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A friend sent me this chuckle . . .

A 3-year-old boy was examining his testicles while taking a bath. "Mom" he asked, "Are these my brains?"

She replied........."Not yet, son, not yet."
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RE: A friend sent me this chuckle . . .

good one-thanks for sharing, I needed a laugh tonight

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1SexyDiva

Ohhhh how I miss her!!!

I never had enough time to get into a really good long horny chat with her, but we did manage to have at least a little fun...enough to make me want more.

And now she seems to be gone. Hopefully, she's just on vacation.

Does anyone out there have any news as to her status?

I know it's not likely, but I'm just checking.
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RE: 1SexyDiva

she will be back (maybe) if not, let me tell you about a few more you need to check out--awesome, beautiful, sexy, fun, Intelligence, and don't take no for a answer

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RE: 1SexyDiva

Well let's hear them!

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RE: 1SexyDiva

Yes. I'm with Tom. Let's hear them. And how can you be so sure ("maybe") that "she'll be back?"

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RE: 1SexyDiva

opps-sorry I did forget the names: wilddreamsx-milksquirting-night of akina-carpediemyx-pevertvip-blissham-perfecktion-xgingerbaby-myboobs-pinkyblack-jerriko-sunny jenny-blessed me-ohhmypussie-....just to name a few-now don't ask me which is which on the description i mention above-all i can say about all of them is cc next covergirls and i am sure their are hundreds of more here and you are welcome-have a good day-stay cool-keep on smiling and love your neighbors

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RE: Could a member pls post

I wish you had posted yr name

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RE: Could a member pls post

"minus the 2 min guys that come in say show me ass show me tits when you are in the middle of doing something a prev member asked only to have that guy leave after you show ass an tits"

This sounds to me like you have members that come to your pvt just to chat and you prefer chatting to doing shows. So you password protect your sessions so you don't have to do shows for members you don't know.

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RE: Could a member pls post

Any excuse to bring up once again the curent flavour-of-the-month criticism. <<in the middle of doing something a prev member asked>> doesn't sound to me like a reference just to chatting, but you hang-on in there with your prejudices!

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RE: Could a member pls post

We'll have to agree to disagree. I can only speak for myself, but if I go in an open video and the hosts is in a show I quietly watch. If she is in a long chat in the so called nude categories, I have a problem. If a member wants exclusive time with the host he can use the 121 option. That is why there is such an option.

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RE: Could a member pls post

"Dont forget Im not changing my rate.I dont see why its a problem to others when a host does a password maybe if the host only did it for some members but I do it for all members that ask."

Well you are the exception as others I asked for a password have told me I had to be a frequent viewer to get one. And I am used to seeing password protected sessions in Glamour/Little shy but I rarely see them in not shy/IA. And when you say not many members are respectful as I am in pvt, I have to disagree. No, I do not know any other members, but I've had many pvts over time and every host without exception has told me that the great majority of her viewers are respectful and polite. And yes I know there are some very rude members and no one doubts that. But to say most are rude flies in the face of what every other host have ever told me.

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RE: Could a member pls post

Do you actually read the posts? She did not say most members are rude. The majority of members here may be polite but if only 10 or 20 pct are rude a host may be getting 2 or three rude members a day in her room.
And do you really ask every host you visit whether the other members are polite and respectful towards her?

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RE: Could a member pls post

"And do you really ask every host you visit whether the other members are polite and respectful towards her?"

If you read my post, it says every host I have ever asked, not every host I have ever been in pvt with.

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RE: Could a member pls post

Maybe you also need to read your own posts. Quote "No, I do not know any other members, but I've had many pvts over time and every host without exception has told me that the great majority of her viewers are respectful and polite. And yes I know there are some very rude members and no one doubts that. But to say most are rude flies in the face of what every other host have ever told me." Maybe I have suddenly become dyslexic but I cannot see where you said "any host I have ever asked".

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RE: Could a member pls post

If I came in your open vid and you were doing a show as you describe, I would remain quiet until the show was over. When a host is doing a show, the first member has priority in the nude categories. The problem arises from members wanting to just chat in open vid in these categories. I have no doubt that you and many other hosts do as you say, but I have first hand knowledge of many other hosts that do not do as you describe, in their pvts. And that is where the problem is.

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RE: Could a member pls post

In your case it may be you are giving your viewers a good deal. But I've seen many password protected sessions that have the same price as 121. It is the decision of each individual host.

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RE: Could a member pls post

I don't get it...why not just lower your 121 rate to 0% if you want to give private shows for the price of open?? If someone asks for your password and you give to all why keeps the 2 min guys from coming in as well.
Please don't suggest that members ask hosts for that. It is your thing and I don't think it makes sense for me. I welcome all into open or 121 which I keep a low percentage to encourage it.

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RE: Could a member pls post

give me your password- check you out and then come back and post a comment

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RE: Could a member pls post

Unless things have changed recently a host can't put 0% as a 121 rate. There is a minimum above her open rate.

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RE: Could a member pls post

Not sure why you posted that. I am simply confused why she posts a password for all to join her in a password protected session so she can charge them an open rate! Makes no sense...why not keep her 121 % low and avoid going to password protected? She gives it to all that ask so what is the difference between that and open session?
Whatever, if that makes sense to her then let her do it. Just don't suggest that guys should ask all girls to go along with her theory.

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RE: Could a member pls post

It makes sense in certain circumstances. If a host has a number of regulars who she knows don't mind "sharing" her when she is doing a show and will not start demanding she immediately does what they say she can give the password to several members. They get a good show without paying the 121 rate, the host earns more than with just one guy in 121 and nether the host nor the members are disturbed by rude guys jumping in. Only experienced hosts can manage their rooms in this way.

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RE: Could a member pls post

It is her preference period! Not something that she should suggest that others ask hosts for because she chooses that in not shy! Seems to be many down falls by doing that ...perhaps she has experienced them yet. Who to decide gets a password and who doesn't? Lose many members because they have to feel obligated to stay for a period of time rather than just pop in and see what she is offering first. Nonetheless it is her choice as it is other hosts choice not to do it!

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RE: For and Against....

I have attended a childbirth and found it an amazing very positive experience that i would not have wanted to miss for anything. And it certainly did not make me lose my desire for sex.

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RE: For and Against....

I was present at the birth of both of my children, and I am glad I didn't miss that experience. However, the husband/boyfriend whatever can just forget about being an integral part of the birthing process... I was cussed out at one point loool., and I felt like the fifth wheel most of the time (the first one took 41 hours from first contractions to birth). You are there to provide support, and to bear witness, and that is your role. I did get to cut the cord though... and welcome both my children to the world.

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RE: For and Against....

Good question AvrOra! I was banned from the delivery room of the birth of all my 3 children. I resented it. I wanted to be with my wife to support her and share the wonder of the arrival of our child. Fortunately, fathers are now allowed to be present.

Let's face it, all the hyper-activity about sex really boils down to making babies. At the final conclusion, the father really should be there.

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Thought for the day

everything is okie-just think, if you had days that were number in life, what would you wanna do or get accomplish before it ending here. I been thinking mine would be simple-I would want to do is spend more time with my family and to get accomplish would be to become one of the best pilots out there-
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RE: Thought for the day

to become rich and famous

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RE: Thought for the day

then start ur own reality show:P

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RE: Thought for the day

to be owner of this site would be by accomplish and as for wanting to do something--to feed the poor and hunger of the world

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RE: Thought for the day

would like to see the war end before my time up and would like to accomplish becoming a senator

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RE: Thought for the day

you got my vote clara

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RE: Thought for the day

thanks for your support

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RE: small price vs bigger price

low price, long time. When I look for new girls in not so shy, if they are over 1.20 in open, I do not even try them. What categories are you in?

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RE: small price vs bigger price

Sometimes it seems like CC is the Dollar Store of cam sites..

You guys are just plain cheap...

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RE: small price vs bigger price

if you want to pay more money, knock yourself out. it's not cheap to appreciate a bargain. it cracks me up when a host charges $3 in Little Shy and refuses to strip and then complains about low traffic and "cheap" members...

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RE: small price vs bigger price

maybe he has a wife, how could u know it?

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RE: small price vs bigger price

Poor guys like to have fun too :)

Seriously though I like to stay an hour or two, just can't do that when it is much over $1. To be honest some of the most exciting shows I have ever had were at around $1, can't really think of anything in them that wouldn't have been done by someone charging more and truthfully some of the more expensive videos I have had were terrible in comparison.

Some will say "you get what you pay for" but it is also true "a fool and his money are soon parted". I learned a long time ago here that price does not ensure quality.

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RE: small price vs bigger price

if a total session has cost me over $200 then i feel depressed for weeks.

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RE: small price vs bigger price

I've been depressed for years. D

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Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

This practice of allowing hosts to have rooms in Glamour/little shy and either not so shy or IA needs to change. It creates a conflict. These hosts ask for 121 for show while in not shy/IA or don't do show at all, because they think softcore rules apply in not shy/IA.
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RE: Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

CC rules state that hosts are allowed to have more than one room open, however if they have a video in one of the rooms (open or 121) they must pause the other room. So they shouldn't be actually in video in more than one room at a time.

I see no problem in hosts offering two different shows in Hardcore and Softcore at two different prices, providing they abide by the 'must pause other rooms when in video' rule. It gives a viewer more choice over price and what type of show they want from a host.

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RE: Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

My beef is Friends/Family for a buck, then peddling Glam, Shy, etc for $3. I know, nobody has a gun to their heads and the chicklets need to earn a living but how many takers they have for $3.

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RE: Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

"how many takers they have for $3."

Apparently enough to earn a decent living here. And I've seen higher than $3 keeping busy.

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RE: Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

Must be one that he is talking about! Seems like a legitimate gripe to me.

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RE: Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

"hosts are all the same"

Yes and that is the issue. The way the categories are defined are in contrast to the way the hosts act in these categories.

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RE: Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

"whats the problem?"

The problem is hosts forget they are in IA or not shy and treat viewer like they do in Glamour or shy. Or they know where they are and still act like they are in Glamour or shy.

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RE: Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

The problem is not hosts having sessions in softcore and hardcore at the same time but of them not properly understanding the rules. This tends to happen most with new hosts, especially in studios. To be fair to the hosts, the complete set of rules is complex and it is not surprising some of them get confused. Studio owners/admins sometimes get them wrong when explaining to hosts.

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RE: Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

Its not that easy

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RE: Hosts having open rooms in hardcore and softcore at same time.

What is difficult about it?

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cc mail

is cc mail running on a ZX80?? Today I received a mail send on aug 3rd. Lot of times mail arrive days later. Am I the only one or are more people having this problem?
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time for a laugh?

after rain has filled all the potholes in the sreet,a young mother watches her 2 boys playing in the puddles from the kitchen window.
to her horror,the older boy,a 5 year old,grabs his brother by the back of his head & shoves his face into a pothole.as the younger boy recovers & stands laughing & dripping wet,the mother runs to the yard in a panic.
"why on earth did you do that to your little brother? "she asks as she shakes the boy."we're just playing church' mummy,"he says.'i was baptising him.... in the name of the father,the son & into the hole-he-goes!" :--)
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RE: time for a laugh?

what hole are u stuck in?

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RE: time for a laugh?

hilarious :P

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Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

Not that long ago there was no mobile phone plan for cc or any other cam site. Now it seems they are taking a bigger and bigger share of the market. And for reasons I don't completely understand , there are many more restrictions on adult content when using a mobile device instead of a computer. So there seems to be many new issues for hosts to deal with as mobile phones take a larger share of their business.
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RE: Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

damn you!until i read your thread this had even crossed my mind.now i don't know how many sleepless nights i'll have,firstly deciding what i think & secondly waiting for the official results of the forum.i hope you're happy! :--)

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RE: Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

Always happy my friend. Maybe I should have posted this in the Tech Forum?

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RE: Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

It would be rather ironic if, only recently having got full-screen video sessions on computers, members were to start preferring pictures limited to the dimensions of their mobile handset.

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RE: Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

Yes I agree with viewers like you and I, but I've heard mobile users are very young and their numbers are increasing rapidly. I've been lead to believe it is a new segment of the overall market. And like any other business, your core customers change over time.

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RE: Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

I prefer the convenience of being mobile. I have been using IPad since it came out and now I am using a different tablet and its way better than carrying a notebook or a laptop and even much better than a stupid desktop that only reminds me WORK, lmao! I can see what I want anywhere when I wish, of course, with discretion.

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RE: Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

It would take young eyes to watch a video on those small screens. For me I hate how small the archive pics are even when you enlarge them to their largest size on a huge monitor lol. But you know, every person I meet under 30 seems to constantly be staring at their phones, even while walking down the street, and they all have in earphones that I am sure have grown into their heads because they never remove them. I just wonder if you were to pull one out and listen to it if it would be saying "Breath in,,, Breath out,,,, Breath in,,,, Breath out" :)

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RE: Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

I hear ya, but the 18 to 30 age group is coveted by marketers worldwide in all business. They have all of that disposable income. No mortgage, no wife and kids etc.

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RE: Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

Yep, thats why I never paid attention to peer pressure as to get married, have kids, and bust your ass to support the family. I am 45 doing anything I wish and still enjoying life and no regrets ;-)

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RE: Will mobile users outnumber users who use a computer in the near future?

It's just a different form factor for different occasions, no big deal. Smart phones have there place alongside desktops and laptops. Personally, it's the tablet pcs that I don't get. They're basically just netbooks priced at a premium for all the added inconvenience of not including a keyboard, right?

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Most Ratings are too high

most members are too nice and rate girls too high. A 5 should be reserved for a very sexy woman who does all she says she will, has good engish, sound that works, good video quality, and pays attention. If someting is not great, then rate lower. And if a girl lies or pays no atttention, rate 1.
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RE: Most Ratings are too high

If you don't show your breasts or anything else why would you be in an adult category?

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RE: Most Ratings are too high

You deem indeed confused between erotism and porn.
And at times it's better to keep the illusion of imagination rather than the crude truth...

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RE: Most Ratings are too high

Honestly as a host I didn't realize that is not the case! Thought they were tougher here since another popular site the majority are 5 star. Here it seems most are 4.5 or 4.

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RE: Most Ratings are too high

If that the sites I'm thinking about, you have to have spent a certain amount of money on site to be able to leave a written review. And you have to be in pvt at least 2 minutes to vote.

In my opinion most viewers on all sites tend to rate the highest, 5 stars on most and 10stars on that starts out My.

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RE: Most Ratings are too high

There are a few exceptions I'm sure, but the majority of hosts here are just trying to earn some money to the best of their ability, with the best equipment they can afford, when circumstances allow, and perhaps when they would much rather not have to. It is not my place to compromise their efforts, so everybody I visit gets 5* regardless of how satisfied I am with the session. And it also helps to counterbalance the unjustified low ratings from jerks who deserve to be disenfranchised.

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RE: Most Ratings are too high

I tend to rate mostly 5's because my expectations are easily met, and I am easily satisfied. A host must really irritate me or disappoint me for me to rate lower, and to give a 1, I have to be really pissed... and I have never been that pissed.

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RE: Most Ratings are too high

"And it also helps to counterbalance the unjustified low ratings from jerks who deserve to be disenfranchised."

There are no doubt jerks in the membership. I think there is universal agreement there, but there could be circumstances where a host deserves a 1 star. I agree with your assessment of the hosts in general, but scattered among them are a few dishonest hosts. And I'm sorry but there is no way I can rate a dishonest host 5 stars. Its jut not happening.

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RE: Most Ratings are too high

that is the third silliest thread i've read here just behing daylight which isn't even in the same galaxy as inyfs"i only joined to read the forums" :--)

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RE: Most Ratings are too high

I really don't agree with you on your criteria for giving a 5. I think regardless of the criteria you mention, points should be awarded on the degree of satisfaction the member receives from his/her visit with the host. Higher the satisfaction, higher the point. Of course, it is clear that the criteria you mention are what gives you satisfaction, But for me, good English is not all that important, as long as we can still communicat. Sound is not important at all, but is a nice plus. Video quality is important, but can be outweighed by other factors

Points are subjective, and really they can't be otherwise. And so there will always be opinions as to whether the points given are too high or too low. One person's experience may see a host's performance as exceptional because of what that person's expectations are. Another person at the exact same show in the exact same time, may see the performance in an entirely different light, because the expectations were different.

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What I am looking for on CC

I finally realized what I am looking for when I come here. I am not looking for the biggest ..... or the roundest..... or the juiciest...... or the best nails or ....or a girlfriend. What I am looking for is an attractive woman who is wearing something other than a T shirt, has at least a little makeup on, gets a joke and UNDERSTANDS MEN. We men are simple. We are not hard to figure out.
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RE: What I am looking for on CC

make sure your card is in good working order

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

From my experience, it would be harder to find a host here that doesn't meet that criteria than one who does.

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

I am sorry to hear that your experiences have been so bad! It seems like the request is so simple and I am surprised that you don't find that more common, there is such a huge selection. I always dress for sexy fun and it puts me in the mood to play. I am a mature host but 70% of my viewers are younger than I am. I don't mean to toot my own horn but I come here to play and have fun rather than a job so I consider my attire like an evening out but I can do things that wouldn't be appropriate in public or with my date...lol.

Surprised you didn't mention what your sexual expectations are!
Good Luck I am sure they are out there in every category .....

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

Most of what you say also is my criteria except the "UNDERSTANDS MEN"...you're joking right? This won't happen in my lifetime, nor yours. :p :=D

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

maybe you're right but I only have a limited life-time to work with it.

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

Yes I agree...I thought that the majority of hosts dress as they do in their pictures and for the most part they look very good. So surprised at what he says. I feel foolish now if I am one of the few. I could be saving so much time and money by not...lol

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

Why be so shy about telling your screen name....how can he find you? Is that a tease or what...

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

Miky and "ahost" you sound like my kind of girls. Don't cut down on the preparation...it is much appreciated. My original post wasn't a complaint. I was just making an observation about myself. Why I felt the need to state it here.....who the hell knows lol. I have met many wonderful girls here.

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

"as a sign of respect for myself and also for the people around me" Perfectly stated. From now on I'll send my posts to you, you can edit them and post for me. We think the same but you are a couple of steps ahead of me, which is usually the case with women and me! Of course we still don't know who you are. Don't worry I'm not asking. kiss

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

But all guys like different action and dress....so maybe not so simple:)

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

oink! (said sweetly ;)

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

Oink oink.. want some sugar?

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RE: What I am looking for on CC

hmmm- I didn't know cc had 2 sean's here, watch out all

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RE: RATINGS

From the wording of your post I understand you are a host and presumably in a softcore category. Unfortunatley there are members who either do not understand or do not accept the different requirements of each category and consider that the host should do whatever the viewer tells them too. These are the sort of guys who rate you 1 star if you tell them you won't get fully nude.

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RE: RATINGS

How can you possibly know for sure how a member rates you? Also there is an option to not rate at all.

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RE: RATINGS

If her overall score is low, or has dropped, then obviously someone (or someones) has rated her low. And if there is enough time between member visits, it shouldn't be rocket science to know who rated whom, and an idea of whether it was a positive or negative rating.

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RE: RATINGS

It also might have been her only member while she was on that day. Surprisingly enough it isn't always consistent either because I hadn't been on for 5 days and on the 5th day my stars dropped. Sometimes it is a guess but usually the one that was extremely rude or didn't get what he wanted.:(

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RE: RATINGS

"but usually the one that was extremely rude or didn't get what he wanted.:("

Not always.

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RE: RATINGS

You are right I should have said that has been my experience!!

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RE: RATINGS

Hence the use of the word "usually" in her post.

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RE: RATINGS

False expectations. Some members rate based on their personal satisfaction level not the quality of the host or her show. So if that type of member does not like you, your show, the amount of money he spent, the weather outside, etc. he will rate low. No matter how good you are to other members. The rating system should allow for a couple of sentences of text. So the member can explain why he rated you that way. Scammer. Too fat. No nudity. Sat like a lump. Bad attitudte...etc. The stars alone do not do the job of rating a host. A restaurant gets 5 stars or 1 star. Why? A review is incomplete without an explanation.

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RE: RATINGS

"A review is incomplete without an explanation."

I agree completely

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RE: RATINGS

Agree it is incomplete, but what do you then do about those who use their "evaluation" to express their vendetta, or to berate the host, whether true or false?

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RE: RATINGS

That happens too at different sites and hopefully there are enough good posts that viewers can clearly see that it was someone being unkind.

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RE: RATINGS

Ratings are opinions, no more, no less.

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RE: RATINGS

Thank you, Captain Obvious

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RE: RATINGS

They can not rate you if they have never been in your video! If you are talking about coming into your video 1 time and then rating you low for not preforming nudity then I suggest you clearly state no nudity in your profile!
I also think some do searches from other sites and end up here (at least from what I am told by some viewers) and they don't specifically know what category you are in. They see a list of girls come up from perhaps an age group, etc. and pop in possibly thinking all girls get nude. Then there are the ones that just don't care because they think all girls should get nude. Sorry it happened to you too.
You probably answered correctly to the post below that asked why girls block a member if he asks for nudity.....she's afraid that if he comes into her room then he will rate her low for not getting nude.

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RE: RATINGS

They aren't "popping in" unless they have taken the time to join the site as a member. They may come from other sites, but I doubt your explanation of them not knowing is accurate.

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RE: RATINGS

They can be a member of another site and still come into video with a host without joining as a member here. If they pop into her room after a search without seeing her profile then they don't necessarily know what category she is in. I don't know that it applies to her situation but if I hadn't spoken with guests from other sites then I wouldn't have known these facts so I do know better than a member here that it does exist and happens.

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I"m sorry but I beg to disagree with you. No one pops into video unless they are members of CC (or maybe one of its alternate sites) They might pop into guest chat, but not into video. I think you have your sites mixed up ;)

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Nooo MyHeart4Yours i am not mixing up my sites. I have been here long enough that i know they have to join some how...lol....

I was not talking of them coming from a site and not registering, many members join threw affiliated sites of cc. that is why there is such a difference in the percent that cc takes.

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my dear we all know that a host can post in her profile what she does not do, however, there will always be members that come along knowing what she does not do, enter video anyway and try to get her to do what they want, even after reading in her profile and after her saying in text no i do not get nude. and then the member is able to rate her low because he is pissed off that he could not change her mind.

it has happened to just about all of us, a member gets in a snit because he could not change her mind even tho she said no before video and has it posted in her profile.

so saying put it in profile does not guarantee nothing.

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I think only she would know what is in her profile, right? Yes it has happened to me too and getting a lower rating really ticks off a host. One can not always assume it is a jerk is my point. All you can do is do the best you can to avoid them by clarifying what you will not do in your profile which from the post lower down from the member it is obvious that many girls lead the viewers on to believe otherwise. I think it is safe to assume girls with very low ratings and offering it all did not follow up with their advertising or were deceptive in some way.
The point is if you don't do nudity on a porn site then to put that in your profile avoids some of the confusion or a pissed off member!!

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you also miss the point my dear, a host can be very clear in her profile, but that does not stop members from ignoring what is in the profile and still trying to get a host to do what she has clearly said no to and entering video and getting pissed off and rating her low.

i still get many members that say yes they read profile and know what i do not do and even in text i will also say no again, yet they enter video and try anyway, and if they not get host to change her mind will rate low.

so saying put in profile is not a guarantee as also there are many members that do not read profiles. and only look at pics.

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RE: RATINGS

I heard your point so take it out of your profile what you don't do and see how many more you get:) Certainly it is not a guarantee but it can help to minimize the occurrences for those that do read profiles and care.
No need to carry on about this.
If you are ME:) who wrote the post then fine if you have it in your profile and it didn't work for that member or viewer from another site, fine BUT if you are not then neither of us know if she did or not. and it was simply a suggestion to try and MINIMIZE! Many members read profiles and many say that they would prefer that a host put in her profile if she doesn't do nudity so for those it could save any confusion.
We all know that it can still happen and it has happened to me as well (i did say that also). I have seen it written here as well that some jerks write that regardless of the category they expect nudity because this is a porn site and they give them a 1 star if they don't.

Can we let it go or do you need for me to get down on my hands and knees and give you an apology? Whooosh

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no need to be so rude about it.

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yes i agree that was a rude response.

As a host I also have it in my profile and I also say in text that I do not do nude and no it is not just members from other sites. All members from any site can read the profile. I have gone to a few sites that we are advertised at and most show the host's profile, granted some have the outdated profiles, which is very misleading but that is not the fault of the host it is the fault of the site doing the advertising, but all members no matter what site they come from can read a host's profile on here.

It is not just a few members that do this stuff, in one day I can have 10 members (from other sites as well as directly from this site) come to my text or video and I ask did you read profile and often 8 out of those 10 say "no..should I".

So being rude and sarcastic and saying take it out and see what happens and asking if you need to get on your knee ...is quite rude and uncalled for.

The point is that there are more members that visit hosts either do not read the profile or read the profile and still try to get a host to do what the member knows she does not do.

Yes there are members that do read the profiles and do not try to force things and I am thankful to them, but I get more that come to my room that do try to get me to do the things I say no to, even after reading profile and even after me saying sorry but no I do not go nude.

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RE: RATINGS

Because they wanted to see your bits :)

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bits?

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it is unfair for a member to enter a video and rate a host low if she is honest and says not only in her profile but also right away that she does not do what the person wants. there is nothing that can or will stop a member who is angry from rating the host low.

it is a double edge sword, if the host is honest and says she does not do something and the member tries to get her to anyway he gets mad and rates her low..,...if a host lies and says yes ok and then when he does enter video she changes her mind then again the member gets angry and rates her low.

i think that every host knows that we are damned if we do and damned if we donts.

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Because you are working on a sex site.

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For speaking out you are exactly the kind of member that was mentioned here that totally disregards categories and hosts profiles.

Do you search for the ones that don't do nudity to make your day or do you just hang out in the categories that are less likely to strip?

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it just doesn't matter if she went nude or not. It also depends on if the host ignores the member or not...or when chatting and don't really have anything in common.

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it does not matter what a host does, she can say in profile what she not do she can be honest and say in text what she not do and she can be nice and polite and not ignore. the point is there are members that no matter what a host does will try to get a host to do what she says no to and the member will still enter video and try to get her to change her mind and if she still does not he will rate her low out of spite.l

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RE: RATINGS a suggestion...

I think that cc should have the rating system set up so that a host knows why she lost a rating.

They do not have to say what member rated what but just let hosts know why they lost the rating. be it poor cam. frozen cam, poor attitude. stalling...etc what ever the reason, I think that hosts should be able to know why they lost the rating.

We all know you can not fix something nor change it nor resolve it if a person does not know what is wrong.

So if cc sets it up so that the host knows why she was rated low then at least she can fix it.

I do not think it is fair for a host to loose a rating just because a member is pissed off because he could not get her to change her mind when she has clearly stated no I do not do that. Nor do I think it is fair that a member can rate low out of spite just because he is pissed off because his penis is taking control of his common sense.

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RE: RATINGS a suggestion...

No one doubts there are some flaming asswipes that come to this site and others and get their jollies by giving poor ratings. But on the other side I feel certain that the vast majority of viewers are more than generous with their ratings. If anything, I think many hosts are overrated. The one change I would make is show the number of votes. For example a 4 star with 1500 votes looks better than a 5 star with 2 votes.

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RE: RATINGS a suggestion...

I so agree with you! It tells alot about how many ratings she has gotten but then again it should also be the accumulative total that should reflect on the final rating and not the last 10 ratings. For a new host 3 is currently the minimum to get rated. That would be a welcome change that would benefit all.

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RE: RATINGS a suggestion...

Very good thoughts!! I also think that the personal forums could be used to make comments to the hosts about their dissatisfaction so she can use it as constructive criticism even if the host erases it. It can be done anonymously and she could improve if she used it to her benefit. Just like good companies want to know what their customers think good and bad so that they can be more competitive and have a higher rate of retention.

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long natural nails

Who has long natural nails?
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CarpeDiemxx

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GoldenDolll has about 10 of them

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What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

I know every time a member suggests any changes, there is a large chorus of hosts and their cuckold fan boys shouting it down. So I thought I'd ask the hosts what changes they would like to see, since the hosts run everything else here.
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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Just because a member agrees with a host and not his fellow members it does not make him a cuckold fan boy. It could just be because that particular "improvement" has very little merit.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

When he agrees all the time he is.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

You're gettin soft.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

I would like to make a retraction... I didn't see the ~

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

so using that logic a member who always disagrees with hosts,is just a pathetic,bitter twisted individual who can't even satisfy himself wanking & has the social skills of shit in a blender? :--)

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

I think it works great now and if it's not broke then why fix it!! There is one very large site that most of the suggestions come from that are posted here and in general it is much more expensive for the viewers and the girls make less. If a host chooses not to get involved in all the new stuff they are implementing constantly then she can become invisible on the site and little visibility to the traffic flow. I prefer the simplicity of this site and all are out front! The exception are the contests here which lean towards the favorites or most money making hosts other than that I think it's great and it predictably has minimal technical problems unlike the other.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

So you prefer to keep things very basic. How about going back to the very beginning? Like the way it was in 2000. Very basic stuff. No contests. Less categories. No full screen. No c2c. No 1 2 1.

As you say the less features, the less that can go wrong?

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

It works great right now and what is your point for posting this in the first place....out of sarcasm....grow up!! I guess regardless of all the complaints that hosts charge too much here (which is totally untrue compared to other sites) that you would like to pay higher rates??
Makes no sense!

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

"all the complaints that hosts charge too much "

I never posted that. But as you say all of these improvements cost money and cc and the hosts would have to charge more. I agree. And the improvements mad have cost cc money that has to be passed on to the customer. So why not go back to the basic structure we had in 2000?

So your argument of new features costing everyone more money agrees with mine of asking why not go back to the original cc and reduce costs even more! And no I'm not being sarcastic, I talking nuts and bolts cost cutting. We can preserve the cc brand as the Walmart of the cam business.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

She said don't change it. She didn't say roll it back to 2000; that would be a change. And I don't see your point, except to be argumentative.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

"She didn't say roll it back to 2000" Yes that's true, she didn't say it , but I did. Rollback prices is Walmart's slogan. And CC is the Walmart of cam site with low, low prices.

And to keep prices low, you have to cut your operating budget. The host and I are in agreement. Everyone agrees the new large screen is very pixelated and not good at all. We can scrap that and same $. Then there are the problematic c2c and 121, that are costing the site money and can be cut to save more money.

Hey let's do are best to keep costs low and keep cc up and running for years to come.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Who needs to go backwards? The majority of users of this site enjoy it or wouldn't be here! The prices are great and the site works good so why to add on all the other stuff to copy others. Sure there are some improvements to what is here and I think CC considers those but to clone other sites would degrade it in my opinion.
Would you like fries with that order of fries?

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Well, arguably, the pixelated large screens introduced recently are not an improvement, so eliminating that would change nothing. But cam2cam and 121 are features that are more established, even if poorly implemented. Eliminating them would be a step backward.

"Cheap" and chat host site are not words that fit together well. A chat host's services are a luxury item. Comparing CC to Walmart is utter nonsense.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

"But cam2cam and 121 are features that are more established, even if poorly implemented"

You just made my point about being poorly implemented. And I agree the original site was not set up for full screen or many other things they added later. And you may also be right, there may be a major overhaul in the works that we don not know about.

Anyway the thread was asking hosts what changes needed to be made and I've seen a few talk about buttons and I assume they talk about kick and ban buttons like they have on every other site. But hey we don't want to be clones of other sites, now do we?

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

"The majority of users of this site enjoy it or wouldn't be here! The prices are great and the site works good so why to add on all the other stuff to copy others"

And who appointed you to speak for all viewers? And if you read the beginning of this thread , it ask hosts what changes should be made, not viewers.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

CC is one of the cheapest sites around, plus many hosts tell me they prefer it because it is host-friendly. And so they feel more at ease here.

For me, for these reasons primarily, CC is the best chat site around. Could it use improving? certainly, I think so, but I would hope not at the expense of these two strengths.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

"plus many hosts tell me they prefer it because it is host-friendly. And so they feel more at ease here."

I agree 100%. But is it the most viewer friendly?

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

I can't presume to speak for viewers, nor do I intend to survey a bunch of chatsites to rank them against each other. I can only speak for myself and my limited experience. But I think it is one of the best, for the reasons I stated.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

All the thread asked was what changes HOSTS wanted if any. I never made any suggestions. I did ask one host if she'd be on board with a rollback to the original cc to save operating costs. And as you point out there have been some subtle changes you have noticed.

And yes I agree cc makes up their own mind about what they add or subtract from the site and do not jump on every suggestion made in this forum.

But I do see many of the same girls here on many of those other sites you mention. And I have no doubt most viewers go to many sites as well. It is the nature of the internet to surf and also the nature of the cam business.

So thanks for your input and sorry I thought you were a viewer.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Thank you, apology accepted! I love CC and you now too ;))

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

I know one change I'm sure many hosts would like to see..

Less whining...

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Would love to see more hosts have a nice trimmed or "neat" hairy pussies :P

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Did you get lost or too much to drink before that reply??
Further you call yourself a gentleman....lol!

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

It is simply not true to say that the hosts run everything here. Many changes introduced by CC have been in response to member suggestions or requests. Just because some members do not want to see CC turned into a clone of other videochat sites does not mean we are "cuckold fan boys" of hosts. You do not sound very fair minded to me.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

"Many changes introduced by CC have been in response to member suggestions or requests"

Name one.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

larger clearer video! Did you come here to whine or make a point?

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

It is larger but very grainy and no way to type in full screen. But viewers, including me, have asked for HD full screen. But I'm not holding my breath.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

where is the larger and clearer video? Its larger alright, but it gets pixelated because its not HD as in other sites.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

It could be that it would take an entire overhaul of the entire site to be able to provide that. We don't know that it is already in the works. Seems if that is the case then it could be extremely costly. I am certain it wasn't even a consideration when the web site was originally developed.
Seems to approach CC directly with those comments would be the best choice and not attack the hosts and other members.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Who's attacking hosts and members? Did I miss something here?

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Huh?

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

1. Rating only after 2 mins in video like you-all-know-where
2. Opportunity to make a short pre-recorded video available to members for free to get an idea of my cam, light etc.
3. I would also like if we could upload HQ pictures to our archives (not just cam shots) and probably videos too.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Finally someone making sense.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Actually if YOU read what I said you will see I would like it to be changed.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Yes, agree. And another name for the boys is PW.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Absolutely whipped to death!

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

The minimum in instant action is $1.69

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

" lots of girls do instant action in Glamour for 0.50"

Wow! Where are they hiding?

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Great to know we have some IA hosts in Glamour that range in price from .50 to $2! Wonder why members get confused and expect all hosts in Glamour to do quick nudity in open....how nice and thank you!

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Calm down pls, I dont do hardcore, I just do strip sometimes, I dont mind to do it in open that is all. Most viewers know that all hosts are different and unique.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

"Most viewers know that all hosts are different and unique."

Amen sister!

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

You are extremely rare.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

Honesty in the hosts self imposed category selection. I found lots of gals over the years listing themselves as shy or glam and should be in friends. Additionally, the same holds true in reverse and jump to glam or shy and 2x or 3x their price.

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RE: What changes or improvements would hosts like to see on cc?

How about an improved set of forums with decent navigation and search capabilities . . . shouldn't be that hard to implement given the plethora of open source BBS and forum software available. Seems a no-brainer that would make the forums a much more valuable tool.

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Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

There are several excellent non nude models on site who are very open with any viewer who asks or reads their profile. And I have gone to many of their pvts knowing full well it would be strictly a chat only event. And I had a great time chatting with them. But then I see many other who are clearly non nude models but they want it kept a secret from viewers. And there are many viewers on site that want to see nudity especially from a host in Glamour or little shy. Its like a forbidden fruit fantasy. And they get lead on by non nude hosts all too often who are never going to strip for them. In my opinion this practice is just plain bad business. Honesty is always the best policy.
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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

They choose to be in that category but they think they will only attract and keep a guy in their room if they lead them on. Very deceptive!

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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

They like to lead on, but eventually more often than not they will show, unless you're just an ass about it.

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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

I hope that is not true in non-adult section that he was referring to.

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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

he wasnt talking about non-adult categories, he said non-nude hosts (hosts from adult cats but never strip)...its a difference

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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

Yes thank you for that. It is a major difference.

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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

Because non nude is rarely non nude. I knew so many hosts who said no no no nudity. I accepted it. Went to videos...got off on what I could get...made friends with some of those hosts. Good friends in the CC sense of friendship....and then always, always found out that other guys got more of a show...including in many cases full or partial nudity. They liked the guy, he was a big buck regular, he hit her video at a time when she needed money, whatever....almost always the host I accepted as non-nude....would do nude with a select group. At the time it pissed me off and ruined a couple of CC friendships....which were not worth much to begin with. So...rule 1...nothing is as it appears on CC...rules are made to be broken...and money talks..... especially a lot of money over a lot of time.

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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

Yes I agree there are no absolutes. But let's say non nude to most of us most of the time.

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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

Its not a matter of liking a member, its a business strategy. Once your long suffering member sees the goods, he's off to his next conquest if you want to call it that.

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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

"So childish. :) I hope mature man dont need to play this stupid game for school boys."

I agree completely, but have seen many childish posts in the Viewer Forum by members. In my opinion there are many members on site that lack maturity.

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RE: Why do non nude hosts want to keep it a secret?

Could you wait patiently in the nude? :)

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Modest Proposal for New Catagory

We need an Anal Only Category. Members will come in and try to convince the host to do oral or vaginal sex, or just chat. None will be satisfied with only anal sex!
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do you see the irony here?

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RE: Modest Proposal for New Catagory

they already have that one ,boys home alone -gay, have fun swift.

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Asking for a show

I have read countless host profiles talking about rude members barking orders. I agree no member should bark orders, but ask politely. So why is it I am told by so many softcore hosts I am rude to ask for a naked show in pvt? And in some cases I get blocked just for politely asking. With the possible exception of IA, no host is going to strip without first being asked by the member. And I emphasize politely asking not rushing, demanding or barking orders. Afterall if you want something, you have to ask for it. The hosts aren't mind readers, are they?
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Some softcore hosts never do strip, even just topless, they block you in order you would rate them bad for refusing to strip. And you should ask hardcore hosts about show as some viewers come to that category for just chatting. lol

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When I see posts like this I cannot understand which hosts members have been visiting. I have never been told that I was rude to ask for a show. The only rebuffs have been either "sorry but I do not strip" or "I do not like to be rushed lets chat for a bit longer".I spend most of my time in Glamour or littel shy and have visited hundreds of hosts without ever being told I was rude.

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RE: Asking for a show

I was going to say exactly the same thing. I have been refused a show by many hosts but never once has a host accused me of being rude just for asking.

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I have. But it was a Tver girl so maybe that doesn't count.

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I just had a new host there asking me "what means naked?" lol

That was in txt and just for fun, i dont even bother trying anymore...

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Tver'ed

i got kicked out by a host there too :|

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And some hosts block too easily at the drop of a hat.

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I love to bark... WOOF!!! WOOF!!! :-p

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So, just paying isnt enough anymore. We have to pay and kiss ass......just like real life lol

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I think that sounds like a very rude attitude from a host and if you consider this a business then you should be kissing your customer's ass to get them to spend money on you and not how you explain.
Of course there are guys that come in and say strip, get naked, spread legs, etc. but it is certainly a small percentage that I receive. I will tell them no thank you and be kind and then I will block them for future visits. I figure they will eventually figure it out if they are blocked enough.
I would never consider your attitude if I was a paying customer that I must ask you so many questions and tell you my life story to get sexy and tease or whatever you do. I would expect that we can chat politely but if I ask you in chat if you get naked then it should lead there without a half an hour to an hour conversation before hand so that you can get in a magical mood to tease and flirt if that is what I came to you for. Honestly you sound money hungry with that attitude and dangling the carrot for a price which obviously you already have set in your mind.

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why do you have such a wrong images of prostitutes or escorts? they also get a respectful treatment to get maximum pleasure as a host. i cannot buy escorts here because i am a busy businessman and it is a little restricted here where i am now, that is why i appreciate camcontacts. it takes time but i treat them well when buying one and it never hurt. every good customer should do that everywhere. or do you go into a bank to withdraw money from your account and bark:'hi bb, u r special. give money! just a little 4 me, bcuz i am different. show cash!'
it is polite in some way. is that why you desperately want to make a difference between selling yourself in here or out there? for me there is no difference. and why should there be? it is a job. it is sexual satisfaction vs money. and as long as all are satisfied i wonder why the big fuzz. it does not make you a bad person. you write 'here, it's actually about girls bodies and feelings'. i do not even expect feelings from a prostitute or escort i order, just her body. she knows it. i know it. after i am finished i pay the escort and thank her that she did a great job pleasing me. after i finish in here i do the same.
you are professionals in a nice controlled environment provided by camcontacts running on clean safe rules selling yourself in here. so you really should not worry that you are some bad street hookers who have to fear that they are abused, not paid or mistreated. everything is under your control. you do what you are willing to give away. all your decision. and we gladly take these offers from girls who are able and willing to provide such things for our demands and satisfy us with sexual services.
so enjoy your jobs and we enjoy you!
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RE: Asking for a show

I do not think she has a wrong image of prostitutes. In fact you contradicted yourself by pointing out the many differences between a host selling herself on CC and a prostitute selling herself "out there". If you want a "real world" equivalent to videochat hosting I would say it is performing in a pheep show or lap dancing club. Chat host's Lapdancers and prostitutes are all sex workers, but there are distinctions between them. I am not saying that as people one is better or more deserving of respect than another but what they do is different.

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I still think your attitude focuses on the negative rather than make it a fun day no matter what. I wonder how long an arrogant demanding host who thinks she is a goddess can survive with that attitude? Actually it sounds rather Dom to me.

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The original post said that he was a gentleman and she blocked him because he asked if she did nude. Many hosts here have gone off on a tangent about the rude ones but that is not what he said at all.

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RE: Asking for a show

I asked for show while in open video or in some cases in 121 never in free chat.

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He is obviously asking why a host would do that. Members can take it personal just like hosts when a member blocks her from contact. Nothing wrong with him asking!! If it's not your problem then I guess you wouldn't understand...

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He asked, I answered why it can be. But I have rights to be surprised at his surprising at some actions of the hosts. If he wasnt not really close friend to those hosts why to get it personal? He came first time, they blocked him for nothing, they lose then. So why to continue to knock to closed doors as so many more friendly and accommodating hosts on the site...of course if he is not a slave and like when women play with him like that.

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If you had a visitor and you wrote him a thank you or a note and you were blocked from him wouldn't it make you wonder why?? Like I said if it's not your problem guess you can't see his point so why would you comment other than to tell him to get over it like you did and make him feel like his question is not important.

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I never been blocked from any of my visitors, so I dont know that feelings, sorry. But even if I was I would never ask why, too many strange people around so I get used dont ask "why is it?". I keep in mind nothing really personal here, I just provide a service. As about this situation I am a host myself and I am a woman, I know all this games, dear. Sure some hosts block some members just in order to get them more interested in them, to make them think " why the hell she block me?" To create some intrigue, I find it boring games, too primitive, so I dont try to get more interest from men by it.

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I think that is too vague and some would block him just because she doesn't do nude and afraid he might come into her room and rate her bad. Sad but true! Unfortunately with the rating system here just one low rating can completely throw off your stars so I think that is why they get so nervous and block so easy.

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I didn't say all hosts but there are more than 1 or 2 that have called my rude for just asking for a show. Is asking "would you please strip for me" rude?

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Not rude if she indicates that in her profile or hints at it if she is in Softcore!!

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""please" would still guarantee u a show even if with me rolling eyes lol"

The only guaranteed show is in IA.

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I introduce myself...and almost immediately say I am looking for a semi-nude show. I am usually a topless in panties guy. If the host says...yes we can do that (always in 121 only)...we continue to chat and prepare. If she stalls, is evasive in her answer, gives you the ...if I am in the mood, depends on you, maybe, etc. I think her and leave. If you don't get a firm yes....leave. Otherwise prepare to waste money and time. Yeah yeah some hosts don't like to be rushed and I like a slow strip and sexy seduction as part of the show but I want the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow and both parties need to be clear about that before you hit the video button.

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I must be lucky. I have never been refused a show in the soft core categories.

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Why of course you always get what you want. You are a stud muffin with movie star good looks and are hung like a stallion. And after each show, which I'm sure the girls give you free, you jump on your personal jet and go bang all of them and their sisters too.

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A question for members who like to chat in pvt

I put this question here instead of viewer forum because I think hosts can have some useful input. When I say chatting members, I am not talking about those who like to chat in softcore categories or even in not shy. I'm referring to those guys who feel the need to go to IA, the only real category with hardcore wankers in mind, and sit there and chat on and on.

Yes I know any guy is entitled to spend his money any way he chooses, but with a site that is 90% devoted to chatting, why do these guys feel the need to chat in IA? Its like the guy that wants to drive slow in the hammer (passing) lane. And oh if anyone is interested the CC rule on this goes like this. If a member is chatting in open in IA and another member enters the video and asks for a nude show, he gets it. If anyone needs to verify this, ask CC yourself. Unlike many others in this forum I do not present opinion as fact.

And yes I do understand that the hosts are just trying to meet the needs of their paying viewers in pvt. This is not about the hosts. This question is to the viewers who feel the need to turn IA into non adult.
Open thread

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

cause regardless the category behind the screen is a real person.Some guys just wanna treat girls good and feel they making a good thing by treating the girls in IA like normal person not sex machines that has to jump into action right away.

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"not sex machines that has to jump into action right away"
if so, why they are in a wrong category? if a girl does not feel like instant acting sex on command, then she should go to softcore. ok?

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

He was talking about how the member wants to treat the host. She may be prepared to "jump into action straight away" because she is in IA but if the member says he wants to chat a bit first she has to follow this request.

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If you read the full post "a" was talking about the member not wanting to treat the girl like a sex machine not that the girl was in the wrong category. "a" is also right that behind the cam is a real person. So if a chatter finds someone whose company they enjoy in IA why shouldn't they go there ?

For similar reasons I do not restrict my quest for a sexy show to only hosts in IA. Although, obviously, my reasons are completely unchivalrous.

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I agree with traditional member when there are so many hosts in softcore that are there for the purpose of talking and chatting so that the member can get to know them and seduce them. When a host chooses the category of IA they want to do a show instantly without much conversation. They chose that category knowing what it included which is getting down to business and are not worried about what guys think of them. Most of the members come there to see her beautiful body perform and that is what they like to do and agree to it.
Same situation with a member coming to softcore and expecting IA with the host and minimal conversation.....totally out of category. Doesn't make sense.
IA hosts are not there to be fluffed up by a member wanting to build her self esteem and talking about her life. She gets the highs from the mmmmmm, beautiful baby, gorgeous, so hot, etc.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

"Don't have time for small talk? This is the category for you!"

I suppose the above copied and pasted from CC guidelines means nothing to you? If you took your car in for an oil change, would you want the mechanic to change your oil or talk to you for an hour?

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"And read again: "don't have time?" What if some do? "

Then they go to softcore or non adult. That's what they are there for.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

He said that hosts should go there (change their category)

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

I'm pretty certain it was the members he was talking about.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

You are correct my friend, I was referring to the member not the host. All hosts (well most) try their best to give the viewer what he wants in pvt.

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Yes I agree the member can spend his money the way he chooses and said that in my initial post. But due to the category rules, if he wants to chat only, he should use 121. It causes problems when another member enters open video and the host is just sitting and talking and not doing a show.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

An IA host chose that category because she wants to perform and not chat like other categories available to her!! I agree that he should take her to 121 if that is what he wants to do with her and not change her category with other members expecting action!

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

"An IA host chose that category because she wants to perform and not chat like other categories"

I suspect that the truth is that most hosts choose IA because they are willing to perform to earn money but, given the option, most would prefer to chat to a guy rather than perform. Even if the only reason is that chatters tend to stay longer than us wankers.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

How do you know about IA hosts? Are you one?

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Because she has a brain and some imagination! and can think what it must be like to be an IA host!

What is your shoe size, anyway?

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Why don't you choose a category where you can chat more then??
I have tested one hard core host with that and she was bored to death in softcore category. No one forces you to be in IA and no one thinks you are stupid without a brain. It is your choice to have all eyes on you with many men giving you their attention. Your words are contradictory to your choice in category.

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That is not true but only your speculation thinking it is a better, more comfortable choice for the host. Some hosts prefer to be the focus and have men oogle over them and their bodies. They obviously like enticing through action and not so comfortable with sitting discussing their lives and possibly bored with just sitting and chatting. If you think logically about it your comment makes no sense because it is 100% the hosts choice where she wants to be and not all want to be here to sit and chat. In fact it is uncomfortable for the ones that choose not to because of various reasons. No one makes an IA host choose that category and there is a reason that they chose it!! For a member to come in and choose that direction is just a change of pace for them temporarily but not something that they prefer or they would change their category.
All girls are not alike!! That is very obvious if you visit different hosts.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Then you do not know how a IA host thinks and she has chosen that category knowing that there is no small talk like it says in the guidelines when a viewer is choosing a category.
My point being that a chatter that goes to IA should realize that others will come into open and expect a show and he should take her to 121 if he just wants chat. IA hosts are looking for action vs. chat and so are their audience.

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What is your hang-up? You have quite a chip on your shoulder for a host on a porn site! Are you in IA? Did you not choose that category because you wanted to show your body without chat and getting to know the member? Why are you attacking guys that go to that category for Instant Action like they disrespect you for your choice to be there??
I think some hosts just like to argue but yours shows a real dislike for men!!

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

T is not attacking guys who go to IA. She is suggesting that some guys may prefer to chat, and why not? She is suggesting that she might even prefer members who show some respect.

This is called HUMAN NATURE. It is not evidence that she dislikes men.

On the contrary, you seem to prefer your women to be robots. Or one could conclude this based on your posts and your preference for IA.

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If the mechanic looked like the girls that I like on here I would want her to chat to me for an hour. The oil change can wait till some ugly hairy bloke is ready to do it.

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maybe at first he was just coming to use you for his sexual satisfaction but after your services he saw that for him this was not really enough he got out of you, so he was curious and wanted to feel special and get to know and have the whole person in you.
this is how i see it.

i wish if it would just work like this in that exact order in real life! first sex or sexual satisfaction. then maybe dinner.
in any case that does not apply to me, i am mostly in the glamour profile and do it the other way around. i set a date with my regular host, be flirted to create my fantasy, know what i can soon get and then do my thing with the help of the host to have my satisfaction. when i am finished i thank the host, pay the host and leave to order the host again soon. just like in the real world when buying an escort. it does not hurt to take the escort out for dinner, be nice, chat and then try the escort out. it is nice and important that everyone feels ok. the prostitute and the customer.
sexual satisfaction vs money and no real names in here or out there does not necessarily mean you have to be rude and treat the host like a piece of meat! being used is not the same as being abused! sexually satisfying strangers is not easy for you wonderful openhearted hosts so i think we guests should appreciate your willingness to serve the often complicated demands of us strangers. so thank you all for your professional services, camcontacts is a great online adult fun platform and you hosts are all great!

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Then being a glam host why are you out front speaking for IA hosts and their choices?? In glam you chose to chat and take it slow yet an IA host wants different obviously!! I don't think you can speak for them!

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

And what entitles you to speak for the members? do you know ALL the members? What entitles you to speak for/about the hosts? You know ALL the hosts? (IA or not)

It's my point of view as a host, I have been around long enough to know how things work and I have tried enough categories, IA included.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

"I have tried enough categories, IA included."

And how did that work for you?

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The point is that a girl choosing IA knows that it is action and not chat (if she can read the rules and guidelines) and that is why she chose it!! If you went in there expect some good conversation plus action then that is probably why you were disappointed and left. The words Instant Action clearly says what the intent is and that is why girls choose that category...

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In the less adult categories the hosts are very good at chat. That is a good part of their appeal and they are very practiced and skillful at it. That also can mean hollow, repetitive and insincere. Chatting with an IA host who typically is also sought out for her body and sexuality is an interesting idea. They are less likely to spend time in videos chatting but I bet they find it as interesting as the members do.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

"Sometimes a viewer just like THIS particular girl and wants to talk to her"

How can he like someone based on profile description and or archive photos? If you read CC category guidelines, and read the part about "no time for small talk", and you are looking to chat and flirt, you certainly do not go to IA! Duh!

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

He may have already visited here several times and had shows and started to want to know her a bit better.

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Are you an IA Host to be able to speak of why they choose that category? If not then I think your words are in an effort to just defend
hosts where this post is not attacking hosts. How can anyone speak for a hardcore IA host other than if they think exactly the way she does in her choice.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Do I need to be a whale to have my own opinion on whale hunting?

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A smartass answer in place of an actual answer destroys any possible credibility you may have.

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And you lack imagination. You certainly don't speak for all members.

Has it not occurred to you that sometimes we don't think of the host as a "category," but instead as an individual with thoughts and insights and personality, not merely tits and ass?

If I want to meet an IA host in open, and decide to chat with her, that is up to me. The fact that she might have to strip for the next guy who comes in, because of the rules governing the category, is the "risk" I take looool.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

And will you be annoyed with anyone when you are cut off and ignored when members come in for IA?

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I have to understand that my host must follow the rules, and it doesn't help my relationship with her to complain about how she manages that. Besides, being interrupted is not an unexpected event, but it's the chance I take in open. So, why should I be upset?

I am a big boy. I don't pout when I don't get my way.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

I shared MY opinion about the situation... not really looking for any credibility :)

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My interpretation is..
You see hot model in IA is in PVT. You think joining quick you will see fast hot sexy wank show.. instead the model is deep in conversation with the member and isn't interested in giving you a quick wank. and your upset.. Am I close?

This site, the customer is king.. especially in a category like IA. If the customer asked her to do anything with in her boundaries she should oblige.. even if its just..chatting..

The answer is easy..leave and move along and find a girl who suits you.

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If a guy sees an IA girl in video with another member and jumps in hoping to find her already naked this is his risk. If she has just been chatting with the other member and is still dressed he has no right to complain. But he is entitled to expect her to get naked quickly. This is a case where the "polite code" of the first guy in video has priority cannot apply. If a guy just wants to chat with an IA host and doesn't want her to get naked for other guys while he does it he should either take her 121 or, if he is a regular, they should arrange a password session. I can certainly understand that a member may want to just chat with an IA girl because he likes that particular girl but both have to understand and follow the category rules.

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" the customer is king" I see that motto used at 2 other sites, but in their case its just bullshit. And yes to go in an open vie in IA and see this host sitting and chatting is a real bummer. If a member wants to chat ad nauseum with a host he needs to got 121 in IA.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

As you say the customer should be king. If a member just wants to chat with an IA host and there is no one else in video the host should follow the members wishes. Any other member who jumps into the room expecting to find the host already naked has no reason to complain. But he is entitled to expect the host to get naked quickly.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

The thread is not about Fetish. Its about Instant Action category. Here are the rules. If you need verification you can check with CC.

INSTANT ACTION:
This category is designed for viewers who want instant action. They don't want to hang around and make small talk. Therefore ONLY those Chathosts who feel comfortable and prepared to give an instant sex show should advertise in this category. The Chathost must be prepared to show full nudity as soon as requested. Also if they advertise certain things in their show, they must be prepared to do them straight away, without delays.

By signing into this category Chathosts commit to:
•Not sharing details such as age, name, country etc. unless initiated by the Viewer.
•No delaying tactics whatsoever. Chathosts MUST be prepared to immediately start their show as soon as a viewer enters.
•Also getting naked must not take a long time. This is not the category for a slow strip tease show.
•Be prepared to provide an explicit sex show. Not only is the Chathost expected to get naked, but also provide additional explicit content such as open leg shots, and finger or dildo penetration, if requested

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I work in Not So Shy and I also decide when or what to show. I sometimes feel like not losing my clothes and I will not just because someone WANTS. There are enough nice gentlemen members that come to me just to video chat and not with barking orders to get me naked.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

You decide? Really? Here are the CC rules for not o shy


NOT SO SHY:
By signing into this category the Chathost, if asked, commits to:
•EXPLICIT nudity.
To include:
◦Close-ups
◦Open Legs
•Masturbation by fingers.
If a viewer wants toys, or other specific action they must ask the Chathost first to ensure the Chathost is both willing and able to accommodate the request.

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It is not for interpretation here those are the rules. The hosts have a tendency to try and form them into whatever they want to do but in this case there is no room for doubt of what it means!

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lol why to yell? I am not IA host, as I read rules all categories before choose one and find rules of IA not appropriate to me. If you chose this category you have to do what viewers want, doesnt matter rude they are or polite with you. Period. Or move to softcore.

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INSTANT ACTION CATEGORY ......HOST MUST GET NAKED AND BE WILLING TO PERFORM WHEN MEMBER ASKS......IF NOT MOVE TO SHY OR OTHER SOFTCORE CATEGORY.....

NOT SO SHY CATEGORY....HOST MUST BE PREPARED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED....IF NOT MOVE TO SHY CATEGORY....

WHEN A HOST PICKS THESE TWO CATEGORIES...SHE IS OBLIGATED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED...IF NOT THEN PICK SOFT CORE CATEGORY....IT IS AS SIMPLE AS THAT...

I KNOW THIS AS I HAVE HAD MANY TIMES WITH CC ASKING AND BEING FINED.....

AGAIN INSTANT ACTION AND NOT SO SHY CATEGORIES....HOST IS OBLIGATED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED......AND IF U R NOT GOING TO DO THAT THEN U DO NOT BELONG IN SUCH CATEGORIES.....

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE NAKED WHEN MEMBER COMES IN BUT WHEN ASKED U R OBLIGATED TO DO SO....

SO PLS STOP ARGUING ABOUT IT, IF U DONT WANT TO STRIP WHEN ASKED THEN DO NOT PICK THOSE TWO CATEGORIES.

NOT SO SHY AND GLAMOUR IS FOR HOSTS WHO R NOT PREPARED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED....AND IN THESE TWO CATEGORIES HOSTS CAN DECIDE WHAT THEY WILL DO AND WHEN....

Have a great time....:)

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Amen....thanks for clarifying to all these people that think otherwise.
One mistake though....you said not so shy and glamour when I think you meant shy and glamour. :)
I think the original poster is spot on but also it is the hosts responsibility to follow the rules which are clearly stated.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Once again here are the rules for IA. If you don't follow them, you won't be there for long.

INSTANT ACTION:
This category is designed for viewers who want instant action. They don't want to hang around and make small talk. Therefore ONLY those Chathosts who feel comfortable and prepared to give an instant sex show should advertise in this category. The Chathost must be prepared to show full nudity as soon as requested. Also if they advertise certain things in their show, they must be prepared to do them straight away, without delays.

By signing into this category Chathosts commit to:
•Not sharing details such as age, name, country etc. unless initiated by the Viewer.
•No delaying tactics whatsoever. Chathosts MUST be prepared to immediately start their show as soon as a viewer enters.
•Also getting naked must not take a long time. This is not the category for a slow strip tease show.
•Be prepared to provide an explicit sex show. Not only is the Chathost expected to get naked, but also provide additional explicit content such as open leg shots, and finger or dildo penetration, if requested

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

I'm not a lawyer, but I can read. And the rules are for everyone. No exceptions. If you don't like CC rules, move to another category or move to another site.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Then the member should take her to 121 to have her attention exclusively and not perform in open like other viewers are expecting her to do since she chose her category of INSTANT ACTION/HARDCORE Category.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

If there is no one in video when he joins there is no reason why a member should not just chat in open video. He and the host should just understand that if anyone else enters the room they are entitled to expect her to get naked quickly.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

That is the problem or the post wouldn't have started in the beginning!! So what is the solution? Have members that just want to chat take her to 121 which can't happen when other members come into open, correct? As soon as members come in requesting strip, etc then that host needs to ignore the chat and preform since this is the category that she chose, right? So the ideal solution would be for members who want to chat with an IA host to take her to 121 from the beginning and not be a cheapy when he is asking her to do something that is not typical for her category which she chose. She should also honor the rules rather than ignore many (bad business decision too) who chose her in the category of IA!!

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In my opinion the cheapies are members who jump in when an IA host is in video with another member hoping to find her already naked. I do not think any member paying IA rates just to chat can be considered cheap. The 121 price may be double the open video one. If the chatting becomes a regular thing then it would be better to do it in a password session.
However I do not see it is a big problem for the host to say "sorry someone else just joined and wants a show" to the chatting member.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Chathosts are human beings with brains and charm in all categories, therefore it's not forbidden to treat them as everywhere else when greeting them and taking contact with them...
At times some chathosts have 2 (or seldom 3) profiles, one of them in IA, and when they become friends I like to take news from, I'd at times choose the profile with best rate for them (that is IA), or at times they only open that one for a while and there is no choice.
But I won't seek a chathost I don't know from IA just for chat "only", all the more that it is also often the chosen category for chathosts who are less familiar with a common used language on the site.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

whiteknight, the same here. one of my regulars also has 2 accounts. a non-adult and a secret glamour profile because even explicit adult language is forbidden in the non-adult section! she is pretty open-hearted and willing to serve. so after some chatting in glamour exclusive men with our needs are invited to get more professional services and assistance to get sexually satisfied by her in a passworded session. in general like for a prostitute out there, also in here everything is in the control of the willing host. and this is how it should be. out there as an escort or in here you must be careful and protect yourself when selling yourself, your soul and body to more or less strangers. so it is perfect that camcontacts is such a clean controlled site and platform for some perfectly legal adult business. sexual satisfaction vs money. all get what they want. nice and clean, all by the rules.

but to speak more general let us drop all personal opinions and guessing for a moment since the rules are clear, so i quote them for all.

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in all ADULT categories, except 'little shy', STALLING in an attempt to extend the viewer's time in video is not allowed. this means that a chathost, instead of doing a show, is deliberately extending the conversation with the member while he is in video, when the viewer is repeatedly requesting action rather than words. if you are not happy with action instead of words, then stick to the 'little shy' or Non-Adult areas of the site.
stalling is even a bigger issue for viewers connecting from a 'mobile' phone!
penalty 3 points
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it is not that difficult. and all can play by the rules. if a host/guest wants to chat only, without distractions negotiate and pay for a not more expensive passworded session. i hope all this information helps you all, customers and you wonderful professional hosts, to have a more satisfying sexual experience in the future in here on camcontacts!
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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Perhaps for a reason similar to why some members choose a "non nude" category, and then spend endless time trying to get a peek at the goodies. Either scenario initiates a sense of situational control for the member.

Who really cares though? It's a fantasy site.

Frankly, I think the question is absurd.

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

"Frankly, I think the question is absurd. "

Then why take the time to answer the question?

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Good Point...........

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Your "question" sounds a whole lot more like a judgmental statement, than an actual question.

Why do you even care what other members want to do?

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Why do you even reply to posts?

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

Excuse me?

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RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt

You're excused

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Oh thank you, Massah. you's made my day. How could I'se ever think to speak my mind in your personal forum? You de boss, yessuh, please forgive me, Massah. I'se so sorry for my mistake, and will tries to do better.

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At the very least

Girls when leaving CC at least say bye....I'm getting married, I'm pregnant, I got a job, etc.
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i agree with many complaints about the hosts on this forum. but, i do not think they owe anybody an explanation when leaving.

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Hopefully he just wants to know what happened to someone he considered to be his friend. He misses her. I have had some friends that have left here. A few told me why there were leaving and a few did not. I appreciated the ones that told me and I totally understand the ones that didn't . Best of luck to each of them.

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I agree

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i agree, it is common courtesy to say bye, thank you or something when you leave the site. it is not a matter of owing an explanation it is simply common courtesy.

we may not get such courtesy from all members or hosts, however, just think how you feel when a member just stops visiting you and says nothing. besides that there are members that are very nice to us, so it is respectful to say thank you but it is time for me to leave the site, or something to that affect, even if you are leaving and not sure when you will be back, if it is more than a week or two then dont be like others, show that you have enough respect for others to say something.

be well everyone :)

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I think you probably have the answer to your question right there. Would it really make you feel better to know which one of the three it was? Maybe it was all three. Married, with child and got a new job...Well then "Congratulations" to her.

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"I got close to some of the guys here and it hurt me when one stopped coming (to talk to me, I didn't even require video)."

No video, no money! CC would not be happy with you

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Amen girl!! I so agree!

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Interesting point. I have been "friends" with a few hosts who left. By friends I mean I was a regular (good customer). It appeared we enjoyed our time together on CC beyond just the videos. One day...poof. First time it happened I was upset...second I was not surprised.

Some reasons....some studio girls have no way of getting in touch with you outside of CC and once they quit the studio they can't go back. They may or may not have a PC at home but if they don't have a way to contact you out of CC...then forget it. So if you are not in her video on or around the time she leaves...no goodbyes.

You are in the final analysis....a customer. A good customer perhaps. Friendly, funny, generous, sweet...but a customer. When the commercial relationship ends and that commercial relationship was the sole basis of your interaction...what's the point? Like your favorite waitress quits a restaurant you went to on a regular basis. One day they are gone....you wish you could say ..thanks for bringing me my english muffin and laughing at my jokes. But...she is gone from your life forever...so move along.

I think few are being rude. I feel hosts view members a lot different than members view hosts. Members..well...we drink the Kool Aid...we buy the fantasy...the osts sell the fantasy...and when the time comes all you have is the memory of the fantasy...and that's life.

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Amen my brother. You are spot on.

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Men are incredible romantics....they fall in love with women even when there isn't the slightest chance of reciprocation...women like romance...big difference. They ration their love and are generally more careful giving it to anyone. Men....next hot girl who pays attention to me...I love you...and it CC...hot girls who pay attention to you is the special of the day.

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Is it that you just want to know? Or did you want Her to tell you? Someone here may know.

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hallmark get well card

get well-hurry back-missed you-stay safe-
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Love it!!

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no tattoos-it's a turn off on a woman body-looks trashy-cheap-sorry that's just my advice-some men do like it, but not me

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"sorry but why u think women need care of your opinion?someone ask 4 this?"

if you have read the original post, yes she asked for our opinions.
my opinion is, that art looks great when printed on paper, or painted to canvas, but when it is copied to someones skin, it looks disturbing

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it depends on the tattoo for me , a small flower on her arm or leg is no big deal ,a huge tattoo on there back and im looking for someone else.

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Who brands a unique thing? It's like putting a sticker on a limo ;)

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I actually like tattoos on a woman..have many myself..as long as they are done tastefully they can be quite sexy. Just make it original.. nothing from a book in a tattoo shop. Make it personal about you.

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tattoo look stupid and ugly too!

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Sexy, Why not you get tattoo on your face? lol

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Of course you like them on girls....you like them on yourself ;)

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True, But I liked them on girls before I got one on my self ;)
Are you a host with Tattoos..

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I don't like them, and always end up imagining what they will look like when the girl is in her 50s or older. Sometimes I think they never consider what the future might bring when getting them.

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No one is saying that someone does not have the right to decide how they look. The original poster asked guys to express their opinions on whther they liked tattos on girls or found them sexy and so the guys are giving their opinions. For me it depends on the design, execution and how it suits the girl.
My impression is that few if any members only visit hosts who have tattoos whereas there are a lot of members who will not see any hosts who have tattoos so my recommendation to hosts is that any tattoo should be quite small and discrete and not at the bottom of her back (called by some the "tramp stamp").

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She asked for opinions about girls with tatoo's and gus are expressing their feelings about it. No need to defend your choice to have them...the majority of men still won't like them. You made your choice and just be content with it. You won't change any man's opinion about them...period! If this is your business here then you will probably get men that are either loving them or it doesn't matter but it will probably drive away men that don't like them.

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Do you find yourself imagining what a host's face, hands, neck, boobs etc are going to look like when she is 50 or older? If not why do you think about this when she has a tattoo?

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actually I have thought of such things, I think of a lot of things when I see a host,. Of course a great attitude can overcome most anything as far as physical looks are concerned.

But sometimes the thought just hits me "what were they thinking" when I see something like a tattoo or even some of the cloths women wear. Also the teenage boys that have the plastic circles in their earlobes that look like large buttons, and then say they are going to go to Law School or Premed when they go to college, it will be very difficult for them to get a job looking as such. Everyone is free to express themselves as they wish, but many times there are also future consequences to consider too.

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NOT SEXY AT ALL

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Most tattoos i`ve seen on female body: UGLY!!

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A lot of employers and men feel the way they are expressing here unless they are the tatoo crowd. I find the opinions that are expressed here are the majority so it doesn't surprise me at all. Think you might want to think hard before you decide to get one.

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WHere I you from? I suspect USA.

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The one I wanted to get was supposed to be well hidden :)
I had employers that were asking if I had any tattoos, but a job wouldn't be the reason not to get a tattoo.
I have thought about it for pretty long, so I know what to expect, but it will take some time before I can have one, for different reasons :)

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Limited discrete tattoos are ok. But for the most part I think it mars a beautiful woman's body. I have a single tattoo on my arm but at the beach I see hundreds of young men and women who disfigure themselves with hideous tattoos with no apparent message or theme or sense. Tattoos are largely forever. Start small. Or wait until you are 30 to get a tattoo...something meaningful.

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Just say no to tattoos and drugs!

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Generally I don't like large tattoos, but I've seen some gorgeous tattoos, large and small, on both men and women in Hawaii.

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I'm not totally against tattoos but the porn star type ones at the base of the spine are a little boring. Given a choice between tattoos and no tattoos I would choose no tattoos but I certainly would not let a tattoo put me off a girl I found attractive. Sophea, trixster's recommendation on the viewer's forum is a good example.

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Small tats dicreetly placed are OK, but if it can't be covered by a beer can lid, it's too big wherever it is on the skin.

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i love tats on girls....sooooo sexy

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No tats please!

a woman's body is something to be worshipped and revered for its purity and beauty...WITHOUT markings to destroy the clear, soft perfection. Some say it is individuality. Take a look in the mirror and in this world of billions of people there is no other that looks as you do in this mirror. .02

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You obviously cared enough to keep track of his email. Can't you email his ccmail here? And why are you agreeing to meet him, especially around something like giving birth to your child, but you haven't already had contact outside of here?

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Maybe after having virtual sex that she found out that he is indeed the father of the baby. He knew this would happen and yet she was in denial and now has realized that they didn't use virtual protection and sure enough the second one came along.... She can contact him in her video room when she goes into labor and whalaa he can be one the first to see their virtually conceived and delivered baby..... What is strange about that??

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Avr0ra, Good luck with your future newborn baby! But I feel sorry for children because of no father around and take care of them :(

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Aww that so sweet!!! :))) kisses back to ya!

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