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ImNotYourFriend

..... that lucky Russian lorry driver who got thrown from his cab and walked away ?

If I was him I'd do the lottery this week :D
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RE: ImNotYourFriend

Yes, saw that, and agree :)
I always say things balance out...and with bad luck like that, he's due for something great to happen. Of course, based on my theory, it's already a wash, because of the amazing Good luck he had to survive unscathed, but it's worth a shot.

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RE: some guys can`t take "no" for an answer

Block him anyway. Life is too short to deal with such awful people. It's just not worth it.

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RE: some guys can`t take "no" for an answer

JTK I think I agree with you.

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RE: some guys can`t take "no" for an answer

Yes block him. I get blocked for just asking for nudity.

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RE: some guys can`t take "no" for an answer

Maybe it's the way you ask LOL I've told you before you cannot stand on your head and expect the host to be impressed.

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RE: some guys can`t take "no" for an answer

I gotta agree with the guys. Life is too short to put with rudeness like that, esp if it's going to affect the rest of your evening.

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RE: some guys can`t take "no" for an answer

Agree with the others, block him, and glad you did. There's also nothing wrong witth you having feelings and getting upset by unpleasant events rather his actions were petty or not. Stay positive, and have a great day Blondrl :)

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RE: some guys can`t take "no" for an answer

Smart blonde grl. Unusual. Kidding.

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RE: some guys can`t take "no" for an answer

its expected. even if he is a polite fun guy at THaAT point he cant say no to his.. cravings :) take it as a compliment. he didnt leave when you got naked ... he is a nice guy :). maybe hell get back to you and ask you again so its all good.
maybe it was a way of scolding you .

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RE: some guys can`t take "no" for an answer

do not block him. He spent money in 121. He was a little pushy, but You do not know why he left. maybe his connection failed, maybe his wife came home. If you block every guy that makes some mistake or get interrupted, you will have fewer customers.

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joke

The Navy found they had too many officers and decided to offer an early retirement bonus. They promised any officer who volunteered for Retirement a bonus of $1,000 for every inch measured in a straight line between any Two points in his body.. The officer got to choose what those two points would be.

The first officer who accepted asked that he be measured from the top of his head to the tip of his toes. He was measured at six feet and walked out with a bonus of $72,000.

The second officer who accepted was a little smarter and asked to be measured from the tip of his outstretched hands to his toes. He walked Out with $96,000.

The third one was a non-commissioned officer, a grizzly old Chief who, when asked where he would like to be measured replied,
'From the tip of my weenie to my testicles.'

It was suggested by the pension man that he might want to reconsider, explaining about the nice big checks the previous two Officers had received.
But the old Chief insisted and they decided to go along with him providing the measurement was taken by a Medical Officer. The Medical Officer arrived and instructed the Chief to 'drop 'em,' which he did. The medical officer placed the tape measure on the tip of the Chief's weenie and began to work back. "Dear Lord!", he suddenly exclaimed,
''Where are your testicles?''
The old Chief calmly replied, '' Vietnam ''.
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RE: joke

I am not even sure... it's awful and funny at the same time!

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RE: harryw

He's usually in my vid when I sign onto my transgender dungeon Mr. Mistress host account. Feel free to join us some time.

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RE: harryw

Ok he's addicted to everyone here, i feel lame now cuz i dont know this guy! Am i not good enough for him or what?? I go cry in my corner, sniff sniff :((

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RE: harryw

I was checking your wonderful pictures Monika and youre definitely a babe. Wow is all i can say to you and im in (l) .

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RE: harryw

But ure not harryw:((
Seriously though, thank u:D

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RE: harryw

Thank You Monika for taking time to make pictures .

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RE: harryw

Maybe he will visit your transgender dungeon room too :P

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

lol,I bet ur one of those crazy american girls who rips another girls eyes out if she even looks at ur man.Come across your type plenty of times,its always the ones who say they need to flirt with other men who are the most jealous

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

you and your bf must really have a great relationship. even meeting in a crazy way like on this site it seems you are a great match and are really close to each other, even if i would assume you do not live in the same country, which makes it even harder

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

even better! wish you great couple all the best!!!!

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

Seems to me this is a matter of pride. Of course you want to continue your work, to be independent, and to earn money - and maybe resent your boyfriend a bit for forcing you to choose between personal love and profession.

After all, in a logical world, you shouldn't have to sacrifice work for love. But the world is not logical (nor is love reasonable) and you should ask yourself which is more important: to be right, or to be happy.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

Go glamour. Still working, earning, but nudity is optional.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

I agree with Mondo.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

some months ago i would so be all for the love,but i figured isnt worthed to change your life for someone else.Maybe if u really trust this guy u could find a more "normal" job,but if u love cc so much dont give up at it for an insecure guy.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

It depends on the circumstances. And on how well you really know him.
If he lives in another country and offers you to leave all and come to live with him without any job ... it's a bit risky. I understand you- I would not like to be dependent myself.

Hopefully, you will figure it out.

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RE: BF

Why not u find real job if you really love him very much?

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RE: BF

well then keep the good job and get a shittier bf,if thats whats important and your that obsessed with money

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RE: BF

Amademoiselle's is the best answer. However, the fact that you even have to ask this question makes me wonder how much you really love this guy. cc is easy money. life is not easy. relationships are not easy.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

You should quit now. You'll be back soon anyway, right after he finds someone else and moves on. Then Life will even out for you and your dreams will come true. The future is yours. A bird in the hand is a penny saved.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

How would you feel if your BF is working the same as you, flirting with other women? Will you love that?

You don't have to strip nude, if you go "Glamour" just like Mondo mentioned

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

For me if I had a gf who worked here I would much rather she was stripping than chatting as there would be much less chance of her forming a relationship with the members.

As for justcute if you really love your bf I would choose him. That is assuming he is a real bf and not someone you met on here but have never met in real life.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

It suprised me at first when my bf said that he d rather i strip and have account in IA than in Glamour. I was hurt a bit. It's later that I understood he cared more about my heart being stolen. The fact that other guys can see my body but could never have it doesnt seem to bother him at all.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

lol....you really are brainwashed by feminist media.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

you are right spicy. Women need independence. My mom did not have it, and she was trapped. If you have independence, then you can stay in a good relationship or leave a bad one. many women figure this out too late.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

So the choice is either to rely on the man you love to support you or to sell yourself and your sexuality to multiple men online,have I missed something here,whats wrong with doing what everyone else does and getting off your asses and get an education and a job.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

tell him he has your permission to look at all the naked girls he wants, and invite your best cam girl friend over for a 3 way.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

Well said. Better than my attempt. I agree with this perspective.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

using this logic if you loved him then you wouldn't mind him wanking all his money away on this site with other women also,lol.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

you single????

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

I wouldn’t but by the sound and the tone of your post you might. Just because one is in a relationship it does not mean they own the other person. Nor does it mean they can dictate the other person what they can or cannot do or what they should be spending their OWN money on. I take it it’s a gf – bf relationship we are talking about here. Remember you are talking about online fun, and not about emotional involvement, you are talking lust. Two different things! For what’s worth he could be doing the same thing over a picture in a magazine or a movie or whatever. As for the money part it’s his money, not yours. If we are talking about emotional involvement then there are obviously big cracks and lacks within the relationship. As an insecure, dependable and attached person yes you might have something against that. Insecure – He might find someone else better than you, in your opinion and based on your insecurities, and this leads to a completely different “can of warms” in terms of your emotional health sense of worth and so on. Dependable – he is responsible for your happiness and not you which it’s really not the case. You are responsible for your own feelings and state of being at all times. Attached – You have attached yourself to him out of that feeling of dependency and the possibility of losing him and what that implies to you, scares you. So as you can hopefully see at the root of all these it’s fear, the fear of losing something that leads to control and so on. Oh btw, I am sorry but I don’t know if you are a male or female, it does apply to both genders however. All of these being said, there is no right or wrong here: it is a matter of choice, consequences and whatever makes one happy :)

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but the fact that justcute told they been together 8 years already wake up the other side of story also... if her bf really feel bad and hate the fact that she is working at cc, and still been with her this 8 years already, i think he has made it clear that he loves her very much, right?
So, maybe now is time for justcute to show how much she loves him, and be ready to give up work at cc to show her love.
Love is accepting others in good and bad, but love is also giving up from something you like, to make the person you love feel better.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

I think I have already sort of replied to your post in terms of love and sacrifice and so on. I am not going to repeat as we are all entitled to different opinions and so on :)
I would only add that yes love can keep people in a relationship a lifetime if you like but the time people spend together in a relationship sometimes it’s not defined by love. Other things can do that too: Complacency, fear of being alone, starting a fresh, new, comfort, etc. In *justcute* case, according to her, it is love :) I am sure she will make the best decision for her and her bf and I wish them both the best of luck! :)

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

Controlling behaviour isnt a good sign for any relationship and i'm not going to pretend that guys are specially prone and it often cuts across a girl's financial independence and her opportunities when he wants her to go so far as give up a job.
In this case, even in a softcore room, the host is sharing sexual moments with some unknown numbers of unknown guys. Quite a sexy thought maybe to begin with but in a relationship that's already gone 8 years, is it really 'controlling' to say enough's enough after a while? Even for the host's respect for her bf it's not great - does she really want a guy to accept future years of sharing earnings from online sex?
I am pretty sure my oown sex relationships are altered from online wanking for too long - I could understand a host's bf suspecting she was leaving some of her fantasy and motivation with online strangers.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

While I respect your opinion and you are fully entitled to it, here is mine: Going by what you said no actress should ever be in a long term relationship or a marriage or even more so having any kids as they would be disrespectful due to their JOB. They all perform simulated sex acts numerous times play roles as pole dancers, strippers, some of them even simulate masturbation and the list can go on. And they do it all in front of a crew to start with and after they are being watched doing it by millions of other people. Not to mention that they are being directed by someone etc. So, what are they selling, sex? I don’t think so! They are selling the illusion. Do you look at them and think of them as you do when it comes to the girls that work on CC? No! Why? Because the media and society has taught you that it is ok, they are famous people, some of them have degrees in acting and other various things and so on. So why do you see a chat host and what she does different, because she hasn’t got that degree that proves that all she is doing is acting a role? Why - Because you pay her directly, and because you are the director, script writer etc of your own movie? Whilst I am fully aware that some really engage in the act, quite a few don’t. It is an act. And what exactly are they selling? Sex? No! They are selling the illusion of sex. Can you touch them? Can you feel them? No! That happens in your mind and therefore it is a fantasy! And it is no different than watching an actress and getting off after, or even while you watch her acting in a movie. It is called CamContacts and not SexContacts for a reason. If a chat host on here was in a long term relationship and she was doing this for FREE, flirting and feeding someone’s fantasy and sharing hers (which sometimes are real sometimes are not) just for the fun of it then yes, maybe I would wonder. But they don’t, they do it for money just as any other actress or dancer or celebrity that performs half naked on a stage and simulates sexual acts and moves and facial expressions, sings a song with sexual lyrics, act a script etc. Just a different perspective! As for control, I let you figure that one out.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

Nice try but i think video sites are regarded as crossing a line beyond straight acting and that may not always be fair but there are reasons. Theyre called 121s for a reason too. I expect porn actresses and even nude photo models have issues with their bfs too, where touching themselves and showing intimate parts is absolutely necessary for the part.
But they arent all fantasists on the message boards - i'd say in guys minds anyway that it's not unusual for their relationship with a host to go well beyond fantasy and the quick release. Not all that different from couples who skype each oother sometimes, even though obviously the guy's paying.
It's an interesting topic, but even if hosts absoulutely never feel that way they are well aware where a guy's going to be a regular and a good payer if they can get him to feel their relationship is personal as well as sexual. And that kind of thing can even become real and can affect the girl (where no actress ever knows her audience). That's what the bf has to worry about.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

Interesting that you keep using the analogy between acting and camming.This is a 1on1 interaction so based on that,where would you draw the line from say acting into lying,is making a visitor believe you enjoy his company when you don't still acting or is that now lying?.

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

I've never understood why man or woman in a real life relationship would feel threatened by the online world. Good communication, honesty, tolerance, and yes, LOVE, should resolve any misunderstandings about online fantasy. If your partner really enjoys it, then so what? Seems to me that insecurity may lie at the root of an inability to distinguish between what is real and what is online fantasy. Plus, in the woman's case, there's money in it!!

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

Good luck finding a bf in real world who wants have a gf work online ;)

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

The consensus among hosts seems to be - if a guy doesnt earn enough to keep me and i can get a whole lot more from vids than from shop jobs then he should stfu and get off my case. Fair enough? If you expect him to share his earnings with you, so long as he's some big shot, are you willing to subsidise him from your pvts though, or is he just the poor pimp then?

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RE: Bf or Cc ?

Presumably you don;t mean to say that if he does have tons of spare cash that then gives him rights to dictate to you? Or maybe you do.

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HELP, good or bad

Portion of a message from special host included the following:
"but when you come even for a short time aperioada comes to talk please."

Is this good or bad? Unlike others with a kiss and miss ya I'm concerned the translation maybe something i don't to hear.
Thanks for the help.
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RE: HELP, good or bad

Thanks so much as this makes sense based on search for perioada. Hits indicated it had something to do with time and age tho I couldn't put it into context with the rest of the message.

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RE: HELP, good or bad

It has to do with you taking her pvt and spending money. She doesn't miss you, she misses your money.

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Euro Future

Hi being in US don't have much European perspective on the Euro and everything going on. From 3,000 miles away looks like us but worse. Love to know if you are in EU what would you vote to stay in or leave and any other thoughts

Thanks!
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We stayed out, and thank feck we did. Our situation is not good, but would have been a lot worse tied to the "one size fits all" and unable to set our own interest rates. Just got back from Hungary, and all their prices are now in Huf and Euro. if they got any sense, they will stay out.

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RE: Euro Future

Thanks for updates I am agreeing with you the Euro is not a healthy place too much top down decisions. I hope everyone decides that they are better off having own country deciding their future!

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RE: Euro Future

... we're feeling not that bad, but we in Germany understand that other European countries actually suffer more than we do. I guess European problems would have been way greater if the Euro wasn't introduced.
Not always nice to see those who claim about the situation now, especially in the eastern parts, who suffered long before and now new houses, cars and way better life style compared to the old days have been established mostly.
All comes with a price, and we in Europe will come trough together, just imagine we in Europe had that bad debts as the US? Our problems might be "Kindergarten" stuff to those huge challenges they are facing!
As soon as the "blaiming the Euro" phase by the rating agencies is overcome, the people might realize where the real problems of the world are... anyhow, I don't see them in Europe!

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RE: Euro Future

If those in charge of the european central bank had managed the currency properly and keeping interest rates at realistic levels maybe we wouldnt be in as much trouble overall .Interest rates and money was loaned too cheaply whitch led to a boom in many counteries . Saying that the uk economy (whitch is not in the single currency ) has a public debt ratio of 67% .
The usa has a rate of 75%. Italy 100%. Germany suprisingly has a debt to gdp ratio of 140% , the reasons for this is the guarentees germany has provided to various funds to other counteries, in time this money will be repaid.
The real problem with the single european currency is that many counteries are not as developed as each other and some should not have joined the single currency .Interest rates cannot be universal for all counteries in the eurozone.

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RE: Euro Future

To be honest I think we (usa, europe, china and especially japon) are all fucked.

Way too much debt if you take a honest look at it (including what is hidden behind bank and govt. balance sheets) there is ) 0% chance anyone of our countries/zones have any chance paying back all the debt. I believe we nee the "Big Reset" lets forgive the debt let the big governments and big banks finally take a loss and let us regular people have a better foundation to grow our lives on. I think if this does not happen we are looking at 1940 troubles coming our way again

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RE: Euro Future

ohhhhhh, ofc there's no problem with europe!))))))

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RE: Could any viewer...?

NO, we can't read nor write in chathost forum. Seems like a double standard to me which we (members) can't explain.

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RE: Could any viewer...?

No it is not a double standard. It is sound policy. The host forum is for paid independent contractors as a place to discuss business: problems, clarifications of policy procedures or implementations, every-day business concerns. It would be as inappropriate for a customer to sit in on the back-room business discussions of a retail store, or for a client to expect to listen in on board-room decision-making for a manufacturing corporation, as it is for a member to expect to be given access to privileged-only conversation held in the chathost forum

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RE: Could any viewer...?

Your opinions are legit although sound practical policy is also rightfully applied in both directions. You can try to justify your position from a single one side of the fence approach tho it is best to view each from a neutral perspective. Many of your statements are applicable to members as well regarding what is discussed in the Viewers forum. Is it inappropriate for a host to "sit in" on our discussions? I'm not defending cc's decision either way nor a change in policy just the lack of your misguided rationale and the emphatic "I'm right" overtone of your reply. Further consideration of your perceived business practices may be in order. Have a great evening.

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RE: Could any viewer...?

You can read whatever emphatic overtone you want into my textual comments. Without the presence of verbal tone or bodily expressions, it's an open ended matter of opinion as to what "overtones" are there.

I for one think it makes much sense for hosts to be able to know what is being said about them, and in my opinion they have a right to know it. After all, it is their performance that is being put forward, and their income that is at stake. If untruths or misrepresentations are being presented they need to know it. If what they are doing is hurting them, they need to know that too. The fact that they cannot contribute to the discussion is appropriate, but they can address the issues in other ways.

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RE: Could any viewer...?

We can agree to disagree concerning our respective opinions with emphatic overtones excluded. However, the basis for your feelings being a Viewers Forum for a host to personally evaluate, modify or address issues relative to a particular post they may read is nonsense. We all know the member reviews of a host are subjective due to many variables, what a member expects to see or do in a vid session ranges from friendly conversation to the insane, god forbid if one lies with untruths or misrepresentations (plz don't destroy my world in telling me otherwise) and the ultimate inspiration for any host is the all too frequently asked question of "does she show or not". Your overzealous defense of the hosts is admirable yet a dose of reality and reason seems to be in order. I would even suggest your reply could be construed as being derogatory in regards to their intelligence, independence and intuitions. I'm confident they know the above is true and has little, if any, influence on they interact with the members. BTW, I soooo dislike vid sessions being defined as a performance. Ladies be yourself, enjoy what you desire, don't take unjust criticism personally and, as you already know, the wisdom of time is the ultimate determination of your decisions, not the dictatorship like nature of members. Honest and sincere members will provide the feedback you deserve and desire although doing so in vid or your personal forums is far more definitive. I'm done LIG, so I conclude with the agreement with both love and respect all these beautiful ladies.

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RE: Could any viewer...?

I don't want to disillusion you, but the reasons you proposed are precisely the reasons hosts should have access to al forums. Lies and misrepresentations do occur. Personal vendettas I have seen often from members who choose to make it their business to downgrade a certain host over and over and over beyond all reason. I believe "host" in the most recent reply to crazycupcake states it well. with her I am in agreement for sure. so okay let's leave it for our mutual admiration of the hosts and the role they play in our lives. :)

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RE: Could any viewer...?

you knew you wouldn't have the last word, right?

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RE: Could any viewer...?

Whatever! I'd say more, but I know it wouldn't get past the good censors here.

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RE: Could any viewer...?

How do you know what is in the ChatHost Forum? It could be a gossip forum, talking about bad things from other men??

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RE: Could any viewer...?

Kind of like the viewer's forum?

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RE: Could any viewer...?

worried what they are saying about you?

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RE: Could any viewer...?

do hosts chat about speicific member in the host forum?

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RE: Could any viewer...?

yes they are always talking about you

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RE: question to all

maybe a bug under a microscope feels like a cam girl?

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RE: question to all

OUCH.......is this good or bad considering I just felt a bug bite?

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RE: question to all

No offense "hmm" tho I believe Maria's analogy and question to members just became more evident. Try thinking about it for a few minutes (maybe in terms of your work environment) and the intensity level of the microscope light will probably blind ya with reality. Ever had a new outspoken thinks he knows it all type of boss? Imagine what the girls encounter on a daily basis.

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RE: prerecordered vid

Yes, I think they are great. The member gets a chance to check out a host without pressure. The host gets a chance to make money when she is not online. A dollar per minute seems very fair.

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RE: prerecordered vid

The Internet is one big looping pre-recorded porn show.
No need to pay.

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RE: prerecordered vid

You are of course correct. Free porn is pretty widely available. However I still sometimes go to pre recorded to check out a host I am interested in. And to be honest some times I feel a bit shy. There are many hosts in the Chat room I would love to see in pre recorded, but am hesitant to try live. Of course, that may just be me.

If I were a host I would try it one time, and see if is successful both as a marketing tool as well as a way to make a few extra dollars.

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RE: prerecordered vid

good point

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RE: prerecordered vid

Yes, as long as the price is very reasonable $1 or slightly under, and cheaper than live show!

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RE: prerecordered vid

To answer your questions.

1. Yes
2. An erotic sexy naked show
3. See 2.
4 About $1 is the maximum I would pay

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Deleting CC MAIL

Tell me please, would a delete all option make you happy?
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RE: Deleting CC MAIL

Why?? Must be more to the question than you are saying to ask such or you have thousands saved.

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RE: Deleting CC MAIL

Yes. Going one at a time and waiting for the page to refresh is annoying.

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RE: Deleting CC MAIL

As I get so few cc mails I already have a delete all button. The red cross :(

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Profile photos

Girls....why do you place one photo in profile every day or two rather than three or four once a week? I think most members would prefer multiple photos weekly instead of one. Sometimes so many we get tired of looking at all of them. Recent photos would be great too. Suprising how many are a year or two old.
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RE: Profile photos

I do at least one daily so members can see what I am wearing that day, then the member can decide if he likes what is being, rather than trying to explain what I am wearing.

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RE: Profile photos

I dont care so much about the cloths but to me its importent pictures shows the real look of the model.

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Russian Studios

I had several favs that worked in studios in Russia. They moved on with their lives and left cc much to my unhappiness but best wishes. I then started visiting girls from other countries without fully noticing the russian studios were becoming rare or nonexistent. Being overly fond of the russian girls, what happened? Did the laws, politics or simply wanting to work from home shut them down?
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RE: Russian Studios

Yes, cheaper at home and you don't have to share with boss! You are your own boss

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RE: Russian Studios

Nope. all wrong.
There used to be a time when girls on c/c were making 2-3K and they were the stars because a waitress job made 250 USD per month working long hours. Now with life standards going up in Russia, waitresses get 250-300 USD in tips along.. you can make 750USD working in McDonalds... and that's regular hours and no need to take off your panties for a bunch of horny and (lets be honest) some times rude wankers with some very strange kinks.
On top of that market competition has driven the rates down and made that the average girl (there are exceptions) make about 1 - 1.5K a month at best.
The advantage of working here is gone. And if you think that most girls are here for fun, then I suggest you go sick your head under the cold water. Again there are exceptions but it's pure economy

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So good....and we give it away for free!!! :))

Its in the papers today that sperm is so good for women :)

And we give it away for free !!! That's what u call kindness :P

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2190863/Semen-good-womens-health-helps-fight-depression.html
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RE: So good....and we give it away for free!!! :))

More like the wishfull thinking, i think. This methods of research is no very relyable. They take survey? They no do practical experience? I volunteer study with practical :D hehe

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I am willing to experiment with any recipients, for free :)))

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RE: So good....and we give it away for free!!! :))

Hmmm..not so sure here cuz I've never done this but I think the donor is paid a small sum for good sperm. Wonder how they define "Good" anyway? Is it based on volume quantity or a Brad Pitt, George Cloonery type of look?

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RE: So good....and we give it away for free!!! :))

Thanks for your comment. I meant we give it voluntarily during sex :))) wasn't about sperm banks.
Just wanted people to know how beneficial it can be :)

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RE: So good....and we give it away for free!!! :))

oops, sorry tho would question if we give for free. Women have their ways to insure otherwise :).

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RE: So good....and we give it away for free!!! :))

Yah it is for free and then someone has to pay for the baby for many years to come ;)

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The revolutionary discovery of a sperm shake?

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RE: So good....and we give it away for free!!! :))

I keeping mine.
And one day... you will all find out why...

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RE: So good....and we give it away for free!!! :))

the daily mail is for idiots

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RE: HI

Hi yourself! How's your day going?

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RE: HI

Well thank you! And the same to you, may all your visitors be kind, intense and loving.

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RE: happy couples who met here

Yes I have, one of the hosts here told me about her friend who also used to host and meet a member and the sparks flew and now they are married and expecting their 2nd child :)

So yes it can happen.

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RE: happy couples who met here

I had an ex-girlfriend from Colombia who was host from other site, but the only difference is that I did not meet her vis the other site. I just found out from one of her friends lol

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RE: happy couples who met here

oh yes, believe it or not, but it is possible. i met a girl here and we are probably the most happiest couple and in a thousand times better relationship than many couples who meet in a "normal" way

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i actually did not say that i come here to chat with other hosts. loving my girl also means to me to be close to her every possible minute, so also when she needs to do her job here we like to be as close as possible to each other

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thanks bb now come to 121 muahhhh!

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RE: happy couples who met here

That is so good to hear, that you met here and are so happy.
Ignore the ignorant comments and enjoy a happy life together.

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That's a great story. I wish you both all the happiness in the world.

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I've met many girls I like to wank to here in pvt.

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Just curious how much time and money it took to get to were you are as a couple even tho your explanations of current situation are a bit confusing.

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I hope so

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That is wonderful! I wish you both much happiness.

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Yes, it can happen. You can meet someone right for you in the most unusual of places. But is it a good place to go looking if you're a member? In my opinion, no it's not. Here's why:

- When you talk to someone online here, they are working. When their aim is to make as much money as possible from talking to people (because, well, this is their job), this isn't the ideal way to start a relationship.

- Essentially, until you really spend time with someone, in their environment, you really don't know who they are. Remember, in real life, if a girl is not interested in you, she'll avoid you. Here, if you're paying for her time, there's something a little different in the equation.

- Ask yourself why you aren't looking for a girl in your own country and why you would be strangely more attractive to hosts here that are you to girls in "real life". Don't believe anything a host might tell you that "all the guys here are alcoholics" or nonsense like that. A beautiful girl in Eastern Europe will have no trouble finding a good husband.

- If the girls where you are from think you're a "nice guy" but never see you in "that way", girls here will be exactly the same. They don't have some magical ability to see the qualities in you that girls in your own town can't see.

- If a host speaks English with a limited capability you can be forgiven for thinking she is sweet or innocent because her conversation will be simple and polite, to say the least. This is because she doesn't speak good English, not because she is sweet, innocent and polite :)))

So, yes, it is possible to meet someone here, but well..... This is a fantasy site and probably isn't the best of places to go looking. For every one or two success stories, there will likely be many, many more frustrations. If you find true love here, that's great for you, but don't lose your head.

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RE: commitment issues

It's unclear whether your monthly meetings are strictly online or in real. Either way it's a good bet there is more to his side of the story than you are being told. True love being satisfied by being together once a month doesn't add up especially if limited to online only. Commitment issues may well be conflict issues despite his assurances "you are the only one". Suggestion would be to tell him you need some time and space away from the situation. If he returns with the true commitment you desire then enjoy with cautious optimism. You have your answer if he doesn't. True love really does exist tho it's heart breaking when not mutual. Good luck and don't stop believing cuz of one man and moment in time.

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RE: commitment issues

There is such a thing as true love. Is rare, but then the right one comes along and is happiness. Comittment between host and member is a little different, but, in the past have been haoppy endings. don't give up, talk it through and hope all goes well. :)

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I had actually the same situation until one day when heard him on the phone talking to other girl on her language and thinking i don't understand))) It opened my eyes, so think twice about being "the one and only", sometimes pink glasses are falling off;)

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RE: commitment issues

Are you meetings only online or have you meet in person?

My 2 cents is, you need to be honest with each other. Even though you have "been together" for 3 years have you both been truely honest with each other?

I wish you the best of luck though and I hope it works out for ya !! :)

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Good luck I hope it works out for you.

I don't have commitment issue per say, but I know how you feel cos I am in sorta the same situation at the moment.

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Phone Chat

Not a single member reply concerning the use of phone chat so my curiosity still exists as to whether or not it's used frequently and how it works. Would you beautiful ladies be willing to share about this option?
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i think his question was more if it was used or not by host and member very often. The phone icon pretty easy to understand regardless of nationality. Ooops...maybe an I-phone icon would be better :).

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Depends on the mic and audio quality of both the member and host. Sometimes it's great with no problems. Other times they are best left off.

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RE: Phone Chat

no it is not the same. many hosts do not utilize sound and of those who do, many times the sound is so distorted it is nothing but noise or the host cannot be heard well. with phone it is much clearer, even if less convenient

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For example by saying it is forbidden to share such information?

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RE: NOn adult

I've noticed the same tho I assume no connection exists with revealing pics to attract members vs what actually occurs in vid. It has to be just chat, right? No intent to visit the cat when prices are comparable to little shy or NSS in some cases anyway. The change isn't limited to making friends either. Nowadays, glam and little shy have photos you use to see only in NSS. Economy has changed business practices, here no different I guess. I don't hear any members complaining :)

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RE: NOn adult

Many of the girls are also in other categories.. Some of my sexiest times here were with girls I first met in "Friends" category. Here's an idea. How about putting some sexy pics on your profile? You are one of the prettiest girls on here. Don't take off the jokes you put there... I loved them.

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"If not my principles ,a thought of undressing instead of chatting comes to my mind quite often :D"
That's about the sexiest thing I have read in this forum. Frustrating...but sexy. Maybe you need to release your inner "Peggy" a little, afterall its just a fantasy here. Also, you don't show much in your photos but there appears to be enough evidence to say that you could definitely "start on Monday".

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cyber chat

Have you ever notice you video a lot of host times and had a good relationship during that time than you stop video for awhile and you don't hear from those host again does this mean the relationship stops on cyber chat
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RE: cyber chat

It's a sure bet, if you ain't payin', then host ain't sayin'. :)

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RE: cyber chat

-hmmm--maybe-- some---not sure----curious---why--

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RE: cyber chat

MONEY is the focus here, not relationships

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RE: cyber chat

You mean this is a new experience for you???

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Yes it is but no hard feelings I will start over time to get a new list anyway and this time i will be more selective

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RE: cyber chat

It's all about the money. Cash talks and bullshit walks

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How many waitresses contact you on yahoo after a meal to say how much they loved it and when are you coming back for more? So although I get your (old) point, it isn't quite the same as here.

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RE: cyber chat

Quite a different thing a waitress at a restaurant and a 121 video session with a host from a cam site. I dont remember being charged by the minute to chat with the waitress at the restaurant. Also, I went to the restaurant for "Food", not for the waitress. I go to a cam site for "Fun" with a lady only. I dont see how this analogy is even valid.....

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lol,this is why I stopped visiting hosts on here,the hatred they have for members aswel as themselves is ridiculous,thanks for the reminder why i should avoid most of the hosts on here

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You are assuming there weren't extenuating circumstances involved. No reason to condemn the guy without knowing ALL the facts. He's a bit naive but give him the benefit of the doubt.

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very mature answer from someone that is out there wondering and you tell me to grow up thanks I needed a good laugh

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the world is different now

a big mouthed college student was arguing with a senior citizen,saying it's impossible for his generation to understand the stress in his world.
"you grew up in a different world,"the student said"today we have hd tv,jet planes,space travel,nuclear energy,computers,the internet,
facebook & twitter."
taking an advantage in a pause in the student's litany of woe,the senior citizen interjected"you're right sonny.we didn't have any of those things when we were younger,so we invented them!" :--)
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sounds familiar-like the previous generation invented sex to and thats why we are here--now for the rest of the story from paul harvey

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RE: OKTOBERFEST this weekend!

Ah memories...that special Maerzen beer, having Nuernberger rostwuerstl, meeting so many lovely people. Fun times!

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RE: OKTOBERFEST this weekend!

That was my question too! Isnt Octoberfest in October?:))

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if it't like mardi gras-enjoy and watch out for the flying beads

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

It is always nice to receive appreciative CC-mail if the host has enjoyed the visit as much as the member, ;)

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

Mostly I like it. The host taking an extra step to show appreciation, shows something good about her. Also if perhaps you're on the fence about a return visit, words of appreciation and encouragement will certainly help towards that decision.

The instance where I would not like it...if it continues several times after the first one, like a running advertisement. Every few days or whatever: Where have you been, then Haven't seen you for awhile, etc That would get annoying. But sure, a one time appreciative response is cool.

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

I completely agree. A thank you Email is nice but to be bombarded with "I miss you" emails every day is annoying. Even worse when it is clear from the words that the host is sending exactly the same thing to lots of members.
Try to included something that makes it specific to the member.

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

I always send a thank you mail to a member when he has visited my video...sometimes it can take a while to do if you have a lot of traffic...but it is still worth it when you get a mail back thanking you for the mail....but then there are also those members that I have sent a thank you mail to them and they not even acknowledge getting it ...but at least i know i sent it to show my appreciation..heck I even send one even if the person came in said nothing and left without letting me even say hello...lool...take care everyone and have a wonderful weekend...

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

I like to get and read ccmails, it's nice if she says she enjoyed our meeting, if i can remember the meeting and i concur then i will reply and hope to meet her again. If the meeting was very average and the ccmail smells of advertising then i'll either ignore or send a one word reply, thanks.
A few times a host has sent a photo with the ccmail which isn't from her archives, which is good, even though i doubt it is exclusive to myself.
Sometimes the host will describe what she wants to do at our next meeting and depending on her skills at describing/language it will get me excited and keen, oh it's so easy to please a man.

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

"pleasing a man" or pleasing a host with your wallet?

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

The receipt of a cc email is appreciated and does influence whether or not I will return for another visit. The lack of one indicates she didn't care whether our often 40 minutes or more were pleasant or simply a routine session from another member to increase her pay for the period. It doesn't have to be long or overstated but, at least, acknowledges our time together was valued in some or fashion. It's not unusual for me to send them one to thank them for their time. For me, it's also a way to remember names :)

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

No

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

Yes I love receiving cc mails from hosts, otherwise I might feel that she isn't interested in seeing me again. The worst is when I write them letters and they do not reply to me... it is "goodbye" to them.

Hosts should always reply to meembers when they write them

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yes and yes

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Alex is such a great and compelling sexy commun icator that i think we are missing something/ it's another channel and another medium for your experiment and, especially if you get rapport and exchange messages two ways, even for a time, allows you to delve deeper into some aspects of your online relationship.
Also, like letters and cards used to be, something to look forward to receiving, something to pine and regret when there's nothing new this morning.

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your welcome

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

I always enjoy getting mail from you. Send me all you want. With pics ;)

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RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?

as long as it is sincere and not pushing for another video chat.

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Doctor Daughter

A doctor was on her way to preschool to drop her daughter off, when she realized she left her stethoscope on the car seat.
The little girl picked it up and began playing with it. 'Wow this is amazing,' thought the doctor, 'my daughter wants to follow in my footsteps!'
Just as she was finished thinking that, the child spoke to the instrument & said: "Welcome to Mc Donald's . May I take your order?"
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Sorry, i don't get it..

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RE: Doctor Daughter

nevermind, just take an order from next car and move on
(i bet u dont get this one either) lol

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RE: Doctor Daughter

Most of the McDonalds order-takers don't get it either. 75% of the time something is wrong with my order.

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MeganMovieStar Rocked My World!

I've been an on and off user of CC network for the last few years . Every time I come back and visit CC I hope to find a girl like MeganMovieStar. This girl is as beautiful and sexy as they cum! I can't wait to spend a little time with her again :)
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RE: MeganMovieStar Rocked My World!

Lol))

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RE: MeganMovieStar Rocked My World!

You have a beautiful name.

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RE: MeganMovieStar Rocked My World!

u have good taste! she is mmmmmm

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