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Surely to say something is "widely thought" and then add "some" is a contradiction. I have certainly never thought IA hosts do not speak English. Although there are hosts with high prices in other adult categories I think you will generally find that the average price in IA is higher than in Glamour, Littleshy and Not Shy.

Yes my grammar is flawed. But when pricing softcore against IA you have to compare 121 against open. And even at higher prices, you spend far less in fast shows.

Anyway my post was directed to hosts in Glam/shy that constantly trash IA hosts saying their prices are high and they don't speak English. That is why I posted here rather than in viewer forum.

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There are many in Glam/shy that have 121 over $3.50. And toys are NOT required in IA. Get your facts straight

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There are hosts in Littleshy and even Glamour who strip in open video. The average price for open video in IA is normally over $2:00. The average price for 121 in Glamour is normally below this.

can be also said this way,
average price for good show in any category is less than 1.50$/min
and average price for poor show in any category is over 2.50$/min

That is absolutely bunk!! That makes absolutely no sense and nothing to back it up. I think you drank too much tonight.

my experience from many years in camsites are enought to back it up for me.
Most of the really good shows i ever seen has been priced in between 1.00 - 2.00, so average is 1.50...
and most of the really bad shows have been priced between 2.00 - 4.00 so average price for bad show will actually be 3.00.
I dont say there are not some good show with price over 2.00, but this is my conglution for average... and yeah i been visiting camsites since 2005 so i seen something already, thou i spent only about 2000$ per year

That's bullshit! There are a handful in Glam/shy that have 121 price under $2.00 In fact there are very few in Glamour who strip (nude not topless) at all even in 121. We've all seen posts like yours. You're so sexy girls can not resist you and give free shows, even in non adult. Its getting old. Give it up and try the truth for a change. Just like the Bible says "The truth will set you free".

Well said!! I agree!

Out of 65 hosts on line at the moment 32 have 121 rates under 2.00. The overall avearge proce for 121 is $1.90. When I checked before there were more hosts on line and the overall average was lower. I accept that very few in glamour strip (topless or nude) in open video but there are some. In my experince the majority strip naked in 121 but I hardly ever visit any hosts with open video prices over $1.70 and 121 prices over $2.50 so I do not know so much about the higher priced hosts. I am sure I am not especially sexy so if you find only a handful undress for you this must be due to your extreme lack of charm/sex appeal. What I do know is what I wrote is the truth, not bullshit.

it is not contradiciton. Widely thought is not same as All thought, so it means same as "some" .... just that there are a lot of "somes" who think it.

instant action MUST do erotic show?what if the member doesnt want an erotic show.theres been many times ive gone to see a host in instant action and all we did was talk.both of us fully clothed.there was no erotic show,nothing erotic all,just 2 people talking about whatever.

besides im pretty sure its up to the member and host what happens in private and if a member doesnt want an erotic show.he doesnt get one.but your statement "instant action MUST do erotic show" means even if a member doesnt want an erotic show,hes getting one anyway.

some of you may argue,that if member doesnt want a show why is he in IA.maybe member connected with this hosts mind as well as hosts body.whatever reason it is.its between the host and member,thats why its called private and for you to say "instant action MUST do erotic show" is completely false.

For f***s sake, it's self-evident that he means "must"... IF requested. Does everything need to be spelled out!

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You sound like a host that is very frustrated. I don't see how you can compare IA to softcore at all! Major differences. IA is hardcore and to compare it to not so shy would be accurate.
Not sure why you are so frustrated!!
I don't think any host talks badly about IA. It is understood that when guys want a strip and more they go there and it is expected without a delay. When they come to softcore with those expectations it's annoying to the hosts. That is when you hear reference to IA from the hosts...why would that upset you??

Every guy may have his specific girl-next-door prototype, but in general, she's the girl whom you always admired. Not a High Fashion Model. A girl you see everyday (your neighbor - who 'lives next-door'), she makes a really great friend, is super sweet and is the perfect girl to bring home to your parents. She's very attractive, but modest about it. Believed to be innocent and probably untouched by other guys.

Wikipedia Says:
The cultural and sexual stereotype of the girl next door or the All-American girl is invoked in American contexts to indicate wholesome, unassuming femininity, as opposed to the culture's other female stereotypes such as the tomboy, the valley girl, the femme fatale, girly girl, or the slut.

Why can't "the slut" be the girl next store? then maybe I wouldn't need to be here.

i mean girl next door... need to wake up before posting next time :P

l.o.l maybe you live in the wrong neighbourhood :)))

girl next store? is she selling? Just what kind of house do you live next to?

lol... interesting thought.

i was half asleep and typing fast. when u say "next door" fast, it sounds like "next store" if you don't fully pronounce the words so I typed that... sort of like when u type two instead of too or to or whatever.

now I need to go house hunting

its mean not me.lol. i think girl next door its averag looking. cute girl. not super beauty. but just cute. in my opinion...

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The girl you could never get in the real world.

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similar to the boy next door:

Johnny Cash - Ballad of the Teenage Queen, last verse:

Then one day the teenage star
Sold her house and all her cars
Gave up all her wealth and fame
Left it all and caught a train (Left it all and caught a train)
Do I have to tell you more
She came back to the boy next door who worked at the candy store

its her innocence that distinguishes her. perhaps this quality is lacking in web hosts.

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Its a fetish similar to schoolgirl. It is fantasy.

You are so right!! Like they want innocent girl next door girls here and she doesn't do anything....lol. Wonder how many would come here for that. Or maybe some just want girls to pretend to be that...check in fetish guys!!

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The 'girl next door' to me is about 40 years old, is the size of a half grown hippo and has a voice like a ship's fog horn ...... don't know if that helps you or not??

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Is she Instant Action? Only in 121?

it means nothing. It is a fantasy illusion of something that isn't real. It promises something you will not find. If there really are "girls next door" here, they have you blocked for privacy reasons. So all that's left is "girl in studio" or "girl in other country" or "girl so far away, the closest you will ever get is by internet connection."

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yes everyone knows it ur fantasy to be prostitutka.

smile and dont kry.

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The short videos with cheapers don't bring real money anyway. Does it make any sense 5-10$? But i know the most of the cheapers young students they can't spend more anyway, so i am sorry for them and don't bitch as i could easily. :)

oh Hosts are so greedy - 5 - 10 is not big enough!!!

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ofcouse not money.if host earn 300-500 a day from her rich fans :(

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Being a cam girl is not for everyone. Men are pigs. I know I'm a man. Oink oink

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men are pigs? Both WOMEN AND MEN ARE PIGS! GET IT???

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I agree,im a man im woman skin so I know it better than anyone.

It is better to post these things in ChatHost Forum so girls can advise you. If you are new to being a chathost then it is a process. If you are coming from hardcore and transitioning to softcore then you need to be patient and also specify in your profile what you do. If your profile and pics are very suggestive then you will attract that kind of viewer. Be specific!
I see many girls pics in softcore with bare *sses and near complete nudity and I think that it gets confusing for members as to the difference between softcore and hardcore....sad to say. On the other hand there are many members that appreciate the interaction and subtly of softcore and those are the viewers that softcore is for.
So be specific with pics and profile, be patient for good viewers, block the ones that are offensive and that really want hardcore. Good Luck

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Activity of a mild sexual nature which may include full nudity and touching of breasts, but no legs up or apart while nude; no close-up of genital areas (even with underwear on); no actual or implied touching of genital areas (even with underwear on); no display or use of phallic objects; no animals may be visible in video at any time.

I think many host can not read that because they promise way beyond that. The ones that do typically have low ratings though.

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Maybe they should put them on your head instead. Lots of wind there, it seems.

Some people are so ugly , should they live underground ?

Like viewers?

Are you a viewer ? ;)

There is no wind underground :p
Seems that you are young and don't understand them. Very natural source of energy and much safer than nuclear :)

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Actually, wind power has killed more people than nuclear. Per energy unit that is.

Don't you have to be a "FN" idiot to be killed by a wind tower? It's not like they can sneak up on you ...

they do kill thousands of birds though

The ones in camouflage pants can get you!

Could you clarify that with some facts??? That is ubsurd!

so are cellular towers. A blight on our landscape! Put them underground too. That way we can have no electricity or cellphone service. But the landscape will be prettier :)

Cell towers have to be above ground specifically for signal transmission reasons. However, it shouldn't affect electricity. Aside from the traditional reasons to build a power PLANT above ground (given the space they require or the support structure they need to operate), there's no reason that more power CABLES couldn't be run underground -- which would make things look nicer,

are you another scientiest milking the climatechange train?

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we're talking about the Wind Turbines

Were talking about ugly composite metal monsters killing birds and raping the beauty of nature.

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Yes mysterious, beautiful and powerful)

Wind towers kill so much birds. Wind towers make ugly noise.

Nuclear Power Plants kill hundreds and hundreds of thousands of people and wildlife when things go wrong. For many long painful deaths. The also are eyesores and are very loud!
Japan will be another example of that...

Nuclear power plants do not kill hundreds and thousands of people when something goes wrong.There has been one major accident with a very poorly designed plant (Chernobyl) and the death toll is not over 100,000. There have been many more deaths in the coal mining industry. Oil exploration and accidents have killed people and had a huge environmental impact. We should not allow a knee jerk reaction to dictate energy policies.

Your right to omit 3 Mile Island. The film China Syndrome was grossly false.

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What is your basis for saying this. The radiation release from Three Mile Island was very small. Various studies have so far shown no increase in deaths due to cancer, leukemia etcamong people living close to the plant.. A Nuclear accident does not aoutomatically kill many people.

There were no deaths from 3MI. Recent Studies showed Fish Populations Increased.

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Why not say where you got your figures from? Where were these people who died and how were their deaths connected with the accident. I have checked again and now find one report published last year which estimates the total number of deaths to be 985,000 but it is not clear what data this is based on. In any case it is certainly not the deaths that occurred within 1 year of the accident.

Since Chernobyl over 120,000 people have died in coal mining related accidents in China alone. This is based on the official figures which are likely to underestimate the real total.

They said the same about windmills when they were first built and i should know i was there. Now windmills are considered cool and cuddly. But having said all that i would not want one or 100 built next to my house so i guess you have a point. It's a fact they are here to stay, where possible they should be built far enough offshore to not be an eyesore and where not possible they should be painted by an artist to at least look less ugly.

Let's take camcontacts underground

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I think they are beautiful in the California desert and certainly add interest to the drive :))

This thread is all hot air.. :)

almost enough hot air to move one of those windmills and there is the problem with wind power. cant be stored soo........no wind no power:)

There are ways to store wind power; Pumped storage being the most obvious one. No one method of generation offers a complete solution. A combination is needed.

Yes! A nuclear powered wind turbine is the answer. It might kill a few birds but at least they'll be ready cooked.

is the power produced stored in batteries or in some cases directed to electricity grid . big companies who produce too much solar energy sell it to the supplier .

soo true !

Mmmmm :--)

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I don't understand.

i hope dreamer/member bans you from his comedy forum after that :p

tisme can moderate my Comedy Forum

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But did you pay taxes to support us bums? I need to buy food and clothes for my 11 kids(I forgot how many kids octomom has). ;p

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>> I forgot how many kids octomom has ;p

LOL you answered your own question.
She has 8 kids - that's why she is named OCTO mom.
Just like the 8 arms on an Octopus.

It goes right back to the USA and Western Europe where it came from because they all buy things online like Victoria Secret :p

Considering that most studios -- and almost certainly independent chathosts -- operate "below the radar" (especially since stripping is illegal in places like Ukraine), it's unlikely that there's been any kind of formal study regarding the impact of this or other sites on local economies.

Any foreign currency from any source is good for an economy. I am not sure the girls pay income tax on the money they make so the country loses out on that but certainly most girls spend what they make locally and that helps. I would guess it has to be in the millions of dollars considering the number of Russian and Eastern European girls on the many many site like CC. I think CC is still the best overall. Pron is a trillion dollar industry and online chat/strip has to be a good chunk of it.

So how's the job search goin?

I'm glad u dont own it. I like fetish. If I owned it I would test drive each girl before she got on. But if a frog had wings he wouldnt bump his ass so much.

I know u ))) :P

I know lots of bad girls

Sorry, but apart from #5 which of the other proposals are going to enhance one's experience of (whisper it quietly) masturbation?

It's not gonna work that way!
But warning you that if u own adult cam site then for sure u will be out of business within 6 months!
Why would u tossed fetish and dungeon? I don't like dungeon anyway I have to keep it because it's for members and hosts but not for myself.
I disagree with your some issues but not my business anyway!

i didn't read all of your points as to be honest i have a short attention span, but instead of giving credits to those who spend the most (and therefore are probably rich and don't need credits) i'd give them to the members which get the most points from the hosts. They would be able to vote secretly once after each member visits them.
Now what was the question?

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Just one day per month for pervert appreciation day? Given that 99% of your customers would be perverts, you should show a little more apppreciation.

I'd also make INYF moderator of the comedy forum. And who is shyster?

shyster is INYF's evil alter ego

i think they both need altered egos :--)

Dreamer, tisme and INYF all of You are Fired!!! :p

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1. If you owned the site you would be peeking at all the shows, and see my cam2cam eeew yyukk!

2. your wrong about US Govt - that office supports porno and almost no prosecution has happened for years.

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Is that a response to the above post???

seems obvious that it is, husband and wife - long term relationship, healthy being the piss taking part

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Your ideas sound great, but if you would own a cam site, you would also think of how to make it profitable, and not all of your 14 points will have this effect.
If I may ask... you are a member or a model?

If these ideas are implemented and have the effect of attracting more hosts and creating more business, then it could be profitable. I think these are good, creative ideas. The chatsite business could certainly use some creative ideas.

I'm a long term member

suggested site name
www.pervertspornutopia.com :--)

and go out of business quickly. you forget that viewers pay.

1. If you owned the site you would be peeking at all the shows, and see my cam2cam eeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwh!

2. your wr4ong about US Govt - that office supports porno and almost no prosex has happened for years.

1. Would pay hosts 50%

a. I would increase that to 65% if you could still make money so that you could attract the best hosts. There is only one site I know of that pays hosts more than 60%. It usually pays about 62.5% of what a member spends if he buys a lot of credit at one time. If 65% was too high to make money, I would at least try for 55% or 60%.

b. what about if a host refers a member? CC's number of 80% seems good if you can still make money. Maybe even make it 80% plus a $100 bonus once the member spends at least $1000.

2. Would allow tipping by members

ok

3. Would require 5 minutes in pvt before a member could vote and also after a member had spent at least $5000 total on site he could make written comments with his rating.

a. I would change that to 3 minutes before he can vote

b. I would allow him to write written comments after spending $1000

4. I would set minimum price @ $1 and the model/performer could charge whatever the free market will bear.

a. I would not allow the host to charge whatever she wants. It could turn off some members. Tipping makes up for the effect of any lower price. A guy willing to spend $10/minute would probably be some rich guy trying to help a host out and would tip a lot too. I think a maxium of $7.50/minute would be better.

b. also note that one popular site doesn't use a dollar charge and puts things in terms of credits for prices. For example, it says X credits for a private with no voyeur/spy. The cost for this to the member is over $6/minute but he is less likely to think of things this way since the credits don't match up to the dollars so it might be good to set things up like that.

5. There would be no men, trannys or any other variations on site. Only girls.

I assume you mean girl hosts and aren't banning male members from the site, lol. And despite your lack of sensitivity since some on your list would consider themselves "girls", I would prefer things this way as well. I might have the main home page with just "girls" and have links for other sites at the top. I just hate when I accidently click the wrong thing on a drop down menu or see a guy's unit in the list of playback videos on CC so it is good to keep things completely separate other than a link.

6. There would be a non nude category set in the same format as cc has now, but without the Draconian features it has now.

I agree CC is a little too strict, but if you let things go too far, you might as well just not even have non adult. Perhaps allow two piece bathing suits or bra/panties (since same as a bikini in effect) but, with no showing of nipples or vagina. I would also not allow toys or sexual positions, but I would allow sexual discussions. I would allow the host to stand up and model what she has on, but no active dancing since that gets too close to posing especially if it is more of a gymnastics or ballet type of dance. Anything more than this and it might as well be adult.

7. The other models/performers would have live free video window with 4 screen sizes, including full screen available.

I don't know what you mean "other models" but various screen sizes are good.

8. There would be groups shows at a set price of $1.00 with a minimum of 4 viewers.

a. I am definitely against 4 as the minimum. Hosts on one site can have a problem getting 3 for the minimum. I would make it two.

b. I would make the price a minimum of group $1.00 only if the price for a private had to be higher. Say a minimum price of $1.00 for group and $1.50 for private.

9. There would be a voyeur option with a set price of $2.00 per min. This option could be disabled by the model/performer.

It makes no sense to have a $2.00 voyeur fee if the price of a private might be less. I would make the voyeur fee cost 50% of the price of a private or $1.00, whichever is greater, and set the minimum price of private at a price that is higher than the group price. Therefore, group would cost $1.00/min, voyeur would cost $1.00/min or 50% of private for hosts charging over $2/min for private, and private would cost at least $1.50.

10. The model/performer would have the option to make any pvt 1 2 1 with one click after member is in paid video at no additional cost to the member. The member could make it 1 2 1 by paying $2.00 more.

If the member was in group and all other members had left, then yes, I agree that the model could just make it a 121 private at her option for no charge to the member. But I would make it so that the member could choose to go private at the regular private price, whatever that would be, not a minimum of $2.00.

11. Also no model/performer is required to do any kind of show. The site would be purely competition driven. There would be a public forum on site where members could black list non performing performers and listing the reasons why.

I think you just mean a forum like CC. I like that idea, but a good rating system would probably be a more accurate way to show things. You need not to just set a minimum time to rate, but also set a good group size for rating such as the last 25 viewers and only one vote/viewer.

12. There would be monthly contests for model/performer of the month with cash prizes.

okay.

13. The would be located off the shores of the US and away from the abusive restrictions of the totalitarion government of the United States. There would be no restrictions on consenting adults.

A popular site that allows all types of things in public without any type of age verification is based in the USA, at least I think it is.

14. There would be NO REFUNDS! And no charge backs for the model/performer except in the case of credit card fraud.

a. If a member could prove a host deceived him to get him into paying for group, private, or tipping, I would allow a refund, but I would require 100% conclusive proof.

b. As the administrator, I would ask members for feedback about such incidents to see if a pattern with a particular model was developing and warn her and maybe ban her if I felt she was being deceptive. But it does make it easier as a member to know that a model can do what she wants when she wants, of course, on a site that operates this way, I am a lot more reluctant to spend money until I get to know a host.

Additiional ideas

I would allow public shows where guys could tip. I have no idea why guys tip when other members will pay nothing and watch for free, but it seems to work and the site and models can make a lot. And I guess the site feels some guys will watch awhile and then eventually join the site and pay too.

The operating principles seem to be 1) let the free market rule, generally; 2) try to make sure there is honest feedback about host performance, so that viewers can make informed choices; and 3) maximize the benefit to the hosts. I like these ideas. Good thoughts!

Very few viewers result in the host making 50% and most are much less than that so I don't know where you get your statistics but it is not correct!!

Depending upon whether the viewer is coming from CC, an affiliate site, or a mobile phone, hosts on CC usually make 40 to 50%. There are times when they make a much lower rate, but they have the option of blocking those sites.

I have never had a host tell me she is usually making under 50%, but I suppose it depends on the host. In terms of the other site, they definitely make a minimum of 50% almost all of the time, and most likely are making exactly 62.5% most of the time. I am not including any part that they share with a studio so perhaps some hosts are making less. But for a host without a boss, these are the percentages.

On other sites, the host usually makes a maximum of 40% according to my experience, but I don't know every site. I go to CC and one other site 99% of the time, and spend most of my cyber money on CC.

[""8. There would be groups shows at a set price of $1.00 with a minimum of 4 viewers.
a. I am definitely against 4 as the minimum. Hosts on one site can have a problem getting 3 for the minimum. I would make it two. ""]

lol, then you could ditch the term 'group show' and just go with 'threesome', of course if a host could get 10 guys into group you could call it a 'gang bang' , haha..... then new prices apply .... :D

I would allow hosts to end privates and groups when they want. If a host wants just two for a group, then so be it. And if she jerks guys around and ends group/private too soon, she will end up hurting herself via comments in the forum.

A host..a member..a video portal...fun. It's that simple to run the perfect site, the rest is just hot air.

I got down to #5 and realized that you are describing another site almost exactly. Why don't you just go work there then dreamer....sshhhh. Why change what isn't broken?? Your thoughts are very onesided....YOURS and with little thought for the entire picture. Go back to caming and let business run their own...obviously they know what they are doing much better than a dreamer.

funny you say that about the other site, i thought exactly the same as i read the list... :D

I might me wrong, but it sounds like a wish list for a member more than a list from a host. No site is perfect, but CC isn't so bad as some people think.

i would pay 50% if host earn 0-2000$ 55% 2000-4000$ and 60% if 4000 and more :P

You want features that are great for members, but also want hosts to believe those features will also benefit average hosts too. Considering what you put at #1 on your list I would say you're trying to pull the wool over their eyes. CC already pays 50%(yes it can be less depending on which site the member came from and other factors)

Obviously tipping means live video/audio preview. This could benefit a few very hot hosts, but for an average host on CC? Probably not so much or they would already be working only on those sites with free preview. Some hosts are willing to accept prices below $2 per minute only because they don't have to do live preview.

Tipping is a tool to get hosts to do things in open. I think we all know which site you're getting most of your ideas from. That site has rules against open shows but they choose not to enforce the rules. Yes, the best hosts on those sites can make insane amounts of money. I would guess probably only the top 10 or 20. The 50 to 100 girls also make good money. (Yes a saw a new girl say she made $1000 in 4 days) The top girls can have 2000+ people in their room, but an average girl who isn't willing to do anything in open will be lucky to have 10 people in her room.

I just took a look on that other site and the room photo of one girl caught my eye because I've seen it before on another site. She was good looking and had nice body(not sure if she has implants). She was already nude and doing a "show" with 200 people in her room. I had her room open for maybe 5 minutes while I was replying to another thread here. I looked back to see how much she was tipped while I had her room open. She made a big $0.50 I hope she didn't have to share that with a studio boss. (yes I know she might have been in a paying video on another site)

Could CC benefit from a few minor changes? Yes, the rating system could be improved for members and hosts, adding bigger video windows, etc but CC already has the most important thing. A free market. Hosts can set a price that they're willing to accept and members can decide if the prices that a host sets is reasonable for her category, looks, personality and language skills(yes I know a member usually has to go into video to judge some of these things).

Here we go again same old story!! I wish that camcontacts had set prices so that the viewers didn't constantly try to drive it down more (it's already lower than most sites) with their comments on here.

country of residence, number of stars, hair colour, or whatever else u can think of (feel free to add more)...

First comes looks, then price, then profile. Ratings are totally misleading. I've seen 5 star hosts that should be 1 star and low rated hosts that were very good. I know most hosts are from Russia/Romania/eastern Europe, but it doesn't matter to me where she is. English is important to as that is all I know and you have to communicate to have a good pvt.

I think in the end we are all price buyers. Can't buy what we can't afford, no matter how good it may be.

First is category. I tend to avoid IA, Not So Shy, and etc because I don't want a girl that's going too easy. By the same token, I don't want a girl that's impossible to get naked either, so mostly I visit Glamour and Little Shy.

My second criteria is appearance. So that means pictures. I like to see some nice, clear, face shots, and as well as some body shots. The pics don't need to be in lingerie, or less, but some sexy poses are always nice. I'm really a "girl-next-door" type, so I like to see as much normalcy as possible.

Price is always a consideration. If your price is too high, you may only see me once a month, and maybe even less, whenever I feel like I can afford the luxury of seeing you. I have one girl like this, that charges $2.50 per minute. I see her as the rare night out, not as the everyday meal. If you want to see me a few times a week, $1 per minute for 121 is about the upper limit.

Lastly there's the show itself. I'll normally go into text chat to find out what a girl will or won't show in private. Topless is the minimum. If you won't even show your breasts, I tend to think you ought to find another line of work. No tits, no tips.

I hope this helps.

Firstly it is the profile photo, then I check the price (anywhere near $3 or more and I move on). Then I check the rest of the photos to see if I find her attractive in the majority of her photos (and hopefully see how nice her bum is). Then once the host has answered the very important question of whether or not she gets naked I go to video.

I used to visit lots of different hosts but lately I have been going back to just a few hosts. I did try a new host the other day and while she was very beautiful and got naked her attitude left a lot to be desired. When I am paying $2.40 a minute I expect a little bit more of what poses I would like to see the host do rather than the pose she wants to do and her telling me that that should be enough to turn me on.

Country also plays a part and , just recently, the stars (3 or less and I stop to think about if I should video).

I also like hosts who realise this is a FANTASY site and play along :D

That couldn't have been the girl I recommended.

No Ted it was not the girl you recommended.

those with a whistle fetish is a bonus inyf? :--)

That's always my second question :D

there can never be enough whistleblowing :--)

Initially there is only one criteria to meet, a good clear head shot. (photo)

Nothing low res,
nothing out of focus,
nothing fuzzy,
nothing dark,
nothing over saturated,
nothing to posy,

Just a good clean and clear head shot.
Unless she can do that tiny simple thing then i wouldn't even entertain looking at her profile.

Then the next bit is the profile.
You know there is such a thing as adding to many words ;)
Just the same as to few.

I don't like lists of what you do and don't do.
It's the personality in what you wrote that i see.

I don't care about good English, as long as we can understand to a point then that's enough.
Can choose to have fun and chat, bridge the gap between the languages with some chit chat and a game of charades :) to get where we wanna be at...

i like to flick through the most recent 5 dates of photos (if applicable), then the first 5 dates (no matter how long ago they are) just to get an idea of the host.
If the photos are all glamorous posing or studio shots then i really am not interested in her. If she has something more like her actual room then i'm interested.

Price matters nothing, but my only concern is then how many hours can i spend with her?? if she is high priced and we're getting along well, i might want to stay for the evening. If she is just simply to much of an investment then i won't invest my time in getting to know her better.

As for her actual looks, Slim, pretty, Indo-Slavic bone structure, hair minimum shoulder length, usually much longer. No crazy hair styles, something in-keeping with her face / complexion, but contrasting to her room. No chests pushed out, No trying too hard!

Just a very very pretty 'girl next door' effort is all i'm really interested in.
Someone who looks like human being, not a machine.

criteria , in pics topless with big tits . category not so shy or IA .
a reasonable price per minute .90-1.40 if not so shy .
i also think if it was stated on a hosts profile "yes i strip " or "i dont strip" or something similiar . no maybe i strip ! ( maybe = no in my opinion)

First, how does she look in her profile pic? Do I find her attractive? Does her pic stimulate a desire to see her? Many hosts I never get past the profile pic because it is unappealing, or she is unattractive. My tastes in women are very broad, thin or full-figured (but not obese) any hair color (but not bald); minimal tatoos and/or piercings (i'm really sick of these and wish women wouldn't destroy their appearance with them); natural not fake boobies; and nationality does not matter, though language ability is important.

Second, how do the remaining pics look? Does she have any? Are there Face Shots -- very important for me? Is there good variety? Are the pictures good quality -- dark, fuzzy, grainy will steer me away from videochat. ( What you see in the pic can be assumed in the vid .. my basic approach).

Third, price. If she is under a $1 and I find her appealing, I will probably visit. If she is $1.50 or over, I will probably not (unless I have good strong reason for visiting... such as a prior relationship, or I'm just so f*ckin' horny I can't help myself LOL)

Four, initial conversation. If she sits there like a bump on a log, seems disinterested, or preoccupied with someone else. I'm out. If she has good personality, willing to carry on conversation, shows interest. I'll stay. I like to chat as well as to play. If she moves directly into play without preliminary conversation, or even a simple "Hi" I will enjoy the show and get my rocks off if i'm horny, but probaby won't return.

Five, PROFILE does NOT matter to me. Beyond Location and profile pic, I could not care less about her profile. Usually it's like the belly after a meal of beans... full of bloat. I will sometimes check out her forum to see if she has any comments posted about her, but not usually.

So for me the three main things are PICTURES, PERSONALITY, PRICE.

A profile that reads as if it's been written by the host herself, rather than some studio boss, and which also indicates a reasonable standard of English.
Rating isn't important as there are plenty of good hosts rated low by jerks just because they didn't strip in 5 seconds; and plently of bad hosts rated high by fawning members.
Pictures that indicate the host is likely to be in her own home are a great plus. I'm not too bothered if there are no face pictures, as generally the reason for hiding the face has nothing at all to do with its attractiveness.
Price is important, of course, in my case because I want to spend at least an hour in video, which obviously draws me towards lower priced hosts; nothing to do with being 'cheap', as my total spend will be as much as a member visiting a higher priced host for a much shorter time.
And most importantly of all perhaps, if you don't have the icon for a fast connection I won't be visiting, unless I have a long-standing association with someone already.

New Girls: I decide to visit her if I find out she is not married, engage or very involved with a boyfriend .I feel like I'm wasting my time if they are, and "No Thomas" not because I'm asking them to be with me (hehe), I have my own private personal reasons on that one I will not share. So I usually video the ones I know and feel comfortable around most of the times. The prices to me is not that big of a deal, except at certain times of the month that I have to hold back some, level of knowledge again not that big of a deal, and as for a new model appearing here at cc, yessa I think it would be great if I knew so I can welcome them to cc fantasy island and wish them the best. As for pics and profiles please give enough information about your shows and your do's and don'ts to let the viewer know what to expect and lots of pictures showing your smile. Thanks Ana I think this was a awesome survey your asking about, have a great day.

Boy you guys have got a lot of criteria. I just see if my friend is on and go to her. So easy :D. All you need is to find your fav and stick with her.

not so complicated==all here are my favorite

Having a favorite has its advantages true, but for many of us seeing as many different girls as we can is a huge fantasy. Many of us happen to be married in the real world and this is how we live our fantasy.

But I of course I know there are members like you that for whatever reason or reasons has difficulty talking to girls in the real world and this site is your replacement for the real thing.

Thank you for your answers and especially for all the details, they help a lot, probably not just me, but other models who are interested in getting better on CC also.
More opinions are always welcomed! Have a great weekend :)

First looks. Facial appearance & body. Ethnicity is a factor as well. I base my judgement on Profile Pics. More are better. Variety is good. Pictures that show her physique and give a strong flavor of sexiness and a good personality are best.

Then price. I have seen a host I would love to see and the price is very often the killer. I used to kee a few high priced ones on my favorites list in case I won a lot of money but not anymore. Too frustrating. Price has to be relatively low.

Then how are they in chat? Is their english good? Are they mercenary....Hi I'm Olga...come to video...come to pvt.... I like to chat a bit with the host and an idea about her personally and see if she will freely negotiate and agree to what she will do in a show. If she hedges...says...depends on my mood...come to pvt and find out...etc. She is a no go. Obviously a scammer.

Then I go to video. Sometimes the girl is not the same in the pics. Sometimes the girl in the video is the same but looks pretty bad or has an attitude...then I say goodbye and leave. I know it is the middle of the night for many hosts...but smile...look a little interested.

I consider star rating on if it is 1-2 stars. I pretty much avoid 1-2 stars completely. Almost a certainty they are scammers or out and out liars. 3's are usually ok. 4 & 5's can be pricey and quite frankly I find 3,4 and 5 to be pretty similar.

That's it.

cochinillas = woodlice, also known as Pill bugs, Rollup bugs, Armadillo bugs, chubby pigs, and many other names.. Maybe it refers to men with small dicks

Do you have a point or did you mistake this forum for your diary?

Lmao :)

I think he was very clear about his point. CC understands that many members and even hosts want to protect their privacy. Other sites are thinking only about how they can make the most money for the site.

So the other sites have features like member profiles(which allows some members to feed their egos), tipping, voyeur, automatic recording of privates. Those other sites ignore site rules, allow hosts to do shows in public, sell or raffle videos, phone #, skype videos, "dates" and other things for tips.

For hosts I think CC protects hosts from themselves. Sometimes money makes people make poor judgements and I think CC wants hosts to keep some dignity and self respect. They have site rules and from my experience in past they do many times enforce site rules. They have minimum prices for all categories. You can't work for $0.10 even if you want to. I saw on another site two girls asking for tips worth $2.50 for topless and $5.00 for full nude(not per minute) Of course top girls on that site can make lots of money from tips but they have to sell their soul and dignity.

I still think CC is the best site for hosts and not bad for members too.

And you see there is that sad fact, you can watch a CC girl work for $2.50 unlimted time in other places... ;) Including the cover girls,

As for their soul and dignity... what is the difference, you either work on a cam or you don't. Those 'top' girls are getting pay-outs multiple times any other site is able to do.
Even running 3 members in a pvt room for 8 hours non-stop can't pay that much to a host.
This is a job for a host.

Doesn't make any sense by the way facebook is awesome

I know some CC covergirls work on other sites with free preview, but I'm pretty sure they're not doing free shows or giving the same attention to chat as they would if they had a paying video. So yeah you can see a "glamour girl" for free on another site sitting at keyboard doing nothing because for whatever reason they're not making enough money on CC.

Of course I know it's a job for hosts, but in any job you have to make moral decision what you'll do or not do. It's one thing to do a show in private but another to do a show in public using a huge dildo where your former classmates living in another country might see you.

I stand by my claim that if a host sets the right price she can make a good living on CC without having to work on other sites or do public shows.

No matter what the conversation you always come back to low prices for hosts....too funny! You don't have a clue!

Oops, my reply to you is below.

Did I say lower prices? I said right price for host.

If a host is always busy in video then she should raise her price to find "right" price to find a balance of earnings and minutes in video per hour she works. Once earnings starts to stop going up or drop then she probably found the limit of what most members are willing to pay for her.

If a 5 star, covergirl, contest winner, member favorite and probably one of top earning host on CC is in open video or even in 1 to 1 video many times when I'm checking prices then I can say that she has the right price for her. Her price is higher than the average and median price in her category for a 5 star host. So it's not about LOWEST prices. It's price that most members are willing to pay for YOU as a host.

I will say that there are 3 hosts with very good ratings on CC that are $2 or even $3 higher than the host I mentioned above. Do you think they are top earners on CC? Not even close to it, because when I looked to check prices they were never in video. I've also seen those girls on 1, 2 and even 3 other sites at same time. Tell me is it better for a host to earn enough to work only on CC or have to work on many sites with free preview and keep saying "only in private" or "come to pvt" ;p

I keep saying it but if a host understands economics and market competition. The price control and category control that CC offers a host is the best. I should say that I think those 3 girls work in studios and most likely their boss set prices.

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CC allowed those posts to appear so they think it has at least a little value. lol

But since you continue to make snippy replies to my posts without providing any data or concrete advice that would help other hosts earn more you end up sounding like a host who is worried she will lose customers to other girls.

The reality is that because CC doesn't have free preview video we know a high percentage of members are here to spend money. So there is plenty of money to be shared between hosts. CC is a great site for hosts because every girl isn't worth $5 or $6 or even $3 a minute like on other sites. Only the best girls are making most of the money on those other sites with high fixed prices. Here with the right price a cute girl with a nice smile, decent personality, willing to strip and do shows(even without toys) can make a good living. That's a fact. It's one thing if you think I'm posting bad advice or lies, but it's another thing if you don't want other girls to earn a better living.

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He is one that thinks that he knows all and must express himself accordingly when in reality as a host he knows very little.

Happy St. Patricks day to you Kerry!
Cheers and have a super time!

happy st patricks day kerry
have a pint of Guinness on me .

Kerry have a pint of Guinness for me :D

You celebrate Green Snakes that eat up all Irish terrorists, and when the job was finished they became potatoes???

What kind of holiday is taht?

give your racism a rest bruce ;)

you seem awfully sure about who pedro is. should be careful before leveling that charge since there are plenty of bruce's around here and pedro is apparently not a known name

You have the right name to celebrate St P day Kerry. Do you have a beautiful ring? :)

everybody can celebrate st patericks day . have fun and enjoy !

I'm Irish every day of the year, not just on March 17th.

to dressed up in any role play I want to happen, to full fill my wildest fantasy and let me tell the person what i want them to do for a change

both the viewer and the host squirting at the same time

Let's specify a category Austin and not refer to all categories with these wild fantasies that you are beckoning :))

mine would be to have a man and his wife come in my video together

Hey I can arrange that!

Naked and let men just watch

A poll! No, I mean a Pole .... in fact a Pole on a pole.

Happy St Paddys day .... I'm full as a shuck so apoligies for bad humour :)

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Child support ends when the child turns 18. I paid for 15 years.

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I am a Canadian and to be honest I take offence at your generalization of Canadian women, it's small minded and ignorant. Things like this happen all over the world, in EVERY country. Canadian law is not Communism, I'm not going to go into all the examples of why that statement is totally ridiculous, go do some research and find out for yourself. Sounds to me like someone's been telling you their situation, a member here perhaps? It's one thing to sympathize with someone, it's another thing to start spewing about the woman of Canada are all sluts, it's a communist country, blah blah blah.

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i dated alot of canadians........all in that 1%. how about you move back home if you hate canadian law so much. apparently life was better there and much freer

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i understand that your upset about this law but no where in your post do you say what this law is or how much they make a man pay.all you say is they take all.

in usa by law the maximum they can take is %45 of your pay check.thats the state i live in,theres a chance it might be a different percentage from state to state.

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ooooh my ... so no money for fun with camgirls?

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Are you dating this man by any chance ? :P

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omg i loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeee this law

To Yourlady4u, I hope law will award to Man to keep children and to make you to pay children support! How do u feel about that? I hope some women learn lesson about that!!!!

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When it comes to such an important decsion as making a child or just having sex for fun and lust then I don't think you can take enough precautions and trust no woman or man for that matter. You take care of the birth control on your part and then no need for suprises!! Unless it is a meeting of the minds to have a child both parties should take the neccessary precautions to avoid this huge decision from happening. Not to beat you up but trust no one with that decision...take responsiblity before it happens. Regardless of what happened that child can not provide for itself with food, home and neccessaties so you and the mother must... Most guys hate condoms but damn wouldn't that little bit of inconvenience would have saved many problems.
I am sure it is no different than the US where they consider both incomes and what the cost to both should be to provide a decent life for the child based on those incomes.

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Maybe that is his excuse for a poorly thoughtout sexual encounter with saying that she said she was on birth control or had protection. Maybe she did not intend this either (especially at 17) and they both were ignorant. You can't possibly blame this all on the girl. Are you the mother of this boy?? You talk like he should have no responsibility and make excuses for him.
BTW has an abortion been mentioned or discussed? They are both too young!!

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The law does work both ways in the U.S. and would be hard to believe that i would not in Canada as well. Perhaps you just are not aware.
It is not easy or cheap when a child comes into the world for either person. There is clothes, diapers, food, cost of a place to be raised, daycare and babysitters, doctors, dentists, transportation to and from, etc. Also it is 24/7 responsibility for the parent.
The non custodial parent needs to contribute as well to theses expenses. If there is question of paternity then there are tests available. If they have shared custody then the expenses are shared too generally. It is however a big cost and experience when it is was a mistake but both incurr that.
If you were the friend of the girl and her story made it his fault then I think your outlook would be different as well.

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I would be more inclined to think that you are not aware of the complete law or what the situation is with a girl raising a child without a partner. It does not make sense and I am sure that there are many things that are not being spoken by your description.

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Ann, Do you want to marry Canadian man who is very poor with no money?

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if you make a child, pay the price...not much more to say about that..be responsible men

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All mothers are women but not all women are mothers, and lovers can be men or women; so each has their own day. And the marketeers smile!

March 8 celebrates women specifically -- all women and all they do. Valentine's Day, if you didn't know, celebrates couples and love. Mother's Day is, well, obvious.

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8 March is God-Less Communist St Valentine's Day.

There is no Men's Day?

Every day is Man's day :)

right too ! :P

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Nude chat

Kim, I like slaves. I have a few here and I am always looking for new interesting ones. But price is important. As a new girl, you should have a low price so members will give you a try,

There is a section called chathost only forum and you will get better answers to ask your questions there. This is general forum and members can chat here to as well as guests that are not members so you will not get good answers because they do not know. I suggest you go to the right forum or write camcontacts customer service. I am sorry but I do not even understand your question to answer it.

i agree with host,thats a question you should ask in the host only forum,a host would know better then a member but my suggestion is maybe try community chat,start talking/chatting with ppl there and then invite them to your room.

my question is where are the free host at anymore, anyway good luck kim69 and best wishes, sorry I'm not a host to answer your question

I can get mine to actually touch the monitor screen. All I do is pick the monitor up and pop it on my cock :D

My dick is so big I win home run derbys with it

That sounds like PoppyCock to me!!

i have to stay clear from my monitored screen 14 inches

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I can. But then again I was known as Elephant boy at school :D

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Oh man my sides hurt from laughing so hard

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Perhaps CC can have a promotion in which the proceeds are donated to the Red Cross (or another worthy agency) to help?

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Japan does not need money. other things, but not money.

Luke 21: 10 -11 & more
10 Then he said to them: “Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. 11 There will be great earthquakes, famines and pestilences in various places, and fearful events and great signs from heaven. ....

20 “When you see Jerusalem being surrounded by armies, you will know that its desolation is near. ..........

25 “There will be signs in the sun, moon and stars. On the earth, nations will be in anguish and perplexity at the roaring and tossing of the sea. 26 Men will faint from terror, apprehensive of what is coming on the world, for the heavenly bodies will be shaken. 27 At that time they will see the Son of Man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. 28 When these things begin to take place, stand up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near.”



Matthew 24: 3, 6 - 7
3 As Jesus was sitting on the Mount of Olives, the disciples came to him privately. “Tell us,” they said, “when will this happen, and what will be the sign of your coming and of the end of the age?”........

6 And wars will break out near and far, but don't panic. Yes, these things must come, but the end won't follow immediately.

7 The nations and kingdoms will proclaim war against each other, and there will be famines and earthquakes in many parts of the world.

It's a cheery little book, isn't it? )

Cheery or not and whether you accept it or not.......... He is the creator and master and he doesn't ask your or my opinions.

It certainly is. That's why I hope that, if I'm wrong and there is an afterlife, I hope I go to hell :)

I imagine it will be so much more fun.

We choose what we want.. So enjoy your stay..... ((((

it's impossible for hell to be fun,because it's the same but different for everyone.it's your worst nightmare :--)

ur a member of cc? there is NO redemption for you

That could apply to any time in history. There have always been earthqaukes. There have always been tsunamis. There has always been war. There has always been famine.

The only difference now versus in earlier times is that technology allows us to know what is going on right away so it seems like the world is coming to an end. You think people didn't think it was the end of days during the black plague, for example?

Maybe all will end soon, or maybe it will not. I believe there is a verse somewhere that says something like the true time for the end is a mystery so one cannot just look at recent events and say "okay, this is it!"

I have to agree with L and M-there is no hope for you people and you might think hell is fun and keep dreaming that and you will be surprise

You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I the Lord your God am a jealous God, punishing children for the iniquity of parents, to the third and fourth generation of those who reject me.

I think it may be you who is surprised.

Lol It is now more closer than any time you site...... ;)

Of course it is closer now than any time in the past. It is always closer "now" since whatever the date is in the future for something to happen, every second that passes means we are closer to that point in time.

You dismiss the past problems because that is not when the end of the world happened. You are ignoring the impact of technology and how in your face tv is with all its graphic images.

Natural disasters are not new. War is not new. I would imagine a few natural disasters occurred during World War II and people were saying it was the end of days then too.

Before reaching any conclusion as to whether or not this time period is "worse" than others, people should do some extensive research and see if that is really the case. Allowing graphic images on TV to influence conclusions is not an intelligent approach. It is simply a conclusion based on emotion.

And when population increases so that more people are affected by a disaster and when adequate safeguards aren't taken from easily predictable natural disasters like earthquakes and tsunamis, it looks to me like this disaster was man-made, not divinely caused. Who the f*ck builds a nuclear reactor in an earthquake prone area? Well apparently a lot of people since there are others in places such as California, but that means such disasters are a result of stupidity, not because it is from some divine force.

OF COURSE the end time is more close now than all those times you sited before.

Get ready!

how to get ready? we don't actually what will happen...just can guess and hope we will survive

Simple get ready it is in the creators book.

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This is the comment you made and I do not understand what you were trying to say:

cc kicked me from non adult :) and reason was cuz i not drive me how non adult host

Does that mean that you took your clothes off in non-adult??? Just guessing!!

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First of all non-adult hosts are not strictly non-adult. They can and often do move to adult categories on request. Either with the same host name they use in non-adult or with a totally separate host name with its own profile. I think some host feel there is less competition in non-adult (few hosts) and that improves their chances. Plus many members like the idea of seducing a non-adult host into an adult video...even if it is just one big kabuki play. ""OK baby I will move to little shy...but just for you."

That being said there are a few true non-adult hosts. They generally are attractive, have great english language skills, are personable and finally listen well. Some members feel that seeing an adult host is not for them for a variety of personal reasons...whereas a non-adult host is just chatting. And chat they do...about their problems and dreams....they have a captive girl to listen to them..something that might be missing in their real lives. So....there are lots of reasons to see a non-adult host.

You seriously are asking this? This may be a "sex-by-cam" site, but it is not exclusively that. Many members may come only for the sex experience but not all members. Some like to chat, to get to know, to make new friends. Some are more interested in people than in getting their rocks off. Some appreciate a woman more for her personality than for her sexuality.

And as others said above, some because they are tired of the naked hosts, and some because they feel they have conquered a woman if they can persuade her to move to another category to do sexual activity or get naked, and that is their aim.

It is my theory the non adult category has something to do with Miller v California Supreme Court decision in 1973. Remember all cam sites were patterned after the first one located in Florida, in the heart of the "Bible Belt" in the Southern USA. And having non adult prevents the site from being wall to wall porn.

And straight men never tire of naked girls, its just gays coming out of the closet.

And speaking of talking. Girls from any category will be happy to talk with a viewer rather than strip. Actually there is more talking going on talking going on in Glamour Girls than anything else.

Thank you for your unsolicited remarks about Glamor Category that sounds that it was intended to be rather sarcastic. In video that is certainly not the case for me and I doubt for many but if they are without sound in video it is rather difficult to communicate and tease away from the keyboard. Maybe that is the case for you. It is a softcore category and I believe it was intended to meet a beautiful woman and be able to chat and tease with her opposed to stripping and toys, etc. :)

Thanks for verifying what I said

Nothing can make a member go to non-adult but they might have an interest in chatting with a girl from a different country or area and starting a friendly relationship. Who do you call in the middle of the nite to chat when you can't sleep :) Always someone here for all appetites! Many members have commented in non-adult that it feels more real to be able to chat to a host with clothes on.

«...he can`t affort even to take me out for a cofee,very few times when he had money he gave all to me,he is doing everything i say...»

I wished i stopped reading right there. Are u sure it's he who's childish?

my advice is leave him and never look back dont be sorry...you deserve better then this...u ll find soon that man kisssssssssssss

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Answer of the year.

Only good intentions are not enough, 1 fact is more than 1000 words and good intentions without poof are nothing,also good intentions don`t talk to u when u need someone who understands u and they don`t pay the bills. Hope u undertood this

"good intentions don`t talk to u when u need someone who understands u and they don`t pay the bills"

huh girl u make yourself even more childish with this phrase... talking about "understanding" and then say "they dont pay the bills"
just say it out, you want a rich man to pay your bills and give u diamonds, you are not happy with this "boy" who do everything he can for you, and even give you his every little money, still he is studying.
I totally agree, you have lost your connection to real world while working as chathost, you have started to think that money will make u happy

Totally agree!!

You ask advice. Yet you appeal to total strangers who may or may not have your best interest at heart. You ask advice. Yet all we have is your side of the story. So how can you trust that our advice is good advice?

I don't think you really want advice. I think you merely want us to agree with what you have already decided.

It sounds like your isolation (and your job, quite frankly) keeps you from making real connections with real people. Is there perhaps some way you can get out more and meet people? Then perhaps you'll get a better sense of what to do about your relationship, because you can get out of relying solely on your own head.

There's not much to go on here, but it really doesn't sound like a winner to me.

All the best to you.

Cash talks and bullshit walks

you are in a rut. It happens. You need change in your life. Break off the relationship. Schedule some time for meeting other people. Either a part time job where you meet nice people, even if the pay is low. Or further education. Or other ways of meeting people. Try to meet more nice people, men and women. Tell them you hope to meet a good man, one your age or older. At your age, one good way is for other women to set you up with a man they know. A brother or cousin or single friend. That is more likely than meeting one yourself. The #1 thing is make changes in your life.

Can't see much sound advice...

If you are stuck in a rut, and your social life sucks, why not do something constructive about it.
You do not need to be 'set-up' with a new man, the one you have appears to be fine with the exception that he is useless at contributing to the home in a supporting role.
The childish bit seems more about your frustration with him.

Get out more. Go to the gym, do aerobics, it's good for your job here, and you'll meet other women there, you will have more social life and more to talk to and about amongst women!
Not getting a new man, other than financial possibilities (which are at the moment just a wishful hope) it brings you nothing to life as a whole.

Start girl relationships, chat amongst them. after a couple of weeks they will be taking you out. the friendships, attention of people who are intellectually on your level (ie; other women, similar ages?) will boost your life.
You 'may' possibly meet a new man once you are out there with them. or at least just have some fun with it.

If your current boyfriend doesn't show clearly an ability after his education to provide or attempt to provide any economic structure in your relationship then you may have to get rid of him.
Realistically, once you start a social life again, interact with other women and start going back out again and enjoying life, it will be a BIG wake up call for him to sort himself out.... if he doesn't want to loose you.
A girl at home sucks, she's down, the skin thins, easy to depression, easy to abuse (not physically, or even intentionally, but it happens psychologically).
You have created your own problem, and he is not helping by becoming 'comfortable' with this situation.
Get your butt of the sofa after work and get out there... enjoy :)

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Not sure when you realized that college students have limited income and until he is graduated and working it will remain that way. Kinda sound like he is your slave by some comments. I am not sure where love and companionship and yes sex plays into your feelings but they should.
If you care about him then first you should get a life and maybe not blame all your loneliness on him or make it his responsibility. Happiness first comes from inside.

How the heck i am the guilty one? I don`t want only money,we all need them if we don`t want to be homeless and eat garbage so stop acusing me,i didn`t asked for diamonds. and the excuse that he is in last year of college and studying is not working bcoz before we were a couple he was doing very fine,had jobs,he was going on trips,going out very often and now he is a lazy bastard. Why? bcoz i told him many times to find a part time job as before if not we break up...and i didn`t and stayed wt him.he took me for granted. How would u feel to meet someone good looking,wt ambition,independent that is enjoyng life, and when ure together that person becomes lazy,stupid,without a job but with good intentions? If i wanted only money i would look for a rich guy....believe me i have the looks and the brain for it but i wanted a loving,smart,guy with who i can built a future, and asking if the good intentions are enough to give him a lil more time to prove me he can be responsable. It is simple.....if i wanted only money i wouldn`t be with a guy that can`t pay for his own cofee ...let`s be serious. And the other question was: HOW DO U KNOW WHEN U MEET THE PERSON U WANT TO SPEND UR LIFE WITH?

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You said "I don't love him anymore" ..... so what's the big debate about? You move on ...