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Another misleading Glamour host is back.

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Do you still have Banana's?

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Who are you?

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Aren't you self-promoting here? Shouldn't you use the usual sources as the other hosts??

of course she is.... my question was simply a way to say "who are u and why do i care that ur back?" :p

It is much better to simply reply to posts in the forum with ur name or to start an INTERESTING thread urself. Some guys may then check out your profile to see who u r. But when hosts say "I'm back", my attitude is always "And I care because....?????"

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Well, maybe you are the one host that really felt this way. But most do it to promote themselves. I apologize if that was not your intention. But again, it would be better to do what I said, and also to contact your regulars directly, than to post "I'm Back". It just looks bad to many members, and hosts, when you do that.

And not that a host would ever do such a thing, lol, but if you ever do want to promote yourself, you could always have a regular post in the member forum for you. As long as he is being honest about you and your show, I have no problem if his intent is to help you instead of to help other members since it helps members too regardless of his intent.

"Good One", thanks

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ask his girlfriend ;-)

yes you are the best wife , wanna leave him and come to me :P

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Are you best woman?? no, i'd get bored of you fast like that...
Sorry :)

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Massage is nice,
But cooking, i'm very good at. Not all dishes, i'm no Gordon Ramsey.
But real soups, hot and cold salads, pasta's, and meat dishes i do good enough to satisfy anyone, even myself!
Clean house, i'm a man, not a little boy... i don't make crazy mess, i clean up after myself. It's my house, i paid for it! i take pleasure in looking after the things that are a part of my life!
Like women too... ;)
I prefer a girl who has her own life, i don't want her to cook, clean, wash, iron blah blah blah.
I enjoy women who go out, have a life beyond the home, relax, enjoy, shop, sport, travel, explore. i don't expect her there when i finish work, with food on the table and the 'just hoovered look about the house. Just that she comes back to 'our' bed each night... ;)
I don't need to be 'mothered'... I'm an adult.

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:p

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that depends who you are...? :p

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When a favorite host leaves without a word of goodbye....that sucks. This happened a few times to me and others. Sometimes they come back but usually they are gone for good. Post a good bye on your profile. Write a CC mail to your regulars...thanks for the business...anything.

A host who scams. Stalls...says she will strip and then refuses...just a waste of time and money. The host who do best deliver a show as agreed to by both parties.

A host who does not do phone with video but has a phone symbol in their profile..remove it if you dont do phone. And for all the host who do phone without the symbol in their profile...put it in.

Try and look al ittle like your profile pic in video. I know it is the middle of the night but please...try and look interested..and if the hair is down in the pics....put is down in video...not tied up like you are going to wash the floor.

Don't talk and laugh with your studio mates or smoke or take a phone call during video....focus on me.

Chat a bit in open fee chat....come to my video or only available for video is a turn off.

Negotiate on price or lower price a bit for regulars. That keeps em coming back.

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Depends on my mood that day!haha

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You mean like "strip" "get naked" "tits" hehe ;)
I agree but those don't even get a comment back just ignored and blocked ....my hand is trying to type a comment to them while my brain takes over the mouse and goes straight to kill room or ignore. I am in Glamor.

And in Glamour of we know we can't ask for a show. It is up to host to decide.

1. the guy who jumps in video even another guy ( or 2-3-4) is in video already and immediately starts to order like he should be the first one instead of just watching in silence and wait for his turn to conduct the session. He is rude for the other guys beeing in video before him, not for me., but he is rude.

2. the guy who complaints how much free time i owe to him because once he spent something in my room , ignoiring the pleasure from THAT moment what he paid for.

3. the guy who blame ME for coming in my room and spending too much(?) money, this one i.m happy to help him by blocking him instantly.

Hosts are not "catching" members in video same as a fisherman catches a fish, we can only sit and WAIT.
And when a member pays he pays the Hots Service but .... for HIS OWN PLEASURE, which most of the guys tend to forgett.
It.s like going every night to their favourite Pub for a beer and blame the Pub for its existance =))

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well, calling names and insults are considered rude even in not so shy and IA and also not saying good bye once the show is over. but usually, the quality if the show is strictly related to the way the guy behaves. ill do a show for a rude guy, but with a nice guy.... i can tottaly get into it. all it takes and a hi and bye.. rather than a just "get naked";) so if you want the best, you should act in your best behaviour.

It's rude to type in caps - means the person is yelling at the other person, some viewers don't know but I think we all should.
It's wrong to order like "tits", "pussy" (with no extra human communication before and after) and especially infantile versions like ''titsssss". very irritating. Makes us think there is an underage on the other end of the line or someone mentally disabled. I understand that some don't know foreign languages but for example "plz" is easy to learn.
It's not the best thing to leave without goodbye - the host may think that disconnects happen at CC and start bothering the support about it.
It's not a good idea to direct the show if you joined it in progress - first come, first served.
And one more thing.
If you want something special in private, better ask beforehand, don't assume she is willing and able to do anything and everything.
Sorry, may seem a long list, but I would say it makes sense and takes not so much effort to stick to. You wil be rewarded. We are here for you and we love you.

personally my preference is for a blonde,redheaded brunette with jet black streaks :--)

Brunette

Dammit, man! You been looking at my woman?

For host, girlfriend, wife, or just fun??

Host, not too bothered as long as she can match her clothes and room to complete the image.

Girlfriend = Blond
Wife = Brunette
Fun = Redhead

Pretty self explanatory :)

yes

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Will you be changing your haircolor after this poll?

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Im not a member but brunettes kick ass!!))

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In ur imaginary world-sure))

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OMG say it isnt so(((((( Ur mean mean post just hurt so bad(( Im gng to change my hair and attitude and anything u want, just to make u like me. Its so important for me...

U wish lol:P

I love that Monika,,,,, just perfect reply........u made my day

It's spelt "norwegian" dumbass!

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i hear you brother.. i understand how difficult it is when such woman dont want you.... :(

i think she looks really nice, for an old girl...

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Well, in all fairness, she's no spring chicken.
She say's 26. So in cam girl terms what's that... 28-32? :p
Still looks nice though.

lol it gets more and more ridiculous) Didnt know that im 28, or even more-32) I might have missed something) Oh well, u know better i guess)

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Well i guess i owe her an apology at 26,
though still no spring chicken :D

who need this spring chikens? 23-27 the best age.most popular hosts on site are in this age, so its mean what? most beautiful most smart and so on>:)

what is an issue with that spring chicken....you are not going to cook hosts, aren't you? :))

old girl?:))))))))))))))))) hahahahaa

Monika is a total babe. She's a pistol for sure, but if you say your jaw wouldn't drop if you saw her walking down the street in a tight skirt and a v neck sweater.....then you are just blowing smoke.

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Heck, why didn't i ever thought of that? :|

response of the deacde wancko,lmao :--)

ROFL))))))))))))))))

I don't think most girls in Glamor (not sure about little shy) offer a "show" persay. It is more interactive talking, laughing, teasing and flirting with a pretty girl.
If you asked me for a show I would guide you to another category :)

"show me the money!" :--)

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I get guided to instant action all the time. You describe your category very well.

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No but I still believe in Santa Claus, The Easter Bunny and The Great Pumpkin

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The Mayan calendar does not predict the end of the world it is simply the end of this particular calendar and a new one will begin. Why else would its people be planning a celebration and not digging holes to hide in. :D

because if the world is ending it don't matter if you're digging holes or celebrating,you're still toast! :--)

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speaking of digging holes... i know for a fact that the us and russian goverments are bulding underground buncars, look into that and u'll find some very interesting information ;)
not to mention the scientists warnings about the solar explosions... everything's connected.
the worst thing that man has done to this earth and that can cause a BIG DISTASTER is the nuclear power stations from my point of view. look at what's happening in japan now....
the solar erruptions ( now we have small ones and we barely feel them, but the bigger ones will come in 2012 when the sun will reach it's max power as scientists predict ) will affect the earth and its magnetic field...as a consequence to that, there will be more earthquakes, tunamis and vulcano's erruptions, so many will die but i don't think the world will end.
it will be an apocalyptic scenario though, my worst fear is for the usa cus of the yellowstone volcano and for the ppl in the pacific area where the "circle of fire" is.
we can never know what will happen, but the signs are pretty damn obvious...
since the solar erruptions have began we allready had 2 major earhtquakes and both of them happened a few days after the erruptions, so u don't have to be a genius to realise this... only the ignorant ppl don't believe, anyone who looks into this will find answers ;)
and ofcourse nobody will come out and warn us because that will cause chaos and nobody wants that.

but you're still not naive enough to believe in a smart irishman? :--)

Not familiar with the Mayan calendar but how acccurate have the events scheduled happened as predicted? If so then what are you going to do??
Many religions have predicted certain events that claim to be signs of the end of the world and we are still here :) I do think man/woman kind have done their part to create the slow distruction of our very enviornment that we are so dependent on....

the mayan calendar has mayan another 11 months :--)

I'm not Mayan

The Mayan stuff is interesting, but there is some real doubt that the Mayan calendar has been converted correctly to the Roman calendar. So 2012 may be some sort of New Age marketing campaign instead.

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to be honest sweetie, you don't wanna marry 9 out of 10 of the men you meet here, just like i don't wanna 9 out of 10 of the women I meet here...

Good one!!

im not weird beauty....at least i dont think i am...whats your problem...are you just tired of wankers or the rude ass*oles?

if you are looking for soulmates and husband, maybe you are in wrong place... this is place to earn money from horny guys, not getting married.
the fact that this site is rated as adult content, keeps away most guys who are only looking for future wife or girlfriend, these mens go to dating site

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I know some really really really cool guys. I keep wondering what are they doing here? But i agree, those are rare

Good point Dust. And how disingenuous is the Marriage/Long Term category is.

Marriage/Long Term category is for those who has such fetish "search my soulmate in an erotic site." :))

And look for a nice girl not on a porn site :)

I think there are quite a few normal guys around here. Maybe you been unlucky and not met any yet. I like to think I am 'normal' (whatever that means). You are welcome to write if you wish.

You can just to hope to meet here your true love and if not it will be only you who responsible for it, because from very first it was clear the place is wrong for it. So no need blame guys they come here horny and want fun (and they pay you for it btw) as that is the place exactly created for it. That is your mistake, they do all right.

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Sounds to me like its time for you to try another line of work

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It seems a bit unreasonable to expect honest responses to identify themselves when you decide to remain anonymous yourself. Perhaps some of their reasons for being so are the same as yours. Or are you worried that given the chance to look at your pics there will be no takers! :-)

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members get spam too, so might want to be anonymous for the same reason

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there are some normal guys here, such as i, but unfortunately i am already taken by one lucky host :p good luck with your search and don't let the b*st*rds get you down :o)

Let me get this straight.....you come an join a porn site to find a guy that isn't a perv and then you call them ass..oles?
That might be the first problem!!
The second is while you choose to be discreet with who you are they are supposed to just jump up with their screen name so that you can choose them? Maybe your qualities aren't attracting what you want in real life...why would you expect different or better quality at a porn site? There are many girls here that seem to think they are much more than they are.....the guys should trust you on being some beauty.
Think the confussion and expectations start with you :)

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I have been very surprised by the vast array of men here. In fact I have been very surprised at how polite and nice most have been especially since they can be so annoymous. One thing all have in common is that have active sexual desires :) If those are the ones that you are qualifying as ass..oles then I question if all men with healthy appetites and desires are what you are referring to! I met one in particular that I have been very attracted to and he is one of the most sexual,sensual men that I have ever met but also a perfect mate and very much a gentleman.
If you are disappointed here and in real life then I might question what you consider a good guy! Perhaps one that has been castrated?? Every healthy guy is going to like sex, hun!

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It is never wrong to look for a soulmate any more than it is wrong to look for love, but neither can guarantee happiness. But I don't think that is a reason for ridicule. Still CC is not what it used to be so I guess the response you received is predictable. Unjustified, but predictable.

Pity...

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Yeah, well just trying to make up the quota of sane suggestions. Like minded makes me more likeable, no? ;)

Good luck all the same. :)

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Not really lol, it was the right forum ;)

Question... 'how can i get some viewers'...
Answer, post your name in the 'viewer' forum :p

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Chat hosts could better answer that or CC instructions than in general forum...

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anonimity,unlike the sun & the moon it never sets,the obvious..hosts, no matter how many hosts block me,there's another one waiting & of course allyoops & imnotyourfriend.i would of added imshy but that would just be lying :--)

Agree 100%.

p.s i forgot,forums & commchat :--)

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:(((

its awful what happends..let us pray ,its could happend with any of us, any country,, we walk by God

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events like this make me realise,how helpless we are compared to the potency of mother nature.all we can do is hope that the loss of life etc,is not in keeping with the scale of the disaster,then do whatever we can to help.at least mankind is resilient.we must not forget their plight,when the shock wears off,it will take years to rebuild :--((

You say that you disagree with your friend, but seems to me that your views are not so far apart; after all why else are you keeping it a secret if you genuinely feel that you are doing nothing that merits being hidden?

i guess he disagrees with his workmate because if he had a chance to have a host as a g/f he would be over the moon and not feel she is beneath him (except in bed) but unless you have a very thick skin (not foreskin) it is normally embarassing to admit you pay to chat/masturbate with a host on a camsite. Furthermore it can be a tad awkward to introduce your hot host g/f to family and friends and explain how exactly you met, but that doesn't mean you think she is beneath your high standards.

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Sounds like this is something you have never thought of before?? You inform all that you are kinkydiva on CC??

Personally, I'd love to have a hot cam girl beneath me.

Different countries have different levels of acceptance in society regarding certain things like sex, nudity, modelling, etc etc

Some county's you go to visit your girlfriends parents, you share separate rooms at night....
Other county's you go visit the parents and if you aren't seen to show good level of intimacy even within certain boundary's, publicly, then the parents think... 'something is wrong'!!!

In western Europe you don't mention Cam's!
Mention the cam world and you're not just a joke to the person you mentioned it too, but within just moments you will be the laughing stock of the village, town, entire city...

It is not socially accepted, it is not understood, it is seen as a bad thing and directly points to serious problems / issues.

It is actually below society's acceptance (if any) on prostitution.

The world of the internet cam is seen as quite a serious taboo.

Next country, like Germany, you will see full penetration sex on the cover of magazines low enough on the shelf in the newsagents for a 2year old child to see it.
Then you have a totally new level of tolerance in it's society and an openness towards different activities.

I tell you honestly, if i a cam girl ever visited me in my country or had a relationship, she would first have to swear on her life not to mention that we'd met on a cam, or worse than this, that she was a 'cam girl'.
She would actually have quite a bad problem from people about that too. Not just the guy....

I am not from the Netherlands, but I would think it is okay to mention cams there in light of their relaxed standards on sex and drugs. (What do you say, CC? lol.)

Da Netherlands... neither am i ;) haha
Also there's 8 other bordering counties to choose from :p

Oh, just a tip about Holland, maybe they're not so relaxed about it like most people think... ;)

But believe me, the world of cams has a big stigma with it.

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i can't imagine any other country in world that has such puritanical views on sex as America. What was CBS fined for the accidental showing of Janet Jackson's nipple? Something like 1/2 million dollars?

So I wouldn't be surprised by most people in America. However I think the internet has changed things a lot and also now with mobile phones with cameras, but still many people have old fashioned views on sex.

I personally wouldn't have problem with a camgirl if I knew she had same core values as I did. I visit cam sites so why can't she have worked on a site? However I would have a problem if I found out she did public shows on camsites with live video. I think all of us should have a little modesty and not think only of making money. So I guess I might have a problem also with women who work in totally nude strip clubs and do lap dances.

I knew a few hosts that had moms, brothers or sisters that knew they worked as cam girls. In both cases they lived in Ukraine I don't know if the culture is different there or just a random thing.

However I had another friend in Russia that only her best friend knew about camsites and she worried everyday that her parents would find out about her secret.

Personally, 1 or 2 of my neighbor buddies know that I visit cam sites. The topic only comes up when we say "have you seen this site?" lol

Oh... I forgot I knew a host before she started a studio w/her husband and later became famous on TV and Russian newspapers

For hosts who let friends or family know about their work: I'm curious what they said or thought when you told them. One Russian host told me that she worries that no man would take her if they knew what she did. Do other Russian hosts agree?
Thanks.

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I disagree, that nonsense. Some russian men find it strange of course, but there is no real physical contacts between hosts and viewers, so it's all not the same as prostitution. Sometimes in news we can see how police catch prostiutes working in roads or in brothels, get some interview of them. So number of them have husbands and kids (!!!)waiting they at homes.. This is i never could understand for myself. How normal men could admit the fact his wife has sex with everybody for some coins. But work at cam-sites it's closer to strip-dancers in clubs, this profession social acceptable in Russia. Some men i know even proud that his wives so hot that can make money only by showing their bodies in public.

Thanks for sharing. So do your friends and family know you are a camgirl?

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I think Cam Girls have to make some tough moral choices when they work here. Are the working hours and money worth the compromises they have to make with their core beliefs and ideals. I think men and women all over the world make that same choice every day...just because it doesn't involve sex doesn't make those people better if they choose the lesser path. I don't look down on Cam Girls....I just hope they don't look down on themselves in the future.

As long as that guy knows precisely what a camgirl is ... he might had once a secret life too ... let.s name it ... a CAMLIFE, lol... and surely he might had a bad experience himself, because the guys with happy experinces are more relaxed in judging camgirls...

The greatest criticists of the camgirls are the guys who always dreamed to get a nude experience but they never got to get it by various reasons: even their country was blocked by the billing-company, or by the site, even they was under 18yo, so they can only access the FREE video streaming (where this feature exists), but unfortunately the best camgirls are too busy to do the FREE chat so they stay with a bad impression about the whole thing.

And of course there are situations when a guy spends too much for camgirl and finally get blocked because no camgirl can make a living just by having ONE member and of course he will end by suffering and blaming the girl or ... all the girls like HER.

Dreams Factory wrote: "so they can only access the FREE video streaming (where this feature exists), but unfortunately the best camgirls are too busy to do the FREE chat so they stay with a bad impression about the whole thing"

I assume you're from Eastern Europe, because I know at least one site is blocked in Russia and Ukraine because of trouble with police. But I think many sites are not blocked. I understand what you're saying they get bad impression of camgirls because of a few bad girls.

In the past, in my opinion, most cam sites enforced their rules and penalized or closed the room of hosts for violating site rules about what they cant do in free video chat. But really I'm shocked what some sites allow now. Clearly it's not because they didn't see it but they choose not to enforce rules of their site and laws of many countries.

Yes on some sites it's the not so popular girls who decide to break rules to get tips or maybe privates. However even some top girls know they can earn more if they "accidently" show tits. Some popular girls choose to sit topless or nude to get more members in rrom in hopes to get more tips and privates(some girls I know are working 2 sites and choose not to close room on other site when they get private)

On another site I think all the top girls break rules because they can earn crazy $$$ in tips that they decide not to take privates. In some cases these girls did porn movies so it's not surprise they're not shy, but some are just mothers or college/university girls at home.

What I'm saying is that if someone didn't visit a camsite like CC and saw one of the other sites they would have extremely bad opinion of camgirls. Even the newspapers in Russia made camgirls look really bad when one studio was closed.

My friend ask me if she should also work on some of these other sites and I said it depends on how badly you want to earn more money and how much of your soul you want to sell. lol

I know some girls on CC also work on these other sites and I know CC is an adult site and some girls are probably as hardcore as on other sites, but I really like the innocence of CC and I hope it never changes to be like those other sites.

we ( the cam girls) consider them more like low-quality than "bad" girls, when it.s about: weird appearance of the room, weird outfit , sad, desperate or bored faces, bad english ... sorts like that ... aspects what can create a bad impression for a potential member.
we are not monkeys exposed into the zoo, we are real human beens with a bit of conversation, attitude, culture, beauty, art and even fashion but unfortunately some guys never get to find all these, because they never get to come in... PVTs.
i.m from romania, romanians are blocked on most of the sites either, so their impression about camgirls is that we all are ....like... uugh i better shut up now !

So does that mean you can't see what the girls are doing on other sites in free chat? I wish I could post a head shaking big eyed shocked emoticon for you. lol

Of course we can , but as freebie Guests and not likely in pvt.
As I said, on almost all adult sites the romanian creditcards are declined.
Actually , thats what I meant : generally speaking , the romanian guys cannot enter PVTs so they cannot have happy experiences so they cannot think positive about camgirls.

Oh I thought you were saying sites were blocking Romainian IP addresses. So you can't even see the site. One site I know blocks Russia and Ukraine. Alll you see on this site if you're in those contries is message asking if you want to be a host.

Acceptance is overrated..... and not a hell of a lot of fun.

she's beneath him, but he keeps her picture around?

Well he's a young guy that still lives with Mommy. I guess that says it all.

I should be clear that in terms of the first item, I meant a store with several locations in different cities in Romania, not several locations in Europe, although having seveal locations in Europe as well would be even better.

The key is that the store would hopefully be one that has a lot of locations throughout Romania. This would indicate that it is a more established store that will last awhile compared to a small store with one location although obviously big stores disappear too. The hope is that if there is a problem in a year after buying a computer and the person has a warranty from the store (and not just the manufactuer that made the computer), that the store would still exist.

so you are buying a pc for ur girl ???

The person said she was saving for a computer but didn't know anything about them or where to buy one. I was hoping to get some names of stores so I could go to their internet sites, if they have them, and tell her what to buy and where.

Why don.t u try an online shop? they deliver home and provide all warrantees required by LAW.
For example emag.ro is a very serious company and u can also email them and explain what u want, which should be an advantage.
Just my 2 cents.

I think the biggest specialist computer store in Romania is EMag. They sell a lot on line but also have stores in Bucuresti Iasi Cluj Timisoara, Constanta and Craiova. You could also check out Altex and Domo. These are big general electrical/electronic goods stores but have big computer departments. They have stores in most cities.

Interesting! A new one on me.)

Jumping the shark is a widely used idiom – first employed to describe a moment in the evolution of a television show, characterized by absurdity, when a particular show abandons its core premises and begins a decline in quality that is beyond recovery.

CC declining? Seems to be an inexhaustable supply of very pretty women, some leave but more come to take their place. There is a lot more competition around now but I still prefer the feel of CC. Only webcam site where I'm likely to spend any money.

...but it's a shadow of its former self.

Ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!! Don't be a nerd!!!

CC hasn't jumped no shark any more than other sites. There's just more competition. Other sites seem to have slow traffic too lately. But with CC's prices, I think all is okay.

Now get out of my office!

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I don't understand why you would chance without birth control when all it takes is one time!! You sound like you are intelligent but how could you overlook that as being a very important decision....not only for you but for the boyfriend! Even if he chooses not to marry you by you making this decision he now has a child and his life has changed. Every woman needs to be responsible for birth control and no man should assume that she is being honest either. I think if you were in charge of taking birth control then I would be very upset if I was the childs father and your boyfriend unless there had been discussion between the two of you of starting a life together to include children. I have a difficult time being sympathetic with the facts that you have presented and now you don't need advice you just need to figure how!!

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Hey when you said this forum might not be the best place to tell your story its clear from first two posts you were right. Ignore the haters the mean people that thrive here lurking in these threads. I hope the right people will seek you out here and talk to you to offer you some comfort which may guide you to a better place.

Congrats to you for being brave enough to raise your 6 year old with few or no help from your ex husband, but I'm confused about one thing - does the father of your 2nd child know about it or you haven't told him yet? Is he from your country or someone you met online, and what exactly are you afraid of? Not all men act like total jerks and walk away when a baby is on his way.
Good luck to you, let's hope the 2nd time is a charm. xoxox

Based on your story so far, I understand it was an unplanned pregnancy, it sounds like you haven't told the father yet. So the only advice I could personally give, is to tell him, see what he has to say about it, and then decide what you want to do next.

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I'm not clear what conclusions you reach from that conversation with the father, but it looks to me that he isn't yet ready for the responsibility of fatherhood. Good luck

It sounds like he was pretty shocked to hear the news, and he's rather confused - not sure how glad he is, but a positive thing would be that he didn't run away, and he didn't ask you not to keep the baby. There's also a chance he will stay in the relationship and even become responsable when the baby is born - but I wouldn't count on that if i were you. So, before making a final decision, think very well if you can provide everything for your second baby as a single mom, if you can cope with supporting both children and yourself.

He is a musician who likes to only spend money on music ..... he is younger than you , I am guessing he doesnt live with you all the time ? does he contribute already to the running costs of your home ? I have the impression he has been a relatively spoiled and indulged child and man ........ if i was you i would not pin any hopes of you all being one family . My intuition tells me you will have to get used to living alone , providing for 2 children , managing them and their relationships , it will interfere with your career plans and if your musician does leave you ,,,,,,, how many guys want to take on a woman with 2 kids ? Does your man make a living from being a musician ? is he talented and could earn a living to provide for you all if you can't work ? ...... I think you have every reason to be worried , i will be interested to see if he steps up to the mark and proves himself a man who is capable of looking after you

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Okay well you seem resourceful , independent and you know what its like to bring up a child alone and from your last post seems you know you can only rely on yourself ........... I wish you the best . I think though you will have to come to terms with the situation and how that affects your studies , work , earning , time and relationships .

he eats at your place and there is no sharing of expenses. he wanted you to go to the doctor alone and you consider him a 3rd kid. i do believe you wont be able to count on him being of any assistance whatsoever. more likely, he does expect an easy life from you though

Since we are being syphoned information little by lttle we do not know that he doesn't do other things for her in trade for her cooking :) She is in charge of who is in her life and what she is willing to allow as we all are.
Who made the decision for unprotected sex?

"we never share any costs even he sleeps and eat here"

i suppose if he plays his guitar for her that counts as an expense in trade?

So from that statement we can assume that he never takes her out for dinner, buys gifts, invites her to his place and does the same or helps her in anyway? He must be great in bed then :))

So why keep the baby? I don't mean to sound insensitive but I don't see the point in having a child with a total bum. Why not use birth control and when you finally meet a decent fellow you can consider another child then. Why have two kids when neither will have their father in their lives and even if it's rather underestimated, the power of the father is a major influence in anyone's life.
Plus, what's the point in wasting your time and money with these losers anyway? Can't you find yourself a respectable man who'll be there for you no matter how bad life is?

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Let's consider his side here too....was he ever given the choice to be a father and to take her and her other child on as a family? Sounds like it wasn't in his plans at all and yet now he is forced to be a father.
Who was in charge of the birth control and did he even know that they were having sex unprotected that time?
Just because men like sex doesn't mean they want a baby!!

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Did he say he wanted to have a child with you? Did he say that he wanted to have a family with you and to get married? Did you know that you were having unprotected sex too?? Sounds like a lot of assumptions were made on your part and that you decided he would make a good father for your existing child and a new one now.
You realized all the irresponsible things about him that you pointed out here to us and you chose to make a baby with him? Did you think he would change? Honestly I don't know that younger guys (unless they have already) understand how easy it is for a girl to get pregnant. I think you did though and probably not too much of a shock when you found out. Was he drunk when you had sex and wasn't too concerned in the heat of the moment? It does sound like he is disappointed and not responsible and something that should have been seriously considered.
Many girls think that a guy will change under the right circumstance like marriage or a baby but it is so not true. What you see is what you get....especially when not in bed ;) By him not wanting to go to the Dr. first thing with you tells me that he is not excited and is trying to give you that message. I think you just made another baby that you will raise alone. He might hang in there until reality really hits with crying baby, responsiblity, tied down but not long term. I don't want to disappoint you but honestly I think from what you have said, this is realistic. Sounds like he is not ready for sharing costs with you before so why would he be with an additional child. A baby can strenghthen a good relationship but can break a irresponsible one. It never makes a bad situation better.
You sound like a sharp girl going for your PHD but you are making the wrong choice in guys in your life. I hope that I am wrong but odds are against that. Hopefully you will get a good paying job after your studies and will be able to give your children a good life. Next time write down what you want in a man in your life and read it often and you will attract that person and you will know when he does not meet that criteria. Be specific and include even small details with household responsibilites, what kind of employment, income, etc. It works and it is considered the universal law of attraction. You have already used it for your educational and career goals :)
Best of Wishes to you!!!

For someone who professes to be intelligent and doing a Phd you seem incredibly dumb , the guy doesnt have a proper job and music is his life , sounds like a teenager but he is 25 ...... he is a kid so anything he says about family etc should be taken with a pinch of salt . As for your looks , well you are okay but god knows how you will be after 2nd child and as for work ? you dont have any real work , you are doing a Phd , so what ? have you got a job from it so far and will it be easy to find something that pays well after ? do you know what career you will do or will it be all dreamy like many of your comments here ? ...........I am not a hater etc but i am a realist , you seem on the other hand to be a naive dreamer .

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I'm useless at giving advice in situations like this so all I will do is say that I hope everything works out well for you.

..and urs is the best advice of all

Avr0ra, I do know you, at least a bit, although I don't visit CC so often anymore. You are a brave and smart woman, and resourceful besides. Your fear is understandable, as that of a good mother who wants the best for her child and her own future. You will get all kinds of contrary and conflicting advice here. Just trust your instincts.

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Please do not make stupid decision! I hope everything ok with your life! I wish that I could help you out there like take care of u and your children.. Pity I live in USA! :( I m single and have trouble to find Ms. Right woman out there because most of women care about is money money money but not in love. :(

I hope you wish and good luck in your life!
Kisses to Beautiful Avr0ra!

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This is not meant to critisize you but in life as I see situations such as this more and more - - - it becomes more and more clear why the creator of us all has said do not have sex outside of a marriage relationship.

Kiss for you and 2 kids! )))

oh gawd. i saw you two years ago when you were so sure you had a model career started, even tho you were 25 with a kid, just waiting for your big break. please.... quit making bad decisions, that affect innocent babies. how long do you think cc will pay your bills and feed your kids after the second one? can you lose the weight and hope your fake boobs will get you by? again? for how long? here is some advice - quit getting pregnant by losers. quit hoping things will work out and make some hard choices and either get a career that doesn't involve you naked, or marry someone who might have a chance at providing for you...

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I don.t get u really ... how u can decide to keep a baby if u feel FEAR about it? u should feel TRUST and CONFIDENCE , surrounded by love and support from his father first of all... but seems like the guy is smart enough to put himself out of ur decision , it will not be his baby but only YOURS and even he will blame u for ur 100% own decision.
ur making a big mistake because u simply forgett that now and today u already represent the whole universe for another baby, u forgett that u have a son who needs ur attention, ur commitment, ur efforts, ur time and ur money !

I know who u are AVRORA and thats why i put now my real nickname and i.m real schocked of ur decision even if u will come in my room and argue for that, i had seen women like u and i can tell u from now how ur life will be !

pls remember that ur son is an innocent helpless LIVING child who needs u and... quit this crazy decision !

i had one of my best friends who did what u do ( even the looser married her and he seemed to be a responsible guy for a short time as long as she had money and food and drink for him) and this situation of urs made me be upside down all day yesterday, come and talk to me if u have nobody to talk to ... just understand that u will have no more time and phisical strength to take care of ur LIVING SON ! u will be alone in this crazyness and everybody will blame on YOU and nobody will help u because of that, u will become too tired to work and as a consequence too poor even to buy medecines and most of all everybody will turn back from u, the "father" will be the first and ur son will be the last ! u will do nothing than to harm and destroy everything and everybody around u... THATS WHY U FEEL FEAR !

pls quit this decision before it.s too late ! there are unique moments in life when u can go to peace or u can go to disaster and if u make a wrong decision u can cry a million years after that, nobody can change a thing , nobody can turn back TIME !

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Please DO NOT KILL THE SOON-TO-BE-BORN BABY!

Baby says Thank you

Can guess who is speaking....and she has never even had a child. Better to condone others for choices....and force mothers and children to have a difficult life! Part of her screenname is bi*tch

No one forced you / her to get pregnant, you / her made the CHOICE when allowing access to yourself.

Never the less the baby is innocent in all cases.

Ofc it's allowed there, but some people just have fear of god punishment;))

in Russia an abort is allowed only to 12 weeks of pregnancy, to 22 weeks by social aspects, more weeks it's not allowed, exception medical aspects.

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Russian government give every women about 10K$ for every second child, but not like cash, but like the money she can invest in her kids future education and also some other help. So if Avr0ra is russian i think i understand her. The population in Russia is decreasing every year so they try to do some efforts to stop it and change the situation.

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yes or navel piercing.That one :-)

i just hate it. i think its awful.

I'd rather see a bone thru your nose

I think its very sexy...hot!

Sounds like you got a lot of hosts response that already have them except Bonzo

I'm a guy and reckon that apart from earrings, the naval is the only other acceptable place to get a piercing. They can look really tasteful, unlike anything through the eyebrow, tongue etc.

Very much agree. Belly piercing now became a normal thing, like earrings. Ofc if its not some lame dangling one. Looks absolutely gross and vulgar.

One-colour stone on a sexy tummy looks very yummy:)

I agree with Monica. And she has impeccable taste!

Speaking of body alterations I would like to say that I have reversed my policy of not liking any tattoos on women. I have seen a few recently that I have liked very much. Back of the shoulder if my fav.....and neck can be nice too.

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Read my post again and show me where im old fashioned? Cuz i hate dandling belly piercings? Well they look extremly cheap and slutty. If u disagree-well erm...Good for u, i guess lol. Btw i have a piercing mysef and thinking abt getting a tatto. Think twice before answering, cuz to me ur remark looks absolutely foolish and doesnt makle any sense

I can take them or leave them. They don't turn me off but they don't turn me on either.

i imagine you will get approx half say they like and half say they dislike, what is more important is that you like it and want it for yourself. In my opinion less is more, ie. something discreet and classy rather than something you could open a beer bottle with.

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wanking members will say anything to cum but supermodel lol

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i understand you in part glamhost. and i am in usa. if you want to say we are fat that is okay with me.

but the person who posted said she might be anorexic or bullemic.

anorexic as far i understand it is a person who eats so little food that it starts to hurt their body in dangerous ways (it is basically slow starvation). a bullemic person is somebody who vomits after eating or else uses laxatives in an extreme way to try to keep weight off.

so yes glamhost, it is good for a person to be slim and healthy. but it is very dangerous to be messing around with anorexia or bullemia. they can even cause death, and last time i checked death is just not all that healthy.

so yes all the fatties like me should slim down. but also, if a person is anorexic or bullemic and you really care about them you should find some sensible way to try to confront them and help them with it.

I have to give you a lot of credit for answering that rude arrogant host in the patient way you did. I don't think she deserved that consideration. Doesn't it make you just want to jump right into her room and have a fun conversation with her when you see her randomly post glamhost (and make all members think that all glamhosts are so rude) and then make statements to the members that pay her?
It must be her that the original post is about and she is in denial....which is usually typical of Anorexia.

Next time you want to be so rude to members and think that you are gods gift to earth with your attitude...use you host name and don't reflect negatively on the other Glamor Hosts that aren't like you....
I doubt you are supermodel (why would you be here..lol) and also your brains must be slightly starved to bite the hands that feed you!!

agree

you are right, and so nice! I wish I liked glam girls, then I would come see u!

i guess we can just afford to eat...

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Mind your own business

Assuming this person is seriously concerned, the reactions here are way over the top.

I wish I could tell you what to say to her, but I really cannot think of the best way to handle such a situation. If you happen to know a host friend of this woman, perhaps discuss the situation with her and then this friend could talk to the host at issue. I think that might be your best option unless you know this host very well.

Invite her for dinner .... cheap date!

;)))

it's a real concern. i would say something. ignore the stupid post's. she need's help. try and talk to her. there is alot that will come and just take the piss. please speak to her.

I think there are some serious cases here of both and if you are concerned then I would tell her in a kind way and point out where you can see bones where you shouldn't. Coming from a member instead of a girl then she might take it more serious.

She's probably just on drugs

Welcome to the Hotel California....

...you can check out any time you like, but you can never leave.

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EXCELLENT POINT! Well said.

A very good philosophy :)

I can't believe I am agreeing with Ted :P

Welcome aboard, buddy. Maybe you'd like to subscribe to my news letter. This weeks hot pick Myreea. I think she is new and trying to settle in on price. Very accommodating even open. Mind boggling in 121. Great everything including attitude.
P.S. If you don't like her....send me the bill.

Well after checking out her profile I think I may just take you up on your recommendation.

I treat the four categories exactly the same. Obviously in Glamour and Little shy it is more difficult to get a show but there are still plenty of girls who provide shows in these categories.

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Sorry Dear, but all men are "horny dogs" when they come here. They may find something else when they get here and enjoy chatting with you. They may not be acting like horny dogs with you.....but I guarantee that's why they (we) are here.

To B*tch host, You're cool lady! But no need to say B*tch host! All of us love you!! No matter if it for naked or not! kisses! ))))))))))))))))

I think you fail to understand the concept of the different categories from a hosts point of view. Yes, true, nudity is allowed in the Glamour categorie, it's not 'to be expected' like IA for instance, but allowed. BUT, and here is where you may gain a little insight, the majority of the girls in Glamour are there because they PREFER to stay dressed, talk sexy, tease etc. If these Glamour girls wanted to put on nude shows they are fully aware of the Not So Shy and Little Shy categories and are smart enough to have opened a room in said categories. The vast majority of the Glamour girls are there because they do not want to do nude shows or toy shows. This being said, the girls in Glamour who do put on nude (or more) shows are there because they have put themselves in the WRONG category for their type of show. This has been a sticking point for many hosts over the years, but there will always be girls in Glamour doing IA or Not So Shy shows.

One last point, the category names really say it all don't they? I mean, really, Instant Action, Not So Shy, Glamour, Make New Friends, why muddle things up? You want action, go to IA, you want action but some teasing too, go to Not So Shy. This goes for both hosts and members. Just READ the category name, that's what you give, that's what you get.

I actually agree with you, except on one point, Little Shy and Glamour are basically the same. Nudity is allowed but NOT required. However if you read the viewer's forum there is no shortage of members that claim they are such stud muffins, the hosts can't resist his charm and he gets all hosts in Glam/Little shy naked with ease. And even gets non adult hosts doing hard core shows for free for him. Then of course he hops in his private jet and bangs every host, her mother and her sister too.

But yes I agree with you and only expect to chat when I go to Glamour/Little Shy. I would never think of asking for a show there. I would get banned fro sure.

Seems like you bring this up often....it will not change the way hosts think by you trying to brain wash them :))
Stay where you can get nudity and refrain from even looking at other categories. NO all members do not think like you do and thank goodness!!

Why are you so concerned with hosts doing their business? I think they know much more about what they are doing than you. Just be a member and let hosts be hosts. That is why they picked the category they did.
You beat this subject to death and it is so obvious that it is the same person all the time

It depends on my mood

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All my favourites stripped in our first video within minutes. That's why they are my favourites :D

one should just shut up and enjoy it

No but I get disappointed. First it destroys the mental image of the host in your mind...the sweet girl next door you seduced into stripping.
2nd...you come to the realization that this host does those things for other members...just not for you at first. So you invested a lot of money to get to someplace others were enjoying as well. Hope it was worth it.

mith busted.. looks like next door girls like to fuck too :))) all jokes aside.. you should feel happy and pround you could get her dong those stuff for you:)

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how exactly is she a slut? for using toys and doing anal?

i think if she is enjoying it and getting pleasure from it she is just enjoying sex / masturbation. really man, i dont see what yer problem is. if she had done something to hurt someobody i could see an issue.

i could even see if you are jealous of her being with other guys (although what do you expect it is her job on this site).

as far as i can tell you are just jealous, which is normal. but calling her a slut for enjoying sex is out of line. maybe you have other reasons.

No! You marry her!

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thank you, that was really sweet of you :)

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Thank you...Kisses

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It is the The Communist Version of St Valentines Day.

Now they get both 14 Feb and 8 Mar ! lolllll

We should have Holiday for "Sex Day" lol Joke :P

Very well put. Have a special day girls!

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not all get angry if a host doesn't want to meet a member, we do every now and get to meet some one in our country and have a great time with, some of us just come here to chat with host that have become friends with,

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LOL Well, you got the ASS part right anyway ;)