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what's up with that?
Two different hosts chatting me up and then inviting to video. And once there both of them proceeded to ignor me and type to a couple other screens.
RE: what's up with that?
Maybe they have read some of your posts here & decided to have some"fun",or possibly you just are not very interesting.Either way,at least you have experienced a new kind of threesome.From this day on,it shall be know as"the detective threesome",the one you have when you don't need the guy.
Perhaps...
..., Detective Clouseau, you are---to borrow a Yiddish word---a "schlimazel," ( a chronically unlucky person).
Examples: "When a 'schlimazel' winds a clock, it stops...When a 'schlimazel' sells umbrellas, the sun comes out." (From "The Joy
Examples: "When a 'schlimazel' winds a clock, it stops...When a 'schlimazel' sells umbrellas, the sun comes out." (From "The Joy
please i need your help!now!:-(((((
girls did it ever happened to not be able forget a man u loved and u broke up with no matter what i do for one month and half i just cant get him out of my mind i tried so hard but its so painful to live with him in my mind all the time its almost a physical pain believe me...and i m so upset on myself because i think he s enjoying life right now with another woman not giving a damn on me while my life is a nightmare and a torture everyday i wake up...i never call him or contact him anymore so he doesnt know what i am going through and he doesnt contact me either at all not even to ask how i am wich means he s going on with his life and met new woman in his life and for him i am just the past its so damn fucking painful this thought i wake up everyday with and go to bed with..............i never thought i ll miss him so much just now when he doesnt care about me at all anymore....i want to say he wasnt the best man i ever had lately behaved like an ass with me....i m not ugly girl i am cute enough i have money i have my own house my car i dunno and i cannot accept why this man cannot love me anymore and how can he be so unsensitive and act like i dont exist anymore for 2 months now???i cannot accept this cruel reality even if i am a very realistic person usually i just cant take it anymore what is ur advice i do how do i get over him?how?is there a medecine and before u say ur advices believe me i have tried everything to put my mind off him i JUST CANT!and i also cant humiliate myself by letting him know how i feel while he s probably with another woman alreadyso how can i call him?so he lets me know i am history and he s with another woman?no way i d rather die!!!!!!!:-(((((((
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
IMO, not much but time will help. That, and perhaps a hobby or sport you can throw yourself into. Don't call him; that will only prolong the agony.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Try forgot it.. After my "best bf' i dont want try it again near 2 years:)
And i am here... so.. good luck:)
And i am here... so.. good luck:)
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
you broke up with him, you chose to end the relationship, so why do u care? it's not really him that u are missing. it is the fact that you broke up with him and his world did not end like you expected it would. he isn't crying and professing his undying love to you outside your door. he isn't calling you and desperately begging you to take him back. he just accepted it and moved on with his life and is happy. that's what bothers u... that he is happy. you don't love him, you don't want him back you just want him to be miserable and lonely for the rest of his terrible life thinking how you were the best thing that ever happened to him and he will die alone rather than ever be with another woman than you. or....
maybe you dumped him cuz you wanted another guy or thought you would have all these guys chasing after you wanting to date you and be with you the second they found out you were single again... thought you would be out every night on a date with a different guy, going to fancy dinners and great parties, laughing and having fun, but instead after ur break up, no guys seem interested in you and you are sitting home alone every night... while ur ex-bf, who u thought would be heartbroken and miserable, is the one that is having a great time and found someone new.
maybe the reason he was acting like an ass recently before the break up was because he was getting tired of how u treated him and started standing up for himself. nobody here knows the full story, just a little from ur side of it, so how can we really know if u were such a good gf or not? either way, it's selfish of u. it's over, u ended it, his life didn't end, deal with it, quit wanting others to feel sorry for you and get on with ur own life. that's the cold harsh reality of it... that's life.
maybe you dumped him cuz you wanted another guy or thought you would have all these guys chasing after you wanting to date you and be with you the second they found out you were single again... thought you would be out every night on a date with a different guy, going to fancy dinners and great parties, laughing and having fun, but instead after ur break up, no guys seem interested in you and you are sitting home alone every night... while ur ex-bf, who u thought would be heartbroken and miserable, is the one that is having a great time and found someone new.
maybe the reason he was acting like an ass recently before the break up was because he was getting tired of how u treated him and started standing up for himself. nobody here knows the full story, just a little from ur side of it, so how can we really know if u were such a good gf or not? either way, it's selfish of u. it's over, u ended it, his life didn't end, deal with it, quit wanting others to feel sorry for you and get on with ur own life. that's the cold harsh reality of it... that's life.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
i don't think it was bitter, i think it was matter-of-fact and a dose of good medicine. sometimes it takes a slap across the face or a kick in the pants to open our eyes and bring us back to reality. let's be honest here, anyone that has had any experience with bad break-ups or being heartbroken knows that being coddled by their friends and family only prolonged their depression and enabled their feelings of being a victim... it was when others finally got tired of seeing you mope around and hearing your sob stories... when they gave ya a kick in the pants, told you to quit your cryin', get off your ass and get on with your life, that finally snapped you out of the funk you were in and caused you to move forward again. I gave her the kick in the pants and told her what she NEEDED to hear in order to begin moving on... rather than be like the others and telling her what she WANTED to hear so that she could continue to feel like a victim and wallow in self-pity. Which one do you think is going to do her the most good in the long run?
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Have you a third alternative? She is soliciting "help! now!"
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
"...did it ever happened to not be able forget a man u loved and u broke up with..."
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
depends on what part of the hemisphere she is hailiing from, in the northern hemisphere; he broke up with me means we split up. In the southern hemisphere; he broke up with me means I caught him in bed with my best friend...jezzzz, you people make something so simple so complicated.
Who Broke up first?
That's what I'm asking?
Who Broke up first?
That's what I'm asking?
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Sorry to her that hun..I had the same situation like 2 years ago. I broke up with someone and cudnt forget him for 2 years and i felt the same as u..I didnt call him cuz its useless and ur right u cannot humiliate urself like this. Well all i can say is there is not medcine from it, only time will help. I forgot him when i met another guy and when i met him i forgot my ex immediately. Just be patient, dont sit at home and cry, go out with friends, spend time with ppl u really enjoy to be with...i know its hard but try it. It will help trust me. We always love assholes)) But everyth that happens is for the best, its true. I realized it myself. Ahhh and dont keep it to urself, share ur feeling with someone-friend, mom...it will help too.cry at someones shoulder but dont pretend everyth if good. let ur pain out and move on. and believe in urself. Look at the mirror and say of loud-its him who is loosing not me. HE LOST ME. And he will be sorry. Say it every day and finally ull believe in it;) Go to the beauty saloon, go for vacations))) Ull be surprised of how much better u will feel)) Good luck and cheer up))
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Whats to do, if I nothing don`t want? And no ideas how this change:((
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
well go for vacations even if u dont want. Ull c it will help. Do smth u like to do. Go to the beach. Movies. I dunno what u like. Do smth, dont sit at home and cry, looking at his pictures or his gifts. Hide everyth that reminds u of him. Every little thing. Or throw it away. And remember. U are unhappy as long as u wanna be.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Ofc...I went through it. And u know why? this thaught me a gud lesson. 3 weeks ago i broke up with my another bf and u know? It took me 2 days to forget about him:) Cuz im a fucking queen! And i always remember it. Dont let assholes ruin ur life)
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Either you lie to yourself or you never cared about him at all.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
yes, but if he is truly out of her thoughts he was only a casual boyfriend, not a true love - there's nothing wrong with that, but such a quick recovery means she wasn't heavily invested yet in the relationship
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
He was the most important person in my life during the last year. My friends know it exactly. But sometimes we just HAVE to learn the art of letting go. I let him go tho i still love him. And i dont torture myself with thoughts about him with another girl, whats the point?I wish him happiness and luck. And this is REAL LOVE. I love him and i wish him to be happy with or without me. And this feeling makes me happy too and helps me to move on)) If u dont know what i mean - then u never loved.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
then it is our definitions that are different - in my mind you had a year-long hook-up, not a romance - there's nothing wrong with that for you, but if i thought a girl who declared mutual love for me was over the romance in only two days then I would not think much of her
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
I wanted to write the same line about if u love someone - let him go. Its all truth what i wrote. Plus...I believe that everyth that happens is for the best))
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Yes, seven months of ever-decreasing pain is normal. See? Even you aren't back to 100% after 48 hours.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Caged love is what that slogan is about. No one wants caged love. No one wants to demand or command love.
Love is NEVER unconditional. That's a nice fairy tale. If your husband beats you 3 times a week takes you paycheck each Friday night to spend at the pub buying the whole village drinks and then rapes you when he comes home drunk but says he loves you do you stay with him just because you said you love him?
If you wife refuses sex to you but fucks two of the neighbors regularly while having your young kids smoke dope to knock them out during the fuck sessions and salts away her paycheck in a numbered account as she spends you into the poorhouse and laughs about it do you still love her?
But I still say that if there is no sensitivity or pain after 2 days of a separatrion then real love was never involved. Accepting that it is over after reasonable time frame is a LOT different than saying "oh well, too bad, so sad, who's next?"
Love is NEVER unconditional. That's a nice fairy tale. If your husband beats you 3 times a week takes you paycheck each Friday night to spend at the pub buying the whole village drinks and then rapes you when he comes home drunk but says he loves you do you stay with him just because you said you love him?
If you wife refuses sex to you but fucks two of the neighbors regularly while having your young kids smoke dope to knock them out during the fuck sessions and salts away her paycheck in a numbered account as she spends you into the poorhouse and laughs about it do you still love her?
But I still say that if there is no sensitivity or pain after 2 days of a separatrion then real love was never involved. Accepting that it is over after reasonable time frame is a LOT different than saying "oh well, too bad, so sad, who's next?"
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
It was the most serious relationships i ever had. We were thinking of getting married. And maybe i said i wrong but when i said i got over him it doesnt mean i forgot him and it doesnt mean i dont cry at night. It just means i dont sit at home and cry and think that my life is over. I let him go. I do love him still and i know he will always have a special place in my heart. But i just let him go. I see u dont understand what i mean;)
bravo
Yes, you did say it a bit unclearly. And the wierd thing is those who jumped to say "of course two days is plenty to forget a year-long romance."
Maybe two days to accept the reality, but not two days to recover.
You shouldn't let it ruin your life and you shouldn't sink into absolute despair. But once it is over it is over and it's best to make a clean break and not talk to him or go to the places he might be. Clean all things that remind you of hime from your life and get busy.
Staying home alone is not good. Get a second job or go help sick kids at the orphanages. And stay away from guys for a few weeks or months.
Maybe two days to accept the reality, but not two days to recover.
You shouldn't let it ruin your life and you shouldn't sink into absolute despair. But once it is over it is over and it's best to make a clean break and not talk to him or go to the places he might be. Clean all things that remind you of hime from your life and get busy.
Staying home alone is not good. Get a second job or go help sick kids at the orphanages. And stay away from guys for a few weeks or months.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Over the span of 35 years, of the several break-ups three of them were break-ups to marry someone else very quickly.
It seems those three relationships were the case of each girl having two guys in the balance and she had to make a final choice and chose the other guy.
One was about 1974, one was 1988 and one was here on cc in 2005. You see years heal, but slowly for some.
It seems those three relationships were the case of each girl having two guys in the balance and she had to make a final choice and chose the other guy.
One was about 1974, one was 1988 and one was here on cc in 2005. You see years heal, but slowly for some.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
you need something new to get you mind off him, take up a hobby, go out and meet new people, go to the gym and get your ass in top shape, do a make over on your house, lower your price :). Hope you get over him and make way for me...lol
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
If you really tried EVERTHING to get him off your mind, then there is nothing left, so why bother asking for suggestions? Also, don't you have any real friends to pour this sob story on?
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you. Get over it!!
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you. Get over it!!
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Sorry, I accidentally posted this reply in the wrong thread below. Here's a copy:
I just read your post, and wish that I had more time to reply to you. Listen, we all know that our own happiness cannot be totally fulfilled by another person, still we all fall in that trap from time to time. No, I won't tell you to put this guy out of your mind, because that would be like asking a person not to think of a pink elephant...then they just HAVE TO think of a pink elephant!
If this is a really good guy....then I would recommend swallowing your pride and just ask him what is going on. However, from your post I gather that this guy didn't treat you that well...so it appears that you feel rejected; your ego got hurt. Ask yourself if you really love this man, or if it is just your wounded pride that makes you obsessed with him. Also, sometimes we become obsessed with others just because we cannot bear the thought of being alone for a while...something for you to think about...
I am not sure if this is helpful at all to you, and like I said I wish I had more time to reply. I hope things work out for you!!!
PS! Go for a nice, long walk...
PSS! Remember..."In life...sometimes you are the firehydrant, sometimes you're the dog!"
I just read your post, and wish that I had more time to reply to you. Listen, we all know that our own happiness cannot be totally fulfilled by another person, still we all fall in that trap from time to time. No, I won't tell you to put this guy out of your mind, because that would be like asking a person not to think of a pink elephant...then they just HAVE TO think of a pink elephant!
If this is a really good guy....then I would recommend swallowing your pride and just ask him what is going on. However, from your post I gather that this guy didn't treat you that well...so it appears that you feel rejected; your ego got hurt. Ask yourself if you really love this man, or if it is just your wounded pride that makes you obsessed with him. Also, sometimes we become obsessed with others just because we cannot bear the thought of being alone for a while...something for you to think about...
I am not sure if this is helpful at all to you, and like I said I wish I had more time to reply. I hope things work out for you!!!
PS! Go for a nice, long walk...
PSS! Remember..."In life...sometimes you are the firehydrant, sometimes you're the dog!"
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
you broke up with him... what's the problem, chickadee?
if you really love him, swallow your damn pride and go tell him how you feel.... but if the pain you feel is only because you can't stop imagining him diddling some other woman, then you have to realize how damn petty that is..... seriously, sweetcakes, if that's the only reason you can't stop jonesing for him, you have to get it through your head just how fucked up that is.... you broke up with him and he's supposed to be wallowing in misery because of it at least as long as you? come on, if you really loved him but couldn't be with him for whatever hopefully real reason you had to break up with him in the first place, you'd be happy for him!
give him a call.... if he really has a special place in your heart, you should at least want him as a friend, right? spend a little energy to foster that... and who knows, maybe when you do call him, you'll find him a sobbing wreck and you'll actually at least have that to be happy about:p
if you really love him, swallow your damn pride and go tell him how you feel.... but if the pain you feel is only because you can't stop imagining him diddling some other woman, then you have to realize how damn petty that is..... seriously, sweetcakes, if that's the only reason you can't stop jonesing for him, you have to get it through your head just how fucked up that is.... you broke up with him and he's supposed to be wallowing in misery because of it at least as long as you? come on, if you really loved him but couldn't be with him for whatever hopefully real reason you had to break up with him in the first place, you'd be happy for him!
give him a call.... if he really has a special place in your heart, you should at least want him as a friend, right? spend a little energy to foster that... and who knows, maybe when you do call him, you'll find him a sobbing wreck and you'll actually at least have that to be happy about:p
hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
give me a second to obsorb all that!!!!!!!!!!!!
wow
hmm, wtf!?!
okay, i didnt get the part where you said who broke up with whom, but i think i can take a guess from the ''he never calls me , not even to see how im doing'' that he left you.
You said he was an ass at time,
so focus all your energy and memories about him to the times when he was an ass.
he treated you like crap, you deserve better than that.
men suck, most of them just want to to have as many women as they can get.
You should have better.
i suggest you get rid of EVERYTHING he has given you.
and i meen EVERYTHING even if it is your TV or computer.
anytime you start to think about the good times with him think about that time he shouted at you for no reason,
when you want to think about him holding you firmly on those cold winter nights,
remember that time he pushed you out of the way so he could take the remote to watch his football(soccer) game.
if that all fails i suggest you hunt him and tell him what a fool he was for leaving you in the first place(but i would advise against that)
wow
hmm, wtf!?!
okay, i didnt get the part where you said who broke up with whom, but i think i can take a guess from the ''he never calls me , not even to see how im doing'' that he left you.
You said he was an ass at time,
so focus all your energy and memories about him to the times when he was an ass.
he treated you like crap, you deserve better than that.
men suck, most of them just want to to have as many women as they can get.
You should have better.
i suggest you get rid of EVERYTHING he has given you.
and i meen EVERYTHING even if it is your TV or computer.
anytime you start to think about the good times with him think about that time he shouted at you for no reason,
when you want to think about him holding you firmly on those cold winter nights,
remember that time he pushed you out of the way so he could take the remote to watch his football(soccer) game.
if that all fails i suggest you hunt him and tell him what a fool he was for leaving you in the first place(but i would advise against that)
RE: hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
"...did it ever happened to not be able forget a man u loved and u broke up with..."
RE: hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
English is not her native language! Jeez she wrote it wrong but she ment HE BROKE UP with her
RE: hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
if he broke up with her, then why would she say, "...i m so upset on myself..."?
and if he broke up with her, then why would she have reason to say, "...i never thought i ll miss him so much..."?
sounds to me like she's upset because she felt like she made a mistake in breaking up with him.
jeez
and if he broke up with her, then why would she have reason to say, "...i never thought i ll miss him so much..."?
sounds to me like she's upset because she felt like she made a mistake in breaking up with him.
jeez
RE: hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
She is upset with heself cuz she blames herself that she cudnt keep him... And we realize how much we miss smth when we loose it. Its simple.
i wasnt mocking her
i was just remarking on it, its really sad theone of the few times i feel i might give some valid advice to someone, whos first lang is seemingly obvious not english, all you idoits have to comment on is the translate part. now i remember why i dont read or say much in forums anymore.
RE: i wasnt mocking her
shutty! now get back in your hole lest you wilt like a hot house flower!
RE: i wasnt mocking her
men suck, dump everything he ever gave you, and focus all of your energy and recollections into wadding-up a spiteful little ball of hate concerning him.
yeah, stellar advice there, bud.
by the way, what's your first language?
yeah, stellar advice there, bud.
by the way, what's your first language?
myfirst lang is unknown
and what would you do if your boyfriend just ripped your heart out and left you shattered?
RE: hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
Never presuppose the EXACT meanin and every nunace of the story from one or two sentences, especially when written by someone who has English as a second or third langauge. We don't have the opportunity to clarify all the variables. She doesn't even say exactly if he was an online relationship or in her city.
All we can say for sure is:
a) they are no longer together,
b) she is unhappy about his lack of contact, and
c) she wishes she felt better.
All we can say for sure is:
a) they are no longer together,
b) she is unhappy about his lack of contact, and
c) she wishes she felt better.
RE: hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
Detective, I agree with your points, as I'm sure most here would too. However, it seems the only real point of confusion in members' minds is who broke up with whom. It's easy to understand the confusion. Even taking her entry in its entirety doesn't clarify this question, as evidenced by the following two (possibly) contradictory sentences:
“girls did it ever happened to not be able forget a man u loved and u broke up with…[?] ...i cannot accept why this man cannot love me anymore and how can he be so unsensitive and act like i dont exist anymore..."
“girls did it ever happened to not be able forget a man u loved and u broke up with…[?] ...i cannot accept why this man cannot love me anymore and how can he be so unsensitive and act like i dont exist anymore..."
RE: hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
And it depends on how her social group phrases things. Even in the same city in the US people using the exact words mean different things. Sometimes it depends on their pride how they term things.
If I were grading it from the perspective of an English professor I would say that "a man u loved and u broke up with" means she relunctantly dumped him. But i defer to my 3 items above as the only salient points until I talk with her directly and cull the exact details.
If I were grading it from the perspective of an English professor I would say that "a man u loved and u broke up with" means she relunctantly dumped him. But i defer to my 3 items above as the only salient points until I talk with her directly and cull the exact details.
RE: hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
Det., Thinking on it more, I'm inclined to agree with your bet that she broke up with him--in which case Capt. Caveman's analysis is right on the money. Gorty also makes some good points. Still, I think you can see how the second sentence I cite ("i cannot accept why this man cannot love me anymore and how can he be so unsensitive and act like i dont exist anymore...") might incline one to reach the opposite conclusion.
But you are right, we need further clarification from her. When do you think you can get her to come in for an interview? :))
But you are right, we need further clarification from her. When do you think you can get her to come in for an interview? :))
RE: hmm(sum1 plz translate the following, i think her english isnt perfect
She has been invited to a private interview. I hope we don't have to pick her up.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Ahh i forgot another receipt:))
1 portion:
1) 30 gr Bacardi White
2) 30 gr Malibu luquor
3) 100 gr pineapple juice
4) 50 gr milk (or 30 gr whipped cream) Milk is better for the igure tho:P
5) 5 ice cubes
And shake it all together)) Take ur best friends and enjoy this pina colada)) Waterpipe wud go cool together with it too)) And forget about asshole that is makin ur life miserabe:)
1 portion:
1) 30 gr Bacardi White
2) 30 gr Malibu luquor
3) 100 gr pineapple juice
4) 50 gr milk (or 30 gr whipped cream) Milk is better for the igure tho:P
5) 5 ice cubes
And shake it all together)) Take ur best friends and enjoy this pina colada)) Waterpipe wud go cool together with it too)) And forget about asshole that is makin ur life miserabe:)
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
baby, I still think about you everyday, but you workingthis site makes me feel like you want to be with other men, so I had to leave, imagine how you would feel if I gave sexual pleasure to any woman that paid me, what would you think?
Now please forget about me because I met a lady that isn't a sex toy for strangers.
Now please forget about me because I met a lady that isn't a sex toy for strangers.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
no to be a boyfriend the girl has to actually be dating you not just you wishing
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
About as funny as your adopted name. What did Ms. Hilton ever do to you?
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and if I want to post what I belive to be humouous as the ex , I will, now stifle yourself
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Next time if you could try to make your humourous post funny rather than pathetic it would be appreciated.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
She asks for help and ur insulting and making fun of her. What kind of person are u? Wanking secretly watching girls on the porn site doesnt make u better than any of these girls
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Tough luck....boooooooooo hooooooooo GET OVER IT!!
Life goes on, get a couple of fuck buddies and life will be perfect for you.
Life goes on, get a couple of fuck buddies and life will be perfect for you.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
If girls didnt offer sex here you would make no money and this site wouldn't even exist. You forget only about 10% (if that) pay for chat only!!
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Perhaps you should read her post again. She quite clearly states "deny you the sex part in real life" not here on cc.
At least this time you managed to reply to the correct person.
At least this time you managed to reply to the correct person.
RE: please i need your help!now!:-(((((
Obsessed, Watch Francois Truffaut's film, "The Story of Adele H" ("L'Histoire d'Adele H"), a true story about Victor Hugo's daughter, who is obsessed with a man. This tragic tale might serve as a "medicine" or lesson. Move on. Live and let live.
...Three days later: Still suffering? Still need help?
Obsessed,
First off, since many here seemed confused by your English usage, I have taken the liberty of rendering your words into standard English. I have omitted a few lines and changed some words (mostly indicated in italics) without destroying your meaning:
Girls,
Have you ever been unable to forget a man you loved and you broke up with? For a month and a half now, no matter what I do, I just can’t get him out of my mind…I’m so upset [with] myself because I think he’s enjoying life right now with another woman [and] not giving a damn [about] me ...I never call him or contact him anymore so he doesn’t know what I am going through and he doesn’t contact me either, not even to ask how I am. My life is a nightmare and a torture everyday I wake up… [but] he’s going on with his life; he has met a new woman.
… I am cute enough. I have money. I have my own house, a car… I cannot accept why this man [doesn’t] love me anymore and how he can be so insensitive and act like I don’t exist…I cannot accept this cruel reality… I also can’t humiliate myself by letting him know how I feel…He’s probably with another woman already, so how can I call him?...No way. I’d rather die!!!!!!!:-(((((((
Also, just to clear up the confusion, did you break up with him, or did he break up with you?
Assuming you broke up with him, I offer the following:
Diagnosis: Wounded pride
Prescription: Swallow it. Take "Ummm's" advice given above. If you really care for the guy, call him. If you rejected HIM, why should he call YOU?! On the other hand, if you don't really care for him and are just seething because he has concluded that the world does not revolve around you, then lick the wounds to your ego and move on!
First off, since many here seemed confused by your English usage, I have taken the liberty of rendering your words into standard English. I have omitted a few lines and changed some words (mostly indicated in italics) without destroying your meaning:
Girls,
Have you ever been unable to forget a man you loved and you broke up with? For a month and a half now, no matter what I do, I just can’t get him out of my mind…I’m so upset [with] myself because I think he’s enjoying life right now with another woman [and] not giving a damn [about] me ...I never call him or contact him anymore so he doesn’t know what I am going through and he doesn’t contact me either, not even to ask how I am. My life is a nightmare and a torture everyday I wake up… [but] he’s going on with his life; he has met a new woman.
… I am cute enough. I have money. I have my own house, a car… I cannot accept why this man [doesn’t] love me anymore and how he can be so insensitive and act like I don’t exist…I cannot accept this cruel reality… I also can’t humiliate myself by letting him know how I feel…He’s probably with another woman already, so how can I call him?...No way. I’d rather die!!!!!!!:-(((((((
Also, just to clear up the confusion, did you break up with him, or did he break up with you?
Assuming you broke up with him, I offer the following:
Diagnosis: Wounded pride
Prescription: Swallow it. Take "Ummm's" advice given above. If you really care for the guy, call him. If you rejected HIM, why should he call YOU?! On the other hand, if you don't really care for him and are just seething because he has concluded that the world does not revolve around you, then lick the wounds to your ego and move on!
looking for smart host
Is there any host out there who can hold an intelligent conversation? I am not looking for big tits, tight asses or cute pussys. A brain and a good working knowledge of English is all that is required.
RE: looking for smart host
If you don't need tits, ass, or pussy, you don't need video either. You could go to any discussion site or chatroom and have intelligent conversation for free.
RE: looking for smart host
i would recommend hottatyanna. she's witty, smart and not bad to look at either.
RE: looking for smart host
if you can catch her on line and she is not in a video already try AwesomeChick, though she is not on line very often!
RE: looking for smart host
plus camillia, xhairy (toto) asianpie, xblondyx, pretty alex, longlegs and of course xgalaxylovesu--all cool too (wo this sounds like a little black book)
RE: looking for smart host
imagine are a lot of them lot of girls a re students earning money to pay for college....only one I know for sure is Gentlewave She is a university Economics major
RE: looking for smart host
She is away at the moment and will not be online for a while but Redpassion desrves a mention here, also Littlemore
RE: looking for smart host
seems to me that girls just afraid to show to guys on here if they r smart;) coz horny guys prefer silly horny gals;) smart girls with a good knowliges make their cocks soft:D
RE: looking for smart host
I am not too sure of his logic either. I have known a lot of confident girls and none of them actually screamed in bed. I think if a girl started making too much noise I would wonder if she was faking.
Songs you have to play loud
I was driving home tonight when Bruce Springsteen singing Born to Run came on the radio. You just have to turn the volume way up when a song like that comes on.
Anybody got any others ?
Anybody got any others ?
RE: Songs you have to play loud
AC/DC - You Shook Me All Night Long
Chuck Berry - No Particular Place To Go
Salt N Pepa - Push It
Neil Young - Cinnamon Girl
Autograph - Turn Up The Radio
Van Halen - Running With The Devil
Kiss - Duece
Aldo Nova - Fantasy
Kansas - Carry On Wayward Son
Joan Jett - I Love Rock 'N' Roll
and the list goes on... ;)
Chuck Berry - No Particular Place To Go
Salt N Pepa - Push It
Neil Young - Cinnamon Girl
Autograph - Turn Up The Radio
Van Halen - Running With The Devil
Kiss - Duece
Aldo Nova - Fantasy
Kansas - Carry On Wayward Son
Joan Jett - I Love Rock 'N' Roll
and the list goes on... ;)
RE: Songs you have to play loud
green day , red hot chilli peppers and godsmack songs ....turn em up
RE: Songs you have to play loud
Metallica- Loverman, Nothing else matters, The house Jack built.. and too many from them :p
Lordi, most of them
Dragonforce- hell yeah :D Cry of the brave is my fave, but they have plenty others..
Vita de Vie- Sunetul mai tare :D
Disturbed- Stricken, Down with the sickness..
Meh, too many :))
Lordi, most of them
Dragonforce- hell yeah :D Cry of the brave is my fave, but they have plenty others..
Vita de Vie- Sunetul mai tare :D
Disturbed- Stricken, Down with the sickness..
Meh, too many :))
RE: Songs you have to play loud
80's "New Wave"like...
Simple minds-Don't you forget about me
Vapors-Turning to japanese
China-Wishful thinking
When in Rome-The promise
OMD-If you leave
Fiction-Feels like heaven
kraftwerk-Das model
CCCP-American soviets...love thse songs!
RE: Songs you have to play loud
Chaka Khan's "Through the Fire" pushes all the right buttons for me.
RE: Songs you have to play loud
INYF many is the time after a few pints when you & i used to sing"It's raining men"as loud as we could.oh how quickly we forget :--))
RE: Songs you have to play loud
Ahhh one more song - Black eyed peas "Bebot"... Sounds damn gud of loud in the car. And the language is so sexy))
RE: Songs you have to play loud
seriously,bright side of the road,van morrison is a loud one :--))
RE: Songs you have to play loud
Radar Love-Golden Earring.an oldy & still the best air-guitar song ever.for anyone who loves rock & hasn't heard it,do your self a favor,you wont regret it!!
RE: Songs you have to play loud
Gorrilaz - DARE
Ween - Voodoo Lady
Eminem - White America
Gwen Stefani - What you waiting 4
PussyCat Dolls - Dont ya wish yer gf was hot like me
PINK FLLOYD - Comfortably Numb
Aerosmith - Dream On
Kinks - U really got me
Ween - Voodoo Lady
Eminem - White America
Gwen Stefani - What you waiting 4
PussyCat Dolls - Dont ya wish yer gf was hot like me
PINK FLLOYD - Comfortably Numb
Aerosmith - Dream On
Kinks - U really got me
RE: Songs you have to play loud
With amplifiers and instruments? lol the first 6
Stuck mojo - Southern pride
Nivana - Smells like teen spirit.
Pennywise - Peacefull day
Face to face - Disconnected
Hot action cop - Dirtbike rider
Hazen st - Are you ready
Any Chemical brothers
Arctic monkeys
Beautifull south - Everybodys talking :$
Hell... everything!
Nice question!!
Stuck mojo - Southern pride
Nivana - Smells like teen spirit.
Pennywise - Peacefull day
Face to face - Disconnected
Hot action cop - Dirtbike rider
Hazen st - Are you ready
Any Chemical brothers
Arctic monkeys
Beautifull south - Everybodys talking :$
Hell... everything!
Nice question!!
A thought about life
I admired someone very much. He was in his thirties, had a young family with four children under ten years old, he was president of his own company that he started, exercised everyday and was in terrific shape.
He died of a heart attack several weeks ago leaving behind his wife and family.
Everyone was shocked to learn about his passing. I found it so hard to believe because he worked out everyday and was so fit.
This tragic passing has taught me that life is precious and fleeting and we should all be thankful for our lives and remember that each day is a gift and should be treasured.
Try not to dwell on your problems and go out and enjoy life because you never know which day is your last.
He died of a heart attack several weeks ago leaving behind his wife and family.
Everyone was shocked to learn about his passing. I found it so hard to believe because he worked out everyday and was so fit.
This tragic passing has taught me that life is precious and fleeting and we should all be thankful for our lives and remember that each day is a gift and should be treasured.
Try not to dwell on your problems and go out and enjoy life because you never know which day is your last.
RE: A thought about life
condolences to u on the passing of ur friend and to his family...and i agree with u 100% on what u wrote
RE: A thought about life
Dave,
You could not be more right! I am sorryto hear about your friend. Each of us has reasons for trying to enjoy life ...... personally I have experienced my friend dying too and my nephew killed in a car crash at 18 years old. I know exactly what you are saying and why you say it. Good luck to you and enjoy life.
You could not be more right! I am sorryto hear about your friend. Each of us has reasons for trying to enjoy life ...... personally I have experienced my friend dying too and my nephew killed in a car crash at 18 years old. I know exactly what you are saying and why you say it. Good luck to you and enjoy life.
RE: A thought about life
live every day like it's your last. one day you'll be right. sorry about your friend.
RE: A thought about life
why cry? there's no point. you cannot change the past. what's the point of worrying about the future all it does is make it worse until it happens and if it doesn't happen then you've just screwed up your life for no reason.
RE: A thought about life
Very sorry for your lost and deepest sympathy to his family. We sometimes forget and at times need to be reminded of this. Thanks for bring us back to earth and putting everything back into perspective. Best wishes to all.
Love on CC
You recently posted about true love and omance/friendship an said it can't happen here. Did not the freeda before you have BF, Mondo, here for long time? Was that tnot true and good???
What has happend to..
Prettyalex, its not the same girl there now? Did she leave here?? Anyone know??
RE: What has happend to..
I agree with you. I know she was pregnant, but I miss her wonderful personality along with her beauty. I would like to talk to her again to check on how she feels.
RE: What has happend to..
BBW :p She is expecting twins. I also know she had problems with her studio but she hopes to return :-)
RE: What has happend to..
You are wrong A Member,she chose to leave and is now with her parents for morale support
RE: What has happend to..
She is not with her parents, she is with someone special and she did quit cc!!
RE: What has happend to..
lol, are you implyng her parents aren't special?
With fans like you who needs stalkers?
With fans like you who needs stalkers?
RE: What has happend to..
No im not saying her parents arent special, but i do know who shes with and thats what i meant by someone special))
RE: What has happend to..
She will be back!! She ordered me not to delete her IM as she is hoping to return. If not now, sometime in the future when things have settled down.
RE: What has happend to..
You mean after she gives birth to the twins and her body wil be all strethed out, leaky boobs, looking tired all the time, babies crying in the background, changing diapers every hour? Is that what we have to look foward to?
RE: What has happend to..
Some people get off on that. So many freaks in the internet world...
Pretty Pussy
check out this lady's profile pic - got to be one of the prettiest pussy shots goin
an idea for the site?
A bit ago they added a strip game. I think that was kind of cool but not too exciting, what are thoughts regarding having a Dare game- where there are a list of dares that are noted from varing degrees of "difficulty" but both players play?
RE: an idea for the site?
it could go from simple to more risky
touching dares
anal
insertions
but the visitor wud play by same rules too
touching dares
anal
insertions
but the visitor wud play by same rules too
any more good story?
read some really beautiful stories in here, I know that is rare. that's why it can be more memorable. sometimes beat the odds is still possible. I don't know who have some more cc stories to share. Magic do happens. right? :)
RE: any more good story?
that's ok. magic will happen when it happens. you can't ask for it. :)
RE: any more good story?
what kind of stories do you prefer? Its not impossible to write a good stories - its just quite hard not be told that one has to shut up and go somewhere else...
RE: any more good story?
it was rainy all day long yesterday. grey and cloudy sky and no ray of light. but in the evening rain stopped at last and there were 2 rainbows on the freshened sky: one near another. the sky smiled with sunshine ...and warmth came to my heart
RE: any more good story?
It just shows you it's how you look at life. If I had told that story it would have been something like "Rained all f****** day today :("
RE: any more good story?
Depends on what you mean by magic. There is still a lot of misery and suffering in this world, and evil, too. Still, beautiful moments do exis. A lot of it depends, like ImNotYourFriend says, on your mindset (at least he said something like that). To me....rushing off to work in the morning...sometimes I just take a second to notice the little birds chirping in the trees, the sun warming my skin, and the clean smell of the breeze blowing in from the sea. Or, when I come home from a long day at work and notice the look at my girl's face when she recognizes me. To me, I don't take this for granted, and perhaps this is magic...although they are very ordinary moments by most people's standards. We all have the power to change our point of reference, and sometimes all it takes to notice the magic moments is a slight sense of perception. At one point in time we will all be checking out of here (and I am not just talking about this site!), and perhaps what we will remember at that time is not the big, earth shattering "magical" moments, but relatively insignificant moments that brought us happiness and contentment. Now, shut me up before I make myself gag...:P
RE: any more good story?
you can keep going. I think your message is very meaningful. :) I read your story on cc, maybe you are the part of magic. :)
RE: any more good story?
Thank you lookcat, that is a very nice thing for you to say, and I appreciate it. I actually find it fascinating how many good people are on this board, which is why I stick around. ;)
RE: Not many looking for men on cam?
I think for the most part, adult sites like this cater to men, and feature women.
RE: Not many looking for men on cam?
I did try being a male host but no one asked me, even when I was free to ladys?
I feel ladys play alone
I feel ladys play alone
RE: french nails
A Girl's nails are way down on my list that I really couldn't care less unless they were way over the top.
RE: french nails
As a guy who plays guitar, I wear false nails. I recently went to a new salon to get some new nails done. "Do you want french?" says the female nail technician, "No thanks" I replied, "Just the nails".
RE: french nails
Never gave a damn about nails. You could spend a thousand bucks on 'em and I wouldn't notice.
Abbott and Costello
You have to be old enough to remember Abbott and Costello, and too old to
REALLY understand computers, to fully appreciate this. For those of us
who sometimes get flustered by our computers, please read on...
If Bud Abbott and Lou Costello were alive today, their infamous sketch,
"Who's on First?" might have turned out something like this:
COSTELLO CALLS TO BUY A COMPUTER FROM ABBOTT
ABBOTT: Super Duper computer store. Can I help you?
COSTELLO: Thanks. I'm setting up an office in my den and I'm thinking
about buying a computer.
ABBOTT: Mac?
COSTELLO: No, the name's Lou.
ABBOT T: Your computer?
COSTELLO: I don't own a computer. I want to buy one.
ABBOTT: Mac?
COSTELLO: I told you, my name's Lou.
ABBOTT: What about Windows?
COSTELLO: Why? Will it get stuffy in here?
ABBOTT: Do you want a computer with Windows?
COSTELLO: I don't know. What will I see when I look at the windows?
ABBOTT: Wallpaper.
COSTELLO: Never mind the windows. I need a computer and software.
ABBOTT: Software for Windows?
COSTELLO: No. On the computer! I need something I can use to write
proposals, track expenses and run my business. What do you have?
ABBOTT: Office.
COSTELLO: Yeah, for my office. Can you recommend anything?
ABBOTT: I just did.
COSTELLO: You just did what?
ABBOTT: Recommend& nbsp; something.
COSTELLO: You recommended something?
ABBOTT: Yes.
COSTELLO: For my office?
ABBOTT: Yes.
COSTELLO: OK, what did you recommend for my office?
ABBOTT: Office.
COSTELLO: Yes, for my office!
ABBOTT: I recommend Office with Windows.
COSTELLO: I already have an office with windows! OK, let's just say I'm
sitting at my computer and I want to type a proposal. What do I need?
ABBOTT: Word.
COSTELLO: What word?
ABBOTT: Word in Office.
COSTELLO: The only word in office is office.
ABBOTT: The Word in Office for Windows.
COSTELLO: Which word in office for windows?
ABBOTT: The Word you get when you click the blue "W".
COSTELLO: I'm going to click your blue "w" if y ou don't start with some
straight answers. What about financial bookkeeping? You have anything I
can track my money with?
ABBOTT: Money.
COSTELLO: That's right. What do you have?
ABBOTT: Money.
COSTELLO: I need money to track my money?
ABBOTT: It comes bundled with your computer.
COSTELLO: What's bundled with my computer?
ABBOTT: Money.
COSTELLO: Money comes with my computer?
ABBOTT: Yes. No extra charge.
COSTELLO: I get a bundle of money with my computer? How much?
ABBOTT: One copy.
COSTELLO: Isn't it illegal to copy money?
ABBOTT: Microsoft gave us a license to copy Money.
COSTELLO: They can give you a license to copy money?
ABBOTT: Why not? THEY OWN IT!
(A few da ys later)
ABBOTT: Super Duper computer store. Can I help you?
COSTELLO: How do I turn my computer off?
ABBOTT: Click on "START".............
_________________
REALLY understand computers, to fully appreciate this. For those of us
who sometimes get flustered by our computers, please read on...
If Bud Abbott and Lou Costello were alive today, their infamous sketch,
"Who's on First?" might have turned out something like this:
COSTELLO CALLS TO BUY A COMPUTER FROM ABBOTT
ABBOTT: Super Duper computer store. Can I help you?
COSTELLO: Thanks. I'm setting up an office in my den and I'm thinking
about buying a computer.
ABBOTT: Mac?
COSTELLO: No, the name's Lou.
ABBOT T: Your computer?
COSTELLO: I don't own a computer. I want to buy one.
ABBOTT: Mac?
COSTELLO: I told you, my name's Lou.
ABBOTT: What about Windows?
COSTELLO: Why? Will it get stuffy in here?
ABBOTT: Do you want a computer with Windows?
COSTELLO: I don't know. What will I see when I look at the windows?
ABBOTT: Wallpaper.
COSTELLO: Never mind the windows. I need a computer and software.
ABBOTT: Software for Windows?
COSTELLO: No. On the computer! I need something I can use to write
proposals, track expenses and run my business. What do you have?
ABBOTT: Office.
COSTELLO: Yeah, for my office. Can you recommend anything?
ABBOTT: I just did.
COSTELLO: You just did what?
ABBOTT: Recommend& nbsp; something.
COSTELLO: You recommended something?
ABBOTT: Yes.
COSTELLO: For my office?
ABBOTT: Yes.
COSTELLO: OK, what did you recommend for my office?
ABBOTT: Office.
COSTELLO: Yes, for my office!
ABBOTT: I recommend Office with Windows.
COSTELLO: I already have an office with windows! OK, let's just say I'm
sitting at my computer and I want to type a proposal. What do I need?
ABBOTT: Word.
COSTELLO: What word?
ABBOTT: Word in Office.
COSTELLO: The only word in office is office.
ABBOTT: The Word in Office for Windows.
COSTELLO: Which word in office for windows?
ABBOTT: The Word you get when you click the blue "W".
COSTELLO: I'm going to click your blue "w" if y ou don't start with some
straight answers. What about financial bookkeeping? You have anything I
can track my money with?
ABBOTT: Money.
COSTELLO: That's right. What do you have?
ABBOTT: Money.
COSTELLO: I need money to track my money?
ABBOTT: It comes bundled with your computer.
COSTELLO: What's bundled with my computer?
ABBOTT: Money.
COSTELLO: Money comes with my computer?
ABBOTT: Yes. No extra charge.
COSTELLO: I get a bundle of money with my computer? How much?
ABBOTT: One copy.
COSTELLO: Isn't it illegal to copy money?
ABBOTT: Microsoft gave us a license to copy Money.
COSTELLO: They can give you a license to copy money?
ABBOTT: Why not? THEY OWN IT!
(A few da ys later)
ABBOTT: Super Duper computer store. Can I help you?
COSTELLO: How do I turn my computer off?
ABBOTT: Click on "START".............
_________________
RE: Abbott and Costello
Yes!! I'm old enough to remember A & B. So Funny !!!!
Thanks a lot for bringing back old memories.
Thanks a lot for bringing back old memories.
RE: Abbott and Costello
I read a fortune message here the other day:
The words windows actually is an old native indian word meaning:
"White man looking through glass at hourglass"
The words windows actually is an old native indian word meaning:
"White man looking through glass at hourglass"
RE: Abbott and Costello
Not bad. But the original is the unquestioned greatest comedy sketch ever. Period.
RE: do all men....
Yes. Tastes differ greatly between people so what is sexy for one person can be a real turn off for others.
But, being honest, this is a fantasy site and a lot of guys here will go for the supermodels because they can't get a girl like that in real life. Either because they are too old or too ugly (or in some caes like mine both :D).
But, being honest, this is a fantasy site and a lot of guys here will go for the supermodels because they can't get a girl like that in real life. Either because they are too old or too ugly (or in some caes like mine both :D).
RE: do all men....
If by "supermodel" you mean wafer thin, I say no thanks, but I do like the ladies that are firm and slim.
And if by "built" you mean overweight, I say sorry but I will pass.
And if by "built" you mean overweight, I say sorry but I will pass.
RE: do all men....
Some examples of (what I think anyway) what he means by "built" are jakkygrey, burningviky and amazinggirl. And they are all fine. I would take any of them over a "supermodel" any day. Oh, wait a minute...aren't the Victoria's Secret girls categorized as supermodels? Now, I like these kinds of supermodels, but not the Kate Moss type supermodel.
RE: do all men....
I would have to say that most men on line or off prefer a supermodel, since there is scientific evidence that men are more visual than women are overall. And since this is a pay site, men preferring a "plus" size girl would be a small "niche" market.
RE: do all men....
Men *are* visual, but not are attracted to the same style.
And very, very few girls here are so thin.
And very, very few girls here are so thin.
RE: do all men....
I love beautiful women - my favorites are definitely not built by that definition (mybeauty4u and Danielly) neither is frail looking though.
RE: do all men....
In all of human time , man is attracted to the physical form of women. Endowments to either are simply highlights that in the initial meeting play a non vital role. Let me give you an example. Place the ugly of either sex on an island with no others. They will see through the 'ugly' in order to copulate.
built?
does that meen they excersize and built a strong healthy fit body?
or
sit and do nothing all day to build a big round mushy blob of a body that guys like because it wiggles a lot?
i like the first.
and i think ''supermodels'' like in magazines are just gross and sickly thin looking.
or
sit and do nothing all day to build a big round mushy blob of a body that guys like because it wiggles a lot?
i like the first.
and i think ''supermodels'' like in magazines are just gross and sickly thin looking.
RE: do all men....
I don't know how you are "built", but on sex sites that give them their own category, morbidly obese girls often out-earn "spermodels."
RE: do all men....
No, build s of lttle consequence. I would rather meet someone I can have a good conversaton with.
RE: do all men....
I believe that everyone has the chance to express themselves, but how they do it is what really counts. As for me, a woman that has the confidence to let her natural beauty shine no matter what shape or size will create her own chances, according to her terms and choose who she wants to be with...well just my opinion.
RE: do all men....
Well i always liked JLo type-gals with ass and boobs. Didnt like skinny ones.. But i met one girl who is thin but she is so damn sexy that i changed my opinion..ahh and im not bi btw, I just love beauty itself:))
RE: do all men....
A cute face and a friendly personality (sense of humor is soooo sexy!) comes before any other physical qualities. Each of my g.f.'s had totally different body types. Having said that, dark hair is a plus! :)
RE: do all men....
Like most men, I am more drawn to attractive women than unattractive, but I much prefer a woman of moderately good looks and brains to some ravishingly beautiful woman with an empty head.
RE: do all men....
Sure they do! but competition is fierce. Any girl has to have something to set her apart. Looks, body, personality, something or maybe all of these and more. Girl must decide what she has to offer and then then provide it like no one else! so better include intelligence in that description?
RE: honest answer, please, from men only!
Yes I have had that fantasy and from the moment I met them I knew my sexual attraction to them wasn't 100%
RE: to bracky
Hmmmm. Well in that case my answer would be no to 3 somes and no to not being attracted to them 100% :)
RE: to bracky
Good move bracky. Tell the women what you think they want to hear whilst, in reality, you think the complete opposite :P
RE: honest answer, please, from men only!
Maybe I did it with the wrong 2 girls, but my adventure with 2 girls played out better in my head and not in my bed.
I agree...
...wholeheartedly. That was my experience too. A girl I know asked me if she could bring a friend along for a threesome. Frankly, I did not find it satisfying. It was distracting, because I couldn't give all my attention to one lover. O, you are right on the money. For those who have never experienced it, the prospect seems exciting. (As you say, it plays out better in your head than your bed.) I suppose the thinking is, if sex with one woman is exciting, sex with two women must be doubly exciting. Perhaps some find it so, but it was not my experience.
RE: honest answer, please, from men only!
Is it a fantasy of mine? No.
Would I try it? Yes, if I thought all were comfortable with it.
Would I try it? Yes, if I thought all were comfortable with it.
RE: honest answer, please, from men only!
You can have a fantasy of a threesome and still be 100% sexually attracted to you wife or gf. Just because someone has a fantasy dosen't mean they are less committed.
RE: honest answer, please, from men only!
Preoccupation with sexual intercourse, regardless of who your with, is a pursuit devoted to satisfying the craving lust. Adding numbers and variety to the lust remains .... lust. Like any addiction if not brought under control life foe this addict would be horrible.
threesome
yes .
with wife or gf involved.. no. 2 complete unknown ladies are my fant.
as for being unattracted to my wifes body? i still am after 6 years.
i just dont want to fuck her cus she is a bitch.
with wife or gf involved.. no. 2 complete unknown ladies are my fant.
as for being unattracted to my wifes body? i still am after 6 years.
i just dont want to fuck her cus she is a bitch.
RE: honest answer, please, from men only!
A threesome has never been one of my fantasies. Sexual attraction naturally dims as time goes on and I don't think many men keep a diary to keep tabs on such changes. It just happens over time and it varies with each couple. There are marriage counslors that could better answer that question for you.
RE: honest answer, please, from men only!
Anon, it sounds to me that you are the one not feeling 100% physically attracted to your bf/husband anymore and your looking for ways to get him to ask you to have a 3 some together so that you can experiment with another woman sexually and let him believe it was really his idea and you are just doing it all for him, right? That's what your really trying to find out here... how to make him want it so u can live out your secret fantasy to be with a woman without him knowing you have those desires, correct? That's what your real curiousity is isn't it... what it is like to be with another woman?
Neolithic Psychoanalysis
Captain,
I always enjoy your astute comments. For a "caveman," you have a fine analytical mind. I suspect with that neocortex of yours, you'll be out of the cave in no time. Hey, since psychoanalysis is in decline, I'm sure you'd have no problem finding an office to open a practice on NY's Upper East Side. But perhaps, if you've not already done so, you might want to read Freud's "Civilization and its Discontents," before you make the move. (Btw, if you do move, let me know. I'm in the market for a nice cave---with all the neolithic amenities of course!)
I always enjoy your astute comments. For a "caveman," you have a fine analytical mind. I suspect with that neocortex of yours, you'll be out of the cave in no time. Hey, since psychoanalysis is in decline, I'm sure you'd have no problem finding an office to open a practice on NY's Upper East Side. But perhaps, if you've not already done so, you might want to read Freud's "Civilization and its Discontents," before you make the move. (Btw, if you do move, let me know. I'm in the market for a nice cave---with all the neolithic amenities of course!)
Fake Aussie botches accent
A British actress pretending to be an Australian has entered the UK's Big Brother household — but her accent is more fish 'n' chips than Kath and Kim.
Former children's television star Thaila Zucchi is trying to pass herself off as "Pauline", an evicted Aussie Big Brother contestant who has been switched to the UK version of the show.
The stunt is part of Big Brother's "Fake Week", and if the housemates don't expose "Pauline" (nicknamed "Poo") as a fake Aussie they'll have to live on basic food rations for a week.
But Zucchi's pretence is unlikely to pass muster unless she can summon up a more convincing accent.
In a video shown to the UK housemates, Zucchi failed dismally in her attempt to nail an ocker twang.
Fan website Behind Big Brother described the actress as having as the "worst Australian accent ever".
Another post on the official Big Brother website asked: "Does anyone think this chick actually sounds Australian?"
The host of UK Big Brother, Davina McCall, told Zucchi she had a "cracking accent" and encouraged her to say the word "no" with a nasal drawl.
Zucchi was part of short-lived pop act The Allstars, which starred in a television show called StarStreet and had several top-20 hits.
Former children's television star Thaila Zucchi is trying to pass herself off as "Pauline", an evicted Aussie Big Brother contestant who has been switched to the UK version of the show.
The stunt is part of Big Brother's "Fake Week", and if the housemates don't expose "Pauline" (nicknamed "Poo") as a fake Aussie they'll have to live on basic food rations for a week.
But Zucchi's pretence is unlikely to pass muster unless she can summon up a more convincing accent.
In a video shown to the UK housemates, Zucchi failed dismally in her attempt to nail an ocker twang.
Fan website Behind Big Brother described the actress as having as the "worst Australian accent ever".
Another post on the official Big Brother website asked: "Does anyone think this chick actually sounds Australian?"
The host of UK Big Brother, Davina McCall, told Zucchi she had a "cracking accent" and encouraged her to say the word "no" with a nasal drawl.
Zucchi was part of short-lived pop act The Allstars, which starred in a television show called StarStreet and had several top-20 hits.
Fair Star System
As I expected, I see no hosts are willing to submit to my plan for an unbiased star rating system.
natural nails
I think there are some hostesses who have fake long nails in fetish category. Can you guys guess which are fake and which are really natural ones? what do you prefer: superlong and supersharp but artificial or real natural length like i have?
RE: natural nails
Hi again Elina. Been looking at your profile page. So many beautiful photo's of such a pretty and obviously intelligent girl. We must chat sometime...I think it would be fun .
RE: natural nails
i like long natural nails but not to long . difference between fake and real is hard to see sometimes,it depends how good the manicure is.
like it when girls scratch with her nails over my back when we make love :)
like it when girls scratch with her nails over my back when we make love :)
RE: natural nails
What is fake and what is not?
Is it fake when the nails is just made stronger with a hardning surface?
Is it fake when the nails is just made stronger with a hardning surface?
RE: natural nails
Ah nails just have to look good and well cared of. Esp if they are natural, they have to look healthy. I find it disgusting when girls grow too long nails and they get curvy like eagle's claw.
Anyway, now it's trendy to have short nails and cover them with bright nail polish, classical red is in the favorites. But long healthy nails look good at any times, and you have good ones, Elina :)
Anyway, now it's trendy to have short nails and cover them with bright nail polish, classical red is in the favorites. But long healthy nails look good at any times, and you have good ones, Elina :)
RE: natural nails
look at your fingers, i am sure even you have nails :) do not dislake them and never bite them (it's a bad habit) :))))
RE: natural nails
Tank you Triksy. i really don't want to have claws, i think my length is enough and i don't need more :))
RE: natural nails
Real or fake, who cares as long as they look good. Many pepole feel they are special coz their's are real. I say id they look nice then be happy.
RE: natural nails
When I see a girl with long nails, I just think of all the things she can't do for fear of damaging them ... I like to see hands that could at least play a game of tennis.
Panties
What are the sexiest panties for teasing with? sheer? cotton? french cut? g-string?
I like sheer - so sheer they are barely there - full back - nothing sexier than some butt cleavage visible thru the cloth.
What do you think girls? what is your favourite for driving the viewers wild?
I like sheer - so sheer they are barely there - full back - nothing sexier than some butt cleavage visible thru the cloth.
What do you think girls? what is your favourite for driving the viewers wild?
RE: Panties
no panties...the smoothest skin...the most intoxicatingly feminine aroma...the bliss of the corporeal....made possible by a rapport with the intellectual....and with the heart. Oh Femina....ohhh Femina
RE: Panties
i love lacy panties see thru, specially host has full mound teasing yummy. asiancutie20 loves you to sniff her panties:) yeah
RE: Is this just fantasy.....
babe, why don't YOU make someone else's fantasy by screwing or blowing or handjobbing the next couple workmen who come to you, no matter what they look like
RE: Is this just fantasy.....
You can always call "Mr. Clean," or "Monsieur Propre" as they call him in France. :)
RE: Is this just fantasy.....
Hmmm i dont' think those guys in porn, repairmen or window cleaners, are really handsome:) so those women sitting at home and recieving plumbers, doctors or workers just get frustrated and desperate for sex while their hubbies are out making money :p fireman anyone?
RE: Is this just fantasy.....
funny isnt it?
the fantasy: a girl, particularly horny, sat alone at home and couple of handsome/macho handymen with big fat dicks came and somehow managed to screw the girl after some 'approaches" by the girl...
reality: a guy, definitely horny, sitting alone at home when couple of beautiful sales girls came and tried to sell stuffs. the guy tried some of the above 'approaches" and guess what
he got arrested for sexual harrasment! lol
the fantasy: a girl, particularly horny, sat alone at home and couple of handsome/macho handymen with big fat dicks came and somehow managed to screw the girl after some 'approaches" by the girl...
reality: a guy, definitely horny, sitting alone at home when couple of beautiful sales girls came and tried to sell stuffs. the guy tried some of the above 'approaches" and guess what
he got arrested for sexual harrasment! lol
RE: Is this just fantasy.....
I was a paramedic before and had a few girls offer a quick round of sexy fun in the ambulance or hospital.
RE: Is this just fantasy.....
Well some time ago i called a taxi and the driver was omgggggggg)) So hot young guy)) I was sitting next to him thinking what shud i do now)) So i asked for his nb as i use taxi very often lol)) If he started to flirt with me and to hint on smth sexy i wont be able to resist))
RE: real sex - in 4 easy steps
1. Turn your computer off
2. Put on some clothes
3. Leave the house
4. Meet some real women
Try it... for a change.
2. Put on some clothes
3. Leave the house
4. Meet some real women
Try it... for a change.