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"Maybe America it's the "Dream Land" Or UK"

I'm english and live in England, and I spend a fair amount of time in USA and Canada too. And the first thought that came to mind when I read this was WHY? You're right, no nation is perfect and you've picked the best of them to illustrate this. USA is quite likely the most corrupt country on the planet, and UK is it's pet dog. Sure, I'm english but sometimes I really hate to admit it.

It's about time that those of you in Russia, Romania, Moldova, Ukraine or wherever realise that 'the west' really isn't the crock of gold at the end of the rainbow. If you're not happy in your own country what makes you believe you'll be any happier somewhere else? Try visiting them before you decide you want to live there, and not just for a holiday!

Have a little pride in your own countries. I don't know about Romania but I think that despite its faults (many, but not as many as USA) Russia is a wonderful country and infinitely preferable to many allegedly 'more advanced' countries. The same goes for Ukraine and Moldova and others too I reckon.

And consider this: those here who who take the rip out of other countries, other posters who are from them or their domestic cleaning habits (for example) often with appalling grammar, simply illustrate exactly why I think neither America nor UK is the supposed dreamland.

Tell you what girls - dont come to me, I'll come to you....

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RE: To Girls

If you think USA is the most corrupt country on the planet, then you obviously haven't spent any significant time in Russia.

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RE: To Girls

Or any time in Asia, where every goverment offical can be bought. From the street policeman to the admin clerks to the higher ups.
Try to bribe your way out of a speeding ticket in the US, see how far you get.

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RE: To Girls

....Or any time in Asia, where every goverment offical can be bought. From the street policeman to the admin clerks to the higher ups.

I haven't yet managed to collect a speeding ticket in USA or Russia. I stand by what I said - USA is more corrupt than Russia. I can't speak of any other Asian country except Myanmar - but at least they dont try to hide their inbuilt corruption.


And thats different to the USA how?

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RE: To Girls

America is the most corrupt country on the planet? that is the biggest crock of shit anyone ever posted here. and btw not all american homes have dishwashers

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RE: To Girls

I dont have a dish washer and i make alot of money. lol and i live in usa i have never had a dishwasher and most likely never will lol

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RE: To Girls

Putin is not running in 2008 so I nominate you Gort to be the first female candidate for pres since you are a true patriot :) ..........or if not interested we could just rub noses together to start a fire.........

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RE: To Girls

Well said Gort! And very well expressed in English. I can never understand why some people pour scorn on others and appear to think they are superior in some way. Everyone is different - that's what makes meeting people from other parts of the world so interesting.

Modesty and open-mindedness are excellent qualities - pity so many people don't posess either! By the way, an interesting English word you may not have come across - "Jingoism" (means to be very patriotic)! And I'd love to have the recipe for the honey cakes - unless it's an ancient secret family recipe of course.....

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RE: To Girls

Gort. Russia is a great country and dont you worry about some girls not knowing what a dishwasher is. Does that in any way lower the esteem of Russia. Never, its a great country and has a great history. Ppl are great and good there and that is one simple reason (though there are many more) for all russians to be proud off.

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RE: To Girls

They never allow messages in any language other then English.

I did read the rude messages, but if the worst thing they can say is you don't have a dishwasher then he is an idiot. As far as domestic affairs, the most honeycakes and the fewer dishwashers the better.

As far as the political situation, I don't think I trust it, but I'd be pleased to move a little piece of Russia to my apartment if a sweet Russian girl wants to move here.

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RE: To Girls

I admit that example with dishwasher was a bad one. U didn't get the point, because i didn't explain it quite well, sorry :(
Hope i'll correct that misunderstanding with this post.
This story is not a joke:
One russian girl (my friend) was coocking together with an american girl. They boiled spaghetti in a pot and there was no a
colander. American girl asked russian: "how can we get spaghetti out of the pot separated of water?! We need a colander anyway, let's go to our neighbours and will get it." Russian girl was wondered that american doesn't know any other way :D ...she explained nothing, just said: "see how i do that :))" and put a cover on the pot, moved it aside a bit and poured a water out of the pot, saving spaghetti in.
Now tell me, who among russian girls doesn't know this way? EVERYBODY does!
That's what im actually proud of! but not that russians don't know from what side to come to the dishwasher (if they ever need it at all!!!)
Some girls really need such things as a dishwasher which r usefull, but not extremely necessary, because they tend to the life with a good comfort. But in general... all girls in Russia use to manage with things they have, feeling fine... even if they have really nothing, they will survive! Is what i actually call "to be not spoiled with money" (u may have your own definition of it, i only explain what i meant)
And i want to ask russians: who doesn't agree that our national feature is inventiveness? and don't u proud of that?
I think every nation is unique and has its own things to be proud of, but mostly we all r patriots and believe our country and our nation is a bit greater :D ..who cannot agree with it?

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RE: To Girls

Very good example russian host. It shows exactly that we can all learn from other people.

Maybe you have a recipe for honey cake if Gortensia doesn't want to give it to me:)

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RE: To Girls

It is good to see some posts where girls are actually showing they are proud of their countries rather than just moaning how hard it is, how bad the men are and how hard it is to get proper jobs even when they are well educated etc.
Personally, I have never been to Russia and I am sure some of these things and stories are true but if some hosts spend a lot of time telling us how bad Russia, Romania etc are then it is hardly surprising if some of us get the wrong impression of your countries and think they are much worse than they actually are.

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RE: To Girls

WELCOME TO AMERICA !
public education - very low
taxes - very high
president - G W Bush !
typical outfit - cheap t-shirt, baseballhat
typical look like - fat, tall, with good teeth
mediacl care - you can't aford it
But great system of roads, fastfoods, awesome casinos in Vegas
Dunno about corruption, but burocracy ....
You will see more homelss ppl in LA then any where else in former USSR republics. Hard to get fresh herbs and vegetables. There are many pluses and minuses like everywhere else.

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to VW

if you are an American it certainly proves that you are correct about the standards of education

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RE: To Girls

it's hard to get fresh fruits and vegetables in america? since when? ne sure and chase the americans out so the girls won't be able to make a living. But that remark is just plain STUPID

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RE: To Girls

frresh fruit and veggies are not that costly...take you nonsencisal ideas about america and stidck thehem where the sun doesn't shine, of course you will probably have to get your heads out of the way to do so

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RE: To Girls

Excellent!

I see that a few of my colonial cousins are offended by any slight criticism of their glorious country, even when the criticisms aren't levelled or maybe even applicable to them directly.

So if you don't like it, maybe now you can see why some Russian hosts don't like the pathetic stereotyping that they are subjected too either. 99% of people have some pride and loyalty to their own country so live and let live...

Given the option of living and working in the States, or the same in Russia (same standard of living too) I would choose to go east. Besides, the language is easier to learn.

R

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RE: To Girls

bush is awesome

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RE: To Girls

Thanks for replying russian host! If you want to share your cake recipe, I'm listening:)

Maybe we could turn this thread into an International recipe swap. Now that's got to be better than some of the negative stuff posted on the forum!

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RE: To Girls

No problem, Huxley ;) ...i had to know some new english words trying to translate this recipe :D ...still got some problems with converting weights :(( ... so 250 gramm u will have to convert in pounds by yourself :">
Here it is...

1 glass of sour cream
1 egg
salt, soda, flower (i add it by eye :) to make thin layers)

make about 8-9 layers like a pancakes, they should be thin, bake them and let cool... they r fragile, so don't throw them up and don't sit on them :D

whipe 250 gramm of butter and add custard by little spoon mixing thoroughly.
Custard:
1 glass of milk
2 eggs
1 glass of sugar
mix on fire till boiling, cool. Then put it on layers except the top which u can decorate later, then after a little while when the layers will get a bit softer put the cake under the press ( like a can with water for example) to let all layers get imbued...leave it for some hours or for the night. Don't forget to decorate it then ;)
Bon appetit! :))


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RE: To Girls

by the way ...i didnt mention what flower! = flour* of course :D

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RE: To Girls

Well thank-you russian host! I'll certainly give it a try. Thanks for taking the time to write down the recipe (and to correct the "flower") :)
Take care

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?? for the hosts

This is a question for the female hosts. Are there any members here that you really enjoy talking with either here or somewhere else?? Any members that you consider to be good friends?? If so,who are they and why?? Any members that you feel very close to?? Who and why??
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RE: ?? for the hosts

Anyone who talked a lot with WTF or him in one of his other identities know he is very funny nice guy

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RE: ?? for the hosts(btw)

yes,come on ladies.let's have some names.maybe i can make this list.LOL

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RE: ?? for the hosts(btw)

you wish paco i think you know Darkmystery and imshy will top the list they do on my list anyway

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RE: ?? for the hosts(btw)

such good taste...........lol

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RE: ?? for the hosts(btw)

christmas is coming maybe you have made santa's list but remember he knows if you've been naughty or...... who are we kidding paco you ain't on that list either :--))

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RE: ?? for the hosts(btw)

not even on santas list??? damn! will i ever make a list??

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who's in the Forum

I am willing to beat that only VERY SMALL MINORITY of people (men) who come on cc even use this forum this is really kind of a small IN-GROUP with a very distorted idea of the people online.

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RE: ?? for the hosts

Some hosts have married members, dome fuck them on their holidays, some make friendships and some just entetain viewers on a visit-by-visit basis.

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RE: ?? for the hosts

Thank you, but it's simply what happens.

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RE: ?? for the hosts

PW knows nothing!

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Always Wondered ?

After you girls made love what was longest time you still saw traces of sperm coming out of your puss in the shower???
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RE: Always Wondered ?

9 months if she gets pregnant

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RE: Always Wondered ?

Well you know I never really thought about that before! But it's a very interesting question. I'll ask every woman I meet and see if I can get some kind of average.

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have you?

where is Marinky?
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RE: have you?

probably in Moscow?

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RE: have you?

she has left cc forever and is now doing professional web design. she will not be coming back here

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RE: have you?

never say not.

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RE: have you?

she back after her words that she never ll use cc. maybe she ll back again

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colacam

anybody know if colacam has changed her chatname or not?
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RE: colacam

you mean the girl from romania?

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RE: colacam

Yes..she is now the uncola cam.

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RE: colacam

i remember her from another site.
she was a devil and an angel.

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RE: colacam

She's now called pepsicam

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The Preacher:-)

There was a preacher whose wife was expecting a baby so he went to the congregation and asked for a raise. After much consideration and discussion, they passed a rule that whenever the preacher's family expanded, so would his paycheck.

After 6 children, this started to get expensive and the Congregation decided to hold another meeting to discuss the preacher's salary. There was much yelling and bickering about how much the clergyman's additional children were costing the church.

Finally, the Preacher got up and spoke to the crowd, "Children are a gift from God," he said. Silence fell on the congregation.

In the back of the room, a little old lady stood up and in her frail voice said, "Rain is also a gift from God, but when we get too much, we wear rubbers".

And the congregation said, "Amen."
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dishwasher

just to explain how one works (for romanian/russian girls who apparently don't know).
You put dishes (plates/pans/cups/knives/forks etc) into it
Then put some dishwashing tablets in (like at laundry)
Then turn it on - and after hot water/cleaning fluid have finished you then take out clean dishes.
Really is very simple and doesn't necessarily mean American/British women are spoilt - just that they generally have more disposable income and use them to save time
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RE: dishwasher

i prefer the old fashioned way ... she washes up :)

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RE: dishwasher

she has more time to hoover and cook if you get a dishwasher!

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RE: dishwasher

Wow, thank you for illuminating me, you saved me life.
I was so fucking stupid...

I don't like how a dishwasher is washing, I trust more my own hands even if it happends to break a plate or two..

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RE: dishwasher

I think this was in relation to what Uniqueangel said in the russian gals post below.............

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RE: dishwasher

I just throw the feckers away and get back to the bedroom.....

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RE: dishwasher

Well, didn't read that, but it was a proof of ignorance nonetheless

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RE: dishwasher

Small load... do it by hand

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RE: dishwasher

Are we talking about the same thing? :P

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RE: dishwasher

Knowing your mind.... yes ;-)

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RE: dishwasher

>Really is very simple and doesn't necessarily mean American/British women are spoilt - just that they generally have more disposable income and use them to save time<

*rolling eyes*
"doesn't necessarily mean...." sure it doesn't, but it was just one example! Do u want me to name all the rest?

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RE: dishwasher

it doesnt save time. I wash the plates in 5-6 minutes much better than the machine for 1 hour. And sometimes they come out of it still dirty...

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RE: to ANONYMOUS

No, I do not think Russian or Romanian women are stupid - in fact I am almost always very impressed with how bright the girls/women I chat etc with here seem - especially when considering they are not chatting in their native language.
I am English (and can speak French to an acceptable level but I would never be able to hold converstaions like this online in French).
My post was not saying that I think these Eastern European women are fools but the 2 girls (one Russian and one Romanian) had said in the earlier post that they did not know how a dishwasher worked - If you think that makes them stupid then that is up to you to decide.

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RE: happines

I am happiest when people around me are happy. Life is then good..tranquil...peaceful. It is a rare situation. Usually there is some crisis, or drama or catastrophe I am being dragged into. But when all is well...I am happy.

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RE: happines

lollie, happiness is an attitude. Even if you have the most things in life u still may not be happy, as you need more. While you find ppl not having much in life are just quite happy. Why?
One needs to develop an attitude to be happy and then u will find that u r happy with what u have. Dont need to search for happiness it should be coming from within.

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RE: happines

peace of mind to me is true happiness but the difficulty is achieving this.

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RE: happines

no shit sherlock

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Pigs wil fly, but can cows swim?

A cow spotted swimming off a Queensland beach has drowned after four hours spent 'surfing' the waves.
The two-year-old Brahman-cross escaped from a paddock at Elliott Heads near Bundaberg on Sunday.

Crowds gathered on the beach to watch as the cow body surfed to the shore and back out to sea a number of times.

Owner Neville Atkinson and a friend took a boat out to try and rescue the animal from the seven metre deep water, but could not bring her to land, and she eventually drowned.

Dr John Gaughan, from the University of Queensland's school of animal studies, said cows were good swimmers and often waded into dams, but he had never heard of one swimming in the ocean for four hours.

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RE: russian gals or not????????

Without our russians CC would be nothing....

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RE: russian gals or not????????

some really like those philippine girls

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RE: russian gals or not????????

we love rus girls ...............but their noses are sort of big

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RE: russian gals or not????????

If he doesn't like Russians girls, then he is in the wrong place here

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RE: russian gals or not????????

Maybe he was looking for a Romanian girl

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RE: russian gals or not????????

Try running this site with just Phillipinos and see how long it lasts...

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RE: russian gals or not????????

Wow, some of you have what appears to be straight-up hatred for diffrent nationalities.
See you at tonight's ralley.

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RE: russian gals or not????????

dont worry, we'll be there

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RE: The biggest nose I have ever seen has

Actually you have one of the rus noses I like a lot. Maybe we can rub noses like eskimos do and see what happens next?

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RE: The biggest nose I have ever seen has

Do you think we can produce fire this way like primitives produced fire rubbing 2 sticks?:)

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RE: The biggest nose I have ever seen has

Well if you consider the word "fire" as a methaphor for things that go bump in the northern lights :)

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RE: russian gals or not????????

I can only suggest it's because he's ignorant. He does not want to know people, just classify them by nationality.

We can only hope he gets beaten regularly where ever he lives (joke, but some therapy might help him!).

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RE: russian gals or not????????

i really like russian girls........but to point it out.......its not the nationality which makes the difference.........it all because of u girls..........ur just all so sweet.
btw there are nice asians too!

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RE: russian gals or not????????

Why russian and asian girls r so sweet, Frisco?
They're not spoiled with money, i guess! Isn't it their national feature? :P

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RE: russian gals or not????????

Not spoiled with money??!! Look at what your co-worker said;
**LOL You, silly guys will always be used by us, smart sexy russian ladies)) even in non-adult)) All is needed from you is money which you send with great pleasure because hope to meet us in reality. But u will never get it) because your role is just to pay LOL**
I will make it a point to NEVER visit a russian chat host now.

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RE: russian gals or not????????

U judge about all russian girls by one bitchy post, Boris Nikolayevich!I even guess whose post it is. There was one russian girl who behaved extremely bitchy in comchat a while ago, i see her posts here now. She told the same shit about members in russian at the comchat and accused other girls in defending members.

What i told in previous post, i meant it in general. I never been abroad and my point of viewe about life there comes from american and UK movies. So maybe im not right at all, saying that russian girls ain't spoiled with money, but in comparison with american women, most of them don't even know how a dishwasher works!

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RE: russian gals or not????????

How could u know how it works if u havent seen any? lol stay cool , or u think the american ladies knew untill they used it first time?:)

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RE: russian gals or not????????

'Salut Comrades'........ :((

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RE: russian gals or not????????

yeah...no reason to be proud of that. Im not proud either, that's why i work my ass off on here trying to get more or less decent money to be more independent, to get more things like a dishwasher and to safe my time while my plates r warshing there. Who dare to judge me in my attempt to get a better life working here..huh?

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RE: russian gals or not????????

of course you realise that not all american ladies have dishwashers, unless you count their husbands

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RE: russian gals or not????????

You do not have to have any money to be "spoiled by money". A person could have been poor their whole life and still be considered "spoiled by money". It is simply another way of saying "greedy"or having a love for money and possessions. A person that has money but still wants more and more money and things they actually don't need to survive is "spoiled by money". Whether a person has money or not, if they are always trying to get more and more money and to get more and more things that they do not actually need to survive, then it could be said they are "spoiled by money". I guess it could be said that only the people that are thankful for what they have and only desire to have enough to be healthy and to survive are not "spoiled by money". The people who prefer the simple life and believe a person is rich if they are surrounded by great friends and family... not by how much money or how many possessions they have... only those people are not "spoiled by money". Which, I think, is very few people in this world nowadays, but I hope I am wrong.

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RE: russian gals or not????????

Hey! I dont know how a dishwasher works either. That is the women's job :)

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RE: page cannot be displayed???

do u want a funny or serious answer?
if funny, ask Nadeen, she knows :D
if serious ...do u really want to know? what a big deal with it?

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RE: page cannot be displayed???

It's usually caused by a isp to CC server bad connection.

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RE: page cannot be displayed???

damm, you're touchy today. Here fathead, skip my post.

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RE: page cannot be displayed???

diamond my sister, cc is having a bunch of probs right now while they supposedly upgrade. people have had problems entering chat and yes the forums are a bit whacked

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RE: page cannot be displayed???

are u always so serious LB.......i wonder what ur doing here if u dont can handle a joke..........ok i guess u dont talk a lot in vid :P

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hm .....because i dont know u closer......ill do neither nor
just have fun then

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sexyisabelle

Amazing girl. very friendly. Treat her with respect you will not be disapointed
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kiev for new years

Arriving in kiev late december for ten days any must see's or must do's. Love to hear you ideas :)
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RE: kiev for new years

river palace is interesting

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Visit Kreshatik street and go into the underground shops. Good food in hotel Dnipro and across the square from hotel and up a short walkway is a place for a good view across Kiev from high up. I am there again in 3 weeks and have enjoyed every visit. Good idea is to pre-book taxi from airport to city.

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RE: kiev for new years

yes I agree to all above plus try o'brians irish bar live music and a good crowd on the w/e

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RE: kiev for new years

Wow!! You will have a great time in kiev, there are many nice places to visit. Not only night clubs. Well it depends on what you are looking for!

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Good Girl-Bad Girl------Which Are You

Repost from another forum by request:

Good Girl-Bad Girl ---- which are you? 12/Nov/2006 04:57 (GMT)

Good girls loosen a few buttons when it's hot.
Bad girls make it hot by loosening a few buttons.

Good girls only own one credit card and rarely use it.
Bad girls only own one bra and rarely use it.

Good girls wax their floors.
Bad girls wax their bikini lines.

Good girls blush during love scenes in a movie.
Bad girls know they could do it better.

Good girls think they're not fully dressed without a strand of
pearls.
Bad girls think they're fully dressed with just a strand of pearls.

Good girls wear high heels to work.
Bad girls wear high heels to bed.

Good girls say, ''Don't... Stop...''
Bad girls say, ''Don't Stop...''
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RE: Good Girl-Bad Girl------Which Are You

LOL ........good one!
btw ....good girls go to heaven........
bad girls can go everywhere

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

lap dance = pressing ur bottom into a man's lap (short definition). Now i'm curious if man strippers,except for the ones in gay bars, offer lap dances too:)

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

I think the girl can be naked but I also think touching is not allowed, at least in the UK.

Never been though so don't know for sure.

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

In a normal lap dance in a club neither the guy nor the girl are naked though the girl may be topless
The guy is not allowed to touch the girl.

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

If the girl stripper likes a man she will put his hands on her body.... I got this bonus once. Also, some girls just let you semi-touch her ankles up to her knees or mid thight... I love friction dance which is similar, but hotter...

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can they touch?

A lap dance is a specific type of erotic dance offered in some strip clubs or (somewhat more formal) gentlemen's clubs in which the patron is seated, and the dancer is either in immediate contact (contact dancing) with the patron, or within a very short distance. Depending on the local jurisdiction and community standards, lap dances can involve touching of the dancer by the patron, the patron by the dancer, neither, or both; the dancer may be naked, topless or fully clothed [depending on the laws] where the club is located. Variant terms include couch dance which is a lap dance where the customer is seated on a couch, and bed dance where the customer lies down.

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RE: can they touch?

if you don't know do not try to seem clever by looking in that heap of crap

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

nudity, depends on where you are at,different places different laws, been to places where lap dances are nude can touch to pasties and g-string no touch

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

doesn't just mean your bottom though ... most chicks will straddle a guy face to face and if you're lucky, you get to bury your face in their rack :)

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

i guess there is a big competition there if they have to perform such a way :D

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

What the hell is a' beep' ?

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

dick, cock whatever you wish to call it :P

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

I live in California USA where touchin a girl durin a lap dance is illegal, but beleive me, that doesn't mean it doesn't happen!!! i've been in places where the lapdance is in a bikini or nude...it depends

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

In Ct it means usually a topless girl rubbing her bottom on your lap; but if you go into the "vip room" you can usually suck a nipple or better yet put a finger in a puss............you pay for what you get dude...........or go to Vegas and get the whole hole for about $300/hr :)

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

You disappoint me my friends. The lady asks a serious question and you respond with vulgarity (nude strip clubs, clit rubbing, one member even mentioned his beep for cripes sake, tisk...tisk...tisk). I say shame on you.
Hun, Lap dance refers to the indigenous people of the Lap Lands, Sweden, Norway and Finland and the dancing they do. The original choreographer was a man named Seymour Butts, he taught folks how to dance and they usually tipped him a dollar a song.
And now you know :P

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RE: define lap dance , pls :)

thank you all now i have a better idea ...;)
mwah

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RE: he dont may without me

babe, do not take this guy back ... if you do, now that he has hit you once, he knows he can do it again and again and that you will probably take him back. It would be setting a very bad precedent and he would learn completely the wrong lesson from this. Right now he is paying the price for hitting you (ie, he got kicked out) and you must keep it this way. And in my opinion, you're hot enough that you could have your pick of men, so stay strong and forget him.

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RE: he dont may without me

If he did it once he almost certainly will do it a second time and again after that. You love him so it will break your heart for a while, but you must not take him back. And look forward to the man who you will love, and who doesn't hit you, comes along. Good luck :-)

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RE: he dont may without me

The army changes people. I had a mate who joined the MPs and he became a different person and so we didn't hang out anymore.
Try and move on.

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RE: he dont may without me

once bitten twice shy get rid of the guy no girl should have to put up with that u shouldnt give him a second chance to hit u again cause sooner or later he will try it again

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RE: he dont may without me

It will never get better, only worse. DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK, DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH HIM IN ANY WAY!

He needs to be in therapy (which may not even help him) and continuing with him, and him not getting help will guarantee that it will happen again, and maybe worse each next time!

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RE: he dont may without me

That's why i dont like russian guys!
Not only that most of them drunk and smoke a lot, take drugs, can't earn a proper salary.....they let themselves go too far and beat women!

Once a guy told me "do u really think there is some russian family where a husband has never beaten his wife, baby?" Such a spoiled bastards! No wonder that russian women are differ from american ones for example, they can't defend their rights as well as american women and they use to live with alkys, drug addicted so-called boy friends and husbands, with lazy dummies who get their family onto the bottom of poverty ...and women have to bear that all!
And no wonder that most russian women seem so attractive to foreign guys, not because of their beauty only (there r beautiful women in each country), but also because of many other factors which we use to call mentality or national features.
Keep your head high, girls ...and don't let anyone to beat u!
Best wishes and good luck to u all :))

p.s.: sorry for being a bit too loud :D


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RE: he dont may without me

With a western man I would say if he go to therapy and is successful in it he MIGHT deserve another chance. Such therapy is normal in the US, for instance.

I don't know if the men are socially advanced enough for this. I have read the army treat their soldiers like animals so he may be permanently broken and you shouldn't have any contact with him.

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RE: he dont may without me - ooops....

I don't know if the RUSSIAN men are socially advanced enough for this. I have read the army treats their soldiers like animals so he may be permanently broken and you shouldn't have any contact with him.

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RE: he dont may without me - ooops....

It's not totally to do with military. They need their members to be healthy in mind and body. True, they need to psycologically program them not to hesitate to apply violence, but to strike a domestic partner is not anything they train for. It's possible, though, that he cannot take the pressure and takes it out on others.

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http://www.rferl.org/featuresarticle/2004/10/bb73a9d2-32ee-4cd1-9d36-58c442e34a9e.html

Apparently in some Russian military units there is an end cycle of violence in the ranks. I particularly note the folloeing paragraph:

"Conscripts serve two years. The first year they are victims of hazing abuses, and then in the second year, they actually perpetrate the hazing themselves. What seems to be the motor behind this cycle of violence continuing is the desire for revenge. The only way conscripts can suffer through their first year is with the prospect of being compensated for their suffering the next year by being able to inflict the same on the next generations of conscripts."

I guess when an abused soldier faces frustration in civilian life he takes it out on the weakest near him. That would be his girlfriend/wife and kids.

http://www.rferl.org/featuresarticle/2004/10/bb73a9d2-32ee-4cd1-9d36-58c442e34a9e.html

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RE: he dont may without me

he struck you once, he will do it again..stay away from him

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pot meet the kettle

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that made absolutely no sense at all, hmm

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sure tisme could make sense out of it

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being in the army, yes it changes you.Remember with the army the way we are trained is that if you have a grievence with another country you kill them. The purpous of an army is to kill people and brake things. We are trained to kill.
My advice is you should leave him, if he can't control himself now he may kill you later. RUN!!!!

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RE: he dont may without me

he did it once and WILL do it again.
he want to be with you because other women not want him.
so he see you are easy target.
STAY AWAY

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try honesty.look inside yourself & think is living with someone you love worth it if you are in fear & he doesn't respect you?sometimes its best to have a broken heart because they will mend but violence never ends

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all said dont take him back. but i say if your still in love and him too. try it again. love doesnt come by everyday ......... and for the slap .... did he slap you because ...............well what did you do, throw a phone at him :P hey kidding aside, the slap is bad, but it was just a slap. some girls even like that pain thing, just go to dungeon and ask a few :P

good luck to you. I say try it one more time .......... also did you really think any here would advise you to stay with him? I think not. they are all greedy and want you all to themself.

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RE: he dont may without me

and next time he hits you, you can just remember what good advice old guy gave you.

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GIve him another chance. What do u have to lose? The worst that can happen is he can hit you again. Then you will be sure he was not the man for you. Everyone deserves 1 chance. Everyone makes mistakes. You love him and he loves you. If you dont give him that 1 chance you will never know what could have been. Just because somebody does something bad once doesnt mean they will repeat it.. I wish you luck whatever you decide.

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let us all know what u decide i hope u get it right

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good grief you guys make me sick--i quess you all must know to tell someone this about hitting a person once and might do it again--sounds like you been there done that--in some cases its not true--yes army does change a man's life--i know my husband was over there and came back and hit me once,, but didnt really mean it and we been together now for 20 more years and not once has he ever hit me again--where is your forgiveness. Only advice you can give this woman is she really knows if she can trust him or not--let her make her own decisions or ask a professional -not you guys that hang out in a adult chat room

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conditions for the Russian soldier

Apparently in some Russian military units there is an end cycle of violence in the ranks. I particularly note the folloeing paragraph:

"Conscripts serve two years. The first year they are victims of hazing abuses, and then in the second year, they actually perpetrate the hazing themselves. What seems to be the motor behind this cycle of violence continuing is the desire for revenge. The only way conscripts can suffer through their first year is with the prospect of being compensated for their suffering the next year by being able to inflict the same on the next generations of conscripts."

I guess when an abused soldier faces frustration in civilian life he takes it out on the weakest near him. That would be his girlfriend/wife and kids.

http://www.rferl.org/featuresarticle/2004/10/bb73a9d2-32ee-4cd1-9d36-58c442e34a9e.html

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Thanks Mariyln

Thanks for your post, very sane.

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Asking advance here?

First i dont' recommend asking advance on cc, but if you do be aware and careful. Anyhow here is my advice. Tell him you will be friends, NO SEX if he goes to get PROFESSIONAL HELP and over time you will see how he behaves. If over time you see that he can be your friend and has a FUNCTIONAL life where he can care for himself, than maybe you can change your relationship to on of intimacy.

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who can honestly say he/she have never ever posted here as anonymous or under pseudonym?...i can't :D (i have my own reasons for that ) and i think everybody does it sometimes...just curious are there any ppl here who really post only under their cc nicknames?
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i have never posted under a psuedonym!

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Erm, I'll take the fifth on this one ;-)

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i never have posted anything without signing with my real name here.....but i dont posted a lot already
maybe ill do it once ;-)......had to be some really weird LOL

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I have posted as anon a couple times, but it was long ago, when there were some idiots around that would then follow any post by someone who has disagreed with them with argumentative posts. I haven't seen that happen in a while, maybe those couple guys got banned from posting.

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always post with my cc name

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Sounds like your bf may have seen some damaging things during his time in the army. If he struck you once then he *will* do it again unless he gets psychological help to deal what whatever might have happened to him in the army.

If he won't get help, then I think you wouldn't let him be near you ever again.

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what to do

whats about u? do u still love him? if not it would be easy to answer i guess.........if yes its a bit more difficult.
let him prove that he knows how to handle a gf nicely before u decide!
if he still loves u........he will take the chance and not set u under pressure.

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RE: Have you ever rtyed CLIMB?

Just the stairs to my bed Vedrussa.

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RE: Have you ever rtyed CLIMB?

and believe me, they are the stairs to heaven! hubba hubba

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RE: Have you ever rtyed CLIMB?

Got tooo old for rock climbing, but in hiking for every 10m in elevation you go up is the same energy as 100m on flat ground

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RE: heart and mind

By all :) If you have only one, you might get screwed.. badly.. He should have a little bit of all..

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RE: heart and mind

Wouldn't the size of his willy determine whether or not you were screwed badly :P

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RE: heart and mind

There are different ways to be screwed... One can be pretty bad and the willy has nothing to do here

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i agree with Psy....if its only done by heart it might have a chance.....if its mainly done by mind it could work till u meet the one for ur heart or develope........but if there is no heart involved at all........u rather let it be!

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RE: heart and mind

money !

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RE: heart and mind

You should let your heart choose him, but use your mind to decide to keep him. Use both or you may regret.

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Serious question

What do you think the effects of Global Warming have on a chathost ?
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Someone has nicked Nadeen's reply :P

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LOL:-)

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RE: Serious question

this topic is too serious for me to make jokes about...
unless those jokes are trying to bring it to the point like the pic from nadeen.....btw thx god we have a second planet in our trunk!

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well i hope it gets warmer so the non adults will go to not so shy and stay naked

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RE: community chat

i really do my best to be polite with everybody and, unless im not missing a question, i try to reply to all in com chat........im sorry when i missed one of urs! See u next time Tina

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RE: community chat

I am a rude, ignorant slut..... love it too :-)

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to DM Slut

sure we knew that already....anything new?

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RE: Beer

sorry Rabbit....i didnt get the question i guess
anyway my PC seems to be verry old fashion.....i cant smell anything here :P
however.... there are a lot of really nice girls in nonadult!

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RE: Beer

I wish I was in a couple with on of them too (???), but I do enjoy to chat to them. Some are very sweet and very funny and very beautiful.

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RE: Beer

I agree with you

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To all the girls I loved before

To all the girls I loved before this is my GOODBYE to CC. To all the great ladies I Love you all. To my CC teacher I hope you haven't forgotten me and I am still studying:) To all the girls who became friends I Love you. To all the girls who loved me when in video at the time I loved you too. To all the scammers and liars , I scammed and I lied also;) But loved you too:) To all those who have become friends you know where to find me, I love you all. To the new girls I met in the last two weeks I loved you too:) To those who hate me I love you:) Have fun and take care all of you:) My satisfaction came from making sure you were satisfied:)
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happy days are here again

Glad to see you go. The way you use "love" no one can believe you!

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I believe him.
And I love him, you, and oXy too.

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I never tried more than one at a time. Just me and the one I was with and love:)

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I will miss u for sure, Oscar.But i still can chat with you on yahoo:)
Hope u will be there sometimes! xxx

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Maybe not all girls use yahoo for same reason as u do Onegin:)

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RE: happy days are here again

I hope we can. Thank you for being an Angel. I am glad you never asked for anything, glad I never had to send you anything. I am happy I could love you for all the reasons I love you.

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I never ""used love"" It just happened. Everyone gave me some reason to love.

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RE: happy days are here again

And which one are you?

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