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An honest answer
One day a mother is in the kitchen making supper for her family when her young daughter walks in.
Daughter: I have a question for you mum.
Mother: Yes dear, what is it?
Daughter: Where do babies come from?
Mother: Well dear...a mommy and daddy fall in love and get married. One night they go into their room...they kiss and hug and have sex. (The daughter looks puzzled.)
Mother: That means the daddy puts his penis in the mummy's vagina. That's how you get a baby, honey.
Daughter: Oh I see. Butt the other night when I came into your room, you had daddy's penis in your mouth. What do you get when you do that?
Mother: Jewelry, sweetheart. Jewelry..
Daughter: I have a question for you mum.
Mother: Yes dear, what is it?
Daughter: Where do babies come from?
Mother: Well dear...a mommy and daddy fall in love and get married. One night they go into their room...they kiss and hug and have sex. (The daughter looks puzzled.)
Mother: That means the daddy puts his penis in the mummy's vagina. That's how you get a baby, honey.
Daughter: Oh I see. Butt the other night when I came into your room, you had daddy's penis in your mouth. What do you get when you do that?
Mother: Jewelry, sweetheart. Jewelry..
Sex Positions
What is your favourite sex position?
I myself, prefer the women laying face down while I fuck from the rear.
I myself, prefer the women laying face down while I fuck from the rear.
RE: Sex Positions
girl straddling a chair backwards with her ass perched on the edge and my cock pleasuring her ass in doggy:) :) :)
RE: Sex Positions
Three favorites, "The Conjunction of sun and moon position".. "The Lotus" and the "The Gaining Restraining Position" . But, if my partner is just looking for a good old fashioned pounding, I can do that also. :)
RE: Sex Positions
No question...lying on my back with her facing me. You can see her eyes, breasts, hair...and she controls the motion. It then proceeds to other positions but for starters it is the best. Lots of kissing touching and slow slow sex.
RE: Sex Positions
Riding does it for me too, at least to start, for all the reasons mentioned... I love to see her face and her whole upper body, and we can each do something with our hands beyond just supporting our weight. Deep doggy is another good starter. (I'm leaving oral out of this... I love to take her all the way with oral, then have my fun with her very wet). To finish? Honestly I like missionary... I like to control the rhythm. Least favorite? 69. I never can decide whether to concentrate on her fun or mine, and it ends up killing both.
RE: Sex Positions
Definitely Rodeo Style.
Simply enter her from the rear while getting a firm grip on her hair, then lean forward and whisper in her ear " Your sister likes it his way" and then hold on for eight seconds. Now that's a ride..
Simply enter her from the rear while getting a firm grip on her hair, then lean forward and whisper in her ear " Your sister likes it his way" and then hold on for eight seconds. Now that's a ride..
RE: Sex Positions
I love doggy but i love thse sex positions also...!:P
1.standing position
2.spoon position
3.split level
4.furniture postion
5.standing position
6.rear entry....whoaaaaa!!!!hugzzz!!!
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RE: Sex Positions
Been there and done that one. Back-fired big time when her sister confirmed it!! Bitch never did like me, wish I had fucked her brains out first.
creeped-out
Is anyone else creeped-out by the Profile Page pic of "IcePrinc3ss?"
She doesn't seem to have been on live in quite some time. I think she's gone and the studio boss is just running a loop of her to keep a few bucks rolling in.
She doesn't seem to have been on live in quite some time. I think she's gone and the studio boss is just running a loop of her to keep a few bucks rolling in.
community chat
How come 90% of the private messages I get in community chat are from women from the Philipines? Are they told to do this? Do people from that country like community chat better?
Just curious.
Just curious.
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tell them do not do it but everyday constantly they do that , i will be openly chatting and get a prvt from one or more depending if shift change time.
hi
hru
hi
hri
hi
you busy bb
hi
why no answer me
hi
hru
hi
hri
hi
you busy bb
hi
why no answer me
RE: community chat
Happens to me too, the few times I've been in there, which is the very reason why I don't visit that often.
RE: community chat
Their big studio boss requires that of them. And if you get on their yahoo messenger list, you will a never ending stream of IMs telling you how much they miss you and come to their videochat. In other words, high pressure sales tactics.
RE: community chat
Akina you don't need to pvt message coz your pics do the talking. Don't be modest.
I've got big news!!!!
Hosts and members lie on chat sites!!!! In fact, people lie in all situations!!!!!
(Hope that this takes care of all of the unnecessary postings here and other forums. Hosts, just post problem members, BY NAME, in your forums, and members, do the same, BY NAME, in yours. That is one reason why we have separate forums.... To promote honesty by policing ourselves!!)
(Hope that this takes care of all of the unnecessary postings here and other forums. Hosts, just post problem members, BY NAME, in your forums, and members, do the same, BY NAME, in yours. That is one reason why we have separate forums.... To promote honesty by policing ourselves!!)
RE: I've got big news!!!!
I of course mean that members should post problem hosts, BY NAME, in their forum.... not post problem members (unless they really want to, lol).
RE: I've got big news!!!!
I've got new too. It's pointless to try and dictate or even suggest what others will post on the forums. So you either have to just ignore it or live with it.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
I am just trying to suggest a better way. There are too many posts regarding hosts and members that lied about love, money and everything else but never mention names. I think that there needs to be some type of accountability, otherwise such posts are just selfish cries for sympathy instead of people sincerely interested in providing useful information that can prevent others from falling prey to the same untrustworthy people.
I considered two options: posting names in the general forum or posting names in the viewer/chashost only forums. I think that people might be more willing to talk candidly to others in their shoes so I think that the viewer/chathost forums are better. A good host has many members that will come to her defense if falsely accused and a good member will have other hosts that come to his defense as well. Of course, not using the general forum denies the accused the right to defend himself/herself. Any forum works for me, the key is that the liars, jerks, and idiots should be outed BY NAME.
I considered two options: posting names in the general forum or posting names in the viewer/chashost only forums. I think that people might be more willing to talk candidly to others in their shoes so I think that the viewer/chathost forums are better. A good host has many members that will come to her defense if falsely accused and a good member will have other hosts that come to his defense as well. Of course, not using the general forum denies the accused the right to defend himself/herself. Any forum works for me, the key is that the liars, jerks, and idiots should be outed BY NAME.
RE: I've got big news!!!! (And by the way...)
In terms of using the general forum or viewer/host forums, CC says as follows:
Video Chathosts Only Forum
This is for Video Chathosts only. It is a place where they discuss topics between themselves. To ask fellow Chathosts questions, to gripe, rave, raise technical queries, let other Video Chathosts know about trouble makers and whatever else they feel like discussing. Please restrict GRIPES to this area!
Viewer Only Forum
This is available for Viewers to talk to other Viewers. To let other Viewers know who their favorites are, their experiences etc...
The site seems to agree with not using the general forum. The only issue is whether or not people will use names to help their fellow member/host. The site specifically tells us to do exactly that!
Video Chathosts Only Forum
This is for Video Chathosts only. It is a place where they discuss topics between themselves. To ask fellow Chathosts questions, to gripe, rave, raise technical queries, let other Video Chathosts know about trouble makers and whatever else they feel like discussing. Please restrict GRIPES to this area!
Viewer Only Forum
This is available for Viewers to talk to other Viewers. To let other Viewers know who their favorites are, their experiences etc...
The site seems to agree with not using the general forum. The only issue is whether or not people will use names to help their fellow member/host. The site specifically tells us to do exactly that!
RE: I've got big news!!!!
Big news! Every know-it-al tries to re-invent the wheel here. Don't bother.
If you want to make thr rules then you should buy CC.
If you want to make thr rules then you should buy CC.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
Since I quoted from CC's own site, I hardly think that I am trying to reinvent the wheel. I am simply making a suggestion for the reasons that I have provided, and the site seems to agree with the path that I have suggested.
By the way, it is uncooperative attitudes like yours that diminish the value of the forums.
By the way, it is uncooperative attitudes like yours that diminish the value of the forums.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
CC seldom hesitates to block or remove inappropriate messages so I think things are going along nicely.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
I don't think that the messages are inappropriate. I simply that the messages regarding hosts or members that are problematic without naming the person in question is a waste of time. Give information that is useful. Make people know that there are consequences to their actions. Of course people can be falsely accused but with all the members and hosts here to put in their two cents, I think that there will be enough information for people to judge for themselves. And once again, CC seems to be encouraging exactly what I am suggesting.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
The problem with your idea of accountability is that people are anonymous here. Since everyone is anonymous, anything can and will be said, regardless of whether it is truth or fiction.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
There are plenty of hosts and members here that give their opinions. When a host says "Member xyz is a problem because of...", other hosts will be in a position to give their input just like everyone is doing now. When a members says "Host abc is a problem because...", other members can give their input as well. If you look at the description of the forums by CC, you will see that this is EXACTLY what CC encourages. THEY WANT US TO NAME NAMES!!! It isn't the McCarthy era, lol. You can name names!
RE: to mastertech
No, it's not "knews" either. I accidently left off the "s." Mine was a proofreading error. You on the other hand, purposely put on a "k." I'm not that stupid.
To: anon2
Anon2,
I must call you on your needless criticism of Master Tech’s typo. If the context alone does not persuade you it was merely a typographical error, a cursory read of MT’s comments here, shows MT is a guy whose command of the language is—with all due respects---greater than your own.
You might have proofread your own words before calling the guy on an obvious typo. After all, if you’re going to be persnickety about spelling, I would hope you would apply your high standards to the rules of capitalization and punctuation as well---not to mention knowing when to use “it’s” rather than “its.” Sound familiar?
I must call you on your needless criticism of Master Tech’s typo. If the context alone does not persuade you it was merely a typographical error, a cursory read of MT’s comments here, shows MT is a guy whose command of the language is—with all due respects---greater than your own.
You might have proofread your own words before calling the guy on an obvious typo. After all, if you’re going to be persnickety about spelling, I would hope you would apply your high standards to the rules of capitalization and punctuation as well---not to mention knowing when to use “it’s” rather than “its.” Sound familiar?
RE: To: anon2
no, actually this shows how important context is and how easily miscommunication can occur...I did that intentionally, to make a point and even if he or you didn't get it, that doesn't utimately matter, its the ease of his reaction and 'policing' attitude that I am pointing to, as well as his hypocrisy (he sometimes even thinks he's not here for sexual reasons and doesn't have a little head) that is significant...his near completely unconscious awareness of his life here on cc. I can care less if he has a better command of language or a bigger dick...
p.s. we all make tipo errors
p.s. we all make tipo errors
RE: To: anon2
<<he sometimes even thinks he's not here for sexual reasons and doesn't have a little head>>
I never said or implied that. I do come here to enjoy watching naked and masturbating women. But my little head doesn't rule me to the point where I am constantly complaining about hosts.
I never said or implied that. I do come here to enjoy watching naked and masturbating women. But my little head doesn't rule me to the point where I am constantly complaining about hosts.
RE: To: anon2
no your right don't don't complain about host, you defend them almost all the time but you certainly don't seem to have much of a real life with real woman. be honest to yourself you own it to yourself you got issues
RE: To: anon2
Seems to me you're the one with issues, as you seem to have nothing better to do than play armchair psychologist.
RE: To: anon2
Different men have different expectations and levels of satisfaction. Mine is also rather modest. However, I don't have the need to defend every host on every count.
I also understand some guys are here to wank and nothing else. There is a happy medium somewhere.
I also understand some guys are here to wank and nothing else. There is a happy medium somewhere.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
Of course though, since you're either a member or host and they both lie that would mean your post saying they lie is a lie so therefore they tell the truth. But if you tell the truth and you say they lie ... Seems like a little bit of a logical paradox. Norman coordinate.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
I said that people lie in all situations. But I did not say all people lie or that people lie all of the time.
I do believe that all people lie at least a little bit even if it is something that is not a big deal, but I do not believe that all people lie all of the time. I should have said people lie in all TYPES OF situations. The issue of course is to mention those people BY NAME that are lying to the extent that people are really getting hurt financially or emotionally to protect the rest of us.
Hope that this makes you feel better, lol.
I do believe that all people lie at least a little bit even if it is something that is not a big deal, but I do not believe that all people lie all of the time. I should have said people lie in all TYPES OF situations. The issue of course is to mention those people BY NAME that are lying to the extent that people are really getting hurt financially or emotionally to protect the rest of us.
Hope that this makes you feel better, lol.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
Nope that would be the truth. The only truth in the "sea" of lies :P
RE: I've got big news!!!!
I am talking about screen names.... member screen names and host screen names. I am not suggesting real names, addresses, et cetera. But I guess it is good to clarify that.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
And in terms of fantasy, I understand that. But too many hosts try to manipulate members emotions in an effort to get more video chat and even money and gifts sent directly to them. And before someone says that "this is their job", I disagree. I think that you can be honest about your feelings and get people to go into video chat, and also be honest about the need for outside help (sending money) and let the member decide if he wants to help out. And there are also members who manipulate hosts' feelings, perhaps to get free video chat on yahoo or to have a vacation full of sex or whatever else. Doing things like this is simply evil, selfish and cruel, and when people do such things, they should be NAMED!!!
RE: I've got big news!!!!
<<they should be NAMED!!!>>
No one is stopping you. Out all the names you want. But other people may feel differently, and that is their prerogative.
No one is stopping you. Out all the names you want. But other people may feel differently, and that is their prerogative.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
Funny how some people can't resist the temptation to make personal attacks on me.
RE: I've got big news!!!!
You have such a fixation with MasterTech.In your rush to have a shot you missed that my post wasn't to him.Keep your eyes on the ball,not the man simple simon.
How to mail laptop to russia
Checking if anybody has any experience getting a high priced item like a laptop through russian customs and how you went about doing it. I searched different stories regarding usps/dhl/fedex , some good some bad but still clueless as to what is best. Anybody have experience with courier service where they will hand deliver to russia?
RE: How to mail laptop to russia
Travel there urself and give it to her... otherwise, you are a fool.
RE: How to mail laptop to russia
You are making a ready dumb mistake by sending something that expensive to a host. You cannot buy affection and I have found the true test is for the host to not want or even refuse such a gift.............
RE: How to mail laptop to russia
if u can read Russian, u might consider buying a laptop from a Russian computer website and just having it shipped to her address. It wouldn't need to pass through customs then and safer than just sending her the money and hoping she'll use it to buy the laptop.
RE: How to mail laptop to russia
You "get it through" by having the recipient pay the tax when it arrives.
RE: How to mail laptop to russia
you also have to send a power converter too if you send her laptop from states. russia uses 220 volts and american computers use 120 volts just so you know.
RE: How to mail laptop to russia
not true..........all PC manufacturers supply universal power supplies that work on either voltage today..............you do need however to have a plug adapter to fit the target country standard......these are available in any electronics shop
RE: How to mail laptop to russia
Look at the Power Converter most converters will work for both USA and Europe. You only need a plug adaptor... that costs about $3
one-star girl
I finally found a reason to award only 1 star.
Those ones who get you into video with a wonderful tease and then refuse to remove any clothing except in "one to one."
I'd love to award "zero" to really bring her average down.
Those ones who get you into video with a wonderful tease and then refuse to remove any clothing except in "one to one."
I'd love to award "zero" to really bring her average down.
RE: DUHHHHHHHH
Then I suggest YOU read CC host rules as well. 121 is not for 'extras', purely for privacy and you ARE NOT ALLOWED to offer more in 121 than you do in open
RE: DUHHHHHHHH
121 is not to be used to stop you doing your normal show in open but it can be used for extras.like a hamburher with the lot,you get the hamburger with extras that you pay for.
RE: one-star girl
Then they are in contravention of CC rules. Report the host, request a refund and the host will be penalised. 121 is purely that, added privacy and nothing extra, that is not offered in open should be offered.
I pointed this out to a host the other night and they were unaware of this rulling. Once she had checked, she was more than happy to comply.
Ignorance of the rules is no excuse, as before a session is started the hosts confirm they have read and understood what is expected of them.
I pointed this out to a host the other night and they were unaware of this rulling. Once she had checked, she was more than happy to comply.
Ignorance of the rules is no excuse, as before a session is started the hosts confirm they have read and understood what is expected of them.
RE: one-star girl
Exactly - she gets a bad report and a drag to her star average, which many of the hosts think is important.
RE: one-star girl
Its revenge :) I think, he tells only part of histories.
1 star forever:)))))))))))
1 star forever:)))))))))))
RE: one-star girl
ok.Sorry:))
I think, its was not too good, but try forgot and enjoy life
I think, its was not too good, but try forgot and enjoy life
RE: one-star girl
I agree M. But you better keep your fingers limber because 90% of the hosts pull the only in one to one racket. Overhelmingly majority will do nothing in open but the full show in one to one only. Not much of a rule.
RE: one-star girl
Some men does not understand how girls feels ,when she be evaluated.
Whats some men writte in this forum ?
Feeling and estimation.How it can be together?
Host--woman, rather then robot
Whats some men writte in this forum ?
Feeling and estimation.How it can be together?
Host--woman, rather then robot
RE: one-star girl
Its like : "Ooo, baby ! I love youuuuu ! You do anal ? No???!!! oops..sorry... bye"
RE: one-star girl
nooooooo..... No insults are proper or necessary. Just close the video, give 1 star only, and send note to cc help.
If the host is in an adult room and agrees to strip and then when in video says "only in 1to1" then you act, but in a mature way. Insults are stupid and childish.
If the host is in an adult room and agrees to strip and then when in video says "only in 1to1" then you act, but in a mature way. Insults are stupid and childish.
RE: one-star girl
and you think posting & boasting about your rating is not stupid & childish..
RE: one-star girl
Then I sympathise if you have been treated so badly by ignorant members who cannot/will not read and understand categoties. It is all part of the 'game' to see just how far a host will go for a customer, but to be rude and abusive when told the limit, these members should also be named and shamed and reported to CC. It works both ways.
RE: one-star girl
Girls can not to know in first sec who in video.Its shy man or totaly horny, he want speack or actions, he want quickee or loves slow seducing.....Try understand
RE: one-star girl
He said that the host made him promises in chat, then said only in 1-2-1 after he entered open video. That means he spoke to her before entering video and the host should have known his mood and had an idea of which type of man he was. If a host is not clear about what kind of man a member is (shy or very horny) or what kind of show he wants (quickie, slow seduction, etc.) then she should open her mouth and ask the member questions BEFORE she makes any kind of promises about what she will do in a show. Many hosts are always running their mouths off about how this is a business for them and they are only here to make money... well they need to learn 2 important rules of ANY business venture... number 1: know your customer = know what they are looking for and what they're expectations are so that you can provide them the best possible service and gain their return business... number 2: don't promise what you can't deliver and deliver on what you promise. Now the hosts can get angry and bad mouth me if they want, but they know when they do business with a person or company themselves in real life, they too expect the person or business to follow these 2 rules of business and deal with them in the same manner. My advice to them is, rather than get angry and shoot their mouths off about "stupid" members... and possibly lose business because of their mouths... to keep their mouths shut, lose the attitude and open their ears... that way they can learn more about their customers are looking for, provide better service, get more regulars, and have fewer problems with their cutomers in the future.
RE: one-star girl THE WAY I KNOW :)
oh yeah!asking viewers where yah from?whats yah name?how old are you?are crappy questions!!!!i just ask "what do you want"?:P...hugzzz!!!
RE: one-star girl
not always.i usually don't know what i want.it depends on not only me but her also.
CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
According to an email that I got from CC awhile ago:
Instant action girls must get naked right away. Not so shy girls must get naked without too much delay. Little shy girls do not need to get naked, although this may have changed since Glamour was introduced.
Regarding one to one: Not so shy and instant action must get naked in one to one and open chat. LIttle shy girls can refuse to get naked in open chat and get naked only in one to one but must apply this rule to all members (they cannot get naked in open for some members but not others).
All girls must close all other sessions on other sites and other screen names on CC as well if in one to one.
Instant action girls must get naked right away. Not so shy girls must get naked without too much delay. Little shy girls do not need to get naked, although this may have changed since Glamour was introduced.
Regarding one to one: Not so shy and instant action must get naked in one to one and open chat. LIttle shy girls can refuse to get naked in open chat and get naked only in one to one but must apply this rule to all members (they cannot get naked in open for some members but not others).
All girls must close all other sessions on other sites and other screen names on CC as well if in one to one.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
I do not think that I have the email any longer, Alysaa, but you are welcome to contact support if you do not believe me. It could keep you from getting into trouble if a member reports you for improper behavior or if the site catches you on its own.
Why not contact them? Perhaps I made a mistake and you can let us all know, but I think that what I have said is accurate.
Why not contact them? Perhaps I made a mistake and you can let us all know, but I think that what I have said is accurate.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
Yes. All 100 % right ! I agree with you:) And its absolute truth...muahhhh
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
"LIttle shy girls can refuse to get naked in open [video] chat." But in any case not if she promises it in textchat.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
Definitely! A host that promises to do something to lure you into open or one to one but then does not deliver, is definitely looking for trouble from CC and perhaps from an unfriendly posting in the viewer forum too.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
And just to be clear, a little shy girl can refuse to get naked in open or in one to one. It is her choice. But once she starts getting naked in open chat, she cannot pick and choose whom she gets naked for in open. She cannot play favorites. I am not sure if in situations where a little shy host never gets naked in open but does get naked in one to one, if she must always get naked in one to one if asked to do so but this would seem to make sense. But members remember: this is little shy.... You could be in for a 10 minute conversation before the host gets "comfortable" enough (either through knowing you or by getting enough money, lol) to get naked. It is her call... but she must be consistent in what she does and not lie about what she will do, or she is asking for problems.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
CC will judge properly after a report is submitted to them.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
You are a really so think?In any service client-- right . So he is a winner:))
Girl only will have little more problems and will go naked faster next time....Victory !
And all it for the sake of few dollars
Girl only will have little more problems and will go naked faster next time....Victory !
And all it for the sake of few dollars
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
when a dollar means real work, not just faking life, like you.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
Actually, she CAN choose on a case-by-case basis. She ALWAYS has the right to refuse. That's why textchat is paramount.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
why you dont want change category?:)))
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
BINGO,openidea.you hit the nail on the head.it was HIS choice,so once he made HIS choice....tough titties.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
i find it so cold asking what will happen in text chat.takes away the excitement,anticipation,build-up etc.jmo.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
Me. too. But if you don't ask then you may or may not get nudity. Many guys don't care so much exactly what the host does. For those that care, they must ask.
RE: CC rules (at least before glamour came to be)
that is life,taking chances some you win some you lose.enjoy the rush
At last some honesty
Had a chat with a host last night. Honest girl. We have spoken in the past. Told me that her goal is to always have 8-10 members who are in love with her. Not just regulars but regulars with an emotional attachment. She keeps note so she does not mess up. She says they represent almost half of her income and average 100-200 dollar a week in video fees. She picks likely candidates from regulars and works them slowly. Letting herself be seduced. Weaving an emotional web. Saying whatever the target wants to hear. Not to hurt them. Not to deceive them. Just to get their money. Its a business and as she says she is good at it. Refreshing to hear. Never forget all you are is a credit card no matter what you are told.
RE: At last some honesty
As the candid conversation was one which provided very valuable insight for some, I think it would be a travesty to reveal the host's name. As the writer stated, "it is a business". The host understands this and the clients should also. Her admission would indicate she is essentially a good person and doing a good job in a tough and competive enviorment. Some seems to forget, this site is generally not a site designed for meeting people and forming relationships. While it may happen sometimes, It's primarily an entertainment and comfort venue. But, as with life in the real world, one man's comfort is perhaps another's misery..And the world continues to revolve...
RE: At last some honesty
This really annoys me - the "viewers should realise it's a business" thing. The fact is, these men don't realise that, and that's why the host is successful with this approach! It's deceit and trickery based on the most meaningful human emotions and is unnaceptable if you have even a grain of humanity in your soul.
Of course, not every host is like this, but it is very hard to tell which hosts are genuine and which are not. But I simply cannot believe the lengths that some girls go to. There are just no limits to what they will tell you to try to make you believe them...they have no ethics about this at all. I've been taken in for a while before....and I couldn't believe the crap she told me when I exposed her. These girls have an answer ready for everything!
The really artful girl will try to create a false personality and image that will make you think that she could never be deceitful - she's far too "genuine", "open", "sweet" and "nice".
Being a cam-girl who works for a studio boss is a hard thing to do. You think the boss doesn't pressure them and tell them what they have to do to make the money? The whole thing is an act to reel in as much cash as possible. You might find some genuine girls here who work from home, but nine times out of ten, the studio girls are all about money and nothing else.
My advice is don't look here for the love of your life. It's a terrible place to look. NEVER send money AND if a girl likes you, she won't keep expecting you to pay her to talk to her! Internet cafes are dirt cheap and it's no hassle for a girl who really likes you to drop into one and send you an e-mail or talk on yahoo.
Look for love elsewhere. If you think you've found it here, stop paying - tell her you need your money for when the two of you will be together but you want to keep talking on yahoo. See what happens then. You'll probably find the "love" dries up pretty quick.
Of course, not every host is like this, but it is very hard to tell which hosts are genuine and which are not. But I simply cannot believe the lengths that some girls go to. There are just no limits to what they will tell you to try to make you believe them...they have no ethics about this at all. I've been taken in for a while before....and I couldn't believe the crap she told me when I exposed her. These girls have an answer ready for everything!
The really artful girl will try to create a false personality and image that will make you think that she could never be deceitful - she's far too "genuine", "open", "sweet" and "nice".
Being a cam-girl who works for a studio boss is a hard thing to do. You think the boss doesn't pressure them and tell them what they have to do to make the money? The whole thing is an act to reel in as much cash as possible. You might find some genuine girls here who work from home, but nine times out of ten, the studio girls are all about money and nothing else.
My advice is don't look here for the love of your life. It's a terrible place to look. NEVER send money AND if a girl likes you, she won't keep expecting you to pay her to talk to her! Internet cafes are dirt cheap and it's no hassle for a girl who really likes you to drop into one and send you an e-mail or talk on yahoo.
Look for love elsewhere. If you think you've found it here, stop paying - tell her you need your money for when the two of you will be together but you want to keep talking on yahoo. See what happens then. You'll probably find the "love" dries up pretty quick.
RE: At last some honesty
It seems Initially you are sickened over the comment " viewers should be aware", to which you respond by announcing "these men don't realise that "
Then comes the diatribe of advice.
I believe "viewers should be aware" is a much shorter version , and certainly less confrontational, than your legnthy admonishment to hosts and the attempt to educate viewers in matters you have previously decided they are incabable of understanding.
Oh yes, the "Of course, not every host is like this, but it is very hard to tell which hosts are genuine and which are not", is going to assist the incapabe, according to you, viewer in what way?
Then comes the diatribe of advice.
I believe "viewers should be aware" is a much shorter version , and certainly less confrontational, than your legnthy admonishment to hosts and the attempt to educate viewers in matters you have previously decided they are incabable of understanding.
Oh yes, the "Of course, not every host is like this, but it is very hard to tell which hosts are genuine and which are not", is going to assist the incapabe, according to you, viewer in what way?
RE: At last some honesty
The issue is whether the host is deliberately exploiting the viewer's ignorance. If they were not doing this, their tactics wouldn't work.
I'm annoyed by the attitude "viewers should be aware" in the sense "they should know better". Not the argument "Viewers should be MADE aware".
Hope that clears things up!
I'm annoyed by the attitude "viewers should be aware" in the sense "they should know better". Not the argument "Viewers should be MADE aware".
Hope that clears things up!
RE: At last some honesty
Perhaps it is what you meant to say, but it is certainly not what you did say. Your post was to a sub post and directed to the author in re one very small comment. From this excerpt , you elected to admonish the author and proceed to chastise, criticize and lecture others , whom you had previously labeled as those whom "just don't realize" . Perhaps you might choose more wisely your choice of words or to which post you reply rather than to back track with some extremely lame explanation, and after having raked someone over the coals. Best Wishes .
RE: At last some honesty
If I misunderstood the original post I'm sorry - not to you - but to the original poster. I'm not backtracking - I'm just trying to satisfy you with your little semantics party. Next time I won't bother though...
Anyway, now you've convinced yourself that you're the intellectual champion, go and ask your mom to make you some hot chocolate and then you can go to bed.
Anyway, now you've convinced yourself that you're the intellectual champion, go and ask your mom to make you some hot chocolate and then you can go to bed.
RE: At last some honesty
awww, Thank you. That was certainly more of an admission than I expected. Obviously you have a nice side as well. BTW, The hot chocolate was delicious. Mom says hello.
RE: At last some honesty
I must admit to having followed the debate , regarding my post, and had to wonder whom would be first to launch an attack unrelated to the post. I actually made a bet with a friend over the issue. I won't divuldge the winner, but we were certainly in agreement it was inevitable at some point . Your initail posting, while indeed very well articulated and pointed in it's content , did seem to misunderatand my post. With that in mind, the apology, while completely unnecessary, is appreciated and accepted. Still, I have no idea why your opponent choose to champion the post so fervently. Obviously it struck a nerve. Perhaps we should ask him. On the lighter side, I would highly recommend you both for the CC debating team., if they decide to have one. Cheers
RE: At last some honesty
I forgot to add. Don't fall for the "if you were really serious about me, you would be happy paying to talk to me" line. It's just WAY too obvious!
RE: At last some honesty
I'm sure she told u that thinking ur honest and not going to blab to the whole community. Maybe she tell u that so u suddenly think ur more special than the 8-10 suckers but u are really sucker 11 lol
"TigerNow"
He fictionalizes a truth here. It is a relatively common scam on marriage sites and with marriage agencies.
A girl (or someone with some photos of a hot girl) registers and quickly forms a bond with a guy. Marriage is frequnetly agreed to and paperwork is started. The girl convinces the guy to send her some money to pay for fees and to keep her going spo she can quit the horrible factory job and maybe finish her education. The fiancee visa takes a year or so anyway and if she stalls and provides incomplete forms it takes longer and longer. In the meantime the allowance continues with little added expenses that pop up. If she is a good scammer she can keep it going for quite a while until the guy gets disgusted and stops.
Multiply that by 10 or 12 guys and multiply it by 6 or so girls (or girls' names) and you have quite a handsome scheme. It's not likely to happen like that on a chat site like cc because the demands of time to keep it going would be difficult.
That said, it is true that some hosts keep a file handy that has whatever you have told her listed. One host I hadn't talked to in 6 months remembered my name, city, job and more. Smart girl and the sign of a pro video girl.
A girl (or someone with some photos of a hot girl) registers and quickly forms a bond with a guy. Marriage is frequnetly agreed to and paperwork is started. The girl convinces the guy to send her some money to pay for fees and to keep her going spo she can quit the horrible factory job and maybe finish her education. The fiancee visa takes a year or so anyway and if she stalls and provides incomplete forms it takes longer and longer. In the meantime the allowance continues with little added expenses that pop up. If she is a good scammer she can keep it going for quite a while until the guy gets disgusted and stops.
Multiply that by 10 or 12 guys and multiply it by 6 or so girls (or girls' names) and you have quite a handsome scheme. It's not likely to happen like that on a chat site like cc because the demands of time to keep it going would be difficult.
That said, it is true that some hosts keep a file handy that has whatever you have told her listed. One host I hadn't talked to in 6 months remembered my name, city, job and more. Smart girl and the sign of a pro video girl.
RE: At last some honesty
your simplistic generalisation is incorrect.i have experience that shows different.so you betrayed her confidence so you could make an outlandish,false statement.nice chap you are.
RE: At last some honesty
I have no intention of revealing her name. I thought I would share that some vocalized what we all know is true but what we sometimes delude outselves into not believing. Bottom line if you dropped dead tomorrow your favorite host would not shed a tear but would morrn the loss of income and be looking for a replacement immediately. I enjoyed hearing it. Sobering.
RE: At last some honesty
again you generalise over situations you know absolutely nothing about.speak for yourself not everyone.
RE: At last some honesty
With that kind of honest girl we dont need dishonest ones . In the opposite i knew a "very dishonest girl" that when a viewer started to say to her i love you , she always said , stop , you are nice to me , i try my show be the best for you , i want you to feel great , but this is my job and you dont have exclusivity. Curious ! she is getting a lot of videos and high incomes , only quit her room those who like to be cheated with feelings. I prefer that kind of "dishonest" girl .
RE: At last some honesty
Why do you care?
give me a break,
typical host using, trying to care, sorryyyy!!!!!!!!
give me a break,
typical host using, trying to care, sorryyyy!!!!!!!!
RE: At last some honesty
..."trying to care"...
No. I am not interested in typical men...
No. I am not interested in typical men...
RE: At last some honesty
I want to be you friend, you ok??
please visit me
im lonely
need pvt
huh
please visit me
im lonely
need pvt
huh
RE: At last some honesty
Ohhh im only looking for business
oohhhh im sorry, come to pvt and pay please, i like you.
really
oohhhh im sorry, come to pvt and pay please, i like you.
really
RE: At last some honesty
when are u guys going to realise its all a big con ,After a while it just gets boring the number of decent girls on here u can count on one hand
damn wasted
how it happens that one stops feeling emotions, his own feelings which used to be so sharp once, but now became indifferent. nonetheless one cries watching a movie thinks of those weird relations and unfair lifelines..but one`s personal ties seem not that exciting and fascinating anymore...one knows a way with people, guesses their thoughts,wishes even,...easily getting along with every second man , one makes no difference between them,...they tend to be so common among themselves, arousing no interest ...and the moment comes at last: since now on One needs a one who makes the ground disappear under the feet, makes so nicely tired but still curious, exhauseted but hungry for more, experienced but pure ... hm,...seems like one has been dreaming this early morning again...and the very dream said: no way, better be lazy for all this
...ps...not that i need any view points ....but sometimes .... well..u can be nice, guys...
...ps...not that i need any view points ....but sometimes .... well..u can be nice, guys...
RE: damn wasted
aaand....the way is supposed to be found by every person by his own....although so alike, but quite different ....go your own way, call it another lonely day....and f***n friends wherever ya drop ur glance, and ya the more chicky ( if thats the word) at all those parties.......yaaa....this is all fun
Quagmire Quotes
Quagmire: Giggity, giggity, giggity, giggity!
Quagmire: Hey Peter, uhh you have a card for if you transfered V.D. to somebody.
Peter: Uhh lets see here...uhh yep, "Sorry I accidentally gave you V.D."
Quagmire: Huh, that's all you have is accidental huh? All right I'll take it.
Quagmire: You must be this beautiful to ride the Quagmire.
Quagmire: Oh, Lois, I'd do everything to you.
Lois: What?
Quagmire: I'd do anything for you.
Quagmire on a date with the Bachelorette, in his mother's trailer. A mangy cat whines.
Quagmire's mom: (shouting off-screen): Glenn, would you feed mittens?
Quagmire: Mittens has food in his bowl!
Quagmires' mom: That's old food!
(cat meows)
Quagmire: Mittens, shut up! Mittens shut up!
Quagmire's Mom: Don't you talk to Mittens that way. Mittens is a member of this family.
Quagmire: Mom if you want this three-way to happen, you're gonna have to change your tone.
(Quagmire to girl)
Quagmire: You must be a parking ticket, cuz you got fine written all over you.
Glen Quagmire: Hi, Meg. Eighteen yet?
Meg Griffin: No.
Glen Quagmire: Awww right.
Social Worker Quagmire just slept with: Glen honey, I have a question for you. What do you do for a living?
Quagmire: I have a question for you too. Why are you still here?
Quagmire: Hey Peter, uhh you have a card for if you transfered V.D. to somebody.
Peter: Uhh lets see here...uhh yep, "Sorry I accidentally gave you V.D."
Quagmire: Huh, that's all you have is accidental huh? All right I'll take it.
Quagmire: You must be this beautiful to ride the Quagmire.
Quagmire: Oh, Lois, I'd do everything to you.
Lois: What?
Quagmire: I'd do anything for you.
Quagmire on a date with the Bachelorette, in his mother's trailer. A mangy cat whines.
Quagmire's mom: (shouting off-screen): Glenn, would you feed mittens?
Quagmire: Mittens has food in his bowl!
Quagmires' mom: That's old food!
(cat meows)
Quagmire: Mittens, shut up! Mittens shut up!
Quagmire's Mom: Don't you talk to Mittens that way. Mittens is a member of this family.
Quagmire: Mom if you want this three-way to happen, you're gonna have to change your tone.
(Quagmire to girl)
Quagmire: You must be a parking ticket, cuz you got fine written all over you.
Glen Quagmire: Hi, Meg. Eighteen yet?
Meg Griffin: No.
Glen Quagmire: Awww right.
Social Worker Quagmire just slept with: Glen honey, I have a question for you. What do you do for a living?
Quagmire: I have a question for you too. Why are you still here?
RE: Family Guy
The funniest episode of Family Guy I ever saw was about the prostate exam. Hilarious! A must see for sure.
RE: Family Guy
My favorite opening bit was where Peter announces to the family the show was canceled to make room for Fox's other fine programs, he then lists about 10-20 shows on Fox that were canceled after (or during) their first season and ends with, "Of course if all those shows get canceled then we still have a chance."
RE: Family Guy
Oddly enough as I was typing my last response Family Guy was coming on and it was the prostate exam episode.
RE: Before you criticise anyone.....
Good luck and comfortable shoes. Never wear what belongs to others.
Enough?
Enough?
RE: Before you criticise anyone.....
But remember the person who owned the shoes may have had a severe case of athletes foot or planters warts... so in the end the joke could still be on you. ;)
RE: Question
PIctures can be deceiving. I have often been surprised that some girls that look small here actualy have decent sized boobs. Of course it is also a question or proportion. A tiny girl could have b cup boobs and on her they look massive. On the other hand a bigger woman might be carrying extra weight and looks busty but she is actually small breasted. Plus some hosts here wear the padded push up bras to enhance themselves. After all the object is to get the member into a video. All is fair in love and war.
RE: Question
Perhaps the question is a starting point. Some men might ask the question as a prelude to the "will you let me see them" question. :)
RE: Question
It was not a judgement. Only an opinion. I wouldn't know as I don't do nude. Only chat. :)
RE: Question
I can sense trouble coming if I respond to this in depth so I will simply say, there is only one girl I have seen nude on CC. But, maybe you're right, some might enjoy seeing me...Hummm, how much should I charge? :)
My boring story
Don't read if you are not interested in stupidity and romantic stories, i just need to get this off my chest :(
I went to Russia to meet a girl i got to know here. We know each other for over 2 years. Things were great, but we didn\'t get to connect too much, since we spent too little time together (just a few days).
So, after i left her city and was elsewhere in Russia, i found out she now was with another guy from here. Doing what? Who knows, and i don\'t really want to know. Maybe just touring the guy around (HA!). She didn\'t tell me anything. She would not even answer e-mails, sms... she was busy \"attending\" this guy.
I just can\'t handle to think she\'s hanging around with a guy who is probably 20 years older than her, and, quite possibly, like most guys, just wants sex with her. Even if she doesn\'t have sex or whatever with the guy, it makes me sick that she hides it from me, because it means she has some interest in the guy (be it romantic or monetary).
To say the least, i felt entirely betrayed, used, stupid, and whatnot. I feel bad for myself, yeah. But i feel also bad for her. She could have found a guy who was nicer, better looking, richer, etc, etc... but not a single guy who loves her as much as i do (...did...).
I should have known better. Now i don\'t quite know what i will do. Second chance for her? Most unlikely; Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me
I think i\'ll just tell her goodbye as soon as i get to see her and explain my reasons...
p.s. Being young and romantic sucks.
I went to Russia to meet a girl i got to know here. We know each other for over 2 years. Things were great, but we didn\'t get to connect too much, since we spent too little time together (just a few days).
So, after i left her city and was elsewhere in Russia, i found out she now was with another guy from here. Doing what? Who knows, and i don\'t really want to know. Maybe just touring the guy around (HA!). She didn\'t tell me anything. She would not even answer e-mails, sms... she was busy \"attending\" this guy.
I just can\'t handle to think she\'s hanging around with a guy who is probably 20 years older than her, and, quite possibly, like most guys, just wants sex with her. Even if she doesn\'t have sex or whatever with the guy, it makes me sick that she hides it from me, because it means she has some interest in the guy (be it romantic or monetary).
To say the least, i felt entirely betrayed, used, stupid, and whatnot. I feel bad for myself, yeah. But i feel also bad for her. She could have found a guy who was nicer, better looking, richer, etc, etc... but not a single guy who loves her as much as i do (...did...).
I should have known better. Now i don\'t quite know what i will do. Second chance for her? Most unlikely; Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me
I think i\'ll just tell her goodbye as soon as i get to see her and explain my reasons...
p.s. Being young and romantic sucks.
RE: My boring story
I am sure you have more information than you are giving here but from what you posted it seems possible that you are taking 2 + 2 and making about 10.
You do not say anything to indicate she made any actual commitment to you beyond that of friendship, that she wished to have a more serious relationship with you. Unless she did this you have no reason to feel any sense of betrayal.
How do you know that the guy is much older than her? He may be a CC member of similar age to yourself or just a few years older.
Even if he is older than her it does not necessarily follow that his only interest in her is sex or hers in him is monetary. There may be a genuine friendship. I write as an older guy who has met hosts with no intention of having sex but just enjoying the company of a young woman who I had got to know through CC.
I agree it would have been better if she had told you but she may not have done precisely because she thought you would react in the way you have.
Of course it is entirely possible that things are exactly as you describe in your post but unless you have a lot more evidence of this do not jump to conclusions.
You do not say anything to indicate she made any actual commitment to you beyond that of friendship, that she wished to have a more serious relationship with you. Unless she did this you have no reason to feel any sense of betrayal.
How do you know that the guy is much older than her? He may be a CC member of similar age to yourself or just a few years older.
Even if he is older than her it does not necessarily follow that his only interest in her is sex or hers in him is monetary. There may be a genuine friendship. I write as an older guy who has met hosts with no intention of having sex but just enjoying the company of a young woman who I had got to know through CC.
I agree it would have been better if she had told you but she may not have done precisely because she thought you would react in the way you have.
Of course it is entirely possible that things are exactly as you describe in your post but unless you have a lot more evidence of this do not jump to conclusions.
RE: My boring story
Don't beat yourself up.
You love and or care about someone and feel jealous.
We all (guys and gals) go through this at one time or another.
Remember what does not kill you makes you stronger....
and wiser too!
You have strong feelings now but they will change.
The freedom is yours to choose what you want to do!
There are many available women out there. If your
young don't be in too much of a rush to make a commitment.
Look into dating sites for women who are looking for the same
things you are.
Most importantly for now.
If you have a friendship with this chathost don't ruin it!
Everyone has the freedom to make their own choices.
No one can force anyone to think or do what they don't want to do.
You had an enjoyable time in Russia?
And enjoyed meeting this chathost?
Focus on the enjoyable experiences you had!
People will change their minds and something like this
teaches you to accept this.
If she is friendly to you, be friends with her still.
In life we need don't need more hurt feelings and enemies!
Never let anyone walk over you though!
Cheer up! :)
You love and or care about someone and feel jealous.
We all (guys and gals) go through this at one time or another.
Remember what does not kill you makes you stronger....
and wiser too!
You have strong feelings now but they will change.
The freedom is yours to choose what you want to do!
There are many available women out there. If your
young don't be in too much of a rush to make a commitment.
Look into dating sites for women who are looking for the same
things you are.
Most importantly for now.
If you have a friendship with this chathost don't ruin it!
Everyone has the freedom to make their own choices.
No one can force anyone to think or do what they don't want to do.
You had an enjoyable time in Russia?
And enjoyed meeting this chathost?
Focus on the enjoyable experiences you had!
People will change their minds and something like this
teaches you to accept this.
If she is friendly to you, be friends with her still.
In life we need don't need more hurt feelings and enemies!
Never let anyone walk over you though!
Cheer up! :)
RE: My boring story
Why do people post these sad sack stories and don't ever mention the persons nick or anything. It's useless. No help to anyone.
RE: My boring story
In this case, he is admitting his stupidity in the situation and he doesn't accuse her of a scam or direct lies, only the fact that she didn't provide him with a list of her male friends and their visiting schedules.
She didn't really do anything wrong so why name her?
It seems that he admits that his trip was not to visit her exclusively and, unless he was part of a tour-group, it is likely he was visiting other chathost girls. I can relate to this.
He was using this girl as his primary romantic target with a couple back-ups he felt obligated to visit as well. This is wise, but also takes a chance if the cat gets out of the bag. How does he explain being in Russia when he leaves the primary girl to continue his journey?
What credible reason can he give? So, since she has a brain she knows he visits other girls, giving her upspoken "permission" to have other male guests.
In my case, I am visiting one of these countries soon and hope to meet a particular girl with whom I have had quite a hot little thing going on. I *wish* I could spend all my time there with her, as if the relationship takes the expected next step he could be on the way to quite a life-journey together.
But I have a number of charity sites I must visit that are spread over her whole country, as well as a wedding to attend so I *CAN'T* spend all my time with her.
Hint, hint: If you are American and itemize your taxes a trip such as mine which is essentially an inspection trip, is tax-deductible, giving an effective 20% or 30% discount to the whole thing. It's done by some of the guys who can justify it as a "business trip."
She didn't really do anything wrong so why name her?
It seems that he admits that his trip was not to visit her exclusively and, unless he was part of a tour-group, it is likely he was visiting other chathost girls. I can relate to this.
He was using this girl as his primary romantic target with a couple back-ups he felt obligated to visit as well. This is wise, but also takes a chance if the cat gets out of the bag. How does he explain being in Russia when he leaves the primary girl to continue his journey?
What credible reason can he give? So, since she has a brain she knows he visits other girls, giving her upspoken "permission" to have other male guests.
In my case, I am visiting one of these countries soon and hope to meet a particular girl with whom I have had quite a hot little thing going on. I *wish* I could spend all my time there with her, as if the relationship takes the expected next step he could be on the way to quite a life-journey together.
But I have a number of charity sites I must visit that are spread over her whole country, as well as a wedding to attend so I *CAN'T* spend all my time with her.
Hint, hint: If you are American and itemize your taxes a trip such as mine which is essentially an inspection trip, is tax-deductible, giving an effective 20% or 30% discount to the whole thing. It's done by some of the guys who can justify it as a "business trip."
RE: My boring story
You said "p.s. Being young and romantic sucks". Just being old sucks, don't even need romantic in the mix!
RE: My boring story
I am pleased that the fools are not beating you to death.
I have visited two Russian women from CC with high hopes. I have seen the second one twice and who knows if I can keep my jealous side under control this could be the real thing. I am crazy about this woman but I need to be realistic.
Relationships are relationship no matter if they are in 100 meters/feet away or they are several thousand kilometers/miles away. Pain of rejection from relationships is never pleasant.
I am learning myself about these long distance relationship situations and I may suggest the following advise.
1 Discuss completely your expectations about your meeting. Do not leave this to be a guessing game. False expectations are sure to create problems. There must be honestly from both sides from start to finish, or there is no hope for success. Be yourself online as you will be in person, don’t be an actor selling something you can’t provide.
2 No matter how badly you want to help your woman, reframe from trying to buy her love. She lived most of her life without your help and she will be fine until she is your woman in real life.
Remember, these are like first dates. Just because you know each other for months online does not make a woman your exclusive wife and hence the reason I say to be careful helping with financially. I speak from experience, having made every mistake possible.
I agree with the suggestion of not destroying what you might have unintentionally, you might loose either way, allow it to happen for being the better man and not the fool.
Also keep in mind; if you are looking for a serious relationship, then a long distance relationship only makes sense if there is some hope you will ultimately be together. This needs to be part of your expectations when you both talk.
I wish you luck.
I have visited two Russian women from CC with high hopes. I have seen the second one twice and who knows if I can keep my jealous side under control this could be the real thing. I am crazy about this woman but I need to be realistic.
Relationships are relationship no matter if they are in 100 meters/feet away or they are several thousand kilometers/miles away. Pain of rejection from relationships is never pleasant.
I am learning myself about these long distance relationship situations and I may suggest the following advise.
1 Discuss completely your expectations about your meeting. Do not leave this to be a guessing game. False expectations are sure to create problems. There must be honestly from both sides from start to finish, or there is no hope for success. Be yourself online as you will be in person, don’t be an actor selling something you can’t provide.
2 No matter how badly you want to help your woman, reframe from trying to buy her love. She lived most of her life without your help and she will be fine until she is your woman in real life.
Remember, these are like first dates. Just because you know each other for months online does not make a woman your exclusive wife and hence the reason I say to be careful helping with financially. I speak from experience, having made every mistake possible.
I agree with the suggestion of not destroying what you might have unintentionally, you might loose either way, allow it to happen for being the better man and not the fool.
Also keep in mind; if you are looking for a serious relationship, then a long distance relationship only makes sense if there is some hope you will ultimately be together. This needs to be part of your expectations when you both talk.
I wish you luck.
RE: My boring story
Thanks for the constructive replies, some of them made me think things over.
I did not visit any other girls while in Russia. Believe it or not, i have not seen any other hosts for years. I was in other cities because i always wanted to go to Russia, girl or not.
I know maybe i'm being stupid and over-reacting... If she met with a guy from here, in a friendship kind of way, i would not mind. I'd just let that go untroubled. It's the fact that she is doing it behind my back, thinking i would not get to know about it... Either she thinks i'm too stupid to find out, doesn't care, or is too worried to tell me about it.
About the age thing... sorry, i got carried away. It's just that i don't realize the girl i like with a guy who is the age of my father. Maybe the same way some of you would react if you saw the woman you like with someone the age of your son/nephew, whatever.
I think i will allow myself a little time get my cool back. Then talk to her 100% honestly, and being straightforward. After all, i only know some facts, and i'm assuming the other part. I could be entirely wrong, or i could be right, but there is no need to rush and ruin a relationship that has lasted for years.
I did not visit any other girls while in Russia. Believe it or not, i have not seen any other hosts for years. I was in other cities because i always wanted to go to Russia, girl or not.
I know maybe i'm being stupid and over-reacting... If she met with a guy from here, in a friendship kind of way, i would not mind. I'd just let that go untroubled. It's the fact that she is doing it behind my back, thinking i would not get to know about it... Either she thinks i'm too stupid to find out, doesn't care, or is too worried to tell me about it.
About the age thing... sorry, i got carried away. It's just that i don't realize the girl i like with a guy who is the age of my father. Maybe the same way some of you would react if you saw the woman you like with someone the age of your son/nephew, whatever.
I think i will allow myself a little time get my cool back. Then talk to her 100% honestly, and being straightforward. After all, i only know some facts, and i'm assuming the other part. I could be entirely wrong, or i could be right, but there is no need to rush and ruin a relationship that has lasted for years.
RE: My boring story
"It's the fact that she is doing it behind my back, thinking i would not get to know about it... Either she thinks i'm too stupid to find out, doesn't care, or is too worried to tell me about it. "
Unless both of you have agreed to an exclusive relationship she may consider it to be none of your business.
Unless you have studied the historical development of social customs and mores that includes a concentration on those of her particular city and social circle you have no reason to judge her by your standards.
"I think i will allow myself a little time get my cool back. Then talk to her 100% honestly, and being straightforward."
This is wise, but you should exclude all reference to other guys, Russian or foreign, except as hypothetical examples. You may be presuming far too much. Europeans often have quite a different perspective on acceptable relationship behavior.
Talk about yourself only and your feelings and emotions and gently prod her for her views and plans and feelings about relationships and what she sees in her future.
Explore, don't challenge.
Unless both of you have agreed to an exclusive relationship she may consider it to be none of your business.
Unless you have studied the historical development of social customs and mores that includes a concentration on those of her particular city and social circle you have no reason to judge her by your standards.
"I think i will allow myself a little time get my cool back. Then talk to her 100% honestly, and being straightforward."
This is wise, but you should exclude all reference to other guys, Russian or foreign, except as hypothetical examples. You may be presuming far too much. Europeans often have quite a different perspective on acceptable relationship behavior.
Talk about yourself only and your feelings and emotions and gently prod her for her views and plans and feelings about relationships and what she sees in her future.
Explore, don't challenge.
RE: My boring story
CC... it's no different to real life.
Women here as in life are to get a man who will PAY for their lifestyle. Some chathosts are damn right liars will make you feel like a king but in truth its just about having your money.
Many say they are single but have lovers. That is not unique to CC its the same in life as whole. Some want the fantasy of meeting a rich foriegner and starting a new better life. But think about it - women here are incredibly expensive and high maintenance. You want to pay the rates all your life to this woman !
At the end of the day be objective: you are here to pay them to entertain you. (FACT) whether that is in CC or in real. (such as restaurant meals / flowers / clothes / holidays etc)
If relationship is giving too much negative emotion then its time to leave her. Dont waste your life trying to make her change - she wont.
Think about it - if you are in a restaurant and the service is bad - do you stay??
Women here as in life are to get a man who will PAY for their lifestyle. Some chathosts are damn right liars will make you feel like a king but in truth its just about having your money.
Many say they are single but have lovers. That is not unique to CC its the same in life as whole. Some want the fantasy of meeting a rich foriegner and starting a new better life. But think about it - women here are incredibly expensive and high maintenance. You want to pay the rates all your life to this woman !
At the end of the day be objective: you are here to pay them to entertain you. (FACT) whether that is in CC or in real. (such as restaurant meals / flowers / clothes / holidays etc)
If relationship is giving too much negative emotion then its time to leave her. Dont waste your life trying to make her change - she wont.
Think about it - if you are in a restaurant and the service is bad - do you stay??
Quest for the squirters
I have been here for quite some time and have waisted some time with some ladies that say that they are squirters, and find out that I can squirt more out of my big toe than they can out of their p***. This has brought me to the forum for any ladies to please cum forward and show me and for any viewers that have had the same problem or know of a lady that can to let me know so that I can visit her site.
RE: Quest for the squirters
LMFAO....if that really came from inside her she needs to see a doctor as soon as possible!
RE: Quest for the squirters
its all about showmanship! make it look real, make it look authenic, make it look good! It is not really the squirt that im looking for, its more of the creamy substance that interest me more.
RE: Quest for the squirters
You really don't get it do you. "Make it look authentic" you say...well authenticity would be it not happening at all
Chathost rules
Can somebody direct me to the rules for hosts in Adult categories. I have been told that in certain categories chathosts are obligated to get naked if asked politely and in other categories they are not allowed to. All i have been able to find are desciptions for non-adult categories. Heck , I don't even know if "glamor" is adult or non-adult.
RE: Chathost rules
tThank you for the reply...Is this explained somewhere on the site? If so, where?
RE: Chathost rules
Glamour is not Non-Adult. CC host rules state "At this moment Glamour does not fit into the non-adult category even though the activity is non-adult in nature"
Currently it seems to be in a category by itself between full adult and non-adult. I feel it is what CC intended littleshy to be when they first introduced it.
Currently it seems to be in a category by itself between full adult and non-adult. I feel it is what CC intended littleshy to be when they first introduced it.
RE: Chathost rules
glamour is in a category all by itself in an area between non-adult and adult.
non-adult is where she wears to much clothes.lol but glamour is a little different. still non sexual nature but may include underwear, swimsuit or topless. just remember no full nudity and close up of intimate areas.
non-adult is where she wears to much clothes.lol but glamour is a little different. still non sexual nature but may include underwear, swimsuit or topless. just remember no full nudity and close up of intimate areas.
RE: Chathost rules
*ahem* non sexual activity in Glamour? heehee I am a naughty Glamour girl then LOL
RE: Chathost rules
Camcontacts does advise viewers to ask in free chat what a host will or will not do in paid videochat. That is in ALL adult categories. That way if the host does not make good on her promise in video, you can contact camcontacts for a refund.
RE: LOL....wtf???
maybe for the same reason that the ladies laugh when i say that i'm naked. LOL
RE: LOL....wtf???
Most hosts. Virtually all hosts pretend to be horny and most members treat the statement "I'm horny" the same way as they would..."Come to my video so I can make money". Nobody believes you are horny. If you are truly get horny on CC then either seek professional help or spend more time with your bf. I only met a few hosts in 5 years that I can say were truly horny. If you are like them let me know your name baby.
RE: LOL....wtf???
secunded that , personally im "lol" when a host say to me im horny and im sorry if its real but its just so classical that its making me laugh.. now if one is honest well im sorry to say that ..
regards
syl
regards
syl
RE: LOL....wtf???
It's true! She can also fold her p@#!y to look like a Terradactyl when she masturbates too! It's awesome!!!!!!!!!! lol
Master i Margarita
I just saw Master i Margarita russian production. I must say I was surprised how good it was. I am not a fan of russian movies, only because I don't have easy acces to them but will try to find more. Any recommandations please, except Tarkovski?
P.S. Anyone knows the name of TV series where Basilashvili played a german officer double agent or something like that?
P.S. Anyone knows the name of TV series where Basilashvili played a german officer double agent or something like that?
RE: Master i Margarita
I liked a Vladimir Menshov film called Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears, and would recommend it.
RE: Master i Margarita
Femina, I started to read Bulgakov's novel, but put it down after about 60 pages. He struck me as a poor man's Dostoyevsky. My old girlfriend--who gave me the Bulgakov novel--said the novel was a bit slow going and only half-funny, but insisted I should pick it up again because the action becomes more interesting after the first 60 pages. Perhaps it does, but I have yet to pick up the novel again. Perhaps a film version will motive me to finish the novel!
As for other Russian films, there are the classic older films of Eisenstein. A favorite of mine is "Alexander Nevsky" with a wonderful music score by Prokoviev.
There is also a wonderful film, a Russian/Japanese co-production, directed by Kurosawa called " Durzu Usala" (sp?)
As for other Russian films, there are the classic older films of Eisenstein. A favorite of mine is "Alexander Nevsky" with a wonderful music score by Prokoviev.
There is also a wonderful film, a Russian/Japanese co-production, directed by Kurosawa called " Durzu Usala" (sp?)
RE: Master i Margarita
Hmm get an Audio Book
If I have no time to read a big book I get Audio version of it.:)
If I have no time to read a big book I get Audio version of it.:)
RE: Master i Margarita
I remember a year or so ago, a Russian lady friend of mine, who's opinion I value highly, recommended a movie called "Barber of Siberia" (Sibirskiy Tsiryulnik, 1998) to me. The renowned Russian director, Nikita Mihalkov, directed it. I looked it up and it had received some really good reviews from the critics, but I never got around to buying it. Unfortunately, I coudn't find it available for rent where I live (Atlanta) or I would have already seen it. As I recall, it was available in both the English and the Russian audio versions, with subtitles, but I might be mistaken about that. Perhaps some of the Russian ladies here will enlighten us further :-)
RE: Master i Margarita
Thank you gent and Celena. I guess the only way to get them is internet?
RE: Master i Margarita
I don't know any Russian movies, but I've been told several times that I look like a Russian actor named Grigoriy Antipenko.
Yet another Bday with a difference
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO M................Y COCK
As its one year ago that the foreskin got pulled back, and low and behold a head popped out to greet the wonderous world of sex, and the poor little thing got sick on his first outting as well :( Ohhhhh the mess of it, it was everywhere, the wall, the ceiling, the monitor. But i will say one thing he had fun :D
As its one year ago that the foreskin got pulled back, and low and behold a head popped out to greet the wonderous world of sex, and the poor little thing got sick on his first outting as well :( Ohhhhh the mess of it, it was everywhere, the wall, the ceiling, the monitor. But i will say one thing he had fun :D
RE: may be it is magic?
That guy could make a fortune if he could bottle that stuff. Trust me, 100% of older men fantisize about getting it on with a girl half their age.
RE: may be it is magic?
It is proof that REAL PASSION is between the ears, not between the legs.
RE: may be it is magic?
Agree =D
to the detective:
yes. you think it`s too hard? you think it`s a way to lose them? -))) never. they are like a mould...the difference - they`re just enough choosy. and try to find better place to breed their opinions. u can call it in thousand words, but anyway it will be never more beautiful of that.
to femina:
relax.... if u aren`t old guy ....
to the detective:
yes. you think it`s too hard? you think it`s a way to lose them? -))) never. they are like a mould...the difference - they`re just enough choosy. and try to find better place to breed their opinions. u can call it in thousand words, but anyway it will be never more beautiful of that.
to femina:
relax.... if u aren`t old guy ....
RE: may be it is magic?
I agree wholeheartedly with you femina. It's Interesting how a spontaneous utterance can reveal a persons true character. Perhaps she should include the caveat, "I don't like older men", in her profile.
RE: may be it is magic?
These comments were directed to the post by horse-woman which stated : "Older men are gross". My agreement was with Femina's comment of, " that was a totally insensitive remark". I believe HW was the only one to make such a callous statement.. Other hosts , who
might share the sentiment, at least had the grace to not post it..
might share the sentiment, at least had the grace to not post it..
finding "the button"
It is wonderful to find each others "passion button" as long as both are honorable.
RE: may be it is magic?
I wish I could drive you crazy, but you are always in Recorded Program.
the magic of on-line
The magic of on-line relationships is that even with a photo they are text-based and it is a unique way to establish a relationship and begin the dance.
Girls are much more cerebral and can look past the physical appearance much more easily when the feeling created by the correspondence is strong enough.
Girls are much more cerebral and can look past the physical appearance much more easily when the feeling created by the correspondence is strong enough.
RE: may be it is magic?
Good point, but you could apply that reasoning to guys of all ages on this site.
RE: may be it is magic?
That's a cynical response. Maybe he likes her. Granted, odds are a guy twice her age is probably not sincere about "love" or "commitment" or any of that, but if it's understood what the rapport is, then what's the problem?
RE: may be it is magic?
hmmmm some of u have an great pleasure just being MEANNN.... if u dont know what to say , dont say nothing at all.... stay in your corner , and learn some manners.... have a wonderfull day all Dana
RE: may be it is magic?
Miss Asiangirl, other girls here may not tell you but you are not alone. I am an older man (a bit less than 50). I have a Russian girlfriend half my age. It may be magic from both your and his viewpoints. Ask yourself, is I love, real love? Is the relationship about more than about sex? Why do you only speak about sex? If this relationship is more then yes, you found the magic of love. Any man or woman, who feels 100% comfortable and trusted in a magic relationship will of course engage in the closeness of sex nearly automatically, our minds are programmed to reproduce with who we feel will be the best partner for us and our children. Sex is only on part of a relationship.
From the older man’s viewpoint, I struggled myself with the idea of age difference. Finally I realized, there were many reasons I wanted to be with this special woman and most of reasons had nothing to do sex or her physical beauty. In fact, be sure if I could change one part of my relationship. When I found her it was slow process and it took my by surprises and perhaps the same happened with her.
So, Enjoy what you have. I hope you both wish to make it a real relationship. You are not the first and you will not be the last to have an age difference this is not unique to CC. We are not all created the same. Just be sure in yourself and in him, and follow your heart. I wish you luck!
From the older man’s viewpoint, I struggled myself with the idea of age difference. Finally I realized, there were many reasons I wanted to be with this special woman and most of reasons had nothing to do sex or her physical beauty. In fact, be sure if I could change one part of my relationship. When I found her it was slow process and it took my by surprises and perhaps the same happened with her.
So, Enjoy what you have. I hope you both wish to make it a real relationship. You are not the first and you will not be the last to have an age difference this is not unique to CC. We are not all created the same. Just be sure in yourself and in him, and follow your heart. I wish you luck!
RE: may be it is magic?
Most issues of significant age difference revolve around the man's wealth and the woman's fidelity.
The fidelity is difficult to address, but the man's accumulated wealth can be protected by being placed into a trust and does not require a pre-nup.
Even if you don't anticipate a wedding, the trust can protect your assets easily and privately. Consult legal representation.
The fidelity is difficult to address, but the man's accumulated wealth can be protected by being placed into a trust and does not require a pre-nup.
Even if you don't anticipate a wedding, the trust can protect your assets easily and privately. Consult legal representation.
RE: may be it is magic?
while exceptions are always possible I would have to aggree and simply say; Very good advice .
RE: may be it is magic?
I did it because my only heir is my sister and she is an idiot with money so the trust will dole it out to her slowly. Unless I find a wife, in which case I will have to change the trust to instruct how she will be treated.
Of course a wife gets all the marital assets, it is the pre-accumulated assets that are protected, particularly in the case of a divorse.
Of course a wife gets all the marital assets, it is the pre-accumulated assets that are protected, particularly in the case of a divorse.
an advice need
need an advice bout shave asshole and pussy. what best way for u girls who shave that nasty hair?
RE: an advice need
No no no!
Wax doesn`t work! It`s too quick treatment.....
My advice is TWEEZER it!
Good luck!
Wax doesn`t work! It`s too quick treatment.....
My advice is TWEEZER it!
Good luck!
RE: What's the most you've paid?
About $500 not here and highest price
Here $250 maximum........ Start crying ** AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Here $250 maximum........ Start crying ** AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
RE: What's the most you've paid?
No. I have half of common amount you pay on site.
Subbie put ur subject here too.
Subbie put ur subject here too.
RE: What's the most you've paid?
he probably stopped spending when he got his credit card bill!
RE: What's the most you've paid?
9 hours of nonstop live videochat? Was it really funny? You know hard to believe.... -/
RE: What's the most you've paid?
It's just under 5 hours. 60 minutes are used to denote hours everywhere in the world.
RE: What's the most you've paid?
I regularly used to spend 4 to 5 hours every Saturday in 121 with my GF at the time. The longest vid we had was lamost 6 hours in one day, but not continuous, cos she had ro reboot.
RE: What's the most you've paid?
Wow!! She was your gf and you were happy that she only got 24% of what you paid?
duh!!
How do you think the middlemen make money? Do you know how expensive it is to run an operation as big and compex as CC? Do you know the expenses a studio boss incurs? Nobody is in this as a charity.
in 1 session
i think it was $150+/-
under $1 i think
and if i could do it again, would i?
yes... twice :D
under $1 i think
and if i could do it again, would i?
yes... twice :D
RE: in 1 session
That was in the same area for myself, and I thought that was alot but looking at how much you guys spent I came out lucky!
RE: What's the most you've paid?
I've spent... I don't know, perhaps in the order of $200 once or twice.
But i've spent over $100 in a single session more times that i'd like to admit to myself... *SOB*
But i've spent over $100 in a single session more times that i'd like to admit to myself... *SOB*