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RE: Bigboys do cry.....
The only reason men think they shouldnt' cry is that there is that type of ppl who say to their lil sons "Stop crying now ! Men don't cry ! " they make their lil boys beleive that if they express their emotions (which is necessary) they wont 'become real men. that's stupid coz every person, both a woman and a man, needs to let their emotions out, esp those that come out with tears. if not, they hide them inside and one day they came come out in not a good way. of course a man shoudlnt' cry everytime he doesn't get what he wants, but emotions is a natural thing, and aint a man a creature of nature just like a woman is ?
RE: Bigboys do cry.....
Your right TRIKSY when I was young my dad was always telling me that men didn't cry. He also used to get mad if any of the tears fell onto my pretty pink dress as he said they would ruin it :D
RE: Bigboys do cry.....
but didn't the portugese players act like women all game - diving, cheating and moaning all through the game
RE: Bigboys do cry.....
In the 1968 Presidential Democratic primary election, it is widely believed that anti war candidate Senator Eugene Mc Carthy lost because he had cried during one of his speeches. And I have to digress a bit and mention that big pop hit in 1961 by Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons, "Big Girls Don't Cry".
RE: Bigboys do cry.....
I cant agree "Man who can cry easily r real winners in life".May be who can cry but not who can easily cry.
And this is all males and females different educations.In our childhood girls may be either punished or fondled for something and boys may be even praised or laughed at for the same thing.
For example.Girls and boys fights.If girl will win she may be punished as it is considered she acted badly.Boy may be praised as he won as real small man if not by his mother or adult then by other boys.And so on.
They grow up in such conditions and this puts its influence on them.
Well actually Im more tured on by ppl who can put up with some small disasters and wont cry easily for any reason.
And what do you think about girl or woman who cant cry?
And this is all males and females different educations.In our childhood girls may be either punished or fondled for something and boys may be even praised or laughed at for the same thing.
For example.Girls and boys fights.If girl will win she may be punished as it is considered she acted badly.Boy may be praised as he won as real small man if not by his mother or adult then by other boys.And so on.
They grow up in such conditions and this puts its influence on them.
Well actually Im more tured on by ppl who can put up with some small disasters and wont cry easily for any reason.
And what do you think about girl or woman who cant cry?
RE: Bigboys do cry.....
It is mainly down to the way Men are brought up and the peer pressure that they suffer. Men supposedly should supress thier emotions and "crying is for girls". My view is that whilst nobody would want a weepy man all the time there are times when its OK for men to cry. When my mother died from cancer no-one was going to stop me from letting out a few tears.
To Max
Hmmm.Im going to laugh now."Tears for girls"?
Well actually I dont mind to cry if I want.I dont think its healthy to try to put up with some emotional or whatever your inside processes.
But there are moments when you want to cry you need to cry as you feel this may release you form this tense.But you cant.
And somethign like a snowball inside you is moving storming but cant find its way out.This negative energy may accumulate and may have bad influence on your health.dont you thin this may be one of the reasons that average men life expectancy is shorter than it is for women?
I dont mean you should go out and cry in front of all.But you may go away and release yourself from this alone.
Well actually I dont mind to cry if I want.I dont think its healthy to try to put up with some emotional or whatever your inside processes.
But there are moments when you want to cry you need to cry as you feel this may release you form this tense.But you cant.
And somethign like a snowball inside you is moving storming but cant find its way out.This negative energy may accumulate and may have bad influence on your health.dont you thin this may be one of the reasons that average men life expectancy is shorter than it is for women?
I dont mean you should go out and cry in front of all.But you may go away and release yourself from this alone.
RE: Bigboys do cry.....
Whoever said that
Big boys don't cry
You say you never
Shed a tear
Well, listen
That's a lie
We're all
Defenseless
When it comes to pain
I said boys and girls
Alike
Yeah,
We're all the same
It's my party
I'll cry if I want to
Big boys don't cry
As if nothing
Seems to matter
Big boys don't cry
Then why do I
Big boys don't cry
Because nothing
In this world
Ever matters
Big boys don't cry
Hey, I'm not ashamed
To say a tear
Is in my eye
Because another tear
Will take its place
Before I die
Big boys don't cry
You say you never
Shed a tear
Well, listen
That's a lie
We're all
Defenseless
When it comes to pain
I said boys and girls
Alike
Yeah,
We're all the same
It's my party
I'll cry if I want to
Big boys don't cry
As if nothing
Seems to matter
Big boys don't cry
Then why do I
Big boys don't cry
Because nothing
In this world
Ever matters
Big boys don't cry
Hey, I'm not ashamed
To say a tear
Is in my eye
Because another tear
Will take its place
Before I die
RE: Bigboys do cry.....
I absolutely agree with what you are saying. I was trying to say that people tell you men should not cry but they are wrong. Holding emotion in as you say is unhealthy.
RE: Bigboys do cry.....
The topic of this thread sounds very similiar to something I have heard women say thousands of times... they want to be with a sensitive man. But it simply isn't true. In truth, the sensitive man is only appealing to them in their dreams. In real life they usually lose respect for him quickly and leave him for a not so sensitive man. Because whether they will admit it or not, (or perhaps they do not even consciously realize that unconsciously they react to it this way) a man crying is a sign of weakness to them... except with very good reason on rare occassions, such as the death of one of their parents, or their child, or a best friend. In reality a woman wants a man that is strong and remains calm and unemotional in tough situations so that she can lean on him and rely on him for support. She wants a rock. When a woman says she wants a sensitive man what she really means is she wants a man that is sensitive to HER feelings and who will comfort and console her when she needs it. That is why if you really want to understand women pay less attention to what they say and pay more attention to how they behave and what they do... that's where the truth is. You'll be amazed at how often their words and their actions blatantly contradict each other. And even more amazed to discover that most of the time they are not even consciously aware of the contradiction.
to ccm
Hmm well I'll tell only frem myself as I cant answer from all women.But I do really think majority of women want to be with not with a sensitive man but with a reliable man. But Id like him to understand.I dont want him to be a sissy.I cant stand such a feature in women and men too.Something like if man starts to moan to loose control when you meet with some life trouble.You need thim to be united with you so together it would be easier to solve the problem and he wents to the nearest bar and got totally drunken.
For example woman is pregnant she needs his support.She needs areliable man who can suport her as she is not able to work and provide herself during this period.But some men starts to feel scared and run away.Or add problems instead of moving some problems from her shoulders.And woman have to take all problems on her own shoulders.
Depending on the reason of tears I may react very different.this may annoy me or I may start to feel closer to the man. But also waching crying man or woman makes me very confused.I dont know what to do.Either to approach and try to console him or her or to go away and leave him or her to stay alone with his or her grief.Though I prefer to do as I would like to be done with me.I mean to go away and let him or her to release all without confusion about how will I react on him or her feelings.
But if I know the person better I know what to do.
For example woman is pregnant she needs his support.She needs areliable man who can suport her as she is not able to work and provide herself during this period.But some men starts to feel scared and run away.Or add problems instead of moving some problems from her shoulders.And woman have to take all problems on her own shoulders.
Depending on the reason of tears I may react very different.this may annoy me or I may start to feel closer to the man. But also waching crying man or woman makes me very confused.I dont know what to do.Either to approach and try to console him or her or to go away and leave him or her to stay alone with his or her grief.Though I prefer to do as I would like to be done with me.I mean to go away and let him or her to release all without confusion about how will I react on him or her feelings.
But if I know the person better I know what to do.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
Vera, my applause!
When I started working as a ChatHost I was curious about the same things. I even decided to make a free show for member who during his first visit will write me something like: "Hi, Apolla!" instead of "Hi! What's your name?"
Free show still waits for real gentleman. ;)
When I started working as a ChatHost I was curious about the same things. I even decided to make a free show for member who during his first visit will write me something like: "Hi, Apolla!" instead of "Hi! What's your name?"
Free show still waits for real gentleman. ;)
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
Well, i ran across this often too, but i dont' think the reason is they are not interested or smth... they just want to chat and want you to tell this info by yourself.. they are not in a shop, choosing smth they need by an annotation, they want personal interaction.. sometimes when i say my name or age, they say "yes, that's what i see in your profile.." or maybe they just dont' know what to start with and your answers to these questions give them some hints about your mood, your level of language and your willing to chat at all...
so pls don't get pissed off and dont' take it too close to your heart, Gort :) just enjoy chatting :P
good luck and much $$$$$ to you ! :)
so pls don't get pissed off and dont' take it too close to your heart, Gort :) just enjoy chatting :P
good luck and much $$$$$ to you ! :)
RE: and one more thing :)
after all, i think all this profile thing is made for those viewers who are looking for smth certain.. i mean certain age or hair color etc so they dont' waste their and hosts' time in chat asking a girl those things. But generally a guy doens't choose you by your name or age or smth, he just wants to talk to you as you are so that's why he doesn't even need to read your profile. So.. again, Gort, just smile when a guy is asking your name and say It's nice to meet you when he says his :)
RE: and one more thing :)
Hmmmmmm.. You know something Triksy i never did catch ur name, and all this time i have been talking to you... :D
Holy feck i truly have forgotten Triksy`s name now.. What does it start with...... An M, maybe an I, S, T.. Damn R, E and a few S`s also i think. I`ll have to go see her and ask....N.A.S :P
Either my memory is going r i just fall under her spell everytime i see that gorgeous pout and smile.. And that beautiful face.. :)
All my hugs and kisses Triksy Minksy... :D
Holy feck i truly have forgotten Triksy`s name now.. What does it start with...... An M, maybe an I, S, T.. Damn R, E and a few S`s also i think. I`ll have to go see her and ask....N.A.S :P
Either my memory is going r i just fall under her spell everytime i see that gorgeous pout and smile.. And that beautiful face.. :)
All my hugs and kisses Triksy Minksy... :D
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
Hi Gorty! I wanna know u better..., so i have only 3 questions to you:
1. Whats your real name?:PP
2. Where are you from?:PP
3. How old are you?:PP
Ps: Agree with Trik:DD
1. Whats your real name?:PP
2. Where are you from?:PP
3. How old are you?:PP
Ps: Agree with Trik:DD
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
In fact it is not necessary to read the profile to see the hosts age and name. These are shown below the image of the host on the chat screen. On the other hand I have chetted with many hosts who have not bothered to change this so it is often not accurrate. This may be why a member wishes to confirm it.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
one reason people have to ask things is becos alot of the information on the profiles is incorrect becos it belonged to another host who had the name before. also, many names on the profile r different from the name of the host or what she wants to be called.
RE: to Anonymous
Your behave is really unfriendly gortensia. With such an attitude i would left your text chat immediatelly too. Thanks for noticing me, so i can avoid you.
RE: to Anonymous
Again
Me :"Hi.Hru?"
He:"Hi.Im great and you?"
Me :Me 2
He: "whats your name?"
Me:"Havent you read my profile?"
He:"No."
Me:"Can you be so kind to go and look it?"
He:"What a bitch!Is it so difficult to tell me?"
It wasnt about name or whatever.It was about he didnt read it and wasnt even interested to see it at all.Then what for to ask me about this?
I think I was very polite.I requested him to go and read my profile.
Thx for replies triks,Famcy,chathostk, Alex and others:P
RE: to Anonymous
My opinion is still, that you were unfriendly. Why he should look at your profile, when he is in your textchat already? Was a simple question. Instead of you told your name for him, you started playing. I dont like this and he didnt like that too. He had right and left you. Maybe he shouldnt have called you a bitch, but he did well and left you.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
All I ask the host is to stand up. What so hard? :P
dear "Gortensia"
I'm not even going to read all these other replies before I give mine, but the answer is simple... Many, many, many hosts don't even take 5 minutes to fill out the form and in studios they don't bother to change anything other than the photo year after year. Some hosts don't fill them out at all.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
"cant stand when ppl enter my text chat or video and ask my name, country and so on.I"
lol i usually don't mind if viwer asks my name age & location in VIDEO :P
but there is one thing that i hate (speccially in text chat). When viwer comes & asks "what can u do for me?" Well, a lot . Should i name ALL i have ever done on video??? Isn't it easier just to ask what r u looking for, what r u in a mood for??? So i could answer if i able or will do this type of show or not?
lol i usually don't mind if viwer asks my name age & location in VIDEO :P
but there is one thing that i hate (speccially in text chat). When viwer comes & asks "what can u do for me?" Well, a lot . Should i name ALL i have ever done on video??? Isn't it easier just to ask what r u looking for, what r u in a mood for??? So i could answer if i able or will do this type of show or not?
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
Could it be that some or possibly many viewers can't read, or are too lazy to read? Or could it be that they are blinded by the great beauty of the host and are not able to read, think or function at all?
Ok, just trying to be as sarcastic as WTF. But he is the king of sarcasm, no doubt.
Ok, just trying to be as sarcastic as WTF. But he is the king of sarcasm, no doubt.
to Amanda
Hmmm.. I dont want to put something too thoughtful, or charisma thoughts on my profile.What for?Its not such a site... About my age.I didnt put there anythign at all.CC put there 0.As I noticed anyway all ask me about my age and I answer them.They ask me either :"How old re you?" or "Are you really 22?" Well about outside.As here is told you try to compare ass and finger.THey are different things.Outside noone asks me after 2 sentences "Will you strip for me?".I dont show my passport even here.LOL May be I dont notice something about other opinions.But do you see and notice all feelings and opinions of others?
It wasnt order again.Grrrrrr
I allwasy ask have they read my profile.They answer NO.I tihnk now its you who shows how attentive she is to others opinions.You could have read my post at least before to reply.Thx for you optimistic foresee about my future here.
Pls could you be so kind and not to kiss me.This kiss of your wasnt so pleasant for me
It wasnt order again.Grrrrrr
I allwasy ask have they read my profile.They answer NO.I tihnk now its you who shows how attentive she is to others opinions.You could have read my post at least before to reply.Thx for you optimistic foresee about my future here.
Pls could you be so kind and not to kiss me.This kiss of your wasnt so pleasant for me
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
Well said Amanda. I think the same. She is just a little, arrogant, egoist nobody, who try promote herself here.+ a drama queen of course. Talking about nothing for hours.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
You said not to compare reality and this site (- virtuality) So dear, take my kiss as vertual one =) You are not my type of woman to have kiss more than that =) And still one more time... you are here WORKER first of all, you get money for pleasure guys.. not they have to pleasure you that much... You make situation when person will respect u by this way.. to watch your profile... to enter with hello and bye... Ok.. hello and bye.. i can understand this paranoic sickness of some girls.. they dont get enought of polite people in reality i guess, they wanna feel better in vertuality or they just mix too much vertual life and real life... but if man ask the name... this is already out of limit of my understanding.. You should be happy about it.. that someone noticed you at all and wanted to chat to you. You are not JLo that people come to you and already know your name and see your name in all yellow pages to remember.. You are just some Vera.. and you know how many Veras in the world?! Better do not count, will asleep.... If person will be interested in you, he will read all about you later after he know u online chat, he will even learn your profile but you, Miss, do not even let em chance to find you interesting. And many other... i feel silly when i talk to silly people =P So...
Epilog......
1. If you can not stand the question "what is your name", write the line in your room in publich "Read my profile first, remember each single word and esp. name, and only after that come back to talk to me, in case you had read it, tell hi and talk to me"
2. Come to the mirror (even better if naked).. look at yourself.. what you see? I think you get a complexed thats why you compensate it in different things as to be in attention and can not stant that person did not want to read your profile what means still more man Did not find you interested.. In this case you need to get over of your complex =) but not by making such princeples as asking person to go to watch ya profile..
3. Respect older people, dont ask em run after your orders, you will not break to answer nicly what is your name.
4. "Strip for me" after few seconds of knowing you... Dont forget that it is site for adult people.. and most of all not 22 yo as you are, they come here to get what they dont get in real or to try new experience or just to relax... and esp. when you are in adult category.. where you do it any way.. So do not be surprized to be asked "strip for me" after few seconds even... and for the your farther experience.. sometimes reality the same.. but they aske in real a bit different "will you fuck with me".. the difference reality and this site.. in reality u drink cup of coffee and they already pretent to fuck you because they paid coffee.. in this site they dont pretent because they pay and you do your job because you already allowed it by coming here to work.
5. Get real job that not to suffer or get the life to feel more open minded.
6. Many other... be countinued in case its needed... =))
Epilog......
1. If you can not stand the question "what is your name", write the line in your room in publich "Read my profile first, remember each single word and esp. name, and only after that come back to talk to me, in case you had read it, tell hi and talk to me"
2. Come to the mirror (even better if naked).. look at yourself.. what you see? I think you get a complexed thats why you compensate it in different things as to be in attention and can not stant that person did not want to read your profile what means still more man Did not find you interested.. In this case you need to get over of your complex =) but not by making such princeples as asking person to go to watch ya profile..
3. Respect older people, dont ask em run after your orders, you will not break to answer nicly what is your name.
4. "Strip for me" after few seconds of knowing you... Dont forget that it is site for adult people.. and most of all not 22 yo as you are, they come here to get what they dont get in real or to try new experience or just to relax... and esp. when you are in adult category.. where you do it any way.. So do not be surprized to be asked "strip for me" after few seconds even... and for the your farther experience.. sometimes reality the same.. but they aske in real a bit different "will you fuck with me".. the difference reality and this site.. in reality u drink cup of coffee and they already pretent to fuck you because they paid coffee.. in this site they dont pretent because they pay and you do your job because you already allowed it by coming here to work.
5. Get real job that not to suffer or get the life to feel more open minded.
6. Many other... be countinued in case its needed... =))
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
I think i love this Amanda girl. (Dont worry i love you too Triksy)
Amanda always tell, what is it in my mind too, just im too lazy to write so much, so i give only short answers to rude gortensia, but guess she does't mind that.
Amanda always tell, what is it in my mind too, just im too lazy to write so much, so i give only short answers to rude gortensia, but guess she does't mind that.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
I dont like gortensia because of things, what i have written before.
And yes, i like Amanda, because she write more than me. i am lazy.
Read again lol.
And yes, i like Amanda, because she write more than me. i am lazy.
Read again lol.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
hmmmm.. i can see many replies with clear answers to your question... and you still keep crying whyyyyyyyyyyyyy....
that makes me think you either are not just interested in listening to answers you were askign for... or ur just too mad with those who dont' want to see your profile, so you dont' want to accept any explanation of why they dont' want. maybe you wanted make those who read this go see your profile.. but honestly, i've just realized that i never seen it yet.
btw, agree with Amanda, that's what i was talking in my reply. asking personally is quite another thing than reading this info in a profile.
that makes me think you either are not just interested in listening to answers you were askign for... or ur just too mad with those who dont' want to see your profile, so you dont' want to accept any explanation of why they dont' want. maybe you wanted make those who read this go see your profile.. but honestly, i've just realized that i never seen it yet.
btw, agree with Amanda, that's what i was talking in my reply. asking personally is quite another thing than reading this info in a profile.
triksy
FIrst of all I dont cry.
Second I saw your opinions I told thx.
Third.Sorry for being rude but have you seen what i wrote?
If not then read the reply to Amanda pls.You didnt understand me at all. Though I understood you opinion quite well.And I told this.
Or you mean you dont like that I post here by your words that Im still posting here?If so then sorry I cant help you.If I want I'll post.Its you who may not read them if you dont like them
Second I saw your opinions I told thx.
Third.Sorry for being rude but have you seen what i wrote?
If not then read the reply to Amanda pls.You didnt understand me at all. Though I understood you opinion quite well.And I told this.
Or you mean you dont like that I post here by your words that Im still posting here?If so then sorry I cant help you.If I want I'll post.Its you who may not read them if you dont like them
RE: triksy
She never can finish it? As you can see gortensia the most of people here have another opinion like yours? I see it is very painful for you. You are the type, who try keep her opinion above all, even if you dont have right. I can just feel sorry for you. Try to be not so arrogant and rude, maybe people will understand you better.
RE: triksy
loool i never complained about your post telling i dont' like it !
yeah you read my and others' replies and after that ur going on with complaining... so what was the point of starting the thread ? to get an answer or just to complain ?
yeah you read my and others' replies and after that ur going on with complaining... so what was the point of starting the thread ? to get an answer or just to complain ?
RE: triksy
I wouldn't hold it against her if she only meant to complain.... She gave reason for many others to complain too.... Something a lot of people here seem to enjoy. :P
Very generous of her if you ask me. :)
Was the guy right in calling her a bitch? I don't think so.
Was Gortenisa being a little catty and indeed bitchy by telling the guy to go read her profile? I can definitely see how it might be interpreted that way.
All I know is that I find it best to at least try to use a little tact and grace and humor to get by such an impasse where two people feel offended or irked by the other... And really it's not too difficult to do most times, I find. :)
Personally, I always at least make a point to remember the host's name from her profile... If she asks for my name, I give it and chime in with a little "It's a pleasure to meet you, ......". Without having asked her name in chat and already having known it, it seems to earn me a few brownie points. :)
Very generous of her if you ask me. :)
Was the guy right in calling her a bitch? I don't think so.
Was Gortenisa being a little catty and indeed bitchy by telling the guy to go read her profile? I can definitely see how it might be interpreted that way.
All I know is that I find it best to at least try to use a little tact and grace and humor to get by such an impasse where two people feel offended or irked by the other... And really it's not too difficult to do most times, I find. :)
Personally, I always at least make a point to remember the host's name from her profile... If she asks for my name, I give it and chime in with a little "It's a pleasure to meet you, ......". Without having asked her name in chat and already having known it, it seems to earn me a few brownie points. :)
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
I've never read your profile TRIKSY. Too busy looking at the pics :P
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
I agree with your comments Gort... I think these guys have problem because they are not really interested in the person they are talking to, just the thought of cyber sex, so they think with the little head, not the big one (well, some think the other is big). I know I did make a small mistake with you awhile ago, but it was just because I was tired and not thinking properly. Most guys coming here (or any other similar site) do not really care about the person they are speaking to, just so long as they get their jollies.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
Heres a thought: camcontacts is NOT the only site that you get
your feed to. there are several sites.
each site is different with how it posts the information.
so, part of the fault is the guys, part of it is the host
who sends her feed off to who knows how many other sites.
your feed to. there are several sites.
each site is different with how it posts the information.
so, part of the fault is the guys, part of it is the host
who sends her feed off to who knows how many other sites.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
Anyway Gortensia ...whats ur name and do you strip...lol
RE: this needs to be in Hosts ONLY
think friend.by posting this here us thick members can read it & maybe realise that we ask silly inane questions
RE: this needs to be in Hosts ONLY
but then Gortensia wouldn't be the centre of attention again so has to be in this section
one more opinion
I dont think if anyone asks an information about you in your text chat and didnt see your profile bofore, it shows he is not interested in you, or doesnt like you...
As for me:
-if he is in your text chat... it's already shows he is interested in u! :)
-if he saw your personal information in your profile, but wants to ask u again...he is twice interested in you! :D
-if he asks it in your video after reading your profile...he is just forgot all he read there as soon as he joined your video and was stunning with your view :))))
And in my opinion even if u think u was polite asking anyone to have a look at your profile to get to know your name, age, country, etc...anyway it looks like "polite kicking off" :D...not that "polite" really :))))
As for me:
-if he is in your text chat... it's already shows he is interested in u! :)
-if he saw your personal information in your profile, but wants to ask u again...he is twice interested in you! :D
-if he asks it in your video after reading your profile...he is just forgot all he read there as soon as he joined your video and was stunning with your view :))))
And in my opinion even if u think u was polite asking anyone to have a look at your profile to get to know your name, age, country, etc...anyway it looks like "polite kicking off" :D...not that "polite" really :))))
RE: one more opinion
I do it for you Nadeen. Uhhh, maybe i should have told this in your private chat?:PP
RE: one more opinion
...but the best would be in your private bed:PP
Ahh sorry, naughy thoughts again..., maybe i am in deep hypnosis:-))
Ahh sorry, naughy thoughts again..., maybe i am in deep hypnosis:-))
RE: one more opinion
You didn't understand my point. Maybe because of my poor English... :(
Member can visit my chat with any purpose. He can be interested in me or not. It doesn't matter. I have to solve a task - how to behave to make him my constant member or at least rouse his interest.
Right now I can't boast of being a strong professional in this field, but at least I have a lot to learn...
So a member shoudn't be interested in psychology at all.
Member can visit my chat with any purpose. He can be interested in me or not. It doesn't matter. I have to solve a task - how to behave to make him my constant member or at least rouse his interest.
Right now I can't boast of being a strong professional in this field, but at least I have a lot to learn...
So a member shoudn't be interested in psychology at all.
RE: one more opinion
It's curious how some hosts here can have better English skills than most members and still feel a need to apologize for them.... I wonder about the psychology behind that. :)
Whatever the reason, it's pretty cute - in a preciously humble kinda way. :)
Whatever the reason, it's pretty cute - in a preciously humble kinda way. :)
RE: one more opinion
Ok then, I'm convinced... Your English is horrible. :P
Seriously, your English seems pretty good to me... It's certainly nothing you should feel the need to make sad faces about.
If you're not satisfied and want to improve it even more though, more power to you... Best of luck to you in that. :)
Seriously, your English seems pretty good to me... It's certainly nothing you should feel the need to make sad faces about.
If you're not satisfied and want to improve it even more though, more power to you... Best of luck to you in that. :)
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
I think thay ask u about yr name just because thay want u to ask them 4 thair names in return - that's all. Just answer them to be polite.No needed to be teacher here but just sweet little female for them ;).
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
sorry that this bothers you. I have actually visited profiles and had the name in the profiles not match the names they tell me. I would never address someone by name unless they have invited me to do so.
I'd be willing to bet there are a lot of chathosts that would enjoy exchanging general chit chat in video chat here at this site.
I'd be willing to bet there are a lot of chathosts that would enjoy exchanging general chit chat in video chat here at this site.
RE: Profile information.What turns me off.
I think it was really not so difficult to look at her profile if she asked
Just curious...
> I registered here 3 days ago
If you registered 3 days ago, how could you have on your personal forum http://www.camcontacts.net/forump.html?forum=87284&name=Katarinka message written in December 2005?
If you registered 3 days ago, how could you have on your personal forum http://www.camcontacts.net/forump.html?forum=87284&name=Katarinka message written in December 2005?
RE: Just curious...
hahahah
i guess she's really very new and doesn't know about even it's existance ! and that she should delete messages addressed to the girl who worked under her screenname before :D hahahhaha
i guess she's really very new and doesn't know about even it's existance ! and that she should delete messages addressed to the girl who worked under her screenname before :D hahahhaha
RE: what do you think about new faces here?:))))))
Now you have just frighten me Katarinka... CC is really a porn site??:PP
RE: what do you think about new faces here?:))))))
Hey Katarinka, you have lovely eyes too:-))
RE: what do you think about new faces here?:))))))
No matter if my glasses are on or off...your eyes are always shining like the Sun...and always smiling for me...they hypnotized me forever...:PP
dont read this
One man has solved to help 2 girls, whose car break in the middle of road. He took them on rope and have gone..... on the first traffic light girl`s car hit his car in back.... man get out of the car and sees that they just sit and read journal on back seat of the car
TOP TEN LIST- THE LAST THINGS A WOMAN WOULD NEVER SAY
10. Could our relationship be more physical? Im tired of being just
friends.
9. Go ahead and leave the seat up. Its easier for me to douche that
way.
8. Hey, get a whiff of that one!
7. Please dont throw that old T-shirt away. The holes in the
armpits are too cute.
6. This diamond is just way too big.
5. Does this make my ass look too small.
4. Im wrong, you must be right again.
3. Wow! It really is 14 inches!
2. I think hairy balls are so sexy.
1. I wont even put my lips on that thing unless I get to swallow.
friends.
9. Go ahead and leave the seat up. Its easier for me to douche that
way.
8. Hey, get a whiff of that one!
7. Please dont throw that old T-shirt away. The holes in the
armpits are too cute.
6. This diamond is just way too big.
5. Does this make my ass look too small.
4. Im wrong, you must be right again.
3. Wow! It really is 14 inches!
2. I think hairy balls are so sexy.
1. I wont even put my lips on that thing unless I get to swallow.
omg
"... yeah, yeah, I know I'm a dweeb for falling for it but I do a lot of soft shit like get cats out of trees, help old lady's across the street (there's a payoff in that though because I get to cop a feel of their asses) and buy girl scout cookies..."
you are so nice................... :) you make my heart melt :)
you are so nice................... :) you make my heart melt :)
RE: omg
me, shy? blushing? ... Psy, just the fact that you have taken time from your busy day to post something about me makes me as shy as a kitten and blush like a virgin on her wedding night.
RE: omg
I am sure some of them do ... one can but hope. And I have a banana here that you are welcome to get busy with ... ;)
I've been sacked from my job :(
EasyTouch my boss said that when you covered for me on Tuesday and I wasn't at my desk the amount of work that my department got through increased 3 fold and so he has sacked me :(
The worst thing is he said you didn't even turn up :P
Oh well they had to find out what a useless piece of shit I am sometime :(
Any spare time on your pc so I can become a host ?
The worst thing is he said you didn't even turn up :P
Oh well they had to find out what a useless piece of shit I am sometime :(
Any spare time on your pc so I can become a host ?
RE: I've been sacked from my job :(
Grrrrrrrrr I knew he was a liar EasyTouch. I knew a charming young lady such as yourself wouldn't let me down :)
But after an offer like that I now wish I really had been sacked :P lol
But after an offer like that I now wish I really had been sacked :P lol
RE: I've been sacked from my job :(
INYF, are you gonna cheat on me and do a couple thing with EasyTouch!! How could you after all we have been through! ... hmmmm, I just had a thought, we could make it a threesome ... one man, one woman and one banana ...
RE: I've been sacked from my job :(
Sounds good to me but I had better not be too presumptious and at least allow EasyTouch to answer for herself :)
RE: I've been sacked from my job :(
lol, ok but I think she'll be alright with it ... after all, in my experience, no chick can resist the big banana ... guess there's always a first time though and I actually think my ego could use a little deflating :)
RE: I've been sacked from my job :(
Usually and constant.. do they really go together in the same sentence? :P
RE: I've been sacked from my job :(
I was ironic.. constat means to me " all the time" while "usually" is a bit different from "all the time"..
But don't mind me, these days have been crazy, so I might just be a bit slower than.. usual :D
But don't mind me, these days have been crazy, so I might just be a bit slower than.. usual :D
RE: I've been sacked from my job :(
Wow your right EasyTouch there are two offers.
I was soooooo thrilled to be allowed to use your pc while you slept that I never noticed the second one :P
and Psy sorry but I see nothing wrong with the sentence "My tastes are usually constant". But then again I am an idiot.
Oh and by the way I have changed allegiances Gooooo Italy :)
I was soooooo thrilled to be allowed to use your pc while you slept that I never noticed the second one :P
and Psy sorry but I see nothing wrong with the sentence "My tastes are usually constant". But then again I am an idiot.
Oh and by the way I have changed allegiances Gooooo Italy :)
RE: I've been sacked from my job :(
Gah, don't mind me these days, I'm not well.. more than usual :P
Thank you INYF, I owe you a kiss :P
Thank you INYF, I owe you a kiss :P
wonder...
Hi all!
Wondering if here r guys who r Spanish or speak Spanish very good :)
Cause gonna start studying Spanish language and would like to know some naughty words in it ;) Gonna impress my teacher..hehe
Wish everybody a superrrrrrrrr good day!
kisses from Luv
Wondering if here r guys who r Spanish or speak Spanish very good :)
Cause gonna start studying Spanish language and would like to know some naughty words in it ;) Gonna impress my teacher..hehe
Wish everybody a superrrrrrrrr good day!
kisses from Luv
RE: riddles
1. Hmm... Don't miss?
2. Why would a dead man want to get married?
3. Once... Anymore and you'll be subtracting from 20, 15, etc.
4. Lunch, dinner
5. Damn dam! :P
6. Survive what? Those sharks are only imaginary. :P
7. Mount Everest... It was still there before being discovered.
8. Hmmm...
9. All of them.
10. 1 guy, 7 wives, 49 sacks, 343 cats, 2401 kittens... + the guy who saw them... Or just the guy alone if the guy and his wives weren't on their way to St. Ives too.
11. Eggs came first... Unless there were chickens when dinosaurs roamed the earth... In that case, dunno.
12. White... North polar bear white.
13. Hmmmm....
2. Why would a dead man want to get married?
3. Once... Anymore and you'll be subtracting from 20, 15, etc.
4. Lunch, dinner
5. Damn dam! :P
6. Survive what? Those sharks are only imaginary. :P
7. Mount Everest... It was still there before being discovered.
8. Hmmm...
9. All of them.
10. 1 guy, 7 wives, 49 sacks, 343 cats, 2401 kittens... + the guy who saw them... Or just the guy alone if the guy and his wives weren't on their way to St. Ives too.
11. Eggs came first... Unless there were chickens when dinosaurs roamed the earth... In that case, dunno.
12. White... North polar bear white.
13. Hmmmm....
RE: riddles
1. Watch this closely. I'm only going to do this once.
2. Probably not, since he's dead.
3. Just once, because after you subtract anything from it, it's not 25 anymore.
4. Lunch and Dinner.
5. "Damn."
6. Just quit imagining!
7. Mount Everest, of course.
8. A coffin.
9. Every month has 28 days
10. Just one, me (I saw a man...).
11. The egg, since Dinosaurs laid eggs long before there were chickens.
12. White. A house with all side facing south would have to be on the North Pole, where there might be polar bears, but no others.
13. Your mind
2. Probably not, since he's dead.
3. Just once, because after you subtract anything from it, it's not 25 anymore.
4. Lunch and Dinner.
5. "Damn."
6. Just quit imagining!
7. Mount Everest, of course.
8. A coffin.
9. Every month has 28 days
10. Just one, me (I saw a man...).
11. The egg, since Dinosaurs laid eggs long before there were chickens.
12. White. A house with all side facing south would have to be on the North Pole, where there might be polar bears, but no others.
13. Your mind
RE: riddles
1 - ?
2 - widow's husband is a deadman :P
3 - only one, after taht it will be 20
4 - lunch and dinner
5 - fish dont' speak
6 - natural selection works :D
7 - Mount Everest
8 - casket jeez black humor :D
9 - all months have 28 days
10 - a man and his wives and the teller :P = 9
11 - hahahahahaha the chicken i think, eggs can't walk
12 - white ?
13 - ummmm...is it a philosophical question?
2 - widow's husband is a deadman :P
3 - only one, after taht it will be 20
4 - lunch and dinner
5 - fish dont' speak
6 - natural selection works :D
7 - Mount Everest
8 - casket jeez black humor :D
9 - all months have 28 days
10 - a man and his wives and the teller :P = 9
11 - hahahahahaha the chicken i think, eggs can't walk
12 - white ?
13 - ummmm...is it a philosophical question?
RE: #6
loooool was gonna say smth like quit imagining but thought it would be a stupid answer ! haha but turned out to be the right one :P oh well
let's....
let's all talk about me now.after all,i am the so called "attention seeker" LOL
RE: let's....
Paco....self praise is no recommendation but fortunately there are others to do it for you...you are a posting legend here lol
Studio girls vs home alone
Some members seem to enjoy visiting home alone girls over studio girls. I do not have a preference for either. One thing is that studios tend to have better quality cams and better connection speeds. You might think that home alone girls charge less since there is no boss to split with. While some do, many charge as much or more than if they were in a studio.
RE: Studio girls vs home alone
why should the price to you differ? the service is the same. the reason there is a split with a boss vs. the total going to the host is the difference in who pays the expenses. yes the host from home gets the full cut, but they also bought the pc and cam (or rent them) and pay for the connection. it's not really fair for you to suggest a host should charge less, punishing her for having invested in her own business. the risk of not making money is all hers now. to me, she should charge as much as she can without losing business either way.
RE: Studio girls vs home alone
What money invested in the home business? Why don't you just use the PC that you already have for school, watching DVD's or playing video games and the cam you already have for yahoo. All you need to do is push the button or have someone push it for you. Or is that guy getting paid the big bucks? hehe.
Shit, if I was your BF I would help you with everything.
You can fool some of the people some of the time but you can't fool....um how dose the saying goes again? Well what I mean is fool me once...um...fool me twice ...damn no that isn't it. What I'm trying to say is you can't be fooled again.
Shit, if I was your BF I would help you with everything.
You can fool some of the people some of the time but you can't fool....um how dose the saying goes again? Well what I mean is fool me once...um...fool me twice ...damn no that isn't it. What I'm trying to say is you can't be fooled again.
RE: Studio girls vs home alone
By the way - some girls need to rent flats for working. I can't imagine working on CC & living with parents.
& then... Girls move to work at home to earn more &(or) work less - but not to become cheaper for members. Is it illegal???
& then... Girls move to work at home to earn more &(or) work less - but not to become cheaper for members. Is it illegal???
to stryker
hosts i know had to save up to buy a pc. where some of them live, there just aren't a lot of them laying around.
RE: Studio girls vs home alone
Also a studio gets bet utilisation from their equipment . In the ones where hosts work in shifts it may be used 24 hours a day. The cost of the high speed net connection and the charges for bank transfer are spread among several hosts not born by just one.
RE: Studio girls vs home alone
lol i just don't understand one thing... We all try to explain smth as we were GUILTY for doing charged shows here. Money - its why we're here. We have a right to set price, that we feel reasonable & there is no RULES telling that home working hosts HAVE TO charge less. So, why to explain anything? Let guys enjoy their dreams about small prices ))))
RE: Studio girls vs home alone
Girls who work from home should offer lower prices? Why? That's the craziest thing I ever heard. It's capitalism, friends. Hosts will set their prices in whatever way brings in the most money. They don't OWE us anything... it's not like cc is air or water or something we need. Nobody has ever died from not seeing enough videochat. This is true whether they are in studio or at home. Every studio I've heard of rewards its hosts for making more money. Some hosts do it by being busy all the time, some by making lots of money for each minute. That's the beauty of cc.
Alex, I don't want to hear a thing!
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Why the heck they won? :((
Why the heck they won? :((
RE: Alex, I don't want to hear a thing!
Nothing could be simpler: They have won, because Zidane scored the only one goal on the match:PP
What can i do, he is a great player:DD
What can i do, he is a great player:DD
RE: Alex, I don't want to hear a thing!
and Portugal had almost twice as many fouls as France.
RE: Alex, I don't want to hear a thing!
I hate you, you know?
Uffff I'll get some silence until saturday, and sunay.. oh, I hope they won't win..
Uffff I'll get some silence until saturday, and sunay.. oh, I hope they won't win..
RE: Alex, I don't want to hear a thing!
Ok Psy, but please come back on sunday, so we can celebrate together the winner of the world cup:PP
RE: Alex, I don't want to hear a thing!
Not even in your wildest dreams, Alex :P I shall never celebrate if France wins, I don't care.. not at all ( I mean, it doesn't make me any happier, but it will ruin my night and my good mood )
RE: tired
fucking "me" if you are so smart post here something funny and interesting - we will read only your posts then :P
Leave It To The Kids:-))
A three year old walked over to a pregnant lady while waiting with his mother in the doctors office.
He inquisitively ask the lady, "Why is your stomach so big?"
She replied, "Im having a baby."
With big eyes, he asked, "Is the baby in your stomach?"
She said, "He sure is."
Then the little boy, with a puzzled look, asked, "Is it a good baby?"
She said, "Oh, yes. It's a real good baby."
With an even more surprised and shocked look, he asked...
"Then why did you eat him?"
He inquisitively ask the lady, "Why is your stomach so big?"
She replied, "Im having a baby."
With big eyes, he asked, "Is the baby in your stomach?"
She said, "He sure is."
Then the little boy, with a puzzled look, asked, "Is it a good baby?"
She said, "Oh, yes. It's a real good baby."
With an even more surprised and shocked look, he asked...
"Then why did you eat him?"
New features?
A feature I like and use on another site is the ability for the member to post an open request to ALL hosts and then interested hosts willing to perform the request in vid could respond. Saving alot of search time and it also helps to bring compatible people together! For example: I could post to hosts that I was interested in finding a girl that would do roleplay in a bunny suit, and check my mail later for hosts that would do this in vid, etc.
What-da-ya-think? Other features wanted?
What-da-ya-think? Other features wanted?
RE: New features?
I have seen that feature and agree it would be a nice addition.
But my reason for replying was to know if you had the names of the girls who do role play in a bunny suit and did any of them go the whole way and create a little burrow complete with a little stash of carrots ?
But my reason for replying was to know if you had the names of the girls who do role play in a bunny suit and did any of them go the whole way and create a little burrow complete with a little stash of carrots ?
RE: New features?
I would like CC to create the guest files.. it is a feature in the same site u r talking about. It is so helpful to just click the guest name and see ur notes about him. U just write "Paul 30 essex, married, likes beads close up" and next time the guy enters ur video he is so impressed u remember him. I have so many guys coming to me a third or tenth time and disappointed i don't remmeber them. The idea of happy hour where u make 30 and then apply to host 1 hour for a flat income of 20 dollars is great too.
RE: New features?
well i think you just posted something for all the hosts to see
now just wait for your ccmail.
as for member profiles so all hosts can see that jz likes boobs and not toys, she can pvt me and say ' i have boobs wanna see'
not lets have fun with my toys. might save everyone some wasted time.
also a feature id like to see is
on my YahooMessenger if i how pointer over a friend, a little picture(aviator, i think) pops up. that could save some aggrivation.
now just wait for your ccmail.
as for member profiles so all hosts can see that jz likes boobs and not toys, she can pvt me and say ' i have boobs wanna see'
not lets have fun with my toys. might save everyone some wasted time.
also a feature id like to see is
on my YahooMessenger if i how pointer over a friend, a little picture(aviator, i think) pops up. that could save some aggrivation.
RE: Woo hoo!
In English it means... Umm.. "Bon Voyage" :P
http://www.masterrussian.com/blphrasebook.shtml
A little site that might help with your trip. ;)
http://www.masterrussian.com/blphrasebook.shtml
A little site that might help with your trip. ;)
Congrats to Italy
you kicked germany off, good job ! now my Portugal is closer to winning ! :P:P:P ahhh Ronaldo, my love...
hope france won't kick portugese ass :P:D
hope france won't kick portugese ass :P:D
RE: to RONALDO
awww Ronaldo.. after that thigh injury you will hardly be able to do that :P:P:P
lol as our commentator of the Netherlands - Portugal match said when the operator showed Ronaldo sitting on a bench ofter getting the injury.. "suffering Ronaldo..." that was the moment i started to cheer for Portugal :P:D haha
lol as our commentator of the Netherlands - Portugal match said when the operator showed Ronaldo sitting on a bench ofter getting the injury.. "suffering Ronaldo..." that was the moment i started to cheer for Portugal :P:D haha
RE: Congrats to Italy
Isn't C. Ronaldo the guy who pointed the finger of blame at all his teammates when Portugal wasn't performing well at the beginning of the tournament? Wasn't he the one who threw a hissy fit to get Rooney tossed from the match against England?
He reminds me of my little sister... Always bitchin' and moanin' about everything. I hate him... I hope France kicks Portugese ass so bad that they cry all the way back to Lisbon. :P
He reminds me of my little sister... Always bitchin' and moanin' about everything. I hate him... I hope France kicks Portugese ass so bad that they cry all the way back to Lisbon. :P
RE: to Anonymous
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL loved the part about crying all way back home loooool you sounded soo sincere :P
so sorry i didnt' see him play before the match with the Netherlands... but i admit you can be right and he may act not as a mature man... ahhhh Ronaldo... :P haha
so sorry i didnt' see him play before the match with the Netherlands... but i admit you can be right and he may act not as a mature man... ahhhh Ronaldo... :P haha
RE: to Anonymous
Yeah, yeah... He's a dreamboat anyway... I know, I know:P
All the same... Viva La France! :)
All the same... Viva La France! :)
RE: Congrats to Italy
Well I have now gone for Italy as I have just realised I have money on them to win :D
RE: Congrats to Italy
I've loved Portugal ever since the Eusebio days. However, I support Arsenal so difficult - Thierry Henri.
But I love you Triks so.......kisses
But I love you Triks so.......kisses
RE: Congrats to Italy
The half part of the Italy-France final solved yesterday. Today will be the other part too:PP
RE: Congrats to Italy
No, you're not sorry, I know it, I can feel some devilish aura.. brrrr
I'll try to get some sleep..
I'll try to get some sleep..
RE: Congrats to Italy (Triksy)
Bad luck Triksy ur love Ronaldo got kicked out.... But can i offer my services, not to kick ur ass but to gently spank it a few times :P hehe