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Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
some of you are willing to use a dildo ATM, which I find really exciting. I am just curious how you get your ass so clean first. This is an honest question, since my girl friend said it isn't possible to do safely.
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
Of course it isn't, but then many do not care and do anything for a few pennies.
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
That's quite an assumption and most definitely a wrong one. While I'm not saying it's a bad thing to do it, especially since some really enjoy it, assuming most everyone would do it just for a profit is bullshit. Personally, I would never do something I'm not comfortable with no matter how much you were willing to give me for it and I'm pretty sure lots share the same opinion about these things.
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
I first give myself an enema :-))
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
Also enema is good to use;) Nothing worng with it, it will make it clean and ready for anal:)
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
Sure, nothing guarantees it, but at least like this ull be sure that ur bf will not have a surprise on his dick when he takes it out lol. And noone asks u to have anal every day, its okay to have it if its just sometimes, and btw nothing to be ashamed of. Everything that 2 ppl do in the bedroom is fine, as long as they are in love and both enjoy what they do. If u dont like it-its another story, but there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. My opinion.
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
The original poster is on about ass-to-mouth, which means, fuck your ass with dildo or fingers and the suck it. No enema can clean you that well so your not transferring nasty bacteria from your ass into your mouth. His gf is right, it's not hygienic and can be dangerous for health. Ass-to-mouth is very popular in porn and probably on cam and maybe anywhere the woman is PAID to do it. Who on earth would want to do that otherwise!
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
How can u possibly lose enema in ur ass?????
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
mine is so loose now u could lose a whole enema bag. :-))
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
Are u sure u know what the word enema means?:)
U fill enema with water and spray the water from there to ur ass, keep water inside for like 305 mins then let it out, and like this 3 times. U CANT lose it in ur ass, cuz its simply cant be in ur ass, just a part of it can be inside while spraying, but then u take it out lol))
U fill enema with water and spray the water from there to ur ass, keep water inside for like 305 mins then let it out, and like this 3 times. U CANT lose it in ur ass, cuz its simply cant be in ur ass, just a part of it can be inside while spraying, but then u take it out lol))
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
You seem to know a lot about anal... can you send me a ccmail with your hostname? I would love to visit you in video.
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
Sorry but there is not point for that:) I dont do hardcore in video:) Which means no anal and no toys:)
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
I can settle with fingers :P
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
Lol yeah im sure u can..But i cant))))))
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
Talk about getting blue balls ;)
How about a hot conversation about it one of these days lol? I know, I have low standards :P
How about a hot conversation about it one of these days lol? I know, I have low standards :P
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
Nah, not an option either:) I know im a very boring host lol)
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
Judging by your reply to the original post you seem very far from boring ;)
I thought this was a sex chat site lol...
I thought this was a sex chat site lol...
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
We need someone to do anal fist show. Oh never mind, I forgot this is softcore site.
RE: Disgusting but Real Question (do not read if squemish) for Hosts
i say i do it, i show i do it..but i dont actually do it..but u r happy seing it:))
New category coming soon, need name
It will star imshy, I'm not your friend and tisme in a 3 ring sex rodeo. But we need a name. Got a good one? First prize an orgy wiht the 3 aformentioned dudes. 2nd prize another orgy with Dog the Bounty Hunter. 3rd prize an orgy with the corpse of Fidel Castro
RE: New category coming soon, need name
wow a category for the 3 funniest guys on cc...i KNEW we'd get the recognition we deserve one day *TAKES A BOW*
RE: New category coming soon, need name
im sad i wasnt mention....sigh...i will be in my corner:P
RE: New category coming soon, need name
u can b the cameraman/stand-in incase one of use pulls a muscle ;)
RE: New category coming soon, need name
Funniest is the razor-sharp, invective of his put-downs. My favourite was "dude...sux to be you", for one moment I thought Oscar Wilde must have been reborn.
RE: New category coming soon, need name
im happy i could brighten ur day with that one...took me a long time to think of it but the end result really was worth it :)
Question: Name the ONE thing...
...that was the MOST romantic thing that someone ever did for you. What was the one thing they did that really made you feel warm and loved and made you realize they truly cared for you.
RE: Question: Name the ONE thing...
he let me speak, was strict but kind, asked right and bold questions, did what he promised, supported me morally and didn't care about what everybody else thought. It was at the time when I was pretty down and it seemed to me that everything was against me...
He had the most beautiful penetrating blue eyes and gave me the energy to look at the world from a new angle and believe in people again. I felt that there was only me and him in the world and he is not interested in getting something from me. We didn't sleep after that if you ask it yourself. He gave me what I needed at the right moment- made me feel I had a reliable friend. ( Usually I am not into platonic relationships:) )
He had the most beautiful penetrating blue eyes and gave me the energy to look at the world from a new angle and believe in people again. I felt that there was only me and him in the world and he is not interested in getting something from me. We didn't sleep after that if you ask it yourself. He gave me what I needed at the right moment- made me feel I had a reliable friend. ( Usually I am not into platonic relationships:) )
RE: Question: Name the ONE thing...
"( Usually I am not into platonic relationships:) )" Well since he was gay, platonic is the only option. If it were me, I'd be banging you silly. Oh wait, you're Glamour host, never mind.
RE: Question: Name the ONE thing...
I will consider about having a good warm piggy-guy in my bed for the winter. You just have to catch the right moment;)
RE: Question: Name the ONE thing...
coz im so sweet and kind and nice and cute and fun to b around...didnt u see me say that the other day? damn!!!
Name the ONE thing...
As stated in one of the films: " All big feels are only illusion of anything what never will become". I'm always looking for love: real,bold,breathtaking sen and i had all it, i THOUGHT i had. What could be more sentimental than crying on the shoulder of a man who always aspired to leadership? Who can be more faithful than erasing your dirty pants man, where there is no washing mashine? What could be more romantic than finding a man drawing a portrait of yours, standing barefoot at knees? But in the end all of my happiest moments - one, as in the movie "The Holiday": "how the hell I might seem that all is well?" - said a woman after a few sad years. Same with me. I had much but have nothing. Mybe becouse i am such, mybe becouse life is so....but romantic always is good, it's warming my heart
Why do most members have blow up dolls in video?
They forget to hide them before turning on their cams.
RE: Why do most members have blow up dolls in video?
lol.... thx god sometimes their just blow up dolls .. and not else
like dogs or cat
like dogs or cat
RE: Why do most members have blow up dolls in video?
In case my credit card maxes out during a video I take off my glasses and wiggle the doll and talk in a falsetto voice with a Russian accent.
RE: Why do most members have blow up dolls in video?
Excellent idea! I need to duct tape the holes in my doll (piercing her nipples, bad idea) and have her ready next time my card fails!
RE: Why do most members have blow up dolls in video?
You love that doll so much you should marry it......so......i did....
RE: Why do most members have blow up dolls in video?
Rubber Fucky, you're the one!
You make bath time so much fun!
Rubber Fucky, I'm awfully fond of you!
You make bath time so much fun!
Rubber Fucky, I'm awfully fond of you!
RE: Why do most members have blow up dolls in video?
i get so tired of all this profiling going on these days. My girlfriend and I went to the airport and they wouldn't let her on. Said she might blow up unless I let the air out of her!
Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
These are the same kinds of things children have. I thought appearing underage was banned on cc?
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
lol :P
i dont think that someone will want to fuck stuffed jirafee:P
i dont think that someone will want to fuck stuffed jirafee:P
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
Don't be too sure about that, there are real weird folks on this site my dear
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
do u think that stuffed jiraffe,elephant and monkey can attract someone in a sexual way ? :OO oh my...:))))
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
From what other hosts tell me, yes. And well about half of the membership belongs in a mental hospital and the other half belong in jail
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
oh please, some guys just kidding at girls here...i never take serious funny requiests.
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
What about those of us who belong in both ? :(
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
When I saw your first post about the giraffe I was going to agree with you but now that you've brought in the monkey and the elephant I think I'll have to change my mind :P
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
Yes they are...a member asked me to f*** my teddy..what a weirdo...after that i had to hide my teddies..we live in a sick world...lol
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
Somebody once asked me to sit on and smother a teddy bear LOL
it was fun :) not for the teddy bear :P
it was fun :) not for the teddy bear :P
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
caz they simply as a decor ... for underground objects ... so the room it wont look boring
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
Some are working from home and their bedrooms have stuffed animals from their youth. Some just like them....many are still teenagers. Plus it makes a cute prop.
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
If I get a little "ImNotYourFriend" doll made up would you like it ? :P
RE: Why do so many hosts have stuffed animals in video?
alot of these silly toys were bought and sent by infatuated members with their bad sense of style and class. The hosts simply have them on display to humour the aforementioned members.
transfer my funds to friend accnt..
i dont have personal account to i try to ask epass if i can use a friend account and they say' :;;>>>>>> Please be advised that you can receive your payments from the sender to
your e-Wallet and then you can withdraw either through a Bank Wire
Transfer or a US Checking Account withdrawal or a MasterCard Credit/Debit
Card withdrawal.
Please be advised that as per the new update received from our Account
Verification Department, you will be unable to use the funds which are
available in your Visa Virtual Card.
Our Account Verification Department is working to resolve the issue. Only
once the issue is resolved, you will be able to use the funds which are
available in your Visa Virtual Card. The funds are safe and secure.
As per our records we could see that you have set your e-Wallet as Default
Credit Fund, you will be able to receive the future payments into your
e-Wallet and withdraw them to your Personal Bank Account through Bank Wire
Transfer. If you have a US Checking Account or MasterCard Credit/Debit
Card, then you can register and verify it to withdraw the funds to the
respective Accounts.
We seek your co-operation and patience.
You can withdraw funds to your Personal Bank Account through Bank Wire
Transfer for which you need to meet the following requirements:
1. The Beneficiary Name on the Bank Account must match exactly with the
name registered in your ePassporte Account,
2. You need to agree for the US$50.00 Bank Wire Transfer Fee,
3. You need to submit the completely filled in Wire Transfer Request Form
(Wire Disbursement Form) along with a copy of your Government Issued Photo
ID.
In addition to that it will take 7-10 business days for the funds to
reflect in your Personal Bank Account.
Please send an email by agreeing for US$50.00 Bank Wire Transfer Fee, so
that we may forward the issue to our Account Verification Department.
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your e-Wallet and then you can withdraw either through a Bank Wire
Transfer or a US Checking Account withdrawal or a MasterCard Credit/Debit
Card withdrawal.
Please be advised that as per the new update received from our Account
Verification Department, you will be unable to use the funds which are
available in your Visa Virtual Card.
Our Account Verification Department is working to resolve the issue. Only
once the issue is resolved, you will be able to use the funds which are
available in your Visa Virtual Card. The funds are safe and secure.
As per our records we could see that you have set your e-Wallet as Default
Credit Fund, you will be able to receive the future payments into your
e-Wallet and withdraw them to your Personal Bank Account through Bank Wire
Transfer. If you have a US Checking Account or MasterCard Credit/Debit
Card, then you can register and verify it to withdraw the funds to the
respective Accounts.
We seek your co-operation and patience.
You can withdraw funds to your Personal Bank Account through Bank Wire
Transfer for which you need to meet the following requirements:
1. The Beneficiary Name on the Bank Account must match exactly with the
name registered in your ePassporte Account,
2. You need to agree for the US$50.00 Bank Wire Transfer Fee,
3. You need to submit the completely filled in Wire Transfer Request Form
(Wire Disbursement Form) along with a copy of your Government Issued Photo
ID.
In addition to that it will take 7-10 business days for the funds to
reflect in your Personal Bank Account.
Please send an email by agreeing for US$50.00 Bank Wire Transfer Fee, so
that we may forward the issue to our Account Verification Department.
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RE: transfer my funds to friend accnt..
I am sorry to say, but what i know about ePassporte and their customer service, i dont believe they are very willing to find any solution to help customers withdraw the money from accounts.
And if you use some rude words when contacting them, they just block your account and say they wont do busines with you anymore and they keep your money, that has really happened to many.
As you can tell from the reply you got, they just tell you bullshit that really dont answer to your question at all.
And if you use some rude words when contacting them, they just block your account and say they wont do busines with you anymore and they keep your money, that has really happened to many.
As you can tell from the reply you got, they just tell you bullshit that really dont answer to your question at all.
RE: transfer my funds to friend accnt..
50% was what they always charged for "wire", nothing new there
RE: transfer my funds to friend accnt..
$50.00? A supervisor told me a few days ago that it was $3,00 or $5,00 for the bank transfer after I registered a USA checking account. Definitely was not $50.00!! There was no option for bank accounts from other countries. And the Mastercard transfer fee was also very low if under $400, and I think it was 1% of any amount over $400 so $1000 would just cost $10. Hopefully that has not changed for those lucky enough to have Mastercards and their money in their ewallets. But $50? WTF???
If anything, Epassporte should waive all fees like CC has until they fix this mess. See what these people are about? They're raising their fees to make up for the money they're losing until the visa issue is resolved.
Epassporte is scum! Do not expect to ever see your money. I hate to say that, and I hope I am wrong, but they are the scum of the Earth! And if you ever are lucky enough to get your money, close you Epassporte account immediately after. Only a fool would deal with that company after all of this.
If you don't make a lot so the cost of having CC wire money means a lot, then try being paid once a month instead of two or maybe open up studio accounts with friends that you trust and combine your payments and split the fee. But don't ever use Epassporte again!
And to think some people were defending them.
If anything, Epassporte should waive all fees like CC has until they fix this mess. See what these people are about? They're raising their fees to make up for the money they're losing until the visa issue is resolved.
Epassporte is scum! Do not expect to ever see your money. I hate to say that, and I hope I am wrong, but they are the scum of the Earth! And if you ever are lucky enough to get your money, close you Epassporte account immediately after. Only a fool would deal with that company after all of this.
If you don't make a lot so the cost of having CC wire money means a lot, then try being paid once a month instead of two or maybe open up studio accounts with friends that you trust and combine your payments and split the fee. But don't ever use Epassporte again!
And to think some people were defending them.
RE: transfer my funds to friend accnt..
I may have misread the post. It might be that Epassporte is either adding a bank wire method for for all customers regardless of country or that they simply never mentioned that as an option to me. Either way, $50 is wrong.
For someone that was using bank machines, the fee should be no more than what they would pay at that machine. Epassporte should eat the difference, if any, and do the right thing like CC did. In fact, CC would be doing nothing wrong if they didn't waive the fee but they took the extra step of waiving it. That shows you the difference between a company that knows how to treat people and one that does not.
For someone that was using bank machines, the fee should be no more than what they would pay at that machine. Epassporte should eat the difference, if any, and do the right thing like CC did. In fact, CC would be doing nothing wrong if they didn't waive the fee but they took the extra step of waiving it. That shows you the difference between a company that knows how to treat people and one that does not.
RE: transfer my funds to friend accnt..
Read what EPassporte send. $50 is the fee for a bank wire transfer. This would normally be to accounts outside the USA. If EPassporte bears both sending and recieving bank charges then $50 is very reasonable. If this only covers the sending charges then i agree it is high. $30 or $35 would be more reasonable.
RE: transfer my funds to friend accnt..
My US bank charges $40 for an international wire transfer, so I suspect it's not e-passporte necessarily trying profit off this issue, but simply passing a cost along, perhaps with a markup. As to what I think about banks and their fees, that's another story.
RE: transfer my funds to friend accnt..
Yes I agree that CC has been awesome through this!! For them to
go the extra step and waive the transfer fee shows just how great they
are. Also their customer service has been very quick with responses
even though I am sure that they are getting an overwhelming amount of emails and calls. Thumbs up CC....thanks!
go the extra step and waive the transfer fee shows just how great they
are. Also their customer service has been very quick with responses
even though I am sure that they are getting an overwhelming amount of emails and calls. Thumbs up CC....thanks!
RE: transfer my funds to friend accnt..
It's actually Visa, that pulled the plug. It seems that the owner of epassporte is also the man behind the movie "Middle Men", about the web cam industry
RE: Actions speak louder than words
i promise never to vid again..i really mean to keep this promise:P
RE: Actions speak louder than words
Maybe it comes with the age and experience but in the meantime I think that you should even plan before acting....
And I also don't like partners (men) who give promises and then act as if they have forgotten about them and had never promised. Pathetic!
And I also don't like partners (men) who give promises and then act as if they have forgotten about them and had never promised. Pathetic!
RE: Actions speak louder than words
I fell in love with a host. She also acted as being in love with me. There were several details that showed me she really meant that she loved me. We had an agreement that I will travel to russia to meet "only" her. And she promised she will meet only "me." No other member, only me. However one day before I traveled I found out by a member in comm. chat that she met "others." She confessed and she admitted to like other men and that it was interesting to meet other men. It was heartbreaking and very disappointing for me... I don't think promises work. Not in real life, much less in the virtual world.
RE: Actions speak louder than words
Sorry to hear that :( I think again it is integrity of the person speaking the words and what importance they put on being sincere and truthful. Personally I am on the "Show Me Plan". Show me through your actions that you are worthy of my believing you. Unfortunately she did show you that she was not sincere but be thankful that you
learned then and not later after she had depleted your heart and your bank account.
learned then and not later after she had depleted your heart and your bank account.
RE: Actions speak louder than words
promises work. it is the promiser who does not. Don't assume all promises are false. It all depends on the person
RE: Actions speak louder than words
You are right, I have also met such people. If I get a man who fulfills all important promises he gives to me ,I am going to stick to him and would do my best to make him never want to leave me :))
Honesty and trust are most important between parters.
hmm and good sex as well;)
Honesty and trust are most important between parters.
hmm and good sex as well;)
RE: Actions speak louder than words
I think that many mean well when they promise something but it all comes down to integrity. How important is their "word" to that person.
Personally I believe in the saying "mean what you say and say what you mean". Obviously on this site people are not necessarily the people that they are in real life.
People with little integrity often are not accountable for their promises or word with using the statement "well, I changed my mind". LOL
Personally I believe in the saying "mean what you say and say what you mean". Obviously on this site people are not necessarily the people that they are in real life.
People with little integrity often are not accountable for their promises or word with using the statement "well, I changed my mind". LOL
RE: Actions speak louder than words
"Even here on the CC is given a lot of promises, but who would have served them, if you promise, fulfill it, give promise ......ACT!"
I agree, if you promise in free chat or open to strip in 121, do it!
I agree, if you promise in free chat or open to strip in 121, do it!
RE: Actions speak louder than words
I try to keep promises that I make, but when I am not sure I can not fulfill something I will answer with "maybe" when the outcome depends on the actions of others or something which I have no control over.
One thing that bothers me is when I answer "maybe" or " I will try" and someone says "no, answer you will or you wont". Why do some people try to make others promise something they do not know if they can fulfill?
I definitely agree that a promise of love should never be entered into lightly or without much forethought. Vows should be kept when made. Love can survive many difficult situations and problems, if it does not then it most likely was not love to begin with.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
As for the person in the military, not being able to wait for a loved one to return, or wait until you can return to a loved one, is nothing but a sign of weakness and lack of commitment. My mother waited for my father while he was away during Vietnam, and my father waited until he could return to her. He was drafted less than a year after they were married and it was very difficult for him to leave, but he fulfilled his commitment to both his country and his family. So many people today only want to fulfill commitments to themselves and no one else. It seems worse with each younger generation, more and more concerned with self than others. Instead of commitment to others being the standard, it has become the rare jewel. If you can find someone who will honor their commitments, and keep their promises, even to the benefit of others over detriment to themselves, then you have found someone worth holding on to.
One thing that bothers me is when I answer "maybe" or " I will try" and someone says "no, answer you will or you wont". Why do some people try to make others promise something they do not know if they can fulfill?
I definitely agree that a promise of love should never be entered into lightly or without much forethought. Vows should be kept when made. Love can survive many difficult situations and problems, if it does not then it most likely was not love to begin with.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
As for the person in the military, not being able to wait for a loved one to return, or wait until you can return to a loved one, is nothing but a sign of weakness and lack of commitment. My mother waited for my father while he was away during Vietnam, and my father waited until he could return to her. He was drafted less than a year after they were married and it was very difficult for him to leave, but he fulfilled his commitment to both his country and his family. So many people today only want to fulfill commitments to themselves and no one else. It seems worse with each younger generation, more and more concerned with self than others. Instead of commitment to others being the standard, it has become the rare jewel. If you can find someone who will honor their commitments, and keep their promises, even to the benefit of others over detriment to themselves, then you have found someone worth holding on to.
RE: Actions speak louder than words
I think a part of your message is from the Bible:
First Corinthians 13:4-8 provides a perfect description for agape : "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."
The love described here is the love between the God and his children. Unconditional love. I think it is hardly possible between 2 loving people. I prefer "friendship-love" more. Or "philos love". :)
First Corinthians 13:4-8 provides a perfect description for agape : "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."
The love described here is the love between the God and his children. Unconditional love. I think it is hardly possible between 2 loving people. I prefer "friendship-love" more. Or "philos love". :)
RE: Actions speak louder than words
I disagree. To love in that way is not possible to do it perfectly. None of us can love perfectly. But we can love givingly, and unselfishly. We can consider the other person's needs before our own. We can lay down our own needs, our own desires, our wants and wishes, and seek what is good for the other person. If someone I love is in danger, I am willing to endanger myself to help them. For someone that I truly love, a child, a spouse, a parent, a friend, I may even be willing to give my life for them -- at least, if I was ever in a situation where that was required of me, I believe I would be willing to
RE: Actions speak louder than words
It sounds noble... And what qualities should have the person you love? Would you be able to love a selfish person who misuses you love for financial reasons or just to feel self-worthy with you?
I think if it is about a love not between a parent and a child, both partners should have the ability to give and to take... I believe, only then it can result in a long-term relationship.
I think if it is about a love not between a parent and a child, both partners should have the ability to give and to take... I believe, only then it can result in a long-term relationship.
RE: Actions speak louder than words
like I said, we can't do it perfectly, but we can do it, and we can grow in that kind of love. The love we are talking here is a choice, not just a feeling. I can choose to be patient, or I can allow myself to be impatient. I can choose to be calm tempered, or I can allow myself to be irritable, resentful, etc. I can treat the jerk with respect. I can forgive the one who has wronged me. It is a choice. Will I choose? sometimes no. Sometimes I will allow my self, my feelings, to get in the way of my choosing. But the more I grow in that love, and practice that love, the more I will make the right choice. Will it ever be perfect? Will I never fail in it? No. Because I am human. But when I don't fail, maybe a little bit of God is living in me, helping me.
RE: Actions speak louder than words
God would not be happy with you spending time on a porn site/
RE: Actions speak louder than words
Actually, that's not necessarily true -- it simply depends on what your religion is. For example, as two flip sides of the same coin, if you're Christian and Catholic... and you come here to yank and get off... in the eyes of the church, masturbation is considered a minor sin. On the other hand, if you're Christian but a Protestant instead, in the eyes of the church masturbation IS allowed and it's NOT a sin at all.
In fact, times are changing even for the Catholic church. These days the world has to deal with the spread of AIDS and sexual disease, as well as skyrocketing rates of unwed teen pregnancy. As a result, there is now a movement within the Catholic church -- from younger priests and bishops -- to simply acknowledge that masturbation is a natural part of life. After all, someone "pleasuring them self" to relieve sexual tension is obviously a FAR better alternative than the spread of AIDS, sexual disease, or unwanted pregnancies. So even in the Catholic church, there is a growing movement to view sex in an all-new 21st century way, and to no longer consider certain things the "sins" that they once were.
In fact, times are changing even for the Catholic church. These days the world has to deal with the spread of AIDS and sexual disease, as well as skyrocketing rates of unwed teen pregnancy. As a result, there is now a movement within the Catholic church -- from younger priests and bishops -- to simply acknowledge that masturbation is a natural part of life. After all, someone "pleasuring them self" to relieve sexual tension is obviously a FAR better alternative than the spread of AIDS, sexual disease, or unwanted pregnancies. So even in the Catholic church, there is a growing movement to view sex in an all-new 21st century way, and to no longer consider certain things the "sins" that they once were.
RE: Actions speak louder than words
That's a really sensible replay. It sounds as if you would take life as a game. Which I basically like in men. And I like the idea that one can have some control over oneself and one's feelings.
It gives the freedom of choice.. I see so often that people get bored with each other after a certain amount of years (the not real love dies after 4 years as a rule) but they simply give up and continue to live together making themselves and their children unhappy..
mmm forgiving a jerk- I like the idea. I would also forgive him just to get rid of him in my head. Just let that jerkish situation go and go on.
I hope you will find that perfect love even when it comes late. And I will practice, practice as well:)
It gives the freedom of choice.. I see so often that people get bored with each other after a certain amount of years (the not real love dies after 4 years as a rule) but they simply give up and continue to live together making themselves and their children unhappy..
mmm forgiving a jerk- I like the idea. I would also forgive him just to get rid of him in my head. Just let that jerkish situation go and go on.
I hope you will find that perfect love even when it comes late. And I will practice, practice as well:)
fact
A little known cricketing fact...
The first testicular guard was used in cricket in 1874 and the first helmet was used in 1974.
It took 100 years for men to realise that their brains could also be important!
The first testicular guard was used in cricket in 1874 and the first helmet was used in 1974.
It took 100 years for men to realise that their brains could also be important!
IT S BEEN A TOUGH YEAR (time for some humor)
It was a tough year, but I made it !!!
But not everyone is as lucky as I am......
The economy is so bad that I got a pre-declined credit card in the mail.
I ordered a burger at McDonald's, and the kid behind the counter asked, "Can you afford fries with that?"
CEO's are now playing miniature golf.
If the bank returns your check marked "Insufficient Funds," you have to call them and ask if they mean you or them .
Hot Wheels and Matchbox stocks are trading higher than GM.
McDonald's is selling the 1/4 'ouncer'.
Parents in Beverly Hills and Malibu are firing their nannies and learning their children's names.
A truckload of Americans was caught sneaking into Mexico .
Dick Cheney took his stockbroker hunting.
Motel Six won't leave the light on anymore.
The Mafia is laying off judges.
BP Oil laid off 25 Congressmen.
Congress says they are looking into the Bernard Madoff scandal. Oh Great!! The guy who made $50 Billion disappear is being investigated by the people who made $1.5 Trillion disappear!
And, finally...
I was so depressed last night thinking about the economy, wars, jobs, my savings, Social Security, retirement funds, and our bleak future, that I called the Suicide Lifeline and was connected to a call center in Pakistan . When I told them I was suicidal, they got all excited, and asked if I could drive a truck.
RE: IT S BEEN A TOUGH YEAR (time for some humor)
And I heard Donald Trump was washing dishes for a living
RE: IT S BEEN A TOUGH YEAR (time for some humor)
laugh me ass off-love it, sounds like another good year coming up
Why i the Glamhost I see posting here so angry?
Did she see INYF on cam? Imshy on cam? both? Ok that could be disconcerting, but take a pill and calm down. Just take 2 or 3 happy pills and everything will be ok in the morning.
RE: Why i the Glamhost I see posting here so angry?
no,she found out that she has been promised to me in an arranged marriage.so of course she has heard about my miniscule love truncheon & my soap allergy.i guess you could say she's either suffering from premarital nerves or has the shits because once we're married she will be a social outcast :--)
RE: Why i the Glamhost I see posting here so angry?
So many glamour hosts here. Which one you mean? ))
RE: Why i the Glamhost I see posting here so angry?
usually if a host see's me on cam she quits and goes into therapy...so u can rule me out :p
RE: Why i the Glamhost I see posting here so angry?
its understandable imshy. your a little bit on the scary side. im suprised you ever dated some of the hosts here. No , i correct that , IM SHOCKED !!!!
RE: Why i the Glamhost I see posting here so angry?
hey...not as shocked as i am...but u know what...i guess im actually better looking....kinder....politer...more charming and more fun than u lot think....so...in conclusion...i stand by my words that i AM amazing :p
RE: Why i the Glamhost I see posting here so angry?
shy you forgot your best quality ...modesty.
RE: Why i the Glamhost I see posting here so angry?
First time I ever hooked up a cam for a 121 I thought I'd turned gay as I got turned on by this gorgeous man on screen looking back at me ....
Epassporte - to hosts
I am sure many of you are upset right now. You do have some options to get any money that is currently in your Epassporte account. As to future payments, I would avoid Epassporte even if they fix whatever problem they are having. They are very difficult to deal with.
Even without the ability to use a bank machine or to buy stuff online, money can be withdrawn from a "Personal" Epassporte Account if the user registers either 1) a credit or debit card (I was told to use a Mastercard since they are having problems with VISA) or 2) a checking account in the USA. The problem of course is that most CC hosts have "Business Affiliate Accounts", not "Personal Accounts". I am also guessing that many don't have credit/debit cards either, not to mention that they are usually not in the USA.
I do not know if you can register a checking account in the USA or a Mastercard with a Business Affiliate Account so email Epassporte and ask. They are difficult to deal with and don't like answering questions about things other than the caller's own account, and I don't have a Business Afffiliate Account. But even if you cannot register a Mastercard or U.S. checking account, you still have options.
1. If you are in a country that allows you to have a Personal Account, then create one and transfer the money from your Business Affiliate Account to your Personal Account and then register your Mastercard or checking account (if you have one in the USA) to get your money. It doesn't cost that much to transfer the money to the bank account or credit card but it does take about two weeks.
2. If you do not have the ability to get a Personal Account and it turns out that you cannot register a Mastercard or U.S. checking account with a Business Affiliate Account (or you simply don't have a Mastercard and cannot get one or are not in the USA), then you will need to ask a friend to help you. The friend will need to have a Personal Account and either a Mastercard or a U.S. checking account that is registered with Epassporte, just like under option #1. You can then send him the money and he can withdraw it and send it to you by another method.
Take note that Business Affiliate accounts cannot receive money except from Business Accounts so he cannot send the money back to you if he has a Personal Account. CC uses a Business Account and you get Business Affiliate Accounts from them. I am not sure if other Business Accounts besides CC can send money to an Affiliate Account obtained from CC so once again, if you send money to your friend's Business Account instead of his Personal Account and then want it back, I don't know if this is possible. Like I said, it definitely is not possible if he has a Personal account, and I doubt Business Affiliate accounts can receive money from other Business Affiliate accounts. Also, I have no idea how one withdraws money from a Business Account after he receives it, but I am guessing that most friends that would be able to help would be using Personal Accounts so they would just needs a Mastercard or a U.S. checking account.
Also do not assume you have a Business Affiliate Account unless you got it from CC. I know one person that got a Personal Account from another site and then registered it with CC so some hosts may have personal accounts, not business afffiliate accounts.
In sum, if you are not currently using a personal account (or perhpas a business acount but I don't know much about these), then you will need 1) to find out if you can register a Mastercard or USA checking account with a business affiliate account and if yes, register the Mastercard or USA bank account with Epassporte, if you have one, 2) to create your own a personal account (or maybe business acount... but check if this will work) and transfer the money to it and withdraw it via a Mastecard or U.S. checking account, or 3) to get a friend with a personal account (or maybe a business account if this works) to help you. Just remember that after you transfer the money to another account, unless you it goes to a business account, you cannot get it back, and I'm not even sure if that would work if CC created that account for you and it is not CC's business account that is sending the money.
The only other possiblity would be for you to ask CC if you can transfer them back the money, they withdraw the money, and then send it under your new payment method. Perhaps they are considering this now.
Even without the ability to use a bank machine or to buy stuff online, money can be withdrawn from a "Personal" Epassporte Account if the user registers either 1) a credit or debit card (I was told to use a Mastercard since they are having problems with VISA) or 2) a checking account in the USA. The problem of course is that most CC hosts have "Business Affiliate Accounts", not "Personal Accounts". I am also guessing that many don't have credit/debit cards either, not to mention that they are usually not in the USA.
I do not know if you can register a checking account in the USA or a Mastercard with a Business Affiliate Account so email Epassporte and ask. They are difficult to deal with and don't like answering questions about things other than the caller's own account, and I don't have a Business Afffiliate Account. But even if you cannot register a Mastercard or U.S. checking account, you still have options.
1. If you are in a country that allows you to have a Personal Account, then create one and transfer the money from your Business Affiliate Account to your Personal Account and then register your Mastercard or checking account (if you have one in the USA) to get your money. It doesn't cost that much to transfer the money to the bank account or credit card but it does take about two weeks.
2. If you do not have the ability to get a Personal Account and it turns out that you cannot register a Mastercard or U.S. checking account with a Business Affiliate Account (or you simply don't have a Mastercard and cannot get one or are not in the USA), then you will need to ask a friend to help you. The friend will need to have a Personal Account and either a Mastercard or a U.S. checking account that is registered with Epassporte, just like under option #1. You can then send him the money and he can withdraw it and send it to you by another method.
Take note that Business Affiliate accounts cannot receive money except from Business Accounts so he cannot send the money back to you if he has a Personal Account. CC uses a Business Account and you get Business Affiliate Accounts from them. I am not sure if other Business Accounts besides CC can send money to an Affiliate Account obtained from CC so once again, if you send money to your friend's Business Account instead of his Personal Account and then want it back, I don't know if this is possible. Like I said, it definitely is not possible if he has a Personal account, and I doubt Business Affiliate accounts can receive money from other Business Affiliate accounts. Also, I have no idea how one withdraws money from a Business Account after he receives it, but I am guessing that most friends that would be able to help would be using Personal Accounts so they would just needs a Mastercard or a U.S. checking account.
Also do not assume you have a Business Affiliate Account unless you got it from CC. I know one person that got a Personal Account from another site and then registered it with CC so some hosts may have personal accounts, not business afffiliate accounts.
In sum, if you are not currently using a personal account (or perhpas a business acount but I don't know much about these), then you will need 1) to find out if you can register a Mastercard or USA checking account with a business affiliate account and if yes, register the Mastercard or USA bank account with Epassporte, if you have one, 2) to create your own a personal account (or maybe business acount... but check if this will work) and transfer the money to it and withdraw it via a Mastecard or U.S. checking account, or 3) to get a friend with a personal account (or maybe a business account if this works) to help you. Just remember that after you transfer the money to another account, unless you it goes to a business account, you cannot get it back, and I'm not even sure if that would work if CC created that account for you and it is not CC's business account that is sending the money.
The only other possiblity would be for you to ask CC if you can transfer them back the money, they withdraw the money, and then send it under your new payment method. Perhaps they are considering this now.
RE: Epassporte - to hosts
It has clearly been stated by Epassporte that unless our funds with them are in the Wallet Account , funds cannot be transferred to our bank accounts. Typically when funds are deposited to the Epassporte Account they are in the Visa Account which includes the Electron Visa and the Virtual Visa accounts. The sum in those two accounts (which most of us leave our funds in) are frozen and the money cannot be transfered to our bank accounts or the Wallet Account. The Wallet Account is the only account with Epassporte that hosts can transfer money to their personal bank accounts. Thanks for the help though. Your intentions were good :)
RE: Epassporte - to hosts
ah...the few times i loaded money, I think it went into my wallet. So the money is locked in your VISA account? that sucks if true. But maybe some hosts transferred it to their wallets to be safe until they needed it as epassporte had recommended.
More detailed epass info
As host below stated, the money must be in the "wallet" section to wire it...most do not hold their money in that location. The epass virtual visa and visa electron accounts are frozen by Visa and the bank, not epass.
I called Visa to see if the problem was with epass accounts or all cards issued by the bank in St Kitts. I was told it was just the epass accounts.
It seems the main issue the anti money laundering (AML) and anti terrorist rules that have been recently instituted.
The types of cards that are the main focus are debit pre=paid cards, gift cards and reloadable top up cards.
The main trigger points are cards that:
Don't have the value clearly labeled on them.
Are reloadable at places other than banks.
Can have a maximum lifetime value of more than $1,000, including reloads.
Can be used anywhere -- especially if they can be used internationally.
Can have the value transferred to another card.
Are purchased in large amounts or seem otherwise suspicious.
(epass visa accounts fit almost every category)
The solution may take time, the people at epass are working on options. I truly believe the people at epass will get the money to the owners eventually. I feel comfortable in saying that the epass people are not scamming anyone, this is just a problem of the paranoia of our times.
A suggestion for hosts is to start receiving monies in a more straightforward bank account (business or personal). Run your business as a real business.That would require paying taxes in your local country as well.
I called Visa to see if the problem was with epass accounts or all cards issued by the bank in St Kitts. I was told it was just the epass accounts.
It seems the main issue the anti money laundering (AML) and anti terrorist rules that have been recently instituted.
The types of cards that are the main focus are debit pre=paid cards, gift cards and reloadable top up cards.
The main trigger points are cards that:
Don't have the value clearly labeled on them.
Are reloadable at places other than banks.
Can have a maximum lifetime value of more than $1,000, including reloads.
Can be used anywhere -- especially if they can be used internationally.
Can have the value transferred to another card.
Are purchased in large amounts or seem otherwise suspicious.
(epass visa accounts fit almost every category)
The solution may take time, the people at epass are working on options. I truly believe the people at epass will get the money to the owners eventually. I feel comfortable in saying that the epass people are not scamming anyone, this is just a problem of the paranoia of our times.
A suggestion for hosts is to start receiving monies in a more straightforward bank account (business or personal). Run your business as a real business.That would require paying taxes in your local country as well.
RE: More detailed epass info
Can epassporte funds be transfered back to cc, so they can put into hosts personal banks? There must be a lot of money tied up there!
RE: More detailed epass info
I don't believe so... the funds in the VISA portion are frozen and cant even be transferred internally.... Again don't totally blame epass, this is "big brother" at work.
The funds are there in the bank, they are just currently frozen. this is NOT like the bank failures in eastern europe etc. NO ONE has stolen money (at least as far as I know).
The funds are there in the bank, they are just currently frozen. this is NOT like the bank failures in eastern europe etc. NO ONE has stolen money (at least as far as I know).
RE: More detailed epass info
Which money laundering and anit-terrorism laws do you refer to? Are they American laws and VISA is forced to follow them? Is VISA incorporated in the USA? I don't think Epassporte is an American company but maybe I am wrong.
And by the way, if anything, I have found epassporte to be very annoying and overly protective. Obviously, nobody that works for VISA is an epassporte account holder or they would know this.
On two occasions, I needed to send copies of my credit card, proof of address via a copy of a letter sent to me such as a utility bill, and a copy of my ID. I think that I also had to send my credit card statement. I see no reason VISA or anyone else would flag them. Epassporte freezes accounts at even the smallest hint of fraud of any type to the point that they are impossible to deal with. And I think I never loaded or transferred more than $500 at one time.
I once sent a few hundred dollars to a friend and she took some of it out the next day and they froze both our accounts. WTF? This was after my having sent money to her once before without a problem. And even after both of us sent everything but a DNA sample, it took me forever to find someone to get them to reopen our accounts. My friend literally had to open a bank account to prove who she was and where she lived to epassporte.
I really hate them. Even talking to them on the phone today, I had to call several times to try to get an answer. And in terms of understanding them, all I will say that is before anyone ever complains about a chathost's English, call epassporte!
By the way, Epassporte has been having issues with VISA for a long time. They stopped letting people use VISA cards to load money on their accounts over a year ago and said at that time they were working on the problem. Well, they're still working on it, lol, and now things are worse for their customers. It might not be a big conspiracy, but they clearly are not the most competent people in this world. Hopefully, this situation will be resolved fast, but I would not be surprised if it went on for a long time and epassporte simply disappeared, money and all.
Finally, in terms of your list of red flags, that is a pretty broad list. VISA and other companies issue cards specifically for travelling overseas that one loads money onto that would seem to fall into your list. $1000? That is pretty low, and you just shut down one of the american automobile associations (AAA) products in the USA that I find very useful. VISA itself offers such products, lol. Maybe they are trying to eliminate all the competition and distribute things directly to make more money.
And by the way, if anything, I have found epassporte to be very annoying and overly protective. Obviously, nobody that works for VISA is an epassporte account holder or they would know this.
On two occasions, I needed to send copies of my credit card, proof of address via a copy of a letter sent to me such as a utility bill, and a copy of my ID. I think that I also had to send my credit card statement. I see no reason VISA or anyone else would flag them. Epassporte freezes accounts at even the smallest hint of fraud of any type to the point that they are impossible to deal with. And I think I never loaded or transferred more than $500 at one time.
I once sent a few hundred dollars to a friend and she took some of it out the next day and they froze both our accounts. WTF? This was after my having sent money to her once before without a problem. And even after both of us sent everything but a DNA sample, it took me forever to find someone to get them to reopen our accounts. My friend literally had to open a bank account to prove who she was and where she lived to epassporte.
I really hate them. Even talking to them on the phone today, I had to call several times to try to get an answer. And in terms of understanding them, all I will say that is before anyone ever complains about a chathost's English, call epassporte!
By the way, Epassporte has been having issues with VISA for a long time. They stopped letting people use VISA cards to load money on their accounts over a year ago and said at that time they were working on the problem. Well, they're still working on it, lol, and now things are worse for their customers. It might not be a big conspiracy, but they clearly are not the most competent people in this world. Hopefully, this situation will be resolved fast, but I would not be surprised if it went on for a long time and epassporte simply disappeared, money and all.
Finally, in terms of your list of red flags, that is a pretty broad list. VISA and other companies issue cards specifically for travelling overseas that one loads money onto that would seem to fall into your list. $1000? That is pretty low, and you just shut down one of the american automobile associations (AAA) products in the USA that I find very useful. VISA itself offers such products, lol. Maybe they are trying to eliminate all the competition and distribute things directly to make more money.
RE: More detailed epass info
I think you are being unfair to epassporte. Considering what has just happened don't you think their phones might have been a bit busy today so it took some time for them to answer you. It is surely reasonable that they are very cautious about fraud. I have had my own issues with them but generaly found them reasonable to reach a solution. Regarding the legal situation it does not matter whether EPassporte or Visa or the St Kitts Bank are incorporated in the USA or not. The USA tries to apply some laws on a global basis and none of these companies could afford to be prohibited from doing business in the USA. Although there are other preloaded cards the issues with epassporte are likely to be traceability of who is loading them and the fact that they can be issued to someone abroad without the recipient providing any proof of ID. At least one of EPassporte's competitors has some similar problems regarding loading of money. I do not think this is about the competence of EPassporte..If it is to do with the money-laundering and anti terrorism laws I can think of possible ways for epassporte to resolve it but they would take some weeks toimplement.
RE: More detailed epass info
I actually got through on the phone right away each time I called. I was surprised. I guess that it hasn't hit the fan quite yet over there. The problem is how they deal with you after they answer the phone.
Obviously, since terrorism and money laundering is such a big issue, they are not effectively communicating with VISA and the U.S. government about their security procedures which I have found to be wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy over the top for what were very small transactions on two different occasions. Or maybe the real issue is that the are targeting small users like me and letting the problem transactions go through and finally someone had to stop it. I don't know.
Maybe they should have been demanding id from all account users from the outset and let them know that without such id, they cannot use epassporte instead of doing things like freezing accounts AFTER they take your money! Perhaps that would have made them less difficult to deal with and kept the government and VISA happy.
And I don't mean the current freeze. Like I said, they were in the habit of freezing accounts AFTER they got your money and took their fees in the name of security leaving you with two choices: comply or lose your money! F@#k.them!
All I know is that they are EXTREMELY difficult to deal with and unfair to their customers. And I find it interesting that even people not blaming them for this mess keep saying that they too have had problems dealing with Epassporte. That's all anybody needs to know. I feel bad about saying this, and I hope I am wrong since some of my friends cannot now get their money, but I wouldn't be surprised one bit if this situation goes on a long time and is never resolved.
Obviously, since terrorism and money laundering is such a big issue, they are not effectively communicating with VISA and the U.S. government about their security procedures which I have found to be wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy over the top for what were very small transactions on two different occasions. Or maybe the real issue is that the are targeting small users like me and letting the problem transactions go through and finally someone had to stop it. I don't know.
Maybe they should have been demanding id from all account users from the outset and let them know that without such id, they cannot use epassporte instead of doing things like freezing accounts AFTER they take your money! Perhaps that would have made them less difficult to deal with and kept the government and VISA happy.
And I don't mean the current freeze. Like I said, they were in the habit of freezing accounts AFTER they got your money and took their fees in the name of security leaving you with two choices: comply or lose your money! F@#k.them!
All I know is that they are EXTREMELY difficult to deal with and unfair to their customers. And I find it interesting that even people not blaming them for this mess keep saying that they too have had problems dealing with Epassporte. That's all anybody needs to know. I feel bad about saying this, and I hope I am wrong since some of my friends cannot now get their money, but I wouldn't be surprised one bit if this situation goes on a long time and is never resolved.
RE: More detailed epass info
I am guessing you do not regularly send money outside your country as you do not seem to be aware of the checks that are now made and proofs that have to be given. The extent of these has changed dramatically in the five years. You also may not make extensive use of your credit card abroad,or at least not in Eastern Europe, South ast Asia and the Indian subcontinent. I have not had problems dealing with Epassporte. I have had some problems with the EPassporte account which were resolved. I have 4 normal Mastercard credit cards and 3 Visa cards and have sometimes had problems using these too. Overall EPassporte was no worse than any other card company at resolving the problems and was better than some. You seem to be basing your opinion on one bad experience. The point of freezing the account until they are have confirmed ID is to be sure that you and the recipient do not lose your money. You do not say why they froze the account or what the countires.
RE: More detailed epass info
I have had problems on more than one occasion. Each time involved no more than $500 and was to Eastern Europe.
When there is a problem, Epassporte is very secretive and won't explain why. They simply freeze your account and don't give you any explanation other than their "system" detected something. Then they force you to surrender all of your personal information such as your photo id or you cannot get your money back.
You might not find this a big deal, but I do. I transfer money outside of the country by other methods, and the one time I had a problem, the service offered to return my money instead of holding my funds hostage until I complied with their demands. I was not happy that they didn't want the transfer to go through (it eventually did), but at least they were willing to give me my money without forcing me to comply with their demands.
And when trying to solve a problem with Epassporte, they are extremely difficult to deal with. I am still waiting for a post, including from you, that says they never had a problem with Epassporte. Oh wait, I guess that will not happen now since every single customer is now having a problem right now if they hadn't had one in the past, which I doubt!
And for anyone that thinks Epassporte didn't have notice of this issue with visa, I doubt that too. They know the laws and should have been doing what it takes to comply with them. Contrary to epassporte's notice to customers, I doubt that visa just cut them off without warning.
If it was not for all of the people with money frozen, I would be happy that epassporte is going through exactly what they did to me. First, they took my money and then they froze it until I complied with their demands. Visa is doing the same thing. Unfortunately, it is really the customers' money, not epassporte's.
Anyway, however this all turns out, epassporte is soon going to disappear. Nobody will ever trust them again except maybe you, lol.
When there is a problem, Epassporte is very secretive and won't explain why. They simply freeze your account and don't give you any explanation other than their "system" detected something. Then they force you to surrender all of your personal information such as your photo id or you cannot get your money back.
You might not find this a big deal, but I do. I transfer money outside of the country by other methods, and the one time I had a problem, the service offered to return my money instead of holding my funds hostage until I complied with their demands. I was not happy that they didn't want the transfer to go through (it eventually did), but at least they were willing to give me my money without forcing me to comply with their demands.
And when trying to solve a problem with Epassporte, they are extremely difficult to deal with. I am still waiting for a post, including from you, that says they never had a problem with Epassporte. Oh wait, I guess that will not happen now since every single customer is now having a problem right now if they hadn't had one in the past, which I doubt!
And for anyone that thinks Epassporte didn't have notice of this issue with visa, I doubt that too. They know the laws and should have been doing what it takes to comply with them. Contrary to epassporte's notice to customers, I doubt that visa just cut them off without warning.
If it was not for all of the people with money frozen, I would be happy that epassporte is going through exactly what they did to me. First, they took my money and then they froze it until I complied with their demands. Visa is doing the same thing. Unfortunately, it is really the customers' money, not epassporte's.
Anyway, however this all turns out, epassporte is soon going to disappear. Nobody will ever trust them again except maybe you, lol.
RE: More detailed epass info
From what you have said EPassporte were concerned that there was some attempt to make a fraudulant withdrawal. Financial institutions may not give details of why they are suspicious in case this reveals too much about what checks they carry out. They ask for your, and the card holders personal details to try to be sure that you and she are who you say you are and so entttled to give them instructions. The money is frozen until they are sure. Can you not understand they are trying to safeguard your money.
The issues I experienced were not with epassporte themselves but when using the card which resulted in it being blocked. The reasons for the blocking were understandable and epassporte acted quickly to unblock it.
The issues I experienced were not with epassporte themselves but when using the card which resulted in it being blocked. The reasons for the blocking were understandable and epassporte acted quickly to unblock it.
RE: More detailed epass info
If they had given me the option of having the money sent back to me and were easier to deal with, I might not look at them the way that I do now. But I did NOT have that option! They were NOT protecting me from anything. They were NOT protecting my friend from anything. I kept telling them that all was okay with the transfers, and they knew it was me since they ask a lot of questions to verify who the caller is. If they don't want the transfer to go through, then fine.... Undo the transfer and put the money back on my credit card (which is how I loaded money at the time). But do NOT freeze my account and my friend's account until I comply with demands! That is wrong!
And by the way, I had sent money to the person involved before so I have no idea why the first time it was okay and the next it was not other than maybe she withdrew the money faster. But so what? Once the money is there, the whole point is to be able to withdraw it!!!
And by the way, in terms of security measures, epassporte has a policy of allowing a customer to appoint someone to talk about her account. My friend told them that I was allowed to talk about her account. I was cleared to talk about her account. I was cleared to talk about my account. There was no issue with the method I loaded money. Everything was 100% okay. But they still froze the money and forced us both to comply with their demands instead of being willing to return it to me so I could send her the money by another method. And the amount in question was no more than $500. (I think it was less since I had to pay fees to epassporte so I loaded $500 and transferred under $500. That should be flagged???)
They held my funds hostage, pure and simple. All they had to do was return the money to my credit card if they were so worried, just like another service was willing to do. But instead, they held the money hostage until their demands were met. Why don't you get this, and why do you think such action was okay?
You have your view, and I have mine. But it doesn't really matter. Epassporte will never recover from this. The second you come between a person and his money, especially when you are in the money transfer business, you are done! Let's just hope that people get their money back.
And by the way, I had sent money to the person involved before so I have no idea why the first time it was okay and the next it was not other than maybe she withdrew the money faster. But so what? Once the money is there, the whole point is to be able to withdraw it!!!
And by the way, in terms of security measures, epassporte has a policy of allowing a customer to appoint someone to talk about her account. My friend told them that I was allowed to talk about her account. I was cleared to talk about her account. I was cleared to talk about my account. There was no issue with the method I loaded money. Everything was 100% okay. But they still froze the money and forced us both to comply with their demands instead of being willing to return it to me so I could send her the money by another method. And the amount in question was no more than $500. (I think it was less since I had to pay fees to epassporte so I loaded $500 and transferred under $500. That should be flagged???)
They held my funds hostage, pure and simple. All they had to do was return the money to my credit card if they were so worried, just like another service was willing to do. But instead, they held the money hostage until their demands were met. Why don't you get this, and why do you think such action was okay?
You have your view, and I have mine. But it doesn't really matter. Epassporte will never recover from this. The second you come between a person and his money, especially when you are in the money transfer business, you are done! Let's just hope that people get their money back.
RE: More detailed epass info
As you say we are unlikely to agree. Maybe I think the way I do because I have also sent money using Ikobo and the recipient had her account compromised and did lose money. It took a lot of time, many phone calls and submission of various documents as evidence to get the money back. I would have preferred the account to be frozen for a few days.
RE: More detailed epass info
I looked up and saw simular information today but also referencing it more to the banks fault for not conforming to new laws of 2009 to be able to handle this type of account. I feel that the owner was very straight forward with all and will do his best to rectify it as soon as possible.
It is true that mosts account holders left funds in the Visa part of the account so that they could have instant access with the Visa debit card.
It is true that mosts account holders left funds in the Visa part of the account so that they could have instant access with the Visa debit card.
RE: Epassporte - to hosts
Can you explain for us unknowing members what happened? We surely want our beautiful ladies to get their earnings here after all their hard work.
quick expl of epass
Epass is similar to PayP#l. However PP, I don't believe, will do business with "adult" sites.
Most of the sites credit the hosts prepaid type accounts with their earnings. As an example CC pays host X's epassporte account. Host X can then access funds at a local ATM or use the virtual Visa for purchases.
As of today, the hosts have no access to that money they stored in those accounts. They have no access to their earnings and/or savings.
CC has given the hosts other options for payment and is trying to be accommodative to the hosts. They should be commended for this.
I also think people should allow epass to try to work through this if possible, it is not their fault (or at least not entirely). Its this world of big brother we are now living in.
Most of the sites credit the hosts prepaid type accounts with their earnings. As an example CC pays host X's epassporte account. Host X can then access funds at a local ATM or use the virtual Visa for purchases.
As of today, the hosts have no access to that money they stored in those accounts. They have no access to their earnings and/or savings.
CC has given the hosts other options for payment and is trying to be accommodative to the hosts. They should be commended for this.
I also think people should allow epass to try to work through this if possible, it is not their fault (or at least not entirely). Its this world of big brother we are now living in.
RE: Epassporte - to hosts
So why haven't you just opened a traditional banking relationship?
Why didn't you open a new epass account in the new "non controlled" country? (Epass did not make up controlled countries, they are just following laws.)
Don't blame epass for governments changing the rules. If you get your money and this was beyond their control, will people apologize?
(I dont really like epass either, Ive had my own problems with them. However, this is not of their doing)
Why didn't you open a new epass account in the new "non controlled" country? (Epass did not make up controlled countries, they are just following laws.)
Don't blame epass for governments changing the rules. If you get your money and this was beyond their control, will people apologize?
(I dont really like epass either, Ive had my own problems with them. However, this is not of their doing)
RE: Epassporte - to hosts
What are the other options? Can cc deposit directly into foreign bank accounts? Would hate to not have any hosts online if it's difficult to impossible for hosts to get their money.
RE: Epassporte - to hosts
They can wire the money to bank accounts but there is a charge. This has been an option for a long time, including before epassporte was being used on CC. I believe CC is waiving the charge for the next 3 pay periods to try to help hosts out.
I am not sure, but perhaps receiving a physical check is also an option, but that can take a long time to receive and process. I am talking about several weeks from the time a check is mailed until the check funds are actually available after it is deposited. I know that one site used Western Union.
There are other options, but epassporte was best for most hosts since they don't usually have bank accounts or if they do, don't want the money appearing in their accounts.
I am not sure, but perhaps receiving a physical check is also an option, but that can take a long time to receive and process. I am talking about several weeks from the time a check is mailed until the check funds are actually available after it is deposited. I know that one site used Western Union.
There are other options, but epassporte was best for most hosts since they don't usually have bank accounts or if they do, don't want the money appearing in their accounts.
cc so care about us.
i think cc its safer than any bank case. they so care about us. i feel that with cc my money is safer than in any bank... thank u cc!
ps: think epassporte just sent us all in hell.. xxx
ps: think epassporte just sent us all in hell.. xxx
RE: cc so care about us.
Epass is not and has never said it was a bank.
" ePassporte sells pre-paid Virtual Visa and Visa Electron products to online consumers and offers a proprietary peer-to-peer network connecting businesses and individuals worldwide via the Internet. "
" ePassporte sells pre-paid Virtual Visa and Visa Electron products to online consumers and offers a proprietary peer-to-peer network connecting businesses and individuals worldwide via the Internet. "
Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
I sometimes get that feeling with some hosts, not all but a pretty fair number. Did it ever occur to you that the member is paying and maybe his privacy is important to him?
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
I sometimes get the feeling that some people don't visit CC with the intention of wanting enjoyment and are always looking for things to whinge about!
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
i just ask do u have cam or no. if yes im happy if no the ok too
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
Is it such a big problem? Just say you have no cam and thats all. Pfff....
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
Several hosts demanded that I have a cam, and that I have it on. Then I get blocked because I don't want to use it
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
oh please, just move on and find host who smart enough not demand it from you. :)
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
Where do you viewers fins these hosts ? In all my years here I have never had a host demand that I put a cam on.
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
Thats coz they know better(scared)
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
I've had 2 including one in not shy while I was in video. She said no cam no show. The other was in free chat.
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
to have cams anymore and they usually like to share. So it is not a ridiculous question. Why take it so personal?
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
my thoughts on this!!!
i hate being on cam i am 45 and ugly i know this.
I come her to see hot women because i had to settle with a not so hot women, i hope she don't read this
But i hate when a host offers a show only if you have cam this kill me.
I have a old cam thrown somewhere at home but normally only on cc when i am on business trips so if host offers only shows if have cam it leaves a lot of hosts out of my list
i hate being on cam i am 45 and ugly i know this.
I come her to see hot women because i had to settle with a not so hot women, i hope she don't read this
But i hate when a host offers a show only if you have cam this kill me.
I have a old cam thrown somewhere at home but normally only on cc when i am on business trips so if host offers only shows if have cam it leaves a lot of hosts out of my list
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
the object is to get a sexy show and showing my ugly ass will most defiantly ruin the mood
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
to chat with yes to see is something else
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
I am surprised that any host would not video with you if you do not have cam on but there are many hosts that it doesn't matter.....so keep searching. It is like with any problem on here....just move on to the next host. There is something for everyone :))
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
Cam to cam came about due to viewer/customer demand. It is his decision to use it or not use it. It is not under the control of the host. It is there for the viewer and NOT the host. If you feel the need to watch a guy wank on cam, get a member account and go see Boys Home Alone.
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
You block viewers who not show their cam? You are so busy you can turn away viewers that prefer to remain anonymous?
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
Only viewers with bad sarcastic attitudes will get blocked like yours :)
I don't demand cam from members and I doubt so many hosts do either.
I don't demand cam from members and I doubt so many hosts do either.
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
It is common and many do automatically so if he not do on his own he not want to do it. So stop asking and just do your job
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
I don't mind sending cam but I normally only do it if the hosts ask for it. Therefore I like it when the host asks. I know some hosts who definitely do not like to see the member and two or three who only do a full show when the members sends cam. Most hosts seem to like it when the member sends cam but are not bothered if he doesn't.
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
Yes I know of what you speak. They are worried they are being recorded and will wind up somewhere on line where they do not want to be
RE: Do you hosts expect your viewer to have his cam on when he enters video?
hard to understand why this is allowed.
RE: im upset!!!
If he is a loser, send him to me and I will out him on his place...
xoxoxoxo
xoxoxoxo
RE: im upset!!!
No host in instant action is as high as your price. You charge $4 just to chat? WTF?
RE: im upset!!!
Didn't sound like that to me. So why would she tell the story without telling her rate......so the guy has no defense....lol.
RE: im upset!!!
With "comprehension" skills like yours, is no wonder you are always so disilusioned!
RE: im upset!!!
I had the same in glamour! And many times. They just left you without bye, I don't pay attention at them anymore...forget about them in some mins as they away from my video and wait for normal guys who don't care so much about some extra $ :-)
RE: im upset!!!
Sorry, but keep dreaming it's for members..lol .we just keep working and make men happy.
RE: im upset!!!
someone can only lie about a matter of fact.clearly this is an opinion,judgement call.you have no idea what glamhost"s opinion is,so you calling her a liar........
RE: im upset!!!
Have no idea whats rug is, but i say what i think. But why you get so mad about it? Any problems? Nobody like you? :))
walt disney
during a password audit,it was found that a blonde was using the following password: "mickeyminnieplutohueylouiedeweydonaldgoofylondon".
asked why she had such a long password,she said she was told that it had to be at least 8 characters long & had to include at least one capital :--)
asked why she had such a long password,she said she was told that it had to be at least 8 characters long & had to include at least one capital :--)
What good is "Country" when...?
Why bother having "Country" listed when hosts can just put "Just Ask Me" and only a bar minority actually list their country there. Might as well just remove that from the template, eh?
RE: What good is "Country" when...?
no. usually hosts from usa, uk, and west europe prefer to show their countries as it brings them many viewers....guys always have hopes to meet up with hosts in real life. lol
RE: What good is "Country" when...?
but in our dreams(fantasies) we meet up with even more hosts & get even more sex :--)
RE: What good is "Country" when...?
Yes tisme. There are only 3 female hosts I haven't met and had sex with from this site :P
RE: What good is "Country" when...?
let me guess inyf.the 3 are,the sighted,the hearing & those with sense of smell? :--)
RE: What good is "Country" when...?
i've tried to book a ticket to visit this country"jam"but i only end up getting in a pickle :--)
RE: What good is "Country" when...?
It used to be most would falsely list the US and UK when they were actually in eastern europe to increase traffic to their rooms.
The reason for Glamour and Little Shy
Yes in some ways because some hosts are shy, and yes some viewers like a challenge, but maybe some viewers are shy. I hear this from hosts I visit in pvt. And maybe there are more shy viewers than one would think?
RE: The reason for Glamour and Little Shy
To assume that just because one is male that their desires and thoughts are identical is a huge insult to the male population. Every man is unique and his interest in females is different. Be a host
for a day and you and other viewers would understand that. :))
for a day and you and other viewers would understand that. :))
RE: The reason for Glamour and Little Shy
If I was a host for a day I certainly wouldn't get to understand that. I can tell you now that the number of visits I would get would be exactly zero. Even if I was free :D
RE: The reason for Glamour and Little Shy
I would have to have a sex change and go back in time at least 40 years.
What is this?
The equivalent to male bragging rights? So many people bragging about meeting a host. Sounds like a bunch of guys getting together and bragging about their sexual conquests. Personally, if I was going to meet a host in person, or had met a host in person, I sure wouldn't post it here in the forum. That would be between me and her, and no one else's business. Just my opniion.
RE: What is this?
You're right. Its like high school with some of these idiots that post in here.
RE: What is this?
Agree... why would you make your "friend" feel like she's just another one of your conquests? Or that's she's available for just anyone with enough nerve or deceitfulness?
Or maybe that's your attitude, I dunno.
But by bragging about it you only diminish yourself.
Or maybe that's your attitude, I dunno.
But by bragging about it you only diminish yourself.
RE: What is this?
Agree too, so childish to talk about it here. It's a private matter, not for posting on a forum
RE: What is this?
And if the girl you had met would want to chat in the forum about her meeting experience:)? not me of course- I am a good girl:)
RE: What is this?
I don't know about him but for me any girl who wants to talk about me on here is welcome to do so. Even if it's just to say the sex was rubbish. At least everyone else would know I got some sex :P
Also it is such a shame you are a good girl. I much prefer the bad girls lol
Also it is such a shame you are a good girl. I much prefer the bad girls lol
RE: What is this?
The only reason I would meet a host in person would be to start a real relationship. The time, effort and expense just to get laid is not worth it. Of course most members at some point in your video imagine or wish they were in person with the host. But to visit for the sake of pure sex demeans the girls and makes the guy look a desperate pathetic loser.
RE: What is this?
"desperate pathetic loser.' defines a very large portion of the membership here.
RE: What is this?
You assume of course that the meeting with the host was for the purpose of getting laid. In my experience over my years on this site (when I have met a few hosts) sex is never on offer and any guy stupid enough to think that it will be on offer (and that the host will behave in real life like she does in her chattoom) is at best immature and at worst mentally deficient. Incidentally, I am not looking for bragging rights - the only reason I have met any hosts is because I happen to spend a lot of time in their country on business and speak the language.
RE: What is this?
I agree going to see a host with the express purpose of having sex without a prior agreement is not the sole reason for everyone. But nature has decreed that when a man and woman...especially a beautiful, sexy and available young woman meet...both minds focus on sex or at least the possibility of sex. To think that any member would travel to see a host without the possibility and expectation of sex is naive. Why else would we come here? In your case...you are there for other reason...you could be the sole exception...IMHO
RE: What is this?
Give me a break. I am a warm-blooded male: I travel everywhere thinking of the possibility of sex. I also consider the likelihood of utter failure on that score. That doesn't mean I wouldn't be happy just meeting a friend for coffee and chat. And, perhaps I flatter myself, but I think I would have a higher degree of success with coffee.
RE: What is this?
If you plan a serious relationship- it is better to start with the coffee and a conversation:) If you plan sex and even agree with the girl that you meet for sex only, firstly she may suddenly be afraid to have sex with a hardly-known man and don't come to the date or simply get bored...lets face it directly hosts have enough sexual interactions here, "at work"... and meeting somebody for pure sex is the extention of their job on their free time. work work work:( :D
RE: What is this?
Sounds like we have mutual interests, we just gotta pick the coffee shop :P
See, it's all a matter of finding the right one... :))))))
See, it's all a matter of finding the right one... :))))))
RE: What is this?
why i will b meet someone rom cc for sex. if i can have younge sexy man in my city.
RE: What is this?
If you don't have a sense of humor, then I really can't explain anything to you. Sorry for wasting your time.
RE: What is this?
What about your courisity to see at last that girls that you were chatting so long time and spent some money? I think this is stronger motivation to move to other country than just sex. No?
HAIRY PUSSY
I like hairy or trimmed Pussy, plese if you have, contact me..
ballbusting13
ballbusting13
RE: HAIRY PUSSY
and why is it that so many women want their vaginal region all bald and prepubescent looking?
bleh - kinda creepy
bleh - kinda creepy
RE: I really love reading host's profiles like this one
Or she is misleading viewers and yeah lazy too
RE: I really love reading host's profiles like this one
I'll agree on lazy but I can't see how writing nothing is misleading anyone. Unless you count going to her video expecting her to do nothing and she actually dos something :P
RE: I really love reading host's profiles like this one
I like a believable plot and well rounded character portraits which the actors show a full understanding of the person they are portraying in the play / film, and not too much CGI, too much style over substance in those films. Thats what I want from a show.
All I want here is kick ass curves, nice tease and wha-hey!!!
All I want here is kick ass curves, nice tease and wha-hey!!!
RE: I really love reading host's profiles like this one
isn't " - "comp shorthand for horizontal smile? :--)
RE: Meeting Host in Real
depends for what, for fuck i would chouse one, for tea other, for club etc..
RE: Meeting Host in Real
XXkarinxx hands down. Beautiful, intelligent, funny and a seemingly nice person (though I have been fooled before). Did I mention sexy, with an excellent mastery of english and someone you could take home to mom and make your friends jealous.
RE: Viewers, tell what you want!
yes true. we cant read their minds:P.... well somtimes we can >:)
RE: Viewers, tell what you want!
You always read my mind sweet woman. Kissssssssssssssssssssss
RE: Viewers, tell what you want!
Okay to make it simple if I come to your video I want to see your naked bum in various poses :)
RE: Viewers, tell what you want!
+100 Very annoying when a viewer leave you video in the middle of a show without any remarks and even bye. Next time i don't want to do show just not to look stupid if he will leave me sudden. Think about it guys please.
RE: Viewers, tell what you want!
You raise an excellent point. While I know it makes the who process seem like buying cold cuts at the deli...both host and member should be very clear about what to expect before a video. Once you agree the host should perform as agreed and the member shouldn't complain. Certainly he can suggest additional things during video that the host might or might not agree to. Communication and concensus.....makes for a happy video.
RE: Viewers, tell what you want!
Everything which you say is true, but I think a little bit of forebearance is also called for. If the members were assertive and confident in their wishes, there is a good possibility they wouldn't be needing to visit yours (or any other) room in the first place.
RE: Viewers, tell what you want!
Is he a player? lolwut? Yeah, maybe he's a world of warcraft player late for a raiding-session :D
RE: The question to gay lovers.
Technically there is someone for everyone. But someone you want, well that's another question altogether.
RE: The question to gay lovers.
Well, coming out publicly like this is bound to increase your chances inyf :)
... chase me
... chase me
RE: The question to gay lovers.
Well, you'd like to think there's more than one, if you're a host !!
Good luck to your pretty friend :P
Good luck to your pretty friend :P
RE: Camcontacts new website
Camcontacts made a new website special for gayboys. Just login to my website by clicking on icon house at my profile..theres a link..
Enjoy!
Enjoy!
RE: Camcontacts new website
Checked your website via your profile link. Don't know what you mean by cc thing for gays on your webite. Please elaborate
RE: Camcontacts new website
Well, its a new site yet, but camcontacts is the owner. I think cc is doing a great job bringing trafic here, so they will do the same there, for sure.