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RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
You cant see the difference in nudity and action? Not so Shy description says "full and explicit nudity is expected" but Instant Action, well it is more action than just nudity, and if you really dont know what action means, it means stuffing fingers or toys in your pussy or ass and play not just tease... so as previous post said, if u dont like instant nudity in Not so Shy, move to Little Shy, and then u can complain about members who ask instant nudity
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
Ok you say you are not stupid, so why you play stupid?
but if you still really cant understand difference on Not so Shy vs Instant Action, i try explain it better...
Not so Shy - you start to strip when member ask for it, and after you have get nude, you can keep on teasing and playing, but you dont have to use toys if you dont want, i think thats what we expect in Not so Shy
Instant Action - you rip of your clothes if you not nude already, and get your toys and start to play, without slow striptease and foreplay first.
And ofcourse not all members ask for this, but this is what we can expect for those categories... so again, if you not comfortable for instant strip in Not so Shy, move to Little Shy please, to avoid confused members and bad ratings lol
but if you still really cant understand difference on Not so Shy vs Instant Action, i try explain it better...
Not so Shy - you start to strip when member ask for it, and after you have get nude, you can keep on teasing and playing, but you dont have to use toys if you dont want, i think thats what we expect in Not so Shy
Instant Action - you rip of your clothes if you not nude already, and get your toys and start to play, without slow striptease and foreplay first.
And ofcourse not all members ask for this, but this is what we can expect for those categories... so again, if you not comfortable for instant strip in Not so Shy, move to Little Shy please, to avoid confused members and bad ratings lol
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
Sorry but it is you who are confused and wrong. The rules regarding sexual content of what a host does in Not Shy and Instant Action are the same. The only difference is the timing. In Instant Action the host is expected to start a show as soon as the member enters and follow the pace dictated by him. However there is no obligation on the host to use toys, insert fingers in pussy, asshole or do anything else other than get naked if she does not want to. In Not Shy the host is expected to get naked but is allowed to take more time over it. She can start with a bit of chat and then teasingly disrobe at her own pace. Confused host is right to be unhappy when members expect her to strip as soon as they enter video. As she says this is what Instant Action is for.
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
or maybe you just cant read what is said in "Categories Explained"
And yes, i know there is not said anything about toys, but how else can you describe instant action, and hardcore?
If you think nudity without fingering pussy is hardcore, then explain me what is softcore?
there is clearly said on description of Not so Shy, "full and explicit nudity is expected" so what is there to complain when member ask for nudity?
And if its still not clear to you, take a look and you will see that Not so Shy is on Adult Hardcore section, so again we can have this same conclusion, if confused host dont feel comfortable to strip when members ask her to strip, she should go to Little Shy category, how is it so difficult to understand?
And yes, i know there is not said anything about toys, but how else can you describe instant action, and hardcore?
If you think nudity without fingering pussy is hardcore, then explain me what is softcore?
there is clearly said on description of Not so Shy, "full and explicit nudity is expected" so what is there to complain when member ask for nudity?
And if its still not clear to you, take a look and you will see that Not so Shy is on Adult Hardcore section, so again we can have this same conclusion, if confused host dont feel comfortable to strip when members ask her to strip, she should go to Little Shy category, how is it so difficult to understand?
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
It seems that you are the one who cannot read what is said in "Categories Explained". It makes clear there that the basic feature of IA is the time. Basically in a CC context softcore means sexy chat and teasing and maybe stripping to lingerie. This is what can be expected in the softcore categories. In unrestricted sessions hosts may show and do more than this if they wish. In hardcore categories nudity is the basic requirement but again the hosts may do more than this if they wish. This applies to both Not Shy and IA. As I said above the key difference is that in IA the member can expect the host to start her show as soon as he enters video. The real differences and limits between hardcore and softcore only really become significant in restricted sessions.
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
The key phrase here is " when the Viewer is repeatedly requesting action". Stalling is not allowed but a host in not shy does not have to start stripping immediately a member enters video and may take some time to remove her clothes in a teasing way.
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
read again, "STALLING in an attempt to extend the Viewer's time
in video is not allowed."
and if you read confused hosts previous posts, she is very clear stating that she dont want to strip right away, because she want to keep viewer in video 5 minutes longer.
And i havent said she should start to strip right after when viewer enters the room, i said she should start to strip when viewer ask her to do that... and her problem seems to be that she dont like it when viewer ask her to strip too soon, so what else is this than an attempt to extend the viewer's time in video?
in video is not allowed."
and if you read confused hosts previous posts, she is very clear stating that she dont want to strip right away, because she want to keep viewer in video 5 minutes longer.
And i havent said she should start to strip right after when viewer enters the room, i said she should start to strip when viewer ask her to do that... and her problem seems to be that she dont like it when viewer ask her to strip too soon, so what else is this than an attempt to extend the viewer's time in video?
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
If you ask CC I think you will find that they do not consider trying to keep a member chatting for 5 minutes or so after he enters video stalling. Read the descriprion for Instant Action. The first words are "Not got time for chit chat..." This implies that in Not Shy a member should expect a little time on chit chat.
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
The problem is that lots of hosts do get naked straight away in that category and in the other "more removed from instant action" categories so it is confusing for members too.
As for me I prefer the nudity, then the teasing then the nudity. I suppose I just like to know that at the end of the teasing I am going to get the nudity.
I also had one host who told me she wouldn't get naked straight away because of the category she was in.That's fair enough so I then asked how many minutes she expected me to stay in video before she stripped. Her response was to laugh and say did I really expect her to mark off the minutes and at that magic moment start to strip. I didn't answer he and just left but had I answered my answer would have been a definite YES.
I suppose the "battle" between members and hosts will continue for many years to come :P
As for me I prefer the nudity, then the teasing then the nudity. I suppose I just like to know that at the end of the teasing I am going to get the nudity.
I also had one host who told me she wouldn't get naked straight away because of the category she was in.That's fair enough so I then asked how many minutes she expected me to stay in video before she stripped. Her response was to laugh and say did I really expect her to mark off the minutes and at that magic moment start to strip. I didn't answer he and just left but had I answered my answer would have been a definite YES.
I suppose the "battle" between members and hosts will continue for many years to come :P
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
I think Long Time Member was the most accurate in his answer. I am in softcore and quite often they expect instant nudity as well...lol. I have absolutely nothing against Instant Action (as a member accused girls of in viewer forum) and it is for the one minute guy who is on a budget and horny clock :) I think that is great for those that aren't happy with an instant porn video. The other categories are intended for different guys with different tastes. Some just haven't realized that the whole site was not designed for instant nudity....there is definitely something for everyone and some just don't realize they belong in a certain category. I don't think you are the one that is confused but those members are.
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
Perhaps it would help if you indicated in your profile the minimum minutes until the erotic portion of your show begins. It might help eliminate the misunderstandings that seem to plague you. ;)
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
There are many hosts who have things like "Please don't expect me to get naked 1 minute after you enter my room" in there profiles. They will tell you it does not stop guys asking.
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
Move to Little shy. You are NOT a hardcore host. Far from it
RE: Difference in Instant Action verses Not so Shy
I absolutely agree with your statemnet "You would not approach a girl in RL and ask to see her chest for .50 would you."
As it's real life I would offer at least 1.50 :P
As it's real life I would offer at least 1.50 :P
German chat hosts who like good music
One of my favorite bands, Rooney, is touring Germany right now. They will be playing Koln, Stuttgart, Munich, Dresden, Frankfurt, and Munster from now to the 15th of this month. One of their members, Taylor Locke, is a good friend, so I hope if you can tear away from your cameras, you'll go see them and enjoy some great powerful rock.
glad rags? I googled but still don't get what this guy meant.
***** Mel_Uk: why didn't she pick you as mr right lol
amike: so we have a start .....trip to london ....change into glad rags .....champagne ( bottle ...or even 2 ) at the ritz
Mel_Uk: glad rags?
Mel_Uk: what's that
amike: no she was 19 when we met sponsored her through uni and beyond *****
He never explained. Was he patronizing me? Or being nice? I don't get it!
amike: so we have a start .....trip to london ....change into glad rags .....champagne ( bottle ...or even 2 ) at the ritz
Mel_Uk: glad rags?
Mel_Uk: what's that
amike: no she was 19 when we met sponsored her through uni and beyond *****
He never explained. Was he patronizing me? Or being nice? I don't get it!
RE: glad rags? I googled but still don't get what this guy meant.
"change into glad rags" = put on ur "good going out clothes" no patronisation there at all
RE: ty all
Just to add to the intrigue - there's a really great Rod Stewart song called "Handbags and Glad Rags" from his early '70's period, and it was used as the theme song for the original UK edition of "THE OFFICE" with Ricky Gervais.
videochat
what about if the button "videochat", If this were a option only in the host profile page?
The member could click on the host picture, go to her/his profile to click on videochat
This way, host will stop complain about member does not use to read profiles b4 the rate us.
The member could click on the host picture, go to her/his profile to click on videochat
This way, host will stop complain about member does not use to read profiles b4 the rate us.
RE: videochat
It may help in getting some members to read a host's profile but, I suspect that , it would not really help with the ratings.
RE: videochat
don't wanna waste my time going from profile page to videochat selection window then back to profile page to start a video. if I click on video chat, I want it to start pronto
RE: videochat
Fine with me. I always read the profiles. To be honest though - I find that most profiles aren't very informative because many of them say the same thing.
Turn on: Kind, polite, strong, sensitive, generous.
Turn off: Rudeness, one minute men.
My show: Hot/Sexy
Why am I here: Sexy fun and to meet people from around the world.
Turn on: Kind, polite, strong, sensitive, generous.
Turn off: Rudeness, one minute men.
My show: Hot/Sexy
Why am I here: Sexy fun and to meet people from around the world.
A 5 star rating for sure
Fast complete nudity in either softcore categories virtually guarantees a 5 star rating.
RE: A 5 star rating for sure
If I enjoyed my time with a host I will rate her five stars and visit again.
If I don't enjoy my time with a host I will rate her four or five stars and not visit her again.
I suppose that there are potential situations that would cause me to give a host a poorer rating but I have never experienced one.
BTW: those hosts who want to rate members should post their member ratings in their private forums. My guess is that most members will stop visiting them, but I may be wrong.
If I don't enjoy my time with a host I will rate her four or five stars and not visit her again.
I suppose that there are potential situations that would cause me to give a host a poorer rating but I have never experienced one.
BTW: those hosts who want to rate members should post their member ratings in their private forums. My guess is that most members will stop visiting them, but I may be wrong.
RE: A 5 star rating for sure
I would amend that and say...a host who agrees to do what was discussed in free chat in a timely (not too fast or too slow) manner is a 5 star girl for me. If a host refuses to do what she said she would in free chat, if she tries to re-neogtiate the deal during paid video, or if she clearly stalls....1 star...only because we can't give 0.
The Current Rating System
I've seen a lot of posts by host and member alike suggesting we change the rating system. Personally, I think the current rating system is just fine. We don't need for members (that kind of info can be handled by the hosts in the privacy of the host forum). As for host ratings, the one we have is more than adequate. It is simple and allows ease in rating. Systems which allow for comments by the members are too prone to be used vindictively, on the one hand, and (in the systems I am aware of) too easy to be edited by the host. The 5 Star system is the overall best for its simplicity and straightforward approach. Just my opinion.
RE: The Current Rating System
I'm referring to the 5 star, no comment system. I have to agree with you that rating after only a minute should not be possible. However, for the most part, I think the system is fair.
RE: The Current Rating System
"we change the rating system." Correction, not we but Camcontacts change the rating system. I somewhat agree with you but would prefer we could comment on the host in addition to simply rating by a 5 star system.
RE: The Current Rating System
My use of the term "we" is in the inclusive sense of this community, not that "we" the viewers have any power to do so.
RE: The Current Rating System
I disagree. The ratings is there to guide prospective buyers of goods and services offered on line. For example if you were thinking about buying a computer or web cam you would want to read comments from those who have purchased the item or items you are interested in buying.
RE: The Current Rating System
You obviously have no idea how the rating system negatively effects the hosts because it is only based on the last 10 viewers that decided to rate her. By that fact alone instead of it being accumulative from the beginning ....a hosts rating can change dramatically by just one person for what ever reason deciding to rate low. Could be he is not happy that she didn't strip in softcore, or another host, a studio boss trying to make their own girls look better, whatever. Can be honest or vindictive. Also like was said above, there is no minimal time that one needs to stay in a hosts room to be able to rate. The combination of the two makes it totally inaccurate unfortunately.
RE: The Current Rating System
I think its the last 50 viewers. And 99% of the time I rate 5 star as do most members
RE: The Current Rating System
I don't use the rating system at all. This decision is not based on whether I decide a host is good, bad, or indifferent, but the rating system in itself; that is, an algorithm is employed where history from day one to the earliest has some importance while the last few carry more importance. This methodology can be dramatically affected by one or two good and bad stars.
In addition, the member is not offered privacy. Granted the host is not given information on who rated them after a performance, but it can be easily ascertained by the last rate and the last visitor.
Yes, the current rating system is simple to use, but that is where the problem lies -- too simplistic to offer anything genuinely acceptable to all.
I know some sites have rating systems from very involved to inadequate, but CC should have never included it. It is not that kind of place and is what makes it different than the rest. CC offers that personal touch, while the bigger players offer more data than anyone really has time and patience to review, and pushes quantity rather than quality.
CC's business model has worked for a long time and I am a believer not to fix what is not broken.
And, yes, I do read the profiles and review the photos. Any member who does not is just asking for trouble.
In addition, the member is not offered privacy. Granted the host is not given information on who rated them after a performance, but it can be easily ascertained by the last rate and the last visitor.
Yes, the current rating system is simple to use, but that is where the problem lies -- too simplistic to offer anything genuinely acceptable to all.
I know some sites have rating systems from very involved to inadequate, but CC should have never included it. It is not that kind of place and is what makes it different than the rest. CC offers that personal touch, while the bigger players offer more data than anyone really has time and patience to review, and pushes quantity rather than quality.
CC's business model has worked for a long time and I am a believer not to fix what is not broken.
And, yes, I do read the profiles and review the photos. Any member who does not is just asking for trouble.
RE: The Current Rating System
"And, yes, I do read the profiles and review the photos. Any member who does not is just asking for trouble"
I agree 100%. Problem is some profiles are very vague and sometimes all you see if smileys.
I agree 100%. Problem is some profiles are very vague and sometimes all you see if smileys.
RE: The Current Rating System
That is true, and another reason to be cautious. But, then, there are the novelettes -- those who are writing their thesis and think more to better.
RE: The Current Rating System
Well, that bit of info is outside my realm of perspective, and nothing to do with the overall point of my original post. Personally, I have trouble believing it is only the last 10 because I do not see ratings changing all that frequently. But since I don't know, I'm not able to comment about it. How is it that you know, btw?
RE: The Current Rating System
well if you want to nitpick and take the meaning of my words beyond what I intended, who am I to stop you? go right ahead. I think it was quite clear that I was referring to the 5 star system as being adequate and fair for the most part. I was not in any way referring to CC's method of using only the last 10 ratings, though you chose to make that part of my statement.
RE: The Current Rating System
I usually never rate the host because I'm afraid to see how much I just spent! And I don't open the billing emails that come later. I just don't want to know.
RE: The Current Rating System
I tend to agree. The majority of us rate five stars most of the time so it is reasonably fair for hosts. Every host lives with the same system. The algorithm could be tweaked but it basically works.
As for hosts rating members - it isn't going to happen. That would just drive away members. Hosts who think otherwise are mistaken.
As for hosts rating members - it isn't going to happen. That would just drive away members. Hosts who think otherwise are mistaken.
RE: The Current Rating System
It is against cc rules to mention a viewer's name in public forums
What do cheap hotel and tight pants have in common?
...... no ball room :)
We can put videochat on camcontacts in the question too!
LOL
We can put videochat on camcontacts in the question too!
LOL
RE: What do cheap hotel and tight pants have in common?
Fail to see how it can be "well said" when I have no idea what it's meant to mean. "Manner in your kitchen"...its gibberish!
RE: What do cheap hotel and tight pants have in common?
it means she spends too much time in the kitchen (ie shes fat )
it was a bitchy comment
it was a bitchy comment
RE: What do cheap hotel and tight pants have in common?
No, it was just plain rude and uncalled for.
RE: What do cheap hotel and tight pants have in common?
I have a cock that is bigger than those you are referring to.
joke of the day
Steve is lying in bed in hospital with an oxygen mask over his face. A young nurse is sponging his chest.
"Nurse," Steve mumbles from behind his mask, "are my testicles black?"
Embarrassed, the nurse replies, "I don't know, I'm only here to sponge you."
Steve struggles again to ask, "Nurse, are my testicles black?"
Again the nurse replies, "I can't tell. I'm only here to sponge you."
Then the matron arrives and sees how distraught Steve is getting.
"Matron," Steve mumbles, "are my testicles black?"
Matron whips back Steve's blankets, pulls down his pyjama trousers, moves his penis out of the way, has a good look and announces, "There’s nothing wrong with your testicles."
Steve pulls off his oxygen mask and asks again, "Are my test results back?"
"Nurse," Steve mumbles from behind his mask, "are my testicles black?"
Embarrassed, the nurse replies, "I don't know, I'm only here to sponge you."
Steve struggles again to ask, "Nurse, are my testicles black?"
Again the nurse replies, "I can't tell. I'm only here to sponge you."
Then the matron arrives and sees how distraught Steve is getting.
"Matron," Steve mumbles, "are my testicles black?"
Matron whips back Steve's blankets, pulls down his pyjama trousers, moves his penis out of the way, has a good look and announces, "There’s nothing wrong with your testicles."
Steve pulls off his oxygen mask and asks again, "Are my test results back?"
RE: So,here is my ideea
No thanks. How about if we rate the hosts with more than stars? Like "Host is [X] Rude, [X] Time waster, [X] Gold digger, [X] Attractive, [ ] Unattractive, [X] Teaser but no show, etc. Then members would have more to go on than stars as they peruse the pages of "Who's Online"
RE: So,here is my ideea
I'd be up for it :P
However, I suspect there are some members, that would take the fact that they were at the top of the rude list as a badge of honour.
However, I suspect there are some members, that would take the fact that they were at the top of the rude list as a badge of honour.
RE: So,here is my ideea
How many people would continue spending their money at a business that publicly rates them?. "Attention Shoppers - Mrs. Smith was rude to the butcher day so she only gets one star. Epic fail Mrs. Smith.:
RE: So,here is my ideea
Do you mean you dont have that kind of ratings in Chathost Only Forum?
RE: but u like new,exciting things and free sesions?
lol
why don`t you go one step further?The rudest member must pay a 3 hour-session to the topmember of the month LMAO
why don`t you go one step further?The rudest member must pay a 3 hour-session to the topmember of the month LMAO
RE: but u like new,exciting things and free sesions?
You have to pay to vote like we members do. Cash talks and bullshit walks!
RE: So,here is my ideea
seems you forget one key factor...we pay YOU. you dont pay us. car dealerships, retail stores, walmart...doesn't rate the buyer...they are happy to have the business.
RE: So,here is my ideea
The biggest fault in this system as a behavioural correction device is that its success depends on me giving a crap what people here think.
I say do it.
I say do it.
RE: So,here is my ideea
some of us want to stay anonymous and wouldnt participate or even care about it....
what's the story
a couple of times lately I have gone to host's page and seen that 1 2 1 is not available, which I thought meant she already has someone in open session. but when i enter, she is not in the room or away from her desk, but comes right away when she hears someone enter.
so is she disabling the 1 2 1 feature? is is possible to do? or does she have a member so wrapped up that he will stay in open all day while she does whatever while he continues to pay her? just curious.
so is she disabling the 1 2 1 feature? is is possible to do? or does she have a member so wrapped up that he will stay in open all day while she does whatever while he continues to pay her? just curious.
RE: what's the story
Why does a member always come up with the worst case scenerio? Sheeesh. I don't know what would bring up a message like that but maybe it is a technical problem and she is not aware of it even. Why not when in doubt ask the host?
RE: what's the story
I've also seen that and seen more and more hosts using password protected sessions. I don't think they know that every business needs new business. Their regular viewers can't carry the whole load.
RE: what's the story
My question would be why would they want their room to say unavailable for 121? All I know is one night after no one came into
video for over an hour (which is very unusual) finally one of my regulars came into chat and asked me why they couldn't come into my 121 and I had no clue what was going on. That is why I say that maybe they are not aware that it says that.
About the password protected....I use that sometimes when my regulars can not get into see me because others are taking me into video constant and so I set up a time to meet them and make it password protected so that they can not get frustrated with trying to come in. I don't know that any of the girls use it all the time. It's kinda like being given the VIP treatment if you've been a loyal customer. I think all the girls welcome new visitors...but I can't speak for them. Hope that gave you more insight and from a hosts perspective.
video for over an hour (which is very unusual) finally one of my regulars came into chat and asked me why they couldn't come into my 121 and I had no clue what was going on. That is why I say that maybe they are not aware that it says that.
About the password protected....I use that sometimes when my regulars can not get into see me because others are taking me into video constant and so I set up a time to meet them and make it password protected so that they can not get frustrated with trying to come in. I don't know that any of the girls use it all the time. It's kinda like being given the VIP treatment if you've been a loyal customer. I think all the girls welcome new visitors...but I can't speak for them. Hope that gave you more insight and from a hosts perspective.
RE: what's the story
It was a technical problem so I had to log out and log back in and
then it was fine. Very strange!
then it was fine. Very strange!
RE: what's the story
It depends on how many regulars they have. It is also important for a business to take care of its existing customers so they are not tempted to go elsewhere.
RE: Mature-Curvefantasy
I been in her pvt a few times. She looks gr8, classy n very good sense of humour.
This place is Fantasy Island
In this world we live by the Golden Rule. He who has the gold rules.
RE: Marmite - hate it or love it
Marmite (pronounced /ˈmɑrmaɪt/ MAR-myet) is the name given to two similar food spreads: the original British version, first produced in the United Kingdom and later South Africa, and a version produced in New Zealand. Marmite is made from yeast extract, a by-product of beer brewing.
The British version of the product is a sticky, dark brown paste with a distinctive, powerful flavour, which is extremely salty and savoury with umami qualities, somewhat comparable to soy sauce. This distinctive taste is reflected in the British company's marketing slogan: "Love it or hate it." It is similar to the Australian Vegemite and Swiss Cenovis.
The distinctive product was originally British (1902), but a version with a different flavour[1] has been manufactured in New Zealand since 1919, and this is the dominant version in New Zealand, Australia and the Pacific Islands.
The image on the front of the British jar shows a "marmite" (French: [maʁmit]), a French term for a large, covered earthenware or metal cooking pot.[2] The British Marmite was originally supplied in earthenware pots, but since the 1920s has been sold in glass jars that approximate the shape of such pots.[3] A thinner version in squeezable plastic jars was introduced in March 2006
The British version of the product is a sticky, dark brown paste with a distinctive, powerful flavour, which is extremely salty and savoury with umami qualities, somewhat comparable to soy sauce. This distinctive taste is reflected in the British company's marketing slogan: "Love it or hate it." It is similar to the Australian Vegemite and Swiss Cenovis.
The distinctive product was originally British (1902), but a version with a different flavour[1] has been manufactured in New Zealand since 1919, and this is the dominant version in New Zealand, Australia and the Pacific Islands.
The image on the front of the British jar shows a "marmite" (French: [maʁmit]), a French term for a large, covered earthenware or metal cooking pot.[2] The British Marmite was originally supplied in earthenware pots, but since the 1920s has been sold in glass jars that approximate the shape of such pots.[3] A thinner version in squeezable plastic jars was introduced in March 2006
RE: Marmite - hate it or love it
"sticky, dark brown paste with a distinctive, powerful flavour" -- sounds like body excrement, except subsitute "flavour" for "odor" LOL
RE: Marmite - hate it or love it
mmmmmm marmite on toast....luv it..unfortunately cant get it in holland :(
so if anyone is feelin generous and wants to send me a jar or 2...feel free :p
so if anyone is feelin generous and wants to send me a jar or 2...feel free :p
RE: Marmite - hate it or love it
It's not too bad if you use a small quantity on toast.
RE: Marmite - hate it or love it
omg your not meant to eat it, it's for re-waterproofing boots
RE: Rich men...
It always makes me laugh when women talk about wanting a rich man to take care of them or pay for things. You say that men only want to fuck or get sex for free, but from the male point of view too often women seem to only care about money and material things and nothing else. I guess I'm getting old and times are changing in the world. I remember a time when the MOST important thing between two people was being in love and committing to each other -- for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, and for richer or for poorer. In other words, you take what you get because you genuinely love the other person, not because of how big their bank account is.
RE: Rich men...
I agree with you, but i think the orginal post is a joke and scathing irony.
Because I really dont think modern women are thinking those ways at all. At least I hope they dont..
Because I really dont think modern women are thinking those ways at all. At least I hope they dont..
RE: Rich men...
wow it seems some girls want to think of themselves as independent yet the only goal is to find a rich man and use him and pretend to love him for cash maybe it is me but is this not prostitution on a higher scale pretend to love and be with a guy not for feeling but $ location whatever
RE: Rich men...
Sad that you think that money will make you happy and also that someone else should provide for you. Where is your heart girl? Why would a man be attracted to a girl without a heart? They aren't stupid
like you think they should be.
Are you from Romania by chance??
like you think they should be.
Are you from Romania by chance??
RE: Rich men...
That is the most stupidest statement I have ever read here... and that says a lot.lol.
RE: Rich men...
Being rich is like being beautiful. You try to avoid people who are interested in you for superficial reasons .
this one host..
I've fallen for this one host i've known almost 2 years now. How unlikely is it that something would happen? It's happened before, right? We're both young (mid 20's) and still in school for our careers, and so far away from each other. We only talk in our privates, which i can't afford often at all, but she still talks to me elsewhere, so there must be something of a chance, right? I'd just hate to blow it by trying something.
RE: this one host..
I'm confused. You said "we only talk in our privates" but then said "she talks to me elsewhere". So which one is it? Do you always have to pay to spend time with her or not? Does she only talk to you when she's online and working or does she make time for you away from work and in her off hours? The answer to those questions will pretty much tell you how she really feels.
RE: this one host..
It really isn't that difficult to understand. It is both..what he's saying is he only talks (not plays) in privates, not that is the only place where they talk. No contradiction. The rest of what you say has some sense.
RE: this one host..
Don't count on it. For many (most) hosts here it's just a game they play to get you back for more privates. If your still paying to see her after two years it's doubtful anything will happen. The ones who are serious will not want you to spend your money in privates (there's other ways to "help", wink) and they'll spend time with you by other means. If she really, really likes you, she'll be chatting with you (and rather be) while she's in a video with a paying customer.
RE: this one host..
"Unlikely" is right. If it's been 2 years and you're still paying just to talk to her, that's probably not a good sign. However it is a sure sign of a host who knows how to flirt just enough to keep a guy interested, so he'll keep coming back and she can get more privates. That might hurt to hear given the feelings you've developed, but you wouldn't be the first guy to fall for a host batting her eyes and pulling the old "I like you, you're not like the other guys, we should talk more" trick.
"Huh" hit the nail on the head. If she's actually interested in you (as a person and not as a wallet) then she'll show it by making the time to chat with you away from work and for free -- the same way that any woman you met in real life would show an interest. So, if your Host is off the clock and she's making an effort to talk to you... to actually spend time and be with you... that's when you'll know she's sincerely interested in you, too.
On the other hand, if a host only finds time to chat or act friendly when she's online and working... when it's completely convenient for her... that's a pretty good sign that she's trying to reel you in like a fish whenever business is slow. Bottom line -- this is an online FANTASY world and it's far too easy to imagine things or get carried away. So keep your head clear and just think about the way that people act in the REAL world when they're REALLY interested in each other. If she's acting like a REAL woman would, then you're golden. But if she's not, then you're just another guest to her. So good luck and I hope it works out for you!
"Huh" hit the nail on the head. If she's actually interested in you (as a person and not as a wallet) then she'll show it by making the time to chat with you away from work and for free -- the same way that any woman you met in real life would show an interest. So, if your Host is off the clock and she's making an effort to talk to you... to actually spend time and be with you... that's when you'll know she's sincerely interested in you, too.
On the other hand, if a host only finds time to chat or act friendly when she's online and working... when it's completely convenient for her... that's a pretty good sign that she's trying to reel you in like a fish whenever business is slow. Bottom line -- this is an online FANTASY world and it's far too easy to imagine things or get carried away. So keep your head clear and just think about the way that people act in the REAL world when they're REALLY interested in each other. If she's acting like a REAL woman would, then you're golden. But if she's not, then you're just another guest to her. So good luck and I hope it works out for you!
RE: this one host..
Every newbie to the cam world should be required to read Freelance writer's post so they don't get taken or let a host rip out their heart. What he wrote is the cold hard truth. Real love and friendship takes effort and work. And it shouldn't come with a price tag attached.
RE: this one host..
Thats right. Everybody should get it at least. Impossible to buy love for some money. It's need much more efforts. Not fair expect love from host if all that you did just push the button and spend some money for seeing her naked. If you pay for a show you get a show...not a heart.
RE: this one host..
agree money cant buy heart. but why so many hosts tell guests they r interest or love them when they dont really mean it? is lyin to make money more importat then hurtin another person? not right to do!
RE: this one host..
Oh, i don't do it. But if other hosts play the game "I love you" probably because members like to hear it from them. Just don't take it seriously...relax and enjoy. :)
RE: this one host..
Then WHY are you still here!!! If he loved you he surely wouldn't want you shaking it for all the perves. He'd take care of your needs until you're together forever.
RE: this one host..
Perhaps he cannot afford to take care of all her needs. And maybe he also respects her wish to support herself and be as independent as possible. Just because he accepts her working here does not mean he does not love her.
RE: this one host..
It could work out. My graduate school was loaded with girls from all over including Russia and a few met, fell in love with and married American men. Of course it was a bit easier when the girl came here. The guy was able to date her, get to know her and fall in love with her. When the girl is in Russia and you are in the USA you better have the time and money to pursue a romance. You would need to go there and she would need to come here. That last part requires a visa. More time more money. It can be a difficult process to develop a relationship with a foreign girl. Then you throw in the CC factor. Is she taking you for a ride or is she actually interested in a relationship? Is she willing to leave her friends and family and live here? Can she adapt to our culture? Again only time and money can speed the process along.
not being paid by epassporte
I was wondering if other people are having trouble getting their money out /from epassporte. If so and you have gotten your money, please tell me how I can get mine
Thank you for your help
Thank you for your help
Thanking Members :)
I had an awesome day here today like usual. All the men that came into my video and chat were very sweet, charming and polite. It was a fun day with some return members and new ones too. Everyone left pleased and it was a lot of fun. Thanks Guys :)
You got heels?
Member comes into text : 'You got heels?'
Host : 'Yes I do'
Member immediately enters video (yes, very nice, no mucking about here, very good)
Host shows member black leather boots that she is wearing.
Member says nothing and immediately leaves.
Hosts conclusion : Member must have wanted stilletos or some other sort of footwear.
Hosts Gripe : Why just leave suddenly? Firstly, very rude. This sort of behaviour is what can sometimes put hosts in a somewhat miffed mood. Secondly, SPEAK UP! If you have a certain something that you really love to see why not ASK FOR IT? Is this so complicated? I actually have quite a selection of footwear, really, hard to believe but I do.
Final Thoughts : If you don't say anything I don't know exactly what you want.
And for all you that will inevitably put in your 2 cents that maybe he didn't like you, or your room, or whatever, yes, duly noted and considered.
Host : 'Yes I do'
Member immediately enters video (yes, very nice, no mucking about here, very good)
Host shows member black leather boots that she is wearing.
Member says nothing and immediately leaves.
Hosts conclusion : Member must have wanted stilletos or some other sort of footwear.
Hosts Gripe : Why just leave suddenly? Firstly, very rude. This sort of behaviour is what can sometimes put hosts in a somewhat miffed mood. Secondly, SPEAK UP! If you have a certain something that you really love to see why not ASK FOR IT? Is this so complicated? I actually have quite a selection of footwear, really, hard to believe but I do.
Final Thoughts : If you don't say anything I don't know exactly what you want.
And for all you that will inevitably put in your 2 cents that maybe he didn't like you, or your room, or whatever, yes, duly noted and considered.
RE: You got heels?
I hear you! At least you didn't change into a specific outfit which took heels and nylons while you have 5 other guests in chat waiting for their turn to come into video and when he comes in he tells you how beautiful you look and thanks you and stays 3 minutes!!!! I'm not changing outfits anymore unless they want to sit in my 121 while I change :)) Or I am open for any suggestions to include don't bother :)
RE: You got heels?
I have to admit that I would start off asking "Do you had any ......" before getting more specific. Although it may seem like it, saying any in a question like that doesn't always mean that you are happy to take any of the particular item. So saying "Do you have any heels?" is really the same as asking "Do you have heels?"
Also if I try your way I could say
Do you have red stockings? Answer - No
Do you have green stockings ? Answer No
Do you have and so on
Also if I try your way I could say
Do you have red stockings? Answer - No
Do you have green stockings ? Answer No
Do you have and so on
RE: You got heels?
All I ever ask for is nudity and then get blocked for asking. What's up what that?
RE: You got heels?
Im not agree with you dear. Sometimes it takes more then 1-2 minutes for text chat, all depends on what is conversation about :) If a guy asks something like 'tell me what will you do for me how will you dance how will you strip' etc he will be ignored for sure :) For all other situations - why not to chat? If you are busy you always can explain that, and if guy wants to continue conversation he will join your video :) Im not a customer, but if I would be the one, I would never visited a model who says me something like 'videochat or bye'
Just my point. kisses
Just my point. kisses
RE: You got heels?
))))) Some viewers are slow, thats right, but nobody ask you to wait for their answers, you can chat to another guys at the same time )) and you wont feel your time is wasted then )) And what for me, I NEVER tell what exactly I do in show. If guy wants something special - he will get it (if his ask is ok with my show style for sure)) if he wants 'just anything' - he will get 'just anything'
But I will repeat, it is just my point, and my style of work. But we all are different ))) kisses
But I will repeat, it is just my point, and my style of work. But we all are different ))) kisses
RE: You got heels?
LOL!! Quite astute of you Sean, originally from the UK, now in Canada. And Souldancer, I hear you. I for one do like to find out what someone likes, wants, is 'into' in text chat, but there needs to be a limit. It certainly does not take ten minutes to let a host know what you are looking for and for her in return to let you know whether or not she can oblige. The majority of My guests are not text abusers, but it only takes a few every day to turn your mood.
RE: host country
I don't understand why members leave when you tell them you are from Romania. I do like to know the host's country because it gives us something to talk about. I have travelled all over the World and have visited most countries where hosts ae from.
RE: host country
I love girls from Romania, from Russia, from the moon. Wherever they come from, I love girls.
RE: host country
I think you have been smoking some low grade reefer. Yes, I have had bad experiences with hosts from Romania. Had bad experiences with Russian hosts, too; and hosts from Ukraine and Lithuania, and Bella Ruse, and Germany, and even from Africa. I don't rate them either way, though. I don't really like using the rating system. But, moreover, I have had some magnificent experiences with hosts from the same countries. As a previous poster wrote, and I paraphrase, it is a nice starting place for conversation. Don't let the irate and idiot viewers get you down. There are more good ones than bad ones. Keep your chin up and have fun. But, be nice no matter what.
RE: host country
What was the point about low grade reefer? The host has a legitimate complaint.
RE: host country
Happens to me sometimes. I live in UK, I have dual nationality and British passport yet I was born abroad, have accent and to be honest I don't really want to loose it and start speaking like a Bristolian. I state on my profile I was born abroad but I guess many guys don't bother reading profiles.
Someone will jump in video, say he's got sound, ask me to speak ..and when I say "hi, how are you, where are you from?" they'd call me a bloody eastern European liar and leave.
Maybe I should start with "oroit my luverrrrr" LOL
Someone will jump in video, say he's got sound, ask me to speak ..and when I say "hi, how are you, where are you from?" they'd call me a bloody eastern European liar and leave.
Maybe I should start with "oroit my luverrrrr" LOL
RE: host country
<<Maybe I should start with "oroit my luverrrrr">
Love your sense of humour. But what a scary thought, a naked woman speaking with the voice of Justin Lee Collins!
Love your sense of humour. But what a scary thought, a naked woman speaking with the voice of Justin Lee Collins!
RE: host country
Would be even scarier if she speaks like Alan Carr :)
I've seen JLC here in Brizzle a few times in town and said hi, he was very polite!
... If it's not on the profile, then i'm sure I put it in the show description thingy that stays next to picture, even more visible there but will put in profile now too.
I've seen JLC here in Brizzle a few times in town and said hi, he was very polite!
... If it's not on the profile, then i'm sure I put it in the show description thingy that stays next to picture, even more visible there but will put in profile now too.
RE: host country
If some guys are leaving your chat JUST because of your country, here are my 2 guesses why that's happening. The first is pretty obvious. Guys like that are probably just looking for hosts who live in a nearby country, because they're hoping to meet the host. So, they want to know where you live, so they can figure out how far they'd have to travel… and how much it would cost… to eventually have some REAL face-to-face sexy fun.
So if the Guest lives in UK and the Host is in France, he might be interested in paying for some shows, to chat her up. Because she lives in a country that's close, the guest starts to believe that IF he plays his cards right, he has a good shot at wooing her and meeting her. On the other hand, if he's in Canada and she's in Romania, he also might think: "That's too far away. I'll never get a hook up, so I should move on and check out some other hosts."
My second thought is pretty obvious too. I bet some guys want to know "where" a host is from simply because they keep a list of countries or cities (for example, where a Host's studio might be) that they DON'T want to deal with anymore. That's because they've had BAD experiences with OTHER hosts from the same place.
Personally, I don't think that's fair. I think every host should be judged by her own actions. On the other hand, that's also a natural human reaction when someone's been burned or they're nursing a hurt ego. So, basically, instead of taking his anger out on the ONE host who actually hurt him, a guest will start to take it out on EVERY girl from the same country thinking they're ALL equally bad or guilty.
So if the Guest lives in UK and the Host is in France, he might be interested in paying for some shows, to chat her up. Because she lives in a country that's close, the guest starts to believe that IF he plays his cards right, he has a good shot at wooing her and meeting her. On the other hand, if he's in Canada and she's in Romania, he also might think: "That's too far away. I'll never get a hook up, so I should move on and check out some other hosts."
My second thought is pretty obvious too. I bet some guys want to know "where" a host is from simply because they keep a list of countries or cities (for example, where a Host's studio might be) that they DON'T want to deal with anymore. That's because they've had BAD experiences with OTHER hosts from the same place.
Personally, I don't think that's fair. I think every host should be judged by her own actions. On the other hand, that's also a natural human reaction when someone's been burned or they're nursing a hurt ego. So, basically, instead of taking his anger out on the ONE host who actually hurt him, a guest will start to take it out on EVERY girl from the same country thinking they're ALL equally bad or guilty.
RE: host country
Your reasoning in the first case doesn't work. If the member is in UK or Western Europe it is as cheap to travel to Romania as it is to any other country that isn't in driving range. If you take into account hotel costs a trip to Romania wold probably work out cheaper.
RE: host country
Even if you live in Europe (I'm in the UK) the ability to travel will still vary from person to person based on their finances. In terms of country to country travel, some men can afford a plane ticket and hotel, so they can travel a longer distance. Other men can only afford to drive and would need a place to stay once they got there. So they are limited to a shorter distance. Either way, the point that Freelance was making is still true. Some guests pick and choose hosts based on their location because they're secretly hoping to meet and bang them one day.
RE: host country
The costs of using a ferry or using the shuttle mean it is often cheaper to fly from UK to Romania than to go to France by car.
RE: host country
I think its not about the country, maybe it is because you think like this:
"u ask for adult acts in non adult cat,glam. it is just absurd"
It is absurd to believe that glam is not adult category, it is the category where members come ask and beg for adult act because it is category where host is allowed to adult action. If you get pissed of when member ask you for adult action, then maybe thats the real reason they leave, not your country lol
"u ask for adult acts in non adult cat,glam. it is just absurd"
It is absurd to believe that glam is not adult category, it is the category where members come ask and beg for adult act because it is category where host is allowed to adult action. If you get pissed of when member ask you for adult action, then maybe thats the real reason they leave, not your country lol
RE: host country
maybe you should quit making assumptions that have nothing to do with the complaint?
RE: host country
She threw that into her complaints too. Seems like a few things bothering her and so it is easy to assume that could have also been a problem. Re read it.
RE: host country
she offered them as separate complaints. but you (if you are spacedust) combined them together to discount her legitimate complaints and cast an aspersion on her, making her to blame for what are obviously member faults.
RE: host country
i've been a member on this site off and on since 2001, and on a number of other sites. I've developed several open and honest relationships with hosts whom I've gotten to know online over the years, and I was even a host on another site for a brief time. I can say unequivocally that some members do indeed leave for just the very reasons "pissed host" complained about. Some members, for whatever reason, have something against Romanian hosts and Russian hosts.
RE: host country
Ok lets assume member really leave because of country.. so what?
If he was looking for USA or UK host, and leave after he hear that this "pissed host" is from Romania, what there is to complain and why feel pissed?
And if this pissed host really have been trying to lie that she is from other location than she actually is, so aint it easy to understand why member leave and give bad rating, host can only blame herself for this.
There are lots of members who dont care about what country host is from, i am one of those, so why try to lie about location to members who are looking for girls from some other location? i dont give a damn if host is from Romania or Russia, but if i find out that she try to lie that she is from UK, it will make me pissed of and leave with bad ratings.
If he was looking for USA or UK host, and leave after he hear that this "pissed host" is from Romania, what there is to complain and why feel pissed?
And if this pissed host really have been trying to lie that she is from other location than she actually is, so aint it easy to understand why member leave and give bad rating, host can only blame herself for this.
There are lots of members who dont care about what country host is from, i am one of those, so why try to lie about location to members who are looking for girls from some other location? i dont give a damn if host is from Romania or Russia, but if i find out that she try to lie that she is from UK, it will make me pissed of and leave with bad ratings.
RE: host country
1st, like you, it is not important to me if a host is from one country or another country. Some of my most enjoyable experiences have been with hosts from other countries.
2nd, where did you get the idea she was lying about her location? she never said that, never even implied it.
3rd, there are members who do indeed "have it in for" (as the saying goes) for Romanian and Russian hosts. Not that they are looking for someone from UK or USA, just that they don't like Romanian or Russian, as if that quality alone has made them a bad person in their opinion. Personally, I think Romanian and Russian hosts are among the best and most enjoyable to visit.
2nd, where did you get the idea she was lying about her location? she never said that, never even implied it.
3rd, there are members who do indeed "have it in for" (as the saying goes) for Romanian and Russian hosts. Not that they are looking for someone from UK or USA, just that they don't like Romanian or Russian, as if that quality alone has made them a bad person in their opinion. Personally, I think Romanian and Russian hosts are among the best and most enjoyable to visit.
RE: host country
2.
quote from original post:
"if u want to hear only what u want then expect the people to lye to"
Yes she never said she lie, but if "lye" = lie, i assume she is trying to explain why she did lie about location, thats where i got my idea that she maybe was lying ;-)
quote from original post:
"if u want to hear only what u want then expect the people to lye to"
Yes she never said she lie, but if "lye" = lie, i assume she is trying to explain why she did lie about location, thats where i got my idea that she maybe was lying ;-)
RE: host country
To blow off about the things she is and expect all members to change is a bit much. How do you know that her attitude isn't what the problem really is? I understand you want to be supportive but there are some girls that are just not right for for being in front of a cam dealing with horny men.
RE: host country
I have visited Russian and Romanian hosts more than any other. In the 9+ years I have been visiting here and on other sites, I can honestly say that I have never once been scammed, taken advantage of, or even had a host from Romania or Russia try to do so. There's an old saying, "The squeaky wheel gets the oil," in other words those who have nothing good to say often speak louder and get the most attention. Personally, I think most of the complaints about "scammers" is just a bunch of disgruntled cry-babies who didn't get their way in videochat.
RE: host country
I personally know a couple of those people and I believe them and feel
bad for them because they were definitely scams with the original intention being that.
bad for them because they were definitely scams with the original intention being that.
RE: host country
That may be, I'm just telling my side of it. But scammers are not limited to any one country. I have had several philippine hosts try to scam me. But I don't assume every filipina is out to do so, and I still continue to see philippine hosts. The scammers are the minority, I'm sure. If they were the majority, these sites would soon be out of business.
And I am still firmly convinced that most complainers are just that -- complainers.
And I am still firmly convinced that most complainers are just that -- complainers.
RE: for Frequent Traveler
Is this the same one who is talking bullshit about host xcutesexy in vieweronlyforum?
RE: for Frequent Traveler
I don't know who frequent traveler is, but I know a few of men here that do exactly what he says there. I saw photos and recognized faces on this and other sites. Maybe I know him and maybe he doesn't bite as you said in your post, but the fact is that he speaks what others do ;-)
RE: for Frequent Traveler
I slept with one of my viewers twice last year cause I felt sorry for him. A very nice guy, 15 years older than me, divorced and was dying to have sex. I made nearly 10k from him from videochatting and when we met, he booked nice hotel and paid for the meals and champagne before sex too. It wasn't a good fuck but come on I'd do this again if I get the same money out of it :) Sadly nowadays he got a gf his age in his place and comes to chat only every now and then.
RE: for Frequent Traveler
I would definitely direct my favorite host to this post. Nice Reference on how to treat a good viewer :-P
RE: for Frequent Traveler
Your post was very good until I got to this part: "It wasn't a good fuck but come on I'd do this again if I get the same money out of it ."
RE: for Frequent Traveler
That was the best part! Honest, but still nice. I'm sure the guy was VERY happy and had a great fuck. Me sounds like a great host.
RE: for Frequent Traveler
Well he had no idea what he was doing, especially in the giving oral section. And I usually go for a lot younger, fitter and better looking guys. If it wasn't because he spends so much on videochatting why on earth would I have sex with him.
RE: for Frequent Traveler
I think what you need to read between the lines is the money that made her decide to have sex with him...bottom line.
RE: for Frequent Traveler
well, i found what frequent traveller said shows immaturity, and if old member is correct it must be a great consolation for the hosts here and elsewhere that there are a group of sexual tourists comparing notes on their claimed sexual activities, strange way to get your kicks.
RE: for Frequent Traveler
Whatever he does is his deal. Many girls here are dying to meet men from other countries. We are all adults. Oh pls, dont come with morals now, lmao!
RE: for Frequent Traveler
where can I find Traveller's original post that raised such a controversy? General or Viewer and what date?
RE: for Frequent Traveler
An answer to my post in the Viewer's forum, which was a reply to "that Tver studio." I didn't think it was even worth a reply, the poster is obviously a prick of the first order.
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
men are hunters,thrill of the chase.all that stuff.they mostly covet what is out of reach.on the other hand women are nurturers,they cherish what they have & always think they can make it(him)better :--)
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
If guys love the chase and the hunt then what makes that stopping point when they quit hunting and settle down? Of course some never do!
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
Most of us have that "hunter" instinct and we (99%) would love to have a list of 3,000 women that we conquered (fucked). However, not many (90%) are successful. Some are agressive others have strategies and act cool, but only a few men (10%) have the luck to conquer (fuck) every woman they meet. The rest of us have to re-visit our short list (3 or 4 women) to have a fuck after we were turned down by some 150 women... Sad, but true!
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
their"rifle" can't shoot as far,long or straight.their aim goes,the barrel is socft,they can only shoot blanks.many reasons,but usually it's all to do with a faulty or sub-standard"weapon" :--)
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
Thanks for the info both of you :) So does that mean that any faithful guy needs to be neutered??
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
If you're "taken", why are you still online here? That says it all, and answers your question.
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
earning a living, i would have thought that's obvious
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
Big difference between earning a living when single and when "taken". The latter is full of deceit and disingenuous acting.
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
... and your point is? We are all actresses here! It's all fantasy... of course here I am single, love giving blow jobs, receiving anal and spunk on my face and in reality my husband would never fcuk my a$$ or cum on my face!
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
Your husband, by what you wrote, is definitely cuckold and practically cosseted.
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
I don't have children and I don't want any! Both my husband and I are happy with our sex life and for 2.50 per min here I can say whatever I want :)
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
Reminds me luver not ta visit chya for fear you will bite my ear off for the slightest infraction to your morals.
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
Because she works here and it has nothing to do with being taken or not!
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
Sure it does. A real man would NEVER want his sweetheart to work here! He would give her everything she needs to not have to work here. Is ok for single girls, but married or almost, nope.
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
Married, single, engaged, divorced, in a relationship. I can't see how any of it makes a difference. The only think that matters is how the couple (or individual) feels about it.
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
its not about men, Its both men and WOMEN! I think she knew what she doing but she probably horny and need to get a laid with her ex bf!
RE: why men always come back when ur taken??
Did you smoke something before you wrote this because I don't know that I completely understand the question here. Let me see if I got this straight:
You're an average girl and average in bed but you think you are very good. You have slept with some guys but decided they were not good enough for you but they come back and you fuck them again. Now you have someone in your life and they keep calling to see if you are free to fuck? The best I can say is if you kept fucking them when they came back then you trained them well. Why would you expect anything different unless you say NO FUCK NO MORE!!
You're an average girl and average in bed but you think you are very good. You have slept with some guys but decided they were not good enough for you but they come back and you fuck them again. Now you have someone in your life and they keep calling to see if you are free to fuck? The best I can say is if you kept fucking them when they came back then you trained them well. Why would you expect anything different unless you say NO FUCK NO MORE!!
a paraprosdokian
is a figure of speech in which the latter part of a sentence,or phrase, is surprising or unexpected in a way that causes the reader,or listeber, to reframe or reinterpret the first part
* i asked god for a bike,but i know god doesn't work like that.so i stole a bike & asked for forgiveness(i know this was used earlier this week)
*the last thing i want to do is hurt you,but it's still on the list.
*knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit.wisdom is not putting it in fruit salad.
*how is it 1 careless match,can start a forest fire,but it takes a matchbox to start a campfire?
*a bank is a place that will lend you money,if you can prove that you don't need it.
*you don't need a parachute to skydive.you only need a parachute to skydive twice.
*i always take life with a grain of salt.plus a slice of lemon & a shot of tequila.
*women will never be equal to men,until they can walk down the street with a bald head & a beer gut,& still think they're sexy :--)
* i asked god for a bike,but i know god doesn't work like that.so i stole a bike & asked for forgiveness(i know this was used earlier this week)
*the last thing i want to do is hurt you,but it's still on the list.
*knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit.wisdom is not putting it in fruit salad.
*how is it 1 careless match,can start a forest fire,but it takes a matchbox to start a campfire?
*a bank is a place that will lend you money,if you can prove that you don't need it.
*you don't need a parachute to skydive.you only need a parachute to skydive twice.
*i always take life with a grain of salt.plus a slice of lemon & a shot of tequila.
*women will never be equal to men,until they can walk down the street with a bald head & a beer gut,& still think they're sexy :--)
RE: a paraprosdokian
My Fav: women will never be equal to men,until they can walk down the street with a bald head & a beer gut,& still think they're sexy :--)
RE: a paraprosdokian
I like going to the park and seeing children run and jump around, because you see, they don't know I'm using blanks (Emo Philips)
If all the girls at Vassar were laid end to end, I wouldn't be surprised (Dorothy Parker)
Outside of a dog, a book is a man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read. (Groucho Marx)
If all the girls at Vassar were laid end to end, I wouldn't be surprised (Dorothy Parker)
Outside of a dog, a book is a man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read. (Groucho Marx)
Do you think there should be a non nude category on cc?
That is a category that is not as restrictive as non adult but also does not allow any nudity including topless. A category here a host can strip to underwear/lingerie but no more. A place here she can talk about sexual matters but no engage in them.
RE: Do you think there should be a non nude category on cc?
Isn't that what Make New Friends, and Long Term and Marriage is about? You can talk, but don't touch the merchandise.
RE: Do you think there should be a non nude category on cc?
Yeah, I really don't know what he is getting at here. I think he is looking for something in between glamour and make new friends - why? I have no idea.
RE: Do you think there should be a non nude category on cc?
Actually I would love a category like that! Many guys would still want to see how far they could go undressing the host because that is their challenge and when they don't win then they come to forum and complain. Some just don't get it and I enjoy the guys that do and know that naked skin is not just what is sexy about a girl or a lady. Please tell how you came up with that category :)
RE: Do you think there should be a non nude category on cc?
Would love to know more can you give me your email add here?
RE: Do you think there should be a non nude category on cc?
I want a burka catagory. Where you beg them to please show your wrist, or maybe yr eyes in private. And they tell you all about the hot lingerie they are wearing underneath.