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free chat
Hello all) I would ask viewer)do yoг think that we like talk in free chat and we haven't other affairs) i mean viewer which sometimes come in ours video, and after fuck ours brain in free chat! why? i understand when we doesn't know each other and you would know more information about us. But when we know each other very good,why? you should understand that is work. Yes we are sweet and love you but it's hard always look in screen.
RE: free chat
I use free chat very little. I'm in open vid after a minute or 2. at the most. The problem on this site is the fact that so many hosts love to talk and talk in paid video with little show and in some cases no show at all.
RE: free chat
Welcome to the world of cam sites with free chat. The problem is universal, I think.
RE: Braces
No worries. I can pretty much guarantee you, there are plenty of guys who like that very much.
It's considered cute, by those who do. It helps give the young teeny girl look that so many guys like. So I'd play that for all it's worth while you have them, if you can.
Who knows, your business might actually increase while you are wearing them; wouldn't surprse me at all :)
It's considered cute, by those who do. It helps give the young teeny girl look that so many guys like. So I'd play that for all it's worth while you have them, if you can.
Who knows, your business might actually increase while you are wearing them; wouldn't surprse me at all :)
RE: Braces
It certainly wouldn't put me off visiting a host. And when your camming days are behind you you'll be gald you did it.
RE: Braces
Won't bother me a bit. If you need them, that is the only thing that should really matter. Do what you need to do with your teeth, and if anyone objects, tell them to go get their teeth drilled by a dentist -- without Novocaine.
RE: Joke Time :)
Reminds me of the guy who told me once he was a professional circumciser. I said oh does that pay well then? He said not that much but you get to keep the tips
Back in the former USSR
Not white no more, kind of blue-grey hieroglyphic pattern on it. Now they didnt just re-cover it and ship from Tver to the Crimea, do you think?
RE: Just Wonering :)
good looks fade, the rich can be boring and miserable but being smart is good always
RE: Just Wonering :)
Smart ofc, when ure smart ull get to earn a lot of money and when there is money-there is access to beauty stuff :)
RE: Just Wonering :)
Definitely rich. I'm already fairly sharp, and I look alright. However, I am definitely not rich, and that would be nice :)
RE: Just Wonering :)
ha! I was just going to post the same thing...
with smarts you can find wealth and looks become irrelevant
with smarts you can find wealth and looks become irrelevant
RE: Just Wonering :)
I think to be smart and to be intellegent are kinda different things..
RE: Just Wonering :)
You can be smart and intelligent but still realise that you'll never be able to pull the right strings to be rich because to do that would be to become another person.
RE: Just Wonering :)
I don't think it's fair that you are asking me to step down, give up something, go to a lesser state.
And to have to make a choice, when I've got all three already!
You are a hard woman, LillieLovely!
And to have to make a choice, when I've got all three already!
You are a hard woman, LillieLovely!
RE: Just Wonering :)
Okay, I would go for smart. And by that I mean smart enough to have the ability to discover the secrets to creating bliss. That may or may not be the same as being clever. Because I think what people are really saying when they answer this question is what they think would make them happy.
RE: Just Wonering :)
When communicate with a woman first thing I try to find out is the "big picture", then to know some more about her. A model who isnt personal at all is uninteresting to me chat more than one time, with some exception.
RE: Just Wondering :)
I suppose having been a bit of an ugly bastard all my life it would be nice to be good looking. But then my choice would depend on how bad the two I don't choose are.
But as I', quite happy in my life I'll stay as I am. Fairly smart, ugly and poor :)
But as I', quite happy in my life I'll stay as I am. Fairly smart, ugly and poor :)
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
Yes it matters.Everyone is proud of there country and you dont want to speak Russian to a Romanian as an example.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
It is, I think, about making conversation, getting to know the person. I disagree that just because a person does not ask first about name, or how someone is, it means they are not interested in conversation. There are few ways we can get to know someone, and asking "Where are you from?" is one of the few ways we have for doing that.
That said, some members prefer hosts from certain countries -- who knows why? It is just their preference -- and so they want to know. But still, by and large, I think the main reason is to get better acquainted.
If CC didn't have the "Just Ask Me" option, this question might be minimized.
I could turn around and ask as well -- Why do host constantly ask me where I am from? What age am I? Am I married? What kind of work do I do?
The question asking goes in both directions, and when the questions start getting too uncomfortably personal, or too many, I leave and go elsewhere.
That said, some members prefer hosts from certain countries -- who knows why? It is just their preference -- and so they want to know. But still, by and large, I think the main reason is to get better acquainted.
If CC didn't have the "Just Ask Me" option, this question might be minimized.
I could turn around and ask as well -- Why do host constantly ask me where I am from? What age am I? Am I married? What kind of work do I do?
The question asking goes in both directions, and when the questions start getting too uncomfortably personal, or too many, I leave and go elsewhere.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
And the question I hate the most, when I'm in cam2cam, and the host looks at me and asks: "Are those tits real, or fake?"
OMG I hate that! Of course they're real! Do you think a plastic surgeon could do THAT bad of a job?
OMG I hate that! Of course they're real! Do you think a plastic surgeon could do THAT bad of a job?
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
Lmao... I know what you mean!
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
some ppl look for native speakers of a certain language, more often is american members looking for american hosts(from different reasons: scam stories on the net about romanians,russian and so on, or just want someone with a really good english, or confuse the site with a dating site and wants someone from his country.....)Why bother to start a real conversation if for one side is mandatory that u are from a certain country?
good luck.
good luck.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
Because when the moon is in the right point in the sky and it is a clear night, when this question is asked, the person asking steals the answering person's soul. :)
Either that or because its one of the first conversation starters that pops into their heads when talking to a total stranger on the internet.
Either that or because its one of the first conversation starters that pops into their heads when talking to a total stranger on the internet.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
Yeah, I noticed this was the first question everyone asked each other at the poker tables in Vegas. And it's apparently a big deal if you are from New York LOL. I for one don't like american viewers, too weird requests, and accent turns me off big time.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
I wonder whether Mel knows she replied to a post from an American Host - oopsy!
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
Lillie, if I ever get around to visiting you, will you wear a pink polar bear suit? I like my women bear and in the pink. Pleaseeeeeeee. With one shoe off and one shoe on, and balancing a spoon on your nose (really turns me one), with one hand on your head, the other with your finger in your ear? Not too weird I hope.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
I have never asked any host anywhere in the 14 years I've been going to cam sites where she is from. It doesn't matter. I'm not here to meet her. All I want to know is if she does a nude show or not.
I am however asked where I'm from most times by hosts. In addition, I'm asked my name, occupation, location and other personal information. And of course I lie when I reply.
I am however asked where I'm from most times by hosts. In addition, I'm asked my name, occupation, location and other personal information. And of course I lie when I reply.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
You've never asked someone that in real life? I find that hard to believe. It's even more applicable here, where you know they're not from the same place you are.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
"You've never asked someone that in real life? "
We weren't talking about real life, we were talking about here on site.
We weren't talking about real life, we were talking about here on site.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
I don't ask this questtion; however another possibility that makes alot of sense: the question is asked in order to get a feel of how well the the person speaks english. Reason for that being: is that for many viewers, if a host has poor english, or has to use a translator, it really detracts from the show.
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
It's usually my second question. Right after:
I've been here 2 seconds... why the fuck aren't you naked yet?
I've been here 2 seconds... why the fuck aren't you naked yet?
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
Awww look at ya)) Tough guy!
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
I don't even really need to respond since I know that you know well enough to get naked before replying to me even in the forums!
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
Aaaaaaaaaaaahhahaah IN YER DREAMSSSSSSS!!!! :D
RE: a question to members,why you ask at first''where ru from?''
is it possible your profile for location says..ask me?
Some don't like girls from certain countries.. maybe he has a fantasy you will be from his city.. who knows.. it is just a question..but your right.. I think its important to say hello, my name is XXXXX whats yours, How are you? then maybe get to the where you from?
I guess I get asked almost instantly how old I am..
Some don't like girls from certain countries.. maybe he has a fantasy you will be from his city.. who knows.. it is just a question..but your right.. I think its important to say hello, my name is XXXXX whats yours, How are you? then maybe get to the where you from?
I guess I get asked almost instantly how old I am..
Some men have real sex with cybersex
I forget where I saw it , but I read a magazine story on how a good number of men has replaced real world sex with on line cybersex. I haven't but have to agree it is the ultimate safe sex and it's very convenient. There are also no performance issues. And of course the other obligatory stuff that comes with a real world affair. And I guess when one is wanking so much on line, he may have a hard time getting it up in the real world.
RE: Some men have real sex with cybersex
Nothing can replace the real thing for me...at least with today's tech. Maybe...almost undoubtedly, in 50-100 years sure, but for now, no.
For cyber though, convenience is at the top of the list. It's after all, almost immediate. A close second though, is selection. If I want to have a fun time with someone on cc, I have like 600 choices at any given time. I Sure don't have that many choices in person :)
For cyber though, convenience is at the top of the list. It's after all, almost immediate. A close second though, is selection. If I want to have a fun time with someone on cc, I have like 600 choices at any given time. I Sure don't have that many choices in person :)
RE: what age you have?
Funny, I always say the same thing. I'm 49, but always say that mentally, attitude wise, I'll be 25 forever.
RE: what age you have?
No, on the contrary, most people age 40+ put me to sleep, I've just made a conscience decision not be one of those mundane people just because of age. Have you never heard the phrase young at heart? So that attitude is not appealing to you. Well my concern about that is, let's see...zero.
As far as growing up; to even have made the comment you did in the first place: just an unprovoked derogatory comment for no good reason...you obviously have a long way to go.
As far as growing up; to even have made the comment you did in the first place: just an unprovoked derogatory comment for no good reason...you obviously have a long way to go.
RE: what age you have?
29 But often told I look 19... men will say anything to get what they want :)
RE: what age you have?
54 but I am told I look younger ...... Women will say anything to get what they want ;-) :P
RE: what age you have?
I get the same. They always say "you're kidding you look at least 20 years older" :P
RE: what age you have?
I'm 70 but hosts always tell me, "Oh, a nice age! "
P.S. I don't vid anymore cos that would make me a dirty old man so just come here for the tea and biscuits.
P.S. I don't vid anymore cos that would make me a dirty old man so just come here for the tea and biscuits.
RE: what age you have?
You wouldn't believe it if I told you.
I'm 97 but don't look a day over 57 But it doesn't matter, because every host tells me "Age doesn't matter." Also, they all say, "Nice age." Also, they say, they "like older men -- more experience"
But the most wonderful thing of all is: I can still get it up.
(my finger, that is, to type on the keyboard).
I'm 97 but don't look a day over 57 But it doesn't matter, because every host tells me "Age doesn't matter." Also, they all say, "Nice age." Also, they say, they "like older men -- more experience"
But the most wonderful thing of all is: I can still get it up.
(my finger, that is, to type on the keyboard).
RE: what age you have?
If you really look at someone,you will see, the small ,young, person inside them. Often trapped in old age,,sometimes in unfortunate circumstances.The child, within us, defines us, drives us,all our lives. Even great women and men,have,, child like joy, and sorrow,trust,love,compassion,,,,,,. I am 4 years old.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Today is the Birthday of a couple of my favorite hosts here on cc. She would kill me if i gave out her screen name. I imagine there are more sooooo HAPPY BIRTHDAY to all xoxo
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Spilll the beans xoxo, who are they so we can all wish them a Happy Birthday ? We won't let on that it was you who told ;-)
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
xoxo you can't leave it like that, who are they? We might want to pay them a visit and offer birthday salutations :-)
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
So sweet of you! Thank you, and I wish YOU, A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY too, kiddo!!! Don't eat too much icecream! :P
kiss kiss
:)
kiss kiss
:)
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Being young is a privilege.
Being attractive a genetic gift.
Being wonderful, that is all you!
Happy Birthday Gorgeous!
xxxx
Being attractive a genetic gift.
Being wonderful, that is all you!
Happy Birthday Gorgeous!
xxxx
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank You!! Ice cream and your sweet words.... what a wonderful day!!
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
if this post if for u, Happy Bday Happy Bday! u re the most beautiful, star! <3
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you, even if your wishes came a bit anticipated :)
RE: why??
agree with Katralla the world is getting selfish a lot it seems lately-love shouldn't be about suffering and they say in the good book not to judge anyone until you judge yourself and character and all I got to say if your ignored when talking just don't focus on it to much-there is still a lot of love out there-love your smile sasha
Holiday Destinations
As summer is here and thoughts turn to holidays. I thought I would share this with you all ....
Places I've been:
I have been in many places, but I've never been in Cahoots.
Apparently, you can't go alone. You have to be in Cahoots with
someone.
I've also never been in Cognito. I hear no one recognizes you there.
I have, however, been in Sane. They don't have an airport; you have to
be driven there. I have made several trips there, thanks to my
friends, family and work. I live close so it's a short drive.
I would like to go to Conclusions, but you have to jump, and I'm not
too much on physical activity anymore.
I have also been in Doubt. That is a sad place to go, and I try not to
visit there too often.
I've been in Flexible, but only when it was very important to stand
firm.
Sometimes I'm in Capable, and I go there more often as I'm getting
older.
One of my favorite places to be is in Suspense! It really gets the
adrenalin flowing and pumps up the old heart! At my age I need all the stimuli I can get!
And, sometimes I think I am in Vincible but life shows me I am not.
People keep telling me I'm in Denial but I'm positive I've never been
there before!
I have been in Deepshit many times; the older I get, the easier it is
to get there. I actually kind of enjoy it there.
So far, I haven't been in Continent; but my doctor says I'll be going
soon.
Places I've been:
I have been in many places, but I've never been in Cahoots.
Apparently, you can't go alone. You have to be in Cahoots with
someone.
I've also never been in Cognito. I hear no one recognizes you there.
I have, however, been in Sane. They don't have an airport; you have to
be driven there. I have made several trips there, thanks to my
friends, family and work. I live close so it's a short drive.
I would like to go to Conclusions, but you have to jump, and I'm not
too much on physical activity anymore.
I have also been in Doubt. That is a sad place to go, and I try not to
visit there too often.
I've been in Flexible, but only when it was very important to stand
firm.
Sometimes I'm in Capable, and I go there more often as I'm getting
older.
One of my favorite places to be is in Suspense! It really gets the
adrenalin flowing and pumps up the old heart! At my age I need all the stimuli I can get!
And, sometimes I think I am in Vincible but life shows me I am not.
People keep telling me I'm in Denial but I'm positive I've never been
there before!
I have been in Deepshit many times; the older I get, the easier it is
to get there. I actually kind of enjoy it there.
So far, I haven't been in Continent; but my doctor says I'll be going
soon.
RE: Holiday Destinations
I googled SWAG GIRLS and found nothing definitive. but checking out "images" of swag girls, I'd have to say it's more about style or fashion, than it is about body build. As to the style, I'd make it kind of a cross between EMO and Madonna (in the 80's), Doesn't appeal to me, but I wouldn't kick them out of bed for eating crackers.
The only real "style" that absolutely repulses me is excessive tattoos and piercings
The only real "style" that absolutely repulses me is excessive tattoos and piercings
RE: SWAG girls!
i looked at her pics and your pics , your much hotter looking then her , but still have no idea what a swag girl is .
RE: SWAG girls!
I googled SWAG GIRLS and found nothing definitive. but checking out "images" of swag girls, I'd have to say it's more about style or fashion, than it is about body build. As to the style, I'd make it kind of a cross between EMO and Madonna (in the 80's), Doesn't appeal to me, but I wouldn't kick them out of bed for eating crackers.
The only real "style" that absolutely repulses me is excessive tattoos and piercings
The only real "style" that absolutely repulses me is excessive tattoos and piercings
thoughts for the single people
Have you ever give it a lot of thought about marriage-what age you like to be-how many kids you like to have-where you would like to live-and what you expect from your spouse- time is clicking away every day
RE: thoughts for the single people
I did, made a plan at 17. Wait until I was at least 30 before getting married and have 2 kids only. Reality, got married at 21, 3 kids before I was 25. Question...how often do marriage and children go to plan for most people?
RE: thoughts for the single people
I did exactly the same... planned on marriage after 30 with 2 kids. Ended up married with 3 kids by 25... I love my kids but after strong consideration, decided to ditch out on the husband.
I have no want or need to remarry, or even date for that matter. But when I hear my kids or young family members planning their future, all I can do is smirk and think... If only they knew the reality of life. :)
But then again I do know a few people who followed their plans some are happy and some are not. I just like to go with the flow and whatever happens... happens.
I have no want or need to remarry, or even date for that matter. But when I hear my kids or young family members planning their future, all I can do is smirk and think... If only they knew the reality of life. :)
But then again I do know a few people who followed their plans some are happy and some are not. I just like to go with the flow and whatever happens... happens.
RE: thoughts for the single people
Then we can be Beauty and the beast, And before anyone makes any smart comments the beast is me. Unfortunately when you fall in love with me and kiss me I still stay a beast :(
RE: thoughts for the single people
age 30 kids 2 live in USA what I expect from my husband is to work hard and be good with the kids
RE: thoughts for the single people
31, married, in love, good-looking, educated, would like to have 2 kids by 36 but have financial shortages... if I end up with no kids- not sooo bad.
It's astonishing that I started to have that rather strong desire to have kids after 30- its even disturbing. I try to think strategically.
It's astonishing that I started to have that rather strong desire to have kids after 30- its even disturbing. I try to think strategically.
RE: when you can't find your place in life
sorry to hear that. are you member or host? because there is a difference then. if you are a host think of good things that you have and go on vacation maybe with the money you get from us here.
and if you are a member as a member i get a lot of energy and a confident feeling after we flirt here and buy a nice show.
and i smile and just enjoy that her boyfriend or husband for sure does not get any action that day after all that [emotional] exhaustion. :=P
and if you are a member as a member i get a lot of energy and a confident feeling after we flirt here and buy a nice show.
and i smile and just enjoy that her boyfriend or husband for sure does not get any action that day after all that [emotional] exhaustion. :=P
RE: when you can't find your place in life
Yes I have and have had that feeling many times in my life and I understand you are not asking for advice, just some empathy.
RE: when you can't find your place in life
good reply, Ally. I have to agree with you. Your reply could have been mine.
RE: when you can't find your place in life
Yes, I have been there. A few times actually. I hope things get better for you. Be strong, know who you are and hold your head up. Things will get better if you make them.
Question for Russian hosts (or anyone who can answer).
When calling a Russian mobile, I got this message "the dialed number is closed for the time being".
What does it mean? Mobile is deactivated? Temporarily deactivated? Phone turned off? Available for a new customer?
What does it mean? Mobile is deactivated? Temporarily deactivated? Phone turned off? Available for a new customer?
RE: Question for Russian hosts (or anyone who can answer).
I have a friend in Russia who uses a single cell phone but has put a second number on her sim card in her phone. So when she wants to use her "business" line, she activates that one and when she wants to use her private line, she closes incoming calls to the "business" line. If you call someone that has this service which gives 2 numbers to one phone, and they are not currently opened to calls from that line, it will say it is closed.
Of course this being all heresay from an Amercan host. But I hope it helped.
Of course this being all heresay from an Amercan host. But I hope it helped.
RE: Question for Russian hosts (or anyone who can answer).
Thanks for the info, but I don't think she'd have a need for 2 numbers since she left the cam model business about 7 months ago. We kept in touch, but I never heard from her for like a month. She always said if she couldn't continue contact, for whatever reason, she would let me know, so as to not leave me wondering and worrying. But she just vanished. Now I'm starting to think something happened to her - especially since you said that message can indicate an unpaid bill. Or maybe she just wanted to severe ties and didn't know what to say. Oh well, where ever you are, all the best.
RE: YOU ARE HONEST HERE?
Honest to a degree. I am single. I would gladly relish a nice relationship here. I don't promise riches, only my heart. I do talk about filthy things as a fantasy, but i am pretty shy. I do want to find a sweet girl who is crazy fo old guys. I won't send money.
RE: YOU ARE HONEST HERE?
I live with honesty, in every aspect of my life. And I like to believe most others do as well. If not, Kharma is a bitch. I dont mess with Kharma.
RE: YOU ARE HONEST HERE?
I agree, people are who they wanna be and say what they wanna say. And when I find out someone fits into one of those catagories, I back away. If someone doesnt have enough respect for themselves to be themselves. Why should I respect them?
I am who I am and have nothing to hide. So why try? If someone doesnt like me because I am too honest, or too loyal, then they have issues that go way beyond the services I offer and I wont waste my time.
I am who I am and have nothing to hide. So why try? If someone doesnt like me because I am too honest, or too loyal, then they have issues that go way beyond the services I offer and I wont waste my time.
wondering
i am just wondering, what would you do if you owe someone something little, lets say a show... some time have passed and this person stopped asking about this debt...
do you think it would be best just to start avoiding this person and stop talking to him, or wait for him to ask again about this debt,
or when you have a chance and free time would you go and offer to pay his back this debt?
what do you think would be a correct thing to do?
Lets assume you have known this person for years, so he is not just a total stranger.
do you think it would be best just to start avoiding this person and stop talking to him, or wait for him to ask again about this debt,
or when you have a chance and free time would you go and offer to pay his back this debt?
what do you think would be a correct thing to do?
Lets assume you have known this person for years, so he is not just a total stranger.
RE: wondering
From an etiquette perspective, it is bad manners to expect the person who is owed the debt to have to chase its repayment. You know what was agreed, and what is due to him and you should be proactive in honouring the agreement. That he has stopped asking might seem unassertive, but is good form.
RE: wondering
i have to agree it seems like bad manners from this girl, and to make it clear im not that girl, i am him who was waiting...
and im not worried about this little debt, it is not a big amount, i am really just wondering what goes on in her head, why let this little debt ruin everything and stop talking, she is anyway working normally in cc and did a good show when i visited her with other name and she didnt know it was me... so there cant be any problems for her to do a show.
but well life is complicated sometimes, just sad to see this from a girl i never expected anything like this.
and im not worried about this little debt, it is not a big amount, i am really just wondering what goes on in her head, why let this little debt ruin everything and stop talking, she is anyway working normally in cc and did a good show when i visited her with other name and she didnt know it was me... so there cant be any problems for her to do a show.
but well life is complicated sometimes, just sad to see this from a girl i never expected anything like this.
RE: wondering
i'm wondering, too - why would you owe someone a show? I thought this was a pay-basis site. How can you have a "debt" to someone involving providing a show to that person?
If it was a promise you made to that person, then I think you should keep your promise, of course, whether or not the person is still asking for it to be fulfilled.
Other than a promise, I can think of no reasons for such a "debt".
If it was a promise you made to that person, then I think you should keep your promise, of course, whether or not the person is still asking for it to be fulfilled.
Other than a promise, I can think of no reasons for such a "debt".
RE: wondering
If it were money then, no matter how small the debt, I would pay it back. If it were something else, like a show, I would not avoid the person but I would also not mention the debt. However, if the other person mentioned I would pay them the debt.
RE: wondering
I would approach and mention this to the person asap in order to get it cleared up. Otherwise, it will hang in the background like a black cloud that's not going away, potentially bothering both of you, and damaging your relationship. Just get it done; besides...if you bring it up, that reflects in a positive way on you.
RE: wondering
I agree a 'show' as 'debt' seems odd, but maybe. Just from a male perspective (if that's the one that's relevant to the case) i'd just add it isn't necessarily unassertiveness. It's perfectly possible he's got to know you better and you may have charmed him (if he's still coming back). Bring it up, especially as it bothers you. He may see you in a different light now, might feel uncomfortable with the idea now in the way you probably did at the beginning. Or he might be craving - or might like a special pvt with you still. Might be a laugh to find out. Talk about it. Youve got the charm.
RE: wondering
It's of course better to pay off the debt asap, because when time passes, the idea of the delayed show may deem annoying for both of you.
I would never ever go and offer myself.:)
I would never ever go and offer myself.:)
enjoy!!!
Teacher: Can u tell the name of 3 great kings who have brought happiness & peace into people's lives? Student: Smo-king, Drin-king and Fuc-king
RE: Love at first sight
No. For me only what we do here is work. Not and never my love in real life.
You mix maybe the things up. You say love is work for you then you never experience real love or lost to love and you are still only in the basic animalistic lust at first sight. Sorry.
You mix maybe the things up. You say love is work for you then you never experience real love or lost to love and you are still only in the basic animalistic lust at first sight. Sorry.
RE: Love at first sight
I personally like the ancient Greek notions of Love: Love that is sexual / romantic love, lust, physical attraction, in the Greek called Eros; love that is that of companionship, friendship, and such; in the Greek "Phileo"; familial or affection love, the love of parent and child, brother/sister, etc.; in the Greek, "Storge". These are all, to some extent based on instinctual, and emotional responses. And a fourth kind of love, based not on feelings or instincts, but on behavioral choices and actions, how we choose to treat another person, in the Greek "Agapeo". The problem with the word "love" in English (not sure about other foreign language equivalents) is that the word "love" can be almost anything. I can love a hamburger (I do, btw); or I can love my pet; or I can love a particular movie, or I can love my friends, and family, I can make love, fall in love, be in love, I can also choose to show love even though I may feel no emotional attachment. Agapeo love can choose to be loving, even when emotions are otherwise. I can be angry enough to explode but I can choose to respond in loving ways: controlling my anger, seeking to understanding, and being respectful, speaking in civil tones rather than angry, choosing to talk out a problem rather than respond with hostility. That love especially, involves "working at it". I haven't read Fromm's work, but I suspect this is in line with his teachings.
RE: Love at first sight
I do believe at something at 1st sight, maybe its not love and no, i dont mean lust at 1st sight lol :) Happened to me once, i was having breakfast in caffe and i saw 2 guys comming in. There was something in one of them, that hit me like electircity, even tho i wudnt say he was super handsome (those are not my type haha), but i never felt like this before. I knew that i have to do something, or i will regret all my life. The situation got worse, 2 girls joined them at table. But i wrote a note on a piece of paper with my phone number and a name and when leaving the caffe asked a waitress to give thos note to a guy in the red tshirt :) Its not something i usually do, but something made me risk and step on my pride. Some would call it love at 1st sight, but i prefer to call it 6th sense yeah :) We recognize people that are ment for us, or wil have special place in our hearts right away, sure we dont "love" them from the very 1st minute as to love u have to at least know the person. Thats what i think anyway :)
RE: Love at first sight
He called in 1 hour, those girls were colleagues and we were together for 1 year. 4 years have passed since then, he left my country long time ago but we still keep in touch and i know that im very special for him, just as he is for me. So, girls, dont be afraid to make the 1st step, if u heart tells u-wow, he might be the one :) Sometimes its necessary:)
RE: Love at first sight
thank you for an advice, I never been so brave to send a note with my phone to a man, maybe I should be like you.
RE: Love at first sight
"A burning desire to be with someone who you find very attractive and extremely special", maybe in that way, as a precursor of love. I think love, like anything in life, it´s something to be build and nurture, not something you just feel instantly like at first sight.
RE: Love at first sight
Yes love at first sight exists ..... but only if you are choosing a new puppy.
RE: Love at first sight
Perhaps if you wore all that I might fall in love with you at first sight :P
RE: Love at first sight
Unless the guy has his credit card limit tattooed on his forehead and his cock size tattooed on his arm, Im gonna say its not possible. :)
RE: Love at first sight
at the risk of being labeled a non-romantic, I have to say, I do not believe in "love at first sight" -- at least not genuine love. Attraction, even strong attraction, yes. Lust, yes. Desire, yes, But not true love on which to build a relationship. I would also add that I feel two people can feel a certain "connection" and "comfortableness" with each other that is right from the start, and such can lead to genuine love.
But for the most part I think "love at first sight" is one of those concepts that makes for a great Hollywood movie, but in reality is not very practical.
And as I said in response to Monikababe - I thought 6th Sense was being able to see dead people :)
But for the most part I think "love at first sight" is one of those concepts that makes for a great Hollywood movie, but in reality is not very practical.
And as I said in response to Monikababe - I thought 6th Sense was being able to see dead people :)
Happy Birthday my Beauty
My beauty darling BBL,
I am so happy to know you on this special day. You are the most wonderful kind and sweet person, and deserve all the best on your birthday and every day.
Love and kisses xxxoxoxoxoxxx
BBB
I am so happy to know you on this special day. You are the most wonderful kind and sweet person, and deserve all the best on your birthday and every day.
Love and kisses xxxoxoxoxoxxx
BBB
RE: Happy Birthday my Beauty
thank u very much :)))))come here, i will give you some cake :P:))))
RE: Happy Birthday my Beauty
Happy Birthday my Baby my beautiful girl, you the most best friend in the world , kind, amazing and with BIIIIIG heart, i wish you always stay like you now: gentle and magnanimous. i love you so much!!! kisssss youuuuu
RE: Happy Birthday my Beauty
thank u my busty sweetheart:))))our sushi was so tasty yesturday so i probably wont eat japaness food anymore:)))see u tomorrow .hugs
RE: Happy Birthday my Beauty
ahahahaha yesterday fuking sushi no more!!! i love you my bb and HAAAAPPPYYY BIIIRRRTHDAAYYY! kiss you, kiss, kiss, kisss
RE: Happy Birthday my Beauty
Happy Birthday Casablancka and many more-made the years be good to you
Happy birythday LexaCasablancka
I wish you a very happybirthday my angel Lexa have a wonderful day and enjoy all that you do on your special day. Take care and god bless you.
RE: Happy birythday LexaCasablancka
Happy bday, pretty Gemini! Wishing u all the most wonderful things in the world! U deserve only the best :) Love u, bebe :*
RE: Happy birythday LexaCasablancka
thank u very much Tony :) i will start to enjoy very soon :) hugs
Why Did God Create Woman?
It was not good for man to be alone. God created us to be man's helper, to meet his every need, body mind and soul, that we might grow together in spirit and in truth, that we might encourage one another and spur one another on in all things.
RE: Why Did God Create Woman?
no need many babies...too much people in the world already. enough just 2 babies for a couple. lets keep our planet clean and beautiful.
RE: Why Did God Create Woman?
IN GOD WE TRUST
While creating women, God made a promise to men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the world.
He then smiled and made the earth round.
Time
.Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.