General Forum
RE: question
I like both to play with my favorite hosts, but also to look for new meat. as Chris Rock says: "A man is as faithfull as his options" :-)
RE: question
I like to try out the new ones on the market for a test ride. If I like and they serve me right they are worth my bucks and they might see me again. Otherwise cheerio and thanks for the good time!
But I also need my regular girls too.
But I also need my regular girls too.
RE: question
all I can think of at this moment is-don't like a host that is fake and all drama, but to answer your question my vote would be long term, I become friends easy and like to keep in touch with people I know here.
RE: ~AustinPP
queston why is it so important why you have to please everyone here, we all are not alike
RE: question
I would probably say regulars. But if none of them are on then I go looking for new girls who then mat become a regular :)
RE: question
Both :) No I love my favorites, and continue to return to them...however I love to try new as well...but to that end...think of how many hosts are here...so when I want to try someone new, it will be someone who has been here for a while, but is new to me; not hard to find with so many hosts.
Not always, but as a general rule, I will steer away from really new hosts altogether, because I've had too many bad, boring shows from people like that....unless they are really, really hot, then I might take a chance.
Not always, but as a general rule, I will steer away from really new hosts altogether, because I've had too many bad, boring shows from people like that....unless they are really, really hot, then I might take a chance.
RE: about text chat
Better yet, make your room video only as many others have done. No free chat.
RE: about text chat
Hi, are you able to wear a white dress for me with green polka dots; underneath black lacy knicker's (must be from Jaeger) and cream, not white, ballet shoes: also a hat with flowers and a pearl necklace (natural not cultured)? :-)
RE: about text chat
I just met a guy who talks in the way you like, he speaks non-stop for ten minutes, all one sentence. Most normal people don't talk like that though...
RE: about text chat
If it's a regular I just go to free chat to make sure the host is there and that she is ready (I once got told off for jumping straight into video after seeing the host's "hi" in free chat as she had her mouth full of food :P).
RE: about text chat
" my biggest spenders didn't even come to free chat but straight to video. "
Free chat is for free loaders
Free chat is for free loaders
RE: about text chat
Maria you just have to acept that most men here are quite mad then act accordingly for your own best interests. )))
RE: about text chat
Sorry, hate to admit it, but you lost me on "Seller girls" what does that mean?
A perfect woman
The woman who presented me with a second-date surprise. “On my first blind date with this one woman, we had dinner and then went dancing,” So when I asked her out again, I expected more of the same. Instead, she said, ‘I want to surprise you. I’ll pick you up at six.’ When she arrived, she was holding two grocery bags full of food, a bottle of wine, and some candles. She poured me a glass, lit the candles and made me the most amazing dinner I’ve ever had! I was totally impressed and knew instantly there was a lot more to her than I originally thought.” and then I woke up from my dream.
What book are you reading right now?
I've just started "the 50 shades of grey" after a few people mentioning it, 1/5 into it but don't really like the some of the language and how it flows. Has anyone read the other 2 and did you like them?
RE: What book are you reading right now?
Don't spoil the book thanks. Some of us haven't read it yet.
RE: What book are you reading right now?
The girl who played with fire. So far, not as good as The girl with the dragon tattoo.
RE: What book are you reading right now?
I've only seen the remake, and that was a two-kitten movie (I.e. I needed 2 kittens to cheer me up afterwards), I'll have to see the Swedish original as well. I thought the ending (of the book and the US movie) was just heart-breaking...
RE: What book are you reading right now?
i like to read when i have some time and tube underground in London gives me lots of time to read...At the moment im reading Jane Eyre and it seems that it's the only free moment i get to enjoy it...:)))
RE: What book are you reading right now?
The Cat in the Hat Comes Back
I like it, like it, yes, I do.
I like it, like it, how about you?
I like it, like it, yes, I do.
I like it, like it, how about you?
RE: Just wondering.....
because I said so..
Keep it up and Ill turn this car around and well go home..
Keep it up and Ill turn this car around and well go home..
anyone know the dates of next contest? would like to escape :))
more or less , when do u think?
RE: anyone know the dates of next contest? would like to escape :))
Im guessing the weekend of the 27th, its sports themed and thats when the olympics start.
RE: anyone know the dates of next contest? would like to escape :))
damn, u think so late:( i bet i will back then already :O,thought they asked to send pics till 2 july, so was hoping contest will be around 11-15 .think impossible?
RE: anyone know the dates of next contest? would like to escape :))
Honesty I was assuming it would start on the 12th. And I still think it will because it would be smart to do it while people aren't busy watching or planning other things during the olympics opening. But it is called ' light the torch' or whatever so it could very well start when the olympics do, which is the 27th.
RE: anyone know the dates of next contest? would like to escape :))
usualy its wed-sunday so probably 11-15 or 18-22 ....
RE: anyone know the dates of next contest? would like to escape :))
just take a break from it-im sure it will be ok
RE: anyone know the dates of next contest? would like to escape :))
It's certainly cheaper for me to be away too :)))
If it bothers you that much then avoid it. You have a choice. Ignore it or work like a lunatic for a chance to win.
If it bothers you that much then avoid it. You have a choice. Ignore it or work like a lunatic for a chance to win.
RE: what you thinking ??
Are you kidding? You have striking, beautiful red hair. So one: I would not change it, because it looks great the way it is. Second: Red hair is not as common, so you have something many others don't have right there. And third I wouldn't give idiot who said that the satisfaction, particualrly because he's wrong in the first place. You're wonderful just the way you are, don't change a thing.
RE: what you thinking ??
You know what they say
You can sleep with blonde.
You can sleep with a brunette,
You will NEVER get any sleep with a Red Head :oP
Only thing Id loose is the person who told you to change your hair color.
You can sleep with blonde.
You can sleep with a brunette,
You will NEVER get any sleep with a Red Head :oP
Only thing Id loose is the person who told you to change your hair color.
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
Some people just have perfect knowledge about everything,and their judgments are far better than your own opinion, so you're wrong.
(or so they'd like to believe. He's just a silly man)
(or so they'd like to believe. He's just a silly man)
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
Wrong. No worry nobody who WORK here is SHY.
Or do you call a girl that who show pussy or flash boobs or flirt to any stranger?
Not really woman to marry or invite to parents.
But most members are shy that why they are looking for sex here. He take himself and think hosts are also? Wrong.
Happy work day and no worry!
Or do you call a girl that who show pussy or flash boobs or flirt to any stranger?
Not really woman to marry or invite to parents.
But most members are shy that why they are looking for sex here. He take himself and think hosts are also? Wrong.
Happy work day and no worry!
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
I've read your post many times and was just going to ignore it but its made me so angry that I have to reply! I cant decide if you're a host or member but either way, your attitude stinks! Many hosts here are a little shy for certain, many hosts do not 'show pussy' as you call it and many hosts here are very intelligent, beautiful and really nice people. I for one, would be more than happy to introduce them to my parents and there are a few who I would be extremely proud to marry! Not that I am going to get a chance to do it. The tone and implications in your post are demeaning to the many decent, honest and lovely hosts who work here!
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
I very much agree with your statement. It is unfortunate that the person who wrote it decided not to use their own host or member name. It always seems particularly cowardly for people to make such inflammatory statements and then not have the guts to at least use their "name." Hell screen names are not even the names they use to the rest of the world.
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
I agree with almost all of what you say, but nonetheless if you did take a host home to meet your parents I am sure (unless they are particularly broad-minded) you would be economical with the truth in describing exactly what your host friend does. And that reticence, whatever spin you put on it, speaks volumes and is no different in its nature to the reticence which, in my experience, they show themselves in dealings with their own friends and families.
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
I do not usually say this to a person.....but you are a very narrow minded person and you give the impression that you would be a jealous person .....you say that we as hosts are not one you would take home to parents...well do you really think that you are any better than any of us....you come to this site...and you do what ever it is you do...so you are no better......
I very much disagree...I have never lied to my family nor anyone else about what I do...I may not get into detail....but I sure as heck dont lie...even when I was dancing in bars...I told what I did for a living....
my work here does not make who I am.....does not mean that I sleep around, nor a slut, nor anything to be ashamed of..I do not throw it in anyones face.....when not on here no one would know what I do as I dress conservative...even when a dancer in the bars....no one knew what I did...because I do not wear my job on my sleeve.....
when I met my ex husband and I was a dancer in the bars....first time I met his family they asked...and I was honest and said what I did....when I started to work here and was asked by family and close friends...I say I work online as a host....and altho it is not a job you can sit at the dinner table and talk about ....I still do not lie about it....
The only time that my work here affects things is when it is a man...he is nice and treats me like a lady...he asks what I do and i say it is a job that most men change attitude when knowing...the guy say noo I won't ....as soon as he knows he treats me like I am a slut....and says things like ....well they get what they get..so what do I get....
I dont say the name of site and I dont get into details...but family and close friends know what I do ...they may not like it but they dont treat me no different because I do not throw it in their face....
If I am dating a man...I will be honest and tell him...and every time he changes his attitude...even after saying ...nothing you do for a living will change how I treat you....that is a loud of crap...even women that know what I do, dont treat me like many men do....
I very much disagree...I have never lied to my family nor anyone else about what I do...I may not get into detail....but I sure as heck dont lie...even when I was dancing in bars...I told what I did for a living....
my work here does not make who I am.....does not mean that I sleep around, nor a slut, nor anything to be ashamed of..I do not throw it in anyones face.....when not on here no one would know what I do as I dress conservative...even when a dancer in the bars....no one knew what I did...because I do not wear my job on my sleeve.....
when I met my ex husband and I was a dancer in the bars....first time I met his family they asked...and I was honest and said what I did....when I started to work here and was asked by family and close friends...I say I work online as a host....and altho it is not a job you can sit at the dinner table and talk about ....I still do not lie about it....
The only time that my work here affects things is when it is a man...he is nice and treats me like a lady...he asks what I do and i say it is a job that most men change attitude when knowing...the guy say noo I won't ....as soon as he knows he treats me like I am a slut....and says things like ....well they get what they get..so what do I get....
I dont say the name of site and I dont get into details...but family and close friends know what I do ...they may not like it but they dont treat me no different because I do not throw it in their face....
If I am dating a man...I will be honest and tell him...and every time he changes his attitude...even after saying ...nothing you do for a living will change how I treat you....that is a loud of crap...even women that know what I do, dont treat me like many men do....
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
I don't quite know what you're asking. Are you asking how do I "act" shy? As in, I work in little shy and I need to know how to perform as though I were a little shy?
Or, more probably, is shy the same thing as being introverted? I do think many of us here would qualify as introverts. Stripping in private in front of a webcam to one or several members hardly makes you extroverted: you're in control; you're all alone, really; there's no real (only virtual) interaction between or among you. In my mind an extrovert thrives on live interaction with others, clamorous, busy, stimulating; on the other hand an introvert tends to thrive in a quieter, more solitary environment. Like maybe in front of a computer.
My quiet little 2 cents worth, anyway.
Or, more probably, is shy the same thing as being introverted? I do think many of us here would qualify as introverts. Stripping in private in front of a webcam to one or several members hardly makes you extroverted: you're in control; you're all alone, really; there's no real (only virtual) interaction between or among you. In my mind an extrovert thrives on live interaction with others, clamorous, busy, stimulating; on the other hand an introvert tends to thrive in a quieter, more solitary environment. Like maybe in front of a computer.
My quiet little 2 cents worth, anyway.
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
Agree. Im absolutely the same as you, I can't strip if I see someone eyes watching at me, and can easily do it if not. And about visit doctors too, I hate get naked for them. So...the work here doesnt make me more shamlessness in real world, I am still very shy girl in my soul....but I can get naked and even more infront of my computer being alone at home. Members who visit my room dont exist for me as real persons.
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
"Members who visit my room dont exist for me as real persons." It's probably helpful to think of them as cartoon characters lol.
RE: How can you tell if a girl it's shy or not?
Nobody should be treated badly, as a "piece of meat," whether you're introverted or extroverted, Instant Action or Make New Friends. I think it's fair to say a member might expect a host to be at least somewhat extroverted, either because she is trying to make a connection with you or because she's willing to strip for you.
But that's just a presumption. And, as has been shown by the responses to my post, a false presumption in many cases. So, no worries; you're in good company.
But that's just a presumption. And, as has been shown by the responses to my post, a false presumption in many cases. So, no worries; you're in good company.
SplitCam
Flashing momentarily across the field of vision, I see a sign. But what is it telling me?
older or less attractive guys in cam2cam
so lovely hostesses if it is the above does it influence or limit the way you perform for the paying customer?
RE: older or less attractive guys in cam2cam
we are professional. you men pay us girls here to serve you and get your sexual satisfaction from us from our minds and bodies.
you can buy them and your age or looks is not important.
but it is true that this type of sex is better for us and sexual mood too if you are nice and beautiful.
you can buy them and your age or looks is not important.
but it is true that this type of sex is better for us and sexual mood too if you are nice and beautiful.
RE: older or less attractive guys in cam2cam
The amount of money spent in paid video is the only influence. Nothing else matters.
RE: older or less attractive guys in cam2cam
to be fair i - and no doubt you - choose the hottest girls we can afford and sub the girls we like best only when and to the extent we can spend on them [no pun]. Net effect is a money calculation on our part too.
RE: older or less attractive guys in cam2cam
You write your service is really always the same?
Wow. Professional.
But for me to understand how this can work out there are two ways.
First possibility you are so sexual hungry and active the whole day that you can offer the same "service" to all strangers who want you. I searched decades in my life to marry such a willing girl.
Or second if you have to fake it it must be tough work to serve sexual demands of all visitors and please what they want from you and give it to them.
I appreciate the effort. It must tire you the whole day. I am interested how does it feel? Honest never thought of your work that professional. More thought of the fun part.
Must feel strange to do it for dollars but keep up the good work here girls and I hope we all have more fun and less work!
Wow. Professional.
But for me to understand how this can work out there are two ways.
First possibility you are so sexual hungry and active the whole day that you can offer the same "service" to all strangers who want you. I searched decades in my life to marry such a willing girl.
Or second if you have to fake it it must be tough work to serve sexual demands of all visitors and please what they want from you and give it to them.
I appreciate the effort. It must tire you the whole day. I am interested how does it feel? Honest never thought of your work that professional. More thought of the fun part.
Must feel strange to do it for dollars but keep up the good work here girls and I hope we all have more fun and less work!
RE: older or less attractive guys in cam2cam
She did not say her service is always the same at any day or time. Her reply meant that a guys looks or age do not affect the service she provides at a particular time.
cheaters please reply
so , u love ur wife/gf but u cheat . ararently u werent treated nice . cheat like 2-3 months thing going on. still all this time begging at home to be treated better etc etc. u get found out and u still beg and beg for forgivness . why not go for the other woman ? or any other woman ?
if ur so badly treated home why not give up. shes not asking u to stay . will not go find someone u will never cheat on no matter wot .
if ur so badly treated home why not give up. shes not asking u to stay . will not go find someone u will never cheat on no matter wot .
RE: cheaters please reply
so if u r a cheater when ur caught why dont u just move on ?
why keep begging and swear eternal love ? clearly there wasnt much love going on if you had to go and cheat rightio??
why keep begging and swear eternal love ? clearly there wasnt much love going on if you had to go and cheat rightio??
RE: cheaters please reply
I don't cheat; never have, never will.
However this is similar, I'd imagine to a man who hits a woman; says he's oh so sorry, then does it again; and so the cycle continues.
Both are slimeballs. He will never leave, because for whatever pathetic reason, he enjoys the process, and so it will continue.
Therefore, it is best if she leaves him; however this is often easier said than done for any number of reasons.
If this is not just hypothetical, best of luck to whoever is involved.
However this is similar, I'd imagine to a man who hits a woman; says he's oh so sorry, then does it again; and so the cycle continues.
Both are slimeballs. He will never leave, because for whatever pathetic reason, he enjoys the process, and so it will continue.
Therefore, it is best if she leaves him; however this is often easier said than done for any number of reasons.
If this is not just hypothetical, best of luck to whoever is involved.
RE: cheaters please reply
Sad but true. It takes years to build trust and a second to lose it forever. Unless you get a REALLY good reply to the question "Why did you do it?" (and I can't imagine a lot of replies that would change my mind) he isn't someone who has cheated just once: he's a cheater and nothing indicates that he has changed. So get out. Ask yourself this: is a person who cheats on you really worthy of your love? Don't you deserve better than that?
RE: cheaters please reply
anyone who can translate this and make it give sence? ;-)
(should be can you make any sense to this-not make it give sence I understood the original comment better then this
(should be can you make any sense to this-not make it give sence I understood the original comment better then this
RE: cheaters please reply
Since we are correcting spelling and grammar: it should be "better THAN" not "better then"
RE: cheaters please reply
So, technically, isn't CC'ing a form of cheating, if we are married, or in a committed relationship? And by CC'ing, I mean going into videochat for sexual reasons or for having a virtual fling (not just chat).
RE: cheaters please reply
I say it is emotional cheating. We have 'sex in the mind' here. But to be fair then it is cheat on both sides. Host and Member.
While you cheat you put everything to the risk. One of the worst things you can do to a relationship. But even worse would be to not tell and live with a lie and discomfort of detection every single second.
Your partner should deserve better.
While you cheat you put everything to the risk. One of the worst things you can do to a relationship. But even worse would be to not tell and live with a lie and discomfort of detection every single second.
Your partner should deserve better.
RE: cheaters please reply
So, technically, isn't CC'ing a form of cheating, if we are married"
No, not legally.
No, not legally.
RE: cheaters please reply
I am married, I love my wife, we have good sex, I want to stay married, but I still cheat. I "cheat" her on CC and I cheat with real women when I can. Why do I do it? Beacuase I am a normal man. Most men cheat. Some cheat and stay married. Some cheat and eventually break up. Also, about half the women I have cheated with are also married!
RE: cheaters please reply
so you love her but you still cheat. Why not try finding someone u can deeply love and u will not feel the need to cheat ?? is that not possible ?
how would u feel if she would cheat on you ?
am i being a idiot and actually all men would jump in bed with anyone who offers? can someone give me some hope ???
to this man that cheated on me ( because our relationship was rough and we werent getting on - excuses excuses ) i offered him to have a open relationship so we are both free to do everything we want with no jealousy and issues and he can screw as many c**ts as he wants ( i couldn't do it but only wanted to see if he would jump at the chance of it ) and he went mental. In under no circumstances he would not aprove of something like that.
aparently it was a mistake and he will never ever do it again.
how would u feel if she would cheat on you ?
am i being a idiot and actually all men would jump in bed with anyone who offers? can someone give me some hope ???
to this man that cheated on me ( because our relationship was rough and we werent getting on - excuses excuses ) i offered him to have a open relationship so we are both free to do everything we want with no jealousy and issues and he can screw as many c**ts as he wants ( i couldn't do it but only wanted to see if he would jump at the chance of it ) and he went mental. In under no circumstances he would not aprove of something like that.
aparently it was a mistake and he will never ever do it again.
RE: cheaters please reply
I will try to answer.
I deely love my wife. But I still cheat. My desire to do so is strong. So far, she does not know. I do not want to hurt her.
I would be happy with open mariage. We discussed this, and she did not want it. I do not think sex must be exclusive for 1 to 1 love.
This is just my view. I not judge others, but I see others here judge me. But I bet my marriage is better than most members or hosts here.
An I average? I really do not know. But i do know many men cheat.
I deely love my wife. But I still cheat. My desire to do so is strong. So far, she does not know. I do not want to hurt her.
I would be happy with open mariage. We discussed this, and she did not want it. I do not think sex must be exclusive for 1 to 1 love.
This is just my view. I not judge others, but I see others here judge me. But I bet my marriage is better than most members or hosts here.
An I average? I really do not know. But i do know many men cheat.
RE: cheaters please reply
so you love her but you still cheat. Why not try finding someone u can deeply love and u will not feel the need to cheat ?? is that not possible ?
how would u feel if she would cheat on you ?
am i being a idiot and actually all men would jump in bed with anyone who offers? can someone give me some hope ???
to this man that cheated on me ( because our relationship was rough and we werent getting on - excuses excuses ) i offered him to have a open relationship so we are both free to do everything we want with no jealousy and issues and he can screw as many c**ts as he wants ( i couldn't do it but only wanted to see if he would jump at the chance of it ) and he went mental. In under no circumstances he would not aprove of something like that.
aparently it was a mistake and he will never ever do it again.
how would u feel if she would cheat on you ?
am i being a idiot and actually all men would jump in bed with anyone who offers? can someone give me some hope ???
to this man that cheated on me ( because our relationship was rough and we werent getting on - excuses excuses ) i offered him to have a open relationship so we are both free to do everything we want with no jealousy and issues and he can screw as many c**ts as he wants ( i couldn't do it but only wanted to see if he would jump at the chance of it ) and he went mental. In under no circumstances he would not aprove of something like that.
aparently it was a mistake and he will never ever do it again.
RE: cheaters please reply
Hey there. Sorry you've gone though such crap with this idiot. Stay strong and positive, and you'll undoubtedly find someone else that's good to you. And yes they are out there.
As I said, I've never cheated, and never will. I would cut off my foot before I'd cheat on my gf or wife, and many of my friends are exactly the same way.
Some time ago, there was a post I responded to, asking about first time happy marriages, anyone know of any. Of my close long time friends, I knew of Nine of them. Of the common ingredients I mentioned, at the top of the list was loyalty. None of those people are or were cheaters.
There were only 2 couples that got divorced...so that's 11 couples total...9 very loyal and happy...2 divorced...of the 2 that got divorced the reason for one, sure enough was cheating.
So there you have it. There Are a number of good people out there...they don't cheat...ever... and they are quite happy. Keep looking, you'll find someone like that.
I guess an obivious clue or lesson as far as that goes: "birds of a feather, flock together" So if you know anyone like that...attached or not...see who their other friends are...it's likely they have the same principles.
A big hug to you :) Stay positive, and take care.
As I said, I've never cheated, and never will. I would cut off my foot before I'd cheat on my gf or wife, and many of my friends are exactly the same way.
Some time ago, there was a post I responded to, asking about first time happy marriages, anyone know of any. Of my close long time friends, I knew of Nine of them. Of the common ingredients I mentioned, at the top of the list was loyalty. None of those people are or were cheaters.
There were only 2 couples that got divorced...so that's 11 couples total...9 very loyal and happy...2 divorced...of the 2 that got divorced the reason for one, sure enough was cheating.
So there you have it. There Are a number of good people out there...they don't cheat...ever... and they are quite happy. Keep looking, you'll find someone like that.
I guess an obivious clue or lesson as far as that goes: "birds of a feather, flock together" So if you know anyone like that...attached or not...see who their other friends are...it's likely they have the same principles.
A big hug to you :) Stay positive, and take care.
RE: cheaters please reply
i think about the 'repeatedly': what if like a one time mistake and not 'intentionally'? talk about what you did or hide?
it is difficult maybe there is a reason behind it and talk about it is better?
and what if my man beat me and says he does it never again? it also only hurt once and there still can be love.
altogether this whole discussion about that we hosts also 'emotional cheat' with our work here makes me feel bad. especially where the poster above writes that cheaters are bad peoples. and i think i am not bad only because i 'emotionally cheat' with my work here and only one time three years ago in real reality i have cheat once with a man.
it is difficult maybe there is a reason behind it and talk about it is better?
and what if my man beat me and says he does it never again? it also only hurt once and there still can be love.
altogether this whole discussion about that we hosts also 'emotional cheat' with our work here makes me feel bad. especially where the poster above writes that cheaters are bad peoples. and i think i am not bad only because i 'emotionally cheat' with my work here and only one time three years ago in real reality i have cheat once with a man.
RE: cheaters please reply
If your man beats you, then be grateful that you have been given a look at what's behind the mask. The fact that he put the mask back on afterwards doesn't change what's behind the mask.
RE: cheaters please reply
I cannot see physical harm worse than emotional harm.
Physical wounds heal easily. Physical violence especially if inflicted by men is an unthoughtful first inadequate response. Often caused by lack of control over a situation and a feeling of being overwhelmed and helpless. Fight or flight. So pure physical harm in the heat of the moment is explainable and you can find excuses and ways to redeem.
Another story is the combination and the emotional pain coming with physical violence. But this is also without method and will not cause any deep going memories and damage.
Emotional violence on the other hand more often is planned black-hearted and wounds heal if ever slowly and stick. They change the view on trust forever.
I think your bias originates from the fact that overall women are physically weaker than men and therefore are helpless to physical violence.
If you happen to be endangered being weak for a moment then you can always be weak for a moment. So your partner would live in constant doubt. That already contributes to violence since it puts uncertainty and fear into your partner.
To do something with the self betraying excuse that your partner wouldn't find out is even worse since it even puts methodology into your black-hearted foul deeds and drives.
With cheating you betray and break an emotional bond built on trust and love. Or what is left of it. In any case your partner deserves to know and talk about it before you start with the betrayal. And if you cheat you should be that your relationship is not valuable to you anymore and be pretty sure that what you have or had is definitely over.
Just try not to cheat and rather stick to CamContacts. With your partners knowing in detail and accepting what you offer or what services you pay for.
Physical wounds heal easily. Physical violence especially if inflicted by men is an unthoughtful first inadequate response. Often caused by lack of control over a situation and a feeling of being overwhelmed and helpless. Fight or flight. So pure physical harm in the heat of the moment is explainable and you can find excuses and ways to redeem.
Another story is the combination and the emotional pain coming with physical violence. But this is also without method and will not cause any deep going memories and damage.
Emotional violence on the other hand more often is planned black-hearted and wounds heal if ever slowly and stick. They change the view on trust forever.
I think your bias originates from the fact that overall women are physically weaker than men and therefore are helpless to physical violence.
If you happen to be endangered being weak for a moment then you can always be weak for a moment. So your partner would live in constant doubt. That already contributes to violence since it puts uncertainty and fear into your partner.
To do something with the self betraying excuse that your partner wouldn't find out is even worse since it even puts methodology into your black-hearted foul deeds and drives.
With cheating you betray and break an emotional bond built on trust and love. Or what is left of it. In any case your partner deserves to know and talk about it before you start with the betrayal. And if you cheat you should be that your relationship is not valuable to you anymore and be pretty sure that what you have or had is definitely over.
Just try not to cheat and rather stick to CamContacts. With your partners knowing in detail and accepting what you offer or what services you pay for.
RE: cheaters please reply
Hey. Thanks for sharing that. I haven't been physically abused, nor have I hit a woman and never will...I also am not a cheater. Even so, when I read wordofreason's post i said, that Can't be accurate, No Way. So I thought I should say something.... then I read yours...dead on what I was thinking in general, with really deep specific insights based on your actual experiences and very, very well put. Certainly better than what I could have said; particularly...fortunately for me...not having direct experience.
So thanks again for that. For what it's worth, sorry for what you had to go through in the past, but glad to hear things seem to be going well for you now; at least as well as can be expected. Take care.
So thanks again for that. For what it's worth, sorry for what you had to go through in the past, but glad to hear things seem to be going well for you now; at least as well as can be expected. Take care.
RE: cheaters please reply
I hoped I chose the words of my last post carefully enough and with nuances and I did not intend what I wrote being understood as an attack or offensive.
Obviously I did not emphasize some half sentences enough. My mistake. I understand what you understood out of what I and others write upsets you. On this I have to admit that I am sorry if I did.
No to my knowledge I have never abused anyone. I would say I try to do the contrary.
During my former work I came a lot into contact and worked with women and men with experiences like you had and sadly you are no exception at all. It happens everywhere and more often than we think. So many people can share their experiences.
So I think especially in a _forum_ as the origin of the name implies nobody should claim to hold the one and only _truth_.
I on my side never claimed that _I know_ or hold the truth.
Maybe we know each other from my work. But most likely we do not. My work is why I have the privilege to be required to keep it away at a neutral professional distance.
Most of the times abuse is a personality changing turning point with harsh impact on social behavior but with professional help it will be bearable and finally solvable.
Obviously I did not emphasize some half sentences enough. My mistake. I understand what you understood out of what I and others write upsets you. On this I have to admit that I am sorry if I did.
No to my knowledge I have never abused anyone. I would say I try to do the contrary.
During my former work I came a lot into contact and worked with women and men with experiences like you had and sadly you are no exception at all. It happens everywhere and more often than we think. So many people can share their experiences.
So I think especially in a _forum_ as the origin of the name implies nobody should claim to hold the one and only _truth_.
I on my side never claimed that _I know_ or hold the truth.
Maybe we know each other from my work. But most likely we do not. My work is why I have the privilege to be required to keep it away at a neutral professional distance.
Most of the times abuse is a personality changing turning point with harsh impact on social behavior but with professional help it will be bearable and finally solvable.
RE: cheaters please reply
I hoped I chose the words of my last post carefully enough and with nuances and I did not intend what I wrote being understood as an attack or offensive.
Obviously I did not emphasize some half sentences enough. My mistake. I understand what you understood out of what I and others write upsets you. On this I have to admit that I am sorry if I did.
No to my knowledge I have never abused anyone. I would say I try to do the contrary.
During my former work I came a lot into contact and worked with women and men with experiences like you had and sadly you are no exception at all. It happens everywhere and more often than we think. So many people can share their experiences.
So I think especially in a _forum_ as the origin of the name implies nobody should claim to hold the one and only _truth_.
I on my side never claimed that _I know_ or hold the truth.
Maybe we know each other from my work. But most likely we do not. My work is why I have the privilege to be required to keep it away at a neutral professional distance.
Most of the times abuse is a personality changing turning point with harsh impact on social behavior but with professional help it will be bearable and finally solvable.
Obviously I did not emphasize some half sentences enough. My mistake. I understand what you understood out of what I and others write upsets you. On this I have to admit that I am sorry if I did.
No to my knowledge I have never abused anyone. I would say I try to do the contrary.
During my former work I came a lot into contact and worked with women and men with experiences like you had and sadly you are no exception at all. It happens everywhere and more often than we think. So many people can share their experiences.
So I think especially in a _forum_ as the origin of the name implies nobody should claim to hold the one and only _truth_.
I on my side never claimed that _I know_ or hold the truth.
Maybe we know each other from my work. But most likely we do not. My work is why I have the privilege to be required to keep it away at a neutral professional distance.
Most of the times abuse is a personality changing turning point with harsh impact on social behavior but with professional help it will be bearable and finally solvable.
RE: cheaters please reply
I hoped I chose the words of my last post carefully enough and with nuances and I did not intend what I wrote being understood as an attack or offensive.
Obviously I did not emphasize some half sentences enough. My mistake. I understand what you understood out of what I and others write upsets you. On this I have to admit that I am sorry if I did.
No to my knowledge I have never abused anyone. I would say I try to do the contrary.
During my former work I came a lot into contact and worked with women and men with experiences like you had and sadly you are no exception at all. It happens everywhere and more often than we think. So many people can share their experiences.
So I think especially in a _forum_ as the origin of the name implies nobody should claim to hold the one and only _truth_.
I on my side never claimed that _I know_ or hold the truth.
Maybe we know each other from my work. But most likely we do not. My work is why I have the privilege to be required to keep it away at a neutral professional distance.
Most of the times abuse is a personality changing turning point with harsh impact on social behavior but with professional help it will be bearable and finally solvable.
Obviously I did not emphasize some half sentences enough. My mistake. I understand what you understood out of what I and others write upsets you. On this I have to admit that I am sorry if I did.
No to my knowledge I have never abused anyone. I would say I try to do the contrary.
During my former work I came a lot into contact and worked with women and men with experiences like you had and sadly you are no exception at all. It happens everywhere and more often than we think. So many people can share their experiences.
So I think especially in a _forum_ as the origin of the name implies nobody should claim to hold the one and only _truth_.
I on my side never claimed that _I know_ or hold the truth.
Maybe we know each other from my work. But most likely we do not. My work is why I have the privilege to be required to keep it away at a neutral professional distance.
Most of the times abuse is a personality changing turning point with harsh impact on social behavior but with professional help it will be bearable and finally solvable.
RE: cheaters please reply
I actually like your post. Complicatedly but logically expressed. Perhaps you have some life experience.
Life is bloody difficult. I had many non-serious relationships and then I was cheated on- it still did hurt to a degree- not too bad.
I believe when you start relationships- you are never too serious, you flirt etc. At least when you are young and don't meet via a marriage agency with the agreement to marry. And I found out that while I was on the first stages not serious but faithful, my ex bf-s were even less serious- cold-blooded cheaters.
I have no idea - do men have different logic in general or I was with the certain same type of wrong men?
Now I am less young and cannot say anymore- I am sooo innocent, I have no idea how relationships function and can better distinguish good and bad people. And still relationship developments astonish me sometimes...- what should you look at when "choosing a partner?..."
Life is bloody difficult. I had many non-serious relationships and then I was cheated on- it still did hurt to a degree- not too bad.
I believe when you start relationships- you are never too serious, you flirt etc. At least when you are young and don't meet via a marriage agency with the agreement to marry. And I found out that while I was on the first stages not serious but faithful, my ex bf-s were even less serious- cold-blooded cheaters.
I have no idea - do men have different logic in general or I was with the certain same type of wrong men?
Now I am less young and cannot say anymore- I am sooo innocent, I have no idea how relationships function and can better distinguish good and bad people. And still relationship developments astonish me sometimes...- what should you look at when "choosing a partner?..."
RE: cheaters please reply
So you visit hosts and tell your wife all the details of the sessions you had here :0?
Now don't tell me you can foresee all that can happen in a session with a host and tell about it to your wife in advance..?
Now don't tell me you can foresee all that can happen in a session with a host and tell about it to your wife in advance..?
RE: cheaters please reply
You have problem with beat and hit and call that 'iredeemable'. And I have experience with cheat and call that that. You say you cheated. And I say cheaters can never have trust again because they cross line already once and do that a another time when a 'weak moment'.
You hurt and I learn not trust cheaters like you very painful.
You hurt and I learn not trust cheaters like you very painful.
RE: cheaters please reply
miss pissed off, you asked for it, and now you complain!!! You asked "cheaters please reply" and then you dump on the guy for honestly replying!!! Men Cheat!!! Why are women so shocked?
This aint news. I cheated on my wife, she found out, I am divorced. Big deal! I cheated on a longg time gf and got away with it. We are still together and happy. I do not cheat now. I might cheat again if the chance comes up. It aint murder, its just f...ing!
And some host compared cheating to pedophiles and wife beating!!! LOL. Get real! Those are crimes. cheating is not illegal in most countries.
This aint news. I cheated on my wife, she found out, I am divorced. Big deal! I cheated on a longg time gf and got away with it. We are still together and happy. I do not cheat now. I might cheat again if the chance comes up. It aint murder, its just f...ing!
And some host compared cheating to pedophiles and wife beating!!! LOL. Get real! Those are crimes. cheating is not illegal in most countries.
RE: cheaters please reply
sorryyyyyy princess!!! So having sex with a woman that wants it is just as bad a beating a woman that does not want it? I will think that over. Yuo are way smarter than me!
RE: cheaters please reply
my partner disagrees but i see and handle the whole thing different:
if she will not find out and there is no love and just a good f*** it is not cheating for me.
where is the harm of a little sexcapade if your partner cannot find out and all feel better afterwards?
everyone needs to let the beast out for a change and escape from reality sometimes.
and who can say without lie that he or she has never done that and was weak? can anyone? can you?
if she will not find out and there is no love and just a good f*** it is not cheating for me.
where is the harm of a little sexcapade if your partner cannot find out and all feel better afterwards?
everyone needs to let the beast out for a change and escape from reality sometimes.
and who can say without lie that he or she has never done that and was weak? can anyone? can you?
RE: cheaters please reply
So...what you don't know won't hurt you? So you'd be perfectly okay with your wife fucking half the city, as long as you were in the dark about it?
RE: cheaters please reply
very realsitic statement. A little fun on the side aint the end of the world, and no point telling any one. I think my wife cheated on me at one of her conventions. But I am not dumb enough to ask her outright. We have a good marriage. If we tried to have a perfect marrige we would both be single.
RE: cheaters please reply
I have noticed that people of 40+ don't mind much their spourses having affairs. My mum forgave my father his multi-affairs.
I would not be able to do so. Even if I went poor after the divorce.
I would not be able to do so. Even if I went poor after the divorce.
joke
A woman meets a man in a bar.
They talk; they connect; they end up leaving together.
They get back to his place, and as he shows her around his apartment, She notices that one wall of his bedroom is completely filled with soft, sweet, cuddly teddy bears.
There are three shelves in the bedroom, with hundreds and hundreds of cute, cuddly teddy bears carefully placed in rows, covering the entire wall!
It was obvious that he had taken quite some time to lovingly arrange them. And she was immediately touched by the amount of thought he had put into organizing the display.
There were small bears all along the bottom shelf, medium-sized bears covering the length of the middle shelf, and huge, enormous bears running all the way along the top shelf.
Although she found it strange for an obviously masculine guy to have such a large collection of Teddy Bears she was quite impressed by his Sensitive side.
But she doesn't mention this to him.
They share a bottle of wine and continue talking and, after awhile, she finds herself thinking, 'Oh, my God! Maybe this guy could be the one!
Maybe he could be the future father of my children!'
She turns to him and kisses him lightly on the lips.
He responds warmly.
They continue to kiss, the passion builds, and he romantically lifts her in his arms and carries her into his bedroom where they rip off each other's clothes and make hot, steamy love.
She is so overwhelmed that she responds with more passion, more creativity, and more heat than she has ever known.
After an intense, explosive night of raw passion with this sensitive guy, while they are lying there together in the afterglow, the woman rolls over, gently strokes his chest and asks coyly,
'Well, how was it?'
The guy gently smiles at her, strokes her cheek, looks deeply into her eyes, and says:
'Help yourself to any prize from the middle shelf!'
They talk; they connect; they end up leaving together.
They get back to his place, and as he shows her around his apartment, She notices that one wall of his bedroom is completely filled with soft, sweet, cuddly teddy bears.
There are three shelves in the bedroom, with hundreds and hundreds of cute, cuddly teddy bears carefully placed in rows, covering the entire wall!
It was obvious that he had taken quite some time to lovingly arrange them. And she was immediately touched by the amount of thought he had put into organizing the display.
There were small bears all along the bottom shelf, medium-sized bears covering the length of the middle shelf, and huge, enormous bears running all the way along the top shelf.
Although she found it strange for an obviously masculine guy to have such a large collection of Teddy Bears she was quite impressed by his Sensitive side.
But she doesn't mention this to him.
They share a bottle of wine and continue talking and, after awhile, she finds herself thinking, 'Oh, my God! Maybe this guy could be the one!
Maybe he could be the future father of my children!'
She turns to him and kisses him lightly on the lips.
He responds warmly.
They continue to kiss, the passion builds, and he romantically lifts her in his arms and carries her into his bedroom where they rip off each other's clothes and make hot, steamy love.
She is so overwhelmed that she responds with more passion, more creativity, and more heat than she has ever known.
After an intense, explosive night of raw passion with this sensitive guy, while they are lying there together in the afterglow, the woman rolls over, gently strokes his chest and asks coyly,
'Well, how was it?'
The guy gently smiles at her, strokes her cheek, looks deeply into her eyes, and says:
'Help yourself to any prize from the middle shelf!'
pickles
A couple comes to a new town and the guy gets a job at the local pickle factory. A few years go by and each year he wins the employee of the year award. One day he comes home looking all depressed.
His wife asks him what the matter is to which he responds he got fired.
"FIRED?!? How can you get fired, you're always employee of the year!!" she asked, stunned.
To this he responds that he had another fantasy he needed to fulfill and it got him fired...
"Oh no, not again...What did you do this time?" she asks.
Well, I always fantasized about sticking my willy in the pickle slicer.
"You didn't!" she hoped.
He blushed and replied, "Well, yes I did."
Then she asks, "Did it hurt?"
"No" answers the man.
Puzzled she then asks, "Well what happened to the pickle slicer??"
He answers, "Oh, she got fired too!"
His wife asks him what the matter is to which he responds he got fired.
"FIRED?!? How can you get fired, you're always employee of the year!!" she asked, stunned.
To this he responds that he had another fantasy he needed to fulfill and it got him fired...
"Oh no, not again...What did you do this time?" she asks.
Well, I always fantasized about sticking my willy in the pickle slicer.
"You didn't!" she hoped.
He blushed and replied, "Well, yes I did."
Then she asks, "Did it hurt?"
"No" answers the man.
Puzzled she then asks, "Well what happened to the pickle slicer??"
He answers, "Oh, she got fired too!"
RE: Anyone from Uzbekistan???
A search on chathost search, by country, reveals 11 hosts from there who have been on line this year, some very recently. Good luck.
RE: Anyone from Uzbekistan???
there are more but they tend to hide it, usually the russian speaking asian hosts
Something to think about when complaining about hosts with bad english :)
Some reasons why the English language is hard to learn...
The bandage was wound around the wound.
The farm was used to produce produce.
The dump was so full that it had to refuse more refuse
We must polish the Polish furniture.
He could lead if he would get the lead out.
The soldier decided to desert his dessert in the desert.
Since there is no time like the present, he thought it was time to present the present.
A bass was painted on the head of the bass drum.
When shot at, the dove dove into the bushes.
I did not object to the object.
The insurance was invalid for the invalid.
There was a row among the oarsmen about how to row.
They were too close to the door to close it.
The buck does funny things when the does are present.
A seamstress and a sewer fell down into a sewer line.
To help with planting, the farmer taught his sow to sow.
The wind was too strong to wind the sail.
After a number of injections my jaw got number.
Upon seeing the tear in the painting I shed a tear.
I had to subject the subject to a series of tests.
How can I intimate this to my most intimate friend?
The bandage was wound around the wound.
The farm was used to produce produce.
The dump was so full that it had to refuse more refuse
We must polish the Polish furniture.
He could lead if he would get the lead out.
The soldier decided to desert his dessert in the desert.
Since there is no time like the present, he thought it was time to present the present.
A bass was painted on the head of the bass drum.
When shot at, the dove dove into the bushes.
I did not object to the object.
The insurance was invalid for the invalid.
There was a row among the oarsmen about how to row.
They were too close to the door to close it.
The buck does funny things when the does are present.
A seamstress and a sewer fell down into a sewer line.
To help with planting, the farmer taught his sow to sow.
The wind was too strong to wind the sail.
After a number of injections my jaw got number.
Upon seeing the tear in the painting I shed a tear.
I had to subject the subject to a series of tests.
How can I intimate this to my most intimate friend?
RE: Something to think about when complaining about hosts with bad english :)
Here's a teaser for you concerning the English language. Try writing a perfectly grammatical sentence (though not one with necessarily any profound meaning!) that contains the same word 11 times consecutively.
RE: Something to think about when complaining about hosts with bad english :)
That's the had had had had one, isn't it :)
Let me find it...
James while John had had had had had had had had had had had a better effect on the teacher.
Let me find it...
James while John had had had had had had had had had had had a better effect on the teacher.
RE: Something to think about when complaining about hosts with bad english :)
Mel got the answer....but it does need a little punctuation added :-)
RE: Something to think about when complaining about hosts with bad english :)
This one only has eight words consecutively but then there are only eight words in the sentence.
Buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo
Buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo
RE: Something to think about when complaining about hosts with bad english :)
Very good, but the past tense of the verb "dive" is not "dove" but "dived.
RE: Something to think about when complaining about hosts with bad english :)
I would never use dove as the past tense of dive but Adayla is correct.
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
..your mouth seems to be kinda what the guys call "duck mouth",and there is no way you were born with it.Certain things just do not seem to look natural-though your intention was to look as natural as possible.Even liposuction is obvious,a flat tummy looks way different when you work out in order to get it.As long as you feel good about it-everything is ok,haters gonna hate.When you sell an image,that image will be endlessly discussed.I truly believe men would prefer us much more open mind in some other ways instead of being obsessed with perfection-self confidence is sexy,plastic surgery just shows how insecure in fact you are.Just my 2 cents.
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
doesnt take much examination of her first pics to the most recent one of her face to realize she had no work done on her lips
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
I think she was using Liposuction as an example of how surgical alterations never quite look as good as the naturally fit body. I don't think she was criticizing you or suggesting that you had liposuction.
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
you look cute eve.. its obvious that you made breast and butt implants but about eyebrows i agree they look very natural
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
All hosts on site are selling their product/service to paying customers. The Viewer Forum is a place where members discuss the products being offered for sale on site. It's really that simple. And like anything else, people only hear and see what they want to see.
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
you look fantastic, sugar. I love ur big love pillows. and ur sexy lips look all natural to me. and what a perfect ass. don't listen to the dougie downers here - you look great.
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
You look absolutely fine to me. I'm really an ass man but if I have to go for boobs give me a lovely pair like yours any day :)
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
Some members are not fans of cosmetic breast enhancement, and I count myself among them. But it's your body and your decision, and you certainly don't have to answer to me or to anyone else here. I know I have body parts I would improve with surgery if I could lol.
The cruel words were uncalled for and I hope those who uttered them now regret them.
The cruel words were uncalled for and I hope those who uttered them now regret them.
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
Eve, you are beautiful woman. Please explain why you decided to enhance yr breasts? I am curious why you decided. I think yr breasts look great now, but also great before.
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
why not? :)) we women always want to change something :))
RE: What the hell are talking about me?
Eve doesn't owe you, me, or anyone else an explanation of why she got her breasts enhanced. Obviously she wanted it done. Her reasons are personal, and no one's business but hers. If she is happy with it, then that is all that matters.
SoGlamourous
This lady is a star in herself. A dungeon queen with an attitude that dazzles any mind. Merely looking at her, twitches my balls and oozes my cock. She is wicked, wild and a wanker's mirage!
RE: SoGlamourous
LOL I was just going to post the same thing, then I read your post. Great minds think alike
RE: riddles :)
1, Lunch & Dinner
2. Is a clock face
3. Its a bed or a bottle, optional
4. Unknown
5. A man/woman riding a horse.
What has a ring, but no finger?
2. Is a clock face
3. Its a bed or a bottle, optional
4. Unknown
5. A man/woman riding a horse.
What has a ring, but no finger?
RE: riddles :)
1. Lunch and Dinner
2. A clock
3. A bottle
4. Ohio
5. A 3 legged man having sex with a 3 legged monkey
2. A clock
3. A bottle
4. Ohio
5. A 3 legged man having sex with a 3 legged monkey
RE: riddles :)
1-4 correct!
5- a man + any animal with 4 legs and a tail (horse, cow, dog, cat)
5- a man + any animal with 4 legs and a tail (horse, cow, dog, cat)
RE: ССmail
try: account management, manage email subscriptions, chathose related automated notifcation
RE: I wonder ...
Ok, so long as it's not drob de miel for breakfast, lunch and dinner! Registry office or church? :-)
RE: I wonder ...
Yes... what the hell, I've already been married 3 times. I'm ready again. lol ;*)
RE: I wonder ...
Another young and beautiful Romanian not married..and from where i come from sooo many lonely men.....If there was just someway i could figure out to get these people together i could be come rich......hmmmmmmmm...xoxo