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A girl with 3 initials. Lol. While I'm here perhaps the guys would be willing to describe the taste of a woman. IMO, tuna.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
It is a business. But there are not the restrictions of what you speak.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
98% business 2% dating, whereas the latter is not prohibited by the site's rules.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
It is mainlt business but CC does allow meeting in real.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
sure first person ever to agree with me and hes afraid to use his real name ..lol
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
If I ever find myself agreeing with you Thomas I will remain anonymous too :P
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Understandable answer thomas but personally I've found CC to be flexible, different things at different times for me. God bless Eurostar and Russian Railways! )
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
i think you can be friends with host ally , but thats as far as it should go .
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
99% of time its business for hosts, no matter what they might spin you about meeting it real
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Host = business 100% - Members dating = 100% . ok so its not 100% but damn close admit it
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
took you awhile to understand that , but you finally got it .
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Clearly its not perceived as a dating site by most members, as they seem to express incredulity at the meetings which other members do relate as having happened
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
thank you all- ok so meeting someone from far... no way :d
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Unless you won lotto then, u can go out with any ladies in the world! hehehe
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
If I ever win then my favourites list will be turning into my lottery list.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
if I ever win it better be big cuz I am planning on dating all those bad money hungry girls from Tver!
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
since I live in here its a dating site for me--i'm afraid to go out on real dates so I stay here at cc and date--thank you cc for everything
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Yes you are also right EzyMK2. You talk like a real man! Here is only cash for sex not more. Everytime the same. After some I understand warm up chat I am here to j*** of to talking pretty face and not more. No real feelings or friend.
In glamour first I talk every hostess to dance, then to show underwear then to show a little to check body and when I like I talk the girl to meet in real it is not to date it is to f*** the glamour hostess and have my fun and please me. CC is very good and like a anonymous sex club for hostess and us guests.
So advice from Alpha when you date is to not give away your full name or number and make it a holiday trip out of it with bonus special reward f*** for you for all the cash you payed the hostess in chat. Have fun and use her to do what you want and not more. After that visit other hostess profiles. No regrets here.
Not feelings or dating it is just cash.
In glamour first I talk every hostess to dance, then to show underwear then to show a little to check body and when I like I talk the girl to meet in real it is not to date it is to f*** the glamour hostess and have my fun and please me. CC is very good and like a anonymous sex club for hostess and us guests.
So advice from Alpha when you date is to not give away your full name or number and make it a holiday trip out of it with bonus special reward f*** for you for all the cash you payed the hostess in chat. Have fun and use her to do what you want and not more. After that visit other hostess profiles. No regrets here.
Not feelings or dating it is just cash.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
cash for sex makes you a "real man"? learn new definitions for that term everyday))))))))))))))))
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
you, buddy... you cracked Me up. your nickname only reflects your delusion of grandeur. Judging from your attitude as well as your failed attempt at bragging, you have no idea what a "real man" is. you forgot to tell us all how the hosts you "dated" praised you for being a complete and total stud. Alpha my a**.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Very good question, and why is that ?? Cause more than 50% from the hosts are dating with members in real life. All starts when the member enter in video for few times , then exchange emails or other personal infos , and then SOME members ask for "more"(cause a man will always try his luck ;) ) and SOME , so called VIDEOchat hosts accept "more" than the VIDEO session.
Cause in the end is about a VideoSession thats why is called VIDEOCHAT!!
But in our days everyone has a price and you can very well notice how the girls set their video price and of course how far HOSTS can go for some extra money.
Cause in the end is about a VideoSession thats why is called VIDEOCHAT!!
But in our days everyone has a price and you can very well notice how the girls set their video price and of course how far HOSTS can go for some extra money.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
"Cause more than 50% from the hosts are dating with members in real life. "
Its lying hosts like you that give cc a bad name. You sound like the kind of host to promise the world in pvt and then squirm out of doing a show.
Its lying hosts like you that give cc a bad name. You sound like the kind of host to promise the world in pvt and then squirm out of doing a show.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Listen blondie , let me say it again with another words in english maybe now you will understand me : <br />
I am a host for like 7 years and what i do and what i can do in video it shows in all the shows that i have them with my members,and also for your knowledge go and read my feedback\'s and decide with your lil brain what i am able to do in a show!<br />
Now let me explain you something else , i dont like hosts that give to videochat sites a bad reputation, do you understand me now?<br />
So if you still dont get what i just explain , then sweetie you better hush .. ok ?? Cause i was complaining about girls that give a bad reputation ok.. ?? Unless you are one of them and you feel offended.............. ;)
I am a host for like 7 years and what i do and what i can do in video it shows in all the shows that i have them with my members,and also for your knowledge go and read my feedback\'s and decide with your lil brain what i am able to do in a show!<br />
Now let me explain you something else , i dont like hosts that give to videochat sites a bad reputation, do you understand me now?<br />
So if you still dont get what i just explain , then sweetie you better hush .. ok ?? Cause i was complaining about girls that give a bad reputation ok.. ?? Unless you are one of them and you feel offended.............. ;)
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
you make her seem like a TS, none of my business of course )
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
50% of hosts at some point meet/date a member (or members)... yep, that sounds about right, actually. Might even be higher... hosts have needs and dreams too... and not every member is a troll (although most are, from what I'm told).
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Its a business for the hosts and a virtual adult fun for me. I dont date women in real life I have too much going on my life and I dont have time for the stupid details like dinner or flowers and I dont want to catch any STD from the pros. This site is just perfect for me, but I would never think of this site as a dating site, thats just for boys with lots of fantasies in their heads :-P
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
yes, it is easier here! and in the real world you cannot pay just any stranger girl after a few minutes to smile at you while having to watch and encourage you jerking off in front of her. i love the promiscuous slutty pros here on camcontacts!
so thank you all for helping me after a hard working day, hosts, you are all doing a great job!
so thank you all for helping me after a hard working day, hosts, you are all doing a great job!
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
and at the end the fantasy will bite you in the ass if it ever becomes real, hahahaha
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Some may have brains and fantasies at the same time! Good thing it is not forbidden!
Personally I don't think a site should be either dating or business site. Obviously all sites can be both. Meeting with chathosts gives another dimension than talking on video and you may get real friends among them too.
Personally I don't think a site should be either dating or business site. Obviously all sites can be both. Meeting with chathosts gives another dimension than talking on video and you may get real friends among them too.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Its a dating site for me-I enjoy going in private for a video instead of going out on a date-I have had more dates here then anywhere else and I can date more then 1 woman that's the best part of this site and they don' t get jealous like women out on real dates. Thanks CC for your service and most of all thank you host for being here for us members, especially me for dating me. Love you and bless you.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
I think when people say dating site, they mean a site that sets up real world dates, not cyber dates.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
a date is a date-no matter if real-cyber-or dream-its a date to me-thank you
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Its a business with clear benefits from both sides, But also brings together people who would not normally meet.
This is always a great thing as we get to understand more about different cultures and countries, for me , it also led to a trip to Russia and Latvia, that would never have happened if not for the friends I made here.
This was a life changing experience and gave me a much better view on life from another direction. I am still in contact with 3 friends, for over 9 years now, 2 have visited and stayed in UK with me, and I have tried to give back the generous time that was given me on my travels. I have never met such wonderful and generous people.
Thx-
So it ended up being both and also much more for me, friends for life maybe ...
This is always a great thing as we get to understand more about different cultures and countries, for me , it also led to a trip to Russia and Latvia, that would never have happened if not for the friends I made here.
This was a life changing experience and gave me a much better view on life from another direction. I am still in contact with 3 friends, for over 9 years now, 2 have visited and stayed in UK with me, and I have tried to give back the generous time that was given me on my travels. I have never met such wonderful and generous people.
Thx-
So it ended up being both and also much more for me, friends for life maybe ...
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
Finally, a responsible and sober post. With all of the garbage we are all used to seeing in this forum, your post is very refreshing and honest. Thank you.
RE: cc is a dating site or business site ?
It is amazing where people find love. ANY and I repeat ANY situation that gets men and women together...even just over the web...creates an opportunity for romance. Now some places are more likely to lead to a relationship but CC...beautiful girls and needy wealthy men....anything can happen.
RE: password sessions
That is correct, also, there are many hosts who password sessions for free to their fav members once in a while, but just for a chat, no show. But guys will always imagine there's a whole lot more going on, keeps them focused on reaching goals haha.
RE: password sessions
Discounts for 5 minute men? Every host I CC mailed about password session replied she only did for big spending regular viewers. In 10 years here, I have never been offered a free show , free talk in pvt, or even a discounted show even from hosts I have spent thousands in pvt.
RE: password sessions
Exactly, the myth of spending thousands of $$$ and getting a free private with password as a reward is bullshit. The hosts do free private with password is for other reasons.
RE: password sessions
Few years ago - yes, I've been around for quite a while - here were girls offering a free open session on cam, it was even one of CC's advertisment basis: "come and join free, it costs you nothing, and occasionally you may find a girl offering a free show". In the Who's on line list, there was a distinct green symbol identifying a free session going on. I wonder whether it still exists!?
Obviously some other sites with open cam chat may have "killed" this CC feature
Obviously some other sites with open cam chat may have "killed" this CC feature
RE: password sessions
In my new game "Spin the wheel loser", Players that get a "X" win 10 min free pasword session/121...
Sweet Kisses..
Sweet Kisses..
RE: Is there anyone that lives in Milano o Rimini/riccione?pls help
My mom and dad moved to Milano 12 years ago and still live there. Rent for a 1 bed flat starts from about 600 euro in bad areas and can go to a few thousand if you want it in the Duomo area with designer furniture!
RE: Is there anyone that lives in Milano o Rimini/riccione?pls help
I rented a room in Milano for a student in my family for a year. Internet search and Google street view were best tools to find. Rents were in the order of magnitude 550 - 700 euros per month, best area was close to Bocconi university and other high schools. Transportation by metro / tram / bus is rather convenient in Milano
Changes at cc
No, I'm not suggesting any new changes. I know better. But the only real changes I've seen since 2000 are the addition of Glamour Girls, Instant Action and Not So Shy. In the beginning there was little shy and girls home alone. Also c2c was added and just recently 4 screen sizes. But other than that, I don't think anything has changed. If I'm wrong, I will no doubt hear from other posters. Oh how could I forget the contests. Now I do know of one change the hosts would love but cheap members will object to and that is tipping. So I doubt there will be any changes in the future, except possibly making the entire site softcore. Well cc is certainly unique. Does anyone see any possible changes to come in the future?
RE: Changes at cc
"I know at least 10 other sites where girls are mixed(no category,just page 1,2,3,so on) and they are free to do whatever they want includeing missleading guests with fake profiles and pics and wrong languages (cause nowhere says about porn or getting naked,just "live sexy girls""right in your room,etc,etc),lol,and often many fall after these 'tricks",it's all about hosts willing to earn more and more and the methods she chooses; sometimes the naked ones earn very little,haha,cause men cum too fast!!! "
Yes I've been to those sites too
Yes I've been to those sites too
RE: Changes at cc
I don't have any desire to be on those sites because of how they do their business that is why I am at CC. So why change CC to be like the other ones??
If a host wants that then wouldn't it be easier for her to just go to those sites instead of changing CC to fit?? Same for viewers ..if the viewers are aware of those sites and then come here ....doesn't that speak for itself?
If a host wants that then wouldn't it be easier for her to just go to those sites instead of changing CC to fit?? Same for viewers ..if the viewers are aware of those sites and then come here ....doesn't that speak for itself?
RE: Changes at cc
I feel like CC doesn't have to try to be lightening speed ahead of others and I think that it is good that they pick and choose what is important and best for all. It just feels like a fun site that I can count on everything working right with minimal technical issues and not overloading with too many options that most don't even know what they are for. Actually I like the simplicity and the predictability here so that everyone can use the site with ease. Just my opinion of course. I love CC as it is but I am sure I haven't been here as long as you either. Hope that doesn't offend you...
RE: Changes at cc
What I personally like about CC is precisely the fact that it didn't change a whole lot from what it was in '99, compared to the other site we had back then, and the sites that came on the market in the following years. Most of them are unrecognizable nowdays. I am happy with the tech changes, yes, speaking of which, from the hosts' side, I would like a kick button feature:) I would also like a separate section of the photo gallery where we can upload hi-res pictures. But tips, free preview and other features most other sites have, no thanks.
RE: Changes at cc
~I would like a kick button feature:) "
I've been kicked out of several pvts. I get you are ignored message.
I've been kicked out of several pvts. I get you are ignored message.
RE: Changes at cc
Being ignored and being kicked are completely different things, I know there are ways to get rid of unwanted guests, but we currently have no "official" method, like the one I mentioned.
RE: Changes at cc
Members should get first 30 seconds of the video free. Sometimes what you see in the pics is not what you see in video. It might be the same person, but the pic was taken 5 years ago then they used photoshop....
RE: Changes at cc
I would prefer not to be on video the entire time I am online. Would feel like I am in the zoo :)
RE: Changes at cc
30 seconds is plenty. That would even leave me 10 seconds at the end for chatting :P
RE: Changes at cc
That surprises me that girls would do that but I take your word for it. I honestly suggest that you leave a note in her forum (it can be anonymous) something like I would have stayed longer but since your pictures are so out of date I felt deceived and lost interest. Seems to me like some honest comments to the hosts that do not follow the standard expectations could be told without being rude and there is also a rating system to reflect your disappointment. Certainly this would not apply to the majority of girls on the site. Most are exhibitionists and love having their pics taken and understand the value of updating and having new pics. Seems better than changing the entire site because of a few.
RE: Changes at cc
Since 2000 sound was added and also the 121 feature. We have lost a few categories (eg friends and family, escorts) and I think fetish was added sometime after 2001.
RE: Changes at cc
You are correct sir, how could I forget 121. And I completely forgot about sound. But Fetish was here.
RE: Changes at cc
the window size for the strip HiLo sessions could still be enlarged, at my age, I don't see that well any more! ;-)
RE: Help
"The cum of older men seems to have a better taste."
You're welcome to taste my cum anyday
You're welcome to taste my cum anyday
NinaRicciXXX
I just get out of her chatroom , i went in there pretty horny to have a wank , her pictures are really hot and sexy, but when i got into the room i got a big suprise ... very erotic lady , perfect body with a great smile and her show was down to earth. Finally got happy for once in here , no wasting of time , no please baby do this or do that or please can i see you. 5 Stars for the lady and a place on my favorites and new friends
to a guy who posted about his trip to russia in viewers forum
I can say only -LOL and thanks for the good words about my country.:)
Posting using screen names?
There have been many posts wanting it required that all post with their screen names. Sounds good at first, but when you consider both hosts and members can and do have multiple screen names.
For example, a member who has 5 names could start a post as member A, and reply to his own post 4 more times using B, C, D and E. So unless CC were to limit all of us to one screen name, its rather pointless to require a screen name to post here.
For example, a member who has 5 names could start a post as member A, and reply to his own post 4 more times using B, C, D and E. So unless CC were to limit all of us to one screen name, its rather pointless to require a screen name to post here.
RE: Oral Sex
Come on fellas! Someone is actually asking us what we want. We got to take advantage of the opportunity.
Ok. for me, there are definitely good bj's and bad bj's. Instead of focusing on what we like in a bj, it's probably best to focus on what we don't like. Remember, we're guys and when it comes to sex our thinking isnt done with the head that's on our shoulders.
Anyway, so first of all teeth should not be part of a bj. Even when some of u ladies like to tease us and start playfully biting down like ur munching on a corn on the cob. It's not funny! Keep the teeth away. Second, please please please dont tease us by kissing around the thing. We don't care about teasing. Just get right to it. Third don't forget the balls. They like to join in the fun too. Just be careful. Too much manipulating can result in some serious discomfort. Finally, when it comes to the happy ending, i don't think you can go wrong if you take it in the mouth or not. If you got your man to that point you should already pat yourself on the back (actually it's really not that big of a feat). Personally, I enjoy when it's taken in the mouth and she continues to play with it even beyond that sort of tingling hypersensitive stage.
To sum up, it's probably harder to give a bad bj than a good one. Just remember to use the soft parts of the mouth. Don't be afraid to get creative. I'm not talking about trying to dress the thing up to make a puppet show, or pretending you're on american idol using it as a microphone. Just let it the moment flow. Don't just do the same "in and out" motion and try different techniques. For example, the "harmonica" move is a nice touch. You may want to try it. As for deep throating, practice first. Some guys get into that gagging thing. Not moi!
Anyway, that's my 2 cents worth. Not sure if it helps. But thank you for asking us what we like for a change. Now, if I can only find someone who will give me a bj.
Ok. for me, there are definitely good bj's and bad bj's. Instead of focusing on what we like in a bj, it's probably best to focus on what we don't like. Remember, we're guys and when it comes to sex our thinking isnt done with the head that's on our shoulders.
Anyway, so first of all teeth should not be part of a bj. Even when some of u ladies like to tease us and start playfully biting down like ur munching on a corn on the cob. It's not funny! Keep the teeth away. Second, please please please dont tease us by kissing around the thing. We don't care about teasing. Just get right to it. Third don't forget the balls. They like to join in the fun too. Just be careful. Too much manipulating can result in some serious discomfort. Finally, when it comes to the happy ending, i don't think you can go wrong if you take it in the mouth or not. If you got your man to that point you should already pat yourself on the back (actually it's really not that big of a feat). Personally, I enjoy when it's taken in the mouth and she continues to play with it even beyond that sort of tingling hypersensitive stage.
To sum up, it's probably harder to give a bad bj than a good one. Just remember to use the soft parts of the mouth. Don't be afraid to get creative. I'm not talking about trying to dress the thing up to make a puppet show, or pretending you're on american idol using it as a microphone. Just let it the moment flow. Don't just do the same "in and out" motion and try different techniques. For example, the "harmonica" move is a nice touch. You may want to try it. As for deep throating, practice first. Some guys get into that gagging thing. Not moi!
Anyway, that's my 2 cents worth. Not sure if it helps. But thank you for asking us what we like for a change. Now, if I can only find someone who will give me a bj.
RE: Oral Sex
good to know chump...you seem to experience it a lot, bravo!:)) So, you guys do like us to continue after cumming..:P
RE: Oral Sex
That was great!!
Question: Does it increase the sensation if she takes a shot of Tequila prior and adds the lime and salt to Mr. Happy? Whip Cream? Pop Rocks? Just curious or is that too creative...lol
Question: Does it increase the sensation if she takes a shot of Tequila prior and adds the lime and salt to Mr. Happy? Whip Cream? Pop Rocks? Just curious or is that too creative...lol
RE: Oral Sex
I am actually flexible enough and my penis is big enough that
I can blow myself. But I don't do this because it does not feel anything as close to as fantastic as when a woman does it. Maybe it is like we can not tickle ourselves; it just does not work. I read less than one percent of men can achieve this anyway. So yeah, doing myself is a bad BJ.
It is posts like this that make me thankful I can be anonymous..:).
I can blow myself. But I don't do this because it does not feel anything as close to as fantastic as when a woman does it. Maybe it is like we can not tickle ourselves; it just does not work. I read less than one percent of men can achieve this anyway. So yeah, doing myself is a bad BJ.
It is posts like this that make me thankful I can be anonymous..:).
RE: Oral Sex
Maybe you should consider a second job hosting here...as a host I would even pay to come see that ;))
RE: Oral Sex
I would be in the Not-Very -Glamorous-DownRightUgly -Category.
And it would take you multiple sessions to get me to perform. Not because I would be trying to tease you.....mostly just because I am inhibited and would have to be in exactly the right mood. I don't know how you chicks pull it off but I am eternally grateful that you do.
And it would take you multiple sessions to get me to perform. Not because I would be trying to tease you.....mostly just because I am inhibited and would have to be in exactly the right mood. I don't know how you chicks pull it off but I am eternally grateful that you do.
RE: some chages in Yaroslavl
the taxi from aeroport domodedovo to yaroslavl cost 360 $ if you take it from this drivers which suggest you taxi right away in aeroport.:) i fly almost every months so i know what im talking about >:) to take cheaper taxi will cost you 40$ if it will be transfer where are 4 person in mini bus, or 180$ if it is the personal car, but in this case your friend will need to orginize such trip for you from yaroslavl.so its mean the yaroslavl taxi will come in moscow and will take you from aeroport to your hotel. moscow drivers will ask you crazy money. espesialy if the will see that you are not russian. good luck >:)
RE: some chages in Yaroslavl
Thanks for the "updated" information to both of you. Its greatly appreciated. It's good to know there is still good people around :-)
RE: some chages in Yaroslavl
why would you spend all your money on a taxi-get a girlfriend there to come and pick you up at the airport.
RE: some chages in Yaroslavl
Thanks for the update , was a few years since there, enjoyed my time a lot, plenty of nice places to see and the river is amazing, had some great Bar B q's there, much free'r there than in UK. My friend there came in taxi to collect me from airport and yes was much less expensive so thats the way to do it for sure. is metro bar still open ? , some lovely bars actor bar ? and clubs there, - took train last time to st peter , the overnight is a great experience.. hope to return as have open invite from still very good friends, 2 who left CC a few years ago.
contest coming?
i am seeing more of the regulars online (or i guess i mean the ones who always work during the contests)
Interesting Topic
If your tired of the same old chat and same topics and need something else to do or listen to, I have a idea and you might be interested in to hear, just look for me in community chat room when i'm online and private message me in pm (I will not answer in public-sorry), if you like the same old chat, disregard this message and carry on on whatever you were doing.
RE: Why not?
I think there are a couple of things that are worth thought....#1 being do you look like your pictures or do you have photo shopped pics or outside on the beach, etc. Can be that if you do not look like your pics then they will leave. #2 There are many hosts that a nosey and want to know what their competition is doing. If they ask you to strip then she knows you do and leaves. She also might be there to hurt your rating so that she looks better or she is jealous. She also might have her bf checking about you and reporting back. Think about if a guy asks you to take off your clothes and you start right away why would he leave? No way but a girl would. #3 If your pics only show body parts and not face then they might be curious and yet you might not be who they thought you were.....There are also a lot of Studio Bosses that are snooping around.
Good Luck You did not mention what category or what rating you have that could also say alot.
Good Luck You did not mention what category or what rating you have that could also say alot.
RE: Why not? - A member's perspective
Since it appears that no member has answered the question directed to members.... here goes....
1) it may be that the member is simply browsing. Sometimes before committing money to a videochat, the member just wants to have a look. To see if the host looks as good as her pictures. If a member is just browsing, he probably doesn't want to get involved in a conversation beyond basic hellos, because then he might feel obligated to do a private. Browsers are often just looking, shopping, getting ideas for future visits, "comparing the merchandise" in one chatroom with the "merchandise" in another chatroom, and deciding on best deal. Like when you go into a clothing store and the clerk says, "May I help you?" and you answer "Just looking," but really you are just looking for ideas or trying to find the best buys.
2) it may be that they are shy, first timers or inexperienced with videochat, and they freeze up and then exit. It happens
3) "Wife's home," or "Someone's here," or "The kids just walked in," are sometimes just excuses for wanting to leave without hurting the host's feelings... but sometimes the reasons are valid. Wives do come home, friends do come to visit, kids do walk in.... it happens (so don't assume they are just "excuses"... they may be legitimate reasons)
4) it could be that the member just doesn't feel a "connect" with the host. Looks isnt everything. Many factors go into making a successful videochat experience... expectations, personality, appearance, video quality, conversation skills (and language issues). Rather than say "I'm sorry, I just don't feel anything" it's easier to exit without saying anything at all.... the sooner the better. It may seem rude, but it's not intentional.
I'm sure there are as many answers to your question as there are members on the site, but these are a few that I can identify.
Most of all, don't be discouraged by it. It's probably not you, personally, that is the problem, but just the way things are. Not everyone is for everybody. For example, lots of guys think Paris Hilton is the hottest, sexiest, most beautiful woman in the world. I happen to think she is f'ugly, and she doesn't do much for me. Good luck!
1) it may be that the member is simply browsing. Sometimes before committing money to a videochat, the member just wants to have a look. To see if the host looks as good as her pictures. If a member is just browsing, he probably doesn't want to get involved in a conversation beyond basic hellos, because then he might feel obligated to do a private. Browsers are often just looking, shopping, getting ideas for future visits, "comparing the merchandise" in one chatroom with the "merchandise" in another chatroom, and deciding on best deal. Like when you go into a clothing store and the clerk says, "May I help you?" and you answer "Just looking," but really you are just looking for ideas or trying to find the best buys.
2) it may be that they are shy, first timers or inexperienced with videochat, and they freeze up and then exit. It happens
3) "Wife's home," or "Someone's here," or "The kids just walked in," are sometimes just excuses for wanting to leave without hurting the host's feelings... but sometimes the reasons are valid. Wives do come home, friends do come to visit, kids do walk in.... it happens (so don't assume they are just "excuses"... they may be legitimate reasons)
4) it could be that the member just doesn't feel a "connect" with the host. Looks isnt everything. Many factors go into making a successful videochat experience... expectations, personality, appearance, video quality, conversation skills (and language issues). Rather than say "I'm sorry, I just don't feel anything" it's easier to exit without saying anything at all.... the sooner the better. It may seem rude, but it's not intentional.
I'm sure there are as many answers to your question as there are members on the site, but these are a few that I can identify.
Most of all, don't be discouraged by it. It's probably not you, personally, that is the problem, but just the way things are. Not everyone is for everybody. For example, lots of guys think Paris Hilton is the hottest, sexiest, most beautiful woman in the world. I happen to think she is f'ugly, and she doesn't do much for me. Good luck!
RE: Why not? - A member's perspective
if the post has profile pics that show her in great lingerie, makeup, etc, and I log into her room and she looks awful, or the pics are years old or she has gained weight or is pregnant since the pics, then i just go. especially if she charges a high price. i don't feel the need to pay my money to explain to her why i am leaving. other reasons i leave right away are if she turns the light on and obviously just woke up, if i come in and she lights a cigarette right away, or i come in and her man has to get off the bed or the couch....
you can call me hasty or shallow or whatever,but it's my choice and my money...
you can call me hasty or shallow or whatever,but it's my choice and my money...
RE: Why not? - A member's perspective
"but I also show my face on profile and always look my best with a smile to greet them."
Good way to be.
Good way to be.
RE: Why not?
Either you were not to his liking in video....your look better or different in your pics than in your video....his wife or gf just pulled into the driveway...he decides for any number of reasons you are not going to get him off....he has a case of guilt, shyness or cheapness and decides to bail. Main thing...none of it is personal...nobody buys every tomato they pick up at the supermarket...it has to have the color, ripeness, firmness, juiciness, flavor, and price that will make his mouth water with no regrets.
who is the most popular blond on cc?
im wonder who is the miss blond on cc now,axb left,chaneldoll left.so who is now? :)
RE: who is the most popular blond on cc?
since when did blonde and brunette become a "race"???
RE: who is the most popular blond on cc?
or curly or straight hair and red hair is also a dangerous race too :-P
RE: who is the most popular blond on cc?
there are many great girls here, and many great blondes. I would not pick "most popular". Better to enjoy the wonderful variety.
RE: who is the most popular blond on cc?
I don't know who is most poplular but the nicest one I have seen in a long time is HellsBitchx . Very nice. Sexy goes without saying
RE: who is the most popular blond on cc?
shes never ever gonna unblock you now thomas)))))))))))
RE: who is the most popular blond on cc?
BonBonxx has a loyal following if you like your blondes tiny, cute and young looking. Suprisingly she has a great body...perfect English...decent personality and sense of humor. No kitty is shown as far as I have seen. She has become a bit hardened after several years on CC and is skeptical of everyone but thank goodness she is still hot as hell. Was a non-adult host for a while (true non-adult) and then moved to Glamour. She can make my banana creme every time.
question about jobs
After looking at an earlier thread about jobs I have a question for both members and hosts. How many of you would keep a job because of how much it pays regardless of how unhappy it makes you?
On a personal note, job satisfaction for me is extremely low. But I'm not sure if changing careers is worth losing all of the benefits im getting now. Then again, sometimes I feel physically sick after dealing with all the crap that comes with my job. Ugh! Decision, decisions!
On a personal note, job satisfaction for me is extremely low. But I'm not sure if changing careers is worth losing all of the benefits im getting now. Then again, sometimes I feel physically sick after dealing with all the crap that comes with my job. Ugh! Decision, decisions!
RE: question about jobs
i am kind of in the same situation. well, paid jobs are good, no matter if you feel good or bad. so i will not quit. but what i can do is to find a new one. when found i can quit the old one. thats it.
RE: question about jobs
In the past I had a job that was making me extremely unhappy and eventually I got sick because of it (I am serious). However since it was paid pretty well by my country's standards and I had other benefits too I simply couldn't make myself quit even though every time I saw the office building I felt unwell. Also, it was my first job and I was scared I would not find another if I quit. Anyway during "hard times" this company fired a number of people including me and when I found out I had lost my job.... I felt HAPPY. I found another pretty soon and all I can say is we only leave once and life is too short to keep doing things you don't want to do. When the door closes, look around, there might be another opening up just for you.
The ratings debate
I know this topic gets talked about often in this forum, but one point I have not seen is listing the number of votes cast for a particular host. What I mean is, if I see a host rated 5 stars but only based on 3 votes, I would tend to favor another host rated at 4 stars but based on 300 votes instead of 3. I think it is a more fair system to all.
RE: The ratings debate
There are other sites that along with the 5 star rating system, they also show the number of votes.
RE: The ratings debate
I agree with you. And I think members should be able to leave public comments along with a rating that can't be deleted (like they can be in a host's forums).
RE: The ratings debate
The problem with leaving comments and your name is exactly the problem you find on the other sites that allow this. Members don't rate honestly if the host can see who is leaving what rating. Hosts get offended if a member doesn't rate them 5 stars, so the members do this. The whole rating system becomes meaningless, because 90% of the hosts are 5 stars.
Personally, I would like to see the rating system be based on how the member rates this host RELATIVE to the other hosts THEY visit. If a member rates everyone they visit "5 stars" that would count as average -- because for them it is average, this girl is just the same as all the others. But if the average rating I gave was a 3, and I gave this girl a 4, that would count as good -- because it is above what I usually rate.
Yes, there are obvious problems with this. Long time viewers who just have a few girls they like and always visit wouldn't have a way to reward them, unless the system also factored in repeat visits, or the time they spent in video. Showing the number of visits, or number of minutes would help too -- then we wouldn't have to go in to her photo gallery to see if a host was experienced or not.
Personally, I would like to see the rating system be based on how the member rates this host RELATIVE to the other hosts THEY visit. If a member rates everyone they visit "5 stars" that would count as average -- because for them it is average, this girl is just the same as all the others. But if the average rating I gave was a 3, and I gave this girl a 4, that would count as good -- because it is above what I usually rate.
Yes, there are obvious problems with this. Long time viewers who just have a few girls they like and always visit wouldn't have a way to reward them, unless the system also factored in repeat visits, or the time they spent in video. Showing the number of visits, or number of minutes would help too -- then we wouldn't have to go in to her photo gallery to see if a host was experienced or not.
Attention hosts with a cute bum who wear tight jeans and then don't
Thank you for turning me on and making my day brighter with your lovely personalities (even if it is just because I am paying you). Keep up the good work
RE: Attention hosts with a cute bum who wear tight jeans and then don't
Yes I do but I also don't like to be dominated :( I get enough of that in real life.
RE: Attention hosts with a cute bum who wear tight jeans and then don't
"hosts with a cute bum who wear tight jeans and then don't"
These are two things that just go great together!
These are two things that just go great together!
can't take your word for it...
A doctor and his wife are having a terrible fight at the breakfast table.
The doctor gets up in a rage and walks out yelling, "And you are not any good in bed either", as he storms out of the house.
After sometime he realises he was nasty and decides to make amends.
He calls his wife and after at least a dozen rings she answers the phone.
Again irritated the doctor says, "What took you so long to answer the phone"?
She says, "I was in bed".
"In bed this late in the day", he says, "doing what"?
"I was getting a second opinion" she replied.
The doctor gets up in a rage and walks out yelling, "And you are not any good in bed either", as he storms out of the house.
After sometime he realises he was nasty and decides to make amends.
He calls his wife and after at least a dozen rings she answers the phone.
Again irritated the doctor says, "What took you so long to answer the phone"?
She says, "I was in bed".
"In bed this late in the day", he says, "doing what"?
"I was getting a second opinion" she replied.
RE: can't take your word for it...
Very good, Just a shame it wasn't me that she used for her second opinion.
RE: can't take your word for it...
i thought it was"you inserted everything except the rule(r) :--)
RE: GUYS! what make you fall in love?
A cute girl who can make me laugh. Unfortunately as I have got older I find them harder and harder to find. Perhaps it's because the girls eventually grew up and started acting their age and I never did :(
RE: GUYS! what make you fall in love?
Right. I've seen over 100 girls on here and maybe 3 have made me laugh. Not their fault. I don't necessarily come here when I feeling on top of the world. Make me hard and make me laugh....I'm yours.
RE: GUYS! what make you fall in love?
A girl who doesn't lie by telling you she wasn't sizing up your wallet.
RE: GUYS! what make you fall in love?
If I could fall in love I wouldn't be here. The fact is I'm afraid I will never feel that again. I can tell you what I go for though. I like a girl with a certain amount of innocence who appears to be considerate and actually care. If she looks too deliberately pretty or inerested in material things I get turned off. For this reason I might choose girls who are a little less outwardly pretty and more have a character about their features which gets passed over in this over commercialized society.
Attention Hardcore Hosts (espeically NotShy)
you girls are great. Not shy is my fav catagory. So many great girls, so little time!
RE: Attention softcore hosts
Thank you softcore viewer it is nice to be appreciated, and I thank the members that come to visit me.
there have been quite a few members on here that have passed threw my door and have been sooo rude and not nice at all.
BUT there have also been some very nice members and before anyone jumps on me with comments such as nice members being those who spend lots. That has nothing to do with it. by nice members i mean those that treat us as people.
Thank you again softcore viewer for your post. :) :) :)
there have been quite a few members on here that have passed threw my door and have been sooo rude and not nice at all.
BUT there have also been some very nice members and before anyone jumps on me with comments such as nice members being those who spend lots. That has nothing to do with it. by nice members i mean those that treat us as people.
Thank you again softcore viewer for your post. :) :) :)
what's your job?
So many people from all over the world. Member's how do you make a living. There
RE: what's your job?
I buy Greek and Italian Bonds. I'm set to live off the interest for life.
RE: what's your job?
time to move heavily into italian bonds. dont miss the boat, get in early
RE: what's your job?
Personally, I'm long ENE. Stock's been down too long now, it's due for a good pop.
RE: what's your job?
And you give psychology training on top of that, if I believe another of your posts? Great you took time to make a baby ;-)
By the way, you seem to be the ideal person who could write "Memories of a Cam Girl" with your background
By the way, you seem to be the ideal person who could write "Memories of a Cam Girl" with your background
RE: what's your job?
good luck. i hear docs dont get paid much in Russia. I met some in NYC working as dancers.
RE: what's your job?
good luck to you. i hope u find fulfillment like i had hoped to. of course it depends on the speciality. unfortunately, after all the years of training it becomes difficult to find another profession when u realize medicine is not what u hoped it would be. thats how medicine is here in the US right now. i hope it will be different where u will be practicing. is being a doctor worth the money? at this point, not for me.
i don't mean to be discouraging. its just a reality check. u may want to look up "unsatisfied physicians" or "disgruntled physicians" and see what others are saying. i'd be more than happy to let u know how it is from the inside.
i don't mean to be discouraging. its just a reality check. u may want to look up "unsatisfied physicians" or "disgruntled physicians" and see what others are saying. i'd be more than happy to let u know how it is from the inside.
RE: what's your job?
I admire your work ethic and goals. At the end of the day for a physician or any person in health care you can always come back and tell yourself that your job is about helping other people. That is a wonderful thing. I do not say this to diminish others whose goal is to make lots of money. For example one of my favorite people on earth is an uncle who sells automobiles.
But keep in mind. at least in the US, doctors have pretty high rates of alcoholism, divorce and suicide when compared to other careers. It is pretty high stress.
Like everything in life, it is a mixed bag.
Good luck to you.
But keep in mind. at least in the US, doctors have pretty high rates of alcoholism, divorce and suicide when compared to other careers. It is pretty high stress.
Like everything in life, it is a mixed bag.
Good luck to you.
Bill passes
Because there are so many gorgeous, sexy and nice girls on CC I have just passed a bill to raise my personal debt ceiling.