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my birthday - girls, your answers?

How come on the couple of East European "Lonely Hearts" sites that I'm registered on the only birthday greetings I got were from woman of my own age and I was totally ignored by the young hotties when here all the hotties are in love with me?
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setting appointments

Few, if any of these hosts, keep regular programs. They log on when they can and when they feel like it.

It's a second (or third) job to most, or merely a periodic diversion to quite a few. The job of a studio boss in scheduling hosts is rather difficult as the job is not very interesting. The girls of CC are, on the whole, absolute amateurs and they don't have a great work ethic. With few exceptions, they don't, or can't, throw themselves into it with the intentions of maximizing their income. They simply show up when they feel like it.

Do you think an 18 or 19 year old has the hardened heart of the true sex-worker that many of us crave? The girls here are not street-hardened girls desperate for cash. They are normal, recently graduated high school girls or college freshmen on their first job as 'online-translators' or if they are incredibly bold they are 'online models.' None of them tell mom about shoving dildos up their asses for randy foreign men.

In one city I know of, the boss is reduced to having some of his girls troll discos and university areas passing out flyers trying to get girls to work. Girls with little free time from school find it difficult to commit to a schedule. Add to that the fact of the time differences and you'll see that expecting a girl to go across town to her studio to show up at 5AM just to service you and you can see the problems of scheduling.

It's a rather useless feature unless the girl works from home. And the youngest, hottest ones would have a hard tiem explaining that to mom and dad. They key is to establish relationships with a few of the best girls (by your standards) here and learn their schedules and make it your goal to meld their availability to your requirements.
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RE: setting appointments

you offer great insight into the issue of trying to set appointments and I agree with your assessment. perhaps my solution of requiring girls to meet at certain time is too rigid. i can tell you though that I had one favorite who shows up irregularly and I would ask her for 121 session. she tells me to wait. I waited one hour and on another ocassion two hours and each time, she went offline before I could book her. both times I wasted an afternoon. I finally gave up and removed her from my list of faves. from what you say, seems its better to find girl who wants the money badly enough to service her regaulars?

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also annoying

Hosts that log-off as soon as you enter her room. I have a list of hosts that are quite professional and put on a nice show - if that's what i want - and never complain about how long I was there, be it 5 minutes or 45 minutes. THOSE are the true gems here

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Your wish

old year is almost over and the new one is coming its time for new hopes new wishes new dreams...what is your main wish for new year?
Best wishes!!!)))
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RE: Your wish

wish for the new year..hmm...keep breathin i guess

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RE: Your wish

My wish is to wake up, Elina....but part of me don't want to. What is your wish?

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RE: Your wish

...for no more war or violence, no more starving babies, and that all my friends and family who are in love stay in love, and all my friends and family who haven't found love find it.

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RE: Your wish

i'm wishing to win the lottery and to then spend all my winnings on getting action with lots and lots of hot chicks.

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RE: Your wish

the anti-philanthropist!!!

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RE: Your wish

i'd like to see the happiness in dearest eyes
and shinny smiles that mealt cold ice
but for me i wish one little thing- a fly
Up to the stars that never die

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RE: Your wish

..... that you will fall madly in love with me xelina18x

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RE: Your wish

i cant promise but send you a kiss :)))

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RE: Your wish

A kiss I shall cherish until the day I die.

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RE: Your wish

Russia to win in Euro 2008)))

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RE: Your wish

Do we have a date? ;)

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RE: Your wish

Or they are in Turin in December or Paris come January. Which of those cities would you like ? :)


TNTKWYA

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With you any of them :))
(K)

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RE: Your wish

that the goodwill & happiness that is alive in the festive season,be forever more.

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intersting.........just saw news footage of a twenty-something woman pushing an elderly woman to the floor of a department store during the christmas shopping rush of last friday.

yeah.....rampant materialsm. seasonal affective disorder, holiday depression and higher suicide rates......god bless us, everyone, this time of year....truly.

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world cup qualifiers

england got craotia again...whooppiieeedoooo.....also ukraine belarus kazakhstan and andorra....that should put us in 5th place at the end of the group stage then......bleh
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Jeez we got Germany in our group.....That sux big time. Hope we kick Finland, Wales, Azerbaijan and Liechtenstein and go through together with Germans...Eh...

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only the top team from each group go through. then the top 8 runners up go into a play of f to see who else goes through

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Ahhh i thought the 2 top teams go through...Well sux for us then.

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na, you can beat the germans. they arnt that good, just organized. anyway, you think it sux....im an england fan, now that REALLY SUX!!!!!!

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Me 2, im an England fan but oh well....bad luch this year. As for germans, well i can only hope that we can beat them, tho with our new coach Guus its possible)) He is a lucky one and when he trained Australia they get into the World Cup..So, we will see...

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Guus not only got Australia into the world cup but into the last 16 where an injury time penalty gave Italy,the world cup winners the victory. and football is our fourth ranked ball sport.so MB with magic man managing Russia,dare to dream :--)

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can we have guus off you please? pretty please!!!

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Dream on:P:P:P

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Organization is 90% of the game - Germany rules.

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DOH' sorry mona guess i got it wrong...spank me :p

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Spankkkkkkkkkkkkkkk u gave me fake hope:((((((((

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now u know how us guys feel when we find out u chicks fake it LoL...btw..thx for the spank ;)

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Ahahahaha)) LMAO)) I never fake it tho. If i dont have an orgasm, why shud i make him think he is soo good=)) Its like:"Work on it harder, b*tch=))=))

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and have u had a real orgasm? :p

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Sure. U?

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yeah me too..now what r the chances of sharin this experience 2gether? yeah i know..no f'kin chance..i'll just use my imagination shall i :p

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Dont ya dare=))=))

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yep, we (england) have got the easiest group again, so for sure we wont qualify again!! god its depressing!

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least we get a chance to beat borat :o)

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Winners?

Is there a place on the site where we can see who the winners were? I can't find one.
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RE: Winners?

on the homepage right under the picture of bestsophie is a link

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to "yep" and "anon" for their quick replies!

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RE: Winners?

A remarkably osscure link, based on the build-up and the results.

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New Software

Is there a way to tell if a host is using the new flash software ?
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If there is a checkbox with the words "I want to use Two Way Video during this video session", she is using the old software

If there is no checkbox, just the text "If you have a WebCam and want to be seen by xxxxxxxx, select the CamToCam button while in Video.", she is using the new one


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checkbox?

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Yes, the little box that you check when you want to be seen, if they use the old software

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Actually just the second part is correct.

If a Chathost is using the new software, when attempting to enter video, the following text will appear on her "Confirm charges" page (right above the "Begin VideoChat with xxxxxx" button):

"If you have a WebCam and want to be seen by xxxxxx, select the CamToCam button while in Video."

Soon Chathosts who are not using the new software will become a minority, so there should be no problem - and no need for an additional indication.

We will, however add a "High Speed" icon on the Who Is Online page, marking the Chathost that are using the super-speed, super quality Video Software - iSense Cam Elite :)

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Thank you for answering "me" and also thank you CamContacts.

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A Question about Catergories

With the new regulations about catergories "Non Adult= No Nudity" How come there are girls in Adult Hardcore who refuse to do even a strip. I was under the impression, The new regulations on catergories was to make it clear what to expect from girl when you enter video.
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RE: A Question about Catergories

The category descriptions (which they STILL haven't replaced yet for the Viewers after almost two years), and the rules that the hosts go by (which we don't actually see) state a certain minimum level of performance for each category that only includes nudity as a requirement in "Instant Action" and "Not So Shy."

The former requires only a full strip immediately on request and the latter allows a delay and slower speed to the viewers' requests.

If you want and expect certain actions the only way to ensure them is in a textchat BEFORE you go to video. That creates a contract which CC will enforce. Anything else and you're on your own.

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RE: A Question about Catergories

The girl in question was In "Not So Shy" and it was agreed in text chat that she would strip. Which although we went 121 she failed to deliver. I have complained to CC and to their credit I have been re-inbursed. Although I notice the girl In question is still working In Not So Shy Catergory

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RE: A Question about Catergories

Why protect her by hiding her name?

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RE: A Question about Catergories

The girl is SexyDollxx, She also has other nick in " A little Shy" but there are quite a few girls in that catergory who never show, If these girls in question have no intention in doing any strip why don't they change to a non adult catergory!

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So Many Russian Girls

I notice there are many Russian Girls on here and all very beautiful.
Why are there so many from Russia on here?
Does Russia have many beautiful women?
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yes it does. go there and see for yourself

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every country has beautifl women, they ust aren;t on web sites like these in great numbers ike the russians

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why is that?

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RE: So Many Russian Girls

Because regular jobs don't pay well in Russia. I know a university grad who was working long hours for a bank making less than $200 a month. A minimum wage job as a receptionist or burger flipper in the US will earn about $280 in a week.

As lower cost Internet and computer technology spreads to other countries with low wages we should see more hosts from other counties too. There are a lot more Latin American hosts now than just a few years ago.

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RE: So Many Russian Girls

It appears that Russian businessmen (and Russian Mafya) have a significant interest in many sites like this. At the very least, there are many Russians who run studios (which are unlawful under Russian law) where the hosts work, as many girls cannot afford to buy a computer of their own and work from home. These studio bosses take a significant percentage of the hosts' earnings after the site itself takes its hefty cut. (Camcontacts is more generous than many of the sites.)

There is also a sizable number of hosts from Romania, and to a lesser extent, other former Soviet block countries. As for Asian hosts, my observation is that Phillipinos are in the majority. And among Latina hosts, Columbia seems to dominate. The common denominator is a poor economy, ripe for exploitation by those who are in the sex trade.

As for the beauty of Russian women, I quite agree.

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cuz organized crime often dabbles in illegal, for-profit activity, silly:)

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I love beautiful Russian Women. Maybe I should move there.

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standards of morality? many girls there do not resort to this kind of employment...and would never compromise just for the money. seems these narassistic beauties love to look at themselves and have others admire them...strange sense of self worth i'd say.

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strange...

At the very least this site is about beauty, if not sex. If anyone thinks both are bad why are they here?

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RE: So Many Russian Girls

Excuse me, and what are YOU doing here with your highest standards of morality? Just reading forums?
Even if to imagine that you innocently visit Russian hosts to see their beauty and just to chat to them, it doesn't mean you have a right to speak in such a derogatory way. The same if to imagine that you have never visited hosts here.
But like it often happens, the most sinful ones are the best in judging others. Maybe you are an ex-priest from Russia?

*narcissistic* would be right spelling, by the way...

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i forgot to add rude and aggressive

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RE: why?

So far six people voted for you and the total of their votes is 22.
22 divided by 6 is 3.667. The closest CC score is 3.5. If the next 4 people who vote to complete your 10 votes all give you a 4 or higher you will get to 4.

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why r some host not rated?

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RE: why?

Some guys can't be bothered.

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hey guys - for real fun, leave the scoring window open for an hour or two as you open a fresh window to do other thing so you can give her a certain number of stars and she has no idea where they came from

I usually always give 5 stars unless she is typing to other people or doesn't do what she agrees to

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Wow...if that's your idea of fun, I can understand why you post anonymously.... ;)

But about the typing thing...you're right...very annoying. A professional host will be honest if she has someone else in the room...and stop chatting w. her friends or bf when in pvt. In my past, I would just drop those hosts...cause I found them unattractive....For the same reason, whenever i'm chatting to my gf who is a host here...we try to keep that in mind whenever she has a viewer. However, not sure if the rating system is doing much good...imho it is just a lot of hoopla about nothing... The important thing is that you're having fun, which you obviously are, and I'd would not be a person to spoil that for ya!

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RE: why?

what's to understand? the only math they need to actually know is how much to bill the old credit card

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kisses are sweet

thanks all for the mail and good luck to all-have fun and keep on keeping on good friends, come back soon--okie dokie---merry christmas, happy new year and best wishes
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tc-xmas-HNY2008

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RE: kisses are sweet

good luck sean and hurry back dear

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give em the best and come back in one piece

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RE: kisses are sweet

will missed you-and if you see that cannonball--run like hell

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Jen

You almost got me back tonight. Kissssssssssss.
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RE: Jen

It is called cc mail...perhaps you should look into it.... ;P Unless of course, like most of us...you just crave attention...then it's cool...just keep posting here

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RE: Jen

how come you dont show up when i do a search for screen name 'azterix'?

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RE: Jen

because he's a Member, not a Host.

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RE: Jen

...and for that you should all be grateful. If I were a host, cc would have to implement a new rating scale that include negative numbers. :P Sorry, Jen...wasn't trying to be mean....I was just poking fun at ya!

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quandry...

I have been chatting with quite a few girls here. Of course, a few of them are becoming very special to me. To the point of seriuosly making a voyage to meet one or two and see their city/country.

Several of us have had rather deep and extensive chats, expressing various levels of affection. The problem is trust and honesty. Of course they all say they are single and like older guys. Naturally, one has doubts as to the truthfullness of the statements. I would never hold a girl to every word she mutters in chat.

For most of them, and us, CC is a mere fantasy world that disappears when the computer is clicked off. It is for me. However, there are a very few who have invaded my conciousness.

These girls are hot and are chased by guys here and in their own cities. But one must acknowledge that a few girls actually do have a thing for older guys and a relationship could in fact be possible. But how to suss-out which hosts are merely doing their job of creating a fantasy world from those few who would indeed meet in reality and begin a friendship that might go deeper.

And how do they trust me? Yes, I have talked crazy-talk to some, but always with a kernal of reality. I never say "love" in my text, no matter how warm they make my heart. "Love" is a word and feeling that MUST wait for a real meeting and real contact.

In my view, each and every person comes to CC with their own set of expectations (or lack thereof). Most come here to wank or be wanked on. But some are open to friendships. Some even wind-up with sex-vacations.

In fact, I know quite a number who have married or at least moved-in together (depending on immigration laws). So you should know that some do wind up together after meeting here.

The way I always thought is to use CC only to meet and start friendships. It is only after a real meeting that anything more is at all possible. After all, virtually none of us are the same as our online persona. I'm sure that even the randiest of us are much much more shy in real life.

All that said, I have never had a sex-vacation and never would plan one. However, I am most open to visiting a select few of my on-line friends and being very open to a mutual relationship with a special "one and only" should I be luckty enough to find one.
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your post is too long, i got bored and left it at that point

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RE: quandry...

Yeah, I know. It turned into one of "those kind" of messages. Sorry.

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RE: quandry...

Please don't be apologetic...there was nothing wrong with YOUR post...you brought up some good questions.

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RE: quandry...

Didnt you recently leave a post leaving cc?

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RE: quandry...

Yes, I did...I also said I'd probably stick around for a few weeks reading...but not posting. One host suggested that I'd be like anyone else..come back w. a different name. I guess since I'm writing this...she's at least partially right. Thanks for pointing that out, though...very sweet...:P

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RE: quandry...

intervention time, you are an addict.

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RE: quandry...

Never said I wasn't an addict...I admitted to having a relapse.....Just because I'm posting here in the forums does not mean I'm visiting hosts. Anyway....instead of trying to be mean (which you are not very good at, I should add....)....wouldn't it be good if you tried to be supportive and say something nice to me? Try it some time...might change your life!

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RE: quandry...

It's called "tough love." I won't be your enabler for your cyber addiction.

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RE: quandry...

lol...good man...just as long as you admit to being an addict yourself?Catch my logic? Just trying to make sure that none of us are being hypocritical...

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RE: quandry...

you have read my three posts to the forum, that's the sum of my contributions. In addition, I don't reveal my private real life here, nor do I pontificate. You on the other hand are a combination of Dr.Phil and Oprah. when will the next chapter of the Azterix telenovela be posted? oooooo I can't wait!

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RE: quandry...

well....just drop it then..."EgoTestical"... if you're so bored, perhaps you should consider not making it worse by embarrassing yourself by making such trite remarks...and boring the rest of people here in the process??? ;P

To the origininal poster...people here have different motives. What is the definition of a "sex vacation?" I met someone here, and we had sex, but I don't think my trip fits that definition. I was attracted to someone, took a chance...and things worked out....because the other person liked me also. I could have lined up 5-6 girls "just in case" as some members would advice, and I perhaps then that would have met the definition. However, that is just not my style....not because I'm such a good person...it's just not me.

We're all too stuck up about sex...take a vacation if you need one...and have a good time...and meet up with your friends if you want to. Just be realistic, and

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RE: quandry...

sorry...I didn't finish my post....I meant to say...try to use your right head...but try not to listen too much to some of the bitter trolls posting on this board....life is all about taking calculated risks. Best of luck to ya!

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RE: quandry...

I see your point but don't tarnish us realists with trolls

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RE: quandry...

lol...you know what they say.."if the shoe fits..." ;P

But seriously, you're right...there IS a big difference between being realistic and being bitter. I used to be very cynical, still am from time to time, as a matter of fact....which you probably cannot tell from my posts. However, I've also come to believe that for most of us, life is shorter than we'd like to think....so why not try to maximize your happiness while you're around? If that means making silly mistakes like falling in love...so what? Rather than being remembered as a realist, I'd prefer to die with a big grin on my face....even if people remember me as a fool...

Nothing wrong in being "realistic"....just make sure you don't deprive yourself too much of happiness....cause when you check out of here (and I'm not talking about cc) you won't get too many points for having been "right"...if you catch my drift?

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RE: quandry...

yeah sure, that goes without saying. Just because someone is a realist does not mean they are unhappy.

In fact, I remain happy by being a realist :) Got to find the right balance i guess.

I've met 6 women here from this website and had some amazing Sex fun too ;). Never thought i would ever experience something like this in my life with such delicious women.

Now when i trawl the catergories for potential meets you begin to look at things in a cost benefit ratio mindset. To make fantasy real then you have to pay alot for it. Especially on a site like this.

For me it suits me to pay for it as there is no complications in my real life. The women i have met are good women, honest and very sexy.

But realistically on average its cost me about $5K for each woman i meet from here. (taking into account those who lie and say "sure i will meet", and those who are genuine and taking the time to win their trust)

good luck

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RE: quandry...

I define a "sex vacation" as a trip for the specific and main goal of getting laid and if there are some museums that's okay. A "normal vacation" is an itinerary of multiple vacation spots that includes visiting friends (even those met on the net) where any physical or emotional spark that may happen was secondary to the primary intention.

I think most recommend having several friends "lined-up" is the great likelihood that one or more of them might not show up at the appointed time.

I always plan for the worst and hope for the best. I can't imagine arriving in a second or third tier Russian city planning the whole trip around someone I never met in real life. If she chickened out or simply changed her mind how would I manage where everything was so different and hard to suss-out?

I do recall meeting a girl in another country in such a third-tier city. I planned about 3 days or so there. She met me, we went to a museum, had a nice dinner and very pleasant evening. We laid out the next couple days' events and at no time was I forward with her. It was 100% platonic.

I bid her farewell that evening and she then proceeded to ignore my phone calls and e-mails for the next two days, leaving me high and dry. I found out later that she was married and her husband was the studio owner.

The only positive thing was at least the language was Latin-based, and any number of people stumbled through English with me. The kicker was two years later when she came on Yahoo IM and asked me for money. I asked her if she remembered that I was the guy she stood-up and disappeared from.

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RE: quandry...

hmmm...what a priceless story. I don't know why...but the phrase "Russian Roulette!" popped up in my mind while reading your last post.

I'm also thinking that the life experiences of some people here would make a pretty damn good book....a friend suggested that mine would..and I actually have to agree with him.

By the way, I complement you on the courage to admit that you got taken for a ride.....most people here don't have the testicular fortitude to do that....they prefer to whine...;P

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RE: quandry...

a book about your life? whew

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RE: quandry...

No...I didn't say a book about my life...life experiences....

I get your sarcasm, but the fact is I've had a pretty interesting life.... I'm not bragging about that....just stating what I think is fact. Also, I was referring to the lives of people I've met...trust me, sometimes life can be a lot stranger and more amazing than fiction. But no worries, my anonymous friend..I will probably never get around to writing that book....And, if I DID write it, the likes of YOU would probably not be featured prominently in it! Know what I mean, "anon"?

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RE: quandry...

why would he? you don't even know who he is...duh

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to be honest...

Most of us have had interesting enough lives that they could be used in a "fact-based" telenovella or at least a tv movie.

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RE: to be honest...

That was the only point I was trying to make...but you put it better.

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RE: to be honest...

what you wrote was "a friend of mine suggested mine would be. actually i have to agree with him" now stop being so thin-skinned and take a little good natured ribbing , that line was just begging for a smart ass answer, no one took a serious dig at you. then again i usually avoid serious topics around here because so many of you take it so seriously.

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RE: to be honest...

I admit to being thinskinned...story of my life...but with your last comment I knew you were joking. You're right...with that line about writing a book about my life I had it coming! What you missed is that I was poking fun back at ya....while being a little serious at the same time. I don't take myself as serious as you think I do...only sometimes...

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RE: to be honest...

duly noted

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RE: quandry...

why would i want to be in a fiction novel

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RE: quandry... and another looooong story...

Well, I have met around thirty or more girls from here (and a few more who were their friends that I met because of them) and a couple did take advantage a bit. But I will say that only one tried to take me for the Big Ride to the Green Card, though she wasn't a host. The girls here are VERY rarely interested in actually leaving their home countries and moving away, despite rumors to the contrary.

Here are a couple more anecdotes if you liked that other one. Early in the time of being online I stumbled across a girl who was absolutely devastating in her charm and beauty. She was my fantasy girl without compare. We spent hours online chatting. When she wasn't online I scanned the "online now" feature and found other similar girls. After a couple months, one of them stumbled and let me know I was chatting with several colleagues of hers.

As it turned out, this particular studio boss was hiring all of his girls based on his own tastes in women which happened to parallel mine exactly. I was chatting with so many girls and they were having good-hearted fun amongst themselves "sharing me" without my knowledge. (I must add that there was no jealousy or vindictiveness involved.)

Add to that the fact that the boss was INCREDIBLY unoriginal in the Profile Pages and Screen Names that he created, I would mine the lists and try to hunt out all the girls from his studio. Yes, childish, but it became something of an online video game for me to try to find ALL of his employees. My trophy case soon contained almost 20 girls who I talked with fairly regularly. I even wrote a script that created a page featuring only girls from his studio. I sent it to the girls to give to him, but apparently he had no thoughts to create a web page.

It was wierd to see that they broke down into two major cliques, a minor clique and a number of "loners." It was like watching a tele-novella. One time, one of them convinced me to get a Chathost Account and see if any girls were out there who would go to my room. I tried it and unbeknownst to me three of the girls from the studio anonymously logged in and started talking to me at the same time. It gave me a true appreciation for how hard this job can be (and why I never get to upset at slow answers in textchat).

Imagine going to their country for a vacation and trying to arrange to meet as many of them as possible. It was certainly an addition to the museums and churches. I met two of them together for a coffee and they took me to a place where six or seven more of them were waiting to wish me a surprise happy birthday, including the gift of a wonderful vase that I still have. The climax to the evening was when they surprised me with an appearance from the one host I was truly smitten with. I actually still am in touch with one of the girls who unfortunately married her high school sweetie.

That was in more innocent days, but they are fond memories. And still, here I am.

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RE: quandry... and another looooong story...

That was a nice story....and at least you have some happy memories. Were you ever tempted to settle down with one of these girls? I had crushes on a few hosts...but I became serious only about the one who seemed to love me no matter what. Someone like that is difficult to find...so I excluded all other options at that time; or at least I tried to. She's still working here...otherwise I would not be here, and it is my hope and intention that we can have a "real" life together soon.

The real quandary (this is the correct spelling, I think) is that this is a fantasy site, but the people behind the screen names are very much real. And, just like the real world, some people are truly beautiful, and some people are not so nice. Sounds like you met some nice women here...although if you met 30 of them...perhaps you have some questions to ask yourself. That is your life, though, and I'm not one to judge you. Back to my question...was there a moment when you were tempted to settle down with one girl?

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RE: quandry... and another looooong story...

I consider CC to be like going to a cocktail party, or a beer-bash, if you will. I flirt furiously with every girl in sight, but no matter what we say together I have absolutely no interest in going to the next level as it is obvious we have nothing in common other than have some fun. We might hook up at a club the next night but there is no affection involved.

I met 30 or so hosts because they were all platonic friends of mine (I didn't watch sex-shows with them) and I was going to be in their city, so in 3 or 4 visits I have no problems with meeting any number of friends. That number is artificially high because as we all know girls cycle through chathosting with incredible frequency and most don't really look back.

Many find that explaining older foreign male friends to be tedious and most don't really consider us to be real friends, anyway. We were acquaintences, merely ships passing in the night. In the meantime there are other interests I have in that country, so the girls were not the main focus of my being there.

As far as the girls, of course I had various levels of affectionate feelings toward a number of them, and I would have been happy to go to the next level with a couple of them. Like you, there was only a true spark once, but it came to nothing as she rejected the ring.

I have continued to amuse myself with international online chatting and I anticipate more visits to Eastern Europe. I do confess that I would like to meet some of my current chatfriends. I can confess that the greater number of them I only have a curiosity for even if we have had some pretty steamy chat, though I will say that I have an interest in seeing if there might be a sprk with one or two of them.

And for me, a 'spark' doesn't lead to a sex romp, a spark leads to the altar. And at this point I truly don't care what country I live in, as long as the girl knows she isn't getting a Bill Gates bankroll.

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RE: quandry...

I presume you have never read a book then ?

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RE: quandry...

You seem to have a level head on your shoulders and understand the difference between reality and fantasy. I'd say the odds of a meet working out are not high but if you approach it with realistic expectations why not try? Just about every city in the world is worth a few days visit. If you have the $$ and time plan a nice trip to wherever and if she doesn't show - or skips after your first coffee shop meeting (or brings her bf/husband along) then take in the sights for a couple more days and go home knowing you had a nice vacation whether you connected with the girl of your dreams or not.

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RE: quandry...

EXACTLY what I always recommend. My quandry is what if the girl has dramatically higher expectatioins than I do. Or what if she has mis-read our relationship?

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RE: quandry...

An Epic, "Gone with the wind" style post.. lol

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RE: quandry...

just wait until you get in a video and you catch their bf--maybe was husband accidently peeping around the corner and got caught on cam,, then you will think again about love--cool,,,, by the way that didnt happen to me (hehe)

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RE: quandry...

go meet these women ....and have a blast....have as much fun as you can and take no expectations with you....just live in the moment and if you "connect"...with one of these "female friends"...then thats all the better...but,i would say from my own experience...its better to just go and be fascinated with a new place and culture and people you've never seen before....in the end,its possible to find love and a companion on the other side of the world and also possible to find one just down the street....it will only be a quandary if you let it become one...peace man...and i hope the best for ya

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RE: quandry...

well i am 26 and my bf s 50 now:) so i do love older guys! especialy one of them:))) does it matter if we are single or not? i am on CC since 2004 but nobody came to meet me in person yet;)) so why do u ask me am i single or not? most silly question IMAO!:)

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disappointed

My messages don't seem to be stirring many answers lately. Don't you like me anymore?
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RE: disappointed

i dont like u

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glamour $$$

what's the big deal here? astronimical prices and for what? no strip no nudity...get a kick outta stroking their already inflated narcissistic egos?
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RE: glamour $$$

You don't like, don't visit then.You have other categories, have fun.

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RE: glamour $$$

«...no strip no nudity...»

My reply is waaaaa? Don't tell me i have been dreaming afterall... lol

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RE: glamour $$$

i dont see much difference in prices.

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RE: glamour $$$

no full nudity, no touching, no cu....majority priced well over a dollar...I don't see it...some due....Is it the intellectual challenge...yes some will spend anything to challenge the rules...what's yours?

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RE: glamour $$$

You are giving my posting ID a bad name. This is a free market. Different strokes for different folks. If you want nudity you can have. So much of it you know more about the female anatomy than a gynecologist. If you want to pretend someone is in love with you and just "chat sweetly" you can do that too. Frankly both extremes wierd me out. The main thing is CC gives you choice. Even the choice to quit.

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RE: glamour $$$

ok i'll tone this down so it gets posted !

Bascially there are more reasons to be here than just seeing a woman strip.

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RE: glamour $$$

pay by the minute to chat?!?

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RE: glamour $$$

Some of the worlds most twisted women are in Glamourand explore there minds and have sooo much fun too. Whether you know it or not we pay them because we dont want them in our day to day real life.

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RE: glamour $$$

Surely we pay them because they don't want us in their day to day real lives.

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RE: glamour $$$

you might but for me i certainly don't want the day to day burden they would give me,

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RE: glamour $$$

What day to day burden is that?

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RE: glamour $$$

Their are too many to mention here and is probably explosive to those who do not understand the context.

But in short i have enough women in my day to day life, I come here for escapism or to play games with them and certainly not to make a wife out of them.

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RE: glamour $$$

"well" has a point. i'm very polite, and very complimentary to the girls. i've had lots of fun on CC, lots of very successful, sexy chats. but i have come across MANY hostesses who who charge 3 dollars per minute, and are barely polite. i often wonder what on earth i could possibly say to them to get them to even smile, let alone take their clothes off. meanwhile, "tick tick tick tick". when a chathostess treats me like that, I don't feel bad about hitting "end session" without saying goodbye.

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RE: glamour $$$

i wish poilteness of members counted but alas i think it does not. been polite for years here and not sure what it has gained me if anything.

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RE: glamour $$$

I like to pay top dollar for glamour!

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New Flash Software

What is your opinion of the new software? I think it is much better quality of picture and an advancement from the old but is it worth the trade off of losing hosts? some of my host friends have expressed there concerns about the higher traffic needed for it and costs of internet incurred, they feel they can not continue without putting there prices up or leave the site completely :( (it seems even without members in video they waste traffic)
I just thought it would be a good topic for discussion so everyone could air there views/ideas. thx
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only diference i saw was much faster conection and better picture.I dont know if i pay more 4 internet( cos i never look on those bills)?:))))))))).but even if u pay more 4 internet ( this doesnt bother me) u get better conection and happier members ( they feel like almoust can touch u) lol, so from my point of view , new software is brilliant. Good luck to all , Dana

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actually its 2007..i know there is a time difference and everything but not that much :)

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Very astute of you, old chap! ;P

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2008? jez that was some hangover

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I hear that old software will be withdrawn by December 15th so better get used to it!

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RE: New Flash Software

what do u mean by higher traffic?

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RE: New Flash Software

sorry...i forget over there u pay ala carte prices for internet...what a pain in the ass!!

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Its only great one. I have 2 internet conection at home but i never was able open old cc cam with one of my connection. Maybe i am dumb but its never worked. Now new cam working on all my net connections with all my pc's. GREAT! THX CC

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advice or bored

4 things to think about trying to meet us members here, well especially the ones that have been around-cool
1. If a man can sum you up in one sentence, he'll be bored. So take a little time to get to know him, if time you don't have, well maybe the next one would be better.
2. You have to seem like you are giving yourself fully (well not in public chat, because they are others in there, but say "Here i am", Take me. Men don't like to keep quessing that you are interested in him.
3. Have confidence, this is why you don"t try to interpret or overly process the man's mind out loud, its to much pressure on you, besides the man's mind is thinking at this time about sex and love.
4. If all else fails, just be quiet and enjoy being bored during your stay of life as it passes on by, don't missed the chance that might be a life time of fun.
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yes cool movie, thanks origami, community room needs more like you, cheerful, fun and very outgoing, never bored when you around in there girl. stay cool, party on

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Perfect Ass

I just found girl with the most perfect ass on here, sexy blonde, think she may be new here.... is name PerfectAss18 , wowow
sexy
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RE: Perfect Ass

u could post this in members :P

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RE: Perfect Ass

Well most of use guys are asses, just few of us have perfected it.

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RE: Perfect Ass

while mine, but i dont work on here ;)

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i can attest Jenny has one of the best for sure. super sweet lady as well.

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question

Hi all, members and hosts , i put a questions in my personal forum , and i need little help from u guys , so who doesnt nothing else to do , are welcome to answer in my personal forum:)) . Ty in advance , kiss all Dana
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win a free session with me!!

ahhh , i forgot , i will give a free 30 mins session with me to the guy who will give me the answer i look 4!!!! so.... something worth to think abt! wait 4 all your answers , good luck Dana

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scheduling a host

some one please explain
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RE: scheduling a host

Basically you make an appointment with a host to video with her at a certian time on a certain day in the future.

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RE: scheduling a host

what happens if either party does not show up?

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pretty obvious really....one doesnt turn up = no show

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RE: hi all

well xmoonlight, welcome to cc world,, were love, passion and seducing comes from the heart---good luck here and best wishes-cool

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RE: hi all

Welcome aboard

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psst: let me tell you a secret,, the host here are not married--cool,, so put your best clothes on and dig in--cool

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they love you as lve as you come to video and when you don\'t they ignore you

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RE: Married hosts

ever play russian roulette?

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Do you really think that all these beautiful, sexy, intelligent women are single? Sure they tell you that but most are married or have boyfriends. The "I'm single" line is designed to make you feel like the host is available to you....ehances the fantasy.....her heart is open for love and for you. Amazing how many men fall for it. Remember the girls will say anything to get you to video. again and again and for as long as possible.

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so true all have bfs or husbands.

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Did u check all of them lol?

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Totally agree...easier to tell them that we are commited than to answer all those-ohhh no way, how come, ur so beautiful..And explain why we are single. They wont believe anyway lol

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ok i give in--lots here have bf's and husbands,, but hey, they are still here, so again put on your best clothes and dig in--cool

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Keep the dollars coming and all hosts wil love you, single or married.lol. I know cos I was that sucker.

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RE: presents

a russian girl on my doorstep but seriously if u love him and he loves u then a card with how ur words about feel about him will be treasured more than anything $100 could buy

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RE: presents

I agree. Some real mail in the post. Maybe some LITTLE souvenir from your city.

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RE: presents

If you might be in love with the guy then you should know him well enough to find a gift he should enjoy. I personally would prefer a hand made gift over something bought in a store. Or something you bought then added a personal touch to by writing some words. For example maybe a small photo album with some of your favorite photos with descriptions in your hand writing. To me it would be more special than something I can buy myself.

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lamborghini gallardo

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RE: presents

send urself its the best gift....

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RE: presents

Send him personal Coupons, that he can use at anytime he asks
1) Good for nude back massage
2) Good for BJ
3) Good for Foot Massage
4) Good for Sexy Slow Strip Show
5) Good for Breakfast in Bed served and cooked by you
6) Good for 30 minutes of your snuggles
7) Good for "He wins the Arguement" if he is right or wrong
8) Good for "no talking , just 30 minutes of kisses"

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RE: presents

It is a sweet idea and it is the thought that really shows merit. I have received several gifts over the years and not once has it ever been the value of something other than it was something sent for ME! And it was always a lovely lovely surprise. That being said, it is nice to give as well as receive and over the years I have enjoyed that almost as much as receiving myself.

It is not about expensive gifts it is about personal ones. :)

TNTSTH

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Have you met him in person yet? What does he like?

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How are you certain you love him if you haven't met in person?

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FuzzyCandy

...one of the sweetest, most beautiful chathostesses here. where is she now? does anyone know? it's been years...
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RE: FuzzyCandy

But I would like to know. I really felt connection with FuzzyCandy. She was the best! I gree with you.

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Long Nails.......

Out of all the amazing hosts with super long sharp nails who would cause the most damage??
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check out Huntresss---she is on top of the head

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