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Asking for a show
I have read countless host profiles talking about rude members barking orders. I agree no member should bark orders, but ask politely. So why is it I am told by so many softcore hosts I am rude to ask for a naked show in pvt? And in some cases I get blocked just for politely asking. With the possible exception of IA, no host is going to strip without first being asked by the member. And I emphasize politely asking not rushing, demanding or barking orders. Afterall if you want something, you have to ask for it. The hosts aren't mind readers, are they?
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Some softcore hosts never do strip, even just topless, they block you in order you would rate them bad for refusing to strip. And you should ask hardcore hosts about show as some viewers come to that category for just chatting. lol
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When I see posts like this I cannot understand which hosts members have been visiting. I have never been told that I was rude to ask for a show. The only rebuffs have been either "sorry but I do not strip" or "I do not like to be rushed lets chat for a bit longer".I spend most of my time in Glamour or littel shy and have visited hundreds of hosts without ever being told I was rude.
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I was going to say exactly the same thing. I have been refused a show by many hosts but never once has a host accused me of being rude just for asking.
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I just had a new host there asking me "what means naked?" lol
That was in txt and just for fun, i dont even bother trying anymore...
That was in txt and just for fun, i dont even bother trying anymore...
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So, just paying isnt enough anymore. We have to pay and kiss ass......just like real life lol
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I think that sounds like a very rude attitude from a host and if you consider this a business then you should be kissing your customer's ass to get them to spend money on you and not how you explain.
Of course there are guys that come in and say strip, get naked, spread legs, etc. but it is certainly a small percentage that I receive. I will tell them no thank you and be kind and then I will block them for future visits. I figure they will eventually figure it out if they are blocked enough.
I would never consider your attitude if I was a paying customer that I must ask you so many questions and tell you my life story to get sexy and tease or whatever you do. I would expect that we can chat politely but if I ask you in chat if you get naked then it should lead there without a half an hour to an hour conversation before hand so that you can get in a magical mood to tease and flirt if that is what I came to you for. Honestly you sound money hungry with that attitude and dangling the carrot for a price which obviously you already have set in your mind.
Of course there are guys that come in and say strip, get naked, spread legs, etc. but it is certainly a small percentage that I receive. I will tell them no thank you and be kind and then I will block them for future visits. I figure they will eventually figure it out if they are blocked enough.
I would never consider your attitude if I was a paying customer that I must ask you so many questions and tell you my life story to get sexy and tease or whatever you do. I would expect that we can chat politely but if I ask you in chat if you get naked then it should lead there without a half an hour to an hour conversation before hand so that you can get in a magical mood to tease and flirt if that is what I came to you for. Honestly you sound money hungry with that attitude and dangling the carrot for a price which obviously you already have set in your mind.
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why do you have such a wrong images of prostitutes or escorts? they also get a respectful treatment to get maximum pleasure as a host. i cannot buy escorts here because i am a busy businessman and it is a little restricted here where i am now, that is why i appreciate camcontacts. it takes time but i treat them well when buying one and it never hurt. every good customer should do that everywhere. or do you go into a bank to withdraw money from your account and bark:'hi bb, u r special. give money! just a little 4 me, bcuz i am different. show cash!'
it is polite in some way. is that why you desperately want to make a difference between selling yourself in here or out there? for me there is no difference. and why should there be? it is a job. it is sexual satisfaction vs money. and as long as all are satisfied i wonder why the big fuzz. it does not make you a bad person. you write 'here, it's actually about girls bodies and feelings'. i do not even expect feelings from a prostitute or escort i order, just her body. she knows it. i know it. after i am finished i pay the escort and thank her that she did a great job pleasing me. after i finish in here i do the same.
you are professionals in a nice controlled environment provided by camcontacts running on clean safe rules selling yourself in here. so you really should not worry that you are some bad street hookers who have to fear that they are abused, not paid or mistreated. everything is under your control. you do what you are willing to give away. all your decision. and we gladly take these offers from girls who are able and willing to provide such things for our demands and satisfy us with sexual services.
so enjoy your jobs and we enjoy you!
j
it is polite in some way. is that why you desperately want to make a difference between selling yourself in here or out there? for me there is no difference. and why should there be? it is a job. it is sexual satisfaction vs money. and as long as all are satisfied i wonder why the big fuzz. it does not make you a bad person. you write 'here, it's actually about girls bodies and feelings'. i do not even expect feelings from a prostitute or escort i order, just her body. she knows it. i know it. after i am finished i pay the escort and thank her that she did a great job pleasing me. after i finish in here i do the same.
you are professionals in a nice controlled environment provided by camcontacts running on clean safe rules selling yourself in here. so you really should not worry that you are some bad street hookers who have to fear that they are abused, not paid or mistreated. everything is under your control. you do what you are willing to give away. all your decision. and we gladly take these offers from girls who are able and willing to provide such things for our demands and satisfy us with sexual services.
so enjoy your jobs and we enjoy you!
j
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I do not think she has a wrong image of prostitutes. In fact you contradicted yourself by pointing out the many differences between a host selling herself on CC and a prostitute selling herself "out there". If you want a "real world" equivalent to videochat hosting I would say it is performing in a pheep show or lap dancing club. Chat host's Lapdancers and prostitutes are all sex workers, but there are distinctions between them. I am not saying that as people one is better or more deserving of respect than another but what they do is different.
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I still think your attitude focuses on the negative rather than make it a fun day no matter what. I wonder how long an arrogant demanding host who thinks she is a goddess can survive with that attitude? Actually it sounds rather Dom to me.
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The original post said that he was a gentleman and she blocked him because he asked if she did nude. Many hosts here have gone off on a tangent about the rude ones but that is not what he said at all.
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I asked for show while in open video or in some cases in 121 never in free chat.
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He is obviously asking why a host would do that. Members can take it personal just like hosts when a member blocks her from contact. Nothing wrong with him asking!! If it's not your problem then I guess you wouldn't understand...
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He asked, I answered why it can be. But I have rights to be surprised at his surprising at some actions of the hosts. If he wasnt not really close friend to those hosts why to get it personal? He came first time, they blocked him for nothing, they lose then. So why to continue to knock to closed doors as so many more friendly and accommodating hosts on the site...of course if he is not a slave and like when women play with him like that.
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If you had a visitor and you wrote him a thank you or a note and you were blocked from him wouldn't it make you wonder why?? Like I said if it's not your problem guess you can't see his point so why would you comment other than to tell him to get over it like you did and make him feel like his question is not important.
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I never been blocked from any of my visitors, so I dont know that feelings, sorry. But even if I was I would never ask why, too many strange people around so I get used dont ask "why is it?". I keep in mind nothing really personal here, I just provide a service. As about this situation I am a host myself and I am a woman, I know all this games, dear. Sure some hosts block some members just in order to get them more interested in them, to make them think " why the hell she block me?" To create some intrigue, I find it boring games, too primitive, so I dont try to get more interest from men by it.
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I think that is too vague and some would block him just because she doesn't do nude and afraid he might come into her room and rate her bad. Sad but true! Unfortunately with the rating system here just one low rating can completely throw off your stars so I think that is why they get so nervous and block so easy.
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I didn't say all hosts but there are more than 1 or 2 that have called my rude for just asking for a show. Is asking "would you please strip for me" rude?
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Not rude if she indicates that in her profile or hints at it if she is in Softcore!!
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""please" would still guarantee u a show even if with me rolling eyes lol"
The only guaranteed show is in IA.
The only guaranteed show is in IA.
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I introduce myself...and almost immediately say I am looking for a semi-nude show. I am usually a topless in panties guy. If the host says...yes we can do that (always in 121 only)...we continue to chat and prepare. If she stalls, is evasive in her answer, gives you the ...if I am in the mood, depends on you, maybe, etc. I think her and leave. If you don't get a firm yes....leave. Otherwise prepare to waste money and time. Yeah yeah some hosts don't like to be rushed and I like a slow strip and sexy seduction as part of the show but I want the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow and both parties need to be clear about that before you hit the video button.
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I must be lucky. I have never been refused a show in the soft core categories.
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Why of course you always get what you want. You are a stud muffin with movie star good looks and are hung like a stallion. And after each show, which I'm sure the girls give you free, you jump on your personal jet and go bang all of them and their sisters too.
A question for members who like to chat in pvt
I put this question here instead of viewer forum because I think hosts can have some useful input. When I say chatting members, I am not talking about those who like to chat in softcore categories or even in not shy. I'm referring to those guys who feel the need to go to IA, the only real category with hardcore wankers in mind, and sit there and chat on and on.
Yes I know any guy is entitled to spend his money any way he chooses, but with a site that is 90% devoted to chatting, why do these guys feel the need to chat in IA? Its like the guy that wants to drive slow in the hammer (passing) lane. And oh if anyone is interested the CC rule on this goes like this. If a member is chatting in open in IA and another member enters the video and asks for a nude show, he gets it. If anyone needs to verify this, ask CC yourself. Unlike many others in this forum I do not present opinion as fact.
And yes I do understand that the hosts are just trying to meet the needs of their paying viewers in pvt. This is not about the hosts. This question is to the viewers who feel the need to turn IA into non adult.
Yes I know any guy is entitled to spend his money any way he chooses, but with a site that is 90% devoted to chatting, why do these guys feel the need to chat in IA? Its like the guy that wants to drive slow in the hammer (passing) lane. And oh if anyone is interested the CC rule on this goes like this. If a member is chatting in open in IA and another member enters the video and asks for a nude show, he gets it. If anyone needs to verify this, ask CC yourself. Unlike many others in this forum I do not present opinion as fact.
And yes I do understand that the hosts are just trying to meet the needs of their paying viewers in pvt. This is not about the hosts. This question is to the viewers who feel the need to turn IA into non adult.
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cause regardless the category behind the screen is a real person.Some guys just wanna treat girls good and feel they making a good thing by treating the girls in IA like normal person not sex machines that has to jump into action right away.
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"not sex machines that has to jump into action right away"
if so, why they are in a wrong category? if a girl does not feel like instant acting sex on command, then she should go to softcore. ok?
if so, why they are in a wrong category? if a girl does not feel like instant acting sex on command, then she should go to softcore. ok?
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He was talking about how the member wants to treat the host. She may be prepared to "jump into action straight away" because she is in IA but if the member says he wants to chat a bit first she has to follow this request.
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If you read the full post "a" was talking about the member not wanting to treat the girl like a sex machine not that the girl was in the wrong category. "a" is also right that behind the cam is a real person. So if a chatter finds someone whose company they enjoy in IA why shouldn't they go there ?
For similar reasons I do not restrict my quest for a sexy show to only hosts in IA. Although, obviously, my reasons are completely unchivalrous.
For similar reasons I do not restrict my quest for a sexy show to only hosts in IA. Although, obviously, my reasons are completely unchivalrous.
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I agree with traditional member when there are so many hosts in softcore that are there for the purpose of talking and chatting so that the member can get to know them and seduce them. When a host chooses the category of IA they want to do a show instantly without much conversation. They chose that category knowing what it included which is getting down to business and are not worried about what guys think of them. Most of the members come there to see her beautiful body perform and that is what they like to do and agree to it.
Same situation with a member coming to softcore and expecting IA with the host and minimal conversation.....totally out of category. Doesn't make sense.
IA hosts are not there to be fluffed up by a member wanting to build her self esteem and talking about her life. She gets the highs from the mmmmmm, beautiful baby, gorgeous, so hot, etc.
Same situation with a member coming to softcore and expecting IA with the host and minimal conversation.....totally out of category. Doesn't make sense.
IA hosts are not there to be fluffed up by a member wanting to build her self esteem and talking about her life. She gets the highs from the mmmmmm, beautiful baby, gorgeous, so hot, etc.
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"Don't have time for small talk? This is the category for you!"
I suppose the above copied and pasted from CC guidelines means nothing to you? If you took your car in for an oil change, would you want the mechanic to change your oil or talk to you for an hour?
I suppose the above copied and pasted from CC guidelines means nothing to you? If you took your car in for an oil change, would you want the mechanic to change your oil or talk to you for an hour?
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"And read again: "don't have time?" What if some do? "
Then they go to softcore or non adult. That's what they are there for.
Then they go to softcore or non adult. That's what they are there for.
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He said that hosts should go there (change their category)
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I'm pretty certain it was the members he was talking about.
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You are correct my friend, I was referring to the member not the host. All hosts (well most) try their best to give the viewer what he wants in pvt.
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Yes I agree the member can spend his money the way he chooses and said that in my initial post. But due to the category rules, if he wants to chat only, he should use 121. It causes problems when another member enters open video and the host is just sitting and talking and not doing a show.
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An IA host chose that category because she wants to perform and not chat like other categories available to her!! I agree that he should take her to 121 if that is what he wants to do with her and not change her category with other members expecting action!
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"An IA host chose that category because she wants to perform and not chat like other categories"
I suspect that the truth is that most hosts choose IA because they are willing to perform to earn money but, given the option, most would prefer to chat to a guy rather than perform. Even if the only reason is that chatters tend to stay longer than us wankers.
I suspect that the truth is that most hosts choose IA because they are willing to perform to earn money but, given the option, most would prefer to chat to a guy rather than perform. Even if the only reason is that chatters tend to stay longer than us wankers.
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How do you know about IA hosts? Are you one?
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Because she has a brain and some imagination! and can think what it must be like to be an IA host!
What is your shoe size, anyway?
What is your shoe size, anyway?
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Why don't you choose a category where you can chat more then??
I have tested one hard core host with that and she was bored to death in softcore category. No one forces you to be in IA and no one thinks you are stupid without a brain. It is your choice to have all eyes on you with many men giving you their attention. Your words are contradictory to your choice in category.
I have tested one hard core host with that and she was bored to death in softcore category. No one forces you to be in IA and no one thinks you are stupid without a brain. It is your choice to have all eyes on you with many men giving you their attention. Your words are contradictory to your choice in category.
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That is not true but only your speculation thinking it is a better, more comfortable choice for the host. Some hosts prefer to be the focus and have men oogle over them and their bodies. They obviously like enticing through action and not so comfortable with sitting discussing their lives and possibly bored with just sitting and chatting. If you think logically about it your comment makes no sense because it is 100% the hosts choice where she wants to be and not all want to be here to sit and chat. In fact it is uncomfortable for the ones that choose not to because of various reasons. No one makes an IA host choose that category and there is a reason that they chose it!! For a member to come in and choose that direction is just a change of pace for them temporarily but not something that they prefer or they would change their category.
All girls are not alike!! That is very obvious if you visit different hosts.
All girls are not alike!! That is very obvious if you visit different hosts.
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Then you do not know how a IA host thinks and she has chosen that category knowing that there is no small talk like it says in the guidelines when a viewer is choosing a category.
My point being that a chatter that goes to IA should realize that others will come into open and expect a show and he should take her to 121 if he just wants chat. IA hosts are looking for action vs. chat and so are their audience.
My point being that a chatter that goes to IA should realize that others will come into open and expect a show and he should take her to 121 if he just wants chat. IA hosts are looking for action vs. chat and so are their audience.
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What is your hang-up? You have quite a chip on your shoulder for a host on a porn site! Are you in IA? Did you not choose that category because you wanted to show your body without chat and getting to know the member? Why are you attacking guys that go to that category for Instant Action like they disrespect you for your choice to be there??
I think some hosts just like to argue but yours shows a real dislike for men!!
I think some hosts just like to argue but yours shows a real dislike for men!!
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T is not attacking guys who go to IA. She is suggesting that some guys may prefer to chat, and why not? She is suggesting that she might even prefer members who show some respect.
This is called HUMAN NATURE. It is not evidence that she dislikes men.
On the contrary, you seem to prefer your women to be robots. Or one could conclude this based on your posts and your preference for IA.
This is called HUMAN NATURE. It is not evidence that she dislikes men.
On the contrary, you seem to prefer your women to be robots. Or one could conclude this based on your posts and your preference for IA.
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If the mechanic looked like the girls that I like on here I would want her to chat to me for an hour. The oil change can wait till some ugly hairy bloke is ready to do it.
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maybe at first he was just coming to use you for his sexual satisfaction but after your services he saw that for him this was not really enough he got out of you, so he was curious and wanted to feel special and get to know and have the whole person in you.
this is how i see it.
i wish if it would just work like this in that exact order in real life! first sex or sexual satisfaction. then maybe dinner.
in any case that does not apply to me, i am mostly in the glamour profile and do it the other way around. i set a date with my regular host, be flirted to create my fantasy, know what i can soon get and then do my thing with the help of the host to have my satisfaction. when i am finished i thank the host, pay the host and leave to order the host again soon. just like in the real world when buying an escort. it does not hurt to take the escort out for dinner, be nice, chat and then try the escort out. it is nice and important that everyone feels ok. the prostitute and the customer.
sexual satisfaction vs money and no real names in here or out there does not necessarily mean you have to be rude and treat the host like a piece of meat! being used is not the same as being abused! sexually satisfying strangers is not easy for you wonderful openhearted hosts so i think we guests should appreciate your willingness to serve the often complicated demands of us strangers. so thank you all for your professional services, camcontacts is a great online adult fun platform and you hosts are all great!
this is how i see it.
i wish if it would just work like this in that exact order in real life! first sex or sexual satisfaction. then maybe dinner.
in any case that does not apply to me, i am mostly in the glamour profile and do it the other way around. i set a date with my regular host, be flirted to create my fantasy, know what i can soon get and then do my thing with the help of the host to have my satisfaction. when i am finished i thank the host, pay the host and leave to order the host again soon. just like in the real world when buying an escort. it does not hurt to take the escort out for dinner, be nice, chat and then try the escort out. it is nice and important that everyone feels ok. the prostitute and the customer.
sexual satisfaction vs money and no real names in here or out there does not necessarily mean you have to be rude and treat the host like a piece of meat! being used is not the same as being abused! sexually satisfying strangers is not easy for you wonderful openhearted hosts so i think we guests should appreciate your willingness to serve the often complicated demands of us strangers. so thank you all for your professional services, camcontacts is a great online adult fun platform and you hosts are all great!
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
Then being a glam host why are you out front speaking for IA hosts and their choices?? In glam you chose to chat and take it slow yet an IA host wants different obviously!! I don't think you can speak for them!
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And what entitles you to speak for the members? do you know ALL the members? What entitles you to speak for/about the hosts? You know ALL the hosts? (IA or not)
It's my point of view as a host, I have been around long enough to know how things work and I have tried enough categories, IA included.
It's my point of view as a host, I have been around long enough to know how things work and I have tried enough categories, IA included.
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"I have tried enough categories, IA included."
And how did that work for you?
And how did that work for you?
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The point is that a girl choosing IA knows that it is action and not chat (if she can read the rules and guidelines) and that is why she chose it!! If you went in there expect some good conversation plus action then that is probably why you were disappointed and left. The words Instant Action clearly says what the intent is and that is why girls choose that category...
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In the less adult categories the hosts are very good at chat. That is a good part of their appeal and they are very practiced and skillful at it. That also can mean hollow, repetitive and insincere. Chatting with an IA host who typically is also sought out for her body and sexuality is an interesting idea. They are less likely to spend time in videos chatting but I bet they find it as interesting as the members do.
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"Sometimes a viewer just like THIS particular girl and wants to talk to her"
How can he like someone based on profile description and or archive photos? If you read CC category guidelines, and read the part about "no time for small talk", and you are looking to chat and flirt, you certainly do not go to IA! Duh!
How can he like someone based on profile description and or archive photos? If you read CC category guidelines, and read the part about "no time for small talk", and you are looking to chat and flirt, you certainly do not go to IA! Duh!
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He may have already visited here several times and had shows and started to want to know her a bit better.
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Are you an IA Host to be able to speak of why they choose that category? If not then I think your words are in an effort to just defend
hosts where this post is not attacking hosts. How can anyone speak for a hardcore IA host other than if they think exactly the way she does in her choice.
hosts where this post is not attacking hosts. How can anyone speak for a hardcore IA host other than if they think exactly the way she does in her choice.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
Do I need to be a whale to have my own opinion on whale hunting?
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
A smartass answer in place of an actual answer destroys any possible credibility you may have.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
And you lack imagination. You certainly don't speak for all members.
Has it not occurred to you that sometimes we don't think of the host as a "category," but instead as an individual with thoughts and insights and personality, not merely tits and ass?
If I want to meet an IA host in open, and decide to chat with her, that is up to me. The fact that she might have to strip for the next guy who comes in, because of the rules governing the category, is the "risk" I take looool.
Has it not occurred to you that sometimes we don't think of the host as a "category," but instead as an individual with thoughts and insights and personality, not merely tits and ass?
If I want to meet an IA host in open, and decide to chat with her, that is up to me. The fact that she might have to strip for the next guy who comes in, because of the rules governing the category, is the "risk" I take looool.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
And will you be annoyed with anyone when you are cut off and ignored when members come in for IA?
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
I have to understand that my host must follow the rules, and it doesn't help my relationship with her to complain about how she manages that. Besides, being interrupted is not an unexpected event, but it's the chance I take in open. So, why should I be upset?
I am a big boy. I don't pout when I don't get my way.
I am a big boy. I don't pout when I don't get my way.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
I shared MY opinion about the situation... not really looking for any credibility :)
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
My interpretation is..
You see hot model in IA is in PVT. You think joining quick you will see fast hot sexy wank show.. instead the model is deep in conversation with the member and isn't interested in giving you a quick wank. and your upset.. Am I close?
This site, the customer is king.. especially in a category like IA. If the customer asked her to do anything with in her boundaries she should oblige.. even if its just..chatting..
The answer is easy..leave and move along and find a girl who suits you.
You see hot model in IA is in PVT. You think joining quick you will see fast hot sexy wank show.. instead the model is deep in conversation with the member and isn't interested in giving you a quick wank. and your upset.. Am I close?
This site, the customer is king.. especially in a category like IA. If the customer asked her to do anything with in her boundaries she should oblige.. even if its just..chatting..
The answer is easy..leave and move along and find a girl who suits you.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
If a guy sees an IA girl in video with another member and jumps in hoping to find her already naked this is his risk. If she has just been chatting with the other member and is still dressed he has no right to complain. But he is entitled to expect her to get naked quickly. This is a case where the "polite code" of the first guy in video has priority cannot apply. If a guy just wants to chat with an IA host and doesn't want her to get naked for other guys while he does it he should either take her 121 or, if he is a regular, they should arrange a password session. I can certainly understand that a member may want to just chat with an IA girl because he likes that particular girl but both have to understand and follow the category rules.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
" the customer is king" I see that motto used at 2 other sites, but in their case its just bullshit. And yes to go in an open vie in IA and see this host sitting and chatting is a real bummer. If a member wants to chat ad nauseum with a host he needs to got 121 in IA.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
As you say the customer should be king. If a member just wants to chat with an IA host and there is no one else in video the host should follow the members wishes. Any other member who jumps into the room expecting to find the host already naked has no reason to complain. But he is entitled to expect the host to get naked quickly.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
The thread is not about Fetish. Its about Instant Action category. Here are the rules. If you need verification you can check with CC.
INSTANT ACTION:
This category is designed for viewers who want instant action. They don't want to hang around and make small talk. Therefore ONLY those Chathosts who feel comfortable and prepared to give an instant sex show should advertise in this category. The Chathost must be prepared to show full nudity as soon as requested. Also if they advertise certain things in their show, they must be prepared to do them straight away, without delays.
By signing into this category Chathosts commit to:
•Not sharing details such as age, name, country etc. unless initiated by the Viewer.
•No delaying tactics whatsoever. Chathosts MUST be prepared to immediately start their show as soon as a viewer enters.
•Also getting naked must not take a long time. This is not the category for a slow strip tease show.
•Be prepared to provide an explicit sex show. Not only is the Chathost expected to get naked, but also provide additional explicit content such as open leg shots, and finger or dildo penetration, if requested
INSTANT ACTION:
This category is designed for viewers who want instant action. They don't want to hang around and make small talk. Therefore ONLY those Chathosts who feel comfortable and prepared to give an instant sex show should advertise in this category. The Chathost must be prepared to show full nudity as soon as requested. Also if they advertise certain things in their show, they must be prepared to do them straight away, without delays.
By signing into this category Chathosts commit to:
•Not sharing details such as age, name, country etc. unless initiated by the Viewer.
•No delaying tactics whatsoever. Chathosts MUST be prepared to immediately start their show as soon as a viewer enters.
•Also getting naked must not take a long time. This is not the category for a slow strip tease show.
•Be prepared to provide an explicit sex show. Not only is the Chathost expected to get naked, but also provide additional explicit content such as open leg shots, and finger or dildo penetration, if requested
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
I work in Not So Shy and I also decide when or what to show. I sometimes feel like not losing my clothes and I will not just because someone WANTS. There are enough nice gentlemen members that come to me just to video chat and not with barking orders to get me naked.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
You decide? Really? Here are the CC rules for not o shy
NOT SO SHY:
By signing into this category the Chathost, if asked, commits to:
•EXPLICIT nudity.
To include:
◦Close-ups
◦Open Legs
•Masturbation by fingers.
If a viewer wants toys, or other specific action they must ask the Chathost first to ensure the Chathost is both willing and able to accommodate the request.
NOT SO SHY:
By signing into this category the Chathost, if asked, commits to:
•EXPLICIT nudity.
To include:
◦Close-ups
◦Open Legs
•Masturbation by fingers.
If a viewer wants toys, or other specific action they must ask the Chathost first to ensure the Chathost is both willing and able to accommodate the request.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
It is not for interpretation here those are the rules. The hosts have a tendency to try and form them into whatever they want to do but in this case there is no room for doubt of what it means!
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
lol why to yell? I am not IA host, as I read rules all categories before choose one and find rules of IA not appropriate to me. If you chose this category you have to do what viewers want, doesnt matter rude they are or polite with you. Period. Or move to softcore.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
INSTANT ACTION CATEGORY ......HOST MUST GET NAKED AND BE WILLING TO PERFORM WHEN MEMBER ASKS......IF NOT MOVE TO SHY OR OTHER SOFTCORE CATEGORY.....
NOT SO SHY CATEGORY....HOST MUST BE PREPARED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED....IF NOT MOVE TO SHY CATEGORY....
WHEN A HOST PICKS THESE TWO CATEGORIES...SHE IS OBLIGATED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED...IF NOT THEN PICK SOFT CORE CATEGORY....IT IS AS SIMPLE AS THAT...
I KNOW THIS AS I HAVE HAD MANY TIMES WITH CC ASKING AND BEING FINED.....
AGAIN INSTANT ACTION AND NOT SO SHY CATEGORIES....HOST IS OBLIGATED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED......AND IF U R NOT GOING TO DO THAT THEN U DO NOT BELONG IN SUCH CATEGORIES.....
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE NAKED WHEN MEMBER COMES IN BUT WHEN ASKED U R OBLIGATED TO DO SO....
SO PLS STOP ARGUING ABOUT IT, IF U DONT WANT TO STRIP WHEN ASKED THEN DO NOT PICK THOSE TWO CATEGORIES.
NOT SO SHY AND GLAMOUR IS FOR HOSTS WHO R NOT PREPARED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED....AND IN THESE TWO CATEGORIES HOSTS CAN DECIDE WHAT THEY WILL DO AND WHEN....
Have a great time....:)
NOT SO SHY CATEGORY....HOST MUST BE PREPARED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED....IF NOT MOVE TO SHY CATEGORY....
WHEN A HOST PICKS THESE TWO CATEGORIES...SHE IS OBLIGATED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED...IF NOT THEN PICK SOFT CORE CATEGORY....IT IS AS SIMPLE AS THAT...
I KNOW THIS AS I HAVE HAD MANY TIMES WITH CC ASKING AND BEING FINED.....
AGAIN INSTANT ACTION AND NOT SO SHY CATEGORIES....HOST IS OBLIGATED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED......AND IF U R NOT GOING TO DO THAT THEN U DO NOT BELONG IN SUCH CATEGORIES.....
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE NAKED WHEN MEMBER COMES IN BUT WHEN ASKED U R OBLIGATED TO DO SO....
SO PLS STOP ARGUING ABOUT IT, IF U DONT WANT TO STRIP WHEN ASKED THEN DO NOT PICK THOSE TWO CATEGORIES.
NOT SO SHY AND GLAMOUR IS FOR HOSTS WHO R NOT PREPARED TO STRIP WHEN ASKED....AND IN THESE TWO CATEGORIES HOSTS CAN DECIDE WHAT THEY WILL DO AND WHEN....
Have a great time....:)
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
Amen....thanks for clarifying to all these people that think otherwise.
One mistake though....you said not so shy and glamour when I think you meant shy and glamour. :)
I think the original poster is spot on but also it is the hosts responsibility to follow the rules which are clearly stated.
One mistake though....you said not so shy and glamour when I think you meant shy and glamour. :)
I think the original poster is spot on but also it is the hosts responsibility to follow the rules which are clearly stated.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
Once again here are the rules for IA. If you don't follow them, you won't be there for long.
INSTANT ACTION:
This category is designed for viewers who want instant action. They don't want to hang around and make small talk. Therefore ONLY those Chathosts who feel comfortable and prepared to give an instant sex show should advertise in this category. The Chathost must be prepared to show full nudity as soon as requested. Also if they advertise certain things in their show, they must be prepared to do them straight away, without delays.
By signing into this category Chathosts commit to:
•Not sharing details such as age, name, country etc. unless initiated by the Viewer.
•No delaying tactics whatsoever. Chathosts MUST be prepared to immediately start their show as soon as a viewer enters.
•Also getting naked must not take a long time. This is not the category for a slow strip tease show.
•Be prepared to provide an explicit sex show. Not only is the Chathost expected to get naked, but also provide additional explicit content such as open leg shots, and finger or dildo penetration, if requested
INSTANT ACTION:
This category is designed for viewers who want instant action. They don't want to hang around and make small talk. Therefore ONLY those Chathosts who feel comfortable and prepared to give an instant sex show should advertise in this category. The Chathost must be prepared to show full nudity as soon as requested. Also if they advertise certain things in their show, they must be prepared to do them straight away, without delays.
By signing into this category Chathosts commit to:
•Not sharing details such as age, name, country etc. unless initiated by the Viewer.
•No delaying tactics whatsoever. Chathosts MUST be prepared to immediately start their show as soon as a viewer enters.
•Also getting naked must not take a long time. This is not the category for a slow strip tease show.
•Be prepared to provide an explicit sex show. Not only is the Chathost expected to get naked, but also provide additional explicit content such as open leg shots, and finger or dildo penetration, if requested
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
I'm not a lawyer, but I can read. And the rules are for everyone. No exceptions. If you don't like CC rules, move to another category or move to another site.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
Then the member should take her to 121 to have her attention exclusively and not perform in open like other viewers are expecting her to do since she chose her category of INSTANT ACTION/HARDCORE Category.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
If there is no one in video when he joins there is no reason why a member should not just chat in open video. He and the host should just understand that if anyone else enters the room they are entitled to expect her to get naked quickly.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
That is the problem or the post wouldn't have started in the beginning!! So what is the solution? Have members that just want to chat take her to 121 which can't happen when other members come into open, correct? As soon as members come in requesting strip, etc then that host needs to ignore the chat and preform since this is the category that she chose, right? So the ideal solution would be for members who want to chat with an IA host to take her to 121 from the beginning and not be a cheapy when he is asking her to do something that is not typical for her category which she chose. She should also honor the rules rather than ignore many (bad business decision too) who chose her in the category of IA!!
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
In my opinion the cheapies are members who jump in when an IA host is in video with another member hoping to find her already naked. I do not think any member paying IA rates just to chat can be considered cheap. The 121 price may be double the open video one. If the chatting becomes a regular thing then it would be better to do it in a password session.
However I do not see it is a big problem for the host to say "sorry someone else just joined and wants a show" to the chatting member.
However I do not see it is a big problem for the host to say "sorry someone else just joined and wants a show" to the chatting member.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
Chathosts are human beings with brains and charm in all categories, therefore it's not forbidden to treat them as everywhere else when greeting them and taking contact with them...
At times some chathosts have 2 (or seldom 3) profiles, one of them in IA, and when they become friends I like to take news from, I'd at times choose the profile with best rate for them (that is IA), or at times they only open that one for a while and there is no choice.
But I won't seek a chathost I don't know from IA just for chat "only", all the more that it is also often the chosen category for chathosts who are less familiar with a common used language on the site.
At times some chathosts have 2 (or seldom 3) profiles, one of them in IA, and when they become friends I like to take news from, I'd at times choose the profile with best rate for them (that is IA), or at times they only open that one for a while and there is no choice.
But I won't seek a chathost I don't know from IA just for chat "only", all the more that it is also often the chosen category for chathosts who are less familiar with a common used language on the site.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
whiteknight, the same here. one of my regulars also has 2 accounts. a non-adult and a secret glamour profile because even explicit adult language is forbidden in the non-adult section! she is pretty open-hearted and willing to serve. so after some chatting in glamour exclusive men with our needs are invited to get more professional services and assistance to get sexually satisfied by her in a passworded session. in general like for a prostitute out there, also in here everything is in the control of the willing host. and this is how it should be. out there as an escort or in here you must be careful and protect yourself when selling yourself, your soul and body to more or less strangers. so it is perfect that camcontacts is such a clean controlled site and platform for some perfectly legal adult business. sexual satisfaction vs money. all get what they want. nice and clean, all by the rules.
but to speak more general let us drop all personal opinions and guessing for a moment since the rules are clear, so i quote them for all.
quote
in all ADULT categories, except 'little shy', STALLING in an attempt to extend the viewer's time in video is not allowed. this means that a chathost, instead of doing a show, is deliberately extending the conversation with the member while he is in video, when the viewer is repeatedly requesting action rather than words. if you are not happy with action instead of words, then stick to the 'little shy' or Non-Adult areas of the site.
stalling is even a bigger issue for viewers connecting from a 'mobile' phone!
penalty 3 points
end quote
it is not that difficult. and all can play by the rules. if a host/guest wants to chat only, without distractions negotiate and pay for a not more expensive passworded session. i hope all this information helps you all, customers and you wonderful professional hosts, to have a more satisfying sexual experience in the future in here on camcontacts!
j
but to speak more general let us drop all personal opinions and guessing for a moment since the rules are clear, so i quote them for all.
quote
in all ADULT categories, except 'little shy', STALLING in an attempt to extend the viewer's time in video is not allowed. this means that a chathost, instead of doing a show, is deliberately extending the conversation with the member while he is in video, when the viewer is repeatedly requesting action rather than words. if you are not happy with action instead of words, then stick to the 'little shy' or Non-Adult areas of the site.
stalling is even a bigger issue for viewers connecting from a 'mobile' phone!
penalty 3 points
end quote
it is not that difficult. and all can play by the rules. if a host/guest wants to chat only, without distractions negotiate and pay for a not more expensive passworded session. i hope all this information helps you all, customers and you wonderful professional hosts, to have a more satisfying sexual experience in the future in here on camcontacts!
j
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
Perhaps for a reason similar to why some members choose a "non nude" category, and then spend endless time trying to get a peek at the goodies. Either scenario initiates a sense of situational control for the member.
Who really cares though? It's a fantasy site.
Frankly, I think the question is absurd.
Who really cares though? It's a fantasy site.
Frankly, I think the question is absurd.
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
"Frankly, I think the question is absurd. "
Then why take the time to answer the question?
Then why take the time to answer the question?
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
Your "question" sounds a whole lot more like a judgmental statement, than an actual question.
Why do you even care what other members want to do?
Why do you even care what other members want to do?
RE: A question for members who like to chat in pvt
Oh thank you, Massah. you's made my day. How could I'se ever think to speak my mind in your personal forum? You de boss, yessuh, please forgive me, Massah. I'se so sorry for my mistake, and will tries to do better.
At the very least
Girls when leaving CC at least say bye....I'm getting married, I'm pregnant, I got a job, etc.
RE: At the very least
i agree with many complaints about the hosts on this forum. but, i do not think they owe anybody an explanation when leaving.
RE: At the very least
Hopefully he just wants to know what happened to someone he considered to be his friend. He misses her. I have had some friends that have left here. A few told me why there were leaving and a few did not. I appreciated the ones that told me and I totally understand the ones that didn't . Best of luck to each of them.
RE: At the very least
i agree, it is common courtesy to say bye, thank you or something when you leave the site. it is not a matter of owing an explanation it is simply common courtesy.
we may not get such courtesy from all members or hosts, however, just think how you feel when a member just stops visiting you and says nothing. besides that there are members that are very nice to us, so it is respectful to say thank you but it is time for me to leave the site, or something to that affect, even if you are leaving and not sure when you will be back, if it is more than a week or two then dont be like others, show that you have enough respect for others to say something.
be well everyone :)
we may not get such courtesy from all members or hosts, however, just think how you feel when a member just stops visiting you and says nothing. besides that there are members that are very nice to us, so it is respectful to say thank you but it is time for me to leave the site, or something to that affect, even if you are leaving and not sure when you will be back, if it is more than a week or two then dont be like others, show that you have enough respect for others to say something.
be well everyone :)
RE: At the very least
I think you probably have the answer to your question right there. Would it really make you feel better to know which one of the three it was? Maybe it was all three. Married, with child and got a new job...Well then "Congratulations" to her.
RE: At the very least
"I got close to some of the guys here and it hurt me when one stopped coming (to talk to me, I didn't even require video)."
No video, no money! CC would not be happy with you
No video, no money! CC would not be happy with you
RE: At the very least
Interesting point. I have been "friends" with a few hosts who left. By friends I mean I was a regular (good customer). It appeared we enjoyed our time together on CC beyond just the videos. One day...poof. First time it happened I was upset...second I was not surprised.
Some reasons....some studio girls have no way of getting in touch with you outside of CC and once they quit the studio they can't go back. They may or may not have a PC at home but if they don't have a way to contact you out of CC...then forget it. So if you are not in her video on or around the time she leaves...no goodbyes.
You are in the final analysis....a customer. A good customer perhaps. Friendly, funny, generous, sweet...but a customer. When the commercial relationship ends and that commercial relationship was the sole basis of your interaction...what's the point? Like your favorite waitress quits a restaurant you went to on a regular basis. One day they are gone....you wish you could say ..thanks for bringing me my english muffin and laughing at my jokes. But...she is gone from your life forever...so move along.
I think few are being rude. I feel hosts view members a lot different than members view hosts. Members..well...we drink the Kool Aid...we buy the fantasy...the osts sell the fantasy...and when the time comes all you have is the memory of the fantasy...and that's life.
Some reasons....some studio girls have no way of getting in touch with you outside of CC and once they quit the studio they can't go back. They may or may not have a PC at home but if they don't have a way to contact you out of CC...then forget it. So if you are not in her video on or around the time she leaves...no goodbyes.
You are in the final analysis....a customer. A good customer perhaps. Friendly, funny, generous, sweet...but a customer. When the commercial relationship ends and that commercial relationship was the sole basis of your interaction...what's the point? Like your favorite waitress quits a restaurant you went to on a regular basis. One day they are gone....you wish you could say ..thanks for bringing me my english muffin and laughing at my jokes. But...she is gone from your life forever...so move along.
I think few are being rude. I feel hosts view members a lot different than members view hosts. Members..well...we drink the Kool Aid...we buy the fantasy...the osts sell the fantasy...and when the time comes all you have is the memory of the fantasy...and that's life.
RE: At the very least
Men are incredible romantics....they fall in love with women even when there isn't the slightest chance of reciprocation...women like romance...big difference. They ration their love and are generally more careful giving it to anyone. Men....next hot girl who pays attention to me...I love you...and it CC...hot girls who pay attention to you is the special of the day.
RE: At the very least
Is it that you just want to know? Or did you want Her to tell you? Someone here may know.
RE: question to members
no tattoos-it's a turn off on a woman body-looks trashy-cheap-sorry that's just my advice-some men do like it, but not me
RE: question to members
"sorry but why u think women need care of your opinion?someone ask 4 this?"
if you have read the original post, yes she asked for our opinions.
my opinion is, that art looks great when printed on paper, or painted to canvas, but when it is copied to someones skin, it looks disturbing
if you have read the original post, yes she asked for our opinions.
my opinion is, that art looks great when printed on paper, or painted to canvas, but when it is copied to someones skin, it looks disturbing
RE: question to members
it depends on the tattoo for me , a small flower on her arm or leg is no big deal ,a huge tattoo on there back and im looking for someone else.
RE: question to members
I actually like tattoos on a woman..have many myself..as long as they are done tastefully they can be quite sexy. Just make it original.. nothing from a book in a tattoo shop. Make it personal about you.
RE: question to members
True, But I liked them on girls before I got one on my self ;)
Are you a host with Tattoos..
Are you a host with Tattoos..
RE: question to members
I don't like them, and always end up imagining what they will look like when the girl is in her 50s or older. Sometimes I think they never consider what the future might bring when getting them.
RE: question to members
No one is saying that someone does not have the right to decide how they look. The original poster asked guys to express their opinions on whther they liked tattos on girls or found them sexy and so the guys are giving their opinions. For me it depends on the design, execution and how it suits the girl.
My impression is that few if any members only visit hosts who have tattoos whereas there are a lot of members who will not see any hosts who have tattoos so my recommendation to hosts is that any tattoo should be quite small and discrete and not at the bottom of her back (called by some the "tramp stamp").
My impression is that few if any members only visit hosts who have tattoos whereas there are a lot of members who will not see any hosts who have tattoos so my recommendation to hosts is that any tattoo should be quite small and discrete and not at the bottom of her back (called by some the "tramp stamp").
RE: question to members
She asked for opinions about girls with tatoo's and gus are expressing their feelings about it. No need to defend your choice to have them...the majority of men still won't like them. You made your choice and just be content with it. You won't change any man's opinion about them...period! If this is your business here then you will probably get men that are either loving them or it doesn't matter but it will probably drive away men that don't like them.
RE: question to members
Do you find yourself imagining what a host's face, hands, neck, boobs etc are going to look like when she is 50 or older? If not why do you think about this when she has a tattoo?
RE: question to members
actually I have thought of such things, I think of a lot of things when I see a host,. Of course a great attitude can overcome most anything as far as physical looks are concerned.
But sometimes the thought just hits me "what were they thinking" when I see something like a tattoo or even some of the cloths women wear. Also the teenage boys that have the plastic circles in their earlobes that look like large buttons, and then say they are going to go to Law School or Premed when they go to college, it will be very difficult for them to get a job looking as such. Everyone is free to express themselves as they wish, but many times there are also future consequences to consider too.
But sometimes the thought just hits me "what were they thinking" when I see something like a tattoo or even some of the cloths women wear. Also the teenage boys that have the plastic circles in their earlobes that look like large buttons, and then say they are going to go to Law School or Premed when they go to college, it will be very difficult for them to get a job looking as such. Everyone is free to express themselves as they wish, but many times there are also future consequences to consider too.
RE: question to members
A lot of employers and men feel the way they are expressing here unless they are the tatoo crowd. I find the opinions that are expressed here are the majority so it doesn't surprise me at all. Think you might want to think hard before you decide to get one.
RE: question to members
The one I wanted to get was supposed to be well hidden :)
I had employers that were asking if I had any tattoos, but a job wouldn't be the reason not to get a tattoo.
I have thought about it for pretty long, so I know what to expect, but it will take some time before I can have one, for different reasons :)
I had employers that were asking if I had any tattoos, but a job wouldn't be the reason not to get a tattoo.
I have thought about it for pretty long, so I know what to expect, but it will take some time before I can have one, for different reasons :)
RE: question to members
Limited discrete tattoos are ok. But for the most part I think it mars a beautiful woman's body. I have a single tattoo on my arm but at the beach I see hundreds of young men and women who disfigure themselves with hideous tattoos with no apparent message or theme or sense. Tattoos are largely forever. Start small. Or wait until you are 30 to get a tattoo...something meaningful.
RE: question to members
Generally I don't like large tattoos, but I've seen some gorgeous tattoos, large and small, on both men and women in Hawaii.
RE: question to members
I'm not totally against tattoos but the porn star type ones at the base of the spine are a little boring. Given a choice between tattoos and no tattoos I would choose no tattoos but I certainly would not let a tattoo put me off a girl I found attractive. Sophea, trixster's recommendation on the viewer's forum is a good example.
RE: question to members
Small tats dicreetly placed are OK, but if it can't be covered by a beer can lid, it's too big wherever it is on the skin.
No tats please!
a woman's body is something to be worshipped and revered for its purity and beauty...WITHOUT markings to destroy the clear, soft perfection. Some say it is individuality. Take a look in the mirror and in this world of billions of people there is no other that looks as you do in this mirror. .02
RE: Looking for u
You obviously cared enough to keep track of his email. Can't you email his ccmail here? And why are you agreeing to meet him, especially around something like giving birth to your child, but you haven't already had contact outside of here?
strange stuff
strange stuff
RE: Looking for u
Maybe after having virtual sex that she found out that he is indeed the father of the baby. He knew this would happen and yet she was in denial and now has realized that they didn't use virtual protection and sure enough the second one came along.... She can contact him in her video room when she goes into labor and whalaa he can be one the first to see their virtually conceived and delivered baby..... What is strange about that??
RE: Looking for u
Avr0ra, Good luck with your future newborn baby! But I feel sorry for children because of no father around and take care of them :(
best viewer contest
we should make a modest and honest contest to let the best viewers win. those who are nice, have no problems, who dont behave narcistic, those, who are just made for winning it all.
well, in any way, we all know, who will shine in the top 3. me!
well, in any way, we all know, who will shine in the top 3. me!
RE: best viewer contest
no, that rob will get a minus from me. obviously he is a wanker. and he probably puts a label on everything. that is not healthy. and only healthy viewers, such as me, can climb up the ladder to the top of that contest.
RE: best viewer contest
i fear the guest spending the most time in chat and thus with the biggest wallet would win, not necessarily the nicest understanding guest. but it would depend on who can vote.
RE: best viewer contest
true. that would be a weak point of me. the big wallet. but i am confident, that it does not harm my position in the top3. especially with this "not understanding" i gain many points. who wants an understanding viewer? nono.
RE: best viewer contest
So you will come 3rd, behind me and one other, no one remembers who finishes 3rd.
Unless you post on here everyday that you finished 3rd, then we might.
Unless you post on here everyday that you finished 3rd, then we might.
RE: best viewer contest
obviously it'd be a hard choice between imshy, imnotyourfriend and tisme,they are the greatest!
RE: best viewer contest
Yes it would be a hard choice but eventually one of us would emerge as the "winner" and come last.
RE: best viewer contest
that would be a tough one cos there are a few viewers that i would vote for and not because of the amount they spend but because of how they are and how they treat me not only in text but also in video.
I have been very fortunate to have met a number of very nice viewers who have been very respectful and have treated me like a person and not a piece of meat.
I think they should have a contest, but i am not sure it would be a fair contest as i think cc would pick those that spend alot of money only and i think that many hosts would pick the viewer who spends the most money in her video and that would just not be fair.
So maybe two contests. .....one contest for the viewer who spends the most and one contest for the best all round viewer which would be based on other things and not how much he spends.
the second contest would be the most interesting and fun, because we hosts know who would be just pretending to be all the right things for the contest compared to those viewers who have always been the had best viewer qualities. AND AGAIN THE SECOND CONTEST WOULD HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HOW MUCH THE VIEWER SPENT IN VIDEO.
There are a number of viewers that altho are here for sexual release are still very respectful and treat hosts like people and not like some street walker or something that they stepped in.
Very kewl idea!!!
I have been very fortunate to have met a number of very nice viewers who have been very respectful and have treated me like a person and not a piece of meat.
I think they should have a contest, but i am not sure it would be a fair contest as i think cc would pick those that spend alot of money only and i think that many hosts would pick the viewer who spends the most money in her video and that would just not be fair.
So maybe two contests. .....one contest for the viewer who spends the most and one contest for the best all round viewer which would be based on other things and not how much he spends.
the second contest would be the most interesting and fun, because we hosts know who would be just pretending to be all the right things for the contest compared to those viewers who have always been the had best viewer qualities. AND AGAIN THE SECOND CONTEST WOULD HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HOW MUCH THE VIEWER SPENT IN VIDEO.
There are a number of viewers that altho are here for sexual release are still very respectful and treat hosts like people and not like some street walker or something that they stepped in.
Very kewl idea!!!
RE: best viewer contest
The only contests we will ever see is the current format.
As a viewer I only expect a host to perform to the requirements of her category or to what is stated either in her profile or by what she has promised in free chat.
As a viewer I only expect a host to perform to the requirements of her category or to what is stated either in her profile or by what she has promised in free chat.
RE: best viewer contest
Just one question. Is a member who treats a host like a street walker or something they stepped in still respectful if they have both agreed to this before the video starts :D
RE: best viewer contest
loooool....ok even tho we all know that you know the answer to your own question, I will indulge you and answer it anyway...lool
If the host and member agreed that he can treat her like that then yes of course, if she feels that he is the best viewer.
I think you know perfectly well what I meant by members who treat a host like a street walker or something he stepped in....loool.
Have a good day my dear. :)
If the host and member agreed that he can treat her like that then yes of course, if she feels that he is the best viewer.
I think you know perfectly well what I meant by members who treat a host like a street walker or something he stepped in....loool.
Have a good day my dear. :)
RE: best viewer contest
Best viewer would be the most generous in the eyes of hosts....bottom line...members don't make hosts happy...a fat paycheck does...so is life.
RE: best viewer contest
I understand completely. I run a buisness. I have customers I really like and it is a pleasure to do business with them. And I have ones I have to force myself to be pleasant with. But at the end of the day...my best customer is the one who purchased the most, purchases it regularly, keeps the busines going, employees paid and makes me the most profit. Now if you ask who is my favorie customer I would mention the nice people who come in, chat, sometimes make a small purchase....but I can't make a living with them alone.... and neither could you.
RE: best viewer contest
You are right a person who does not make you alot of money will not do your business very well, altho on the other side of that customer who does not spend alot yet thinks your company is a good one will tell others and recommend you.
But this question is about the best viewer contest, and I think it is a good idea to have two contests, one for the hosts that will vote for the member who spends a lot and one for the true best viewer with the amount of money spent not being a factor.
I see how difficult host is considerate enough to think of both types of viewers. And I for one would enjoy the second contest a lot more than the first one.
As I have a number of viewers that visit my room and the best viewer in my opinion has nothing to do with the amount of money they spend or do not spend.
However, I do wonder if all hosts will be honest in the second contest and leave the money part of it out and vote for the best viewer based on the viewer and not his wallet....
But this question is about the best viewer contest, and I think it is a good idea to have two contests, one for the hosts that will vote for the member who spends a lot and one for the true best viewer with the amount of money spent not being a factor.
I see how difficult host is considerate enough to think of both types of viewers. And I for one would enjoy the second contest a lot more than the first one.
As I have a number of viewers that visit my room and the best viewer in my opinion has nothing to do with the amount of money they spend or do not spend.
However, I do wonder if all hosts will be honest in the second contest and leave the money part of it out and vote for the best viewer based on the viewer and not his wallet....
RE: best viewer contest
Name in blue= member is in chat
Name in green= member is in videochat :)
Name in green= member is in videochat :)
RE: best viewer contest
Well my dear if you insist on thinking that all hosts think the same way then yes in your world that is how it will go. altho I do not think you read all of what I said. there would need to be two contests for those hosts that only go by the amount of money a member spends and then another contest where how much a viewer spends has nothing to do with it.
To me a viewer does not have to spend alot of money to be the best viewer, for me it is all in how the viewer treats me and how he makes me feel. The viewer who is the most generous is not always the best viewer, but in fact can also be the hardest member to deal with.
And I am sorry to disagree with you but your statment of "members don't make hosts happy...a fat paycheck does..." does not apply to all hosts. but again if you want to categorize all hosts as that way, which is not only very wrong and unfair, then in your world that is how it will be.
There are a number of members that come by my room that make me happy and the amount of money they spend or do not spend has nothing to do with it. I have some members that come only to my text and talk with me and the way they treat me lets me know that there are still some good men out there. And I also have members that come to video that do not spend alot of money and they make me happy because they also let me know that there are still some good men out there.
It is ashame how people clump all hosts in the same category as those hosts that are only money hungry and dont care about the person, just like it is wrong and unfair for hosts to categorize all members as jerks...
Please don't assume that all hosts are the same and that all members are the same, we are all individuals with sooo many different qualities to us that make us all unique.
Will the day ever come when people will stop categorizing and assuming that all people are the same as those that have screwed others over in one way or another. Will people ever truly look at an individual and go by how that person is rather than assuming that all are cold hearted bitches and mean crude jerks?
Yesssssssssssss I know I am dreaming.....looool
To me a viewer does not have to spend alot of money to be the best viewer, for me it is all in how the viewer treats me and how he makes me feel. The viewer who is the most generous is not always the best viewer, but in fact can also be the hardest member to deal with.
And I am sorry to disagree with you but your statment of "members don't make hosts happy...a fat paycheck does..." does not apply to all hosts. but again if you want to categorize all hosts as that way, which is not only very wrong and unfair, then in your world that is how it will be.
There are a number of members that come by my room that make me happy and the amount of money they spend or do not spend has nothing to do with it. I have some members that come only to my text and talk with me and the way they treat me lets me know that there are still some good men out there. And I also have members that come to video that do not spend alot of money and they make me happy because they also let me know that there are still some good men out there.
It is ashame how people clump all hosts in the same category as those hosts that are only money hungry and dont care about the person, just like it is wrong and unfair for hosts to categorize all members as jerks...
Please don't assume that all hosts are the same and that all members are the same, we are all individuals with sooo many different qualities to us that make us all unique.
Will the day ever come when people will stop categorizing and assuming that all people are the same as those that have screwed others over in one way or another. Will people ever truly look at an individual and go by how that person is rather than assuming that all are cold hearted bitches and mean crude jerks?
Yesssssssssssss I know I am dreaming.....looool
pubes, pubes and more pubes, or not.
How do you like yours and why?
Hairy - I like it for a change but not normally, too much hair getting in my mouth and all that. Can look quite sexy when there's not too much.
Trimmed - This is my favourite, no hair getting in my mouth just abit to tickle my nose and reassure me she is real woman, also looks the best in my opinion.
Shaved bald - So long as it's recently shaved or waxed then it's good for oral, but if it's got a 12 O'clock shadow then it's like licking a porcupine (apparently) Just doesn't look right in my opinion, as a very rare change it's ok (variety being the spice of life)
Finally should the top match the tail, in colour?
In my mind the classical look would be yes, matching colour, but sometimes i like a striking dark bush on a blonde.
Hairy - I like it for a change but not normally, too much hair getting in my mouth and all that. Can look quite sexy when there's not too much.
Trimmed - This is my favourite, no hair getting in my mouth just abit to tickle my nose and reassure me she is real woman, also looks the best in my opinion.
Shaved bald - So long as it's recently shaved or waxed then it's good for oral, but if it's got a 12 O'clock shadow then it's like licking a porcupine (apparently) Just doesn't look right in my opinion, as a very rare change it's ok (variety being the spice of life)
Finally should the top match the tail, in colour?
In my mind the classical look would be yes, matching colour, but sometimes i like a striking dark bush on a blonde.
RE: pubes, pubes and more pubes, or not.
people u ashamed that u dont know, pubes hair is for protection anti dirty genitals of men and women
RE: pubes, pubes and more pubes, or not.
i like trimmed and neat hairy :) landing strip should be thick not just like 1 inch of line :P
RE: pubes, pubes and more pubes, or not.
My ex-bf always shave all there, I didnt like it, I prefer all natural. :P
RE: pubes, pubes and more pubes, or not.
Go with the seasons. None in summer, a light growth autumn and spring .... and a good old bush for Xmas ..... just add a vagazzle to look like a christmas tree
RE: pubes, pubes and more pubes, or not.
I appreciate a girl shaving it completely. I know it is a pain and hard to maintain but for me it is the best and I show my appreciation orally and that generally makes it worthwhile for the lady. A small landing strip is second best. A big jungle sized rain forest turns me off.
A viewer friendly profile
The following is my kind of girl
"Pole in room!toys,squirt,anal,orgazm,many outfits.Also i enjoy FULL FIST my teen pussy hole in to session."
This was copied and pasted from an actual profile in IA. Yet there are viewers that go to IA to chat. And there are hosts in not shy saying they are not hardcore hosts in their profile. Wouldn't it be nice if all hosts were in their proper category?
"Pole in room!toys,squirt,anal,orgazm,many outfits.Also i enjoy FULL FIST my teen pussy hole in to session."
This was copied and pasted from an actual profile in IA. Yet there are viewers that go to IA to chat. And there are hosts in not shy saying they are not hardcore hosts in their profile. Wouldn't it be nice if all hosts were in their proper category?
RE: A viewer friendly profile
Yes totally agree with hosts being in proper category!!
The regulars that come to see me in Softcore would not be turned on by that profile at all....and complain when they see that stuff in Softcore. That is why there are so many categories to please the viewers that all have different tastes. I think that the girls that aren't in the right category should be penalized someway. Tired of seeing slaves come into Glam and trying to turn me into an abusive Mistress because there are so many there.....
The regulars that come to see me in Softcore would not be turned on by that profile at all....and complain when they see that stuff in Softcore. That is why there are so many categories to please the viewers that all have different tastes. I think that the girls that aren't in the right category should be penalized someway. Tired of seeing slaves come into Glam and trying to turn me into an abusive Mistress because there are so many there.....
RE: A viewer friendly profile
Category definition being MINIMUM requirements that a host should fulfill if required, why do you wish to police it and forbide a host in Not so Shy to offer more if she is in a mood, and a nice chat to take place fully clothed between a guest and an IA host, if both like it that way?
RE: A viewer friendly profile
It is always best welcomed the viewer that comes in video politely with nice words, asking how is my day, asking about me, and without any hurries. I hate the 2 mins guys that only say strip, pussy, doggy, dildo. I love it when viewer has a good conversation and never mentions stripping. I have many of these viewers that I love so much. They make me feel good in a nice way. I feel they care about me. Only thing is that I feel guilty becuase I know sometimes they have real feelings for me and want to meet me and I have to lie to them, but its what they want to hear that matter not what I feel, but its not my problem. They are older to und. and I am here to be a virtual pleaser as my boss says.
RE: A viewer friendly profile
"I hate the 2 mins guys that only say strip, pussy, doggy, dildo. I love it when viewer has a good conversation and never mentions stripping. I have many of these viewers that I love so much"
And you are in IA?????? WTF?????????? It is your job to strip immediately and play with toys!
And you are in IA?????? WTF?????????? It is your job to strip immediately and play with toys!
RE: A viewer friendly profile
Cool down, you are not her boss, I guess, nor a barking dog, as animals are banned on the site.
One thing you don't seem to understand: believe me, a girl will offer you much more for your money if you respect her and treat her well - it's not only a standard profile sentence that is void of contents...
One thing you don't seem to understand: believe me, a girl will offer you much more for your money if you respect her and treat her well - it's not only a standard profile sentence that is void of contents...
RE: A viewer friendly profile
"and forbide a host in Not so Shy to offer more if she is in a mood"
Hosts in not so shy are required to do full nude show. If they are not in mood they should not be on line here.
A member can go to IA and chat til the cows come home. However if he is open and another member comes in and asks for show, the host must comply. However if the chatting member takes the host 121, he can chat til his credit card maxes out.
Hosts in not so shy are required to do full nude show. If they are not in mood they should not be on line here.
A member can go to IA and chat til the cows come home. However if he is open and another member comes in and asks for show, the host must comply. However if the chatting member takes the host 121, he can chat til his credit card maxes out.
RE: A viewer friendly profile
I agree on all points, adding I usually don't enter a room where a guy is already in open, because in everyday life I don't jump into a conversation between 2 people without being invited to do so.
I'm well aware some users like to rush into a busy chatroom with the hope to skip the introduction and be instantly in the hottest part of the show... Maybe your choice,not mine
I'm well aware some users like to rush into a busy chatroom with the hope to skip the introduction and be instantly in the hottest part of the show... Maybe your choice,not mine
no joke
on a beautiful summer's day,2 american tourists are driving through wales.at the famous town of llanfairpwllgywngyllgogerychwrndrobwlllantsiliogogogch(yes it is real name,hope my spelling is ok),they stop for lunch & 1 of the tourists asks the waitress:'before we order,i wonder if you could settle an argument for us.can you pronounce where we are,very,very slowly?"
the girl leans over & says"burrr....gurrrr king" :--)
the girl leans over & says"burrr....gurrrr king" :--)
There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
I have no issue with hosts venting in this forum and yes members do it too, but no paying customer needs to put up with all this whining while he is spending his money in pvt. And this happens more than you may expect. And yes there are members are happy to have a host whine on their nickel. And certain hosts get used to this from these members and think all members are happy to put up with this whining in pvt. Hosts like to say they are all unique and no 2 are the same. Well how about members? Do you think we are all alike?
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
" Came here with one purpose and believe you're the kings, because some are treating you like that."
There actually is another site that states on their home page that the member is king. And my wife doesn't charge by the minute for sex.
There actually is another site that states on their home page that the member is king. And my wife doesn't charge by the minute for sex.
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
The difference being we dont pay our wives or girlfriends by the minute...
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
Lets divorce with them and will pay much more then to any host.
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
"some are rude, some are mean, some are extremely boring, some are cheap, some have the IQ that goes with the size of their shoe. "
Wow have we ever had a video because that sure sounds like me :P
Wow have we ever had a video because that sure sounds like me :P
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
Would you like some cheese with that whine? ;)
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
You sound very French (AC sounds like AOC) and if you are French, don't forget bread! (du vin, du pain, du Boursin!)
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
ummm correct me if i'm wrong,but you're not a paying customer while you're reading"whiny hosts"in this forum,if i am wrong & you are a paying customer while you're reading this forum,may i respectfully suggest,you're doing something very wrong :---)
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
oops,my apologies OP,i should've finished reading before i was so quick to type.guess it shows i could put my fingers to better use.sorry :--(
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
It would be easier if I let you know when I wasn't feeling horny tisme.
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
Tisme is always interested in members horn ............
RE: There are many whiny ass hosts on this site
Wow that surprises me that a member would pay money to hear a host whine!! Sounds like a member could just stay home and listen to his wife or go to a bar...
My question is why would any member pay for that here and second why in the world are the whiners that are defending that action here think they have a valid point? Seems like they would be very poor quickly....second thought they probably are!!
Girls if you are to that point you should get another job or take some time off.....guys hate drama!! Wonder if they are the same that say it is so sloooowww in my room and I can't make any money!
My question is why would any member pay for that here and second why in the world are the whiners that are defending that action here think they have a valid point? Seems like they would be very poor quickly....second thought they probably are!!
Girls if you are to that point you should get another job or take some time off.....guys hate drama!! Wonder if they are the same that say it is so sloooowww in my room and I can't make any money!
A question for hosts, an easy one!
Can you communicate with each other using CC Mail like you can with members?
RE: Dear Members...
Again I'm different. I am more than happy with the things I can have rather than the forbidden fruits. But then I am a very lazy bastard.
Having said that there are a few forbidden fruits I would like to "peel" but, as I said below, if they can make a living not do shows then good luck to them. Not seeing them naked is just a loss I will have to accept.
There is something here for everyone so lets all just have fun fun fun.
Having said that there are a few forbidden fruits I would like to "peel" but, as I said below, if they can make a living not do shows then good luck to them. Not seeing them naked is just a loss I will have to accept.
There is something here for everyone so lets all just have fun fun fun.
RE: Dear Members...
", i mean if your horny choose the hadrcore category, "
Too many in the not so sure category think they are in Glamour or little shy and do not do as they should in that category.
Too many in the not so sure category think they are in Glamour or little shy and do not do as they should in that category.
RE: Dear Members...
Use your rights to make a difference then and speak up through ratings, posting in her profile or viewers forum and write CC!! To just complain does nothing but let her continue to do the same thing!
RE: Dear Members...
Why is it wrong for a host to do stripping or hardcore on other sites, where per minute prices are higher, but not do that on CC?
RE: Dear Members...
In your original post you said "Im sure many glam host or lil shy work on other sites that involves hardcore action and thats very wrong and not correct ..." . My question is why do you consider this wrong? A host is free to choose the category she want s to work in on CC. WHat she does on other sites is not relevant to what she does here.
RE: Dear Members...
Good point EE! I second, and besides price may be different if service is not the same, also if some chathost is working in 2 different categories in CC
RE: Dear Members...
hmmm... what's wrong with a host doing more hardcore stuff on another site? It's her business. A member might be upset to find that out, but oh well... if she can deal with that, or if she is upfront about it or doesn't otherwise hide it, then I don't see the problem.
There was a blonde goddess who did the opposite... she was non-adult on another site but did shows here. What pissed me off was she didn't admit to this when asked. But hey, she didn't suffer when she lost my business loool.
There was a blonde goddess who did the opposite... she was non-adult on another site but did shows here. What pissed me off was she didn't admit to this when asked. But hey, she didn't suffer when she lost my business loool.
RE: Dear Members...
Sorry that you felt betrayed but every site has rules to not talk about
other sites with members. I follow those rules because it will get a
host permanently terminated from a site.
other sites with members. I follow those rules because it will get a
host permanently terminated from a site.
RE: Dear Members...
Yes, I understand that, and you are absolutely correct. The rules don't extend to yahoo messenger, though, and she had ample opportunity to let me know about cc. So, I got played, and I learned a lesson.
RE: Dear Members...
The issue is that some hosts strip sometimes and not others or some members and not others. Very common. I think host who don't strip should welcome a guest to their room...with Hi..I don't strip rather than the standard Hi...HRU? Get it out there in your opening remarks. Of course...strip has a variety of meanings. Some host strip to lingerie or bikini....some strip topless only but cover their breasts...some strip bare breasted. Some remove their panties part way...some flash body parts...some remove all clothing but cover their vertical smile....some take everything off. And most confusing some hosts do certain of those things as their mood, pocketbook, time of the month, regular status of the member, etc...dictate. So dont always blame the member ..though if you say no is no....he should give it up.
RE: Dear Members...
Yes you can rate her bad but she can remove anything she wants from her personal forum
RE: Dear Members...
I think it is amusing when members think they know exactly how all men think!! Take notes because from a host in softcore it is fact that not all guys come to a hosts room to see her naked!! Many want to develop a relationship and like the fact that she is a bit shy and not ripping off her clothes. Many choose to slowly seduce the host rather than her take the initiative. Many want her to feel comfortable with getting to know him before she shows anything.
The point being that if you want a definite strip and you're on a time clock then never go to softcore unless she specifically advertises NUDE SHOW and don't take for granted that other guys think like you do. The hosts that are not shy at all, use toys, strip quickly are actually hardcore hosts in the wrong category if they are in softcore and not the other way around.
In softcore I might develop a great relationship with a member and we have our own terms that we choose in private but it does not mean that it should be expected for me to strip by anyone that enters.....but just the opposite.
The point being that if you want a definite strip and you're on a time clock then never go to softcore unless she specifically advertises NUDE SHOW and don't take for granted that other guys think like you do. The hosts that are not shy at all, use toys, strip quickly are actually hardcore hosts in the wrong category if they are in softcore and not the other way around.
In softcore I might develop a great relationship with a member and we have our own terms that we choose in private but it does not mean that it should be expected for me to strip by anyone that enters.....but just the opposite.
RE: Dear Members...
Its all about guys wanting a steak dinner on a cheese burger budget here.. they look for the hottest girl with the cheapest price and then bitch when they don't get what they want..
RE: Tired of scammers
You 2 should put in your profiles you only flirt in pvt and to go to IA for nude show.
RE: Tired of scammers
"he can expect shows outside the site"
I saw you outside of cc on another site the first time in your pvt. But that was a hardcore site and you are required to do hardcore there.
I saw you outside of cc on another site the first time in your pvt. But that was a hardcore site and you are required to do hardcore there.
RE: reply to actual viewer
"here on cc i do the same, if a guy wants more i just say pls lets go 121, simple
u want to know anything else? or to attack me in another way?"
I'm not attacking you, just stating the truth, 121 does not change the category or the host's choice.
u want to know anything else? or to attack me in another way?"
I'm not attacking you, just stating the truth, 121 does not change the category or the host's choice.
RE: reply to actual viewer
Are you in softcore here and hardcore on another site at the same time?? If so you just contradicted yourself above....
RE: reply to actual viewer
"stripping teasing caressing my body becoming playfull n naughty, this is accepted in softcore category" Yes it is and so is just talking. And in my pvts you talked here and did a naked show on the site that requires one.
RE: Tired of scammers
This is why I avoid Glamour.... Thanks for giving me more reasons to stay away from this category...
RE: Tired of scammers
Well, RadioBaby, at least these guys are honest... all they want is an honest wank, no false romance, just hard and fast.
Do you think the Glamour category creates a certain amount of ambiguity, creating the climate for one or the other party possibly to lead the other on? And that could be promises of nakedness, or promises of romance.
I don't mean that as a leading question... perhaps this is the issue a lot of members have with the category. Buyer beware (and seller too, I guess).
Do you think the Glamour category creates a certain amount of ambiguity, creating the climate for one or the other party possibly to lead the other on? And that could be promises of nakedness, or promises of romance.
I don't mean that as a leading question... perhaps this is the issue a lot of members have with the category. Buyer beware (and seller too, I guess).
RE: Tired of scammers
There might be hosts that lead members to believe there is more from their profile but no that is not true of all in Glamour.
RE: Tired of scammers
and what about the hosts who tell members how much they miss them and they love them? if it was just to 1 member i could believe it but when they are saying it to half their visitors, what do you call that but a con?
RE: Tired of scammers
Then if that is true that she loves a member then that member should ask her if she wants a relationship outside of the site and if she says yes then he could provide his personal information and if she doesn't respond then that is the truth!! Many guys come into chat wanting personal contact on messenger outside of the site. Those would be considered cheap scammers.
RE: Tired of scammers
I'm different. I call the girls whore when we first meet and then I try to get them to fall in love with me. Surprisingly none of them ever have :(
RE: Tired of scammers
This place is all about head trips. Hosts trying to fool members and members trying to fool hosts. It is about domination, and emotional and psychological supremacy, it is a fantasy and a game, it is a clash of genders and cultures. It is who can outsmart the other...but ultimately it is about sex and money. In the end the host has the money but lost some of her dignity so she feels she won. The members has been sexually satisfied but "made" a girl do what he wanted and felt he won....the truth...both got what they wanted and paid the price....
RE: Tired of scammers
Pefect post. I am looking for a girl on here with exatly your attitude. Wish you had listed your name.
RE: Tired of scammers
'host', of course working here does not make you a 'bad person'. it is ok. you hosts here on camcontacts do a great job and are the best! but why do you worry about it? what is so bad being a little cheap and slutty in a professional way? not every girl can do that! you are special. you are all cool with being used and serving what a paying stranger tells you to do. that is what makes you all so great and successful in here!
and now let me tell you my guest side. i am a very busy businessman. i rarely stay in a place for too long. and where I am now it is difficult to even get my welldeserved quick satisfaction after a hard working day. i would love to invest the time in a long date with expensive wine and romantic dinner in exotic atmosphere but i am just too busy. i am not searching for love or romance here. just some nice worthwhile virtual company and chat for an hour to get help for my quick honest wank on some pretty face at the end. in my opinion it is exactly the same in here on camcontacts maybe on a little smaller level than working as a prostitute on your side when i sometimes order an escort on my side. it is sexual satisfaction vs money and no real names. but who cares since all feel happy and pleased?
i need what you do for me and i gladly share a bit of my hard earned money with you wonderful wonderful openhearted girls!
and now let me tell you my guest side. i am a very busy businessman. i rarely stay in a place for too long. and where I am now it is difficult to even get my welldeserved quick satisfaction after a hard working day. i would love to invest the time in a long date with expensive wine and romantic dinner in exotic atmosphere but i am just too busy. i am not searching for love or romance here. just some nice worthwhile virtual company and chat for an hour to get help for my quick honest wank on some pretty face at the end. in my opinion it is exactly the same in here on camcontacts maybe on a little smaller level than working as a prostitute on your side when i sometimes order an escort on my side. it is sexual satisfaction vs money and no real names. but who cares since all feel happy and pleased?
i need what you do for me and i gladly share a bit of my hard earned money with you wonderful wonderful openhearted girls!
RE: Tired of scammers
I say yes too most of your things, jarle. The girls here on camcontacts do all very good jobs. Thank you all!
RE: Tired of scammers
it is not only 'jobs' like you post. these are PROFESSIONAL sexual services they offer and provide for our complicated demands!
but please do not kill the mood with starting to feel guilty! keep smiling and just do not think too much about all the stuff written here.
thank you and keep it up, girls!
but please do not kill the mood with starting to feel guilty! keep smiling and just do not think too much about all the stuff written here.
thank you and keep it up, girls!
RE: Tired of scammers
"This place is all about head trips. Hosts trying to fool members and members trying to fool hosts. It is about domination, and emotional and psychological supremacy, it is a fantasy and a game, it is a clash of genders and cultures. It is who can outsmart the other.."
Yes I have to agree with that.
Yes I have to agree with that.
RE: Tired of scammers
I agree with you (but not in such harsh words or feelings) when a guy comes into my chat or video and then asks if I have Yahoo, skype etc from then on. Just because I am single and on here doesn't mean I want a personal relationship with someone who comes into my room and I am nice to and enjoy.
I do not come here with the intention of having a relationship in my private life. If it happened that there was a great connection and I wanted a personal relationship then I would offer it!! Men are hunters though so I guess that is how they think.
I do not come here with the intention of having a relationship in my private life. If it happened that there was a great connection and I wanted a personal relationship then I would offer it!! Men are hunters though so I guess that is how they think.
RE: Tired of scammers
I am surprised that this is the majority of the members that come to see you that behave this way. Why else would you post this to all members and hosts? I don't have it happen that often so my suggestion to you is that why don't you post on your profile that I am not here for a personal relationship and do not ask me for my private contact information. Seems that it would be much more effective for you personally.
RE: Tired of scammers
I read though this entire thread twice and see how your opening post totally changes to something else..correct me if I'm wrong but you started by saying your tired or becoming close with a member who then only think because you might want to take the friend ship to a different level all they want from you is free video sex and you then realize what you really mean to them.. not closer friends but just a just a whore..
And it ends up to people saying you shouldn't work in glamor but only IA and shouldn't promise sex shows in glamor if your not going to deliver..
Odd how people warp things here.. or maybe I just got lost along the way.. either way.. I am sorry that you offer a little piece of your soul to someone with hopes of respect and all you get back is disappointment.
And it ends up to people saying you shouldn't work in glamor but only IA and shouldn't promise sex shows in glamor if your not going to deliver..
Odd how people warp things here.. or maybe I just got lost along the way.. either way.. I am sorry that you offer a little piece of your soul to someone with hopes of respect and all you get back is disappointment.
RE: Tired of scammers
Maybe i did something wrong...
I never saw my fav lady nude here on cc, had many flirts and started to like here more and more. I never asked here to give me free show outside of cc, but i had vid-chats outside cc, when she was at home. But also there i never asked her for stripping on such a vid-chat and also never saw her naked on vid.
But i meet her in real, i went to her place lately and i wish i can go over again very soon.
If there are real emotions, it's definitely not needed to get nud masturbate even not here on cc and not outside of cc. on the other hand it's also not needed to spend hours and hours on cc or other sites like this to prove anything...
we usually don't have vid on cc anymore so i can safe money to go over again sooner and i also don't ask her for get off her clothes.
can't wait to see in here sparkling eyes in real...
I never saw my fav lady nude here on cc, had many flirts and started to like here more and more. I never asked here to give me free show outside of cc, but i had vid-chats outside cc, when she was at home. But also there i never asked her for stripping on such a vid-chat and also never saw her naked on vid.
But i meet her in real, i went to her place lately and i wish i can go over again very soon.
If there are real emotions, it's definitely not needed to get nud masturbate even not here on cc and not outside of cc. on the other hand it's also not needed to spend hours and hours on cc or other sites like this to prove anything...
we usually don't have vid on cc anymore so i can safe money to go over again sooner and i also don't ask her for get off her clothes.
can't wait to see in here sparkling eyes in real...
RE: Tired of scammers
may my words confused you...."we usually don't have vid on cc anymore so i can safe money to go over again.." i shall say, since march we didn't had any vid over cc....
so your argument doesn't count here.
but i agree with you, that many host play games with members and members with hosts, like its the topic of this thread.
and even when it's not a dating site, this doesn't mena that it doesn't happen.
so your argument doesn't count here.
but i agree with you, that many host play games with members and members with hosts, like its the topic of this thread.
and even when it's not a dating site, this doesn't mena that it doesn't happen.
RE: Tired of scammers
"Be sincere and you will get it back. Peace to freebies:P"
No, that's rarely the case on cam sites.
No, that's rarely the case on cam sites.
Chat vs Show
The softcore categories get criticized a lot by members for not doing shows in pvt and just chatting. But the girls are not obligated to do a show as they are in the so called nude required categories of not so shy, instant action and strip hi lo. Even though little shy states "You can expect something more than just chatting - a strip show, some soft core action, or more depending on how shy the Chathost is feeling!" But in reality we all know she can just sit and type. And that is just how cc has it set up. And apparently there is no shortage of members coming on site and happy to pay just to chat.
There are many girls I have talked to in the software categories that used to be in not shy or IA and decided they got tired of doing shows and could make as much or more talking. So for members to complain in this forum about lack of nudity in softcore, has no effect as long as there are members coming on site paying for chat.
There are many girls I have talked to in the software categories that used to be in not shy or IA and decided they got tired of doing shows and could make as much or more talking. So for members to complain in this forum about lack of nudity in softcore, has no effect as long as there are members coming on site paying for chat.
RE: Chat vs Show
Whilst I prefer a show rather than just chatting you are absolutely right. If the girls do not want to strip and get enough business from the chatters then I say good luck to them (although beautiful girls should realise that God did not give them that great body to keep it covered up :D)
Just one question though. Where do I find the software category ? :P
Just one question though. Where do I find the software category ? :P
what is going on with archive photos?
i responded to one message in tech area, maybe here get a better answer. for at least a few months, photos either do not load at all, or take forever to load. i know cc was trying to make some improvements, anybody else having this issue while browsing archive pics?
RE: what is going on with archive photos?
Yep. Its a major pain in the ass trying to get the pictures to load now. Frustrating.
RE: what is going on with archive photos?
anybody having any kind of success with any particular browser over another in this matter? or are there any kind of settings that need to be adjusted in browser? i use internet explorer on a vista box.
The host matters not the category?
I saw someone post that in here recently. I both agree and disagree. Yes each host is an individual but I've seen the same host react differently on other sites because the site rules are different.
What I mean by that is there are some hosts here that chat only in pvt but on other sites they are on, they do a hardcore show. In some cases they are following the orders of their studio admin but I do know or 3 cases where the girls operate on their own from their own home.
So yes each host is unique but rules matter.
What I mean by that is there are some hosts here that chat only in pvt but on other sites they are on, they do a hardcore show. In some cases they are following the orders of their studio admin but I do know or 3 cases where the girls operate on their own from their own home.
So yes each host is unique but rules matter.
joke
Two blonde girls were talking and one couldn't help but notice how pretty and beautiful the others skin was. So she asked her outright what made her skin so soft and beautiful."Well, once a week I fill the bathtub with milk and just soak in it."
So the blonde went to a farm and spoke to the farmer. "I'd like a lot of milk."
"How much?" asked the farmer.
"Well, quite a lot because I'm going to soak in it."
He asked, "Pasteurized?"
"No...just up to my boobies."
So the blonde went to a farm and spoke to the farmer. "I'd like a lot of milk."
"How much?" asked the farmer.
"Well, quite a lot because I'm going to soak in it."
He asked, "Pasteurized?"
"No...just up to my boobies."
RE: joke
You can find it on you tube in "Ernie the fastest Milkman in the West" by Benny Hill. This is from 1970 and the joke wasn't new then.
Help2
A girl with 3 initials. Lol. While I'm here perhaps the guys would be willing to describe the taste of a woman. IMO, tuna.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
It is a business. But there are not the restrictions of what you speak.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
98% business 2% dating, whereas the latter is not prohibited by the site's rules.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
It is mainlt business but CC does allow meeting in real.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
sure first person ever to agree with me and hes afraid to use his real name ..lol
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
If I ever find myself agreeing with you Thomas I will remain anonymous too :P
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Understandable answer thomas but personally I've found CC to be flexible, different things at different times for me. God bless Eurostar and Russian Railways! )
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
i think you can be friends with host ally , but thats as far as it should go .
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
99% of time its business for hosts, no matter what they might spin you about meeting it real
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Host = business 100% - Members dating = 100% . ok so its not 100% but damn close admit it
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
took you awhile to understand that , but you finally got it .
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Clearly its not perceived as a dating site by most members, as they seem to express incredulity at the meetings which other members do relate as having happened
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
thank you all- ok so meeting someone from far... no way :d
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Unless you won lotto then, u can go out with any ladies in the world! hehehe
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
If I ever win then my favourites list will be turning into my lottery list.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
if I ever win it better be big cuz I am planning on dating all those bad money hungry girls from Tver!
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
since I live in here its a dating site for me--i'm afraid to go out on real dates so I stay here at cc and date--thank you cc for everything
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Yes you are also right EzyMK2. You talk like a real man! Here is only cash for sex not more. Everytime the same. After some I understand warm up chat I am here to j*** of to talking pretty face and not more. No real feelings or friend.
In glamour first I talk every hostess to dance, then to show underwear then to show a little to check body and when I like I talk the girl to meet in real it is not to date it is to f*** the glamour hostess and have my fun and please me. CC is very good and like a anonymous sex club for hostess and us guests.
So advice from Alpha when you date is to not give away your full name or number and make it a holiday trip out of it with bonus special reward f*** for you for all the cash you payed the hostess in chat. Have fun and use her to do what you want and not more. After that visit other hostess profiles. No regrets here.
Not feelings or dating it is just cash.
In glamour first I talk every hostess to dance, then to show underwear then to show a little to check body and when I like I talk the girl to meet in real it is not to date it is to f*** the glamour hostess and have my fun and please me. CC is very good and like a anonymous sex club for hostess and us guests.
So advice from Alpha when you date is to not give away your full name or number and make it a holiday trip out of it with bonus special reward f*** for you for all the cash you payed the hostess in chat. Have fun and use her to do what you want and not more. After that visit other hostess profiles. No regrets here.
Not feelings or dating it is just cash.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
cash for sex makes you a "real man"? learn new definitions for that term everyday))))))))))))))))
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
you, buddy... you cracked Me up. your nickname only reflects your delusion of grandeur. Judging from your attitude as well as your failed attempt at bragging, you have no idea what a "real man" is. you forgot to tell us all how the hosts you "dated" praised you for being a complete and total stud. Alpha my a**.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Very good question, and why is that ?? Cause more than 50% from the hosts are dating with members in real life. All starts when the member enter in video for few times , then exchange emails or other personal infos , and then SOME members ask for "more"(cause a man will always try his luck ;) ) and SOME , so called VIDEOchat hosts accept "more" than the VIDEO session.
Cause in the end is about a VideoSession thats why is called VIDEOCHAT!!
But in our days everyone has a price and you can very well notice how the girls set their video price and of course how far HOSTS can go for some extra money.
Cause in the end is about a VideoSession thats why is called VIDEOCHAT!!
But in our days everyone has a price and you can very well notice how the girls set their video price and of course how far HOSTS can go for some extra money.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
"Cause more than 50% from the hosts are dating with members in real life. "
Its lying hosts like you that give cc a bad name. You sound like the kind of host to promise the world in pvt and then squirm out of doing a show.
Its lying hosts like you that give cc a bad name. You sound like the kind of host to promise the world in pvt and then squirm out of doing a show.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Listen blondie , let me say it again with another words in english maybe now you will understand me : <br />
I am a host for like 7 years and what i do and what i can do in video it shows in all the shows that i have them with my members,and also for your knowledge go and read my feedback\'s and decide with your lil brain what i am able to do in a show!<br />
Now let me explain you something else , i dont like hosts that give to videochat sites a bad reputation, do you understand me now?<br />
So if you still dont get what i just explain , then sweetie you better hush .. ok ?? Cause i was complaining about girls that give a bad reputation ok.. ?? Unless you are one of them and you feel offended.............. ;)
I am a host for like 7 years and what i do and what i can do in video it shows in all the shows that i have them with my members,and also for your knowledge go and read my feedback\'s and decide with your lil brain what i am able to do in a show!<br />
Now let me explain you something else , i dont like hosts that give to videochat sites a bad reputation, do you understand me now?<br />
So if you still dont get what i just explain , then sweetie you better hush .. ok ?? Cause i was complaining about girls that give a bad reputation ok.. ?? Unless you are one of them and you feel offended.............. ;)
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
you make her seem like a TS, none of my business of course )
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
50% of hosts at some point meet/date a member (or members)... yep, that sounds about right, actually. Might even be higher... hosts have needs and dreams too... and not every member is a troll (although most are, from what I'm told).
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Its a business for the hosts and a virtual adult fun for me. I dont date women in real life I have too much going on my life and I dont have time for the stupid details like dinner or flowers and I dont want to catch any STD from the pros. This site is just perfect for me, but I would never think of this site as a dating site, thats just for boys with lots of fantasies in their heads :-P
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
yes, it is easier here! and in the real world you cannot pay just any stranger girl after a few minutes to smile at you while having to watch and encourage you jerking off in front of her. i love the promiscuous slutty pros here on camcontacts!
so thank you all for helping me after a hard working day, hosts, you are all doing a great job!
so thank you all for helping me after a hard working day, hosts, you are all doing a great job!
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
and at the end the fantasy will bite you in the ass if it ever becomes real, hahahaha
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Some may have brains and fantasies at the same time! Good thing it is not forbidden!
Personally I don't think a site should be either dating or business site. Obviously all sites can be both. Meeting with chathosts gives another dimension than talking on video and you may get real friends among them too.
Personally I don't think a site should be either dating or business site. Obviously all sites can be both. Meeting with chathosts gives another dimension than talking on video and you may get real friends among them too.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Its a dating site for me-I enjoy going in private for a video instead of going out on a date-I have had more dates here then anywhere else and I can date more then 1 woman that's the best part of this site and they don' t get jealous like women out on real dates. Thanks CC for your service and most of all thank you host for being here for us members, especially me for dating me. Love you and bless you.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
I think when people say dating site, they mean a site that sets up real world dates, not cyber dates.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
a date is a date-no matter if real-cyber-or dream-its a date to me-thank you
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Its a business with clear benefits from both sides, But also brings together people who would not normally meet.
This is always a great thing as we get to understand more about different cultures and countries, for me , it also led to a trip to Russia and Latvia, that would never have happened if not for the friends I made here.
This was a life changing experience and gave me a much better view on life from another direction. I am still in contact with 3 friends, for over 9 years now, 2 have visited and stayed in UK with me, and I have tried to give back the generous time that was given me on my travels. I have never met such wonderful and generous people.
Thx-
So it ended up being both and also much more for me, friends for life maybe ...
This is always a great thing as we get to understand more about different cultures and countries, for me , it also led to a trip to Russia and Latvia, that would never have happened if not for the friends I made here.
This was a life changing experience and gave me a much better view on life from another direction. I am still in contact with 3 friends, for over 9 years now, 2 have visited and stayed in UK with me, and I have tried to give back the generous time that was given me on my travels. I have never met such wonderful and generous people.
Thx-
So it ended up being both and also much more for me, friends for life maybe ...
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Finally, a responsible and sober post. With all of the garbage we are all used to seeing in this forum, your post is very refreshing and honest. Thank you.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
It is amazing where people find love. ANY and I repeat ANY situation that gets men and women together...even just over the web...creates an opportunity for romance. Now some places are more likely to lead to a relationship but CC...beautiful girls and needy wealthy men....anything can happen.
RE: password sessions
That is correct, also, there are many hosts who password sessions for free to their fav members once in a while, but just for a chat, no show. But guys will always imagine there's a whole lot more going on, keeps them focused on reaching goals haha.
RE: password sessions
Discounts for 5 minute men? Every host I CC mailed about password session replied she only did for big spending regular viewers. In 10 years here, I have never been offered a free show , free talk in pvt, or even a discounted show even from hosts I have spent thousands in pvt.
RE: password sessions
Exactly, the myth of spending thousands of $$$ and getting a free private with password as a reward is bullshit. The hosts do free private with password is for other reasons.
RE: password sessions
Few years ago - yes, I've been around for quite a while - here were girls offering a free open session on cam, it was even one of CC's advertisment basis: "come and join free, it costs you nothing, and occasionally you may find a girl offering a free show". In the Who's on line list, there was a distinct green symbol identifying a free session going on. I wonder whether it still exists!?
Obviously some other sites with open cam chat may have "killed" this CC feature
Obviously some other sites with open cam chat may have "killed" this CC feature
RE: password sessions
In my new game "Spin the wheel loser", Players that get a "X" win 10 min free pasword session/121...
Sweet Kisses..
Sweet Kisses..
RE: Is there anyone that lives in Milano o Rimini/riccione?pls help
My mom and dad moved to Milano 12 years ago and still live there. Rent for a 1 bed flat starts from about 600 euro in bad areas and can go to a few thousand if you want it in the Duomo area with designer furniture!
RE: Is there anyone that lives in Milano o Rimini/riccione?pls help
I rented a room in Milano for a student in my family for a year. Internet search and Google street view were best tools to find. Rents were in the order of magnitude 550 - 700 euros per month, best area was close to Bocconi university and other high schools. Transportation by metro / tram / bus is rather convenient in Milano
Changes at cc
No, I'm not suggesting any new changes. I know better. But the only real changes I've seen since 2000 are the addition of Glamour Girls, Instant Action and Not So Shy. In the beginning there was little shy and girls home alone. Also c2c was added and just recently 4 screen sizes. But other than that, I don't think anything has changed. If I'm wrong, I will no doubt hear from other posters. Oh how could I forget the contests. Now I do know of one change the hosts would love but cheap members will object to and that is tipping. So I doubt there will be any changes in the future, except possibly making the entire site softcore. Well cc is certainly unique. Does anyone see any possible changes to come in the future?
RE: Changes at cc
"I know at least 10 other sites where girls are mixed(no category,just page 1,2,3,so on) and they are free to do whatever they want includeing missleading guests with fake profiles and pics and wrong languages (cause nowhere says about porn or getting naked,just "live sexy girls""right in your room,etc,etc),lol,and often many fall after these 'tricks",it's all about hosts willing to earn more and more and the methods she chooses; sometimes the naked ones earn very little,haha,cause men cum too fast!!! "
Yes I've been to those sites too
Yes I've been to those sites too
RE: Changes at cc
I don't have any desire to be on those sites because of how they do their business that is why I am at CC. So why change CC to be like the other ones??
If a host wants that then wouldn't it be easier for her to just go to those sites instead of changing CC to fit?? Same for viewers ..if the viewers are aware of those sites and then come here ....doesn't that speak for itself?
If a host wants that then wouldn't it be easier for her to just go to those sites instead of changing CC to fit?? Same for viewers ..if the viewers are aware of those sites and then come here ....doesn't that speak for itself?
RE: Changes at cc
I feel like CC doesn't have to try to be lightening speed ahead of others and I think that it is good that they pick and choose what is important and best for all. It just feels like a fun site that I can count on everything working right with minimal technical issues and not overloading with too many options that most don't even know what they are for. Actually I like the simplicity and the predictability here so that everyone can use the site with ease. Just my opinion of course. I love CC as it is but I am sure I haven't been here as long as you either. Hope that doesn't offend you...
RE: Changes at cc
What I personally like about CC is precisely the fact that it didn't change a whole lot from what it was in '99, compared to the other site we had back then, and the sites that came on the market in the following years. Most of them are unrecognizable nowdays. I am happy with the tech changes, yes, speaking of which, from the hosts' side, I would like a kick button feature:) I would also like a separate section of the photo gallery where we can upload hi-res pictures. But tips, free preview and other features most other sites have, no thanks.
RE: Changes at cc
~I would like a kick button feature:) "
I've been kicked out of several pvts. I get you are ignored message.
I've been kicked out of several pvts. I get you are ignored message.
RE: Changes at cc
Being ignored and being kicked are completely different things, I know there are ways to get rid of unwanted guests, but we currently have no "official" method, like the one I mentioned.
RE: Changes at cc
Members should get first 30 seconds of the video free. Sometimes what you see in the pics is not what you see in video. It might be the same person, but the pic was taken 5 years ago then they used photoshop....
RE: Changes at cc
I would prefer not to be on video the entire time I am online. Would feel like I am in the zoo :)
RE: Changes at cc
30 seconds is plenty. That would even leave me 10 seconds at the end for chatting :P
RE: Changes at cc
That surprises me that girls would do that but I take your word for it. I honestly suggest that you leave a note in her forum (it can be anonymous) something like I would have stayed longer but since your pictures are so out of date I felt deceived and lost interest. Seems to me like some honest comments to the hosts that do not follow the standard expectations could be told without being rude and there is also a rating system to reflect your disappointment. Certainly this would not apply to the majority of girls on the site. Most are exhibitionists and love having their pics taken and understand the value of updating and having new pics. Seems better than changing the entire site because of a few.
RE: Changes at cc
Since 2000 sound was added and also the 121 feature. We have lost a few categories (eg friends and family, escorts) and I think fetish was added sometime after 2001.
RE: Changes at cc
You are correct sir, how could I forget 121. And I completely forgot about sound. But Fetish was here.
RE: Changes at cc
the window size for the strip HiLo sessions could still be enlarged, at my age, I don't see that well any more! ;-)
RE: Help
"The cum of older men seems to have a better taste."
You're welcome to taste my cum anyday
You're welcome to taste my cum anyday