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Women:))

A woman goes to the doctor for her yearly physical.
The nurse starts with certain basic items.
"How much do you weigh?" she asks.
"115," she says.
The nurse puts her on the scale.
It turns out her weight is 140.

The nurse asks, "Your height?"
"5 foot 8," she says.
The nurse checks and sees that she only measures 5' 5".

She then takes her blood pressure
And tells the woman it is very high.
"Of course it's high!" she screams,
"When I came in here I was tall and slender!
Now I'm short and fat!"
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RE: Women:))

Good to see you back Alex. This forum could do with some fun rather than the usual negative posts that seem to have become the norm lately.

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RE: Women:))

Thx abc& beautiful storky:)

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Nursing home:))

One evening, a family brings their frail, elderly mother to a nursing home and leaves her, hoping she will be well cared for. The next morning, the nurses bathe her, feed her a tasty breakfast, and set her in a chair at a window overlooking a lovely flower garden.

She seems O.K. but after a while she slowly starts to lean over sideways in her chair. Two attentive nurses immediately rush up to catch her and straighten her up.

Again, she seems O.K. but after a while she starts to tilt to the other side. The nurses rush back and once more bring her back upright. This goes on all morning.

Later, the family arrives to see how the old woman is adjusting to her new home. "So Ma, how is it here? Are they treating you all right?" they ask.

"It's pretty nice," she replies. "Except they won't let you fart."
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Cock Calendar

Yo Guys - Big thanks 2 all the guys who sent in pics 4 my Cock Calendar, mmmm, I was certainly well impressed with a few, keep them coming please, Il be showing my Naked Sunbed Session Vid FREE soon in appreciation, check my personal forum 4 the lowdown....xx
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Can i be Mr Cock April?...just in consideration of my birthday in april:))

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RE: Cock Calendar

send me over your cock pics by cc mail hun, and il let you know xx

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RE: Cock Calendar

Would you like in a hard or soft position?Lmao

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RE: Cock Calendar

Wow, you sound serious!:))))

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RE: Cock Calendar

thanks for the photos abc but I don't think they are right for this calendar. You need to trim that bush down there, you can't even see "little abc" and please take the photos from below, because from above your tummy covers your groin area...ok bb?, just a little constructive criticism

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the above message is not from me abc, some1 using my name having a laugh with u i presume

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RE: Cock Calendar

It is okay Jiggly I never thought for one moment that the message was from you and I'm sorry that you had to get dragged in to all of this.

While I can understand cc allowing them to post as "abc" as that is not a registered user name I really think they should do more to stop people posting using a name that has already been registered either by a host or a member.

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RE: Cock Calendar

I will probably need to begin posting with my member name, "dogbreath" to keep the hounds off my trail.

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RE: NAUGHTY SHOW !!! ONLY 0,70/min!!!

Can i make a wish...?:)

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One Question

After the recent soap story between the host Anne and member Douglas. I have a question:

How can you love someone you have never touched/kissed or even met?!!!!
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dear "me"

"Bionca, Milena, Psy" are only the ones that immediately come to mind. I know a number of "quieter" hosts who have moved on with guys they met here with varying degrees of success.

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RE: dear

does it matter where they live? does one place make their love more true then the other?

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RE: dear

I know at least four American guys (who don't know each other) that moved to Romania. Two to Bucharest, one to Suceava and one to Bacau. Another will, when he doesn't have to pay child support and another may depending on where the girl ultimately feels more comfortable (she's incredibly homesick and the guy doesn't care).

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RE: dear - edited

"the guy doesn't care" where they live

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RE: dear - edited

lol I was just about to ask if that's what you meant. But you cleared it up.

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RE: One Question

i think dougie found out being a cyber white knight is a little more difficult than he expected and is now in the cyber witness protection program hiding from the english challenged russian mafia, chathost bf, cc member poster otherwise known as "a fren"

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RE: One Question

I dont think "a fren" had anything to do with him being anywhere... he left awhile ago, but some of you seem a bit obsessed about him and keep talking about him... maybe it is time you find a new topic.

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RE: One Question

maybe its time you had a humor transplant

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RE: One Question

on how open and honest with each other you are. There are people who fall in love over the internet all the time. I wish them both all the best as well as any others who might find love here or else where online. Cheers

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RE: One Question

i dont care to discuss it either but your admonition should also be directed at Anne and bellow70. thye maje sure the story never dies by continuing to post about it. They adore the publicity.

as for your wuestion : "What part of this story its so hard to be understood?"
I've always been puzzled why she fell for a eunuch?

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RE: One Question

The reason I ask this is question is because I would never declare 'I love you' over the internet! These are special words, words you do not often hear and to say them for the first time over the internet to a person you have never met is, in my mind... ridiculous.

This post was not directed at mainly the freak show we have recently witnessed, but at the fact 'I love you' is thrown around as much as the words 'hello' and 'how are you?'

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RE: One Question

in part i would agree with you... it is often said far to much online and offline without the actually feelings backing it up.
for some though they will spend more time talking and getting to know one another online then they might in real life. it is a modern world, and a much smaller world with the internet and in my opinion love can fly over the wires. Love at first sight you might say

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answer

you can't. you need to meet the person in real life to experience a persons chemistry. that said, i think you could get off to a good start with an internet only relationship but the acid test would be meeting in real.

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check and double-check!

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RE: One Question

Pay no further attention to those pair of
attention seeking floozies.
When they next start thier soap, just iggy them.
Let everyone know that you iggy'd them.
Be quite loud in that fact. Only by stopping thier
action, can we ensure that they wont continue this.
If they persist, email CC. Sooner or later, they'll
look into the drama and snigger and laugh and ignore them.

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RE: One Question

student? you do know that neither Anne or Bela wrote any of this right? just some troll causing problems... you do realize that right?

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RE: One Question

I couldn't agree more with you Anne. On the one hand they complain about people being attention seekers and then when they stop posting (which is what they say they wanted all along) they still have to create posts about them to fill up their sad empty lives. This, to me, just reinforces the point that they are just here to cause trouble and be as offensive as possible.

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RE: One Question

and i don't know how i will fill my sad empty life if the melodrama posters aren't posting and I have no one to suck up to.

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Haiti

just drop in to say hello to all you people out there is smoke land, and here from Haiti--hotter than hell and yes i did see some bullets flying around, glad I was smoking,, i wasnt scared-okie dokie--stay in touch, and I see no one missed me here-so feck you all too (haha) just kidding feck each other, thats what this is all about,, wait a minute, except the non-adult category, well you people still have fun and wait for me
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Party at the club

hmm--i hope all is doing well and good in community chat room, me can't go in there tonight, because have to focus on this song
Yeah, clap your hands
Were having a party
dancing to the music
played by the D.J.
on the radio
The Cokes are in the icebox,
popcorn's on the table
Me and you baby, yeah
we're out here on the floor, oh yeah
So mister D.J.keep those records playing
coz I'm having such a good time
Everybody's swinging, Sally's doing the twist now
If you have a play request- i've play it for you
Play the one called Soul Twist" and play the one called
"I know" and don't forget the "Mashed Potato"

Wo, great song catch the other words to this song on net, thats all i know of the song by Sam Cooke--he was cool
Party On Gang-Have Fun In Room
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RE: Party at the club

can i come to your party---love the music and dancing

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RE: Party at the club

hey chase-its hot over here in H

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RE: Goodnight room

well song is done- it was quiet in here tonight and yhoo--so still next time-chill and don't be a stranger and don't listen to these people who say,, mercy, this dude sure has a lot of time to waste--i'm ok with it--cool

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RE: Goodnight room

hun, make sure, you feed the dog and take out the trash in the morning,, im staying up late tonight, checking your computer out-

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Russian highway

http://englishrussia.com/?p=315

Received this from friend :)) This is kinda funny... But I feel for the poor people that get stuck on this road :(
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RE: Russian highway

I was hoping I would be able to drive down a russian Hershey Highway one day. I will go slow. I promise.

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RE: Russian highway

cool--russian highways would be a great adventure to drive bike around, by the way do they drive on left side or right side of highway

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RE: Russian highway

Cool-Nadine--i remember that-thanks hun

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for doug aka USA

walk away man .............i can tell everyone what your are doing ,,,,,,,,,even your GF......I AM JUST HELPING MY FREN.........JUST WALK AWAY I KNOW ALL YOUR MOVEMENTS
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hey fren you can't know all my movements or you would already know I'm banging your wife!

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RE: for doug aka USA

I have a bowel movement coming soon... grab a plate and spoon!

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RE: for doug aka USA

drunk or something? if you got something to say why dont you just say it... maybe your are just full of it :D

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

that was a very good one.. had me laughing my ass off :))

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

does not really matter... host or member... just a fool trying to make trouble for others. but the soccer comment was funny as hell :P

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

unless they are into 3sums...and what's up friend are you obsessed with the CC celebrity couple? your advice above was to stop talking about them. Do as you say not as you do?

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

yes it is obsession Pancho. Don Quixote and his publicity shy chathost can defend themselves.

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

It doesn\'t sound like defense of a friend, it sounds like the member\'s help is loosening that guy\'s iron grip on some girl by making her more indepedent at home

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

"making her more indepedent at home"?? you do not think woman should be independent?

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

Apparently "a fren" doesn't.

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

fren and friend are two different people for sure ... but fren is a creepy person for sure

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

fren = girlslov

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RE: from viewers forum, cryed laughing

fren is a host who has not been online since 16 Feb 2005?

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RE: About prices and categories...

should be, i would think

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RE: About prices and categories...

Charlie Angels--cool--i love your shows--what ever happen to Carol Chambers on that show--just kidding, Charlie Ange-wish you the best, im just hanging out in here tonight not in chat room, taking a break, so i can finish my song writing, so pay no attention to this-cool

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RE: About prices and categories...

Yes of course it is a different thing but some people will always moan about the price.

Charge what makes you enough money for the least amount of work.

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Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/16862643/
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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

Kids today, ain't they cute?

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

The guy getting the blowjob was 17, considered an adult.
The girl doing the sucking was 15 and considered a child.

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

Where is Amerika ???????????????

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

Rolloveritsbetterbehind

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

you like it in the Ass????

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

Passing a 15 year old girl around at a party to give blow jobs to all the guys is not a good thing.

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

good grief- guys at least wait until they turned 18

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

hmmm says is a felony if they are less then 3 years difference in age.. does this mean if she had been a 13 or 14 year old it would have been ok ?? and intercourse is a misdameanor ??

So in other words if he had proceeded a little further and laid her he would have got off with a misdameanor charge and been maybe a year or less in jail. ???

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

yep the law is a bit backwards there for sure... intercourse gives less time then oral sex! wow
i think the worst part of the story is... she went from one guy to another guy ... she is 15 years old! no need for multiple partners at that age!!

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

I agree it was wrong to use her as such at that age. Should be taken into account that as they were all still kids... and since was only oral ... then is no pregnancy to worry about.
It could have been a lesser sentance, And maybe he can get an appeal. and the law gets fixed. Sure this happens at many parties,, just their bad luck to get caught.
Now by the same token if the male had been a grown adult
then yes it should be 10 years.

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

Here's hoping that the scum bag gets made a bitch and is passed around in the same way in prison. Now that would be poetic justce.

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

You're all pissed off because you didn't get a bj.

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

He's a child molester. He should be beaten to death.

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dear "nastyman66"

No, it merely means there would have been some other charge, not that one.

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

Am I the only one that finds it funny that his attorney is called B.J. Bernstein.

On a serious note I think the sentence was too harsh.

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RE: Ten Years for a BJ? Ain't Amerika great............

It does seem harsh, but shouldn't he have thought a little before pumping his cock into the little girl's mouth?

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xxxxkazxxxx

Saw on her profile BUILD: Slim :-O yeh right , trading standards need to be informed for false descriptions ....... well compared to Michelle McManus and Rick Waller she is slim lolz
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I hope you have a sign hanging around your kneck that says "half wit".

If not trading standards may be after you too.

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no

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you are a fool

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He is a perfect example of type of person I pointed out. He needs a positive and focused job in our army in Iraq as a brave crusader fighting for our right to pussy in the open and not hidden by veils...........

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RE: xxxxkazxxxx

lol...hell u are better than me, i didnt even get a clue, what he was talking about....

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RE: xxxxkazxxxx

why would he need colgate, he obviously has no teeth

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Found One

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RE: xxxxkazxxxx

She is not my cup of tea but she has every right to be here. She looks like a hot shit and for many members that is very important. Half the profiles here are incorrect. I am sure if you had a profile it would be wrong too....it would say you were a man....you are actually a little bitch.

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RE:Happy Birthday Kaz

:O
Happy Birthday Sweety
I didnt know you had your Birthday today, but now I do.

Wish you much luck and don't pay attention to the ones who try to get at you.That was one of the funniest attempt to put someone down.

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RE: Im blushing now;)

u changed your eye colors...hehe...

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RE: xxxxkazxxxx

Thats funny.
Imho Karen is slim.You may not agree with me. Who care?

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RE: xxxxkazxxxx

happy birthday karen (xxxkaz) and many more you very beautiful sexy woman,, if only more could be like you,, other host here need to take notice, you are one of the best, unlike others on here

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RE: xxxxkazxxxx

happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday dear kaz, happy birthday to you, and many more, cheers,and now for you:
Stay away from my window-
Stay away from my back door too-
Disconnect the telephone line-
Relax baby and draw that blind-
Kick off your shoes and sit right down--
Loosen off that pretty French gown-
let me pour you a good long drink-
ohh baby don't you hesitate cause
Tonights the night, its gonna be alright-
cause I love you girl, ain't nobody gonna stop us now-
tonights the night, it's gonna be hot tonight-
Don't say a word my virgin child-
Just let your inhibitions run wild-
The secret is about to unfold--
Upstairs before the night's too old-
cause tonights the night
happy birthday my sweet gal

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opps forgot to say--I think Rod Stewart sung that song too

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RE: xxxxkazxxxx

happy birthday

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RE: xxxxkazxxxx

Big Happy Birthday Kazza, Many Happy Returns, Have a Gr8 Day. As for that colgate negative nonsense, he needs 2 take the corn cob from his ass. xx

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BA Strike - Cancelled!!!!

A planned two-day strike by thousands of British Airways cabin crew over sickness absence, pay and staffing has been called off.

Wohooooooooooooooooo, not that I am flying with them.... but there will be several happy people now :-)
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RE: BA Strike - Cancelled!!!!

Yea, great. Did you really think they were going ahead with the strike?It is a tough, cut-throat world in aviation. a strike would put their jobs at even more risk.

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RE: BA Strike - Cancelled!!!!

psst hey give me a call--i drive one of those planes-cool

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RE: )))))))))

what is new today---roll over it feels better behind

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RE: crack me up

im bored--im horny--im loser

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RE: crack me up

If you ever visit Ireland, you will have lots of craic :p

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Nadeen Where are You?

Nadeen is the sweetest and most polite host on CC. She has a heart as big as rus. She loves CC most of the time and it shows in her great attitude.

In other words she has fallen into the CC ego trap..................
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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

also ??????????????

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

likewise ?????????????????????????

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

(Ahem) ....I'm here :D ......and thanks for the kind words about me :))

P.S.: what is CC ego trap? :-/ lol

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

Hug to Nadeen!

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

Such a sweet gem of a woman............

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

What I tried to say (not very effectively it seems) is that a superior woman like you has fallen in love with all the ego building and financial rewards offered as a host on CC; you are too good to be here..................

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

My real nick is irrelevant.........beware my words sweet one

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

hmmmmmm
maybe this guy is a reindeer who needs his nose red ;)
oh Nadeen!
My nose is not as red as it was ;) :D

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

What would a reindeer do without you? :D :P

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RE: Nadeen Where are You?

Oh! And ty! ;) (K)

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Too Much Time on Hands

The level of discourse on this site ranks just above trivial most of the time. It seems there are a lot of bored people here with too much time on their hands be they hosts with few visitors or members with little money to pay hosts.

Maybe there should be a new category of such people so they could meet each other for a reduced price; any traffic is better than none filled with idle chatter here; in other words the "losers of CC" category.

Pls don't get defensive is you are one; life is full of winners and losers so you have lots of company to commiserate (feel sad) with.

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RE: Too Much Time on Hands

What would YOU call a group of grown men who pay money to see teenage girls strip while they masturbate or a group of girls who expose themselves for money? Losers doesn't quite do it.

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RE: Too Much Time on Hands

I think every college campus should have a lounge where hotties wait for you and you can pay them $1 per minute to rub themselves while they chat with you.

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RE: Too Much Time on Hands

i see we have another loser on here with to much time--roll over it will feel better from the behind

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RE: Too Much Time on Hands

Face it. Anyone who cums here is a loser who is afraid of reality. I know cos I am one

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RE: Too Much Time on Hands

I'm not a wanker...............I'm a thanker for all these beauties performing for me in their special ways with all their charms showing

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RE: regular viewer

I would say a regular viewer is someone who comes often. it can be once a week or once a month.

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RE: regular viewer

A regular is a good customer. Let's keep this in the commerical terms it deserves. They spend money on videos regularly. That could be daily, several times a week, once a week, once a month. They main thing is they return again and again and spend money. A host knows that times are slow and her prices are too high if even her regulars are not stopping by. Of course in CC you get new girls all the time. Younger, hotter, cheaper and most importantly different. That is why good hosts here re-invent themselves every now and then.

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RE: regular viewer

The only thing I promote is the fact that I am an idiot.

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RE: Just for today

huh?

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Should CC require the use of real screen name?

It seems that some people who come here often use a name other than their screen name, and usually not for noble reasons. More often they do so as a way of attacking someone to whom they do not want to reveal their screen name, or as a way of buttressing their argument with their opponent, as if to say, "See, he opposes you too!" Frankly, I think the decorum of this place would be immensely improved by disallowing this cowardly, adolescent sniping. What do others here think?
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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

This tired old argument? Shit. If they tried to do this guys would simply created screen names to be assholes with and other names to be innocent.

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

i've wondered about such things. wondered if some guy may post an occasional asshole comment toward someone just so he can counter that asshole comment he made himself with a screen name he's known by so as to appear much better by comparison. sock puppet theatre wherein he plays both the villain and the hero as it were.

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

duh....

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

i already posted about it a while ago and asked opinions, but there were only few responses agreed that it would be usefull, and everyone said it's too easy to use another unknown screen name (just to give some sh*t in forum) so i'm afraid that nobody really cares :(

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

Since I'm new here, I didn't realize the matter had been addressed, and judging by the first reply by "b-o-r-i-n-g" (which I gather is neither his real name, nor a self-description), it has no doubt been discussed to the point of boredom.

Even though guys would find other means to appear under a different guise (guys in disguise; good name for a band), I would still make the case for CC disallowing it, because at the very least it would winnow out those too lazy or not sufficiently obsessed with deception (ironically, mostly their own) to go through the trouble of re-registering, etc.. leaving only the most egregious offenders, whose style, manner, etc. would quickly unmask their true identities and disabuse them of their "more-clever-than-thou" conceit. At that point they could decide to join the rest of us in an honest discussion of ideas, or leave.

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

Don't you just LOVE it when a newbie thinks they found a new problem or a unique side-angle to get around them? ROTFLMFAO

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

a lot more then the fools who like to make a stupid comment like yours

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

Mr. Blane, I never said I found a new problem, nor do I think I have a "unique side-angle." I simply posed the question and offered my opinion. Have you anything to bring to the table besides your dismissive and mocking sarcasm?

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

but it does not seem like it will ever happen. It has been mentioned here more times then I can remember... yet never changes. Of course there are ways to do it... but welcome to reality of no names

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

Perhaps not, but do you think it SHOULD happen? Has anyone wrtten CC? If so, what was their response? They have always been pretty responsive to my queries. They have not always responded in the affirmative, but they have always responded--and almost always in a thoughtful way.

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

They are VERY responsive and VERY hands-off in the forums. Unless they are responding to specific individual complaints or violations of guidelines.

Since your passport does not say "Melomane" you have no complaint about anonymous posting because you are totally anonymous now.

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RE: Should CC require the use of real screen name?

I have an idea. to show how really brave we are instead of hiding behind nicknames let's all post our real names, addresses, photos and contact information!

to think that somehow using screen names brings this porn forum nobility, maturity and bravery is absurd....though it does bring the porn forum a certain level of pomposity, conceit, egotism, lying, delusion, and yes even adolesence, cowardness and bullying behavior.

this is alice in wonderland whether one uses screenames, nicknames or no name. For you to believe because you have created some porn forum persona "Melomane" you are somehow, more noble or brave or mature is a bit absurd and sad.

Maybe when you take a good look in the mirror as Bela70 did you will realize this is an Alice in Wonderland porn forum not a noble democratic civic forum and turn away.

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"Whatever," I think I understand the nature of this place as well as you. But I see your intention is not to answer the question posed, but but rather to characture my position with absurdly overblow aspects that are not, in fact, what I mean. My postion is "absurd" only as seen through your deliberately distorted rendering.

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your question was asked and answered...you just may not like the answer.

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If you answered the question at all, you did so rather obliquely. It’s clear that answering the question directly and in a spirit of good will is not your purpose here. Your purpose is to attack me personally, rather than offer your opinion or a reasoned argument to persuade me that my suggestion will not work or is simply untenable. I will grant that you are consistent in one regard (your hostility), for every time you reply to me, you seem to be in a fit of near rage—‘seeing red’ as it were---which of course handicaps your ability to see clearly and evaluate an argument calmly, coolly and fairly. You obviously have a decent mind, but every time you reply to me it appears that its analytical capacity is short-circuited by your spleen.

Whether I “like” your answer or not is not germane to the discussion. What is germane is whether I and other Forum members are persuaded by your argument. I, for one, am not. The most generous assessment I can make of your reply is that it is not primarily a function of your hostile disposition, but a simple failure of logic and concrete example of your spleen overriding your intellect. To say that an action or intention is not noble does not mean the absence of such an action or intention in a subject is therefore noble. Likewise, a man may commit a cowardly act, but it does not follow that if he does not commit such an act that he is brave. While it is true that one of the marks of bravery is the absence of cowardice, this absence alone does not constitute bravery, for a brave action is a thing in-and-of itself, and absence of cowardice is neither the cause of nor proof of bravery. The same can be said about the relation of adolescent behavior to maturity, etc.

A less generous, and I suspect more accurate, assessment of your reply is that you understand full well that the absence of cowardice is not bravery, etc., but you intentionally ascribe a position to me that you know I am not taking. I quite agree with you, to assume that “using screen names brings this porn forum nobility, maturity and bravery is absurd.” However, I never said that. You put words in my mouth, giving an altogether false rendering of my argument. In other words, you set up your straw man then cut him down. (Now that is a cowardly act!) How clever; but sadder than clever. Create your straw man, cut him down, then sit back and enjoy that momentary spark of perverse pleasure you derive from your unacknowledged, solitary victory.

How sad that you seem ever intent on attempting to make others look like fools, so you can feel superior, presiding contemptuously above it all. You duck in and out of this Forum under different names, spewing your vitriol everywhere, making pronouncements like some self-appointed judge, enumerating everyone’s flaws, and contemptuously mocking those whom you regard as your inferiors (everyone), reserving special contempt for anyone you think just might be your intellectual equal (or superior). You then deign to counsel all those who are, to your mind, self-deceived. Not surprisingly that is everyone, for you alone can “see” the truth. You alone suffer no illusions about the true nature of this place, the innermost workings of the minds and hearts of others, indeed reality itself. A veritable seer in our midst, you are a modern day Tieresias! Let us all offer sacrifice and libations to the gods and pray you never leave us, leaving us without the benefit of your wise counsel and protection, leaving us prey to the seductive chimera that lurk here in CC and the snares of those malicious gods, whose malice makes even your own seem mild.

You counsel me to look in the mirror, reporting that Bela70 benefited from doing so. I know nothing of what Bela70 may or may not have learned from looking in the mirror, but I sincerely hope that he did not do so at your behest. Or, if he did gain something thereby, it could only have been in spite of and not because of your goading. Perhaps a few have been persuaded to examine themselves after your presumptuous judgments of them, but I think the majority here can see through your agenda. And how remarkably ironic that you should accuse me of “bullying!” Lol! Indeed I invite Forum members to examine my posts and yours (though for yours it will be a bit more difficult since you frequently change your name) and see for themselves who the bully is. See if they don’t likewise conclude that the string of attributes you ascribe to me---“ pomposity, conceit, egotism, lying, delusion, and yes even adolesence [sic], cowardness [sic] and bullying behavior”---are nothing more than a projection of your own. For that reason I will not presume, as you do in my regard, to tell you to look in the mirror, for it would do no good, as is made plain by the way you deport yourself here. I would think you might profit from doing so if I saw any evidence to persuade me. However, your consistently arrogant, presumptuous and condescending judgments of others, your readiness to point out their flaws and habit of meting out prescriptions for what they must do to correct their errors in judgment and partake, in part at least, of your enlightened vision of reality, which only you possess in full measure, make it unlikely that you possess the capacity for humbly evaluating your own flaws, it being so much easier to project them onto others. Now that is what I call Alice in Wonderland!

Finally, to return to the original question, I agree with you that this place is a porn forum, but I don’t see how that fact and my suggestion are mutually exclusive. I am not suggesting, nor do I think it is a good idea that members reveal their real names. I think a measure of anonymity is a good and probably necessary thing (a point you humorously make with your sardonic caricature of my alleged belief that the more we reveal the braver we are). However, I think once one takes a name here, one should be willing to write under that name. Perhaps there are some legitimate reasons to deviate from this, but I think the reasons for using the chosen screen name far outweigh any benefits that might derive from doing otherwise. Again, I quite agree with you, instituting such a rule will not transform this Forum into a “noble, democratic, civic forum.” Nor will members, by reason of writing under one name be rendered “nobler, braver or more mature.” But again, I made no such claims. These are claims you falsely suggest I made. One may not be able to make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear. This is a porn forum, ok. Even so, I see no reason to believe that the Forum, by reason of its nature as a porn forum, can admit of no improvement. Its essential nature may not change, and I am in no way suggesting it could or should. The decorum surrounding it is another matter. That can and should be changed. It wouldn’t hurt to try. At the very least, we would discover if it works or not and finally get the answer to this unanswered question.


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Could you repeat that?

btw,, numbers..that is the way to lessen the impact of egotistical posters such as yourself.

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quit hiding mehind your moniker, let's see your real name and address and telephone number so you can be held accountable, you hypocritical phony

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Sure... still waiting for that ccMail from you, AC. ;)


TNTWAHTLL

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that would hold us all accountable, our ccmail boxes flooded with threats from anonomous tnt!....get a life, try something other than being known as a persona on a porn site

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Pretty funny rejoinder. It has the additional merit of not being tinged with your usual hostility. Of course you could not leave it at that; it's not in your nature. You had to take a swipe before running away. Wasn't it Cicero who said, "When you have no case, attack the plaintiff."

You pay me an unintended compliment in assuming I have any "impact" at all here. I suffer no such illusion, but I am confidnt of at least one thing: Unlike you, I do not come to this Forum with a malicious disposition, ready to piss in peoples' faces, then hastily run away.

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No, he has a MUCH clearer view of reality here than you do.

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and how do I contact you and make you accountable when you ahve said something abusrd? a cc mail? Wow! that is brave!

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Braver than some it seems ;) Anyone would think you don't want me to know who these spineless wonders are? Of course I couldn't possibly bundle you in with those naysayers now could I? ;)

TNTNAFTBF

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Really now, who the hell are you?

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and how are you held accountable naked? I know it must feel good that you perceive you are going out on a limb willing to withstand the slings and arrows of an anonomous mob......but get a grip you are part of the anonomous mob, maybe a small step below the anonomous "mob" because you live under the ego enhancing delusion that your nickname somehow gives you an identity.

no one is accountable here other than to their credit card company.

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Yes I think they should bring in this rule. While it would be easy for someone to create a new name to be an arsehole, unless they could be bothered to create numerous aliases, at least we would all know they are the same arsehole and we could then choose to ignore their posts.

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Oops managed to hit post before I had finished.
CC admin do read the forums. EMailing them directly is appropriate when the matter is specific to the individual but more general issues such as this are better aired here. CC has always tried to keep this forum as open as possible and does not interfere unless posts are too extreme or abusive. I prefer that it stays that way rather than risk it becoming over regulated. Another point is that this is the general forum and is open to non-members (who do not have screen names) to post.

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Always wondered why that advice wasn't really more appreciated by most.
You read a nasty message, you ignore it. End of story.
I agree that trying to regulate people into good behavior isn't the best idea. Even if it were to result in a bump up in the civility of the forums, it would seem a hollow kind of civility, wouldn't it?
Better I think that those who know better, just take the high road and not give such posts a second thought. Turn the other cheek and be an example themselves of the kind of discourse they want rather than moan about the things other people say or how they say them.

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Which is why I just ignore any poster that replies to my posts or any poster who pretends to be me. If they could even put a little bit of thought, humour or intelligence into there replies or pretend posts it might be worth my while reading . But they don't.

It amuses me though to know that they are completely wasting their time and effort.

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LOL

Why do some hosts try to browbeat you into their video? I can't imagine what it's like to be their boyfriend.
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I can---cool

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HOpe, you've been fine. Thank you for the notes before. Take Care!
HotAsianPie

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Sorry, are you in USA now, if I got you right* ? LOL I'm not sure if we can ever talk, because it seems our schedules times don't coincide. Thank you for the note :) If you like, here's my ya-hooo! ID---> miababe_notpie. Good Luck to YOU too ;)

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When salesmenship and marketing fail try bullying the customer. Used cars, furniture, men's suits, gym memberships and cam girls. Whatever it takes to get you paying. They would prefer you just gave them the money outright but if they have to do a video to get it then ok. If you insist.

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don't forget time-shares

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Games People Play...

Oh the games people play now
Every night and every day now
Never meaning what they say now
And never saying what they mean

And they while away the hours
In their ivory towers
'Till they're covered up with flowers
In the back of a black limousine

Though we make one another cry
Break our hearts when we say goodbye
Cross our hearts and we'll hope to die
Said the other was to blame

Neither one will ever give in
Though we gaze on an eight by ten
Thinking 'bout the things that might have been
And it's a dirty rotten shame

Talking about you and me
And the games people play

People walking up to you
Singing glory hallelujah
And they're trying to sock it to you
In the name of the Lord

Gonna teach you how to meditate
Read your horoscope and cheat your fate
And furthermore to hell with hate
Come on get on board

Look around tell me what you see
What's happening to you and me
God grant me the serenity
To remember who I am

'Cause you've given up your sanity
All your pride and your vanity
Turn your back on humanity
And you don't give a damn

Talking about you and me
And the games people play

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great song--have you heard john cougar mellencamp play that song, its good too

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Response & corollary question to "Professor's" re: "Incorrect self-image."

A few days ago, Professor posed an interesting question titled, "Does CC give hosts an incorrect self-image?" As I was responding to it in the thread, it occurred to me to ask the corollary question: "Does CC give guests an incorrect self-image?" While I recognize there is a qualitative distinction insofar as guests are not in the employ of CC, but since it is scarcely deniable that being here has some sort of an effect on hosts and guests alike, my question is, what effect does being here at CC have on guests?

For context see the original question & discussion. I have pasted my response (part of the original thread) here:

Regarding Professor’s original question, my first reaction is to say that CC does not “give” anyone anything as such. But perhaps the professor meant, what does the experience of being here do to a host’s self-image. In any case, it is scarcely deniable that being here in any capacity (host or guest) must have some effect or influence. The question is what kind and to what extent. The Professor asks, rhetorically I assume, if this experience gives hosts an “incorrect” self-image by reason of being showered with compliments and constantly being told they are beautiful, when this stands in contrast to what they would experience in the “real” world—an idea we all take for granted, but the meaning of which in-and-of itself is not altogether clear. But for now, let’s keep it simple and accept the distinction.

I think the answer to the Professor’s question depends largely upon the host herself. Those who have a firm sense of who they are will be affected less than those who do not. Those who are deeply affected by what others think, say and do, are more likely to be affected. So, it is important to remember that those whose egos are easily inflated by compliments will be just as easily deflated by insults. And from what hosts tell be, the latter are in greater abundance here. Therefore, the danger of an “incorrect self-image”, it seems to me, is more likely to occur from insults than compliments.

In sum, my answer to the original question is: 1) CC does not “give” any sort of self-image, but provides the medium by which a host’s sense of herself is affected. 2) Everyone here—hosts and guests---is affected, in different ways and to a different extent. 3) The extent to which a person is affected depends upon that individual’s sense of herself, but an “incorrect self-image” is more likely to occur from insults than compliments.
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One host I knew gained a lot of self-confidence and her English got a lot better. Unfortunately, she stayed too long and grew very jaded and bitter.

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I believe most members who come here lie. They do not reveal themselves to host via a cam so they lie about their age and their physical appearance. If they need to send a pic they can get one in a few minutes from Hotornot. Just pick an image of a young man who had a lot of votes and was considered hot to the ladies and pretend it is your own picture. They create an image of a young, handsome, hip guy who comes to CC because he just broke up with his gf, or his job or school is keeping him too busy to date, or he stumbled on the site and he thinks the girls here are bright and beautiful and oh so cool (he peppers his speech with youthful expressions) All bullshit designed to get the host to think of him as a friend, a peer, a cool guy. Not some old fart. The idea is to get a better show, a cheaper or free show, and get into the host's head. That is the image he is pushing to the host. His image of himself is never in question. He is a failure socially, emotionally and ethically. That doesnt stop him for a second.

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I don't "give cam" because she's not paying. Plus why show my messy living room and if I am pleasuring myself I only let a girl see that if she is next to me in reality.

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Professor, You raise yet another interesting question and aspect of the complicated psychology that motivates people to come here. So, it is your considered opinion that "most" guests lie about their age, image, etc.? Frankly, I haven't given this aspect of it much thought, but I don't doubt what you say is true, if not for "most," at least for some guests. What we have here then, among other things, is a cyber-masquerade fantasy ball. Which raises a question that has occured to me: Since it appears to be the case that many people post messages here using different names, why doesn't CC require that all participants use their screen name, or not be allowed to post? At the very least it would stop this silly and cowardly adolescent practice of hiding behind a different mask in order to attack someone. Perhaps I'll post the question to the Forum. I suspect the cowards who hide behind various pseudonyms will object; those who do not will be in favor.

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and why do you think posting under one's screename is any less of a lie?

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Valid point, "???/".Granted, the screen name in-and-of-itself is a pseudonym. And I'll take your point a step further: Even in the 'real' world we all wear masks. In fact, the word "person" comes from the Latin, "persona", meaning "mask." That said, I still maintain that requiring the use of the real screen name would remove a layer of subterfuge---if not entirely, at least significantly---and the Forum would be a better place for it. Even knowing there will always be those whose principal aim here is to dissemble, would anyone here argue that the Forum would not be improved by their absence?

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I disagree...requiring the screename will give, for people like you, an illusion of there being less subterfuge, of there being more order. I say revel in the illusion, in the anonymity, in the chaos.

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why not go th other way and instead prohinit anyone from posting under their screename, then all the fake personalities, puffed up personas, personal melodramas would be gone, for example for each post thread you would be given a number.....we'd have to discuss ideas I know the egoists here who have created their little fantasy world where they are the super hero or kindly mentor would be no more.

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But then people would just post their name in their message. If they didn't it would be almost impossible to follow a thread. It would also make it impossible to ignore the posts of the people you dislike.

I think I would have to go with Melomane's idea rather than yours.

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no, every thread, you'd be be givena number..that would remain your number thru that thread.....you could then follow that person's thought process and responses through the thread.

Yes for those posters who need to create a persona they could put their name in the body of the message. but then they would have to do that thru every thread ad peoplewould have toa ctually read the message to find out who it was from....tiring for poster and reader. Im not proposing this as an idea that would fly. because these forums are dominated by the perosnalities that have been created here, their egos couldnt stand it if they were reduced to numbers, the role of their fictional personas reduced and ideas discussed instead. That is why I dont think melon name's ideas when you come down to it don't have much to do about lifting the standard of this porn forum, decorum, nasty posts, adolescent posts (you will have plenty of that even if you can only post with screename....some of the most juvenile posts come from people with screenames..and dont get me started on accountability! lol)...what he and others are really concerned about is the danger the anonomous posts place on their well crafted, ego-centric porn forum personas.

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Dear Ms. "bla," Just as you are welcome here, you are welcome to leave. I assume nobody has forced you here against your will. If you find this conversation boring, by all means look for one that you find more to your taste.

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Bla your right! :)
This is a place for fun
between consenting adults!
As with anything, a little caution is wise ;)

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This is a place for members to indulge their sex addiction and for hosts to fester their greed. Fun is only fleeting and illusionary. Next time you are all together stand up and tell all you friends and family about all the fun you are having here. Go into detail. See how happy they are for you. If you can't share your fun what kind of fun is it?

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You will notice how simple I see life!
That is how a life should be lived!
I used to make things so complicated and hard!
Professor it is too bad you can't see this!
Also you don't make sense!
Read what you wrote again.
Would you then tell all your private life
to family and friends?????
Its nobody's rats petunia what happens
in a persons private life!
There I will get off the soapbox now ;)
Who's next? :P

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You state that you have the same right to post as Melomane while previously you told him not to post. Surely he has the same right to post as you ? As he said, if you find his posts boring they are clearly labelled so just pass on by without reading them if you do not like them.

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This self-contradictory reply is amusing. Bla, is put off by the question and ensuing discussion, yet he (or she) comes here and reads them. It reminds me of the old lady who calls the police to report an indecent exposure. When the police officer comes to her door, he asks for the specifics. She said, "Just ;look out that window, you'll see it." The officer does so, but responds, "Lady, I don't see anyone, " to which she replies, "Stand on that chair. You'll see what I'm talking about."

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oh lordy, lordy

What do you say when you don't look carefully at a host's archives and you go into video and she exposes a pair of grossly overblown, huge watermelon-sized tits that are as appealing as 2 actual watermelons from the Guiness Book?
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You say, "Excuse me, I have the wrong number," then rush headlong to the vomitorium. :)

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hmmm-- I say those look cool

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Hey Chaser, Go for them! Different strokes (no pun intended) for different folks. For my part, I find these huge melon-tits (fake or real) grotesque, and one of the most off-putting, unerotic and all-too-common (in both senses) images here is the picture of a woman sucking one of her gargantuan mammaries. But hey, one man's delight is another man's disgust. Bon appetite!

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thanks--cool
and no fun intended-thats cool

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amazinggirl?

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What do you mean?

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dense?

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WAY TOO MUCH make-up

Ladies.....do you know that there can be TOO MUCH MAKE UP? ...... Some look like a Raccoon with so much eye shadow on....... you should let your natural beauty show. MOST....if not ALL.....look better with NO make-up on.
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just send me a pc ! no lectures ok !

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u are so cutw with out much, i think he means just do normal as u would, if going out

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RE: WAY TOO MUCH make-up

but dear cara.... with you i am in love...

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dear "Nadeen"

Oh, but dear.... the thought of you naked is sooooooo appealing

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I have seen her naked many times............I feel sorry for you

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RE: dear

yes ladies--thats good advice, i agree with dave, my grandmother never wore make up and she was a beautiful woman , if it wasnt for her, my mother wouldnt had been born, than I wouldnt had, and the story goes on and I dont know what in the heck I am saying, so go ahead and put all the make up you want, wear it well, you do look good--cool

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one fan got jealous of another one and decided to touch him! haha

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Makeup is toxic, you know. Full of carcinogens and junk.
Give it up, ladies. Before it's too late.

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RE: WAY TOO MUCH make-up

all natural! no need to put tons of makeup on... natural beauty is much nicer! for those who like to use it... the best advice was above... like you are going out for the night to dinner or a club

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Kaz u aways look gr8 Hun. Doubt they'll be pics of me without the slap LOL...I love Make-Up, and Love Dressing Up on Cam part of the fun 4 me, would indeed feel naked without it, and I dont recall seeing Cat Woman without any slap on, the roleplays I do definately require Make-up !!!

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i love wearing make up too! and "fuck me" pumps! weeeeeeeee!

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lollies=))

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