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Sex Joke
One night, he decides to bring his girlfriend home for a little fun. They have bunk beds and the guy notices that his little brother is already asleep on the lower bunk, so he and his girlfriend climb up to the top bunk. As you might expect things start to heat up.
The guy remembers that his little brother is sleeping below so he tells his girlfriend to whisper "lettuce" if she wants it harder and "tomato" if she wants a new position.
Lettuce!!!
Tomato!!!
Lettuce!!!
Tomato!!!
Lettuce!!!
Tomato!!!
She screams.
Lettuce!!!
Tomato!!!
Whoa!!!
PULL IT OUT!!!
PULL IT OUT NOW!!!
I can't get pregnant!
Then the little brother shouts up, "Hey, would you guys stop making sandwiches up there! You're getting mayonnaise all over my face!*!*!*!*!
The guy remembers that his little brother is sleeping below so he tells his girlfriend to whisper "lettuce" if she wants it harder and "tomato" if she wants a new position.
Lettuce!!!
Tomato!!!
Lettuce!!!
Tomato!!!
Lettuce!!!
Tomato!!!
She screams.
Lettuce!!!
Tomato!!!
Whoa!!!
PULL IT OUT!!!
PULL IT OUT NOW!!!
I can't get pregnant!
Then the little brother shouts up, "Hey, would you guys stop making sandwiches up there! You're getting mayonnaise all over my face!*!*!*!*!
RE: for sale
£1000? ands what wil we gett 4 this? how long do we get 2 keep u?
if u need in 48 hrs u will pick it up in person then?
if u need in 48 hrs u will pick it up in person then?
RE: for sale
Yes, thinking this through would be useful, because as you see on the forums many guys do claim to be rather generous with hosts and you may find more than one who is willing to part with 1000 sterling for a weekend with you, depending on what you offer.
Is sex involved? What kind of sex and what limitations? Are you into BDSM, even light? Do you provide cooking services? Are you offering a full GFE? Will you consider extended proposals? As you see there are many questions.
Is sex involved? What kind of sex and what limitations? Are you into BDSM, even light? Do you provide cooking services? Are you offering a full GFE? Will you consider extended proposals? As you see there are many questions.
RE: for sale
Finding someone who will give you $1500 in exchange for free video is quite a longshot, don't you think? And quite a change from For Sale, as well.
RE: for sale
was the fact that she needs $ for something and was willing to exchange it for some services. The For Sale is the service not ownership for ever
RE: for sale
I have heard that story as a joke but never realised it was George Bernard Shaw that originally said it.
See you can be a pervert and still get an education :)
See you can be a pervert and still get an education :)
Whoooooops
This was meant to be to Melomane below but seeing as I'm here just below $2000 AustinP
RE: for sale
Princess, why not sell yourself on E-bay?!! (Sidebar: One of the best stories I heard was about a guy who was selling his soul on E-bay! lol!)
Like Cynic, I'm curious, if I should "buy" you, do I get to keep you? How about a 30 day free---or at least pro-rated---trial? And do you offer a money back guarantee?
Can't help but think of the humorous story told by George Bernard Shaw. He asks a woman of some breeding, "Madam, will you sleep with me for $20,000?" Without hesitation she replies, "For $20,000, why yes!" Shaw then asks, "How about $20?" Outraged and indignant she responds, "Sir, what do you think I am?!!" "Madam," he replied, "that has already been established. Now we are simply quibbling over the price!" lol!
Like Cynic, I'm curious, if I should "buy" you, do I get to keep you? How about a 30 day free---or at least pro-rated---trial? And do you offer a money back guarantee?
Can't help but think of the humorous story told by George Bernard Shaw. He asks a woman of some breeding, "Madam, will you sleep with me for $20,000?" Without hesitation she replies, "For $20,000, why yes!" Shaw then asks, "How about $20?" Outraged and indignant she responds, "Sir, what do you think I am?!!" "Madam," he replied, "that has already been established. Now we are simply quibbling over the price!" lol!
RE: for sale
is shipping included or am i paying that too?
what is the policy reguarding returning if i find that you are defective?
what is the policy reguarding returning if i find that you are defective?
RE: for sale
the last female i got from the net worked for a few years, but then she broke, but then i bought the female model number Wife 1.0, i should have gotten the upgrade mistress 2.1but then the older model GF69 was great, lasted a long time also.
RE: for sale
if the pussy don't fit , you must , a.. a.. quit! my apoligise to Johnny Cochran for stealing his line!
i love a wanker
hi guys!
here a lot was discussed about members whor in love with hosts and they did not worth it.....i have an opposite case - i love one of my ex-customers with whom i am chatting in yahoo - i let him watch me naked and he is glad but i have feeling he use me!
he doesn't need me- just use in order to cum....maybe u will say that he does not worth me but its wrong coz i love him he is a great person but he is already have a gf who is f\araway and he needs to wank and i am here for it......he does not care about me my life my probs - he just sees parts of my body and it upset me becoz i love him and want to be together with him but this is impossiable........
life is bitch
here a lot was discussed about members whor in love with hosts and they did not worth it.....i have an opposite case - i love one of my ex-customers with whom i am chatting in yahoo - i let him watch me naked and he is glad but i have feeling he use me!
he doesn't need me- just use in order to cum....maybe u will say that he does not worth me but its wrong coz i love him he is a great person but he is already have a gf who is f\araway and he needs to wank and i am here for it......he does not care about me my life my probs - he just sees parts of my body and it upset me becoz i love him and want to be together with him but this is impossiable........
life is bitch
RE: i love a wanker
He surely doesn't deserve the affection and feelings you have for him. I loved a chathost and I always paid our videos only once or twice she let me see her in yahoo, but I never requested naked shows or demanding any nudity from her. I respected her as a friend and as the girl I loved. Too bad she never respected me and all I received from her were lies from her and scoffs from her other friend members. Like in your case... She only used me for her own amusement. You can try to find another man, I am sure there are many who'd be glad to be your close friend and stop letting him use you. Perhaps he'd know what he lost once you become indifferent to him... then he'd realized he was nothing but a jerk.
RE: i love a wanker
Seriously.. DUDE.. you have got to stop using my handle and being anything BUT helpful. I know it is a strain on you to be just a tiny bit creative but please try, you know you really want to.
To sad host, unrequited love sucks, and while you waste all you emotions and feelings on someone who is never going to feel the same about you, you may well be shutting out the one person who is going to be right for you. Don't confuse needs with wants. He may want you but he does not need you, and you need something he cannot and will not give. Be true to yourself, look for love within reach instead.
Hope that helps.
To sad host, unrequited love sucks, and while you waste all you emotions and feelings on someone who is never going to feel the same about you, you may well be shutting out the one person who is going to be right for you. Don't confuse needs with wants. He may want you but he does not need you, and you need something he cannot and will not give. Be true to yourself, look for love within reach instead.
Hope that helps.
RE: i love a wanker
Huh? Two helpfuls? And one of you is calling the other one an imposter? LOL! You both are nuts!
RE: i love a wanker
Dibs.
From now on I'm the one and only "me" around here. Anyone else posting as "me" from this point forward will suffer sever rebuke and possible castration.
You all have been warned. Have a nice day.
From now on I'm the one and only "me" around here. Anyone else posting as "me" from this point forward will suffer sever rebuke and possible castration.
You all have been warned. Have a nice day.
RE: i love a wanker
HEY!!!! I have been using me for long time!!! I have more rights over "ME" than you!!!!
Diplomatic Intervention
Hey, you can be "Me" with an upper case M and "me" can be "me" with a lower case m. Would that work for both of you?
RE: Diplomatic Intervention
hell no. I am ME and he is HIM, he can not be ME, because only I can be ME but thanks for the try :P
RE: i love a wanker
Lol! Are YOU, me, suggesting he should change his name to YOU? Then again you would have the same name. What can WE do? That's it! Perhaps ME would like to assume the Royal WE as his name since he claims proprietary rights to it. That way you can be YOU...sorry, I mean ME! What? Now I'm confused! lol!
RE: i love a wanker
this was fun, but me can use the nick me :) was just pointing out how i really am me at least to myself :) but he could never be me :P
RE: i love a wanker
lifee is bitch 4 sure
this child u say u luv he use u
he not care 4 u
u sho him nake cam 4 fre on yaho
make u fool u shold make him payy no waste ur time 4 this fool
shows luv bull here not posible
this child u say u luv he use u
he not care 4 u
u sho him nake cam 4 fre on yaho
make u fool u shold make him payy no waste ur time 4 this fool
shows luv bull here not posible
RE: i love a wanker
Sad Host, It is none of our business, of course, but since you share your heart sickness with us I must ask, why do you love him? None of the things you say about him---apart from the fact that he like to look at you---suggests he would be a good catch. But, I know 'love is blind' and not a rational business.
My sense is that you are looking for love in all the wrong places bb. This is, after all, the realm of illusion. Take a sober look at the reality here. No doubt we all find some comfort in illusion. If not, places like this could not thrive. But don't make the mistake of seeing it for anything other than it is. Disappointment in love in the real world is painful and it's not uncommon for people to pursue a relationship precisely because it is NOT possible and thereby avoid the possibility of being hurt---for REAL. If you are ready to take the risk of love, put your money on a smarter bet! I'm sure there are many men who would like to BE with you---for REAL, not just see you as an object for their masturbatory fantasies.
My sense is that you are looking for love in all the wrong places bb. This is, after all, the realm of illusion. Take a sober look at the reality here. No doubt we all find some comfort in illusion. If not, places like this could not thrive. But don't make the mistake of seeing it for anything other than it is. Disappointment in love in the real world is painful and it's not uncommon for people to pursue a relationship precisely because it is NOT possible and thereby avoid the possibility of being hurt---for REAL. If you are ready to take the risk of love, put your money on a smarter bet! I'm sure there are many men who would like to BE with you---for REAL, not just see you as an object for their masturbatory fantasies.
P.S. Anne
Anne, Are you a host? If so, what's your screen name? You can e-mail me here if you don't care to reveal the persona behind the persona! :))
RE: P.S. Anne
Of course I don't "need" to! Just curious why you presume to speak for her. Are you her spokesperson? lol!
RE: i love a wanker
u 2 belive that here is "the realm of illusion" that luv here is not real? like this uther guy say?
RE: i love a wanker
i lovehim becoz he is great - very handsome and clever and pity he does not feel the same! hes life is full and where is no place to me in his life....sadly
wish i could make him love me as much as i do
wish i could make him love me as much as i do
RE: i love a wanker
Very true Vera!
Sometimes the only way we see things
is by finally learning from it in the end.
Hope there will not be too much heartaches and pain.
But she has the power if she wants it.
Sadly she puts the power in someones hands that does not care!
Sometimes the only way we see things
is by finally learning from it in the end.
Hope there will not be too much heartaches and pain.
But she has the power if she wants it.
Sadly she puts the power in someones hands that does not care!
RE: hi!
Hello TinyLia I hope you have lots of fun here and will uphold the cc tradition that all new hosts give me a free, sexy 60 minute video.
Oh no
Lena did that nasty Prettywitch trick you into saying that by telling you that the word adore means the same as "really really hate" :P
RE: hi!
WifeNextDoor when will you ever forgive me for forgetting to ask you for your free video when you first joined ?
Listen I'm a nice man so I will let you give me the free video now even though you have been here a little whilei and seeing as I like you I'll make it 120 minutes. Then will you forgive me ? :D
Listen I'm a nice man so I will let you give me the free video now even though you have been here a little whilei and seeing as I like you I'll make it 120 minutes. Then will you forgive me ? :D
RE: hi!
Well Nadeen I think a young, good looking guy with lots of charm, lots of money, popular with the hosts, hung like a horse, funny, kind, romantic, well manicured and smartly dressed who wanted a free video with a host would have no problem in getting one.
But as I am none of those things I suppose you must have been here before me :P
But as I am none of those things I suppose you must have been here before me :P
just listen
i feel i have to write this .. i was a member in cc and fell in love with a chathost !!!!!!!! i met her and fell in love as she told me that she loved me too ..i feel this is a kinda a warning to you all...... coz it's kinda stange but she dont work in cc now and we are making plans to live and marry .....but you know what i dont trust her .......and the strange thing .........is that i know she is just sitting at home waiting for me ........but coz she was in cc i feel that it plays mind games on your brain ..........your always thinking is she in yahoo talking to an ex customer .......but is she only doing it coz she is so bored ? what i am trying to say is TRUST is HARD THING .......and i think its not going to work .......coz it will always play on my mind ..so today i am walking away from it ............................i could be stupid,,, but i dont want to have that feeling everyday in my life .......so if you want to meet a girl pls not in cc .. it wont work ............................
it's your
problem that you don't have trust.don't blame it on her past or cc.not everybody is you.i know of 2 couples still happily married who met on other sites.you.she has given you no reason to doubt her yet you are causing yourself to doubt.maybe you are looking for excuses...
RE: it's your
read his post & tell me where he says she has given him reason to doubt.amazing how some people get through life!!
RE: it's your
I agree whatnot. No where does he say she has given him any reason to doubt her.
It is not her job on cc that is her problem but your own insecurities a stupid man. How would you feel if she worked in a bar or a similar job.
If you're really going to finish with her can you put in a good word for me :P
It is not her job on cc that is her problem but your own insecurities a stupid man. How would you feel if she worked in a bar or a similar job.
If you're really going to finish with her can you put in a good word for me :P
RE: To inYourFriend
agree DM INYF didn't call anyone names.could be someone doesn't like INYF.nahhh that ain't possible,is it?
RE: To inYourFriend
QUOTE: "It is not her job on cc that is her problem but your own insecurities a stupid man." THE WORD STUPID...what that? that is a name.
RE: To inYourFriend
The guy who started the thread used the handle 'a stupid man' in the from box.......re-read and then eat humble pie.
RE: To inYourFriend
Whatever "humble pie" is i don't know and have nothing to regret. Yes that his ID but that is not the way INYFriend meant it I am sure if if you think so you are naive.
RE: To inYourFriend
he even went so far as to use the "a" calling him"a stupid man" not"stupid man".so now you are an expert on knowing what INYF meant when he posted.you are clearly a lot smarter than your ignorance would indicate. :--))
RE: To inYourFriend
Your absolutely right I am a lot smarter, but better yet I have alot more insight and feeling into what people are commicating, which is more than I can say for you, given my observation of you online life here. Reflect on that a little, and if you can't get some help.
look for yourself
Just look at the evidence, Look at all you post and what you ACTUALLY do online and that speak for itself. Lets us know what you find. I doubt you have the self-understanding of self-reflection to do so, let alone the honesty, it just to much for you to acknowledge.
RE: look for yourself
a troll or could it be someone jealous of tisme? a sick obssesed stalker?
agreed
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Humble_pie
Indeed she said "a stupid man" not "stupid man" indicating she was addressing him, not calling him names.
Indeed she said "a stupid man" not "stupid man" indicating she was addressing him, not calling him names.
RE: agreed
Seem you are not a professor of linguistics, where CONTEXT everything, Linguistic look at the whole picture not just words OUT OF CONTEXT.
RE: agreed
"It is not her job on cc that is her problem but your own insecurities a stupid man"
Context is clear, she is addressing him by his signature. She could have been clearer by putting quotes around the name, but since English is not her first or second language I don't expect that she has a style book handy. (You do know what a style book is, don't you stupid pr?
Context is clear, she is addressing him by his signature. She could have been clearer by putting quotes around the name, but since English is not her first or second language I don't expect that she has a style book handy. (You do know what a style book is, don't you stupid pr?
RE: agreed
now you call pr stupid? i think you all lost track of this post. so now is time to insult i see.
Yes indeed
Since INYF does seem have a history of being a smart ass I'd say i agree, could be taken as insulting.
RE: Yes indeed
INYF is notorious here as the funniest poster, at least for that quality he is loved by many!
RE: Yes indeed
Even with my history of being a smart ass I assure you this was not meant to be insulting.
I am actually insulted that you think I would use the term "a stupid man" to insult someone :(
I am actually insulted that you think I would use the term "a stupid man" to insult someone :(
RE: agreed
Its not about "style" is about context and the sentence you pick out is not the complete context. And another thing you seem to be more concerned with "denotation" but not connotation. So you did teach me one thing professor, and that how to say "asshole." Your it. :-)
RE: agreed
A "stylebook" is a printed manual that covers a variety of topics, including grammar, punctuation, and spelling. The most famous is the Associated Press Stylebook. It is updated periodically to reflect changes in language usage.
RE: don't u?
pr if I had meant the sentence as an insult it would have been written as "It is not her job on cc that is her problem but your own insecurities YOU stupid man." rather than "a stupid man".
It was just a reply to the original poster who had used "a stupid man" as his posting name.
Can't you just accept that you misinterpreted the intention of my post ?
It was just a reply to the original poster who had used "a stupid man" as his posting name.
Can't you just accept that you misinterpreted the intention of my post ?
RE: don't u?
Context is everything "the professor" of what, i guess you can't figure that out. so communication, is that about style? or is that, stupid.
RE: don't u?
Strange, you start this argument because he supposedly called a guy a stupid man.... yet you go and label another poster an asshole. Double standards?
Postmodern style for Professor
real style is beyond you, and you can't read well either I see, and your abililty to see that is sad so your fired. stupid (that is a word out of context) what does that mean? when you understand maybe we will give you your name back.
inYourFriend
pf that was exactly the way I meant it.
The reason I typed it was because I originally replied to whatnot and so typed a stupid man to show that I was now replying to the original poster.
As the professsor said I should probably have used quotes as in "a stupid man" to make my intention more clear. But then again he also said I'm a girl and that English isn't my first or second language :(
"A stupid man" would not be the phrase I would use if I was trying to insult someone.
But you are right about one thing pr. I am an asshole* (although being from the UK I would prefer the term arsehole) :D
*See Nadeen's post below
I have to admit though that there are quite a lot of my friends that I would like to be "in" so thank for the new name idea :D
The reason I typed it was because I originally replied to whatnot and so typed a stupid man to show that I was now replying to the original poster.
As the professsor said I should probably have used quotes as in "a stupid man" to make my intention more clear. But then again he also said I'm a girl and that English isn't my first or second language :(
"A stupid man" would not be the phrase I would use if I was trying to insult someone.
But you are right about one thing pr. I am an asshole* (although being from the UK I would prefer the term arsehole) :D
*See Nadeen's post below
I have to admit though that there are quite a lot of my friends that I would like to be "in" so thank for the new name idea :D
RE: To inYourFriend
i thought INYF was an offense to the whole human race & especially to himself.oops except olgaolga who"adores him"!! :--))
RE: To inYourFriend
I was going to reply to pr but decided to read all the other posts first and I'm glad I did Nadeen as i was going to say to him that, for me, being called only an asshole is like getting a compliment :D
But you already told him :D
But you already told him :D
RE: To inYourFriend
sure :) ....how can i be indifferent to such a pervert like u? =))
p.s. no need to tell u that im joking ....but im saying it to all the rest who might take my "sweetness" too seriously :D .....kisses INYF :))
p.s. no need to tell u that im joking ....but im saying it to all the rest who might take my "sweetness" too seriously :D .....kisses INYF :))
RE: it's your
Tisme I even cause trouble when I'm not trying to :(
Oh well you know what they say Tisme "Que Sera Sera"
Oh fuck not that damn song in my head AGAIN !!!!!
Oh well you know what they say Tisme "Que Sera Sera"
Oh fuck not that damn song in my head AGAIN !!!!!
RE: it's your
"whatever will be,will be.the futures not ours to see que sera sera..."
INYF for a female who has english as second or third language you sure do stir up a hornets nest,but at least olgaolga"adores you!!" :--))
INYF for a female who has english as second or third language you sure do stir up a hornets nest,but at least olgaolga"adores you!!" :--))
RE: just listen
Guy, don't be stupid. Girls would be girl, it doesn't matter where you met her. I thought the same and I played deaf to many love declarations from girls here. I always thought as you do now. I thought that if I married a girl from here she would always chat and email with most of her ex-viewers. I met a girl from my city, she never lived alone. Always lived with her parents and had a decent job working in a bank. I said cool! What else can I ask for? Well, long story short is that we moved together with a promise to get married later on. The promise was her idea to tell her parents. She worked in the day, unfortunately my schedule and job requires I sometimes work nights all week. I always asked her what she'll do when I work nights. She said she read a book, talk to her friend (a married girl) or watch tv or rent a movie. I said cool! One day my laptop broke so I decided to use hers. To my surprise she had yahoo messenger installed..... hmmmm I thought: I hid from her I chatted in the internet and she has a messenger. So I let the yahoo run (she had automatically). Nine contacts, one of them buzzed and said: H r u my love? I want to say I had a great sleep after our sexy chat last night and I dreamt of ur sweet pussy all night. I said: What?!?! I told him it wasn't her. I told him I was another girl friend of her and asked his name, and chatted to him. He told me he lives in same city and met my g/f in yahoo personals!!! At least girls in cc show for money, but this girl just shows for pleasure. So there u go. You can't judge girls or trust them. They'll always be the same regardless where u meet them.
RE: just listen
And what about u, guys?U always blame girls in being unfaithful and mean but what about urselves?I have the same story but im a host, i fell in love with a guy here, we love each other, i went to his country and stayed for a month there. He prooved me that he loved me so much, but when i came home i can't sleep well.I always think where he is, with who, what he is doing tho i know that the only think he does now is studies like crazy and he has no time for anything else.But still i can't say i trust him...Dunno why.Now im waiting for him to visit my country and meet my parents but i dunno, maybe my jealousy will ruin everyth....
RE: just listen
of corse men lie 2 & cheat. maybee mor then woman who nows
but who nows if you r a host and not jealus viewer 2
but who nows if you r a host and not jealus viewer 2
RE: just listen
Anon, "Plenty?" How do you know? Have you any first-hand knowledge of the statistics?
RE: just listen
I wasa good customer of a girl, we always had sexy fun and she tells me some guy wants to mary her. I congratulated her and said I guess we won't be seing each other anymore...wrong...she gave me free shows on yahoo :D good for me-bad for her fiance'
RE: just listen
Same goes for me. I always had sex vid fun with a host here. She married a guy from other country. She promised me she'd email me always, but now she gives me free shows in yahoo. She says I always turn her on.
RE: just listen
give the guy some credit...
most guys would just carry on and take the host for a ride making her believe it will last forever... all the while they'd be having sex with her in the meantime and when they got bored they'd decide to tell the woman that it's not gonna last.
At least this guy is thinking with his heart and not his dick.
Yes it goes both ways with males being unfaithful and cheating on woman, that's not in question. Men probably cheat more but women are more crafty and more spiteful when they do it.
One thing for "stupid man" though... even though you've decided to call it off you should explain to her why and how you feel, it's the least you should do really. If you have to break a womans heart at least minimise the damage rather then just disappearing.
Good luck to you
most guys would just carry on and take the host for a ride making her believe it will last forever... all the while they'd be having sex with her in the meantime and when they got bored they'd decide to tell the woman that it's not gonna last.
At least this guy is thinking with his heart and not his dick.
Yes it goes both ways with males being unfaithful and cheating on woman, that's not in question. Men probably cheat more but women are more crafty and more spiteful when they do it.
One thing for "stupid man" though... even though you've decided to call it off you should explain to her why and how you feel, it's the least you should do really. If you have to break a womans heart at least minimise the damage rather then just disappearing.
Good luck to you
RE: just listen
Sgt, People's infidelities---men and women alike---are amusing. Invariably the gulity parties rationalize their behavior, sometimes in rather laughable ways. I remember having a one-nighter with a woman three days before she was married. I remember, she would not suck my dick, only fuck me. The former, she told me, she reserved for her husband to be. By contrast, I remember a tryst with a woman who would only suck my dick. She said she reserved fucking for her boyfriend. I'm sure both these guys would have been touched by their having held something in reserve for them. Now that's fidelity!! lol!
RE: oldaolga Love will find me ?
Luck in the mirror and u will find your love INYF :p (Make sure it's a shattered one first)
RE: just listen
Original poster told he can't trust. It's mostly very true and you, LaMurrr, should know it very well by what you've done yourself. When red flags come up, they won't go away easily. Lies, lies, lies... But as you said, letting old unhappy "love" go helps... and it will come back much stronger, by different person. One very bad experience makes following one be wonderful and really important things are what matters.
RE: just listen
"dont think that its a bad place to be in.if it was we all wudnt be here." so then noone will go to hell since u said a bad place we wudnt be?? :))
absurd analogy
in my opinion.we have no choice if we go up,down or limbo in the"after life"but here on mother earth most of us can make choices.
RE: just listen
runn away fast. noo real luv here
no listen to these peeps the not tell true about luv in cc
no listen to these peeps the not tell true about luv in cc
RE: just listen
did not think so :) just checking to make sure the rum did not get to you in the isles :P
RE: just listen
Good man, it is better to walk away now because you do not trust her.
but if she gives you no reason to distrust her and you just ''feel'' you can not have trust, look inside yourself for the help you seek.
just because she works or has worked on a site like this is no reason (in my opinon) not to trust her.
lastly, it is the best thing you have chosen to do, if you stayed with her you could never look at her again and her life will be filled with sadness and yours with anger.
TrustNoOne
but if she gives you no reason to distrust her and you just ''feel'' you can not have trust, look inside yourself for the help you seek.
just because she works or has worked on a site like this is no reason (in my opinon) not to trust her.
lastly, it is the best thing you have chosen to do, if you stayed with her you could never look at her again and her life will be filled with sadness and yours with anger.
TrustNoOne
RE: just listen
yes, as soon as you have doubts about your mate, you will always have it in the back of your mind.
RE: just listen
ASM,
I can appreciate your need to share this major decision with us and I suspect there is little anyone can say that would change your mind in this matter, nor do I think it would be right for anyone to persuade you to not follow your instincts. I'm sure you must have some lingering doubts, but better to follow your gut than be persuaded to do something that you will ultimately regret.
It’s unfortunate that you let things go down the road as far as they have, but better to stop now than go down the aisle. I don’t envy your position. Both choices are unpalatable: 1) Call it off or 2) Go down the aisle knowing you have grave reservations that will surely guarantee the marriage will fail. Reading your comment, it seems you have chosen the lesser of the two evils. Some here seem to think your decision ought to be based on whether she has given you any reason to distrust her, but if I read your comment correctly that is not the heart of the matter for you. You are bothered by the fact that she worked here at CC. That’s understandable. Some, women especially, will say, “Why do you fault her for that? You were here too! You were also a part of the equation.” That is undeniably true. Thus, if you find her wanting in virtue because of her work here, the same charge can be laid at your feet. That would be a fair and rational description. The problem is this is more an affair of the heart. Fair or not, you are bothered by it and perhaps she too is bothered by the fact that you are a “John” ---albeit a cyber-John---of sorts. The virtual world might not be “real”, but it mirrors the real world and rare is the “working girl” who wants a customer as her mate, just as the customer would not likely contemplate marrying his “date”---to use the current euphemism---real or virtual.
My only bit of unsolicited advise---assuming you are going to call it off---is be honest and gentle without being unctuous. Then move on knowing that this experience has been a real life lesson about the proverbial ‘looking for love in all the wrong places.’ I’m not saying it does not or cannot happen, but the smart money is betting against it. Good Luck, ASM. As the French say, “Bon courage.”
I can appreciate your need to share this major decision with us and I suspect there is little anyone can say that would change your mind in this matter, nor do I think it would be right for anyone to persuade you to not follow your instincts. I'm sure you must have some lingering doubts, but better to follow your gut than be persuaded to do something that you will ultimately regret.
It’s unfortunate that you let things go down the road as far as they have, but better to stop now than go down the aisle. I don’t envy your position. Both choices are unpalatable: 1) Call it off or 2) Go down the aisle knowing you have grave reservations that will surely guarantee the marriage will fail. Reading your comment, it seems you have chosen the lesser of the two evils. Some here seem to think your decision ought to be based on whether she has given you any reason to distrust her, but if I read your comment correctly that is not the heart of the matter for you. You are bothered by the fact that she worked here at CC. That’s understandable. Some, women especially, will say, “Why do you fault her for that? You were here too! You were also a part of the equation.” That is undeniably true. Thus, if you find her wanting in virtue because of her work here, the same charge can be laid at your feet. That would be a fair and rational description. The problem is this is more an affair of the heart. Fair or not, you are bothered by it and perhaps she too is bothered by the fact that you are a “John” ---albeit a cyber-John---of sorts. The virtual world might not be “real”, but it mirrors the real world and rare is the “working girl” who wants a customer as her mate, just as the customer would not likely contemplate marrying his “date”---to use the current euphemism---real or virtual.
My only bit of unsolicited advise---assuming you are going to call it off---is be honest and gentle without being unctuous. Then move on knowing that this experience has been a real life lesson about the proverbial ‘looking for love in all the wrong places.’ I’m not saying it does not or cannot happen, but the smart money is betting against it. Good Luck, ASM. As the French say, “Bon courage.”
Belated Reply to "Long John" re: 9Feb post
LJ, Sorry it took me so long to reply. I have posted my reply in the original thread by "tired one" dated 9 Feb. Needless to say, all are welcome to join in.
RE: HELP !!!
hard 2 advice when we dont know the kind of show u do. maybe 1 day u will reveale ur self 2 us :)
as 4 ur problem. if u dont think he would approve already then will have a prob for sure. i cant imagine 2 many fathers enjoy to find out about their childs work here. not putting the host down, just from a fathers view. "any daughter but mine" view.
if u miss ur family that much, u should go home for sure. home sweeet home they say. lock ur door, maybe tell dad ur going to nap or something. at 73 i would not tell him, might not take it so well, u know? keep it private. as far as the $ would he react bad to a rich internet b/f who likes to spoil u?
dont know if that helps but just some thoughts and i end it with
who r u?
as 4 ur problem. if u dont think he would approve already then will have a prob for sure. i cant imagine 2 many fathers enjoy to find out about their childs work here. not putting the host down, just from a fathers view. "any daughter but mine" view.
if u miss ur family that much, u should go home for sure. home sweeet home they say. lock ur door, maybe tell dad ur going to nap or something. at 73 i would not tell him, might not take it so well, u know? keep it private. as far as the $ would he react bad to a rich internet b/f who likes to spoil u?
dont know if that helps but just some thoughts and i end it with
who r u?
RE: HELP !!!
be honest,tell him the truth.how much you miss & love him & the family,everything,yes even about your work.explain that its hard to find work that gives you the flexibility of hours,pay ,its legal,etc.i'm sure he understands about employment in your country.also tell him that it gives you the financial independence to contribute to the household budget.you are worried what he will think if you dont tell him but you have money etc but its more expensive living away from home.maybe he has those thoughts now.about how you manage.as much as we all like to think it there is not a lot we fool our parents about even as they & us get older.speak from the heart you may be surprised because the bottom line is you are his daughter & your parents raised you so i'm sure they trust,respect & will listen to you.in the end they love you & that's a mighty potent thing.good luck.
RE: HELP !!!
Is this the novids4me with whom I sparred a couple of weeks ago?!! Novids, I can tell your counsel to ro host to come clean with her dad is well intended, but I'm not sure it would be wise for her to do so. You may argue that anything less than coming clean with the whole truth is lying by omission, but I think she must also take into account the hurt it might cause. Making a clean breast of it might make HER feel good, but I don't think it's the wisest course.
RE: HELP !!!
you are speaking like what she is doing is criminal.she has nothing to be ashamed about..even a sin of omission leads to more lies.a truth never changes because it is based on fact. its family,its built on love,trust & respect.you are advising her to jeopardize 2 of these 3? anyway whatever you do ro host remember it is YOU who must live with the consequences..
RE: HELP !!!
"she has nothing to be ashamed about"
Conservative parents may well think that pointing a webcam at your naked body with legs spread wide, simulating orgasms to be a less-than-proud moment.
Conservative parents may well think that pointing a webcam at your naked body with legs spread wide, simulating orgasms to be a less-than-proud moment.
RE:HELP !!
maybe for them.some parents may not be proud their children are trash collectors,clean toilets,whatever.you can't live your life behind other people's shadows. so you are saying rather than tell them the truth its better to lie to save them being ashamed.what happens when they discover this lie.the consequences are much greater.loss of trust & respect
RE:HELP !!
You say that a trash collector is the same as an active adult activity chathost? LOL Believe me, I have some affection for some of my chathost friends, but there is a difference.
Trash collecting is down in the full glare of sunshine. Though it may be low on the social scale I can think if no place that the morals of such a person is questioned.
I am surely not judging my chathost friends, but to say they are less than human to be attentive to the feelings and moral sensibilities of their parents is insensitive to say the least.
Trash collecting is down in the full glare of sunshine. Though it may be low on the social scale I can think if no place that the morals of such a person is questioned.
I am surely not judging my chathost friends, but to say they are less than human to be attentive to the feelings and moral sensibilities of their parents is insensitive to say the least.
RE:HELP !!
wow such drivel.you missed the point & didn't answer my question.i never said trash collecting is the same.i was talking about shame.if you can so easily misinterpret there is not much future for thos you counsel.LOL!!
RE: HELP !!!
forgot to say...you talked about the hurt she may cause by"coming clean". will that be any greater than the hurt caused by deception & the resulting loss of trust & respect when the lies are discovered in the future?to me part of the problem is people only see the tree,not the forest.LOL!!
RE: HELP !!!
trouble with doing that is it is never just 1 lie.the more we lie the greater the chance of being discovered.i should know even my nick here is a lie.i thought it would stop me being pvted in chat but it just gave them an opening.women are too smart for me.LOL!!!
RE: HELP !!!
lol I could have told you that would never work novids :P
I tried and failed too :(
I tried and failed too :(
RE: HELP !!!
I agree that a lie must constantly be fueled---by other lies---to be sustained, whereas the truth is self-sustaining. However, we must keep things in perspective and not 'make a mountain out of a mole hill', as the expression goes. We need not be too hard on ourselves for our venial offenses. So what if your nickname here is a lie. If by this you mean your nickname is other than your screen name ( i.e. a persona covering a persona) and you feel bad about it, stop using the nick and write only under your screen name. To feel bad about every little thing is the psycholological equivalent of Chinese water torture.
Bon courage Novids!
Bon courage Novids!
Melomane
man you are reading too much into it."novids4me"is a lie because i do vids but i was hoping that it would save me being bombed with pvts in chat,but women are way ahead of me.instead of thinking"hmm he wont do vid.."they thought"wow,i'll ask him,why he doesn't do vid..."clever beautiful things women.
RE: HELP !!!
Lol! "Couldn't moan," huh Cum4? I must confess I often wondered about this in the case of a girl who started working at home in a very crowded circumstance: parents, siblings, grandfather. Of course, she locks her door, but she is used to giving her sexual passion full expression and I'm sure if her family heard her moans they might think this "translating" work is most unusual!
Thank you !!!
thx guys..i really appreciate this.
i was talking 2 my sisters (they know what my job is) and the one that lives at home with my dad had a good idea.
well my dad knows i work at an internet cafe and that i also work as an admin for a website....so my sister told him today that my boss offered me the oportunity 2 work from home as an admn for that website, but also be seen by the visitors of the site. my dad knows nothing about internet so...he might accept this and dont think of anything worse. my rent is paid here till next month so..i still have almost a month 2 decide what i'm going 2 tell 2 my dad. and also since i'm the youngest and the light of his eyes :D he will probably accet evrything as long as i'm going back home and he can see me everyday.
thx again 2 all of u who posted...i really appreciate it
best of luck and many kisses
i was talking 2 my sisters (they know what my job is) and the one that lives at home with my dad had a good idea.
well my dad knows i work at an internet cafe and that i also work as an admin for a website....so my sister told him today that my boss offered me the oportunity 2 work from home as an admn for that website, but also be seen by the visitors of the site. my dad knows nothing about internet so...he might accept this and dont think of anything worse. my rent is paid here till next month so..i still have almost a month 2 decide what i'm going 2 tell 2 my dad. and also since i'm the youngest and the light of his eyes :D he will probably accet evrything as long as i'm going back home and he can see me everyday.
thx again 2 all of u who posted...i really appreciate it
best of luck and many kisses
RE: Thank you !!!
I suppose you could also work from a studio. You wouldn't make as much money, but it would be far easier to keep your secret.
RE: Thank you !!!
The fewer details you give then the fewer lies to remember. Being a website developer from home That also does translation work is a good way to describe what you do.
Maybe you can make a tourism page for your region so that you have something you can show for your work. It also might be actually useful for visitors.
Maybe you can make a tourism page for your region so that you have something you can show for your work. It also might be actually useful for visitors.
RE: HELP !!!
if your dad is as cool as you think, then just breach the subject such as '' hey dad i saw story about girls that get naked at clubs and make good money '' or you saw some web page or you were chatting with ppl online an they were talking about sites like CC. if he says bad things about the subject, drop it. if he is as cool as you think, maybe he is cool with it and you can continue talking to him and see if you can tell him you do it.
RE: The Rules by which females are governed :-))
Lol! Good one freeda! It reminds me of a true story I told a couple of months ago: A member of our State Legislature, who is bald, was seated in his seat on the aisle of the Legislative Assembly. A colleague passing by rubbed his bald head and said, "It feels just like my wife's ass." The seated member then raised his hand and rubbed his own head and said, "Yea, it does." lol!
RE: The Rules by which females are governed :-))
Lol! I guess that's what prompted Samuel Johnson to remark more than 200 years ago, "Nature has given women so much power that the law has very wisely given them little." Or, more humorously, Oscar Wilde's observation that, "Women's styles may change, but their designs remain the same."
RE: The Rules by which females are governed :-))
tina sweety,, what happen to rules 18, 19 and 20 is that were it tells us men to
number 18: obey these rules if you want sex tonight honey
number 19: if you only obey half of them, you just get bj
number 20: if we just say the heck with these rules, we are outta luck
no sex
number 18: obey these rules if you want sex tonight honey
number 19: if you only obey half of them, you just get bj
number 20: if we just say the heck with these rules, we are outta luck
no sex
RE: The Rules by which females are governed :-))
rule 18:the female respects the male's right to be wrong,ALWAYS!!
rule 19:if the female wants the male's opinion she will give it to him!!
good one beemer :--))
rule 19:if the female wants the male's opinion she will give it to him!!
good one beemer :--))
RE: The Rules by which females are governed :-))
women can't live with 'em & pass the beer nuts!!
RE: The Rules by which females are governed :-))
MALE rule.... agree to everything and life will be peaceful.
RE: The Rules by which females are governed :-))
The powers that be let the women think they are right ;-)
RE: The Rules by which females are governed :-))
Woman rules and that is it. Man just needs to think he is in control, while women know they are :)
RE: Guys
ending, always growing, ever evolving, rolling and rolling, creating more mass with each revolution, gaining speed…
RE: Guys
nope, hosts read the members only forum so we have learned you have no respect for our privicy or the rules. so we use YM and (private) to talk about you girls :p
FoxyNelly
Non-Adult host? She looks more of an instant action whore! Geez! nice pics, but not for non-adults!
RE: FoxyNelly
Her pics aren't that bad. Average looking girl. Clearly is sending the signal she is not strictly non-adult. Her pics are hardly instant action and insulting her is not cool. Another new kid. Give her time. Patience. Patience.
RE: FoxyNelly
first set are a bit nonadult, but no way IA and to call the IA girls whores? what is ur problem?
RE: FoxyNelly
i still dont see the point in calling the girls who work here whores and bitches...you do realize you get a crappier show when you act like that?
sweetwitch19 waste of time
she sucks!!! she makes promise and wastes your time and then asks that you leave and return so she can raise the price dont waste your time with her
RE: sweetwitch19 waste of time
Young girl. New to CC. Is in Non-adult. Give her time to either learn the ropes and deliver or leave CC. If she continues to scam then you can slam the crap out of her.
RE: sweetwitch19 waste of time
I agree with idiots! She is a good girl, she has to learn how things work here! Give her time!
RE: sweetwitch19 waste of time
u asked her 2 get naked and she told u no
sorry to see u r so low to slam her like that
sorry to see u r so low to slam her like that
darling girl
ever had that experience? nice photos chat for a bit go into vid and its a different girl in a grubby tshirt? hit that return button real fast. should have been suspicious only 2 photos:(
RE: For my friends
there are some lowlife grubs in this world.an e-mail address what real good is it,unless they want to be juveniles.children.LOL!!!
RE: For my friends
sweety,, i told you all along,, yahoo sucks----but anyway sorry to hear that--maybe the bastard get caught
RE: For my friends
I have an internet cafe and help people set up e-mail accounts, you wouldn't belive the incredibaly easy passwords some of them use 123456 is a real common one.
Non-Studio type members !!
Theres alot of great women here but id truly love to chat with some females who are working from home..... anyone got names ?
bite me
Police: Woman ties up lover, drinks his blood
Tiffany Sutton apparently wanted to drink up her lover on Valentine's Day - literally, authorities said.
Police early this morning arrested Sutton, who they believe may have tricked her acquaintance into having "kinky sex" so she could drink his blood.
The victim, 45, and Sutton, 23, were lying in bed naked at early Wednesday when Sutton asked if he wanted to be tied up and he consented, police said. advertisement
But that's when Sutton reportedly pulled out a knife and cut the victim's leg, police said.
Sutton reportedly told him that she "likes to drink blood" and made several cuts to his upper body, police said.
He also said Sutton drank a "little bit" of his blood, police said.
He was able to break free, run out of his home, but Sutton reportedly followed with a pickaxe, police said.
The victim passed out before his friend found him covered in blood called the police, police said.
The unidentified friend also saw Sutton covered in a blanket with no injuries, police said.
"She made very few statements, alludes to the fact that it was a very consensual encounter," said Sgt. Mike Horn, a Tempe police spokesman. "He admitted they were drinking and doing drugs."
The victim and Sutton were good acquaintances. Sutton is a transient who had been staying with the victim for two days in the 1000 Block of South Lola Lane, near Apache Boulevard and Loop 101 in a shed behind an unoccupied residence, according to what he had told police. Sutton told police she had been living there.
The victim was taken to a local hospital with non-life threatening injuries and Sutton was booked into Maricopa County Jail on suspicion of aggravated assault, police said
Tiffany Sutton apparently wanted to drink up her lover on Valentine's Day - literally, authorities said.
Police early this morning arrested Sutton, who they believe may have tricked her acquaintance into having "kinky sex" so she could drink his blood.
The victim, 45, and Sutton, 23, were lying in bed naked at early Wednesday when Sutton asked if he wanted to be tied up and he consented, police said. advertisement
But that's when Sutton reportedly pulled out a knife and cut the victim's leg, police said.
Sutton reportedly told him that she "likes to drink blood" and made several cuts to his upper body, police said.
He also said Sutton drank a "little bit" of his blood, police said.
He was able to break free, run out of his home, but Sutton reportedly followed with a pickaxe, police said.
The victim passed out before his friend found him covered in blood called the police, police said.
The unidentified friend also saw Sutton covered in a blanket with no injuries, police said.
"She made very few statements, alludes to the fact that it was a very consensual encounter," said Sgt. Mike Horn, a Tempe police spokesman. "He admitted they were drinking and doing drugs."
The victim and Sutton were good acquaintances. Sutton is a transient who had been staying with the victim for two days in the 1000 Block of South Lola Lane, near Apache Boulevard and Loop 101 in a shed behind an unoccupied residence, according to what he had told police. Sutton told police she had been living there.
The victim was taken to a local hospital with non-life threatening injuries and Sutton was booked into Maricopa County Jail on suspicion of aggravated assault, police said
Ever gonna happen?
Has there ever been a time where a host sends money to a member? We have sick buffalos, mother's needing hospitalazition, dying dogs, mean bosses too.
RE: TO Al Gore in viewers only forum
wow!! it took you over 24 hours to work out what to do almea & that is the best you come up with.time for queen of the trolls to abdicate i think :--))
RE: TO Al Gore in viewers only forum
almeaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL!!you keep doing that almea,not sure anyone else would do it even for money.tis still funny!!LOL!!
RE: TO Al Gore in viewers only forum
almeaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 so short of new thoughts you now not only use others nick but their posts word for word.give up the throne.LOL!!!
RE: TO Al Gore in viewers only forum
Isn't "Neverland" the name of Michael Jackson's place. In any case, it reminds me of a joke Jay Leno told. He said Michael Jackson had to sell it to pay for legal fees and he sold it to the Archdiocese of Boston! lol!
RE: TO Al Gore in viewers only forum
Just had my broadband limit removed Yipppeeeee !!!!!!1
Now where's all the porn movies ? :D
Now where's all the porn movies ? :D
life
Life without a purpose is a languid, drifting thing; every day we ought to review our purpose, saying to ourselves, 'This day let me make a sound beginning'.
RE: life
Lord grant me the senerity to...holy shit! it's happy Hour at the bar. Let's go drinking!
RE: If
Answer, I take it you don't believe in "mercy fucking?" Perhaps you share the sentiment of an old friend of mine who once said, "I don't believe in mercy fucking unless I'm the fuckee." lol!
RE: If
Lol! I'm assuming it is better than none at all, since you are not reporting you decline the offers! Plus, there are always bags, some requiring two---"two baggers" as the late Rodney Dangerfield called them: women that are so ugly you put a bag over your head just in case the one over her head breaks!
RE: life
Thank you Thomas. Your wisdom is heard through the centuries. But, Thomas, what are you doing here?!! You're not excoriating the masses are you? Ok...ok....but 'avoid the near occasion of sin,' for thou art also human! (In the event that you succumb to temptation, I can recommend a couple of literate, licentious ladies---for a fee of course. I split the pimp fee with CC. lol!)
Marriage
If you met a member or host here in CC and were thinking about getting married would you want to post their name in the forums to she what other people had to say about them?
RE: Marriage
cool--will you all invite me, who is getting married,, I love weddings, I can serve the drinks and sing
RE: Marriage
Some people here can be real jerks,if what they say would make a difference to you,why marry her ? Go and marry them.
I'm sure you're a big boy who knows what do you without asking Mommy...
I'm sure you're a big boy who knows what do you without asking Mommy...
RE: Marriage
I am going through that now. I wouldn't care what anyone would post, so...no, I wouldn't even think to do that.
RE: Marriage
some girlss tell many members to marry them. some honest some nott, so bettet to check. course u need to weed out the trolllls
RE: Marriage
I've been there, spent time with her, and she's coming here to spend time here..we'll make the right decision. We now know each other well enough that nothing any stranger tells us will make a difference.
RE: Marriage
I don't understand your question. Why would I post her name and ask people to tell me what they think of her if I don't care what the reply is? That makes no sense. Whether there is good or bad reply, won't change the way I feel. Besides, if there are negative comments, how will she feel? Why upset here over something an internet troll will post under the name anonymous, or other. There's no point to the excercise. Besides, for now, she's still working due to prior commitments. Negative comments could affect her and others' incomes. There's just no upside to doing it. Even if the response is a thousand people saying great things...I already know how great she is (and have seen great comments about her here anyways).
RE: Marriage
love and marriage from cc? do u believe in the tooth fairy also?
i bet u post her name heree u will find halfg dozen guys who have the same story
i bet u post her name heree u will find halfg dozen guys who have the same story
RE: Marriage
there might be other prospects, but the guy that has her true love is the only one getting bj's
RE: Marriage
wrong, he's the only one getting a bj without a condom. the rest have to wrap it up.
RE: Marriage
Lol! ...and I'm sure he will be consoled by that news---a mark of virtue and fidelity!
RE: Marriage
If you are skeptical about meeting a marriage partner here at CC, you are wise. But I can't imagine why you would not be equally skeptical of the opinions of others here.
I've got to agree with Cynic. Talk about looking for love in all the wrong places!! I'm not saying it can't happen, but the smart money ain't takin' that bet! Rather than solicit an opinion here, you might do a google search on Russian bride scams. (No offense intended to the Russian women here, but I'm sure you are aware of this "industry.")
I've got to agree with Cynic. Talk about looking for love in all the wrong places!! I'm not saying it can't happen, but the smart money ain't takin' that bet! Rather than solicit an opinion here, you might do a google search on Russian bride scams. (No offense intended to the Russian women here, but I'm sure you are aware of this "industry.")
RE: Marriage
you are getting dangerously close to our secret Meloname. If I were you would purchase a geiger counter!
RE: Marriage
Thanks for the heads-up Vladimir. I'll watch my back. I know what happened to Politkovskaya and Litvinyenko! lol!
RE: Marriage
The truth is if you feel you have a need to ask questions about a hosts past, her friends, her family if she is known scammer etc then the trust you need for a happy marriage is already lost. Either you do not trust her or she cannot trust you it does not matter which way round you look at it. Don't you feel when you can trust someone you can tell them more about yourself?
From experience I would caution about asking for too much public input from these forums as they are notoriously inflammatory and almost everyone has their own agenda to fill. If you want to know about someone ask them, ask their friends, ask their family ask anyone you want until you feel better and trust her enough to want to marry her.
Btw not to be sexist or anything but the same applies to girls too. You don't have to automatically trust members but like any other kind of relationship time, understanding and trust is what you really need to make it work. There are other tips to be said, but a lot of it is common sense. You would not make the same mistakes with someone you meet down the pub , why make the same mistakes here?
From experience I would caution about asking for too much public input from these forums as they are notoriously inflammatory and almost everyone has their own agenda to fill. If you want to know about someone ask them, ask their friends, ask their family ask anyone you want until you feel better and trust her enough to want to marry her.
Btw not to be sexist or anything but the same applies to girls too. You don't have to automatically trust members but like any other kind of relationship time, understanding and trust is what you really need to make it work. There are other tips to be said, but a lot of it is common sense. You would not make the same mistakes with someone you meet down the pub , why make the same mistakes here?
RE: Marriage
how many timess have u seen posts about mutliple "loves" a host has? unless u ask how u no what other men there r?
RE: Marriage
who do u now that is married still? or will get married in the near future? words butt nothing else
RE: Marriage- to CYNIC
as i said who do u now? u r a letter. i can post that 2. sorry but no believe
RE: Marriage- to CYNIC
wow.you really live up to your name.that's what i call courage of your convictions.don't agree with you but have great respect for you.LOL!!!
RE: Marriage- to CYNIC
courage to say how i feel? no need to hide that or who u r. not everyone willl agre with each other but u have to be who u are, bettter or worse right?
RE: Marriage- to CYNIC
I agree. It's not so much courage, but simply not being persuaded. But I do agree with Novids4Me, you are a worthy successor to that most famous of the original Cynics, Diogenes, who supposedly walked around in the marketplace in broad daylight holding up a lantern. When people asked him why he was do this he said, "I'm looking for an honest man!" Now THAT is cynical! lol!
So, I gather you will not be persuaded of the truth of a marriage between CC members until you have some positive proof? And what would be sufficient proof for you? Don't get me wrong, I share your skepticism, but I realize some people do win the lottery and it has been known to snow in Florida!
So, I gather you will not be persuaded of the truth of a marriage between CC members until you have some positive proof? And what would be sufficient proof for you? Don't get me wrong, I share your skepticism, but I realize some people do win the lottery and it has been known to snow in Florida!
RE: Marriage- to CYNIC
He was my father Diogenes was. Neveer did find that man
You speak of proof, but there is not much that could be proved here. How many post crapp under no names, or mujlt names? Who knows if the OP is even serous or just wantss a reaction
Sadly that is all she wrote
You speak of proof, but there is not much that could be proved here. How many post crapp under no names, or mujlt names? Who knows if the OP is even serous or just wantss a reaction
Sadly that is all she wrote
RE: Marriage- to CYNIC
I understand the problem. It would be difficult to prove short of an in person meeting and presentation AND authentication of documents.
Speaking of documentation, I posted a question on Viewers Only concerning the gender of someone who I believe is a drag queen posing as a female. I followed with an e-mail to CC, who told me "she" had sent documents supporting her identity as a female. And while CC would not give me the details of the application process, they did admit that the documents were sent electronically. That said, I still believe this person is a drag queen, because it is quite easy to manipulate documents with computer software. Plus, that 5 o'clock shadow speaks louder than all those documents! lol!
Speaking of documentation, I posted a question on Viewers Only concerning the gender of someone who I believe is a drag queen posing as a female. I followed with an e-mail to CC, who told me "she" had sent documents supporting her identity as a female. And while CC would not give me the details of the application process, they did admit that the documents were sent electronically. That said, I still believe this person is a drag queen, because it is quite easy to manipulate documents with computer software. Plus, that 5 o'clock shadow speaks louder than all those documents! lol!
RE: Marriage- to CYNIC
why nott? u r a letter A why should any one trustt u?
was i @ ur wedding? think not
was i @ ur wedding? think not
Cynic & Melomane
easy solution & so obvious i'm amazed neither of you thought about it.an invitation to the wedding.all expenses paid for by CC,of course.LOL!! many a man changes his tune under duress.so i think it is courage & strength to maintain your opinion.
RE: Cynic & Melomane
Good idea Novids4Me. I'm game, but only one stipulation: If it is a Russian wedding, I insist on French (i.e.REAL) champagne. The prospect of drinking Russian champagne would alone dissuade me from this worthy endeavor. (So you see, I am not only a cynic but a sybarite as well! lol! ) Cheers!
P.S. Two other stipulations: 1) I won't fly Aeroflot. 2) I require private security. (You saw Putin's post---only slightly veiled threat---above, da? lol! Perhaps I can beat Putin to the punch and threaten him with an embarrassing headline: "Putin Pounds Pudding on Proletarian Porn Site." !!)
P.S. Two other stipulations: 1) I won't fly Aeroflot. 2) I require private security. (You saw Putin's post---only slightly veiled threat---above, da? lol! Perhaps I can beat Putin to the punch and threaten him with an embarrassing headline: "Putin Pounds Pudding on Proletarian Porn Site." !!)
RE: Cynic & Melomane
champagne,airways doesn't matter just put on the cc expense account.they can write it off as a business trip.don't think you will beat Putin to the punch.i saw him & Yeltsin at it together yesterday.maybe that's where his bravado came from.nothing like a belly full of:"dutch courage"LOL!!
RE: Cynic & Melomane
Judging by the ubiquity of these "unlawful" (under Russian law) adult webcam sites, I would say the Russian Mafia are more in control of Russia's affairs than the Putin government. So, I'm sure Putin is submitting an expense account to CC as well! lol!
RE: Cynic & Melomane
thought of this but never would happen. so 4 mee i stil think all lie of love here no 1 get maried 4 sure with hostt memberr
RE: Marriage- to CYNIC
mmm, a little 3 on 1 action huh?
Reminds me of the gay porno show "EVERYBODY loved Raymond, twice"
Reminds me of the gay porno show "EVERYBODY loved Raymond, twice"
RE: Marriage- to CYNIC
"who's your friend when things get rough?H>R.Pufnstuf.can't do a little cause he can't do enough..."LOL!!!
Russian marriage scams
They are in fact quite well-documented for those who care to search. It is a thriving scam that is as old as the hills, merely made easier with the internet. However, just because a scam is possible does not mean every marriage-minded Russian girl is a thief. Just as every used car dealer is not a thief because some are.
And don't forget the girls must be careful as well. How many guys will admit the photo they sent was their parents' house, not their ratty apartment? How many guys will fess-up to the ex-wife and kids they must support for the next 15 years? How many executive jobs will suddenly morph into assistant manager at Kinkos?
My sweetie knows I make an average salary and live in a 3-room flat and have no aspirations to a split-level ranch in the 'burbs. She knows she'll work at least part-time at a shit-job so we can be together. She knows there won't be much extra money to send to mom and that we'll have to scrimp like crazy if we want to visit her.
And don't forget the girls must be careful as well. How many guys will admit the photo they sent was their parents' house, not their ratty apartment? How many guys will fess-up to the ex-wife and kids they must support for the next 15 years? How many executive jobs will suddenly morph into assistant manager at Kinkos?
My sweetie knows I make an average salary and live in a 3-room flat and have no aspirations to a split-level ranch in the 'burbs. She knows she'll work at least part-time at a shit-job so we can be together. She knows there won't be much extra money to send to mom and that we'll have to scrimp like crazy if we want to visit her.
RE: Russian marriage scams
"my sweetie"...lol. Those two words made me laugh more than any joke posted here. Hope you post again when you are on the other side of the fence.
RE: Russian marriage scams
Nope, because when the visa clears I'll wave bye-bye to you boys and girls.
RE: Marriage
If it's true love, why would you care one iota about what anyone else might have to say about her/him?
RE: Marriage
egg-actly, then go ahead and post the name of the true love ("who cares what other members say", "our love i special" ) and let the chips fall where they may.
RE: Marriage
Because I am not here for your entertainment. I never could understand anyone who appears on talk shows when all they get is 15 minutes fame. Tell me one single solitary thing I could read in the forums that can be useful to me or my sweetie. The only thing possible are anonymous affirmations (we can get them in real life) or lying negativity (which is not productive for anyone).
And for those that say "how do you explain you met on a porn site?" I merely say we met online. It's fairly common these days for all except chronic luddites.
And for those that say "how do you explain you met on a porn site?" I merely say we met online. It's fairly common these days for all except chronic luddites.
RE: Marriage
"Egg-actly?" YKW, I'm curious as to why you would "egg" him on to do something that I gather---given your original question---you would be hesitant to do yourself. Or is this simply an oblique way of getting him to answer your question?
RE: Marriage
good point. how can 1 ask another 2 do something they wont do them selves? ben curious of this post, why even ask such a thing
RE: Marriage
No no no no no and no again.
Because there is idiots around this forum like me :D
Because there is idiots around this forum like me :D
RE: Marriage
Met a host here, MsLuscious, she has my love, my ring, and has left this work for me, visa and marriage follows soon, Post anything ou wish, but you can not elicit replies from me if you offend her. I know she loves me, and I am proud enough and believe in her enough that any harsh, demeaning, slanderous words about her are water off a duck's back. If you know her half as well as I, then only words praising her , her sweet personality, her caring and loving ways, will be the words wrote about her.