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is here??
and will you be kind enough to keep it there and not here? :-D

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RE: snow- Part one

snow has been here for some time now. do you want some more??? I'lll share

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Hey some of the hosts in Comm Chat are always saying they are naked, horny and oh so hot. Give them some to sit on so they can cool downt.

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snow what :--))

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...and the seven dwarfs :)

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love to meet you in person for sure Freeda :-D

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hmmmm

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i am not mondo... so no need for his wife to worry :P

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sure would move heaven & earth to be there.if nothing else it would be great learning experience & would make me a more worldly person.when is it freeda?

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I think all the hosts would show up. They are young and they are always up for a party and who knows? I think you would see a lot fewer members. They are old and fat but smart enough to realize that it would be a waste of time to attend. Then there are the block of members who are married. I think that would leave you with the group of young members who are so emotionally and socially inept they have to come to CC. And don't forget the handful of real headcases that come here. So a few shy nerda and some nuts. Party on dude.

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I'm in, when is it?

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what's wrong with us old fat guys?

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really now, do you want me standing beside you staring at your breasts?
or running around (K) DM an shy and all my friends while waving my banananas an throwing my potatoes?

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er...(K) me and DM....jonny..u finally lost the plot man

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Perhaps. But only for the chance that I might meet a real-live Mexican dog-faced boy up close and in the furry flesh.

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of course it would be great to meet up and party. we are one big family after all.

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there are some hosts and members who are actually friends and I was meaning those as the familly

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very loving family i must add :))))))))

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A few years ago, didn't a host meet up with a member and she ended up murdered?

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How much will it cost us? lol

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$1.50 a minute

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Great idea, just the two of us. :D

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Neverending story:P

Once upon a time there was a girl...
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who was very cute :)

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and a kind Knight reset it :)

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he is cute and big :P but she is much attractive :-))

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is very cute.... a hot sexy and cute one :-D

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me... but it might be she for sure :-) care to share who she is? :-)

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of course not... but just to see if she is really she or maybe it could be you... that is the cute girl from the story :-D

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the end of story :))

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alone... she is going to play with the little cute girl now :-D

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AND THEY ALL DIED!!!!
hmmmm...guesss someone read my forum.....

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The pretty cute witch did not die!!! :-D

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crap... just looked at your forum and the story is at least half a page long... cool :-)

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how long is neverending? you think we can get it to at least 3 pages :P

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even the"neverending story" ended.that's why they made"neverending story2 :--))

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where's littlesonya?

Anyone know what happened to littlesonya? Haven't seen her for a long time!
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in my back pocket... she is so little she fits perfect :)

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RE: where's littlesonya?

hmmm, haven't seen here either, wonder what's up ???

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To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

If you have to hide your cc habit from a spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend... then you are cheating on them.
Just as if you had someone on the side in real life... you would hide them also... same applies to online.
If you do not feel you are cheating and still hiding it... go up stairs tell that specail someone... hunny, come on down stairs... want to share something with you.
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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

thanks i didn't realise that

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

You haven't thought this through good enought have you?
Because you sure as hell don't know what your talking about!

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

So you are saying when you hide something sex related from a loved on… you are not being deceitful?

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

A few lines down in this tread.
Well said it ........ well!
Is the original poster a relationship or sex therapist???
There are no bottom lines!
People have the right to make choices and live thier own lifes!
To be fair you have to consider other points of view.
Also why is the original poster at CC making this statement???
I would say to whoever this person is, if they have guilt about
comming here that is their problem!
People like this try to feel better by trying to spread their guilt to others
or even putting others down.
Disturbing to say the least!

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

You do realize he/she only continued a subject from a earlier thread right? As for having not bottom lines… sure there are… we run into them everyday in our lives…. Sometimes we see it, other times we don’t.
Of course people have the right to make their own choices and to live their own lives. I do not think he/she was trying to change your life, mine or anyone else’s here. I think it was just a statement rather then someone saying… “if you are married, you are quilty to be here and you need to leave now”
Of course if they have quilt about coming here… it their problem, just as your quilt for coming here is your problem. From your words in the post I am starting to wonder if he/she hit a nerve with you. Could they have put the truth on the table about your own marriage… and now you are the one feeling quilty?

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

hmmm, its like this.
Touched a raw nerve? You bet!
Now that I know how corrpupt these institutions are that
force fed me the idea that sex or even thinking about sex
outside of marrige was wrong.
It is so great to feel free in my thinking and not have guilt!!!
I want this for everyone!
I have never been married and do not have a relationship at
this time. When I do, that is the time to build a foundation of trust with the woman I love.
You can't blame CC for promblems between couples or failed relationships. These problems were there before .
CC is a place for chathosts to earn money, fun and helps people to better cope with their lifes.

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

Is that a nerve I feel being touched?

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

i felt real bad after reading this so i went upstairs to tell her i am on cc and what do i find???? she is on cc too at Boy Home Alone!!!!!! :-(

LOOOOOL

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

you two can share cc together... glad you know she is dreaming of another also :P

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

Jesus said, if you look with lust, you have already commited adultery in your heart.

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

If a member is happily married and many are but their wives are menopausal or otherwise not interested in anything sexual anymore then coming here is a good option. Better than a prostiture or an affair. What you have is personalized video porn here. If a wife would not object to her husband going into the bathroom with a Playboy magazine why should she object to a 5 minute video online? She probably prefers not to know the details from either method of relief.

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

perfect answer Well. It probably covers most guys that are here.

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

Dude, didn't your best friend while growing up go by the name "Boner"?

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

cool, so oogling, drooling, and thumbing my weiner through my pants pocket is ok then. yippee!:p

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RE: To all those who are married or in a relationship outside of here

do that with your wife standing by your side you are very disrespectful for sure!

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asiancutie20s slave

i amslave to mistress jirah for about 3 months now. i find her the best mistress i have found here in 5 yrs of visiting this site. she is beautiful charming and real princess. While she enjoys entertaining other viewers she is particularly interested in developing her dominant side. this is just a message to those guys who enjoy being dominated or wish to find an asian mistress, she is well worth checking out. I promise you will wont be diappointed, she demands respect but is very exciting. her personal preference are shoe and pantyworship (she has a wonderful collection! good luck
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no quite genuine actually

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RE: asiancutie20s slave

What host wouldn't like to boss around some spinless wimp and tell him to look at her feet for 10-15 min? Talk about easy money.
Hey sucker....opss..I mean slave...look at my shoes and give me $20 you worm!

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are you a beautiful 22 asian girl with body to die for?

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Curious men?

any horny nasty men in central NC?
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RE: Curious men?

gete is looking for someone... might be willing to travel to you or maybe you would visit him?

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RE: Curious men?

Duke University is full of them. Just ask the poor girl the lacrosse team raped.

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RE: Curious men?

you mean that aren't involved in a relationship with a cousin or getting ready to apear on the Jerry Springer Show?

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How

Members and wankers only.

When do in a video and you need to let fly do you

Do you do it seated at the computer in a computer chair with...
Fly open only?
Pants partially down?
Pants completely off?

Do you always sit or do you stand for the finale?

Do you use Kleenex, Wipes, articles of clothing or just let it fly when Ol Faithful errupts?

Anyone use Viagra or similar to enhance the experience?

Creams? Lotions?

Final question...would somebody please shoot me?
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Wireless internet is a wonderful invention :P

hence the reason im in bed a lot when im in video lol plus i sleep naked and often wake up horny

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Seated, Fly open, Kleenex, No Viagra, No Lotions, Uzi - bang

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RE: How

I was tired of all the drivel and mind numbing crap that has invaded the forums. While these questions might not be everyone's cup of tea since the words tits and pussy were not included it does tell me something. The majority of members and hosts are intelligent, funny and basically decent people with interesting perspectives on our common hell....CC.

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RE: How

I can understand your reaction to the "drivel" and "mind-numbing crap" that is common here. However, I'm not convinced the question you raise is an antidote. I'm not so much put off by your question as I am curious about it---curious about your curiosity about the particulars of the "wankers" private masturbatory habits. You say it "tells you something." What, precisely, does it tell you? Do you mean it tells you something over and above the particulars you ask about (ie. standing or not, kleenex?,etc.) ? Are you trying to codify these habits in the manner of Masters & Johnson and Alfred Kinsey? Or is your curiosity simply born of your prurient interest?

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put the thesaurus away

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BG, No need to worry pal. It's safely buried in some box from my last move. However, looking over what I had to say, I can't imagine what word or words---with the possible exception of prurient--- might have been beyond the grasp of anyone with a high school education. Therefore, I think the Forum would profit infinitely more if you got out your dictionary.

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In computer chair. Totally naked. Just let it fly.

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computer chair or on knees, totally naked, covered in lube , butt plug in my ass, hosing down the room... :P

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Standing on my head,shooting into a plastic cup 5 meters away, covered in peanut butter and singing Amazing Grace...every time

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Nastiest game of horse ever.

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you use viagra for masturbating? :O

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I leave a few skin magazines laying around and tell my co-workers I was in an orgy,
or use my non-dominate hand and imagine it's akward goof of a lady,
you should see the reaction I get for the other internet cafe customers.

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Where

Where do you do videos on CC?

On a desktop computer in your home...office or bedroom
On a laptop computer and if so in what room usually
On a PDA or other device - I dont want to knwo where
At work? Hopefully you are the boss
At the library - kidding
Somewhere else?
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The first one

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a desktop at home if you must know

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Which

If you were given the choice of a decent ticket to the SuperBowl. Just the ticket you have to get your ass there and back and all the rest. OR. A 5 year unlimited free ride on CC. All videos are free to you. Which would you choose and why?
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The free cc option. I am from the UK and the superbowl holds no interest for me.

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at least with the second i have a fair idea of how long i have to live & the probable way i will die.LMAAO!

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I agree

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definitely the free ride. can watch the super bowl on tv for free, can't watch these ladies for free. and the super bowl has never got me off before, even when my favorite team won. so it loses.

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When?

Question to the handful of married members we have. When do you access CC?

- When your wife is out of the house (shopping, visiting the grandkids, working the late shift at the Piggly Wiggly?)
- While she is at home. Presumably you are in another room.
- While she is alseep or otherwise occupied.
- Right in front of her while chatting (she thinks you are looking at a sport's site)
- In the bathroom with your laptop
- Outside of the home (I dont even want to think of where)
- Other - please be specific.


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I use a laptop which is more or less pemanently in basement office. Generally visit cc when my wife is out of the house on errands etc. but have been known to visit when she in upstairs in bed too. If she gets up she has 2 flights of stairs to negotiate before getting to the office so i have time to react. When I jerk-off with one of my hosts I am seated, pants down catching load with old t-shirt or towel.

The biggest issue for privacy concerns is to catch and delete the billing confirmation e-mail before she starts looking at e-mail.

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RE: When?

the fact you have to hide this from your wife... does not raise a flag for you??

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RE: When?

No need to "raise a flag", I know this habit is not at all healthy for a relationship and is a form of cheating but this is the choice I make. Sometimes will go to a strip club and I don't share that either. I would wager there are many men here, perhaps even most men, who do not share this part of their lives with their partner. Taking it a step further, I suggest there are many hosts who do not share their profession with loved ones. Perhaps a partner yes but how many have told their parents what they are doing? Be honest, is there not some shame in all of us who visit/work the adult industry.

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RE: When?

As long as you/me/all of us realize that it is a form of cheating… then you are right… it is the choice we make.
I don’t think I would share it with my parents either… hosting or as a member… I don’t think I would share either with them… or anyone one for that matter. A partner sure… but no need to share beyond that… and to not share with a parent, sibling or such would have nothing to do with cheating either. Unless you are into that really perverseness… you would not be cheating
I have never thought any of the hosts should feel shame for what they do …. It is a job, for some a better way to make $ then elsewhere. I have all respect for the ladies and guys here.

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RE: When?

no concerns with credit card statements?

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When got my first credit card i was working for a Bank - still am - and a very wise boss advised me to have the bills directed to me at the office to avoid prying eyes - even if it is just to keep gifts a secret. To this day all my credit cards and bank statements etc. are delivered to my office and stay there.

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RE: When?

I have a totally separate card for CC and I get online statements only. No paper. I pay online as well.

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watch that first step

Ooops i slipped.. throw me a rope.
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what is meant to be?

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RE: again...

IT!!!

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what is it??
and how do i know you are the real tisme :)

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sometimes you just have to have faith.maybe that is what IT is...

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be true.... IT could be faith... and you could be the real tisme...
which would be cool in my book since you have been missed
but if you are a troll... well then you can go straight to .... :-D

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me missed,thats nice to know.don't think i'm a troll :--))

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you were missed :P

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thanks but now i'm curious about your identity :--))

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meant to tell you to ask Nadeen :-D

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May God strengthen your belief! :D

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belief in what exactly?

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who knows... it is a ghost... could be in any thing :P

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yes :D

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Nadeen :P

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Lol! I like the thread. This shows promise as a kind of improvised Minimalist Theatre of the Absurd, a la Samuel Beckett. :)

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what?

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RE: again...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theatre_of_the_Absurd
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samuel_Beckett

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:P

Knock
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RE: :P

who's there?

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boo

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Great! Now I need clean undies...

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who??

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you crying???

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Hosts...another question

Under what circumstances would you give a member a free video? (assuming it is in your power to do so). For a member you cared about? For a regular as a reward for steady business? For a member who was out of money for a time? Never. This is a business and money talks?
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RE: Hosts...another question

only one host ever gives me free videos and she is a special friend

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RE: Hosts...another question

well done Kaz

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RE: Hosts...another question

Actually, in the distant past two different hosts, one a very famous (at the time) host did full strips for me in free video without any prompting whatsoever.

Another time a host was in yahoo video with me in an innocent chat and she simply layed down and went to sleep on-cam. Three hours later she was still sawing logs.

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RE: Hosts...another question

Never do free shows. Doesn't matter how long a viewer has visited me. If a viewer wants to see me he'll pay. Smart viewers who understand that it's my job and not just "chatting" or "making friends" will pay, if they are not smart ones... oh well.. No need in even wasting time.

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RE: Hosts...another question

difference between , friends , and - "work" friends ,, cleanly described..

i have a few here who say i am a freinds but would not dream of doing free anything ........im a friend .......customer ..

I have several others, some no longer hosts,, who will chat and cam on yahoo,, free,,, because we are friends,,,.
Very simple..
friends .. will do this ...............the others ,, are business .not friends...

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RE: Hosts...another question

I was offered video by several " friends" $$ was not mentioned, why would it , we are friends,!! I have now met 5 having traveled. and 2 have met me in uk, stayed and enjoyed seeing England with a local.. -this is not business, and not to do with their work, we became friends,, and continue to be so, outside of CC, I met family and friends,. get tel calls and sms, and of course we exchange cards, - just normal friends, the fact we met here originaly - does not change that.. Some very lovely people here,

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Stand by your man:))

A man who is driving a car is stopped by a police officer. The following exchange takes place....

The man says, "What's the problem officer?"

Officer: "You were going at least 75 in a 55 zone."

Man: "No sir, I was going 65."

Wife: "Oh, Harry. You were going 80." (Man gives his wife a dirty look)

Officer: "I'm also going to give you a ticket for your broken tail light."

Man: "Broken tail light? I didn't know about a broken tail light!"

Wife: "Oh Harry, you've known about that tail light for weeks." (Man gives his wife a dirty look)

Officer: "I'm also going to give you a citation for not wearing your seatbelt."

Man: "Oh, I just took it off when you were walking up to the car."

Wife: "Oh, Harry, you never wear your seat belt."

Man turns to his wife and yells: "Shut your damn mouth!"

Officer turns to the woman and asks: "Ma'am, does your husband talk to you this way all the time?"

Wife says: "No, only when he's drunk."
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excellent

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Newlyweds:))

A young virgin couple had just gotten married and was in the hotel room for the start of thrie honey moon.The young man was not sure what to do with his new bride as they lay together on the bed so he decided to call his dad for some manly advice. "Dad, we are here, and shes on the bed...what do i do? Kiss her son, kiss her. Ok, thanks..He hung up the phone and returned to the room to see that his new wife had taken off her dress and was now laying in her sexy see thu bra and panties. Gulp! This got the boy all shook up and he ran back to the phone, "Dad, dad, shes only in her bra and panties...what do i do? Take them off son..and lick her all over..Ok thanks dad" He hangs up the phone and returns to the waiting bride. Now she is in wait with nothing but a smile on. He begins to sweat. He dashs back to the phone, "Dad, dad, now shes naked..what do i do? Ok son...now..take the hardest thing you have and stick it where she pees. Yeah, ok..thanks dad. The eager groom hangs up the phone and runs and sticks his head in the toilet.....
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Hi there PrimeTime

This is about your question regarding playback… sorry for the late answer and I do hope you will get some positive responses this time around. I would also recommend you post this question in your general forum for your regulars to read also.

Every host is different… so of course their playbacks will be different. I would suggest you think of what the majority of your regulars request and base your vids on that for starters. I would also make several of them, a few short ones (teasers), a medium one and a long one. This will fit more budgets and hopefully make you more $.

The short ones should help two ways… with those who can not afford to much but also as a nice tease to draw the member into your medium and long one.

Like I said… base your first ones on what your regular viewers have asked for… then once you have them making you $ you can tell people that you will make special request videos. I do hope this helps you and also that you will get some more helpful responses…. Good luck and lots of money!
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RE: Hi there PrimeTime

I am glad that you found it helpful. :) as for how much to charge... well it would have to be less them live of course... maybe 25-35% less then live? I am not sure how much others reduce their pre-recorded shows from their live prices. I would try 25% and see how it goes from there. :-)

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To the person (or people) who posted the few posts below

I just wanted to say thank you. The forum is starting to, once again, look like the old forum that I used to have a lot of fun reading :)
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RE: To the person (or people) who posted the few posts below

You're welcome.

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Dominus Vobiscum

I have heard on good authority that there are a couple of religious men as members (priests, ministers, rabbis, brothers, maybe a sister or two). Does that gross out you hosts or does it just strengthen the believe that all men are the same and they are pigs?
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RE: Dominus Vobiscum

all men are pigs :P
As for priests and such...well not my place to judge them... only God can do that
But nice to see you place yourself as high as he.

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RE: Dominus Vobiscum

If God hadn't wanted us to lust after women he wouldn't have made them so damn sexy, with cute kissable lips, beautiful eyes, wonderful heaving breasts, cute little asses, long legs in stockings,
pussies that just beg your tongue to lick them and .....

Hang on I'll brb I have a little bit of a mess to clean up :(

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RE: Dominus Vobiscum

Hey, they all have hormones too!! Sheessh!! And if you believe in god, then you would probably also believe that he is the one who gave them the hormones. Can't fault the people of the cloth, they are only human.

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RE: Dominus Vobiscum

the cloth is often judgemental and hypocritical to boot. Screw the religous leaders whether Christian, muslim, jewish or what have you. I've met holy whores and satanic priests. One doesn't need a conduit to the eternal.

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RE: Dominus Vobiscum

"You are forgiven's" point is well taken. They are human. But I agree with you, we can and should fault (i.e. judge) the men (and women) of the cloth. . Moreover, being judgmental is not necessarily a bad thing, even though some modern theories (e.g. in Social Work) seem to regard it as such. It seems to me it is only bad if some person or institution presumes to stand in judgment of others when there is no legitimate right to do so. On the other hand, it's clear that we are constantly being judged in legitimate ways throughout our lives. Our parents judge us and correct us, as do our teachers and employers. Likewise our friends judge us, as we judge them.

As to religious leaders, people who profess a given faith agree--at least in principle--to abide by the judgments of the leaders of that religion. If one does not recognize the authority of these leaders, it seems that person is under no obligation to pay heed to their judgments. However, just because these leaders have no moral authority over non-believers, it doesn't mean our actions will escape judgment. A person might say, for example, I do not recognize the authority of this leader who commands me to "love my neighbor," therefore I am free to do my neighbor bodily harm. If I do so, I will not escape the judgment of civil authorities, even if I declare I do not recognize the authority of the State to judge me. We may be free to recognize or not the authority of a religious institution, but we are born into an existing order with an implied social contract that is non-negotiable. But enough of this for now. More thoughts on religion later.

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RE: Dominus Vobiscum

Et cum spiritu tuo.

DV, It's understandable that people express more moral indignation when a cleric succumbs to temptations like this place, because an ideal is violated. We expect religious leaders to be not only virtuous, but to guide others along a spiritual path. But as my grandmother used to say of priests, "They put their pants on one leg at time just like every body else."

Reminds me of the joke about the nun who goes to confession. She enters the confessional and says, "Bless me father for I have sinned. Father, I gave a man a blow job." The priest. entirely naive about sexual matters, replies, "What's a 'blow job' sister?" The nun says, "$25, the same for you father as anyone else." !

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RE: Dominus Vobiscum

Pigs are those who judge them all :P

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RE: Dominus Vobiscum

true! you cant generalise like this!

yea most men are pigs!

BUT!!!!

There are as many female pigs as men, if not more...

But it's always easy to point fingers and blame lol :)))

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Saint or Sinner?

Can a member totally love his wife or girlfriend with all his heart and still be a regular on CC? Is the real world and fantasy world of CC really two separate things? Is he being unfaithful coming here? Should his wife divorce him if she finds out? Can coming here actually improve a person's real relationship?
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RE: Saint or Sinner?


Should the wife divorce the husband also for daydreaming of a lost love? Or the check out girl at the local supermarket? Of course with cc you must pay for the fantasy… but for the majority of married people I think it is just a advanced version of the day dream
Of course you also have those who say they love their wife/husband but would love to get out of the marriage… Talking about sexual fantasy’s can improve some relationships for sure… Psych doctors specialize in parts of this already

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

It is unfaithfull, but not because you come here but because you are lieing to ur wife to be here. If ur wife knew and had no problem with it, now thats another thing. Think about it, you would probably feel cheated too if ur wife lied to you about such a thing. So my advice is: if you love ur wife but you cant be opened enough to discuss this with her, give it up before it's too late. Because she is gonna find out eventually. And when she does find out there's no going back. Think if its worth ruining ur marriage and family for a stupid lie.

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

Oh Joy if you're involved in that stupid lie then it would definitely be worth it :P

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

Double standards if you ask me.

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

Throw him out the window!
And sell or keep the computer ;) :D

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

such a good advice! :D

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

Yes as long as he only comes (or cums) on here when his wife or gf is unavailable and he feels horny.

Yes it is no different to a woman fantasising that she is being made love to by another man while she is making love to you (Come on girls admit it you've done this :P)

No see above

No she should either a) Join him on cc b) Offer to do all the kinky things the girls on cc do for him or c) If she is upset become a chathost herself and send an e-mail to him and all his friends inviting them to a password protected hot sexy show.

Yes it could stop him from being unfaithful for real and he may learn a few tricks on how to please a woman from the hot sexy girls on cc.

ps Can any girl please tell me what a clitoris is and where I can find one ?

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

yes he would

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

ask me in yahoo freeda and i'll explain everything

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

Well, this takes me back to the recent debate about whether or not the cam models are whores. The models use the argument that because they are behind a camera and there is no physical touching involved, that they are not real whores, so you can apply the same principle to answer your question...if there is no touching, it isn't actually cheating.

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

I find myself asking that question all the time. The line between fantasy and reality can be blurry, which just makes it harder to understand what we're all doing here.

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

if all women had you wise attitutude Gorty we wouldn't need CC

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Im with you WND...and I would probably join him:) But then again I have a kinky bad side :D It would bother me if he lied about it thou.

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RE: Saint or Sinner?

Sexy, I think that's wishful thinking, my dear. Husbands and wives fall in and out of love in the course of a lifetime together. What sustains the relationship is a mutual recognition of the sacred vow they publicly declared. I'm not suggesting there are no grounds for divorce--as the Catholic Church maintains---but I am saying part of what holds a marriage together is both parties' commitment to the marriage vows, which in the Christian doctrine (and I suspect the equivalent in others) are: "... for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health, until death do us part." I think Gortensia hits on a vital point here. Clearly if your husband is coming here and jerking off, there is--in all likelihood--something amiss in the relationship. So, assuming you are committed to the marriage, it seems the wisest course would be to talk to your husband.

Sure, finding your hubby pounding his pudding in front of the computer is evidence that not all is well. But think about it, by the same token if you are willing to uproot the marriage for this, that also suggests something is amiss. And if it is so easily uprooted, it's clear the marriage doesn't have the depth of commitment to sustain it through a minor storm. Whereas, if you both manage to weather the storm, the marriage will be all the stronger for it.

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The Big Dance

If I was to put all the hosts and all the members into a room (lets say 1000 of each) for a party. At the end of the evening how many hookups do you really think there would be?
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RE: The Big Dance

One big orgy...

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RE: The Big Dance

dreams! they will take one look at you and either burst out laughing or run for the bathroom from sickness dude :P

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RE: The Big Dance

Dude? check again punk

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RE: The Big Dance

ass but gete's had his dick there... so i stand by original thought :P

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RE: The Big Dance

The girls are to hot and most of the mmembers to ball less? :P
The girls would end up out a disco looking for others before the night was out :D

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RE: The Big Dance

one, me and all the girls :)

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RE: The Big Dance

There would be only 4 hook ups (I don't want to name names) unless you count the hook ups that would occur between one host with another host when they saw the ugly members they could choose from. Then the answer would be 502 hook ups (4 between a member and a host and 496 between a host and a host). Therefore 996 members would have to go to their hotel room and wank like always.

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RE: The Big Dance

was a good one :D

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RE: The Big Dance

* should be 498 not 496 :(

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RE: The Big Dance

somewhere between 50 and 100 host to member...i think the host to host may add a few more, and maybe the member to member would add some too...just not sure how many lady members there are.

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RE: The Big Dance

why nobody says how much will the hosts charge for a minute??? =)) ....or do u mean it should be for free? ....what kind of girls do u think we are?!!! :D

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Hosts

Hosts. If a member will not do cam to cam do you suspect he is:

a. without a cam
b. has a cam but he is old, fat and bald
c. is too shy or ashamed to go to cam
d. is your brother
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RE: Hosts

In my case a) b) and c) are actually true and I tell the hosts this. So far d) has not been true and I hope it never is :D

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RE: Hosts

no host will get D... brother or any other family member for that matter... :P

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RE: Hosts

I don't mind watching viewers on cam if they want to send it. But frankly speaking, if they don't send it for some reason, I don't really care.

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