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Can anyone help me?

There is this track "Groove armada-Paris", its driving me crazy, ive heard this theme in some movie for sure, cant remember which one, its spinning in my head lol but i cant catch it...Cant eat, cant sleep, untill i find this movie))) Im sure its smth like, Wicker park, or Garden State, or maybe Closer...Beautiful, amazing track...Anyone knows the movie?
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YouTube says its "Million Dollar Hotel" - any help?

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I saw it too, but i dont think that is. I hardly saw this movie, and the movie where i heard this song im sure its very familiar to me((

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is it from a tv series called "the beautiful life" maybe?

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Never saw it:(

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Apparently, Paris not a film score althought they did write the theme music for Sex And The City and Collateral films. (See IMdb website)

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Moni. I think maybe you need to just pack up your things and move to Paris permanently.

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Groove Armada did "Hands of Time" in the Tom Cruise film "Collateral". Great song.. Cheers....

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Right. Hands of Time. Maybe the movie you are thinking of Monika is "A Lot like Love" Its in that one too.

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Im not talking abt Hands on time, the name of the track is Paris for sure((

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I would be happy to tell you the answer in person. :)

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So im waiting for u in my room then lol)))

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I was thinking more along the lines of my room..... my hotel room. London? Paris? Venice? Where should we go? We can make our own beautiful music together. :)

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Ok dream on then;)

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I couldn't help to notice, but not once was there a simply thank you offered to those who tried to help. Spoiled is as spoiled does I guess.

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A thank you???? Are you kidding?? I just felt lucky not to be belittled or berated for trying to help. lol At least she didn't say how ignorant I am .....like she did last time I posted.

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Awwwww did it hurt ur feelings? lol Well why r u surprised? Everyone knows what a rude and arrogant Monikababe i am)))))))))))

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Thank you :D

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Wonderful aspirations my dear.

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She's a bad girl. Monika needs some spanking =)

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angeldash

Just wanted to say how amazing and sweet you are. I am glad that I have you in my life. You are very special!
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isnt that so cute .

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Kiss you back dear. I look forward to being with you again. Kissessss!!!

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hey hey hey

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best wishes to you two--btw, if you have any kids, think of the name Chase--cool

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u can name her chased...because boys will chase her ;-)

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daughter (name her) Carly--cool name

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the girls name will be chasety

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care to laugh?

A man wakes up in the hospital, bandaged from head to foot. The doctor comes in and says, 'Ah, I see you've regained consciousness. Now, you probably won't remember, but you were in a pile-up on the freeway. You're going to be okay, you'll walk again and everything, but...... something happened. I'm trying to break this gently, but the fact is, your willy was chopped off in the wreck and we were unable to find it.'


The man groans, but the doctor goes on, 'You've got $9000 in insurance compensation coming and we have the technology now to build you a new willy that will work as well as your old one did -better in fact! But the thing is, it doesn't come cheap. It's $1000 an inch.'

The man perks up at this. 'So,' the doctor says, 'it's for you to decide how many inches you want. But it's something you'd better discuss with your wife. I mean, if you had a five inch one before, and you decide to go for a nine incher, she might be a bit put out. But if you had a nine inch one before, and you decide only to invest in a five incher this time, she might be disappointed. So it's important that she plays a role in helping you make the decision.'

The man agrees to talk with his wife. The doctor comes back the next day. 'So,' says the doctor, 'have you spoken with your wife?'

'I have,' says the man.

'And has she helped you in making the decision?'

'Yes, she has,' says the man.

'And what is it?' asks the doctor.

'We're getting granite countertops
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Jokes here are normally pretty lame. I laughed my ass off at that one.

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Obviously they were married a long time.

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How to protect your heart online

Down below in the other thread "Longtime Fan" said this about a Host he knows: "I admit I have fallen a little in love with her. However, I am not stupid: I know the hosts lie to you as well. It is sometimes -- sometimes? How about usually? Hard to tell if they are being truthful."

Well, speaking as someone who’s been there and done that, if you are a guy and you've fallen "a little in love with a Host" then you need to remember something, so you will keeping thinking straight and protect yourself a little bit...

As much as you might care about her, take a moment and think about how many OTHER guys come to see her each day as well. And then remember that some of them have ALSO fallen a little in love with her. After all, that's WHY they keep coming back to see her -- they've developed a crush on her TOO. So first of all, keep this thought in your head -- you're not the only guy seeing her and dreaming of her when you're apart or she's not online.

Now try to imagine what she is saying to THEM, to all these other guys, when they are in a private chat. Think about what she says to the OTHER guys when you're not around, so they will keep coming back to see her. Is she just doing her job and putting on a good show...or is she flirting quite a bit to make EACH of those guys believe that she cares about them personally? Ask yourself this question -- how many guys is she telling: "You're not like my other guests. I like YOU most of all."

Now think about the other guys who -- just like you -- have heard her say really sweet things to them. So, now they feel like they've got a special connection with her TOO. In fact, they've become so hooked on her that now they're willing to PAY good money because they are SO determined to spend as much time as possible with her. Why? Because -- just like you -- they want to see her, chat her up, and do whatever they can to try and win her heart. So, think about how many OTHER guys come back day after day and take her private again and again because they hope -- just like you -- that the more time they spend in private with her, the better a chance they have of making her fall in love.

Once you think about all the OTHER guys coming to see your Host -- this girl you've fallen a little in love with -- and once you think about all the conversations happening in private when you're not around, and you think about the things that are being said or the email addresses or phone numbers or chat handles that are being exchanged…so THEY can stay in touch...that should REALLY act like a bucket of ice cold water to your face to remind you that you seriously need to be EXTRA careful with any host -- otherwise you stand a pretty good chance of getting your heart broken.

The problem with falling for a Host is it's hard to trust someone whose whole job centers on convincing guys to keeping coming back to see her. Plus, you always have to worry about all the other guys who -- just like you -- are hoping to start a love affair with her. So, you need to be careful because falling for a host means all the odds are against you, and you have to worry about what happens every time she goes private. And that's a weight and worry that is a heavy burden and it takes a strong heart to bear.
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Both, RealityCheck and LusciousLady are right. On one hand you must close your heart and be suspicious about the sweet things a chathost is telling you - but on the other hand if feelings occur, why not give them a chance?
I think you can figure out very fast, if you are really "the special one" or "one of many special ones"...
For me it is a kind of evidence if I can talk/phone/chat with a host maybe even see her on yahoo/skype/msn and she dont ask me to come to her vid. I remember very nice chats and the moment when the host asked me, if I wanna come to her video and I said no, suddenly she went offline or was very busy...so you see that your money is more special than you...
But I also remind nice funny and sweet skype chats incl. voice and video and naughty pleasure...and not only once. And I never was asked to come to CC video...BUT even if that happens, it doesn't mean anything. In real life everything can be different and change. And then its like hitting your head with a baseball-bat while it's in a tin-bucket...so was I. I had the feeling the chathost and the girl I met in real are two different persons. So, you never know what life brings to you...

So don't close your heart too much, enjoy the feelings and the butterflies but stay rational. Every crush on a girl went over and if not, ask her to meet and see how it is in real life...and maybe you find the love of your life or maybe you have a nice time together or maybe it is the worst date you ever had...but then you will know it!

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Yes very good advice. Obviously none of it applies to me cos I'm such a fantastic, charming, funny, sexy guy that when a host says anything nice to me it's obviously true.

Ah you've got to love fantasy sites :)

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Just give it time and you will :P

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Ouch !!!!! :P

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I think that is useful advice to everyone else but I am sure that she likes me more than anyone else because I am so nice and charming so it doesn't apply to me

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Just save yourself from lots of problems and take the site as for what it is: An adult fantasy site. The girls aren't angels. They are beautiful, they are young, most of them have friends, boyfriends, and have a life. Go in their vid, enjoy their performance, serve yourself, thank them and move on with your own real life. Don't dare to stop and look back. Dreaming in sites like this can cause lots of pain and troubles. They are here to make money out of the loneliness of others. We have the money, but need the fantasy they provide. They aren't lonely, but need the money we have. They need to keep you coming back, but you have the choice to move on or be trapped. Don't blame anyone of being deceived, it's a business. It's your choice to be the dumb or the smart. Simple as that.

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I must say in this thread there are some very thoughtful posts.

It seems to me that everyone on this site falls into the trap at least once. Myself, it took me two times, because I like to keep my heart open.

Once you have been burned twice, if you don't go away completely from here, you might contribute to the traps. Even without making promises, if you are a nice person and fun to talk to others develop feelings for you. But you are already jaded, and can't trust the other side, so you could end up doing the hurting.

As for broken promises, I have made legitimate plans to visit hosts. I have sometimes ended up cancelling those plans for various reasons. Sometimes the reasons were personal, but sometimes it was because of something that changed between the host and myself.

I have also followed through and fallen in love with a host in real life. Are we together now? No. It is the fault of c.c.? I don't think so. I still thank c.c. for giving me the opportunity to meet her. Was she deceiving me? No. The odds of any two people being right for each other are not great. Will I try again? I don't know.

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Maybe hurting people is fun and that's why they do it. I've been hurt here so maybe I should give the Hurting side a try, some people obviously get a kick out it, maybe I will too.

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Now that is well thought out and presented. No fluff, no blame-game finger pointing and no emotional ranting. Just plain good advice and, in my opinion, a must read for anyone contemplating an attempt to transition from fantasy to reality. It also might be helpful if you re-post this every so often... Kudos.

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You will never be able to protect your heart online. You either refuse to fall in love with a host or you have to get lucky. It does not matter how smart you are.

Hosts are here for money. Money forms the basis of any relationship. And even if you become friends, fall in love, meet in real, et cetera, money will still be the basis of the relationship.

The member PAID to get to know the host. The host CHARGED the member to get to know her. Paying to take a date out is one thing. But what goes on here is much different. Who pays $1,00 or $2,00 or more per minute on a date?

And remember, hosts are trained experts at manipulation. The second you upset one, watch how she acts. The second you say "sorry, I need to cut back for a month, I have a problem at work", watch what she does.

And even if you fall in love and get married, what then? Most hosts come from poor countries. They will all attack me for this, but the reality is, it is like prince charming rescuing cinderella and giving her a chance for a better life. Again, it is about money. It is about survival.

For awhile things will be good. She will be happy that she has a chance at a better life unless she is miserable and homesick. She will be 100% dependent upon you and therefore devoted to you. But one day she will be independent again and then what? Will the love be strong enough? The member will no longer be prince charming. He will no longer be her hero. The basis for the relationship will be gone. Money won't matter. And the gratitude for having been rescued will disappear with time.

And think of the member and his motivations. Why the hell is he at a site like this in the first place? What is wrong with him that he is coming here to find a woman to marry?

None of this means that no relationship will work out, but despite all the stories of marriages and things, none have made it to the 10 year mark, have they? Would be tough on a site less than 10 years old, lol. And I know of only one that has lasted as long as 5 years. None have truly stood the test of time.

Feelings here are real. But that doesn't mean that they are grounded in reality. Make sure you understand the difference! There is a chance at short and long term success, but I wouldn't bet on it. And that comes from someone that has been through it all, and could marry a host right now if he really wanted to. But there is always a stumbling block. Different countries. Different ages. Different ways of growing up. Throw in money and things will blow up sooner or later in all liklihood.

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I would never get a gf from site like this, its big difference to play around and to love someone.

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I thought you were talking about the physical heart, failing because of the excitement. It happened.

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how-why-smile

ok, all you old timers here (mean the ones been here over 3 years, not age) how many videos do you have in a month now after the first couple years are over,, how you ever given it any thought of trying or meeting that right one on here, since someone down below in the forum ask why guys are liars--hmmm, not sure how to answer that one, makes you stop and think, oh well, stay cool all, keep on smiling and love your neighbors
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For free?...Hmmm

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for hosts -- what would you like us to do?

I asked this before and only got a smattering aof a response, posssibly because I didn't state it well. I'll try again: hosts, what do you prefer a guy to do during a sexy chat? Do you want us to just watch you dance/strip? Do you want us to tell you what to do? I am in the habit of spinning elaborate erotic fantasies -- discussing the host and I, kissing, fondling, licking, etc. - the whole cybersex thing. This seems to be appreciated by the hosts, but it is, of course, difficult to know if they are really enjoying something or just inwardlyyrolling their eyes and saying "here we go again -- a talker." Plus I'm not sure the translators are up to the task. So, ladies, what would you prefer that we, as members, do? Am I on the right track?
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RE: for hosts -- what would you like us to do?

Thank goodness he didn't say he didn't like "hugzzz!!!". What would the world be without your "hugzzz!!!"? I think that my life would end.

Please never stop yah (your?) "hugzzz!!!". As as long as I have arms, and as long as yah (you?) hugzzz!!! mah (oops... me), I promise to always hugzzz!!! yah (I mean you.)

Hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz and kisses full of love!!!

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RE: for hosts -- what would you like us to do?

well yah(you)made mah(me)laugh,thanks.well posted,he says offering a round of applause(i'm sure yah(you)don't want huggzzzz from mah(me) :--)

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RE: for all lickers

if a girl doesn't want to use her mouth, she has others holes that work just as well. :P

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I find oral sex horribly disgusting.

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If your idea behind it will be to think about your own pleasure only, then it will be doomed even before you try, that's for sure.

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Agree with Wancko, should be about giving your lover pleasure, not about urself!

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Suffering for a greater good?

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Well speaking just for myself I get turned on by sounds and get some really good ones while licking, not to mention I can feel her wiggling with delight and that's another really big turn on for me.

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I very much enjoy giving oral to a girl both as foreplay and til she has an orgasm (which can still be foreplay). If she does not want to give oral to me this is fine, provided we can work out other ways so we can both be satisfied. Although it is good to push and maybe expand ones limits during sex by trying new things neither partner should feel forced or unduly pressured to keeo doing something they strongly dislike.

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nothing are more delicious than lick a beautiful, shaved and smooth pussy.. I love to lick her outside and inside as far inn i can go..
Im a middelaged man and i have never been with a girl that havent loved to be licked..
Most of the girls I have been with in my life usually love to suck cock aswell.. When we make love, the first orgasm and cum normally done be oral sex ..69.. After we may make love for hours..in all positions..

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assuming the woman smells nice and is clean then i love to give oral until she cums, it is a turn on for me also to feel and see her getting more and more excited. Ilove to receive oral also and of course the same applies that the man must smell good and be clean, i've met very few women that dislike giving oral but many don't like cum in their mouth and what the man eats can make a difference to the taste of his sperm.
Good sex is a part of my life, if the woman refused to give me oral i wouldn't get up and walk away but i don't the relationship would work in the long term. same would probably apply if she gave oral but obviously didn't enjoy doing it.
69 rocks

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To me the answer to your question,"does it bother me if there is not equal participation in oral sex?", is no. It does not bother me if the participation is not equal in all acts of sex. I feel that if one partner likes something more then something else that the most important part is that each should participate if it satisfies their partner and they are not 100% against what is being done.. It is important that both partners enjoy and feel comfortable in what they do and what they give to the relationship.

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love you all

happy birthday dasha, I know I am late....I had once here a gf called dasha, she drove me crazy.....but this is the past....Now I love you all. Will be here occasionally, incognito..... lol, kisss
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What to do?

What do you do when you love someone and that person loves you and you want to be with each other, but you think that you will not be happy together because you think differently about things and different things are important to each of you? (And yes, I've tried talking about this with the person.)
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They say 'Love conquers all' .....

There needs to be compromise on one or both sides ... if neither can compromise then it will probably fail.

However - life is just an experiment so you can still try??

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Differences attract. Consider the two of you as being magnets; the same poles repulse from each other, but north and south make a marriage. Stick with it and live happily in an equatorial compromise. Good luck

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RE: What to do?

Don't listen to the others. Although well intentioned, they are living in the fantasy, not reality. Just think about it this way..it shouldn't be hard. You shouldn't have to force it, and if it is hard and you do have to force it, then it shouldn't be. Peoples core personalities will never change.

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do the both of u live in a different country and far away

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yes

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How many times have u been over to see her , i have sympathy with you cuz i am in the same position but hopefully will get thru it

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

On your last question..Yes, there can be real feelings through the screen!! Real Naughty feelings. ;-)))))

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im in shock rachel.....i thought u were such a sweet innocent lady

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this is a fantasy site and (most) guys only see it as that...same with u hosts sayin "oh i love u" or "ur the only one i really want" or most importantly "i only strip for u".....it is possible to have real feelings of love ect but mostly its lust....but i think u'll find the hosts lie more than the members ;)

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

Although I have never said it myself I assume the ones who say it and don't really mean it say it to try and get free or cheaper videos.

Rachelfriend I would agree with shy about hosts lying more than members. But I think your opinion depends on whether or not you are a host or a member and how honest you are yourself.

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

Yes I would agree that in most cases the "lies" are not at all bad.

There's nothing nicer than asking a sexy girl to show me her naked bum and her telling me that she loves to pull her panties down for me cos I'm so sweet :P

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

I just say that to make idle chit-chat while waiting for her to get naked.
You know... you're the best... i'd give you anything... i want to be yours... i want to come to your country... are those panties nailed to your hips or something????

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U never told me any of these :(( Sniff sniff....)))))

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

Days ago, when I was younger,
I kinda liked a girl I knew.
She was mine (for $3,00/min, 121), and we were sweethearts
That was then, but then it’s true

I’m in love with MonikaBabe,
even though it hurts
‘Cause I don’t care if I lose my mind (and my money)
I’m already cursed (and broke)

Every day we started fighting (she's tough, as we all know),
every night we fell in love (well, I wished)
No one else could make me sadder,
but no one else could lift me high above (or make me harder)

I don’t know what I was doing,
when suddenly, we fell apart
Nowadays, I cannot find her (well, she took a long break)
But when I do, we’ll get a brand new start (ooo... she's online now)

I’m in love with MonikaBabe,
even though it hurts
‘Cause I don’t care if I lose my mind
I’m already cursed (and broke)

She’s a fairytale
Yeah…
Even though it hurts
‘Cause I don’t care if I lose my mind
I’m already cursed (and broke)

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LMAO=))=))

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Mate, not only you. ... Just that sensual voice and that sweet talk I always had with Monikababe on the mobile, mmmmmmmmmmmmm!
Mate, one thing for sure is that I am also broken from my heart and wallet....

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i can say that i met a girl on here and have been over to see her twice and hopefully next year we will get married and i can say we both love each other to bits

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

Because the truth hurts. :)

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

lies worse ;)

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

It sounds like you are either frustrated or have been hurt, or maybe both. Keep in mind though that not all guys are liars. And also keep in mind that members could easily post "Why are you hosts liars?" The point is that things work both ways here. Sometimes hosts lie. Sometimes members lie. But also keep in mind that the same things happen in real life too. Why would you expect anything different on CC or any other site?

I have been hurt many times by hosts. But there is a big difference. When I am hurt, my heart is broken and I lose a lot of money. When a host is hurt, she just has her heart broken. So be happy.... at least on sites, hosts have a big advantage.

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

Host: Is it true? (Is it true?) Me: Yes.
Host: Is it over? Me: Yes.
Host: Did I throw it away? Me: Yes
Host: Was it you? (Was it you?) Me: Yes
Host: Did you tell me
You would never leave me this way? Me :Yes....
But that was before I knew you would hurt me.

Thanks for speaking the truth, Johanna (Iceland), and great song.

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I could tell you exactly why they lie ..... but sure you wouldn't believe me ...

:p

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Hosts and members both lie. It is part of the game of being on a fantasy site.

I was told that there was a post about me in the host forum that was then removed. It asked if I had asked anyone to marry them, and a few hosts answered that I had. The truth? Yes. I ask almost every host to marry me, lol. But I just joke around. If things get more serious, I always am honest and let them know my true feelings. And by the way, I almost always got a "yes" to each marriage proposal, lol, so it would seem that quite a few hosts lie too.

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

I only can admit to my "pre-posters"...

Both, hosts and members "lie" or let's say...both tell each other, what the other likes to hear...
Of course we member say a girl is hot when we see her nude and naughty...or would you love to hear the opposite?

And as you say "why hosts lie"...well, I was also fooled by one host and really hurt and the only conclusion was to break the contact - better for me and less pain...

Well, Hunny, chear up! See the site as a big game.

Both sides play fair
Both sides foul each other
and
Both sides sometimes even "kill" the other...

And since I was disappointed, I am more than suspicious if a host tells me "I love you" or "I do it only for you"...
If it comes closer with a host and we even met, well then I start trusting the words - but still suspicious, because I also got this and it ended with pain....so even in real life you are not safe of disappointment...

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RE: Why are you guys liars?

I am not a liar, personally. I have one host who I see all the time and I admit I have fallen a little in love with her. However, I am not stupid: I know the hosts lie to you as well. It is sometimes -- sometimes? how about usually? -- hard to tell if they are being truthful. Just as in life, some are, some aren't.

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ANYONE THINKING ABOUT EROTIC MASSAGE SHOULD READ THIS

A friend of mine got a STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) from a masseuse at an erotic massage parlor. He did not have intercourse with the her. He did not have oral sex with her. Her didn't touch her p----y. All she did was give her was a "happy ending" (hand job, or a rub and a tug)) Apparently the girl somehow had it on her hands. And now he has a virus that currently has no cure. That's right the big "H"..... herpes. Terribly nasty shit. How do I know my friend is telling the truth? Because "my friend" is me. How nasty is this herpes? Well, if you offered me a herpes free life in exchange for a life without my right arm, I'd take the herpes free life. That's one of the reasons I am here at this site. I can't pass on the herpes virus to anyone here.
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RE: ANYONE THINKING ABOUT EROTIC MASSAGE SHOULD READ THIS

5th sentence should start.."All she did was give him........

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if you find a girl who has lip herpes, she cannot get it down there too....so i hope this makes u happy

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Good info. But I am not talking about lip herpes. I am talking about genital herpes. I think she touched her p----y before she touched me. I am 100% certain when and where I got this

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RE: ANYONE THINKING ABOUT EROTIC MASSAGE SHOULD READ THIS

she doesnt need to touch that part for u to get it.....if she touched someone else who has it before she touched u it is also possible to get it that is why need to stay away from such places.cc is much better,and also it is reason why need to be faithful to one girl in real because at least u know (or should) what u will get anyway u had bad luck but thx for telling us about it....it'll make us think more from mistakes of someone else

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One word- condom

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Sorry CoverUp but it's not just the peener that gets herpes. You need to do some research my buddy. You can get it anywhere on your body.

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Not really that dangerous

I dont know what kind of massage parlor you went to, but I have been going to the same massage parlor for almost 4 years in a regular basis and I will not stop any time soon. Me and some friends of mine go there maybe 2 or 3 times per month. The girls in that massage parlor wash their hands with antibacterial soap before our own eyes and make us wash our hands as well. As a customer you can touch all you want if you pay the right fee, but no actual sex act is allowed and that's what kept their business open all this time. Sorry you went to a place where respect to thier customers and hygiene wasn't a priority.

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RE: Not really that dangerous

Herpes is not a bacteria. It is a virus. Antibacterial soap will not kill a virus. In the history of mankind no one has ever cured a virus. They have to run their course. Vaccines have been developed for some viruses like the Salk vaccine for polio, but no cures to date for any virus. Check my math below, Marcus, even your massuesses are in some way (maybe not an active outbreak but a person that has it nonetheless) exposed to this virus probably everyday. I wish someone could prove me wrong.

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RE: Not really that dangerous

Well buddy, all I can say I am sorry for what happened to you. I had herpes in my younger years when I was in the US Marines. We used to nail just about anything, but I was able to get rid of it with a good diet and a great doc. It's true what YourSlave89 said, it hits those that have low inmune system. Go to a good Doctor and they should be able to help you. Not curable? Nah, most of the guys in my crew caught it and they did alright.

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RE: Not really that dangerous

You still have it and can spread it olddude. Even if you have no symptoms, you can still be having outbreaks. Of course, maybe your outbreaks are very rare or maybe you got lucky and haven't had one for years.... But if your immunity ever gets down, it could come back. It never leaves your body.

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The parlors I have visited had health standards that would rival a hospital. The idea of the "table shower" is to both cleanse the patron as well as inspect the genitals and body for tell-tale signs of disease. Anyone showing signs would be asked to leave. Certainly not all diseases are discernable to the eye. Hostesses alwasy use condoms for oral and vaginal sex, rarely if ever will kiss, refuse to do anal and are more afraid of the patron than the patron is of them. That being said there is always a chance of transmission but generally the asian parlors I have used have been squeeky clean.

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I never wash my hands :-P

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I see girls that work in studio rubbing her wet pussy and touching the keyboard the girl before used and did exactly the same thing. ;-)

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Im not a dummy, yee reap what yee sow

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Thanks for the nice comments. Would have liked to hear from someone who has direct experience like me. My point is that your chances of getting herpes increase exponentially when you go to a place like this. Say a girl has 8 customers a day 5 days a week 52 weeks a year. That's 2080 chances per year for her to be exposed to it. Once every working hour. 10400 exposures in a 5 year span. And the men who go to these places like myself are the pretty horny sort therefore a higher risk group on top of that. The ads for herpes control medication say you can transmit the virus even if, at the time, you are asymptomatic (without symptoms) so that kind of shoots down the premassage examination. I'm not trying to rain on anyone's parade here. All I really wanted to say is that YOU DO NOT WANT TO GET THIS VIRUS. It will change your life. The outbreaks are physically very painful, you get depressed, your ashamed to tell anyone because of the stigma. Your whole relationship life changes. Basically you are fucked. Well Coverup if you think a condom will keep you safe read up on the girl suing Michael Vic for giving her herpes. He used a condom. She got herpes. I'm done.

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Sorry about your situation Paul. I am not sure how exactly you got herpes, but even if one wears a condom, herpes can still be transmitted. That is the real danger. A condom just covers part of the skin, not all of the skin that touches the other person when having sex. And I suppose one could touch his/her mouth or genital area and then touch his/her partner and spread the virus that way.

Herpes is far from rare. About 20% of people have type 2 and about 50% have type 1. Type 1 is usually on a person's mouth and type 2 is usually in the genital area, but all it takes is the 69 position for both types to be in both areas. And more and more people are getting both types all the time.

There is at least one medication that I know of (Valtrex in USA) that helps suppress outbreaks. I have heard that sometimes people are allergic to it, but this is something to discuss with your doctor. It is constantly advertised in USA. And be aware that even if you have no symptoms, you still could be having outbreaks.

There are also websites for dating people with herpes. Just Google for them. And be careful.... when you have a herpes outbreak, it is more likely that you can get HIV.

My understanding is that the outbreaks become less severe over time. Usually the first one is the worst, and often people do not have any symptoms after that. It sounds like you might be one of the more unfortunate victims or maybe you acquired it recently and don't yet realize that things will calm down. Just remember that there is help out there and many people are in your situation. And I appreciate your being responsible and abstaining, but like I said, just Google some sites, see a doctor, try Valtrex, and hopefully all will be okay.

Good luck!!!

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K guess I am not done. Thanks for the words Passing By. I hope you don't think I haven't familiarized myself with these same facts, figures, medication, dating, causes of outbreaks etc. Often times the patient ends up knowing as much as the doctor about his affliction, if not more, when combined with his personal experience. I am not a recent acquiree. Your 20% figure is what I have read also. So back to my numbers 20% of the 2080 potential massages a year (see above) comes out to 416 visits a year from a person who has herpes. That's more than one a day. In other words the girl that is massaging you has had some kind of contact with a person that has herpes the same day you have seen her. Or perhaps none that day...then again maybe 3 or 4. Is just math. These facts scare me. I only wish they scared me earlier. Don't worry...I'm dealing with it. Didn't come here looking for help though I appreciate the sentiment. I probably would have ignored a warning like mine also. Some people have to learn the hard way.

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I long for the old days,,,,the worst you got could be cured with a double tap of penicilllin on your butt.
All you had to worry about was if the nurse would be gentle with you ,,,those sob`s could hurt.
My sympathy with what you are going thru.

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RE: ANYONE THINKING ABOUT EROTIC MASSAGE SHOULD READ THIS

Is it strange that I feel a hell of a lot more sympathy for the poor girls who work in such places than the guys who visit them?

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Poor girls? They can always do other jobs, but they love the $$$. A few months ago i was in a biz trip and went to a massage parlor in NY to relax a little. I was surprised to find a young beautiful girl in her early 20's, great body shape, tall, blue eyes, with excellent english skills with great attitude and good education. Of course, I chose her for my massage session, later in the session I asked her if she would like to have a better job where she didn't have to do what she was doing. She answered: To make the type of money I make here I had to work a full and a part time job and didn't have time to hang out with friends, not even time for dating. She said she worked there 4 hours a day 4 times a week and she had the rest of the time to study. She said sometimes her job was fun and was very pleased with it since it was not as dangerous as escorting service in NY. I think she said she made around $500.00 a day with tips. So there you go... poor girls....

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blonde..redhead and brunette

best blonde------?
best brunette-----?
best redhead-----?

which girls u prefere and why??
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RE: blonde..redhead and brunette

Thought this was gonna be a joke. You want our opinions?

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blue please

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bald like star trek lady and sinead o'connor

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RE: blonde..redhead and brunette

You mean Persis Khambatta? Yes she was indeed very lovely and a former Miss India. Such a shame she died so young. :( But so long as she lives on in our memories and hearts... oh well.

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blond lover

I might, I'm blond fetish, I have been own blond once before. I'm really satisfied with in it, if I didn't apply for company to work. could keep more than it.

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My opinion is that it is much more interesting what is inside the head or outside.. At least there must be somthing inside....

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isn't brunette just a way of saying brown haired girl? or is there a difference that i have been missing for about 40 years?

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auburn,,,sorry not on the list....lol

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brunette always meant brown haired to me.

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Shaved.... Oh wait, what are we talking about?

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i like any color but must be long all the way down to ass

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henna color at all..

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Kiara40ddd

Does anyone here know what has happened to Kiara40ddd? If you have had off-line contact with her, I would like to talk to you please.
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If you would read and comprehend my original message.... I had asked if anyone has had off-line contact with her.

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I can see you're frustrated, but posts like yours usually are made when a host disappears for an extended period of time. Ohhmymy simply was saying that the host in question has been online recently and thought he was answering your question by saying that she has in fact not disappeared.

In fact, she is online right now so whatever issues you have, perhaps you could discuss them with her. And since she has been online and you are asking what has happened with her, I can only guess that something about her or her life has changed and that you are searching for additional information from people that know her better since they speak to her offline.

If I am misunderstanding your question and your reason for asking it, then I apologize, but maybe it would be better to be more clear. And asking about offline contact is step 1 towards an invasion of privacy, but perhaps you have very innocent and legitimate reasons for asking. Or perhaps she said she never gives out her email address and you just want to confirm she is being honest. But again, your question and the purpose behind it are a little strange for a host that has been online recently.

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Maybe it was his response with the (!!) that made me respond in that way. After reading your reply....you give several good answers, except for the invasion of privacy. Thank you for your reply, it made me think about mine.

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RE: Kiara40ddd

Very well said. I can think of nothing else to add.....and that says a lot because I am a real blabbermouth! Kiss

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USA..most are asian run....you pay the house for an hour massage...host then gives you a table shower and a massage and sexual favors for tips. Very clean, very pleasant, great way to get laid with no fuss or muss.

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I have traveled quite a bit and found what you mentioned almost everywhere. Not sure of the legality but lots of places throughout Europe, many countries in Asia and plenty of opportunity here in the USA. In Korea, Japan, Thailand the service is often part of a ritual bathing which can last for several hours and include a full body contact hot oil massage. Korea was my favorite. I was mellow for a full week afterward. Best money I ever spent.

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As I have always wanted to visit Romania , I now have one more reason to add this wonderful destination to my "must visit" list. thank you..

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We have them here in USA as well. I had a romanian girl take care of me once. It was FUNtastic!

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Ouiiiiii ! here too, and there are " natural" massage, with naked host ...
very very very good fees for hosts ! ... 2000 or 3000 € per month
most are true and honest, no "sex" allowed ...
but it can very erotic .... ouiiiiii .... mmmmmmmmm

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2-3000 per month?...........lol

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Holland too. Its very nice. You pay like 70 - 130 euro an hour. You can have a massage on a table but also with water, or 2 girls, for extra money you can also massage the girl....very erotic.. No sex is allowed except the happy ending but it happened to me a couple of times that if the lady is attracted to you that more happens without extra costs or anything. But 9 out of 10 times is just the good old hand job...

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I have seen massage parlors in Amsterdam where the manager shows an ACTUAL menu, which list hand jobs, nude body massage, and yes, FULL SEX with the price right there on the menu.

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Live in USA. I have been to all types of Massage Parlors. Some places have a big sign at the entrance that says "Sexual intercourse is not allowed." However it happens. Others offer the service on site for extra cash. I once went to a place where they had the video recording option for $50.00 and you get to keep the tape. I have been surprised sometimes where I had no extra money and the girl had jumped on top of me to complete the job even after I told them I had no extra cash. I guess they enjoy what they do. Some of them have nice young looking chicks that makes you want to keep going back every week. I love Asians, they are sure to please you and they get excited if you know how to make them comfortable and show pleasure and appreciation with what they are doing. I have to say I am a big fan of these places :-P

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The body to body massages in Thailand just cannot be beaten, it starts with you picking your chosen lady from behind a big screen called the fishbowl, she takes you to a room where you both get naked, then you both get into a bath where she washes you clean, then you get out of the bath and she soaps and suds up a lilo, you lay down on this face down first the she soaps herself up and gets down and slides her naked body all over you, it leaves nothing to the imagination, then she asks you to turn over onto your back, then she repeats the routine all over again..after this with the client suitably aroused extras are available..all for around £30 all in

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i am suitably aroused just reading that (blushes)

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I definitely agree with you on that. I want to go there now!!!! LOL.

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RE: AngelDash

happy birthday dahsa have a wonderful day and make all your wishes come true.

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Happy Birthday Angel....and many more ...!!!!!!

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Happy Birthday!!!! Have a great day and lots of fun!!!!

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happy bday dasher have a great day full of love and happiness (and have a feew drinks for me)

kiss

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notice he said for me ....not on me .

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''HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ANGEL DASH.....''' Good luck on your love life.... wishing you happiness in life..... mwuachhhhhhhh million kisses for u... hehehe

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not the nine o'clock news

An englishman,an irishman & an american walk into a bar.The barman sees them,walks over to them & says"What's this,some kind of joke?"
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EndlessnesS, Irina - When you love change you life

when some you love and meet and care about change you life when she hurt you and leave you. When a person not now english good and missunderstand you that you really say. It is very hard inside loose some you love so much. I did never now that i found my thrue love at this site and now all is very hard
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RE: EndlessnesS, Irina - When you love change you life

Huh I also did not understand you mo love on this site buddy ))

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RE: EndlessnesS, Irina - When you love change you life

The "all is very hard" part is so true on this site. As for the rest....just tell her you were in a motorcycle accident and your speech is imparied and things will work out.

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RE: EndlessnesS, Irina - When you love change you life

oh, there must be misunderstood each other, if U're both really fortune, U will meet each other again :) my thinking & from experience :))) ^__^

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RE: EndlessnesS, Irina - When you love change you life

I agree . And in the meantime, just try to "block" the negative feelings.

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mmmmmm yes i watched her lovely ass many times

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RE: EndlessnesS, Irina - When you love change you life

How did you now she was a hooker ? And what happend to you man ? tell the story here if you now something that true. if not true just dont say any words at all. Dont you see the man here are down ?

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RE: EndlessnesS, Irina - When you love change you life

Money is a evil thing , all was ok , until she travled home to Russia starting asking for money , and she missunderstood and did leave . sad thing >:((

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RE: EndlessnesS, Irina - When you love change you life

The sadest thing is when a friend here at cc told me all men could have her and that worried me , thats why she did leav. Took my money and just did leav :( my love for life she was.

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RE: Thx to cc

im agree,i love cc alot,cc help me to buy a flat to my famaly ,we will b live soon in own flat,also i meet alot of new good guys,my best friends.i want to be on cc all my free time,pity that now i dont have too much time.cc i love you :):*i will stay here for years..;)

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Member Ratings

Suppose the hosts had the option to rate members. What would the stars represent ?
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1 for being a rude, 2 for being a fool, 3 for well i got through it, 4 for being ok and a 5 star for staying awhile longer

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oh goodie, if i stay for 5 mins i get 5 stars. i like your rating system T.....lol

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Perhaps there is such a system in Host forum where the good and bad are discussed. I wonder.

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And what would the ratings mean to hosts? Would you refuse to do a video with a member who had a star rating of 1 or 2? Seriously? Most hosts put up with rude, bullying, gross and inconsiderate members in paying videos because they need the money. As much as hosts hate to admit it is also part of the job. If you wanted kind, sweet, considerate customers work in a candy shop.

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How about; Big Spender, Super Freak, Rude, Talker, Philosopher, Submissive , Can't Cum etc. More or less a tip to other hosts as to what to expect, giving them the opportunity to better understand the client. Hey what do I know, I probably wouldn' put up any of it.. :)

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Oh, you always say such nice things... (blush)

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Eurovision

If I could vote...

1) turkey 2) ukraine 3) spain 4) germany 5) estonia 6) albania 7) azerbaijan 8) romania 9) denmark 10 ) iceland

I was told that the show/performance, not just how well the song was sung, is supposed to be considered, otherwise, I might have voted differently. Just considering the song, for example, I would put Iceland and Estonia higher.
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The norwegian guy is just gorgeuos))) Awsome))) I think he will win))))))))

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I liked norway, but I thought his voice was off key a little bit at times.... Same problem with denmark. But both were good.

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His voice is great, its just the song isnt too strong to show it off)))

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RE: Eurovision

He just turned 23. He is too young for you. But I am available. :)

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RE: Eurovision

Did you just imply that K was old or something? Dood... if i were you, i would duck for cover or buy a ticket to somewhere far away... like to the moon or something =)

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I implied that he is too young, not that she is too old. He is 23 and looks a boy of 16 lol. She is a WOMAN of 25 or so. Therefore, she is too old for him.

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He looks like a little kid. It wasn't really the age thing in terms of the number itself. It was his overall appearance.

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.... and singing about a "fairy tale" didn't help any either, lol.

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i love fairy tales :)

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Just that u know-younger guys just love girls who are a few years older;)

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RE: Eurovision

Well, obviously countries with ties to each other were voting to each other, but I think it was pretty objective who won. I wouldn't have picked Norway, but they received many countries' top 3 votes.

In terms of Russia, I didn't think she was very good. I was surpised about Ukraine. Maybe the "show" part of things wasn't as big of a factor as I was told, but they were pretty entertaining. In that case, I would have voted much differently.

Just based on the quality of singing, I would have voted for Estonia and Iceland for one and two.

I liked Germany too, but not sure where I would put them if I just considered the song itself. After awhile, things kinda blur together.

And I think Romania and Denmark did better than the voting showed.

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I agree about the similarity between songs. It was hard for me to judge since I don't usually listen to the style that we saw today. But I liked turkey because it was different than a lot of songs.

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RE: Eurovision

By the way, Russia gave its 12 points to Norway too so objective or not, your country also voted for Norway.

How about the USA, Canada, and Australia are the only ones to vote next year and all songs must be in English? :p

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whats not objective? That we didnt get high points lol? Well shud have picked a better singer thats all)) As for me, everyth was very objective) There were famous ppl like Patricia Kaas, Dita Von Tease and Andrew Lloyd Vebber, but the winner is a lil kid from Norway, noone heard abt him apart from Norway ofc))Looks pretty objective to me:) Besides, sooo many countries gave him highest points, its crazy, none was even close to him, the difference in points was huge.

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I think you all know that this norwegian guy is orginal a russian,, Born in Russia (or maybe Belarus) with russian parents.
They come to Norway in the late 80´ts. Both parents are musicians..
So his genes are quite all right, and offcause he is grown up and educated in Norway..this wonderful country...

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RE: Eurovision

...that you like little boys - not men. I thought that already, this confirms it.

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RE: Eurovision

If i like this guy as a preformer and i like his show doesnt mean i like him like a man. He is absolutely charming, cute, full of enegry, fire, and so pure and innocent. His song was so different from all the others, and he wrote it himself plus playing the violen. He deserved the 1st place. Anyway, even IF i liked younger guys-its none of ur business.

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RE: Eurovision

I like YOU Monkia, and missed u very much when u were gone!

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Don't let the teasing get to you. Because you are so well known , you will always have some ppl trying to get under your skin.

Consider them paparazzi and ignore it.

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RE: Eurovision

One thing I noticed was the lack of commercials. And what the male host called a commercial was not really a commecial. It was just a little break to show people in the host city and things like that.

In the USA, a show like that would have been at least 45 minutes longer to make it a full 4 hours, and those 45 minutes would have been commercials. Obvisouly, that sucks, lol, but it gives people a chance to go to get something to eat and go to the bathroom. Also, maybe it would be more fair since Spain, France, UK, and Germany always get to the finals since they pay the most to support the contest, but with commercials, there would be no need to have those 4 countries pay and reward them with automatic final participation.

I am surprised that corporations like car companies and beer companies don't use the contest to advertise throughout Europe. And while not every product is in every country, there could be some ads that everybody sees and some ads that people from only certain countries see. In other words, there would be local commercials seen in just one country or just a few countries that would be on at the exact same time as other local commercials that are being shown in other countries. This is how things work in the USA.... Different commercials are shown in different states during some sporting events that are shown throughout the country. And there are also commercials that everyone in the USA sees at the same time.

Was this the typical way things are done there? What happens, for example, during the finals of football's/soccer's world cup at the half? What about other events that are shown throughout Europe?

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I am from germany and i guess i should explain that in germany - as in many other european countries - large amount if the big tv channels are state owned. Their aim is not to make profit but to give the people a good quality of information and entertainment. So on these channels u dont have commercials in the main-tv-time, cause the viewers dont like to watch commercials and the channels are financed by a tax that everyone pays.

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i vote for that girl in the blue dress playing the violen

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1. Norway - 387
2. Iceland - 218
3. Azerbaijan - 207
4. Turkey - 177
5. UK - 173
6. Estonia - 129
7. Greece - 120
8. France - 107
9. Bosnia - 106
10. Armenia - 92
11. Russia - 91
12. Ukraine - 76
13. Denamrk - 74
14. Moldova - 69
15. Portugal - 57
16. Israel - 53
17. Albania 48
18. Croatia - 45
19. Romania - 40
20. Germany - 35
21. Sweden - 33
22. Malta - 31
23. LIthuania - 23
24. Spain - 23
25. Finland - 22

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Well, since turkey came in 4th, I guess a lot of people saw what I saw. Further, turkey received the second most first place (12 point) votes after norway.

And what I saw was a song that sounded a lot more original in style than a lot of the others. Was it a great song or a great performance? No. But I don't think any of the performances were special. Some were entertaining, but none seemed all that special to me.

Norway did a very good job. The little boy lead singer (lol) had a lot of charisma and personality, and he has a good voice. I can see why people would vote for him. And for awhile, they were in my top 10.

But I judged performances (as I was told to do by a host friend) on singing ability, the song itself, and the show/performance. And looking at everything as a whole, I chose turkey. I did not think Norway should win. Maybe the song and his singing ability were good, but a bunch of guys jumping over each other was a worthless performance that a little boy playing the violin did not make up for.

And focusing more on the song and the singing, like I said before, I would pick Estonia. And this would give you a violin player as well. :p

Also, in terms of the budget thing, I don't think that is a good reason to be happy somebody didn't win. If that's how people need to think and vote, then there is a big problem with the contest. Corporate sponsors and a few commercials like I discussed above might be the answer although I can understand why people would not like this. Sooner or later, it will probably happen, however, as governments need their money for other things.

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What's it all about anyways? Never heard of Eurovision until i read it here

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You can read about it on Wikipedia and see it on youtube. I watched it live on my pc. I was curious since a lot of hosts tak about it, and I enjoy learning about other countries.

It is not strictly European countries by the way. Active members of the European Broadcasting Union which includes Israel and Turkey (and maybe others outside of Europe) also participate.

By the way, past winners include ABBA and Celine Dione (how a Canadian competed for Switzerland, I have no idea) so don't expect Metallica or anything like that. Both of them reflect the general popular style you will see.

I'm not into country music, but if you like country music (Josh Turner, Garth Brooks, not Willie Nelson or Johnny Cash), the closest thing to that style was Denmark. Germany had a jazz/swing type of style that I liked. Estonia and Iceland had the best vocals in my view. Also check out the winner (Norway), Turkey, Ukraine, and Spain.

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Julio Igelsias' career took off on eurovision in like 1970 i think

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Yes, I checked, and it was 1970. And I think he came in 4th out of 12. That tells you all you need to know about the voting.

I listened to the 1970 winner (Ireland), and just like with norway, it was a cute, pretty song but nothing special. And only 12 countries participated because of voting problems the prior year.

I guess nothing changes with Eurovision, lol. Still voting problems and cute, fluffy songs win. ABBA anyone?

Maybe they need something like American Idol and Britain's got talent. I never watch American Idol, but there have been some amazing acts on the UK show that make it to the news in USA and are available online. The talent is there, in Europe, but I think the public voting makes everything too cute, fluffy, and poppy during Eurovision.

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Maybe so, but here no one has ever heard of it and no one cares. Doesn't even make the radio news let alone TV news.

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It was briefly mentioned on NBC's national news between 6:30 pm and 7:00 pm on Sunday, May 17.

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I think you all know that this norwegian guy is orginal a russian,, Born in Russia (or maybe Belarus) with russian parents.
They come to Norway in the late 80´ts. Both parents are musicians..
So his genes are quite all right, and offcause he is grown up and educated in Norway..this wonderful country...
Im a norwegian, but my opinion is that England had the best contribution..

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Well, this is what helps the USA. We take the best of other countries and make it our own. In USA women's gymnastics, for example, the coach of the team was Nadia's coach, and now his wife is the coach. They defected from Romania a long time ago. And the winner of the woman's all-round gold medal at the China Olympics was an American (born in Russia, I think). She is the daughter of a two Russian gymnists: the father won a medal for Russia (or maybe Soviet Union or Unified Team) and the mother was a rhythm gymnast. (Whatever it is called when you dance around with long pieces of paper flying around.)

I always meet people from other countries in the USA. Now I live near New York City and Washington, D.C., so its more likely I guess than someplace else for this to happen. And every summer, I meet many work and travel students.

Just in my own experience, some of my best doctors have been from other countries. And I always buy Japanese cars since I think they are the best. (Sorry, German cars are not as reliable although they drive nicely.) So I really appreciate what other countries have to offer at times. And, of course, I want to marry a chathost from another country too. :)

By the way, in terms of UK, I did not like her voice. Perhaps I will go listen again. I also did not France at all, but maybe it was the style of singing. And after watching the entries again, I might put Germany as my favorite for overall performance (singing, song itself, show/performance) instead of Turkey, but I definitely put Estonia as best singing, even over Iceland. They remind me a bit of Enya and were wonderful.

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I would just like to point out that ENGLAND did not enter.

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Sorry i ment ofcause Great Britain...........
and you amercan viewer: I really like your analysis in this post..
Thank you..we all remember little great Nadia..

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Well, Nadia lives in USA too. I think she is married to an American gymnast from the 1984 Olympics, and I think that they train gymnasts. Americans like Romanian women hehe.

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Estonia song was just magic! And Crotia song was great too! But not many veiwers paid their attention to it.... dont know why... It sounded Very beautiful !

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The Croatian guy was good, but the woman was bad. That could be why.

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I changed my mind..... Estonia is the best!!! I guess their show didn't grab me or the other voters enough at first, but I have seen the performances several times, and I don't have any doubt that they were the best in my opinion.

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RE: the most interesting ...

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RE: the most interesting ...

tits,pussy,kissing,licking

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RE: EUROVISION is today!

I'm French, but ... I will vote for Romania too !
I have BIG crush... for a Romanian host ... gosh so beautiful, so nice mind....

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everyone is a winner once hungary was eliminated :--)

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sorry, but you are wrong. Ireland won three times in a row: 1993,1994,1995 and even in 1997...so even Russia could win today again, but I doubt, because Norway or Bosnia will win :P

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Russia will not win not cuz we won last year. We will not win cuz of the singer who represents us. She is just ewww...Dont know how on earth she got in there. If i cud chose id send someone like A-Studio there.

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Yes or him...We have lots of good singers, how the hell did she get this place?

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I am afraid you are wrong there. Ireland won Eurovision in 92, 93 and 94. It is possible.. but it is damn expensive to host each year, which is why the following year, 95, Ireland put in a pretty weak song. Either that or people just got tired of seeing Ireland win. ;)

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Also Spain and England, which is why these 4 countries automatically qualify for the finals each year.

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Poor camera quality...dark room....host nothing like pictures....poor english.....face hidden in pictures not attractive when seen....being ignored or host clearly preoccupied.....only entered on the point of orgasm....genuine interruptions at member's end...realising host is in same studio as a favourite or friend....the list of possible explanations is endless. But these are all just speculations on my part, as 1 hour is a short video for me.

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If one hour is a quickie, I would think there will be many who would like to know your identity. Kudos to you.

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well said

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Computer freezes some times when I enter.

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i normally will spent more than a minute but some reasons i would leave include: poor internet connection. ( hers or mine )., poor video, and frankly if i feel she is asking questions just to extend video time.

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If I ever do it, it's because she's nothing like the photos, or the cam is fuzzy and a waste of time

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let's turn this around. would you spend your money and give it a chance if the vid was bad? it's easy to say give something a chance if you're not the one spending the money on it.

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For me it's either the host looks nothing like the pics, the host is preoccupied or the greeting is less than warm. In the case of being busy with something or someone else, that is understandable but will usually take me out of the room until another time or until a one 2 one becomes available.

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Doesn't like your looks in video, wife came home suddenly, zipper got stuck closed, your video was too dark, too slow, too close, too far grainy or otherwise not acceptable, he just wanted to get a look to see if you are worth what he was paying and decided you were not, he developed a case of the shys or guilt, lots of reasons. Dont take it personal this is a business.

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i think all these reasons should be listed at the end to choose from instead of just stars. would give useful feedback for the host.

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I do that when the host doesn't wake up or doesn't show up on cam after 1 minute, else if I think the girl on cam doesn't correspond to my expectations from picture archive, I tell her my reasons before I leave

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Joke,,,,for real this time

A blonde wanted to go ice fishing. She'd seen many books on the subject. And, finally getting all the necessary tools together, she made for the Ice. After positioning her comfy footstool, she started to make a circular cut in the ice.
Suddenly, from the sky, a voice boomed,

"THERE ARE NO FISH UNDER THE ICE."

Startled, the blonde moved farther down the ice,
poured a thermos of Cappuccino and began to cut yet
another hole.
Again from the heavens the voice bellowed,

"THERE ARE NO FISH UNDER THE ICE."

The blonde, now worried, moved clear down to the opposite end of the Ice.

She set up her stool once more and tried again to cut her hole.

The voice came once more,

"THERE ARE NO FISH UNDER THE ICE."

She stopped, looked skyward, and asked,

"IS THAT YOU, LORD?"

The voice replied,

"NO, THIS IS THE MANAGER OF THE HOCKEY RINK"
Open thread

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Laughing hard this one is a good one-thanks

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RE: Joke,,,,for real this time

Being an ice hockey fan, I really enjoyed this one.

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Lol,I meant it was a joke,,,,my previous joke might not actually be so far from the truth :)

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