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RE: search

it is an easy thing to re-open old screenames now. just try to log in then choose the reopen your account option. Your old favs should still be listed.

If you had deleted them there is another procedure you can follow but it is fairly involved. so CC Mail me.

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Oops! After re-reading, I believe you are right. LOL

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you would now have 2 dollars :p

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RE: Instant Action and not so shy:)

I better be on the lookout for this. Hope to find a great panter in crime.

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RE: Instant Action and not so shy:)

Hmmm. Heavy breathing, Tony??? :P

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RE: Instant Action and not so shy:)

Not funny :P

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RE: Instant Action and not so shy:)

We bang ok!!!!!!

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RE: NEW pics

Very nice and the colour red suits you best.

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She had on red? Wow! I must have not got that far! :P

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Happy Birthday.....

to me ofc :D...and thx for all the early wishes
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RE: Happy Birthday.....

Happy Birthday to you obirogkenobi....may the sun shine on you all day with a cool breeze...and the stars fill the sky to take you thru your night....huggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

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RE: Happy Birthday.....

happy birthday lover boy .

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Happy Birthday Roger..i wish you the best of luck ,joy and happiness.
take care and have fun :)

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RE: Happy Birthday.....

Ohnigwobblyone i was gonna wish you all the best,but when i saw all the hosts wishing you a happy"roger",i realised my wishes would be just words...hope you got the rogering you deserve! :--)

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Seems like all his birthdays have come at once. Cum at once...? I couldnt say. Many more Rogers to you.

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La Multi Ani, Rog :P

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Friends past gone!!!!!

This is a question for members. I have been here for a year and I'm sure like others like me have meet many girls by now. Lost some along the way and why is it that my mind tends to go back to my first set of girls that made me stay.
My question is, does anyone miss there first encounters with your first girls?

I really miss my "Raulina" as we spent hours on end just chatting and playing the nights away:P

There are others I lost touch with but still I do thinking about them alot

I repeat: does anyone miss there first encounters with your first girls?
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RE: Friends past gone!!!!!

Yes.
Makes me wonder why I moved on.
Maybe we need change, new encounters ?

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RE: Friends past gone!!!!!

Absolutely. I developed a total crush on the first host I met here. Maybe it was all about her being the first, or maybe she was just great. Whatever the case all subsequent hosts are measured against her.

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RE: Friends past gone!!!!!

Yes, I miss encounters, here, with two of the first hosts I knew. Fortunately I am still friends with them and chat on facebook and sms.

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RE: Friends past gone!!!!!

Just realize that if you are paying them for their time for all the chatting, you are not really their friend, you are their customer.

If she becomes your friend for real, then you will know how to contact her outside this site, she will welcome your contact and she will contact you, and you won't need to lose touch with her.

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RE: Friends past gone!!!!!

party pooper!

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

This question comes up nearly every month. It was talked a million times. But CC does not offer a search-function to find the threads.

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

In the last 9 days there have only been 4 new threads started, including this one: the forum is moribund. If there was a search facility to prevent repetitive threads it would be even more of a dodo (not a perfect metaphor, but my dinner is ready!).

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

i work at studio and there worked two girls which married with members) and now happy) For two years work here i have never seen viewer with who i am ready married) but some did me offer)

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

yes- i known 2 members here married a host and know one host here now engaged to a member here- it does happen, but is a very low percentage and love can happen anywhere, chat sites-facebook-twitter-yahoo-skype,etec.....

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

Fat chance of that happening. That would be like finding a wife in a strip club. May happen, but all your money would be gone in no time at all!

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

yes I married a member here and were doing couples shows now

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

i want find a beautiful host and ask her to by my wife :)

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

... and it was a great marriage. We were together for almost 10 years (no kids - I didn't want them) and although now (very amicably) divorced we're still very close friends. No regrets at all.

Likewise, I've met several hosts from this and other sites while traveling (since you're wondering, had sex with most, but not all), again with no regrets. Personally, I find this is a very good place to meet travel companions. Just my two cents.

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

I date strippers all the time. I spend money on them of course, but never never never in the club.

When you meet a girl you really like - someone you think you would like to take out and really get to know better - then absolutely refuse to become her customer. Don't buy dances in a club, don't go into a vid with her on this or any other site.

The moment you become her customer, you are done for in 99.99% of the cases; you'll never get her to go out, you'll never get to know her - except as a customer burning lots of $$$.

I won't get into the psychology of it here; suffice it to say that you are not showing her that you genuinely like and respect her when you pay her to take her clothes off, or otherwise pay her for her time. To the contrary; your actions make it clear you don't respect her.

On this site, in other places, in clubs, I find plenty of girls to play with. I only find a few that I would like to keep - at least, for a little while. I would like to find one that I could keep forever, and so I keep looking.

But when I do run across one of those who I really do like, as opposed to merely being attracted to, my message to her boils down to: "I really like you, and because of that I will never be your customer. If you like me and would like to get to know me, then we will do it outside of here."

On this site, I almost never deliver that message; distance is definitely a factor. However not long ago I did tell that to someone - someone who I find to be very impressive and really like. Now, she contacts me at least as often as I contact her. We get along very well and are definitely becoming friends.

As far as the money...yes, many of them are working for the money because they need it. But many of them are looking for other things as well and the money is less important. If one of these girls becomes close enough to me, I'll protect her. That means that, if money is a serious issue with her, I'll see she has what she needs. I never, ever tell a girl that. Not ever. But when the time comes, if she really is in trouble and some money will fix it, it gets fixed.

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

I did not think of this while doing my previous post, but just a week ago on this site I had a rather unusual experience - which contains a lesson for everyone who really, genuinely wants to get to know one of these girls.

I had a long chat with a young lady in community chat. After we had talked for awhile, she confessed to me that she did not like being here, did not like what she had to do to make money, and told me she did not want me to come into her vid (I had not offered to) because she thought I was great and she was ashamed.

She is in not shy and I asked her about that. She said she was there because it seemed to be the best place to make money; she said she did better there than anyplace else.

She is in a studio and her money situation is such that she presently cannot afford internet at home. So, to this point, contacting her outside this site has not been possible, though she is hoping to pay for internet real soon. So we keep talking in community and sometimes in her text chat.

The moral of the story is obvious; most of the girls are not so forthcoming about what they really think. But a lot of them think it. If you really want to know her, you need to keep that in mind.

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

Agree 100%. Never become a service provider's (cam host, stripper, etc.) customer. If I meet a stripper I like I will chat with her and say, "Here's $50 - I don't want a dance but I understand the nature of your job: time is money." While I never buy a dance, I think it's important to recognize the nature of the job and not waste her time. A little bit of consideration goes a long way.

Where hosts are concerned I have a ruse for chatting with them that has nothing to do with wanting a show - I never ask a host to strip or do a show... with my primary screen name. But I have a second screen name (where I won't go on cam) that I use to see how nasty they are. Deceptive, I know. But that's the nature of the business...

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

I made a friend here and we continued to be friends after she came to the US. Then we became more than friends and were very happy together for about 2 years. It ended..just one of those things. But it was nice while it lasted....

I'm a woman, by the way. Don't know if that makes a difference....I suspect it does.

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

Thats hot!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

yes its possible but you might end up with a few surprises while living with them.

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

yes yes yesss

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troubles is once we started talking in depth they were a completely different person that what they seemed to be. yeah hanging with my sister cats can be considered lame .. I got that (I happen to enjoy some of my time alone) but Im afraid of seeing their nice side only if we meet several times and then one of us does the big leap of moving together. some of the guys come in my area for work so .. hmm "i dont know "

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

really?

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

Know a few who were married, but none that lived happily ever after.

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

that kinda cleared it out :))

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

Yes it's possible, met my wife on another site and told her about CC after she moved to CC we spent a a fair amount of time together here and started a relationship away from "work hours". After a year or so we met for the first time in the Caribbean..then a couple months later we met again in the Caribbean..a couple months after that we applied for a fiance visa to the US...got it with no problems. We were married almost 3 years ago...still going strong even with a 20+ year age difference.

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RE: is it possible to find your second half here on cc?

Just a small English point, but it might save u if, for example, you got a job as a spy. Spouses and partners are often referred to (a bit ironically) as our 'other' halves (or even more ironically better halves). Second halves only ever occur in football matches (and similar - except in US, where it's soccer matches).

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Has modern life change the rules of dating?
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you just need to learn how to make yelling at them cute and youre all set...

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There are no rules to dating out of feeling!...only if you date someone because of their money etc.

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Nope. Guys chase pretty girls and pay for everything until broke, then girl gets new boyfriend with money.

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Greedy evil!

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Well. the girls at a Jane Austen country house ball had a dance card and the trick was to get the last place on that card to boost your chances of another introduction. Maybe even a shag who knows.

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PrivateOne2One

Just my opinion, should the PrivateOne2One price be less than the Open Session price. Lets evaluate this for a moment. I been doing a few cam to cam videos lately and it is awesome and after all these years here at cc doing open session shows I sure didn't realize how much cooler it is. My point is the members will stay longer in them and wouldn't have to think about who all is the open chat sessions with them and won't have to second guess if the host was talking to you or the other person and then the open sessions can just be a tad higher, since more or in that one--just a thought- what do you think
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No, i think it should be higher. 1-2-1 prevents the host from the potential of multiple sessions. 1-2-1, having the host's undivided attention, is a privilege that should cost more. Just my opinion.

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RE: PrivateOne2One

Ditto

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Of course the price for One2One shoud be higher then for open chat. exclusive is never cheeper. if u want to be alone with ur fave host and get all her attention, u have to pay more, never less. do not understand uir arguments.

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RE: PrivateOne2One

I think CC might censor this, as a topic recently raised. 121 is, allegedly, for uninterrupted session between one host and one member, gaurenteeing exclusivity. However, looking at this from the hosts point of view, if they have only one viewer at $1.00/min for 30 minutes, is this any better, or worse, than having ten viewers for 10 minutes at $0.50/min. When I first came here, there was no cam2cam and 121 ensured the whole and complete attention of the host, even ensuring they shut down any other sites they were live on.

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RE: PrivateOne2One

you should see them fighting over .. anything. i should be the one paying

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RE: PrivateOne2One

i mean in open :))

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meansquirrel-let me know when their fighting-would like to see that-cool

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unfortunately it only occurs like ... once a week and its completely unpredictable :))

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okie i understand-one2one should cost more-cool

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its all good I get to see their angry mad side :)) and learn new words in the process

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this topic begs the question that if you see a host is already in vid, would you go in or not..i personally wouldnt!

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RE: PrivateOne2One

why not? if the viewer wanted privacy, the option was there to choose 1-2-1.

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What all u think of debaits?

i know every1 no care about the USA but i thinking Mr. Romny had best in debaits last night here. What are other thinking to this?
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RE: What all u think of debaits?

Romney the accomplished businessman lectured the school boy obama......Thats what I think happened....

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

looks and talks like a actor, very well stage act is what I think of Ronald Romney.

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

Isn't debait what you use to catch de fish?

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

Oh sorry i no get right. But is funy joke u make :)

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

Yes i think same

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

John Kerry was credited with winning all 3 presidential debates but GW Bush won the election

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

I no know this john kerry. if mr obama win will be disaster i think

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

John kerry was the loser they ran against bush in 2004. Just wasn's a good candidate

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

yes romney did great...the bamster look lost

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

I would guess you are not from the US? If so it amazes me that you watched the presidential debates. Hell less than 20 percent of Americans tuned in. I would wager very few Americans could even name the Prime Minister of Canada, that giant country to the North of us :). I am impressed.

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

i am czech republik but i live the united states of america. i hope become citizen next year but sad i cannot vote for mr. president

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

and you can never be president of usa.ironic that"a democracy
"discriminates

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

USA will have new President on Jan 2013 and name is President Gentleman :)

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

Sorry to disillusion you, bud, but the USA is not a democracy, it's a republic.

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both of you are basically right depending on how you want to define a democracy...as an actual government, americas is a republic but is a democracy because it has generally free elections, but not absolute majority rules which is the true defintion of a democracy as a FORM of govt.
further its doubtful that a true democracy is workable even if you have a completely homogeneous population

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

Correct

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

good luck when you take your citizenship test

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

Good luck on your citizenship tests. New citizens like you help make our country great.

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

Most people think Romney won the debates on style but not on substance. A number of people have noted that almost every incumbent has lost the first debate.

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

I think Romney won as much on substance as he did on style. Style definitely yes, however.

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

Obama is just in over his head. He looked lost during the debate. No teleprompter. Time to give someone else a chance.

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RE: What all u think of debaits?

is Romney that guy who said Russia is the main enemy of america?

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RE: when end it pp? what time in moscov?

Would be a question for Help desk, but the answer is 4am now, maybe subject to change when Europe goes to Winter time - and Russia won't change

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RE: when end it pp? what time in moscov?

4 am

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Ryder Cup

Yes! Yes! Yes! An unbelievable comeback by Europe against the might of the USA and in their own backyard too ))) Europe win the Ryder Cup!
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seeing as how the europeans seem to be winning majority of the tournaments, curious about the "might" of the usa. then again, the wins may just be my perception, dont follow golf

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maybe if it was the "ride her" cup tiger would play better ;)

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RE: payoneer:)

Hello) after 20-30 min since load by your account

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this exactly the type of chat in hosts forum,that many members are so curious to know :--)

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haha exactly,but members are curious about it.i guess they hope there's juicy gossip about members.like about hosts in members forum.we never share our cosmetic secrets with other members.don't want to give up our little advantages :--)

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RE: payoneer:)

im not a girl, but i know for fact that when someone load money on your payoneer, it will be on your account after 2 days

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he is right!

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RE: the different between complete & finished

huh?

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Oh, i scrolled down farther :)

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RE: the different between complete & finished

They say a man isn't complete until he is married. It is true because one he is married he is finished.

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good one jimb-made me laugh

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iPhone5

Wow, much faster, I found myself picking it up and toying with it automatically reaching for it when I was video a host here and forgot to log out of the video. Hate to see my next bill, but will say the iPhone5 is awesome
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I've got a Galaxy Nexus and have enjoyed laughing at the "new" features of ios 6.
I'm sure the hardware for the iphone is a nice upgrade though.

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RE: iPhone5

did u also laughed about the new feature on galaxy devices, that makes it possible to launch a factory reset when visiting on some web page?

I would really laugh my ass out if notice that my phone is suddenly deleting all the data and contacts :D

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RE: iPhone5

What's even funnier is the phone I mentioned isn't vulnerable to this exploit. You should do a bit more research than 'hearing about something from someone' or scanning apple site headlines.

all OS's will always have vulnerabilities... that's basic computing 101.
It's patching them when discovered that's key and using your head when browsing or clicking email links. No matter what system you use.

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Blackberry forever! :D

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Agreed Monica ))) And at least Blackberry maps are accurate )))

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I hate mainstream! And i LOVE this awesome keyboard of BB!

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The Blackberry 10 OS looks like it will be nice from the previews they've shown... if they can ever get it out the door.

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The way to avoid that happening again is this. Use your debit card and only have so much money in your accout before you start your session.

That way, even if you forget to log off, you will run out of money and the session will stop automatically.

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the difference between complete & finished

no english dictionary has been able to explain the difference between the words"complete"&"finished",in a way that's so easy to understamd.some people say there's no differencebetween these 2 words,but there is an explanation.
when you marry the right one,you are complete,but when you marry the wrong one,you're finished.
and when the right one catches you with the wrong one,you are....completely finished :--)
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RE: hmmm

most guys enjoy fishing.that's what he was doing.throwing bait in the water to see if you'd bite.generally we are horny wankers,but nothing is a bigger turn on than getting something for free....even if it's something we don't want or need :--)

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RE: hmmm

i not know that open session is free like u say mr. tisme. where u find these open session?

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RE: hmmm

if you're getting(asking)for masterbate & cum in open session in lil shy,i think that qualifies as free :--)

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you say strange,i say cheap :--)

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how u say qualifies as free? sorry but i no understand. when i am in the open session it always has cost. no as much as in the 121 but still a cost

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RE: hmmm

It isn't free. tisme was trying to say that if you get hosts playing with themselves in open then you are getting a very good deal.

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RE: hmmm

Oh dam! i wanted these free he was saying!

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RE: hmmm

He asked, because there are hosts, who will strip,masturbate&cum (faked) in open little shy. Thats why he tried.

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RE: hmmm

what can I say, bye

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RE: hmmm

what-when-where-,was free?

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RE: hmmm

whats wrong with the open chat? you still get paid, right?
feels rude to keep pushing for private so you could level the asking price for both options. then theyll have no reason not to make it private.

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RE: hmmm

Am i wrong this? I thinking says somewhere hosts no alowed to ask member go in 121 or refuse to do unless in 121? I miss something or I right?

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RE: hmmm

don't wanna sound mean but maybe if u took some english classes before u signed for this "job" they would stay and talk... even for me it was a little difficult to understand what u were trying to say here... what can u expect from a horny guy?!

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RE: have a questione......

no, you can only try to quess who gave you how many stars, so you better block all viewers because someone of them might give you less than 5 stars

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RE: have a questione......

i guess hosts wouldn't care so much about stars,if so many members didn't.it's catch 22 :--)

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good question,though blocking anyone is like closing the gate after the horse has bolted.if he gave you bad rating,the chances are he's not coming back,so blocking him might be a little pointless.might be better to accept"shit happens"& not let it worry you too much :--)

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RE: have a questione......

Some people are just jerks; and some people you just can't please no matter what you do. If they was not the case though, or perhaps even if it was...try to turn a negative into a positive and ask yourself if there was anywway you could have approached the situation differently, said something a bit different, etc that would have got you a better rating. In fact, the top sales people ask themselves that question after Every client :)

Anyway, do as you wish of course; hope you have a great one.

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Whoops, no big deal, but that was meant to be reply to op, not tisme.

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RE: have a questione......

i assumed that.no intelligent person would lower themselves to reply to my incoherent ramblings :--)

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RE: have a questione......

That explains why I quite often reply :P

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hehe, when u have no stars they think u fresh meat, but when u have the 5 star they think maybe u too good for them

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RE: so we should get a job?

I'm not religious but I think the bible gave one piece of great advice. "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." So, as a guy who pays girls to take off their clothes, I think I am in no position to judge those girls for their choice of job.

I was actually surprised when I checked your claims and found they were true as I thought the UK had an open door policy for all EU citizens. I'm sure, at least in the UK, that things will change before too long. (You may be able to work here one year before you retire :P)

I'll be honest if I couls earn 3 or 4 times what I do now by taking off my clothes I'd be stripping tomorrow. Hell who am I kidding. If I thought any girl would watch me for free I'd be stripping tomorrow :D

So in short I think you girls do a great job and I would be proud to have any of you on my arm any day.

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RE: so we should get a job?

but would you still be proud if YOUR DAUGHTER was a cam girl, or ask her to find a "decent job" instead?

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RE: so we should get a job?

good answer. As a member, I have little understanding of a host's perspective and situation. But at least I realize my ignorance, and do not show it by giving foolish advice. I just enjoy you and other wonderful hosts.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Technically i think that was a hypothetical daughter, not you

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RE: so we should get a job?

Yes!! he was making an argument that INYF might be quite happy for you to do camming but if he had some imaginary daughter he might change his tune on career advice. Of course youre right, in that that's an argument about another guy's argument and may be off the point as far as youre concerned.
We all want sexy girls but get scratchy when guys hit on our sisters, our daughters and nieces.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Actually I am another host from Romania and I asked for a member's point of view, but thx for your zero input as well.

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RE: so we should get a job?

i would be proud of my daughter, really!

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RE: so we should get a job?

I will admit that, if I had a daughter, this would not be the job I would want for her. But then some of the jobs I have had in my life I would not want for her either even though, in your mind, they were "decent jobs".

When I said I would be proud to have any of these girls on my arm it had absolutely nothing to do with the fact that they were cam girls. The point I was making was that twhat they do for a living would have no bearing on how I feel.

So if I had a daughter who was kind, caring and decent I cannot imagine ever being anything but proud of her.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Ofc INYF, but would you admitt in front of your friends what your GF is doing for a living???Or you just appreciate her for who she really is???

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RE: so we should get a job?

Would ur parents or ur kids be proud of u if they found out ure on this kinda site?

Know what? My parents ARE proud of me, cause im a good person, i take care of my grandmother, she is REALLY sick (and no, im not one of those hosts who say-ohhh my granny is so sick will u help me to buy meds for her? Operation? etc etc, in fact it makes me sick and very few members of mine know about this, cause i dont use this. Whats a game to get cash out from members for them is reality for me), i help homeless pets to find new homes and i take care of my parents too, maybe not financially but they get huuge moral support and help from me when needed. No, they dont know im here. But IF they found out-they would still be proud of me just as much as they are now. Cause THATS what really matters.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Well said Ouch. As always :*

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RE: so we should get a job?

I would see to it that my daughter would not have to do that in order to make money.

If I was unable to see to it that she did not have to, and if her choices were very limited, then of course I would not be happy, but I would accept it and be relieved that she was at least doing something safe.

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RE: so we should get a job?

"stripping"(as you call it...) will include good education, being able to speak 2 or more foreign languages, to keep yourself in a perfect physical form(fitness, yoga, running), also being able to smile when you cant, enormous patience, good imagination and creative skills...not to mention computers skills...plus you have to be ready for the investments, being able to plan your time properly...(coz you will be your own boss and not just an employee)...i m sure i forgot thousands of factors which are needed for doing this job...So...think twice imnotyourfriend....

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RE: so we should get a job?

Damn the only thing keeping me going was the thought that one day I might get to do my ideal job. Now you've ruined it for me. Sounds harder than my current job :(

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RE: so we should get a job?

inyf you need to think outside the box.you said if you could earn 3 or 4 times what you earn now for taking off your clothes you would.have you ever considered your earning potential if you inverted it.live naked,how much do you think people would pay you to put your clothes back on? :--)

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RE: so we should get a job?

Move here. We have none of those problems and only opportunity for everyone.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Depending on your skills, it would be possible. In the general case, it is difficult for young, single eastern european women to enter the US (the reasons for that are both political and despicable IMO), but it is possible if you have the right training.

Also, there are other ways, but you need the cooperation of a male citizen of the US.

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RE: so we should get a job?

The world = usa?

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RE: so we should get a job?

And why is that?

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Still the promised land?

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RE: so we should get a job?

Keep camming as long as you pay taxes. Don't change a thing

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Nuclear physicist?

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RE: so we should get a job?

And I was misled by a Ro host whose deception was prompted by a controlling and abusive BF. I knew her to be a talented, sensitive, and bright woman. That is what ultimately broke my heart. The lack of opportunity can create desperation in people and make them capable of morally questionable acts in the name of survival.

We are actually friends now. She moved to another country and quit camhosting. We have both cried over what happened, and she says she cannot forgive herself for what she did.

If you are living on your earnings from camchatting, and only that, I really have nothing but respect for you, and I hope some day you really are able to apply your other talents in a rewarding way.

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RE: so we should get a job?

You really think guys who visit will respect you more if they think you earn more money.Thats the problem right there,the idea that some camgirls like you think that money and respect go hand in hand.

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RE: so we should get a job?

That's pretty cheap and lame if you really make all the money you say you do.Just think you may spend more on your cosmetics each month.That's if you really love your parents.But you may just use big words instead.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Yes, that is what I was talking about, but I did not mean to imply that was what you did, and my sincere apologies if you took it that way. I have realized I am really in no position to judge you, especially if I don't know you as a person.

It is true, frauds and cheats live in every country, and clever people run their schemes wherever they can. But too often I am hearing on this site members who make snap judgments about an entire country or an entire class of people based on some fixed idea.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Hosts Why u still work here like more than 3 years and still not want to find real job out there?

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RE: so we should get a job?

Its amazing!! I keep hearing all these girls are married or have boyfriends but have rarely ever come across one who says so when I enter her room,lol.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Hmm somehow I do not suffer so much as you from doing this job.
This is because everybody knows that Russian girls have high sexual drive and I find the release of my sexuality here.

Besides I do not expect that EU will open its labour market to Russia one day lol- its too big. So its better to rely on friends and myself.

I don't help my mom with my money because my mom won't take the money out of pride. She would better do job in addition to her pension and then even try to give money to me.

What else- I don't complain because, firstly, its pointless and drains your energy, secondly, Westerners don't like it; thirdly Easterners won't understand- they mostly hate us because of the communist era lol. Basically, everybody more or less hates Russians lol, including ourselves sometimes.

So I am doing fine; later I will close the account and find a decent, lower paid job- this will stay a secret. Maybe I will marry some nice CC member.

Cost of living in Russia is higher than in the most of Western Europe; salaries are lower.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Your not even Romanian never mind a pissed one,your a uk guy,!

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RE: so we should get a job?

Nice of you not to correct his grammar too (those possessive pronouns, tut tut). Also - unless this was all inspired by a long drinking session - using the US sense of pissed.

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RE: so we should get a job?

There is a couple of giveaways,but I wont tell what they are so I can spot you in future.

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RE: so we should get a job?

why do you care so much of what a totally stranger thinks?
Each of us harbors all sorts of terrrrible thoughts on some of our peers.
your reality is different than his and thats that. i know its easy to say it cause I had a nice day today :) but just seeing the world from the gutter might help you on the long run well unless you turn to the drugs, alcohol, pills or food though those option might have their perks :)

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RE: so we should get a job?

it depends what the person meant. if he meant it as encouraging to go back to school, then it was good thing plus this career is very short . Many girls from ro started here and then did find better jobs.

Always, look at your options; because frankly this is not a lifetime career.

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RE: so we should get a job?

Some of us understand the situation. Some of us are deeply sympathetic to your plight.

There are even some of us who, in certain circumstances, might be able to make a difference, at least for certain individuals with specific skill-sets.

I wish I could know who you are.

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RE: so we should get a job?

I wonder why those "wise" men come here if they like girls with a "real Job". And if, ipotetically, every girl would find a good job and quit with this, where those "good" man would go to find "bad girls" ?

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Golf Gun

Two Mexican detectives were investigating the murder of Juan Gonzalez. "How was he killed?" asked one detective.
"With a golf gun," the other detective replied. "A golf gun? What is a golf gun?"

"I don't know. But it sure made a hole in Juan."
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RE: Golf Gun

great timing,

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RE: price on glamour

I have a theory about how to figure appropriate prices....though it is probably a host that should answer this question. Surely all of them are wrestling with this same issue. But I will give it a shot.

If I were a host I would gently increase the rates and hold them there for several weeks to get a feel. Worrying about business being up one day and down the next is not enough time to really test the market. Slowly raise your rates over time. Keep gently raising them until it is obvious you are pricing yourself out of the market and then drop them back a bit. I would urge you raise them slowly. It may take several months to determine what works out best. You may find you actually net more money with a higher price but less time spent in video. And in the business I work in I find if I am the cheapest provider I tend to attract the less desireable personality types. Obviously if you raise it too much than members will find cheaper entertainment. Somewhere there is a "price point" that will yield you the highest income. You just need to test the market. And like any business you need to give great service. I am not sure what "services" you offer, but smiling and showing interest in your "guest" are basics to all human interactions, even IA (not that I have been there mind you...:))

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I just had another thought......(please no predictable jokes here). You could try opening two host accounts with two different prices. See which works out best over time. That might speed up the process of finding what fees net you the highest income. I would like to add that I do not want any of my favs to follow any of this advice......., only kidding ladies....I want you all to become incredibly wealthy.

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One of my best friends has a problem getting regular income from pvts in glamour even though she is sexy as hell and doing everything (except anal) and doing sexy outfits +pics.
She s in the 1.50/2.00 range. But i wonder if it's the right category? Guys either see - or both - think that s expecsive or dont even expect to get nudity let alone play in glam.

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If it's slow for her and she's "doing everything (except anal)" as you say, yeah I'd sure say... she should get the heck out of glamour, and at least try nss, sounds like she fits that description a bit more anyway.

You're also dead on about the way some of us think about it. To each their own, but in my case, I don't even bother with glamour at all, because I simply want to know for sure what I'm getting...as much as possible at least.

Well, whatever you two do, best of luck to both you and your friend :)

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she needs me to type for her :))

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Firstly you need some pretty damn good pictures,you have to be smokin hot and you have to have a great personality,simple

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RE: resources for learning English

Best way is to find nice friendly English speaking members. Invest in notepad and pen. Write down your language and then same word in English. :)

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RE: resources for learning English

Must mean nice friendly and RICH english speaking member using this method. Can only imagine how long this type of vid session would last.

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RE: resources for learning English

A member pays a host to teach her english..yes, that makes sense here on cc actually.

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RE: resources for learning English

Never used it myself, but evidently "Rosetta Stone" is excellent.

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RE: resources for learning English

Excellent course is the Headway Course by Oxford University Press. It goes from beginners course to advanced level, depending on your needs and current skill level. Most is available on line if you google it. If you cant find it then cc mail me and I'll send u links.

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I can teach you if you have a room for me to move in, while teaching.

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If you are looking for free interactive, check out a site called freshlingua. It is a free exchange site that works on the principle of you teach me your language, and in exchange, I will teach you mine. You can do this with members of the site from all over the world using various chat programs. I've been meaning to register, but just haven't gotten around to it.

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RE: resources for learning English

Hello! Do a search for YouTube-Channel: DjonikNSK2
You will find 16 video-lessons

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RE: resources for learning English

Meet a nice American here and get a student visa for 2 years at junior college while living with the nice american. You will speak english pefectly by the end of your stay. You must be able to pass the TOEFL however to get a visa.

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If american english is 'pefect' english then I'll stick to proper english any day ;)

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RE: resources for learning English

a cool site to learn english is walter's las vegas guide. You have use either google chrome or mozilla but if you highlight the text, it reads it outloud. Plus, if you highlight words will give definition.

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RE: resources for learning English

Teach me Russian, I will teach you English.

But I won't play at it; if you want to learn you have to really mean it and work on it - and that won't be happening on this site.

So make friends with me, then connect up outside the site where we won't be distracted and where I won't have to pay you money for the privilege of talking to you.

There are other guys who would do that too. But not as a game; that just isn't worth the time.

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Needed the Money
A young lady in the maternity ward just prior to labour is asked by the midwife if she would like her husband to be present at the birth.
"I'm afraid I don't have a husband" she replies
"O.K. do you have a boyfriend?" asks the Midwife "No, no boyfriend either."
"Do you have a partner then?"
"No, I'm unattached, I'll be having my baby on my own."
After the birth the midwife again speaks to the young woman. "You have a healthy bouncing baby girl, but I must warn you before you see her that the baby is black"
"Well," replies the girl. "I was very down on my luck, with no money and nowhere to live, and so
I accepted a job in a Porno movie. The lead man was black."
"Oh, I'm very sorry," says the midwife, "that's really none of my business and I'm sorry that I have to ask you these awkward questions but I must also tell you that the baby has blonde hair."
"Well yes," the girl again replies, "you see I desperately needed the money and there was this Swedish guy also involved in the movie, what else could I do?"
"Oh, I'm sorry," the midwife repeats, "that's really none of my business and I hate to pry further but your baby has slanted eyes."
"Well yes," continues the girl, "I was incredibly hard up and there was a little Chinese man also in the movie, I really had no choice."
At this the midwife again apologises collects the baby and presents her to the girl, who immediately proceeds to give baby a slap on the bum. The baby starts crying and the mother exclaims,
"Well thank fuck for that !"
"What do you mean?" says the midwife, shocked.
"Well," says the girl extremely relieved, "I had this horrible feeling that the little bastard was going to bark!"

Little Mary Margaret was not the best student in School.
Usually she slept through the class. One day her teacher, a Nun,called on her while she was sleeping.
"Tell me Mary Margaret, who created the universe?"
When Mary Margaret didn't stir, little Johnny who was her friend sitting behind her, took his pencil and jabbed her in the rear. "GodAlmighty!" shouted Mary Margaret.
The Nun said, "Very good" and continued teaching her class. A little later the Nun asked Mary Margaret, "Who is ourLord and Saviour?"
But Mary didn't stir from her slumber Once again, Johnny came to her rescue and stuck Mary Margaret in the butt. "Jesus Christ!!!" shouted Mary Margaret and the Nun once again said, "Very good,"
Mary Margaret fell back asleep. The Nun asked her a third question..."What Did Eve say to Adam after she had her twenty-third child?" Again,Johnny Came to the rescue.
This time Mary Margaret jumped up and shouted, "If you stick that damn thing in me one more time, I'll break it in half!"
The nun fainted...........

SLEEPING WITH BOB
The guys were all at a deer camp. No one wanted to
room with Bob,
because he snored so badly. They decided it wasn't fair to make one
of them
stay with him the whole time, so they voted to take turns.
The first guy slept with Bob and comes to breakfast the
next
morning with his hair a mess and his eyes all bloodshot. They said,
"Man,
what happened to you? He said, "Bob snored so loudly, I just sat up
and
watched him all night."
The next night it was a different guy's turn. In the
morning, same
thing, hair all standing up, eyes all bloodshot. They said, "Man, what
happened to you? You look awful! He said, 'Man, that Bob shakes the
roof
with his snoring. I watched him all night."
The third night was Fred's turn. Fred was a tanned,
older cowboy,
a man's man. The next morning he came to breakfast bright-eyed and
bushy-tailed. "Good morning!" he said. They couldn't believe it. They
said,
"Man, what happened?"
He said, "Well, we got ready for bed. I went and tucked
Bob into
bed, patted him on the butt, and kissed him good night. Bob sat up
and
watched me all night."
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Dear Tech Support,
Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slow down in overall system performance --

particularly in the flower and jewellery applications, which operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0
In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5 and then installed undesirable programs such as F.A.CUP 5.0, The Ashes 3.0, and Golf Clubs 4.1.

Conversation 8.0 no longer runs, and Housecleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. I've tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no! avail.
What can I do?
Signed, Desperate
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Dear Desperate:
First keep in mind, Boyfriend 5.0 is an Entertainment Package, while Husband 1.0 is an Operating System.
Please enter the command: "http: I Thought You Loved Me.html" and try to download Tears 6.2 and don't forget to install the Guilt 3.0 update. If that application works as designed, Husband 1.0 should then automatically run the applications Jewellery 2.0 and Flowers 3.5.
But remember, overuse of the above application can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Grumpy Silence 2.5,Happy Hour 7.0 or Beer 6.1.

Beer 6.1 is a very bad program that will download the Snoring Loudly Beta.
Whatever you do, DO NOT install Mother-in-law 1.0 (it runs a virus in the background that will eventually seize control of all your system resources).
Also, do not attempt to reinstall the Boyfriend 5.0 program. These are unsupported applications and will crash Husband 1.0.

In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have limited memory and cannot learn new applications quickly. You might consider buying additional software to improve memory and performance.
We recommend Food 3.0 and Hot Lingerie 7.7.
Good Luck, Tech Support
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RE: joke

Totally original, clever and very funny.:))

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Looking for a girl in Madrid vor webcam shoes here on Cc

Hi, i am looking for a nice,openmind ,very clean girl that lives in Madrid and would like to make shows on Cc from time to time, with defined hours so members would know when we are together online. we can have alot of fun .....waiting for responses.....NOT INTERESTED TO MAKE BOY/GIRL SHOWS,ONLY SINGLE OR GIRL/GIRL
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RE: Looking for a girl in Madrid vor webcam SHOW here on Cc

OOPS.....NO SHOES....SHOWS ON cC

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