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German model railways derailed by filth
Nude figurines get down and dirty
By Lester Haines
You know how it is: you've just spent five years lovingly crafting an HO-scale layout of Clapham Junction but can't help feeling there's a certain something missing which would lend your model railway an authentic urban edge.
Well, fret not, because down at the International Toy Fair in Nuremberg, the Busch company recently unveiled its "latest contribution to the model train scenery business" - a set of figurines depicting a group of cops dragging naked strumpets onto the street and entitled "Police Raid on a Brothel".
We kid you not. Spiegel Online has photographic evidence, and also features a nice snap of the Viessmann company's "Sexy Lovers in Motion" - accurately described by the paper as "a man and a woman having sex on a red blanket, in the missionary position".
Yes indeed, the world of model railways really has moved on since I was a lad. Shown here is one of the tamer offerings by Busch - "Admiring the Scenery" - which comes complete with "air mattress, fence with 'knothole', bicycle and tree".
If you fancy something a bit more hard core, try Fleischmann, whose toy fair display included a river beside which "a heavily built and highly aroused man is...getting a blowjob". Spiegel Online elaborates: "His arms are outstretched. He's frozen in an eternal orgasm. The woman providing him with his public bliss is sitting on an inflatable mattress and wearing a straw hat."
Remarkable. Suffice it to say, the Vulture Central train layout now features a naked prostitute trying to avoid arrest by orally pleasuring a police officer while a bloke on a bike cops an eyeful through a hole in the fence.
By Lester Haines
You know how it is: you've just spent five years lovingly crafting an HO-scale layout of Clapham Junction but can't help feeling there's a certain something missing which would lend your model railway an authentic urban edge.
Well, fret not, because down at the International Toy Fair in Nuremberg, the Busch company recently unveiled its "latest contribution to the model train scenery business" - a set of figurines depicting a group of cops dragging naked strumpets onto the street and entitled "Police Raid on a Brothel".
We kid you not. Spiegel Online has photographic evidence, and also features a nice snap of the Viessmann company's "Sexy Lovers in Motion" - accurately described by the paper as "a man and a woman having sex on a red blanket, in the missionary position".
Yes indeed, the world of model railways really has moved on since I was a lad. Shown here is one of the tamer offerings by Busch - "Admiring the Scenery" - which comes complete with "air mattress, fence with 'knothole', bicycle and tree".
If you fancy something a bit more hard core, try Fleischmann, whose toy fair display included a river beside which "a heavily built and highly aroused man is...getting a blowjob". Spiegel Online elaborates: "His arms are outstretched. He's frozen in an eternal orgasm. The woman providing him with his public bliss is sitting on an inflatable mattress and wearing a straw hat."
Remarkable. Suffice it to say, the Vulture Central train layout now features a naked prostitute trying to avoid arrest by orally pleasuring a police officer while a bloke on a bike cops an eyeful through a hole in the fence.
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday Kameliya my butterfly;) You are so enjoyable even when it isn't your birthday:) Love ya.
RE: Happy Birthday
Women on here get old fast ""ä birthday evry month". send her something nice for Valentine's Day. I'll try to send here something for her birthday next month.
RE: Life
We say in my country a horse is like a man.If a horse is angry its like man is angry.And if a horse walks on grass its like man walks on grass.Do u understand?:D
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
yes--love your neighbor,, who knows you neighbor might be me,, hmm somehow that didnt sound right,, but o-well----get along with all
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
I suspect you know that makes you rather rare, for there are very few hosts from---or even living in---the US.
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
that the sad little ones need to grow up and stop insulting people just to make themselves feel better.
it would be nice though if this forum would get back to how it once was. as for the "90 lb blonde or a 200 lb brunett" well i would rather have a 90lb brunett :P
it would be nice though if this forum would get back to how it once was. as for the "90 lb blonde or a 200 lb brunett" well i would rather have a 90lb brunett :P
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
what do you have against 200 pounders huh? its people like you that make little girls grow up with eating disorders!!!
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
did not mean anything bad about that... actually was more the hair color :) i actually have against any weight.
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
Not funny,
Each to his own taste, right? I understand why more, shall I say "ample" women take offense to people who make fun of their weight, but this is a near universal reaction and this cannot be remedied by the legislation of political correctness. 60% of the American population is obese (principally because they eat too much), yet there is a hostile contingent among this group that is ready to sue if anyone should make a derogatory comment about them. I agree such comments are hurtful and it's not right to say such things. However, such comments are not the grievous offenses that they are made out to be.
A friend of mine from Suriname (the former Dutch Guiana) told me of a humorous exchange between a bus driver in the Capital city of Paramaribo: A very fat women got on the bus and upon seeing this magnificent woman the driver exclaimed, "Oh wow lady, you're gonna pay double for that!" She was used to such remarks, took it in stride and greeted his humor with humor. Life goes on. I can well imagine such a remark made in the US resulting in a lawsuit. It happens all the time. In fact, litigation reaches laughable extremes. I remember reading about a case of a very obese person suing a movie theatre chain because the seats would not accommodate him. Likewise, obese people have responded with outrage (and I think litigation) over an airline company's recent decision to require people over a certain weight to purchase two seats.
I wish your characterization of the origins of eating disorders was that simple. No doubt the whole image thing (thin is good; fat is bad) perpetuated by advertising is a contributing factor, but it’s not as simple as that. There are many social and cultural factors, among them, class, gender, as well as complex emotional and psycho-sexual dynamics that contribute to the etiology of eating disorders.
That said, let me end on a lighter note with a politically incorrect joke:
Q: How do you know when you’re at a bulimic party?
A: It’s a party where the cake jumps out of the girl.
Bon courage!
Each to his own taste, right? I understand why more, shall I say "ample" women take offense to people who make fun of their weight, but this is a near universal reaction and this cannot be remedied by the legislation of political correctness. 60% of the American population is obese (principally because they eat too much), yet there is a hostile contingent among this group that is ready to sue if anyone should make a derogatory comment about them. I agree such comments are hurtful and it's not right to say such things. However, such comments are not the grievous offenses that they are made out to be.
A friend of mine from Suriname (the former Dutch Guiana) told me of a humorous exchange between a bus driver in the Capital city of Paramaribo: A very fat women got on the bus and upon seeing this magnificent woman the driver exclaimed, "Oh wow lady, you're gonna pay double for that!" She was used to such remarks, took it in stride and greeted his humor with humor. Life goes on. I can well imagine such a remark made in the US resulting in a lawsuit. It happens all the time. In fact, litigation reaches laughable extremes. I remember reading about a case of a very obese person suing a movie theatre chain because the seats would not accommodate him. Likewise, obese people have responded with outrage (and I think litigation) over an airline company's recent decision to require people over a certain weight to purchase two seats.
I wish your characterization of the origins of eating disorders was that simple. No doubt the whole image thing (thin is good; fat is bad) perpetuated by advertising is a contributing factor, but it’s not as simple as that. There are many social and cultural factors, among them, class, gender, as well as complex emotional and psycho-sexual dynamics that contribute to the etiology of eating disorders.
That said, let me end on a lighter note with a politically incorrect joke:
Q: How do you know when you’re at a bulimic party?
A: It’s a party where the cake jumps out of the girl.
Bon courage!
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
I agree with what you say. Just please stop mentioning your sex drive. Please. For the love of God woman.
RE: why can\'t everyone be nice???
next thing fullmoon will be asking, is "what am i wearing? you getting off on this fullmoon?
RE: why can\'t everyone be nice???
another troll posting as fullmoon, he would never say anything as silly and juvenile as fruit loop. this fruit has not been duped!
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
Ga Sweet Pea,
I entirely agree and not simply with reference to CC. How much better the world would be if people would simply adhere to the simple precept of being of good will in their dealings with their fellow man, 'loving thy neighbor as thyself,' as “austrip” remarks.
'Loving thy neighbor,' doesn't mean you have to like him. That would simply conflict with the reality of human experience. That's why Poet/Farmer, Wendell Berry said, "Love thy neighbor, the one you HAVE, not the one you wish you had." When I was very young, my grandmother told me, "Not everyone is going to like you and you are not going to like everyone." Still, we can treat each other with respect.
As “bottom line” points out, some people here (not simply “young ones,” bottom line, even if they are the majority offenders), seem more intent on insulting others rather than engaging in a discussion. Sadly, it seems many of them are only dimly aware of their own hostile agendas and they spend all of their energy here sniping at people (often behind different names) and taking offense when someone shoots back at them.
As a friend of mine remarked years ago, “Life is complicated. Why do some people feel the need to make it more complicated?”
I entirely agree and not simply with reference to CC. How much better the world would be if people would simply adhere to the simple precept of being of good will in their dealings with their fellow man, 'loving thy neighbor as thyself,' as “austrip” remarks.
'Loving thy neighbor,' doesn't mean you have to like him. That would simply conflict with the reality of human experience. That's why Poet/Farmer, Wendell Berry said, "Love thy neighbor, the one you HAVE, not the one you wish you had." When I was very young, my grandmother told me, "Not everyone is going to like you and you are not going to like everyone." Still, we can treat each other with respect.
As “bottom line” points out, some people here (not simply “young ones,” bottom line, even if they are the majority offenders), seem more intent on insulting others rather than engaging in a discussion. Sadly, it seems many of them are only dimly aware of their own hostile agendas and they spend all of their energy here sniping at people (often behind different names) and taking offense when someone shoots back at them.
As a friend of mine remarked years ago, “Life is complicated. Why do some people feel the need to make it more complicated?”
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
think when bottom line talked of "little ones"&"growing up"was probably referring to their arrested mental & spiritual development as opposed to their actual age.
RE: why can't everyone be nice???
The dictum is not to be taken literally. Of course you know this. We are all each other's neighbor. :)
RE: valentines day
loverrrrrrrrrrrr.you wanted to ask me the same thing??i'm flattered.but what does it all mean?? i'm here for you my lover if you want me on Valentines Day.
RE: valentines day
i was spending it with paco--but now, i have to find another one, but anyway i will be ok here alone and searching
RE: nobody....
You are a reasonably attractive girl. I would switch categories for a while and see how that works. Try smiling in more pics. Tone down the lipstick a bit. Keep your hair down. Hard to tell you body type from your pics which is part of your problem. You seem to have a good body. Not sure about your prices. Try little shy at around .99 cents a minute for a week or so. I assume you strip to some extent. If you dont then well you have a problem there. . Post here when you have new pics and are in that category. If you are not getting visitors reinvent yourself. Do something. Change something.
RE: nobody....
i agree with previous comment, ur pics need something better, not really attractive or sexual, just my opinion.......
RE: thank you girls!
29 is a great age. 30 is when you are over the hill. Get in as many videos as you can. Quick.
RE: thank you girls!
hey if 30 is over the hill, i am over 2 hills! my health is fine, feel like I am over just one hill. If i can only rid myself of these piles!
RE: thank you girls!
still posting laughter to your own posts flea?the circus is back in town,though going by yesterday's performance the jumping fleas will keep replying to themselves.
RE: thank you girls!
well yes i do, the regular forum posters are some of my closest friends and some fo the hosts that i see in 121 are almost gfs.
Respect
I have a lot of respect for these girls. They put up with so much garbage from some of the members here. Anyone who feels the need to put down peoples english skills, or how they present themselves... you are just trash. There is nothing more to it. You are lonley, sad people. Trolls, children, fleas, arses... whatever we call you.. you are just sad people.
The latest bashing of iNOTanANGEL english... wow you all must be so proud of yourselves!
To the ones who actually come here for some fun, friendship... my hats off to you! Cheers, have a great Valentine's Day and take care my friends
The latest bashing of iNOTanANGEL english... wow you all must be so proud of yourselves!
To the ones who actually come here for some fun, friendship... my hats off to you! Cheers, have a great Valentine's Day and take care my friends
RE: Respect
I totally agree. Lets have more fun and less critical comments. Respect costs nothing, unlike video-chat :p. I hope everyone here can share at least some of Wednesday with someone special, and have some real sex ;)
RE: Respect
"less critical comments" cost nothing too.
How about some of you Nancy boys stop being so sensitive, I bet you end up in a real relationship when you stop be "Mr Nice caring guy, oohhhh, don't say anything bad about host ____, she was nice to me (read; I paid to chat with her).
How about some of you Nancy boys stop being so sensitive, I bet you end up in a real relationship when you stop be "Mr Nice caring guy, oohhhh, don't say anything bad about host ____, she was nice to me (read; I paid to chat with her).
RE: Respect
I shall begin with the beginning... Who you are such to judge me?????.. Behind itself look.. I such.. What I am... I entitle things by their proper names.. And if it is not pleasant its your problems... If you do not accept my English go further... All who to me come my video know when they go... And despite of my English .. My video lasts hours ... To that your girls envy green envy ))
RE: Respect
you are wrong when you say no one likes her... because i like her and my mom told me i am somebody... so you are wrong !! :P
RE: Respect
You are right. I have seen her bashing other hosts that also deserve respect. She thinks she is not only an angel, but also a the Queen of hosts and diminishes other girls. Should I respect someone who behaves wrong with other hosts? Nooooooooooooo!!!!
RE: Respect
see to many hosts coming here and saying this... all i see is no names and members bashing her
either way... need to stop this crap with everyone
either way... need to stop this crap with everyone
RE: Respect
Thats becuase the other hosts aren't bad as inotanangel is. They prefer to stop than continue a fight with this iNotanAngel lady!
RE: Respect
where you was when other girls in comchat fuck off me ????when I spoke .. that they break the rules...????
RE: Respect
asking why someone one did not mention people being rude to her? hmmm like them colors... honest and open.
so where were you "me"... maybe you were the ones tossing the insults in comchat
so where were you "me"... maybe you were the ones tossing the insults in comchat
RE: Respect
I was there.I saw who started to fuck off first.You and your "girl-friends" started to fuck all.Btw where are your so-called "friends"?
Seems they don't like the studio boss who doesnt give them good percentage
Seems they don't like the studio boss who doesnt give them good percentage
RE: Respect
it is not just one time... and it is not just one person who starts the shit. but it snowballs more and more. so why dont we just stop this shit here and now.
RE: Respect
I not to hide for someone back and I it is enough adult... that solve their my problems
RE: Respect
sure, you are making a good match for this girl. You are both rude and write something what isn't answer on the choosen message.
All of your messages say : "Me and the studio boss are the best course we are the rudest on this site!!!! WE don't want to hear anything else. If somebody will answer we'll insult him more and scream louder!"
Great! Continue in this way.
All of your messages say : "Me and the studio boss are the best course we are the rudest on this site!!!! WE don't want to hear anything else. If somebody will answer we'll insult him more and scream louder!"
Great! Continue in this way.
RE: Respect
what you are saying is incorrect.guess that explains that unintelligible second line.
RE: Respect
messagemaker,mysterious name,:),curious,me until you come out from behind the curtain & reveal yourself i will not prove anything to you.that axe you carry is blinding your vision.
RE: inotanangel new DRAMA QUEEN
my vote still goes to Anne and for the forum posters (member division) its a tossup, bela70 would win hands down but he is semi-retired..but abc, tisme, novids4me, fullmoon....all in the running. Vegas is taking odds.
RE: inotanangel new DRAMA QUEEN
What about me me me. *Stamps his little feet in disgust.
Me No 1 Drama Queen and you No. 1 Troll not sure a match made in heaven.
Me No 1 Drama Queen and you No. 1 Troll not sure a match made in heaven.
RE: inotanangel new DRAMA QUEEN
Won't Brown Nose Hunter get jealous. I don't want him scratching my eyes out. Oh what the hell give us a kiss you big sexy hunk.
Cam Contacts Police
Why you care if she calls names to other girls in comchat? Are you Cam Contacts Police? For me, she is a sweet girl doing great shows for $ as any other girl here.
RE: Cam Contacts Police
let them upset you... they are just foolish children! and you are right... where was that person ???
RE: Cam Contacts Police
may be I like some girls and she calls them names..Why shouldn't I care about the ppl I like?Would you like a girl who calls names your good friends?
RE: Cam Contacts Police
you do NOT know what is going on between them... maybe one said something, the other one misunderstood, who knows... but that does not give you the right to insult another. if the girl you are talking about took offense to it... let her deal with it... they can ccmail each other, talk in the chathost forum.. whatever..
but when you choose to insult someone who working hard, learning yet ANOTHER language... you are just being foolish and rude
but when you choose to insult someone who working hard, learning yet ANOTHER language... you are just being foolish and rude
No respect to lying studio boss
I saw all what was going on.She is more like wolf pretending to be RedHood. You're right. Who gave her a right to insult others?I can't respect her after she dissapointed so many nice girls and the girl I love. I hate when the girl i love is dissapointed by some ....Read your own words " when you choose to insult someone who working hard, learning yet ANOTHER language... you are just being foolish and rude" .She acted exactly this way in relative to other girls.
RE: No respect to lying studio boss
U PEOPLE GOT IT ALL WRONG! SHE NEVER THE ONE WHO STARTS IT! SHE JUST DEFENDING!
FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE!
FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE!
RE: No respect to lying studio boss
with you... fight fire with fire... but it is better for the girls to deal with this problem themselves... not for us to start throwing fire at anyone!
RE: No respect to lying studio boss
I hate studio bosses.....I worked at a studio before (wont tell the creenname of my studo boss. And she always finded out the way how to insult the girls. We had to work there course we needed money. And she always told that we are too loud or make out workng places dirty, so she game us less money. I don't know this girl. It's just my experience.
RE: No respect to lying studio boss
my point is... let them deal with it! only they know for sure what is what and who said what first. this is not for the general forum. let it go, leave her and the rest of the girls alone. stop insulting her and all the others... and have a cookie!
To hmm
This is a virtual brothel, what is new of girls calling names between them? Just business as usual
RE: Respect
ur specail a friend:)
hope if anyone call me stupid that u will be ther to call him stupid so he can call u stupid instead.
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hope if anyone call me stupid that u will be ther to call him stupid so he can call u stupid instead.
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RE: Respect
not special and you are right... there are to many trolls... some of the dumbest threads go on and on and on
RE: Respect
Don't stop posting and the forum will for sure go down the hill to your town. hahahahahaha!
RE: Respect
Inotaangel is a bitch who bashes the other hosts in Comm Chat. Too bad if she cant take what she dishes out. She is clearly jealous of many of the more popular nonadult hosts here and does not hesitate to trash talk them. She is not a bad looking girl. Why doesn't she just pay attention to her self and be a more decent human being. Then people will leave her alone.
RE: Respect
well some of us happen to like who she is. at least if she does bash another... she does it without hiding who she is... she does it out in the open while most members who bash others hide themselves behind false names.
RE: Respect
has never been rude to me... so we will disagree about this, we can even make this thread pages long if you desire. not everyone is going to get along, not everyone is going to agree, not everyone is going to like each other... but that does not mean there is any reason to inuslt them here in public or to make fun of their language skills or any of the other crap that has been posted. unless of course you just like to cause problems for people.
RE: Respect
Dude? Did I mention her language? I am one that admire all these hosts that know english or speak 3 or 4 languages. I careless if she doesn't speak english as I do, but I hate rude girls and she wasn't rude to me. I saw her being very, very rude to other girls in comm. chat. The girl has a bad attitude, the worst I have seen...
RE: Respect
did not say YOU said anything about her language... but that has been a common insult applied to her. as for her being rude to others.. well you and i do not know the story behind it... so best no one pick out one person to insult here... would you not agree with that? or are you just one of the ones who enjoys it so much>
RE: Respect
\"Doesn\'t hide yourself\"?
You have not seen her in ComChat picking on many good girls
You have not seen her in ComChat picking on many good girls
RE: Respect
how can you say who saw what? how can you say someone did not see something?
and i have noticed that she posts here with her real name... she does not hide behind a no nick like you do. so she is 100% better, braver and honest then you are troll
and i have noticed that she posts here with her real name... she does not hide behind a no nick like you do. so she is 100% better, braver and honest then you are troll
RE: Respect
because of little trolls like you who find someone else to pick on because of your crappy little life
RE: Respect
a friend :),
I understand your displeasure, indeed your moral outrage, with those who put down people's English skills or another's appearance. Such behavior says more about them than those they criticize. Their ignorance is self-indicting and in my opinion nothing more needs to be said, though I would defend the right of anyone who has been a target of such an assault to defend herself. I do not say if someone pisses in your face, you should thank him. But I do say if we object to such behavior, our response should be measured and we should, as best possible, try to remain above the fray. Consider the source and do not give into the understandable impulse to stoop to their level. How often in such matters I think of my grandmother’s wisdom. She said, “You might have to stand in mud, but you don’t have to put your head in it.”
How ironic that this thread bears the title, “Respect!” Reading through it, I don’t see much evidence of it. Many people make valid points, but it’s hard to have a civil discussion in the midst of a mudslinging contest. The general tone here makes it seem more like a virtual Jerry Springer Show than a serious exchange about the need to be respectful of others. If there is a better way to communicate how to behave than by example, I don’t know of it.
I must, therefore, chide you a bit, “a friend :)” for bemoaning the disrespect shown your friend and for giving into the impulse to respond in kind by calling the offenders “trash”, etc. I hasten to add that I agree with the substance of your criticism, just not the form. You could have made your point much more effectively by couching your criticism in a respectful tone and that would have accomplished two things: 1) By speaking respectfully, you establish your credibility by practicing what you preach; 2) With the respectful tone established, you can invite a more fruitful exchange of ideas about the substance of your criticism, namely those critical of non-English speakers use of English and cheap-shot criticisms of other’s appearance. Unfortunately, you did not and thus are responsible for the free-for-all mudslinging tone of the thread.
As regards the substance of your criticism, I agree gratuitous insults about another’s appearance are insupportable. Period. The language thing is more interesting. I admire anyone who learns a language other than his native tongue. Unfortunately, Americans (and most native Anglophones) are woefully bad about learning foreign languages and they often are the first ones to criticize a non-native speaker’s less-than-perfect English. If they were to make a serious attempt to learn another language or if they lived in a country where English was not the native tongue, they might be a little more humble. Not only that they would learn more about their own tongue and about the nature of language in general. There’s a German expression which translates, “He who does not know a second language knows nothing of his own.” How true! And how much richer a life is when one has more than one lens from which to see the world. As the French say, “Apprendre une langue est vivre de nouveau,” (To learn a language is to live anew) !
To conclude, I think a more civil thread about this same point was posted above on 13 Feb. (See entire thread above) For convenience, I paste below the initial question and my response to same for consideration and further discussion
TRANSCRIPT OF Q & A FROM 13 FEB THREAD
From: gasweetpea Reply New Message
why can't everyone be nice??? 13/Feb/2007 01:40 (GMT)
we r all here for the same reasons more or less.to have fun or make money.every host on here male or female have their own beauty either inner or outer & every member has his or her own type of person they wanna see. rather it's a 90 lb blonde or a 200 lb brunett.we all have our own taste u know so please be nice they may be ur neighbor lol
From: Melomane Reply New Message
RE: why can't everyone be nice??? 13/Feb/2007 06:29 (GMT)
Ga Sweet Pea,
I entirely agree and not simply with reference to CC. How much better the world would be if people would simply adhere to the simple precept of being of good will in their dealings with their fellow man, 'loving thy neighbor as thyself,' as “austrip” remarks.
'Loving thy neighbor,' doesn't mean you have to like him. That would simply conflict with the reality of human experience. That's why Poet/Farmer, Wendell Berry said, "Love thy neighbor, the one you HAVE, not the one you wish you had." When I was very young, my grandmother told me, "Not everyone is going to like you and you are not going to like everyone." Still, we can treat each other with respect.
As “bottom line” points out, some people here (not simply “young ones,” bottom line, even if they are the majority offenders), seem more intent on insulting others rather than engaging in a discussion. Sadly, it seems many of them are only dimly aware of their own hostile agendas and they spend all of their energy here sniping at people (often behind different names) and taking offense when someone shoots back at them.
As a friend of mine remarked years ago, “Life is complicated. Why do some people feel the need to make it more complicated?”
I understand your displeasure, indeed your moral outrage, with those who put down people's English skills or another's appearance. Such behavior says more about them than those they criticize. Their ignorance is self-indicting and in my opinion nothing more needs to be said, though I would defend the right of anyone who has been a target of such an assault to defend herself. I do not say if someone pisses in your face, you should thank him. But I do say if we object to such behavior, our response should be measured and we should, as best possible, try to remain above the fray. Consider the source and do not give into the understandable impulse to stoop to their level. How often in such matters I think of my grandmother’s wisdom. She said, “You might have to stand in mud, but you don’t have to put your head in it.”
How ironic that this thread bears the title, “Respect!” Reading through it, I don’t see much evidence of it. Many people make valid points, but it’s hard to have a civil discussion in the midst of a mudslinging contest. The general tone here makes it seem more like a virtual Jerry Springer Show than a serious exchange about the need to be respectful of others. If there is a better way to communicate how to behave than by example, I don’t know of it.
I must, therefore, chide you a bit, “a friend :)” for bemoaning the disrespect shown your friend and for giving into the impulse to respond in kind by calling the offenders “trash”, etc. I hasten to add that I agree with the substance of your criticism, just not the form. You could have made your point much more effectively by couching your criticism in a respectful tone and that would have accomplished two things: 1) By speaking respectfully, you establish your credibility by practicing what you preach; 2) With the respectful tone established, you can invite a more fruitful exchange of ideas about the substance of your criticism, namely those critical of non-English speakers use of English and cheap-shot criticisms of other’s appearance. Unfortunately, you did not and thus are responsible for the free-for-all mudslinging tone of the thread.
As regards the substance of your criticism, I agree gratuitous insults about another’s appearance are insupportable. Period. The language thing is more interesting. I admire anyone who learns a language other than his native tongue. Unfortunately, Americans (and most native Anglophones) are woefully bad about learning foreign languages and they often are the first ones to criticize a non-native speaker’s less-than-perfect English. If they were to make a serious attempt to learn another language or if they lived in a country where English was not the native tongue, they might be a little more humble. Not only that they would learn more about their own tongue and about the nature of language in general. There’s a German expression which translates, “He who does not know a second language knows nothing of his own.” How true! And how much richer a life is when one has more than one lens from which to see the world. As the French say, “Apprendre une langue est vivre de nouveau,” (To learn a language is to live anew) !
To conclude, I think a more civil thread about this same point was posted above on 13 Feb. (See entire thread above) For convenience, I paste below the initial question and my response to same for consideration and further discussion
TRANSCRIPT OF Q & A FROM 13 FEB THREAD
From: gasweetpea Reply New Message
why can't everyone be nice??? 13/Feb/2007 01:40 (GMT)
we r all here for the same reasons more or less.to have fun or make money.every host on here male or female have their own beauty either inner or outer & every member has his or her own type of person they wanna see. rather it's a 90 lb blonde or a 200 lb brunett.we all have our own taste u know so please be nice they may be ur neighbor lol
From: Melomane Reply New Message
RE: why can't everyone be nice??? 13/Feb/2007 06:29 (GMT)
Ga Sweet Pea,
I entirely agree and not simply with reference to CC. How much better the world would be if people would simply adhere to the simple precept of being of good will in their dealings with their fellow man, 'loving thy neighbor as thyself,' as “austrip” remarks.
'Loving thy neighbor,' doesn't mean you have to like him. That would simply conflict with the reality of human experience. That's why Poet/Farmer, Wendell Berry said, "Love thy neighbor, the one you HAVE, not the one you wish you had." When I was very young, my grandmother told me, "Not everyone is going to like you and you are not going to like everyone." Still, we can treat each other with respect.
As “bottom line” points out, some people here (not simply “young ones,” bottom line, even if they are the majority offenders), seem more intent on insulting others rather than engaging in a discussion. Sadly, it seems many of them are only dimly aware of their own hostile agendas and they spend all of their energy here sniping at people (often behind different names) and taking offense when someone shoots back at them.
As a friend of mine remarked years ago, “Life is complicated. Why do some people feel the need to make it more complicated?”
RE: xpamellax
hot for sure... time to move this and other host posts back into viewer forum... we need more jokes, beer, cookies, hamburgers, hot dogs and less fleas here in GF :P
RE: xpamellax
the fleas are funny. if i want same old jokes i can read on same sites they copied from:)
RE: xpamellax
Average looking girl with a pleasant face. Sometimes a guy likes to chat and do a video with a normal looking girl rather than a super hottie. Makes it more real for him since he realizes she is more his speed.
RE: xpamellax
i hear ya. sometimes when i'm in vid with a super babe, it dawns on me that i'm not really worthy and then i start to hyperventilate. sucks big time.
RE: xpamellax
he wasn't insulting. sheesh!
now put down the pitch fork and stop trying to brand everyone a troll. it's getting silly.
now put down the pitch fork and stop trying to brand everyone a troll. it's getting silly.
RE: xpamellax
one day in chat she came if and did a litte flooding, so i politely asked her not to because i had a headache and yes i was polite and said please and thank you. in return she (private) me and completely flooded my screen. nice host, great chat. well if you say so. just dont say please do not flood, my head hurts. i think it means something different in her language.
RE: xpamellax
is that your defense for your childish behavior ? btw im 37, so continue your flooding child. i think it is all you have.
RE: xpamellax
respect? did you see the first comment i made? whyt*f* should i show one ounce of respect to a mindless stripper that does what this one did, after politely requesting her not to. the least she could have done was to ignore me, but she thought it was funny to flood only me in private with the only thing i asked it not to. so your right, she does have respect to everyone else, thats why ONLY my screen was blasted.
RE: xpamellax
now come on johnz--you think they all beleive you are 37--come on baby lets me honest here,, you once told me you were 53
RE: xpamellax
I agree, lovely woman.
Looking at the 'acid' posts here and in viewers forum, it makes me a little sad. Just cos she respects herself and likes to chat does not give anyone the right to insult her. Take care and keep smiling Olga.
Looking at the 'acid' posts here and in viewers forum, it makes me a little sad. Just cos she respects herself and likes to chat does not give anyone the right to insult her. Take care and keep smiling Olga.
Smart conversation
Anybody know any hosts who provide smart, intelligent conversation and look good too :p
RE: Smart conversation
skyhaze is pretty cool. I like her because not only will she chat w/you in a "friend 2 friend" type of way, but she's cute as hell and will joke around with you. I like to have a few honest LOL's while looking at eye candy! :-)
RE: Smart conversation
i would agree for sure... she is great! smart, funny and sexy rolled up in one little girl :)
RE: Smart conversation
some of the best chats here ,
and best english..
primetime
amaizing
firmnhot4U
jerriko
many more too
and best english..
primetime
amaizing
firmnhot4U
jerriko
many more too
RE: Smart conversation
Devilxangel is an excellent conversationalist, when she is online. Shame she so rarely is.
RE: Smart conversation
Triksy, Monika22, Xpetitex, hottatyana,iane and caramella are all bright girls with good english.
devilxangel
Devilxangel ! Are you mad? Her command of the mother tongue is poor at best, not to mention her attitude issues. Give me a break!
RE: devilxangel
her use of the mother tongue? you think there is just 1 country and 1 language on this planet? maybe she is still learning ur "mother tongue" but i am sure she is fluent in her "mother tongue"
amazing
amazing
Helena
Anyone knows what happened with Jillyflowerx(newjilly)? I was going to visit her in her city. but no answer:(
RE: Helena
No. She found a good b/f from her city and she was leaving this site. I honestly don't think the first 2 are saying the truth.
RE: Helena
and good for her! i hope that she will have a great life!!!
and of course they did not tell the truth... trolls never do :)
and of course they did not tell the truth... trolls never do :)
RE: self-promotion
You seem to misinterpret the original post. It was not about posts here, but posts in the chathost's personal forum.
RE: self-promotion
i noticed some people have an axe to grind with certain hosts & post under various names & never their cc nick.isn't that right mysteriousname/messagemaker & all those other names you use.come out from behind the curtain child!!
RE: self-promotion
mysteriousname :) are 2 others used.there is another but you know what that is.now you tell me are any of them your cc nick?
RE: self-promotion
good to see you're not wasting your spare time on trivial things Sherlock.keeping personal forums pristine is a tough job,so i'm glad it's in your capable hands :--))
RE: self-promotion
What is odd to me is none of the messages are to her, but about her. Usually messages left in personal forums are of the "You are great, I love you" variety, not "She is great, you should see her."
I am inclined to believe she has a regular who posted a bunch of reviews using pseudonyms, in order to promote her and gain favor.
I am inclined to believe she has a regular who posted a bunch of reviews using pseudonyms, in order to promote her and gain favor.
RE: self-promotion
Maybe the guy doesn't want to see her "raked over the coals?" I don't know. I was just making a theory. Some of the messages seem geniune, but I do agree with the OP that some look suspiciously similar.
RE: self-promotion
i write her and a few other hosts every time i am online..
and stop bashing her english.... i am sure it is much better then your russian or any other language for that matter
and stop bashing her english.... i am sure it is much better then your russian or any other language for that matter
RE: self-promotion
There are many girls who speak about 3 languages:)
So they don't need to work that hard on putting messages in their forums:)
So they don't need to work that hard on putting messages in their forums:)
RE: self-promotion
are right there are many host who speak more then 3 languages
but why does anyone even care if they post in their own forum?
maybe they like to share with everyone... who knows... but why such a long thread about this.
go away little trolls
but why does anyone even care if they post in their own forum?
maybe they like to share with everyone... who knows... but why such a long thread about this.
go away little trolls
RE: self-promotion
she has gotten little money from me, but has always been nice so i guess your thought was wrong
RE: self-promotion
how about spending some more on her
shes an angel that deserves better then a cheap arse
shes an angel that deserves better then a cheap arse
wrong lol
i have NEVER visited her in vid & she still always says hello & chats with me.another theory down the drain.
RE: wrong lol
guess you dont know the little lady very well, of course she is here to make money... but she also has friends here. We talk all the time, yet I have never gone to her vid either. So fullmoon is right... down the drain your theory went
RE: self-promotion
care... many people do. the fact is the girl is learning one and people just love to bash her for it. i am sure you would have loved that when you started to learn
and she is more fluent in others... so give the girl a break
and she is more fluent in others... so give the girl a break
RE: self-promotion
the coolest hosts I have come acrross posts in her own forum on a regular basis. Nothing to do with self-promotion... she posts poems, thoughts... some very lovely things there.
RE: self-promotion
9 a day? she has 27 messages there starting in Oct 06 until today... how do you get 9 a day from that?
did she ban you from your room? is that why you posted this?
did she ban you from your room? is that why you posted this?
RE: self-promotion
i think it would be brilliant if it turned out that she was actually "messagemaker":D
RE: self-promotion
nope messagemaker has some axe to grind.has also posted under mysteriousname,:) & curious.just to name 3.
RE: Happy Birthday Kseniya
a troll Monika... dont try to understand their little strange brains :P
RE: Happy Birthday Kseniya
Monika ignore the trolls and they will soon wither away and die.
Nice story.
Nice story.
RE: Happy Birthday Kseniya
Story? Where? Its a poem!
And you call yourself a TrollHunter? Hahahahahaha!!!!!
And you call yourself a TrollHunter? Hahahahahaha!!!!!
RE: Happy Birthday Kseniya
If it is her birthday I want to give her her birthday spanks and her pinch. And kisses of course. Lots and lots of kisses.
RE: How...
A nice purrrrrrr on the phone or internet ! :P
Seriously!
I can't think of anything more special.
Than you sharing with him a special moment
or fantasy with the two the you! :D
Seriously!
I can't think of anything more special.
Than you sharing with him a special moment
or fantasy with the two the you! :D
RE: How...
Write him a poem, list the things you love about him, take some pics (not those), certainly call him and tell him what he means to you, give him a nice 3-4 hour free video.
wondering
do members always suggest lowering prices or giving free vids when a host asks for suggestions. are these members really that devoid of imagination?
RE: wondering
i am sure once in vid they can imagine a lot... but they suggest lowering prices because they dont believe the host is worth that much or they are just cheap... take your pick
RE: wondering
We were talking about something special for valentines day. But since giving a free video to your bf would jeopardize your income it is not an option. Shows everyone what is important to you. Money..money and more money. Screw the bf and I dont mean literally.
RE: How...
it doesn't need to be expensive just from the heart.maybe a chain or something similar engraved with both your names & the date you meet .
My Turn
ken was in real trouble.he forgot his wedding anniversary.mavis was seething.she told him straight out"tomorrow morning i expect to find a gift in the driveway that goes from 0-120 in 6 seconds.AND IT HAD BETTER BE THERE!"
the next morning ken got up early & left for work.when mavis woke she looked out the window & there was a small gift wrapped box in the driveway.confused she put on her robe,went down & brought the box inside.she opened it & found brand new bathroom scales.
ken never heard the shot.funeral service has been scheduled for friday :--))
the next morning ken got up early & left for work.when mavis woke she looked out the window & there was a small gift wrapped box in the driveway.confused she put on her robe,went down & brought the box inside.she opened it & found brand new bathroom scales.
ken never heard the shot.funeral service has been scheduled for friday :--))
RE: My Turn
i think his point was it was more enjoyable then talking to the children, trolls and fleas :)
joke
my grandad said "the problem with u lot...u think u invented sex"..."ok grandad" i said..."have u ever fucked nana up the arse pulled out and cum on her tits??"....turns out he had...thats what killed her
RE: OMG
i saw a message there from CC that they have closed chathost forum(for the time being). why? i do not know..... jinkies, we have a mystery!
RE: !!!!!!!!!
Start working at a real job so you will available to go out and so your boyfriend won't run out of your house screaming when he finds out what you do?
had enough
try not to use selective memory.first it was Well who wrote the first provocative post.secondly read my posts here for the last few days & i'll guarantee you that there are f... all provocative posts. wait not sure you could do that with an unbiased eye :--))
RE: had enough
insults only provoke more insults, even when you stick a smilie to them.
stop it. you're not making things any better. you're saying only that someone else started it. it's childish and it's ruining our beloved cc. you should be ashamed.
stop it. you're not making things any better. you're saying only that someone else started it. it's childish and it's ruining our beloved cc. you should be ashamed.
RE: had enough
let me understand this.its his fault. not posters like you who post under numerous names with the intention of provoking.twisted thinking sister
RE: had enough
what are you, 12 years old?
if tisme knows what a troll is, knows what a troll does, and still chooses to indulge trolls, then yes, he shares the blame.
and judging by your brilliant posts here, so do you, sister.
"but they started it!" ...............give me a break!
if tisme knows what a troll is, knows what a troll does, and still chooses to indulge trolls, then yes, he shares the blame.
and judging by your brilliant posts here, so do you, sister.
"but they started it!" ...............give me a break!
RE: had enough
so you turn you're anger on him,not the posters you claim are trolls. not very brave of you."evil prospers when good men do nothing".you keep posting here to him & you post under other nicks,so are you a troll? if you are so concerned why don't you cc mail him,explain your feelings.ohh no then he might know your nick.mother superior its a little ironic you calling someone a child when you said"our beloved forum"(chortle)
RE: had enough
no, i didn't "turn my anger on him", I expressed my annoyance to someone who seems to quite obviously regard himself as someone better than the people he's insulting. highlighting the similarities between what he's doing and what they're doing, i would think a rational person who thinks himself so much the better would stop. if he were to simply ignore those who like to make fun of him, i doubt there would be much sport in continuing to make fun of him, don't you think?
"evil prospers when good men do nothing"?
and do "good men" counter "evil" by doing what "evil" does?
and for your information, a troll is someone who posts with the intent of engendering ill-will and heated replies. the game is in winding up someone so much that he skips all over a message board like a lunatic spouting inane paranoid crap about every other person being a flea or something. in the mind of a troll, that's the sort of thing that makes the effort worth while.
seriously, why would a person give a troll exactly what he wants?
"evil prospers when good men do nothing"?
and do "good men" counter "evil" by doing what "evil" does?
and for your information, a troll is someone who posts with the intent of engendering ill-will and heated replies. the game is in winding up someone so much that he skips all over a message board like a lunatic spouting inane paranoid crap about every other person being a flea or something. in the mind of a troll, that's the sort of thing that makes the effort worth while.
seriously, why would a person give a troll exactly what he wants?
RE: had enough
that is why you come to cc? wow... what a boring life you must have! you should try going to a pub, a club, church... something... go outside.. there is a great big world you can have fun in.
RE: had enough
sad :( and you are most likely one of the ones who say they need to get a life, tisme, bela, abc.... yet you just said you live to wind them up
so sad, to bad
so sad, to bad
RE: had enough
Yes the only woman I have ever had in my life is my mommy and I have been a sad loser since the day I was born.
Got to go I can here mommy coming up the stairs and she'll go mad if she catches me on here playing with my little tinkler again :(
Got to go I can here mommy coming up the stairs and she'll go mad if she catches me on here playing with my little tinkler again :(
RE: had enough
of course I would always spell in that instance "here" as "hear" but I like the effort! Now you are thinking!
yoyo
not sure you wind him up.from reading his posts i think its he who has you on a string like a yoyo.think he uses the language he does because he knows you don't have the vocabulary & your anger shows in your toilet level insults
RE: yoyo
sorry, we forgot your name in the list of forum "personalities" that are so uch fun to wind up. don't take offense you are as pompous as the before mentioned list.
RE: had enough
so why aren't you ignoring me?is it because you really are a troll as you called them.you didn't answer my point about cc mailing him with your feelings.in this post he didn't insult just posed a question to someone who had looked down on a girl who works here.trolls don't ruin your"beloved forum"only those who can't handle their crap? i think you will find that is what happened in world war 2,after sept 11,with iraq.there comes a point where you fight fire with fire.
RE: !!!!!!!!!
Its an Irony!
I was with a friend and he was trying to find
just the right things, for Valentines day, for
his girl friend.
He said, oh how I hate Valentines Day! ;)
I was with a friend and he was trying to find
just the right things, for Valentines day, for
his girl friend.
He said, oh how I hate Valentines Day! ;)
RE: Viewers profiles. Wouldn;t it be great?
Great idea to have viewer profiles. Would save wasting all that paid time about "whats your name?", "Where u from baby", etc
RE: Viewers profiles. Wouldn;t it be great?
Who wants to see pics of middle aged, fat balding men who lie about themselves and their personal lives?
RE: Viewers profiles. Wouldn;t it be great?
Oi! We're not all fat and balding, or middle-aged you know!!!