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They're coming out of the woodwork....
It's contest time, and the smell of money is in the air. Should we all make a list of hosts that are appearing out of nowhere after being gone for a long time, lol?
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
Where in my post do I indicate any sense of surprise? The surprising thing would be if they didn't come running back at contest time. And yes, it is most likely because of contest time. Does that surprise me? Of course not. I just find it amusing.
The only thing that I don't like about the situation is that while I respect that this is your job, running back here at contest time reinforces that it is all about the money for many hosts. Is there anything wrong with that? No, except for one thing: those same hosts often try to act like it is NOT about the money.
I suppose that act is all part of the job too, but when it is so obvious that it is all about the money, it is a turn off for me. I rather spend my money and at least imagine, even if it isn't true, that I am not just a cash machine to most hosts. I try to look at them as people and not objects even if they are giving a show and treat them nicely so it would be nice to feel like I am a person instead of a just a credit card. When they come running back at contest time, it reminds me that I am not, however. It is okay, though.... That sense that I and other members have that we are just a credit cards often keeps our credit card balances a lot lower.
Not so amusing any more for you, is it?
The only thing that I don't like about the situation is that while I respect that this is your job, running back here at contest time reinforces that it is all about the money for many hosts. Is there anything wrong with that? No, except for one thing: those same hosts often try to act like it is NOT about the money.
I suppose that act is all part of the job too, but when it is so obvious that it is all about the money, it is a turn off for me. I rather spend my money and at least imagine, even if it isn't true, that I am not just a cash machine to most hosts. I try to look at them as people and not objects even if they are giving a show and treat them nicely so it would be nice to feel like I am a person instead of a just a credit card. When they come running back at contest time, it reminds me that I am not, however. It is okay, though.... That sense that I and other members have that we are just a credit cards often keeps our credit card balances a lot lower.
Not so amusing any more for you, is it?
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
Cam girls here and every other site are all about the money. Period! Case closed!
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
Agree....as much as hosts like to play at really enjoying working here meeting members, chatting, getting sexy and "having fun"...not a single host would remain if they didn't make any money. This is solely a business. They supply. We demand. They get the money. We get some level of satisfaction.
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
I can't ever see a young, attractive, sexy young woman spending one minute here if she was not getting paid. There are just too many other things competing for their time to sit in front of a computer screen waiting to meet middle aged horny men. I grant you a few might maintain friendships with members as some do today. But I just can't see anyone coming here and chatting and stripping for nothing. For one thing the site would collapse from the thousands of morons who would flock here for free nudity. And without nudity...well we all know the answer to that one.
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
Just goes to show you how much you know about hosts and members here....lol
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
I actually disagree with you. If this was a free site, I think you would be very surprised to see the girls that would come here just for the attention. The profiles that read...I like for all your attention to be on me, I like to be admired, I like to show you my beautiful body, I like to complimented and adored, etc. If you met any of them in person you'd know that they are serious and they need constant attention ....no doubt they would be here anyway.
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
I thought your post was just as valuable as any post here and yes it is pretty obvious that "greediness" is what brings some hosts back during contests and yet they are too good to work here the rest of the year. To go out of their way to make clear that it's not all about the money is an obvious insult to anyone's intelligence and yet they must be successful with it. It is hardly fair to other hosts that are dedicated to CC year round and through the tough times too. Unfortunately the contest times are the worst times for them because their regulars will take the opportunity to visit with the money chasers. I commend you for speaking up and making others aware of the lack of sincerity that comes with the special appearances of some hosts during contests.
I also see it as totally unnecessary for some hosts to attack every post that a member makes here lately. They also make comments that represent "all" hosts as being cold hearted money grubbing and insincere that can't stand members and don't enjoy what they are doing. Always the posts are anonymous and very sarcastic so it is pretty easy to assume that they are not successful hosts and resent their competition for actually having fun working here and also doing well. Sad for them that they can't see that change your attitude and it would change their income.
I also see it as totally unnecessary for some hosts to attack every post that a member makes here lately. They also make comments that represent "all" hosts as being cold hearted money grubbing and insincere that can't stand members and don't enjoy what they are doing. Always the posts are anonymous and very sarcastic so it is pretty easy to assume that they are not successful hosts and resent their competition for actually having fun working here and also doing well. Sad for them that they can't see that change your attitude and it would change their income.
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
Let me be a bit more clear, at the risk of being redundant and boring, lol.
The problem with hosts' running back at contest time is that it is an in your face way to say to members that members are nothing but cash machines to hosts. It is too strong of a reminder in some members' view that we mean absolutely nothing to hosts as people.
Some of us members enjoy CC because we get to know hosts better and develop a bit of a personal relationship with them that doesn't happen on other sites. If you look at my post about the new price limits, you will see that I posted that my concern is that CC will lose that trait since it will begin to cost too much to spend a lot of time just chatting. The site will move towards more of just a true porn site where members are nothing but cash machines to hosts and hosts are nothing but objects to members. I know that this is often the case already, but the price increase could make this worse.
It is from that perspective that I am coming. Actions by hosts, be it posts, be it personal interaction with them, or be it running back at contest time are very strong reminders that members mean absolutely nothing to them as people. I don't know about other members, but every time I get the message that I mean nothing to hosts as a person, I spend less money. I avoid contests, and I spend less time chatting in video. I might even avoid sites altogether for extended periods of time.
I'm not naive. I know that no matter how friendly a host may be that she probably won't end up as my best friend or my wife. But it is about feeling that a host respects me as a person. Hosts don't want members to treat them as sexual objects. They want to be respected as people. It is why they want members to at least say "Hi. How are you?" before "Let me see you naked baby." even if it is instant action. Well, I feel the same way, and so do some other members. We want to be looked at as people, not cash machines. And when a host comes running back at contest time, et cetera, it is a strong reminder that we are not people. The result: this cash machine chooses to stop working.
I don't think a lot hosts get my point at all. They don't get why a lot of members come to CC as opposed to other sites. It is a shame since if they did, this cash machine would dispense more money. And the best part is that a host can be sincere in her feelings and treat members with respect even though it is her job. She can truly like members as people and enjoy what she is doing. A lot of hosts are just like this even if they strip a lot. But some hosts out there make it painfully obvious that they look at guys as a bunch of low-life wankers with money and that they have no respect for them. Nobody likes to feel that way any more than a host would want to feel like she is a cam whore just because she strips.
It is about feeling that we respect each other as people. Even if it is about sex on a site like this, what is wrong with that? The point of my post was that when the hosts come running back at contest time that it sends a message to members that they don't respect us in my opinion. It becomes all too clear that we are nothing but bags of money to these hosts, and it ruins the atmosphere on CC which makes me at least spend less money with other hosts. Even if I am just a cash machine to you, at least don't keep reminding me of it.
Think what you want about me and my posts. All I know is that hosts' attitudes, be them reflected in their posts, their interaction with members or by their actions such as running back at contest time set a tone around here, and it is a tone that many of us don't like. And like I said, that tone can make your favorite cash machine cease from operating any more.
And if history is any guide, the posts that we will soon see during the contest will just make this worse.
The problem with hosts' running back at contest time is that it is an in your face way to say to members that members are nothing but cash machines to hosts. It is too strong of a reminder in some members' view that we mean absolutely nothing to hosts as people.
Some of us members enjoy CC because we get to know hosts better and develop a bit of a personal relationship with them that doesn't happen on other sites. If you look at my post about the new price limits, you will see that I posted that my concern is that CC will lose that trait since it will begin to cost too much to spend a lot of time just chatting. The site will move towards more of just a true porn site where members are nothing but cash machines to hosts and hosts are nothing but objects to members. I know that this is often the case already, but the price increase could make this worse.
It is from that perspective that I am coming. Actions by hosts, be it posts, be it personal interaction with them, or be it running back at contest time are very strong reminders that members mean absolutely nothing to them as people. I don't know about other members, but every time I get the message that I mean nothing to hosts as a person, I spend less money. I avoid contests, and I spend less time chatting in video. I might even avoid sites altogether for extended periods of time.
I'm not naive. I know that no matter how friendly a host may be that she probably won't end up as my best friend or my wife. But it is about feeling that a host respects me as a person. Hosts don't want members to treat them as sexual objects. They want to be respected as people. It is why they want members to at least say "Hi. How are you?" before "Let me see you naked baby." even if it is instant action. Well, I feel the same way, and so do some other members. We want to be looked at as people, not cash machines. And when a host comes running back at contest time, et cetera, it is a strong reminder that we are not people. The result: this cash machine chooses to stop working.
I don't think a lot hosts get my point at all. They don't get why a lot of members come to CC as opposed to other sites. It is a shame since if they did, this cash machine would dispense more money. And the best part is that a host can be sincere in her feelings and treat members with respect even though it is her job. She can truly like members as people and enjoy what she is doing. A lot of hosts are just like this even if they strip a lot. But some hosts out there make it painfully obvious that they look at guys as a bunch of low-life wankers with money and that they have no respect for them. Nobody likes to feel that way any more than a host would want to feel like she is a cam whore just because she strips.
It is about feeling that we respect each other as people. Even if it is about sex on a site like this, what is wrong with that? The point of my post was that when the hosts come running back at contest time that it sends a message to members that they don't respect us in my opinion. It becomes all too clear that we are nothing but bags of money to these hosts, and it ruins the atmosphere on CC which makes me at least spend less money with other hosts. Even if I am just a cash machine to you, at least don't keep reminding me of it.
Think what you want about me and my posts. All I know is that hosts' attitudes, be them reflected in their posts, their interaction with members or by their actions such as running back at contest time set a tone around here, and it is a tone that many of us don't like. And like I said, that tone can make your favorite cash machine cease from operating any more.
And if history is any guide, the posts that we will soon see during the contest will just make this worse.
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
Being neither a trainspotter nor a stalker, not keeping a daily mental inventory of who is online or offline, not following the crowd or taking a morning and evening roll-call of which hosts are present; I have absolutely no idea which hosts only come back at contest times, and absolutely no wish to find out either.
RE: They\'re coming out of the woodwork....
You don't need to do anything other than notice who is online when you are going through the host lists like you usually do when choosing who to chat with. If you are here often enough and long enough, you will see patterns emerge.
As a bit of a disclaimer, some of my "intel", lol comes from reading the host forum too. I know hosts hate this but they read our forum so fair is fair. If members saw some of the posts there, they would understand my feelings a lot better if they don't agree already.
As a bit of a disclaimer, some of my "intel", lol comes from reading the host forum too. I know hosts hate this but they read our forum so fair is fair. If members saw some of the posts there, they would understand my feelings a lot better if they don't agree already.
RE: They\'re coming out of the woodwork....
Well, unless you have actually hosted here, getting a host account just so you can read their forum, strikes me as being unhealthily obsessive.
RE: They\'re coming out of the woodwork....
I have no idea why a member's reading the chathost forum is obsessive any more than a host's reading the member forum would be obsessive. Each provide potentially useful information. And since it is so easy to get a host account, the fact that a member needs to have such an account to read the chathost forum is indicative of nothing.
Just for the record, the original reason that I ever got interested in the chathost forum was that chathosts started telling me what was said there. I then could see that occasionally the chathost forum could reflect what some hosts' true feelings about members and CC was and maybe give me some other useful information.... you know, the type like when a host says to me that she is single and then you see she talks about her husband in the host forum, lol.
And I only got a host account so that I could help a chathost out with something. I will leave it at that. I already knew what was in the forums, et cetera since hosts would tell me, usually because they didn't like something that another host said as opposed to my asking what was said.
Further, having a host account is very useful in terms of understanding the rules and the other workings of CC. It has helped me a lot when dealing with hosts that choose to break the rules.
I am far from the only member with a host account. And given the amount of time and money I have spent here, I think understanding things from the host side has been important. If anything, I have an obsession with CC, not with the host forum, lol. I don't even check it that often. But ironically, the cure for any obsession is to read the forums, be them the general, host or member ones. Why? It reminds me that things here are not as warm and fuzzy as I sometimes would like to believe which in turn keeps me from spending as much.,,, just like I've talked about in this thread.
Just for the record, the original reason that I ever got interested in the chathost forum was that chathosts started telling me what was said there. I then could see that occasionally the chathost forum could reflect what some hosts' true feelings about members and CC was and maybe give me some other useful information.... you know, the type like when a host says to me that she is single and then you see she talks about her husband in the host forum, lol.
And I only got a host account so that I could help a chathost out with something. I will leave it at that. I already knew what was in the forums, et cetera since hosts would tell me, usually because they didn't like something that another host said as opposed to my asking what was said.
Further, having a host account is very useful in terms of understanding the rules and the other workings of CC. It has helped me a lot when dealing with hosts that choose to break the rules.
I am far from the only member with a host account. And given the amount of time and money I have spent here, I think understanding things from the host side has been important. If anything, I have an obsession with CC, not with the host forum, lol. I don't even check it that often. But ironically, the cure for any obsession is to read the forums, be them the general, host or member ones. Why? It reminds me that things here are not as warm and fuzzy as I sometimes would like to believe which in turn keeps me from spending as much.,,, just like I've talked about in this thread.
RE: They\'re coming out of the woodwork....
How can you identify the hosts that are "not so fuzzy" in chathost forum and are more like "show me the money"?
What I resent is when a member like you comes back and uses the conversations that hosts have regarding business and use it against them in general forum. That is none of your concern and it's like saying that you should be entitled to see what any company says behind clothes doors regarding how they run their business. You are still the consumer and you have the option of doing business with any host you choose but you should not be part of the honest coaching from other hosts when she is seeking advice.
Do you also invite yourself to CC's business meetings too?
What I resent is when a member like you comes back and uses the conversations that hosts have regarding business and use it against them in general forum. That is none of your concern and it's like saying that you should be entitled to see what any company says behind clothes doors regarding how they run their business. You are still the consumer and you have the option of doing business with any host you choose but you should not be part of the honest coaching from other hosts when she is seeking advice.
Do you also invite yourself to CC's business meetings too?
RE: They\'re coming out of the woodwork....
I am surprised that more members do not get a host account to read the chathost forum....I know there are hosts that have a member account in order to respond to posts in viewer forum...
I am glad to see that at least one member has a chathost acct...
I am glad to see that at least one member has a chathost acct...
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
That buidling relationships and friendships "doesn't happen on other site"... how do you figure that? Friendships can be formed anywhere where people interact, including CC and other sites like it.
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
"Some of us members enjoy CC because we get to know hosts better and develop a bit of a personal relationship with them IN A WAY that doesn't USUALLY happen IN MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE AND FROM WHAT HOSTS TELLS ME on other sites."
Grrrrrrr. I obviously don't mean never, ever. I just mean that it is a lot more likely here from what I have experienced and from what I hear from hosts as compared to other sites,
Just think about how some people debate if CC is a porn site, fantasy site, dating site, et cetera. Even if they had forums on other sites, I don't think there would be much of a debate about what most of them would be described as, namely, a porn site.
Buy yes, you can develop friendships, et cetera on other sites, and I have done that. It just seems that CC's atmosphere promotes that more. And with lower prices, that atmosphere can keep a guy in video a lot longer since he might not only be thinking about sex since his credit card isn't being drained quite as fast.
I just see certain things such as, let us call them contest whores, lol, taking away from that. And I don't think that the new price limits are going to help any. I know it is a job for hosts. I just don't think that they should remind members of that fact with their actions, their posts, et cetera. It is bad for business and detracts from one of the reasons some of us are here, namely to meet nice people that we can talk to and not just play with. After all, the pic gets me in a room the first time I see a host, but her attitude towards me, not just how she looks, is a major factor if I will return. If I already feel like I am on a site with hosts that have what I feel is the wrong attitude, I won't want to enter anyone's room to begin with.
Members that think it is just a porn site might not care. Maybe these are the "rude" members hosts complain about. The rest of us look at hosts as people and just want the same in return. I would think that if this was not true, instead of telling us to go to "instant action" when we want a show, most hosts would already be there waiting for us, lol.
Grrrrrrr. I obviously don't mean never, ever. I just mean that it is a lot more likely here from what I have experienced and from what I hear from hosts as compared to other sites,
Just think about how some people debate if CC is a porn site, fantasy site, dating site, et cetera. Even if they had forums on other sites, I don't think there would be much of a debate about what most of them would be described as, namely, a porn site.
Buy yes, you can develop friendships, et cetera on other sites, and I have done that. It just seems that CC's atmosphere promotes that more. And with lower prices, that atmosphere can keep a guy in video a lot longer since he might not only be thinking about sex since his credit card isn't being drained quite as fast.
I just see certain things such as, let us call them contest whores, lol, taking away from that. And I don't think that the new price limits are going to help any. I know it is a job for hosts. I just don't think that they should remind members of that fact with their actions, their posts, et cetera. It is bad for business and detracts from one of the reasons some of us are here, namely to meet nice people that we can talk to and not just play with. After all, the pic gets me in a room the first time I see a host, but her attitude towards me, not just how she looks, is a major factor if I will return. If I already feel like I am on a site with hosts that have what I feel is the wrong attitude, I won't want to enter anyone's room to begin with.
Members that think it is just a porn site might not care. Maybe these are the "rude" members hosts complain about. The rest of us look at hosts as people and just want the same in return. I would think that if this was not true, instead of telling us to go to "instant action" when we want a show, most hosts would already be there waiting for us, lol.
RE: They're coming out of the woodwork....
What always amazes me is that members fall for it and go flocking back to these hosts. There are hundreds of hard working, respectful hosts on this site, why don't we all give them the business as a reward for not doing this?
You don't need to tell me more about it ;)
You don't need to tell me more about it ;)
Softcore hosts complain about everything
I have read countless posts and countless profiles from softcore hosts complaining about viewers barking orders, being rude, demanding IA show in softcore. Ok fine they are justified to complain about that. But it happens to me when I go in and chat and make no demands, acknowledge the rules of the category and behave politely some hosts still complain why I want to talk. This makes absolutely no sense at all. Some hosts complain just to complain.
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
It seems like viewers complain more often than softcore hosts last days!!
lol
lol
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
Read the post again. There is no issue with hosts complaining about viewers barking orders and wanting fast show. But some hosts are not even happy when Is viewer is polite and talks in paid video.
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
"there are lots of good hosts that are here to have fun with you in conversation or play :)"
I agree. But there are some hosts, as I said that complain whatever I do, whether I ask for naked show or just talk. They complain about show and talk.
I agree. But there are some hosts, as I said that complain whatever I do, whether I ask for naked show or just talk. They complain about show and talk.
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
Yes you are correct. I was upset when I posted and should have said "some" and not given the impression all do. But I was upset with one host in particular after I did everything right. But I've never been one to post in Viewer Forum about any host good or bad due to all the bullshit one gets hurled at them for posting such things there.
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
I never complained about talking! :)) And u do make a point not to post about her.Some men shoudl learn from u.Have a nice evening!
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
Sorry that you experienced that......don't accuse all hosts when it is one in particular that is so messed up, please! Rate her low and don't get hung up on her and move on....there are so many that aren't here to play stupid games.
Also for kittyglamour ....well obviously when some speak up about a particular host there is a problem. Think you could take it in a constructive way.
Also for kittyglamour ....well obviously when some speak up about a particular host there is a problem. Think you could take it in a constructive way.
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
Substitute the word 'people' for hosts and it will still be true. And guess what, you're proving it cos you're one of them
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
Most Men want to Run Run Run from a NAGGING Women
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
Most Men want to Run Run Run from a NAGGING Women"
You got that right!
You got that right!
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
With the amount of posts complaining about hosts that play these ridiculous games...they still seem to be busy ...
It is not really fair to jump on him and assume that it is his fault or something he did wrong...there are so many posts about members getting frustrated with some of the hosts they have encountered...
He admits he was angry when he posted...but many of us have
written in anger and frustration...both members and hosts......
maybe he did not write her name because maybe there is more than one host he has encountered this with..lets face it there are hosts on here that do the things that are complained about...stalling, bad attitude, being rude, and other things that upset a member, we see that when some hosts post or respond to posts here...
Even us hosts complain in posts about something a member or a few members have done...
the point is ...he has a right to post..just like we all do...it is not always a good thing to do in anger...but then when posted we get to soak up the warmth and compassion that everyone shows in their responses....loool.......
I think he knows that not all hosts are that way...just like we all know that not all members are rude with bad attitudes and demanding ways...... :)
Sorry you had to encounter that crap "throws hands up" Chin up you will find one that will kick you on your ass and make you smile.... lol
It is not really fair to jump on him and assume that it is his fault or something he did wrong...there are so many posts about members getting frustrated with some of the hosts they have encountered...
He admits he was angry when he posted...but many of us have
written in anger and frustration...both members and hosts......
maybe he did not write her name because maybe there is more than one host he has encountered this with..lets face it there are hosts on here that do the things that are complained about...stalling, bad attitude, being rude, and other things that upset a member, we see that when some hosts post or respond to posts here...
Even us hosts complain in posts about something a member or a few members have done...
the point is ...he has a right to post..just like we all do...it is not always a good thing to do in anger...but then when posted we get to soak up the warmth and compassion that everyone shows in their responses....loool.......
I think he knows that not all hosts are that way...just like we all know that not all members are rude with bad attitudes and demanding ways...... :)
Sorry you had to encounter that crap "throws hands up" Chin up you will find one that will kick you on your ass and make you smile.... lol
RE: Softcore hosts complain about everything
"Sorry you had to encounter that crap "throws hands up" Chin up you will find one that will kick you on your ass and make you smile"
And what have I said to get such rude and agressive post from you, huh? You really have some problems, no need to be so full of anger. I have my opinion about the authors post, I said and it wasn't rude at all. Many men come to the hosts room to learn how to communicate with women, unless u never know it before.
And what have I said to get such rude and agressive post from you, huh? You really have some problems, no need to be so full of anger. I have my opinion about the authors post, I said and it wasn't rude at all. Many men come to the hosts room to learn how to communicate with women, unless u never know it before.
request for pantyhose
Hello
If any of the female hosts are reading this, enjoy wearing pantyhose and would be happy to send me their pantyhose; i'd love for them to get in contact :)
If any of the female hosts are reading this, enjoy wearing pantyhose and would be happy to send me their pantyhose; i'd love for them to get in contact :)
RE: request for pantyhose
I have no opinions or judgements about your request or desire Too bad that others think this is an opportunity to be rude. Why would they
have a need to comment if they can't contribute to your request? Ignore them please!
have a need to comment if they can't contribute to your request? Ignore them please!
Obnoxious, rude and annoying members
The above mentioned members make it tough on those of us who are polite. Unfortunately dealing with these kinds of members is just part of the business. They make things bad for everyone. I notice several hosts that every time I see them on line, they are either in 121 or the member needs a password to enter either open or 121 video. I can't help but wonder is this caused by these really obnoxious members we have on site. And if you CC Mail a host for a password , how do you prove you are not an obnoxious member?
I've seen obnoxious free guests on other sites in free public video. Yes I did say FREE guests, not paying members. And yes I know there are obnoxious paying members too.
So what is the solution? Is there a solution?
I've seen obnoxious free guests on other sites in free public video. Yes I did say FREE guests, not paying members. And yes I know there are obnoxious paying members too.
So what is the solution? Is there a solution?
RE: Obnoxious, rude and annoying members
I agree. Many members pay so they can give up their civility and treat women worse than they ever would in real life. I would suspect some members are unable for a variety of reasons to be assertive or dominant to the females in their life. Along comes CC...you can be a prick, a bully, a jerk....and since you are paying for it...you get away with it.
Similary when hosts accept a job here they agree to accept abuse and treatment they would never tolerate in real life. But it is part of the job. You get the good and the bad. A host can set her own standard and say...this guy is just to obnoxious so I will block him...but in general a paying customer is the goal here...and not all of them compliment and say please and thank you.
Similary when hosts accept a job here they agree to accept abuse and treatment they would never tolerate in real life. But it is part of the job. You get the good and the bad. A host can set her own standard and say...this guy is just to obnoxious so I will block him...but in general a paying customer is the goal here...and not all of them compliment and say please and thank you.
RE: Obnoxious, rude and annoying members
Speak for yourself! You certainly don't speak for hosts or even know
how the majority of hosts feel. All are different and different reactions
to various circumstance.
I think why don't you speak from your own little world and room or even identify yourself as your host screen name.
It annoys me to read your response here as though you know every situation that a host experiences and why she does what she does.
Speak for your own personal experience and not all.....
how the majority of hosts feel. All are different and different reactions
to various circumstance.
I think why don't you speak from your own little world and room or even identify yourself as your host screen name.
It annoys me to read your response here as though you know every situation that a host experiences and why she does what she does.
Speak for your own personal experience and not all.....
RE: Obnoxious, rude and annoying members
" Too many members want to start and finnish all in 5 min!"
I recall seeing a post in a public forum on another site back in about 1999. And 3 or 4 hosts posted their average pvt ran about 4 to 6 minutes long.
I recall seeing a post in a public forum on another site back in about 1999. And 3 or 4 hosts posted their average pvt ran about 4 to 6 minutes long.
RE: Obnoxious, rude and annoying members
So... you see several hosts who are often in 121 or password sessions and you assume its because they are hiding like terrified damsels in distress from evil members who are making their poor lives hell.
And now we need a solution to this terrible problem. lol. ok.
hmmm. This is a tough one. But... I think if we all could just for a moment come together, each and every one of us, the good and the bad, even the indifferent... If we could all just see ourselves as individuals, yet as different as each of us are, and being as unique as each of us craves to be... I think if we could only come together, all of us, then maybe... just maybe... you could stop jumping to conclusions and making assumptions about the above sort of things of which you clearly have no idea.
And now we need a solution to this terrible problem. lol. ok.
hmmm. This is a tough one. But... I think if we all could just for a moment come together, each and every one of us, the good and the bad, even the indifferent... If we could all just see ourselves as individuals, yet as different as each of us are, and being as unique as each of us craves to be... I think if we could only come together, all of us, then maybe... just maybe... you could stop jumping to conclusions and making assumptions about the above sort of things of which you clearly have no idea.
RE: Obnoxious, rude and annoying members
unless all males are neutered,i think it's impossible to get rid of these type of members.further i'm guessing on cam sites the % would be greater than generally.look at the bright side,when a host meets a charming,polite,considerate,suave & debonair member like you(& me of course)after the above mentioned we seem like superheroes(lol) :--)
woosh,woosh,woosh,woosh(not original)
a powerful japanese emperor needs a new chief samurai.so he sends out a declaration throughout the entire known world that he's searching for a chief.a year passes & only 3 people apply for the very demanding position:,a japanese,chinese & jewish samurai.the emperor asks them to demonstrate why they should be chief samurai.first the japanese enters,opens a matchbox & out pops a bumblebee.whoosh goes his sword.the bumblebee drops dead,chopped in half.
the emperor exclaims"that's very impressive!"
enter the chinese,who also opens a matchbox & out buzzs a fly.whoosh,whoosh.the fly drops dead,chopped into 4 small pieces.
the emeror exclaims"that's very impressive!"
now the jewish samurai enters & again he opens a matchbox & out flies a gnat.his flashing sword goes whoosh,but the gnat is still alive.
the emperor,obviously disappointed,says"very ambitious,nut why is the gnat not dead?"
the jewish samurai smiles"circumcision isn't meant to kill." :--)
the emperor exclaims"that's very impressive!"
enter the chinese,who also opens a matchbox & out buzzs a fly.whoosh,whoosh.the fly drops dead,chopped into 4 small pieces.
the emeror exclaims"that's very impressive!"
now the jewish samurai enters & again he opens a matchbox & out flies a gnat.his flashing sword goes whoosh,but the gnat is still alive.
the emperor,obviously disappointed,says"very ambitious,nut why is the gnat not dead?"
the jewish samurai smiles"circumcision isn't meant to kill." :--)
RE: personal forum
Most hosts do not like any kind of criticism. And as you point out some vote 1 star and others vote with their wallet and just leave.
RE: personal forum
This is my thought too, that it seems more constructive to leave comments to the host so that she can improve. I also wonder how many times when a host is deceptive that she needs to be told. I
think many viewers see that situation as intentional and why bother. By leaving a low score it can be more of a warning to other viewers.
think many viewers see that situation as intentional and why bother. By leaving a low score it can be more of a warning to other viewers.
RE: personal forum
I suppose your idea is a good one in some cases, but usually a member feels like he just got ripped off and wasted his money so at that point he is more focused on revenge and venting than trying to improve the situation for all concerned. He has written that host off and is not really interested in improving her performance. Instead, it is about revenge, getting his money back and warning others.
Additionally, the things that seem to upset members such as breaking the rules, lying, et cetera are not really the type of situations where posting a comment in personal forums, sending an email to her, et cetera would seem appropriate steps. Instead, they seem like things that a host should already know are wrong so why would a member give her the benefit of the doubt and do anything other than attack?
If we are talking about a host who just isn't good at her job and does more innocent things like talk on too many sites at once so a member feels like he is wasting his money, then I would agree with you. But if we are talking about a host that is a lying, deceitful, rule breaking b*tch, lol, then I would absolutely disagree. I think if a member wants to attack publicly, he absolutely has the right to do so although 99% of the time I just write CC and ask for a credit. The 1% that I've attacked publicly are when a host gave me an attitude and pissed me off even more. Sometimes they just have this air about them that says "I can do whatever I want regardless of the rules" so I kind of enjoy letting them know "Sorry, hun, no you can't. Maybe the next guy might fall for your crap, but I will do my best to make sure that doesn't happen." I think these are the types that are usually getting attacked in the member forums more than anything else.
The only exception might be with a studio and rule breaking. For those that don't know, when a host chooses her category, it is 100% clear what the rules are. She specifically agrees to certain things. These are the "hidden rules" that some of us members talk about. Knowing this, when an instant action or not so shy host won't strip, for example, even though she specifically agreed to do so, I am never going to give her the benefit of the doubt except if her English seems horrible (since these "hidden rules" are in English) or if I can tell she is in a studio and think that maybe her boss set up her account without telling her the appropriate rules. Other than that, there really are no excuses so I am not going to take the time to send her a nicely worded email or post some nicely worded message in her forum about how what she did was inappropriate. As far as I am concerned, she probably already knew and was just trying to screw me over. And most likely, such a host would just laugh, block me and go screw over the next member to visit her so a comment in the member forum about such a host is often the better solution besides complaining to CC. At least other members get warned that way.
Most hosts here have good English language skills and seem pretty intelligent so it is difficult for me to give them the benefit of the doubt in terms of not knowing the rules. I suppose that the 121 situation is a bit vague in terms of the rule that says hosts cannot tell members to go 121 for nudity if they are in not so shy or instant action, but I've never publicly complained about a host doing that. I save those complaints entirely for CC. But if we are talking about a host that is in not so shy or instant action and not willing to strip at all or is saying she is too busy to give a show when she MUST do so, or a host in any category that lies or stalls to the point where it seems she is just milking the clock, why would anyone think that nicely explaining that she shouldn't do those things is wrong? She already knows she is breaking the rules. She already knows she is lying. She already knows she is stalling. Does a member really need to tell her? I almost never write a public post about these things, but if that is what a member wants to do, he has every right to do so, and I see nothing wrong with it.
There are times when a member can help a host as you suggest. But it seems that most of the public attacks don't seem to qualify. I've been around for awhile, and I've had a lot of hosts play games so I can understand why members get to the point where they post publicly. And when you hear how your host friends talk about other members and describe them as slaves, et cetera, it doesn't exactly make you want to give another host the benefit of the doubt either, lol.
Additionally, the things that seem to upset members such as breaking the rules, lying, et cetera are not really the type of situations where posting a comment in personal forums, sending an email to her, et cetera would seem appropriate steps. Instead, they seem like things that a host should already know are wrong so why would a member give her the benefit of the doubt and do anything other than attack?
If we are talking about a host who just isn't good at her job and does more innocent things like talk on too many sites at once so a member feels like he is wasting his money, then I would agree with you. But if we are talking about a host that is a lying, deceitful, rule breaking b*tch, lol, then I would absolutely disagree. I think if a member wants to attack publicly, he absolutely has the right to do so although 99% of the time I just write CC and ask for a credit. The 1% that I've attacked publicly are when a host gave me an attitude and pissed me off even more. Sometimes they just have this air about them that says "I can do whatever I want regardless of the rules" so I kind of enjoy letting them know "Sorry, hun, no you can't. Maybe the next guy might fall for your crap, but I will do my best to make sure that doesn't happen." I think these are the types that are usually getting attacked in the member forums more than anything else.
The only exception might be with a studio and rule breaking. For those that don't know, when a host chooses her category, it is 100% clear what the rules are. She specifically agrees to certain things. These are the "hidden rules" that some of us members talk about. Knowing this, when an instant action or not so shy host won't strip, for example, even though she specifically agreed to do so, I am never going to give her the benefit of the doubt except if her English seems horrible (since these "hidden rules" are in English) or if I can tell she is in a studio and think that maybe her boss set up her account without telling her the appropriate rules. Other than that, there really are no excuses so I am not going to take the time to send her a nicely worded email or post some nicely worded message in her forum about how what she did was inappropriate. As far as I am concerned, she probably already knew and was just trying to screw me over. And most likely, such a host would just laugh, block me and go screw over the next member to visit her so a comment in the member forum about such a host is often the better solution besides complaining to CC. At least other members get warned that way.
Most hosts here have good English language skills and seem pretty intelligent so it is difficult for me to give them the benefit of the doubt in terms of not knowing the rules. I suppose that the 121 situation is a bit vague in terms of the rule that says hosts cannot tell members to go 121 for nudity if they are in not so shy or instant action, but I've never publicly complained about a host doing that. I save those complaints entirely for CC. But if we are talking about a host that is in not so shy or instant action and not willing to strip at all or is saying she is too busy to give a show when she MUST do so, or a host in any category that lies or stalls to the point where it seems she is just milking the clock, why would anyone think that nicely explaining that she shouldn't do those things is wrong? She already knows she is breaking the rules. She already knows she is lying. She already knows she is stalling. Does a member really need to tell her? I almost never write a public post about these things, but if that is what a member wants to do, he has every right to do so, and I see nothing wrong with it.
There are times when a member can help a host as you suggest. But it seems that most of the public attacks don't seem to qualify. I've been around for awhile, and I've had a lot of hosts play games so I can understand why members get to the point where they post publicly. And when you hear how your host friends talk about other members and describe them as slaves, et cetera, it doesn't exactly make you want to give another host the benefit of the doubt either, lol.
RE: personal forum
But if we are talking about a host that is in not so shy or instant action and not willing to strip at all or is saying she is too busy to give a show when she MUST do so, or a host in any category that lies or stalls to the point where it seems she is just milking the clock, why would anyone think that nicely explaining that she shouldn't do those things AND THAT THEY ARE WRONG IS GOING TO HELP? (caps to show edit)
RE: personal forum
Absolutely correct and even though very wordy....your point was well taken. The rules are available to every host here and more and more I see a new host come online and starts asking questions in chathost forum that are clearly defined in the rules and she doesn't think she needs to take the time to read them but instead asks over and over of other hosts. The results are always mixed because you get some deceptive hosts telling her that she doesn't need to do that in NSS or IA and how to get around it. I think all hosts should be required to read all the information and take a basic quiz to prove that they read it all. Some hosts here will take any rule and twist and turn it to fit her desire and no she does not deserve an explanation of why she is a lousy host.....so agree especially when the member is paying.
RE: personal forum
"Some hosts here will take any rule and twist and turn it to fit her desire and no she does not deserve an explanation of why she is a lousy host.'
Excellent post. I agree completely.
Excellent post. I agree completely.
RE: personal forum
nice thought... but after all these years on camsites i have never seen a host who would take advice from a viewer... no matter how polite advice this is, host will be offensed and say "i know better what work for me, and if you dont like how i work you dont need to visit me"
Hosts are human
I see that mentioned a lot in this forum and in profiles. I agree, hosts are human. Business was invented by humans. Humans do business everyday. CC is a business, a business used by human hosts to make money. So there you have it, hosts are humans engaged in the adult entertainment business on an adult website. Got that? OK then. Now hosts, do your jobs!
RE: Hosts are human
<<Now hosts, do your jobs!>>
Eh....um....in my experience they do! If there is a point to your post, I am at a loss to understand what it is. If you've had a disappointing experience it might be helpful if you were a little more specific, instead of the cod philosophy.
Eh....um....in my experience they do! If there is a point to your post, I am at a loss to understand what it is. If you've had a disappointing experience it might be helpful if you were a little more specific, instead of the cod philosophy.
RE: Hosts are human
nope...got none of the above. and you are no princess, but i'm paying...so get off your high horse and show me your goodies!
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
You never said anything about me going thousands of miles to her just for sex.
I assumed she was coming to me :P
I assumed she was coming to me :P
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
I have no desire to meet any host in person. I come here to watch show and wank.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
I think it depends on the relationship between the host and viewer. In most cases it probably is about sex. I for one have a host I would love to meet in person without any expectations. Though I know it will never happen.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
easy answer: Difficulty with travel, distance, visas, money, etc.
honest answer: Just easier to accept that it won't than hope it will.
honest answer: Just easier to accept that it won't than hope it will.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
I met a host once..spent a great week with her and her family.. was never about sex or romance or what ever..i like to travel.. wanted to see her country and spent a wonderful week seeing it with her. Were still great friends, well never be lovers.. it was just about having a nice time. Its not always about sex.. if I want sex with a beautiful woman I can do that here tonight with out traveling 5000 miles..
id say this, to the host asking.. if you have a member friend who wants to visit..follow your gut feeling.. if you think all he wants is to come for sex, say no.. if you think its about a nice visit think about it. Id suggest having a good friend or family member with you at all times though.
I have an invite to return anytime I want.
id say this, to the host asking.. if you have a member friend who wants to visit..follow your gut feeling.. if you think all he wants is to come for sex, say no.. if you think its about a nice visit think about it. Id suggest having a good friend or family member with you at all times though.
I have an invite to return anytime I want.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
good advice...I've met 2 hosts...one is still a close friend after 6 years, the other I said bye to after I realised she was a professional hooker.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
"I said bye to after I realised she was a professional hooker."
That's my kind of girl!
That's my kind of girl!
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
ally I think I would have said goodbye to the first one :P
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
lmao. Actually, you are right, the pro was cheaper in the long run. lol
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
And you would have kept the hooker...you are bad boy!
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
I agree that to go through the trouble and expense of seeing a host just for sex is not for most worth the effort. However, if a member has a particular infatuation with a particular host and has the time and money...then why not? I also think men go with an idea or romance, or friendship, or just seeing a new country and culture but virtually everyone who goes has in the back of their mind the idea that they will at some point in the visit have sex with the host. Lets face it...we come here for sexual stimulation...you are not going to travel thousands of miles just to admire the architecture of the Perm Public Library.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
You must be a very young naive host #1! That makes you a very good target for just sex.... I ask you this: If you are considering a member which for the first time, which will happen often if you are attractive, what do you think through conversations that he is interested in? What does he say? What is your inner self telling you why he wants to visit you? You are the one that has chatted with him so how can anyone answer for him? Is he saying he cares about you? How long have you been chatting? Do you show your body nude when he enters? If so he probably wants to f*ck you. You need to answer the questions to yourself and figure it out....no one else can answer that question.
If you are showing him everything and more then that is probably what he wants... If you are in non-adult and he wants to meet you then maybe he is interested in a relationship....maybe! If you are teasing him he wants more....so simple...
If you are showing him everything and more then that is probably what he wants... If you are in non-adult and he wants to meet you then maybe he is interested in a relationship....maybe! If you are teasing him he wants more....so simple...
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
What does he say? Sounds like he is interested in you as a person and wants a relationship. Is that your feeling when you chat with him? What would be your interest in meeting him? Are you attracted to him enough that you would consider a relationship? You need to ask yourself those questions and listen to your answers. If you choose to meet him use some precautions since you don't know anyone that knows him. He must get a Hotel room. Meet him only in a public place. Ask many questions about his life first and personally I would want to do a background check for any criminal behavior if I didn't feel 100% in my gut that it would be ok.
Good Luck!
Good Luck!
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
All excellent points. Keep in mind though that just because ho does not ask for you to strip now does not mean he won't expect more if you meet. If you are thinking of meeting I would recommend you discuss exactly what both of your expectations are first. I never ask for a strip from the host I would like to meet either. Although I have no expectations if we were to meet does not mean I would be against the idea. I would think very few men come to CC to simply make friends. Just be careful.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
He never asks for strip with the member account that she knows him by, lol.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
Not sure if that was meant for the host who started this thread or for me. LOL It is a good point though. Never really thought of that. I only have the one account myself. Just don't see the point in lying.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
What's up Doc?
"Just don't see the point in lying."
Maybe you don't, but I suggest you are in a very small minority of members here or anywhere on line.
"Just don't see the point in lying."
Maybe you don't, but I suggest you are in a very small minority of members here or anywhere on line.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
Oh and hosts are always honest? I am choking on that one....lol
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
Sorry, but you don't speak for "everyone". While I do admit I have lied online in the past I don't now. As I said before, I just don't see the point to it.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
When we were arranging a meeting, a host said to me directly "I will not have sex with you." I still went (with no expectation of sex). We enjoyed the visit. We didn't have sex. I respect her for making the ground-rules clear before the visit.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
Nothing more than her time...
Time to say hello, thats it.
More is great, but should you expect things from her then you might well disappoint yourself.
If i travel 2000kms to Romania look for sex, is stupid.
Can get a RO hooker just down the street for 40euro suck and fuck.
But go holidays, explore, meet new people etc, it's different.
If you like 200euro hotel rooms and people kiss ya ass then fine. Take hookers and indulge.
I take apartment, visit friends, go clubs, bars, lunch, shop, explore all, parks, different places, countryside. If can find nice local girl to do that with then it's perfect!
In beginning only expect a few moment of her time.
Sometimes though, great friendships start up for many years ;)
And can fill a lot of time and happiness with pals...
Is many girls here, not machines, humans beings, enjoying life too.
If she has fun too, then she don't make you pay for it either ;) :D haha
Time to say hello, thats it.
More is great, but should you expect things from her then you might well disappoint yourself.
If i travel 2000kms to Romania look for sex, is stupid.
Can get a RO hooker just down the street for 40euro suck and fuck.
But go holidays, explore, meet new people etc, it's different.
If you like 200euro hotel rooms and people kiss ya ass then fine. Take hookers and indulge.
I take apartment, visit friends, go clubs, bars, lunch, shop, explore all, parks, different places, countryside. If can find nice local girl to do that with then it's perfect!
In beginning only expect a few moment of her time.
Sometimes though, great friendships start up for many years ;)
And can fill a lot of time and happiness with pals...
Is many girls here, not machines, humans beings, enjoying life too.
If she has fun too, then she don't make you pay for it either ;) :D haha
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
Expect nothing, then there will be no disappointment. :D Live for the moment and accept anything that is offered [within reason]
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
Yes most guys would love for girls to take sex as casual as they do but it simply isn't in the make up of a girl that has been brought up with good self esteem and moral guidelines. For just to enjoy the moment at it's fullest would take a lot more testosterone than girls have :) If they do and realize after that it was all about sex and not an interest in her otherwise then she has to deal with that and it's not a good thing.
RE: about meeting in real,question to guys
I agree. Relationships are like real estate. Only 3 things matter.
1. location
2. location
3. location
1. location
2. location
3. location
RE: Friends :)
Wish that was true! I have lived enough experiences and to me friends are like ticks: undesirable parasites creatures that stick to you just to suck you up and leave when they drained you or see that they have nothing else to take.
RE: Friends :)
Wow that is sad. I wonder how you present yourself for that to happen frequently? You might want to get rid of the T-shirt that says Suck Me Dry and Abuse me I love it :)
Need host's help
Hello everyone. I need ur help. Now I work in studio and don't have good relations here, it will be better for me to work at home myself. I have read lots of hosts messages that inform that troubles sometimes happen with payments. Is it really so difficult? and if I close my room and then again open will it be any troubles with camcontact administration? I mean that may be can they refuse to open profile for me? can they contact with my studio and say that I want to open a profile?
I am from Ukraine and really I am not good aware of our laws, can it such happen that I will have problems with police?
Thanks for answers.
I am from Ukraine and really I am not good aware of our laws, can it such happen that I will have problems with police?
Thanks for answers.
RE: Need host's help
You'd be better off asking in the Chathost Only Forum.
I do think studio's often own the account and therefore the nickname, so you'd have to open a different account and come up with another name.
I do think studio's often own the account and therefore the nickname, so you'd have to open a different account and come up with another name.
RE: Need host's help
hi u shouldnt have any sort of problem getting another screen name once u work from home but u might want to inform ur regulars about it before quitting and also if ur not in good terms with ur studio owners dont mention it to them
simply create ur desired screen name on cc and have it approved, get a payoneer card or bank account depending on what u prefer and ur set
good luck
xox
simply create ur desired screen name on cc and have it approved, get a payoneer card or bank account depending on what u prefer and ur set
good luck
xox
RE: Need host's help
you will have to open another screen name ....because your studio owns the screen name you are using now so all your payments for the name you have now will go to the studio automatically unless the studio boss releases your name to you with a letter from them to cc...
if you are worried about your boss then do not tell him, but as already said open up a new name and such first so that you can use it when you start from home, but do not do anything in that new profile until you are finished with the studio..
I hope it all works out for you...good luck to you :)
if you are worried about your boss then do not tell him, but as already said open up a new name and such first so that you can use it when you start from home, but do not do anything in that new profile until you are finished with the studio..
I hope it all works out for you...good luck to you :)
RE: Need host's help
I was told many times videochat is not legal in Ukraine. I was told banks will report money from videochat to police. I was told the safe way to work is for a person with a business to hide the money from videochat. The boss in one city sells cars. I was told many girls get in trouble with police trying to work from home.
RE: Need host's help
he didnt say the sites are illegal but videochatting is considered illegal in that county. and i have heard the same about ukraine however i would think its more illegal to work in a studio than from ur own home and safer as well
RE: Need host's help
Yes, pornography is illegal and even if u have some films or look these films through internet u broke the law. But what is considered pornography? If girl show her bra and panties or may be even nipples, does it pornography? What is erotica? And what is the difference between erotica and pornofraphy?
RE: Need host's help
Bra and panties are thing. But for sure no nudity or even topless allowed in Ukraine. So as long as Ukraine hosts are in non adult, little shy or Glamour girls, there is no problem.
RE: Need host's help
haha so thats why there are so few ukrainian girls on hardcore sites... not even half of the girls are from ukrane :D
seriously, i know some ukrainian camgirls, and it is quite safe to work from home, just dont advertise this to every neighbour and police officiers, and when money comes for example thru payoneer nobody in local banks needs to know where it came from.
seriously, i know some ukrainian camgirls, and it is quite safe to work from home, just dont advertise this to every neighbour and police officiers, and when money comes for example thru payoneer nobody in local banks needs to know where it came from.
Desperate times call for desperate measures
I noticed recently a long time non adult host now with one room in little shy and another one in IA. So it may be that tough financial times are moving some out of their comfort zone.
RE: Desperate times call for desperate measures
I have seen many hosts become more "advanced" over time...largely because of financial reasons. They start out as truly shy...thinking that being flirty and clever and cute will make them rich and for a few with great personalities and english speaking ability it does. But most find they get few if any videos while their more adult oriented studio mates are making far more. So they try a lingerie show, then a flash or two...then topless...and before you know it they have a Louisville Slugger sticking out of their butts. For some it takes months or years...for others a few weeks. Many don't decide to do more and leave. So yeah the enconomy can make girls do things they normally thought they would ever do...and isn't that they way it has been since time immemorial?
RE: Desperate times call for desperate measures
If the tzatziki and taramosalata industries are affected is it definitely a double-dip recession?
RE: Desperate times call for desperate measures
It is my understanding it is not allowed for a non-adult host to have an adult room open at the same time she is in her non-adult room! Hope they are not that desperate.
RE: Desperate times call for desperate measures
I think the original poster meant that she switched from a non adult host that wouldn't strip to an adult host that would strip, not that she had a non adult and adult session open at the same time.
I don't think it is a big deal. Many hosts need time to get used to the idea of stripping on cam and non adult gives them a chance to see what camming is all about in a less threatening way. Then, if they want to try to make some more money, they can shift to adult. It isn't always about being "desperate" for money. It is just that they see an opportunity to make more money just like anyone else might switch jobs to make more money.
If anything, "camming" to begin with would be a sign of being "desperate" for money. I don't think I've met one host that said to me "I couldn't wait until I turned 18 just so I could spend 8 hours a day sitting at my pc and talking to strange men. It was my life's dream." These are young women and/or women from less affluent countries, or nowadays given the world economy, any country, that need a job and so they try camming. Switching to adult is just a way to get even more money. Then, some of them make some friends and go to soft core, if not already there, and spend most of the time just chatting as if it were non adult. It kind of works on a cycle.
I don't think it is a big deal. Many hosts need time to get used to the idea of stripping on cam and non adult gives them a chance to see what camming is all about in a less threatening way. Then, if they want to try to make some more money, they can shift to adult. It isn't always about being "desperate" for money. It is just that they see an opportunity to make more money just like anyone else might switch jobs to make more money.
If anything, "camming" to begin with would be a sign of being "desperate" for money. I don't think I've met one host that said to me "I couldn't wait until I turned 18 just so I could spend 8 hours a day sitting at my pc and talking to strange men. It was my life's dream." These are young women and/or women from less affluent countries, or nowadays given the world economy, any country, that need a job and so they try camming. Switching to adult is just a way to get even more money. Then, some of them make some friends and go to soft core, if not already there, and spend most of the time just chatting as if it were non adult. It kind of works on a cycle.
RE: Desperate times call for desperate measures
....But not on cam. Assuming you are a woman, and if you are serious at all in what you said, your dream was probably to find a rich guy to spoil you in real, not some money slave on the internet, lol. Or maybe I am old fashioned and the modern day dream is to have virtual money slaves so that you never have to meet them, lol.
Okay, new post for the 21st century: every woman's dream is to find a virtual money slave, not a money slave for real. She just wants some rich guy to send her money and leave her alone so she can do what she wants. Better? :p
Okay, new post for the 21st century: every woman's dream is to find a virtual money slave, not a money slave for real. She just wants some rich guy to send her money and leave her alone so she can do what she wants. Better? :p
When I give 1 star
About 95% of the time I rate a host 5 stars. My only concern is effort on her part. When a host requires 121 for show or refuses to show completely in NSS or IA, I rate 1 star. I wish I could rate minus 5.
The only other time, which is rare, is when a host in softcore promises a naked show in 121 and changes her mind, she gets a 1 star. I never ever rate low simply because a host in softcore chooses not to strip. I think I am very fair minded.
The only other time, which is rare, is when a host in softcore promises a naked show in 121 and changes her mind, she gets a 1 star. I never ever rate low simply because a host in softcore chooses not to strip. I think I am very fair minded.
RE: When I give 1 star
similar policy for me. And I usually tell them they are getting a 1. One girl emailed and said sorry. Next time she followed rules. So I gave her 5, she was hot. Ohters girls have blocked me, which is fine.
RE: When I give 1 star
All sounds very fair and especially if they make comment in her forum for her to see (of course she can delete but at least will read and know) or tell her!
RE: When I give 1 star
Not nearly as much wasted energy as your post. At least mine was expressing my opinion.
RE: Black Sea?
Maybe down in Turkey but that part of the world is comparable to all of Europe or Midwest USA..getting cold and winter is on its way.
Question for Hosts...
Does it mean that a host is faking when she is moaning, et cetera in a language that is not her original language? In other words, to give a very basic example, if a Romanian or Russian host is saying "yes, yes, yes..." instead of "da, da, da..." is that a sign that she is faking? I would think that a woman that is lost in a moment of ecstasy would revert back to her original language by instinct but rarely do I ever see this happen. Instead, the host uses English with me since she knows that most members speak English which means she has to think about what she is doing instead of just naturally reacting. That would seem to indicate she is faking, or at least, is not as into the moment as she might otherwise be if she didn't need to worry about moaning in the proper language. Or perhaps hosts are so used to using English that once they start using English with a guy, moaning in English is just a natural thing to do and they are truly reacting.
I know a lot of hosts fake, but for those who don't, I was just curious how you account for using English when doing a show and you are at that critical moment when you grew up speaking another language. Thanks.
I know a lot of hosts fake, but for those who don't, I was just curious how you account for using English when doing a show and you are at that critical moment when you grew up speaking another language. Thanks.
RE: Question for Hosts...
Actually, a lot of members know words besides yes and no in Russian and Romanian so depending on the language and the member, he might understand. And Colombian hosts often will speak in Spanish during shows which I find sexy. That might be more a function of their not knowing English as well as an Eastern European host, however.
I suppose a host could be faking and saying something in her native language such as "hahaha you dumbass! I am faking right now and you don't even know it!", but a host should be careful. Some of us members have been on sites a long time and know more words than you seem to think. We might not be fluent, but we know enough words... and often the bad words, lol, so be careful what you say. :p
I suppose a host could be faking and saying something in her native language such as "hahaha you dumbass! I am faking right now and you don't even know it!", but a host should be careful. Some of us members have been on sites a long time and know more words than you seem to think. We might not be fluent, but we know enough words... and often the bad words, lol, so be careful what you say. :p
RE: Question for Hosts...
I had made love in erm several languages, and trust me, if the girl is speaking not her native language, it doesnt mean shes faking;)
RE: Question for Hosts...
I never believe people who say "trust me". You will need to prove this to me in person.
RE: Question for Hosts...
Last time I heard "trust me" was from my ex-gf before I had my credit card maxed out in a day :-P
RE: Question for Hosts...
All hosts are giving a performance given the nature of this site. Duh. All a member really needs to concern himself with, is if he is getting his money's worth.
RE: Question for Hosts...
Lol. i guess after a while of being around here, it just comes naturally. im more worried about the times when i start dirtytalking in english when having sex in real life. their "WTF" look is priceless. :))))))))guess too muh virtual sex screws up all of us :))))
RE: Question for Hosts...
They watched When Harry Met Sally and she did a great impersonation of an orgasim......Yes Yes Yes as she pounded the table. Did the host pound the table too??
RE: Question for Hosts...
it maz bea good idea to have commchat on the side going, I saw a girl, who was in video, in the same time chatting in commchat, that was for sure not a hot video
My rating of girl categories
Glamour Girls; Clearly the largest collection of attractive women on site, but, nudity is at the sole discretion of each host. And this can prove frustrating.
Little Shy is almost the same as Glamour Girls as most hosts have rooms in both categories. But the chances of seeing nudity are better.
Not so shy; This is the most disappointing category on site. Most girls have rooms in Glamour or little shy and treat members the same as they do in Glamour/little shy. Many hosts in this category simply make up their own rules. They ask for cam and 121 for shows. Some only flash tits while others don't even do that. And most have regular viewers that just sit in open and chat for hours.
Instant action ; In browsing, I really don't want to see many hosts dressed or undressed. And also like not so shy many hosts make up their own rules, asking for 121 for shows and chatting for long periods in open to their regular viewers. So also is pretty disappointing.
But luckily viewers have many choices on the internet.
Little Shy is almost the same as Glamour Girls as most hosts have rooms in both categories. But the chances of seeing nudity are better.
Not so shy; This is the most disappointing category on site. Most girls have rooms in Glamour or little shy and treat members the same as they do in Glamour/little shy. Many hosts in this category simply make up their own rules. They ask for cam and 121 for shows. Some only flash tits while others don't even do that. And most have regular viewers that just sit in open and chat for hours.
Instant action ; In browsing, I really don't want to see many hosts dressed or undressed. And also like not so shy many hosts make up their own rules, asking for 121 for shows and chatting for long periods in open to their regular viewers. So also is pretty disappointing.
But luckily viewers have many choices on the internet.
RE: My rating of girl categories
At the risk of being accused of banging the same drum. My experience of cc bears no resemblance to yours.
RE: My rating of girl categories
The Little Drummer Boy
Cum the member forum told me, pa rum pum pum pum
A new host to see, pa rum pum pum pum
Our money we bring, pa rum pum pum pum
To cum before the new queen, pa rum pum pum pum,
rum pum pum pum, rum pum pum pum,
So to honor her, pa rum pum pum pum,
When we cum.
Hot mistress, pa rum pum pum pum
I am a just a slave, pa rum pum pum pum
I have a small cock to show, pa rum pum pum pum
That's not fit to give you cam, you know, pa rum pum pum pum,
rum pum pum pum, rum pum pum pum,
Shall I play for you, pa rum pum pum pum,
On my, uh..., drum?
The host nodded, pa rum pum pum pum
The host kept time, pa rum pum pum pum
I played my drum for her, pa rum pum pum pum
I played my best for her, pa rum pum pum pum,
rum pum pum pum, rum pum pum pum,
Then she smiled at me, pa rum pum pum pum
Me and my drum.
Cum the member forum told me, pa rum pum pum pum
A new host to see, pa rum pum pum pum
Our money we bring, pa rum pum pum pum
To cum before the new queen, pa rum pum pum pum,
rum pum pum pum, rum pum pum pum,
So to honor her, pa rum pum pum pum,
When we cum.
Hot mistress, pa rum pum pum pum
I am a just a slave, pa rum pum pum pum
I have a small cock to show, pa rum pum pum pum
That's not fit to give you cam, you know, pa rum pum pum pum,
rum pum pum pum, rum pum pum pum,
Shall I play for you, pa rum pum pum pum,
On my, uh..., drum?
The host nodded, pa rum pum pum pum
The host kept time, pa rum pum pum pum
I played my drum for her, pa rum pum pum pum
I played my best for her, pa rum pum pum pum,
rum pum pum pum, rum pum pum pum,
Then she smiled at me, pa rum pum pum pum
Me and my drum.
RE: My rating of girl categories
I disagree with your assessment of not so shy and instant action. I definitely understand your frustration since there is a significant number of rule breakers, but most hosts in hard core follow the rules in terms of getting naked in my experience and don't say go 121 or stall too much.
Perhaps Instant Action hosts chat a bit too much at first when technically they must get naked right away, but I think it is more of a natural thing to say "hi, how are you, what's your name?.." as opposed to a desire to stall. But other than that, I usually don't have problems in general. If I was going to guess, I would say I have written to CC asking for a credit about 10% of the time when dealing with a hard core host. That is a lot of emails, but still it is far from a majority of hosts causing problems.
As a disclaimer, I almost always give my cam and am not always showing my face, lol, so the cam issue is never an issue with me. And once you say to a host "do you want to see more?" and she says "yes" and then gives the required "mmmm" after seeing more, it is a bit difficult for her to stall. She might say things like "so what do you like in sex?" and "what would you like to see?", either to stall or to try to make me happy, but I always just respond with things like "you on top of me" for what I like and "a strip" for what I want" and usually the show shortly follows. Most hosts will just do their jobs. The only issue then is whether I think she is hot enough for me to stay.
In terms of soft core, I agree that little shy hosts strip more than glamour hosts. But again, I usually don't have a problem there. They might say go 121, but I don't have a problem with lying or stalling most of the time other than the 10 minute slow strip dance by hosts from a certain South American country, lol. The emails I have written to CC for soft core are more focused on rude behavior or connection issues. In fact, I don't think I have ever had to complain about a soft core host lying about stripping after she agreed to do it.
So once again, I understand your frustrations, but fortunately, more often than not, I don't have problems here.
Perhaps Instant Action hosts chat a bit too much at first when technically they must get naked right away, but I think it is more of a natural thing to say "hi, how are you, what's your name?.." as opposed to a desire to stall. But other than that, I usually don't have problems in general. If I was going to guess, I would say I have written to CC asking for a credit about 10% of the time when dealing with a hard core host. That is a lot of emails, but still it is far from a majority of hosts causing problems.
As a disclaimer, I almost always give my cam and am not always showing my face, lol, so the cam issue is never an issue with me. And once you say to a host "do you want to see more?" and she says "yes" and then gives the required "mmmm" after seeing more, it is a bit difficult for her to stall. She might say things like "so what do you like in sex?" and "what would you like to see?", either to stall or to try to make me happy, but I always just respond with things like "you on top of me" for what I like and "a strip" for what I want" and usually the show shortly follows. Most hosts will just do their jobs. The only issue then is whether I think she is hot enough for me to stay.
In terms of soft core, I agree that little shy hosts strip more than glamour hosts. But again, I usually don't have a problem there. They might say go 121, but I don't have a problem with lying or stalling most of the time other than the 10 minute slow strip dance by hosts from a certain South American country, lol. The emails I have written to CC for soft core are more focused on rude behavior or connection issues. In fact, I don't think I have ever had to complain about a soft core host lying about stripping after she agreed to do it.
So once again, I understand your frustrations, but fortunately, more often than not, I don't have problems here.
RE: My rating of girl categories
I guess I should have started my post with the statement most of my pvts on cc have been great. I was merely focusing on some real issues I've had and have seen others post about over time on this site.
RE: My rating of girl categories
I also disagree with your assessment of Not So SHy. less than 10pct of the hosts I have visited refused to strip in open video and requested 121 for a show. Some ask me to send cam but no one has made that a condition of doing a show.
tolerance vs picky ppl
I've been reading many posts written by the guests who are really annoyed by the hosts who do not look EXACTLY like in their main pic. Come on, guys, are you for real?
Posting the best photo that a host has in her/his gallery is just part of the marketing. It is practically impossible to match the main pic everyday. A photo could only catch 1 of the millions of angles and a guest could never catch the same angle within the pathetic minute he spends in a hosts's video room just to "check things out ".
I suggest to these guests to check some pro magazines and take a good look at those models. See if they always look the same.
Then , perhaps, try to remember what sort of website CC is . A host is like an actor- outfits, hairstyle and makeup are everything, but never the same ! And don't forget that some girls/guys hosting here could wear glasses, contact lens, hair extensions, beards, moustaches, regulary change hair color or style, some get tan one week and go pale the next one. Not every change we make ( and when I say "we", I point all of us in our real life ) is one to make us proud enough to post a new photo in the newspaper. And things get really serious when our income depends on a single shot.
Major violations can be reported at any time. But silly impressions are relative..
Cheerio!
Posting the best photo that a host has in her/his gallery is just part of the marketing. It is practically impossible to match the main pic everyday. A photo could only catch 1 of the millions of angles and a guest could never catch the same angle within the pathetic minute he spends in a hosts's video room just to "check things out ".
I suggest to these guests to check some pro magazines and take a good look at those models. See if they always look the same.
Then , perhaps, try to remember what sort of website CC is . A host is like an actor- outfits, hairstyle and makeup are everything, but never the same ! And don't forget that some girls/guys hosting here could wear glasses, contact lens, hair extensions, beards, moustaches, regulary change hair color or style, some get tan one week and go pale the next one. Not every change we make ( and when I say "we", I point all of us in our real life ) is one to make us proud enough to post a new photo in the newspaper. And things get really serious when our income depends on a single shot.
Major violations can be reported at any time. But silly impressions are relative..
Cheerio!
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
I suggest that you take a pic before you get online if you don't look as good or better than your profile pic then. If a viewer is expecting to see you as you are when they enter your room then why would you have a beach photo or a professional pic up that looks nothing close to what they will view in your room? It seems fair that they are not going to see you look like that so why should a host be selling that look? This is not a magazine photo, it is an in person experience and if hosts don't look as good or better than there pic then it looks like a misrepresentation of what a viewers visual experience will be. Makes sense to me... Maybe instead of trying to convince viewers to accept ......hosts should take a pic before they go online to accurately represent them that day! It would eliminate disappointment.
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
err...you almighty conaisseur, you! as you seem to know it all - what else should hosts do in this what you call "in person experience" ? allow me to laugh on this one. out loud!
better yet! do pimples qualify for the list of changes for an accurate representation?
better yet! do pimples qualify for the list of changes for an accurate representation?
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
then let's just do this. let's say that the cover pic for a host does not even have to be of her. why bother right. we should all be understanding of this because it is very competitive and the hosts should have the right to post photos of what they dont look like to get you into their room.
sarcasm off - are you a complete idiot tornado?
sarcasm off - are you a complete idiot tornado?
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
from what i understand of his post tornado does NOT think that the cover pic of a host needs to be of her during that session. it can be from any time at all. if her hair looks dif, if she has a tan or not, or anything else that would change her look in a major way that is beside the point. he is saying that we should not expect the host to look like the cover pic from what i gather. and i disagree.
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
I am not standing up for a host that has had been offended by the fact that viewers are ticked off that the host does not look anything like her profile pic. How hard is it to take a pic? I do it often and yet I look pretty much the same in all of them. The profile pic is advertising and if I don't look like that then isn't it deceptive advertising or bait and switch? CC also says the host profile pic should reflect how the host appears in her room!
Further, how can hosts ignore what the members are clearly saying pisses them off? You wonder why the one second guys...there is your answer. Why should you expect differently? I suggest you push that little button that says CAMERA when you enter and all will be resolved.
I don't know about you but the last time I checked members coming into my video's and chat are customers and to start off with the customer thinking they can't trust the host because she doesn't look a thing like her advertisement..... isn't a great business decision. My question is what do you have to hide anyway? If they are not sticking around for a video then it's not working!
Instead to trying to change the members thinking who are also the paying customers, I suggest you update your photo's more often.
Further, how can hosts ignore what the members are clearly saying pisses them off? You wonder why the one second guys...there is your answer. Why should you expect differently? I suggest you push that little button that says CAMERA when you enter and all will be resolved.
I don't know about you but the last time I checked members coming into my video's and chat are customers and to start off with the customer thinking they can't trust the host because she doesn't look a thing like her advertisement..... isn't a great business decision. My question is what do you have to hide anyway? If they are not sticking around for a video then it's not working!
Instead to trying to change the members thinking who are also the paying customers, I suggest you update your photo's more often.
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
what is your host name so i can come to your room. finally, a host that understands!
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
Maybe it is a host or a studio boss checking you out....who knows!
Why would a host not want to post an actual pic of her in video that day? Hhhmmm guess that would seem to me like she doesn't look as good as her profile that day....or she doesn't want to bother looking that good.....I don't understand.
Why would a host not want to post an actual pic of her in video that day? Hhhmmm guess that would seem to me like she doesn't look as good as her profile that day....or she doesn't want to bother looking that good.....I don't understand.
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
On my profile photo you can see my head, why to change the photo every day if I look really the same? No matter to do it really.
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
I appreciate that a host may not always look as good as her profile pic but I would like a host to at least resemble it.
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
I could probably count on the fingers of one hand the number of times that the host did not resemble her profile / newest archive pictures in any way (and still have two fingers left over). Many more times I have been very pleasantly surprised because, once you see her face animated, smiling, screwing up her nose or making silly faces, the girl has actually looked a lot better than in her pictures.
There have been a few occasions that, although the girl did look like her pictures, she didn't look quite as attractive as I was expecting. But in those cases it is probably more to do with how the host acts rather than her not looking as attractive as her pictures (some hosts think that just by being naked they are sexy). In those situations I usually only stay 15 - 20 minutes before making an excuse and leaving (unless she was a very expensive host).
Now I'm sure that in a real life situation, where personalities are involved, I would find some of these girls more attractive than the ones I find attractive on here based purely on their physical looks.
There have been a few occasions that, although the girl did look like her pictures, she didn't look quite as attractive as I was expecting. But in those cases it is probably more to do with how the host acts rather than her not looking as attractive as her pictures (some hosts think that just by being naked they are sexy). In those situations I usually only stay 15 - 20 minutes before making an excuse and leaving (unless she was a very expensive host).
Now I'm sure that in a real life situation, where personalities are involved, I would find some of these girls more attractive than the ones I find attractive on here based purely on their physical looks.
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
Thank you for the detailed answer. It's good to have the view of the one that's on the other side of the cam :)
I guess many are different on and outside the cam, just like on and outside the internet.
Staying 15-20 minutes even if the host is not that cute, that's what I call effort to be nice :)
I guess many are different on and outside the cam, just like on and outside the internet.
Staying 15-20 minutes even if the host is not that cute, that's what I call effort to be nice :)
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
I do not see what the big deal is either....so a host takes one or two pics of each day...if she not want a member to see what she is wearing then take a pic of face or another part of the body that will still leave a mystery to what she is wearing....
but on the other hand...I take a pic each time I am online...and I still get the same question of what are you wearing...even while he is looking at the pictures...and I still get members come in for a minute or less...most times I don't even get to say hello and they are gone...that is just simple rudeness on the part of the member...i
but on the other hand...I take a pic each time I am online...and I still get the same question of what are you wearing...even while he is looking at the pictures...and I still get members come in for a minute or less...most times I don't even get to say hello and they are gone...that is just simple rudeness on the part of the member...i
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
Maybe he is just shy and you are stunning when he comes in.....maybe a nosey host with a member account or a studio boss. I don't get that alot and so I don't understand it. Maybe too they could just not connect. I have seen that and they keep coming back.
RE: tolerance vs picky ppl
I did not ask for advice, I did not complain about members leaving ME (?!) after a few seconds, I didn't even mention I was a host?! Some (wrong) assumptions and suggestions bored me to tears.
The majority understood my post perfectly well and shared their opinions - thanks.
Cheerio!
The majority understood my post perfectly well and shared their opinions - thanks.
Cheerio!
snowsquirrel
hey all,
Miss chathost snowsquirrel, is she on here with another id?
Thanks
Miss chathost snowsquirrel, is she on here with another id?
Thanks
friends
did you notice, being a member here long time and spent a lot of time and money with certain host all the time and then you begin to slow down on videos and then they will not come back to you and chat-oh well, i'm not sad, by the way any new host here wanna become friends and pvt a lot-leave a message at the tone
RE: friends
When I am spending a lot I feel like a king, a hero, and the world loves me. When I cut back I realize the loser and schmuck that I really am, and no one asks for me.
RE: friends
yeah, sometimes it hits me just how much i'm spending on here to pretend these girls like me and feel bad. Some girls appreciate it, a few.
RE: friends
This here is the same as in real life. You reap what you sow. We are the owners and creators of our own fate and most of the time we dont know it, but blame others when everything go wrong.
RE: friends
As "host" said it, it's the same for us.
I have some regulars that I am attached to, I care about them and I chase them from my video when they stay too long, or when I have problems but they insist on seeing me. I can't afford yet doing free sessions, as I don't have enough time to spend here and I'm trying to make the best of it, but I never turned them down for chats, and truth is, they chat a lot and come rarely in video for different reasons.
I was stupidly hurt when a guy dissapeared without notice. Learned my lesson and kept my distance, or at least I thought so. Another one dissapeared, but he came back and I told him what it made me feel like. So I got his e-mail and he appologised :)
I'm silly enough to care, but what can I do?
I'm sorry, 'me and maybe you', it got this way. Hope you will find a real friend :)
I have some regulars that I am attached to, I care about them and I chase them from my video when they stay too long, or when I have problems but they insist on seeing me. I can't afford yet doing free sessions, as I don't have enough time to spend here and I'm trying to make the best of it, but I never turned them down for chats, and truth is, they chat a lot and come rarely in video for different reasons.
I was stupidly hurt when a guy dissapeared without notice. Learned my lesson and kept my distance, or at least I thought so. Another one dissapeared, but he came back and I told him what it made me feel like. So I got his e-mail and he appologised :)
I'm silly enough to care, but what can I do?
I'm sorry, 'me and maybe you', it got this way. Hope you will find a real friend :)
RE: friends
I had a friend here, she's still my friend - she didnt strip, we chatted a lot while she ate and fixed herself up. We both did pm on and off. She had breaks, sometimes long, for exams and trips.
After a long break on my part - card problems in fact - she got mad i hadnt been back. I was with other girls, she was mad to ever think i wasnt like others. I broke her heart as she puts it. Thanks.
We are still friends afterwards like i said. But ... is that just another ploy, a story you wd use to get the customer back, ... or the friend? The same person doesnt ever return
After a long break on my part - card problems in fact - she got mad i hadnt been back. I was with other girls, she was mad to ever think i wasnt like others. I broke her heart as she puts it. Thanks.
We are still friends afterwards like i said. But ... is that just another ploy, a story you wd use to get the customer back, ... or the friend? The same person doesnt ever return
RE: friends
I would almost think it's me :) But I never said my heart was broken and I guess I'd understand if there were other girls, that's normal.
I would try to get the friend back. But that's just me :)
Sorry it went this way, it sucks.
I would try to get the friend back. But that's just me :)
Sorry it went this way, it sucks.
RE: friends
It's that lesson you learned and the backing off. I don't know if she did that or if it's me, just the obvious lesson for me: i'm a customer and there's the end of it. Now she even apologises and sometimes freezes video - i;m going to boot brb - to get her kit off with another guy. Before she's made a point of aloneness together, but mbe that was always fake. Anything now could have been (if u r a customer) I even say listen just say if u r gonna b busy - that gets passed over.
RE: friends
I used to write messages to the members that I considered friends, but not too many answered, so I think they don't really care to keep in touch outside of pvt
RE: friends
This is a business. The girls are here to make money. It is a job. The members pay for the host's time in pvt. and they do whatever they do. Its really that simple.
RE: friends
I fall in love at least 5 times a day here. But I am as fat as a walrus. I haven't seen my 2 inch dick in years. My face is covered with seaweed and warts. I am so ugly that when I turn my cam on, it causes the hosts' eyes to bleed. I fart constantly. I couldn't get laid in a women's prison with a pocketful of pardons. I am a total loser. I am the bottom of the the barrel. I am the typical cc member.
RE: friends
Most viewers in my room send their cams during the sessions, so I have to disagree with you most cc-members look good and have nice bodies and big cocks. ;p So speak only for yourself please.
RE: friends
Good question. I go to many cam sites. And most have viewer profiles. And I see what these guys look like. True not all have profiles, but enough to give a true picture. Its also common sense. If these guys could get laid in the real world, they would be on any cam site. Duh.
RE: friends
you just like thinking that all members here are unattractive as you..lol..sorry but I merely dont believe in member who are going through hundreds profiles of other members, its just hilarious ...why would you do it? then again are you really sure that only hot guys have sex in real world? you are very wrong and funny. :)
RE: friends
Do you mean viewers lie to me that they are married? ))) More than funny! What the excuse can be for them to do it? And why I am so naive that shouldnt believe them in this fact? :)
RE: friends
Interesting that you would be looking at other members profiles.
Quite honestly I have seen some very hot successful men come into
my room and so I think you are all wet......sorry I just can't agree that all guys that come here have major issues.
What is your reason by the way?
Quite honestly I have seen some very hot successful men come into
my room and so I think you are all wet......sorry I just can't agree that all guys that come here have major issues.
What is your reason by the way?
RE: friends
I don't look at member profiles, but when they post in public areas everyone can see their photo. And it looks like animal kingdom. And I work with losers like these guys in the real world. That is how I know. I'm old as shit now , but when I was younger there was no internet, but if I wanted to meet girls, I would go to the local bar. And yes I am married.
RE: friends
In my experience there are 4 types of friends.
False friends
Fair weather Friends
Forgotten Friends
Forever Friends.
We all know the first and it is hard to avoid them. We all like to feel valued and needed and people who play to our ego's prey on our insecurities. Lying and manipulating us to play whatever twisted game they get their kicks from.
Fair weather friends are a little different. They are full of good intentions but when the pressure comes or when you are your lowest and need real support they vanish usually in a flurry of excuses.
Forgotten friends are the most common. They are genuine friends who come together through circumstance and may continue together for many years until circumstances change and they drift apart. It is not through malice or neglect but rather just some friends become superfluous over time. Sometimes they will think of you but almost as quickly as they do they forget you. You are not missed.
Forever friends are a rare as Taaffeite earrings but they do exist and as the name implies they stay with you forever. It is not that you have to talk to them everyday or even on a regular basis It is just when you do talk and catch up it is as if you never stopped talking. They care to think about you when you least expect it and you stay on their mind when you least request it. Often you share birthday and Christmas in some form or another and continue to be relevant to each other despite getting married and having families. These will stay with you your entire life and they will enrich it unimaginably.
Few of us can claim to have such friends but fewer sill can claim to be such friends.
Everyone else are just companions on your way through life. It maybe friendly companionship but it is temporary.
This is just my opinion of course but it comes from long experience.
TNT
False friends
Fair weather Friends
Forgotten Friends
Forever Friends.
We all know the first and it is hard to avoid them. We all like to feel valued and needed and people who play to our ego's prey on our insecurities. Lying and manipulating us to play whatever twisted game they get their kicks from.
Fair weather friends are a little different. They are full of good intentions but when the pressure comes or when you are your lowest and need real support they vanish usually in a flurry of excuses.
Forgotten friends are the most common. They are genuine friends who come together through circumstance and may continue together for many years until circumstances change and they drift apart. It is not through malice or neglect but rather just some friends become superfluous over time. Sometimes they will think of you but almost as quickly as they do they forget you. You are not missed.
Forever friends are a rare as Taaffeite earrings but they do exist and as the name implies they stay with you forever. It is not that you have to talk to them everyday or even on a regular basis It is just when you do talk and catch up it is as if you never stopped talking. They care to think about you when you least expect it and you stay on their mind when you least request it. Often you share birthday and Christmas in some form or another and continue to be relevant to each other despite getting married and having families. These will stay with you your entire life and they will enrich it unimaginably.
Few of us can claim to have such friends but fewer sill can claim to be such friends.
Everyone else are just companions on your way through life. It maybe friendly companionship but it is temporary.
This is just my opinion of course but it comes from long experience.
TNT
RE: friends
You failed to mention the most important type of friends. Imaginary friends :)
They mostly only visit when you want them to. They go away when you want them to. They only ever want to go to the pub when you want to go too. They encourage you to do things you wouldn't normally do.
I wouldn't have joined cc if my imaginary friend hadn't told me to.
So imaginary friends are the best :D
They mostly only visit when you want them to. They go away when you want them to. They only ever want to go to the pub when you want to go too. They encourage you to do things you wouldn't normally do.
I wouldn't have joined cc if my imaginary friend hadn't told me to.
So imaginary friends are the best :D
RE: friends
Do you think that going to bed with a good friend is the quickest way to ruin a good relationship?
dont forget about clocks
Don't forget for many it is clock change tonight.
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is it correct that russia will not do it?
many thanks
-1 hour
is it correct that russia will not do it?
many thanks
Women's pick-up
Hey folks)
I got a question.
Everybody knows that when a guy comes up to a girl with a purpose to start communication, and when he also theoretically and practically knows how to do it - it's called pick-up (in my definition).
And, maybe many of you know that there exists women's pick-up - it's when a girl theoretically and practically knows how to make a guy come up to her with a purpose to start communication, and when she does it (while the guy remains pretty sure it was his initiative). In other words, when she gives him those special signs of her liking.
So, i won't ask if you, guys and girls, can u always tell if he/she is just picking you up or he/she is really so nice and smart and funny and charming and sexy...))
I would only want to hear about your experience: something that really works with you, some certain phrase or action or anything that really works and makes you want to continue...))
I got a question.
Everybody knows that when a guy comes up to a girl with a purpose to start communication, and when he also theoretically and practically knows how to do it - it's called pick-up (in my definition).
And, maybe many of you know that there exists women's pick-up - it's when a girl theoretically and practically knows how to make a guy come up to her with a purpose to start communication, and when she does it (while the guy remains pretty sure it was his initiative). In other words, when she gives him those special signs of her liking.
So, i won't ask if you, guys and girls, can u always tell if he/she is just picking you up or he/she is really so nice and smart and funny and charming and sexy...))
I would only want to hear about your experience: something that really works with you, some certain phrase or action or anything that really works and makes you want to continue...))
RE: Women's pick-up
A woman approached me at a party and said, "Hi, haven't we slept together before?" Well, it was different...
RE: Women's pick-up
ya ya ..... so did you fuck him?
and
what did he say to make all you girls feel that way?
xxxxx
and
what did he say to make all you girls feel that way?
xxxxx
Member privacy
I had a pvt yesterday on another site where the model asked for my cam as a condition for her doing a naked show. I never complained to the support there as they are not as responsive as cc support. But the model I saw also has 2 rooms here on this site.
So it does happen at other sites that the girls are in charge of their own rooms where they can require member cams even if it says a cam is not necessary in every FAQ I have ever read on any site.
So it appears to me that since this kind of girl is making money on cam sites, that the newer viewers seem to be submissive as opposed to alpha males. I consider myself normal, somewhere in the middle or an old skool type of viewer. But it may be that I am a dinosaur and am being replaced with the newer type of viewers.
But who knows? And who really gives a shit? LMAO.
So it does happen at other sites that the girls are in charge of their own rooms where they can require member cams even if it says a cam is not necessary in every FAQ I have ever read on any site.
So it appears to me that since this kind of girl is making money on cam sites, that the newer viewers seem to be submissive as opposed to alpha males. I consider myself normal, somewhere in the middle or an old skool type of viewer. But it may be that I am a dinosaur and am being replaced with the newer type of viewers.
But who knows? And who really gives a shit? LMAO.
RE: Member privacy
hello normal viewer...it is not a requirement of the site that you as a member must have a cam and turn it on. it is up to you if you want to turn your cam on....
out of curiousity just ask her what she does if a member does not have a cam?
If the host is in a hardcore category then she is not permitted to make such a condition in order to get nude....
If a host says it is a condition...then that is her making that choice to do such a thing and if you do not agree then I suggest you find another host ....because many on here will not do such a thing....
good luck to you and happy viewing.... :)
out of curiousity just ask her what she does if a member does not have a cam?
If the host is in a hardcore category then she is not permitted to make such a condition in order to get nude....
If a host says it is a condition...then that is her making that choice to do such a thing and if you do not agree then I suggest you find another host ....because many on here will not do such a thing....
good luck to you and happy viewing.... :)
RE: Member privacy
If you read my post again, I did say it happened on another site not here. But the girl was also live here in 2 rooms.
RE: Member privacy
I did read ur post...I was only speaking about this site as you said she is also on here....and there was just recently a post about this very thing on here...so it does happen here too with some hosts....and from the other sites that I did work on it was the same thing....sorry for trying to be helpful.
RE: Member privacy
I only saw her in browse here. I have never had a pvt on this site with her.
RE: Member privacy
maybe she wanted fun in 2 , some like to watch while being watched, dont take it that wrong whos paying who...its about extreme real fun not just robotic moves right?
RE: Member privacy
"dont take it that wrong whos paying who...it"
That's the point. I'm paying!
That's the point. I'm paying!