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RE: how do you celebrate Christmas?
With family and friends. Lots of food, drink, laughing. I love to entertain and I go all out. I fill my home with people...lots of chldren. Kids running around playing and having fun is the best part. I buy them santa hats, or reindeer ears, or glow stick stars. I come up with something new every year. We sing carols. I have a friend who is a bartender and he gives me a list of what to buy and he makes these incredible drinks...particularly for the ladies. I drive to New York and visit a couple of places for amazing deserts. My home is decorated. I have the extra bedrooms set up for people who party too much and have to stay or who just don't want to go home. We open presents on Christmas Eve and for the kids who stay over there are presents from Santa the next morning. I love Christmas. I also go to church either early Christmas even or late on Christmas day. But all of it comes down to one thing...the people I love are with me and the time we spend together is precious....there are only so many Christmases in a lifetime....enjoy them all like it is your last.
RE: how do you celebrate Christmas?
LOL....you made my day. I have a lot of friends you should hang out with...maybe as you get older you will come to appreciate the noise, confusion, and mayhem as some worthwhile. Have a Merry Christmas and hopefully you will spend it quietly with a hottie.
RE: how do you celebrate Christmas?
I will be here))of course i want another) but in this year i can't allow what i want)
RE: how do you celebrate Christmas?
I will be here))of course i want another) but in this year i can't allow what i want)
RE: how do you celebrate Christmas?
well,sadly,it's christmas morning here,before sun up.this year i've just finished work,so i'll be sleeping this year.usually though i spend christmas eve celebrating with friends & christmas day suffering the dual effects of a hangover & the uncomfortable prescence of relatives.ohh,unlike most of my northern hemisphere friends,christmas here is summer,so it's sun,fun & water
p.s thoughts are with our nz brethren of christchurch,more f'n earthquakes makes for a sad christmas.luckily if there's a nationality that can perservere these disasters it's the kiwis :--)
p.s thoughts are with our nz brethren of christchurch,more f'n earthquakes makes for a sad christmas.luckily if there's a nationality that can perservere these disasters it's the kiwis :--)
RE: MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR
Faith makes all things possible,
Hope makes all things work,
Love makes all things beautiful,
May you have all the three for this Christmas.
Merry Christmas guys!!:)
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Hope makes all things work,
Love makes all things beautiful,
May you have all the three for this Christmas.
Merry Christmas guys!!:)
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RE: MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR
Merry Christmas To all! Wish all the BEST to all of you!!!LOVE and Happiness!
RE: MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR
Christmas is a magical time,
Is there any doubt?
But I'm going to need a psychotherapist
To get my anxeties out!
The sugarplums might be dancing,
But they're messing up my mind;
The silver bells aren't doing much
To help me unwind.
Is there any doubt?
But I'm going to need a psychotherapist
To get my anxeties out!
The sugarplums might be dancing,
But they're messing up my mind;
The silver bells aren't doing much
To help me unwind.
Thank You MYBOOBS
on behalf of one of the many members here, I thank you for the live chat-your always a beautiful, kind, loving, and yes sometimes naughty woman and wish you always the best throughout your life and many blessings and a joy holiday seasons-keep on smiling
RE: polite guys...
happens a lot--what do you expect from us hry members anyway have a great day and merry christmas
RE: polite guys...
glory--you are right--i will admit,,, sorry for the post above, anyway merry christmas again and have a great day
RE: polite guys...
one can be polite and direct. in fact, it is more polite to ask nicely "Will you do such and such?" rather than to beat around the bush and assume the host knows what you want. Assuming is the height of rudeness.
RE: polite guys...
Write it to the guys that are the offenders and not all! Maybe your pics and profiles attract guys with expectations as you explain...that isn't the norm here!!
RE: polite guys...
Guys come here for sex its a porn site so girls stay away if you dont like it . Its not polite to be on a porn site and expect guys to pay we get mad too
RE: polite guys...
Have u read the section About Us in the Official Stuff. No mention of CC being a porn site! True there are categories where varying degres of nudity, etc are permitted but that does not make CC a wholly porn site.
RE: polite guys...
It reads like the non adult categories. You must be a non adult host or maybe Glamour/Little shy. And you say "some degree of nudity". Are you talking about IA too?
RE: polite guys...
Dont be so naive, CC and all other cam sites like it are porn sites. If they were not, there would not be any age requirements....
RE: polite guys...
It's a porn site and the pervs are customers so don't be telling them what to say in their moment of passion that they are paying for.....go to damn dating site if you want them to talk like little boys in aww .
RE: polite guys...
If you are so sensitive then I think you are in the wrong place!!
Since when do you tell your customers on a porn site what to say....sheeesh. LOL you crack me up!!!!
Who is paying you mama?
Since when do you tell your customers on a porn site what to say....sheeesh. LOL you crack me up!!!!
Who is paying you mama?
RE: polite guys...
a person paying is how they will be during the act, however, if you want something, then dont pussy foot around, say so in free chat. dont make her guess what you want.
glory is simply saying....tell me what you want in free chat before video, if you cant be bothered to say what you are wanting without being rude in FREEE chat then you have no right to bitch about it.
I agree members should give a clear idea of what they are into instead of playing stupid guessing games. yes your are paying, however if you want a host to do something then be a man and say what it is. otherwise we have to read the bloody posts of member bitching because they did not say what they wanted and expected her to guess
glory is simply saying....tell me what you want in free chat before video, if you cant be bothered to say what you are wanting without being rude in FREEE chat then you have no right to bitch about it.
I agree members should give a clear idea of what they are into instead of playing stupid guessing games. yes your are paying, however if you want a host to do something then be a man and say what it is. otherwise we have to read the bloody posts of member bitching because they did not say what they wanted and expected her to guess
RE: polite guys...
I was not saying bullshit to the original poster, I was saying it to the members who think that because they are paying it means they can be rude and arrogant...
as for being polite when they say what they are wanting, it does not matter if it is in open session or free chat, they should still be polite about it, if after the host says yes ok to their request then we are pretty much stuck with the attitude they portray, but are just jumping into video then it will not kill them to be polite when saying what they want, altho again there are those members that do not say what they want and play the guessing game.
I am still dumb founded as to why a member would go directly to video and say what he wants, I don't understand why members do not ask in free chat of what they want. If a member chooses to jump directly into video to say what he wants, well that is just down right silly, and it still does not give him the right to be a dick about it.
as for being polite when they say what they are wanting, it does not matter if it is in open session or free chat, they should still be polite about it, if after the host says yes ok to their request then we are pretty much stuck with the attitude they portray, but are just jumping into video then it will not kill them to be polite when saying what they want, altho again there are those members that do not say what they want and play the guessing game.
I am still dumb founded as to why a member would go directly to video and say what he wants, I don't understand why members do not ask in free chat of what they want. If a member chooses to jump directly into video to say what he wants, well that is just down right silly, and it still does not give him the right to be a dick about it.
RE: polite guys...
There is nothing wrong with asking in free chat, do you go nude, do u use toys, or what ever it might be. there are instances where a host does not do something, but once in video if the member is nice and the connection is there then she might be inclined to do something that she thought she would not do. but at least she had the chance in free chat to say...yes or no..
there are times that I have done something that I do not usually do if the member is polite from the get go. with most hosts, you dont have to be a rude arrogant dick to get what you want.
there are times that I have done something that I do not usually do if the member is polite from the get go. with most hosts, you dont have to be a rude arrogant dick to get what you want.
RE: polite guys...
A connection? Between two people typing to each other and thousands of miles away? Are you serious?
Keep it simple people.....
Member....Will you do this for me?
Host....Yes
Member....Then lets do it
Member....Will you do this for me?
Host....No
Member....Have a nice day, bye
Keep it simple people.....
Member....Will you do this for me?
Host....Yes
Member....Then lets do it
Member....Will you do this for me?
Host....No
Member....Have a nice day, bye
RE: polite guys...
If you are a host here you should expect it all! If in hardcore you should be prepared to do it all!! Any member is going to say what he feels is how ever he wants to present it.....he is paying and the customer.
If you are so particular of how you want a member to ask you things and where then why don't you put a warning message in your own profile and say when you enter my room this is what I want you do! Of course you wouldn't because it is just plain bitchy and so you post it here to train members how you want them to approach you....ppffff.
If you are on a porn site then you should expect anything that happens rather than whine anonymously. This isn't Burger King and we don't make it your way. If you want to get paid to be on a porn site then expect it all!
If you are so particular of how you want a member to ask you things and where then why don't you put a warning message in your own profile and say when you enter my room this is what I want you do! Of course you wouldn't because it is just plain bitchy and so you post it here to train members how you want them to approach you....ppffff.
If you are on a porn site then you should expect anything that happens rather than whine anonymously. This isn't Burger King and we don't make it your way. If you want to get paid to be on a porn site then expect it all!
Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
OK so I am schocked , I just seen rolling a previous topic how almost all men here are seriously confused about one aspect:
A woman had the right and the freedom to get a job.
It's not an obligation for her.
She can take one job or not.
Still, the responsability of feeding the whole direct family , meaning his woman and children and pets it belongs entirely to the man, who is pshisically stonger built by nature.
Yet, during history many guys abused their women and children because of his financial provider position over them. The children was even directly beaten or hurt, even their safety-symbol (Mom) was beaten or hurt or ...killed.
That's why, even nobody cut off (!!!!) the men's financial
R E S P O N S A B I L I T Y
for their women and children, the women have now a legal way to escape from family-abuse: women are now allowed to have a job with equal terms as any man has.
The woman is not a machine, she will be sick and tired , she has a very fragile body comparing with a man, she will use a lot of her time to gave birth and raise babies, which means lack of vitamins, lack of calcium, lack of muscular strength, lack of time to go to a job, thats why first things what she is looking to a man is safety and protection: phisical, psihical and financial. For her future babies most of all. It's in the woman's instinct to protect the future life MORE than the present life, she will not hesitate to die herself fo her baby's safety or salvation. Or do anything for that..
I just read above how most of the guys expect from a woman to do all cooking, housekeeping, all whats needed in a house PLUS babies PLUS work 10 hrs a day AND bring him a nice salary home. I think it's an abusive menthality pushing the woman down, like killing her slowly by too much work, punishing her from the start of any relationship for ... what exactly?
The difference between humans and animals is living together, completing each other, helping each other and respecting each other.
Yes, it's trustfull for a man when he sees a woman CAN HAVE a job so she will never feel helpless in case he will have an accident or die, she will be able to survive together with the babies.
I was raised in a family where my father begged my mother to quit her job and we always had in our home like a peaceful island for our own apart of this crazy world .
My father was the one who told me what should I expect from a good husband and ... why. My father and mother have almost 67 years of marriage and they are still a team.
Merry Christmas to all rational women and men and to their well educated children !
A woman had the right and the freedom to get a job.
It's not an obligation for her.
She can take one job or not.
Still, the responsability of feeding the whole direct family , meaning his woman and children and pets it belongs entirely to the man, who is pshisically stonger built by nature.
Yet, during history many guys abused their women and children because of his financial provider position over them. The children was even directly beaten or hurt, even their safety-symbol (Mom) was beaten or hurt or ...killed.
That's why, even nobody cut off (!!!!) the men's financial
R E S P O N S A B I L I T Y
for their women and children, the women have now a legal way to escape from family-abuse: women are now allowed to have a job with equal terms as any man has.
The woman is not a machine, she will be sick and tired , she has a very fragile body comparing with a man, she will use a lot of her time to gave birth and raise babies, which means lack of vitamins, lack of calcium, lack of muscular strength, lack of time to go to a job, thats why first things what she is looking to a man is safety and protection: phisical, psihical and financial. For her future babies most of all. It's in the woman's instinct to protect the future life MORE than the present life, she will not hesitate to die herself fo her baby's safety or salvation. Or do anything for that..
I just read above how most of the guys expect from a woman to do all cooking, housekeeping, all whats needed in a house PLUS babies PLUS work 10 hrs a day AND bring him a nice salary home. I think it's an abusive menthality pushing the woman down, like killing her slowly by too much work, punishing her from the start of any relationship for ... what exactly?
The difference between humans and animals is living together, completing each other, helping each other and respecting each other.
Yes, it's trustfull for a man when he sees a woman CAN HAVE a job so she will never feel helpless in case he will have an accident or die, she will be able to survive together with the babies.
I was raised in a family where my father begged my mother to quit her job and we always had in our home like a peaceful island for our own apart of this crazy world .
My father was the one who told me what should I expect from a good husband and ... why. My father and mother have almost 67 years of marriage and they are still a team.
Merry Christmas to all rational women and men and to their well educated children !
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
I, for one, have no idea whose post you are replying to. Who was it that said women should do all the cooking, cleaning and do a full time job?
I knot the point I was making is that because western society has adjusted to dual-income families, it is now an obligation for a woman to work in order for the family to afford the house, car etc. This is because the cost of living has risen to require two salaries.
It's not rocket science. Women demanded the choice to work, but now they don't have the choice. That's fact, not a derogatory or sexist statement. However, it is still true in most couples I know that the man is the higher earner. But if you're both working, I really think household chores should be shared. What sort of "man" makes his wife do all the household chores when she has to go out to work just like she does.
I knot the point I was making is that because western society has adjusted to dual-income families, it is now an obligation for a woman to work in order for the family to afford the house, car etc. This is because the cost of living has risen to require two salaries.
It's not rocket science. Women demanded the choice to work, but now they don't have the choice. That's fact, not a derogatory or sexist statement. However, it is still true in most couples I know that the man is the higher earner. But if you're both working, I really think household chores should be shared. What sort of "man" makes his wife do all the household chores when she has to go out to work just like she does.
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
My goodness gracious. This site is overflowing with misandrists. I think T is the 2nd coming of Carrie Nation. And she's not alone here. If one is a straight white male, he doesn't have a chance in China of catching a break. I think that in the next 50 years all straight white males will be extinct, gone the way of the dinosaur.
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
Carey Nation was temperance not women's suffrage. Got your history confused there, Howie? btw, I thought you were dead LOL
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
he is but he came back just like Elvis comes back...lool
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
Ted, it is not so much the cost of living that requires two salaries but the desire of living, wanting what folks have. In my area, homes cost on average 350-400K, They are huge. far bigger than the house I grew up in People want the biggest the best. It took my parents 30 years to have the nice things they had. Most people today want them the moment we move out of the house. I am convinced that if people were willing to live more simply, not have the biggest houses and most expensive cars, etc. many of those "required" two salary families could well be 1 salary families.
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
I'm not sure I agree with you. Here in the UK, those who earn a regular wage need two wages to buy somewhere small. Those who earn a good wage need two to buy somewhere bigger.
If those on a good wage go down to one wage, they would just buy somewhere small but have a better quality of life than those on the regular wage. But the fact is, the majority would still need two incomes.
If those on a good wage go down to one wage, they would just buy somewhere small but have a better quality of life than those on the regular wage. But the fact is, the majority would still need two incomes.
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
Now I can see why women are becoming Bi--want it from both sides
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
I agree with Ted.... I don't know whose post you are referring to. I don't seem to have read the same thread you describe lol.
In the USA, at least, women are the ones getting higher education, in greater numbers than men are. So it is likely that soon women will be the main wage-earners in most families.
If that's the case, why shouldn't a woman expect at least an equal partnership when it comes to marriage?
Then again, perhaps a woman's life span will no longer be greater than a man's, on average, and we will all die sooner?
Please. Ideally, a woman and a man, in marriage, is a partnership. We protect and take care of each other, and the family. The respective roles of each may change over time (even the kinds of partners, if you consider gay marriage), but the idea of marriage does not... at least as I understand it.
In the USA, at least, women are the ones getting higher education, in greater numbers than men are. So it is likely that soon women will be the main wage-earners in most families.
If that's the case, why shouldn't a woman expect at least an equal partnership when it comes to marriage?
Then again, perhaps a woman's life span will no longer be greater than a man's, on average, and we will all die sooner?
Please. Ideally, a woman and a man, in marriage, is a partnership. We protect and take care of each other, and the family. The respective roles of each may change over time (even the kinds of partners, if you consider gay marriage), but the idea of marriage does not... at least as I understand it.
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
Sorry for you life is not a princes story for every girl in the world.
In this world only small percentage of mens are in position where they can earn enough to support whole family if woman dont work.
Rent, food, car, hobbies, childrens education, clothes and woman hairdresser all together cost too much for one man in average job to take care so it is possible only in dreams and fairytales to think that every man should take care of his family and let woman stay home keeping herself a pretty little princes.
Happy family is made of husband and wife, who work together to make living and give good life for childrens, and yes most mens can also cook and clean the house, together with wife. (thou i dont know about russian mens)
In this world only small percentage of mens are in position where they can earn enough to support whole family if woman dont work.
Rent, food, car, hobbies, childrens education, clothes and woman hairdresser all together cost too much for one man in average job to take care so it is possible only in dreams and fairytales to think that every man should take care of his family and let woman stay home keeping herself a pretty little princes.
Happy family is made of husband and wife, who work together to make living and give good life for childrens, and yes most mens can also cook and clean the house, together with wife. (thou i dont know about russian mens)
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
You seem to be confused,western men dont need looking after like maybe east European men, who seem to go directly from their mothers looking after them to their wives cooking and cleaning for them.Most western men cook and clean for themselves and even look after the children when needed.Like other people have said,its very hard to survive on just one wage these days,you need both man and woman working to be able to live normally.
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
If Moonlit Knight wrote something this long no one would read it. What a double standard!!
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
who says we read all that smoochie wrote? LOL
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
It is simple...live within your means, if you want to keep up with the jone's then you have to pay for it.
in just about any relationship both usually have to work, especially if there are kids involved. So bottom line is if she does not want to work too then she should not be demanding more than is affordable.
in just about any relationship both usually have to work, especially if there are kids involved. So bottom line is if she does not want to work too then she should not be demanding more than is affordable.
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
I just can't believe a bunch of people took the time to read this...I didn't
RE: Women's rights to produce money are not obligations
yet you took the time to respond, if it is not something that you are interested in then why bother even responding, this forum is for everyone to start a thread. not agreeing with what is said is one thing, but being rude about it is another.
would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
Guys guys guys .....i met and fell in love with a host here...after a few months we decided to meet in person...yes yes it does happen....i was married she was married but we met anyway in Russia ....we were in love ....over the next few years we met every month and we almost mae it ...she even came to UK to visit ......but to answer your question ....it was a living hell every minute she was on line and the depths of that hell every time she went into private with one of you.....no matter what she said about it being "just work"....the thought of her even just stripping (she did less and less on the sites ie no touching over time) was a nightmare...i didnt want you all spending hours with her talking to er and then to think you saw her naked and she had to watch you cam to cam wanking at what she did .......so yes we are all brave and liberated ...but when it really comes to it ....try it ...its a nighmare.....for some reason the models are cold to it ...yes they feel its work ...its nt about trust...its about the woman you love doing things for guys that are intimate and personal that should only be shared with the person you love .......my advice ....find a gf outside here ....................i am going to ...............
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
is that you were jealous of men who never touched her, instead of being more concerned about the HUSBAND she was sleeping with, regardless of what she might have told you.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
I woudl guess that the answer to the first question lies in the fact that they used to meet EVERY month. Unless he's rich, I can't imagine he had a lot of spare money to send her.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
You think all men in the west have several hundred dollars spare each month that they just don't know what to do with?
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
Yes, I do wonder what he thought he was going to achieve long term. Perhaps it's just nice to have this exotic foreign fantasy to take you away from your normal life.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
+1
I share same feelings... In the below thread 'guys,would you let your wife work as a host here? ' I can also find myself in some opinions...
I share same feelings... In the below thread 'guys,would you let your wife work as a host here? ' I can also find myself in some opinions...
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
Never. Even if a host thought that her time on CC was largely positive I think it changes their opinion of men, themselves and sexuality in general. I would work 3 jobs before I let that happen.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
If he worked three jobs, he would never have any time to spend with you. Is this what you want?
I've added this to my "how to be a real man" list. It will come in handy some day :))).
I've added this to my "how to be a real man" list. It will come in handy some day :))).
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
Different people have different attitudes. You say "you wold work three jobs before you let that happen" but if you do that and support her completely that also means you have a lot of control. For some women their self respect requires them to keep some independence. I would have no problm with a girlfriend or wife working on here if she did not have a problem doing so. What is the problem with other guys seeing her body if you are the one who gets to enjoy it and even more importantly have her heart, her love.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
If I was lucky enough to have a man that loved me, if he did not want me to work on here then I would not, altho, I would not want to work on here if I lived with a man.
"A Member" is right, it would be the one I give my heart and love to that would be holding me, touching me, that I would be snuggggggglllleed up in his arms, that I would be kissing good night (among other things) and kissing every morning and every chance I got.
It would be very unfair to have a man bust his ass while I stayed home and did nothing and I would not expect any man to carry the full load of supporting us. We would work together and if that meant me working two jobs or more to help bring in my share then so be it. As long as it was him that I was able to be with.
"A Member" is right, it would be the one I give my heart and love to that would be holding me, touching me, that I would be snuggggggglllleed up in his arms, that I would be kissing good night (among other things) and kissing every morning and every chance I got.
It would be very unfair to have a man bust his ass while I stayed home and did nothing and I would not expect any man to carry the full load of supporting us. We would work together and if that meant me working two jobs or more to help bring in my share then so be it. As long as it was him that I was able to be with.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
If a girl from online becomes my gf (and its happen) then she stop work online and her pussy is only for me. I never met a girl who chooses work online if dont need the money
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
Your guilty yourself about what you say is your nightmare. YOU ARE MARRIED!!!!! Must too be living hell for your wife that you have online girl friend for intimate relations and visits every month.
Girls stay away from this guy - he cheats his wife and will cheat you to when your his gf or wife.
NO Honor in him, his vows, or his solemn word.
Girls stay away from this guy - he cheats his wife and will cheat you to when your his gf or wife.
NO Honor in him, his vows, or his solemn word.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
Your post sounds very disingenuous to me, like something written for some women's magazine, rather than a true honest post. Sounds very "made up" to me
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
I've visited and slept with several hosts and the fact they stripped and did all manner of other things on cam with guys watching them never bothered me at all. Not one bit. And if they were "proper" girlfriends? Nope. Wouldn't bother me at all. It's just a job. It's just stripping and simulated sex... I don't see what the big deal is, unless... you're the jealous type, or insecure, or deep down you feel that there's something wrong with nudity and sex.
I've dated two strippers in the past. One of them I dated for several years. It never bothered me in the least that other guys got to see her naked. In fact, I appreciated the fact that these dopes paid her hundreds of dollars just to look at her while I was the one sleeping with her.
I just don't understand what all the hangups are regarding nudity and sex. I just chalk it up to most humans being very petty and silly.
I've dated two strippers in the past. One of them I dated for several years. It never bothered me in the least that other guys got to see her naked. In fact, I appreciated the fact that these dopes paid her hundreds of dollars just to look at her while I was the one sleeping with her.
I just don't understand what all the hangups are regarding nudity and sex. I just chalk it up to most humans being very petty and silly.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
If she did and she enjoyed it (and used a condom!)... more power to her! Why would I want to get in the way of someone either making a buck or getting pleasure out of sex? Jealousy and possessiveness are roads to a bitter, sad life.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
if his wife is a stripper it doesnt mean she is a whore and sleep with everybody, get real please, you are very narrow minded person.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
"and maybe she slept with several too in private room after doing strip"
ur words? so what else can I say if u think so about all strippers.
ur words? so what else can I say if u think so about all strippers.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
Yes, exactly. If it's fun and she won't contract a disease... she should do it... with whomever she likes (neighbor, UPS guy, etc.). Again, why would someone want to impede another person's pleasure except for base human feelings of jealousy and insecurity? Shouldn't we all strive to be better than that?
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
there are some things that more important than just "pleasure" in this life..
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
"Pleasure" is just another word for "happiness" or "contentment"?
So long as you're not impeding someone else's pleasure/happiness/contentment... what is more important? You're born, you live and then you die. What's more important than having as much pleasure/contentment/happiness during your life (so long as you're not restricting the same in others)? I'd argue nothing.
So long as you're not impeding someone else's pleasure/happiness/contentment... what is more important? You're born, you live and then you die. What's more important than having as much pleasure/contentment/happiness during your life (so long as you're not restricting the same in others)? I'd argue nothing.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
pleasure is not hapiness, you can get some pleasure for 5 mins and still remain unhappy...think about it
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
I am one of your wives/gf, I won't say which, but I will say that once I found out that you were waiting for me to go to bed, or go to work, or simply shopping, or or even the times that you could not even wait till I got home, just so you could come on here, it showed me that I was not that important to you.
So guess what my darling partner, I decided to become a host on here, so when you have been sleeping or at work, I have been on here working and saving up for the day that I burst your big balloon, I can not believe that all these years you were doing this to me.
So guess what my darling partner, I decided to become a host on here, so when you have been sleeping or at work, I have been on here working and saving up for the day that I burst your big balloon, I can not believe that all these years you were doing this to me.
RE: would you let your wife ...GF...lover work on here
You're quibbling over semantics.
If I say that I lead a "pleasing" or "pleasurable" life... I'm really just saying that I lead a "happy" life. Happiness and contentment are, to a large extent, a function of pleasure, whether such pleasure is derived from family, travel, sex or whathaveyou.
Yes, you can have occasional moments of pleasure without being happy in an overall sense. But you can't have much happiness or contentment if you're life is devoid of pleasure.
If I say that I lead a "pleasing" or "pleasurable" life... I'm really just saying that I lead a "happy" life. Happiness and contentment are, to a large extent, a function of pleasure, whether such pleasure is derived from family, travel, sex or whathaveyou.
Yes, you can have occasional moments of pleasure without being happy in an overall sense. But you can't have much happiness or contentment if you're life is devoid of pleasure.
Merry Christmas and a Happy New year
It's time to grow up and act my age. Another year is ending and after 5 long years here at cc, I have learn just about enough I need to know about host and members here. Especially members that continue to say the same things over and over and think talking nasty is the way to go with these host, well I have learn to start acting my age not my low self esteem of thinking i'm being cute and if the younger host here still love it, well someday it will catch up to them, so be my guess and continue on. To the host, well I do expect you all to continue to take this talk, abuse, sex or whatever you want to call it , on. It's a job at a porn site us members do like, until it's time to grow up and act my true age. Anyway I want to thank cc for the years of service they provide us men and women here and all the fun had in the past, but time to move on and get my life moving on with my wife, by the way thanks cc too for this special host you provided me during the years here. Merry Christmas to the cc staff, all the host here and to member number 1, 2, 3, and 100 who I had become friends with here.
RE: Merry Christmas and a Happy New year
Good Luck and what happy to our friendship here. Anyway merry xmas and HNY and wish your life well
RE: Merry Christmas and a Happy New year
It is good that you see what you need to do but you don't have to put down hosts and members to get on your path. It sounds like you are a male host that didn't do so well so move on and in the process don't blame everyone here.....It's your life and you make it what you want!!
RE: Merry Christmas and a Happy New year
hmm--not blaming you all--i was blaming myself-so get over it if the shoe fits
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
If my wife wants to be a host under my roof i better get my fair share from her money. Dont forget that her duties at home will get neglected if she works ... with her own money things would just get out of hand.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
since always, me and my husband had fifty-fifty shared the housekeeping, shopping and cooking, and none of us was secretly hiding his/her money of the other one, we always been best buddies to each other but since latest years I feel everyday how gratefull he is that he can TOUCH what my members can only dream of.
webcamming improved my family , even we never talk about my webcamming-thing at all, but his eyes show me his happiness to have the privilege to live with me , he feels alive every second, I am truly amazed sometimes :) and I think this is his biggest support for me : the looks in his eyes of his feelings.
I know , he is way too intuitive, intelligent and fun to be with, I know the privilege to be together is equal for both of us, I am aware I am lucky and deciding to do webcamming was actually one of the best decisions in my life, and I am not talking about any money.
I posted this to help you understand why some hosts are not real dating any members :))
webcamming improved my family , even we never talk about my webcamming-thing at all, but his eyes show me his happiness to have the privilege to live with me , he feels alive every second, I am truly amazed sometimes :) and I think this is his biggest support for me : the looks in his eyes of his feelings.
I know , he is way too intuitive, intelligent and fun to be with, I know the privilege to be together is equal for both of us, I am aware I am lucky and deciding to do webcamming was actually one of the best decisions in my life, and I am not talking about any money.
I posted this to help you understand why some hosts are not real dating any members :))
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
I know your feelings. I have known one of the chathosts 2 years now. We have became very close. We talk every day. I am from America and she is from Europe. In November of 2010, all plans were made for me to visit her. All went badly. I had an acident and was unable to meet with her. We are madly in love. I hope to this year make the trip. She is a very exciting women. I have no objections to her working with cc. Thank you for giving encouragement to men like me.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
You mean, girls from "here" are lazy and want to be totally supported?
No, women in the USA are liberated and want equal partnership with men. The benefits and burdens of a partnership should be shared.
No, women in the USA are liberated and want equal partnership with men. The benefits and burdens of a partnership should be shared.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Only if it makes sense to both of us, if we can sort out the issues and the benefits outweigh the negatives.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Yes women in America love working a fulltime job, birthing and raising children, caring for the home and all the duties it requires while the man works and warms the sofa with the remote control.
That statement had to have come from a male and totally misrepresented women in America.
It would have more accurately put that most men in America love having more money so it is convenient to have a woman that will care for everything in their lives together and bring home the bacon too.
That statement had to have come from a male and totally misrepresented women in America.
It would have more accurately put that most men in America love having more money so it is convenient to have a woman that will care for everything in their lives together and bring home the bacon too.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
If that's what you think, marriage is not for you. You need to have better expectations, and you're not up for it.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
No this is what men expect as you indicated....they are bit spoiled and yet instead of doing more to relieve the stress put on women you come up with they want their independence.
You are not good marriage material....work and warm your sofa with the remote control and pay for the other things that you need done...lol
You are not good marriage material....work and warm your sofa with the remote control and pay for the other things that you need done...lol
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Where did I say I expected a woman to do all the work? You made that all up.
What I said, and what has been said elsewhere, is that women seek a partnership, and that benefits and burdens should be shared. I said nothing about sitting around on a sofa with a remote control.
You're either looking for an argument or you simply don't understand what I'm talking about. Or else you have some strange ideas about what life is like in the USA. Maybe you should put down the remote control yourself.
What I said, and what has been said elsewhere, is that women seek a partnership, and that benefits and burdens should be shared. I said nothing about sitting around on a sofa with a remote control.
You're either looking for an argument or you simply don't understand what I'm talking about. Or else you have some strange ideas about what life is like in the USA. Maybe you should put down the remote control yourself.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?Get
Any women that expect's to be supported has her head in the cloud's. Women want equal right's. At the same time want to be supported. Get real. A millionare maybe. But the averge joe. No. It's a tough world. I'd never go with a women that expect's to be looked after.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?Get
Chill! He is talking about how he views a woman in his personal life and it has nothing to do how he is as a member. Yes he might be here because he is single and hey that is great but as a guy to marry probably not. His comments have little consideration for what women go through. He will have the children and care for them and keep the house nice and cook like a chef while he keeps a full time job too....lol. No he won't and couldn't but he will demand it and I forget she must look perfect and be ready for sex at any moment.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?Get
If there were several extreme assumptions, you just jumped to all of them.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?Get
So you're a woman who thinks the man should earn all the money and the woman should be "supported"?
I would guess the number of families I know in the UK where the wife doesn't *have* to work is about 1 in 20. No idea in the US.
In the west, women demanded a right to work and ended up with an obligation to do so.
Good luck finding that super-high-earning alpha-male though. They are few and far between and it will be hard work keeping him.
I would guess the number of families I know in the UK where the wife doesn't *have* to work is about 1 in 20. No idea in the US.
In the west, women demanded a right to work and ended up with an obligation to do so.
Good luck finding that super-high-earning alpha-male though. They are few and far between and it will be hard work keeping him.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?Get
Same as the USA. Both spouses work just to keep up.
If you think the wife does all the household chores, cooking, laundry, child-rearing, repairs, etc., you're watching too much TV. It ain't so.
If you think the wife does all the household chores, cooking, laundry, child-rearing, repairs, etc., you're watching too much TV. It ain't so.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?Get
I do agree that these girls seem to have this misconception. Hopefully they wake up before they marry, move and then reality hits! Have seen many sad stories from hosts that relocated and then stuck in a country knowing no one and trying to get away from her fairy tale that didn't happen!
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?Get
And at the end of the day when she is exhausted from work, household responsibilities and your responsibilities (laundry cooking etc.) and she looks less that great and is too tired for sex......where do you go? Here!
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
And why would a guy here want to marry any host who's prepared to flash her pussy to anybody in the world for a few $. Classy, let me introduce you to mother!! Seriously...lmao
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Because some of us are more sexually liberated than others. If I met a girl that I really fell for the fact that she worked as a cam girl showing her pussy to everyone would be of little importance. In fact, if I dated a cam girl, I would prefer it that she was flashing her pussy to everyone rather than chatting to them. That way it is likely to stay just a job.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
The sexual liberation thing again. The old "I must be more enlightened than you becuase I'm more liberal". Isn't it posibsle to be sexually liberated and yet not want your wife showing her vagina on a global scale?
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
If I was married I would prefer my wife not to be working in the adult industry either However the guy I replied to wasn't talking about his wife. He was talking about never marrying and by implication, never dating, a girl who had done adult work whilst using those very same services (and for all we know behind the back of the wife or girlfriend he holds in such high regard).
So, Ted, if it makes you feel better I will replace the offending words with pathetic, immature or hypocrite. Take your pick.
So, Ted, if it makes you feel better I will replace the offending words with pathetic, immature or hypocrite. Take your pick.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
A host can quit, and get a different job. Mosts hosts are actually smart ladies, some do this to pay for school, you know... Also, a host can stay on CC but change her style, i.e. do non adult or flirt in Glam. No pussy involved whatsoever.
Any host could make that compromise for a man who deserves it. So yes, why would she do that FOR A MEMBER? Both hosts and members have issues. But the kind of issues a member has, can't be solved through a compromise.
Any host could make that compromise for a man who deserves it. So yes, why would she do that FOR A MEMBER? Both hosts and members have issues. But the kind of issues a member has, can't be solved through a compromise.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
It would be okay if my girlfriend or wife worked here although I would prefer it if they had a more mainstream job. If I could afford to support her I would but I can't so, yes, I would expect her to make some money too.
I don't think American or UK men are any more or less greedy than men from other countries. As others have said it is probably due to the fact that women in these countries wanted and got equality and are happy to make their own careers.
I don't think American or UK men are any more or less greedy than men from other countries. As others have said it is probably due to the fact that women in these countries wanted and got equality and are happy to make their own careers.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Has it ever occured to you that there are hosts with real careers, who still come here? Some of us find it fun and genuinely entertaining. I wonder why some of you boys are so disrespectful and judgemental. Well, not really wonder, I pretty much know your true reasons, but I bet your excuses would be fun to hear.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Reading your post reminded me of what my folks used to say. Study a lot, get a degree, get a good job. Well I did all that and guess what ... I DON'T WANT A JOB! I don't want to work 9 to 5 and make some other people dreams come true. I chose to come on the cams because it helps me make my dreams come true. I'm already rent and mortgage free and will be looking for my first buy to let property next summer in UK next summer :)
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Why is it alright for men to be here showing their dicks, chatting the girls up, some asking to meet for sex in person, spending money, but it is not alright for the woman to be here making money?
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
As a viewer, it is great girls do this. For them to be here for anything but money makes no sense at all to me.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
I said nothing about doing it for any other reason than money, altho if men are here for enjoyment because they feel it is better than going out in person, then why is it not alright for a female to be here for the money as well as to enjoy too. I really am not one that wants to go out and pick up strange men and have their hands all over me. but here I can make some money and I also have some sexual fun and enjoyment too...just because there are some members here who do not care if the female enjoys or not does not mean that all members are that way.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
It's fine for a female to be here for any reason or no reason. It is always better for a viewer if the host is enjoying herself or at least appearing to enjoy herself. But at the end of the day, it's all about the viewer's satisfaction or lack of. The viewer is the one paying. This is a business. Case closed.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
No maybe for you case closed, but there are people who come here for one reason and get lucky and find something else even if they are not looking for it. so it might be what you want and that is fine, but you are not everyone. so to make it sound like you are speaking for everyone is not right.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Who said it was,theres a huge increase in divorce rates due to internet porn addiction in recent years.So obviously its not right that men visit these sites so much.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
"CC is one of a few sites with majority of east europeans but on many many others they majority are americans,british,germans"
Not true. The great majority of cam girls on all sites are from eastern Europe.
Not true. The great majority of cam girls on all sites are from eastern Europe.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
If thats true why oh why would their bf's or husbands accept them doing sex work for other men online.Only type of men who would be happy with that are ones who benefit from the money and care more about that than they do about the well being of their women.As far as camgirls being more educated or smarted than members,I dont think that is really the case,you have some very uneducated and stupid members same as you do with some of the models.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Oh that's so not my case. OK, I was born in Eastern Europe, I married an Englishman. I didn't meet him on cam sites! We met, fell in love, I told him I do cam sites and wouldn't stop and he accepted it. I make above the average wage in UK, he makes about
three times the average wage in UK. All the money goes into our joint account and after paying the bills we save and invest the rest. He doesn't benefit financially one bit from me being on cams apart from the fact that he doesn't have to support me and I am flexible with my time so we do holidays when his holidays are! In fact he does all the cooking and cleaning in the weekends because I make very good money online at that time. We are a very good team and functioning very well together for nearly a decade :) We love each other to bits!
three times the average wage in UK. All the money goes into our joint account and after paying the bills we save and invest the rest. He doesn't benefit financially one bit from me being on cams apart from the fact that he doesn't have to support me and I am flexible with my time so we do holidays when his holidays are! In fact he does all the cooking and cleaning in the weekends because I make very good money online at that time. We are a very good team and functioning very well together for nearly a decade :) We love each other to bits!
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
I can see why you posted what you did but you said something like "if we'd wanted an easy life we'd have married rich men from the start" as if you just have to snap your fingers. From what I've discovered, the rich men in e.g. Russia are often real players and know they have the pick of many, many beautiful women. I think it's more the case you would be lucky to be picked than you would choose to marry one.
An "easy life" was never going to come that easy. You work as a host because, compared to the other options, it's easy money. But at the same time, many girls just as beautiful and intelligent as you will not work as a host because they have a moral objection to it and know that it might damage their chances in a relationship.
An "easy life" was never going to come that easy. You work as a host because, compared to the other options, it's easy money. But at the same time, many girls just as beautiful and intelligent as you will not work as a host because they have a moral objection to it and know that it might damage their chances in a relationship.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
I agree to most of your points of view, minus the "other job" options you described. It is true that in, say, Romania, teachers and doctors are not very well paid, for example. But there are other niches, like advertising, where you can easily get a $600 - $800 start-up salary, as a junior, and reach $1000 in like, a year. If the options were just two - Be a cam host or work on $200, then all women in Eastern EU would be either here, or dead from starvation.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Of course! Here you need to know English to hold a conversation, know some technical stuff, use a computer and cam, be open minded, self- confident etc. Paper girl doesn't need any of these.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
mu wife decides when and how she works, just like me. she happens to travel a lot for work. If she wanted to work on cam, and could make a good wage, it would be fine with me. She would be home more.
I happen to know a couple where the wife has two jobs, one as a full service escort. Her husband knows and is ok. They like to swing, so it is their choice. I try not to make moral judgements on other peoples sex habits.
I happen to know a couple where the wife has two jobs, one as a full service escort. Her husband knows and is ok. They like to swing, so it is their choice. I try not to make moral judgements on other peoples sex habits.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
Hell no,not a wife gf sister or even a good friend.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
It is true most guys in USA like the extra money that a girl creates in a marriage so that he has more of his. Most have ownership over what she does to make that money (that would be for average working guys in relationships, not pimps etc.)
The funny part is their partners are so worn out from working and doing everything else that she is not as appealing to him so he comes here to fantasize about a total stranger.
You are pretty accurate in your statement, yes.
The funny part is their partners are so worn out from working and doing everything else that she is not as appealing to him so he comes here to fantasize about a total stranger.
You are pretty accurate in your statement, yes.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
If you are from some foreign country that men marry to take care of their spend thrift wife that is so gorgeous that her only dream was to be on a porn site and hear how beautiful she is until he meets her and then is her prince and moves her to UK or USA and she is happy forever after then you need to wake up. It doesn't happen in USA or UK and you should just stay in your country and marry there and save the disappointment. Someone has lied to you!!
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
is it true that american ,UK,etc. men are greedy and dont support women at all?
the absurd notions people have about americans never ceases to amaze me:))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
the absurd notions people have about americans never ceases to amaze me:))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
you must not be a true american to know that most support their woman, but again maybe your so outta touch to know that-Merry Christmas and God Bless all you lovely women throughout the world.
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
i forgot the quotation marks around the stupid question about american men................its from the original post
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
actually anyone that had read the original post would have recognized it and the derision in my comment, but you were apparently too in touch to have done so
RE: guys,would you let your wife work as a host here?
wow! can't read can you? you are so not in touch with thought
If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
It is now 21 December 2011, CC time so who knows? Maybe we all do have just one year to go.
For me, I am giving all of you a very special Christmas, Hanukkah, and Kwanza present and will stop posting in the forum. Yayyy!!! The only exception will be if I see an unjust attack on a host that I care about, but hopefully, other friends of hers will act as White Knights. This knight wants to retire, and I will just be "member" or whatever if such a situation arises.
I am tired of being just one of many Eleanor Rigby's around here and think it is time to move on. Plus, for me, I am in a personal situation where I might not even make it to 21 December 2012 so I am literally beginning to get my affairs in order. I probably will be okay, but one never knows. And while I am not looking for any special prayers or good wishes, thank you in advance to anyone that offers them.
I am not leaving CC because I do have friends here. But I did make a promise to one host that I would only pay to wank for her. She likes having slaves, especially money slaves, so I decided to be her wanking slave. And I just spent around $400 on her so she got an extra special Christmas gift. (I always loved the people that called me cheap. I'm a stupid pervert addicted to wanking, not cheap! Get it right!) Actually, I didn't wank the whole time, but it was a good chat/wank combo. And despite how much I spent, assuming I stick to my promise, I will save money in the long run since she won't be here very often, and I won't be visiting anyone else except friends, and then, just to chat.
I think this is a good deal for me. First, I won't be spending that much money on her or on others. Second, she is one of the hottest hosts here in my opinion so I have no real need to wank for anyone else. Third, I still will be able to see those that I consider real friends, including her. Fourth, I won't explode since as long as there is no personal interaction and I am not paying, I can wank all I want so free porn, for example, is permissible. (Such a good mistress I have.) And finally, I will hopefully spend less time here and be able to enjoy myself more with whatever time I have left.
I actually had been on a two month break from spending money on sites but then I got some bad news so I decided to have a wanking binge for the past 3 weeks. Still, enough is enough, and I rather leave my money to people that truly need it as opposed to wasting it wanking.
So back to my question. What would you do if you knew you had just one year to live? I guess this is a hard question since we don't usually know how much time we have so just in case, we need to put some money aside, et cetera. But I will leave it to you to decide how to interpret the question.
For me, the most important thing to me is to make sure that the people I care about are taken care of. As long as I know that, whenever I leave this world, that will give me a lot of peace of mind. The only other thing that I want is to have a chance to spend some time with the people most important to me. Other than that, I guess I will be ready to go.
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Okay. That's it for my last essay. To all that liked my posts, thank you. And to all that didn't like my posts, thank you too. You didn't drive me away, but you did make me think about things at times.
Happy Holidays to everyone! Happy New Year! And good luck on 21 December 2012! :p
I am outta here!!!................................
For me, I am giving all of you a very special Christmas, Hanukkah, and Kwanza present and will stop posting in the forum. Yayyy!!! The only exception will be if I see an unjust attack on a host that I care about, but hopefully, other friends of hers will act as White Knights. This knight wants to retire, and I will just be "member" or whatever if such a situation arises.
I am tired of being just one of many Eleanor Rigby's around here and think it is time to move on. Plus, for me, I am in a personal situation where I might not even make it to 21 December 2012 so I am literally beginning to get my affairs in order. I probably will be okay, but one never knows. And while I am not looking for any special prayers or good wishes, thank you in advance to anyone that offers them.
I am not leaving CC because I do have friends here. But I did make a promise to one host that I would only pay to wank for her. She likes having slaves, especially money slaves, so I decided to be her wanking slave. And I just spent around $400 on her so she got an extra special Christmas gift. (I always loved the people that called me cheap. I'm a stupid pervert addicted to wanking, not cheap! Get it right!) Actually, I didn't wank the whole time, but it was a good chat/wank combo. And despite how much I spent, assuming I stick to my promise, I will save money in the long run since she won't be here very often, and I won't be visiting anyone else except friends, and then, just to chat.
I think this is a good deal for me. First, I won't be spending that much money on her or on others. Second, she is one of the hottest hosts here in my opinion so I have no real need to wank for anyone else. Third, I still will be able to see those that I consider real friends, including her. Fourth, I won't explode since as long as there is no personal interaction and I am not paying, I can wank all I want so free porn, for example, is permissible. (Such a good mistress I have.) And finally, I will hopefully spend less time here and be able to enjoy myself more with whatever time I have left.
I actually had been on a two month break from spending money on sites but then I got some bad news so I decided to have a wanking binge for the past 3 weeks. Still, enough is enough, and I rather leave my money to people that truly need it as opposed to wasting it wanking.
So back to my question. What would you do if you knew you had just one year to live? I guess this is a hard question since we don't usually know how much time we have so just in case, we need to put some money aside, et cetera. But I will leave it to you to decide how to interpret the question.
For me, the most important thing to me is to make sure that the people I care about are taken care of. As long as I know that, whenever I leave this world, that will give me a lot of peace of mind. The only other thing that I want is to have a chance to spend some time with the people most important to me. Other than that, I guess I will be ready to go.
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Okay. That's it for my last essay. To all that liked my posts, thank you. And to all that didn't like my posts, thank you too. You didn't drive me away, but you did make me think about things at times.
Happy Holidays to everyone! Happy New Year! And good luck on 21 December 2012! :p
I am outta here!!!................................
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
Soon you'll be trained to wank on max rate, so kudos to your Mistress/Friend!
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
Keep posting dude! Yes you can go on much longer than you should, but IMO you are a viewer's viewer. You give credit to good hosts and you understand there are bad hosts as well. You are certainly not a host apologist like so many in this forum are. In other words you have balls. You post about cc rules which is helpful to all viewers, the ones who actually spend money here, not the ones who sit in Comm Chat all day. post on here ad nauseum and never ever spend money in any host's chatroom.
So work on your Bucket List and keep posting. I'm working on mine as I am an old fart with medical issues from an armed conflict long ago. I can't mention the name as cc will not post it claiming they don't do politics. But let's just say I was one of LBJ's hired guns (29 confirmed kills).
So come on dude, you are no pussy money slave. You are a smart buyer. You like me , tell it like it is. So keep posting the facts, not the fiction I see so much of in these forums.
So work on your Bucket List and keep posting. I'm working on mine as I am an old fart with medical issues from an armed conflict long ago. I can't mention the name as cc will not post it claiming they don't do politics. But let's just say I was one of LBJ's hired guns (29 confirmed kills).
So come on dude, you are no pussy money slave. You are a smart buyer. You like me , tell it like it is. So keep posting the facts, not the fiction I see so much of in these forums.
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
Ah well... do not go gentle into that good night, my friend.
Maybe you should cultivate poetry, and try to say as much as possible in as few words as possible? (had to get that dig in :)
Personally, I would spend as much time as possible with my gf, and play as much music as I could, while I lasted. And then hopefully I have time to spend with everyone I care about as well.
Actually, that's a pretty good prescription for life, no matter how much time I've got.
Maybe you should cultivate poetry, and try to say as much as possible in as few words as possible? (had to get that dig in :)
Personally, I would spend as much time as possible with my gf, and play as much music as I could, while I lasted. And then hopefully I have time to spend with everyone I care about as well.
Actually, that's a pretty good prescription for life, no matter how much time I've got.
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
Fuck... Even your goodbye goes on forever.
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
it was nice knowing you man.. i give you commendations for the all the good posts. good luck in the future.
oh, and yeah, i'd do the same thing. take care of my people and then i'd go visit *one* host
(maybe 2)
oh, and yeah, i'd do the same thing. take care of my people and then i'd go visit *one* host
(maybe 2)
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
Well if i was not prepared for it, then once the shock of finding out wore off and focus came back...
First, i would make sure i had all my affairs in order,
Second, i would make sure that i have let those that i care about know how i feel about them, hopefuly they know, as i already try to let them know.
Third, i would just be my odd strange self and continue to show as much love as possible to those who are dear to me, so by the end of the year it will not be so hard on them and they will have lots of good memories to help them smile, shake their heads at the daft things i do and say, and laugh if they think about me.
Happy Holidays to you too and to everyone, may you be surrounded with much love at Christmas..hugggggggggggggggggg
First, i would make sure i had all my affairs in order,
Second, i would make sure that i have let those that i care about know how i feel about them, hopefuly they know, as i already try to let them know.
Third, i would just be my odd strange self and continue to show as much love as possible to those who are dear to me, so by the end of the year it will not be so hard on them and they will have lots of good memories to help them smile, shake their heads at the daft things i do and say, and laugh if they think about me.
Happy Holidays to you too and to everyone, may you be surrounded with much love at Christmas..hugggggggggggggggggg
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
You might considering blogging or book writing instead. Maybe you mentioned that but your post was so long I got bored and didn't finish.
Good Luck
Good Luck
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
Give my gold to the Kids of California Hockey Fountain, give my 3 dogs to a friend, sell my cars and trucks, sell my cabin and land, and all of my other belongings and give this money to the University of Alaska Scholarship for the ones that need assistant. Then i would have a plan to be cremated my body and ashes be spread over Russia and Romaina
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
What I do every day...hug my young son as often as I can without being wierd about it and tell him I love him several times a day. Everything else in the world is just noise.
RE: If you had just one year to live, what would you do?
are u alone growing ur son? thats great!
RE: To All MY friends of Camcontacts, and new friends i have not met !!
The same to you Kerry. Have a great Christmas and New Year. xxxxx
RE: To All MY friends of Camcontacts, and new friends i have not met !!
see you next year kerry , have a great holiday season .
RE: To All MY friends of Camcontacts, and new friends i have not met !!
A very Merry Christmas and very Happy New Year. Talk to you soon on Comm Chat....kisses from WTF.
RE: To All MY friends of Camcontacts, and new friends i have not met !!
You're so sweet and positive. Can't you use at least a little cynicism in your posts? :)
RE: To All MY friends of Camcontacts, and new friends i have not met !!
have a great and the best holiday seasons crystal dream
RE: To All MY friends of Camcontacts, and new friends i have not met !!
Happy Holidays to u too CrystalDream and to every as well....huggggggggg
RE: To All MY friends of Camcontacts, and new friends i have not met !!
all the best to you kerry in the new year....kiss
RE: regular discussions
T, will you marry me? The consensus is that we are made for one another.
RE: regular discussions
I don't really like you and I'm already taken. Plus, I might be a host that will break your heart, I don't want you to poo on my face :P
Nevermind the others, they're just projecting their own sad little life.
Nevermind the others, they're just projecting their own sad little life.
i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
how do you get to the other side of hell when your heart is soo broken?
and please if you are going to be mean, cruel, or cold hearted and contribute it to making money, then do not even bother responding to this....
and please if you are going to be mean, cruel, or cold hearted and contribute it to making money, then do not even bother responding to this....
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
You wait. Any kind of wound will take time to heal and sometimes, even years after, the scars still hurt, the thought of the wound itself will remind you the hell you've been through and you'll feel again like dying.
There's a song I love "Made of scars". That's me. That's each one of us. The scars help us remember what we've been through and the number of times we've promised ourselves we won't go there.
I know, it may sound lame, but that's how it goes. At least for me.
Good luck, stay tough, stay safe.
There's a song I love "Made of scars". That's me. That's each one of us. The scars help us remember what we've been through and the number of times we've promised ourselves we won't go there.
I know, it may sound lame, but that's how it goes. At least for me.
Good luck, stay tough, stay safe.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
i have tried, oh how I have tried to stay strong, but it hit me from left field. I never saw it coming......with all my heart ...\i never saw it coming
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
This is going to sound pretty disgusting, but it worked for me. A long time ago, when I was new to all of this, a host really, really fucked me over. I did two things, both of which you can do.
The first thing I did was distract myself by visiting other hosts, and you can do a similar thing if you are a host by enjoying the members that are visiting you, or if a member, then do what I did.
The second thing is the gross part. Let's pretend her name was Roxana. Every time I would make a poo, I would say to myself that I was making a Roxana and would think that I was pooing on her face and in her mouth every time. After awhile, I had so little respect for her, and associated her so which with going poo, that I wasn't really hurt any more.
The combination of being around other people along with having the worst mental image possible of this woman got me to move past everything. And I still think of her sometimes when I poo, lol.
No matter how you do it, you just got to get yourself to look at this person in a different way. And since Roxana pooed on me, I felt it only fair to poo on her too!
The first thing I did was distract myself by visiting other hosts, and you can do a similar thing if you are a host by enjoying the members that are visiting you, or if a member, then do what I did.
The second thing is the gross part. Let's pretend her name was Roxana. Every time I would make a poo, I would say to myself that I was making a Roxana and would think that I was pooing on her face and in her mouth every time. After awhile, I had so little respect for her, and associated her so which with going poo, that I wasn't really hurt any more.
The combination of being around other people along with having the worst mental image possible of this woman got me to move past everything. And I still think of her sometimes when I poo, lol.
No matter how you do it, you just got to get yourself to look at this person in a different way. And since Roxana pooed on me, I felt it only fair to poo on her too!
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
In the US, soap operas are going off the air due to poor ratings. But I see they've found new life on these boards.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
and they kept saying fetish dudes had issues.
you were not taking a metaphorical dump on "Roxanne" or whatever her name was. you were taking it on yourself, using "her face" as an excuse, because you didn't have the guts to admit you were the only one to blame. and that is fine, but don't give such advice to others, seriously...
you were not taking a metaphorical dump on "Roxanne" or whatever her name was. you were taking it on yourself, using "her face" as an excuse, because you didn't have the guts to admit you were the only one to blame. and that is fine, but don't give such advice to others, seriously...
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
I never claimed not to have issues, lol, but how exactly do you come to the conclusion that I was to blame? Unless you feel every member that loves a host and gets screwed over is an idiot and deserves what happened to him, you have no basis for your conclusion.
Long story short, I was new to all of this internet stuff and felt that my relationship with a host from another site was real when she was just using me. I sent her money to come visit me, and even drove to the airport to meet her. She wasn't there of course. I wasn't a complete idiot and knew it was a possibility that this might happen, but I loved her, or at least thought I did, and decided to take a chance.
It hurt a great deal. I even met her when I went to her country to visit some friends a few months later. I literally hugged her and cried as all the memories came back. I did get her back a bit. Never use your real bday, real pets name, and real favorite movie when setting up an email account, lol.
I had done nothing to this woman except give her an opportunity to take advantage of me. I knew that I was gambling, but I had to try. A lifetime of happiness for a thousand bucks or so seemed worth it. I got off cheap, however, since this was years ago when you could chat a lot in free chat and talk to hosts for a long time. Same situation today, and I would have been out a lot more.
Think what you want of me. My technique helped because it gave me a completely new and abhorrent way to view this woman. That guy that posted in this thread about how he still loves some girl and wishes her well will never get over her because he looks at her in a positive light. You need to rip that type of thought out of your mind and your heart as much as you can so you can move on. That is why my technique works, and while you don't necessarily need to imagine pooing on someone, the idea of reshaping how you look at a person via strong visual images that create an emotional response is sound.
Long story short, I was new to all of this internet stuff and felt that my relationship with a host from another site was real when she was just using me. I sent her money to come visit me, and even drove to the airport to meet her. She wasn't there of course. I wasn't a complete idiot and knew it was a possibility that this might happen, but I loved her, or at least thought I did, and decided to take a chance.
It hurt a great deal. I even met her when I went to her country to visit some friends a few months later. I literally hugged her and cried as all the memories came back. I did get her back a bit. Never use your real bday, real pets name, and real favorite movie when setting up an email account, lol.
I had done nothing to this woman except give her an opportunity to take advantage of me. I knew that I was gambling, but I had to try. A lifetime of happiness for a thousand bucks or so seemed worth it. I got off cheap, however, since this was years ago when you could chat a lot in free chat and talk to hosts for a long time. Same situation today, and I would have been out a lot more.
Think what you want of me. My technique helped because it gave me a completely new and abhorrent way to view this woman. That guy that posted in this thread about how he still loves some girl and wishes her well will never get over her because he looks at her in a positive light. You need to rip that type of thought out of your mind and your heart as much as you can so you can move on. That is why my technique works, and while you don't necessarily need to imagine pooing on someone, the idea of reshaping how you look at a person via strong visual images that create an emotional response is sound.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
I am exactly where you are. Can't say it was totally from left field but to me it doesn't lessen the pain. I can't even follow Moonlit Knight's solution because she didn't fuck me over. I can't wish her anything but happiness or stop caring about her.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
You will never get over her as long as you keep viewing her in those type of terms. Let go of that image of an angel and focus on her human qualities. She must have done something wrong in all the time she talked to you. Maybe she acted greedy or bitchy or whatever, but there must be something. Maybe she cost you a lot of money, for example, or deceived you in some small way. And while you don't necessarily need to poo on her, lol, you can do other things. Does she have any hot pics? Look at those pics and wank to her. Devalue her worth to you as a person and make yourself look at her more as an object.
You have her on a pedestal. As much as you love and respect her, you need to knock her off of it. This is about saving yourself, not saving your relationship with her. You cannot continue to view her in such fond terms, or you will destroy yourself. It would be nice if you could just accept what has happened and maintain a friendship with her, but buddy, based on your post, that ain't happening right now!!! Maybe you can be friends and all can be okay down the road, but you are not there yet and will never be until you change how you look at her.
Repetitive graphic visual images that evoke an emotional response. Try it.
You have her on a pedestal. As much as you love and respect her, you need to knock her off of it. This is about saving yourself, not saving your relationship with her. You cannot continue to view her in such fond terms, or you will destroy yourself. It would be nice if you could just accept what has happened and maintain a friendship with her, but buddy, based on your post, that ain't happening right now!!! Maybe you can be friends and all can be okay down the road, but you are not there yet and will never be until you change how you look at her.
Repetitive graphic visual images that evoke an emotional response. Try it.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
Moonlit Knight, altho I appreciate your attempt at trying to help, I am not sure who you are talking to when you speak about someone being an angel and being on a pedistal, yes for a while in the beginning he said he did have me on a pedistal and I asked him to not do that, I know I am not perfect, I am so far from perfect that I not even able to see myself and perfection in the same time zone. I am a female and I have no idea what I did or did not do. I did all that was humanly possible to let him know and to show him that I loved him and how much I loved him.
I did not ask for any other than honesty and for both of us to say if something is wrong, even if we do not like nor want to hear it, we still promised to be open and honest. I did not ask for material things, I did not ask for a fancy home or nothing like that, all I ever wanted was to be with him and to give him all the love that I believe he deserves, I would live in a shack if it meant I would be with him. If he has simply changed his mind, then fine just tell me, yes it will hurt, but just tell me.
He has always been a loving, kind, caring, giving person, that is why this is from left field. The last I talked to him, he told me how much he loved me and that he was heading home, and since that time I was told by a third party that he might be assuming that I have moved away from him, but I have not, I walk around with his picture in my shirt, people look at my boobs thinking I have odd shape, then I was told by another that he was no more.
Your suggestion of pretending to crap on someone, and to demoralize them and make them seem worthless, might have worked for your situation, but for myself, I do not want demoralize him, I do not know why nor what has happened, Not every situation is because someone screwed another person over. Sometimes another party can interfer. So altho I know you are trying to help, please you should not tell people to pretend they are shitting on someone when the situation might not be the same as what happened to you.
Maybe if he is able to read this and if he is assuming something then he can see how wrong he is, all I can do is hope that he is alright and if he is that he will come and talk to me and tell me what I did that was so wrong.
I did not ask for any other than honesty and for both of us to say if something is wrong, even if we do not like nor want to hear it, we still promised to be open and honest. I did not ask for material things, I did not ask for a fancy home or nothing like that, all I ever wanted was to be with him and to give him all the love that I believe he deserves, I would live in a shack if it meant I would be with him. If he has simply changed his mind, then fine just tell me, yes it will hurt, but just tell me.
He has always been a loving, kind, caring, giving person, that is why this is from left field. The last I talked to him, he told me how much he loved me and that he was heading home, and since that time I was told by a third party that he might be assuming that I have moved away from him, but I have not, I walk around with his picture in my shirt, people look at my boobs thinking I have odd shape, then I was told by another that he was no more.
Your suggestion of pretending to crap on someone, and to demoralize them and make them seem worthless, might have worked for your situation, but for myself, I do not want demoralize him, I do not know why nor what has happened, Not every situation is because someone screwed another person over. Sometimes another party can interfer. So altho I know you are trying to help, please you should not tell people to pretend they are shitting on someone when the situation might not be the same as what happened to you.
Maybe if he is able to read this and if he is assuming something then he can see how wrong he is, all I can do is hope that he is alright and if he is that he will come and talk to me and tell me what I did that was so wrong.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
If you don't mind me asking, if she did not fuck you over, why are you not able to be with her?
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
People change their mind and obviously she did too!
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
I am curious as well, are you answering for "A member" or are you the "A member" or did she tell you directly that she changed her mind or did she tell him that she changed her mind?
yes people do change their minds, but you seem as tho you are answering a question that was not asked of you.
yes people do change their minds, but you seem as tho you are answering a question that was not asked of you.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
Thank you to all that responded, I will do my best to stay strong even tho it is very hard to do.
In my situation, I did not change my mind, but maybe he changed his. I hold the good memories we had very close to my heart forever, and even the hard times we had I hold very close as both good and hard times brought us very close together for many years.
My heart will always be with him no matter what, he taught me so much, to trust and to love again. only problem is that love was and is all for him. I would forgive me for anything no matter what it was.
Be well everyone and may your Christmas be filled and surrounded with love as well as those that you love and may the New Year bring all of you much Happiness.
In my situation, I did not change my mind, but maybe he changed his. I hold the good memories we had very close to my heart forever, and even the hard times we had I hold very close as both good and hard times brought us very close together for many years.
My heart will always be with him no matter what, he taught me so much, to trust and to love again. only problem is that love was and is all for him. I would forgive me for anything no matter what it was.
Be well everyone and may your Christmas be filled and surrounded with love as well as those that you love and may the New Year bring all of you much Happiness.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
What came? If you want others random advice please share what happened!
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
Nope, its not me. Everything in my life is going fantastic. Good to know I have a fan who is concerned with my life though. :)
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
I would much rather it happened to me than someone I truly cared about, whatever pain it is. It's the one support I can cling to, "At least it didn't happen to them! "
For those of a literary bent, please refer to 'Room 101' by George Orwell, i.e. for the greatest horror of all! )))
For those of a literary bent, please refer to 'Room 101' by George Orwell, i.e. for the greatest horror of all! )))
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
You just do, there's no magic recipe to it. Just spend time with friends, talk about anything OTHER than how sad you are, because the more you talk about it, the more you will keep victimizing yourself, and that will make everyone around you leave, resulting in you being more miserable and loney.
Seriously, these forums are starting to look like teenage depression hotlines... you're the sum of your experiences, learn to accept them as what they are, and move on. There's no such thing as not being able to get over some failed love story. Those who "can't" get over it, simply don't WANT to.
Seriously, these forums are starting to look like teenage depression hotlines... you're the sum of your experiences, learn to accept them as what they are, and move on. There's no such thing as not being able to get over some failed love story. Those who "can't" get over it, simply don't WANT to.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
You are not alone all though it feels like it to you! We all have experienced broken hearts and alot of times the signs were there but we didn't want to see it coming.
The good part is that it does pass but it takes you filling your mind and time with positive situations and thoughts. The more you think about it the more it hurts.....so stop! The second part is that once you can change your thinking then you will eventually see that if you had still been in that relationship then you wouldn't have experienced the good things yet to come without them. Letting go is the key! Once you can do that then you will open yourself to better things. It simply wasn't meant to be or it would have happened!!
Worst thing you can do is listen to love songs.....So Don't!
The good part is that it does pass but it takes you filling your mind and time with positive situations and thoughts. The more you think about it the more it hurts.....so stop! The second part is that once you can change your thinking then you will eventually see that if you had still been in that relationship then you wouldn't have experienced the good things yet to come without them. Letting go is the key! Once you can do that then you will open yourself to better things. It simply wasn't meant to be or it would have happened!!
Worst thing you can do is listen to love songs.....So Don't!
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
Tell us a little about how your heart was broken. What happened? Why can't this person be with you?
Everyone's situation is unique, but maybe someone has been through something similar. In my experience, "heartbreak" is many things, depending on the circumstances. The only commonality being pain. It does help to talk about it. Then to move on.
Everyone's situation is unique, but maybe someone has been through something similar. In my experience, "heartbreak" is many things, depending on the circumstances. The only commonality being pain. It does help to talk about it. Then to move on.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
Sorry, my 1st reply not helpful I guess. Yeah it hurts. Know someone nice who can give you a big hug, get drunk with maybe? Hug from me. )
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
With all due respect and hugs and assurances that you'll be feeling better in time, I think the best thing to do is to simply stop being such a pussy. Seriously, come a time when you're feeling all chipper and groovy again, you'll look back at your current situation and just wish you hadn't wasted as much time as you already have wallowing in such crap. Be strong, recognize and owe up to the shit you did wrong, learn from the experience and move on. And I say that with heart full of genuine love for you... whoever you are.
Merry Christmas.
Merry Christmas.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
Hello Joe, I wish I knew what it was that I did, I have no problem owning up to what I did as long as I know what it is. I do try and am trying very hard to be strong. If I could just get over it as some like to say, then I would, But as it is very fresh, I have been trying to keep away from my friends as I do not want to be this way around them. They do see how I am but they just do not know what to do with me. They are not use to me being this way.
I do not know why I wrote here, but it was not for sympathy, I guess I was just hoping for a miracle. I know that it is a big leap but maybe miracles do happen. I know my friends will either lock me up or kick my ass. but I am trying.
I do not know why I wrote here, but it was not for sympathy, I guess I was just hoping for a miracle. I know that it is a big leap but maybe miracles do happen. I know my friends will either lock me up or kick my ass. but I am trying.
RE: i fell badly and it hurts sooo much....
It's hard and it hurts so much...I know. But it does get better, I promise. And remember: anyone who is responsible for you having so much pain is not worth suffering for....
*hug*
*hug*
Lost forever
Two years ago a really lovely man used to visit me 2 or 3 times each week. We had a lot in common but because i had a bad experience with another man i kept putting this man off when he asked about meeting me. In the end he told me he would stop seeing me. I did not try to stop him from leaving. To this day I wish I had because i would have liked to have met him. I may not be on CC today if we had met.
RE: Lost forever
Baby!!! Is that you??? I'm still here!!!
Sorry, but I couldn't resist.
I know it is holiday time, and people start looking back at their lives and sometimes end up unhappy, but I wouldn't worry about that guy. How do you know he was so "lovely"? You never read posts here about some guy being so nice, meeting a host, having sex and never talking to her again? Heck, someone supposedly killed herself because of this a few months ago.
The best thing that ever happened to you could be that he did in fact stop visiting you. Maybe you were just another conquest to him, and he gave up since he was sure you would never meet him.
You will never know, and that is what is eating at you now. But if you truly felt he was "mr. right" in your heart, you would have taken a chance. And even if he was, you are not the same person now that you were two years ago, and he probably isn't either. Even as friends, people grow together as people, and you have probably gone in different directions. Now is the time to look forward to something new and better, not to look back. And when you say things u probably wouldn't be here any more, that seems to say that you looked at him as a savior more than a soulmate so again, are u so sure he was the one for u?
Sorry, but I couldn't resist.
I know it is holiday time, and people start looking back at their lives and sometimes end up unhappy, but I wouldn't worry about that guy. How do you know he was so "lovely"? You never read posts here about some guy being so nice, meeting a host, having sex and never talking to her again? Heck, someone supposedly killed herself because of this a few months ago.
The best thing that ever happened to you could be that he did in fact stop visiting you. Maybe you were just another conquest to him, and he gave up since he was sure you would never meet him.
You will never know, and that is what is eating at you now. But if you truly felt he was "mr. right" in your heart, you would have taken a chance. And even if he was, you are not the same person now that you were two years ago, and he probably isn't either. Even as friends, people grow together as people, and you have probably gone in different directions. Now is the time to look forward to something new and better, not to look back. And when you say things u probably wouldn't be here any more, that seems to say that you looked at him as a savior more than a soulmate so again, are u so sure he was the one for u?
RE: Lost forever
you made me cry after reading this, this happens a lot it seems when a host had feelings now then they did in the past. all I can say, this serves you right for not meeting him, but anyway your still around and probably and you will get lucky and he will read your mind and come back to you here this time maybe every day. 2 or 3 times a week doesn't give enough time to get that close to one and the other, has to happen every day.
RE: Lost forever
No it was me! Even though I was role playing as a nice guy. I'm really a nasty chimp. But hey , who isn't?
We all need comic relief here.
We all need comic relief here.
RE: Lost forever
now why would a host fall for a member here, good grief anyway merry christmas
RE: Lost forever
How can u say that this guy was for u after chatting on the internet 2 or 3 times per week. U need to get real. He moved on when he knew he was not going to meet u for sex.
RE: Lost forever
Call me crazy but why do you not just send him a message and see what he is doing now?
RE: Lost forever
you can't truly know a person online, all you get to know is what he/she wants you to; also, if he were really "the one", you would have met, no matter what. since you haven't, he was not the one back then, and he's still not the one now, he's just a random virtually nice guy. plenty of them out there.
RE: Lost forever
Sounds like you are lonely and so you are going back two years and thinking of this guy that could or could not have been. Most meetings from internet connections do not turn to a fairy tale so if you change your fantasy then you\'ll change the end and the final results of you writing here 2 years later about a meeting with a member. Who is to say that he isn\'t an abusive person and it wasn\'t supposed to happen any differently?<br />
Honestly, I have members that I see online on and off for years that want to meet in person.....not just one but hundreds! I think you are wasting energy about one member that you had never met that would have saved you from being online here for the rest of your life. Sounds like a Prince fantasy!!
Honestly, I have members that I see online on and off for years that want to meet in person.....not just one but hundreds! I think you are wasting energy about one member that you had never met that would have saved you from being online here for the rest of your life. Sounds like a Prince fantasy!!
RE: Lost forever
It's time to let go. Two years ago, you couldn't let go of the hurt that held you back, and as a result you were not ready for another relationship. But don't allow the regret you feel now to make you reckless and restless for something new. Just let go, and be open for whatever comes next.
Just my two cents. I hope it helps.
All the best...
Just my two cents. I hope it helps.
All the best...
RE: Lost forever
You fell in love because he didn't ask you to get naked? Ever consider he may have other screen names where he did see you naked? Ever consider may be gay?
RE: Lost forever
why is it so hard to believe that a host can fall for a member, she may not have expected to, she may have tried not to, but the fact is that it does happen.
members fall for hosts, so why is it so hard for you people to believe that a host can fall for a member. just because we are here to make money, does not mean that we are not human, we can do all we want to not feel for a member, but sometimes it does happen.
when it does happen, telling her or him (in so many words) to get over it well think back to when you got hurt by someone that you loved. as for the hosts who say it is just a job, or jumps on another host who it did happen to. well as I also have the option to read host forum, the one who started this thread, is not the only host to fall for a member. yet in this forum a host is criticized for it but in host forum I have read often of hosts saying they fell for a member.
The bloody heart does not love someone because of what they can give or because of their circumstances, the heart loves because it loves.
So when you hosts and members criticize a host because her heart happen to open up to someone, think back to a time that your heart was hurting, just about everyone has fallen for someone whether it is on here or in person or any where else, just about everyone has had their heart hurt at some point in their life, and if you have not then you are very lucky.
members fall for hosts, so why is it so hard for you people to believe that a host can fall for a member. just because we are here to make money, does not mean that we are not human, we can do all we want to not feel for a member, but sometimes it does happen.
when it does happen, telling her or him (in so many words) to get over it well think back to when you got hurt by someone that you loved. as for the hosts who say it is just a job, or jumps on another host who it did happen to. well as I also have the option to read host forum, the one who started this thread, is not the only host to fall for a member. yet in this forum a host is criticized for it but in host forum I have read often of hosts saying they fell for a member.
The bloody heart does not love someone because of what they can give or because of their circumstances, the heart loves because it loves.
So when you hosts and members criticize a host because her heart happen to open up to someone, think back to a time that your heart was hurting, just about everyone has fallen for someone whether it is on here or in person or any where else, just about everyone has had their heart hurt at some point in their life, and if you have not then you are very lucky.
RE: Lost forever
it is hard to believe a rational host would fall in love with a member, because this is a job for the host, and a fun hobby for the member. the host can change her job, but the member cannot just give up the hobby and "cure" the addiction. you can fall for whoever you feel like, it doesn't mean it's something that could happen to most of us. so hard to believe but not impossible
RE: Lost forever
What if she can't earn enough for living on other job? are you kidding me? Ok, humor me, what if there was no cam host job at all? what would the alternative be, in your little world? prostitution? get real. There always is another option.
I met a Fairy..
The other day I met a Fairy. She gave me 2 choices: Either i could have a big penis or a big memory...I don`t remeber what I chose... ;-)
Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
I am really getting tired of hosts just answering my questions about their show with other questions. No not in free chat, but in pay open video. Why can't every host just give an actual answer to an actual question instead of asking me 20 questions? And this is in all hardcore not just softcore categories?
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
Anything that adds to the length of video and delays the "climax" moment is money in the bank. I have had hosts ask me the same series of questions over and over....I asked...weren't you paying attention and then I realized the host (who did not have a great mastery of English) cared less about my answer but rightfully thought the more questions she asked the longer the video. Follow the money...always the reason for anything a host does on CC.
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
Cam2Cam... I know some of u don't use it, but whipping that bad boy out sure changes the nature of the conversation, lol. You just start off with your face and no shirt on. She either will ask if you are naked or u just tell her. "Q: how are u?" "A: naked", lol. Then you ask if she wants to see more, and she is pretty much forced to say yes. From there, at best, they can ask what you would like her to do to him, and the answer is always the same... strip for him, show him all, show him his home, et cetera.... There is nowhere to go from there but a show or a letter to cc if hard core or if softcore with a promise to give a show before u entered video.
Use C2C and u will see what u want to see. :p
Use C2C and u will see what u want to see. :p
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
You silver-tongued Lothario you!
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
Why thank you, lol. But you can bet I am not talking or typing as much as I am doing here when the meter is running. :p
I should also add that I focus on 4,5 and 5 star hosts. Can they stall too? Yes. But my experience is that the stallers, the ones in hard core saying go 121, the ones on too many sites, et cetera are the ones under 4,5 stars most of the time. They are the ones pissing guys off and then getting one star as a result. So by focusing on higher rated hosts, I find that I have less problems.
When you see an average looking host with 4,5 and 5 stars and a hot one with 4 or less, you know it has to be because of something besides looks. Something is not quite right, and often that is stalling, et cetera. Plus, being nice to hosts and not demanding always helps. You can be very direct about what you want and control the conversation without being an a-hole. That helps me to get what I want as well except with only 121 in hard core... I have no answer for that one since threatening isn't going to get a good show and I don't feel like debating the rules on CC when the meter is running. For that, I just write CC.
I should also add that I focus on 4,5 and 5 star hosts. Can they stall too? Yes. But my experience is that the stallers, the ones in hard core saying go 121, the ones on too many sites, et cetera are the ones under 4,5 stars most of the time. They are the ones pissing guys off and then getting one star as a result. So by focusing on higher rated hosts, I find that I have less problems.
When you see an average looking host with 4,5 and 5 stars and a hot one with 4 or less, you know it has to be because of something besides looks. Something is not quite right, and often that is stalling, et cetera. Plus, being nice to hosts and not demanding always helps. You can be very direct about what you want and control the conversation without being an a-hole. That helps me to get what I want as well except with only 121 in hard core... I have no answer for that one since threatening isn't going to get a good show and I don't feel like debating the rules on CC when the meter is running. For that, I just write CC.
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
there's also the situation when the good looking host is 4 or 4.5 simply because some low life tokens enter their video to vote them bad for absolutely no particular reason.i check the glamou/nss categories on a regular basis and it seems to me that most of the 5 stars hosts are plain flavorless. the hot ones are down to 4.5 or 4 stars. are they ALL stalling?! nope, because I chatted to many of them and I know they are pro hosts. yet, some of them sharred with me the simphaty of having guests for fractions of a second and the next day the rating is lower. ratings don't always reflect the quality the hosts provide.
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
I have no doubt that happens. But how do you explain the hosts that have 4,5 and 5 stars? How are they immune from these 1 star voters? There is only one reason: they have enough loyal regulars and new comers too that enjoy visiting them to offset these 1 star guys. How else can you account for it?
Those hosts with under 4,5 stars are simply not good enough to get enough members to offset the one star guys. I don't care if they are just normal guys, money slaves, or something else. The bottom line is that they are visiting these 4,5 and 5 star hosts enough that the hosts can maintain a high rating so these hosts are obviously pleasing enough customers that the one star members simply do not matter.
None of this means that you cannot have a good time with a host under 4,5 stars. But it means that those hosts aren't consistently doing a good enough job to maintain a higher rating and the reason for this is often going to be things like stalling, being on too many sites, saying to go 121 in hard core, et cetera.
Nobody has ever explained how the 4,5 and 5 star hosts arre able to overcome all of these horrible one star guys. The most reasonable explanation is what I have said, namely they are simply better hosts and do a good job a lot more consistently than hosts with lower ratings. Yes, there are some hidden gems with less than 4,5 stars, but when I am spending money, I much rather go with what I know is more likely going to be a good experience. That doesn't mean every 4,5 and 5 star host is great and everyone else sucks... It just means I am going with the odds, and in my experience, this approach works.
Other than a hard core host saying go 121, I usually don't have a problem here, and that is probably because other guys let her get away with it. It could be me, it could be my approach, it could be good luck, but I will go with the odds. There is enough diversity of members out there that while I don't simply put blind trust in a bunch of strangers, there is enough of a general consensus reflected in the ratings to use as a basis to focus one's energy in my personal opinion. I can't visit every single host and then pick the ones I like best so I might as well focus on those that the consensus says I will most likely have a good time with.
Given that it seems 50% of the hosts have 4,5 and 5 stars, there isn't usually a need to check out the rest. Guys are usually generous and not giving one star anyway so if a host is disappointing enough guys to get under 4,5 stars, then I need to think twice about visiting her. It doesn't mean I never had a good time with a host under 4,5 stars or that I never visit them. It just means that when I read about members who have problems here and think about when I had those type of problems, more often than not, it is when I visited lower rated hosts so I no longer do that in most cases. This would seem to be common sense, but maybe you can explain what I am missing.
Those hosts with under 4,5 stars are simply not good enough to get enough members to offset the one star guys. I don't care if they are just normal guys, money slaves, or something else. The bottom line is that they are visiting these 4,5 and 5 star hosts enough that the hosts can maintain a high rating so these hosts are obviously pleasing enough customers that the one star members simply do not matter.
None of this means that you cannot have a good time with a host under 4,5 stars. But it means that those hosts aren't consistently doing a good enough job to maintain a higher rating and the reason for this is often going to be things like stalling, being on too many sites, saying to go 121 in hard core, et cetera.
Nobody has ever explained how the 4,5 and 5 star hosts arre able to overcome all of these horrible one star guys. The most reasonable explanation is what I have said, namely they are simply better hosts and do a good job a lot more consistently than hosts with lower ratings. Yes, there are some hidden gems with less than 4,5 stars, but when I am spending money, I much rather go with what I know is more likely going to be a good experience. That doesn't mean every 4,5 and 5 star host is great and everyone else sucks... It just means I am going with the odds, and in my experience, this approach works.
Other than a hard core host saying go 121, I usually don't have a problem here, and that is probably because other guys let her get away with it. It could be me, it could be my approach, it could be good luck, but I will go with the odds. There is enough diversity of members out there that while I don't simply put blind trust in a bunch of strangers, there is enough of a general consensus reflected in the ratings to use as a basis to focus one's energy in my personal opinion. I can't visit every single host and then pick the ones I like best so I might as well focus on those that the consensus says I will most likely have a good time with.
Given that it seems 50% of the hosts have 4,5 and 5 stars, there isn't usually a need to check out the rest. Guys are usually generous and not giving one star anyway so if a host is disappointing enough guys to get under 4,5 stars, then I need to think twice about visiting her. It doesn't mean I never had a good time with a host under 4,5 stars or that I never visit them. It just means that when I read about members who have problems here and think about when I had those type of problems, more often than not, it is when I visited lower rated hosts so I no longer do that in most cases. This would seem to be common sense, but maybe you can explain what I am missing.
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
I wanted to reply but ...I'm still reading (!)
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
You're smoking way too much ego
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
If that were true, I would have added the part about how much they always say they love my cock. :p
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
they love mine more
no joke tho
no joke tho
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
I wonder if you aren't ending up with hosts that are in studio's and you have several and a studio boss coaching each other. Sounds like they are trying to distract you from getting down to business and maybe that turns into more time for them is the strategy. Act like you cant hear them and keep asking your questions :)
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
why do members insist on going to directly into video? why do they not just simply ask what they want to know in free chat, and if the host insists that you enter video to ask things then move on. if she was out of the room for a second or could not answer fast enough, then she can write you. That way if it her reason is legitimate then you can decide if you will go to her free chat and try again or not.
Good luck every and have a Merry Christmas with much love around you....:)
Good luck every and have a Merry Christmas with much love around you....:)
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
well I ask questions so that I am able to answer your question as completely as possible. If it is a simple one like "do u get nude" then simple answer yes or no, if it is "what do u do in video" well for some there is not one or two answer, because there are so many things that are asked for on here and each person wants it in a different way. we all know the destination that most members on here want, but there are so many roads that can be taken to reach that destination.
That is why it is best to ask questions in free chat so that you do not waste your money in video.
That is why it is best to ask questions in free chat so that you do not waste your money in video.
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
"That is why it is best to ask questions in free chat so that you do not waste your money in video."
I agree, and I do that as much as possible. But there are a growing number of hosts that either do not talk in free or talk very little. Also I keep seeing more and more password protected sessions. But yes there are still many hosts that do talk in free, but we all want what we can't have, lol. Its just human nature.
I agree, and I do that as much as possible. But there are a growing number of hosts that either do not talk in free or talk very little. Also I keep seeing more and more password protected sessions. But yes there are still many hosts that do talk in free, but we all want what we can't have, lol. Its just human nature.
RE: Why do hosts answer viewer questions with their own questions?
yes I agree there are times that we want what we can not have. lol
Prank Call
(To be left on an answering machine, or as a general prank call)
"You know, the strangest thing happened to me today... I asked the devil for a condom, and he gave me three. I asked the devil for a dollar, and he gave me ten. Then I asked the devil for a ho and he gave me this number."
"You know, the strangest thing happened to me today... I asked the devil for a condom, and he gave me three. I asked the devil for a dollar, and he gave me ten. Then I asked the devil for a ho and he gave me this number."
RE: Prank Call
you might like this one then: he phone call... A married couple were asleep when the phone rang at 2 in the morning. The wife (a blonde), picked up the phone, listened a moment and said, "How should I know, that's 200 miles from here!" and hung up. Curious, the husband said, "Who was that?" And his lovely wife replies, "I don't any idea who it was. It was some stupid woman wanting to know "if the coast was clear".
RE: Prank Call
you might like this one (Italian in America) One day ima gonna America to bigga hotel. Inna morning I go down to eat breakfast. I tella waitress I wanna two pissis toast. She brings me only one piss. I tella her I wanna two piss. She say go to the toilet. I say you no understand, I wanna to piss onna my plate. She say you better no piss onna plate you sonna ma bitch. I don't even know the lady and she call me sonna ma bitch. Later I go to eat at the bigga restaurant. The waitress brings me a spoon and a knife but no fock. I tella her I wanna fock. She tell me everyone wanna fock. I tell her you no understand. I wanna fock on the table. She say you better not fock on the table you sonna ma bitch. So I go back to my room inna hotel and there is no shits onna my bed. Call the manager and tella him I wanna shit. He tell me to go to toilet. I say you no understand. I wanna shit onna my bed. He say you better not shit onna bed, you sonna ma bitch. I go to the checkout and the man at the desk say: 'Peace on you.' I say piss on you too, you sonna ma bitch, I gonna back to Italy
Aiming for Best setup
Hosts, here is one opinion. I like a well lit room, sharp video, remote zoom, sound with no held mic, and a big bed. Also, I prefer home, not studio. But some studios are very good and very private. They can be better than home. Most of you girls have really good set ups, except for sound. So thx.
RE: Aiming for Best setup
hahaha that is silly and annoying, you feel like you talk to the walls and they type yeah, ok, well, sure lol or there are the guys wanting us to scream like we live in the middle of the desert ahahahah
RE: Aiming for Best setup
You hosts keep complaining about things I never do. Now it is that guys don't like to talk. I always talk. It is so much easier than typing. One of the first questions I ask a host is if she can hear me. And I also want to hear her too.
The whole point of going on a cam site is to have more of an intimate experience. There is plenty of free porn out there. I love cam to cam and mic to mic. I get the fear of being recorded so no cam but not using mic? I don't get it. Maybe guys have wives and gfs in the other room or are at work at something. I don't know why else they wouldn't at least want to use mics.
I am starting to understand why hosts like me so much. Cam to cam, mic to mic, long video, and not spending much time in free chat. Oh... and I remember visiting them too, lol.
The whole point of going on a cam site is to have more of an intimate experience. There is plenty of free porn out there. I love cam to cam and mic to mic. I get the fear of being recorded so no cam but not using mic? I don't get it. Maybe guys have wives and gfs in the other room or are at work at something. I don't know why else they wouldn't at least want to use mics.
I am starting to understand why hosts like me so much. Cam to cam, mic to mic, long video, and not spending much time in free chat. Oh... and I remember visiting them too, lol.
RE: Aiming for Best setup
Because they are the ones paying you and want to hear a sexy voice while they are watching you... Why is that so out of line for you? Is your voice so crappy that he might want to leave?
I guess if you had a microphone then you would figure you are worth and increase of $10 a min? I get so tired of hearing hosts attitudes....he's the damn customer who is paying ...shouldn't that be a good enough reason.
I guess if you had a microphone then you would figure you are worth and increase of $10 a min? I get so tired of hearing hosts attitudes....he's the damn customer who is paying ...shouldn't that be a good enough reason.
RE: Aiming for Best setup
"only guys who want all for cheap ask sound, fast strip and toys in all holes."
Hmmm. I just spent an hour in video, spent about $100, never asked the host to strip, and never asked for toys. Never asked her to use all holes. And we both enjoyed sound. Things just naturally progressed. It would seem that you are wrong.
I did ask for doggy, though. Does that make me cheap? But I can't blame you for your bitterness. I don't think I would want a bunch of guys treating me like sh*t, barking orders at me, et cetera either. Yet, your posts in this thread seem like you are a lot more bitter than most.
Hmmm. I just spent an hour in video, spent about $100, never asked the host to strip, and never asked for toys. Never asked her to use all holes. And we both enjoyed sound. Things just naturally progressed. It would seem that you are wrong.
I did ask for doggy, though. Does that make me cheap? But I can't blame you for your bitterness. I don't think I would want a bunch of guys treating me like sh*t, barking orders at me, et cetera either. Yet, your posts in this thread seem like you are a lot more bitter than most.
RE: Aiming for Best setup
lol. I am guessing that you are the either the same host that I said needed a break a few threads ago or are her sister. Poor poor burnt out chathost. Kisssssssssssss u baby.
RE: Aiming for Best setup
maybe hes long time married guy, how can u be so sure he is not, hey girly dont be so funny.
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Read her response more closely and think about what she is saying. All hosts have great lives, and by implication, all members don't. She has zero respect for any members here, otherwise, she would have said something along the lines of "Get a life!" or whatever. She is a bitter, disgruntled person, and actually, unlike her post, I do feel a bit sorry for her.
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What you have in brains you might be lacking in brains it appears.....These are customers that you are referring to and the part that is amazing is that by posting as "Miss" you are trying to make all
hosts look as ignorant and greedy.
hosts look as ignorant and greedy.
RE: Aiming for Best setup
That is absolutely not true and I don't even know where you get that attitude. I have always had audio and the members always comment on my sexy voice. By saying cheap maybe that is one of your strategies to drag out your sessions longer.....which is a desperate act and greedy.
RE: Aiming for Best setup
i dont need host to talk, but i want to have sound with video, we live in 2011 already and we dont need "silent film" like in some charlie chaplin movie from past.
video and show become live only with sound, no need to talk or moan or scream and eat the microphone, but even just to hear how host sheets make some noice when she is moving is enough to make show alive.
video and show become live only with sound, no need to talk or moan or scream and eat the microphone, but even just to hear how host sheets make some noice when she is moving is enough to make show alive.
RE: Aiming for Best setup
"why do you want sound?"
do you like to watch foreign movies without sound, because there is text and you dont understand what they talk?
do you like to watch foreign movies without sound, because there is text and you dont understand what they talk?
RE: Aiming for Best setup
I alos like sound. If the host is happy to talk that is fine, if not we can type but it is still good to hear the background noises, any music playing etc. One point of a site like this is interaction. Sound is part of this and makes the experience better for me. I do not expect fake moaning.
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I wouldn't be a bit surprised if this host is one that comments that she only has audio in 121....lol. Best solution is to avoid the ones without sound. They have it they just would rather drag it out with text. They spend lots on their cams and they all come with sound so it's just an excuse also to possibly hide bad or no english which is now global.
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have you ever enter a room and someone pops in and gets to talking to the host and you can hear them better then the host--so yes maybe the sound needs to improved in some rooms and I think it is better for the host to talk then type, agree some rooms are better, anyway Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year
RE: Aiming for Best setup
I prefer phoning the host...I love the sound of girls with foreign accents...especially Russian...very sexy. And I like how their eyes widen and they blush a bit when you make noise for them. So sound can be very cool.
RE: Aiming for Best setup
That's interesting. If a host has a sound icon in profile, she can require 121 for sound? Is that the case in hardcore too?
RE: Aiming for Best setup
what you write make no sense lol
first, can you show me the rule where is said that host can ask one2one for sound if she have sound icon on her profile?
and second, if viewer enters the open video, ofcourse he understand that there might be other viewers also, and if host is talking to someone else, or answering someone else question, it is very easy for host to say "hi mr.X no i dont stick microphone in my ass in open video, i will do it only in one2one" so other viewer in room can understand that she was talking to mr.X, not to him.
And as i already said, sound is not just for talking, sound is to make video feel more alive.
first, can you show me the rule where is said that host can ask one2one for sound if she have sound icon on her profile?
and second, if viewer enters the open video, ofcourse he understand that there might be other viewers also, and if host is talking to someone else, or answering someone else question, it is very easy for host to say "hi mr.X no i dont stick microphone in my ass in open video, i will do it only in one2one" so other viewer in room can understand that she was talking to mr.X, not to him.
And as i already said, sound is not just for talking, sound is to make video feel more alive.
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You are absolutely correct!! I am a host and I use sound in open and 121.....why not is my question. Well at least one that is valid. I give them names as I talk and do a show in open instead of sitting on my booty typing and doing nothing. Seems totally like a scam that a host would refer a member to 121 for sound! She is looking for more money.
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If you have a sound icon you must have sound in open vid. If you are running c2c you must be in 121. You can check with cc to verify.
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I do sound in open video but phone only when it can be a private call in 121! That makes sense but the way you explain it makes absolutely no sense to talk on the phone with one in open and ignore the others.
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You need to practice more then because works perfect for me in Open. I refer to part of their screen name or name while I am up doing my show and speaking to their typed responses. It's a lame excuse to sit at your computer and just type in my opinion. The reason they are leaving your room in open is probably because you ignoring them or doing nothing but chatting. If you have a show going they don't leave!! I only use sound unless the viewer doesn't have a way to hear me which I always ask first thing when they enter my room. I think you are also giving false information saying it is acceptable to only provide in 121.
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I know of no prohibition against her saying go 121 for sound regardless of the category. There is simply a prohibition regarding asking for a viewer to go 121 for a "show", but the host can dictate what the show is in open versus what it is in 121 with the exception that 1) in not so shy, nudity and masturbation is required if requested in open and 121, 2) in instant action, nudity and insertion of a finger or toy (host's choice as to which) is required if requested in open and 121, and 3) any promises made in text chat, video chat, or a profile must be honored. Other than that, as far as I know, the host can do what she wants as long as she is within CC's other rules including saying go 121 for sound. I suppose you could make the argument that if the sound icon appears in her profile that this is a promise to use sound, but you would have to ask CC if they would look at this as a promise to use sound in open and 121, but in 7 years or however long I've been here, I've never heard of anyone complaining to CC about this. Of course, then a host could just put in her profile sound only in 121 and maybe CC would say this is okay.
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That has never been my experience in Open with sound. As long as I am doing a show they really don't care what I am saying....I talk in general much of the time to the : mmmmmmm, beautiful baby, you are so hot, etc. so I don't know why you can't master that unless your whole purpose is to sit and type at the keyboard. Viewers know that others are in the room and many times that is why they will jump in open session. If you have a sound icon you should use it or remove it and not just tease with it in 121!!
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"I know of no prohibition against her saying go 121 for sound regardless of the category."
Well there is. Check with cc to verify.
Well there is. Check with cc to verify.
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Is that in the rules or is it just an unwritten policy of CC? I don't recall ever seeing anything in writing, but as much as I like sound, I focus on what I can see more than what I can hear. :p
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Then you simply talk to all in open. It's very simple and they are aware that there are others in the room. Refer to viewer 1 and viewer2 in the order that they came into the room. Otherwise not sure how you do a show....typing at your keyboard constantly.....but maybe that is your whole purpose :)
RE: Aiming for Best setup
That is the reason that you choose not to have sound because you have poor english but I can totally understand both sides. Tell your members you have poor english skills then and don't blame them for asking....it is a much more live experience for them to hear your voice.....and it makes perfect sense. My members love that I speak in open and 121 and it is very easy and takes much less time that typing. Gives me more time for entertaining.....
How old am I?
A man decided to have a face lift for his birthday. He spends 4,000 grand and feels really good about the result. On his way home he stops at a newsstand, buys a paper and says to the sales clerk, "I hope you don't mind me asking, but how old do you think I am?"
"About 34," was the reply.
"I'm actually 46," says the man happily.
About a while later he went for lunch to McDonald's and asks the order taker the same question, to which the reply is, "I'm guessing that you're about 30?"
"Nope, I am actually 46." He's starting to feel really good about himself.
While standing at the bus stop he asks an old woman the same question.
She replies, "I am 85 years old and my eyesight is poor. But when I was young there was a sure way of telling a man's age. If I put my hand down your pants and play with your p*nis for ten minutes I will be able to tell your exact age."
As there was no one else around the man thought what the hell and let her slip her hand down his pants.
Ten minutes later the old lady says, "OK, it's done. I know you're 46"
Stunned, the man says, "That was brilliant! How did you do that?"
The old lady replies, "I was behind you at McDonald's".
"About 34," was the reply.
"I'm actually 46," says the man happily.
About a while later he went for lunch to McDonald's and asks the order taker the same question, to which the reply is, "I'm guessing that you're about 30?"
"Nope, I am actually 46." He's starting to feel really good about himself.
While standing at the bus stop he asks an old woman the same question.
She replies, "I am 85 years old and my eyesight is poor. But when I was young there was a sure way of telling a man's age. If I put my hand down your pants and play with your p*nis for ten minutes I will be able to tell your exact age."
As there was no one else around the man thought what the hell and let her slip her hand down his pants.
Ten minutes later the old lady says, "OK, it's done. I know you're 46"
Stunned, the man says, "That was brilliant! How did you do that?"
The old lady replies, "I was behind you at McDonald's".
cc email
I getting hating this cc email.
I don't get any useful here.
I just don't like when the red letter shows up.
I don't get any useful here.
I just don't like when the red letter shows up.
RE: cc email
I like getting mail from hosts. Doesn't happen that often but on occasion I will get a marketing letter...they miss me, stop by my video...I understand they are drumming up business. I HATE when I write to hosts and they don't respond. Too busy playing soliiatre in the studio I guess.
RE: cc email
I usually don't get cc mail. When I do, it has been usually from a host that annoyed me so I just left without goodbye and she is asking why I left, from a host apologizing for a bad connection, from a Colombian host telling me how wonderful it was that I visited her, or from a lower-priced/less popular host. Other than some of the more expensive Colombian ones, I almost never get a cc mail from a more expensive and/or more popular host. They simply don't need any one particular member and don't bother to write.
I think a host is better off not using ccmail unless she has an established relationship with a member since it could be viewed as just a means to get a guy into video. But if done strategically, I think it could be a good tool. (Yes, I just suggested that hosts might want to try to manipulate members with ccmail, lol. I might not always succeed but I do try to consider others' points of view.)
I think a host is better off not using ccmail unless she has an established relationship with a member since it could be viewed as just a means to get a guy into video. But if done strategically, I think it could be a good tool. (Yes, I just suggested that hosts might want to try to manipulate members with ccmail, lol. I might not always succeed but I do try to consider others' points of view.)
Flash Flooding in Philippines
So according to the news today there were flash floods caused by a tropical storm in the southern Philippines, and they have killed over 500 people.
Most of the chathosts that I visit are Filipina, so anyone from the region care to add to discussion what their experience was so far?
Most of the chathosts that I visit are Filipina, so anyone from the region care to add to discussion what their experience was so far?
RE: I don't get it
This is a fantasy site. If a guy wants to pretend he doesn't know you, or enjoys donning one persona or another, what's the big deal? As long as you're getting paid it really doesn't matter, does it?
RE: I don't get it
it happens to me as well and to some other girls that I know, so I guess it is a general phenomenon. I gave up wondering about their reasons long ago. It is more sane for me this way :)
RE: I don't get it
The only time I will go back and say the same thing is when I asked for a particular fantasy and the host says no that does not describe her. I then go back a few weeks later, trying to be nicer, hoping that this time she will play along and say that what I have just said describes exactly how she is (obviously I have to pretend that I cannot remember that we have already chatted :P).
Usually I crash and burn the second time too though :(
Usually I crash and burn the second time too though :(
RE: I don't get it
If viewers had a notepad widget attached to each host's profile, they could see what was talked about in last pvt.
RE: I don't get it
That happen with me often. But it's I am who forget my viewers...even if I see they already been in my room before. I dont keep in mind what was at those session...only some, who come to me regularly I keep remember well, others -no.
RE: I don't get it
This would have been better thread for the chathost forum. Of course, I could have read it there too, lol, but I usually don't bother. But reading it here now, it makes me feel that hosts have no respect for members. That doesn't surprise me, but to put it in writing just to remind me of this isn't exactly good for business.
By the way, I don't usually forget hosts that I have visited no matter how much time has passed. And I almost never have been drunk when visiting a host. Nor do I waste time in text chat with games, fantasies, et cetera. I just want a show, and am only in text to get through the preliminary hi, hru stuff and, and, if soft core, to see if I can get a show and whether it will be 121.
Unless I am friends with a host, I don't go to text for any other reason. It is a waste of my time and the hosts', and doing things like trying to get her to talk sexy to me so I can cum in free chat or whatever is usually something I am not into. I think I did this one time. It was a host that I knew, and it was her idea.
I don't get these other members that are driving you all crazy. Unless you cut your hair, or changed the color, or are now wearing glasses or something, how am I going to forget you from a week ago? I probably wouldn't forget you from 4 years ago, let alone a week. And like I said, I am not here to waste your time. I just want to know what to expect. All I ask for is honesty and nudity. I don't even ask for masturbation, toys, et cetera 99% of the time, and anyway, since I usually do pretty long videos, if the host does these things, sooner or later she does them on her own. As long as the host is naked, moving around a bit so I get to see all of her, and paying attention to me, that is usually good enough for me.
I guess that I am a boring member with a good memory. Oh well....
By the way, I don't usually forget hosts that I have visited no matter how much time has passed. And I almost never have been drunk when visiting a host. Nor do I waste time in text chat with games, fantasies, et cetera. I just want a show, and am only in text to get through the preliminary hi, hru stuff and, and, if soft core, to see if I can get a show and whether it will be 121.
Unless I am friends with a host, I don't go to text for any other reason. It is a waste of my time and the hosts', and doing things like trying to get her to talk sexy to me so I can cum in free chat or whatever is usually something I am not into. I think I did this one time. It was a host that I knew, and it was her idea.
I don't get these other members that are driving you all crazy. Unless you cut your hair, or changed the color, or are now wearing glasses or something, how am I going to forget you from a week ago? I probably wouldn't forget you from 4 years ago, let alone a week. And like I said, I am not here to waste your time. I just want to know what to expect. All I ask for is honesty and nudity. I don't even ask for masturbation, toys, et cetera 99% of the time, and anyway, since I usually do pretty long videos, if the host does these things, sooner or later she does them on her own. As long as the host is naked, moving around a bit so I get to see all of her, and paying attention to me, that is usually good enough for me.
I guess that I am a boring member with a good memory. Oh well....
tis only a joke
SCAM WARNING AT YOUR LOCAL CAR PARK. When packing shopping in your car u may be approached by 2 sexy 18 year old east European girls in tight tiny tops. They wash your screen with tits hanging out + then ask for a lift home as payment. On the way home they strip + go down on each other. Then 1 climbs up front+ sucks u off while the other nicks your wallet. I had mine stolen last Tues, Wed, twice on Thurs & again today. Be careful.
RE: tis only a joke (hmmm-replied with a joke)
Three women were sitting around throwing back a few drinks and talking about their love lives. One woman said, "I call my husband the dentist. Nobody can drill like he does." The second woman giggled and confessed, "I call my husband the miner because of his incredible shaft." The third woman quietly sipped her whiskey until her friend asked, "Say, what do you call your husband?"
She frowned and said, "The postman." "Why the postman?"
"Because he always delivers late, and half the time it's in the wrong box.
She frowned and said, "The postman." "Why the postman?"
"Because he always delivers late, and half the time it's in the wrong box.
RE: tis only a joke
The teacher was telling her students in the sex education class about human anatomy. She took her pointer and pointed to the picture of the female and said, "the female has two breasts and one vagina. She then pointed to the male picture and said, "The male has one penis." Little Johnny jumped up from his seat and said, "That's wrong teacher." Why do you think I'm wrong, Little Johnny?" asked the teacher. My daddy has two of them," explained Little Johnny. "One that's about three inches long that he pees with, and another one that's about eight inches long that he brushes the babysitter's teeth with
RE: tis only a joke
expressing my reaction - i find this joke poor. otherwise, no problems here and I'm sure you did not ask me because you care!