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RE: Nicotine patch

In order for this to really work, you have to really want to quit. If you are ready in your mind, then it will work. When my oldest brother was born, dad decided to quit. Later this summer, he will be 54. Dad still doesnt smoke. He did it cold turkey. He said no more and put them down. Good luck.

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RE: Nicotine patch

Motivation and support helps it to be effectiive. I found it almost completely eliminated nicotine cravings, but the mental habit you have to beat on your own -- find things to keep busy with, avoid situations where you were likely to smoke. Use a free on-line quit service for support and tips such as free site such as quitnet.com

The only side effect I had was restless sleep so I didn't wear the patch at night and had to deal with cravings in the morning before the patch I put on for the day "kicked in."

I'd also recommend not going on to the patch immediately, unless you first took a couple weeks to study your own smoking habit, find out when your most likely to smoke, what are your "triggers" -- get to know the enemy before the battle.

Good luck to you!

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RE: Nicotine patch

I tried patches and found they made me feel wierd. Gum or lozenges were my preferred method of nicotine replacement. I used them whenever I felt like having a cigarette.

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RE: Nicotine patch

They taste bad :( I rolled one up and smoked it, thought I was going to cough up a lung.

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RE: Nicotine patch

The patch can ease the physical de-toxification a little. Smoking is not simply a habbit, it's a lifestyle. Smoking in a smokers mind is a reward for some accomplishment. a Dog does a trick, and get's a treat. Humans so the same. Only they can make themselvs believe every task deserves a reward. You know you do something stressfull (like listen to viewers for 2 hours) and then take a smoke break. It's a reward for putting up with all of lifes drama. Right? If you want to quit smoking, you need some other way to reward yourself. Some try Chewing Gum, and end up with lock-jaw. Others eat candy and End up with a few extra kilograms of weight around the belly or the hips/thighs. Sex is a good reward. The problem with that is, afterward you want a smoke :)
I finally quit trying to quit trying to stop smoking and don't let it bother me at all. Life is short, if your life is good and you are a smoker, smoke. If you are not a smoker, DONT START.

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To Laugh or Not to Laugh...

Where I live there is a chain of supermarkets called "Safeway."
So my question is, "How do you stuff an elephant into a Safeway bag?"
Answer, "Take the letter "F" out of the word "Safe", then take the letter "F" out of the word "way".
And that's your answer!!

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RE: To Laugh or Not to Laugh...

there's no F in way...

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RE: To Laugh or Not to Laugh...

errr... Is shoud be there is no F in way. (ie No f*cking way)

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RE: To Laugh or Not to Laugh...

isn't that what I said Doctor?

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RE: To Laugh or Not to Laugh...

there is if you slice him thin

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RE: To Laugh or Not to Laugh...

Ahhhh, so that's where the delhi elephant came from.

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RE: To Laugh or Not to Laugh...

Cremate the feker ;)

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RE: To Laugh or Not to Laugh...

Not had the pleasure to be to Romania. But I do like to travel...if I can only get my damn elephant to fit in the bag.

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General knowlage test

Name the capital of Australia..
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RE: General knowlage test

the letter "A"

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RE: General knowlage test

Just after I posted my answer I realised that that was probably going to be the answer.

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RE: General knowlage test

Without googling or looking elsewhere I think, from memory, it is Canberra.

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RE: General knowlage test

hummm! some pommies ARE smart, good onya mate. lol

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Sydney just thinks it's the capital, Melboure is jealous of Sydney,
Perth is so far away nobody ever worries about it and Brisbane, well it coudn't give a rats because it gets all the good weather .. :)

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RE: General knowlage test

Brisbane(& Qld.)beautiful one day,1970 the next.Let's do the time warp again.It's just a step to the right & a jump to the left......:--))

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RE: General knowlage test

you would think that the one giving a general knowledge test could at least spell knowledge.

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RE: General knowlage test

I spelt it incorrectly to uncover the smart asses..

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Why?

Buddah, why do good things happen to bad people?
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RE: Why?

meaning Paris Hilton is a good person? :-P

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RE: Why?

Litle Grasshopper,
Its not expected of you to know all answers, as your quest for enlightenment is not complete. Use your energy to define what is good and what is bad. Bad might be hidden as good and good might sometimes seem bad. One day, Litle Grasshopper, your answer will come to you.

Master

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RE: Why?

too much jerkin the gerkin going on here

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RE: Why?

it is only through bad things happening that we find out who is truly good :--))

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RE: Why?

You can say that again!

Yankie
Oscar
Uniform

Juliet
Echo
Romeo
Kilo

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RE: Why?

Maybe your post made you go hehe but it certainly didn't have that effect on me. *Stifles a yawn*

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ccMail

Has anyone other than me, received mail from a host they never heard of before? I'm wondering if some studios are cross indexing viewer names and furnishing them to their hosts for prospecting?
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All the time buddy. Usually comes with a photo too which doesnt open!

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RE: ccMail

do you go to comm chat? they may see your name there
do you post in forums using your member name? they may see your name here

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RE: ccMail

I never go to Community Chat and do not use my screen name when posting.

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RE: ccMail

then your original suggestion of names being passed on must be correct

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RE: ccMail

I'm in comm chat all the time and never recieved any mail from host that i don't know. Yet

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RE: ccMail

yeah, they're just fishing for new customers

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RE: ccMail

No, but received private com chat messages bitching me out for something supposedly stated by me in a forum thread I didn't even post to.

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Yeah very possible. Tho the girls themselves wouldn't give away their well paying viewers i guess :p so must be the admins :D

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

If you meet an interesting guy and you dont try to get only minutes ...why not ? if you try to sell your friendship dont expect miracles.......but sometimes miracles happen.

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

how many visitors do you have now? if you have alot then your chances are good, if you barely have visitors your chances are low. this is mostly a pay-per-view sex site not a dating site.

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

I dont think it was any mistake, its a nice question. Both hosts and members is also humans. We all meet people we like and people we do not like. In most cases it seems its just a non real image of flirting and playing a game of attraction but a few times, real feelings grow for another.

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

It is a question that shows bot members and hosts are willing to open their hearts.

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if it is a real relationship

you seek, i think yes.
i think you will be here a very long time waiting tho.
men will do and say everything to get you in bed or naked.
good luck

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

Sonya, It's possible, but not probable. If you are looking for a serious relationship, get "serious" and look where there is greater liklihood. Good luck.

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

I think melomane is right. ....despide the fact that his posting name sounds like a pretty serious skin disease...., but that does not mean his posts don't make sense. ;P

Seriously, sonya, I don't think this site is a good place to look for true love. However, like a previous poster stated....miracles do happen. And...we are not sure about that either.....
So the bottom line is...if someone here declares their undying love for you, just use your common sense. If you use your mind and your commom sense, no need to ask people here...

That is all i have to say to you.

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

No!

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

i love ppls who can get what they want
and i think i am one of them :)
thank you for answering i have my own opinion :)

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

Hello Sonya,I met a chat host almost 5 years ago. In non adult also.
I went to visit,,,,and to make a long story short,we are still married and she got her USA citizenship last week.
Don`t let the naysayers get you down,,,,life is full of pleasant surpises.

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

OK if that's the case, why are you still coming to this site?

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

Good point,,,,,,i come here to chat,,,,,with old friends from here,,and,ive never done a vid here

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

Sonya:

I have been on here a long time. And yes, sometimes we find someone we like.

I have met a few hosts i like as friends and one or two that i have been "in love".

I think you can meet sincere persons and liers, just as in rea life. However, the $$ factor, makes things a little more complicated.

It's hard to believe on some girl's love if she cares a lot about how much time you spend on her video, or wants to be "private" in one to one all time.

I have met hosts in non adult and a few in adult. I think i only see on little shy.

I used to talk to a girl who was in long term & marriage. She seemed sincere. However, she moved to glamour girls and cared more and more about the minutes i spent on video. That did killed all interest on her.

If you care for a guy, try to communicate with him without $$ involved. Don't make video the center of relationship.

I still talk to a girl i like and would be an amazing thing to have a relationship with her. I think it's quite complicated and she's much to interested in $$ to make it easy.

I think cc can be a great place to meet different people. But it will be with just a few , with the ones you can connect to.

I wish you the best. :) I hope you can meet some one for a serious relationship.

peace.

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

...and I assume here you must mean you like the challenge of beating the odds, right?

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

i think all is possible

and many girls here do also,
there are of course many who consider any guy who is here as
a possible bad one anyway,
I see some even think members are - ILL , and the hosts are hear to deal with their illness,,
that anyone who comes here does not have a life, and is seriously flawed as far as a person to meet . or make relationship with..

well i know a few hosts who say that ,, think that sorry :p
I dont agree,
sure there are plenty of weirdos lol..
but thats life,,

plenty of regular types here too,,
I met a few and all were nice..
so yes always a chance--

just never judge someone u want to meet by the size of his wallet,,
I want his heart- not his $$ the 2 are very different..

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

Some chathost who are genuinely looking for bf's here initially want a video relationship only .

The reason could be chathosts are testing the viewers ability for them to afford them ! I dont mean just living like a kept woman.

For example, say you invite them back to your country to live with you - what job could they do ? Knowing that their language and probable school education will make getting an initial job hard. They will most likely have to retrain or even stay a chat host on CC.

Therefore, to have relationships here is difficult and will require the viewer (or chathost) to have alot of financial resources to fund that transition period.

Just my thoughts

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

LOL, if you want a serious relationship, go out and find a real job and meet some real people who also work. You will already have something in common. Do you really want a serious realtionship with people who sit at home all day at the computer and chat at porn sites? If, so, you are in the right place. :)

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

I agree with you

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

Great minds think alike,fools seldom differ.

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

Yes they wil have to re-train. But first generation immigrants ALWAYS have that challenge. If she is not willing to do scut-work to begin then how clean are her reasons to emigrate?

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

thank you
:P

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

some things are true
and it made me think
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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

yes always. The relationship is always gonna be you and his $$

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RE: do i have chanse to have serios relationsheps here ?

Sonya, yes you have a chance. I don't know anything about you as a person, but if your reason to be here is to find someone from another country, sure you have a change.

My main reason for coming to CC was never about porn, but to learn about woman from Russia, as when I started to learn about Russia I found this place to be full of Russian woman who would share thier views with me.

I have met with woman from Romania and also in Russia. I have woman who I call my friends from these places, some have boyfriends and that is fine, I would welcome them to visit me as friends because we are people of the same mind.

I have found some special woman on CC. Unfortunately money becomes and issue no matter how you look at it. Woman here soon learn that money from CC is more easily earned that with hard work and many hours from normal jobs. Try to keep money separate from your life. The man who really wants you will know you need to live and he will help you without your asking him for vid and such things.

As woman like to tell me... Time will TELL. It will Take TIME, and you better be sure, when the man you think you want is here, that you embrace him, you get one chance, good men will not stay and wait forever, just as good woman can find men, a good man will find another woman. It is a balance of course, it is real love ot what?

I wish you much luck, I hope you find your happiness. I know many have found it. I am in the process myself. Is it possible< YES, will it be easy NO. Trust will be the biggest problem. There are many problems with long term relationships, be careful with your expectations for each other, know what you want, if you are sure you found what you want then SHOW it, or move on to something new, remember your chance is only ONCE so be careful in your choices..

Best of Luck!

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will you trust your feeling?

say something what I think is most important -- trust. well it's not easy to trust people in the modern society even in the real life. that's why some people like come here because they can mask themselves to be someone they are not. so when the right click come, do you trust the one behide this computer screen is the real one you are trusting? if yes, congradulation. because I do.

most guy here are right, money matters. but first step, your feeling and your heart do matters more.

good luck anyway, trust yourself, trust your heart.

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looking for kittythebest?

any one seen her?
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poem

If I can stop one heart from breaking

I shall not live in vain

If I can ease one Life the Aching

Or cool one Pain



Or help one fainting Robin

Unto his nest again

I shall not live in vain
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blondykiss

WOW what a girl amazing natural slim figure, long legs and a great chat host. What more could we guys ask for (apart from the real thing!). I loved my time with her and even if she is alittle shy ask her nicely and you will be in for a treat!.
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maybe but not the BABE blondy is!

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RE: blondykiss

yeah, she gets mantioned/advertised in the forums about once a month...yaaawwnn

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RE: blondykiss

is that a bad thing? if she look after you right, what more do you want.

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RE: blondykiss

pretty girl - but i prefer a little more meat on the bone

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time

why is it when u have someone and do smth with them time goes so fast...when u no longer have that someone for a while it seems like an eternity.....
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emptiness,something is missing from your heart :--))

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RE: time

simple answer kaz...NO!

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RE: time

doesn't sometimes no mean yes?

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RE: time

Only if your female numbnuts.

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errr it was a female he said no to,does that count,oh wondorous one?

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I'mShy, I know what you mean. It's as if 'time' is felt so little when we are doing something with a loved one, whereas we experience the opposite effect in the other case: time weighs heavily and moves slowly. It is felt as a 'burden' as it were.

Fascinating too is to think about the nature of 'time' itself. What is it exactly? St. Augustine said, "I know what time is, unless you ask me what time is. Then I do not know what it is."

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RE: time

Time is a dimension, like length which is the distance between places, but measures the interval between events.

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Yes, that's one way of understanding it. Physicists often call it the fourth dimension. Hence there are three of space and one of time. Time can be seen as a measure, but that measure is relative to where one is in the universe. On earth we define a 'day' as the time it takes for the earth to rotate on its axis and a year as the time it takes to revolve around the sun. Using that measure on Venus, a day would be longer than a year, since it takes longer for Venus to rotate once on its axis than it does to revolve once around the sun. Think about that!

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RE: time

So a day is longer than a year!
How long is a Venus hour?? I get paid by the hour so that's a major consideration.
I was offered a job on Venus but turned it down. Nice place but no atmosphere.

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was going to think about that but then decided i didn't have the time to spare :--))

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True, but to an observer on the surface of Venus, the interval of time between two successive sunrises would actually be less than half the amount of time it takes for the planet itself to make that full rotation round its axis.
How's that for a mind-blower?:P

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RE: time

Another mystery of time that goes unexplained. To remember the feeling is to remember the journey.

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RE: time

Ahhh yes, time and memory. What an important part they play in our experience. Isn't it interesting that among our experiences, those that we value most, those that seem so vital, are those we describe as "timeless?" :)

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Works on the contrary for me:))

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RE: time

Jim Croce wrote my favorite song, "Time In a Bottle" in which when he finally found his soul mate wished he could save time and store it so they could spend it together again and again.

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then jim died when his plane crashed

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Yeah, but it was a nothing new, Buddy Holly, the Big Bopper and Richie Valenz did it before Croce did.

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you must be

single.
i have someone and the end is taking forever to get here
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RE: hello

Just living a dream... And how are you?

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RE: hello

hi luba :)

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RE: hello

taty open ur mouth and close ur eyes and u'll get a big surprise :P

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RE: hello

Perv:P

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u pervs i meant an ice cream popsicle :P

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I do not know as me to behave........

I do not know as me to behave when at me at once on video some visitors... It does me crazy... About the beginning one visitor comes and I do that that it wants, then another comes and asks to show that that, but another is absolutely.. (the first wishes to fuck my pussy, another asks to show as I do blowjob)... I cannot do at once all in one time... Also it is necessary to ignore the second visitor.. Accordingly he leaves offended... And when at once 3 visitors it in general kills me.. Everyone want a miscellaneous... How to me to behave in these cases? I do not wish to offend whom or to ignore.... To me it is very sad from it....
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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

Tell all of them at once (publicly)
"Guys there is more than one member in open vid now, please be patient as I try to accommodate all your requests".

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

Gangbanger has it right, and if anyone gets offended, especially the second or third that came into your room when they knew full well you already had a viewer, that's more their problem than yours.

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

I would think it is her problem too as he is the one that gives her the bad rating!!

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logic would dictate

the first viewer should get his wishes tended to first. You may want to have them type to you in private and in open text type that you are pleasing viewer #1 and other veiwers are welcome to watch, but as you see my hands are busy and can not type with you right now.
that way when #2 member enters he sees your message.
maybe that'll help.

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

Tell the cheapos to take you one to one if they want your undivided attention. They know if they are or are not the only one in your video, so they should have some sort of clue as to what to expect.

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

first member has small right to expect most of your attention but not all. 2nd and 3rd came in knowing u were in video and should accept they are voyeurs

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

You must be doing something right girl you got 5 STARS!!!

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

why is it those wih five stars worry so much about losing 1/2 a star or god forbid a whole star? vanity?

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

Yes. it's not fair sometimes. Just control the things that you can control and don't worry about the things that you cannot control, it's not worth it. And members, worth having as regulars, will understand this and hopefully with be back in 121 in the future.

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

never mind irina u r still my favourite

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

Ooooops. I'm not me, I'm somebody else...I think :)))

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RE: I do not know as me to behave........

If you are the best at what you do, then you do best for all, but one at a time. If you goto the salon, you do not want your hair done by the girl who is already doing 2 other clients. Right? Tell them to please wait so they may have your full attention. Or better make an appointment. If your worried about offending people, you certainly will. If you need to have 3 clients at same time because you need the money, raise your prices.

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email question

do hosts really check their email here? or do the see new mail and just delete it all without ever reading it. it make me wonder because i tend to email some hosts here,nothing out of the ordinary,and very rarely to i get a response.i usually just email the usual things.........hi,how are you........how are things..........anything new in your life.........blah blah blah.it would just be nice to actually get a reply once in awhile just to know that they actually took the time to read my eamil.anyway,sorry for venting,it's been a rough day and wanted to get that off of my chest.have a nice day!
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paco bb where are u ???

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RE: email question

e-mail or cc mail?

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RE: email question

CC mail.duh!

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RE: email question

duh! I'm a duffas!
I'm sure many take e-mails as meaning yahoo or hotmail.
Maybe next time say Cc mail..duh

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RE: email question

well considering that in the opening line of my original post it says,do HOSTS check there mail HERE?

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RE: email question

I almost always get a reply from hosts I know. Maybe you don't know these hosts your CC mailing all that well, or at all?

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RE: email question

I see his name and delete it. :)))

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i always check my cc email before i login...

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RE: email question

When I see your name paco b it gives me such thrills in CCMail that I have to delete the mail straight away...... oooooooooohhh, I came again Paco BB. Stop stalking me!

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RE: email question

Agree. Not to answer to a letter is as impolite as not to shake a stretched hand. Ahhh paco, so many girls just dont' know how to run this business well :):p

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RE: email question

not if that outstretched hand is a psycho nutcase trying to grope you.
Wouldnt be easier to visit in text chat and stop making such a big deal about a silly little "hi, how are you?" cc mail? Afraid you will be asked into vid?

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RE: email question

Ha true, maybe afraid to be asked into vid :)
But, really, members are human beings too and they need care and attention, they want to feel that you need them not for money only, that you are ready to give them a min of your time and send a short but sweet "hi, i'm good, hope ur doing well too :)" They are not always online at the same time as the hosts they would like to talk to. These mails are just a sign of their attention, and as to me, i appreciate it when a guy bothers to drop me a message. I appreciate it and reply back knowing he will like it as much as i did.

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Thank you, kaz, i appreciate it too :)

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RE: Nobody posting today?

No

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reading

who likes Tolkien?...sometimes there is a need to run from reality...imagine more... i'd like to be Elf Queen...
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I am the High Plains Drifter!

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Most the guys here would fit the nickname of a character from David Eddings more the Tolkien, we're just a bunch of old wolves.

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to Reading

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RE: reading

Where fantasy meets reality...the place where dreams come true, that's where you'll find me.

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RE: reading

Michael Jackson's neverland ranch drinking jesus juice?

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How often you meet?

For those of you in long distance relationships...

How often do you meet each year? How many times and for what length of time?

When do you plan to be together? (A) Less than six months? (B) Less than one year. (C) Less than two years. (D) Don't know.
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i have longdistance relation,but it doesn't matter how many times u meet and how long because its never enough or long enough

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RE: How often you meet?

Leo... so TRUE! It is never enough.... I guess for now it depends on how deep our pocket book is to allow traveling...

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RE: How often you meet?

not as deep as i want it to be ;)
but we are planning to be together soon

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RE: How often you meet?

Prefer philip pullman. Try the Dark Materials trilogy

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RE: How often you meet?

Clever...and even funny...but a lot of people here will not "get" your joke...and will think you were just drunk when posting. Funny, though!

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RE: How often you meet?

It was not a joke. Its a true trilogy featuring the books the 'Northern Lights' , 'Subtle Knife' & 'The Amber Spyglass'

The last book of the trilogy won the '2001 Whitbread Book of the Year Award '

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RE: How often you meet?

I've read them, I thought the first one was the best. The last one was a bit dull for me.
But we digress. I've had long distance relationships and it puts a great strain on people. If anyone is contemplating a long distance relationship with a girl from here then they'd better be prepared to be flexible.
Also if the girl decides to move out of their country it will be nesessary for her to go home to visit family on a regular basis. Women don't like ot be separated from their mothers for long.

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RE: How often you meet?

I agree with you turnips, long distance relationships have their downsides. However, if you're really in love with someone, then perhaps it does not matter. I don't know for sure, but I would guess that throughout history people loved each other over long distances....communicating through mail only. Think about the many relationships that ended and the pain caused just because it was unlikely that the people separated could ever possibly see each other again. Today we have access to the phone, internet and air travel.

Long distance relationships have their advantage, too. You are less likely to take the other person for granted...and perhaps have more time to think and reflect about what you really love about him or her. Also, there is the the old saying that whatever is worth having is worth working for. Perhaps, after having to deal with long time separation, immigration issues and a score of other problems...once you are finally together you are more appreciative of what you've got. Hehehe....I sound so hopelessly romantic here that I am almost making myself nausious....but I think there is some truth to this, too! This is not black and white...it is all about perspective. Still, if for some reason my current relationship would fail, I don't think I would do a long distance relationship again....or any relationship, for that matter (but then I have been wrong about that before!).

Oh, and I have to pick up those books by Philip Pullman...thanks for the tip, guys!

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RE: How often you meet?

Mind your own business pal!

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For all you with russian gf's here and want to invite them to live the life of luxury with you in the UK.

www.ukvac-ru.com

good luck :)

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RE: How often you meet?

Define what you mean by long distance. Would that be 10 thousand miles? 1 thousand miles? 10 miles? 10 blocks? Long is a relative word. What is long to some may not be to others.

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RE: How often you meet?

Who in their right mind would consider 10 blocks a long distance relationship? A snail?

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RE: How often you meet?

just once per year is all I could afford, but we'll be together permanently in just another month or too!! yay

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RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)


not vodka..?:P

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RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)

I heard it will be held in dracula's castle with Alan Johnson emcing it as he gives a free (and by free I mean 5 cents a min) opening speech.

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RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)

Olympics is every 4 years and after London 2012 the next one will be in 2016... you got the wrong year hunny or the wrong olympics?

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RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Winter_Olympics

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RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)

it is every 2 YEARS! They alternate WInter and Summer GAMES...

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RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)

Then it is the WINTER Olympics! and who gives a fuck? Name one winter guy participating without googling

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RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)

karine ruby...snowboarder...and i DIDNT use google :D

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RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)

Who knows, maybe "global warming" will cancel winter olympics?

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RE: Free

shhh, I;m hunting suckers

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Transformers

Have just seen this movie..Superb)))))) I have no words just emotions) And the girl is omg..So hot))
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RE: Transformers

Overrated crap. Die Hard 4... now thats a movie!

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She is Megan Fox, one damn fine hunny!

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Awww thx i was wondering what was her name)) Die hard 4 is cool too but i liked transformers more:)

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http://www.meganfoxy.com/wallpaper/images/megan-fox-fhm-wp-1024.jpg

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A movie for crackheads?

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RE: Transformers

Why do some chicks so dig male homo-erotica anyway?

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RE: Independance day for Alan Johnson

How is he?

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RE: Independance day for Alan Johnson

And even less important, who is he?

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RE: Independance day for Alan Johnson

http://www.reuters.com/article/topNews/idUSMAC37439320070704?feedType=RSS&rpc=22&sp=true

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RE: Independance day for Alan Johnson

He should have been beheaded.

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RE: HAPPY BIRHTDAY USA!!!!

happy birhday!

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RE: HAPPY BIRHTDAY USA!!!!

Happy Independence Day, my dear America ! (K) love ya all

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RE: HAPPY BIRHTDAY USA!!!!

i know usa lost many friends around the world with this president bush, fear can make for terrible mistakes..... so i thank you for your kind words. most Americans are still good caring people. i wish peace, freedom and happiness for all.

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RE: HAPPY BIRHTDAY USA!!!!

The home of brave and the land of the free where people always tell the truth.

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DirtyGame does nothing at all

She promises you to be limitless, she won't do anything except in 121, then when you get into 121 she starts asking you about this and that... all you see is her face (nothing nice actually) and nothing happens until you get pissed off and you quit.
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it seems she plays a dirty game :))

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RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all

She living up to her nickname I guess.
I'd ask for a refund, what's the worst they can say?

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RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all

her pics certainly do nothing for me, slightly on the skanky side ... and her prices are pretty cheap but I guess you get what you pay for. Definitely ask CC for a refund dude.

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RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all

cool-tell me who she was,, im in,,, saty cool

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tell

Mother (cc)
if its true they should refund you
or ban you for complaining :p

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RE: tell

Lol johnzhon!! It reminds me of the joke about Jesus before the crowd that is ready to pounce on some sinner. Jesus defends the unfortunate soul and rebukes the crowd saying, "Let ye who is without sin cast the first stone." Suddenly, as Jesus looks at the crowd, a stone is hurled and hits him in the face. Stunned, Jesus quickly remarks, "Mother!!!"

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RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all

And what happens after you get pissed off and quit?

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RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all

there are always 2 sides to every story, but seems like he understood your "I do a special shows in 1-2-1". Tisk tisk, I will never visit those type hosts, thats for sure

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RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all

It's really funny that you think that others don't understand english when it's obvious that you don't have any clues about even the basics of grammar. You asked what I wanted to see and the next line was my reply, but you kept asking... who is the one who doesn't understand english? I have visited more than 20 cc hosts and many of them quite more than once and you are the first turnoff. If you think that cc is about asking "what's your name", "how old are you" and "what is the weather in your country" then probably you didn't get the spirit of this site.

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RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all

Roy, In your opinion just what IS the "spirit" of the site? Just curious.

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RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all

DG, I suppose there are those---especially those with little experience on sites like this---who are taken aback when they are asked directly what they want to see, as if a waitress is asking them to order from a menu of possibilities. I remember being a bit self-conscious when I visited a couple and the woman asked me, "So, what do you wanna see bb? BJ? Doggy? Anal? What can we do for you?"

I was initially dumbstruck. The idea that such intimate, almost- always private acts could be rendered as something like menu items was astounding to me at first. I'm neither defending or condemning you or your guest, since I have no idea what transpired between the two of you. I'm just saying I can understand how a novice might have difficulty answering a question, asked in such a direct manner.

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RE: Happy Independence Day

yes what??

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RE: Happy Independence Day

Happy Independence Day to all my American friends from a Romanian host. Tks for all your help and dollars :)

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Thank you CBT. I hope my fellow Americans are mindful that just because 231 years have passed since the Declaration of Independence from Britain, it does not mean our liberties are guaranteed. If the people go to sleep, they pave the road for tyrannts---some of whom pretend to protect the very liberties they are encroaching upon.

I extend my best wishes to you and your fellow Romanians and hope that your admission to the EU makes for a long-overdue prosperity. I know life in Romania has not been easy and the wounds from the Ceausescu era are still healing. All the best. :)

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RE: Happy Independence Day

Those who give up essential liberties for temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety.

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But some people are ignorant of what is at stake and are easy prey for the glib manipulators of opinion (.e.g. Karl Rove). They do not know what they are giving up. As Jefferson said, "Men cannot be both ignorant and free." But he did NOT say that such people do not "deserve" liberty. Au contraire, "ALL men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, LIBERTY [my emphasis] and the pursuit of Happiness. "

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RE: Happy Independence Day

All men (people) are created equal. It does not matter what nationality, creed, color, sex etc. The world, including the USA has a very long way to go before this truism is realized.Despite it's many imperfections the US is still the torch bearer for democracy in the world. So, Thank you USA! and a belated Happy Birthday!

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RE: Happy Independence Day

I believe Franklin meant not to imply that anyone was born undeserving of liberty. I think his words were only a warning to those who would willingly give up their liberties to a government that would demand them to do so for the claim that it would be required to ensure their safety.

Indeed, in the very same paragraph of the very same document wherein Jefferson stated that all men are created equal and all are endowed with those unalienable rights, he also said that it's not only the right of the people to throw off a government that would abuse and usurp their natural rights, he declared it their duty.

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RE: Happy Independence Day

I agree. It implies that people have a duty to defend their God-given liberty. A failure of duty---be it by an elected official sworn to uphold it, or an ordinary citizen---is an invitation to tyranny. Hence the phrase, "The tree of liberty is watered by the blood of tyrannts."

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...and a "Fourth of July Message."

http://www.truthout.org/docs_2006/070607A.shtml

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What gets to me is all the finger pointing being done towards President Clinton's abuse of his power to pardon at the end of his last term - as if his wrong somehow justifies bush's wrong..
Not to mention the fact that Bush Jr.'s commuting of Libby's jail time amounts to protecting him from punishment for his complicity in an act that Bush Sr. is on record as saying constitutes nothing less than treason.
And never mind the fact that Richard Armitage and Karl Rove, the ones who actually exposed Valerie Plame's identity as a CIA agent, are facing no jail time to be commuted from whatsoever.... It's obscene.

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Question for the smokers out there...

Why don;t you indicate in your profile you smoke?
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is it so important? and if it is,than i want to know why and for whom?

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hmmmm, i know there are Many men (and women) that enjoy watching a girl/woman smoke, for some it's powerfully erotic. But.... many others do not like it. i think it is best for a viewer to ask in chat, it works for me. ;-)

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If every member ask her to smoke, how many packs would she go through in a day?
And from what I understand some countries banned smoking in the work place..lol

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a reason might be that there are other members like me, who when they see a pic of smoking in archive or smoking in profile, i move on the the next. if just makes me think of smelly, sickly, phlegm coughing terrible tasting, unhealthy person, not something exciting and sexy.

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RE: Question for the smokers out there...

I second that

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yes just as bad , both

cant understand anyone doing either ,,both look foolish

So glad we now have the ban on the smoke,,,
actualy came home after a good night out without stinking of smoke !!
and in the morning - still no smell....( first time ever i can remember)
and also no sore throat ,,
(even tho i thought that was from singing - obviously not..)

in 20 years the kids will be asking -
did u really see people burn stuff and breath in the smoke ?
I dont believe you !!!!
who would be that stupid ??

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RE: Question for the smokers out there...

both smoking and drinking alcohol are vulgar. they both represent nothing but an ill effect on health and society. both should be banned.

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RE: Question for the smokers out there...

yes, finally somethinking just like me and we should ban skirts with hemlines above the knee and public displays of affection (handholding..echh) and MP3s and rock and roll, woman's sufferage, curfew for anyone under the age of 25 after 9 pm and interent porn. Who's with me on this?

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Naa too far 4 me ..

i'll just like to stop the ones that kill the user , and annoy - the observer ,, or even worse effect them too..

Just back from the hospital ,, after visiting a good mate who is on some heavy chemo and radiation...

not a pretty sight !!!
cool guy !!
not looking very cool -or feeling it right now..

only 34,,,,

hope he survives ,, his kids need him..

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Wrong to dream?

New dreams are made all the time... do I want to remember this one? Are you there? I can feel you - but where are you? Today is so different ... I feel drowzy, achy, grumpy ... :( Just a bad day? Hmmm... I sure feel lousy, my head is burning with fever. I hate this feeling. Let me have a drink...I saluted my dear old Dad. I drink again with my bro's and loved ones. Minutes or hours, days or weeks - does time really matter? Ice melted frozen mortal memories. Routine morning birds sing alertly. The conscience cup of comfort brings fire set forth. Enjoy the warmth but stay cool enough not to burn.
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RE: Wrong to dream?

wrong dream for me again---oh i fell asleep so fast and slept for days it seems and you were by my side, we walk along the sandy beach barefoot, holding hands and sharing the magic moment together, and as we headed back to our hut, we look up in the skies and saw the stars shine down upon us, you asked me how I felt, I said I have this feeling I hope will never end, but I know its only a dream, so I must move on and see what comes up next, she said, what do you mean by that, I said well my time is about up and I see the time we share together was shortly and I wouldnt change anything in the world for it, but we all know that our (opps got to go-to be continue) stay cool room--kisses and hugs

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RE: Wrong to dream?

Is that EMO?

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RE: Wrong to dream?

all is very simple
difficult just to understand it
everybody feel how he like to feel and see what he want to see

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RE: Wrong to dream?

uuuhh, did you take your meds today?

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