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HAPPY BIRTHDAY USA!!!!
I know it is still 3 hours away but I just wanted to Wish everyone a great independents day to everyone that is an american or if you celebrate July 4th. 231 yrs and going strong. Happy Birthday America!!!! God bless the "USA and it's People!!
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY USA!!!!
yes happy birthday america you old home land of the free and fun, thanks to our forfathers and our men and women today who gives us the freedom and the opportunity to own a computer and chat on-line--stay cool america and god bless you for many years to come---hey wvli-how you doing man-stay cool
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY USA!!!!
thanks gala my dream -my lady--my sweety--how you doing, hope not being naughty again-hehe--stay cool, kisses and hugs
Dracula's Castle is for sale
I saw on the news Dracula's castle in Romania is for sale.
They want $80,000,000.
Maybe we can get lots of members and host together and buy it as a big studio??
They want $80,000,000.
Maybe we can get lots of members and host together and buy it as a big studio??
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
Would love to buy, but just to big a BITE out of the ole wallet
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
But the Romanian government has long ago stated that it is claiming all the contents and amenities. So it will be stripped bare if it is sold to an outside party.
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
135 million for a stripped down fixer upper? doesn't sound like such a great deal. and what if you're having the party inside when you buy it? ;)
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
i want to see who will buy it!
and who knows the reasons why its going to be sell?
i couldnt take even if smbd will present!
and who knows the reasons why its going to be sell?
i couldnt take even if smbd will present!
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
no Charlotte it was imshy there it was me, oh wait it wasn't me it was Batman.
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
i was out drinking with you last weekend. so which one was i?
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
It will kill your knees to climb to the top of the true citadel and take several hours.
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
Wimp.lol. Bet if there was some sweet Ro pussy at the top you would make it in 20 minutes, lol.
RE: Dracula's Castle is for sale
It's about 1500 (broken) steps to the top. And I would ONLY climb it again if that's the only place she would have the wedding.
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
ladies, please..... there's no reason to get catty, we're all here just to have a little fun, ok?
..ok then, super!:)
..ok then, super!:)
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
Is that one of the things you would say to a naked woman ? :P
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
c'mon Ted,a man with your wit & acumen,can do better than that :--))
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
Well... not 60 but half of it... not bad =P
1. Cool, I've never been to the Grand Canyon.
2. How many storage boxes can you fit in there?!
3. You must be very experienced.
4. Remember, you said this was a freebie...right?
5. Wait, let me get a board and rope so I don't fall in.
6. I gotta take off my watch, wouldn't wanna lose it.
7. Why do you wear a bra when you've already got a belt.
8. Would you mind rolling around in this flour.
9. I heard carpenters dream about you.
10. So this is why you're supposed to judge people on personality.
11. Look....I can get my whole arm in.
12. It's a good thing you have so many other talents.
13. Is that an optical illusion?
14. If I look right at it I feel like I'm falling in.
15. Would you mind wearing a paper sack on your head?
16. Do you mind if I wear one too...in case yours falls off?
17. Jeez...What ya got up there, dead fish?
18. I heard you could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch.
19. Have you ever thought of working in a sideshow?
20. I've been wondering all night what that smell was.
21. Maybe if I get really wasted I wont mind your body.
22. You know they have surgery to fix that.
23. Everybody down at the bar said you were good.
24. Oh, that's why they call it a Wonderbra, it makes those lines go away.
25. Huh? They told me your name was Jezebel.
26. I expect a good time, at least, the bathroom wall said so.
27. You're not as ugly as people claim, not quite anyway.
28. You're not 'that' fat.
29. I see why everyone said, with you, it's better with the lights out.
30. Wow, you like it the same way your little sister does.
1. Cool, I've never been to the Grand Canyon.
2. How many storage boxes can you fit in there?!
3. You must be very experienced.
4. Remember, you said this was a freebie...right?
5. Wait, let me get a board and rope so I don't fall in.
6. I gotta take off my watch, wouldn't wanna lose it.
7. Why do you wear a bra when you've already got a belt.
8. Would you mind rolling around in this flour.
9. I heard carpenters dream about you.
10. So this is why you're supposed to judge people on personality.
11. Look....I can get my whole arm in.
12. It's a good thing you have so many other talents.
13. Is that an optical illusion?
14. If I look right at it I feel like I'm falling in.
15. Would you mind wearing a paper sack on your head?
16. Do you mind if I wear one too...in case yours falls off?
17. Jeez...What ya got up there, dead fish?
18. I heard you could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch.
19. Have you ever thought of working in a sideshow?
20. I've been wondering all night what that smell was.
21. Maybe if I get really wasted I wont mind your body.
22. You know they have surgery to fix that.
23. Everybody down at the bar said you were good.
24. Oh, that's why they call it a Wonderbra, it makes those lines go away.
25. Huh? They told me your name was Jezebel.
26. I expect a good time, at least, the bathroom wall said so.
27. You're not as ugly as people claim, not quite anyway.
28. You're not 'that' fat.
29. I see why everyone said, with you, it's better with the lights out.
30. Wow, you like it the same way your little sister does.
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31. Hurry and get dressed so i can turn the lights back on.
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
32. Some people called you a fat drunken slut..I said no, you are not a drunk!
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33. Wow, you're so nice...I could just TALK to you for hours and hours!
34. I like your appartment...nice furniture...mmm... gotta go!
35. Hello...anybody there? Echo! Echo!
36. If it is OK, with you, I just like to cuddle, bby...OK with you?
37. For the love of god!
34. I like your appartment...nice furniture...mmm... gotta go!
35. Hello...anybody there? Echo! Echo!
36. If it is OK, with you, I just like to cuddle, bby...OK with you?
37. For the love of god!
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38. If you could stop talking 1 min i would explain....hehe
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
ps..carpenters dream of straight boards with no curves..
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
Carpenter's dream = Flat a board and never been nailed ( read that as having sex)
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
35. Hunny, would you look at the size of your ass?
36. What do you mean I can't invite a girlfriend around?
36. What do you mean I can't invite a girlfriend around?
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked women
38. Your looking a bit thin on the ground hunny, let me shove my cock in your mouth.
Many interesting comments on viewers falling in love.
...and, the host making comments on her sincerity when talking versus the fact that she's earning a living here and really "needs" you to come back.
RE: Many interesting comments on viewers falling in love.
Everyone here is a player whether they are hosts or members....hosts love the money....members love the sexuality...life goes on.
RE: Many interesting comments on viewers falling in love.
And realize that for most people, and people here are no exception, the life issues they are most in denial about are ....you guessed it....sex....and money. CC has a winner!
Last Tango in Paris
This movie always reminds me how much I enjoy the company of mature playful men. :))
And I find the following dialogue cynical yet true to some extent. Unless one's love is totally unconditional.
-Oh. You want this man that you love to protect you and take care of you. You want this golden shining, powerful warrior … to build a fortress that you can hide in… so you don’t ever have to be afraid…or feel lonely or feel empty. Is that what you want?
-Yes.
-You’ll never find him.
-But I found this man.
-Then it won’t be long until he’ll want you to build a fortress for him… out of your tits and your c*** and your hair and your smile and the way you smell. Someplace where he can feel comfortable enough and secure enough so that he can worship in front of the altar of his own p**ck.
-But I found this man.
-No. You’re alone. You’re all alone and you won’t to be able to be free of that feeling of being alone until you look death right in the face. That sound like bullshit, some romantic crap… until you go right into the ass of death. Right up in his ass. Till you find the womb of fear. And then maybe… maybe then you’ll be able to find him.
-But I’ve found this man.
-He’s you. You are that man.
Genius hot acting overall. I find it more erotic than any porn flick.
And I find the following dialogue cynical yet true to some extent. Unless one's love is totally unconditional.
-Oh. You want this man that you love to protect you and take care of you. You want this golden shining, powerful warrior … to build a fortress that you can hide in… so you don’t ever have to be afraid…or feel lonely or feel empty. Is that what you want?
-Yes.
-You’ll never find him.
-But I found this man.
-Then it won’t be long until he’ll want you to build a fortress for him… out of your tits and your c*** and your hair and your smile and the way you smell. Someplace where he can feel comfortable enough and secure enough so that he can worship in front of the altar of his own p**ck.
-But I found this man.
-No. You’re alone. You’re all alone and you won’t to be able to be free of that feeling of being alone until you look death right in the face. That sound like bullshit, some romantic crap… until you go right into the ass of death. Right up in his ass. Till you find the womb of fear. And then maybe… maybe then you’ll be able to find him.
-But I’ve found this man.
-He’s you. You are that man.
Genius hot acting overall. I find it more erotic than any porn flick.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
I have to admit I found it very disappointing after all the hype of it being banned. Perhaps I was watching it for all the wrong reasons.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
Yeah, I watched it more like a real situation of life. everything seemed genuine.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
Taken out of the context can have many conotations, but in the movie had an elegant and philosphical expression that made it so human.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
Never saw the movie, but with lines like "go right into the ass of death" it's gotta rank right up there with "get your hands off me you damm dirty ape" or "you had best unfuck yourself or I will gouge out your eyes and skull fuck you!!"
RE: Last Tango in Paris
It is what happens when you expect the other to be both your god and your worshiper.
Best to approach the other as your partner in life who you truly like as a friend.
Best to approach the other as your partner in life who you truly like as a friend.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
Best buddy kind of man approach the opposite sex as friends. Very much present and available for women. Establish an intellectual rapport, a profound romantic attachment. Not falling in love but walk into it, hand in hand. Woman’s emotional needs are likely to be satisfied in this kind of relationship. The work is to generate enough heat to keep it hot.
But there is the other type “bad” boys: sexy, spontaneous, irresistible. Makes you laugh, makes you shiver, makes you mad as hell. If the high are higher, the lows are lower. The flame that fuels passion is either unfamiliarity or uncertainty. Finding yourself in the land of does-he-or-doesn’t he? A woman that understands that a good relationship has intimacy and independence can deal woth it very well. The task is to maintain a friendship.
A healthy relationship is based on chemistry, commitment and communication, no matter what kind of man you are with.
But there is the other type “bad” boys: sexy, spontaneous, irresistible. Makes you laugh, makes you shiver, makes you mad as hell. If the high are higher, the lows are lower. The flame that fuels passion is either unfamiliarity or uncertainty. Finding yourself in the land of does-he-or-doesn’t he? A woman that understands that a good relationship has intimacy and independence can deal woth it very well. The task is to maintain a friendship.
A healthy relationship is based on chemistry, commitment and communication, no matter what kind of man you are with.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
I agree with your observation. I've known many women who seem to be drawn exclusively to "bad boys." There is also an irony in such relationships because so often women are drawn to "bad boys" because they are afraid of an honest relationship, one which requires being open and a willingness to bare one's soul to another. That's scarey, yes, but in the end a lot less dangerous than subjecting oneself to what is usually the case with "bad boys." Yet, as you say, this dangerous element also has a certain allure to which some women are exclusively drawn.
RE: Last Tango in Paris
The Tango scene seems to illustrate an ideal of strength that is difficult, if not impossible to sustain, or even to achieve briefly. Perhaps such an ideal could be recognized and aspired to among partners, while using those tools of commitment and communication (assuming chemistry is there to begin with) to keep that idea in context in a more mundate world. Hmm. It's a fascinating quote you posted, and one worthy of more contemplation, and discussion. But please excuse me for the moment - I think my cat is throwing up....
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i came right at the moment when he told her to go anal.
thanks lady, you just saved me $3 :D
thanks lady, you just saved me $3 :D
RE: Last Tango in Paris
well your favourite scene is AFTER that dialogue. Classic premature "case". LOL
RE: Last Tango in Paris
You seem to keep an eye on me already, judging from my personal forum. Thats funny :P:P
RE: hmmm
if you take away a leprechaun's hat he will roll over in cow shite (old Irish saying)
RE: hmmm
Where is this wingless angel that sits on brooms? How much does she charge per minute?
Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
What is the most sensual quality you can find in a member or host...and yes I wish for world peace too.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
I agree that humour--or humor as we spell it here in the States--is a necessary ingredient. As with music, I couldn't imagine life without it.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Intelligent humor, cracking up for 5 mins with a pretty woman is enough to make my week :D
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Humor, (maybe a warped one), honesty,(if possible)
And world peace too
And world peace too
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
sensual, as in appealing to the senses? something that delights the eye, tongue, nose, ear, fingertips?
if so, then yes, it's definitely the qualities of humor and determination that satisfies my appetite for the sensual too.
whirled peas, all the way.
if so, then yes, it's definitely the qualities of humor and determination that satisfies my appetite for the sensual too.
whirled peas, all the way.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Spanky, you have a subtle sense of irony :)
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
I have determination and humor.
" I'm determined to get it for free"
" I'm determined to get it for free"
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Well for me it's an inner confidence built from wisdom.
So what do we have now??
The confidence and determination to knock your head against the wall to reach your goal and the intelligence to stop when the blood blurs your vision and the wisdom to use a sledge hammer the next time. So much for my I.Q. But still living a dream...
Oh yeah, almost forgot...and world peace too.
So what do we have now??
The confidence and determination to knock your head against the wall to reach your goal and the intelligence to stop when the blood blurs your vision and the wisdom to use a sledge hammer the next time. So much for my I.Q. But still living a dream...
Oh yeah, almost forgot...and world peace too.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Dis, I see you, and nearly everyone here, is using the word "sensual" in an overly broad way, far beyond its literal meaning. Only Spanky asked for clarification. Judging by your own answer, I think "desirable quality" or "attribute" would serve better to convey your meaning.
That said, for me kindness and gentleness of spirit is the one attribute that is most god-like. Such souls seem to possess a great capacity for loving* others and giving of themselves. When this quality is coupled with intelligence, it makes for a most desirable quality indeed. Add to that a third---and least important---quality of beauty and you have, in essence, an ideal of beauty, brains and heart. To that one could add a hefty measure of humor and general ‘joie de vivre’ (music, good food, good wine and good conversation) and there could be no goddess (or god) who could be more desirable.
*In the human scheme of things, is there anything more important, hence more desirable? I remember a speech by Martin Luther King in which he said [approximate quote], “If one day, when I’m no longer among you, you want to say something good about me, don’t tell them I had a PhD. Don’t tell them I won a Nobel Peace Prize…Tell them I loved somebody.”
That said, for me kindness and gentleness of spirit is the one attribute that is most god-like. Such souls seem to possess a great capacity for loving* others and giving of themselves. When this quality is coupled with intelligence, it makes for a most desirable quality indeed. Add to that a third---and least important---quality of beauty and you have, in essence, an ideal of beauty, brains and heart. To that one could add a hefty measure of humor and general ‘joie de vivre’ (music, good food, good wine and good conversation) and there could be no goddess (or god) who could be more desirable.
*In the human scheme of things, is there anything more important, hence more desirable? I remember a speech by Martin Luther King in which he said [approximate quote], “If one day, when I’m no longer among you, you want to say something good about me, don’t tell them I had a PhD. Don’t tell them I won a Nobel Peace Prize…Tell them I loved somebody.”
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Point well taken, Melomane. But for whatever meaning "sensual" may be, I truely believe that it is up to each individual to find out what it means to them, to stir the passion and emotions and light the fire deep within them, to freely express and share with others in their own special way and if it turns into a memorable experience, then mission accomplished.
And God Bless Dr. Martin Luther King...and yes, he did have a Dream.
And again to all, world peace...I'm sure Dr. King would agree too.
And God Bless Dr. Martin Luther King...and yes, he did have a Dream.
And again to all, world peace...I'm sure Dr. King would agree too.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Dis, I understand your sentiments regarding each individual's passions, etc., but I must respectfully disagree that it is for each individual to decide what a word means. If that were the case---i.e. each individual assigning his own meaning to a given word---there would be no meaning at all. For example, if I say the word "chair" does not have the same meaning for me that is generally accepted and I say "chair" signifies a "car," then our capacity for communicating about things--both tangible and intangible--breaks down.
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Ahhhhh the beauty of it all is what makes the world go round. Thanks for your opinion Melomane.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
yes, a very smurfy opinion. so smurfy it tickled my smurfiness most smurfily.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Now that's what I'm talking about, your sensual Smurfiness. May the smurf be with you...always.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Seems that post had a different meaning for me,spelt....C...R...A...P..
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
You must have a different edition of the Oxford [English?] Dictionary. I didn't see that meaning listed.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
respectfully Melo,i think you either misunderstood or,worse,dis's point..or perhaps,it's me who misunderstands.sensual,like love & spirit, has many variants.it is the intangible,not tangible words,like your example of chair,that leaves it to each person to find their meaning or meanings.remember love is a many splendoured thing.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
It's an alphabetical listing of agreed upon definitions (including rare an archaic uses of words), pronunciations---and often etymologies (i.e. the origins) of words. The history of the Oxford English Dictionary (OED) is very interesting. It took about 70 years to complete. The project was begun in the 1850's and completed in the 1920's.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Very well put, Sel. We fight the battles that need fighting and debate the issues that need debating, other then that we keep smelling the roses. And right now I'm just smelling the roses and its good to know that there are other noses smelling the same roses.
RE: Please Answer with Caution...Your I.Q. may be in Jeopardy
Seldom, I understand how 'dis' is using the word. I simply think it is not the proper word to describe the things (tangible or intangible) of which he is speaking. As I said, I believe "attributes" or "character traits" more suitable. What's more, these terms allow for broader definitions; "sensual;" does not. Love and Spirit are much more open to numerous interpretations.
My small desk dictionary lists two--really four, since there are three definitions under 2--definitions for "sensual”: 1. Of or affecting the senses. 2a: relating to the gratification of the physical appetites. b.: Suggesting sexuality. c.: Physical rather than intellectual.
My main point is that the definition of a word is not arbitrary. A word may have numerous meanings, but that does not mean we are free to define a word (hence its meaning) arbitrarily. That would result in a breakdown of meaning itself and render our speech and writing nonsensical. If, at a concert hall, an usher asked for my ticket and instead I presented him with a horseshoe, he would be perplexed (and likely humored by this absurd action). If I insisted, “This is not a horseshoe; it’s a ticket to ME,” I would still not be admitted. To a psychiatric hospital perhaps, but not to the concert hall. :)
My small desk dictionary lists two--really four, since there are three definitions under 2--definitions for "sensual”: 1. Of or affecting the senses. 2a: relating to the gratification of the physical appetites. b.: Suggesting sexuality. c.: Physical rather than intellectual.
My main point is that the definition of a word is not arbitrary. A word may have numerous meanings, but that does not mean we are free to define a word (hence its meaning) arbitrarily. That would result in a breakdown of meaning itself and render our speech and writing nonsensical. If, at a concert hall, an usher asked for my ticket and instead I presented him with a horseshoe, he would be perplexed (and likely humored by this absurd action). If I insisted, “This is not a horseshoe; it’s a ticket to ME,” I would still not be admitted. To a psychiatric hospital perhaps, but not to the concert hall. :)
Something to say to a certain woman
We're out of milk and bread. Can you pick some up on the way home?
Ted
Ted
RE: Something to say to a certain woman
But dont forget ,, your not to look at or talk with any men !!!
wear lots of clothes, dont smile ,, and hurry back -your MINE lol..
or us BIG guys will come and punch them hard lol .. prooving our manly ways - rely on big muscles and GRRRRRR ,
oyyyh you ......., u looking at me ?????
RE: Something to say to a certain woman
Stop at the local library, and pick up poetry books, looks like we need more here, HAHA
RE: Mmmm...
Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth of sun-split clouds, – and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there,
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless falls of air...
Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I've topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace
Where never lark, nor eer eagle flew –
And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high, untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.
"High Flight" (The Pilot's Creed)
John Gillespie Magee
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth of sun-split clouds, – and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there,
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless falls of air...
Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I've topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace
Where never lark, nor eer eagle flew –
And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high, untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.
"High Flight" (The Pilot's Creed)
John Gillespie Magee
60 things not to say to a naked guy -continue
25. Maybe if we water it, it'll grow.
26. Thanks, I needed a toothpick.
27. Are you one of those pygmies?
28. Have you ever thought of working in a sideshow?
29. Every heard of clearasil?
30. All right, a treasure hunt!
31. I didn't know they came that small.
32. Why is God punishing you?
33. At least this won't take long.
34. I never saw one like that before.
35. What do you call this?
36. But it still works, right?
37. Damn, I hate baby-sitting.
38. It looks so unused.
39. Do you take steroids?
40. I hear excessive masturbation shrinks it.
41. Maybe it looks better in natural light.
42. Why don't we skip right to the cigarettes?
43. Oh, I didn't know you were in an accident.
44. Did you date Lorena Bobbitt?
45. Aww, it's hiding.
46. Are you cold?
47. If you get me real drunk first.
48. Is that an optical illusion?
49. What is that?
26. Thanks, I needed a toothpick.
27. Are you one of those pygmies?
28. Have you ever thought of working in a sideshow?
29. Every heard of clearasil?
30. All right, a treasure hunt!
31. I didn't know they came that small.
32. Why is God punishing you?
33. At least this won't take long.
34. I never saw one like that before.
35. What do you call this?
36. But it still works, right?
37. Damn, I hate baby-sitting.
38. It looks so unused.
39. Do you take steroids?
40. I hear excessive masturbation shrinks it.
41. Maybe it looks better in natural light.
42. Why don't we skip right to the cigarettes?
43. Oh, I didn't know you were in an accident.
44. Did you date Lorena Bobbitt?
45. Aww, it's hiding.
46. Are you cold?
47. If you get me real drunk first.
48. Is that an optical illusion?
49. What is that?
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked guy -continue
LMAO))))))))))) Awwwww its hiding think cracked me up:D
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked guy -continue
Yea this way i talk to my lil kitten)) Awwww dont hide lil baby, come out, i know ur somewhere here:D:D
RE: 60 things not to say to a naked guy -continue
haha,makes me being called the human full stop not seem so bad now :--))
RE: A Poem For Those Over 30
I think this poem was written a few years ago and should now be retitled for those over 45. Everything mentioned has been around for at least 15 years and most for over 20.
RE: A Poem For Those Over 30
it was posted a few years back but due to a slow connection it just made it here now :)
RE: I'm Glad I'm a Man [and] I'm Glad I'm a Woman
The author's unknown, as well he should be
Thus no embarassment to family
These stereotypes are for some a great laugh
For others it seems they are frankly just daft
The author is wanting in his sense of meter
Be he endowed with pussy or peter
Thus no embarassment to family
These stereotypes are for some a great laugh
For others it seems they are frankly just daft
The author is wanting in his sense of meter
Be he endowed with pussy or peter
Question to Hosts in "Friends & Family" Category.
Have any "family" members ever visited you here? If so, did they pay to speak with you? Do you think it is reasonable, indeed decent to ask a member of your family--or a real "friend"---to pay to chat with you?
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You're right Gorty. The same applies, although to a lesser degree. It just seems particularly stark to ask a "family" member to chat with you! Would you charge your father or mother to chat? (Do they even know you work here?)
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Gorty, I neither "decreased" nor increased the degree of relevancy regarding other kindred, non-adult categories. It is you who cast the net wider. And with all due respect, the question is not directed to you alone, but every host in this category. I confined the question to this category because it brings into sharp relief what I believe is a wholly disingenuous pose. The idea of family members or friends paying to chat with a host is an affront to the institution of the family and the sacredness of true friendship.
As for your hypothetical question re: my parents working here, no I would not pay to chat with them anymore than I would pay them for dinner when invited to their home. And as to assuming the "necessity" of one's parents working here, if I was in a position to help them economically, I would give them money directly! Why would any reasonable person think that the best way to help one's parents who work at CC, is to give CC 50-60% the studio another 20-25%, and let one's parents have the crumbs?
*P.S. By "family", I mean one's spouse, one's parents, one's siblings, one's children, 'et alia'....
As for your hypothetical question re: my parents working here, no I would not pay to chat with them anymore than I would pay them for dinner when invited to their home. And as to assuming the "necessity" of one's parents working here, if I was in a position to help them economically, I would give them money directly! Why would any reasonable person think that the best way to help one's parents who work at CC, is to give CC 50-60% the studio another 20-25%, and let one's parents have the crumbs?
*P.S. By "family", I mean one's spouse, one's parents, one's siblings, one's children, 'et alia'....
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Well it's just an old category that goes back to the very beginning of CC, back when it was aiming to be a more "webcam" oriented website, instead of a "porn" oriented website :)
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"horse?" ...as if this question constitutes a burden of sorts for me?
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This question of "paying to chat" with friends or family is a regular one but I am surprised that you phrase it in this way. No one has to pay to chat with anyone here. You only pay when you want to see them. Non-adult hosts can of course set up a free password session to chat with their family or friends and some actually do this. I know of at least one host who started fee sessions to chat with friends but found her room was constantly invaded by rude strangers. She now charges a nominal rate which her friends do not mind paying. The friends and family category may have become a bit of an anomaly but it is one of the oldest ones on CC.
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Member, Of course hosts do not have to make friends or family pay, but as to phrasing it "pay to chat', isn't this--in the main---a pay-for site? Is not every host here with the expectation of earning money? Few, if any, would be here if they were not being paid. I agree this category may be an "anomaly," but if the target audience is confined to "Friends & Family," is their not something perverse in the expectation that a family member or friend pay to chat? Such an expectation is an affront to one's relatives and true friends.
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My point regarding "pay to chat" was that anyone can chat in text for free here. You only have to pay if you want to see the person you are chatting with.
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but it is cold when you regularly deride those working in that category.i have read,to numerous to count,posts when you stick in unrelated comments about this category & many times end it with....LOL!!.your cloak of respectability seems to have holes in it :--))
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Tisyou, Yes, I do find this particular category laughably disingenuous, but you exaggerate the extent to which I mention it. What’s more, the whole question of categories is a perennial one here and not peculiar to me. Since you presume to judge me on this score and say the times I have mentioned it are "to [sic] numerous to count," I assume it would not be too difficult for you to cite the most recent one, thereby lending credence to your personal grievance, though it is an “unrelated comment.”
Perhaps I am being a bit too harsh in selecting hosts in this category for special criticism—which I do generally, not personally. After all, CC is the creator of this category and as such deserving of the most criticism. They provide the façade and they did not disagree, when I e-mailed them, with my general observation about Non-Adult categories. The rep said,"I have to also compliment you on your evaluation of the Non-Adult categories. For the most part, it is spot-on." He went on to say that the categories exist because “…they’ve been there all along,” as if they were created ‘ex nihilo.’
Enough said. Frankly, I wish you would address my argument, rather than getting on your high horse and presuming to judge my disposition and my heart. I assume your own cloak is not without a few holes too, huh? :)
Perhaps I am being a bit too harsh in selecting hosts in this category for special criticism—which I do generally, not personally. After all, CC is the creator of this category and as such deserving of the most criticism. They provide the façade and they did not disagree, when I e-mailed them, with my general observation about Non-Adult categories. The rep said,"I have to also compliment you on your evaluation of the Non-Adult categories. For the most part, it is spot-on." He went on to say that the categories exist because “…they’ve been there all along,” as if they were created ‘ex nihilo.’
Enough said. Frankly, I wish you would address my argument, rather than getting on your high horse and presuming to judge my disposition and my heart. I assume your own cloak is not without a few holes too, huh? :)
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Lol! I certainly find the "Glamour" category most revealing. At least it allows for a greater degree of honesty as regards the hosts' underlying intentions.
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I made the mistake of thinking the marriage category was a place to pick up married women..you know, hitting middle age, reaking of despiration, biological clock ticking away or having that "stuck in a loveless marriage only staying together for the kids sake" feeling. Boy was I wrong...lol
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Hey, maybe not. I'm sure there's that angle too. My reaction to the "Marriage" category is that it is just another variation on the "Russian Brides" scam so common in the States. The agency plays the girl and the customer and then either disappears or shrugs its shoulders saying, "We're sorry it didn't work out, but there's nothing we can do."
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da dalink, thanks to those in the Politburo we can not rrreefund your monek for the airplane ticket, seems she is somewhere in Siberia now. But not to worry dalink, we have another lady just for you...btw when does your credit card expire and what's your limit?
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I'm sure you'll do all you can to help. :) What's the name of your agency again? Gonif Inc?
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Ok...as the Italians say, "The absent, like the dead, are always wrong." Lol! But what does your comment have to do with the question?
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Pay for chat is not unique here. If I pick up the phone to speak to a friend then I must pay
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but the phone company is my friend, who else would advise you to "reach out and touch someone"?
Dishonesty
Why do members lie? Are they afraid of revealing too many personal details for fear of discovery of their real identity? Do they think lying about their age, personal appearance, wealth, etc. will make hosts like them more and consequently give them better, reduced price or free shows? Are they guilty and create an alter ego? Is it a fantasy world so they create a new persona for fun? Do they feel girls here dont deserve the truth? Do they feel they are being lied to so why tell the truth? Does any of this make a difference? If everyone assumes that everyone else is lying doesn't that make everyone tell the truth? The truth being all in a lie? Finally, why do dogs have black lips?
Because
People on here sometimes say not really true about themselves just cause where else they can be what they want to be. At least for a while, at least at someone's eyes. They come TO HAVE REST here generally.
Not all are happy with what they are and what they have.
In fact, Internet allows us to put on mask and try to live different life and there is nothing wrong if somebody uses this chance.
In fact, each chathost is the part of that Industry of Fantasy, which, on someone's eye can seem dishonesty and cheat.
And the last.. Before judging others think about yourself. Are you usually honest with your members? You don't have hings you prefer to keep out of here?
Not all are happy with what they are and what they have.
In fact, Internet allows us to put on mask and try to live different life and there is nothing wrong if somebody uses this chance.
In fact, each chathost is the part of that Industry of Fantasy, which, on someone's eye can seem dishonesty and cheat.
And the last.. Before judging others think about yourself. Are you usually honest with your members? You don't have hings you prefer to keep out of here?
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Now let me think - people are here to sell something. Generally selling something involves a certain amount otf salesmanship. How many salesman - oops that's gender biased - salespeople have you met that tell you the whole truth about what their selling? It is part of the job to embellish the truth - some may call it dishonesty.
That applies equally to host and viewer - each have a stake in "selling" themsleves.
I thnk it a bit cynical to lump all hosts and viewers into a common pot and say all are dishonest. I've met some very genuine people here, granted tho, I have met more who have sold me a bill of goods that they cannot/will not live up to.
Bottom line - take and enjoy what is offered here. If you meet some genuine people, your life is enriched. If you meet some salespeople, enjoy the game.
The thread following explifies the short comings of taking this all too seriously.
That applies equally to host and viewer - each have a stake in "selling" themsleves.
I thnk it a bit cynical to lump all hosts and viewers into a common pot and say all are dishonest. I've met some very genuine people here, granted tho, I have met more who have sold me a bill of goods that they cannot/will not live up to.
Bottom line - take and enjoy what is offered here. If you meet some genuine people, your life is enriched. If you meet some salespeople, enjoy the game.
The thread following explifies the short comings of taking this all too seriously.
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<<Why do members lie?>>
For all of the reasons you listed.
FWIW, I don't lie. I'm mature enough to be myself, and I wouldn't want to have to cover my tracks, so to speak, if I ever did meet a host in reality.
For all of the reasons you listed.
FWIW, I don't lie. I'm mature enough to be myself, and I wouldn't want to have to cover my tracks, so to speak, if I ever did meet a host in reality.
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Some guys create a fantasy world like playing Dungeons&Dragons. They can have all the power and mystery. Othe guys like me thought about creating a false life, but decided they were too confused to play D&D so why bother in CC? Other guys create a different identity each time they are online. And there are countless variations.
And then there are the hosts. Does that hot 19 year old girl really dream of sitting on my 55 year old knee and deeply frnech kissing me. Did that one girl really get a job contract in my city and does she really want to live with me to save apartment rental?
And then there are the hosts. Does that hot 19 year old girl really dream of sitting on my 55 year old knee and deeply frnech kissing me. Did that one girl really get a job contract in my city and does she really want to live with me to save apartment rental?
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You pose numerous questions as possible explanations and I suspect that "all of the above" would be the best answer to them. More broadly, why do human beings lie in the first place? This is one of many traits that sets us apart from the animal kingdom.
Here, in the so-called "virtual" world of cyberspace, there are more opportunities for anonymity and some people like to play fanciful games. Some are harmless, but others are malicious in intent. As you say, some people like the idea of assuming various personae---including that of other members, so they can play out their hostilities, like cowards, under someone else's name.
Human psychology is complicated and fascinating and the cyber world provides an opportunity to view it through a different lens. People do things here that they would otherwise not do, but it's not as if these propensities did not already exist.
Here, in the so-called "virtual" world of cyberspace, there are more opportunities for anonymity and some people like to play fanciful games. Some are harmless, but others are malicious in intent. As you say, some people like the idea of assuming various personae---including that of other members, so they can play out their hostilities, like cowards, under someone else's name.
Human psychology is complicated and fascinating and the cyber world provides an opportunity to view it through a different lens. People do things here that they would otherwise not do, but it's not as if these propensities did not already exist.
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Maybe we have some memners lie and some hosts too, both playing games ,, maybe the member does not have the confidence to be himself when faced with a sexy host ? maybe he does not mind what she says as long as its nice, maybe they are here for that pretending , because they know in real life they will never say hello , would not approach said host , not be able to...
Then there are many others here that are fine being themselves,, enjoy the hosts and get more annoyed at the untruths,, these guys would be happy to be real, happy to chat , and meet, and enjoy the real life and truth ..
Having met many hosts home and away .. I still like the truth... but ok a bit of fantasy is fun too ..
just keep it to fun stuff , and not unnecessary lies plsss :-)
its a fun place we come to here !!!!
Then there are many others here that are fine being themselves,, enjoy the hosts and get more annoyed at the untruths,, these guys would be happy to be real, happy to chat , and meet, and enjoy the real life and truth ..
Having met many hosts home and away .. I still like the truth... but ok a bit of fantasy is fun too ..
just keep it to fun stuff , and not unnecessary lies plsss :-)
its a fun place we come to here !!!!
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Then there are also hosts who assume that nearly anything genuine and good or desirable about (and said by) a member must be a lie. That's a terribly frustrating barrier.
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I am an older, over weight man who chats with lots of hosts, goes to a few videos and sometimes asks for nudity, but not always. I love to make true friendship connections with a few hosts and it would be great to have something deeper with one, if that works out.
In fact, I wouldn't mind moving to her country on my new, rather modest (by my standards) pension, though I wouldn't want to live in an over-priced city. The pension is well-above her country's wage and with a modest inflation we could still do ok. If we both worked at modest jobs, we'd do nicely.
In fact, I wouldn't mind moving to her country on my new, rather modest (by my standards) pension, though I wouldn't want to live in an over-priced city. The pension is well-above her country's wage and with a modest inflation we could still do ok. If we both worked at modest jobs, we'd do nicely.
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You're assuming she wants to shack up with a retiree, and if/when you go back to your home country your pension would be like living on what woud be considered minimal wages there. How romantic.
Something to say to a certain kind of woman
It's easy not to realise how conceited and self-important you can be towards someone. You don't have a right to make constant criticism on the way someone behaves. Friends don't do that to friends.
As for the offensive things you say, "nice guys" will tolerate those things for a while. However, if you take it to a certain point it doesn't matter how kind, thoughtful or "nice" a guy is, he will snap.
It must be a pretty cold place you live in when you drop people as soon as someone more interesting comes along.
Someone did care about you. He wasn't trying to be your father, or your brother, and he wasn't trying to control you, he just wanted you to be ok. He's now realised that you're doomed to repeat the same mistakes over and over again and won't admit to it because your too busy reminding yourself how clever you are.
The fact that the person tells you your flaws, in a less-than-subtle manner doesn't mean he never liked you. It also doesn't mean he ever misled you or didn't enjoy spending time with you. It also doesn't mean he's some kind of asshole who's been acting with you all the time. If you treat people like dirt, that's often what you get from them. They'll pick out your bad points too. They're not going to think you deserve to be treated like some kind of princess. You don't. No one does.
You are far, far from perfect. Some men are stupid enough to be walked over by a woman whilst telling her how wonderful she is and throwing money at her. Well, good luck to them. Good luck to you.
As for the offensive things you say, "nice guys" will tolerate those things for a while. However, if you take it to a certain point it doesn't matter how kind, thoughtful or "nice" a guy is, he will snap.
It must be a pretty cold place you live in when you drop people as soon as someone more interesting comes along.
Someone did care about you. He wasn't trying to be your father, or your brother, and he wasn't trying to control you, he just wanted you to be ok. He's now realised that you're doomed to repeat the same mistakes over and over again and won't admit to it because your too busy reminding yourself how clever you are.
The fact that the person tells you your flaws, in a less-than-subtle manner doesn't mean he never liked you. It also doesn't mean he ever misled you or didn't enjoy spending time with you. It also doesn't mean he's some kind of asshole who's been acting with you all the time. If you treat people like dirt, that's often what you get from them. They'll pick out your bad points too. They're not going to think you deserve to be treated like some kind of princess. You don't. No one does.
You are far, far from perfect. Some men are stupid enough to be walked over by a woman whilst telling her how wonderful she is and throwing money at her. Well, good luck to them. Good luck to you.
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So to be fair, a similar thing can be said about at least half of the viewers and members here!!!
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It's hosts or girls that are always dumping their boyfriends for what they think is a better man. Some even one to have 3 or 4 online boyfriends at the same time. Why can't you girls be satisfied with just one man? Jeez!
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Did you talk with her about all these?
Your story is so ambiguous and generalise so much makes me NOT to believe you entirely. There must be the other side of the story. NOTHING is only black and white.I don't think you are the perfect victim.
Wishing her good luck but not really addressing her, that’s so pointless. You look like you either search for approval or in need to say things you were unable to communicate to her.
In any case, not what a *real* man would do.
Your story is so ambiguous and generalise so much makes me NOT to believe you entirely. There must be the other side of the story. NOTHING is only black and white.I don't think you are the perfect victim.
Wishing her good luck but not really addressing her, that’s so pointless. You look like you either search for approval or in need to say things you were unable to communicate to her.
In any case, not what a *real* man would do.
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Yes, I'm not perfect either but when you've been ex-communicated, there's a lot you can't say.
Thought the situation might be familiar to other people too.
Thought the situation might be familiar to other people too.
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This is another vague answer. Yes you did, but not really.
So you say you told her all THESE things you tell us here? You dont say...
And she told you she found someone else more interesting?
Excuse me but I don't believe everything I read...
Am curious bc I find a similarity between you and a guy I know... and I really would like to see through your *filters*.
On the other note I want you to be aware of what Tenesee Williams said regarding 'good' or 'bad' people:
"Some are a little better or a a little worse, but all are activated more by misunderstanding than malice. A blindness to what is going on in each other's hearts... nobody sees anybody truly but all through the falws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life. Vanity, fear, desire, competition - all such distortions within our own egos - condition our vision of those in relation to us..."
Think of that and reconsider your position. And hers.
So you say you told her all THESE things you tell us here? You dont say...
And she told you she found someone else more interesting?
Excuse me but I don't believe everything I read...
Am curious bc I find a similarity between you and a guy I know... and I really would like to see through your *filters*.
On the other note I want you to be aware of what Tenesee Williams said regarding 'good' or 'bad' people:
"Some are a little better or a a little worse, but all are activated more by misunderstanding than malice. A blindness to what is going on in each other's hearts... nobody sees anybody truly but all through the falws of their own egos. That is the way we all see each other in life. Vanity, fear, desire, competition - all such distortions within our own egos - condition our vision of those in relation to us..."
Think of that and reconsider your position. And hers.
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That Tennessee Williams quote is a fine bit of truth. That would be worth talking more about over tea.
RE: Something to say to a certain kind of woman
Very profound. I have a similar experience. For nine months we shared everyting, good vids, bad vids, now she will not tell me anything and says I am paranoid for worrying. If I even mention her work, her vids, her friends, we argue.
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Interesting assumption about how we readers are all "frustrated strangers". Rather telling.
RE: Something to say to a certain kind of woman
No. I was thinking about that Tennessee Williams quote elsewhere in this thread (or maybe another thread) about misunderstanding. Pointing out your assumption was an effort to illustrate one source of such misunderstanding.
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Reading what he said and what you said......
Maybe you both belong together!
Opposites attract! :D
Maybe you both belong together!
Opposites attract! :D
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Not these 2 opposites :D If we would get together an atomic bomb would be a kids play comparing to what will come out of our "reunion" :)))
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I know there's no one else in your life right now. But I also know that for while there was. And to drop friends for this is strange.
Also, if I can be so bold, you still have a bit of conceit. Really I don't "want" you? Trust me!
It was never really a regular friendship - I thought that was obvious. But I was happy to be that. I guess you still can't believe that someone can want to take an interest in your life for reasons other than posessiveness. The things you don't tell me are the things you assume I would only want to know because I'm jealous or posessive. It's odd becuase you'd tell me just about anything else about your life. How could I "control" you. Surely that's your own fear - that you would be easily controlled if you told a man certain things? Just telling me certain things doesn't give me control.
Once you are close enough to a person and know a lot about them, you do tend to take an interest in the big things in their life. I think that's pretty natural. Of course I want to know everything big that's happening, and the fact that you'd hide some major things only lead me to beleive that you would hide them because something hurt you or you were ashamed of something. I guess you've been with lots of jealous and posessive men and so you assume many men are this way, when they're not.
Yes, for a while I did "like you" in that way, but I realised it was for all the wrong reasons.
The thing I'm sorry for is being such an asshole. Thought I'd explain to you that you don't have me "right" in your mind and I'd do it in an indirect, impersonal way. I posted it here to see what other's reaction would be and of course, yes I thought you would read it and respond - albeit in a less direct way! I figured I owed you that courtesy. But I dont want to be part of your world anymore. You can believe me on that.
I guess you still don't realise how critical you are if you think you never criticised me. It doesn't have to be overt, spelled-out criticism when you have a character like yours. Think about that.
Stalking? That's pretty emotive. If I was a stalker, I'd be outside your house. Trust me, I won't do that. I won't come to your room on here - I haven't. I'm not much of a stalker. Stop the conceit, please! I don't "want" you, I'm not stalking you, I can "deal" with this, trust me!
Also, if I can be so bold, you still have a bit of conceit. Really I don't "want" you? Trust me!
It was never really a regular friendship - I thought that was obvious. But I was happy to be that. I guess you still can't believe that someone can want to take an interest in your life for reasons other than posessiveness. The things you don't tell me are the things you assume I would only want to know because I'm jealous or posessive. It's odd becuase you'd tell me just about anything else about your life. How could I "control" you. Surely that's your own fear - that you would be easily controlled if you told a man certain things? Just telling me certain things doesn't give me control.
Once you are close enough to a person and know a lot about them, you do tend to take an interest in the big things in their life. I think that's pretty natural. Of course I want to know everything big that's happening, and the fact that you'd hide some major things only lead me to beleive that you would hide them because something hurt you or you were ashamed of something. I guess you've been with lots of jealous and posessive men and so you assume many men are this way, when they're not.
Yes, for a while I did "like you" in that way, but I realised it was for all the wrong reasons.
The thing I'm sorry for is being such an asshole. Thought I'd explain to you that you don't have me "right" in your mind and I'd do it in an indirect, impersonal way. I posted it here to see what other's reaction would be and of course, yes I thought you would read it and respond - albeit in a less direct way! I figured I owed you that courtesy. But I dont want to be part of your world anymore. You can believe me on that.
I guess you still don't realise how critical you are if you think you never criticised me. It doesn't have to be overt, spelled-out criticism when you have a character like yours. Think about that.
Stalking? That's pretty emotive. If I was a stalker, I'd be outside your house. Trust me, I won't do that. I won't come to your room on here - I haven't. I'm not much of a stalker. Stop the conceit, please! I don't "want" you, I'm not stalking you, I can "deal" with this, trust me!
RE: Something to say to a certain kind of woman
I really cannot understand the reason for posting here. You seem to be trying to use the forum to have a private dialog with the woman concerned. You say "a certain kind of woman" but it clearly is addressed to one woman. Most comments from others are not really relevant because your posts do not give any real explanation of the situation or relationship. You talk a lot about friendship but I wonder if you understand it - at least when between a man and a woman. Yes it is natural for a friend to take an interest in the big things in someone's life. However friends also respect each others right to privacy and do not resent it if the friend does not want to share some things or jump to conclusions regarding their reasons for not sharing. Your posts suggest that you feel you have have a right to know things. This is definitely moving towards possessiveness and possibly jealousy. Nothing in the womans replies suggests that she dropped you as a friend because of other guys in her life. The way the two of you talk about each suggests that this is simply a case of two people who, once they got to know each other better, realised they actually did not particularly like each other and there was no basis for friendship.
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I guess the personal details, which I couldn't share here, are what makes it what it is. Certainly your opinions on it don't relate to the real situation too well because of this. The original post was pretty general. The reply made it less general though, but I can't make it any more specific. I think it's the specifics that really make it what it is and so it's difficult for someone like you to generalise. But it's all got far too non-general for my liking - which isn't good.
Hope that clears things up for you :)
Hope that clears things up for you :)
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My comments are based on what you and she have posted. Most of what you say shows confused thinking. Your initial post had a few phrases that made it seem general but this was superficial. All the main points were clearly addressed to a particular woman and related to a particular sitiuation. If you believe what you wrote was "pretty general" then you did not understand what you were saying. It is therefore not surprisng that you also bo not understand her.
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In brief, it was general enough not to specifically identify a particular woman or to give away any explicit personal details. I can't elaborate on things now without doing that, so I won't
RE: Something to say to a certain kind of woman
From what you've written, and from the responses from "the woman." I'd say you need to let it go. If someone doesn't want to talk to you any longer, you need to grow up and move on. End of story.
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I sympathize with you to a certain extent and I agree that "nice guys" often get the short end of the stick. Frankly, my observation is that guys (or girls) who take the most shit, get the most shit.
I take it that you have "taken" some shit here or elsewhere. Indeed your self-degrading moniker ("ONLY me") is an invitation to abuse. Don't sacrifice your kindness and humanity, but don't be a punk. Tell those bitches with the strap-ons to find someone else to fuck!
I take it that you have "taken" some shit here or elsewhere. Indeed your self-degrading moniker ("ONLY me") is an invitation to abuse. Don't sacrifice your kindness and humanity, but don't be a punk. Tell those bitches with the strap-ons to find someone else to fuck!
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Wasn't meant to be self degrading - I'll change it.
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Put it away for a couple of months. If there's anything real or genuine about your situation it will blossom again. It may go dormant, but it won't die -- if it's real. But be careful not to cut it out, dig it up, or turn it into mulch during the dormant period.
lose and loose
I was just wondering if they spell lose (opposite of win) as loose (opposite of tight) in the USA as I have seen it in a lot of posts on here.
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That's interesting. From reading your posts, I've often wondered if they spell you're (a contraction meaning "you are") as your (the 2nd person possessive pronoun) in England as I have seen it in a lot of your posts on here.
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No I'm just crap at English and often too lazy to proof read my posts.
However my question wasn't meant as an insult but a serious question as I have seen Melomane spell the word that way and he seems to know a lot about words.
I just wondered if it was one of those words that is spelt differently.
But at least your post gave me my answer :)
However my question wasn't meant as an insult but a serious question as I have seen Melomane spell the word that way and he seems to know a lot about words.
I just wondered if it was one of those words that is spelt differently.
But at least your post gave me my answer :)
RE: lose and loose
One of those differences between British and American English.
I was only being facetious in correcting him.
I was only being facetious in correcting him.
RE: lose and loose
INYF,
If I confused words 'loose' and 'lose.'
Twas not my aim, perhaps the booze
The Brits & Yanks, their speech does differ
Divided by ocean, no longer hither
Tis a curious thing how tongues evolve
A question for the profs to solve
We learn from those to whom we’re born
We rarely ask, it’s fixed, well worn
We’re different folks with a common lot
Beowulf and Huguenot
Anglophone the world is now
With scarce regard for I and thou
If I confused words 'loose' and 'lose.'
Twas not my aim, perhaps the booze
The Brits & Yanks, their speech does differ
Divided by ocean, no longer hither
Tis a curious thing how tongues evolve
A question for the profs to solve
We learn from those to whom we’re born
We rarely ask, it’s fixed, well worn
We’re different folks with a common lot
Beowulf and Huguenot
Anglophone the world is now
With scarce regard for I and thou
RE: lose and loose
Thank you gkb. I think it is precisely because they are pronounced differently that makes it jump out at me when I read it.
Unlike your and you're which are pronounced almost the same. But that's no excuse and I will try harder. :)
Unlike your and you're which are pronounced almost the same. But that's no excuse and I will try harder. :)
RE: lose and loose
For real dough, I'z gotta a mac daddy friend dat alwayz bustin my azz for da shiznit I'z be saying. Wat up wit dat?
RE: lose and loose
I 'feel' ya bro, but der's a time fo dialect and a time for standard English. Know'um sayin'?
RE: ADVICE
What kind of example could you show a child here?
Except how to run up a credit card
Except how to run up a credit card
RE: ADVICE
i belive she was looking for work unrelated to camcontacts or any other socially forbidden work . therefore i suggested becoming a childminder . she would have her own baby and maybe 1 -2 others depending on circumstances etc .
have you any positive suggestions "just me" ???
have you any positive suggestions "just me" ???
RE: ADVICE
Try giving birth to the Son of God...
Didn't do that girl from Nazareth any harm. ;)
Didn't do that girl from Nazareth any harm. ;)
RE: ADVICE
If the employment prospects are not good for single mothers where she lives then perhaps she will have to put her plans on hold until the baby is old enough to start school.
On the plus side this will mean she gets to spend more time with the baby because all too soon he/she will be all grown up although I do appreciate that when you are on your own with a young child sometimes all you want is some adult conversation.
On the plus side this will mean she gets to spend more time with the baby because all too soon he/she will be all grown up although I do appreciate that when you are on your own with a young child sometimes all you want is some adult conversation.
RE: ADVICE
Adult conversation yes, but topples no, kid on one boob, guest on another,
bad idea
bad idea
RE: ADVICE
Vlada , are you seriously talking ? is a survey about a general case ? or is your personal situation? if it is your personal situation why dont you ask first to yourself and later to poeple you consider can trust a bit in them ( trusting in brackets ) . Kisses
RE: ADVICE
I agree with "me" above; childcare could be an option, provided you like working with kids, of course and are good at it. ;) I think a lot of it also depends on the country in which you live? There might be a lot of competition where you live.
Also, try discussing this with other girls in your situation, perhaps you can start something together. Try to think in terms of other people's problems; if you can help solve someone's elses problem, there is a lot of opportunity to be found in that. Childcare is a good example, at least in a lot of western countries. Young couples with one or more kids are spending a lot of money on paying people they trust taking care of their kids.
Whatever you decide, don't be afraid of asking other people for advice. You will be adviced how many people will want to help if you just ask them.
Good luck! ;)
Also, try discussing this with other girls in your situation, perhaps you can start something together. Try to think in terms of other people's problems; if you can help solve someone's elses problem, there is a lot of opportunity to be found in that. Childcare is a good example, at least in a lot of western countries. Young couples with one or more kids are spending a lot of money on paying people they trust taking care of their kids.
Whatever you decide, don't be afraid of asking other people for advice. You will be adviced how many people will want to help if you just ask them.
Good luck! ;)
RE: ADVICE
Tony its exactly my personall situation
just cannot understand ur reply, i asked myself long time ago, and i do at the moment here what i can do for my family and its better than to do nothing, im asking ppl here about it coz i dont care if its possible to trust them or not, i dont care their mentall possotion and attitude to me, i want to know different views and opinoins on situation. i listened exactly what i was waiting to listen and no more((((
AND SPECIALLY TO HMM: U SHOULD KNOW ONE SIMPLE THING, WHEN THE MAN LOVES WOMAN HE LOVES HER CHILDREN TOO INDEPENDENTLY IF THOSE KIDS HIS OR NOT. AND I CAN TELL EXACTLY THAT THERE A LOT OF MEN WISH MARRY ME AND CRAZY ABOUT MY 2 YEARS OLD SON. AND FOR THEM ITS PLEASURE TO SPEND TIME AND MONEY FOR HIM. AND BIG GIFT I WILL LET THEM DO IT!!!!!
just cannot understand ur reply, i asked myself long time ago, and i do at the moment here what i can do for my family and its better than to do nothing, im asking ppl here about it coz i dont care if its possible to trust them or not, i dont care their mentall possotion and attitude to me, i want to know different views and opinoins on situation. i listened exactly what i was waiting to listen and no more((((
AND SPECIALLY TO HMM: U SHOULD KNOW ONE SIMPLE THING, WHEN THE MAN LOVES WOMAN HE LOVES HER CHILDREN TOO INDEPENDENTLY IF THOSE KIDS HIS OR NOT. AND I CAN TELL EXACTLY THAT THERE A LOT OF MEN WISH MARRY ME AND CRAZY ABOUT MY 2 YEARS OLD SON. AND FOR THEM ITS PLEASURE TO SPEND TIME AND MONEY FOR HIM. AND BIG GIFT I WILL LET THEM DO IT!!!!!
how's it done?
so just how do you get your cock and balls into a 3 ring circus? i'm sure thats a question we have all wondered at some time.
As soon as i get one part in the other pops out again and i'm knackered by the time i finally manage it, there must be a certain order and knack to doing this but i've tried asking at my local library for information only to be looked at with either disgust or blank expression.
Feel free to explain all, step by step drawings or pics might also help.
As soon as i get one part in the other pops out again and i'm knackered by the time i finally manage it, there must be a certain order and knack to doing this but i've tried asking at my local library for information only to be looked at with either disgust or blank expression.
Feel free to explain all, step by step drawings or pics might also help.
RE: how's it done?
hmmm, I think the real question we have all wondered at some time is ... WHY?!? What's the point in trying to get your nads into something like that? ... and it also begs another question ... you do this when you're alone? I presume you're doing this prior to a good wank, but I may be wrong ... I mean, if there is a chick or a guy around, are they really gonna just sit idly by while you try to wangle the twig and berries into this contraption?
RE: how's it done?
not necessarily an "answer" per se ... most of this shit I just make up and, as Dr Phil might say, I cannot vouch for its correctitism ...
RE: how's it done?
come now dear banana your questions are just a smoke screen to hide the fact that you, along with most guys here, have tried nadging your eel and jelly mounds into a circus at sometime in life.
Anyway I do try it alone now so that i don't appear a complete turnip when i say to the missie hey look what kinky sex toy i've got for us to fool around with and 3 hrs later we have 8 fingers and 2 thumbs stuck inside it but no hard flake and 2 sun ripe cherries.
I look on it as a rubic cube for genitals
Anyway I do try it alone now so that i don't appear a complete turnip when i say to the missie hey look what kinky sex toy i've got for us to fool around with and 3 hrs later we have 8 fingers and 2 thumbs stuck inside it but no hard flake and 2 sun ripe cherries.
I look on it as a rubic cube for genitals
In the bar (long joke).
Reading some of the posts today, I thought some people could use a chuckle...sorry if this is a little long:
A guy walks into a bar with two gorgesous women in on his arms. On his right arm is a beautiful blonde, and on the the left hangs a stunning brunette. The guy walks up to the bar, sits down, and the women settle next to him.
The women are all over him, practically hanging onto him, competing for his attention.
The bar goes quiet at this point, because this is definitely not an attractive looking guy.
After looking around with a snug look on his face, he reaches into his trouser pocket and pulls out a big wad of $100 dollar bills.
He takes out one bill, places it on the counter and says: "Bartender, this is my round. Champagne for EVERYBODY!"
At first people are a litte baffled, but soon a cheer breaks out!.People toast him and nod at him and say what a great guy he is!
Some time passes, and after a while the guy takes out a small wooden box and places it on the counter. He opens the box, takes out a small, beautiful, perfect miniature concert piano, and places it on the bar counter. He then takes out another small box, places it on the counter, and opens it. People try not to stare, but they watch with great fascination when they see what happens next. Out of the box walks a tiny man, dressed in a perfect musician black and white outfit.
The tiny man takes a deep bow to the people at the bar, walks up to the piano, sits down...and proceeds to play three beautiful piano concerto pieces. The music is so beautiful that the audience have tears in their eyes.
After playing, the little guy gets up, takes a deep bow, then walks into the box from whence he came. The guy with the two gorgeous women looks around, pleased with the effect. Then he puts the two boxes with the little man and the piano away.
At first people are unable to speak. Then our guy pulls up another couple of $100 bills and announces again: "Bartender, another round of Champagne for EVERYBODY!"...and again people cheer wildly in admiration...
When the place is about to close and the crowd shuffles out, the guy with the two women leaves the bartender a BIG tip. The bartender goes "Sir, no disrespect, but I could hardly believe my own eyes here tonight. May I ask you, Sir, to tell me your story?"
The guy answers: "Sure pal, although it is hard to believe. Still, I will tell you. I used to work as a plumber, barely making ends meet. One day I am working in a basement when I uncover a shiny object. Turns out to be an ancient brass oil lamp, covered in dust." The bartender goes"And then...?"
"I rub the lamp, and out comes a Genie. The Genie thanks me from saving him from centuries of imprisonment. He says he will grant me whatever 3 wishes I want, admonishing me to choose wisely."
"And?"
"Well, look at me, I am short, ugly, with greasy hair....and I had always had a hard time getting dates. For my first wish, I wished that whatever woman I fancied would fall helplessly in love with me."
"And?"
"Well, just look at me now!" ;)
"For my second wish, I've always been poor, I wished that whenever I reach into my trouser pockets, I would find a never ending supply of money. And I guess you have already seen for yourself what happened!"
"Wow!" goes the bartender...."and what happened next?"
"Then, replies the guy....I guess that the stupid Genie thought that for my third wish I asked for an 18 inch pianist!"
;)
A guy walks into a bar with two gorgesous women in on his arms. On his right arm is a beautiful blonde, and on the the left hangs a stunning brunette. The guy walks up to the bar, sits down, and the women settle next to him.
The women are all over him, practically hanging onto him, competing for his attention.
The bar goes quiet at this point, because this is definitely not an attractive looking guy.
After looking around with a snug look on his face, he reaches into his trouser pocket and pulls out a big wad of $100 dollar bills.
He takes out one bill, places it on the counter and says: "Bartender, this is my round. Champagne for EVERYBODY!"
At first people are a litte baffled, but soon a cheer breaks out!.People toast him and nod at him and say what a great guy he is!
Some time passes, and after a while the guy takes out a small wooden box and places it on the counter. He opens the box, takes out a small, beautiful, perfect miniature concert piano, and places it on the bar counter. He then takes out another small box, places it on the counter, and opens it. People try not to stare, but they watch with great fascination when they see what happens next. Out of the box walks a tiny man, dressed in a perfect musician black and white outfit.
The tiny man takes a deep bow to the people at the bar, walks up to the piano, sits down...and proceeds to play three beautiful piano concerto pieces. The music is so beautiful that the audience have tears in their eyes.
After playing, the little guy gets up, takes a deep bow, then walks into the box from whence he came. The guy with the two gorgeous women looks around, pleased with the effect. Then he puts the two boxes with the little man and the piano away.
At first people are unable to speak. Then our guy pulls up another couple of $100 bills and announces again: "Bartender, another round of Champagne for EVERYBODY!"...and again people cheer wildly in admiration...
When the place is about to close and the crowd shuffles out, the guy with the two women leaves the bartender a BIG tip. The bartender goes "Sir, no disrespect, but I could hardly believe my own eyes here tonight. May I ask you, Sir, to tell me your story?"
The guy answers: "Sure pal, although it is hard to believe. Still, I will tell you. I used to work as a plumber, barely making ends meet. One day I am working in a basement when I uncover a shiny object. Turns out to be an ancient brass oil lamp, covered in dust." The bartender goes"And then...?"
"I rub the lamp, and out comes a Genie. The Genie thanks me from saving him from centuries of imprisonment. He says he will grant me whatever 3 wishes I want, admonishing me to choose wisely."
"And?"
"Well, look at me, I am short, ugly, with greasy hair....and I had always had a hard time getting dates. For my first wish, I wished that whatever woman I fancied would fall helplessly in love with me."
"And?"
"Well, just look at me now!" ;)
"For my second wish, I've always been poor, I wished that whenever I reach into my trouser pockets, I would find a never ending supply of money. And I guess you have already seen for yourself what happened!"
"Wow!" goes the bartender...."and what happened next?"
"Then, replies the guy....I guess that the stupid Genie thought that for my third wish I asked for an 18 inch pianist!"
;)
RE: In the bar (long joke).
lol very good :)
Sorry for taking over 5 hours to reply but it took me that long to read it :P
Sorry for taking over 5 hours to reply but it took me that long to read it :P
RE: In the bar (long joke).
Hehe....I knew it was too long; will try to keep my next joke shorter. I suppose also that many people here do not have English as their first language, could be difficult to understand this joke.
Seen it all now!
First ChicoryBlue goes Little Shy, now Azurella22 (who used to be freeda) is in Hardcore dungeon. what next???
oh where
I have only 3 questions to ask at this time-can someone help me please.
1. where in russia can a man find a good drink?
2. where in romanian can a man find a good drink?
3. where in the philipines can a man find a good drink?
**and by the way, hello room, how is everyone doing, hope all doing well and staying cool, hope to be back soon in chat room.
1. where in russia can a man find a good drink?
2. where in romanian can a man find a good drink?
3. where in the philipines can a man find a good drink?
**and by the way, hello room, how is everyone doing, hope all doing well and staying cool, hope to be back soon in chat room.
RE: oh where
any bar in Angels City in Philippines but I would recommend the metro manila area and any Cowboy Bar and Grill they usually have local bands and drinks are not not watered down.
RE: oh where
oh chaseman you have been gone to long. Things have change, people have change and your girl friend has found another man on here and left us all alone. hope everything in america is find. it is hot over here.