General Forum

Chatting in pvt

I have to admit that as much as I like to see hardcore action, there are times I have had long chats in pvt and no show at all but enjoyed it very much. Its a mood thing. I know many viewers like to combine chat with a show, but keeping them separate works for me. Also there are several girls in Glamour/little shy that have , in my opinion , cover girl faces. And just talking one on one is for me a great experience. In fact I've found that if you enter a pvt in the softcore section with the expectation of simply chatting, you will never be disappointed. Conversely if you expect an erotic nude show, especially in Glamour you may be very disappointed. So expectations are important. And I occasionally get a nice surprise. And surprises can be nice or bad like like coming home to find you wife banging the mailman or your house is on fire or both!
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Chatting in pvt

"well in my experience 90% of hardcore host dont speak english well enough to chat....this is from members mouths not mine."

Since when do hosts believe members? Only when it suits you I suspect.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Chatting in pvt

Thank you for getting it right

Reply

RE: Chatting in pvt

Read my post again. Nowhere did I say anyone was stupid. Keeping chat sessions separate from hardcore sessions works for me. That's all I said. Yes you can talk very well, but your specialty is hardcore. In softcore their specialty is talk. If I want a pizza I go to a Pizza parlor, if I want a hamburger I go to a hamburger stand. Get it?

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Chatting in pvt

sorry to dissapoint you, but not so shy girls have nice personalities too, and pretty good english skills. assumig we can't have a decent conversation in the same time it's plain judgemental and tacky . just because we can express ourselves sexually, that doesnt mean it's the only way we express ourselves. and to your surprise...and speaking for my self only, i am meeting guys who only wanna chat too, and most likely the other girls "who are supposed only to get naked" meet them too. since when being a bit of an exhibitionist is such a flaw in here.. i don't get it. so, to end this, guys who are mostly in the mood to chat, feel free to stop by in Not so shy and IA rooms too, and i bet no girl will say no!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Chatting in pvt

I did see you in pvt and you did a great job. The only chat was in connection with your nude erotic show. You are a top notch hardcore host. Keep up the good work.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Chatting in pvt

Naughty or easy?? :D

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Chatting in pvt

"I compensate my sober real life with online aliveness"

You mean you're drunk when you are live on cc?

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Chatting in pvt

There's always the option of having a tug as you are having a nice chat .... just zoom yourself to a head and shoulder shot and you can let your hands conduct the horn section out of frame .... and with a little practice you can even keep the quaver out of your voice during the more serious conversation moments. :)

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: Hot fantasy

and he too, all they could think about was how much they desired each other. right there, and then!
As they drew closer together snuggling in front of the fire she reached down to him passing her hand between them only to find 10 bucks hidden within the depths of the sofa.
She had known for a long time a fabled storey from her mother about the days when she worked online,
with long hard hours and the continual begging from members she lived in the hope that one day she would finally get her hands on her own hard cash rather than someone elses, alas; it never cam to be. the sofa left as a family heirloom in the hope that maybe her children might find it.
It was in that moment as the couple kissed, fondled and tenderly embraced each other on that very same drab brown velour that her mother ill gotten gains finally relinquished from it's hidden life represented itself before her very eyes.
She gasped and cryed out "YES!!!"

"OH YES!!!"

He held her stronger, closer than ever before, never had he had such an effect on a girl, that she responded to his touch with such energy and exuberance.

she turned to face the side, placing her new found gold into her bag for safe keeping, he seized the moment.

Knowing this was the right time, she had given him all the right signals, her willingness, her smiles, her sweet words.. even towards his baldness and her passionate deep and long full urge to be with him.

This time, right hear ; right now ; he had to make a stance... as she turned to her side, presenting him with a vision of sublime beauty, her rusty sheriffs badge winked at him in the moonlight that shone through the cracked window, willing him to come in...

It was then in fact all had become apparent, that butterfly she had felt in side her had grown,
as the butterfly beats it's wings in one part of the world, in the other part where she was, hell had fury,

those final moments unaware of this phenomenon he fought like a warrior to wrestle off his own jeans, steadying himself with one hand against the chewing gum plated radiator with just inches to spare, he closed the gap between their lifes and all would become one with eachother forever;
that final wink brought with it an even of cataclysmic proportions, as she spread cheeks apart for him her ass gave way, all matter now proceeded to exit; ex potentially from within....

covered from head to toe and dispite her best efforts he just wasn't sure he'd return again, this wasnt' quite what he had envisaged from their 'Two for one' offer on down at the local drive-through take away they had visited earlier.
He rated her just 1 star....

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hot fantasy

haha, nothing...
You could have just gone with the...: "it wasn't even slightly amusing" :p

Reply

Leaving without saying

After being friends (as much as you can be friends on this sort of site)with a host for just on one year she has just left without telling me, which leaves me not knowing what to think.

We always got on well and spent many hours talking as well as having fun together, she said she was having some time off to see her family between x-mas and the New Year but hasn't returned.

I know hosts may not always say how there real lifes are but she had no reason not to at least say she wasn't going to return. I think most hosts want to be treated with respect and i always try and do this. So I guess i just want to say that it should go both ways, if you know you are leaving then at least have the respect for any long time viewer of yours and let them know you will be leaving.
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Leaving without saying

host dies when money runs out should have paid more to get Dear John letter

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Leaving without saying

You may very well be right and something has happened to her and i have thought about that and hope it is not true.
In the end i miss her and just hope she is ok, it would just be nice to know for sure.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Leaving without saying

tell us who the host is and maybe we can tell you where she is, maybe she had a real closer friend then you was and someone else here can relieve your pain in not knowing what happen to her

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: Free video chat

You should go try that out with other sites that do it and you will see. CC is smart not to do it. Why don't you do free teasers if that is your thing? I think you don't have a clue what you're talking about.....my 2 cents.

Reply

RE: Free video chat

Free video chat has been an option for chathosts
ever since I started comming to CC 4 years ago.
I first saw my favourite chathost in a free video and
will always go to see her. She is the best!
I might not have ever seen her, if not for the free video.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: they took all our energy and mood

Unfortunately it never works and no host has been dumb enough to believe me and show me her everything :(

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Free video chat

HMMM you know very good cc wont allow it .Now stop posting things that members would like to hear so u wake up their interest.Free chat would ruin this site ,dont you think so ?Ever worked on free to see how its like ?Try to convince guys get u in pvt ,when they do u have no energy.GRR if you like so much free chat there are other sites that offer it.Let cc be as it is thats why its has succes and so many models on it.What would u do if cc will chnage rules and charge backs will appear too ?will u agree that ???

Reply

RE: Free video chat

What do you mean?
There is Free video chat on CC.
Maybe you don't want new Chathosts to know about it?
Just because you are lazy, does not mean other chathosts
are too.

Reply

RE: Free video chat

I suggest you go do it then and not insult other hosts that don't like it....your business must be so bad that you need it to stay entertained....

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Free video chat

it seems a couple of you didnt understand what this person is saying.shes saying that when a host does free chat and a member wants to go pirvate,she has to close her session.change from free to pay.then open her session again and hope the member comes back.she would like to be able to have a member go in pirvate from free chat without her having to close her session.which i think is a very good idea.hope you can understand this a little better.

Reply

RE: Free video chat

I don't think you understand the entire picture...we do.

Reply

RE: Free video chat

then explain it, dont say i dont get .we do and then leave..because fom what i read is...this host would like to go from free video chat to piad video chat without having to close the session.

Reply

RE: Free video chat

It was never intended to be used like that is why there isn't a link back :) She chooses to use it that way because she does free video chat at another site and this site doesn't do it. It is intended if a host would like to treat a certain favorite member to a private video without interruption or several. Also maybe she has enough regulars and only uses password sessions for her regulars to avoid chat and new members.
Hope she has a better understanding and it is clearer to you :) No offense intended.

Reply

RE: Free video chat

no offence taken.sorry if it seemed that way.i thought the host was talking about. free video where all can go see.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: NO free video

yessssssssss!

Reply

RE: NO free video

news flash for you... i almost never come to paid session if i havent seen free video first. thats why cc is secondary site for me, i use cc for paid video with girls i seen in other site first, in free video.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: NO free video

And what makes u assume i wanted to hurt your pockets? actually it is vice-versa, only reason why i come here to have video with a girl i seen on other site, is because i know this girl have more to herself on cc, payout percent is better here... i just wanted to point out that not all members search only for free stuff.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: NO free video

"they never come to paid session after free video" was not said in bitchy way? i made a reply to that, so forgive me if might sound bit bitchy too

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Free video chat

"they can come 1 minute in video and they see all"
And then girls will complain about 1min-hoppers, it`s been topic sometimes in forum

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Free video chat

or you can ask the host to put up some new pics...i was asways told...theres no harm in asking.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Free video chat

if cc would be chat with free videos,, i would leave cc forever :))

Reply

RE: Free video chat

shouldn't it be what viewers want and not what hosts want? Who pays?

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Free video chat

UKdreamGIRL,i said pretty much the same thing you just said(look towards the top) and some one said i dont get it.it seems only a couple people that read the original post really understand what was being asked.

Reply

RE: Free video chat

Hosts are not slaves here....if they don't like it they leave :)

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Free video chat

I think cc is the way they are by choice. I really do not expect any changes at all, except maybe in their contests in some form or other, but not the basic layout. Just my 2 cents

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Free video chat

Thankyou for your post here and the previous post.
When the women who are chosthosts here, go to
shop for shoes.
They can look at the shoes and even try them on.
Its only fair that viewers can have some help in
choosing the chathost they want to see.

Reply

RE: Free video chat

Sorry but it is not that simple for the hosts and if you read some of the comments from the hosts of how many of the viewers abuse it and the hosts you would better understand.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Free video chat

I suggest CC sell viagra to help male members get there member wanting to do a second show in much sooner time.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

NO you hosts can give up $1 to let member see what he is gonna wanna buy more of.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

just some moving and a bit smiling ? thats more then a few host do already

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

Good idea. A nice little presentation of the host, would be fine. " Hi, im xxx from xxx. In my video-show you can see me doing xxx and xxx"

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

if it would be 10 seconds video then im dont mind. :P

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

some men can cum watching us even 30 sec, even not nude, even if just smiling >:)

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

whatever, I don't need 30 sec video anyway, what viewers do out of chargeable chat I dont care.They also can wank at your pics. Do you care?

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

Ah, don't be so cranky. I bet those 30 sec viewers get a head start anyway :))))

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

if they cum in a 30 second vid , then im betting they wank to your pictures too.

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

i said that im ok with 30 seconds of video, but no way 3 minute...:)

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

you said your ok with 10 seconds , not 30 seconds casa . not that it matters because cc will never do it .

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

ok, nevermind. and dont call me casa. im leksa :) ;)

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

no problem boss , leska it is

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

mistake again... :)) im not leska.leksa i am. for you more easy to remember spell it LEXA. :))

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

I agree with Casa or not at all. What is your point anyway??

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

CC should do this as a smart business move. Other cam sites already offer this, so it would be CC just keeping up with its competition. Guests would obviously like this because it would give them a much better sense of what the host looks like on cam. It could also show the quality of her cam... depending on the clip (for example, if it was a montage) what outfits she has… what her chat room is like... etc.

But that's also why some hosts would like this and others hate it. A preview video clip would instantly expose any girl using fake (or cropped) photos to lure guys in. And expose those who don't really look like their pics anymore (they've gained weight, don't bother dressing up or putting on makeup). But that is why good, hard working hosts should love this idea. Because it will also immediately show why they are BETTER than other hosts, and why a guest should spend his money on them.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

"while Cc is still on the top and everybody is satisfied"

In your opinion.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

your to damn sexy to hide anything ,)))

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

I don't understand if you think this site so make all these changes like other sites.....why don't YOU just got there and leave well enough alone.

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

I agree CC needs to make changes--never hurts to try new things to attract new members--thats why others are signing up on other sites, they getting tired of same things

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

How u know they sign up other places?U track them or something?lol
common if they sign over places they shortly return here ,where can u find great girls at such prices?Get over it.If cc would start the free vid or free preview or what ever bull.. the site will go down.Now i know u guys just want more and more for free but aint possible!STAY AS U ARE CC thats why models love to be here for the difference u make!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

I think it's a great idea. Some hosts look better than their pics when they move!

I think other host are actually just afraid that members will see that their pics are all Photoshopped and they look nothing like them in vid! ;)

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Hey boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, hosts and members :)

Why hell do u think it should cost so much? I really think no more than photos in the archives. This is a business like any other business, so you have to offer your clients something better every time or your clients can go to other place. I see girls complain about traffic?

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

private

ok I been around the rooms a lot visiting and chatting with a lot of host, so now, it's time to just put my mind to just 2 regular host to visit, so i can stay out of trouble and spend more time having more fun with the ones i really like, so my question is, am I the only one doing this or are their others out there doing that already that can give me some tips on how that is working out
Open thread

Reply

RE: private

Well i only visit one host, and its working out pretty well for me, then again i love her

Reply

RE: private

and how many other guys lover her ??

Reply

RE: private

I'm sure many, she's amazing

Reply

RE: private

Over time I settled down to a couple of hosts...but often when they were not online or were in videos I would check out the new talent...the thing with 18 year old girls is they are making 'em fresh every day....

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

Burn Out

well it's time to pack up and leave, after awhile asking and chatting with so many host and with no luck here finding a wife, time to go somewhere else, cc has been great and a pleasure doing business with you. Good luck and yessa I will be back someday to follow up and to see if any new host appeared and willing to chat about love more instead of just getting naked and posing around.
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Burn Out

i wish you people quit telling other people that this is not the place for this, knowing it does work for me here--i have visit a lot of host from here and had great time there and here, just pick the right country is all I'm going to say--it works, now as for wife, yes I had offers from at least 4 girls from here that were interested in marriage, so get over it, doesn't mean it can't happen here, heck it can even happen with phone calls across the sea.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Burn Out

<< lol i guess they are from poor countries and of course need to find the way to move on >>

The usual assumption is that if a girl comes from a poor country, she must be playing with talk of love and marriage as a ticket out. But remember, these same girls work online as hosts which means they are very attractive. So just like any other host here, they will meet men here who will fall for them. And that means they can be equally selective about who they might decide to pursue a romance with. Just because they come from a poor country doesn't mean they're not looking for love too.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Burn Out

I keep coming back, and keep having fun. but then I already have a wife.

Reply

RE: Burn Out

hmm--I like this post, but I'm not burn out yet, i will keep asking-LMAO

Reply

RE: Burn Out

I am dumb founded by people unsuccessful in hooking up come on line and expect magic. It doesn't happen. This is a fantasy site. Enjoy it for what it is.

Reply

Happy Birthday!!!!

Happy Birthday Palopalo, May all your wishes and dreams come true!
Open thread

Reply

RE: Happy Birthday!!!!

happy bday PP , have a wonderful day , hope all your wishes come true.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

If you're paying a few hundred pounds (as in pounds English) for a hooker then you're being ripped off.

You sound really cheesed off with your time here :D haha
Brighten up ;)

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

mmmmmmm, I like cheese...

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

The true irony of your post being that now, as a 20-something, you will brag about the vitality of your youth. And you'll say others are envious of it, and you'll even declare how much its "worth" on the market to men of different ages. But I have a news flash for you. You're not immortal and you're going to age just like everyone else in life.

So I hope you're having fun now because soon you'll be 30 and your once 20-ish cute looks will harden. And by 35 or 40 they will wrinkle and fade. And in the blink of an eye, you'll be gray haired and 50 yourself, at which point I'm sure you'll change your view about age and what a person is worth in the course of their life.

I don't believe that love isn't determined by age or your income. And its not determined by the way that you look. TRUE LOVE is determined by what's in your heart and the person you are inside. That's what makes us human and it's what makes love special, hopeful and eternal, no matter who you are. Just my two cents.

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

i dont see nothing wrong to fall in love with man who is 51 ! what is difderence betweem 30 and 50. any person can be still younge in soul. and as well he can looking great if he care of his boyd. can be passionate ,interesting to talk with, and good lover , and others qualitys. for me age do not matter at all.and i even fall in love . i wanted this man so much! i thought about him 24.7all the time /// about parfuem skirt and so on yes we can buy it ourself so many as we want. but its still nice when they doing it:)

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

At the university I work in there are a thousand or more foreign students...mostly at the graduate level. Bright, attractive and in their 20's. Sure they day other 20 somethings but as a rule it seems they have their eye on the 30, 40 and yes 50 year old students who are working in a good job and also attending graduate school. Why? They have the money, maturity and emotional stability to offer the girls what they really want...total committment. I would guess 10-15 students get engaged to older students or even faculty over a year. Not a ton but most are with men at least 10 and sometimes 20 or more years older than them...and they are thrilled. Not for everyone...but for a clever girl who knows that life is short....it is their dream.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Life is short and those men 20 or 30 years older will soon die and leave their vast fortune to their 20 or 30 year old widow :)

Much of what Live Well says is true generally, but there are always exceptions. and to put everyone into the same box is a mistake. But reality is probably more in what she says than in what those who object to it are saying.

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Some of the older men who married yournger students have had children. I think older men make great fathers as well as husbands. And they will gladly will their money to their widow and children when they die. It is all part of the idea of providing not just love but security to your wife and family. I have not seen a lot of problem with these international marriages. The girls miss their friends and family but they call, talk on the internet and once they get their permanent green card because they are married to an American...they visit home. Here most of the young girls are not at the point where they want much beyond a hot young man....problem is when they do realize they may be not so hot themselves....

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

One thing I don't quite understand, You seem to have an assumption that foreign women (aka not USA) are desiring of marrying an older, well-off American man. I seriously doubt that young women in Romania, Russia, or wherever, are any more interested in marrying an older (20 or 30 years older, that is) man, than their counterparts in the USA or Canada. Youth desires youth is pretty much a given everywhere, it seems to me. Oh, to be sure, there are always a few who will be attracted to the older man, but by and large, I think they are the exceptions to the rule, not the rule, and the older guy regardless of how mature, economically stable or experienced he may be, just does not attract the younger woman

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

I'm sure these 18 to 22 women want guys close to their own age, but I think you'll find in many countries that there is a shortage of mature men in that age group. Most are only interested in drinking, local car shows, or video games at that age. When these guys start thinking about marriage and family in mid to late 20's they'll be looking for young 18-22 yo's not women their same age.

CNN did a story about men in Moscow and how they're not considered successful unless they had a mistress. I don't know how true this story was, but it's usually same story all over the world. Many younger women are attracted to weatthy successful older men.


Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Wealthy

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Wealth is relative. My 300k house doesn't make me attractive to women looking for million dollar estates. lol

I have a Russian friend who told me that 2 of her bf's were married at the time they dated. She says the men lied and didn't tell her they were married. Who knows? maybe, maybe not. I don't believe everything she tells me. lol. As far as I know those guys weren't wealthy, but they were in that young 20's age group that the original poster talked about.

What's the saying? "All the good ones are already married or gay"

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

I disagree. Working at a university I see the american women almost always with young american males. Some of them are idiots and jerks and of course those guys seem to be with the hottest girls.

Foreign students always graviate to the graduate students who are older. In the beginning it is because older men pay attention to them. Amazingly hot foreign women are invisible to young american men...they don't even bother talking to them. Also older men are not immediately out to get in their pants. They know they have to build a relationship, friendship and mustual respect because the bang each other's brains out. One more point. Most of the foreign women are not looking for a free ride but a way to enter US society quickly, get a good job, and live a happy secure life. The only complaint i hear now and then is the girls want to start bringing over their family...a long, expensive and tedious process....but most guys do it....the American way....

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Graduate students? We're talking 20-30 years older here. True, some grad students are in that age range, but most grad students from my observations at the university are only a few years older, some going immediately from undergrad to post grad work. And I seriously doubt that the majority of young women are desiring to come to these hallowed shores and begin a new life, leaving behind family, friends, familiar surroundings and native language. Some, yes. But most, no.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Life sucks and then you die

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Well the truth of the matter missy is that as women age their sex appeal drops like a rock. It does for men as well , but not nearly as severe as it is for women. And even after she snags a man she needs to keep her eyes open for younger girls stealing their man. And if young girls weren't enough to worry about, there is also the threat of other men stealing her man. The talking heads on TV like to talk about the autism epidemic but are too politically correct to mention the even faster growing number of gays in the population.

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

lol..i thought if man never been a gay he already will not turn in it then...was i wrong?

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Married men leaving their wives for other men has gotten so common in the US in the last 30 years, not one even notices any more. It is much more rare when a couple stays married

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

how about some statistics to bolster your statement?

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Haven't you heard? Some women have magical power to turn men gay! ;p

A man I know was married and had kids probably because he is oldest son in latin american family. Later in is 30's he came out and moved north to San Francisco from LA. He and his partner have a beautiful house together.

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

"Well the truth of the matter missy"????? Why are you so condescending? She speaks what is true for probably the majority of young women in the 20's. And whether or not a woman's sex appeal drops or not, the fact is young women will be attracted to young men.

Regarding your comments about gays... well, you are spouting nonsense. Gay is not a choice, it is a part of their sexuality and who they are. And as for men leaving their wives for men... welcome to the world of gay men finally being able to acknowledge who they are and to be willing to be honest about themselves and their sexual needs.

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

I see no problem with him being condescending given that her post was completely condescending itself. Give me a fucking break. The message of her post was to arrogantly declare "Screw guys who aren't my age. If you want me, it will cost you. Otherwise old fucks like you have no chance of being with a hot girl like me. So pay me and yank and enjoy the fantasy because your lives are really over." If that's her attitude and of other hosts, perhaps you'd all prefer if those of us who are 40 took our business elsewhere since you have such a low opinion of older men.

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

well, i'm 55 and I found no offense in what she said. If people would quit getting their nose bent all out of shape and really hear what a person is trying to say, this forum would be a whole lot better place.

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

OMG you should get out more and quit watching the tube...lol. I am a more mature woman here as a host on an occasion and I get more than enough attention here and in real life. I am confident, carry myself well and very attractive and very content. It never quits amazing me at the older I get the more young good looking men not to mention older attractive men approach me. I find it very amusing especially under 30 and they are totally serious about a relationship.
Listen, it is so easy to sit back and guess about things such as this but certainly there are no experts on women young or old here on these forums.....lol.
When men quit thinking that women think like they do.....then they'll have it figured out. Good Luck!
I have truly met only one man in my life time that understands that for a woman intimacy is to the key to wonderful sex and for a man a relationship without sex is nothing so why wouldn't he learn the simple key to women and have all he wants.....hhhmmmm guess that is too much work;)

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

hmm--all I got to say is BS, reading this Lol, you saying we men don't have a clue

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Exactly true my dear! If you knew the true secrets of what a woman wants you would not have to just oogle at them. It is intimacy that keeps a woman wanting you and a very sensual sexy relationship. Girls here turn on the switch when they are working and it is turned off the minute they get offline. The key is when you find a girl or a woman appeal to her intimate side (after attraction of course) and you will have no worries if you a responsible man. Make her feel beautiful and appeal to her intimate side and she will be happy and then you will also.
Sorry if that offends you....

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

When men quit thinking that women think like they do... well said!

As a younger man I thought physical intimacy was just the means to facilitating the Big One. The best indication that I was ready for sex was that my cock was hard lol. And after that, it was easy to focus on my own satisfaction, though I always cared how my partner felt.

By the same token, CC, and chatsites, and run-of-the-mill pornography in general, seem to be premised on this idea that you ride a rocket to orgasm. For the most part, guys here think that's what they're paying for. If you're lucky, maybe both you and your host reach the apex of flight, and that's it. Boom. Sex: all intensity and heat and explosion.

But a woman responds in different ways... many more ways... than men do. So maybe you don't just zero in on intensity, because that is how a man thinks. You don't assume that an erection is when the dance begins. Create the dance in a different way. Instead focus on igniting a slow burn that gradually suffuses your partner's whole body. Use your imagination.

This doesn't much resemble what passes for love-making on CC. Look, I am no Casanova. Just imparting my two cents. I'll go back now to hiding in the woods again...

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Thank you for your kind words.

The way sex is thought of here is screwed up, the same way love and romance are on CC. I'm not saying the feelings are always unreal, but the sharing... the physical intimacy... is simply not possible, obviously. We co-exist in our own little virtual worlds, and the intimacy, even if shared, is imaginary.

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Glad to read you again.Its been a while :)

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

Love your photos :))))

Reply

RE: ok,so here is the problem

I agree 100% with your comments. But you can't compare this site to the real world. Remember this is fantasy and just for fun.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

How do you use your favorites list?

For me, the favorites list is not really just a list of favorite hosts, but more of a possibility list -- hosts whom I come across when I'm browsing and think "This looks like a possible visit for me later."

Generally, when I'm browsing, I will look at the host's profile, category, price and of course her archived photos. If her photos are good quality (not blurry or fogged out), kept up to date -- recent (not 2 months old or older), and of course, if they trigger in me some desire to see her not just her picture, then I will add her to my favorites. Usually when I can't afford videochat, I will surf the categories that interest me and add several hosts to my fav list at a time.

That's my method.
Open thread

Reply

RE: How do you use your favorites list?

I use it along with mail alert to know when my favorites are on line and to keep a close eye on new photos

Reply

RE: How do you use your favorites list?

I'm the same way, use it as a prospect list

Reply

RE: How do you use your favorites list?

How long is your favorite list

Reply

RE: How do you use your favorites list?

mine is fairly long because i seem to be able to add faster than visit LOL. But if I manage to get a visit in and find the host unstimulating, she is removed. Some look absolutely great but have the presence of a dead fish in videochat. And if they haven't been online in a month or so they are likely to be removed. so the list is fluid for me

Reply

RE: How do you use your favorites list?

7 pages

Reply

RE: How do you use your favorites list?

After I spunk on their photo - and mail it to them, then I add them there to Favorites.

Thats way I keep track.

Reply

!!!

just to have dinner with your favourite host?( no sex etc ) some men do to it 4 me :P
Open thread

Reply

RE: !!!

No!

Reply

RE: !!!

No.
She can get off her ass and visit me.

Reply

RE: !!!

good for you. thank you for sharing :)

Reply

RE: !!!

only when I'm on tour in their country at that time and stop to visit and lunch.

Reply

RE: !!!

I knew a young host who was so happy a member she liked was going to travel a long distance to meet her in her country, until she learned he had also scheduled a visit with another host in her city too.

So, I'm sure they came all that way to meet only you. ;p

Reply

RE: !!!

There's one host that I would instantly hop on a plane for. Well... okay... she has to give me a little advance notice. I still need to get my passport in order. But I'd buy a ticket tomorrow just to see her and to take her on a nice, normal date. And I'd be willing to do it the reverse way, and buy a ticket to fly her to me. Or we could meet in the middle and I'd treat her to a fun Caribbean vacation. Because walking a beach at sunset seems like a great way to spend time together :)

Reply

RE: !!!

u must be one great cook! lol

Reply

who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

I just wanted to ask this question a lot before. who do you think the sexiest hollywood movie star in 1990? I have seen really lots of movies, and in my memory there are three other hot stars like Brooke Shields/Elisabeth Shue/ and Kimila Basinger. those girls have been appeard each on the blue lagoon/cocktail, leaving las vegas/ Nine half week etc. That was quite sensual on each roles. I think, still Brooke shields the most best for apperance, Elisabeth shue seem have nice personality but kim also beautiful & attractive. U can add more other actress like Julia Roberts, Nicole Kidmann and other movies stars. but these are three my memoriable actress here.
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Reese Witherspoon even with her slightly pointy chin.

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Angelina Jolie. Who the fuck is Kimila Basinger? Do you mean Kim Basinger?

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

i like that old lady from Titanic.

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

And for those of you who haven't seen it (i'm in envy of you!!)
the boat sinks, Jack die's.

Be done with it....
(3 god forsaken hours it took to tell us what we already knew, grrr)

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Looking absolutely awesome even as far as i know she has three kids, such a fabulous smart and humorous lady : Cybill Shepherd (remember the funny detectives Maddie and David?)

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

I'm with you on this. I didn't think anyone else would choose Cybill Shepherd. But she was my drool tool

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

+1

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

She never did a great deal of acting.... however.... :D

Paulina Porizkova was simply stunning to watch...

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

I was never a big fan of her later work, but I LOVED Paulina in "Her Alibi" with Tom Selleck. OMG, what a hotty she was in that. She just exuded that classic European "is she as innocent as she looks or is she really a very bad girl" type of sexuality. Now that I think of it, that was probably the movie that also made me a complete sucker for girls who talk in fractured English, while still keeping an accent from their home country. A girl with a voice like that drives me craaaaaazy.

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Definatelly Demi Moore :)

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Angelina Jolie

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Winona Ryder

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Im with you..... Winona Ryder....100%......she is still gorgeous today

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Lucy Lawless was hot also :)

But I think I liked here co-star Renee O'connor even better.

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Charlize Theron - OMG have you seen her in that recent perfume commercial?

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

Maria Bello hands down

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

well, we are still missing some actress like Sandra Bullock, Gwyneth Paltrow etc. well Meg Ryan . Reese Witherspoon isn't my type. too much small, and they are known as just cuty symbol with that hair style I guess, I'm not also big fan of Winona either, too much skinny & not good image with. How about the Kate Winslet or others??

Reply

RE: who is the sexiest hollywood actress 1990's ?

without a question, Traci Lords lol
thou i dont remember any of her 90's movies....

Reply

Love and romance fantasy on cc

OK kids I have a question. We all have seen post after post about falling in love and being played here. And other posters answer this is porn site or this is fantasy site. And I think everyone assumes this takes place in one of the adult categories. But what about Non Adult / Long Term or Marriage category? Come on folks this is a legitimate question. Years ago it was something else, like friends and family or something like that. But in my opinion it sends the wrong message.

Just my 2 centavos.
Open thread

Reply

RE: Love and romance fantasy on cc

Personally I think romance and love can happen here. However, it depends on what you think romance and love is. I happened to have experienced what i thought was love/romance here with someone on non-adult. both of us had very strong feelings for each other. had a "relationship" together, but always kept in mind that in reality the chances of it blossoming into something more was unlikely. Not only was distance a factor, but so was age, cultural differences, and personal goals. We always hoped, but for the most part we just enjoyed each others company. When she eventually found someone else in real life she told me about it. Was it painful? Of course it was. At least we were honest with each other. To this day we are still very close. She is still with that same schmuck (just kidding), and I have found a new friend in real life (no real commitment so thats why i still come here :P). By the way, this host was not into the money game. At least not with me.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Love and romance fantasy on cc

I think non-adult is in some ways incidious than adult. In adult the goal is clear...members want sexual stimulation and climax. In non-adult members are looking for companionship, friendship and affection. The chances of falling in love when seeking that is greater in my mind. The hosts motivation however is the same for non-adult or adult...money. Non-adult host consequently have to play the love card more in order to get and keep regulars. If that is what a member wants then fine...but they should be careful. Besides few non-adult host are truly non-adult as in the old days. Many will gladly switch to an adult category upon request. The competition is less in non-adult so girls stand out more and besides we all secretely like the fantasy of seducing a "nice" girl into doing something sexual....a wonderful fantasy and that drives CC and god bless them for it.

Reply

RE: Love and romance fantasy on cc

I love it when you guys keeping talking about this subject and hope some day you will fall in love me, I am ready to meet a member

Reply

what makes a good visit

i thought i'd give my little 2 cents worth on what i consider is a a good visit with a chat host and more importantly what makes me come back to visit her. maybe it can give a better insight for hosts about what some (not all) members look for here.

- pics. pics say a thousand words. if i can't see your face, i am not going to see you. simple but elegant pics really grab my attention. a pic for me is like a movie trailer. don't show the best parts. draw me in. make me want to see more.

- price. this is different for everybody. at this point it does not matter too much for me, but of course i have my limits. im definitely not a cheapskate, but more than 2 bucks for open chat is a bit too much for me.

- free txt chat. i usually come here to test the personality of a host. if i go there and the host immediately tells me to go to vid or wont answer any questions unless i go to vid then to me that is a bad sign. sometimes i give a host the benefit of the doubt. if she appears sincere and is inviting (not telling) me to go to video then i'll definitely take that into consideration. if a host has a great personality and does not even bring up video with me, then i freely volunteer to go to her video. chances are with these hosts i end up spending a great deal of time in video with her. i have seen in previous posts that many hosts hate free txt chat, but it is a way for members to screen hosts. i think hosts should use this to their advantage. hosts can also use it to get rid of those obnoxious members.

- open vid. here is my time to really get to know the host especially if im lucky enough to be the only member in the chat room. not only do i get to see the host in real time, but i can also see how she reacts to our conversation; does she smile, laugh, what kind of expressions does she make. all of this is important to me especially if i plan to come back. if she has no reaction to the conversation and is just out to give me a show then sure i'll take advantage of a good show, but most likely i will not return to this host.

- 121 video. if i have gone this far with a host, chances are the visit went really well. the show does not have to be the greatest experience of my life, but if the host is having as much fun as i am then for me that is a sign that i will be returning. also, the host will have made it to my favorites list which for me is a very selective list.

so, there you have it. this is my criteria for a good visit with a chathost. take it for what its worth.
Open thread

Reply

RE: what makes a good visit

I agree with most of your criteria and sentiments. Good honest post!

Reply

RE: what makes a good visit

It sounds to me like you are talking about a host in Glamour/Little Shy. And your advice is good. However in Instant Action we are talking about a whole new ball game. And you bring up a whole new issue, which is there are guys that come here more inclined to go with a softcore host than a hardcore host.

But as you know well, the lines get crossed by many hosts as they move between the softcore and hardcore categories. And I have observed a growing number of host's unwillingness to talk much or even at all in free chat. And we all know that after seeing archive pics and reading a host profile and deciding that we very interested and then are not able to chat for free we can become frustrated and only want to see her even more. You know the old axiom that guys want what they can not have?

Just my 3 cents

Reply

RE: what makes a good visit

i meet a few chathosts like that, and now im broke, so this would be my 4 cents if i had that much :p
In all seriousness, i agree with that post

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: what makes a good visit

personally, i like privacy. i dont want another member just coming in and trying to butt in on the experience. some members start to try to order the host around and for me it makes things less personable. again, this is my preference. some members just like a quick show of the goods and they're done. now, if im just horny as hell then i wouldnt mind a quick one so i can fulfill my urges. however, i really enjoy getting to know a host so that the experience can be a bit more personable. its nice to be remembered by the host especially if she can pick you out of a number of members.

so, to answer ur question, i prefer the privacy of 121, but i will not object to a quick show in open chat depending on how horny i am :P.

Reply

RE: what makes a good visit

I agree the pics are important. It is amazing how many beautiful, sexy girls have lousy pics...particularly their main pic. On the other hand some not so hot hosts have done amazing things with their pics. But pics and lots of them is preferred. And the pics should give a sense of what the host is willing to do. If a host has pics fully dressed then I will think...oh boy...it will be a struggle to get the clothes off this girl...and often it is not. Conversely if the host is half dressed and she refuses to strip...you have to ask...then why the pics?

Price is always a factor...I like volume...variety and high prices kill me...I do have favs but there is a limit I am willing to spend on a single video. Hosts must make the decision as to what is their "equilibrium price". For those hosts who are economics majors they know what I mean....that price is optimum...lower and they have to do more videos to make the same money...higher and they do less video but the price is a barrier to any videos at all.

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: a question to members

when i see a low price usually i think why not visit her . its a good thing . when i see a high priced host whom i dont know i will think maybe someday i will see her but not today.

Reply

RE: a question to members

Low price does not indicate low quality to me, but I would guess that she does not work for a studio. That may mean her connection is slower, and perhaps less reliable. One of my faves has some troubles this way, but she is still a fave.

Above a certain price I simply won't visit a host. I can't afford it.

Reply

RE: a question to members

As in any goods or services offered to the profit, price is a reflection of supply and demand. In the case of a newer host, she hasn't worked out her price point and may be too high or too low.

Also there is a wide difference of opinion on what constitutes a good host and what makes a host bad. I could make a long list of what hosts I consider over rated and others I consider under rated. And every member could do the same.

But I do think lower priced hosts do more volume and generate more interest overall than those higher priced hosts. I've also noticed some pricing flexibility from some hosts. In my opinion all viewers are price buyers to some extent.

Reply

RE: a question to members

No, price is no measure for quality of host.
Profile-Picture is important to me (and fortunately some nice pictures brought me to a few "low-priced" hosts)

Reply

RE: a question to members

I agree with other replies, a low priced host rarely means low quality! You rarely see complaints about low priced hosts in forums :-) I have had some wonderful times with low priced hosts. IF a price is too high (my own definition) then I will definitely not go to that host, no matter how good she looks or how many stars she has.

Reply

RE: a question to members

No price does not reflect quality.

Reply

RE: a question to members

If I find a host who is pretty, nice body, decent english and nice personality at a low price I think two things...1 I hit the lottery and 2. I better do as many videos with her as I can because her price will go up. Many of my favorites were lower priced hosts...rarely have I seen price related to quality.....I have seen some very expensive dogs and some reasonably priced hosts I would hop on the next plane to Perm to marry...... the issue is communicating your price. Put it in your profile...put is where people can see it....go to Comm Chat...etc. Promote yourself...you are a businesswoman...

Reply

RE: a question to members

High price indicates a rip off to me. for each catagory, I have amaximum price. If girl is over that, I never even look. I can find lots of great girls under my limits.

Reply

RE: a question to members

Price has nothing to do with quality here. In fact it can be the opposite EG an expensive host charging $3-4 can be a complete waste of time & money but ur $30-40 down before u realise the host is a lazy greedy waste of money . I dont need to spend more than $1.50 infact 1.50 is too expensive. I see a high priced host I think 'lazy time waster & walk the other way.

Reply

RE: a question to members

3 of the best hosts I have ever seen here were priced very low, but were great hosts to be revisited often. I told them they should raise their price coz they were so great

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: Tell the truth

That's why I'm glad I'm an old pervert. I do not have the problem with hosts falling for me and even if I did fall for them they would never entertain the idea :P

Reply

RE: Tell the truth

having a crush on a site like this will always mess with your head and the questions you ask yourself are endless, since the possibility of being played or used is always up in the air. however, that goes both ways. but you're right, time will tell what's real and what isn't. I believe that if you keep an open heart and mind and try to see beyond the little things and your own subjective point of view that will make this place a much more enjoyable experience. sadly, most of us (members and hosts altogether) tend to lose our head once we get emotionally involved and things rarely work out, for various reasons.
all in all you can only hope for the best and not put everything so close to the heart.

Reply

RE: Tell the truth

I agree with my fellow old pervert INYF. We'd both get shot down by even Helen Keller, even if we were billionaires. Its so much better to be old and stupid than young and stupid. With old age comes a very peaceful feeling and you're not worried if you can't get it up with a crane. It doesn't matter. The greatest physical feeling I get these days is when I take a really good dump. I love my prune juice.

Reply

RE: Tell the truth

A great post in many respects but maybe u put just a tad too much information in there.

Reply

RE: Tell the truth

Assume everyone is lying until they step off a plane in your country to meet you, your family and friends...even then be cautious. If they love they will find a way to make it real and prove it...otherwise it is hot air.

Reply

All my Favs Tell the truth!

I am surprised at all this whining about lying hosts or lying members. I have a few fav hosts (some married, some single), and all tell the truth. Sometimes they tell me none of my business, which is fine. But I do not think I am lied to. I tell them the truth, but never my last name, and no one has asked. I do not expect to meet, but some times joke about it. I know they are here for $$, and I am here for sex and company. We have good, honest, relationships, and are friends within limits.
Open thread

Reply

RE: All my Favs Tell the truth!

Congratulations :)

The smartest thing i have heard anyone say recently,
Much respect :)

Reply

RE: All my Favs Tell the truth!

you just never caught them.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: All my Favs Tell the truth!

Yes, there is entirely too much whining lately. "Don't Worry, Be Happy"

Reply

RE: All my Favs Tell the truth!

Well stated thread starter

Reply

RE: All my Favs Tell the truth!

Hosts and members have no motivation to tell the truth. Hosts will say whatever lead to more and longer videos. Members will say whatever to get a sexier show or to enhance the girl friend fantasy. Fantasy site = everything is a fantasy...not real....

Reply

RE: All my Favs Tell the truth!

I have a motivation to tell the truth: It is easier! My memory aint good enough to lie consistently. I get great shows from great girls by being nice, and paying for the show.

Reply

RE: All my Favs Tell the truth!

I have one host i'm Emotionally attached to and Physcially i have no problem if she is entertaining guys with her sexy body but the fact she lies about it and won't do it for me bothers me. SO honesty is pretty important i made a fake account and went and saw her it was hot and i liked it but I still don't like the fact she lies to me about it and won't do it for me. SO honestly girls be honest!

Reply

RE: All my Favs Tell the truth!

So you lied to her in order to determine she was lying to you. I see a healthy relationship here, only getting better with time I'm sure.

Reply

well,

to another viewer who wrote about me on the viewer forum.

Well, U didn't visit me last few days, because I was off from here.

and there wasn't any guest for me.

So, there wasn't the reason that I had to block someone.

Please don't put any other wrong things about me there now.
Open thread

Reply

RE: well,

Hi,
I never visited you, so i dont really know how you behave with viewers.
But now you are posting, can you explain why so many viewers are telling that you have blocked them without any good reason?
Or is it possible that your boss block these viewers when they become too close to you?
Not really my problem, was just wondering this after reading so many complaints, and still you write here that u havent blocked anyone.

Reply

RE: well,

then why did you block him ?

Reply

RE: well,

guys will you leave her alone and let her work and do whatever she wants to do, why do you all really care that much who she blocks and dont block or better yet, why are some of you acting like her with thses silly post in forums. The way you all talk about this woman I would blocked you too.

Reply

RE: well,

please do block me :p

Reply

RE: well,

batman she started the post and how busy can she really be when 90% of the members r blocked?

Reply

RE: well,

yes thomas she has to answer any post members put on here that cuts her now and I have heard you say it to, so leave it alone, and how do you actually know she blocks 90 percent of viewers, I am american and she doesnt block me.

Reply

RE: well,

I just dont think that is a good idea for you to come here ask members to dont post they negative opinions abt you.

Reply

RE: well,

So I went and read the post. Interesting. Didn't seem to be too negative. Just someone asking about others experience. But you say it's not true? Don't worry about it then. I think you look really good for your age, and would imagine you have lots of followers.

Reply

RE: well,

ya, right even having dating with 20-21 too :)

Reply

RE: well,

Yuki, you are a very pretty and very desirable woman. And I would love to have been among your loyal fans, but when I had a different username a year or so ago, you blocked me and I never did understand why.... I think it was because you had misinterpreted something that I had said about you in the forums at that time. Before and since then I have noticed many viewers complaining about being blocked by you. But had things turned out differently, I would most likely have been one of your greatest fans.

Reply

RE: well,

really? oh, well I don't know Who U r, but now my english is much better :)

Reply

RE: well,

You need improve with your attitude first.

Reply

RE: well,

if U don't like myself, then don't visit me, I don't give a fuck

Reply

RE: well,

Is that an invitation to come back? :)

Reply

RE: well,

Not sure I would tell that.. Unless you want to be known as "Yuki the Cougar" :)

Reply

RE: well,

well, not sure what U're talking about, but I know their skin is different from ur old guys..

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: well,

why U care, if U don't like me? ya, my english much better since I had english bf here :)

Reply

my brain??

my barin iq is 145 since I checked young, I think, U just need to stop who is not ur favoriate to complain & judge, that U don't like at all :)

Reply

Little Black Book

It's time to turn in my little black cc host book or burn it, I will give you first choice of having it or If you don't wont it, I will burn it. I been here 3 years and have about 12 host names in it that are very beautiful, sexy, fun to chat with and video with. You might ask or wonder why 12, well 12 was 1 special host per month I did love having special time with and you ask why now I give this book up, well I finally fell in love and don't need this book anymore. So if you are interested in this book, leave your name here and I will ccmail this to you.
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Little Black Book

I will take it, don't burn it

Reply

RE: Little Black Book

Longtime viewer of 3 yrs??? wow and all of 12 names??? wish u luck tho and hope u found what ur looking for:) Oh btw was she from here:P

Reply

RE: Little Black Book

??? What ??? you are leaving? Who will I spar with? :(

Oh well, I wish you well

Reply

WTF? I got gamed too...

Been chatting with a host for a month. Said she was single. Told her she could tell me the truth, but she kept saying she was single. Really liked chatting with her cause I thought she was sweet. Other day she tells me she likes me for real, but I read the warning posts here about hosts and tactics they use. Last night we were chatting and she screws up. Said things about herself that didn't match what she had told me before. Got into a fight and she finally confessed she does have a boyfriend. WTF? Why do hosts always play this game? Now I feel like our chats were bullshit, so she loses my business. If a guest asks for the truth why not tell it? Why is it a big fucking deal to hosts to admit they have a husband or boyfriend?
Open thread

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

«Why is it a big fucking deal to hosts to admit they have a husband or boyfriend?»

Right on. It's not like i give a flying f*** if they do or don't, it's their business only, but i find it quite annoying when they just lie about it.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

You might not care, but others do, and she banks on giving them a fantasy.

If she is going to keep up the illusion, it is easier to tell the same lies to everyone. If she selective lets the truth out she might slip up with the wrong guy, or you might talk to each other.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

FIRST OF ALL you need to be ethical , if not you dont deserve our money....

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

Most business and industries have some kind of business ethics. Same should go here. I agree with the OP. If I, the paying customer, ask for the truth I would expect that. I expect that from my service providers in my regular job as well. Nothing different here.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

"Most business and industries have some kind of business ethics"....eh, were do you live... see wappon industry, oil- .., financial- ...(especially the bangsters), the food-..., chemical-... and last but not least the pharma industry... only some examples how far industrial business has not anything to do with ethics! And here: to lie or not to lie is still the question...

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

i agree whith what you said. about the job ethics, but i think it can't be directly related to the first post. nowhere on our job description says that we have to share private details of our life with anyone who asks us. its a more or less sexual fantasies site. not a dating one when one should be actualy concerned about whats going on in your kitchen. and speaking of ethics.. when we registed here we agreed not to exchange personal details with members, meet them for sex.. and so on.. so what ethics are you talking about? how would you feel like if some random ppl u come in contact with doing your job would start asking you private details about your kids, wife and so on?.. weird.. huh?

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

it's a fantasy site here not fairtrade coffee, you want the hosts to tell the truth? tell u that your an ugly m.f. tell u that ur sexual ideas are either preverted or boring, that she's not in the least interested in ur name or what ur mood is, tell u that ur c*ck is the smallest she has seen? i could go on but i won't

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

No need to go on Joe. I think we got your point lol

Although I'm sure there are some members that would pay good money to hear just that :P

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

don't trust anyone 100% on the internet .. you can be soo sure they are honest with you and bam like you said. It goes both ways

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

well I am a member and I lie to host about not being married, so they can fulfill my wildest dreams

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

i got to agree with that, this is a site for fantasies, and if the girl you're having the fantasy about says she has a b/f its very off putting. I think a lot of us member know it in the back of our minds but to have it out in the open destroys the atmosphere. I think is it basic psychology as alot of men are competitive and the idea of another guy having sex with the girl of our fantasises is a little off putting!

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

you lying sack of ships.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

I dont care if ur married or not! I prefer to begin honest as once, If u or any host continue liar then hosts will lose more and more with members in future cause they sick and tired of playing the game!!!!

Your choice Honest or Liar?

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

Umm, asking whether or not you are single isn't exactly wanting to know your life story.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

If they admit they have a boyfriend, then it would be hypocrite for them to come and judge married viewers... but when they say they are single, they can act saint and tell how much they despise mens who come here when their wifes are away or sleeping.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

Not really. One is a job the other is for sexual gratification with a person other than their spouse.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

well i think she really doesn't have a bf.when you think she screwed up the other day wasn't that.she just set the trap so you & her could argue & she will have a clear mind about not being friends anymore..most likely she became bored &/or a little scared of you.it happens to us all,sadly it happened with me,but what made it worse it was my family (( remember on earth only 2 things never forget,elephants & women,the difference being women have much softer tusks :--)

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

Yeah I even discovered some host who told me she was single and a virgin to boot, was married and had kids.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

I don't care if a host is single or married. Its none of my business. I never ask. I only care if they lie about what they will or will not do in pvt.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

I dont want virtual sex with married girls or with girls who have BFs. When they lie to me and we have vsex they cause violation of principles. Condemnation upon them!!!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

Okay the reason for you leaving may have been because of the lie but, from her view, you may have just proved her point.. When she was single you videod with her and now that you found out she has a bf you stopped.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

Assume you're being lied to. It's that simple. Up until the point that you've got you're cock inside her, assume everything else is a lie. I've f*cked several hosts here and until I'm alone with them in bed I assume everything's a lie. Why anyone would believe otherwise is a mystery to me.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

something more fun about getting that married or attached woman to fall for ya though :)))

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

Unless you are the husband/BF of the married/attached host - then it is no fun at all I assume.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

I TOTALLY DISAGREE

Hosts will always defend themselves by saying: "I'm just here to do my job. So if I create a fantasy…and a guest falls for it…that's his problem, not mine." But it is a problem when it goes TOO far. That's why I agree with Host (up above) because she brought up an important point. There is a BIG difference between a guy who only visits to see a sexy show VERSUS a guy who keeps coming around because he's developed feelings for the host, and now he's looking for a real relationship. So when it becomes OBVIOUS that a guest has reached that point, THAT is when a host should tell the truth.

I know hosts are here to make money. And I know they love regulars. But they shouldn't lead a guy on either. So when a guest says "Are you REALLY single? Because I like spending time with you, and I want the truth" -- that is when a host should admit she has a husband or boyfriend. Or even admit she is single, but already has someone in her life and is romantically taken. Either way, she should let the guest know she's NOT interested in his overtures. So if he wants to keep visiting for fun...no problem. But if he's only taking her private to romance her...she needs to let him know ASAP it's NOT going anywhere and he should move on.

Reply

RE: I TOTALLY DISAGREE

When a host can see that a member is becoming attached on a personal level then it is time for to either tell him she is not interested and take the chance of losing him as a regular or especially if she is in a committed relationship....that would be the honest, ethical thing to do. This site is not all about money it is all about people. :)

Reply

RE: I TOTALLY DISAGREE

Big Dumb Ape is 100% right. Why should a guy have to be a regular and spend hundreds of dollars to get the truth about a host being single? That's ridiculous. No host should mislead a guest for that long of a time. Agree is also 100% right. This site is not only about money, it's about people. So it is bad ethics for a host to mislead a guy who has feelings and to not set him straight. It all goes back to the original question: why is it such a big fucking deal for hosts to admit they have a husband or boyfriend or a love interest in their life when asked? Guests pay hosts to create a fantasy for the time they are in one-to-one. But once you leave that room and the credit card is turned off, fantasy time is over. So there is no reason for the host to continue the "I'm single" lie since she and the guest are back to reality and their real lives.

Reply

RE: I TOTALLY DISAGREE

I will agree that, if a host who is in a relationship realises a member is developing feelings for her she should set him straight. However there are some members who do not want the fantasy to be broken when they leave the video. There are also some members that will not video with a host if they know she is in a relationship.

You also say "Guests pay hosts to create a fantasy for the time they are in one-to-one." Then surely once the one-to-one is finished the host has done her job and her private live is none of the guests business.

Reply

RE: I TOTALLY DISAGREE

You raise a few good points, INYF, so I'll meet you halfway. As long as a guest can maintain a grip on reality, it is fine for a host to keep the fantasy she has created alive. So long as the guest is visiting for fun, no harm is done. Where I think we can agree is that once a guest crosses the reality line and he starts to have feelings, then it's best for all involved to set him straight. However that brings us to a different problem which Only A Stranger mentioned. Most hosts will string a guest along for as long as possible, regardless of the situation, to turn him into a regular. To most hosts the economic equation is simple: money first plus money second equals the truth when a wallet runs dry.

Reply

RE: I TOTALLY DISAGREE


What about the kind who'll only hear what he wants despite what the host is telling him? like those that the more you reject the more keen they are on you. Could be a bless or a curse :)

And here's a fair and simple translation when it comes to women and their responses:
a. Maybe = No
b. No = Hell no !
c. Yes = Maybe

=p

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: OK.Meet a woman in the cafe, talk 5 minutes with her

Maybe things are different in Europe and you are more prim and proper. But in America, a man will meet a woman and if he is attracted to her, in the first conversation, you can bet he will find a way to ask if she's married or seeing someone. When I've met women (out riding, in a bar, supermarket, department store) I've never had any problem working that question in. And I've yet to meet any woman who was offended by such a simple question. But maybe things are different in Europe which is funny because I always thought Europeans were more open or sexually liberated that us.

Reply

RE: OK.Meet a woman in the cafe, talk 5 minutes with her

wow really?
I find viewers from usa come with the weirdest and freakiest requests

Reply

RE: I TOTALLY DISAGREE

"So when it becomes OBVIOUS that a guest has reached that point, THAT is when a host should tell the truth."

BUT THIS IS EXACTLY WHEN THE GOOD MONEY START COMING IN! WHY MISS ON IT BY TELLING THE TRUTH?!

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

This thread should be made sticky so that all of those who come here looking for more than just adult fun could read it again and again...

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

I heard host defend her right to lie because it would take food from her baby if she told truth

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

There's a sucker born every minute

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

Can you name a place on earth where so many beautiful sexy women would be single? Host feel that members will be more atttracted to them if they say they are single...and it works that way. You want to meet a nice Russian girl...come to my university..there are scores of them as exchange students....meet them in person...flesh and blood...real dates...real chat...real relationship...jeez.

Reply

RE: WTF? I got gamed too...

glam host hide behind video playback maybe this tread ?

Reply

I Feel the Passion (song)

Trying to come up with a new song and maybe-just maybe I could use some input if your interested in co-writing a verse in the song. (Title) "I feel the Passion". In the Dictionary passion can mean any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate (we will leave the hate part out). Strong amorous feeling or desire; love; ardor.
Strong sexual desire; lust. An instance or experience of strong love or sexual desire. A person toward whom one feels strong love or sexual desire. Now to get this song started I have a few verse's in it already.
" To know the pain of too much tenderness"
"To be wounded by your own understanding of love"
Open thread

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

subtitled"the need for flashin' " :--)

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

p.s to get you started
to grip,grope,grind & sometimes find.too often you will go blind :--)

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

Austin turns to Chaser with his gold in his hand, said Chaser you're lookin at a lonely man, I'd trade all the gold that's buried in this land for one small band of gold to place on sweet little angelina jolie hand. cause a man needs a woman to love him all the time, remember Chaser a true love is so hard to find, I'd build for my angelina jolie a honeymoon home below that old white mountain just a little sout-east of Nome. Wait you said a verse, sorry my friend, I got carried away with North to Alaska, by the way its cool hearing you writing again.

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

from anyone ekse but you aus,they would be passionate,romantic lyrics.however coming from you,it's just more evidence in aj's stalking case against you :--)

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

austin anytime you want to stalk me and sing about gold to me, come and see me.

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

welcome back Chaser--here is my verse for your song.
when you feel the passion, take me to the place where no one has been

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

My darling I, can't get enough of your love babe
Girl, I don't know, I don't know why

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

the place none has been,is that the last chance hotel :--)

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

Mr Chaser were you been hiding , with Caras mom in romania ?

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

daisymae my love I feel the passion (song verse of course0

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

Dude-ly Thats Not Passion - Thas Last Nights PIZZA!!!!

Reply

RE: I Feel the Passion (song)

love me all the way to the bank

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

to anknown guest

Well, when I searched for the username, when U entered me, it wasn't in my list, who visited me. so I did.
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

I have to give you credit if you actually understood Yuki's post.

And as an American, I find that my "thirst" for a fast and easy show rises with the price. ;) Charge reasonably, and a very patient and fair viewer this American shall be. What's your nick, btw?

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

I find it we americans are here for entertainment so what is pay for and how long the video is we should be entertain, we are not here for social or a dating site, thats what I love about CC. I can choose who I want to video and chat with and not put up with a lot of non-sense.

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

Let's rock the house. If the chat happy high priced hosts here are "not in the mood", there are many other places to find girls that are.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

When I was in East Europe I got tired of being pick-pocketed by your countrymen. After a few times I nearly cut that thiefs 2 fingers off while he was still in my pocket. He and the police wanted to know why I did that. So I asked them why do you pick pocket me when I visit your country? The answer I got was:

WE ARE POOR BUT ALL AMERICANS ARE RICH AND YOU WON'T MISS THE LITTLE WE TAKE.

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

Well now we know where so many of the attitudes come from on here when less than honesty is the case. Shaking head....amazing.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

i don't come here to have my brain stimulated. don't make this site out to be more than it is. if i want to chat up a girl and find out all about her and get intellectually intimate with her, this is not the place to do it. i am polite and respectful to the girls here, just as i am to anyone i interact with that provides a service I AM PAYING FOR.
if you think americans are rude feel free to block the entire country.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

Right on brother. You are de man dean! We are PAYING customers

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

"if i want to chat up a girl and find out all about her and get intellectually intimate with her, this is not the place to do it."

well if that's what you want, er, rather, don't want, then fine. But if someone else desires it, then that's fine too, This site is what it is, and what members and hosts make of it. So if someone wants to pay for chatting up a girl and knowing all about her and getting intellectually intimate with her, that's their business.

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

heyyy,you need to realise.being reasoned,logical,considered & thoughtful isn't acceptable to these members who find it hard to say hi & bye to their fists as they wrap it round their manhood for the 30 second dash. :--)

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

He was only stating what he came on site for not what you or anyone else was here for. EEH was clearly slamming American viewers. All we suggested was to block the entire country and her problem is solved. And American viewers could go to hosts that were happy to have us spend our money in their pvts.

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

oh, U're jayG not JayZ? well, was listening southern crunk rap. maybe U can join me :)

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

just a guess but bet it's about the latest blocked viewer

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

in general american's opinion of their country,is like their delusions about their manhood.overblown,overstated,overhyped & ultimately disappointing :--)

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

well, I don't have any problem with americans. and as long as I know, an american has russian/asian at the same time :)

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

and they say us Americans are rude, after reading this post from a Europeean host I have to say Americans are not the only ones that are rude in here, anyway i agree with dean-maybe you should ignore all Americans since we are the rudest and i do get your point about this post and i have no problem with it-thats why we Americans do believe in "Freedom of Speech" -good lost east europeean host

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

I agree 100%. If any host, for any reason would prefer not to have Americans in her pvt, just block the whole country. There are 4.2 million porn sites on the net and over 13 million cam girls. I think we can find a few that would be happy to have us spend our money in their pvt.

I'd bet the farm this host is in Glamour and blocks viewers for just politely asking for an erotic nude show. I'm blocked from half of the rooms in Glamour, so I have no doubt she blocked me.

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

What is the provenance for those statistics on the number of porn sites and cam girls?

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

i think it's called "exaggeration" for effect. But it's probably pretty close LOL

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

Since we Americans (Al the moonbeam Gore specifically) invented the internet - you really do owe us more since you make your living and feed your face from the fruits of our invention.

Touchee

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

More historical revisionism by the US. Ok the bit about Al Gore is no doubt a joke, but you presumably believe the rest. If anybody can be singly credited with inventing the internet it is actually Tim Berners-Lee, an Englishman.

Reply

RE: to anknown guest

I was using the internet before 1989 when your guy is 'credited with inventing the internet'. US DARPA

Reply

Good Samaritan

A guy was sitting at the bar as was so drunk his head kept hitting the bar..

A group of guys notice his condition and decide to be good Samaritans and take him home. First they tried to stand him up in order to get to his wallet so they can find out where he lives. But he keeps falling down. He fell down eight more times on the way to the car. Each time he fell , he would scream something they could not understand.

After they get to his house, he falls down another four times as they take him to the front door.

His wife comes to the door, and one guy says, "We brought your husband."

The wife asks, "Where's his wheelchair?"
Open thread

Reply

RE: Good Samaritan

Good one!

Reply

RE: Good Samaritan

LOL I like that one

Reply

RE: Good Samaritan

Thanks for the Good Samaritan, by the way was a good one.

Reply

RE: Good Samaritan

that was wheely good :--)

Reply

RE: Good Samaritan

that was bad taste of words tisme

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Good Samaritan

Yeh kind of like the old joke:
Child: "Mommy, Mommy, why do I keep walking aound in circles?"
Mommy: "Shut up, kid, or I'll nail your other foot to the floor!"

Reply

How Cold Can It Get?

I just got off the phone with a friend living in Minnesota, near the Canadian border.
She said that since early this morning the snow has been nearly waist high and is still falling.
The temperature is dropping way below zero and the north wind is increasing to near gale force.
Her husband has done nothing but look through the kitchen window and just stare.
She said that if it gets much worse, she may have to let him in :--)
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: How Cold Can It Get?

haha, good one :)

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: How Cold Can It Get?

verbose but actually made me laugh! lol

Reply

Fact of the day (stolen from the bbc)

Top hats have been fashionable for almost 200 years, but when the first one was worn in 1797 by James Heatherington, he was immediately arrested and fined 50 pounds for behaving in a manner 'calculated to frighten timid people'.

Personally i would have said.. top hats were fashionable for almost 200 years and i know this may come as a surprise to our Eastern friends but the English don't walk around London wearing top hats or even bowler hats.
Open thread

Reply

RE: Fact of the day (stolen from the bbc)

"fact of the day"

If this is gonna be a regular thing, could you make tomorrows interesting please...

Reply

RE: Fact of the day (stolen from the bbc)

i'll ask the bbc but i can't promise anything

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Fact of the day (stolen from the bbc)

this is the best I can do, maybe we should discuss glamour category, prices, or meeting host

Reply