be able to ban a rude member on the spot, be it in free chat or paid video. But how do you define a rude viewer? That is where it can get complicated. The devil is in the details. I have gotten CC Mail from hosts in Glamour and Little Shy telling me I'm banned for being rude. In every case in open video, I asked "Do you ever get naked in 121?" And for that statement and that statement alone I was called rude and banned. OK if that statement is rude, I'll change my post name from polite viewer to rude viewer. I'm not lying , this actually happened to me. No, not all of the time or most of the time, but more than once or twice. Sorry if I offended, that was never my intention. The vast majority of hosts do a very good job and the cc staff has always been helpful and fair to me.

they banned you not because u were rude asking them about show, but they worry u can rate them bad if they won't get naked for u. well, on my opinion it's useless tactic as member can change the name and come to the room as a new member and rate them bad for that ban.

Hosts that say they have not had rude nor crude members are lucky, but there are those of us who have had rude and crude members, it is a fact of life as has been said rude people are everywhere online and offline...

Simply asking a host if she gets nude or removes her clothes in a video is not rude at all, and it is very silly to ban someone simply for asking, how else will a member know if he is going to be wasting his money only to not get what he wants. I prefer to be asked if I do a certain thing before the member enters the video, I would not want a member to enter my video without knowing before hand, because that only creates upset, frustration and there is no shortage of angry posts in the forums from members complaining that they did not get what they wanted.

I can understand and appreciate that you do not like being clumped in with rude and crude members, but at the same time we hosts who do our best to please members, do the best show we can what ever the request is and be honest with members do not like being clumped in with hosts who do not. So as has been said here many times it does make a difference with how we word things, because on this site all we have are what is typed.

Members let everyone know when they are annoyed or upset with a host by posting in the forums and sometimes those posts are written in anger and are not nice, so at the same time why should we hosts not be able to post a question or a comment about a situation as well. The way I look at it is that maybe by posting not only does it give the members some idea and better understanding of what hosts deal with, but it also gives hosts a chance to say if they have experienced the same thing and to warn them, it also gives all a chance to give helpful insight, ideas and suggestions of how to deal with certain situations, and as shown in the thread started by Unsure host, it also can give some very nice support from all.

A nice and polite member, be it in video or in free chat is a nice welcome to over shadows the times that we do have to deal those who are not so nice, again it is the same with any job. So no there is no need to change ur name to rude member simply because some did not like the question that you asked, instead the hosts that banned you for asking should count themselves lucky that you did ask in a polite way.

My apologies, I referred to unsure host's post when I meant shy host's post of why be so crude.

Thank you for your post. As I posted I have had a great experience with the vast majority of hosts and cc staff. I know there will never be a perfect situation. I only posted because of shy host's thread. Overall I am a very happy customer.

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I'm happy you seem to have solved your problem by raising your price, but wouldn't raising your price drive away some good customers?

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i am here 3 years) no one rude viewer)) one was) but he is more stupid than rude)

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"Blonde" is a state of mind! Or so they say ;)

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already the earth has stopped revolving

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"some guys might really have mental issues or deviant behaviours,"

I completely agree. In addition to the ones you mention, I would add the slaves, CBT, SPH, titty milk, pregnant loving crowd. Just because they may not be rude does not me they are completely sane and normal.

Wow! talk about a judgment call! I'm not quite so sure that some of the fetishes expressed could be classified as being not sane. I may not agree with them, I may not understand the reason for them, I may not be turned on by those things, but I'm not going to stand here and say the people who do get turned on by them are not sane. There was a time when certain "accepted" sexual behaviors were considered taboo and the perverted desires of sick minds. But values change with society, and many things that once were considered unacceptable are now, at least, considered neutral, if not acceptable

I couldn't have said it better myself, LIG! I would only add that for what's worth, it could even be a wind up. An unusual one but what is there to say it's not!

I offered an opinion not a judgement. It is you who have judged my opinion. And it is a fact that there are polite insane people in the world. And I do not believe people getting their jollies with lactating, being a slave, CBT and SPH is the accepted social norm.

Neither was Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Homosexuality, Lesbianism, Bisexuality. They may not be totally accepted in some circles, they may not even be the "social norm" BUT they are certainly far more acceptable in 2012, than they were in 1962. What a difference a couple of generations has made in what is, and what is not, accepted. What is considered abnormal today may very well be considered normal, acceptable behavior in a generation or two. And your "opinion" was indeed a judgment.

Yes I agree, an opinion is a judgement.

Definition of OPINION

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a : a view, judgment, or appraisal formed in the mind about a particular matter

But I opined on the subject posted about and you rendered your judgement on my opinion, not the subject being discussed.

quote: "Just because they may not be rude does not me they are completely sane and normal."

"Normal" and "abnormal" are defined by society.

""Normal" and "abnormal" are defined by society."

I agree, but you were the one who started norms of society etc. In my original reply I agreed with the thread starter vis-a-vis crude viewers. I simply suggested there may be other groups that may deed that same designation she gave the crude viewers.

If one's arguments in a debate start being focused around excuses, such as "But you said / but he started " (you see the pattern), then they pretty much become invalid.
Also, these kindergarten-like exchanges of opinions (because this is not what a real debate looks like) wouldn't have happened at all, if you would have limited yourself to agreeing with the OP, without using your reply as an excuse to bash a community (the Fetish/BDSM community to be exact), you know close to nothing about.
As a person who's been "clinically tested" and been found "mentally stable, sane and healthy" on several occasions, and who's also pretty involved in that disgusting, sick and twisted lifestyle, I could as well feel offended by your remarks. It is not the case, mind you.
The thing is, as one famous American contemporary philosopher and freethinker once said: "You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow. This opportunity comes once in a lifetime. Yo"

Oh, I would add, even Masturbation was considered "abnormal" and "taboo", and people were made to feel "dirty" and "guilty" by societal attitudes. Attitudes have changed. It may not be something you talk about in the open for discretionary reasons, but it certainly is not, for the most part, looked upon in the same light as did my grandparents

I would add Transgender to your list. People are becoming more open to this, but still has a long long way to go.

What society accepts as "normal" as well as what it defines as "sick" has nothing to do with actual mental conditions. Society defined girls who masturbated on a regular bases, as "sexual deviants". Some, were treated with clitoridectomies. That was what the society you crave acceptance of, approved with, and considered to be the right thing to do for such "sick" young women, at the beginning of the 20th century. The same society allowed and moreover, *encouraged* parents of gay people, to institutionalize them in mental care facilities. Also, for extreme cases, chemical castration was more than acceptable.
That same society is the one judging Fetishists all over the world nowadays. What's normal for you might be plain boring and limited to Me, and what's fun and exciting in My case, might sound sick and twisted to you. But individual difference will never equal pathology.
By the way, most sexual deviants (i.e. rapists, child molesters, incest seekers) are vanilla people with no fetishes whatsoever, and no knowledge or interest in BDSM. Just lower middle class, high school educated at most, boring people. There are exceptions, but if you do some research, that's what you'll find. So, tell Society to be real careful with the not so obvious crowd.

I agree. It was LIG who brought society norm into the conversation. And my first reply only stated that I considered some other groups as possibly being insane, since the some others thought rude viewers were insane sexual deviants.

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You are correct the OP did not refer to viewers as sexual deviants, but the host that replied to her did. "some guys might really have mental issues or deviant behaviours,they don't realise they offend or something."

So it was her post I was referring to. Sorry if I didn't make that clear.

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We are all entitled to our own opinions regardless of whether it offends some people or not. Many opinions offend me, but I respect the right of everyone to their own opinion and never complain.

I think it's safe to say none of us are qualified to say what is actually insane or not. I stand by my opinion.

your insane in my opinion

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just repeating the same rubbish doesn't make your argument any more compelling

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why did u bring it here? around sites like this many strange people, they used abuse free-chats, you should already ok with it and dont pay attention on such people. in every work are some faults.

wow so much contraversy...and hostility from one post and not one response to answer the question of how members would feel if they were in free chat and had to read such things from another member....

would it cause you to leave the host's free chat?
would it cause you to make a comment to that member in free chat?

or what?

There are other people here besides me?

Okay, I am a member and I will reply to your original question: How would a member feel reading those kinds of comments?

It pisses me off, honestly. The words I want to use will probably be censored out so I will refrain. But there have been times I have wished I could take someone out and shake the shi, oops, the doo doo out of them, or slap the cra, oops doo doo, out of them. At times I've felt like verbally attacking them in chat (and at times I have) but I learned from a host it's her room and her responsibility (not mine) to deal with such rude behaviors. So now when I encounter it, I bite my tongue and refrain. Someone above said you can't see what others type here, but you can. I have. But mostly I'm referring to experiences on other sites. But it does go on here.

So to boil it down to a simple answer: it makes me mad, it disgusts me when people are so rude to the host and the other viewers, and have no regard for the confines of the category.

That is how I, as a viewer feel, when seeing such cra, oops, doo doo.

Yes you can see what members type when in a host's free text or in video if they do not use the type to host only option and many do type so all can see whether they are in free text or in video be it open or 121 if they use the type to all option.

Nothing in 121 can be seen by anyone not in the video.

Whether in open session or 121 or free chat, if a member types in public it can be read by anyone who is sitting your room waiting!!! I did not say anything about what is being watched, I am only talking about what is typed, if a member does not choose to type so only the host can read it then anyone can read what is being typed. be it in open session, 121 or free chat. A member must choose to type to only the host and not to all.

As a viewer I can what a member types if he is not using pvt chat and is in open. However, if a host is in 121, I get a message saying hosts is in 121 and choose another host. That is all I can see.

As a host I agree that yes when in a 121 session those in free chat will get that message, however, I have had members say that even tho it was a 121 session, while sitting in free chat waiting they could still see what was being typed by the member in the 121 session, if he did not use the pvt typing so only to the host could read it...I have had a few members tell me this and some have left because the member in the 121 would not type using the pvt mode and those in free chat waiting did not read what he was typing.

Thank you LIG you are the only one that answered my question, apart from the supportive responses, the question itself seem to have gotten lost and the post went way off track and talking about insanity which i not even say nothing of.....lool

Seems to me someone was asking about her a few weeks ago in this forum. Can't remember who, or about what, or what kind of replies. If you have time you might scroll through a few pages. Quickest way is probably to do CTRL-F, type in the name Sensusveris and then click OK. scroll down to bottom of page, hit NEXT then click OK on your Search box, and keep repeating. beats trying to read every entry, and quickly let's you go through several weeks' pages in search of something.

I wish CC would put some kind of search function in these forums. Would come in handy from time to time

I think that if any host wanted to keep in touch with one or any of their customers, they would do so using CC Mail. These girls have lives outside of this site and things change. There are any number of reasons a girl wants to put this site or any other cam site behind her.

I think if all of us keep in mind that this is first and foremost a business. We all pay the going rate the host charges us and she does whatever it she does in open or 121 and we either like what happened and come back again or we move on to the next model. It's really that simple. So let's all just concentrate on having fun and leave the drama behind.

Agree

Sometimes, there are certain hosts that "do it" for a person. I mean, their looks, their style, their whatever, just clicks with a person. Maybe a certain host makes their desire fly through the roof, Maybe they hit it off in a special way (not talking romance, love, or anything like that). I can understand a person wanting to find host who once was just the right host for their needs or desires. I understand their disappointment when a host disappears. Their was one host years ago who left CC but who, in my opinion, was the hottest, most gorgeous, most sexy host I ever found. Something about her just "did it" for me. No romance. But I truly enjoyed every visit, And when she left off hosting, no one has ever had the same impact on me. It wasn't romance, or desire to meet her. Just someone I truly enjoyed. I don't think that's drama.

Now on the other hand, the bleeding hearts society that goes on here, the people who can't distinguish fantasy from reality, who think that every host is falling madly in love with them, and think they are madly in love with the host, and just have to meet the host in real life .... that I think is drama, Not to mention deludeness in most cases. And yes, someone will always jump in and say, OH I MET SO AND SO, or I AM IN LOVE AND WE'RE GOING TO GET MARRIED. And in some rare instances, it may be true, but my guess is 99.9% of the time it's wishful thinking, and false hopes.

Sometimes just happen some good sessions and guy seems put me so high...but with time things can change and it's already not so good as it was before. so I mean that maybe were just successful sessions not particular host.

Success here can only be measured in terms of revenue generated.

for the host, that is! LOL

How about a hint at that host's name...or maybe the first letter of it? I am curious:)

She is long gone, Tina, and her pics have long been removed

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Total agree.
You may feel "love" here is real, both ways and fulfilling. It is easy to hit it off while wearing masks, pretending for money on one side and projecting and fantasizing on the other side. But when reality finally strikes and you want "personal contact" love turns from projecting feelings of love onto someone out of reach into rejection in the best honest case or stalling and letting you suffer in the worst case. And denying this rejection can be suffocating, you may feel like you're not good enough and lose initiative and self-respect. And dollars per minute.
With mutual respect and stories to tell I believe both viewer and hosts can have even more enlightening and fruitful conversations and sessions here! We hosts are doing hard work keeping up conversations and helping you guys to release the pressure when "in need" before you go crazy or depressed or do something stupid. But we can not and we do not intend to replace your real world and real friends. I do not want to take the butter from our own bread here, but I can just encourage all viewers to also get a real life and spend their spirit and life-energy with real people and real friends. With mutual respect and stories to tell I believe both viewer and hosts can have even more enlightening and fruitful conversations and sessions here!

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delusional Here??, no Way. its all real please do not burst my bubble

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Happy Easter !!!

Happy Easter))))

and to all who celebrate next week an early Happy Easter to you.
may you have the day off to celebrate with your loveed ones.
for the ladies flowers and a nice Easter outfit. for the guys a nice day to enjoy.

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not sure about bra..but inflatable tits is common..;-)

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I so hate bra, so uncomfortable !

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Firm, I hate shaved too! :P

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If U say so, Then why not u shave on your head? Head has more hair than private part! :P

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I agree. Shaved boobies... real turn off. I like them hairy.

If it was a SELECT NUMBER Inflatable boob, you could service two guys at same time with different tastes. Set the right boob to 10, and the left boob to 5, or whatever is necessary for guys who like different size boobies.

that reminds me of when i had a dutch girlfriend with a fetish for inflatable footwear.......i was devestated when she popped her clogs.

LOL!

shilo that was truly abysmal.

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Evidently, it has an air chamber which fills with air and makes it bigger.

I have an inflatable condom to make me look bigger during sex. Bad thing was though, it accidentally got a hole in it and I flew about the room for 5 minutes as it deflated.

I was watching something similar on tv last week. It was about stand up comedians and how they deal with hecklers and the show progressed into the movie industry and how celebs deal with critics who are able to hide behind their desks and make their "reviews" more into personal attacks on the actors who star in the movies reviewed.

It really does make you sit up and take notice of how much fuck all worth watching goes into television programming.

I sometimes wonder how the tenor of this discussion board would change if people had to use their host or member name. Even with the relative anonymity of those names, people are typically too chicken shit to use their own "CCname."

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Didn't know the guy's name, but I remember the story as being true about the tamping bar passing through his skull and him living. Didn't know the latter parts though about his saying what he wanted to say and propensity for nudity.

He sounds like one of the slaves that many hosts talk about on site. He loved going to the dungeon and have a domina tell him to smash his cock and balls with a hammer aka CBT. D (((

ouch!

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Every time I catch a glimpse of the celebrity rags offered up at the checkout line at my local supermarket, I see headlines ripping apart celebrities of every stripe. It's our culture, tearing down people who have more than most happens to sell very well to those who have the least. If that same sentiment is popping up on social networking sites, just relax, it's nothing more than a bunch of idiots parroting back the same shit that they see and hear others saying.

Just out of curiosity, do you see any good in the idea of anonymity on the internet, or were you so overcome by those images of cravens, all hunched over their keyboards and spewing no-good, super-bad hate, that you found yourself inspired to write your congressman to demand he write a law making it a criminal act to ever anonymize anything one ever does online?

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"Just out of curiosity, do you see any good in the idea of anonymity on the internet, or were you so overcome by those images of cravens, all hunched over their keyboards and spewing no-good, super-bad hate, that you found yourself inspired to write your congressman to demand he write a law making it a criminal act to ever anonymize anything one ever does online?"

No not at all. I think anonymity is one of the main selling points of internet chat rooms. On the other hand social media like Facebook where people use real names and locations have been a bonanza for thieves and other criminals. I hold my privacy and the privacy of others to be sacred. However being anonymous is no reason to trash others. And in my opinion I think most people, even anonymous people are respectful of others.

Nobody likes a guy who shouts all the time anyway.

Nope, it doesn't bother me at all. Worrying that they are talking about you?

no, i just thought it was an amusing idea. being as how we only talk about hosts in viewer only. some good some bad. excuse me for bothering you. i am half blind and it is easier for me to type in caps so i can see it. it wont happen again.

Try enlarging your web page. If you have a wheel mouse, hold the CTRL button and scroll the mouse wheel. OR, for google chrome, look for the wrench, in the menu bar, go to Zoom and change up to 500%. OR if using Internet Explorer, go to VIEW, on the menu bar, select ZOOM and enlarge it, I think, up to 1000%. I too am half blind, and that is how I do it. Usually with IE, i never need to go above 650 in the Custom Zoom section. Good luck!

Those are good tips for enlarging the print. My favorite way to do it is to press control + to make it bigger, or control - to make it smaller.

thats awesome. thanks for teaching this old dog some new tricks. its like a whole new world on here.

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I can verify what T says. I emailed cc some years back and was told by staff that using any members name was not allowed in any forum.

It's all the same old same old talk about how gorgeous I am.
I swear it never ends...

and u are too good to be true even for yourself.aren't ya?:)))))))

They write about how to earn more money there....

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Who gives a fuck about getting blocked...

I am never rude, never spend more than 1 min in free chat if at all, never make any demands (except in IA). But I am brutally honest and call hosts on false or misleading advertising and have been blocked countless times.

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who cares about being block by certain host, we can go to others, thanks cc for having over a thousand host here.

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If you only log for an hour that day and have this one and only viewer and the next day stars have gone down, it's not difficult to know who did it :)

Well, I have been a chat host on CC for a very long time and I mean, a very long time! In all my time here I have never, ever blocked anyone!

The guys that start a session in a rude manner I see them as a challenge. After a while, quite often, they prove to be quite nice! And they return, unless, they have got a fetish about being rude, in which case, they say sorry and they go.

The ones that come to free chat, as you described, if I have the time I’ll chat, not a problem. Again, quite often, they do come in video chat and some of them have said that their decision to come in was based amongst other reasons, on the fact that I didn’t try to persuade them to come in, in the first place, they didn’t feel pressured. Some of them have said that they were testing to see if I do ask for video chat - everyone is different. Some members like to be asked, some don’t. The way I see it is, if they want to come to my vid they will anyway, weather I ask them or not. On the other hand if they give a hint that, that’s what they want, then I invite them in because it is obvious that they are expecting an invitation.
As for the ones that are only after free chat, because of the frequency and duration of the video sessions, in the end, they give up.

The ones that don’t pay attention to the profiles, I can tell them how far things can go. If they are alright with it, fine, of not, no hard feelings! Quite often, and especially the members that come straight to vid, I ask them from the beginning, what it is that they are interested in? My way to find out if they’ve read the profile! If their answer proves they have, fantastic! If not, I always warn them about the limits! If they become pushy then it’s a case of - I made it clear from the beginning….. Most of the times they appreciate that and they either carry on, or they go. Some members will always try to push the boundaries, it is human nature!
What have all of these gained me? Many returns, busy times and members (that I don’t class just as members anymore) that are constantly coming in vid, and have done so, for years now.

I am not saying it is wrong blocking the members if you are not happy it is your choice. CC has made the option available for a reason. All I am saying is that sometimes, a bit of flexibility, patience, tolerance and understanding can be ones best friend in the long run. What I’ve described above is just another way of being a chathost on CC. There are many ways! :)

I wish you the best of luck!

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Agree with you, I behave the same. I can chit-chat sometime, but if I start to get too intime or too personal questions I say thats only for video-chat.
Those who come to my text-chat to make tests (if she will be pushy for pvt) I simply ignore after about 15 min chatting, I even don't need such men in my pvt, because obvious they will be treat me bad there, because their money is more important for them than time with me.

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Wow.
I never realized you had it so rough here. I have found a new perspective on life now. Your post has transformed me into a changed man and I will strive to be more caring in all aspects of my interpersonal Internet dealings in the future.
Thank you and may the gods shine upon your soul.

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I have to disagree...
There is always need to get sarcastic :)

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"The other guys I blocked were the ones that proposed me money for shows on Skype, or to date me"
Your post is very reasonable. But I only wanted to point out that there is one site I know of where the girls can promise a Skype show if the member spends so much in pvt or tips a certain amount. I am only reporting what I've seen on another site and not making any excuses for any member that asked you. For the record, I always get to know the rules of all sites I visit for both members and the girls and do my level best to follow the rules. Rules are there for all of us to follow.

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any skype show are not allowed at CC. host's profile will be banned if she will agree do it.

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What is free chat? you mean txt? isn't there open or 121, both of which you pay for?

Happy Easter to ThomasPaine and Hosts,Members and Camcontacts too :)))

Peace out!! :))

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yes on 15th a horse of certain statue in my city will have painted eggs again. It often happens at Easter hihi

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May this Easter find you a man who is hung like Jesus :)

I would prefer the one hung like Michael Fassbender in 'Shame' :)

Wasn't Thomas Paine a deist?

Eh, all the same, happy chocolate bunnies to all who celebrate them.

I'm glad you asked that, because the same thought went through my mind as well when I read his post. Deists didn't believe in supernatural or miracles, so why would Thomas Paine wish Happy Easter to anyone?

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I never forget that I came for a nude show :P

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it takes more to mae a pleasant conversation last longer than a nude show...the only condition for a nude show is a host's body...but for a conversation even a sex related one...the host has to know english...very well...and other qualities...

why did u wait 3-4 years to ask that? maybe she was just horny and wanting to play:P, maybe she didnt understood english too well or couldnt maintain the discussion u were having, maybe she just had a bad day, maybe she wasnt used to meet guys chatting, maybe ...maybe ...maybe. Could be so many reasons..and me for one i have no problems with the guy chatting long and much..:)

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We are here to make money and the less we do for it, the better. It made me laugh how you assume hosts want to do a nude show unless asked otherwise. No no no you got it all wrong :) Hosts want to do nothing in pvt unless asked otherwise :)

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If i go video I would much prefer if the host sooner or later gets naked. I am often reluctant to ask for it, because it seems a bit rude and impolite and also because fundamentally I am shy. But the fact of the matter the reason I will return to visit a host is that I saw her naked before, not because I want the conversation. So if a host wants my repeat business and you are in a category that has some of hope of women getting naked, best remove your clothes.
But I am sure others feel differently.

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Once or twice I have had a member talk too long and it took the arousal away..saying what is wanted so the host knows is what is one thing but sometimes if you over talk it then it will and can have a reverse affect...

As said if a member wants a show then it is best that he asks for it, because if he does not say nor indicate what he wants then good chance he might not get it.

Happy Easter to everyone .... :)

I had a host tell me to shut up and just enjoy the show LOL

This is easier if she's multitasking, or has 2-3 viewers :)

I was her only viewer, but I was trying to talk my way through the sex, describing what I was doing, step by step making love to her. I was trying to be "romantic" in a phone-sex kind of way LOL Boring to her, boring to me, awkward, distracting, I felt like telling myself to shutup and enjoy the show. Now I just go into a host's room, tell her "give it all you got, baby, and do it to me!" To hell with romance!
Actually i try to be a bit more interactive, but don't give a play-by-play.

I am just need some words from member to know if all that I do right to him at least he who paid so I do it for him. Also I dont mind if man does some instruction like: turn... closer...zoom out...off it...leave it and etc.

I've never tried, but giving a sex toy? Depends on your bf, how open you are about sexual matters, and not a matter of "cool" or not. Just my opinion, tho.

UTube misspells his name, it's Holman not Holeman. I googled lyrics for 'Step Across The Border' by John Dee Holman but so far, I can't find them either. Sorry...

Hey, I play this style of music, I'll see what I can find. Perhaps some friends of mine know this.

Your post reminds me of a short story I read at school. It was a story with an alternative ending. In the first a woman's son is riding his bike very fast amd swerves to avoid her prize chicken killing himself. His mother cries and sobs asking why he didn't just run the chicken down.

In the second version he does just that but his mother never lets him forget. Eventually driving him away and like in your story, she never sees him again.

I suppose the mral of the story is that we should consider very carefully what is important to us and think how our actions may affect others.

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so actually there are four suspects to consider if you are included and not the one that did it.
Now without proof it will be very hard for you to figure out which one actually did it, its more a case of speculation on the possible person who did it.
How much money are we talking about, if its a rather large amount you could look to see if any of the possible suspects have any financial problems, thats not to say they did it but could be a more likely suspect.
is there anyway you could trace the money?, look at serial numbers and trace it back to whoever spends it or do a search of each persons property ( this would require Police involvement and a court order.)
Basically its going to be tough to work out who did it, unless they are a moron and start advertising the fact that they have money.
if you understand body language then there are key tells to when some one is lying, but if you know what these tells are you can double bluff.
have you asked all involved who they think it is?, the fact they have all called you means they do not think its you, so you can ask them who they think it is maybe one name will keep popping up. Good luck its not pleasant to have your trust and judgement tested like this, it makes you question everything.

As porndisciple said it will be very difficult to prove. But I would suggest that you ask your line manager for a new safe that cannot be accessed once it has been locked.

I hope you come out of this ok. I don't know where these big companies came up with this concept of teams in the work place. It only takes one bad apple to make the whole bunch look bad. Once you leave your house you have to be sure to cover your ass at all times. I have been in your situation and it sucks. I wish you good luck.

because a box where you can slide your hand inside even when locked is not a safe!

must be an unsafe

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Try one of those small, barely noticeable, or well-hidden web security cams, or even a web cam. Can't be too hard to figure out.

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it will be tough. i know it wasnt me plus i didnt leave the building for 24 hours and when i discovred the missing money i asked my top manager to call the police straight away. I had my meeting and at the end my line manager said he desnt thinks its me but he needs to investigate everyone. Its odd as 1 of the people could of taken the money only on the day she knew i am back into work and i tend to think she wouldnt of risked as i could of called police on the spot and have a search etc. from all the other 4 suspents there is only 1 person i havent heard anything from. Fair enough she might not care about me as a person but she could of droped a line to say sorry we failed our finance control etc. I am trying to figure out who it is my elimination. No one has a clue who could have been and it sucks.
BUT THANKS SO MUCH FOR UR KIND REPLIES

As others said, you could torture yourself with this as - even if u figured it out that one person was prime suspect to satisfy yourself that's far from having legally admissible proof and you could slander someone, get it wrong or cause even more division.
The classic method involves identifying who has motive & means & opportunity. Motive (well, money) could be anyone but it strikes me that if most of these workers are long-serving and previously there's been no dishonesty then it points to whoever is newest (or otherwise has particular money motives, changed circumstances - or maybe someone THINKS they can pin it on the newest person?). They clearly put the opportunity to make however much money it was above their fellow workers and don't care that they'll have to go on working beside people under suspicion - but maybe there's someone with a grudge against the company? It's easy for people to justify petty theft if they think they're getting payback for perceived slights and injustices.
Means and opportunity - you don't really indicate but presumably some more than others have access to the room and the safe, more or less opportunity to have seen how insecure it is and whatever the time-frame was (between the money being in the safe and the time its absence was discovered) some would have had more access than others?

Thank you to you and all your fellow hosts too :) You cheer an old man up with your beautiful faces and curvy bottoms :D

Sorry for not answering below! The idea of beauty here on CC is a fickle one. You may be too fat or too skinny or too chatty or too intense or... take your pick. But your kindness and thoughtfulness would go a long way with me. Thank you for your post.

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there are many methods to measure of ideal weight, minus 100 from height i'ts not right, because in that case tall girls have to be 75-80 kg and thats a lottt ))

sorry, not 'to measure', to calculate of course

I am 90kg and super sexy :) I've got boobs, tummy and a nice round ass. I am quite strong too!

Dammit, girls! would you please give your screennames? You've got me so horny and I want to see your pics!

:D

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Would be helpful if you put bust waist hips but I would guess you are borderline between curvy and slim

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This is a very good point. Evrery host I have met looks slimmer in real than they do on cam.

A picture speaks a thousand words.

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Oh, i know what you mean. Every picture I see of myself, I look a huge fat slob. But in reality, I am built like an oiled-down muscle builder. At least that's what I tell the hosts when i'm in videochat, (I don't do cam2cam) :)

As long as your photos show a true reflection of what you currently look like I honestly do not care what you put in that slot.

Thank you for all the responses...i am 5 foot 4 and a half inches tall..between 110 and 118pds...depending on the water retention and such...my weight goes up and down throughout the month...

I see one person say as long as pics match it not matter...but to many it does matter as i read last week i think it was a member saying dont put slim in ur profile if you are curvey... some days i have a lil tummy at beginning of day but it is gone by late afternoon...and other times it is not there at beginning but if i eat in the day then it is there ..loool...such hard decisions...lool.

bottom line is i just not want to false advertise myself ...nor put something wrong that will be a turn off.

5' 4" and 110-118? and someone thinks you are "curvy"? Hon, that sounds quite slim to me. put on another 20 -30 pounds and I'll consider you curvy

ok ok ...sometimes i reach 120 pds loool ohh and dont forget the 1/2 inch that makes a difference as to whether i can reach a cup of the top shelf or not loool...

well, slim or curvy, 110 or 130, I bet you would still look great. (even though I have no idea how you look)

Thank you LIG, very nice of you to say....nothing against curvy, but I try very hard to not go near 130,.. :)

Thank you to everyone who responded..it is nice to post and to actually get helpful responses....best wishes to everyone...:)

their ego is too big...I get those members and they think that because they are big that we should praise them just because they are big and tell them how we really want to have sex with them..and then they expect you to start playing with yourself to prove how they are turning you on just by looking at it.....I not very good at telling a guy I want to do him and that he is God's gift to women just because he is big...loool

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If you saw my socks, you'd be awed... but, alas, it is a myth, what they say about big feet and big socks.

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I am over 6 feet tall, size 13 shoes, and my cock is at best 6 inches, which is about average. So tall and big feet do not always mean big cock.

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I'm a bloater with a tiny cock, but as I have no cam, I'm a fit triathlete with a massive cock, big girth as well. Is this better?

Any guy with a truly big dick (9 inches or more) has no problem getting laid in the real world. He doesn't need to pay a girl to look at his dick and heap praise on him. The truth is, members on this and other sites have issues with their dick size. It's either average size (6 inches) or smaller. And that would explain the popularity of CBT and SPH.

On cam sites the only real thing that matters when it comes to size is the size of the member's credit card limit.

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Camera tricks

I have seen many many cocks here, more than 500...and all are different, from tiny to huge.
Please members if you never been in hosts place don't say what kind of members come here, you really can't know it! Simple. :)

"Please members if you never been in hosts place don't say what kind of members come here, you really can't know it! Simple. :)"

True. But as good business women, you know how to flatter your paying customers. I have to confess to reading my wife's magazines
and have read many sex surveys over the years by these women's magazines and they all show the vast majority of women desiring a huge cock to satisfy them. So that means that for a man to have a chance with an attractive woman, he must either possess a large cock or a large bank account. In surveys most women prefer both but the latter can buy them all the large cocks they need on the side. Yes women cheat as much as men, but it's not talked about as much.

"you know how to flatter your paying customers"
For sure. But on the forum I am anonymous as you can see, so I don't need anyone flatter. Doh! Second, stop reading stupid magazines. ))

Yes you are anonymous here, but you can still flatter the membership in general. I've seen it many times. But it is far better to do what you do than make a negative post trashing the membership in general.

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It's all about the camera angle.

tiny hands = tiny feet; tiny feet = tiny cock; tiny cock = red face in the Men's Locker Room. I know.
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It's great to be a realist -- if only you knew what you were talking about.

that is not always true mr realist...I often get guys who are big penis and they ask if I like and if i want it and they want to hear the praise..and when I say size does not mean that he knows how to use it or knows how to treat a woman...and when I say that it takes more than just seeing a big penis ..then the person gets angry and leaves...lool.

yes, I am slim and in good shape. I run about 15 miles a week. Not that I see why that affects the size of my cock! If it did, all men would be in great shape!

And you can prove this how?

Because when a man is very fat, the fat rolls engulf the penis, and it "appears" to be smaller than it is.

Damn I wish I had big feet so I could show you my big socks :(

wanker like me with big cock needs a big sock

Women get breast enhancement and reduction. I need get cock reduction it is too big and a hassle

I am so sick and tired of women asking me, "Is that a third leg you got there, horsey?"

in real world big cocks and very small cocks are not really good, but in virtuality every cock is ok. :)

Muahhhhhhhhhhh

i dont show on c2c coz i got 2 cocks

only one works

I prefer slim/petite to average body. I do not care for girls with extra weight. I do try to read as many profiles as possible but , there are some that are too long and others that are blank and still others that do not make any sense.

The profile picture along with others that are recent photos are very important to me since there is no free public video on this site. And of course free chat is important assuming the host does not have a password protected session or a note in free chat stating "video only". So I can decide on a combination of all these things or just one of them. A low price in open makes it easier for me to decide to take a chance. And sometimes I just shop for price , then check out everything else.

I prefer her to be non-fat.
I do read profiles to ensure that she is non-fat.

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Depends on the girl.

I like sexy women. thin or curvey or tall or short, just act sexy. if u r healthy, you can be sexy in any shape. only thing I dont like are anorexic or grossly fat women.

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post your real name. I will visit you. I'm sure I would find you very atractive.

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Personal prefrence on body type varies greatly. In my case, Im looking for young and cute..which often is slim, petite body type, though it dosen't have to be; Or full figured, busty ladies..two totally different body types, that I like equally. Basically, you're either hot or you're not. However I definitely do Not like too thin, or overweight.
What brings me in the room: Price more than almost anything. To me it's simple: with so many girls on here, I have no problem finding plenty of hot girls at lower price, so why pay more for basically the same thing. I definitely look at the pictures...if they are not very recent, that makes me hesitant...because if they're say a year old, you may look entirely different now. And yes I definitely read your profile as well..basically wanting to know if you will be responisive and Do anything...if it's just a vague statement like Come in and find out...that's at the very least, Not encouraging. Points in your favor, would be the opposite: those that say something to the effect of: Im here to please you..or Whatever you want, etc. My requests are pretty simple and basic, but at least I know you're open to them.

I agree completely

I prefer slim girls with a curvy bottom. Pictures are what make me enter a video (I read the profile only to see if it gives an indication that the girl will get naked) and price.

For me one of the great things about CC is that this is a fantasy site. My fantasies involve things I cannot or may not even want to experience in real and vary according to my mood. Sometimes I visit a curvy or even BBW host. Other times I am in the mood for a slim or skinny host. I may want to chat and be teased or I may want a quickie. Other times I want a girl who is submissive. I can find all of these on CC but of course it is not possible for one host to fulfil all of these fantasies so I have no consistent preferences.

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I like all sorts of women, it depends of the person if i like her or not. If its a skinny girl or not doesnt matter to me

To sum up the post and the post below- a man needs a student looking like a model preferably from Russia or Ukraine... who has to stay a riddle to keep him fit.

“ My formula for living is quite simple. I get up in the morning and I go to bed at night. In between, I occupy myself as best I can. ”

― Cary Grant

Nothing bad in that unless you occupy yourself with cheating on your 5 subsequent wives.

Why don't you wish a good luck to all girls who exactly will meet all that humilated sissyboys/slaves/turned on CBT/SPH? I think they need it more

This is laughable on so many levels. Are we to yearn for a time forty years ago when men were men and women were... what? Doormats? You really don't say.

The feminist movement of the last forty years was and is about empowering women to become equals in society, as is their due. Does that mean that men need to evaluate what it is that defines a man? Yes, I think so; you can't rely on the old stereotypes. But if as a man this makes you feel "emasculated," that is your personal problem.

Spoken like a true mangina. I support equality for all, but the feminists want control. There are definite links to Marxism. Do some research.

LOL.
Spoken like a real man.

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It did go under his first post :)

That's rather funny. Most of the mature level headed women I know actually hate the feminists. Most think the feminists are ruining a good thing. Why wouldn't a woman rather have a man that would hold the door for them and be courteous. To think that a woman has to be "liberated" or in some position of leadership to be respected is silly.

Where did you get the idea that somehow feminism is incompatible with courtesy? And feminists think every woman has to be a CEO? Do you learn everything from cartoons?

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I suspect it actually has more to do with guys not being able to get a girl in their home country and thinking they will have better luck in an Eastern European country. With the number of Russian dating sites they may be right (although they could all be a scam).

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who the f##k is Dr Phil

James, Dr. Phil is your doctor! lol

He's a dude who has a daytime T.V. show in the US. He gives advise to nitwit guests and enthralls his zombified audience with half-baked, pop psych babble and tough love and shit. In short: he's the bomb, yo.

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Yes I admit I got sidetracked and tried to cover too much in one post, but the fact is there are a good number of American men drawn to women of other cultures due to problems they are having when dating or trying to date American women. There are other cam sites that feature many more American girls than cc, but there are many men, including myself that prefer the girls here that are primarily Russian and eastern European. And yes as an old man I like younger girls and that has been going on for centuries.

Again my apologies for going off track on the feminism thing, which needs to be a post or even many separate posts. But one thing is true, there are man American men that are trying to meet and marry girls from other countries and cultures, but I am not aware of let's say Russian men wanting to find and marry American women and bring them back to Russia.

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Please, for those of us who may have an erroneous understanding of exactly what the ideology entails, could you kindly explain what feminism means to you?

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Well said. You have more patience than I do, I think lol, and you've articulated beautifully.

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