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How often you meet?
For those of you in long distance relationships...
How often do you meet each year? How many times and for what length of time?
When do you plan to be together? (A) Less than six months? (B) Less than one year. (C) Less than two years. (D) Don't know.
How often do you meet each year? How many times and for what length of time?
When do you plan to be together? (A) Less than six months? (B) Less than one year. (C) Less than two years. (D) Don't know.
RE: How often you meet?
i have longdistance relation,but it doesn't matter how many times u meet and how long because its never enough or long enough
RE: How often you meet?
Leo... so TRUE! It is never enough.... I guess for now it depends on how deep our pocket book is to allow traveling...
RE: How often you meet?
not as deep as i want it to be ;)
but we are planning to be together soon
but we are planning to be together soon
RE: How often you meet?
Clever...and even funny...but a lot of people here will not "get" your joke...and will think you were just drunk when posting. Funny, though!
RE: How often you meet?
It was not a joke. Its a true trilogy featuring the books the 'Northern Lights' , 'Subtle Knife' & 'The Amber Spyglass'
The last book of the trilogy won the '2001 Whitbread Book of the Year Award '
The last book of the trilogy won the '2001 Whitbread Book of the Year Award '
RE: How often you meet?
I've read them, I thought the first one was the best. The last one was a bit dull for me.
But we digress. I've had long distance relationships and it puts a great strain on people. If anyone is contemplating a long distance relationship with a girl from here then they'd better be prepared to be flexible.
Also if the girl decides to move out of their country it will be nesessary for her to go home to visit family on a regular basis. Women don't like ot be separated from their mothers for long.
But we digress. I've had long distance relationships and it puts a great strain on people. If anyone is contemplating a long distance relationship with a girl from here then they'd better be prepared to be flexible.
Also if the girl decides to move out of their country it will be nesessary for her to go home to visit family on a regular basis. Women don't like ot be separated from their mothers for long.
RE: How often you meet?
I agree with you turnips, long distance relationships have their downsides. However, if you're really in love with someone, then perhaps it does not matter. I don't know for sure, but I would guess that throughout history people loved each other over long distances....communicating through mail only. Think about the many relationships that ended and the pain caused just because it was unlikely that the people separated could ever possibly see each other again. Today we have access to the phone, internet and air travel.
Long distance relationships have their advantage, too. You are less likely to take the other person for granted...and perhaps have more time to think and reflect about what you really love about him or her. Also, there is the the old saying that whatever is worth having is worth working for. Perhaps, after having to deal with long time separation, immigration issues and a score of other problems...once you are finally together you are more appreciative of what you've got. Hehehe....I sound so hopelessly romantic here that I am almost making myself nausious....but I think there is some truth to this, too! This is not black and white...it is all about perspective. Still, if for some reason my current relationship would fail, I don't think I would do a long distance relationship again....or any relationship, for that matter (but then I have been wrong about that before!).
Oh, and I have to pick up those books by Philip Pullman...thanks for the tip, guys!
Long distance relationships have their advantage, too. You are less likely to take the other person for granted...and perhaps have more time to think and reflect about what you really love about him or her. Also, there is the the old saying that whatever is worth having is worth working for. Perhaps, after having to deal with long time separation, immigration issues and a score of other problems...once you are finally together you are more appreciative of what you've got. Hehehe....I sound so hopelessly romantic here that I am almost making myself nausious....but I think there is some truth to this, too! This is not black and white...it is all about perspective. Still, if for some reason my current relationship would fail, I don't think I would do a long distance relationship again....or any relationship, for that matter (but then I have been wrong about that before!).
Oh, and I have to pick up those books by Philip Pullman...thanks for the tip, guys!
RE: How often you meet?
For all you with russian gf's here and want to invite them to live the life of luxury with you in the UK.
www.ukvac-ru.com
good luck :)
www.ukvac-ru.com
good luck :)
RE: How often you meet?
Define what you mean by long distance. Would that be 10 thousand miles? 1 thousand miles? 10 miles? 10 blocks? Long is a relative word. What is long to some may not be to others.
RE: How often you meet?
Who in their right mind would consider 10 blocks a long distance relationship? A snail?
RE: How often you meet?
just once per year is all I could afford, but we'll be together permanently in just another month or too!! yay
RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)
I heard it will be held in dracula's castle with Alan Johnson emcing it as he gives a free (and by free I mean 5 cents a min) opening speech.
RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)
Olympics is every 4 years and after London 2012 the next one will be in 2016... you got the wrong year hunny or the wrong olympics?
RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)
it is every 2 YEARS! They alternate WInter and Summer GAMES...
RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)
Then it is the WINTER Olympics! and who gives a fuck? Name one winter guy participating without googling
RE: 2014 Olimpic games in Sochi :)
Who knows, maybe "global warming" will cancel winter olympics?
Transformers
Have just seen this movie..Superb)))))) I have no words just emotions) And the girl is omg..So hot))
RE: Transformers
Awww thx i was wondering what was her name)) Die hard 4 is cool too but i liked transformers more:)
RE: Independance day for Alan Johnson
http://www.reuters.com/article/topNews/idUSMAC37439320070704?feedType=RSS&rpc=22&sp=true
RE: HAPPY BIRHTDAY USA!!!!
i know usa lost many friends around the world with this president bush, fear can make for terrible mistakes..... so i thank you for your kind words. most Americans are still good caring people. i wish peace, freedom and happiness for all.
RE: HAPPY BIRHTDAY USA!!!!
The home of brave and the land of the free where people always tell the truth.
DirtyGame does nothing at all
She promises you to be limitless, she won't do anything except in 121, then when you get into 121 she starts asking you about this and that... all you see is her face (nothing nice actually) and nothing happens until you get pissed off and you quit.
RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all
She living up to her nickname I guess.
I'd ask for a refund, what's the worst they can say?
I'd ask for a refund, what's the worst they can say?
RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all
her pics certainly do nothing for me, slightly on the skanky side ... and her prices are pretty cheap but I guess you get what you pay for. Definitely ask CC for a refund dude.
RE: tell
Lol johnzhon!! It reminds me of the joke about Jesus before the crowd that is ready to pounce on some sinner. Jesus defends the unfortunate soul and rebukes the crowd saying, "Let ye who is without sin cast the first stone." Suddenly, as Jesus looks at the crowd, a stone is hurled and hits him in the face. Stunned, Jesus quickly remarks, "Mother!!!"
RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all
there are always 2 sides to every story, but seems like he understood your "I do a special shows in 1-2-1". Tisk tisk, I will never visit those type hosts, thats for sure
RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all
It's really funny that you think that others don't understand english when it's obvious that you don't have any clues about even the basics of grammar. You asked what I wanted to see and the next line was my reply, but you kept asking... who is the one who doesn't understand english? I have visited more than 20 cc hosts and many of them quite more than once and you are the first turnoff. If you think that cc is about asking "what's your name", "how old are you" and "what is the weather in your country" then probably you didn't get the spirit of this site.
RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all
Roy, In your opinion just what IS the "spirit" of the site? Just curious.
RE: DirtyGame does nothing at all
DG, I suppose there are those---especially those with little experience on sites like this---who are taken aback when they are asked directly what they want to see, as if a waitress is asking them to order from a menu of possibilities. I remember being a bit self-conscious when I visited a couple and the woman asked me, "So, what do you wanna see bb? BJ? Doggy? Anal? What can we do for you?"
I was initially dumbstruck. The idea that such intimate, almost- always private acts could be rendered as something like menu items was astounding to me at first. I'm neither defending or condemning you or your guest, since I have no idea what transpired between the two of you. I'm just saying I can understand how a novice might have difficulty answering a question, asked in such a direct manner.
I was initially dumbstruck. The idea that such intimate, almost- always private acts could be rendered as something like menu items was astounding to me at first. I'm neither defending or condemning you or your guest, since I have no idea what transpired between the two of you. I'm just saying I can understand how a novice might have difficulty answering a question, asked in such a direct manner.
RE: Happy Independence Day
Happy Independence Day to all my American friends from a Romanian host. Tks for all your help and dollars :)
RE: Happy Independence Day
Thank you CBT. I hope my fellow Americans are mindful that just because 231 years have passed since the Declaration of Independence from Britain, it does not mean our liberties are guaranteed. If the people go to sleep, they pave the road for tyrannts---some of whom pretend to protect the very liberties they are encroaching upon.
I extend my best wishes to you and your fellow Romanians and hope that your admission to the EU makes for a long-overdue prosperity. I know life in Romania has not been easy and the wounds from the Ceausescu era are still healing. All the best. :)
I extend my best wishes to you and your fellow Romanians and hope that your admission to the EU makes for a long-overdue prosperity. I know life in Romania has not been easy and the wounds from the Ceausescu era are still healing. All the best. :)
RE: Happy Independence Day
Those who give up essential liberties for temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety.
RE: Happy Independence Day
But some people are ignorant of what is at stake and are easy prey for the glib manipulators of opinion (.e.g. Karl Rove). They do not know what they are giving up. As Jefferson said, "Men cannot be both ignorant and free." But he did NOT say that such people do not "deserve" liberty. Au contraire, "ALL men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, LIBERTY [my emphasis] and the pursuit of Happiness. "
RE: Happy Independence Day
All men (people) are created equal. It does not matter what nationality, creed, color, sex etc. The world, including the USA has a very long way to go before this truism is realized.Despite it's many imperfections the US is still the torch bearer for democracy in the world. So, Thank you USA! and a belated Happy Birthday!
RE: Happy Independence Day
I believe Franklin meant not to imply that anyone was born undeserving of liberty. I think his words were only a warning to those who would willingly give up their liberties to a government that would demand them to do so for the claim that it would be required to ensure their safety.
Indeed, in the very same paragraph of the very same document wherein Jefferson stated that all men are created equal and all are endowed with those unalienable rights, he also said that it's not only the right of the people to throw off a government that would abuse and usurp their natural rights, he declared it their duty.
Indeed, in the very same paragraph of the very same document wherein Jefferson stated that all men are created equal and all are endowed with those unalienable rights, he also said that it's not only the right of the people to throw off a government that would abuse and usurp their natural rights, he declared it their duty.
RE: Happy Independence Day
I agree. It implies that people have a duty to defend their God-given liberty. A failure of duty---be it by an elected official sworn to uphold it, or an ordinary citizen---is an invitation to tyranny. Hence the phrase, "The tree of liberty is watered by the blood of tyrannts."
RE: ...and a
What gets to me is all the finger pointing being done towards President Clinton's abuse of his power to pardon at the end of his last term - as if his wrong somehow justifies bush's wrong..
Not to mention the fact that Bush Jr.'s commuting of Libby's jail time amounts to protecting him from punishment for his complicity in an act that Bush Sr. is on record as saying constitutes nothing less than treason.
And never mind the fact that Richard Armitage and Karl Rove, the ones who actually exposed Valerie Plame's identity as a CIA agent, are facing no jail time to be commuted from whatsoever.... It's obscene.
Not to mention the fact that Bush Jr.'s commuting of Libby's jail time amounts to protecting him from punishment for his complicity in an act that Bush Sr. is on record as saying constitutes nothing less than treason.
And never mind the fact that Richard Armitage and Karl Rove, the ones who actually exposed Valerie Plame's identity as a CIA agent, are facing no jail time to be commuted from whatsoever.... It's obscene.
RE: Question for the smokers out there...
is it so important? and if it is,than i want to know why and for whom?
RE: Question for the smokers out there...
hmmmm, i know there are Many men (and women) that enjoy watching a girl/woman smoke, for some it's powerfully erotic. But.... many others do not like it. i think it is best for a viewer to ask in chat, it works for me. ;-)
RE: Question for the smokers out there...
If every member ask her to smoke, how many packs would she go through in a day?
And from what I understand some countries banned smoking in the work place..lol
And from what I understand some countries banned smoking in the work place..lol
RE: Question for the smokers out there...
a reason might be that there are other members like me, who when they see a pic of smoking in archive or smoking in profile, i move on the the next. if just makes me think of smelly, sickly, phlegm coughing terrible tasting, unhealthy person, not something exciting and sexy.
RE: Question for the smokers out there...
yes just as bad , both
cant understand anyone doing either ,,both look foolish
So glad we now have the ban on the smoke,,,
actualy came home after a good night out without stinking of smoke !!
and in the morning - still no smell....( first time ever i can remember)
and also no sore throat ,,
(even tho i thought that was from singing - obviously not..)
in 20 years the kids will be asking -
did u really see people burn stuff and breath in the smoke ?
I dont believe you !!!!
who would be that stupid ??
cant understand anyone doing either ,,both look foolish
So glad we now have the ban on the smoke,,,
actualy came home after a good night out without stinking of smoke !!
and in the morning - still no smell....( first time ever i can remember)
and also no sore throat ,,
(even tho i thought that was from singing - obviously not..)
in 20 years the kids will be asking -
did u really see people burn stuff and breath in the smoke ?
I dont believe you !!!!
who would be that stupid ??
RE: Question for the smokers out there...
both smoking and drinking alcohol are vulgar. they both represent nothing but an ill effect on health and society. both should be banned.
RE: Question for the smokers out there...
yes, finally somethinking just like me and we should ban skirts with hemlines above the knee and public displays of affection (handholding..echh) and MP3s and rock and roll, woman's sufferage, curfew for anyone under the age of 25 after 9 pm and interent porn. Who's with me on this?
RE: Question for the smokers out there...
Naa too far 4 me ..
i'll just like to stop the ones that kill the user , and annoy - the observer ,, or even worse effect them too..
Just back from the hospital ,, after visiting a good mate who is on some heavy chemo and radiation...
not a pretty sight !!!
cool guy !!
not looking very cool -or feeling it right now..
only 34,,,,
hope he survives ,, his kids need him..
Wrong to dream?
New dreams are made all the time... do I want to remember this one? Are you there? I can feel you - but where are you? Today is so different ... I feel drowzy, achy, grumpy ... :( Just a bad day? Hmmm... I sure feel lousy, my head is burning with fever. I hate this feeling. Let me have a drink...I saluted my dear old Dad. I drink again with my bro's and loved ones. Minutes or hours, days or weeks - does time really matter? Ice melted frozen mortal memories. Routine morning birds sing alertly. The conscience cup of comfort brings fire set forth. Enjoy the warmth but stay cool enough not to burn.
RE: Wrong to dream?
wrong dream for me again---oh i fell asleep so fast and slept for days it seems and you were by my side, we walk along the sandy beach barefoot, holding hands and sharing the magic moment together, and as we headed back to our hut, we look up in the skies and saw the stars shine down upon us, you asked me how I felt, I said I have this feeling I hope will never end, but I know its only a dream, so I must move on and see what comes up next, she said, what do you mean by that, I said well my time is about up and I see the time we share together was shortly and I wouldnt change anything in the world for it, but we all know that our (opps got to go-to be continue) stay cool room--kisses and hugs
RE: Wrong to dream?
all is very simple
difficult just to understand it
everybody feel how he like to feel and see what he want to see
difficult just to understand it
everybody feel how he like to feel and see what he want to see
HAPPY BIRTHDAY USA!!!!
I know it is still 3 hours away but I just wanted to Wish everyone a great independents day to everyone that is an american or if you celebrate July 4th. 231 yrs and going strong. Happy Birthday America!!!! God bless the "USA and it's People!!
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY USA!!!!
yes happy birthday america you old home land of the free and fun, thanks to our forfathers and our men and women today who gives us the freedom and the opportunity to own a computer and chat on-line--stay cool america and god bless you for many years to come---hey wvli-how you doing man-stay cool
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY USA!!!!
thanks gala my dream -my lady--my sweety--how you doing, hope not being naughty again-hehe--stay cool, kisses and hugs
Dracula's Castle is for sale
I saw on the news Dracula's castle in Romania is for sale.
They want $80,000,000.
Maybe we can get lots of members and host together and buy it as a big studio??
They want $80,000,000.
Maybe we can get lots of members and host together and buy it as a big studio??
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
Would love to buy, but just to big a BITE out of the ole wallet
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
But the Romanian government has long ago stated that it is claiming all the contents and amenities. So it will be stripped bare if it is sold to an outside party.
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
135 million for a stripped down fixer upper? doesn't sound like such a great deal. and what if you're having the party inside when you buy it? ;)
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
i want to see who will buy it!
and who knows the reasons why its going to be sell?
i couldnt take even if smbd will present!
and who knows the reasons why its going to be sell?
i couldnt take even if smbd will present!
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
no Charlotte it was imshy there it was me, oh wait it wasn't me it was Batman.
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
i was out drinking with you last weekend. so which one was i?
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
It will kill your knees to climb to the top of the true citadel and take several hours.
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
Wimp.lol. Bet if there was some sweet Ro pussy at the top you would make it in 20 minutes, lol.
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
It's about 1500 (broken) steps to the top. And I would ONLY climb it again if that's the only place she would have the wedding.
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
ladies, please..... there's no reason to get catty, we're all here just to have a little fun, ok?
..ok then, super!:)
..ok then, super!:)
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
Is that one of the things you would say to a naked woman ? :P
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
c'mon Ted,a man with your wit & acumen,can do better than that :--))
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
Well... not 60 but half of it... not bad =P
1. Cool, I've never been to the Grand Canyon.
2. How many storage boxes can you fit in there?!
3. You must be very experienced.
4. Remember, you said this was a freebie...right?
5. Wait, let me get a board and rope so I don't fall in.
6. I gotta take off my watch, wouldn't wanna lose it.
7. Why do you wear a bra when you've already got a belt.
8. Would you mind rolling around in this flour.
9. I heard carpenters dream about you.
10. So this is why you're supposed to judge people on personality.
11. Look....I can get my whole arm in.
12. It's a good thing you have so many other talents.
13. Is that an optical illusion?
14. If I look right at it I feel like I'm falling in.
15. Would you mind wearing a paper sack on your head?
16. Do you mind if I wear one too...in case yours falls off?
17. Jeez...What ya got up there, dead fish?
18. I heard you could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch.
19. Have you ever thought of working in a sideshow?
20. I've been wondering all night what that smell was.
21. Maybe if I get really wasted I wont mind your body.
22. You know they have surgery to fix that.
23. Everybody down at the bar said you were good.
24. Oh, that's why they call it a Wonderbra, it makes those lines go away.
25. Huh? They told me your name was Jezebel.
26. I expect a good time, at least, the bathroom wall said so.
27. You're not as ugly as people claim, not quite anyway.
28. You're not 'that' fat.
29. I see why everyone said, with you, it's better with the lights out.
30. Wow, you like it the same way your little sister does.
1. Cool, I've never been to the Grand Canyon.
2. How many storage boxes can you fit in there?!
3. You must be very experienced.
4. Remember, you said this was a freebie...right?
5. Wait, let me get a board and rope so I don't fall in.
6. I gotta take off my watch, wouldn't wanna lose it.
7. Why do you wear a bra when you've already got a belt.
8. Would you mind rolling around in this flour.
9. I heard carpenters dream about you.
10. So this is why you're supposed to judge people on personality.
11. Look....I can get my whole arm in.
12. It's a good thing you have so many other talents.
13. Is that an optical illusion?
14. If I look right at it I feel like I'm falling in.
15. Would you mind wearing a paper sack on your head?
16. Do you mind if I wear one too...in case yours falls off?
17. Jeez...What ya got up there, dead fish?
18. I heard you could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch.
19. Have you ever thought of working in a sideshow?
20. I've been wondering all night what that smell was.
21. Maybe if I get really wasted I wont mind your body.
22. You know they have surgery to fix that.
23. Everybody down at the bar said you were good.
24. Oh, that's why they call it a Wonderbra, it makes those lines go away.
25. Huh? They told me your name was Jezebel.
26. I expect a good time, at least, the bathroom wall said so.
27. You're not as ugly as people claim, not quite anyway.
28. You're not 'that' fat.
29. I see why everyone said, with you, it's better with the lights out.
30. Wow, you like it the same way your little sister does.
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
31. Hurry and get dressed so i can turn the lights back on.
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
32. Some people called you a fat drunken slut..I said no, you are not a drunk!
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
33. Wow, you're so nice...I could just TALK to you for hours and hours!
34. I like your appartment...nice furniture...mmm... gotta go!
35. Hello...anybody there? Echo! Echo!
36. If it is OK, with you, I just like to cuddle, bby...OK with you?
37. For the love of god!
34. I like your appartment...nice furniture...mmm... gotta go!
35. Hello...anybody there? Echo! Echo!
36. If it is OK, with you, I just like to cuddle, bby...OK with you?
37. For the love of god!
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
38. If you could stop talking 1 min i would explain....hehe
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
ps..carpenters dream of straight boards with no curves..
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
Carpenter's dream = Flat a board and never been nailed ( read that as having sex)
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
35. Hunny, would you look at the size of your ass?
36. What do you mean I can't invite a girlfriend around?
36. What do you mean I can't invite a girlfriend around?
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
38. Your looking a bit thin on the ground hunny, let me shove my cock in your mouth.
Many interesting comments on viewers falling in love.
...and, the host making comments on her sincerity when talking versus the fact that she's earning a living here and really "needs" you to come back.
RE: Many interesting comments on viewers falling in love.
Everyone here is a player whether they are hosts or members....hosts love the money....members love the sexuality...life goes on.
RE: Many interesting comments on viewers falling in love.
And realize that for most people, and people here are no exception, the life issues they are most in denial about are ....you guessed it....sex....and money. CC has a winner!
Last Tango in Paris
This movie always reminds me how much I enjoy the company of mature playful men. :))
And I find the following dialogue cynical yet true to some extent. Unless one's love is totally unconditional.
-Oh. You want this man that you love to protect you and take care of you. You want this golden shining, powerful warrior … to build a fortress that you can hide in… so you don’t ever have to be afraid…or feel lonely or feel empty. Is that what you want?
-Yes.
-You’ll never find him.
-But I found this man.
-Then it won’t be long until he’ll want you to build a fortress for him… out of your tits and your c*** and your hair and your smile and the way you smell. Someplace where he can feel comfortable enough and secure enough so that he can worship in front of the altar of his own p**ck.
-But I found this man.
-No. You’re alone. You’re all alone and you won’t to be able to be free of that feeling of being alone until you look death right in the face. That sound like bullshit, some romantic crap… until you go right into the ass of death. Right up in his ass. Till you find the womb of fear. And then maybe… maybe then you’ll be able to find him.
-But I’ve found this man.
-He’s you. You are that man.
Genius hot acting overall. I find it more erotic than any porn flick.
And I find the following dialogue cynical yet true to some extent. Unless one's love is totally unconditional.
-Oh. You want this man that you love to protect you and take care of you. You want this golden shining, powerful warrior … to build a fortress that you can hide in… so you don’t ever have to be afraid…or feel lonely or feel empty. Is that what you want?
-Yes.
-You’ll never find him.
-But I found this man.
-Then it won’t be long until he’ll want you to build a fortress for him… out of your tits and your c*** and your hair and your smile and the way you smell. Someplace where he can feel comfortable enough and secure enough so that he can worship in front of the altar of his own p**ck.
-But I found this man.
-No. You’re alone. You’re all alone and you won’t to be able to be free of that feeling of being alone until you look death right in the face. That sound like bullshit, some romantic crap… until you go right into the ass of death. Right up in his ass. Till you find the womb of fear. And then maybe… maybe then you’ll be able to find him.
-But I’ve found this man.
-He’s you. You are that man.
Genius hot acting overall. I find it more erotic than any porn flick.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
I have to admit I found it very disappointing after all the hype of it being banned. Perhaps I was watching it for all the wrong reasons.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
Yeah, I watched it more like a real situation of life. everything seemed genuine.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
Taken out of the context can have many conotations, but in the movie had an elegant and philosphical expression that made it so human.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
Never saw the movie, but with lines like "go right into the ass of death" it's gotta rank right up there with "get your hands off me you damm dirty ape" or "you had best unfuck yourself or I will gouge out your eyes and skull fuck you!!"
RE: Last Tango in Paris
It is what happens when you expect the other to be both your god and your worshiper.
Best to approach the other as your partner in life who you truly like as a friend.
Best to approach the other as your partner in life who you truly like as a friend.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
Best buddy kind of man approach the opposite sex as friends. Very much present and available for women. Establish an intellectual rapport, a profound romantic attachment. Not falling in love but walk into it, hand in hand. Woman’s emotional needs are likely to be satisfied in this kind of relationship. The work is to generate enough heat to keep it hot.
But there is the other type “bad” boys: sexy, spontaneous, irresistible. Makes you laugh, makes you shiver, makes you mad as hell. If the high are higher, the lows are lower. The flame that fuels passion is either unfamiliarity or uncertainty. Finding yourself in the land of does-he-or-doesn’t he? A woman that understands that a good relationship has intimacy and independence can deal woth it very well. The task is to maintain a friendship.
A healthy relationship is based on chemistry, commitment and communication, no matter what kind of man you are with.
But there is the other type “bad” boys: sexy, spontaneous, irresistible. Makes you laugh, makes you shiver, makes you mad as hell. If the high are higher, the lows are lower. The flame that fuels passion is either unfamiliarity or uncertainty. Finding yourself in the land of does-he-or-doesn’t he? A woman that understands that a good relationship has intimacy and independence can deal woth it very well. The task is to maintain a friendship.
A healthy relationship is based on chemistry, commitment and communication, no matter what kind of man you are with.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
I agree with your observation. I've known many women who seem to be drawn exclusively to "bad boys." There is also an irony in such relationships because so often women are drawn to "bad boys" because they are afraid of an honest relationship, one which requires being open and a willingness to bare one's soul to another. That's scarey, yes, but in the end a lot less dangerous than subjecting oneself to what is usually the case with "bad boys." Yet, as you say, this dangerous element also has a certain allure to which some women are exclusively drawn.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
The Tango scene seems to illustrate an ideal of strength that is difficult, if not impossible to sustain, or even to achieve briefly. Perhaps such an ideal could be recognized and aspired to among partners, while using those tools of commitment and communication (assuming chemistry is there to begin with) to keep that idea in context in a more mundate world. Hmm. It's a fascinating quote you posted, and one worthy of more contemplation, and discussion. But please excuse me for the moment - I think my cat is throwing up....
RE: Last Tango in Paris
i came right at the moment when he told her to go anal.
thanks lady, you just saved me $3 :D
thanks lady, you just saved me $3 :D
RE: Last Tango in Paris
well your favourite scene is AFTER that dialogue. Classic premature "case". LOL
RE: Last Tango in Paris
You seem to keep an eye on me already, judging from my personal forum. Thats funny :P:P
RE: hmmm
if you take away a leprechaun's hat he will roll over in cow shite (old Irish saying)
RE: hmmm
Where is this wingless angel that sits on brooms? How much does she charge per minute?
Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
What is the most sensual quality you can find in a member or host...and yes I wish for world peace too.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
I agree that humour--or humor as we spell it here in the States--is a necessary ingredient. As with music, I couldn't imagine life without it.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Intelligent humor, cracking up for 5 mins with a pretty woman is enough to make my week :D
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Humor, (maybe a warped one), honesty,(if possible)
And world peace too
And world peace too
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
sensual, as in appealing to the senses? something that delights the eye, tongue, nose, ear, fingertips?
if so, then yes, it's definitely the qualities of humor and determination that satisfies my appetite for the sensual too.
whirled peas, all the way.
if so, then yes, it's definitely the qualities of humor and determination that satisfies my appetite for the sensual too.
whirled peas, all the way.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Spanky, you have a subtle sense of irony :)
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
I have determination and humor.
" I'm determined to get it for free"
" I'm determined to get it for free"
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Well for me it's an inner confidence built from wisdom.
So what do we have now??
The confidence and determination to knock your head against the wall to reach your goal and the intelligence to stop when the blood blurs your vision and the wisdom to use a sledge hammer the next time. So much for my I.Q. But still living a dream...
Oh yeah, almost forgot...and world peace too.
So what do we have now??
The confidence and determination to knock your head against the wall to reach your goal and the intelligence to stop when the blood blurs your vision and the wisdom to use a sledge hammer the next time. So much for my I.Q. But still living a dream...
Oh yeah, almost forgot...and world peace too.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Dis, I see you, and nearly everyone here, is using the word "sensual" in an overly broad way, far beyond its literal meaning. Only Spanky asked for clarification. Judging by your own answer, I think "desirable quality" or "attribute" would serve better to convey your meaning.
That said, for me kindness and gentleness of spirit is the one attribute that is most god-like. Such souls seem to possess a great capacity for loving* others and giving of themselves. When this quality is coupled with intelligence, it makes for a most desirable quality indeed. Add to that a third---and least important---quality of beauty and you have, in essence, an ideal of beauty, brains and heart. To that one could add a hefty measure of humor and general ‘joie de vivre’ (music, good food, good wine and good conversation) and there could be no goddess (or god) who could be more desirable.
*In the human scheme of things, is there anything more important, hence more desirable? I remember a speech by Martin Luther King in which he said [approximate quote], “If one day, when I’m no longer among you, you want to say something good about me, don’t tell them I had a PhD. Don’t tell them I won a Nobel Peace Prize…Tell them I loved somebody.”
That said, for me kindness and gentleness of spirit is the one attribute that is most god-like. Such souls seem to possess a great capacity for loving* others and giving of themselves. When this quality is coupled with intelligence, it makes for a most desirable quality indeed. Add to that a third---and least important---quality of beauty and you have, in essence, an ideal of beauty, brains and heart. To that one could add a hefty measure of humor and general ‘joie de vivre’ (music, good food, good wine and good conversation) and there could be no goddess (or god) who could be more desirable.
*In the human scheme of things, is there anything more important, hence more desirable? I remember a speech by Martin Luther King in which he said [approximate quote], “If one day, when I’m no longer among you, you want to say something good about me, don’t tell them I had a PhD. Don’t tell them I won a Nobel Peace Prize…Tell them I loved somebody.”
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Point well taken, Melomane. But for whatever meaning "sensual" may be, I truely believe that it is up to each individual to find out what it means to them, to stir the passion and emotions and light the fire deep within them, to freely express and share with others in their own special way and if it turns into a memorable experience, then mission accomplished.
And God Bless Dr. Martin Luther King...and yes, he did have a Dream.
And again to all, world peace...I'm sure Dr. King would agree too.
And God Bless Dr. Martin Luther King...and yes, he did have a Dream.
And again to all, world peace...I'm sure Dr. King would agree too.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Dis, I understand your sentiments regarding each individual's passions, etc., but I must respectfully disagree that it is for each individual to decide what a word means. If that were the case---i.e. each individual assigning his own meaning to a given word---there would be no meaning at all. For example, if I say the word "chair" does not have the same meaning for me that is generally accepted and I say "chair" signifies a "car," then our capacity for communicating about things--both tangible and intangible--breaks down.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Ahhhhh the beauty of it all is what makes the world go round. Thanks for your opinion Melomane.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
yes, a very smurfy opinion. so smurfy it tickled my smurfiness most smurfily.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Now that's what I'm talking about, your sensual Smurfiness. May the smurf be with you...always.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Seems that post had a different meaning for me,spelt....C...R...A...P..
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
You must have a different edition of the Oxford [English?] Dictionary. I didn't see that meaning listed.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
respectfully Melo,i think you either misunderstood or,worse,dis's point..or perhaps,it's me who misunderstands.sensual,like love & spirit, has many variants.it is the intangible,not tangible words,like your example of chair,that leaves it to each person to find their meaning or meanings.remember love is a many splendoured thing.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
It's an alphabetical listing of agreed upon definitions (including rare an archaic uses of words), pronunciations---and often etymologies (i.e. the origins) of words. The history of the Oxford English Dictionary (OED) is very interesting. It took about 70 years to complete. The project was begun in the 1850's and completed in the 1920's.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Very well put, Sel. We fight the battles that need fighting and debate the issues that need debating, other then that we keep smelling the roses. And right now I'm just smelling the roses and its good to know that there are other noses smelling the same roses.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Seldom, I understand how 'dis' is using the word. I simply think it is not the proper word to describe the things (tangible or intangible) of which he is speaking. As I said, I believe "attributes" or "character traits" more suitable. What's more, these terms allow for broader definitions; "sensual;" does not. Love and Spirit are much more open to numerous interpretations.
My small desk dictionary lists two--really four, since there are three definitions under 2--definitions for "sensual”: 1. Of or affecting the senses. 2a: relating to the gratification of the physical appetites. b.: Suggesting sexuality. c.: Physical rather than intellectual.
My main point is that the definition of a word is not arbitrary. A word may have numerous meanings, but that does not mean we are free to define a word (hence its meaning) arbitrarily. That would result in a breakdown of meaning itself and render our speech and writing nonsensical. If, at a concert hall, an usher asked for my ticket and instead I presented him with a horseshoe, he would be perplexed (and likely humored by this absurd action). If I insisted, “This is not a horseshoe; it’s a ticket to ME,” I would still not be admitted. To a psychiatric hospital perhaps, but not to the concert hall. :)
My small desk dictionary lists two--really four, since there are three definitions under 2--definitions for "sensual”: 1. Of or affecting the senses. 2a: relating to the gratification of the physical appetites. b.: Suggesting sexuality. c.: Physical rather than intellectual.
My main point is that the definition of a word is not arbitrary. A word may have numerous meanings, but that does not mean we are free to define a word (hence its meaning) arbitrarily. That would result in a breakdown of meaning itself and render our speech and writing nonsensical. If, at a concert hall, an usher asked for my ticket and instead I presented him with a horseshoe, he would be perplexed (and likely humored by this absurd action). If I insisted, “This is not a horseshoe; it’s a ticket to ME,” I would still not be admitted. To a psychiatric hospital perhaps, but not to the concert hall. :)
Something to say to a certain woman
We're out of milk and bread. Can you pick some up on the way home?
Ted
Ted
RE: Something to say to a certain woman
But dont forget ,, your not to look at or talk with any men !!!
wear lots of clothes, dont smile ,, and hurry back -your MINE lol..
or us BIG guys will come and punch them hard lol .. prooving our manly ways - rely on big muscles and GRRRRRR ,
oyyyh you ......., u looking at me ?????
RE: Something to say to a certain woman
Stop at the local library, and pick up poetry books, looks like we need more here, HAHA
RE: Mmmm...
Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth of sun-split clouds, – and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there,
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless falls of air...
Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I've topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace
Where never lark, nor eer eagle flew –
And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high, untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.
"High Flight" (The Pilot's Creed)
John Gillespie Magee
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth of sun-split clouds, – and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there,
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless falls of air...
Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I've topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace
Where never lark, nor eer eagle flew –
And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high, untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.
"High Flight" (The Pilot's Creed)
John Gillespie Magee
60 things not to say to a naked guy -continue
25. Maybe if we water it, it'll grow.
26. Thanks, I needed a toothpick.
27. Are you one of those pygmies?
28. Have you ever thought of working in a sideshow?
29. Every heard of clearasil?
30. All right, a treasure hunt!
31. I didn't know they came that small.
32. Why is God punishing you?
33. At least this won't take long.
34. I never saw one like that before.
35. What do you call this?
36. But it still works, right?
37. Damn, I hate baby-sitting.
38. It looks so unused.
39. Do you take steroids?
40. I hear excessive masturbation shrinks it.
41. Maybe it looks better in natural light.
42. Why don't we skip right to the cigarettes?
43. Oh, I didn't know you were in an accident.
44. Did you date Lorena Bobbitt?
45. Aww, it's hiding.
46. Are you cold?
47. If you get me real drunk first.
48. Is that an optical illusion?
49. What is that?
26. Thanks, I needed a toothpick.
27. Are you one of those pygmies?
28. Have you ever thought of working in a sideshow?
29. Every heard of clearasil?
30. All right, a treasure hunt!
31. I didn't know they came that small.
32. Why is God punishing you?
33. At least this won't take long.
34. I never saw one like that before.
35. What do you call this?
36. But it still works, right?
37. Damn, I hate baby-sitting.
38. It looks so unused.
39. Do you take steroids?
40. I hear excessive masturbation shrinks it.
41. Maybe it looks better in natural light.
42. Why don't we skip right to the cigarettes?
43. Oh, I didn't know you were in an accident.
44. Did you date Lorena Bobbitt?
45. Aww, it's hiding.
46. Are you cold?
47. If you get me real drunk first.
48. Is that an optical illusion?
49. What is that?
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked guy -continue
LMAO))))))))))) Awwwww its hiding think cracked me up:D
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked guy -continue
Yea this way i talk to my lil kitten)) Awwww dont hide lil baby, come out, i know ur somewhere here:D:D
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked guy -continue
haha,makes me being called the human full stop not seem so bad now :--))
RE: A Poem For Those Over 30
I think this poem was written a few years ago and should now be retitled for those over 45. Everything mentioned has been around for at least 15 years and most for over 20.
RE: A Poem For Those Over 30
it was posted a few years back but due to a slow connection it just made it here now :)
RE: I'm Glad I'm a Man [and] I'm Glad I'm a Woman
The author's unknown, as well he should be
Thus no embarassment to family
These stereotypes are for some a great laugh
For others it seems they are frankly just daft
The author is wanting in his sense of meter
Be he endowed with pussy or peter
Thus no embarassment to family
These stereotypes are for some a great laugh
For others it seems they are frankly just daft
The author is wanting in his sense of meter
Be he endowed with pussy or peter
Question to Hosts in "Friends & Family" Category.
Have any "family" members ever visited you here? If so, did they pay to speak with you? Do you think it is reasonable, indeed decent to ask a member of your family--or a real "friend"---to pay to chat with you?
RE: Question to Hosts in
You're right Gorty. The same applies, although to a lesser degree. It just seems particularly stark to ask a "family" member to chat with you! Would you charge your father or mother to chat? (Do they even know you work here?)
RE: Question to Hosts in
Gorty, I neither "decreased" nor increased the degree of relevancy regarding other kindred, non-adult categories. It is you who cast the net wider. And with all due respect, the question is not directed to you alone, but every host in this category. I confined the question to this category because it brings into sharp relief what I believe is a wholly disingenuous pose. The idea of family members or friends paying to chat with a host is an affront to the institution of the family and the sacredness of true friendship.
As for your hypothetical question re: my parents working here, no I would not pay to chat with them anymore than I would pay them for dinner when invited to their home. And as to assuming the "necessity" of one's parents working here, if I was in a position to help them economically, I would give them money directly! Why would any reasonable person think that the best way to help one's parents who work at CC, is to give CC 50-60% the studio another 20-25%, and let one's parents have the crumbs?
*P.S. By "family", I mean one's spouse, one's parents, one's siblings, one's children, 'et alia'....
As for your hypothetical question re: my parents working here, no I would not pay to chat with them anymore than I would pay them for dinner when invited to their home. And as to assuming the "necessity" of one's parents working here, if I was in a position to help them economically, I would give them money directly! Why would any reasonable person think that the best way to help one's parents who work at CC, is to give CC 50-60% the studio another 20-25%, and let one's parents have the crumbs?
*P.S. By "family", I mean one's spouse, one's parents, one's siblings, one's children, 'et alia'....
RE: Question to Hosts in
Well it's just an old category that goes back to the very beginning of CC, back when it was aiming to be a more "webcam" oriented website, instead of a "porn" oriented website :)
RE: Question to Hosts in
"horse?" ...as if this question constitutes a burden of sorts for me?
RE: Question to Hosts in
This question of "paying to chat" with friends or family is a regular one but I am surprised that you phrase it in this way. No one has to pay to chat with anyone here. You only pay when you want to see them. Non-adult hosts can of course set up a free password session to chat with their family or friends and some actually do this. I know of at least one host who started fee sessions to chat with friends but found her room was constantly invaded by rude strangers. She now charges a nominal rate which her friends do not mind paying. The friends and family category may have become a bit of an anomaly but it is one of the oldest ones on CC.
RE: Question to Hosts in
Member, Of course hosts do not have to make friends or family pay, but as to phrasing it "pay to chat', isn't this--in the main---a pay-for site? Is not every host here with the expectation of earning money? Few, if any, would be here if they were not being paid. I agree this category may be an "anomaly," but if the target audience is confined to "Friends & Family," is their not something perverse in the expectation that a family member or friend pay to chat? Such an expectation is an affront to one's relatives and true friends.
RE: Question to Hosts in
My point regarding "pay to chat" was that anyone can chat in text for free here. You only have to pay if you want to see the person you are chatting with.
RE: Question to Hosts in
but it is cold when you regularly deride those working in that category.i have read,to numerous to count,posts when you stick in unrelated comments about this category & many times end it with....LOL!!.your cloak of respectability seems to have holes in it :--))
RE: Question to Hosts in
Tisyou, Yes, I do find this particular category laughably disingenuous, but you exaggerate the extent to which I mention it. What’s more, the whole question of categories is a perennial one here and not peculiar to me. Since you presume to judge me on this score and say the times I have mentioned it are "to [sic] numerous to count," I assume it would not be too difficult for you to cite the most recent one, thereby lending credence to your personal grievance, though it is an “unrelated comment.”
Perhaps I am being a bit too harsh in selecting hosts in this category for special criticism—which I do generally, not personally. After all, CC is the creator of this category and as such deserving of the most criticism. They provide the façade and they did not disagree, when I e-mailed them, with my general observation about Non-Adult categories. The rep said,"I have to also compliment you on your evaluation of the Non-Adult categories. For the most part, it is spot-on." He went on to say that the categories exist because “…they’ve been there all along,” as if they were created ‘ex nihilo.’
Enough said. Frankly, I wish you would address my argument, rather than getting on your high horse and presuming to judge my disposition and my heart. I assume your own cloak is not without a few holes too, huh? :)
Perhaps I am being a bit too harsh in selecting hosts in this category for special criticism—which I do generally, not personally. After all, CC is the creator of this category and as such deserving of the most criticism. They provide the façade and they did not disagree, when I e-mailed them, with my general observation about Non-Adult categories. The rep said,"I have to also compliment you on your evaluation of the Non-Adult categories. For the most part, it is spot-on." He went on to say that the categories exist because “…they’ve been there all along,” as if they were created ‘ex nihilo.’
Enough said. Frankly, I wish you would address my argument, rather than getting on your high horse and presuming to judge my disposition and my heart. I assume your own cloak is not without a few holes too, huh? :)
RE: Question to Hosts in
Lol! I certainly find the "Glamour" category most revealing. At least it allows for a greater degree of honesty as regards the hosts' underlying intentions.
RE: Question to Hosts in
I made the mistake of thinking the marriage category was a place to pick up married women..you know, hitting middle age, reaking of despiration, biological clock ticking away or having that "stuck in a loveless marriage only staying together for the kids sake" feeling. Boy was I wrong...lol
RE: Question to Hosts in
Hey, maybe not. I'm sure there's that angle too. My reaction to the "Marriage" category is that it is just another variation on the "Russian Brides" scam so common in the States. The agency plays the girl and the customer and then either disappears or shrugs its shoulders saying, "We're sorry it didn't work out, but there's nothing we can do."
RE: Question to Hosts in
da dalink, thanks to those in the Politburo we can not rrreefund your monek for the airplane ticket, seems she is somewhere in Siberia now. But not to worry dalink, we have another lady just for you...btw when does your credit card expire and what's your limit?
RE: Question to Hosts in
I'm sure you'll do all you can to help. :) What's the name of your agency again? Gonif Inc?
RE: Question to Hosts in
Ok...as the Italians say, "The absent, like the dead, are always wrong." Lol! But what does your comment have to do with the question?
RE: Question to Hosts in
Pay for chat is not unique here. If I pick up the phone to speak to a friend then I must pay
RE: Question to Hosts in
but the phone company is my friend, who else would advise you to "reach out and touch someone"?