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Home, sweet home...
Hello all, again :)
Now i'm back, working and enjoying :P:P
MIssed this place, so good to be back :)
KIsses
Now i'm back, working and enjoying :P:P
MIssed this place, so good to be back :)
KIsses
RE: Home, sweet home...
Yes i returned the other day, but just today i'm here with my mind and soul :P:D
RE: Home, sweet home...
You had to go and ruin it. Couldn't just return with your body could ya? huh? could ya? huh?!
RE: Home, sweet home...
Hey baby, what's your problem ? :) lack of bodies here or what ? :P
After all, i have my face with me :)
After all, i have my face with me :)
RE: Home, sweet home...
Welcome back Triksy sweety!!!!good luck and lots of $$$$$...!hugzzz!!!
Rocks in Bridgeport
Prelude to the story:
A guy entered to my text chat and we chatted about our countries.Then somehow we moved to chat about costs of living, etc.
Story itself:We started to compare some prices.And I asked him:"Ok, for example, how much does it approximatelly cost 2 roomed flat in your town (Bridgeport)?".
2 roomed flat by russian standard is a flat in a house which has 1 kitchen, 1 bedroom and 1 common living room.
And he said he didn't know cos noone has his own flat in Bidgeport.I was amused:" how come?Are you kidding?".And he said that everyone there rents.Renting is more comfortable.Then he said that my question is like a question:"Do you know the price for Rock on Mars?".He said that they didn't sell the things like the marsian Rocks there so He couldn't tell me the price for 2 roomed flat in his town.The same way they don't sell flats there so my question is not correct, it is from the category about marsian rocks.
I was a bit confused how come the whole town and everyone only rents; noone lives in his own flat.Anyway someone should have his own flat at least the landlords.Or not?Well here some rent, others buy or have ther ow flats:-s
Final Question: Does anyone know if they really don't sell and don't buy flats in Bridgeport(US) and all live there only renting?
A guy entered to my text chat and we chatted about our countries.Then somehow we moved to chat about costs of living, etc.
Story itself:We started to compare some prices.And I asked him:"Ok, for example, how much does it approximatelly cost 2 roomed flat in your town (Bridgeport)?".
2 roomed flat by russian standard is a flat in a house which has 1 kitchen, 1 bedroom and 1 common living room.
And he said he didn't know cos noone has his own flat in Bidgeport.I was amused:" how come?Are you kidding?".And he said that everyone there rents.Renting is more comfortable.Then he said that my question is like a question:"Do you know the price for Rock on Mars?".He said that they didn't sell the things like the marsian Rocks there so He couldn't tell me the price for 2 roomed flat in his town.The same way they don't sell flats there so my question is not correct, it is from the category about marsian rocks.
I was a bit confused how come the whole town and everyone only rents; noone lives in his own flat.Anyway someone should have his own flat at least the landlords.Or not?Well here some rent, others buy or have ther ow flats:-s
Final Question: Does anyone know if they really don't sell and don't buy flats in Bridgeport(US) and all live there only renting?
RE: Rocks in Bridgeport
rent in the us is about 600 per month
how much is rent in your country?
how much is rent in your country?
RE: Rocks in Bridgeport
The moon is also made of cheese, maybe he lives there.
I wonder what a flat would cost, on Gorgonzola Street?
I wonder what a flat would cost, on Gorgonzola Street?
RE: Rocks in Bridgeport
people own their own flats, but the most recognized term is own their own "condo"
RE: Rocks in Bridgeport
Yes, and in American English, the typical flat is usually called an apartment.
RE: Rocks in Bridgeport
Bridgeport is one of the poorest cities in the state of Connecticut. Its an old industrial city but manufacturing left and was never replaced.
There is lots of unemployment and poverty there.
As was stated ownership of a flat (apartment) is usually in the form of ownership called a condominium (condo) which means you only own from the walls inward and everything else (outside walls, parking, etc) is owned in common and there is a monthly charge to maintain it. Many condos are investor owned and rented out.
A single house on the other hand is 100% owned by the individual.
$500-600 a month rent of a condo is a reasonable estimate.
If you want actuals go to Yahoo real estate or craigs list and do a search on Bridgeport Connecticut.
There is lots of unemployment and poverty there.
As was stated ownership of a flat (apartment) is usually in the form of ownership called a condominium (condo) which means you only own from the walls inward and everything else (outside walls, parking, etc) is owned in common and there is a monthly charge to maintain it. Many condos are investor owned and rented out.
A single house on the other hand is 100% owned by the individual.
$500-600 a month rent of a condo is a reasonable estimate.
If you want actuals go to Yahoo real estate or craigs list and do a search on Bridgeport Connecticut.
RE: Rocks in Bridgeport
I see many of the respondents do not live in the Washington DC area.
My 1 bedroom apartment is $1,100 per month. And I chose that apartment complex because it was CHEAP!!
My 1 bedroom apartment is $1,100 per month. And I chose that apartment complex because it was CHEAP!!
RE: Rocks in Bridgeport
That's why I said to name the area. Older-style apartments in working-class neighborhoods in St. Louis might be about $400.
it sounds like
your ''flat' is something commonly known in the usa as an apartment they are rented monthly or yearly.
same discription can be called a condominium those or bought an sold. in my area of massachusetts an apartment(one bedroom) costs aprox $900 month. the condo goes for$ 150.000. thats for the one bedroom , 2 or 3 BR costs much more.
lastly, there are bridgeports all over usa, it is a city name not a state so as for that related question i cant say for sure. but the few bridgeports i know of are richer areas so most common ppl wouldnt afford any loft there.
hope thats helpful gorte
same discription can be called a condominium those or bought an sold. in my area of massachusetts an apartment(one bedroom) costs aprox $900 month. the condo goes for$ 150.000. thats for the one bedroom , 2 or 3 BR costs much more.
lastly, there are bridgeports all over usa, it is a city name not a state so as for that related question i cant say for sure. but the few bridgeports i know of are richer areas so most common ppl wouldnt afford any loft there.
hope thats helpful gorte
Age Difference - Nice Age!
How many older men here really believe that Russian women actually prefer a big difference in age?
Of course if you are buying video time, then the words “nice age” translates into you can afford to buy a video session. If you only desire conversation and spiritual support then age does not matter.
I went to “Russian acquaintance Site” and did some research of my own. Clearly as I examined the profiles of many Russian women they are not searching for much older men. The largest difference is age is usually about 10 years. Most look for a partner near their own age.
So where did this myth originate that Russian woman prefer much older men?
Of course if you are buying video time, then the words “nice age” translates into you can afford to buy a video session. If you only desire conversation and spiritual support then age does not matter.
I went to “Russian acquaintance Site” and did some research of my own. Clearly as I examined the profiles of many Russian women they are not searching for much older men. The largest difference is age is usually about 10 years. Most look for a partner near their own age.
So where did this myth originate that Russian woman prefer much older men?
RE: Age Difference - Nice Age!
So true....age doesn't matter though in away.The only thing matters in a relationship is the love and respect you get from each other.Hugzzz!!!
RE: Age Difference - Nice Age!
I can't answer for others but I'll say what I think concerning the issue.
First of all I have never chosen the one to fall in love with like:
"Should I fall in love with X?Let's calculate the age difference between us.Oh 11 yo.No I won't fall in love with him cos the age difference is 1 yo more than 10."
I have never fallen in love with age.And I would definatelly not fall in love with someone on the base of thought like:".I must fall in love with anyone who is 5 years older than me."
I remember when I fell in love for the first time I didn't even know our age difference.Cos I fell in love with the person, not with his age.
First of all I have never chosen the one to fall in love with like:
"Should I fall in love with X?Let's calculate the age difference between us.Oh 11 yo.No I won't fall in love with him cos the age difference is 1 yo more than 10."
I have never fallen in love with age.And I would definatelly not fall in love with someone on the base of thought like:".I must fall in love with anyone who is 5 years older than me."
I remember when I fell in love for the first time I didn't even know our age difference.Cos I fell in love with the person, not with his age.
RE: Age Difference - Nice Age!
Of course were mostlty older men that are agreeing with you but nicely said!! AS your thoughts??
RE: Age Difference - Nice Age!
xoxo, you know my thoughts on this one, but to summarise...When we fall in love, nothing else should matter...Why let something like age difference stand in the way of happiness? Still, it happens....
Another Soul
Another Soul
RE: Age Difference - Nice Age!
I think you have other problem. Not your age...And with this words some have begun to distrust in their feeling. So you can offend people, who have real good relations and have different age.
So ...you know it, but say it..
And i think you problem not Age.May be you need to think more about fells other people.
So ...you know it, but say it..
And i think you problem not Age.May be you need to think more about fells other people.
RE: Age Difference - Nice Age!
Age diffrence is, oh I dunno, up to the individual, Its a known fact that wimmen is more mature than men, so a woman is usualy younger than his man. I a girl is 20 and the guy is 30,, Where is the problem,, both is mature as a 25 year old in many cases. hehe. I once had a friend,, he was 40 and then he got togheter with a16 year old girl. She was more mature than any 20 year old I seen, but still,, that was something sick. I was ashamed of him. anyways,, he was and is an assh**
I am 31, I look 22 and feel 22, still have my inner child. I dont fit with a girl that is to "grown up". I guess many wimmen in my age wont agree with me.
I set my own limmit by not dating any under 20.
I am 31, I look 22 and feel 22, still have my inner child. I dont fit with a girl that is to "grown up". I guess many wimmen in my age wont agree with me.
I set my own limmit by not dating any under 20.
RE: Age Difference - Nice Age!
40 - 16? She would have to be a VERY special 16 year old.
In fact, though they are great to look at and maybe for some quick fun, I don't care to try a relationship with such a young girl.
I'm 55 and my preference is a girl who has had some life experiences to add to her mature attitude.
I don't think I would consider a serious relationship with a girl that wasn't in her late 20s. Of course, that's theory and anything can happen.
In fact, though they are great to look at and maybe for some quick fun, I don't care to try a relationship with such a young girl.
I'm 55 and my preference is a girl who has had some life experiences to add to her mature attitude.
I don't think I would consider a serious relationship with a girl that wasn't in her late 20s. Of course, that's theory and anything can happen.
RE: Age Difference - Nice Age!
It's not the chronological age of either party, but the personalities of those involved.
We all have known 40 year old with no focus or vision of life that had the emotional age of 18 year olds and we have known 18 year olds who could shame a 40 year olds with the depth and intensity of their souls.
It is the person's actions and attitude that determine "age." Who is "younger": someone who goes to a disco once in a while, does sport several times a week and knows how to smile or someone who doesn't care about the future, always is selfish with a foul attitude and is rude to everyone?
I found a simplistic "psychological test" here: http://www.thedollpalace.com/iq/index.php?manual_article_id=15
We all have known 40 year old with no focus or vision of life that had the emotional age of 18 year olds and we have known 18 year olds who could shame a 40 year olds with the depth and intensity of their souls.
It is the person's actions and attitude that determine "age." Who is "younger": someone who goes to a disco once in a while, does sport several times a week and knows how to smile or someone who doesn't care about the future, always is selfish with a foul attitude and is rude to everyone?
I found a simplistic "psychological test" here: http://www.thedollpalace.com/iq/index.php?manual_article_id=15
RE: Age Difference - Nice Age!
For me the age difference is not much of a problem...So Long As The Person Is NOT A MINOR UNDER THE AGE OF CONSENT!!!!!!...in USA it's considered Statutory Rape
RE: Age Difference and love
taking this matter a little further if a member is quite a few years older than yourself and you tell him that you love him,would you meen it and even talk about meeting in real life or do you just say it to keep him comming to your vid session,s
please your honnest answers only, after all you don,t have to give your name. thanks
please your honnest answers only, after all you don,t have to give your name. thanks
RE: How much cigarettes you smoked today?:))
you don't look 40 ish
but smoking ages us all.
Joke, honest
but smoking ages us all.
Joke, honest
RE: How much cigarettes you smoked today?:))
Hardly any, I got a nasty chest infection eek...smoking is bad
RE: How much cigarettes you smoked today?:))
I quit smoking 8 years ago...ewwww!dont like the smell!hugzzz!!!
RE: How much cigarettes you smoked today?:))
wow how old are u???? you stop smoking when ur 10? :P
RE: How much cigarettes you smoked today?:))
hehe i began smoking at 12,i quit smoking when i was 15....I am 23 now sweety!hugzzz!!!
RE: How much cigarettes you smoked today?:))
2, so far.
but the night is still young, and who knows.
we all like smoke after sex, if im lucky,
maybe not we tired tonight
but the night is still young, and who knows.
we all like smoke after sex, if im lucky,
maybe not we tired tonight
RE: How much cigarettes you smoked today?:))
I get through 2 lighters a day, and I'm starting to feel it
RE: How much cigarettes you smoked today?:))
none so far, and 3 this far in my 40 years of living.
When Russian Women Bend Over
When these teen russian hotties bend over and show their camel toes its so sweet; I feel like a russian wolfhound instantly ;)
RE: When Russian Women Bend Over
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.wakinupwiththewolf.com/img/images/214_toe104.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.discovervancouver.com/forum/topic.asp%3FTOPIC_ID%3D150113&h=348&w=317&sz=44&tbnid=dMsOLrR9058eBM:&tbnh=120&tbnw=109&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dcamel%2Btoe%26um%3D1&start=1&sa=X&oi=images&ct=image&cd=1
RE: What's for dinner dear?
Why you ask it:)))) yogurt ,1 oat cookie and cofee
And 1 cigarette
And 1 cigarette
RE: What's for dinner dear?
well this time yes,
what do you have to offer, i like bananas, and melons
what do you have to offer, i like bananas, and melons
RE: cc
agree another great job cc---wait,,, what are you talking about shy--i was reading below in forum and some one sounded like got the "s" word and I dont mean shit or shy it ends with a m---I can't find myself saying that word, but heck cc overall is doing a great job,,, so I lift my beer glass and say--here, here and stay cool
p.s.: shy could you do me a favor and find out what the top 5 circus in the country are and where are they now--cool
p.s.: shy could you do me a favor and find out what the top 5 circus in the country are and where are they now--cool
RE: cc
Why? Do you think you could have done it any faster? In which case, why are you not earning a top notch IT salary instead of spending all your time regurgitating snippets of the internet and passing them off as your own?
Unless you have been a top sys admin looking after a cluster of servers I don't think you have any experience to judge how long technical problems should take to sort out.
Unless you have been a top sys admin looking after a cluster of servers I don't think you have any experience to judge how long technical problems should take to sort out.
top 5
longest suspension bridges
1) Akashi Kaikyo Hyogo, Japan 6,529ft
2) Izmit Bay Marmara Sea, Turkey 5,472 FT
3) Storebaelt Denmark 5,328 FT
4) Humber Humberside, England 4,626 FT
5) Jiangyin Yangtze River, China 4,543 FT
yep u guessed it...im still bored :)
1) Akashi Kaikyo Hyogo, Japan 6,529ft
2) Izmit Bay Marmara Sea, Turkey 5,472 FT
3) Storebaelt Denmark 5,328 FT
4) Humber Humberside, England 4,626 FT
5) Jiangyin Yangtze River, China 4,543 FT
yep u guessed it...im still bored :)
lookin for love in all the places
let me bore you for a few minutes....with my sad tale,cause i feel like writing whether you feel like reading or not...lol....this is a cautionary tale.....it is for the lonely men that might be as blind to reality as i was.and there are a few out there.(only just recently got out after almost 5 years)....finding love or a woman in a place like this....this subject has been brought up in the forum countless times i know.But maybe i can add a comment or 2 that might shed a different light on the subject and maybe even possibly help some one...hope so.i fell in love with a face....she just happpened to be Romanian but.....you can substitute Romania with any other country in the world...beautiful faces are every where in the world.i went to visit 5 times...on my last visit we married in Bucharest.This was after about 3 years of chatting and many many expensive phone bills...sept 27 05 to be exact.on each visit i was usually left only in some apartment i rented for hours and hours......watching silly Romanian TV...(Romanian MTV...i rather like..lol)....she
d show up at some random hour...usually evening...and stay for maybe 30 minutes....45 if i was lucky.....then leave....giving some lame excuse for not being able to stay......ill get right to the point......if you go to visit a woman you like in her country and city....dont put up with shit like this...ive learned that it simplys means they arent really interesting in you....dont even really care to be around you...they got more important things to do...like sleep,visit girlfreinds or shop(usually with money you have provided)i was very foolish....i loved this womans face so much that i let myself believe a lie....that maybe someday,just maybe she might actually love me...but let me wrap all this up by saying this is the reason ive learned......if someone loves you,it will be evident....and you will be able to see it clearly...and feel it too.dont try to buy it(providing apartments,paying bills,buying "stuff" for her)....she'll take all that but wont respect you in the least(the really mean spirited ones will view you simply as a sucker)...my girl was'nt mean spirited though...she just took with out giving anything back....including love.she was a little girl in a womans body and i helped spoil her royally....in the end i guess what im trying to say is....you really CAN find a good woman here on the internet(code for chat sites)....but,you have to bring a logical mind (and sometimes cynical mind)to the whole affair...thanks for letting me ramble...the divorce is final in August or September
d show up at some random hour...usually evening...and stay for maybe 30 minutes....45 if i was lucky.....then leave....giving some lame excuse for not being able to stay......ill get right to the point......if you go to visit a woman you like in her country and city....dont put up with shit like this...ive learned that it simplys means they arent really interesting in you....dont even really care to be around you...they got more important things to do...like sleep,visit girlfreinds or shop(usually with money you have provided)i was very foolish....i loved this womans face so much that i let myself believe a lie....that maybe someday,just maybe she might actually love me...but let me wrap all this up by saying this is the reason ive learned......if someone loves you,it will be evident....and you will be able to see it clearly...and feel it too.dont try to buy it(providing apartments,paying bills,buying "stuff" for her)....she'll take all that but wont respect you in the least(the really mean spirited ones will view you simply as a sucker)...my girl was'nt mean spirited though...she just took with out giving anything back....including love.she was a little girl in a womans body and i helped spoil her royally....in the end i guess what im trying to say is....you really CAN find a good woman here on the internet(code for chat sites)....but,you have to bring a logical mind (and sometimes cynical mind)to the whole affair...thanks for letting me ramble...the divorce is final in August or September
RE: lookin for love in all the places
Charlie - it sounds like you really took a very hard lesson. I thought mine was bad but yours makes me glad I have not fell quite as hard. I think I just asked myself - can I really be in love with someone who has lied to me many times? I thought that love could cure all problems - that things were only destined to get better, but I just forced myself to get away from it for a while and in time, I started to realize that I was accepting of things that were just too innappropriate and that nothing I could do would change this. Being alone and without someone to communicate with was my only way of seeing the basic fact that it was myself that was causing my unhappiness. The only advice I can add from my own experience is this - when things get bad - the very first time - stop and notice that this is not accident - and it probably will not ever escape your relations. It will happen again and you will lose your own self worth. Pay attention to her actions, not words. Your life is either important to your partner - or not. There is not really in between. In the long run - you will be better off with someone who is with you for the right reasons - not for money or gifts. When it is right you will know - but when it isn't - don't kid yourself - it will be wrong always. Thanks for sharing your painful story - I think it will be a good story someday - a different chapter - you seem to be a good guy and there is a loving partner waiting somewhere for you.
RE: lookin for love in all the places
i appreciate your encouraging words...i hope the best to you also ...my friend...you summed up jusy about everything i wrote in one simple phrase..."pay attention to her actions"....if it doesnt look or feel like love...then it aint...lol...i got something from your post...thanks again man
RE: lookin for love in all the places
sry charlie , i know how sweet and good guy u are... hope u will be fine , and happy :) .... but 4 now: be strong !!!!!! Dana
RE: lookin for love in all the places
"pay attention to her actions" wow that is good advice....
RE: lookin for love in all the places
What can i say charlie ? Only two things , first , my sincere i am so sorry , later that "faces" expressed in brief what i learnt many years ago...."To say nice words is very easy , facts and acts must be agree with those words" . I repeat , i am so sorry charlierichard .
RE: lookin for love in all the places
tears on mah eyes while reading yah messages sweety charls(lol)...but seriously, very sad to hear this happened to yah.Don't worry you can find a true love anywhere...It is true yah can find a good woman/man through internet and fall inlove like this site(CC),some dont believe but its true!!!i know couple who met on CC and got to know each other in person & madly in love & now happily married.get ready for the next chapter!gl and hugzzz!!!
RE: lookin for love in all the places
WOW! that's the worst case I've heard yet.
truly sorry for you Chaz (can I call you Chaz?)
better luck and better aware next time mate.
truly sorry for you Chaz (can I call you Chaz?)
better luck and better aware next time mate.
RE: lookin for love in all the places
Worst? He sat in a hotel watching MTV for some hours and got a few visits from the girl for money? Sounds like a normal vacation for some guys.
RE: lookin for love in all the places
this is your typical scam that is so prevalent now on the internet for guys who have been using dating sites. The only difference here is that she actually used you as meal ticket and not just conning you out of your money from some faceless person at the end of an electronic system. I am sorry for you , but our trouble as males is that we let our "dicks" rule us and we believe that a pretty face is really so innocent.
RE: lookin for love in all the places - the key
I have had similar experiences.
You, and I, travelled halfway around the world thinking we might have had a "relationship," when what we both had was a "casual friend."
They carved out enough time for a couple coffees and maybe a dinner date, but it didn't occur to them to break off their daily routine and spend quality time with either of us.
I wasted endless hours waiting and waiting and killing time that I could have used in museums or visiting the countryside. I was "on call," but she seldom called. Either she didn't believe I was there for her or she didn't care. Casual cafe-friend when we might run into each other, yes, but not relationship material.
I wonder which of us was the loser. Me for wasting vacation time and money trying to build a future together or her, who might have her head so screwed-up that she found it hard to believe a guy would go to so much trouble to be with her.
Of course, yours took the futher step of taking money that you threw at her.
You, and I, travelled halfway around the world thinking we might have had a "relationship," when what we both had was a "casual friend."
They carved out enough time for a couple coffees and maybe a dinner date, but it didn't occur to them to break off their daily routine and spend quality time with either of us.
I wasted endless hours waiting and waiting and killing time that I could have used in museums or visiting the countryside. I was "on call," but she seldom called. Either she didn't believe I was there for her or she didn't care. Casual cafe-friend when we might run into each other, yes, but not relationship material.
I wonder which of us was the loser. Me for wasting vacation time and money trying to build a future together or her, who might have her head so screwed-up that she found it hard to believe a guy would go to so much trouble to be with her.
Of course, yours took the futher step of taking money that you threw at her.
RE: lookin for love in all the places
hmmm-sorry charlie--sorry host and to others that went through this--what can I say.................................................stay cool
RE: lookin for love in all the places
I agree with your thoughts that he has passed on. Is best for you if you now move forward. Time will heal the heart if you let it.. Good Luck!!
dear "***host"
That happened with one chat friend of mine. The girl was so damn worried that she asked me to help her out. I asked her for all the details she had of him (it was name and home town and his type of job and a couple other small things).
I found out he actually worked as a low wage fastfood guy who lived in a one-room apartment and was using photos of his parents middle-class suburban home and cars to show her. His mom told me that though he was 10 years older than he said he was, he was healthy and she expected him that weekend for dinner and so she could wash his clothes if he car made it.
Yes, I'm old and fat but I don't lie in my chats here.
I found out he actually worked as a low wage fastfood guy who lived in a one-room apartment and was using photos of his parents middle-class suburban home and cars to show her. His mom told me that though he was 10 years older than he said he was, he was healthy and she expected him that weekend for dinner and so she could wash his clothes if he car made it.
Yes, I'm old and fat but I don't lie in my chats here.
RE: dear "***host"
Even if it's all true I know one host who married a man and even though he was divorced, the ex-wife still had a BUG role in his life because of the kids and all the money he had to give her. Because of the immigration paperwork she couldn't work legally for some months so she had to get an illegal job and give the husband all the money so he could give it to the ex-wife.
They lived in his parents basement until she could get a better job and they had to rent a too-big expensive apartment so there was room for the kids on the weekends. His family treats her like a servant-girl and talks rudely about her accent and the horrible country she came from. The husband is too weak to support her against mommy the others.
She works as many hours as she can at work and stays hidden on the weekends so she doesn't have to see this. She has been often tempted to just go back home, but since the 2 years is almost finished and she can get her Green Card, she is going to stay and get the card and probably a divorce.
She never had the idea to marry for the Green Card, but in the end that's all she'll have to go with her crushed dreams. Thank God they didn't have any kids.
I recommend any girl think very carefully before getting involved with a divorced man with kids. If the guy already has one ruined family will he have the strength you need to make a new one?
They lived in his parents basement until she could get a better job and they had to rent a too-big expensive apartment so there was room for the kids on the weekends. His family treats her like a servant-girl and talks rudely about her accent and the horrible country she came from. The husband is too weak to support her against mommy the others.
She works as many hours as she can at work and stays hidden on the weekends so she doesn't have to see this. She has been often tempted to just go back home, but since the 2 years is almost finished and she can get her Green Card, she is going to stay and get the card and probably a divorce.
She never had the idea to marry for the Green Card, but in the end that's all she'll have to go with her crushed dreams. Thank God they didn't have any kids.
I recommend any girl think very carefully before getting involved with a divorced man with kids. If the guy already has one ruined family will he have the strength you need to make a new one?
RE: lookin for love in all the places
The tale sound far too familiar to me to be a coincidence. I would suggest you double check your details with other hosts because I have a feeling you are not the only one whom may have been mislead.
RE: lookin for love in all the places
Yes, you have to use your mind and see the facts when you think you fell in love here and it's a true love. Well, we all sometimes get blind. Just coz we want to believe that we love and are loved.
RE: lookin for love in all the places
You are so right. So many people complain about people not telling the truth here when it is obivous to all what is true and what is not. In the end we are only fooling ourselves.
RE: lookin for love in all the places
Yeah,I gotta agree that totally sucks,but what I don't really understand is why in God's name did you marry her if she treated you like that ? It takes two to tango,and it seems to me you had all the signs you needed to realise this thing for the lovely 'face' isn't really enough for a commitment.
Best of luck next time !
Best of luck next time !
RE: lookin for love in all the places
Wow, sorry to hear, i need time to think of a good reply,
but for now, have my sincere best wishes, and keep your "Pecker up"
but for now, have my sincere best wishes, and keep your "Pecker up"
charlie, charlie, charlie.... buying love in all the places
That\'s the reason I always tell guys (even the ones that claim they can easily afford it) to NEVER send money to a girl, no matter how much she says she needs it or who is dying, in an attempt to secure her affection. Nothing beyond a modest gift on her birthdays and Christmas.
Spending money to impress her simply gets a mercenary girl. The only gold she gets is the engagement and wedding rings and she should work at least part-time as soon as she gets her papers.
Spending money to impress her simply gets a mercenary girl. The only gold she gets is the engagement and wedding rings and she should work at least part-time as soon as she gets her papers.
RE: charlie, charlie, charlie.... buying love in all the places
It's sad that stories like these keep happening. I usually only hear about guys fall in love here, send money, go to the other country and get stood up. I have not heard it the other way around... It's a shame that hosts get treated like this - but then again, it's the internet. It's all just a fantasy!
RE: charlie, charlie, charlie.... buying love in all the places
i agree with you terminator. i have been chatting with a chathost that seems like a beautiful person. i fell in love with her also. i am very skeptical about her because i do not want to be another member who was burned. so i haven't spent much money on her and have tried to slow it down a little.. she tells me whe wants to be with me. but there are things that are bothering me about the situation so i have really been cool about it. i do not send her money though she tells me she needs money and that she has to work as a hcathost to make the money. which i do not understand cause there are plenty of jobs out there.. she is from south america. but i agree with you guys that it is very scarey to be in love with a chat host.
RE: charlie, charlie, charlie.... buying love in all the places
I have done that a few times though I never told the host I was a coward. I don't assume that this is the ONLY job a girl can get, nor do I assume it pays at any certain level.
RE: lookin for love in all the places
Richardchardj, let me first express my sympathy for what you are going through; it sounds painful. It takes courage to admit having made a mistake, I can only advice you to try to profit from the learing experience without being too hard on yourself. I am also glad to hear you say that despite your bad experience you are not saying that all hosts are the same. There have been many posts from guys going through similar experiences to yours. Many of these guys have become very bitter and cynical due to what they went through, and I am not one to blame them. I agree with those who say that this is not a place to look for love, but as reflected in many previous threads...it does happen. I am in a relationship with a host that I met here and received some excellent advice from another poster in this forum; I'd like to share this advice with you. He basicaly told me to not only focus on the 95% of the things I loved about my girl, but also the 5% that bothered me. This is could of course be applied to people you meet anywhere, but I think it is especially applicable to people you meet on this site. Based on my own experience, when I was looking too hard for love, I always seemed to hook up with the wrong people. When I stopped looking, but remained open...love came to me where I least expected it. Listen to the people who warn you and caution you to use your sound judgement; they mean well even if they express themselves harshly sometimes. Keep in mind that any person who is "in love" is in a state where it is easy to leave reason behind...but knowing this does not mean that everyone is just out to get your money. Just pay attention! I wish you speedy recovery and hope someone enters your life that deserves your affection.
To a Friend
Let's think together how I can be helpful and if there is something I can say that would make you feel better. Despite the pain, which I know it hurts, put your mind at ease for several moments during the days and think about laugher, sharing, positive attitude, faith, and prayer. This is to a lady I know I want to share a moment of laugher with at the moment and its a joke about difference between husband and wife:
Honey: what is the difference between a wife and a girlfriend.
Husband said: about 45 kgs.
Sweetie: what is the difference between a husband and a boyfriend
Wife said: about 45 minutes...............another one
A man left for work one Friday afternoon, being payday instead of going home he stayed out all weekend partying with his friends and spending his entire paycheck. When he finally appeared at home Sunday night he was confronted by a very angry wife and he was barraged for nearly 2 hours. Finally his wife stopped the nagging and simply said to him "How would you like it if you didn't see me for 2 days or 3 days". To himself he had a big great ole smile building up inside his mind without letting her see it he replied "That would be fine with me honey since whats fair is fair". Monday went by and he didn't see his wife. Tuesday and Wednesday came and went with the same results. Come Thursday, the sweeling went down just enough where he could see her a little out the corner of his left eye.
Stay cool and always put a smile on that pretty face of yours.
Honey: what is the difference between a wife and a girlfriend.
Husband said: about 45 kgs.
Sweetie: what is the difference between a husband and a boyfriend
Wife said: about 45 minutes...............another one
A man left for work one Friday afternoon, being payday instead of going home he stayed out all weekend partying with his friends and spending his entire paycheck. When he finally appeared at home Sunday night he was confronted by a very angry wife and he was barraged for nearly 2 hours. Finally his wife stopped the nagging and simply said to him "How would you like it if you didn't see me for 2 days or 3 days". To himself he had a big great ole smile building up inside his mind without letting her see it he replied "That would be fine with me honey since whats fair is fair". Monday went by and he didn't see his wife. Tuesday and Wednesday came and went with the same results. Come Thursday, the sweeling went down just enough where he could see her a little out the corner of his left eye.
Stay cool and always put a smile on that pretty face of yours.
RE: To a Friend
ok so much for the laughter-hmmm--it seem it didnt work much--ok time for the sharing,,,,I have known you here 3 years now and sharing thoughts have given me a blessing that is so hard to describe,, it seems your smile, laughter, thoughtness, giving and all the other little things in the world people seem to take so litely had made me feel so good inside and I appreciate you more as you will ever know you are a angel sent down to us (yes even here at cc) to share feelings and your love--stay cool my friend and hope your having a better day--kisses
RE: To a Friend
always keep postive attitude no matter what or who else will say to try to keep you down. just remember yoir attitude toward people will go along way throughout the years to come. i was once told that if your attitude stinks you stink, if your attitude was good you are go. i can tell you this you have always had a good attitude toward many here and always helping others. stay cool and hope your day be a good day---to my friend from around the world--kisses
how to learn russian
any ideas or knowledge on how to learn and practice everyday Russian
software, web based, chat , paid /unpaid.
software, web based, chat , paid /unpaid.
RE: how to learn russian
because some of the most beautiful women in the world speak russian, it would be nice understand such a wonderful emotion filled language
RE: how to learn russian
want to learn russian language also but waaaaa!!!its very difficult:(...hugzzz!!!
RE: how to learn russian
try phrasebase.com
its free
but to understand the language as a whole, well u need a CD or a teacher. I would suggest a teacher that even give shows apart from teaching the language .... :P
its free
but to understand the language as a whole, well u need a CD or a teacher. I would suggest a teacher that even give shows apart from teaching the language .... :P
RE: how to learn russian
thanks gorty i think you are right learn by speaking and chat is a great option as i find cd's and dictionarys hard
RE: how to learn russian
You could sign-up for a Nashi camp. Fun, sun, and language learning via the immersion route.
To fit in, just be sure to shave your head first and don't forget to pack your army boots.
To fit in, just be sure to shave your head first and don't forget to pack your army boots.
RE: how to learn russian
I bought a Pimsleur learn Russian course which was quite good.
For other languages I've tried Linguaphone just talk which works OK too.
I don't have time for formal lessons at the moment so these are good coz I can listen to them in the car.
I think Russian is a fascinating and beautiful language.
For other languages I've tried Linguaphone just talk which works OK too.
I don't have time for formal lessons at the moment so these are good coz I can listen to them in the car.
I think Russian is a fascinating and beautiful language.
RE: how to learn russian
yes, thank you google IMF>
Thing is not all have time to take private lessons and any learning is better than none,
It's not the best but it fits in with my life style
Thing is not all have time to take private lessons and any learning is better than none,
It's not the best but it fits in with my life style
BEST way to learn russian
It's with Russian legs wrapped around your torso and your boy stuffing her muffin.
RE: how to learn russian
I've tried to learn for years and fail miserably. Proof you can't teach an old dog new tricks. ;) English is a challenge lately. Tried tagalog too... maybe I'm just dumbik
RE: There is an X next to each of my favorites
They have also fixed the problem of clicking on the profile pics which now brings you to the host pictures not the profile like it did before.
However, they seem to have taken away the NEXT and PREVIOUS buttons from the picture archive both in normal and zoom. DOH!!
However, they seem to have taken away the NEXT and PREVIOUS buttons from the picture archive both in normal and zoom. DOH!!
RE: There is an X next to each of my favorites
its replacing the "remove" that used to b there
RE: There is an X next to each of my favorites
They have also limited Fav's to 100 per page. I've got totrawl through 5 pages now. :-(
RE: There is an X next to each of my favorites
What an X next to MY name .. Sheeesh Im shocked ;)
Russian Girls
Except for 1 night stands, how often do you normally wait before you have sex with a new man?
RE: Russian Girls
Not here, in St Petersburg. Been there half a dozen times over the years, so we'll just have to agree to differ on this one.
RE: Russian Girls
Gorty, nice baiting job..:) establishing the fact and then going for the kill with the price point argument... lol
RE: Russian Girls
sex is an animalistic act, requiring no thought - love must be carefully nutured
better way to phrase the intended question
I believe he asks if you flirt outrageously with a guy online and actually agree to meet with him, is it likely you will sleep with him during the short time he will have with you. Maybe he is not looking for sex-only, but he is wondering if you can accelerate the relationship to the sexual level in only a day or two.
RE: better way to phrase the intended question
Put these 50$ deep inside ur arse, where the sun never sjines ok?
RE: better way to phrase the intended question
I'm very sorry that you were offended by my friend's comments.
He should obviously have said $100
:-D
He should obviously have said $100
:-D
RE: better way to phrase the intended question
Oh I am sorry. I forgot the studio boss takes at least 50%.
$100 it is :)
$100 it is :)
RE: better way to phrase the intended question
Funnily enough, in some studios yes they do! :)
RE: better way to phrase the intended question
Not what you said when I offered you $75 for the night ;-)
RE: Russian Girls
my experience is that russian women are very easy not matter what the timing...........
RE: Russian Girls
Russian women in general are very naive about sex. Also in general they are prudish, but dress like vamps. There are exception of course.
RE: Russian Girls
I have visited host's in Russia. Sex was never expected with me. Once it never happend, because of me, I am sure. Another time we were in bed together an hour after meeting. I still have a smile! It happened this way because we did it right. We already knew each other emotionally from hours of daily chatting online. It was all just like an explosion once we were together.
RE: Russian Girls
Jeez,It happened to mee too-i had a bf from cc and when we finally met we were in bed in 2 hours but it was true love and it was amazing. Everyht felt so right. But usually guys have to work hard to get me in bed:P 2 months or so.
how you can tell you might spent a little bit too much time on camcontacts
i now have several other members on my yahoo list
RE: wondering
I am not a host, but anything is possible. Most people spend more hours working than anything else, so it becomes a big part of your life, whether you want it to or not.
RE: wondering
honestly it can become or rather seem like.. i am member but have known like seems like several 100 chat hosts over the years. take my word this is not real life but if you spent a lot time working here can seem like.
RE: wondering
Hard to leave CC im addicted!:Pi love meeting people,i love modeling...its a lot of fun for me!it is fun being infront of camera!!!hugzzz!!!
Order of the Phoenix or Death Eater...or does anyone really care??
And the seven book adventure comes to an end...
Any Harry Potter fans hiding in the closet??
Any Harry Potter fans hiding in the closet??
RE: Order of the Phoenix or Death Eater...or does anyone really care??
i've seen the films ... so many impressed by the last one, nothing special to me :(
RE: Order of the Phoenix or Death Eater...or does anyone really care??
i prefer harry poter :)
RE: Order of the Phoenix or Death Eater...or does anyone really care??
Seems like the Muggles out number the Wizards here at CC.
RE: Order of the Phoenix or Death Eater...or does anyone really care??
Best not to discuss children's books on a porn site. It's kind of creepy.
top 5 (for yogi)
tourist atractions (couldnt b arsed to find out how many visitors)
1. Times Square, New York
2. Memorial, Washington D.C.
3. Disney World, Orlando
4. Trafalgar Square, London
5. Disneyland, Los Angeles
1. Times Square, New York
2. Memorial, Washington D.C.
3. Disney World, Orlando
4. Trafalgar Square, London
5. Disneyland, Los Angeles
RE: top 5 (for yogi)
Curious about #2, looks like a word was dropped -- would that be the Lincoln Memorial?
RE: top 5 (for yogi)
Where is the Eiffel Tower if the claim that most tourist go to France is true?
RE: top 5 (for yogi)
just coz most tourists go to france dont mean they all go to the eiffel tower....duh
RE: top 5 (for yogi)
zince lincoln and washington memorials are across from each other they were probably combined
RE: top 5 (for yogi)
Add to the list the Grand Canyon of the Colorado River in Arizona, USA. It is a beautiful sight.
RE: top 5 (for yogi)
There are alot of "memorials" in Washington. Which one are you referring to?
RE: top 5 (for yogi)
Wow - thanks shy.
I think that is the first post I have seen here especially designed for me - although some of the ones about stupid members may have been aimed at me - but I was too stupid to realise :)
I think that is the first post I have seen here especially designed for me - although some of the ones about stupid members may have been aimed at me - but I was too stupid to realise :)
Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
What would you guys prefer? Big nice Silly-Kons or natural little ones?
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
Depends, am I marying the girl or just have short time fun?
If it's a vid visit or a girl I'm screwing for fun, I prefer big and sexy (silly-cones ok by me), if it's my wife; I want natural.
So you wanna fook or get married?
If it's a vid visit or a girl I'm screwing for fun, I prefer big and sexy (silly-cones ok by me), if it's my wife; I want natural.
So you wanna fook or get married?
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
yea, but c'mon. give them a few years and these perky young tities will be saggy floppy sacks. Then silicone is necessary.
Firm and natural for the young ones. Falsies for the old ones.
Firm and natural for the young ones. Falsies for the old ones.
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
I wouldn't put silicone in mine but I like how some fake look mmmm lol
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
To me it is not a proven fact, I still prefer natural
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
go to any strip club and see who gets the most money - other things being equal, it is always the one with the biggest boob-job
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
I think it's the novelty of big fake bossoms that piques interest. Once you get an upclose gander at them though, they're really quite icky.
It's like midget porn - everyone wants at least a little peek.
It's like midget porn - everyone wants at least a little peek.
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
I agree, I prefer smaller size. Kiss to both of yours.
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
So you say that if men at strip clubs give more money to false boobed women then it is a proven fact that "all" men prefer false boobs. I don't even believe that the false boobed women make more money in clubs. I guess that is "like" proof.
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
Follow the string, pal. Which one doesn't seem to fit? Who mentioned that "'all' men prefer false boobs"? All you have to do is go to a strip club and check.
someone interested: "What would you guys prefer?
Big nice Silly-Kons or natural little ones?"
Riv: "No matter the size, I prefer Natural !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
BS: "u guys r such hypocrites...its a proven fact that
girls with big sillicone boobs make more money in
this job!!!!"
rjmasters: "how has that been proven?"
the enhancer: "go to any strip club and see who gets
the most money - other things being equal, it is
always the one with the biggest boob-job"
rjmasters: "So you say that if men at strip clubs give
more money to false boobed women then it is a
proven fact that 'all' men prefer false boobs. I don't
even believe that the false boobed women make
more money in clubs. I guess that is 'like' proof. "
someone interested: "What would you guys prefer?
Big nice Silly-Kons or natural little ones?"
Riv: "No matter the size, I prefer Natural !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
BS: "u guys r such hypocrites...its a proven fact that
girls with big sillicone boobs make more money in
this job!!!!"
rjmasters: "how has that been proven?"
the enhancer: "go to any strip club and see who gets
the most money - other things being equal, it is
always the one with the biggest boob-job"
rjmasters: "So you say that if men at strip clubs give
more money to false boobed women then it is a
proven fact that 'all' men prefer false boobs. I don't
even believe that the false boobed women make
more money in clubs. I guess that is 'like' proof. "
RE: Silly-Kon or natural little ones ok?
You're in a separate sub-string. I listed only the one direct string that rjmasters was a part of in that comment.
RE: Rude
yea i know what u mean i had this yesterday
viewer enters open session in shy
him: hello, undress pls
me: im a bit shy and not in the mood
him: u can't be shy if u r on the site, come on start taking them off
me: will you leave pls or i should disconnect to get rid of you
him: pardon ?
Chathost closes the room lol
fock the 2p, it's all about me on here!!!
viewer enters open session in shy
him: hello, undress pls
me: im a bit shy and not in the mood
him: u can't be shy if u r on the site, come on start taking them off
me: will you leave pls or i should disconnect to get rid of you
him: pardon ?
Chathost closes the room lol
fock the 2p, it's all about me on here!!!
RE: Rude
When I visit a host I will give a five to them in most cases, because I feel that they deserve the five for the video. If I am not satisfied with what has taken place in video I will not go back to them another time. I will not be rude to the host, I just do not return to them.
RE: Rude
When a viewer votes with his wallet is what has the biggest impact. And it is possible to block a member by his screenname. But the viewer in return can add as many new screennames as he chooses.
RE: Rude
Don't let them piss u off, they aren't worth your time & effort !
Block the fool from entering again. Your stars will soon be replaced.
These type of silly viewers r all over the site, if you block you'll weild them out, and therefore save your effort in the future. xx Good Luck x
Block the fool from entering again. Your stars will soon be replaced.
These type of silly viewers r all over the site, if you block you'll weild them out, and therefore save your effort in the future. xx Good Luck x
it`s unfair!!
Tell me pls!! why!! if a girl doesn`t undress men make her rate lower? we can do it and we can refuse!! I always had 4,5 stars, but a few guys spoilt it only because i refused geting naked... how can we change the system? or should we ask viewers to be more tolerant?!! and not to spoil our rates?! shame on u, guys!
RE: it`s unfair!!
Why not cease with the suggestive pictures and move to non-adult to avoid members having incorrect expectations?
RE: it`s unfair!!
Jeez girl, calm down) These stars are nothing, and rating is unfair, everyone knows it. I dont give a sh*t about how many stars i got, cuz i am hot, smart, know English well, and i know ill always get my viewers, no matter how many stars i have. So be confident girl, and cheer up;)Lots of $$$$$$$$))
RE: it`s unfair!!
yes i agree, but it is true when you have many stars you appear higher up the list, and this SURE INCREASES my revenue. FACT
RE: it`s unfair!!
Great answer to a simple question. If you choose the right category the viewers expectations will be appropriate to what you offer.
the stars are the property of the viewer
Live with it. The stars belong to the viewer to give as he wishes. He gives them as he sees fit.
RE: the stars are the property of the viewer
I always give 5 stars, no matter what.
Sometimes I even spend a good solid hour jumping in and out of as many hosts as I can to spread the love.
Sometimes I even spend a good solid hour jumping in and out of as many hosts as I can to spread the love.
RE: the stars are the property of the viewer
I gave my first "1 Star" recently. If I say why I identify myself to the host, but I can say that it was for something that hosts on other sites love to do, but here is very rare.
RE: the stars are the property of the viewer
I wonder why do you care to keep that secret from a host that you gave 1 star, do you plan to visit her anymore? And if yes, why?
stars cannot be a property, mr. judge, not even Yours :)
I guess you are happy you have this tool (the stars). You took the name that most probably reflects you - severe, selfish and egotic, like a severe teacher that judges and punishes from the height of his ego... I've read your posts.
Also, you said above that you gave one star to a host and you wouldn't like her to know it was you who lowered her rating.. lol :) that sounds like cowardness a little... doesn't it? :)
Also, you said above that you gave one star to a host and you wouldn't like her to know it was you who lowered her rating.. lol :) that sounds like cowardness a little... doesn't it? :)
RE: stars cannot be a property, mr. judge, not even Yours :)
Who do you say decides how many stars to give, the commisariat? Do you think the stars are awarded by the central committee?
RE: stars cannot be a property, mr. judge, not even Yours :)
You forget the customer is always the judge by how many minutes he spends with you and what he asks of you. You are not the Mistress (in most cases - LOL) you are the worker who must earn her money and her stars.
RE: stars cannot be a property, mr. judge, not even Yours :)
Of course, we work here and want to do our best to make people happy, and we earn our money and our stars, but when somebody come and asks for three dildos in ass in the first minute, in A Little Shy cathegory, and if refused, gives one star, then this is called abuse...
RE: stars cannot be a property, mr. judge, not even Yours :)
it's called a demanding customer - best to ignore it
RE: stars cannot be a property, mr. judge, not even Yours :)
Whose property are they? Who determines the way they are given?
the stars seem like a tip
One waitress thinks she deserves 30% tip just because she doesn't spit in your food, when the other does her job well and is happy for what is given.
no, it's not a tip, just should reflect an honest opinion
Stars are not a "property", but a useful tool to see how a host meets the general taste or how nice and beautyful she is.
But to give one star, as "the judge" did, just to revenge - because that host wouldn't or couldn't or wasn't alowed to do a certain thing that, as he told us, is very rare on this site... He entered that host's video and liked her in a certain measure until she refused to do a certain thing. That means he just wanted to punish her, not that he disliked her completely. ... And he tells us that he don't want that host to know he did that..lol.. that means he wants to go back again and to punish or harass or blackmail her again... What a life!
But to give one star, as "the judge" did, just to revenge - because that host wouldn't or couldn't or wasn't alowed to do a certain thing that, as he told us, is very rare on this site... He entered that host's video and liked her in a certain measure until she refused to do a certain thing. That means he just wanted to punish her, not that he disliked her completely. ... And he tells us that he don't want that host to know he did that..lol.. that means he wants to go back again and to punish or harass or blackmail her again... What a life!
RE: no, it's not a tip, just should reflect an honest opinion
You, as many, read what you want into my words. Her attitude on one occasion displeased me so I gave one star. You think that because I always gave her 5 stars that I must do that every time, whether I am happy or not?
RE: no, it's not a tip, just should reflect an honest opinion
If what I presumed was not true, and if I offended you on a wrong presumtion, then I apologise, I'm very sorry. You told only a few words about why you gave one star and they maybe lead to wrong ideas. Only you know the whole truth. I just disliked your bossy atttitude and wanted to make you see from other point of vue...
RE: stars cannot be a property, mr. judge, not even Yours :)
Ye ye totally agree with u)) THE JUDGE LMAO))))))) Judge My arse:P