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RE: PARFUMER story of a murderer
have read..... perfect.... today is first-night in my city, cant wait :)
RE: PARFUMER story of a murderer
Yes, I'm sure all those American guys who are aching to see a movie about a perfumer are all broken up. :P
RE: PARFUMER story of a murderer
Fantastic book, maybe one of the most vivid novels I've ever read!
RE: why many fake squirt?
damn, that was funny :) ... don't worry, you (women) are all still somewhat of a mystery to me and I don't profess to knowing everything there is to know about but guess what ... it's damn fun learning!! ;)
RE: why many fake squirt?
I think it apparent that the original anonymous poster was both a woman and host too.
RE: why many fake squirt?
Anonymous, you're an idiot. Try having someone read a book to you on the subject.
RE: why many fake squirt?
Angel, you too might read up a little. It can be clear, milky or yellowish in color. Your "props" to anon jump the gun a little. Maybe Ernie8 can send that book to you, and you can read it to anon!
RE: why many fake squirt?
Angel is correct. The others who claim different consistencies for the "squirt" (actually urine) just dont have broad enough shoulders to admit to themselves what they thought was real in the past, was actually a charade.
RE: why many fake squirt?
Don't be so bloody disgusting you horrible little perv! Quite put me off my cornflakes!
RE: it's not so good from hygienic point of view
Agree:)))lol...it really MUST be clear or transparent-white...White, milky, yellow, even light green(I saw this at some pics too^^) are the symptoms of any desease (lol-non-transparent yellow or light green comes with chronical gonorrhoea):))) Is anyone else want to fake the squirt here?
RE: it's not so good from hygienic point of view
why don't you tell your nick then?:))) my claim is not false, dear:) I can show you my MD docs:)lol - btw, normal level always have any exclusions - if you're one of them - congratulations! But we're talking about the big part of false squirts, right? It's really funny when everybody ready to show this really rarely thing and most of them don't know what it is in real: and how to show it correct:)))) BTW - Candida albicans makes all juices sooo white:)))Sorry, didn't want to offend anybody. People, if you want to show squirt - do it correct, please! or don't do it at all:)
RE: it's not so good from hygienic point of view
It is very revealing that the majority of posts in this thread either express cynicism about the "video" squirt, or expose it as a deliberate fake; and significantly, of those posts, the majority too would seem to come from women.
RE: it's not so good from hygienic point of view
Grr! Girls fake squirt with white coz its members, who wants to see "creamy squirt"... If members would pay to see hot pink or lime squirt - then girls would fake it....
RE: it's not so good from hygienic point of view
i was thinking it was real but then the bits of fruit kinda gave it away lol...
anyway
to be honest
i have seen yog used to neutralise the acid as a natural treatment on pussy , im told many women use..
i was asked to apply before also , was fun ,,
anyway
to be honest
i have seen yog used to neutralise the acid as a natural treatment on pussy , im told many women use..
i was asked to apply before also , was fun ,,
RE: it's not so good from hygienic point of view
Because yoghurt is a natural cure for yeast infections some girls suffer from.
RE: GIRL PROBLEM
I'm a guy, but I like to read or learn new things everyday. There is a sex show in USA on Sundays that I watch sometimes. The host on the sex talks about things about sex and is a woman. From her show I found out that most women don't orgasm from cock inside them. Some girls do and probably due to g-spot orgasm. Most girls cum from clitoral stimulation which you have mentioned. So I would say that you aren't unusual if you don't cum from vaginal stimulation.
More than anything, you should be happy with yourself and your body, and not worry if you don't cum from vaginal stimulation. Women don't always cum everytime from sex, and that's normal. All that should really matter to you and your bf is if you both had great sex and enjoyed each other.
I'm not a woman but women are so different than men in terms of climax. It depends on her mood, how hot she is, her stress level, when was last time she had sex, and so many other factors.
If I was you, I wouldn't worry to much about it, and just focus more if you both enjoyed the sex!
More than anything, you should be happy with yourself and your body, and not worry if you don't cum from vaginal stimulation. Women don't always cum everytime from sex, and that's normal. All that should really matter to you and your bf is if you both had great sex and enjoyed each other.
I'm not a woman but women are so different than men in terms of climax. It depends on her mood, how hot she is, her stress level, when was last time she had sex, and so many other factors.
If I was you, I wouldn't worry to much about it, and just focus more if you both enjoyed the sex!
RE: GIRL PROBLEM
ROFLMFAO... this posting cracks me up.
First of all SAD GIRL... not all women can cum from sexual intercourse.
Secondly, find a position that feels great for you and one he can sustain when giving you one.
Thirdly, stimulate your clit while he is "doing the business"
First of all SAD GIRL... not all women can cum from sexual intercourse.
Secondly, find a position that feels great for you and one he can sustain when giving you one.
Thirdly, stimulate your clit while he is "doing the business"
RE: GIRL PROBLEM
u cant teach ur body, some girls cum from sex , some from touching clit, very reraly both! u r the second variant as me! i cant understand this for a long time,but now i know it. and Dont warry that u cant cum from sex! its ok
RE: GIRL PROBLEM
A patient, loving man will get her to come first before he attempts penetration. This way she is stimulated already during intercourse and may come again and again as her excitement increases - little waves followed by the tsunami of her final climax.
RE: GIRL PROBLEM
Everyone is different with different needs and things/ways to get off. Sometimes changing positions to one that rubs against ur clit, like u being on top, can help. Best of luck and don't underestimate a well placed finger, vibrator or tongue.
RE: GIRL PROBLEM
your bf needs to slow down a bit and get your juices flowing with his fingers,lips and tongue before he even thinks about penatration then you should get such an orgasm that your stomach muscles will ache with pleasure :^P
RE: GIRL PROBLEM
Part of the problem, I think, is that you are focusing too much on having an orgasm during intercourse and it is preventing you from relaxing and just being in the moment. When you make having an orgasm a goal that you must achieve during sex, you make having sex a stressful situation, instead of what it is supposed to be... an intimate and loving experience between 2 lovers who shed all their inhibitions and become lost in each other. I think you and your bf should take a step back and start over from the beginning sexually. Instead of focusing on intercourse and having orgasms, you should spend a great deal of time exploring each others bodies, discovering all the places that give each other pleasure through various touches with your lips, tongue, fingers, etc. Listen to the sounds your lover makes and their body language to give you clues to what gives them pleasure and what does not. You should also talk to each other about the things you like. You could also guide your lover to show him the way you like to be touched... for example...place his hand on your p**sy and then put your hand on top of his and masturbate to show him the best and quickest way to always get you off. In this way he will be able to learn not only what places and movements you like best, but also the speed and amount of pressure that feels best for you. Remember that sex is not a task with orgasm as the final goal... it is an intimate exploration and expression of adoration between 2 lovers that surrender to each other. The only true goal that exists in sex is to become closer to each other and experience a deeper feeling of intimacy and connection to each other. That is what great lovers have tried to teach through writings like the Kama Sutra, etc. Good luck on your journey together.
RE: GIRL PROBLEM
If u used to masturbate alot touching the clit mostly not inserting fingers thats the problem
Wedding Night at home
Fred and Mary got married but can't afford a honeymoon, so they go back to Fred's Mom and Dad's for their first night together.
In the morning, Johnny, Fred's little brother, gets up and has his breakfast. As he is going out of the door to go to school, he asks his mom if Fred and Mary are up yet. She replies, "No". Johnny asks, "Do you know what I think?" His mom replies, "I don't want to hear what you think! Just go to school."
Johnny comes home for lunch and asks his mom, "Are Fred and Mary up yet?" She replies, "No."
Johnny says, "Do you know what I think?"
His mom replies, "Never mind what you think! Eat your lunch And go back to school." ; After school, Johnny comes home and asks again, "Are Fred and Mary up yet?"
His mom says, "No." He asks, "Do you know what I think?" His mom replies, "Ok, now tell me what you think?"
He says: "Last night Fred came to my room for the Vaseline and I think.....
I gave him my airplane glue."
In the morning, Johnny, Fred's little brother, gets up and has his breakfast. As he is going out of the door to go to school, he asks his mom if Fred and Mary are up yet. She replies, "No". Johnny asks, "Do you know what I think?" His mom replies, "I don't want to hear what you think! Just go to school."
Johnny comes home for lunch and asks his mom, "Are Fred and Mary up yet?" She replies, "No."
Johnny says, "Do you know what I think?"
His mom replies, "Never mind what you think! Eat your lunch And go back to school." ; After school, Johnny comes home and asks again, "Are Fred and Mary up yet?"
His mom says, "No." He asks, "Do you know what I think?" His mom replies, "Ok, now tell me what you think?"
He says: "Last night Fred came to my room for the Vaseline and I think.....
I gave him my airplane glue."
RE: Beer VS Pussy
The Count was close. Beer vs. Pussy. Seems that beer and pussy are both about equally appealing....yes they are...
and of course.....
I'll drink to that.
M-Man
and of course.....
I'll drink to that.
M-Man
RE: Beer VS Pussy
nah, I think there's a mistake at number 2. Sure, warm beer tastes awful, but then again, there are many warm pussies that taste pretty bad too, particularly if they have been warmed up by several hours of hot banana action. I think it's a tie :)
And of course there are other factors where beer picks up points - here are a few which I am sure can be added to:
- if your beer leaves a stain, it will wash out
- in a bar, you know you're always gonna get a beer
- if a beer has yeast in it, it is still working getting your mouth on
and of course there are other cases where pussy wins:
- if you think all day about the next pussy you will have, you're normal. If you think all day about your next beer, you're an alcoholic.
- there is no such thing as bad pussy.
And of course there are other factors where beer picks up points - here are a few which I am sure can be added to:
- if your beer leaves a stain, it will wash out
- in a bar, you know you're always gonna get a beer
- if a beer has yeast in it, it is still working getting your mouth on
and of course there are other cases where pussy wins:
- if you think all day about the next pussy you will have, you're normal. If you think all day about your next beer, you're an alcoholic.
- there is no such thing as bad pussy.
RE: Beer VS Pussy
I don`t drink so that makes it a full 10 for pussy.. :P
OK i`m off to find some pussy.. :D
OK i`m off to find some pussy.. :D
RE: many hosts piss me off
why waste your time with blah-blah-blah? I love when girls go straight to the point without wasting my time. I dont want to know what she has to say. Most hosts here are ignorants and lack of conversation, not to mention the bad english!
RE: many hosts piss me off
I am with "a member" I prefer to chat at least a litlte b4 a pvt. I like sex and naked girls as much as any nomral guyk, but its not all I want. i'm interested in conversation as well, however i'm not goin to go pvt for just talk if u r in an adult category. I go there when it is time for ..........
And if u talk with me and at least pretend like I mean more than $$$, i'm more likely to take u into pvt for .............
Just a hint....if in the first 60 seconds u ask me for a pvt, ur probably not gettin one
And if u talk with me and at least pretend like I mean more than $$$, i'm more likely to take u into pvt for .............
Just a hint....if in the first 60 seconds u ask me for a pvt, ur probably not gettin one
RE: many hosts piss me off
Damn... I hate when 2 ppl are correct from 2 totally different points of view.
I imagine the hosts have the same problem trying to figure out the members...
I've learned to see the girls who press the right buttons & I want to see in a vid, the others go for another type of guy to pay the bills...
Whatever, don't know if it is worth the effort complaining... or even getting upset about.
I imagine the hosts have the same problem trying to figure out the members...
I've learned to see the girls who press the right buttons & I want to see in a vid, the others go for another type of guy to pay the bills...
Whatever, don't know if it is worth the effort complaining... or even getting upset about.
RE: many hosts piss me off
I don't think it is worth to speak 10 minutes in free chat for let's say 10 in videochat plus we can speak in videochat too.
If the price is about $1 per min why bother free chat at all?
If the price is about $1 per min why bother free chat at all?
RE: many hosts piss me off
If u r the type who gets "fedup" with guys who just want to chat, remind me never to visit u...I realize ur all here to make money, and thats fine, but if u get upset at guys who want to chat, get out of shy cams and go to instant action. And another thing, for those who only care about the money, as i've said b4, stop puttin stuff in ur profile about wantin friends u liars!!! Tell the truth in ur profile and see how many payin guests u get
RE: many hosts piss me off
lol, excellent points Wheely man! Methinks the chickadees doth protest too much ... and I also think that the profiles are pretty much meaningless in a lot of cases, generally copies of what other hosts in the studios have written in the past. I take most with a grain of salt but I am still pleasantly surprised when I come across a well-written and articulate profile and I will (sometimes) seek out that host and see how chattable she is ... yeah sure, I have been disappointed on the odd occasion and have gotten the "hi bb, h r u", "what's ur name" questions followed by the inevitable "want to see me?" ... but I have also met some wonderful hosts who seem to want to talk and get to know people and, God forbid, actually make "friends" ...
RE: many hosts piss me off
lol Wheely, sorry dude, I was talking to Lyra ... but if you're keen, I'll go a round or two with ya and we'll see where the big banana ends up ...
RE: many hosts piss me off
hell yes! ... umm, which direction would that be exactly? ie, who are you?
RE: many hosts piss me off
Do u know how many hosts waste our time in video talkin when we aren't in there for that? it goes both ways. As i've said many times, I understand ur all here to work and make money, and i don't have a problem with that...I would never go pvt with anyone if I did have a problem with that...what bothers me is this idea that we are not worthy to talk to unless we are payin, or that friendship = our paychecks. Girls like that, I will avoid...the ones i do talk to might be only pretendin to be interested, but at least they take the time to do that.
i'm sure ther are guys who go pvt just to talk and i will also with girls i'm closer to and who treat me like a friend, but not when i first meet them. The exception to that is the non adult categories...since i know i'm not goin to visit them for a show anyway, just a chat.
i'm sure ther are guys who go pvt just to talk and i will also with girls i'm closer to and who treat me like a friend, but not when i first meet them. The exception to that is the non adult categories...since i know i'm not goin to visit them for a show anyway, just a chat.
RE: many hosts piss me off
"...what bothers me is this idea that we are not worthy to talk to unless we are payin"
Lol - paying is an easiest way to make talking worth... Most of members don't bother to make conversation interesting for chathosts, instead, they r waiting chathosts to entertain them. Entertainment - is a chathosts work, so no wonder that girls don't like an idea to work for free.
U tell, for hosts friendship=paychecks? & for members friendship=free entertainment (no matter adult or not).
Lol - paying is an easiest way to make talking worth... Most of members don't bother to make conversation interesting for chathosts, instead, they r waiting chathosts to entertain them. Entertainment - is a chathosts work, so no wonder that girls don't like an idea to work for free.
U tell, for hosts friendship=paychecks? & for members friendship=free entertainment (no matter adult or not).
RE: many hosts piss me off
"Lol - paying is an easiest way to make talking worth"
So, nobody here is worth gettin to know unless he's payin u to get to know him? do u charge guys in real life that come up to u to try to strike up a conversation and get to know u?
So, nobody here is worth gettin to know unless he's payin u to get to know him? do u charge guys in real life that come up to u to try to strike up a conversation and get to know u?
RE: many hosts piss me off
Hmm why do u compare CC with real life? In real life guys not behave as clients & its THEY, WHO TRY TO MAKE CONVERSATION INTERESTING FOR ME,. so - no charges) In real life nobody can come & without any "hello" ask " name, age location, tell me more about u... why don't u answer... hey bitch i'm talking with u" & bla bla bla
At CC as i said be4 even in FREE text chat guys don't bother to do anything to make convo pleasant & interesting for hosts, even in FREE they behave as paying CLIENTS, who have a RIGHT to demand & ect... "Come on bb, i'm bored, lets chat... " huh....
& one more thing... For most hosts CC 1st of all its a WORK PLACE. May be some of guys here worth a free conversation - but not in time WHEN HOSTS WORKING.
At CC as i said be4 even in FREE text chat guys don't bother to do anything to make convo pleasant & interesting for hosts, even in FREE they behave as paying CLIENTS, who have a RIGHT to demand & ect... "Come on bb, i'm bored, lets chat... " huh....
& one more thing... For most hosts CC 1st of all its a WORK PLACE. May be some of guys here worth a free conversation - but not in time WHEN HOSTS WORKING.
RE: many hosts piss me off
How not to be pissed off? Easy... Concider ALL what host is doing for u without per min fee as a FAVOUR, not as a things that they have to do only coz u registered member & "don't worry, be happy"
RE: many hosts piss me off
1st, the last anonymous was me..forgot to add my name, sorry. Secondly kate, not all of us can afford to go to video to "just chat". If u want to pay our bills for us, we'd be happy to. Remember, without us, u don't pay urs.
RE: many hosts piss me off
"Remember, without us, u don't pay urs."
Sorry for interrupting but can't keep silence... Yep without members at all we wouldn't pay our bills, but without some exact persons - easily.
U told, "not all of us may afford chatting in video" - understandable, don't chat in video find a girl who don't mind to get straight to business, but why u suppouse to get for free things that others pay for? & not only suppouse - u seems to think that u have A RIGHT for it... I just want to understand a logic... I can't afford to buy a flat right now - & huh! nobody going to give me a flat for free... Maybe i need to find some real estate forum & write there how i pissed off ab this fact? lol
& again ab free chatting. Sometimes my regulars have no time/money for video. They come to say "hi"to know what's new... I will talk to them - specially with thoose who r really nice to talk with. but exactly these don't stay fo a long, coz they RESPECT MY TIME . & why i should treat the same way some stranger, who i see 1st time & who in FREE chat behave like I HAVE TO DO smth for him...I'm wonder, why don't u find it strange??? Why u think u can get smth without giving anything instead???
Sorry for interrupting but can't keep silence... Yep without members at all we wouldn't pay our bills, but without some exact persons - easily.
U told, "not all of us may afford chatting in video" - understandable, don't chat in video find a girl who don't mind to get straight to business, but why u suppouse to get for free things that others pay for? & not only suppouse - u seems to think that u have A RIGHT for it... I just want to understand a logic... I can't afford to buy a flat right now - & huh! nobody going to give me a flat for free... Maybe i need to find some real estate forum & write there how i pissed off ab this fact? lol
& again ab free chatting. Sometimes my regulars have no time/money for video. They come to say "hi"to know what's new... I will talk to them - specially with thoose who r really nice to talk with. but exactly these don't stay fo a long, coz they RESPECT MY TIME . & why i should treat the same way some stranger, who i see 1st time & who in FREE chat behave like I HAVE TO DO smth for him...I'm wonder, why don't u find it strange??? Why u think u can get smth without giving anything instead???
to chathostK
you rock girl!!! you have summed it up perfectly about most members.i think once you enter a hosts text chat you enter her place of work.if members want to"get to know"a host talk in commchat.i do :-)))
RE: many hosts piss me off
Hmm, after reading all these posts, I've come to the conclusion I must have a particularly winning personality with the ladies. I've lost count of the number of times a hostess has said to me, "Hey, you've paid enough now let's go to text only and continue our chat!."
So, over the 14 months I've been here, I've built up a collection of female friends who happily chat to me for free, often with cam, sometimes with free strip, and whom I pay to vid occasionally to show goodwill and my appreciation.
Let's face it my fellow members, a lot of you just don't know how to talk to a woman to get her in the right mood!
From an irritating, superior bastard who can talk the hind legs off a donkey and knickers off a pretty girl! :)
So, over the 14 months I've been here, I've built up a collection of female friends who happily chat to me for free, often with cam, sometimes with free strip, and whom I pay to vid occasionally to show goodwill and my appreciation.
Let's face it my fellow members, a lot of you just don't know how to talk to a woman to get her in the right mood!
From an irritating, superior bastard who can talk the hind legs off a donkey and knickers off a pretty girl! :)
RE: many hosts piss me off
Interesting points, from both sides. I have met a number of charming ladies who will stay and chat (pvt) in commchat for ages, not even asking me to vid. Then there are others with the usual preamble, 'Hi, hru, want to see me'. I can appreciate that time is money to you hosts, but there is no sense in killing the golden goose (us) because we won't jump straight to vid. A sound investment, getting to know your market and you may find that a guest who would not normally vid will suddenly spend a lot of time in vid with you. Here endeth todays lesson :-)
RE: many hosts piss me off
If that was in response ot me vanessa, i'm not at all like that..I do talk with the girls both in free and in video, but i dont spend the whole time in video just to chat. I"m also not one who asks them to get naked the instant i'm in video. We chat a bit also. I know alot of guys in here do that sort of thing, but i'm not one of them
RE: many hosts piss me off
Both Hmm and Mondo47 are basically sayin what i am sayin. i have many friends from this or other sites like it, that its more than just business with. We chat often here or by other means, and i do not have to pay to talk with or sometimes even to see their bodies. They took the time to get to know me for who I am, not just what i am worth to them. I am not always the best with words, and maybe I have come across cold or rude here, but i really am a nice guy...u can ask the girls here who know me. :-)) Girls, that i have both chatted with and watched their shows. Sometimes I do chat in pvt, but if I am just goin to chat, its usually in public chat.
I will "just talk" with a girl in a non adult category, because I know its not about a show anyway, and its usually cheap enough i can for awhile.
If u take the time to get to know me, u will find i'm not like so many here who only care about whats under ur clothes.
I will "just talk" with a girl in a non adult category, because I know its not about a show anyway, and its usually cheap enough i can for awhile.
If u take the time to get to know me, u will find i'm not like so many here who only care about whats under ur clothes.
RE: tips for members from me
Wow, that really told us guys. Alienate us all, Kate, and who is gonna pay your bills?
RE: tips for members from me
Honestly i wouldn't want any of u guys that read the forums, hang in community chat and spend generally more time in the site than me come to my txt or videochat.
Plenty of fish in the sea, no need to deal with somebody so experienced in here that knows how to get a hard core show for 10 bucks.
Plenty of fish in the sea, no need to deal with somebody so experienced in here that knows how to get a hard core show for 10 bucks.
RE: many hosts piss me off
Its a delicate balance and someone will always feel like they are on the short end of the stick.
In my case, the stick is always short, even when i'm excited.
In my case, the stick is always short, even when i'm excited.
RE: many hosts piss me off
I usually go first in Textchat and after 20 seconds in Video (20 seconds because that is the average time it takes before a chat hosts asks "Do you want to see me?".
Since I am coming here for sexual relief I do not have a problem with that ....although I would prefer if a chat hosts waits a bit longer before she asks that question".
But what pisses me off is when I come back to text chat after I was in video and get ignored. I respect if girls do not like to chat in text chat or lets say only chat in text chat to break the ice before video chat.
I understand that and respect that.
But I do not understand if a girl does not have the guts to tell me that or at least tell me some excuse if she does not like to tell me the truth.
I am way to proud to go to videochat with a chat host again after she ignored me (and did not even try to say sorry I was busy or something).
The thing is also that I like to spend my money to a chat host who is nice. I mean a good show is one thing but to make me come back the chat host needs to have a good attitude and that means also having the guts to tell me when she does not like to chat with me in text chat (after we already broke the ice ;)
Since I am coming here for sexual relief I do not have a problem with that ....although I would prefer if a chat hosts waits a bit longer before she asks that question".
But what pisses me off is when I come back to text chat after I was in video and get ignored. I respect if girls do not like to chat in text chat or lets say only chat in text chat to break the ice before video chat.
I understand that and respect that.
But I do not understand if a girl does not have the guts to tell me that or at least tell me some excuse if she does not like to tell me the truth.
I am way to proud to go to videochat with a chat host again after she ignored me (and did not even try to say sorry I was busy or something).
The thing is also that I like to spend my money to a chat host who is nice. I mean a good show is one thing but to make me come back the chat host needs to have a good attitude and that means also having the guts to tell me when she does not like to chat with me in text chat (after we already broke the ice ;)
RE: many hosts piss me off
Hmmmmm very interesting topic as usual when both sides try to explain why they do and don`t like text chat and free loaders..
For me i`m guilty of going to a girls text chat.. The main reason i go is that i don`t like to just bust into a girls video session straight away, i like to chat with the girl a few minutes to see what her personality is like and how much fun she is. If i say `Hi` and she then says `come in vid baby`, well that puts me off YES, but i understand it, it doesn`t mean she doesn`t want you there just means she would rather get to know you in video more, Yes it`s paid video i know, but as its her room and her text chat she can do what she wishes, we have no control over what she does in her text chat.. And as for not replying to an hello in her text chat, maybe shes not in front of the pc.. It has happened to me many times as well, where i have said hello and got no answer, i usually stay there for 2-4 mins to see if they reply and if not then i leave.. Sometimes i might go back and see if they reply, but if i get the silent treatment again then i get the message and leave..... But i do understand the girls when they say they hate the free loaders who come in to text chat and demand things straight away and then become nasty if the girl says, "if you wish adult chat why not come in video and we can do and see more in here"
But it amazes me too how a guy can just go in to text chat or video and demand a girl to do or say stuff and then expect for the girl to do it.. Like WTF, do these guys not have manners..??!!!!
A bit of respect and manners goes a long way.. And if you show respect for the girls then they will respect you more also...And not just see you as a rude bastard and a cheap wanker..
But anyway any of the girls i know and that know me know that if i text chat with them, that a lot of the times i will end up in there video session for a long time :P And if i can`t go to video with them i`ll tell them that.. And i will try not to stay to long in there chat, cos i just came to say hi and see how they are doing.. And yes i have sometimes stayed to long in text chat, not on purpose but cos we are having fun and i forget about the time spent there, thats all..
I also tell the girl i`m chatting with to let me know if i have outstayed my welcome cos i know they have other things to do around the house (If they cam from home that is). And if i get carried away i also apologise if i say or do anything that over steps the boundaries..
i`m not sure if i have expressed what i wanted to here, maybe it just sounds all crap, but what the heck, i tried :P
Anyway have a gr8 and happy day hosts and members.. And remember a bit of courtesy and respect never costs anything.. So use it more and then maybe there will be less misunderstandings on here..
For me i`m guilty of going to a girls text chat.. The main reason i go is that i don`t like to just bust into a girls video session straight away, i like to chat with the girl a few minutes to see what her personality is like and how much fun she is. If i say `Hi` and she then says `come in vid baby`, well that puts me off YES, but i understand it, it doesn`t mean she doesn`t want you there just means she would rather get to know you in video more, Yes it`s paid video i know, but as its her room and her text chat she can do what she wishes, we have no control over what she does in her text chat.. And as for not replying to an hello in her text chat, maybe shes not in front of the pc.. It has happened to me many times as well, where i have said hello and got no answer, i usually stay there for 2-4 mins to see if they reply and if not then i leave.. Sometimes i might go back and see if they reply, but if i get the silent treatment again then i get the message and leave..... But i do understand the girls when they say they hate the free loaders who come in to text chat and demand things straight away and then become nasty if the girl says, "if you wish adult chat why not come in video and we can do and see more in here"
But it amazes me too how a guy can just go in to text chat or video and demand a girl to do or say stuff and then expect for the girl to do it.. Like WTF, do these guys not have manners..??!!!!
A bit of respect and manners goes a long way.. And if you show respect for the girls then they will respect you more also...And not just see you as a rude bastard and a cheap wanker..
But anyway any of the girls i know and that know me know that if i text chat with them, that a lot of the times i will end up in there video session for a long time :P And if i can`t go to video with them i`ll tell them that.. And i will try not to stay to long in there chat, cos i just came to say hi and see how they are doing.. And yes i have sometimes stayed to long in text chat, not on purpose but cos we are having fun and i forget about the time spent there, thats all..
I also tell the girl i`m chatting with to let me know if i have outstayed my welcome cos i know they have other things to do around the house (If they cam from home that is). And if i get carried away i also apologise if i say or do anything that over steps the boundaries..
i`m not sure if i have expressed what i wanted to here, maybe it just sounds all crap, but what the heck, i tried :P
Anyway have a gr8 and happy day hosts and members.. And remember a bit of courtesy and respect never costs anything.. So use it more and then maybe there will be less misunderstandings on here..
RE: many hosts piss me off
I understand everythin u say, and its basically what i've said all along, but u probably said it better..hehe...but am i "freeloader" if i intend to go to video after a few minuts of chat? or am i a "freeloader" if we have video chatted already a few times but today i can't afford until payday, but intend to once paid again? The ones i go to regularly understand and respect that also.
?????!!!!!!
Someone can name normal model which works now in cold studio with a body temperature 38,5 in one linen? It seems to me, that she is sick on a head.
RE: ?????!!!!!!
She is really very sick. Has strongly caught a cold. And instead of laying in heat, it is exposed at studio. It in my opinion suicide.
RE: ?????!!!!!!
Yes your right she should be in bed wrapped up warmly with a nice mug of hot chocolate.
RE: ?????!!!!!!
I thought I could name her but then i found out the girl I was thinking of had a body temperature of 38.4 but all the other hings described her perfectly.
Damn so fucking close :(
Damn so fucking close :(
RE: ?????!!!!!!
It is her own choice. It seems to me, that she not in the mind. It is obsession.
RE: ?????!!!!!!
I spoke her the same, but is useless. I do not know, whether it is necessary to continue any attitudes with such girl. How you think? If she loved me, would arrive how I ask.
RE: ?????!!!!!!
I and could not persuade her to leave home on treatment:-((. Really after that it is possible to believe, what she loves me?
RE: ?????!!!!!!
:-))) She and will ask notebook to put in a coffin with the cam (a black joke):-))
RE: ?????!!!!!!
I have offer! Somebody from owners will agree to photograph the first marriage night on the webcam? Malvinax? Mean girl? :-))
RE: ?????!!!!!!
Also what has forced you to be solved on such feat? Thirst of money? Or wanted popularity? Or pity?
RE: bdsm
wrong... bdsm - sane safe consensual... Being at work with a high temperature (& where u can "present" a disease to others) - is actually insane so... no need to mix bdsm & idiotism, plz..
RE: ?????!!!!!!
Yes, its understandable but... I think its hard to make good money looking sick... & then... i think btter to lose 2-3 workdays & "repare" yourself in a short time, than without treatment appear in hospital for weeks... It would be more unprofitable for sure...
Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
New research by Scottish scientists suggests that smart people are less likely to repeatedly experience the excruciating headache, nausea, dry mouth and sensitivity to light and sound that can follow a heavy night out.
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
Lol that's why I'm avoiding alcohol, getting drunk once might be fatal for me ...
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
they say russian drink a lot....but i see it is not truth....loool
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
I've seen 7 russians, 3 girls and 4 guys, down 4 bottles of tequila in under 4 1/2 hours. I had 4 shots and was flat on my back. I could never handle the heavy stuff very well, except vodka, mmmm.
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
Want to go out for a drink tonight, DV ?
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
First thing this morning , Vera ? lol
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
Somehow i dont trust Scottish scientists :P
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
What about Scottish Non Scientists :P
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
how do they know this there are'nt that many smart scots . i know i'm scottish . and not to smart at that . but i dont suffer to bad after a night out :)
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
irn bru great for hang overs for those who can get it :D
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
Smart, is not drinkin too much in the first place...beleive me, i used be pretty dumb...lol
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
did anyone see in the paper about Kremlin Vodka imported from Russia that could kill people because of the stuff in it?
RE: Now I know why I always feel like shit after drinking :(
Did anybody happen to notice that the report said smart people do not "REPEATEDLY" experience those symptoms? They didn't say smart people never had a bad morning after getting shit faced the night before. In other words, the only thing their research has proven, is something most people already knew.... smart people are smart enough to learn from their mistakes and know when to stop drinking so that they do not experience hang-overs again and again. Conversely their research has also proven that dumb people are unable to drink responsibly. Dumb people, having a strange, almost perverse affection for hang-overs, try to experience them as often as humanly possible. Now that is cutting edge science. I hear these scientists are now working on some round object, something called a "wheel" i believe... anyway they say it will revolutionize the world. I think it is hogwash.
would you forgive cheating?
would you forgive your b/f or your g/f if you really loved them if you caught them cheating on you? And by cheating i mean not only physical contact. A flirt maybe, or a kiss or whatever you consider cheating.
RE: would you forgive cheating?
depends how convinced i would be that it will never happen again. If there was physical contact no!
RE: would you forgive cheating?
i dont think i ever will forgive it , doesn't matter how much i love her
RE: would you forgive cheating?
Yes.. even if I know that it can and probably will again.. I'm inlove, and love is blind, but yes, I would forgive..
RE: would you forgive cheating?
i did it once..worked out great..i am still with her now and so far i have no indications of beeing cheated. She seemed to realise she was wrong.
RE: would you forgive cheating?
My opinion...
If we love the person, we can forgive. As Psy said "love is blind". The question is, how long will it take to forget it happened, will it ever be the same as it used to be?
I have been there and done it. Not an easy thing to do but in the end love won and it's all that matters.
I guess Time has an answer for everything
Another Soul :-)
If we love the person, we can forgive. As Psy said "love is blind". The question is, how long will it take to forget it happened, will it ever be the same as it used to be?
I have been there and done it. Not an easy thing to do but in the end love won and it's all that matters.
I guess Time has an answer for everything
Another Soul :-)
RE: would you forgive cheating?
Well with your record you probably doen't know who you want to read them.
RE: would you forgive cheating?
with my record??? Am i so good? when u go public and decide to say b/s about someone u better have the balls to say ur name instead of ''someone''..that show how little u r ..whoever u r!
RE: would you forgive cheating?
Well i doubt that MadGreek is your real name so why should I put mine. I was not suggesting your record is good as I don't know exactly how many girls you have cheated on. So which of them do you wish would read this?
RE: would you forgive cheating?
well, when i use my nick everyone knows who i am, when u use ''someone'' u r hidding...tho i have a pretty good picture now who u r..
RE: would you forgive cheating?
I would be surprised if you have any idea who I am. If you post your guess here I will tell you if you are right or wrong.
RE: would you forgive cheating?
amazing how u go back to see reply..but since u do it confirms me who u r..u should be a lawyer...but then again staying close to a friend is also great..i cant blame u for beeing there for her..i would do the same..
RE: would you forgive cheating?
Unless you are very much smarter than seems likely what I know about you suggests you have no idea who I am. Please go ahead and post who you think.
RE: would you forgive cheating?
Flirting I can forgive, a kiss? maybe. But I cannot forgive my second wife for running off with the fecking gardener!!!
RE: would you forgive cheating?
Monika and AS, what about the trust lost?.When your in love you put your heart out there, if someone cheats on it once knowing the pain it causes, why not again?
RE: would you forgive cheating?
This kind of situation is different from case to case.
You are pointing out exactly what I have tried to get across through my questions.
There will always be a trust issue and this issue will make it hard to forgive and especially to forget. Through love, patience and time the trust issue can be overcome.
I never said it is an easy thing to do. It always depends on both partners, on the fact that if the one that has cheated can see the pain and damage it can cause.
If it is a genuine love relationship the one that has cheated will have learnt the lesson. Once thats done, the pain caused and the fear for losing him/her (the loved one), and the love they have together can be strong enough reasons not to do it again.
We all make mistakes.
AS
You are pointing out exactly what I have tried to get across through my questions.
There will always be a trust issue and this issue will make it hard to forgive and especially to forget. Through love, patience and time the trust issue can be overcome.
I never said it is an easy thing to do. It always depends on both partners, on the fact that if the one that has cheated can see the pain and damage it can cause.
If it is a genuine love relationship the one that has cheated will have learnt the lesson. Once thats done, the pain caused and the fear for losing him/her (the loved one), and the love they have together can be strong enough reasons not to do it again.
We all make mistakes.
AS
RE: would you forgive cheating?
Well said AS, i couldn`t have put it any better myself..
Any man that catches your heart will be the luckiest guy around..
Trust is an amazing thing once lost its hard to get back, but if the 2 people love each other so much and the one that cheated feels so bad and was an honest mistake on his/her part, then i think the trust can be gained back, but slowly over time. And with plenty of work on both sides... The worst thing is that the one that was cheated on, feels so betrayed that he/she guards their hearts from anyone else ever getting close to the.. Thats the sadest part of it..
But i hope no-one ever misuses their trust in you AS, as i find you have a wonderful head on your shoulders full of kindness and respect... And what you say is so eliquent...
Hug and kiss to AS.. :)
Any man that catches your heart will be the luckiest guy around..
Trust is an amazing thing once lost its hard to get back, but if the 2 people love each other so much and the one that cheated feels so bad and was an honest mistake on his/her part, then i think the trust can be gained back, but slowly over time. And with plenty of work on both sides... The worst thing is that the one that was cheated on, feels so betrayed that he/she guards their hearts from anyone else ever getting close to the.. Thats the sadest part of it..
But i hope no-one ever misuses their trust in you AS, as i find you have a wonderful head on your shoulders full of kindness and respect... And what you say is so eliquent...
Hug and kiss to AS.. :)
RE: would you forgive cheating?
Well I would start by saying that everyone has different meanings for cheating. Some would say flirt is cheating. Others kissing. It also depends on the person. What would you say about movie stars kissing in a movie even though the are married. Or about porn stars. For me, I would never forgive my gf if I saw her having sex. Kissing is also cheating for me. Basically anything that brings those emotional feelings being emotionally close to a signifcant other I can not forgive (like the feelings a person gets having sex with a person they love or feelings when you kiss that person). Flirting I let that go, as long as it does not go further than that.
RE: would you forgive cheating?
....throw him out, what makes you think he'll wanna come back? (lol)
RE: would you forgive cheating?
i would forgive her only if i saw she really regreted that and that she will be perfect from now on...
Who views video in the day time?
Hi guys.. just curious. I am usually on in the evening only and late on at that. I am wanting to maybe be on in the daytime a little more so i can get some sleep! lol Who , if anyone views videos in the daytime?
Thanks for your responses
Miss NB xxxxx
Thanks for your responses
Miss NB xxxxx
RE: Who views video in the day time?
For me its not about time of day, its about when i'm in that kind of mood (lonely, or h*rny), and also when my favorite girls are here.
Why I do not go to Vid
In my 2 years on this site I have never entered a host's chat room without the intention of going on to paid vid. Yet in about one third of the times I enter a chat room of a new (to me) host I do not actually end up going to vid. This was a surprise even to me. Here are the top four reasons why I bail out at the chat stage.
1) The Empty Room
Ok - you can't be in front of the computer all day and yes I can see it is a hassle to log out and then log in again every time you leave the room for a few moments. i wouldn't bother myself. But is there no way you can stay logged on but invisble to the viewer?. If not then get on to CC to create this option because if you are not there when I come to see you for the first time I won't be back.
2) The Big Delay
Here the chat host actually reponds but takes so long for each reply that one wonders if they are still awake. If you are busy with other chatters (and note that I already know from the 121 option that you are not already in vid) or on the phone or whatever then please just say so and ask me to come back later. I very likely will. But if I think i do not have your full attention, that I do not matter to you, then I will leave and not come back.
3) the Imperial Command
The conversation from the host goes something like this. "Hi", "How r u?", "Come to vid". This is so offputting. Why do you think I am there? - Can you not spare a few minutes to chat so we can break the ice first. In most of these cases if I demure coming straight to paid vid, it is the host who then ignores me or closes down.
4) The Interrogation.
The host's chat consists of a string of questions: "Where r u from?", "How old r u?", "r u married?". Hey - I am looking for some conversation. If I want an interrogation I can get that at home for free.
1) The Empty Room
Ok - you can't be in front of the computer all day and yes I can see it is a hassle to log out and then log in again every time you leave the room for a few moments. i wouldn't bother myself. But is there no way you can stay logged on but invisble to the viewer?. If not then get on to CC to create this option because if you are not there when I come to see you for the first time I won't be back.
2) The Big Delay
Here the chat host actually reponds but takes so long for each reply that one wonders if they are still awake. If you are busy with other chatters (and note that I already know from the 121 option that you are not already in vid) or on the phone or whatever then please just say so and ask me to come back later. I very likely will. But if I think i do not have your full attention, that I do not matter to you, then I will leave and not come back.
3) the Imperial Command
The conversation from the host goes something like this. "Hi", "How r u?", "Come to vid". This is so offputting. Why do you think I am there? - Can you not spare a few minutes to chat so we can break the ice first. In most of these cases if I demure coming straight to paid vid, it is the host who then ignores me or closes down.
4) The Interrogation.
The host's chat consists of a string of questions: "Where r u from?", "How old r u?", "r u married?". Hey - I am looking for some conversation. If I want an interrogation I can get that at home for free.
RE: Why I do not go to Vid
My favourite is "The one that is asleep".
Apparently they are supposed to be working but the eyes start to droop about 4.30am, and why wouldn' they? If they are going to have a nap, log off for a while, get some shuteye and log in later on. There is nothing worse than entering a video room to find the host fast asleep on the couch.
Apparently they are supposed to be working but the eyes start to droop about 4.30am, and why wouldn' they? If they are going to have a nap, log off for a while, get some shuteye and log in later on. There is nothing worse than entering a video room to find the host fast asleep on the couch.
RE: Why I do not go to Vid
I've been through that, but by the time I had video on my screen she was awake with a bewildered look on her face. She asked me to come back in 30 minutes so she could shower and freshen up.
RE: Why I do not go to Vid
a couple of thoughts:
If a host is in open session then she is in vid so she then might have several conversations going at once. this is usually obvious after a while so then I will say i'll come back later.
the host might not talk good english and has to use a translator. this is a problem and very frustrating.
I know many hosts sleep 'on the job' but they can pause the vid. I feel sorry for them as they never get a decent night's sleep but I have left a room because it is costing money while you wait.
these are only small problems really.
If a host is in open session then she is in vid so she then might have several conversations going at once. this is usually obvious after a while so then I will say i'll come back later.
the host might not talk good english and has to use a translator. this is a problem and very frustrating.
I know many hosts sleep 'on the job' but they can pause the vid. I feel sorry for them as they never get a decent night's sleep but I have left a room because it is costing money while you wait.
these are only small problems really.
RE: Why I do not go to Vid
Valid observations Hake, but what I would like to add is don't be so sure that a delay in replying is because the host has no time for you. A lot of the new hosts here have a poor command of English and quite literally everything needs to be translated. Alas, the CC chat room does not allow for cutting and pasting of dialog and so quite often if you say something the host might have to type out exactly what you said into their translator, translate it, then copy the answer back to you. This all takes time.I am not saying this always happens, but certainly it does occur and is worth bearing in mind.
Judging a hosts grip on the English language is a bit of a challenge in itself. I have known plenty of hosts over the years who have seemingly good English when you type to them but will not understand a single thing when spoken to. Remember, English is very rarely a first language for a lot of foreign girls, though they do do their best and do quite well I find. Certainly I have never had a problem talking to anyone and I freely admit my English is not always the easiest to understand ;)
For the record though, hosts without an archive gets thumbs down from me. It does not have to be huge, or even explicit. Varied, creative and interesting shows effort and will give a host many more Kudo's in my book.. That is.. if anyone was particularly interested what I thought ;)
TNTVAHOFO
Judging a hosts grip on the English language is a bit of a challenge in itself. I have known plenty of hosts over the years who have seemingly good English when you type to them but will not understand a single thing when spoken to. Remember, English is very rarely a first language for a lot of foreign girls, though they do do their best and do quite well I find. Certainly I have never had a problem talking to anyone and I freely admit my English is not always the easiest to understand ;)
For the record though, hosts without an archive gets thumbs down from me. It does not have to be huge, or even explicit. Varied, creative and interesting shows effort and will give a host many more Kudo's in my book.. That is.. if anyone was particularly interested what I thought ;)
TNTVAHOFO
RE: Why I do not go to Vid
whats with the TNTVAHOFO who is supposed to guess wtf that means ???
RE: Why I do not go to Vid ~ OT
Hehe.. cute Gorty... So is this where I slip into my Bruce Willis Impression huh? ;)
~----~
There's a man who leads a life of danger
To everyone he meets he stays a stranger
With every move he makes another chance he takes
Odds are he won't live to see tomorrow
Beware of pretty faces that you find
A pretty face can hide an evil mind
Ah, be careful what you say
Or you'll give yourself away
Odds are you won't live to see tomorrow
Secret agent man, secret agent man
They've given you a number and taken away your name
Swingin' on the Riviera one day
And then layin' in the Bombay alley next day
Oh no, you let the wrong word slip
While kissing persuasive lips
The odds are you won't live to see tomorrow
Secret agent man, secret agent man
They've given you a number and taken away your name
Johhny Rivers
~------~
:P
TNTLTIHITNJB
~----~
There's a man who leads a life of danger
To everyone he meets he stays a stranger
With every move he makes another chance he takes
Odds are he won't live to see tomorrow
Beware of pretty faces that you find
A pretty face can hide an evil mind
Ah, be careful what you say
Or you'll give yourself away
Odds are you won't live to see tomorrow
Secret agent man, secret agent man
They've given you a number and taken away your name
Swingin' on the Riviera one day
And then layin' in the Bombay alley next day
Oh no, you let the wrong word slip
While kissing persuasive lips
The odds are you won't live to see tomorrow
Secret agent man, secret agent man
They've given you a number and taken away your name
Johhny Rivers
~------~
:P
TNTLTIHITNJB
RE: Why I do not go to Vid
Its psycho babble to make him look "mysterious" my good man.......
TNTREADMYLIPS
TNTREADMYLIPS
RE: Why I do not go to Vid
why dont you go into com chat and find some one there ya fool . most girls there chat freely and if you seem like your wanting vid . they will even let you know want they can do for you . if you goes into the individual rooms then off course they are going to seem to be away . and why should they chat to you you said you been here two years and never went to vid with any body . thats worce than me looool . good luck on you r little miss adventure
RE: Why I do not go to Vid - to mulit
i think Hake actually said that that he only goes to a hosts text chat when he is actually definitely intending to go to paid video with her - and was just explaining why sometimes he gets put off and looks elsewhere
RE: Why I do not go to Vid - to mulit
then why does he say " i go into the room with out the intention off going to vid " ..surely common sence would put it .. com chat . txted room vid ...... or if you like txted room do chat and get to know for vid .... but just to find some one to chat for a few mins .... isnt that what com chat is for :)
RE: Why I do not go to Vid - to mulit
he actually said....."I have never entered a host's chat room without the intention of going on to paid vid." the double negative of NEVER and WITHOUT mean he has only ever entered a hosts chat room with the intention of going on to paid vid.
RE: Why I do not go to Vid - to mulit
hehehehe i know you r right ..... but could help it ... just think the guy has no patience... and just wanted to stir it up :D hehehe got ya :D
to mulit & olgaolga
u made me laugh people :)
who else need a translator here to understand what Hake is talking about?
who else need a translator here to understand what Hake is talking about?
RE: Why I do not go to Vid
I don't know CC's rules about hosts leaving their rooms empty, but one possible solution for annoyance #1 might be if the host made up a little sign and left it in plain view of the camera so that the member could read it in her absence. Perhaps something like "I went to freshen up for you, but I promise that I'll be back in "X" minutes. Thanks for waiting for me." Be sure to write the exact GMT time when you leave on this note so that the member will know how much longer he would have to wait for you. When you return, if you find a member waiting for you in your room, you will know that he was really interested in visiting with you. If you let him know how much you appreciated his patience and reward him with a little extra kindness because he waited, I would guess that by the end of your chat session he wouldn't even remember the minor delay in the beginning. I know I probably wouldn't.
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
you gotta be bold, sweety.....if you're really as hard-up for some hot steamy lovin' as you seem, you have to swallow your pride and take a little initiative.
go clubbin' or to a bookstore or a church picnic or something...as soon as you eye yourself that man-meat you wanna take home and screw senseless, you gotta pounce on the opportunity and make him yours.....bat your eyelashes, smile seductively...turn your back to him, bend over, look back at him and give him a playful little wink...you know, all those sneaky little tricks cosmo teaches you chicks to help you land yourself a man-puppet.
do that and i can virtually guarantee you that you'll be up to your beautiful ears in offers to keep you a little company.
go clubbin' or to a bookstore or a church picnic or something...as soon as you eye yourself that man-meat you wanna take home and screw senseless, you gotta pounce on the opportunity and make him yours.....bat your eyelashes, smile seductively...turn your back to him, bend over, look back at him and give him a playful little wink...you know, all those sneaky little tricks cosmo teaches you chicks to help you land yourself a man-puppet.
do that and i can virtually guarantee you that you'll be up to your beautiful ears in offers to keep you a little company.
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
i was mostly just goofin'....i pray you wouldn't have really taken that advice seriously. :p
taking the first step is something you should really consider though....a truly beautiful woman is something that a lot of guys find intimidating or beyond them....maybe tone down your beauty a bit too...think of those silly american teen romantic comedies where the girl transforms herself from the ugly duckling in overalls and glasses into the sparklingly polished, gorgeous swan of a girl that the guy she's been dreaming of finally takes notice of...do something like that but in the reverse....get the guys thinking less of you as a sex object by not so noticably one.
a book store is a cool place to find people you might share some interests in too, actually....if that's the kind of thing you value in a relationship.
look around for a guy who's looking over the kind of book you find interesting, give him the once over to see if he's decent looking enough, has on cool enough shoes(why do women go nuts so much over what a guy wears on his feet, btw?...i've always wondered about that)...if you find a guy who you might like to meet, go up near him, pull a book from the shelf and look it over beside him while you wait for the chance or make the chance for some kind of interaction...bump into him "by accident" and smile sweetly while apologizing or something, i don't know...just get the ball rolling and let the moment take you. :)
taking the first step is something you should really consider though....a truly beautiful woman is something that a lot of guys find intimidating or beyond them....maybe tone down your beauty a bit too...think of those silly american teen romantic comedies where the girl transforms herself from the ugly duckling in overalls and glasses into the sparklingly polished, gorgeous swan of a girl that the guy she's been dreaming of finally takes notice of...do something like that but in the reverse....get the guys thinking less of you as a sex object by not so noticably one.
a book store is a cool place to find people you might share some interests in too, actually....if that's the kind of thing you value in a relationship.
look around for a guy who's looking over the kind of book you find interesting, give him the once over to see if he's decent looking enough, has on cool enough shoes(why do women go nuts so much over what a guy wears on his feet, btw?...i've always wondered about that)...if you find a guy who you might like to meet, go up near him, pull a book from the shelf and look it over beside him while you wait for the chance or make the chance for some kind of interaction...bump into him "by accident" and smile sweetly while apologizing or something, i don't know...just get the ball rolling and let the moment take you. :)
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
Enigma, do you realise that there are 28 hosts with the word "enigma" in their screen name. If you gave us your full screen name you just might get more visitors.
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
enigma, it is fine for ou to make all these postings, complaining how lonely you are, how much you need sex, but WHO ARE YOU? That is the puzzle. There are many 'enigmas' listed as hosts. Maybe all these other hosts are getting yur visitors and your sex. Until I know which enigma is the real enigma, it is an enigma to me to know how to address your problems.
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
Given the description, long blonde hair, etc, describes 15 - 20 hosts in Non-Adult categories on line at this very moment. This is probably why you are alone.
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
Well I am not shy to come up to you Enigma ;) Though of course if you really are an enigma then I won't know it was you even if I did ;)
Keep them guessing girl.. we all love a good tease ;)
TNTCATHWC
Keep them guessing girl.. we all love a good tease ;)
TNTCATHWC
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
Is that black, as in clothes, or black, as in nail colour?
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
A Rose, by any other name, would still (look) as sweet.
Appologies to Shakespeare.
Appologies to Shakespeare.
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
And to find a Rose in the Desert, is a sight so rare, that man can only wonder at it's beauty, and be so in awe as unable to speak
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
there afraid because you are bueatifull , most guys would think you would have somebody or that they wouldnt be go enough..... sometimes it works if you say hi to them . speicaly the ones you would be intrested in .
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
now I know who you are I can see why guys would be scared to approach you. They'll think they aren't good enough for you and, if you approach them they'll think you are a tart. what a dilema?
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
...and your previous nicknames contained word enigma:-))
Welcome back!:PP
Welcome back!:PP
RE: why men are afraid to come up to me?
how did you find it out? damn, now i am not enigma to all here any more.....what should i do? oh
RE: coffee juice or guys?
red bull and chocolate fudge poptarts....the breakfast of champions.
RE: coffee juice or guys?
No matter how beautiful she is... I would agree... it still would be coffee/
I'd be happy tp bring her a cup back to the bedside...
but, yeah... coffee.
I'd be happy tp bring her a cup back to the bedside...
but, yeah... coffee.
RE: coffee juice or guys?
Leave me out of this pls. Sheesh
...but make me a bacon sandwich now Impy!
...but make me a bacon sandwich now Impy!
RE: coffee juice or guys?
I wake up and go for a run. Then breakfast with an appetite. I have weaned myself off sex in the morning; it doesnt happen any more.
RE: coffee juice or guys?
if I remember correctly, sex in the morning was always the best but waking up with cara for a cup of coffee will do hahaha!
RE: coffee juice or guys?
Juice, then coffee. The guys I can do without, thankyou very much :-)
RE: coffee juice or guys?
I`d love to hold you frm behind Monika, but what part can i hold.. :D
let me know and i`ll come over and hold it for u.. ;)
let me know and i`ll come over and hold it for u.. ;)
Time Traveler
If you could go back in time ............how far back and where would you go to have a fantastic sex vacation?
RE: Time Traveler
I'd go back to tomorrow and go over to the neighbor's place again ... in fact, I do that every day ... I am living the same day over and over again, April 11 2001.
RE: Time Traveler
don't be silly Gort. If I went any further forward i'd be too old to do anything
RE: I am #1
I bow to your magnificence and your sublimly humble, super-human nature. You're messiah-like and way groovy.
Please, please, please - let me know you - let me know what it means to be truly happy - let me drink of the sweet nectar of your best-one-ed-ness.
Please, please, please - let me know you - let me know what it means to be truly happy - let me drink of the sweet nectar of your best-one-ed-ness.
kill 2 birds with 1 stone
Do you think if you were paid to wank, you wouldn't enjoy doing it anymore?
shyangell
anyone else been to this host? for $0.50 she ain't shy or an angell but she is gorgeous and will give you a great time.
RE: shyangell
wow, I didn't know that chicks came with tits that small ... at 0.50 though probably worth a look if all else fails ...
RE: shyangell
I'm not sure it was necessary to add the word man onto the end of your sentence as it maked more sense without it :P
Just joking A Banana :D
Just joking A Banana :D
short joke:P
A boy asks a chemist for a box of condoms, man replies, `sorry i`ve run out, have you tried boots?`
Boy replies, `Steady on mate i want to shag her , not kick her cunt in.!`
Boy replies, `Steady on mate i want to shag her , not kick her cunt in.!`
RE: whats wrong?
1st of all - You are on a Porn Site (expect these requests)
2nd of all - There are hundreds of girls here, many with no viewers either
3rd of all - Most members will bypass a profile
4th of all - Give it time, you will get members
2nd of all - There are hundreds of girls here, many with no viewers either
3rd of all - Most members will bypass a profile
4th of all - Give it time, you will get members
RE: whats wrong?
You are a reasonably attractive girl but your pics are pretty lackluster. You are non-adult which means fewer visitors in general. I would suggest, if possible, look at other host's pics and glam up a bit. Some of your pics look like mug shots or passport photos. Your prices are low so I suspect you are truly non-adult. I assume your English is good otherwise you are in the wrong line of work. Maybe some free sessions will loosen things up or keep posting to the forums...that sometimes gets people noticed. Good luck.
"Do you know me?"
A guy goes to a supermarket and notices a beautiful blonde who waves at him and says hello. He's rather taken aback,
because he can't quite place her.
He says, "Do you know me?"
She replies, "I think you're the father of one of my children."
Now he thinks back to the only time he has ever been unfaithful to his
wife and says, "Are you the stripper from my bachelor party who I had
sex with on the pool table with all my buddies watching, while your
partner whipped my butt with wet celery?"
Suddenly looking very uncomfortable, she said,
"Ummno, I'm your son's math teacher
because he can't quite place her.
He says, "Do you know me?"
She replies, "I think you're the father of one of my children."
Now he thinks back to the only time he has ever been unfaithful to his
wife and says, "Are you the stripper from my bachelor party who I had
sex with on the pool table with all my buddies watching, while your
partner whipped my butt with wet celery?"
Suddenly looking very uncomfortable, she said,
"Ummno, I'm your son's math teacher
RE: DeepViolet
What do you mean she has got really sexy now? She has always been really sexy.
R
R
RE: DeepViolet
Looks like somebody stuck an airhose up her butt and turned it on high...I am sure she sweet...or likes sweets.
RE: DeepViolet
yep, compare the face pics of Feb 26 with those of Sep 13 and there has clearly been some severe donut action going on ... still, she's semi-decent and I wouldn't say no to dangling the big banana in the direction of her mouth ...