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RE: Somebody has ever fall in love in the teacher?
Hot for Teacher? If he's not married, go for it after the semester.
RE: Somebody has ever fall in love in the teacher?
Give him sex every chance you get and don't ask anything in return.
RE: Somebody has ever fall in love in the teacher?
Give him the blowjob of his life after class :D
You'll get a 10 for a grade ;))
You'll get a 10 for a grade ;))
RE: Re: huh? stop complaining abt NONSENSE.........lol
Ori, Ori, Ori....you know....I really love you.....even when you make no sense, but I always still seem to understand what you're saying. I agree...it is kind of pathetic, how some guys "fall in love"and then cry about it when they get taken to the cleaner's. Maybe it's just nature's old trick to make us having babies. I want to say though, that if my girlfriend really broke my heart, which I know she won't...but if it happened....I would not cry about it here....
RE: Re: huh? stop complaining abt NONSENSE.........lol
Axterix its good to hear that you wouldnt be complaining about your heart ache hear,,so glad, so glad, hated to seen a 2 page statement everyday from your words that you write here and besides you better stick to your one love you have, by the way why are you here, shouldnt you be out sharing your life with your love instead here sharing your words with us
RE: Somebody has ever fall in love in the teacher?
A lad in my school got it on with a (married with kids) female teacher. The lad had one finger that was wider at the top than his others.
I wonder if that was how he did it.
I wonder if that was how he did it.
RE: Somebody has ever fall in love in the teacher?
why u don t let him know about it?
like this u see what u have to do:
if he love his familly he will not pay attention to u...(hurt but can happen) lol
and then u have to just forget him...
now u just think "maybe can be something between us or maybe not"
kisssssss
like this u see what u have to do:
if he love his familly he will not pay attention to u...(hurt but can happen) lol
and then u have to just forget him...
now u just think "maybe can be something between us or maybe not"
kisssssss
RE: TNXXX for advance
Ahhh that sounds cool)) Go for it girl)) U got a chance, maybe he isnt married anymore;)
RE: TNXXX for advance
no ring for a month and she has his phone number, interesting this could be quite the soap opera. please keep us upto date
RE: rude
how dare u put me in the same category as them..im so much more ruder and so much less funny...btw..u forgot dave :p
RE: rude.....?......MAYBE THE MOST PERVERTS?
who are those people you talking about origami--what category are those girls in
RE: rude.....?......MAYBE THE MOST PERVERTS?
i check in comchat and didnt see them or you in there
RE: rude.....?......MAYBE THE MOST PERVERTS?
thank you Ori...i was wondering why "young lady lover charlie"...was not on the list....i guess Origami and me are the only ones laughing when i make idiotic comments...oh well....maybe next year ill be a nominee in the CC funny man awards....kiss you Ori
RE: rude.....?......MAYBE THE MOST PERVERTS?
finally....you stop talking long enough for me to give you a big kiss
RE: rude.....?......MAYBE THE MOST PERVERTS?
i think tame panther loves me..............there is no other explanation i can think of for such behavior
Clothes Size
Does anyone know how to translate Moldovan women's clothes sizes into something that makes sense in western Europe? Thanks....
German translation
Hi. Is there any German speaker here who can translate the word Gestaltungsfaehigkeit for me? Many thanks.
SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
Stops here, I want to get on!!!!!!! I'll be the Captain!!! For many months, 8 months, I had only one Fave in Glam that I have spent allot of time and $$$. She was my favorite for many reasons, sincerity and trust being foremost, and she is very intelligent as well. We had allot of fun too, joking & laughing along with SMS messaging back & forth. I truly adored her as I do now.
I should have known better. As her ratings got better, the smell of money became stronger with the popularity getting into her head. Funny part is my time and ratings with her was the primary reason for the increase of her rating!
But as many here have said, the girls are all about the Love of Money. I'm a bit sad about this loss.
Sweet Olya (not her nickname) is neither sincere or truthful to me at least...all for the Love of Money!!! I have no room in my life for lies.
I should have known better. Too bad for me...I'm "The Toad" now. Maybe I should LOL now and move on, having learned a BIG lesson.
I should have known better. As her ratings got better, the smell of money became stronger with the popularity getting into her head. Funny part is my time and ratings with her was the primary reason for the increase of her rating!
But as many here have said, the girls are all about the Love of Money. I'm a bit sad about this loss.
Sweet Olya (not her nickname) is neither sincere or truthful to me at least...all for the Love of Money!!! I have no room in my life for lies.
I should have known better. Too bad for me...I'm "The Toad" now. Maybe I should LOL now and move on, having learned a BIG lesson.
:((
Thanx...she is not "bad" at all, just misdirected by the $$$$. I have adored her so much and feel the same right now and I thought she felt the same way about me. And to move on....to what? There is no other like my Olya. :(
RE: :((
Think about it, how must she feel inside having to have a job like this. Where she has to be a confidence trickster to get good money because she cannot get a well paid job elsewhere. It's short term gains here always for Chathosts.
You are charitable thats all and not desperate for her attentions as your first post may read. Sure you probably feel hurt and used but no need to feel sad or bitter. Think of it this way she probably sees all men as money machines and lucky for you found out early. Imagine those poor sods who marry these types of women. They are the real fools.
Surely you want a woman who can make you feel and become better and not one who will drag you down. With her you saw clarity before it was too late and will know from experience not to go for this type of woman again :)
You are charitable thats all and not desperate for her attentions as your first post may read. Sure you probably feel hurt and used but no need to feel sad or bitter. Think of it this way she probably sees all men as money machines and lucky for you found out early. Imagine those poor sods who marry these types of women. They are the real fools.
Surely you want a woman who can make you feel and become better and not one who will drag you down. With her you saw clarity before it was too late and will know from experience not to go for this type of woman again :)
:((
Agree with you somewhat ET. I still believe she is sincere and of course needs money to live as we all do and in the end, why she is here. Maybe it's me and my lack of understanding. Maybe I will never know the answers. Maybe it really doesn't matter...in the end. She was my friend, my sweetheart, my love, real or imagined. I know this...I am quite saddened right now because I will never be with her again (and a dose of self-pity). She was such a joy to be with and I will miss her very much...my friend, my sweetheart. my love.
RE: :((
So, feeling a bit of self-pity....don't feel bad about that...we all feel sorry for ourselves from time to time.But from reading your posts I know that you're mature enough to realize that you're not a victim. "She" did not create this, you did it to yourself...and that is part of the lesson we all have to learn. The good news, my friend, is that despite the sense of loss you feel right now....having the heart you seem to have....there's someone around the corner that will make you very happy....I think the odds are good of that. Just do yourself a favor; if you're over 40....don't look for someone too close to half your age....know what I mean?
RE: :((
She isnt bad, she came here to earn money, and ofc money is the main reason of her being on this site. So what did u expect?
RE: :((
No I don't think you do. Sharmouta seems to have understood the situation to perfection.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
There will be many sweet Olias in your life if you let them in.
And if it makes ou feel better .. make sure everyone has been in your situation and put efforts, time and money into a non sense relationship. Me too :)))
And if it makes ou feel better .. make sure everyone has been in your situation and put efforts, time and money into a non sense relationship. Me too :)))
Yess...
I have felt good to have helped here in this way. I am a forgiving person. As to whether she reads this Forum...I doubt it. I am a better man for helping her situation as well as having her as an acquaintance. I never thought it would come to this, though.
RE: Yess...
well, I am really glad to know you have such a large heart, ShyBobby. No need to regret of good things have been done for someone. I am often thinking why is that we people tend to regret of good things we ever did for someone? There is nothing could grow from bad seeds, but when doing something good for others we have a double result for our own soul and for someone's. Think about it, it is not about money only...
You are definitely not a fool and I dont think you are a buffoon :)
I hope all will be great in your life :)
You are definitely not a fool and I dont think you are a buffoon :)
I hope all will be great in your life :)
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
You know, laughing girl, you're really such a nice person, and you make such beautiful, compassionate posts. Sometimes I wish I knew who you were. I don't even know what you look like, so even if you were a 200 lbs man in Pittsburgh, I might still fall in love w. you. Luckily, for both of us, but especially for you, my heart is already taken....but I really respect you as a person...kisses
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
"Sometimes I wish to gather all the nice men from here and make them one man and make him mine...lol...joking!"
By any chance...is your last name Frankenstein? ;P
By any chance...is your last name Frankenstein? ;P
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
loool...no!
I am just a dreamer sometimes...not sure which anolog I have in literature...but I definitely know what is my last name and which man I want in my real life :P
I am just a dreamer sometimes...not sure which anolog I have in literature...but I definitely know what is my last name and which man I want in my real life :P
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
I was gonna post something nice back to you, but the trolls hanging out here would ask us to get a room, so I won't give them the satisfaction. Anyway, Im just glad you're here.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
Hey don't lump all us trolls together. Trolls have feelings too you know :(
As for getting a room together. Please don't as some of us trolls are also voyeurs :P
As for getting a room together. Please don't as some of us trolls are also voyeurs :P
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
Why I feel so parental feeling to you now...wanting to spank you mildly?...hmmm :)
Thanx to All...
...for hearing me. Time will heal this wound I believe. I harbor no grudges.
There is only one Olya for me.... my friend, my sweetheart, my love.
I wish her well in her ambitions.
Too bad she will never read this or appreciate how deeply I feel about her and how important she was in my life.
There is only one Olya for me.... my friend, my sweetheart, my love.
I wish her well in her ambitions.
Too bad she will never read this or appreciate how deeply I feel about her and how important she was in my life.
Ohhh...
You write such comforting words for me to think about. Maybe you are correct. Right now though I am not good.
RE: Ohhh...
yeah, but you're a chick.
honestly now, as a chick, when you come across a guy acting the way that "shybobby" is now acting, don't you find it a little repulsive?
honestly now, as a chick, when you come across a guy acting the way that "shybobby" is now acting, don't you find it a little repulsive?
it's why...
It's why some people never tell others about their favorite restaurants. If they become famous it's impossible to give the same service as before.
Some guys just don't rate their favorite hosts and never mention them in the forums. It's happened to me before that someone else discovered her and mentioned her a lot (or she became active on her own in the forums/commchat) and then she is so busy she CAN'T pay attention to her old friends.
Some guys just don't rate their favorite hosts and never mention them in the forums. It's happened to me before that someone else discovered her and mentioned her a lot (or she became active on her own in the forums/commchat) and then she is so busy she CAN'T pay attention to her old friends.
Interesting Observation
Precisely what happened. Because of my greed I would not rate her at all...she asked why, I told her I did not "want to share" and she says she doesn't care about the ratings, "I do not want to be popular". Yeah right. So I rate her 5's and soon she is at the top. Here I am "the buffoon of the year". Erect a statue for me titled "The World's Biggest Fool".
RE: Interesting Observation
i don't think it's in his nature to do so, but you couldn't be more right.
RE: Interesting Observation
Sounds like both of you were playing a game. She's here for money, but you won't rate her so she cannot do better? And she of course played you so you could coming back.
I've never thought about not rating someone that I like as a person to keep her for myself... I've always tried to help them make more money if possible from others and would just hope that they really cared about me too. The result... Sometimes I've been burned after spending a lot of money in private like you, and sometimes I've been rewarded with lasting friendships.
I think you need to be less selfish and try to help your friends instead of worrying about "sharing". At the same time of course, try to be more careful in terms of whom you consider to be your friends. (A good test by the way is how much a host is willing to talk to you outside of video. Not a perfect test, but a good one.)
Good luck.
I've never thought about not rating someone that I like as a person to keep her for myself... I've always tried to help them make more money if possible from others and would just hope that they really cared about me too. The result... Sometimes I've been burned after spending a lot of money in private like you, and sometimes I've been rewarded with lasting friendships.
I think you need to be less selfish and try to help your friends instead of worrying about "sharing". At the same time of course, try to be more careful in terms of whom you consider to be your friends. (A good test by the way is how much a host is willing to talk to you outside of video. Not a perfect test, but a good one.)
Good luck.
RE: Interesting Observation
Love is about being selfless not selfish. And I've felt that I was in love or very close emotionally to a host before here and still at least rated the host with 5 stars and sometimes post things in the forum too.
A member in love with a host should ask her to retire from sites and get a job that does not involve meeting guys and give her some money to help her if he can since she will probably be making less money someplace else or should accept that this is her job and this is how they met and that is the way things are until they are together.
What have I done? I just try not to think about what the girl is doing when I am around and accept the situation for what it is. Until I am wiling to help her so she does not need to work here, it is not my place to tell her what to do if this is the best place for her to survive.
A member in love with a host should ask her to retire from sites and get a job that does not involve meeting guys and give her some money to help her if he can since she will probably be making less money someplace else or should accept that this is her job and this is how they met and that is the way things are until they are together.
What have I done? I just try not to think about what the girl is doing when I am around and accept the situation for what it is. Until I am wiling to help her so she does not need to work here, it is not my place to tell her what to do if this is the best place for her to survive.
RE: Interesting Observation
"A member in love with a host should ask her to retire from sites and get a job that does not involve meeting guys and give her some money to help her ."
NO!!!!
A member who has affection (don't call it love unless there have been real life meetings) should understand that this is her job and he has no role to play with her in cc. He has no right to ask her to quit or change categories.
If he truly cares about her he should arrange to go meet her in person to see if they have any spark together. Even then it should be her choice to quit cc or not and there should be NO MONEY involved. That's for after they're married or living together. LOL
NO!!!!
A member who has affection (don't call it love unless there have been real life meetings) should understand that this is her job and he has no role to play with her in cc. He has no right to ask her to quit or change categories.
If he truly cares about her he should arrange to go meet her in person to see if they have any spark together. Even then it should be her choice to quit cc or not and there should be NO MONEY involved. That's for after they're married or living together. LOL
RE: Interesting Observation
I said he should ask her, not order her, and I think it is perfectly okay to discuss any issue in a relationship that affects the relationship.
I understand your concerns about not meeting yet and bringing money into the picture, but this is an usual situation. And one way would perhaps be for the member to accept what is going on until they do meet, and once he feels the relationship will last, he can "invest" not just his love but his money too, just like he does when he sees her in video, buys gifts, et cetera.
I am not saying to buy her or use money to keep her away from other guys, by the way. I am saying that if her job makes him uncomfortable and she is willing to find another job, then he should help her if he can.
The one time I had a long relationship on a site, the person did not strip most of the time so I was able to deal with it and just tried to not think about the fact that the woman I loved was being intimate with other men. Her job never really became a problem because I felt that there was not anyone else in her life. And by the way, she wasn't too happy that I had a bunch of friends that were hosts from before we met so it does work both ways.
One last thought for members. While you might not life your girlfriends working on a site, at least you know where they are, lol. Between school and work, hosts are very busy. You help them with money to get another job like being a waitress, she has a lot more opportunity to meet guys.... in REAL life. Just a word of caution, lol.
I understand your concerns about not meeting yet and bringing money into the picture, but this is an usual situation. And one way would perhaps be for the member to accept what is going on until they do meet, and once he feels the relationship will last, he can "invest" not just his love but his money too, just like he does when he sees her in video, buys gifts, et cetera.
I am not saying to buy her or use money to keep her away from other guys, by the way. I am saying that if her job makes him uncomfortable and she is willing to find another job, then he should help her if he can.
The one time I had a long relationship on a site, the person did not strip most of the time so I was able to deal with it and just tried to not think about the fact that the woman I loved was being intimate with other men. Her job never really became a problem because I felt that there was not anyone else in her life. And by the way, she wasn't too happy that I had a bunch of friends that were hosts from before we met so it does work both ways.
One last thought for members. While you might not life your girlfriends working on a site, at least you know where they are, lol. Between school and work, hosts are very busy. You help them with money to get another job like being a waitress, she has a lot more opportunity to meet guys.... in REAL life. Just a word of caution, lol.
RE: Interesting Observation
That is a VERY good point. A host that I know tried to work in a regular job. By the second day, her manager was literally stalking her...after a week she decided not to go back. He could get away with it, because in that country had she even tried to protest, she would have been the one loosing face. Very sad, actually, to see someone try so hard and then some piece of phlegm comes along and ruins it for her...
Of course, if a girl really loves you, it would not matter where she works....she'll stick with you. Still, you're bringing up an issue that many people in the UK, US and other "developed" countries seem to forget about....in some countries many women don't have much choice. Here in the West, an perhaps especially the US, with our wonderful, albeit hypocrithical puritan ethics, we're told to think about women who take off their clothes for money as being "sluts." If there's a pretty woman, having the choice between stripping on cam with nobody touching her, versus getting banged by her boss in order to keep her day job, nobody should put her down for working on a site like this. Just thought I 'd expand on your comment.
Of course, if a girl really loves you, it would not matter where she works....she'll stick with you. Still, you're bringing up an issue that many people in the UK, US and other "developed" countries seem to forget about....in some countries many women don't have much choice. Here in the West, an perhaps especially the US, with our wonderful, albeit hypocrithical puritan ethics, we're told to think about women who take off their clothes for money as being "sluts." If there's a pretty woman, having the choice between stripping on cam with nobody touching her, versus getting banged by her boss in order to keep her day job, nobody should put her down for working on a site like this. Just thought I 'd expand on your comment.
RE: Interesting Observation
But I know more than one guy that thought the "allowance" he sent meant she was his and that she owed him. Another girl gladly accepted the allowance and then simply worked on another site without telling him. Money changes everything.
RE: Interesting Observation
Sorry, but he said the same, no? "UNTIL THEY ARE TOGETHER", which means IN REAL.
I think its a natural thing when a man in love, he shouldn't want his woman to serve all the other men. And the same should feel a woman who wants to belong to the only one man. I am more than sure if that woman has the same love to him, it could be hard for her to continue serving others. Unless they both are happy to join such a sites, but I dont think it happens so often.
But yes, if a man isn't going to support her or acting somehow to help her to do what she'd like to, he certainly have no right to tell her where and how she have to work. But then he is not in love if so. Just declaring "I am in love" without real efforts to make things better and finally to be together is nothing but just a words and even probably a vile game.
I think its a natural thing when a man in love, he shouldn't want his woman to serve all the other men. And the same should feel a woman who wants to belong to the only one man. I am more than sure if that woman has the same love to him, it could be hard for her to continue serving others. Unless they both are happy to join such a sites, but I dont think it happens so often.
But yes, if a man isn't going to support her or acting somehow to help her to do what she'd like to, he certainly have no right to tell her where and how she have to work. But then he is not in love if so. Just declaring "I am in love" without real efforts to make things better and finally to be together is nothing but just a words and even probably a vile game.
RE: Interesting Observation
"A member in love with a host should ask her to retire from sites and get a job that does not involve meeting guys and give her some money to help her ."
I agree with you, critic, that this is not what most people here "should" do if they fall in love with someone here.
And I totally agree with you in that a guy does not have a right to tell his girlfriend what to do. If the relationship is serious, both should realize that working here is not a long term career anyway. But for those of us who truly loves someone working here, it is not always easy to accept...
On the other hand, if the girl insists on being "independent" and make her own money here...then she should not expect regular "money gifts" from her boyfriend. That's how I see it, although in my case my girl knows that I'm in her corner should she decide to decide to do something different, e.g. like pursuing an education. Just like she's sent me gifts and cares about my wellbeing, it is only natural that I want to do things for her.
However, putting someone on an "allowance" in order for the girl not to work here is an entirely different matter. To me, this sounds more like blackmail than anything else. The "boyfriend" of one the hosts I know about sent her an allowance that was even more than she was making here so she wouldn't have to work. As soon as he came to his senses, she went back to working.
I also wonder, if a host says she loves you, why would she expect you to be a regular viewer in her room, anyway? In any case, I try not to give too much advice, because people are all different, there's no "one size fits all" answer to this one. All we can do is share our own experiences and viewpoints.
I agree with you, critic, that this is not what most people here "should" do if they fall in love with someone here.
And I totally agree with you in that a guy does not have a right to tell his girlfriend what to do. If the relationship is serious, both should realize that working here is not a long term career anyway. But for those of us who truly loves someone working here, it is not always easy to accept...
On the other hand, if the girl insists on being "independent" and make her own money here...then she should not expect regular "money gifts" from her boyfriend. That's how I see it, although in my case my girl knows that I'm in her corner should she decide to decide to do something different, e.g. like pursuing an education. Just like she's sent me gifts and cares about my wellbeing, it is only natural that I want to do things for her.
However, putting someone on an "allowance" in order for the girl not to work here is an entirely different matter. To me, this sounds more like blackmail than anything else. The "boyfriend" of one the hosts I know about sent her an allowance that was even more than she was making here so she wouldn't have to work. As soon as he came to his senses, she went back to working.
I also wonder, if a host says she loves you, why would she expect you to be a regular viewer in her room, anyway? In any case, I try not to give too much advice, because people are all different, there's no "one size fits all" answer to this one. All we can do is share our own experiences and viewpoints.
" The "boyfriend" of one the hosts I know about sent her an allowance that was even more than she was making here..."
I wonder if that's the guy I convinced to cut off his "girlfriend.". She was costing him a fortune and she kept asking for extras above the allowance.
RE:
Jeez, critic, I think you just made the record for the longest subject line! :P Anyway, I doubt it is the same guy, and I never met him in person. I DID meet this host, though, and to my knowledge she wasn't working on other sites. She wasn't a "bad" person at all and I think she only did what the guy wanted of her, so the blame is on him, if anybody has to be blamed. In my case, my girl won't even let me do that, and I guess I respect her for that, even if it is difficult sometimes.
RE: Interesting Observation
quote:
"A member in love with a host should ask her to retire from sites and get a job that does not involve meeting guys and give her some money to help her if he can since she will probably be making less money someplace else or should accept that this is her job and this is how they met and that is the way things are until they are together.
"
I did that. Host said : "thanks now i can work less, i will move to a non adult category, you make me feel safe... yada yada yada".
What happened? she took the money, stayed on her category, and then started blaming me for her not having enough video because she had told every member she was not doing nudit, and of course shit started happening to her, needing more and more money evey month.
Now i was sending money, and i was the bad guy. Most of conversations turned into arguments about her needing more and i'm being a cheap bastard for sending only what she told me was enough for rent and food.
Funny thing, she never stopped stripping. All was a scam.
As relation deteriorated, i stopped even talking to her and later even changing all my accounts and mobile phone, home phone, e-mail, etc..
I am not sad about losing money, mostly about discovering how ungrateful she turned out to be. (and how stupid i was ;) to be honest.. self-steem was little brusied after this episode).
If other member has different experiences, i am very happy for him.
"A member in love with a host should ask her to retire from sites and get a job that does not involve meeting guys and give her some money to help her if he can since she will probably be making less money someplace else or should accept that this is her job and this is how they met and that is the way things are until they are together.
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I did that. Host said : "thanks now i can work less, i will move to a non adult category, you make me feel safe... yada yada yada".
What happened? she took the money, stayed on her category, and then started blaming me for her not having enough video because she had told every member she was not doing nudit, and of course shit started happening to her, needing more and more money evey month.
Now i was sending money, and i was the bad guy. Most of conversations turned into arguments about her needing more and i'm being a cheap bastard for sending only what she told me was enough for rent and food.
Funny thing, she never stopped stripping. All was a scam.
As relation deteriorated, i stopped even talking to her and later even changing all my accounts and mobile phone, home phone, e-mail, etc..
I am not sad about losing money, mostly about discovering how ungrateful she turned out to be. (and how stupid i was ;) to be honest.. self-steem was little brusied after this episode).
If other member has different experiences, i am very happy for him.
it's why...
It's why I never send money, even if child is dying and mom needs operation. The money is for her only after we are married.
RE: it's why...
I've got to disagree, counselor. Yes, many of us have been scammed...and some hosts are truly world class actresses that would put any Hollywood actress to shame. However, if you truly love someone, and they love you back, and some tragic thing happens....then the fool would be the one who is able to help but chooses not to. If you are a reasonable intelligent person, then there are ways to discern wether or not she is telling the truth. For starters, if tragedy really strikes, she won't even be able to work on this site, or any site for that matter. I know this from experience.
That reminds me, years ago, before I came to cc, I met this Columbian host from another site. She emailed me months later, telling me that she quit her studio job and now worked in a factory. Single mom, two kids. Very beautiful...claimed she was in love with me. I wasn't really that smitten by her, but I felt sorry for her. We communicated mostly in Spanish, and my spanish is poor, but I enjoyed our interactions. So, I sent her some money to help her pay the rent. This happened again, and the next thing I knew she brought her kids to the internet cafe, another time her mom....
That's when I got a little spooked....and just before Christmas she told me how difficult things were...Christmas expenses, her oldest son's first communion....yada yada yada. I told her flat out that she must have been confusing me with the kid's father, and told her to cease contact with me. She stil emailed me for months....Who knows, maybe she was desperate...maybe she even did love me, although I sersiously doubt it. However, her bringing up Xmas shopping was the final straw, and I opened my eyes.
I'm relating this story only to show that I've been a fool as well, just like most guys on this site.
Still, I really believe if you have a REAL relationship with someone (like Critic says, not only affection, you've actually met in person), then you should be able to tell shit from granola, excuse my french.
Good that this topic keeps recurring, though...perhaps it can save some new members on this site from learning the hard way!
That reminds me, years ago, before I came to cc, I met this Columbian host from another site. She emailed me months later, telling me that she quit her studio job and now worked in a factory. Single mom, two kids. Very beautiful...claimed she was in love with me. I wasn't really that smitten by her, but I felt sorry for her. We communicated mostly in Spanish, and my spanish is poor, but I enjoyed our interactions. So, I sent her some money to help her pay the rent. This happened again, and the next thing I knew she brought her kids to the internet cafe, another time her mom....
That's when I got a little spooked....and just before Christmas she told me how difficult things were...Christmas expenses, her oldest son's first communion....yada yada yada. I told her flat out that she must have been confusing me with the kid's father, and told her to cease contact with me. She stil emailed me for months....Who knows, maybe she was desperate...maybe she even did love me, although I sersiously doubt it. However, her bringing up Xmas shopping was the final straw, and I opened my eyes.
I'm relating this story only to show that I've been a fool as well, just like most guys on this site.
Still, I really believe if you have a REAL relationship with someone (like Critic says, not only affection, you've actually met in person), then you should be able to tell shit from granola, excuse my french.
Good that this topic keeps recurring, though...perhaps it can save some new members on this site from learning the hard way!
RE: it's why...
Any time anyone brings up "I want to give the kids a nice Christmas" I know to turn off the speaker. Christmas is NOT about gifts, it's about faith. And it's pretty obvious that girl was trying to suck you in.
NO ONE except a psycho truly falls into love on the net. Here you might develop a fondness, and even an infatuation, for someone, but at the most it should be merely a seed for something that must actually aprout in reality. I speak from experience.
NO ONE except a psycho truly falls into love on the net. Here you might develop a fondness, and even an infatuation, for someone, but at the most it should be merely a seed for something that must actually aprout in reality. I speak from experience.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
Goodbye my lover
Goodbye my friend
You have been the one
You have been the one for me
really sorry ((
Goodbye my friend
You have been the one
You have been the one for me
really sorry ((
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
Not the host posting, but obviously somebody had a problem with her. Unclear if she is the host shybobby is talking about.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
I don't think there is a space.It's just the way the letters sit together.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
?? Actually there is no space....if you really need to prove it to yourself (and God knows life is really too short to bother) copy and paste it to somewhere you can generate a cursor and then experiment.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
Of course, now I see he fell in love or at least got very close with a 19 year old and is surprised that she might act this way?
GUYS, IF THEY ARE UNDER ABOUT AGE 25, YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE!!! YEAH, I KNOW THEY ARE HOT, BUT BE CAREFUL OR YOU WILL GET BURNED!!! Even the older ones are dangerous since they have learned more tricks, lol, but they are more ready, willing, and mature enough to have an adult relationship. THINK WITH THE RIGHT HEAD!!! (And yes, I've learned this the hard way, pardon the pun. :p)
GUYS, IF THEY ARE UNDER ABOUT AGE 25, YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE!!! YEAH, I KNOW THEY ARE HOT, BUT BE CAREFUL OR YOU WILL GET BURNED!!! Even the older ones are dangerous since they have learned more tricks, lol, but they are more ready, willing, and mature enough to have an adult relationship. THINK WITH THE RIGHT HEAD!!! (And yes, I've learned this the hard way, pardon the pun. :p)
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
The first thing you have to accept before going into a relationship, is that people change - and with that, their needs, their priorities and their tastes. I think it's common that the younger a person is, the faster all those things may change.
Just because yesterday you were the top priority of someone else, it doesn't mean you will be tomorrow. Things as "everlasting love" are, extremely rare.
Money is just one of the things that can have a big impact on the way people change - and that is because we use money to satisfy most of our needs - house, food, education and of course, all the fancy stuff.
I've been very conflicted because of the girl i love works here. However, I've somewhat managed to come to terms with it. I'm not her owner, i can't tell her what to do - She's old enough to make her own mind - BUT i do tell her what i like and what not, and give advice when i think it's needed. We've had our share of BAD times because we didn't say things - So Bobby, you should talk about this with her directly. More often than not, when we were down because of the actions/attitudes of the other, it was because of misunderstandings or lack of communication.
In the worst of cases... Move on! Life is good :)
Just because yesterday you were the top priority of someone else, it doesn't mean you will be tomorrow. Things as "everlasting love" are, extremely rare.
Money is just one of the things that can have a big impact on the way people change - and that is because we use money to satisfy most of our needs - house, food, education and of course, all the fancy stuff.
I've been very conflicted because of the girl i love works here. However, I've somewhat managed to come to terms with it. I'm not her owner, i can't tell her what to do - She's old enough to make her own mind - BUT i do tell her what i like and what not, and give advice when i think it's needed. We've had our share of BAD times because we didn't say things - So Bobby, you should talk about this with her directly. More often than not, when we were down because of the actions/attitudes of the other, it was because of misunderstandings or lack of communication.
In the worst of cases... Move on! Life is good :)
"things as 'everlasting love' are extremely rare..."
It's a reason to avoid the younger girls who still think of parties and discos. They don't mean harm, but they are too young to think about settling down. Once they start feeling the clock ticking they stop being girls and start to think about the future. Be careful.
RE:
Both of you are right. Yes, people change, but sometimes they change for the better. I don't think I was a "bad" person before, but I know that my girlfriend makes me want to be a better person. Everlasting or not, that kind of love is pretty amazing. As far as her changing...which might happen if she works here long enough...that is beyond my control...so I try not to worry about it. Like you, Malchik, I've had my disappointments, but you are right....they were mostly due to miscommunications and our relationship being long distance. Good luck to you.
RE:
that's right, keep your distance until they're desperate........swoop in only then and you might have a chance lol:))
"desparate"?
Not, desparate, simply finished with the things of adolesence and ready for a mature relationship.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
lol No! sure it is not me!!! if you had read the forum before you would notice that i like posting poems! this one was about love and they belong to James Blunt a singer )))My name is Elina by the way ) (isnt it clear from my nicname?)
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
i was in love with a chathost. she agreed to find a regular job. i bought her a computer and set up internet so we could keep contact. i bought her gifts and send her extra money. it lasted about 3 months until i find her working on a different site and soon had no time for me. thats what happens when you trust someone you have never personally met.. just like you cant buy love with your money. she will not find true happiness with her money. its a no win situation.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
Once you go to such lengths to "keep" her, she knows she pretty much has you and the thrill of winning you is over - It's only a matter of time then untl she starts looking for a thrill elsewhere.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
So, trying to make some semblance of sense of what you just wrote, I would infer that you think playing "hard to get" is the way to get what "we" want, right? To me, that sounds extremely egotistical and tremendously pathetic at the same time. I fully understand why you would not use your screen name when posting that...I wouldn't if I were you, either! :P lol
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
No, it's the way of both men and girls who love the thrill of the hunt. Think before you write. Don't tell me you never knew people like this in school or even at the clubs you used to hang around in.
I can even think of a different example. Way back in the day, people would drive two or three States away just to score a trunk-load of Coors when it was a regional beer only. They would sell it back home at a premium and even make a few bucks on the effort. People were crazy for Coors. Then it got national distribution and soon the mystery was gone and it was just another product on the shelf.
I can even think of a different example. Way back in the day, people would drive two or three States away just to score a trunk-load of Coors when it was a regional beer only. They would sell it back home at a premium and even make a few bucks on the effort. People were crazy for Coors. Then it got national distribution and soon the mystery was gone and it was just another product on the shelf.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
Oh, I see, you're one of those guys that believes he's living in a wonderful little world where people always behave rationally unless they deliberately choose not to, where everyone is always frank and openly speaks his or her mind, and where each and every woman really, really does want a doormat of her very own to call a boyfriend.
You may not want to hear it, but even when it comes to "love", people have a way of tiring pretty quickly of those they see as being reliably and unquestionably there to support them. Hell, sometimes it even turns out that being unfalteringly "giving" and "thoughtful" incurs nothing much more than resentment. Best of luck to you at "trying to make some semblance of sense" out of that.
If you're really such an honest and selfless "giver", God bless you, man, I wish you the best, I really do. I just hope that the second that any woman you happen to find yourself in a relationship with begins taking you for granted, that you're able to recognize it and do something about it - and for her sake as much as your own.
You may not want to hear it, but even when it comes to "love", people have a way of tiring pretty quickly of those they see as being reliably and unquestionably there to support them. Hell, sometimes it even turns out that being unfalteringly "giving" and "thoughtful" incurs nothing much more than resentment. Best of luck to you at "trying to make some semblance of sense" out of that.
If you're really such an honest and selfless "giver", God bless you, man, I wish you the best, I really do. I just hope that the second that any woman you happen to find yourself in a relationship with begins taking you for granted, that you're able to recognize it and do something about it - and for her sake as much as your own.
RE: SHIP of FOOLS!!!!
Actually, I will apologize to you and the critic. My post was a reply to :P above...he wrote
"that's right, keep your distance until they're desperate........swoop in only then and you might have a chance lol:))"
So either cc screwed up, or I did (probably the latter). If you read my post again, I hope that it makes more sense now. Anyway, I didn't have a problem with your post, and I didn't mean to offend you.
"that's right, keep your distance until they're desperate........swoop in only then and you might have a chance lol:))"
So either cc screwed up, or I did (probably the latter). If you read my post again, I hope that it makes more sense now. Anyway, I didn't have a problem with your post, and I didn't mean to offend you.
RE: A long story
Four years ago I met a host who caused me to sign up as member on another cam site. We quickly became friends and she was the first to say "I love you". I was thinking it but didn't say it until after her words. We chatted almost every day. I was blinded by love, but also knew there were other guys who liked and maybe even loved her. However she told me I was the only one she loved.
She was supposed to take a trip, but couldn't get a visa. I knew she wanted to go visit another member, but she denied it. We had a fight and said we didn't trust each other, but we both still loved each other. Later she told me she was going on vacation with her mom to Western Europe. I didn't question her about it. I just assume it was the truth.
I ended up spending $3500 in 7 months in her video until she asked me if she should quit as host. I told her if she could find another job then it would be great.
We continued to chat and email when possible, but of course it was it was a lot less frequent, but we still talked about loving each other. One day she told me she just got an Internet connection at home and that we could chat everyday, but then I didn't hear from her for two months. I wrote her telling her how heartbroken I was because she stopped writing me and I questioned her past words of love. She said took a trip for work to another city and had an accident and couldn't contact me and was sorry to have caused such pain to me.
We continued to chat or email only a few times a month until she got a new job where she had Internet access then we chatted a few times a week. It turns out that she also started working on cam sites again, but didn't tell me. When I found out we had a fight about trust again. We didn't' talk for a week but decided we still wanted to be friends. She said I could never go to her video again, but she never told me when she was working on free site either. We could only talk by Yahoo chat or email
She continued to work on cam site for another two years and we still chatted a few times a week. At one point she told me I was one of her most important friends, but then she didn't talk to me for 2 weeks when she was coming to CC each day. Again we had another fight. I told her how can I be an important friend if she doesn't say "hi" to me in 2 weeks when she's working each day and probably hiding on Yahoo. She got mad when I questioned her character and ended our friendship.
We didn't talk for 8 months and during that time I found out that she didn't take a trip to Western Europe with her mum, but went with another member. So I wrote her and asked her what other lies she told during our friendship. I also told her her work on cam sites changed her and that she had lost her soul.
I honestly didn't expect that we would talk again, but I got a surprise email from her last Christmas. Since then we've been close friends again. She says I'm the only "friend" that she still talks to from her old hosting job. She says we're a mirror of each other and I can't deny we have a emotional connection.
What did I learn in 4 years?
1) Young women are very fickle and most will lie if it suits their goals.
2) It's difficult, but possible to have a caring friendship with a host.
3) When the videos end the "friendship" usually ends too.
4) Never forget this is a pay video site so always keep your guard up and your hands on your wallet.
5) A friendship is not a true friendship until it's proven by the test of time.
She was supposed to take a trip, but couldn't get a visa. I knew she wanted to go visit another member, but she denied it. We had a fight and said we didn't trust each other, but we both still loved each other. Later she told me she was going on vacation with her mom to Western Europe. I didn't question her about it. I just assume it was the truth.
I ended up spending $3500 in 7 months in her video until she asked me if she should quit as host. I told her if she could find another job then it would be great.
We continued to chat and email when possible, but of course it was it was a lot less frequent, but we still talked about loving each other. One day she told me she just got an Internet connection at home and that we could chat everyday, but then I didn't hear from her for two months. I wrote her telling her how heartbroken I was because she stopped writing me and I questioned her past words of love. She said took a trip for work to another city and had an accident and couldn't contact me and was sorry to have caused such pain to me.
We continued to chat or email only a few times a month until she got a new job where she had Internet access then we chatted a few times a week. It turns out that she also started working on cam sites again, but didn't tell me. When I found out we had a fight about trust again. We didn't' talk for a week but decided we still wanted to be friends. She said I could never go to her video again, but she never told me when she was working on free site either. We could only talk by Yahoo chat or email
She continued to work on cam site for another two years and we still chatted a few times a week. At one point she told me I was one of her most important friends, but then she didn't talk to me for 2 weeks when she was coming to CC each day. Again we had another fight. I told her how can I be an important friend if she doesn't say "hi" to me in 2 weeks when she's working each day and probably hiding on Yahoo. She got mad when I questioned her character and ended our friendship.
We didn't talk for 8 months and during that time I found out that she didn't take a trip to Western Europe with her mum, but went with another member. So I wrote her and asked her what other lies she told during our friendship. I also told her her work on cam sites changed her and that she had lost her soul.
I honestly didn't expect that we would talk again, but I got a surprise email from her last Christmas. Since then we've been close friends again. She says I'm the only "friend" that she still talks to from her old hosting job. She says we're a mirror of each other and I can't deny we have a emotional connection.
What did I learn in 4 years?
1) Young women are very fickle and most will lie if it suits their goals.
2) It's difficult, but possible to have a caring friendship with a host.
3) When the videos end the "friendship" usually ends too.
4) Never forget this is a pay video site so always keep your guard up and your hands on your wallet.
5) A friendship is not a true friendship until it's proven by the test of time.
RE: A long story
Also you learned:
7) You were obsessed with her behavior when you had no right to be.
8) Love on the net is with a small "L" and can't possibly be real without real meetings.
9) You read far more into her feelings than you had a right to.
10) When you ask questions whose answers you might not like you invite lies and/or disappointments.
There is a girl here that I have a great deal of affection for. However, she works in an adult category and is rather popular. She may even be working multiple sites, I don't know. Many things are technologically possible. But even though she is usually laying on the bed naked or in her panties only, and the last time I popped into video she was sucking a dildo, I don't let it concern me at all. I know in real life she is probably quite a bit different. I never would think of making life-requests of her or suggesting her employment or behavior unless we had something going in reql life and we were well on the way to a visa.
7) You were obsessed with her behavior when you had no right to be.
8) Love on the net is with a small "L" and can't possibly be real without real meetings.
9) You read far more into her feelings than you had a right to.
10) When you ask questions whose answers you might not like you invite lies and/or disappointments.
There is a girl here that I have a great deal of affection for. However, she works in an adult category and is rather popular. She may even be working multiple sites, I don't know. Many things are technologically possible. But even though she is usually laying on the bed naked or in her panties only, and the last time I popped into video she was sucking a dildo, I don't let it concern me at all. I know in real life she is probably quite a bit different. I never would think of making life-requests of her or suggesting her employment or behavior unless we had something going in reql life and we were well on the way to a visa.
RE: A long story
this is the great mystique of cc life. you can never tell reality from lies. it is impossible to know if your girl sees only you unless you can look into her PC. i know i have tried like some of the above only to find out she have many other Yahoo friends who she says the same thing to them as you. just be careful and beware.
RE: and after that members complaining..................?
thank you , thank you, thank you cc b'day for that present lol
To adult hosts
What was it like the first time you got naked on cam? Was it difficult? As a member, but before I ever joined a site, I remember never wanting to pay to see a host. No, it wasn't about being cheap, lol. I simply did not want to pay for "sex". I've never even paid for a magazine with naked women before. I've looked at a lot of things online and in magazines of course, but I just felt paying was lowering myself and kind of taking advantage of the women's economic situations too. Of course, I got over that attitude in time, lol, but I do feel that I am less of a good person by what I do here. Do hosts feel the same when they strip?
RE: To adult hosts
I'm sorry to hear you felt so bad about yourself... I've certainly never had held the opinion that girls who strip here are 'lower' than anyone else, whatever that means. In fact if anything I admire you for your courage, and I certainly appreciate what you do for us men :D
Kisses
Kisses
RE: To adult hosts
You tell them Oxygen.
If you don't feel right here, you can always leave. Work 9 to 5 or start some self-employed business. If you can't succeed in your
country or feel underpaid, move to western europe, usa, anywhere. It's not easy but if you are not happy on here, DO something about it instead of moaning in the forum. Jeez some people :)))))))
If you don't feel right here, you can always leave. Work 9 to 5 or start some self-employed business. If you can't succeed in your
country or feel underpaid, move to western europe, usa, anywhere. It's not easy but if you are not happy on here, DO something about it instead of moaning in the forum. Jeez some people :)))))))
RE: To adult hosts
Well, a matter is as ancient as men and women are exist on this planet.
Why men do pay to get a woman? And why women are still choosing to sell themselves? Isn't it because they depends on each others needs and that's why are absolutely equal in their sins? And isn't it just a fact of perverted relationships between humans in our perverted world where money mostly is the main factor?
I hate to say it but we both, men and women, still need money to live, and have to pay for everything in this life...And sometimes women need money even much more than a men, because they have to raise and provide their kids which is much more important and understandable than a man spending his money for his own joy.
There is nothing new that men are always wanting sex and women are always trying to use this fact for their gain. That is life as it is, and like it or not, but no one could change all the things in the world, at least for now. But we both, men and women, are free to decide PERSONALLY if we agree with that or not and if we are able to follow our principles and our morality.
Sure, some women are easy enough to accept such a job, some are not of course, and some will never get naked for every man who wants her to. Alike some men aren't musing at all, some like you are trying to think and find the answers and some are never use women in such way.
And if you feel being lowering yourself because of paying, it just proves your soul is not completely spoilt. I'm not judging those members who are proud of spending their money for sex here or elsewhere, who I am to judge others. Everyone acts according to his conceptions. I just call things by their names.
Finally, in spite of all that, we humans still have things which have nothing to do with money...fortunately. You know those things.
I know it is not an answer on your posted question, but I suppose it is the same subject :)
I didn't answer directly on your questions, sorry, but I hope you got my thought and guess an answer.
Why men do pay to get a woman? And why women are still choosing to sell themselves? Isn't it because they depends on each others needs and that's why are absolutely equal in their sins? And isn't it just a fact of perverted relationships between humans in our perverted world where money mostly is the main factor?
I hate to say it but we both, men and women, still need money to live, and have to pay for everything in this life...And sometimes women need money even much more than a men, because they have to raise and provide their kids which is much more important and understandable than a man spending his money for his own joy.
There is nothing new that men are always wanting sex and women are always trying to use this fact for their gain. That is life as it is, and like it or not, but no one could change all the things in the world, at least for now. But we both, men and women, are free to decide PERSONALLY if we agree with that or not and if we are able to follow our principles and our morality.
Sure, some women are easy enough to accept such a job, some are not of course, and some will never get naked for every man who wants her to. Alike some men aren't musing at all, some like you are trying to think and find the answers and some are never use women in such way.
And if you feel being lowering yourself because of paying, it just proves your soul is not completely spoilt. I'm not judging those members who are proud of spending their money for sex here or elsewhere, who I am to judge others. Everyone acts according to his conceptions. I just call things by their names.
Finally, in spite of all that, we humans still have things which have nothing to do with money...fortunately. You know those things.
I know it is not an answer on your posted question, but I suppose it is the same subject :)
I didn't answer directly on your questions, sorry, but I hope you got my thought and guess an answer.
RE: celebrating the Great Union
Now if you could just reunite with Moldova except for Transnitria all would be good. :-)
why not Transnistria?
Because it was the most outer reach of Romania Mare and if those rebels want to keep it why make a war? The wise thing would be to agree to the independence of that region and let them be a part of Russia as they dream.
Native English speaker viewers, complaining about English level of hosts
Cheers to all you hosts who speak amazingly good English. I am in awe of you for more than one reason. I imagine so many of your viewers are from the US, UK etc who haven't a clue about other languages and cultures...in particular those of Asia. English language arrogance....don't you hate it!! I am a native English speaker and I cringe so often at the ignorance and negative attitude to even trying to get into other languages. Sorry for the sermon....btw...anyone speak to me in Japanese? host of course :)
RE: Native English speaker viewers, complaining about English level of hosts
It isn't language arrogance to expect that sites geared towards English speakers should have hosts that speak English. Not all sites are this way. Further, English is the major language of the internet, and it is probably the most studied language by people who were not born in a country where English is the native language. But in terms of people not knowing a lot about different cultures and appreciating them, that is probably a fair criticism. But I don't think that has anything to do with what language somebody speaks.
PHENOMENAL WOMAN
by Maya Angelou
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies
I'm not cute or built to suit a model's fashion size
But when I start to tell them
They think I'm telling lies.
I say
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips
The stride of my steps
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please
And to a man
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees
Then they swarm around me
A hive of honey bees.
I say
It's the fire in my eyes
And the flash of my teeth
The swing of my waist
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say
It's in the arch of my back
The sun of my smile
The ride of my breasts
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say
It's in the click of my heels
The bend of my hair
The palm of my hand
The need for my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies
I'm not cute or built to suit a model's fashion size
But when I start to tell them
They think I'm telling lies.
I say
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips
The stride of my steps
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please
And to a man
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees
Then they swarm around me
A hive of honey bees.
I say
It's the fire in my eyes
And the flash of my teeth
The swing of my waist
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say
It's in the arch of my back
The sun of my smile
The ride of my breasts
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say
It's in the click of my heels
The bend of my hair
The palm of my hand
The need for my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
RE: PHENOMENAL WOMAN
hi :) If you're the same chaser I wish you next time the best fishing you ever had :)
RE: PHENOMENAL WOMAN
The woman shines from within, not by her passing beauty.
Men have been known to "rate" a woman from 1 to 10. I remember one of the hottest girls I ever met was only a 5 by looks and yet was a 12 in my heart. I also know more than one 10 girl that I wouldn't fuck with someone else's dick.
Men have been known to "rate" a woman from 1 to 10. I remember one of the hottest girls I ever met was only a 5 by looks and yet was a 12 in my heart. I also know more than one 10 girl that I wouldn't fuck with someone else's dick.
charity?
I grew up poor, went to school everyday, studied hard, started working at an early age, saved my money and went on to be fairly sucessful.
Now I'm supposed to work so I can give my part of my money to others that are lazy or choose to do drugs or have no ambition in life otherthan to find ways to get "free" money from others?!?
Am I wrong or just being too cynical?
Now I'm supposed to work so I can give my part of my money to others that are lazy or choose to do drugs or have no ambition in life otherthan to find ways to get "free" money from others?!?
Am I wrong or just being too cynical?
RE: charity?
Well, we all live in society which has laws,rules,etc. We have to pay taxes coz state requires this, and no one asks if we want to pay. And part of taxes is used for charity.Can u not pay taxes? Yes u can but ull become a criminal then. U can say"I dont mind society", but believe me society doesnt mind u even more. Not all of poor people do drugs or have no ambitions as u say,our society makes them what they r. Or even drug addicts,etc, think about their children. Is it their fault that they have such parents? And u wont help a childVolunteers giving money in different relief funds do it by their own desicion and should be mentioned that is just nesessary for poorest counties for example. U know that there r plenty of countries where people r starving?But no one asks u to give money for such purpose, on the other hand u cant help paying taxes and communicate with society,so why to talk about things that u cant resolve?
RE: charity?
I hear you, Ebie.
If only there were a charitable organization whose purpose was not to financially prop-up such riffraff, but to instead spay and neuter them to knock their defective character traits out of the gene pool.
Eugenics, buddy, for the sake of all of mankind, there ain't nothing more charitable.
If only there were a charitable organization whose purpose was not to financially prop-up such riffraff, but to instead spay and neuter them to knock their defective character traits out of the gene pool.
Eugenics, buddy, for the sake of all of mankind, there ain't nothing more charitable.
RE: charity?
So causes such as a suicide hotline for teens, breakfast programs for school children who arrive hungry, disaster relief for families who've lost everything in flood or earthquake are not worthwhile causes? There are lots of innocent victims out there that need a hand up from time to time. It's how we look after our own that defines us as a civilization and not just a collection of individuals. If you can't part with the money, consider giving your time and expertise. Perhaps teach someone who is struggling your secrets to success!!
RE: charity?
its the people who are to lazy to get off there fat asses and cant be assed to work and just clame benifits that my hard erned money goes towards. its the people who decide to f**k them selves up on drugs etc that im paying the conciquences for. its the ones that murder, rape and sit in jail eating a better meal than i do and then complain a bout some human rights crap they arnt getting that im paying to feed and keep warm. all this crap and much more piss me off.
people who are without and need help through no falt of there own are the ones we should be helping and i would gladley give money for that. i do try to help where i can
people who are without and need help through no falt of there own are the ones we should be helping and i would gladley give money for that. i do try to help where i can
RE: charity?
You think you did it all yourself, do you? I suppose you were there at your conception too! I wonder how many times people have been charitable to you in your life and you didn't even know it or appreciate it. Keep all your money to yourself mate. Giving is a joy....a joy too good for someone like you. .... Maybe there is someone out there who can forgive your selfishness? Obviously not if they all think like you. That would have to be Amazing Grace indeed....
RE: charity?
as long as a charity actually pays out at least 80% of what it takes in its sound and worthwhile giving to. but as you are successful why not be like gates, buffet, bloomberg and give away vast amounts of money and skip the other charities, be hard though since the only charity you favor is YOU
RE: charity?
I don't think he was referring to this site, sweetie....but life in general. And I don't think we can blame him for making that argument.
This is a big question we all have to answer for ourselves. To the original poster I want to say this: Charity to others is charity to yourself. What you lovingly give to others, you give to yourself. If you cannot give with love, then better save your money. I don't give money to junkies, either, but I used to. Occasionally, but extremely rarely, for whatever reason I don't understand, I still may give a few bucks to a junkie in need. I never let them manipulate me into feeling guilty, they can try that on the next guy. However, occasionally you meet someone and you sense that they really need a meal or whatever, not just the next fix. I guess I guess it is a matter of intuition, or whatever.
But don't forget, all over the world there are million of people who never did anything wrong and who's in need of your charity. I am not gonna save the world...but I try to help whenever it feels right. As for organized charities, many of them are scams...not all thouhg.
This is a big question we all have to answer for ourselves. To the original poster I want to say this: Charity to others is charity to yourself. What you lovingly give to others, you give to yourself. If you cannot give with love, then better save your money. I don't give money to junkies, either, but I used to. Occasionally, but extremely rarely, for whatever reason I don't understand, I still may give a few bucks to a junkie in need. I never let them manipulate me into feeling guilty, they can try that on the next guy. However, occasionally you meet someone and you sense that they really need a meal or whatever, not just the next fix. I guess I guess it is a matter of intuition, or whatever.
But don't forget, all over the world there are million of people who never did anything wrong and who's in need of your charity. I am not gonna save the world...but I try to help whenever it feels right. As for organized charities, many of them are scams...not all thouhg.
just curious
Just kinda curious:) why u members always complain that girls in glamour and shy categories doesnt get naked?:) there s not so shy . instant action and fetish where girls getting naked almost right away:)
so why dont u go there and sitting and complaining in forum?
i bet u want to make shy girls gets naked for u, right?:)))
so u wanna make good girls gone bad?:P
so why dont u go there and sitting and complaining in forum?
i bet u want to make shy girls gets naked for u, right?:)))
so u wanna make good girls gone bad?:P
US chathost (non-CC) murdered
To the ladies of CC....be cautious in life please.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071129/ap_on_re_us/missing_porn_star_17
I don't think she was on CC, and her personal website along with the website from which she worked were down, but nonetheless there are stalkers out there looking for pretty young women to prey on.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071129/ap_on_re_us/missing_porn_star_17
I don't think she was on CC, and her personal website along with the website from which she worked were down, but nonetheless there are stalkers out there looking for pretty young women to prey on.
RE: US chathost (non-CC) murdered
Thank god wasnt one of my friends...
Really shows the dangers if your not careful
Really shows the dangers if your not careful
RE: US chathost (non-CC) murdered
funny how you seem to find this otherwise obscure news....mmmm
RE: US chathost (non-CC) murdered
As far as I know, there is no proof so far that the killer met her online. The police report that they left together from a bar.
But of course everyone must use common sense on the internet. Don't give out too much personal information including things like name of favorite restaurant or club. When planning a meeting in person always meet only in public and if possible go with a friend.
We had a women who was killed after she answered an ad on craigslist looking for a Nanny. So you can find danger in many places on the internet.
But of course everyone must use common sense on the internet. Don't give out too much personal information including things like name of favorite restaurant or club. When planning a meeting in person always meet only in public and if possible go with a friend.
We had a women who was killed after she answered an ad on craigslist looking for a Nanny. So you can find danger in many places on the internet.
RE: she wasn't a chathost...
They know who killed her, there are pics on the net. The killers were a young guy and his girlfriend. There was probably some jealousy involved and they probably knew her very well.
RE: she wasn't a chathost...
Goimg after a 16 year old girl is not a pedophile, it is robbing the cradle - a pedophile goes for prepubescent children, not a womanly teenager.
RE: she wasn't a chathost...
a guy old enough to be in graduate school shouldn't be fucking a high school sophomore.....sorry, but that's just creepy and wrong.
RE: she wasn't a chathost...
"shouldn't" and "creepy" may be true to you, but at 16 she is NOT a prepubescent child and his behavior may be legally wrong, but it's not really pedophilia in the heart. As they say in certain places: "old enough to bleed, old enough to breed."
RE: she wasn't a chathost...
"old enough to bleed, old enough to breed" so you can change your name to creepy investigator then
RE: she wasn't a chathost...
In the UK, it's legal for a 40 year old man to have sex with a 16 year old.
I wouldn't call it paedophilia, but I would call it a little weird :)
I wouldn't call it paedophilia, but I would call it a little weird :)
RE: she wasn't a chathost...
It's not legal in the US where this woman was killed. However some states do still allow marriage between an adult and a minor with permission of the parents. Once they're married they can have all the sex they want. ;p
RE: she wasn't a chathost...
Ted it is legal for any man over the age of 16 not just 40 year old ones :P
dear "Ted"
True, true. When I see a hot 16 year old built nicely I look at her as a ripe body, ready for passion. But then on second and third thought, especially after hearing her speak, I know such girls are not ready for intimate relationships.
The young ones are eye candy only and in most cases all relationships with them should remain at that level, except under VERY limited and unique circumstances.
The young ones are eye candy only and in most cases all relationships with them should remain at that level, except under VERY limited and unique circumstances.
International SEX day)))
I heard that today is international day of sex:))) Dunno if its true or not, well congrats to everyone anyway))))Wish u all to have sex today with the one u love or want)) If not-happy tuggin then=))=))
RE: International SEX day)))
the janitor at my school told me that story last month.....
I will never look at him the same anymore :(
I will never look at him the same anymore :(
RE: International SEX day)))
And this is why u just tried to get the balance of ur phone Gorty?But u didnt get coz of great information protection?lol
RE: hey
he he he yes i think so...but is a strange question ...no one ask before :))
RE: Can anyone help me with translation?
discipline means to have self control...usually discipline is a matter of will....deciding to do something or be a certain way and following through with determination.discipline usually isnt something that comes natural to human beings..lol...
RE: Can anyone help me with translation?
discipline can also mean a branch of knowlege ...i.e. In what discipline is his doctorate?
RE: Can anyone help me with translation?
Could it be Sanctity of Life?
Main Entry: sanc·ti·ty
Pronunciation: \ˈsaŋ(k)-tə-tē\
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural sanc·ti·ties
Etymology: Middle English saunctite, from Anglo-French sainteté, from Latin sanctitat-, sanctitas, from sanctus sacred
Date: 14th century
1: holiness of life and character : godliness
2 a: the quality or state of being holy or sacred : inviolability bplural : sacred objects, obligations, or rights
Main Entry: sanc·ti·ty
Pronunciation: \ˈsaŋ(k)-tə-tē\
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural sanc·ti·ties
Etymology: Middle English saunctite, from Anglo-French sainteté, from Latin sanctitat-, sanctitas, from sanctus sacred
Date: 14th century
1: holiness of life and character : godliness
2 a: the quality or state of being holy or sacred : inviolability bplural : sacred objects, obligations, or rights
RE: Can anyone help me with translation?
I Googled both terms and found Web pages for universities in Belarus, Khazakhstan, and Eastern Russia that describe courses that in the U.S. would be most likely labeled, "Environmental Science", or "Ecological Studies", or possibly "Conservation Biology"... Something along those lines.
RE: Can anyone help me with translation?
i would be inclined to go along with Hmm's definition.
"conservation" Green issues something along those lines
"conservation" Green issues something along those lines
"Safety of Life Activity" or "Security of Life Activity"
I was going suggest "lifesaver" - the person who is responsible to keep people from drowning at the pool or beach.
Can anyone tell me please
I do not understand the workd gete uses in his posts " fairdinkum"
What does he mean?
What does he mean?
RE: Can anyone tell me please
Mate, are you fair dinkum?" - Kind Sir, are you telling me the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?
"Mate, I'm fair dinkum, bloody oath I am" - Why of course!!
"He's a fair dinkum drongo" - He is honestly quite a fool who isn't too bright and gets nothing right. The fair dinkum adds the honestly part to the translation, the rest comes from drongo.
"You have to let him know you're fair dinkum" - You have to let him know you are bona fide.
"Fair dinkum?" - No shit?
"Mate, I'm fair dinkum, bloody oath I am" - Why of course!!
"He's a fair dinkum drongo" - He is honestly quite a fool who isn't too bright and gets nothing right. The fair dinkum adds the honestly part to the translation, the rest comes from drongo.
"You have to let him know you're fair dinkum" - You have to let him know you are bona fide.
"Fair dinkum?" - No shit?
RE: Can anyone tell me please
Fair- dinkum is an old Australian expression very roughly translating to mean genuine or honest It used to be very common in the early days, and was often used as an example of Australian English. Go on, check your standard English dictionary now - we bet it's in there.
Fairdinkum!
Fairdinkum!
To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
You are putting your price over competitive sites. Do you understand the reality of this?
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
I don't see what reality you are referring to. Any individual host is competing with other hosts. It does not really matter to her if they are on CC or competitive sites. If a host charges $3.00 and keeps this rate she is presumably able to attract enough memebrs to video to achieve her earnings target. If all hosts were charging $3.00 this may cause members to visit other sites more and so be of concern to CC but a few hosts at $3.00 is not likely to have a significant impact.
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
If a host wants to charge $3.00 or more per minute, that's their right, as is yours not to visit them. But there are enough viewers for whom price is not as important, which is why hosts can afford to charge what is in some viewers opinion too much.
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
judging by your post, I'd say the reality of this is you don;t have lots of money to "toss" around
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
you say "judging from you post...you don't have lots of money to toss around" as if this means that "Member" is somehow wrong because he doesn't have lots of money. Who ON EARTH are you to make such judgments?
I agree that hostesses can charge whatever they want. But I must admit to not liking it when a 3 dollar hostess is aloof and tries to milk the clock. On the other side, there are some lovely women here who charge under a dollar and are very generous with their bodies within the first two minutes as long as you're nice to them.
I agree that hostesses can charge whatever they want. But I must admit to not liking it when a 3 dollar hostess is aloof and tries to milk the clock. On the other side, there are some lovely women here who charge under a dollar and are very generous with their bodies within the first two minutes as long as you're nice to them.
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
He's not wrong, he's just less a man because he can't afford to give these fine women what they deserve.
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
"less of a man?" judging someone by their bank account is the same as judging someone by the color of their skin!!! There are many great, socially redeeming jobs that simply don't pay. WHO THE HELL ARE YOU TO JUDGE IF SOMEONE'S A MAN BY THEIR $$$? I once was very poor, and now I am very rich. I will NEVER make that mistake. YOU HAVE A LOT TO LEARN ABOUT LIFE AND YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED!!!
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
he didn't say you're a racist, but you seem to be saying it's ok to put someone down for lack of money, because you are african american kind of doesn't fit
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
and how does that make u a non racists ?
wow ,,
how ignorant is that ...
many kinds of racists..
wow ,,
how ignorant is that ...
many kinds of racists..
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
Slave reparations. Because my grandaddy was owned and whipped and treated not very neighborly by Caucasoids, I get a free pass when it comes to dissin' whitey today. Don't you know anything?
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
nothing wrong with not having lots of money, but how can he come here and try to tell host they are wrong for charging a certain price? there is a clothing store down the street from my house that charges what I belive to be alot of money, do I go to them and say they are wrong? no, I let my wallet do the talking and shop elsewhere.
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
Some girls worth this price!
Do u wanna get complite show for just 1 $?
If girl doing good show (hardcore sexual activity,BDSM.Fetish - she worth this price!
Besides why should i do a hardcore show with toys and other atributes if some girls here just chatting for 1 $ per min or even more?
want just chat or waych strip - its for less price
but full show with all atributes - not less 2 per min! NOT LESS!
Do u wanna get complite show for just 1 $?
If girl doing good show (hardcore sexual activity,BDSM.Fetish - she worth this price!
Besides why should i do a hardcore show with toys and other atributes if some girls here just chatting for 1 $ per min or even more?
want just chat or waych strip - its for less price
but full show with all atributes - not less 2 per min! NOT LESS!
RE: To hosts charging over $3.00 a minute
This mainly affects glamour where some hosts charge these prices. Why would I pay such a price to see a new host with no guarantees of any adult activity when you can be guaranteed activity in not so shy or instant. I really don't care if hosts charge $6.00 a min but in glamour some prices are ridiculous. Of course glamour is the hot category now but it is not competitive with other sites. The prices here are the very best on the net except in glamour.
can anyone explain
"A Riddle"
i was out on the lake fishing all day and i mean all day like 12 hours, the weather was nice the temperature was great and not one fish took a bite at my bait, in all the years of my fishing carrer this was the first time this has happen to me,, there has been a lot of days fishing I have only caught one fish and been many days I have not caught a fish, but all the days I haven't caught a fish, at least I had a nibble at the bait, what sign is this that the master is trying to tell me---can anyone explain, and don't tell me to change my bait I tried that all day 12 times.
i was out on the lake fishing all day and i mean all day like 12 hours, the weather was nice the temperature was great and not one fish took a bite at my bait, in all the years of my fishing carrer this was the first time this has happen to me,, there has been a lot of days fishing I have only caught one fish and been many days I have not caught a fish, but all the days I haven't caught a fish, at least I had a nibble at the bait, what sign is this that the master is trying to tell me---can anyone explain, and don't tell me to change my bait I tried that all day 12 times.
RE: can anyone explain
to give up fishing and try hunting--hell i dont know, maybe should ask batman and robin
RE: can anyone explain
Since you changed your bait so many times in one day, that must make you a Master Baiter.
(sorry folks, it was there for the taking)
(sorry folks, it was there for the taking)
RE: can anyone explain
I thought that, but he said the weather was nice and the tempature was great, I guess it could stil be frozen over in those conditions,
RE: can anyone explain
dear...u sure if it lake have fisher? maybe all fish have caught??(LOL)
well...first u need to feed fishes ...then started caught fishes... and ..if was high atmospheric pressure ...im sorry u lost time...bcz all fishes was on deep....u need come to fishing when low atmospheric pressure...try it dear....and not take with u woman on fishing(LOL) they noisy... fishes love quietly(LOL)
i hope i help a littl
kissssss
well...first u need to feed fishes ...then started caught fishes... and ..if was high atmospheric pressure ...im sorry u lost time...bcz all fishes was on deep....u need come to fishing when low atmospheric pressure...try it dear....and not take with u woman on fishing(LOL) they noisy... fishes love quietly(LOL)
i hope i help a littl
kissssss
RE: can anyone explain
I've meditated heavily and prayed on your question and believe the master is trying to tell you to go back to fishing in lakes and streams, fishing in a parking lot isn't working out too well for you.
RE: Do u give a host one bad vote if she doens.t srtip on first time?
That depends upon her category. If instant action, she is required to strip right away so that definitely deserves one star. If she is in another category and lies about stripping to get a person in video, that also deserves one star. If she is willing to strip but it is clear she is asking 10,000 questions to keep a member in video and make as much money as possible, that also deserves one star. But if she is not in instant action and just wants to talk a few minutes before a show with the usual "hi, how are you, name, age, location" type of stuff, no that is okay and should not get one star. How much talking before stripping and what she will do once she strips depends upon her category. (instant action... strip right away, not so shy... strip in about 2 or 3 min.... little shy... strip in about 5 min, for example, if she is willing to strip at all).
I assume this is what you mean. If you mean by "first time" not "right away" but rather the first time a member visits a host, I think that does not matter. A host should strip the first time or tenth time if she is in a category that requires stripping or she has promised to strip.
One more thing, one big problem is hosts don't like to say what they will do in video when they are in text chat. Then a member sometimes says "Okay, I'll take a chance", and if the host disappoints him, then the host gets a lower rating. Host that do this to get more money therefore risk lower ratings.
I assume this is what you mean. If you mean by "first time" not "right away" but rather the first time a member visits a host, I think that does not matter. A host should strip the first time or tenth time if she is in a category that requires stripping or she has promised to strip.
One more thing, one big problem is hosts don't like to say what they will do in video when they are in text chat. Then a member sometimes says "Okay, I'll take a chance", and if the host disappoints him, then the host gets a lower rating. Host that do this to get more money therefore risk lower ratings.
RE: Do u give a host one bad vote if she doens.t srtip on first time?
no i dont think its fair. i would give her a 3. the only ones i give 1 star to is those typing to others or if they fail a promise.
RE: Do u give a host one bad vote if she doens.t srtip on first time?
depends on category, if she is in instant action... hell yee
RE: Do u give a host one bad vote if she doens.t srtip on first time?
yes if she is in adult catgory . stalling and bullshitting= 1 star
RE: Do u give a host one bad vote if she doens.t srtip on first time?
No, I respect the wishes of the host. It depends upon the host and/or category if I will return, but I do not give a bad vote on the first time and usually not ever.
RE: Do u give a host one bad vote if she doens.t srtip on first time?
If she says that she will but then does not, of course I give only one star. If we didn't talk about it but she is pretty and sexy and flirts a lot I give 5 stars.
RE: Do u give a host one bad vote if she doens.t srtip on first time?
because i m not doing that for rude ppl or that one in hurry CherryLips :)))
looooool
but usually i do
looooool
but usually i do
RE: Do u give a host one bad vote if she doens.t srtip on first time?
"insecure"!?..... hahahahahahahahaaha
The American Dollar and You
A lot of hosts are complaining about the American dollar declining in value since they are paid in American dollars. I am not an economist or anything like that, but I will try to explain things in a way that people who do not know English very well will understand. Also, the issue is way to complex to discuss every single detail. This is just to give people a basic idea of what is going on with the dollar right now.
All types of money (currencies like dollars, euros, pounds...) are affected by things inside and outside of their countries. The dollar is affected by many things both inside of the USA and outside of the USA. One of the biggest thing that affect a currency is interest rates (the extra percent % that you pay to borrow money).
When interest rates in a country go down, the value of that country's money goes down compared to the value of another country's money. For example, if American interest rates go down but UK's interest rates stay the same and nothing else changes, the value of the dollar will go down compared to the pound. To explain the reason in simple terms, this is because a person can take his money and put it in a bank in UK and get more interest back than if he took the same money and put it in an American bank. (Remember... when you put money into a bank, you are lending money to that bank so it pays you interest.) The same would be true if American interest rates stayed the same and UK interest rates increase.
Right now what is happening is that American interest rates are going down because there are some problems with the US economy, mainly in the housing market. Therefore, since American interest rates are going down, the value of the dollar is going down.
The reason rates are being lowered by the people in the American government that decide what to do with interest rates is that if interest rates go down, it costs less money to borrow money so people can buy houses for less money and businesses expand and grow for less money. (President Bush has nothing to do with the decision to change interest rates, by the way.) So when interest rates go down, the hope is that the economy will get better. The problem of course is that the value of the dollar goes down too. (By the way, no country has complete control over its interest rates.)
While lowering American interest rates helps people in the USA to buy houses and businesses to grow, it causes problems. First, lower interest rates in the USA means that people in other countries that sell things to the USA have a harder time making sales since American money is worth less and it cost Americans more money to buy things. Second, it makes the price of oil go up since oil is sold in dollars. Third, it makes it harder for Americans to visit other countries since it costs more. And finally, if interest rates are too low, businesses will grow too fast and this will cause another problem called "inflation". (Inflation is the increase in prices such as when chathosts increase their rate/minute because the dollar is worth less in their country due to the lower interest rates, lol. A better example would be when businesses grow so fast that there are not enough workers so companies must pay more to get workers. Once salaries go up, the cost to do have a business goes up so the cost to buy whatever the business makes goes up. And remember, the cost of oil going up is a cost to businesses that consumers must pay too.) This is why governments just don't make interest rates lower all of the time until they reached zero. Plus, lowering interest rates does not solve every problem, and like I said, no government has complete control over its own interest rates.
Hopefully, that helps people to understand what is going on with the American dollar. The American economy is not falling apart. There are just some problems here right now. These problems will probably last one or two years. Then, once again, the American economy will most likely improve, American interest rates will increase, and the value of the dollar will increase as well, making anyone paid in dollars happy again (such as chathosts). Of course, there are many other potential problems with the American economy and issues with other countries' economies that can affect what happens in the USA and other countries.
Unfortunately for those outside of the USA, you are economic victims of whatever happens in the USA. The USA is the most important country in terms of economics. For example,if you take all of the money in the world and made it dollars, one out of every six dollars is spent by an American. The state of California by itself is one of the biggest economies in the world. So while countries like China are growing economically, the USA will have the most influence on what happens in the world economically for a long time. Economic problems here affect people all over the world much more than economic problems outside the USA affect Americans. Just look at what happens with American interest rates.... Governments in Europe are hoping to find ways to keep the dollar from falling right now because it is bad for European businesses if it goes too low. So love the USA or hate it, you are stuck with it, lol. And for those of you who are happy when the USA has problems, when you laugh when bad things happen in the USA, just remember, those problems will soon affect you too. Just ask your favorite chathost, hehehe.
All types of money (currencies like dollars, euros, pounds...) are affected by things inside and outside of their countries. The dollar is affected by many things both inside of the USA and outside of the USA. One of the biggest thing that affect a currency is interest rates (the extra percent % that you pay to borrow money).
When interest rates in a country go down, the value of that country's money goes down compared to the value of another country's money. For example, if American interest rates go down but UK's interest rates stay the same and nothing else changes, the value of the dollar will go down compared to the pound. To explain the reason in simple terms, this is because a person can take his money and put it in a bank in UK and get more interest back than if he took the same money and put it in an American bank. (Remember... when you put money into a bank, you are lending money to that bank so it pays you interest.) The same would be true if American interest rates stayed the same and UK interest rates increase.
Right now what is happening is that American interest rates are going down because there are some problems with the US economy, mainly in the housing market. Therefore, since American interest rates are going down, the value of the dollar is going down.
The reason rates are being lowered by the people in the American government that decide what to do with interest rates is that if interest rates go down, it costs less money to borrow money so people can buy houses for less money and businesses expand and grow for less money. (President Bush has nothing to do with the decision to change interest rates, by the way.) So when interest rates go down, the hope is that the economy will get better. The problem of course is that the value of the dollar goes down too. (By the way, no country has complete control over its interest rates.)
While lowering American interest rates helps people in the USA to buy houses and businesses to grow, it causes problems. First, lower interest rates in the USA means that people in other countries that sell things to the USA have a harder time making sales since American money is worth less and it cost Americans more money to buy things. Second, it makes the price of oil go up since oil is sold in dollars. Third, it makes it harder for Americans to visit other countries since it costs more. And finally, if interest rates are too low, businesses will grow too fast and this will cause another problem called "inflation". (Inflation is the increase in prices such as when chathosts increase their rate/minute because the dollar is worth less in their country due to the lower interest rates, lol. A better example would be when businesses grow so fast that there are not enough workers so companies must pay more to get workers. Once salaries go up, the cost to do have a business goes up so the cost to buy whatever the business makes goes up. And remember, the cost of oil going up is a cost to businesses that consumers must pay too.) This is why governments just don't make interest rates lower all of the time until they reached zero. Plus, lowering interest rates does not solve every problem, and like I said, no government has complete control over its own interest rates.
Hopefully, that helps people to understand what is going on with the American dollar. The American economy is not falling apart. There are just some problems here right now. These problems will probably last one or two years. Then, once again, the American economy will most likely improve, American interest rates will increase, and the value of the dollar will increase as well, making anyone paid in dollars happy again (such as chathosts). Of course, there are many other potential problems with the American economy and issues with other countries' economies that can affect what happens in the USA and other countries.
Unfortunately for those outside of the USA, you are economic victims of whatever happens in the USA. The USA is the most important country in terms of economics. For example,if you take all of the money in the world and made it dollars, one out of every six dollars is spent by an American. The state of California by itself is one of the biggest economies in the world. So while countries like China are growing economically, the USA will have the most influence on what happens in the world economically for a long time. Economic problems here affect people all over the world much more than economic problems outside the USA affect Americans. Just look at what happens with American interest rates.... Governments in Europe are hoping to find ways to keep the dollar from falling right now because it is bad for European businesses if it goes too low. So love the USA or hate it, you are stuck with it, lol. And for those of you who are happy when the USA has problems, when you laugh when bad things happen in the USA, just remember, those problems will soon affect you too. Just ask your favorite chathost, hehehe.
RE: The American Dollar and You
To simplify - the US Fed created out of thin air gobs and gobs of dollars relative to other currencies. More dollars chasing the same goods. It's called inflation.
RE: The American Dollar and You
The Chinese, Japanese and OPEC countries have loads of US dollars and that fact has driven the dollar to record lows and it continues to fall. The latest word is that many OPEC countries will be swtiching to Euros, which will put the USA in a deep recession it may never merge from.
RE: The American Dollar and You
especially since it isn't actually dollars they hold but treasury securities, not to mentioon billions of dollars in investments. last thing thye want to do is hurt the dollar.
RE: The American Dollar and You
That whole thing is so flawed that I don't even really know where to begin.
RE: The American Dollar and You
The value of a currency is like the value of a stock; its a combination assessment of both the present and future of the company or nation.
The US has deficit spending and and unbalanced trade deficit which are unsustainable over time at the rate they are therefore the world has voted with its feet but don't overreact either. Steps can and will be taken over time to lessen these problems...............
The US has deficit spending and and unbalanced trade deficit which are unsustainable over time at the rate they are therefore the world has voted with its feet but don't overreact either. Steps can and will be taken over time to lessen these problems...............
RE: The American Dollar and You
By more countries taking up the Euro instead of the U.S. Dollar to back their own currencies.
America should at least be thankful that the dollar is too cheap to dump at the moment.
America should at least be thankful that the dollar is too cheap to dump at the moment.
RE: The American Dollar and You
yeah that'll happen, about as soon as the european economy becomes the leading economy in the world. better to bank on the chinese
Damn 5 stars!!!
The fallout from the rating system. I had one beauty as my fave since April 07. She always treated me as royalty. Ratings were introduced, she hovered around 3.5 stars. My visits always boosted her rating .5 star. Now she is consistently at 5 stars and could care less about my presence.
My lo$$, her gain and I should know better now that I am an 'afterthought'.. :)))
My lo$$, her gain and I should know better now that I am an 'afterthought'.. :)))
RE: Damn 5 stars!!!
Welcome to real life dude!
Almost everyone is an actor and nice until you push them against the wall and true colors come out :)
Almost everyone is an actor and nice until you push them against the wall and true colors come out :)
RE: Damn 5 stars!!!
your soo right !! and they sure dont like it when you test them to show there true colours. Experimenting like a Laboratory rat.
But you do get to see their explosive behaviour and for me it is damn sexy to stir up sh!t and see a womans true reactions:) You only know someone best when you have had a fight with them.
I love it when a woman hits me naked her love pillows
:P
But you do get to see their explosive behaviour and for me it is damn sexy to stir up sh!t and see a womans true reactions:) You only know someone best when you have had a fight with them.
I love it when a woman hits me naked her love pillows
:P
RE: Damn 5 stars!!!
I dont think me was talking about getting revenge, rather if the hosts needs the orginal posters 5 stars she will again treat him like she used to.
Of course he could always just talk to her about it lol
Of course he could always just talk to her about it lol
RE: LOOL!!!
Silly boys!! Find something for real and dont bother gilrs here with ur silly insults!! they gives u much more than u deserve!!! (even for money!);)