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all the fun of a fair
A man meets a gorgeous woman in a bar. They talk, they connect, and they end up leaving together.
They get back to her place, and as she shows him around, he notices that her bedroom is completely packed with teddy bears.
Hundreds of small bears are on a shelf all the way along the floor, medium sized ones are on a shelf a little higher, and huge bears are on the top shelf along the wall.
The man is kind of surprised by the collection, especially because it's so extensive, but he decides not to mention this to her.
She turns to him, they kiss, then they rip each other's clothes off and romp around the room all night.
After an intense night of passion, as they are lying there together in the afterglow, the man rolls over and asks, smiling, "Well, how'd I do?"
The woman says, "You can have any prize from the bottom shelf." :--)
They get back to her place, and as she shows him around, he notices that her bedroom is completely packed with teddy bears.
Hundreds of small bears are on a shelf all the way along the floor, medium sized ones are on a shelf a little higher, and huge bears are on the top shelf along the wall.
The man is kind of surprised by the collection, especially because it's so extensive, but he decides not to mention this to her.
She turns to him, they kiss, then they rip each other's clothes off and romp around the room all night.
After an intense night of passion, as they are lying there together in the afterglow, the man rolls over and asks, smiling, "Well, how'd I do?"
The woman says, "You can have any prize from the bottom shelf." :--)
RE: This world:))
I fear real danger
This world aint't simple
But I'm strong, I know how to get out
And I'll find my way 'cause
'Cause it's love, real simple
And that's how it works
So won't you just give it up 'cause you don't understand
And it's really nice, but you don't understand
So big it up, 'cause you don't understand baby
I feel it's fallen down, I know I'll catch it
You crazy world, crazy world, yeah. I feel real passionnate
You feel the sun comes down. I'll make it shine, yeah
You crazy world, crazy world yeah.
I can see your fear 'cause
This world ain't simple
But I'm strong, I know how to stay out
And I'll find my way 'cause
'Cause it's love, it's love, it's love, it's love, it's loving yeah.
Oh, oh, oh.
So won't you just give it up
'cause you don't understand
And it's really nice, but you don't understand
So big it up, 'cause you don't understand baby
I feel it's fallin' down, I know I'll catch it
You crazy world, crazy world, yeah. I feel real passionnate
You feel the sun comes down. I'll make it shine, yeah
You crazy world, crazy world yeah.
RE: Illusions and dreams
Be positive.in this world there is always a ballance.u can't have one without the other,just like good without bad doesn't exist,other we won't feel or notice the difference;).Good night night owls:)))
RE: Illusions and dreams
without the hard times, we do not appreciate the good times. Good night all..
Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
Camcontacts is;
1. Porn Site
2. Adult Cam Site
3. Dating Site
4. A Pew Research Site
5. A Free Mason Recruiting Site
6. None of the above
7. Al of the above
1. Porn Site
2. Adult Cam Site
3. Dating Site
4. A Pew Research Site
5. A Free Mason Recruiting Site
6. None of the above
7. Al of the above
RE: Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
It's 1, but I'm sure that this will be disagreed upon.
RE: Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
inyf you don't really think cc is anumber 2,do you? :--)
RE: Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
so if they don't allow your posts,you have forum constipation? :--)
RE: Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
Yes but if I wait a few hours sometimes I can get my post through and my forum constipation clears up.
RE: Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
good to know you don't get backed up for too long,that would be a pain in the butt :--)
RE: Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
8) some of the above,depending on mood.
we may not admit it girls,but guys have moods,just not as evolved as yours :--)
we may not admit it girls,but guys have moods,just not as evolved as yours :--)
RE: Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
Dating Site a
Already met many gfs (in real) from cc :-D
Already met many gfs (in real) from cc :-D
RE: Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
CC is an Adult Cam Site, is not a Porn site cos sometime can offer more erotism than porn. Is not a dating site, at least for me and I guess it will never be. But of course are some people who can pretend that they are able to find in here a good love story. Is true I found few friendship and a friendship is much better than a love story ...
RE: Pick One, but don't pick your nose.
CCSITE is still Porn site! do u know why because cc do have group,couples, lesbian, most of adult category are still count for porn site!!!
Chathosts and viewers only forum
We know that you read it, but do you make a separate account for viewing it? Or are you able to see it some other way?
RE: Chathosts and viewers only forum
Anyone can read Viewer's Forum. But only logged in members can post there.
RE: Chathosts and viewers only forum
Anyone and their dog (if your dog is smart enough) can read viewer forum. you not even have to be a member or host.
RE: Chathosts and viewers only forum
Perhaps it is the hosts who need to make a guide for RandomOpinion rather than the other way round.
RE: i am a ....
".free public humiliation."
That's right nothing for free on this site. Log in all you money slaves and sissy boys. Give the Dominas all of your money.
That's right nothing for free on this site. Log in all you money slaves and sissy boys. Give the Dominas all of your money.
Being Strong the Russian way
Can anyone (preferably Russian) explain to me why Russian people talk all the time about being strong? Being a "strong" person.
What exacty is this "strength" and why in Russia is it so lauded?
What exacty is this "strength" and why in Russia is it so lauded?
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
Actually I have no idea what you are talking about. Maybe it was in past when I am reading about peoples fight in WW2 I think they all heroes, russian men and women. Nothing like that in nowdays, you should stop reading nonsense in magazines and newspapers. :)
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
Isn't strength in character - being principled, determined, being resolute and unflinching in doing what's right and what's needed in any given situation - is that not valued highly everywhere?
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
Current experience is teaching me that a "strong" man in that part of the world is one who takes what he wants, whether it be the tenth beer of the day, or any girl he wants (and to Hell with her opinion of either desire). It's less about inner strength qualities like ambition, determination, ethics, and etc and more about being domineering and brutish.
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
The amusing thing about this typical caricature of Russian people is that it is thought that westerners seem to actually think something close to this. They do not. So who is really laughing? :)
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
Your attempt to signpost supposed ignorance has turned around right back at you.
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
I just wanted a sensible answer without the topic being derailed by some smartass with unoriginal humour. At least I got a couple of good responses....
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
The biggest fallacy in the world, that you know all about the culture of somewhere because you went there on holiday.
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
Maybe they don't use deodorant in that part of the world? Just a thought.
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
Be strong man means you play on playstation all day and drink vodka while your wife or livein gf works to get money for you. Then you scream and pull her hair when she gets home coz she is too slow for to cooking your dinner.
Strong is when you hit her coz she was checking your mobilnik to see if you continue to cheat her with her best girl friend.
This is meaning of strong rossie man.
Strong is when you hit her coz she was checking your mobilnik to see if you continue to cheat her with her best girl friend.
This is meaning of strong rossie man.
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
You've normally got something intelligent to say Monika. What do you think is this Russan "strength"?
RE: Being Strong the Russian way
I think russian strength is stubborn ability to do everything "my way" and not pay attention to orders or instructions...
for example it takes very strong russian man to accelerate an aeroplane for lift off with parking brakes on, and ignore big red warning lights... russian way to turn off the annoying warning light is disconnect the bulbs, or cover it with black tape
for example it takes very strong russian man to accelerate an aeroplane for lift off with parking brakes on, and ignore big red warning lights... russian way to turn off the annoying warning light is disconnect the bulbs, or cover it with black tape
Question for members and hosts
I am not good at pretending to like something...it is very obvious no matter what it is.
With all the complaints from members about hosts who say they will do something and then either stall or don't do it or both, and tricking the viewer out of his money.
And members saying they don't care if she fakes it as long as she is good at it. (which tells me that if she is not good at faking then don't bother cos the member will know it and say she sucks it).
And members saying please no don't fake.
And a healthy number of members saying why didn't the host just be upfront and say she is not able to do the request or she is not sure she can do the request to the member's satisfaction. and then if asked why she can say.
Taking into account all of the above....
how is a host suppose to answer if she is not sure she can do a certain request so that the member is satisfied and does not feel like he was screwed out of his money?
Does she say yes knowing that either there is a chance that she won't be able to fulfill the request so that the member is satisfied or knowing very well that she won''t fulfill the request so the member is satisfied. and then get accused of lying and wasting the member's money.
Or does she say upfront she is not sure can fulfill a request to the members satisfaction? So that the member has the choice of either still doing a session with her or finding another host who will say yes for sure?
With all the complaints from members about hosts who say they will do something and then either stall or don't do it or both, and tricking the viewer out of his money.
And members saying they don't care if she fakes it as long as she is good at it. (which tells me that if she is not good at faking then don't bother cos the member will know it and say she sucks it).
And members saying please no don't fake.
And a healthy number of members saying why didn't the host just be upfront and say she is not able to do the request or she is not sure she can do the request to the member's satisfaction. and then if asked why she can say.
Taking into account all of the above....
how is a host suppose to answer if she is not sure she can do a certain request so that the member is satisfied and does not feel like he was screwed out of his money?
Does she say yes knowing that either there is a chance that she won't be able to fulfill the request so that the member is satisfied or knowing very well that she won''t fulfill the request so the member is satisfied. and then get accused of lying and wasting the member's money.
Or does she say upfront she is not sure can fulfill a request to the members satisfaction? So that the member has the choice of either still doing a session with her or finding another host who will say yes for sure?
RE: Question for members and hosts
Just be honest. Say, I can try to do that, but I have not done it before, and I am not sure if I can do it as you like. If it were me, I would go private. As long as you tried, I would be happy.
Also, saying no does not always mean member will leave. I often ask qustions just to know what to expect. Such as, do you use toys? I will see a girl with or without toys. But it is nice to know sometimes.
Also, saying no does not always mean member will leave. I often ask qustions just to know what to expect. Such as, do you use toys? I will see a girl with or without toys. But it is nice to know sometimes.
RE: Question for members and hosts
So as long as she is upfront about as soon as she knows the request and if she is asked why not and explains why then that is acceptable? because she is still giving the member the option to either do the video or find another host correct? Yes I know all to well that just because a host says no that some member will still try to persuade her into it... :)
RE: Question for members and hosts
Ashley you are as honest as the day is long. You have a great smile and are very sincere. Do us and yourself a favor and stop whining.
RE: Question for members and hosts
Don't you just love how someone can start out with a compliment and end up making it a sh*tty put-down?
RE: Question for members and hosts
I would agree with the comments of "older member" and also add, don't underestimate the power of the visual image :))))) Once I see you in an active video, moving erotically... seductively... certain ideas and conceits I held closely might just slip away.
RE: Question for members and hosts
Thank you Gentlemen for your help.. :)
Thank you for the compliment Long time member, was not whining was only asking and trying to nip something in the bud. :)
Have a great weekend everyone....:)
Thank you for the compliment Long time member, was not whining was only asking and trying to nip something in the bud. :)
Have a great weekend everyone....:)
RE: Question for members and hosts
awww thank u soo much, I wish you would have posted your name so that I could send you a mail thanking you...so I will do it here.
That is a very sweet and kind post ....you have a wonderful weekend....huggggggggggg
That is a very sweet and kind post ....you have a wonderful weekend....huggggggggggg
dont understand.
was textting with mature host and she clearly states that she dont like members talking in public, yet she does vid with one that does, when they have the capability of going to a pc where the can keep it prvt, and then gets mad if you ask a few questions about it Dear if you dont want to be asked about your hot vid then tell them to come back later when they can do it in prvt. Instead of typing it for all the world to see.
RE: dont understand.
a viewer does not have the ability to type in private when on a mobile....or at least that is what some some say....and as for asking questions, it depends on what the questions are that you are asking, if it is about the session then that should be private between the host and the viewer and she should not be giving details.
RE: dont understand.
if a person is on a mobile and not able to be at a pc, then there is not much that can be done....you can only warn the person that all they type is being seen by others....if they decide to keep typing...and decide they want to stay then you work around it the best you can...it is not like the host was typing for all to read was it?
RE: dont understand.
but usually she doesn't let anyone type in open... usually she deletes it ASAP as soon as someone write in open especially if its a hot show
RE: dont understand.
When a host does a prvt session, she can't control what the person does, whether they type in public or not. Not all members are on pc's and some don't have the option to prvt text, say like on a mobile system. If persons in free chat are watching what is typed, she cant' control what the person in her session may say . And if asked about it, that's her business to keep it prvt.
RE: dont understand.
Personally she sounds cranky...When anyone types in open it is visible to all whether she likes it or not. When in open or 121 and a member types in open quite often members in chat make comment....so what! It's not a fricken class room it's a porn site! If you play her little games of being chastised for writing in open or making comment about others comments in open....my suggestion is ......see a new host!!
RE: dont understand.
There are two reasons that I ask to not type in a video for all to read...
1. When in a video most members do not want to read what a member is doing to himself in a session.
2. When in a video i ask members to not type for all to read because there are times that it creates jealousy with other members.
In free chat I ask to not type for all to see because often a member says things that he does not want others knowing and some members don't even realize that they are typing for all to read...
The session in question the member was asked to not type for all to read, but said she did not have that option due to being on a mobile as their pc was at work. The viewer had agreed that she would not be comfortable for all reading. The option was given to wait for another time or to type discreetly, the viewer decided to type discreetly. My typing was not visible for all to see and when the viewer typed a certain thing, I reminded the her that others could see and the viewer curbed what she was saying. then when another party started typing, that was when they said ok and we agreed to end the session. The original poster of this thread is simply upset because I would not talk of what was going on in a private video..and assumed I was doing more than I really was...
1. When in a video most members do not want to read what a member is doing to himself in a session.
2. When in a video i ask members to not type for all to read because there are times that it creates jealousy with other members.
In free chat I ask to not type for all to see because often a member says things that he does not want others knowing and some members don't even realize that they are typing for all to read...
The session in question the member was asked to not type for all to read, but said she did not have that option due to being on a mobile as their pc was at work. The viewer had agreed that she would not be comfortable for all reading. The option was given to wait for another time or to type discreetly, the viewer decided to type discreetly. My typing was not visible for all to see and when the viewer typed a certain thing, I reminded the her that others could see and the viewer curbed what she was saying. then when another party started typing, that was when they said ok and we agreed to end the session. The original poster of this thread is simply upset because I would not talk of what was going on in a private video..and assumed I was doing more than I really was...
RE: dont understand.
So that is your personal rules and if someone does type in open and the others comment do you swat their knuckles with a ruler?
I personally enjoy open chat with members sometimes...the guys seem to love it too. It turns out to be like a party atmosphere as they also chat about me and to each other.
I personally enjoy open chat with members sometimes...the guys seem to love it too. It turns out to be like a party atmosphere as they also chat about me and to each other.
RE: dont understand.
well if that works for you wonderful.....but I think you misunderstood what I was said. Free chat is one thing, and no I do not swat their knuckes...:)
Not all members are the same. Often a member's fantasy is to think that he has a host to himself, but they are more tolerant in free chat about it. But when it comes to being in a video. there are not many members that enjoy reading nor want to read what another member is doing.
I am happy that you enjoy having all typing in public and that you have so much fun, but when it comes to video and you have had to deal with as much jealousy among members as I have, then you will learn that it is not as much fun. So yes I will ask that they not type so all can read. Obviously you have not had to deal with the jealousy issue and you are very lucky.
I hope that you keep enjoying...:)
Not all members are the same. Often a member's fantasy is to think that he has a host to himself, but they are more tolerant in free chat about it. But when it comes to being in a video. there are not many members that enjoy reading nor want to read what another member is doing.
I am happy that you enjoy having all typing in public and that you have so much fun, but when it comes to video and you have had to deal with as much jealousy among members as I have, then you will learn that it is not as much fun. So yes I will ask that they not type so all can read. Obviously you have not had to deal with the jealousy issue and you are very lucky.
I hope that you keep enjoying...:)
RE: dont understand.
A host can say she does not like members typing in public but it doesn't mean she has to kick a member that does it out of her video. IMHO if you are just chatting with her in text you should not be asking questions about what is happening in her video.
RE: altruist members??
He just likes to watch the host cum and then he can go to another host and watch her....saves his cum for the last host....
RE: altruist members??
probably saving as a recording, once you come that's a wrap right? No need to stick around to wait for himself to come.
RE: altruist members??
And in this context "Its" should have been "It's"
If you are going to correct others on their spelling, then at least make sure you have your own spelling correct.
If you are going to correct others on their spelling, then at least make sure you have your own spelling correct.
RE: altruist members??
And using the word altruist instead of altruistic isn't even a spelling error. It would be considered a grammatical error, maybe, but not really. To say "altruist members" is to refer to those certain members who are thought of as altruists. There's nothing improper about that.
RE: altruist members??
U worry too much. Maybe is what he likes and if is that u should give that to him :)
SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
Send them a bottle of Tequila to be imbibed prior to the host going online
"Tequila makes your clothes come off"
At last... satisified customers. (And happy hosts)
"Tequila makes your clothes come off"
At last... satisified customers. (And happy hosts)
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
I do not understand, if the host will not strip, why force her to? Just find one that will. For that matter why force a host to do anything that she says no to?
All that will happen is that the host will get pissed off and block the member that is forcing them.
Yes members are paying, but they are paying hosts that agree before hand to do something. In any business if the place does not or will not provide the service asked for then the buyer goes to another who will.
When I go to a business if it is not providing what I want, then I just go to another business that will. I would not go in a place demanding nor forcing they give me something that they do not have or can not supply.
All that will happen is that the host will get pissed off and block the member that is forcing them.
Yes members are paying, but they are paying hosts that agree before hand to do something. In any business if the place does not or will not provide the service asked for then the buyer goes to another who will.
When I go to a business if it is not providing what I want, then I just go to another business that will. I would not go in a place demanding nor forcing they give me something that they do not have or can not supply.
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
Hosts strip at one time or another. Sometimes they strip for some, but at the end most of them (99.9%) strip. They might say to you: Never, I dont strip. But have you seen all her 121 video sessions? A host is a host same as a member saying: I never saw a naked woman in cc. LOL.
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
I have still never met a host that didn't eventually do something. I would say it'd be hard to find one here that hasn't. Most guys are just sore losers or dreamers
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
"Most guys are just sore losers or dreamers"
You're a dreamer
You're a dreamer
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
"Hosts strip at one time or another"
That statement is 100% total bullshit!
That statement is 100% total bullshit!
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
Ummm, it was a joke. You can't see that?
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
You seem to be the only one who caught the joke. This place is way too serious!
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them = Fast go to another host.
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
I mean I guess there is always another host. Although it is still tough to fathom a girl that is so dumb that she doesn't realize she is working on an adult website and girls make a lot of money here by taking off their clothes. And depending on the country you live in some of these girls make pretty unbelievable money compared to what people normally make there. So why you would work on an adult website and then let not taking off your clothes come between you making a lot of money or not is beyond me. I mean you are already here. You might as well reap the rewards of it.
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
Those that know you and even those of us that do not know you know that you are not dumb just because you do not get nude.
RandomOpinion and many on this site do not realize that there are many different tastes on here. There are many members that like have times where they do not want or need to see a host nude. There are members that like to have a host with clothes and like to use their imagination. Personally I find it more exciting when a person is dressed. Even in person It is very exciting to think of being with someone while both are still dressed. To which I will not say any more or I will find my mind wandering lol.
Both hosts and members have to remember not everyone wants the same thing all the time, even members themselves do not always want the same thing the same way every time. If they did they would not have a favorites list. they would be with the same host doing the same thing the same way over and over again.
Variety is the spice of life.
RandomOpinion and many on this site do not realize that there are many different tastes on here. There are many members that like have times where they do not want or need to see a host nude. There are members that like to have a host with clothes and like to use their imagination. Personally I find it more exciting when a person is dressed. Even in person It is very exciting to think of being with someone while both are still dressed. To which I will not say any more or I will find my mind wandering lol.
Both hosts and members have to remember not everyone wants the same thing all the time, even members themselves do not always want the same thing the same way every time. If they did they would not have a favorites list. they would be with the same host doing the same thing the same way over and over again.
Variety is the spice of life.
RE: SOLUTION for those whose hosts will not strip for them
Just know pretty lady that there are those that do appreciate you and you do not have to be nude. :) maybe in something sexy but not nude. loool...
Critical days
How many times in a month and for how many days long a girl can have critical days to justify that she can't or doesn't want undress? I found any who are always in their period....... are they freaks?
RE: Critical days
some girls have period each 20 days.. some each 30-35...i have each 30 days but for 10 days .g luck:)
RE: Critical days
I seen mature host last night, and she mentioned she having that time, dont tell me, if you on that time, dont think you should be on for that day or two, glad she honest, but it ruins the moment for me, whether she was to perform or not.
RE: Critical days
Not all members want a show. Not all members want a girl to strip fully. Not all members need to see a woman naked in order to be aroused. Not all men need to see a woman fingering herself.
Ask exactly what you want before entering the video, or ever since the begining.
Ask exactly what you want before entering the video, or ever since the begining.
RE: Critical days
How do you know he's not referring to someone in hardcore or IA.....
Why don't you ask before you leap at him?
Why don't you ask before you leap at him?
RE: Critical days
Many hosts come on here at that time, just means that they not going to be doing certain things, but there are plenty other things she can do.
Not sure if your upset that she told you or glad, she could have just not said anything and let you find out. have had a few hosts do that to me and gotta tell you buddy, I rather they tell then find out after the fact.
Not sure if your upset that she told you or glad, she could have just not said anything and let you find out. have had a few hosts do that to me and gotta tell you buddy, I rather they tell then find out after the fact.
RE: Critical days
letting a member know is one thing but this is a bit much.....
and members say they want to be able to go to host forum looool....
and members say they want to be able to go to host forum looool....
RE: Critical days
Some members pay good for host being prude with them. So stop blame hosts, blame such members who spoil hosts for others.
RE: Critical days
I say it is easy to understand: Sometimes it just feels good and powerfull to see that the hostesss does what you seduce her to do even after she does not want to do it really and that you are the only one to get her!
RE: Critical days
look for and try DivaCup it is a solution!
but should this topic not be moved to technical forum?)))
but should this topic not be moved to technical forum?)))
RE: Critical days
yea like that will work, then we will get told something like ..."not asking you to finger your head"....
I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
I think this is a bit callous since hosts can have as many open rooms and screen names as they choose. This is double standard on steroids.
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
Problem is even if the host had only 1 screen name - she can pretend to be different person each time. For example she can tell one guy she never strips, I really like you etc... (coz she thinks that is what he wants and that will get her more vids with him).
Next guy she can strip and do more (coz that is what she thinks he wants and that will maximize her vids with him).
So members really do need more than one screen name to check that girl out to see if what she said is true reality or just customized marketing to the target audience.
Next guy she can strip and do more (coz that is what she thinks he wants and that will maximize her vids with him).
So members really do need more than one screen name to check that girl out to see if what she said is true reality or just customized marketing to the target audience.
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
Problem is even if the host had only 1 screen name - she can pretend to be different person each time.
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
how can a host pretend to be different person, that makes no sense, her pics will show it is her and once in video anyone that is not blind will see it is her. I thought of having another name but realized it would be rather stupid of me as I am still the same person unless I do some major changes to myself for each name. lol
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
ok dear "host" here is some example for you:
Scene 1 (with member who seems nice and slightly shy and sensitive): Hi darling I am never not undress on this site. I am good girl look for find real friend. Like meet new people, maybe find love.
Scene 2(with member who will not come to video without nude show): Oh darling you make me so hot do you like my tits? Maybe you want see more in 121?
Scene 1 (with member who seems nice and slightly shy and sensitive): Hi darling I am never not undress on this site. I am good girl look for find real friend. Like meet new people, maybe find love.
Scene 2(with member who will not come to video without nude show): Oh darling you make me so hot do you like my tits? Maybe you want see more in 121?
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
It's irrelevant for you to be able to know who I am if I don't want you to know. I'm the one paying. When you start paying me by the minute you can ask for me to only use one name, but as long as you are the one ending up with the money it's best to not worry about trivial things.
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
Amen my brother. You are de man!
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
It makes no difference to me how many names a member has as long as he is not using the names to spy on a host and then to use it against her. that has happened a few times a member will use another name to see what other members get to what he got and then comes back and gets all upset because the session another or others got was not the same as he got, well maybe he should remember not every member is the same they bring with them different sensations, requests and ways of going about getting what they want. Just like the same member comes to room three times, each of those three times the session will not be the same, either he wants different or simply the situation is different.
All this does is cause a host to be too scared to do anything for fear that it will be used against her. what fun is there in that.
Enjoy everyone
All this does is cause a host to be too scared to do anything for fear that it will be used against her. what fun is there in that.
Enjoy everyone
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
if member only can have one name then hosts should only have one name
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
"guys seems to make a new screen name every day"
Hosts do that too
Hosts do that too
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
Still trying to understand how it is any part of your business how many names a member has.
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
would save alot of girls the problem of having to block the same member under 5 or 6 different names....cc could fix this by programming it so if a host blocks a member under one name, it automatically all of them
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
i agree , and they should make something that closes all the host other accounts when she gets a vid .
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
they could experiment by making members having only one screen name in community chat at a time ;).
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
sure , then they could make members like you grow some balls and use there real names in forum , but im guessing that wont happen either.
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
dont be a numpty all your life tommy boy
RE: I've seen some hosts post that members should have only 1 screename
still no balls , very sad .
what ever happened to Lorrysexxy
what ever happened to Lorrysexxy a lovely young beautiful lady always had fun in her room so hot and sexxy
Dying young
Why do so many people in Russia die so young? I know of so many. It's pretty sad and much more than you would expect in the West. Is life just more dangerous?
RE: Dying young
God takes the innocent young!
The rolling in money
the Terrbily funny
and those that are very well hung!
The rolling in money
the Terrbily funny
and those that are very well hung!
RE: Dying young
Russian men die younger than most european men because russian men almost all smoking, drinking strong alcohol, don't do sport and like eat fat food.
RE: Dying young
You obviously do not understand statistics, that is why you don't believe them.
RE: Dying young
Of course you are in statistics. Just not the ones relating to people who are already dead.
RE: Dying young
Russian men are real men. Real men live harder, shorter lives.
Fruits and vegetables? For anyone other than a little girl, seriously?
Fruits and vegetables? For anyone other than a little girl, seriously?
RE: Dying young
I hate salads, fruits and vegetables... Yuck! Thats for the horses and rabbits. I eat what I like, smoke and drink when I wish. What good is life if you will never do what you want? I can die at 50 and I am happy of all I had lived until now ;-)
RE: Dying young
Disagree. Strength of man in not what they eat or drink, no. It should be something inside your soul to make strong to fight with real troubles in life. Smoking a lot and drinking vodka never make anyone really strong, opposite it show the weakness of a person. That is mean the person weak and have lack of self discipline.
RE: Dying young
Not so! I disagree. I smoke, drink Vodka, Whisky, Rum, eat only red meat and sometimes I dont even sleep and many people have a job because of me. People that dont smoke, dont party, no drink, and eat healthy are people that are afraid of dying and many other little things. If you are afraid just one bit you can't win in life ;-)
RE: Dying young
Everyone gets sick when old. I know many people that died of lung cancer and they never smoke. I have also seen people die of liver malfunction and they never drank alcohol ;-)
RE: Dying young
Some get very sick, some are ok. My grandmother is 86, she has some problems with her eyes but she is quite good, listens radio, music all day long. lol She never smokes and drinks vodka.
RE: Dying young
Good for Grandma! To smoke and drink Vodka kills. Hope you dont do any of it. :-)
RE: Dying young
I think you are confusing fear with self-preservation. I'm sure you do fear things, but you use this "fear of fear" to justify the actions you enjoy, despite what the outcome may be.
RE: Dying young
I also do that, but I am not dead yet and I am not "so Young" anymore. I must be doing something wrong. IMHO, to die young is better than die old, ugly, and useless
RE: Dying young
You might not feel that way if all your life you had been young, ugly and useless :P
RE: Dying young
if the only pleasures in life you could think of are to drink, smoke and drink some more, then definetly go for it;)
RE: Another Missing in Action
Too bad you didn't post your screen name. I could have told you what happened to her. If you leave your screen name, I will ccmail you.
keep it simple. It is fun.
say all or nothing in profile. Your choice Ms Host. Just do not lie. I go in yr private, if I keep having fun I stay. If I do not have fun, I leave. Simple. 9 of 10 times I have fun. If lots of fun, I come back again and again. Lets not over think this.
I keep a fav list, and a never again list. I'm sure many girls on my never again list are on some other members fav list. And I keep looking for new girls. It is fun.
I keep a fav list, and a never again list. I'm sure many girls on my never again list are on some other members fav list. And I keep looking for new girls. It is fun.
RE: keep it simple. It is fun.
that is what i am going to do today. i am going to tell my boss i will only do my work if he is nice to me. and i will only do a really good job if he is really nice to me. let's see how it works out.
RE: keep it simple. It is fun.
"I keep a "nice guy" list and a ban list. I am sure many members on my ban list are someone's regulars. And I keep waiting for new regulars. It's fun."
Very interesting. I bet you are a softcore host. I also bet your nice guy list is very small and your ban list is quite large.
Very interesting. I bet you are a softcore host. I also bet your nice guy list is very small and your ban list is quite large.
RE: keep it simple. It is fun.
Host Girl Have courage! - Write your Host Profile Name here!
If we like what you wrote above - we will come to meet you.
If we do not like what you wrote above - you go on Never Again list!
;-)
If we like what you wrote above - we will come to meet you.
If we do not like what you wrote above - you go on Never Again list!
;-)
RE: keep it simple. It is fun.
When we do put our host names, we get accused of trying to create business. This way we can post without being accused of doing that.
Why don't members post when complaining about a host post using their member names?
Why don't members post when complaining about a host post using their member names?
RE: keep it simple. It is fun.
Didn't know you could 'think' since you just copy regular members' words and replace with your side.
So show some courage - write your host name and we will see if you wrote some like/dislikes! ;-)
So show some courage - write your host name and we will see if you wrote some like/dislikes! ;-)
RE: keep it simple. It is fun.
Oh baby! Great reply! I'm sure you would be on my fav list. Maybe you already are. Life is fun!
To Young Mothers :)))
There was a young girl from Rabat,
who had triplets, Nat, Pat and Tat;
It was fun in the breeding,
But hell in the feeding,
When she found she had no tit for Tat.
who had triplets, Nat, Pat and Tat;
It was fun in the breeding,
But hell in the feeding,
When she found she had no tit for Tat.
Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
I have been a member here for a while and what I have noticed is that a lot of the misunderstandings could be avoided if the host would actually take the time to fill in their profile. And most specifically the "what you can expect from my show" part. If you just put smiley faces or say something like "the best host ever" or "to have a great time", there is bound to be misunderstandings.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
I think part of the problems is a host can vary what she does in video from day to day and especially from member to member. For members it seems like a simple choice...you strip or your don't. To hosts it is often more complex and involves how they feel that day, what their financial situation is, how they feel about the member, who is in the studio at that time, did they have a couple of beers with dinner, do they feel sexy or pretty that day, what they are wearing, how they feel their hair looks, etc.etc.etc. We are dealing with young pretty girls essentially and to expect them to act the same way in every video goes a long way to answer why we are on CC. But I still agree with your post. For hosts who do not strip under any circumstances...they should state that clearly.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
"To hosts it is often more complex and involves how they feel that day, what their financial situation is, how they feel about the member, who is in the studio at that time, did they have a couple of beers with dinner, do they feel sexy or pretty that day, what they are wearing, how they feel their hair looks, etc.etc.etc."
Many people have said this is not a dating site, but with a response like that, its like we all have to be dating the host. We have to worry about that crap in real life, we shouldnt have to when we are paying by the minute. I understand a host can have a bad day, but I dont agree with the premise that we have to entertain, turn on, or get the host in the mood.....I can go through all that in real life and not pay by the minute.....
Many people have said this is not a dating site, but with a response like that, its like we all have to be dating the host. We have to worry about that crap in real life, we shouldnt have to when we are paying by the minute. I understand a host can have a bad day, but I dont agree with the premise that we have to entertain, turn on, or get the host in the mood.....I can go through all that in real life and not pay by the minute.....
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
I was going to say the exact same thing but couldn't word it right. It comes off very hypocritical when hosts complain about members developing feelings when it's just a job for the host, and then to come say something like she says.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
You got that right. I'm tired of hosts' apologists that blame everything on the viewer. Hey we are paying for a service.
really?
can you imagine a stripper walking into the club to work. she tells her boss that she does not feel sexy, or maybe did not have a few beers with dinner etc. and she does not want to strip she just wants to sit and talk to customers for the night. for that matter, can you imagine anybody at any job telling their boss they dont feel like working and would just like to chat on yahoo all day but would like to get paid.
yes, i understand that they may not like the job here. but many people do not like their jobs. they still have to show up, put on a good face, and do their work. strippers or not. so why are guys on here so quick to defend hosts who do not want to work and feel they are entitled to an income for sitting and talking?
yes, i understand that they may not like the job here. but many people do not like their jobs. they still have to show up, put on a good face, and do their work. strippers or not. so why are guys on here so quick to defend hosts who do not want to work and feel they are entitled to an income for sitting and talking?
RE: really?
I was a stripper, and yes there was a time or two that I could not go on and do my show,
one time was because I did drink too much. and I told the boss I had and that I did not expect to get paid for the show I missed. however, the boss said that because I kept those people in the bar for 4 hours drinking when normally no one would have been in there, that he made more than enough to cover my one show that I missed.
the other time was because I got sick, and I got sick because I ate the food that was in that bar, so I could not do my show and again I got paid for it...
but on here if we do not do shows then we do not get paid anything. so if you are with a host who does not do what you want, they you have every right to leave and find a host that will do what you want when you want.
one time was because I did drink too much. and I told the boss I had and that I did not expect to get paid for the show I missed. however, the boss said that because I kept those people in the bar for 4 hours drinking when normally no one would have been in there, that he made more than enough to cover my one show that I missed.
the other time was because I got sick, and I got sick because I ate the food that was in that bar, so I could not do my show and again I got paid for it...
but on here if we do not do shows then we do not get paid anything. so if you are with a host who does not do what you want, they you have every right to leave and find a host that will do what you want when you want.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
It is all fine and dandy to spend the time doing a profile but then like as been said, many members don't or won't even read the profiles, let alone the category they are in.
or
Even when your profile says what you do not do and you tell them before video that you do not do it and the member say ok np, then once in video will turn around and pressure you to do the very thing you said no to before hand and they said ok np to. and if u dont do it then he writes a bad review and says u lied...
or
members that come to text and if you ask them did they read the profile, they either say "well glanced over it", or "no, i only looked at the pictures"... and
or
members that just jump into video without even talking in text nor reading the profile first, some start with hi i horny strip where is your toy get playing with yourself, and that is in glamour and little shy and yet if they read the profile it clearly says they dont do those things.
so yes it is fine to do a profile but it does not mean the majority of members that hit your room will read it, or if they do accept whats in it .....
or
Even when your profile says what you do not do and you tell them before video that you do not do it and the member say ok np, then once in video will turn around and pressure you to do the very thing you said no to before hand and they said ok np to. and if u dont do it then he writes a bad review and says u lied...
or
members that come to text and if you ask them did they read the profile, they either say "well glanced over it", or "no, i only looked at the pictures"... and
or
members that just jump into video without even talking in text nor reading the profile first, some start with hi i horny strip where is your toy get playing with yourself, and that is in glamour and little shy and yet if they read the profile it clearly says they dont do those things.
so yes it is fine to do a profile but it does not mean the majority of members that hit your room will read it, or if they do accept whats in it .....
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
What you say is true, but as long as you do fill out your profile you are covered. You have done everything required of you. If the member does not read your profile and or ask questions he has no basis for a complaint in my opinion.
So even if may be many members never read a profile, fill one out anyway. I and many other viewers do read profiles. And ask questions.
So even if may be many members never read a profile, fill one out anyway. I and many other viewers do read profiles. And ask questions.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
Good idea in theory, but the real problem is that many hosts try to get you into video and delay the "what you can expect from my show part". In other words, since they make more money the longer you stay in video, they want to delay giving the show. And many hosts, even if they are willing to strip, prefer just to chat. This is why there are "misunderstandings". It is because members want one thing and hosts want another. There is not a lack of communication. It is a lack of common desires.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
Your name still makes me smile. My dad used to play that album when I was young.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
Well I think members are able to decide and say no and move on when a host tries to push them into video.
I also think that if a member does enter a video and she does stall then the members are able to say no and leave and then complain that she stalled and did not do as agreed upon...
but make sure you have her she fully agrees before video then you have it in writing what was agreed to...so that you can show it to cc when you complain....
Some members will ask a question and not let you answer before entering video...
It irritates me that the hosts do stall because there are those of us that do not stall and that do what we agree to, but because of those hosts that do stall and force members into video makes it hard for those of us that do not stall nor force members into video,
not only do those same hosts cause members to think that all hosts are that way, but then we get posts saying that all hosts do it...And yes I know this post said many, but many posts often will say "all hosts..."
I just wish that hosts would be in the category they belong in and do what they agree to do. ....maybe then members would also be less annoyed and less likely to be bouncing around categories thinking that all hosts do everything in every category....
I also think that if a member does enter a video and she does stall then the members are able to say no and leave and then complain that she stalled and did not do as agreed upon...
but make sure you have her she fully agrees before video then you have it in writing what was agreed to...so that you can show it to cc when you complain....
Some members will ask a question and not let you answer before entering video...
It irritates me that the hosts do stall because there are those of us that do not stall and that do what we agree to, but because of those hosts that do stall and force members into video makes it hard for those of us that do not stall nor force members into video,
not only do those same hosts cause members to think that all hosts are that way, but then we get posts saying that all hosts do it...And yes I know this post said many, but many posts often will say "all hosts..."
I just wish that hosts would be in the category they belong in and do what they agree to do. ....maybe then members would also be less annoyed and less likely to be bouncing around categories thinking that all hosts do everything in every category....
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
I totally agree, that is one of the biggest reasons i left hard core and stopped using toys...
They have no idea how doing that changes being turned on to being turned off...I am sure that members have had times where they have been turned on and a host will say or do something that will make that hardon go soft in an instant.....
They have no idea how doing that changes being turned on to being turned off...I am sure that members have had times where they have been turned on and a host will say or do something that will make that hardon go soft in an instant.....
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
mmmmmmmmm slutty side..... I feel like Homer Simpson does when he thinks of donuts. I wanted to just stop reading and ask you your screen name, lol.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
You go to the store for 2% milk, the store is out of 2% milk and hands u soy milk saying pretend it is 2% milk, are you going to take the soy milk and pretend it 2% milk while you drink it? No you go to the store down the street for the 2% milk.....lol
or
You want an apple there are none but someone hands you a plastic or a wax apple and says pretend it is a real apple while you eat it. are you really going to try to pretend your eating a real apple? No you will go to the store that has nice fresh real apples....
or
You want an apple there are none but someone hands you a plastic or a wax apple and says pretend it is a real apple while you eat it. are you really going to try to pretend your eating a real apple? No you will go to the store that has nice fresh real apples....
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
"i do strip. i do toy shows. i can have a conversation IF member wants that, cause some do, even if i'm in hardcore."
OK you sound very reasonable. But why is it that softcore hosts have no trouble telling a member wanting a hardcore show to go to IA, and yet when a hardcore host gets a member that wants to talk, they chat rather than telling him he should go to softcore to chat. That is no different than the softcore host telling him to go to IA for what he wants in pvt. Why the double standard?
OK you sound very reasonable. But why is it that softcore hosts have no trouble telling a member wanting a hardcore show to go to IA, and yet when a hardcore host gets a member that wants to talk, they chat rather than telling him he should go to softcore to chat. That is no different than the softcore host telling him to go to IA for what he wants in pvt. Why the double standard?
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
I send member to IA because I know I am not going to instantly use a toy so why waste a member's time and money leading him to think I will. That is not right to the member.
Most of the members that see me have left hosts that fake because they would rather a host that is not scared to say they not able to. So I would rather have a some viewers that I can be myself and really enjoy to make the session even more enjoyable for the member,
faking can be seen by many, when you read how a host fakes does it not make you feel ripped off?
Most of the members that see me have left hosts that fake because they would rather a host that is not scared to say they not able to. So I would rather have a some viewers that I can be myself and really enjoy to make the session even more enjoyable for the member,
faking can be seen by many, when you read how a host fakes does it not make you feel ripped off?
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
"so why waste a member's time and money leading him to think I will. That is not right to the member."
I agree completely. But you are in a small minority of hosts as wasting members' money is what most hosts do best.
I agree completely. But you are in a small minority of hosts as wasting members' money is what most hosts do best.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
Maybe there should be a quick check list for each host. Even icons. No Strip would be good for hosts who never strip. If you have the no strip icon leave the girl alone. Stop harassing her. All other hosts without that icon are assumed to do some degree of nudity...up to the host and member to negotiate.
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
that would be great, unfortunately you will still have hosts who do not strip that will intentionally not use that icon. so you are still stuck with the same problem that you have now...
RE: Misunderstandings Between Members and Hosts
For those that deluded, would it really matter?
Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
I am open to replies from all , but would really like to hear from the hosts in those particular categories.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
In the way the game is played there is no difference but you have a guarantee of what you will see once the girl is naked in hardcore.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
And what guarantee is that?
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
There is no difference under the rules that I know of. Both the hard core and soft core host must strip if they lose. But many hosts stall during hi lo, and you will probably have a bigger problem with that issue with soft core hosts. Personally, I would avoid hi lo altogether with most hosts and just ask for a show even if it is from a soft core host that says go 121.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
In "little shy", the host might remove her panties sideways and sit down without letting you see what she is shy to show, while in "Not so shy" she shouldn't decline any request to be more explicit...
Apart from that, screen size of HiLo is an incitation to look for similar kind of show in 121 rather.
Apart from that, screen size of HiLo is an incitation to look for similar kind of show in 121 rather.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
She might do that, but I believe she would be violating the rules. Strip means strip and show, not slilding panties to the side. That type of thing is exactly why I think that game is horrible and would only play with a low priced host (to deal with the stalling) or a host I knew well (so I didn't have to worry about her violating the rules).
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
"In "little shy", the host might remove her panties sideways and sit down without letting you see what she is shy to show, while in "Not so shy" she shouldn't decline any request to be more explicit..."
So you are saying a host in little shy can hide her goodies from the viewer while the hardcore host has to show all?
So you are saying a host in little shy can hide her goodies from the viewer while the hardcore host has to show all?
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
there is no difference, if host chooses to play she has to strip each time she looses off comes a piece of clothing....she is not allowed to stall if she does leave and report it....
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
Then if there is no difference, why have 2 separate categories?
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
the hi lo game itself is no different in any category, if a host picks to play it....she has to loose piece of clothing
there is only a difference in the hard core and soft core categories themselves.
there is only a difference in the hard core and soft core categories themselves.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
If there is no difference why not have Strip Hi Lo in its own category?
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
that is something you have to ask cc....loool....but again you also have to let the host know if you are expecting her to do more than just play the hi lo game.....
the game itself is the same in any category...
the difference comes when the member wants to do more than just play the hi lo game...because for quite a few members once she is naked he wants her to do more....
the game itself is the same in any category...
the difference comes when the member wants to do more than just play the hi lo game...because for quite a few members once she is naked he wants her to do more....
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
"they get u fully naked in strip hilo"
I have little shy hosts tell me all the time it is up to them what they do in video including 121.
I have little shy hosts tell me all the time it is up to them what they do in video including 121.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
of course, but as no toys viewer just leaves
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
" but as no toys viewer just leaves"
I've heard the same for full nudity too
I've heard the same for full nudity too
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
my point is when a guy gets host fully naked he in most cases wants to continue party as masturbation with toys or without, because he got horny and wants go till the end, if host refuses he goes to elsewhere. its one of reasons why softcore hosts dont like to do full strip.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
If a host does not want to play the hi lo game properly and does not want to be nude then she should not have a check mark by play hi lo game.
It is simple as that, no wonder members get confused and frustrated. It is ridiculous for a host to say she not have to get nude in the hi lo game all a member has to do is ask cc
It is simple if a host does not want to be nude then do not play the hi lo game. STOP making it difficult for everyone!!!
It is simple as that, no wonder members get confused and frustrated. It is ridiculous for a host to say she not have to get nude in the hi lo game all a member has to do is ask cc
It is simple if a host does not want to be nude then do not play the hi lo game. STOP making it difficult for everyone!!!
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
I talking in general, not about strip hilo game, I know the rules.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
" its one of reasons why softcore hosts dont like to do full strip."
Ok fair enough. So by extension you are saying all hosts in hardcore must use toys? Because I've come across quite a few in hardcore that never use toys. Does that mean they are in the wrong category?
Ok fair enough. So by extension you are saying all hosts in hardcore must use toys? Because I've come across quite a few in hardcore that never use toys. Does that mean they are in the wrong category?
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
I never said that hardcore hosts MUST use toys. I just say why I sometimes dont go to play Strip Hilo, because after the game is finished members want more and more.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
Ok now I understand, you prefer to chat rather than strip due to requests for toys from some members.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
I prefer dance and bouncing in lingerie or topless. Sometimes if Im in mood all naked and maybe more if I got horny after it, but without toys or at least with just a little vibro.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
If a host plays hi lo game she is obligated to remove clothing each time she looses a hand. by end of game she must be nude. unless the two of agree before playing the game.
Any host in lil shy that says she does not have to be nude by end of game is lying. on every hosts log in page it says, the following regarding the game word for word...
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I’m available for Adult Strip Games
Adult Strip Games is a new way for Viewers and Chathosts to have fun and engage in Live Video Chat!
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Nudity is compulsory within this option; only select this if you are willing to conform with this rule."
Any host in lil shy that says she does not have to be nude by end of game is lying. on every hosts log in page it says, the following regarding the game word for word...
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I’m available for Adult Strip Games
Adult Strip Games is a new way for Viewers and Chathosts to have fun and engage in Live Video Chat!
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Nudity is compulsory within this option; only select this if you are willing to conform with this rule."
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
I think this whole thread makes the point of why I hate hi lo. I strongly recommend you reconsider using this option. But if you do use it, and the host either stalls such as taking forever to remove a piece of clothing or pick higher/lower or she refuses to get naked or show you her body once naked (not necessarily spreading in soft core but at least showing you all and continuing to do so), then do yourself and every member a favor and report her to CC and request a credit. This game is a big scam in my opinion so be careful.
RE: Is there any difference between Softcore Strip Hi Lo and Hardcore Strip Hi Lo?
the game is fun as long as u don't use it to stall.....u can do many things with the game when agreed to between the member and host before hand....
so to say the game is a scam is wrong,,,, it is the hosts that stall that don't follow the rules....
so to say the game is a scam is wrong,,,, it is the hosts that stall that don't follow the rules....
More Missing in Action
Was looking back through my favorites list and wondered if anyone knew what had happened to Fierykiss and Devilishsoul? Did they quit? move on? change names? or what?
RE: More Missing in Action
I don't know about those 2 but there is much name changing that goes on here.
RE: More Missing in Action
DevilishSoul likely achieved her pinnacle of manipulation, deceit and misanthropy and moved on.
RE: More Missing in Action
In what way was she deceitful? I always found her refreshingly direct and honest.
RE: More Missing in Action
Apparently direct and honest to draw you in, yes. Men on this site are just a game to her. That says it all. Nothing more to say.
RE: More Missing in Action
I think it is clear that hosts treat members differently. That's for a lot of reasons not the least of which is how the member treats her. It like when someone tells you there is an idiot in the room...and you can't find him...well guess what.
RE: More Missing in Action
"I think it is clear that hosts treat members differently"
You said it all.
You said it all.
RE: More Missing in Action
"I think it is clear that hosts treat members differently. That's for a lot of reasons not the least of which is how the member treats her."
Its all about customer service. In my business, I have to treat all my customers the same, whether they are nice or rude......I dont get the luxury of treating my rude pain in the ass customers the same way they treat me, I still have to treat them nicely. You would think it would be the same here...
Its all about customer service. In my business, I have to treat all my customers the same, whether they are nice or rude......I dont get the luxury of treating my rude pain in the ass customers the same way they treat me, I still have to treat them nicely. You would think it would be the same here...
RE: More Missing in Action
the girls own their business, they can choose how to treat rude customers however they please and not by some management on size fits all rule
RE: More Missing in Action
For your relationship I hope you only mean your male GUESTS are money game, not ALL men...
Hugs:)
Hugs:)
RE: More Missing in Action
Must be pretty schizophrenic and troublesome;)
But I thought we men are the hunters and you hosts are the game which eventually just might escape...
I like that idea. Wanna meet BB?
Hugs))))
But I thought we men are the hunters and you hosts are the game which eventually just might escape...
I like that idea. Wanna meet BB?
Hugs))))
RE: More Missing in Action
yes, i think you have summed it up perfectly. it is a game for the hosts to see how much money they can get.
RE: More Missing in Action
and in return for us viewers you are just an easy pickup who we always get;)
RE: More Missing in Action
WE TREAT MEMBERS DIFFERENTLY DEPENDING HOW THEY TREAT US!
u cant know how he treated them, u may only assume as u had to have all her members reviews and comments about that to get to this conclusion
saying he was played means u underestimated him as he had no brain to discover that.
u r too arrogant to claim u were the only capable enough that figured it out.
ofc u may twist my words which u will do but im fed up to see hosts trashed up bcs of frustrations.
nobody is saint here but we r humans afterall.
i apologize if brings more missunderstanding
u cant know how he treated them, u may only assume as u had to have all her members reviews and comments about that to get to this conclusion
saying he was played means u underestimated him as he had no brain to discover that.
u r too arrogant to claim u were the only capable enough that figured it out.
ofc u may twist my words which u will do but im fed up to see hosts trashed up bcs of frustrations.
nobody is saint here but we r humans afterall.
i apologize if brings more missunderstanding
RE: More Missing in Action
if you read his posts closely, you might find he doesn't even know her. he's playing with the guy
RE: More Missing in Action
well if the way he talks it any indication then we all know how viewer treats the hosts, unless he talks that way of all women.
RE: More Missing in Action
One of the most common and saddest post are those from members searching for missing hosts. Over the past 8 years or so on CC i have seen hundreds. Most host when they leave...just disappear. Part of that is once they leave the studio they have no access to the software or equipment or have no intention of using their stuff at home. There are several host who left that I miss....but such is life.
RE: More Missing in Action
yes we do come here to read the forums now and then to see what members really thought of us as compared to how they are to us when in our video .....
why not use 'make new friends' category?
i notice on here constantly there seem to be some host in glamour and little shy who dont want to do any kind of a sexual show. so my question is, why dont all those hosts move to 'make new friends' category? it is completely against rules in those categories for anything sexual right? just curious, it seems like an obvious thing to do if you dont want to do a sexual show. am i missing something?
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
In those categories it is against the rules to talk about anything sexual or for the host to pose or dance in a teasing or suggestive way, flash underwear etc. Some hosts prefer to play it safe and stay in glamour. I have never visited a glamour host who was not ready to be a little bit naughty even if she didn't strip.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
"I have never visited a glamour host who was not ready to be a little bit naughty even if she didn't strip."
I have.
I have.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
You are really saying hat you have ben to glamour hosts who were not willing to do even a bit of teasing? Please give some names. And please do not say something like "all hosts from Tver"
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
CC would not allow me to post names. But it is most of the Glamour Girls I have seen in video over time.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
I have also seen (in video) hosts from Glamour and little shy that did not even wanted to stand up or be a little naughty some even do not like cyber chat while in video. I asked each of these of host why they are there and most of them say: Because I want to and many members like that I just watch them wank. I had mentioned those hosts b4, but cc does not like that and I und the reason.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
Thats weird, every host i visit in glamour has teased me. Most eventually strip. I admit most of them say they don't and didn't at first, but get to know them, it's not all that impossible.
I prefer the in and out option rather than coming back again and again until host says: Ok, today is your lucky day.
"....most of them say they don't and didn't at first, but get to know them,..."
Yes, I believe that too, but the "get to know them" sometime cost too much and I am not here for the chase.
Yes, I believe that too, but the "get to know them" sometime cost too much and I am not here for the chase.
RE: I prefer the in and out option rather than coming back again and again until host says: Ok, today is your lucky day.
Then glamour is probably not the category for you.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
"Thats weird, every host i visit in glamour has teased me. Most eventually strip."
So you are calling the thread starter and others liars?
So you are calling the thread starter and others liars?
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
There you go again, twisting words. He's saying he's had an entirely different experience. Nothing about them lying.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
The non adult rules are very strict. As another poster said, nothing having to do with sex is allowed. A host can't even drop her pen, bend over to pick it up, revealing her panties under a skirt, unless CC thinks it was 100% accidental and not an attempt to get around the rules.
If the host breaks the rules, she is banned from non adult. End of discussion. No appeals, and they are not going to give you the benefit of the doubt. I assume it is because of the laws in various jurisdictions that they are so strict. She can then use that account for adult, but she is done using non adult.
That is why people use glamour. They just don't want to have to worry about this type of thing. Plus, being in "adult" can attract guys that otherwise might never visit you and even without getting naked, you can do things to arouse their interest.
If the host breaks the rules, she is banned from non adult. End of discussion. No appeals, and they are not going to give you the benefit of the doubt. I assume it is because of the laws in various jurisdictions that they are so strict. She can then use that account for adult, but she is done using non adult.
That is why people use glamour. They just don't want to have to worry about this type of thing. Plus, being in "adult" can attract guys that otherwise might never visit you and even without getting naked, you can do things to arouse their interest.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
Years ago, a girl in non adult could make a private session and strip.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
That was years ago indeed. Then CC prohibited that and began to strictly enforce the rules of non-adult. It was at that time glamour category was introduced as a category between non-adult and adult but there was no way to establish consistently enforce the limits and so it was moved to adult softcore.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
And hence the birth of Glamour.... A dark day indeed, lol.
RE: why not use 'make new friends' category?
Poor non adult category hosts will never get their 5 portions of fruit and veg a day :(
some men on cc are realy hate the most beautiful girls?
members are angry ,some hosts are very beautiful sexy and busy non stop invideo? im notice some beauties have 3-4 stars,,,but in chat very kind and polite.pure jealousity ?
May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
I am not sure how to say this or if it will even matter considering what I have read in this forum. Myself and the rest of the family have so many mixed emotions, which is natural with any loss. Unfortunately as I finally found the post that I was looking for I now see what she saw.
As I read her notes and writings, I see that she did reach out to many. In person she was met with such phrases as "get over it, they were not really friends to begin with", on normal chat places and messanger, she was met with phrases such as "get over it. they were not really friends to begin with" and then on here she was met with pretty much the same phrases together with coldness, ridicule, accusations and uncaring people. Yes there were a one or two that showed some compassion, then there were those that mixed compassion with critizm and accusations, but the majority were without compassion and could not be bothered to even try to help her understand.
Most of you probably will not even remember her, nor her post, let alone care and from what I have read among the many different posted questions in this room and the responses that are given to those posts. I have a feeling that even this will get ridiculed and negative critizm.
For her it no longer matters, but for myself, I ask the same question that she did, together with why was it sooo hard for people to actually answer the question asked instead of the things that were said. I did try to help but seeing as I was a friend to her and not just someone who uses the word "friend" to get something from her, I could not help much.
She only asked a simple question, hoping to get some honest helpful responses from those who do such things, as well as from those who have had the same thing happen to them. Yet what she got was the above. She did not feel that she would get much help here, But I told her the only stupid question is one not asked. She told me about this place and as I knew the answers that she had been getting from adults in person, adults at places that were not sex sites nor dating sites, messanger, and even those who did the hurting. So I convinced her to give it a try. I thought that such a place as this with soooo many diverse people that she might get some helpful answers from other adults. well that was very wrong of me, as just about everyone here made it all about money, when it had nothing to do with money.
So now as I sit at one of her relative's computer, waiting to lay her to rest. I ask the same two questions that she asked. One Question being.... "How Stupid Am I"?
May you be at peace my wonderful friend. xxx
As I read her notes and writings, I see that she did reach out to many. In person she was met with such phrases as "get over it, they were not really friends to begin with", on normal chat places and messanger, she was met with phrases such as "get over it. they were not really friends to begin with" and then on here she was met with pretty much the same phrases together with coldness, ridicule, accusations and uncaring people. Yes there were a one or two that showed some compassion, then there were those that mixed compassion with critizm and accusations, but the majority were without compassion and could not be bothered to even try to help her understand.
Most of you probably will not even remember her, nor her post, let alone care and from what I have read among the many different posted questions in this room and the responses that are given to those posts. I have a feeling that even this will get ridiculed and negative critizm.
For her it no longer matters, but for myself, I ask the same question that she did, together with why was it sooo hard for people to actually answer the question asked instead of the things that were said. I did try to help but seeing as I was a friend to her and not just someone who uses the word "friend" to get something from her, I could not help much.
She only asked a simple question, hoping to get some honest helpful responses from those who do such things, as well as from those who have had the same thing happen to them. Yet what she got was the above. She did not feel that she would get much help here, But I told her the only stupid question is one not asked. She told me about this place and as I knew the answers that she had been getting from adults in person, adults at places that were not sex sites nor dating sites, messanger, and even those who did the hurting. So I convinced her to give it a try. I thought that such a place as this with soooo many diverse people that she might get some helpful answers from other adults. well that was very wrong of me, as just about everyone here made it all about money, when it had nothing to do with money.
So now as I sit at one of her relative's computer, waiting to lay her to rest. I ask the same two questions that she asked. One Question being.... "How Stupid Am I"?
May you be at peace my wonderful friend. xxx
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
I am not sure who or what you are talking about. It sounds like you had a friend that worked as a host here and that she had a problem. She then posted about that problem, perhaps at your suggestion, and she got a bunch of insensitive answers. Then, the problem overwhelmed her and she is now dead, perhaps even by suicide.
I have no idea if I am right, but that is the best that I can do at decoding your post. Perhaps you really just posted for yourself, in honor of her memory, and don't really care if we understand or not and have no intention of telling us more.
All I can say is that there are good people and there are bad people everywhere, but, not that you should blame yourself for anything, an adult website really isn't the best place to come for advice. I suppose an exception would be if her problem was that she fell in love with a member and had her heart broken to such a degree that she couldn't take it any more and was asking for advice. Still, anyone here will tell you that while real relationships can develop, most of the time it is a bunch of nonsense. That would explain why people would be insensitive about such a problem. Nevertheless, even sarcastic responses could have served as a wake up call for her.
In any event, I could be wayyyyyyy off base here. I have no idea because you are extremely unclear in terms of what in the world you are talking about. But to attempt to blame people here, even if indirectly, for what occurred in her life is not fair to us. Your friend was not alone. She had you, and you discussed things with her it would seem, including things that occurred here. Again, I am not blaming you for anything, but to implicitly blame us is unfair as well. You were obviously a heck of a lot closer than any of us were.
I hope that whatever happened, you, her family and her friends will move pass this loss and that your friend will be at peace wherever she is. Take care.
I have no idea if I am right, but that is the best that I can do at decoding your post. Perhaps you really just posted for yourself, in honor of her memory, and don't really care if we understand or not and have no intention of telling us more.
All I can say is that there are good people and there are bad people everywhere, but, not that you should blame yourself for anything, an adult website really isn't the best place to come for advice. I suppose an exception would be if her problem was that she fell in love with a member and had her heart broken to such a degree that she couldn't take it any more and was asking for advice. Still, anyone here will tell you that while real relationships can develop, most of the time it is a bunch of nonsense. That would explain why people would be insensitive about such a problem. Nevertheless, even sarcastic responses could have served as a wake up call for her.
In any event, I could be wayyyyyyy off base here. I have no idea because you are extremely unclear in terms of what in the world you are talking about. But to attempt to blame people here, even if indirectly, for what occurred in her life is not fair to us. Your friend was not alone. She had you, and you discussed things with her it would seem, including things that occurred here. Again, I am not blaming you for anything, but to implicitly blame us is unfair as well. You were obviously a heck of a lot closer than any of us were.
I hope that whatever happened, you, her family and her friends will move pass this loss and that your friend will be at peace wherever she is. Take care.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
The post was on the 27th August, there were many replies, the usual mix of cc replies but i don't think anyone saw the post as a cry for help from a potential suicide victim. I think it is very hard for internet friends to see how serious problems such as depression are, I have some internet friends that i would say i'm very close to ( i've met them on occasions) and they have all been depressed at various times, i've tried to help cheer them up, i've tried pointing out that there are people with worse problems surviving, i've tried just being someone they can talk to about all their problems but i have to admit that there are times when i've thought to myself... here we go again.
I'm not there to see how they are 24 hrs a day, i don't always see when they turn away and cry, i don't know how deep the problem is!
Regarding the root cause: why do people lie about being friends, i don't know, some people will always lie, that is just their nature or upbringing, the internet makes it easier to lie and then not have to deal with the consequences face to face.
I'm very sorry for the loss of your friend and the pain that is causing to her family. At least it seems she had a real friend in you and if it wasn't suicide i apologise.
I'm not there to see how they are 24 hrs a day, i don't always see when they turn away and cry, i don't know how deep the problem is!
Regarding the root cause: why do people lie about being friends, i don't know, some people will always lie, that is just their nature or upbringing, the internet makes it easier to lie and then not have to deal with the consequences face to face.
I'm very sorry for the loss of your friend and the pain that is causing to her family. At least it seems she had a real friend in you and if it wasn't suicide i apologise.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
I found the thread. It was so long that I read it fast so maybe I missed something, but I think I got the general idea. I guess my decoding of the original post above was pretty good.
If I understood correctly, this host thought that some guy was her friend and that the guy got her to sleep with him because he convinced her that to prove she was really his friend that she needed to have sex. Or maybe it was that once they met, even though she had said no sex before they met, the guy lied about having feelings for her and convinced her to have sex to show she loved him to. Anyway, I think I got the general idea, and that this situation happened more than once. And I think she went to visit the guy instead of the other way around.
I think that the guys involved were members, although I am not sure if she actually said this since she kept saying it had nothing to do with money, videos, et cetera. But what I am sure is that this type of thing happens all of the time in "real life" too and for the original poster above to attack us in any way is completely unfair. What happened to her happens to people every day, and the CC community is no better and no worse than the rest of the world regarding this particular issue. Just as I said in my initial response, there are good and bad people everywhere.
Further, as for responses to her post, as you said, it was the usual mix, but there were definitely some appropriate responses that sincerely tried to be useful. I vaguely recall seeing the original post, skimming over it, saying to myself that is was the same old, same old and moving on. But many others that did read it seemed to try to be helpful and to attack them now is completely unfair.
Also, there is no indication that I saw that this person was suicidal assuming that is what happened. She is angry and hurt but does not seem unstable. Her post is pretty well written, in fact so much so that based on a few words that she used, I think she may have been American or British, or at least studied English for a long time, and does not appear to be irrational at all. I also think the original poster here is a native English speaker as well which makes me think that the woman was too since they were friends in real, of course I am just guessing.
Nothing she says seems to be a "cry for help". It just seems to be a person saying "Why do people feel the need to lie and hurt people?" I think most of us have asked ourselves that question when we have been hurt and she just felt like venting about it in writing. But there is nothing there in what I saw to make me think she was emotionally unstable.
She obviously had some type of emotional issues. I believe that she said that she was not some young pup and had been hosting awhile so I am guessing she was a bit older (whether that means 25, 35 or 45, I have no idea), and that despite having friends and family that cared about her, she felt lonely anyway to the point where she might take her own life. How the original poster above could ever expect any of us to see any of that is beyond me.
This is a tragic situation and very sad. But I cannot say enough that I don't think anyone on CC that posted was responsible for what happened, and the more I think about it, the more angry I get at the original poster above for trying to blame us instead of looking in the mirror. There was nothing that to suggest that the woman was unstable and that things would end in tragedy, nor did anyone attack her to the point where she should have been pushed over the edge unless she was already there, and there was nothing to indicated that she was already at that edge.
Someone here speculated that maybe it was not a true story. I certainly hope not, but maybe the woman from the original post on August 27 wrote the above post too to warn people what could happen if we are not sensitive to other's feelings and nobody really died. Unfortunately, I am guessing she actually did die and a friend wrote the above post.
True or not, it does serve as a reminder to be sensitive to one another's feelings and to be honest with one another. But even if true, I don't think that we need to start walking on eggshells and watching every little thing we say. This forum is for expressing opinions and is not the suicide prevention hotline, and as someone suggested, are a bunch of strangers living on their computers (wanking, talking about sex, et cetera) really the ones you want to turn to for advice with a serious problem? There are good people here, but anonymous posts with anonymous responses really aren't the way to go especially on a site like this. She did at least turn to a real friend in real life, but sadly he could not help and wants to blame us for his loss now.
If someone indicates that they clearly need help, that would be different, but that woman's post seemed very typical. That is why I skipped over quickly and didn't even bother to respond. Had I known more, I might have tried to help, but none of knew more and to attack anyone here now is completely unfair and inappropriate.
To the original poster above, I am sorry for your loss. I am sure you tried your best to help your friend, and you shouldn't blame yourself. This woman clearly was making bad decisions and had issues that really required the help of a professional. But please do not blame us either.
Good luck.
If I understood correctly, this host thought that some guy was her friend and that the guy got her to sleep with him because he convinced her that to prove she was really his friend that she needed to have sex. Or maybe it was that once they met, even though she had said no sex before they met, the guy lied about having feelings for her and convinced her to have sex to show she loved him to. Anyway, I think I got the general idea, and that this situation happened more than once. And I think she went to visit the guy instead of the other way around.
I think that the guys involved were members, although I am not sure if she actually said this since she kept saying it had nothing to do with money, videos, et cetera. But what I am sure is that this type of thing happens all of the time in "real life" too and for the original poster above to attack us in any way is completely unfair. What happened to her happens to people every day, and the CC community is no better and no worse than the rest of the world regarding this particular issue. Just as I said in my initial response, there are good and bad people everywhere.
Further, as for responses to her post, as you said, it was the usual mix, but there were definitely some appropriate responses that sincerely tried to be useful. I vaguely recall seeing the original post, skimming over it, saying to myself that is was the same old, same old and moving on. But many others that did read it seemed to try to be helpful and to attack them now is completely unfair.
Also, there is no indication that I saw that this person was suicidal assuming that is what happened. She is angry and hurt but does not seem unstable. Her post is pretty well written, in fact so much so that based on a few words that she used, I think she may have been American or British, or at least studied English for a long time, and does not appear to be irrational at all. I also think the original poster here is a native English speaker as well which makes me think that the woman was too since they were friends in real, of course I am just guessing.
Nothing she says seems to be a "cry for help". It just seems to be a person saying "Why do people feel the need to lie and hurt people?" I think most of us have asked ourselves that question when we have been hurt and she just felt like venting about it in writing. But there is nothing there in what I saw to make me think she was emotionally unstable.
She obviously had some type of emotional issues. I believe that she said that she was not some young pup and had been hosting awhile so I am guessing she was a bit older (whether that means 25, 35 or 45, I have no idea), and that despite having friends and family that cared about her, she felt lonely anyway to the point where she might take her own life. How the original poster above could ever expect any of us to see any of that is beyond me.
This is a tragic situation and very sad. But I cannot say enough that I don't think anyone on CC that posted was responsible for what happened, and the more I think about it, the more angry I get at the original poster above for trying to blame us instead of looking in the mirror. There was nothing that to suggest that the woman was unstable and that things would end in tragedy, nor did anyone attack her to the point where she should have been pushed over the edge unless she was already there, and there was nothing to indicated that she was already at that edge.
Someone here speculated that maybe it was not a true story. I certainly hope not, but maybe the woman from the original post on August 27 wrote the above post too to warn people what could happen if we are not sensitive to other's feelings and nobody really died. Unfortunately, I am guessing she actually did die and a friend wrote the above post.
True or not, it does serve as a reminder to be sensitive to one another's feelings and to be honest with one another. But even if true, I don't think that we need to start walking on eggshells and watching every little thing we say. This forum is for expressing opinions and is not the suicide prevention hotline, and as someone suggested, are a bunch of strangers living on their computers (wanking, talking about sex, et cetera) really the ones you want to turn to for advice with a serious problem? There are good people here, but anonymous posts with anonymous responses really aren't the way to go especially on a site like this. She did at least turn to a real friend in real life, but sadly he could not help and wants to blame us for his loss now.
If someone indicates that they clearly need help, that would be different, but that woman's post seemed very typical. That is why I skipped over quickly and didn't even bother to respond. Had I known more, I might have tried to help, but none of knew more and to attack anyone here now is completely unfair and inappropriate.
To the original poster above, I am sorry for your loss. I am sure you tried your best to help your friend, and you shouldn't blame yourself. This woman clearly was making bad decisions and had issues that really required the help of a professional. But please do not blame us either.
Good luck.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
"I am sorry but this is really not a place for dramas."
Are you kidding me. this is Soap Opera Central.
Are you kidding me. this is Soap Opera Central.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
how were we supposed to know what's going on given we didn't even know who she is and her posts always left room for interpretation? sometimes it's hard to tell what's going on with friends you've known and been close to forever. and why would the question 'why people lie' matter? was any reason anyone would have given her make a difference? no it wouldn't. i'm sorry she was naive enough to believe it would
take care xox
take care xox
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
I understand your pain and sadness if you feel something could have been done better and this Forum didn't fulfil your expectations.
Contrarily to what some above posts state, I tend to believe the microcosm of such a site is indeed not representative of the whole population, but still reflects some features of real life.
I was told somebody could be dying in the street in New York, and passers-by would just walk around and along to avoid getting into trouble. It's surely the same here, as we could read: "this is not a place for dramas".
As in other professions (or in a jungle), hosts compete for business (or survival), with more or less toughness and respect for others, and rather considering other hosts' problem as a normal outcome or advantae for themselves in this pitiless competition.
And there are people who feel alone in a crowd, alone in a city where they are ignored from others. Same here, except that a host has the opportunity to see guests when he or she is on line.
You surely did the right thing to suggest your friend should drop this "bottle with a message" into the sea. If she had found a true friend on line - it happens too - she could have shared a burden that was too heavy for her shoulders. Unfortunately she didn't have or find such a person or she didn't manage to move the passive crowd of hosts and guests, each seeking a personal achievement in joining CC.
Thanks for bringing this touch of humanity into a place where many people have an overdimensioned ego.
Contrarily to what some above posts state, I tend to believe the microcosm of such a site is indeed not representative of the whole population, but still reflects some features of real life.
I was told somebody could be dying in the street in New York, and passers-by would just walk around and along to avoid getting into trouble. It's surely the same here, as we could read: "this is not a place for dramas".
As in other professions (or in a jungle), hosts compete for business (or survival), with more or less toughness and respect for others, and rather considering other hosts' problem as a normal outcome or advantae for themselves in this pitiless competition.
And there are people who feel alone in a crowd, alone in a city where they are ignored from others. Same here, except that a host has the opportunity to see guests when he or she is on line.
You surely did the right thing to suggest your friend should drop this "bottle with a message" into the sea. If she had found a true friend on line - it happens too - she could have shared a burden that was too heavy for her shoulders. Unfortunately she didn't have or find such a person or she didn't manage to move the passive crowd of hosts and guests, each seeking a personal achievement in joining CC.
Thanks for bringing this touch of humanity into a place where many people have an overdimensioned ego.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
It is very difficult to evaluate another's state of mind through what they write... esp. in a site like this... but I do think you have a point.
We could be a bit more compassionate. We could try a little harder to get out of the shell of our own comfortable selves.
We could be a bit more compassionate. We could try a little harder to get out of the shell of our own comfortable selves.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
Of course, you do need to protect yourself from the cruelties of others, and you have my respect.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
I think you have missed the entire point of the post. Lying was the problem to begin with, Lack of compassion the subsequent response. The moral of the story is for us to be honest in our dealings with others here, as well as compassionate. (good term, SeemsReal)
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
I am sorry that you have lost a friend. I remember the post and the long string of replies. I did not reply because i could not think of anything constructive to add. I do not see how those that did post could be in any way held responsible for what has happened. It was clear from her post that she was in such a desperate state that this was her last resort. And as she did not give her name it was not possible for anyone not very familiar with her situation to know who she was. I really wonder what help any replies here could have been.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
Your post (1) angers me, (2) makes me wonder, and (3) distresses me
(1)
it angers me because I hear you blaming us for your friend's suicide. I'm sorry but this is NOT an appropriate place to come for advice. There is a term used in AA groups -- "Stinking Thinking" -- and in my opinion, coming to a webcam sex site for advice on social relationships is just that. For one thing, seeking advice from anonymous strangers is crazy. Go to a trusted friend, or to a professional counselor, not to some nameless, faceless person whom you have no idea if you can trust to have your best interest at heart, or if they have any idea what they are talking about. Given the nature of this site, and these forums, what other kind of responses did your "friend" expect?
Secondly, it angers me, because frankly, while SOME replies said in the orginal thread may have been critical or uncaring (and not all were, not by any means), a person who commits suicide is emotionally unstable. They are depressed. They are already "on the brink." They are not thinking clearly. And while the replies in the original thread may have been "the straw that broke the camel's back", they are not the primary factor in your friend's supposed suicide. The problem was within her.
For a third thing (and I'm sorry folks, but I'm calling it as I see it) probably the majority of folks who are posting in these forums are the last persons in the world to be seeking social advice from. If we were experts at social relationships, would we REALLY need to be on a site such as this getting our "needs" met (whether sexual or relational)?
(2)
It makes me wonder if this is not just some fantastic piece of fiction, or some morbid little game you are playing. Because really we have no way of knowing if what you said is really true. The original poster was anonymous. Your post is anonymous. How do we know the whole thing was not some charade? How do we know that you are not the original poster of "How Stupid Am I" carrying on some well-planned, morbid game designed to make people feel bad? How do we know your motive is not just to generate a false guilt trip in the readers here by creating some made up "suicide" story?
Give us the "host's" name. Show us the "obituary." Maybe then we can believe you. And if I read your post correctly, you said that you "could not help because you were a friend"? Baloney! You were the best person to help her. You said that you "referred her to here for advice"? How responsible is that, not knowing the site or what it is like? So how can I help but wonder what your motives are? Looks to me more like shifting blame (that is, if your friend really did commit suicide).
(3)
And finally, it does distress me... because it may be true. And though I was not a contributor on that particular thread, I have at times said things here in these forums that, if I knew the person in real life, probably would not have said... or if I knew the person was teetering on the brink, would have thought twice about my words. That's probably the real danger of sites like this -- we really don't know, who we are addressing with our cutting remarks, or hurtful slurs. We don't know what their level of emotional maturity is, or for that matter if they are even adults (mentally or chronologically). We just throw out our hostilities without really thinking that the person on the other end is a real person, with real feelings, real needs, maybe real problems. I do know that there are a lot of lonely people here, who can easily misinterpret fantasy for reality, and who are setting themselves up to be hurt. I know, too, there are many (both hosts and members) who have little regard for those whose hearts they are playing with, and so make promises that are not true. There is that much at least which is definitely true in the original thread.
(1)
it angers me because I hear you blaming us for your friend's suicide. I'm sorry but this is NOT an appropriate place to come for advice. There is a term used in AA groups -- "Stinking Thinking" -- and in my opinion, coming to a webcam sex site for advice on social relationships is just that. For one thing, seeking advice from anonymous strangers is crazy. Go to a trusted friend, or to a professional counselor, not to some nameless, faceless person whom you have no idea if you can trust to have your best interest at heart, or if they have any idea what they are talking about. Given the nature of this site, and these forums, what other kind of responses did your "friend" expect?
Secondly, it angers me, because frankly, while SOME replies said in the orginal thread may have been critical or uncaring (and not all were, not by any means), a person who commits suicide is emotionally unstable. They are depressed. They are already "on the brink." They are not thinking clearly. And while the replies in the original thread may have been "the straw that broke the camel's back", they are not the primary factor in your friend's supposed suicide. The problem was within her.
For a third thing (and I'm sorry folks, but I'm calling it as I see it) probably the majority of folks who are posting in these forums are the last persons in the world to be seeking social advice from. If we were experts at social relationships, would we REALLY need to be on a site such as this getting our "needs" met (whether sexual or relational)?
(2)
It makes me wonder if this is not just some fantastic piece of fiction, or some morbid little game you are playing. Because really we have no way of knowing if what you said is really true. The original poster was anonymous. Your post is anonymous. How do we know the whole thing was not some charade? How do we know that you are not the original poster of "How Stupid Am I" carrying on some well-planned, morbid game designed to make people feel bad? How do we know your motive is not just to generate a false guilt trip in the readers here by creating some made up "suicide" story?
Give us the "host's" name. Show us the "obituary." Maybe then we can believe you. And if I read your post correctly, you said that you "could not help because you were a friend"? Baloney! You were the best person to help her. You said that you "referred her to here for advice"? How responsible is that, not knowing the site or what it is like? So how can I help but wonder what your motives are? Looks to me more like shifting blame (that is, if your friend really did commit suicide).
(3)
And finally, it does distress me... because it may be true. And though I was not a contributor on that particular thread, I have at times said things here in these forums that, if I knew the person in real life, probably would not have said... or if I knew the person was teetering on the brink, would have thought twice about my words. That's probably the real danger of sites like this -- we really don't know, who we are addressing with our cutting remarks, or hurtful slurs. We don't know what their level of emotional maturity is, or for that matter if they are even adults (mentally or chronologically). We just throw out our hostilities without really thinking that the person on the other end is a real person, with real feelings, real needs, maybe real problems. I do know that there are a lot of lonely people here, who can easily misinterpret fantasy for reality, and who are setting themselves up to be hurt. I know, too, there are many (both hosts and members) who have little regard for those whose hearts they are playing with, and so make promises that are not true. There is that much at least which is definitely true in the original thread.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
Hmm...u mean someone asked forum of sex-site a question, didn like the answers and kill yourself??? I hope you are kidding here.
RE: May you be at peace my wonderful friend......
Sadly, I've seen such topics used by trolls to play on the emotions of others. It's both sad and creepy as hell to think, but I wouldn't be surprised if a post was later made by the author of the first in this thread just to admit that it's all a shame and laugh that he was able to screw with so many people's heads.
Seriously, if you have problems, go to your real friends and family - Don't seek the advice of strangers who don't and can't know the details of your situation.
Seriously, if you have problems, go to your real friends and family - Don't seek the advice of strangers who don't and can't know the details of your situation.
The Hectics!! Missing in Action
Anybody know where she has gone i've seen her on yahoo a few times as busy.. She never answers... We were pretty good friends at one point and she always had an amazingly sexy show. Anyone hear from her?
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
She took a job in a travel agency, then quit but didn't feel like coming back on cam. I guess she turned the page...
I share your regrets, a sweet beautiful girl with great personality
I share your regrets, a sweet beautiful girl with great personality
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action also MissWanda
Yeah. it seems a lot of the hosts with real persoanlity have gone. Anyone know wwhat happened to MissWanda? She never was on line much but was a fun and sexy girl.
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
ya i have no idea why we were really good friends... When shes on yahoo she never answers me... I don't know if i offended her or what I have done... Awesome girl tho.. I surely miss..
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
"When shes on yahoo she never answers me."
That's because she can't make any money on yahoo.
That's because she can't make any money on yahoo.
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
You sound like somebody who didn't know her personally... At the rates she used to charge, she never acted as a money grabber.
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
Détrompez-vous! I know and avoid Yahoo!
And I got news from this girl today, but not on it ;)
And I got news from this girl today, but not on it ;)
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
no, unless aguy is yours... but I can cc-mail you in case you wish and tell me how to
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
I do know Yahoo but my point was the contact with all cam girls is based on the exchange of money.
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
Okay, so you know it. but obviously not all that well. I stand by my original comment
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
Over the years I've had many hosts on Yahoo IM and as soon as I was not spending money in their pvt room, the IM contact ceased. Are we clear?
RE: The Hectics!! Missing in Action
At one point when I had my business running I had over 150 hosts in my yahoo. I will get about 100 offline messages every morning such as: I miss you baby - Where are you? - I love you, come to me - You are the best I know - etc. I lost my business I stopped coming in video and guess what? Not a single wh*re contacted me ever after I explained them I wasnt coming to video because I had lost my business. Now I have a new business, new host friends, but no more yahoo I dont believe a word they say anymore. Ha!
RE: A thought.........
this man need a doll.not a wife.how can he compare woman and car?wtf. and ofc natural tits are always better than fake
RE: A thought.........
I like big tits, little tits, but only REAL tits. Some fake tits are ok if small or medium, but the big ones look so wierd. And all fake tits feel fake.
RE: A thought.........
Hate them.. true beauty lies with in..not in the size of your breasts..
RE: A thought.........
I'm not really a boob man so for me it's either very small boobs or a huge pair of fake boobs.
RE: men forget that women boobs are not really for them.
True..but then again they don't put them in sexy push up bras and peek cleavage out of their shirts for their children ;)
RE: men forget that women boobs are not really for them.
Good one! Also babies don't care how big they are just mama so she can get a daddy for the baby...
RE: men forget that women boobs are not really for them.
say 2 kids, 18 months each, that is 3 years of feeding, and a whole life of looking sexy for men. So tits are for men!
not for men
God gave woman 2 tits to feed kids, but men see a woman only in a sexy way, from here fetish for nails or bullshit:). After having kids , breast cant just disapear LOL, stays there for the next kids,so really breasts are not for men, this is a damaged idea through the years and women also understood it like men, thats why they put silicons LOL imagine their future kids sucking their plastic tits LOOL
RE: not for men
I think God gave women two tits, for feeding kids, yes, but also because men find them sexually arousing. The purpose is two-fold. Not just one purpose.
RE: not for men
Like I posted in an earlier thread, after my male enhancement, my testicles are not 36DD
RE: A thought.........
Silicon breasts are a great comfort for a woman who may have lost hers to Breast Cancer. In that text I say make yourself happy and may you heal completely and be Cancer Free. But to have plastic surgery just because you want to be larger. If it is a matter of doing it to gain your self esteem than do what's best for you. If it's to attract more men here use your money for better things.
RE: A thought.........
Yehhhhhhh, Pussy Iips enhancements are much better! The bigger the better!
RE: A thought.........
I think the most beautiful women are always those that are happy with the body nature gave them.
Plus, even not taking into account what fake breasts say about the character of the woman who gets them, they just really, really creep me out.
Plus, even not taking into account what fake breasts say about the character of the woman who gets them, they just really, really creep me out.