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Never talk to the parrot:-))

Mrs. Peterson phoned the repairman because her dishwasher quit working. He couldn't accommodate her with an "after-hours" appointment and since she had to go to work, she told him, "I'll leave the key under the mat. Fix the dish washer, leave the bill on the counter, and I'll mail you a check. By the way, I have a large rotweiler inside named Killer; he won't bother you. I also have a parrot, and whatever you do, do not talk to the bird!"

Well, sure enough the dog, Killer, totally ignored the repairman, but the whole time he was there, the parrot cursed, yelled, screamed, and about drove him nuts.

As he was ready to leave, he couldn't resist saying, "You stupid bird, why don't you shut up!"

To which the bird replied, "Killer, get him!!!"
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RE: Never talk to the parrot:-))

lol that islike the story in the UK papers this week of the parrot that dropped a cheating girl in it by repeating the things she had said to her lover :)

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is it cheating ....contunue

Hi I'm woman what you are talk about . i did not want to talk here and write something but i was curious like all girls. Thx all who answer to this guestion. Maybe it will help to my b/f I hope so. I really dont need advise and always think with my own head and listen my heart but i was glad to read some replies. latinlover3 is the most close to my thought. I hope everything will be better soon and will go through. But thx again .....A L
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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

YES! YES! YES! OF COURSE I WILL MARRY YOU!
HONEY, I READ ALL YOUR RESPONSES I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR RESPONDING HERE I KNOW YOU DID NOT LIKE THAT I DID THIS BUT I THOUGHT IF WE HAD OTHER POINTS OF VIEW IT WOULD HELP US.
I LOVE YOU MY SWEET SEXY RUSSIAN PRINCESS.
I PROMISE YOU HERE IN PUBLIC THAT I WILL NOT DO THAT AGAIN.
I NEED YOU IN MY LIFE,MORE THAN YOU COULD IMAGINE.
AND AN ANSWER TO YOUR SECOND PART OF YOUR QUESTION,
I WILL MARRY YOU ASAP. AS SOON AS MY DIVORCE IS FINAL
EVERYONE YOU ARE ALL INVITED TO OUR WEDDING. (LOL)
I THINK YOU ALL HELPED US BOTH TO REALIZE HOW MUCH WE LOVE EACH TO THROUGH IT AWAY OVER SOMETHING AS PETTY AS THIS WOULD BE A SHAME. HONEY .>>>>>>>>>>
I LOVE YOU MORE TODAY THAN YESTERDAY, BUT NOT AS MUCH AS TOMORROW. THX FOR COMING HERE TO VIEW AND ANSWER MY QUESTION

YOUR TEDDYBEAR
ME

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

jl: from your childish responses here in public, its clear that you are "in love" with this hosts appearance and her sexy allure and she is nothing more than a little trophy for you. sure you might marry her, but soon enough you will be back looking and talking with other little cuties once you become a little bored with with her. then you will have another divorce in your life and one in hers. what do you accomplish with your juvenile games here other than bringing future pain to others lives with your little self satisfying games? i feel sorry for this hosts future with you, but not yours.

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

As usual huh you have no clue? Like i said b4 you just come to these post to cause controversy with everyones post you answer here. You dont deserve this answer but i will humor you with it anyhow.
This is not a game for me , maybe you know or dont know but i have meet this wonderful women already. Yes i had a bad marriage but who are you to say that i will tire of this women and both our lives will be ruined again. I am too old to plat games I am 52 years old and this women has showed more love in 6 months with her than i had with my wife ever.
For you alphabeta........... eveidentually you have never been in love.
I hope when you throw up you dont get any all over your huge ego.

Thx for your comments but it wasnt worth your time and effort.......JL

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

Congratulations!..Be happy together! You know, maybe the girl needs you as bad as you need her! Sure, if you listen to huh!..which I hope you will not!!..lol...you can stay in your country hoping to find love..if REAL LOVE would stay at the corner of the street...
I hope you will be with this girl and you will be both, happy! Good luck!

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

THANK-YOU FOR ALL YOUR KIND WORDS TOO. IT IS PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO MAKE THIS FORUM WORTH WHILE.

THX AGAIN.......JL AND AL

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RE: is it cheating ...

SHE IS 40 AND THE MOST WONERFUL WOMEN I EVER MET.

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

You're kidding right? You're 52 and your solution to a lovers spat is to bring it to her work place and discuss it publicly with her coworkers and clients? What kind of reaction would you expect her to have to that?

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

I think I'm about to throw up a little

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

CHECK MY REPLY TO ME TO. HE ASKED THE SAME THING...JL

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

A L, maybe you might be surprised with my response, but I am a guy. I am a very passionate guy, and I have learned from every relationship I have had. This situation also reminds me of a relationship, and I just had to post on it. The one thing I have learned throughout my life is to have good communication, especially in relationships. I do wish you the best in your relationship with jl, and hope you both resolve this issue. Good luck you 2!!! Kiss and make up!!

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

thx LL , i thnk this is just unique because my gf thought for sure you were female and on her side. It doent matter who is right or wrong and thx to many like you, we have already started to reconcile. We had a very long talk and we are on our way to much stronger relationship because we both know that no matter what communication is best. thx again......JL

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

You are 52 years old and your girlfriend 40 years old and neither of you didn't understand that 'communication' is best in a relationship?

I wish you luck in future..........

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Sorry but huh! is right

JL why did u come to this forum if you dont want to accept criticism?? It seems to me u came here to look for positive answers only? Huh! can be a real ass in his posts sometimes but this time I tend to agree with him. He gave a realistic opinion...althou u are 52, u act childlish by bringing ur so called "love" in the front line, in a public forum. What good did that do to u and ur gf? None! U acted like a teenager...and look at u...u still do!

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to joy

whats wrong about being childish? its the greatest feeling in the world to feel like a child again! look at kids! they r the happiest creatures in the world when they play, look at their eyes - they just enjoy themselves! unlike u & huh who sound too cynnical & pissed off at this world.
no offense...

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Yeap its the greatest feeling in the world acting like a kid...until the honeymoon ends.

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RE: to joy

The wonderment and innocence you speak of would be described as "child-like" generally "childish" refers more to being immature and usually self centered.

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RE: Sorry but huh! is right

I have been following this thread with great interest as it has attracted reactions from many offering many suggestions.
So it is for that reason alone that I admire JL for airing his difficultiesin public --- its oblivious that the subject touches many of our hearts to cause such response.
I wish you -Jl and ur Princess the very best of luck and good fortune.

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RE: Sorry but huh! is right

Thx for ur good words , I wish you all the best and good luck too

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

Hi , no i was not surprised . My b/f thought i did not know that you was guy but i understood it from first ur words. thx you for your nice words and wishes good luck and kisses. May I ask you about ur age

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

I have followed this post as well. It sure makes a nice ending for all the cynics who say you cant find love on CC. If I was these two I would be shouting for joy as well. Good Luck to the both of you!

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RE: is it cheating ....contunue

thx for the words of encouragement. we both are very happy ....jl

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RE: what i did to deserve that?

You have done nothing to deserve this. People do fall out of love as well as in but if his feelings for you have changed then, knowing what you feel for him, he should at least have had the courage to tell you.
I doubt your looks have anything to do with it. If he only loved you for your looks it was not true love.
I understand why you may not want to do this but if you post your hostname here then I will be pleased to see what you look like.

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RE: what i did to deserve that?

did you say "hello" to him when you see him there? maybe he thinks you are bored with him? try that, ok?

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RE: what i did to deserve that?

But you are not alone 'sad host' as you can tell from the previous posts, there are already people that are here to listen to you.

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RE: what i did to deserve that?

Dont be sad honey. He probably isnt worht the tears anyhow. If it is any comfort to you. i have been in a relationship here for six months. I met the host of my dream in her country. i thought everything was going to be great, We atlked about getting married. Then all of sudden we stopped talking as much as we used to, I thought something was wrong with our realationship.I asked her about it and she said she just has been tired. Well to make a long story short she found out i was talking with another host. now our realationship is on the rocks. She tells me she cant trust me anymore.we have a long way to get back to where we were . So honey dont ever balme yourself. Sometimes things happen that cant be explained. Except the fact fact and move on, If he left you because you feel you arent to pretty then he is superficial anyhow. True love is not what is on the outside honey but what is in the persons soul. I am sure you are a great women and you are probaly very pretty too. Dont let him get you down. There are plenty other good men out there if you are looking for one. Take care honey and keep your head up. True love is just around the corner for you..........concerned

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RE: what i did to deserve that?

LOL.I had familiar stories several times.And all of them too long stories.I'm here already several months.I think I'm less naive now.And I even can't make a friend here.:)

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RE: what i did to deserve that?

I FORGOT TO INCLUDE, IF YOU POST YOUR SCREEN NAME I WOU;D LOVE TO COME AND SEE AND MEET YOU. YOU ALREADY HAVE ME INTERESTED JUTS BECAUSE YOU WOULD COME HERE AND POST SUCH A MESSAGE.LET ME KNOW.......CONCERENED

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RE: what i did to deserve that?

You have done nothing to deserve the way he has treated you.

But on the bright side there are a lot of other nice members out there :)

No I am not one of them :P


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Each Russian host is so different... I would agree that action combined with words is the most valuable of all... But I know a Russian host who values words more than any actions I have shown her. It depends on the person as so many other things.

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The Aussie Bible

Luke 2:25-32
Now there was an old codger in Jerusalem named Simeon who was a dead-set good bloke. He was waiting for the coming of the king God had promised yonks ago. Gods Spirit had given him the nod that he wouldnt tumble off the twig until hed seen him. And Gods Spirit gave him the whisper that he should go to the Temple that day, so, when Mary and Joe arrived with their baby, Jesus, Simeon was there. He said, Can I have a nurse of the bub? And as he took him in his arms he said, Dear God, now I can die a happy blokeI have seen the Promised One, just as you said I would. I have seen the One who is your Rescue Mission to the world. He will be a lighthousea spotlightand by this light people from all over the shop will see how terrific you are.
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RE: The Aussie Bible Luke 1:26-38

Luke 1:26-38
God sent an angel to a backblocks town called Nazareth, in the Galilee shire, to a nice young girl who was engaged to the local carpenter, Joe Davidson. Her name was Mary.

The angel said to her, Gday Mary. You are a pretty special sheila. God has his eye on you.


Mary went weak at the knees, and wondered what was going on.


But the angel said to her, Dont panic, dont chuck a wobbly. God thinks youre okay. Youre about to become pregnant, and youll have a son, and youre to call him Jesus. He will be a very big wheel, and will be called the Son of God Most High. God will give him the throne of his fatheryour ancestorKing David, and he will be in charge of the whole show forever.


But how? said Mary. Joe and I have done the right thing, weve never well, you know. I mean to say, Im still a virgin.


The angel answered, Leave the mechanics up to God. This is heavenly stuff. Gods Spirit will come upon you, and the Big Brain behind the Big Bang will manipulate the necessary molecules to make it happen. So this little kid of yours will be as special as its possible to be, and hell be called the Gods own Son. Look, even Libby, your old cousin, is preggersat her age! God can do these things. In fact, Libby is in her sixth month because nothing is impossible with God.


Gods in charge, Mary answered. If thats what God wants, then its what I want too.











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RE: The Aussie Bible

gete, does all of this mean I have to settle for a 'Fosters,' or can I pick from Ushers of Trowbridge, The Bishop's Tipple, or Ruddles County? ;)

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RE: The Aussie Bible Mark 8:27-31

Mark 8:27-31
Jesus and the team were visiting the townships around Caesarea Philippi. As they made their way down the track one day Jesus said to the team, Who do the mob say I am?


The team told him, Some blokes say youre John the Baptist, or maybe that old timer Elijah back again. Other blokes reckon youre one of the prophets.


Then Jesus stopped and said, But who do you say I am?


Peter replied, You are the Christ! The Promised One!


Jesus then warned them not to spill the beans to anyone about this, just yet.
Jesus began telling them what was in store for him: basically a lot of suffering (rejected by the crew in power), a gruesome death, and then coming back to life again. Jesus spelled it all out.











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RE: The Aussie Bible Mark 9:30-31

Mark 9:30-31
Jesus and his team set off through Galilee shire, not telling anyone where they were going, because he was teaching his team.


He said, Im going to be betrayed to some peopleenemies of God. Ill be murdered, and three days later come back to life.


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RE: The Aussie Bible

LOL, mate , I think I've had one to many Fosters myself.. lol.
I think I better put a lock on the fridge and loose the key..:-))

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RE: The Aussie Bible

aye gete, tis u be gettin a bit tipsey too i see. well then, it be time for all jolly coachmen to NOT enter Ye Ole Hat Tavern........and when they looked at him, he really was a 'fellow' hahaha............;):)

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RE: The Aussie Bible

sorry gete, I meant to have said, "Ye Ole English Hat Tavern." ;)

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RE: The Aussie Bible

She's apples , mate. All is forgiven, hahaha

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RE: hmhmhmhm....i can do better!

yes dd, but remember it was Eve who gave up her tempation to the serpent.........;)

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RE: hmhmhmhm....i can do better!

touch dd ... my work is complete, I have created my likeness

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Pie cart pea soup:

500g bacon bones
375g blue boiling peas
250g green split peas
1 large carrot

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RE: Pie cart pea soup:

ahe gete bloody hell, I'll stick to my local Outback Restaurant, thank u very much! ;)

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RE: Pie cart pea soup:

LOL

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What do you really know about someone on CC?

What do you really know about someone on CC?

I have been reading and posting here long enough to form some conclusions. I was going to respond to a post made by a host last week in regard to a man she likes. Fortunately, I took more time to thinking about what she and others were saying. Most were negative towards him.

Here is my perspective and viewpoint. First, each person who visits this site (host or member) may have their own unique reasons and objectives. Sure many will share very similar reasons. No doubt the hosts are partly if not completely here to earn money. There is no doubt that the men are here because of the woman, most for shows and personal pleasure, a few men attempt to seek a deeper relationship perhaps these men desire to see beyond only the flesh.

Whatever the reason, you are here, how well do you know your regular host or member? The host, who I am closest to and very dear too, and who I have visited in Russia has reminded me several times that I do not know her. Perhaps I know 2 to 5 percent of her, in fact, she will tell you, that you can live with someone and never know all of them. Allow me to get to my point.

We are often (me included) very quick to judge others and we often will judge another based on the words from a stranger here on CC. In comparison, it is like looking at one square centimeter of the Mona Lisa and being able to say you know the entire picture. You cannot know the complete picture from only seeing a small part.

Once again, I ask, what do you really know about someone on CC? And, here on CC, we have to be careful, because perhaps only the parts we are shown are the parts that someone wishes to show us, even if there is no lying, we dont see a complete picture. If Mona Lisa was to have a blemish on her face, and you saw only this part of her face, you might think she was full of blemishes, thus wise people will not show the blemish.

My final point, as in life, it takes time to know the real and true person, we should not be quick to judge and we need to be careful where we place our trust, otherwise we are only asking for trouble.


I have been reading and posting here long enough to form some conclusions. I was going to respond to a post made by a host last week in regard to a man she likes. Fortunately, I took more time to thinking about what she and others were saying. Most were negative towards him.

Here is my perspective and viewpoint. First, each person who visits this site (host or member) may have their own unique reasons and objectives. Sure many will share very similar reasons. No doubt the hosts are partly if not completely here to earn money. There is no doubt that the men are here because of the woman, most for shows and personal pleasure, a few men attempt to seek a deeper relationship perhaps these men desire to see beyond only the flesh.

Whatever the reason, you are here, how well do you know your regular host or member? The host, who I am closest to and very dear too, and who I have visited in Russia has reminded me several times that I do not know her. Perhaps I know 2 to 5 percent of her, in fact, she will tell you, that you can live with someone and never know all of them. Allow me to get to my point.

We are often (me included) very quick to judge others and we often will judge another based on the words from a stranger here on CC. In comparison, it is like looking at one square centimeter of the Mona Lisa and being able to say you know the entire picture. You cannot know the complete picture from only seeing a small part.

Once again, I ask, what do you really know about someone on CC? And, here on CC, we have to be careful, because perhaps only the parts we are shown are the parts that someone wishes to show us, even if there is no lying, we dont see a complete picture. If Mona Lisa was to have a blemish on her face, and you saw only this part of her face, you might think she was full of blemishes, thus wise people will not show the blemish.

My final point, as in life, it takes time to know the real and true person, we should not be quick to judge and we need to be careful where we place our trust, otherwise we are only asking for trouble.
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z-z-z-z-z-z-z-z-z-z

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RE: What do you really know about someone on CC?

agree*

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RE: What do you really know about someone on CC?

Is it me and this early hour, or your message was supposed to be half of what you posted?

But I agree about what we know, what we can know. I think, though, that I did know more than others, and I am able to know more than others, more even than what they're willing to know, that's why I never had a broken heart when being on CC. Women intuition, I may call it :)

It's not easy to know someone in real life, knowing on CC is even harder.. some succeed though. Luck, destiny, you name it :)

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RE: What do you really know about someone on CC?

lol... looks like it was pasted in here twice... how did that happen?? :p

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RE: What do you really know about someone on CC?

This has to be the most intelligent well written post I've seen in over 5 years as a member.

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RE: What do you really know about someone on CC?

Then you haven't been reading my posts :(

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RE: What do you really know about someone on CC?

Good post.
I am glad to see you seem to have mellowed somewhat. Although you always seemed a basically decent guy some of your earlier posts seemed very judgemental. I agree that you cannot get to know someone well just by chatting on CC. I have been chatting with a host for over two tears but got to know her far better from our few meetings than through hours of chatting on line.

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RE: What do you really know about someone on CC?

Excellent Post Prairie Flower, very well done! Just read it for the third time! Don't worry about the bit of criticism that you have already encountered here, or may later encounter. It just goes with the territory of the forum. There are always going to be some people who will try to "mock you," even intelligent people. I'm not really surprised that you haven't received more positive comments on this post, but as you might be able to understand, it is often difficult for some, who are so wrapped up into themselves, that they simply don't know any better, on how to properly compliment someone else on such an excellent essay! ;):)

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RE: Ugly?

No, you are not ugly.

If someone said you are, that person is rude, which itself is a kind of ugliness.

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RE: Ugly?

nope, just had a look at your pics and you are definitely a cutie

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RE: Ugly?

The only Ugly one is someone who calls someone Ugly!

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RE: Ugly?

as sweet as honey - very sticky and deliously lickable :P

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RE: Ugly?

I'm ugly and I didn't call anyone ugly :(

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RE: Ugly?

i wouldn't kick you out of bed for eating crackers

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RE: Ugly?

the ugly part is your fishing for compliments. have confidence in yourself and you dont need others to validate either your intelligence or your appearance.

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honey dont you ever appologize to huh, he never has anything constructive to say and every post he visit he put down the persons question or feelings . He is a small man who has nothing better to do. I was just with for a long chat and you are extremely a wondeful women and by no means are you ugly. Dont ever appologize for being yourself. you a person made in Gods image, so if your ugly or someone thinks your ugly then they also see God as ugly. Stay as sweet as you are. i think it was a great thing your post here or i may have never found such a beautiful young women who is also so enjoyable to chat with .. I hope you know who i am. I am your new best friend.... no names please i prefer annominity

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RE: Ugly?

No your not ugly :)

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RE: Ugly?

Beautiful eyes you have :)

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RE: Ugly?

Thank you :P lol

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Ugly??? NOT

You are definitely not ugly. You have very pretty eyes. You also have a lovely, sweet smile. I hope you smile more now:)

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RE: Ugly?

No way dude.

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RE: Tatyana day in Russia ! Russian born Aussie!

http://www.tatiana.com.au/

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RE: Tatyana day in Russia !

wow Alpen Gold, didn't know about Tatiana Day in Russia......So let me wish you, and all the Tanay's in the Federation, Happy Tanay Day! Will there also be a "Marina Day?" :)

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RE: Tatyana day in Russia ! (little history)

Very interesting Tanya! I enjoyed the history lesson. :))

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RE: Tatyana day in Russia !

***inviting all Tanyas today for dinner:))

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RE: Tatyana day in Russia !

WHAT IS IT?

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We Want

StormAngel back. Let her in CC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RE: We Want

Yeah CC let my sis back in.. she owes me an ass kicking
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RE: We Want

If she is back, well then, Welcome back Anita! Buna, Salut! Missed You!

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how does one "see" arrogance and irony? ... just wondering, because surely these are not visible traits.

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especially when she stands you up for dinner - lunch was nice though

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RE: We Want

lots miss her, but she is ok - i talked with her recently

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RE: We Want

he said he's seen the girl, not the irony, nor the ignorance., if you read the post right.

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RE: We Want

if you read the post right, it was arrogance (despite the poor spelling)

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RE: We Want

Totally overrated and getting her boring friends to promote her here. Lame. Move on!

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thanks everyone

In regaurds to "is it chesting" and "update to is it cheating" Thanks to everyone who tried to make me understand why things went so bad and what i could do about it. To those of you who called me a wuss and other names thanks too Maybe i deserved this like you said airy this in public. Maybe that just another reason my g/f is so pissed off I asked to read this forum. I thought it would help both of us to get an insight into our troubled relationship. Maybe it just fueled the flames instead. No matter what happens i will be grateful to all who voiced thier opinions. ..... thx again...JL
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RE: thanks everyone

Well jl, just got home from work and I can see that you got a lot of positive feedback from many on this site, and thats a good thing; who knows maybe things will work out for the better not only for you, but for all those that are involved in your relationship?! Lets hope so anyway! As for being called a "wuss," I have always been of the opinion that 'name calling' be it deserved or not, is counter productive to anyone that is struggling with interpersonal relationships. In my humble opinion jl, you are not a "wuss," but some guy who is just struggling with personal issues much like I did, in the little story I shared with you......Everyone has personal issues to deal with, you just had the "guts" to come forward and share your experiences here with everyone, and for that you should be applauded! If you like, you can always check back in the forum and post an update. If others don't like it, thats their problem, and they can always move on and ignore your posts. At any rate, hope you can now move on with your life, because thats what life is about; moving on to better yourself and to help better others in a Positive Way!!

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RE: thanks everyone

You really have beeen my biggest supporter, You have had nothing but positive words for me. Id like to think you are a real friend who has given me nothing but respect for me and my problem thx again for all yor support and kind words.......JL

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RE: thanks everyone

It's my pleasure jl, no problem! Your situation reminded me so much of a somewhat similar situation of my own, that I couldn't help but answer your post, as I really got to thinking about your dilemma and my own. There are definitely some close parallel's! It's always nice to find a friend, especially in this day and age! Will always be glad to lend you my support, whenever I can! Best Regards,
Realist

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RE: thanks everyone

With all this well desereved seriousness... lol... where is the group hug? :p

JJ Best of Luck!

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RE: thanks everyone

Cute very cute....thx .....JL

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They Say...

They say you need 1 minute to notice someone between lots...
... 1 hour to vakue him...
... ... 1 day to fall in love with him...
......... but a whole life to forget him after....
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RE: They Say...

If it was me you would be wishing you could forget in a minute lol

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RE: They Say...

Hey:)) i didnt ask coments...lol... Friend!

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RE: They Say...

the whole life just flashed before your eyes!!!!!

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joke

Joe walks into the bar and says "Harry ,pour me a double" . Harry says , "what happend,Joe ?Another blowout with the wife ?"
Joe says proudly " Yeah , but this time I finally brought her to her knees ! "

Harry asks , "So what did she say when she was down there ? "

"Go out from under the bed, you coward! "
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RE: joke

THAT WAS GREAT . I NEEDED A GOOD LAUGH TODAY

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RE: if you like...

do you strio in english or german?
oh btw.. welcum to CC
and lastly ignore me, i never have anything good to say :D

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RE: if you like...

I know english of coz but like to chat german too.

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update to" is it cheating?"

Well everyone i hate to say this but i think it is over. i went to see my gf and she told me she was busy. Never ever in 6 months weve been together has she ever said she is busy. She has told me she has pvt as she is on others sites here too. but never she is busy. I told her im sorry and she says she needs time . I told her to take all the time she needs but i dont believe she will ever forgive and forget as what is needed in any good relationship, I want her back she is the most loving women i have ever meet. She taught me how to love and be loved something i never had with my wife. I will miss this women if we dont get back together. She will always have a big piece of my heart, I guess maybe i deserve this because i didn trust our relationship when she didnt want to talk and said she was tired. I still have hope but not too much anymore. Thx everyone for your support, & comments no matter positivve or negative. I appreciate hearing from all. Thx again .........jl
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man....you are messed up. you contradict yourself in this message over and over. she is the most loving blah blah blah yet she cant forgive you blah blah blah. she is never too busy for you but she is tired blah blah blah. christ dude,,,,6 months online and you can compare it to a marriage? you need help. I advise you to get away from the damn computer for a while, go outside and see the sun, meet some real people, breath some air. get drunk, whatever. women are not attracted to pathetic feeling little boys that display thier pain in public. i always believe that we all somehow get what we ask for.......your getting yours and she'll get hers.

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thx for your opinion but that all it is to me . you have never said anything worth while in any of these forums ive read from you. i think you just get off by putting people down. maybe you need to get a life
your name says it all you havent a clue about anything just negative opinions

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i said it before, i'll say it again: if you felt you've done nothing wrong, you simply should have said so. you didn't owe her an apology, you shouldn't have given her one.
and i'm sorry, but coming back to publicly grovel and say how much you want her back isn't helping matters much at all. sure, forgiveness is a quality of a good relationship, but having to crawl on hands and knees and throw out all self-resepect to get it is NOT.
you're coming across as very, VERY needy at the moment.. if there's one sure way to drive this woman even further away from you, it's continuing to behave exactly how you are now. women want men with confidence, with emotional strengh and resilience to this kind melodrama, they don't want a guy who causes it or crumbles when it comes up.
i suggest you take some time for yourself to think about things too.. the situation isn't as dire and desperate as you now think it is, but if you hang around her and look for every little tell-tale sign to confirm your doubts, i promise you, it will be soon enough.

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THX WHAT YOU SAY MAKES SENSE! ..JL

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no problem, i just hope things work out soon... and when they do, don't ever let such a heated subject escalate this much again. it's best to difuse such things as quickly as possible, preferably in a way that assures her it's no big deal and that she shouldn't be jealous... if, in a good-natured way, you can get her to see how silly she's being and to laugh at such a situation and her overreaction to it, all the better, i think.. if you're able to do that, you'll be golden;)

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Feminism :(

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Hmmm me thinks the kettle is calling pot black. Dec. you seem like a caring person but in fact there is nothing left of this relationship. Let it go man and move on...................

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I hope everything works out for you but if she reads your post she will now know that you marry people that you don't love which may not inspire her confidence in you.

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If you really love this girl then you shouldn't give up too easily. Don't pester her but keep coming to say hi and see if she is ready to chat. with you. Make it clear that she is your only romantic interest.

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thx your advice is well taken.... maybe i am paranoid over nothing..thx again....jl

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If you promised her that you never visited other girls, that changes the situation.

When confronted, you were honest and did not lie. That proves she can trust you. If she loves you, she can easily forgive you for this and not let something so little ruin something so good.

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Or... the following situation could be modified and applied...

Balls is coming home late after a night out with the guys, smelling of perfume and beer, lipstick on your collar, slapping your wife on the ass and having the balls to say, "You're next."

Sorry, couldnt resist.... hope all goes well with you and her.

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thx for the joke, it did make things better for a brief moment to laugh. i think you are right if i can makke light of this maybe she will feel bettter i have been able to make her laugh b4 so maybe this is my challenge now. JUST MAYBE IM MAKING A MOUTAIN OUT OF A MOLEHILL. Only time will tell. Thx again dm........jl

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We don't know all the facts. And this is just from your point of view. She has her own point of view also. I know that you are just looking for advice, but this forum isn't the best way to get to confirm your point of view. As was asked before, did you ever tell her you would never talk to any women on this site? I can see it as a double standard, but you met her here and then started talking to another woman. She maybe got mad that you might get attached to someone else. Really the only way to weather the storm is through communication. You need to ask yourself, why did you start talking with this other woman? Was your g/f ignoring you during that time and you needed someone just to chat? And why did you continue chatting with this woman? If your g/f could answer your questions about Russian life, why didn't you ask her? Only you know why you did what you did. If it was purely for information purposes, then you need to express that to your g/f. If it was for other reasons, then you need to come clean within yourself. Maybe she wants an easy way to end it with you. Really the only way to resolve this, is for you to try to reach her one last time and not post anything here. If the phone doesn't work, well just send her an email, and then wait for a response. Just like the saying, "Men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus". All you can do is wait for a response and don't try to get it out of her. You need to give her time, and then you need to decide for yourself how much time you are willing to give her before you call it quits yourself. If she won't give you the time or day after 2 weeks, well you can't stop her from doing that and she has made up her mind to end this relationship. I do truly wish the best for you and hope you get the answers you are looking for from your g/f. That's my advice with the limited info from your posts.

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Hi im woman what are you talk about. I dont know who are you man or woman but thx for your reply. You the most close to my thought. I hope everything will be better soon Thx ....A L

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Hi my love i read all those repies. It was little strange to read about myself but its ok. I hope some of them will help you . Yes this is not easy way we choise and what we have to go through. But i am strong enough and hope you too. See you soon , I love you

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and I forget to say you, dont listen too much another people. Think more with your own head and your heart. But i like some your replies here. You really love me. I knew this always but some your actions gave me doublts. Hope everything will be better soon. Will you marry me my love and when :-)

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What makes a successful host?

I get asked a lot by some hosts "Why don't I get viewers anymore?"
Could be they are in non-adult and refuse to strip.
Maybe viewers getting bored and looking for something new.
Contacts in Comm Chat more difficult now as chat is increasingly dominated by (a) viewers with no credit, (b) viewers who kill interaction by being aggressive and crude.
The costs of viewing can be prohibitive.
No definitive answers but a number of hosts moving to other sites now with their favourite viewers following them there.
Well, is CC on it's way out?
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really? something wrong with CC?

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I'm asking you 'host', not trying to answer my own question!!!

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excellent comment about the comchat Nick, your absolutely right on target! It's getting to where it's turning alot of people off.....And, if that turns off new members when all they see are rude and crude members BS, then they may very well be turned off to go into a pvt chat.....

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RE: What makes a successful host?

Price price price. ! you can spend a reasonable time with a host and not break the bank. many other sites charge 3 or 4 times as much. and the choice here is huge:) no complaints

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I don't think the majority of viewers bother with comchat to be honest...

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Their conversation limited to, "Get 'em off!" :)

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<<I get asked a lot by some hosts "Why don't I get viewers anymore?">>

Every host will have periods where viewers seem few and far between. The only thing to do is ride out the slow times.

<Contacts in Comm Chat more difficult now as chat is increasingly dominated by (a) viewers with no credit, (b) viewers who kill interaction by being aggressive and crude.>>

I doubt the Community Chat has anything to do with the success of chathosts or lack thereof. Besides, people have complained about Comm Chat as long as I have been on CC.

<<The costs of viewing can be prohibitive.>>

CC is inexpensive compared to most sites.

<<No definitive answers but a number of hosts moving to other sites
now with their favourite viewers following them there. Well, is CC on it's way out?>>

Hardly. You provide no evidence that CC loses hosts to other sites, and fail to account for the ones it gains.

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Sorry, but I obviously worded my post badly. These are not MY views, just those I collated from various hosts. Instead of being so defensive, it would be good to get some more objective views.

Personally, I like CC and don't bother with other cam sites. I enjoy chat too and make a point of viewing hosts who bother to contribute there; I admire women who can give as good as they get in chat! :)

I want CC to continue and prosper and not lose those hosts I like who are thinking of leaving, ok? Jeez!

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<<Sorry, but I obviously worded my post badly. These are not MY views, just those I collated from various hosts. Instead of being so defensive, it would be good to get some more objective views.>>

I see... so if I don't agree with what you wrote, I am not objective? Do you even know what objectivity means?

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I do but I think you could do with acquiring a sense of humour! :) Don't get so upset! I merely wanted to stimulate a debate on CC's future.

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<<I merely wanted to stimulate a debate on CC's future.>>

If you want debate, then how is what I write defensive?

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RE: What makes a successful host?

Hey!!!! Let's stop now ok? :))) A good response overall you must agree, particularly from hosts. Some a little despondent but others very positive!

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Sounds good! Who are you? :) kisses

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oh you know sometimes hosts come to chat in comm chat and some viewers just ignore them or just block them... did i understand the translation right... community- to communicate?...No nee to think all hosts say hello to get you in vid...*wink

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left?

Anyone seen Blondygirly?
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no sorry not lately

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WANKERS

wankers of the world unite!
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Where do I sign up :)

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u probably signed up not long after being born a male. Then u formalised it when you joined cc. As my mum used to say " a man discovers his dick at about 18mths but NEVER learns to let go of it"
But who is not a wanker is a lier.

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i bet even the pope wanks.

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i would sign up but my hand is busy!! :-P

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yes, I do as a matter of fact

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What is the problem here? I gave you men that thing to procreate with and also to have fun with in your spare time. If I weren't a woman, even I would probably have partaken a few times. Enjoy what I have given you.

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God is a woman?..
God has not gender...

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but you know this is the 6 million dollar question, let's face it! Do not most think of God as a male rather than female? Or is there a possibility that God is of no gender? For those who do believe in an "Allmighty," or a "Supreme Being," call it what you like, bottom line-no human being either knows, or will ever know until he or she meets their maker! For those who believe in life after death, once again, it's a matter of faith! Simple, right, you either have faith or you don't......

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mate, you can have faith.. But I'd rather have Anne :-))

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oh gete, do u ever get serious?....lol....;) I guess having one's cake and eating it to, is out of the question? :p

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of course I am a woman! Why else would I have made men look so stupid when they emerge naked from an ice-cold pool of water ... if I were a man, do you think shrinkage would exist?

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LOL.....;))

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I created Adam as a joke really ... my intention was to have sloths rule the Earth but they turned out to enjoy hanging upside down from trees too much, so I went to my second choice ... but then when the giant woolly hamster went extinct (thanks to an Australopithecine named Cletus) I had to opt for my third choice and here you are all today ... I am the laughing stock of the Diety Club and all my colleagues say I should really go off and start again somewhere else with the sloth ...

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Never heard that b4 but its nice words :)

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didn't know u were kosher sky?

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I must have kept God pretty busy with his counting :(

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and you are proud of this fact?

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I think teddybear's comment was to me rather that you 25skydancer :)

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yes you have that right. my comment was to you.

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mmmmmmm... someone reads the Bible :))

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is it cheating?

hi guys and gals, i need your opinion. i have fallen in love with a host here. i even went as far as to meet her in her home town. we are planning to get married as soon as my divorce is final. recently my girlfriend found out i talked with other host here. now we are are arguing and our relationship is in trouble. i really love this women and i want to marry her. she says that i cheated on her by chatting with another host here. now she says she cant trust me. i told her i didnt consider chatting with another host as cheating after all she is here chatting with men everyday. she says it is her job and it is differant than what i did. any opinions or advice?? i would love to hear from men and other chat host here. thanks...... jl
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it sounds to me like she is/was looking for ANY reason to break it off.
you should cut and run now, b4 its to late and you are getting devorce #2.
tell me i'm wrong.... you met her here? and now she is mad that your talking to another girl here.
so will this childish acting of your gf continue if you talk to a girl at your office?
too many times i have seen this type of post.
tell her you dont want to talk to or see her anymore.
and if you want to see her naked again, just get new screen name.

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if you were only chatting with this other woman and you feel you've done nothing wrong, simply say so.. don't argue about it, and don't do thing one to indulge her wanting to argue about it either.
assure her how much you love her, but tell her too that if she can't trust you, then there's no future for the the two of you.. don't become emotional, don't let things get heated, just simply state that as a fact.
leave it to her to realize how foolish and how jealous she's being.. if she never does, then believe me, you're better off not having to deal with such arguments time and time again in the future.

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RE: is it cheating?

I don't think it's cheating, per se. It's certainly no worse than if she's stripping for other men, even if it is her job. Of course, there are severe trust issues at hand. And CC definetely creates an environment in which trust is difficult.

My advice is that you should both quit. If you're going to marry her, you'll be supporting her anyway, so why not offer to pay her way for a while, and you both can try to live without CC interefering with your love.

Trust issues do need to be solved, however.

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Most decent hosts here make a couple thousand dollars per month. It is unrealistic for you to suggest that she quit if you are not willing to replace that. It will take about a year for the visa paperwork (at least 8 months once you get all the paperwork together). Are you willing and can you EASILY afford to replace her income on the POSSIBILITY of a marriage?

Tell her honestly that you didn't think it was wrong come to some agreement with her. Otherwise be prepared to quit seeing hosts or drop her. The ONLY option is to get a new ID and create a false persona for your chatting.

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thx , i have thought of that but unfortunately i am out work and having a hard time finding work. ( which has become another issue also)
if i was working it would be no problem but with my pending divorce and being out of work itis un fortunate i can not do this now, thx.....jl

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so you expect a girl to take a chance on an out-of-work wanker? it's not realistic

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Out of work and your still videoing with girls :) Good Man

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Unfortunately it's the same old story, told here, and heard here, time and time again! It's called "cultural confusion," or cross referenced 'different country' confusion. I hope you don't think that marrying a girl from a different country from your own is going to be all "hunky dory?" It seems as though you both have experienced your very 1st Fight?! CONSTANT COMMUNICATION is the key to breaking down 'cross country barriers', however both parties will have to be willing to play this game, and play it equally! Don't expect easy solutions if you really want this thing to work out.......Be prepared for a Long and Hard Road! And thats giving you just the basics......

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Statistically 78% of cross cultural marriages fail. Sorry to say but that's the fact.

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Since your first marriage failed, why are you such a hurry to marry again? Wasn't there a movie some years ago called "The Marrying Man?" Does that sound like you?

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thanks everyone for your input, no one seemed to raise the issue that i really love this women and would do anything for her.everyone seems to be of the opinion to dump her and run. what about trying to make things work out?........jl

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The problem with this forum jl, is that it just doesn't provide, let us say, enough room to completely answer all of your questions in detail. It's not like sitting down with a therapist, etc, for an hourly session to go over your entire portfolio with this girl. The point you just raised is however extremely important! Yes, you love her, but do you know or think, that she is in love with you? In my post I didn't mention to "dump her." It's possible that your relationship can work, but my emphasis was on.......simply put.....You both are going to have to try "equally" hard to make it work, and be prepared for a long and difficult journey, in making it work. One thing that's been on my mind as I read your original post, was that.....and I'll try to put it in as honest terms as possible, which you may not want to hear is this.......I am of the opinion that many of the girls working on this site, want so desperately to find a "westerner" so to speak, that many of them may tell you just about anything 'you want to hear,' in order for you to take them out of the environment in which they live, and start a new life in one of those "western countries." And they want a "truthful, honest, and self confident man with a good head on his shoulders." Plus let us not forget, 'the monetary income' that for example a US, UK, Canadian, etc, citizen would be able to provide......So, I could go on and on, but I think you might grasp some of the essentials here......Having said that, I wish you the best in your personal endeavors, and why not keep us updated as things progress? :))

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thx realist, dont think that hasnt crossed my mind sometimes too. but i have met this women and stayed wit her for two wonderful weeks.i believe we have something worth fighting for.she says she loves me and i believe she really does and just doesnt want to get out of her coubtry, i will keep you posted, but like someone else said here it will be a long jouney back to were we were b4. i belive in the power of love....jl

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Fair enough jl. Just like handful said, we're all tossing around a lot of options here. And it has already been pointed out, that this relationship is between You and Her.....The few of us that are trying to give you some kind of advice know only what you have posted in this thread, and nothing else. Obviously there is much more to this story than just meets the eyes here, and you are the one who knows that! They say that "true love" conquers all........As for me, I'm still trying to figure out what the real definition of "true love" is in the first place? But I'm kinda a 'complex guy' anyway.....lol! Again, best of luck to the both of you!!

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all i can say is that NOBODY here can give you the right advice.this is between you & her.if as you say you truly love her you must be prepared to prove it.words without actions are meaningless.look in your soul,understand how she feels.she must have insecurities & fears about your relationship but if she is who you truly want to spend your life with YOU will come up with the right answer.all we can do is give you"food for thought"good luck & whatever happens make sure you can live with it!

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"do anything"?

until you can provide her with some sense of security, your love is not enough - this ain't no fairytale la-la land - the woman needs a man without encumberances and with a paycheck

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Hey, man, u r leaving yr wife for some reasons and y r typing with another woman here! Every girl onthe place of yr girlfriend will generalize the facts: she will be the next who u will leave for another woman! Take yr fault and DON"T DO THIS AGAIN regarding her! And if u r expecting from her to work u must endure her to chatting with a men here. The difrence is between sky and earth: man allways will looking for fun here so she is right to be jelous, the woman will allways looking for money here so u must be VERY sure of her loyaliy
to u!!! Hug her, explane her she is the only one for u and NEVER look at another female, ok? If u don't like and u wanna play stranger pls don't lose her time, u r just not ready to take another responsability. She will meet the other more classy guy then u!

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That is very true Decameron about we men, seeing and meeting women everywhere we go, I suppose it's called "the nature of the beast." Such is the essence of temptation, for all men 'can' become charmed to the sounds of the Siren's.........;)) I'm getting a little off the subject here, but this reminds me of a religious saying...."for everything holy, there is something unholy." ;)

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thx man but but this is differant for me. i know most of the host here are here for the moneyand i know that it s all a game to many. i belive our relationship is beyond the game playing and money issue. i have a hard understanding why it is cheating for me and not cheating for her...thx again realist...jl

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jl, Your involvement with this chathost reminds me of a similar situation that I found myself in over 2 yrs ago. I actually believed (and maybe I was) that I was in love with a chathost from another site. We started to chat online outside of the site, and would talk for hours. Hours turned into days, and days turned into weeks, and weeks would turn into months. Then I called her by phone in her country of origin, and her foreign accent really put the 'hex on me' so to speak. The next thing I knew, I was asking her if I could help her out financially, because I started to feel sorry for her. She herself never asked me for any money, but I felt compelled to give it to her. I had plans of meeting her in person one day, but this never came to pass. Slowly she began to lose interest in me, as she would not chat with me online as much as she use to. When I called her by phone, she had someone else tell me, that she wasn't availabe to talk, or she would just hang up on me.......I started to go into a "real sinking spell," and thought I was losing my mind, as I was losing her! I tried to make further contact with her, but it was to no avail, she was gone......To this very day I still think about her.........And I ask myself over and over again, was this love? This little story has nothing to do with your's but I thought I'd share it with you just the same; as your post got me to thinking.......Just a friendly word of advice to you jl..."Watch your 6 0'Clock"......which is another meaning for "watch your backside"..........and yes, please keep us posted! ;):)

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wow , this is me, minutes turned to hours .hours to days,days to weeks, and weeks into months. the only differance i see is that i actually have met my lady. but this my story too, wow words for thought, now i know how you came about your nickname
thx realist...jl

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chatting means just that..talking with another host the other host in question is in non adult i visited her twice in a public session and nothing happened but talked and i have talked with her mostly in text chat.if you must know i talked with other host about my relationship because as i found out she also has an american freind which she is considering marrying. she and i talked about our concerns in this type of relationships she wanted to know about where i lived because as it turned out her b/f is also from the same area.i wanted to know about russia and life there. and your next question will be why didnt i ask my gf . well i did but i wanted to know more.about the life struggles in russia are you a host here and are you female .im curious thx for you honesty decameron..........jl

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As has been pointed out on here cross cultural relationships can be difficult and ones that are mainly conducted through on line chat are especially tricky. I understand from what you have said that you first started chatting with the host you "cheated" with after falling in love with your girl. If this is correct I think she is justified in being upset even though the chat was innocent. To draw a parallel with the "real world" it is something like she walked into a bar and found you chatting with another girl.
I think many girl friends, especially when the relationship is quite new, would react to this. You can only assure her that the chatting was innocent. Do not try to defend yourself by comparing your chats with what she does for her work. This is like saying that you doubt her love for you. If she truly loves you then what she does here is to her simply work. Maybe she gets some enjoyment out of it when she has a nice viewer in the same way as a shop assistant may enjoy meeting a charming customer but this is different from you going on line just to meet and chat with other girls.

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thx viewer,
very astute to draw that parralel i didnt think of it that way.i have appologized to her but maybe she hasnt felt it was from my heart as many other things i have told her,i guess i need to appologize again. from the heart

thx viewer ...jl

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fu... if you can make a woman that jealous over something so silly, you can just trust that she's very much into you... revel in it, tease her senseless about it... she deserves it:))

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thx for your comment, no im not leving my wife for this host my divorce was started over 1 year ago and i met this host in august. those were some pretty strong words but i asked for the female point of view too. thx but i think both my gf and i think im a classy guy.......jl

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Good, but is yr girlfriend know it? Some men just forget to tell the nice things to thair girlfriends and wonder why the girlfriends are angree to them. If she is jealouse of it yr chating to another woman it's mean she is not abcolutely sure in u. Don't permit it! Just tell her she is the most important in yr live and even if she like suggest to chat togeather to the other girl or chathosts here so u will be the same team against all the World! Give her that certainty and she will trust u in the future a lot!

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ANY OTHER FEMALE POINTS OF VIEW

I WOULD LIKE TO HER THE FEMALE POINT OF VIEW ALSO ON THIS QUESTION I KNOW THAT I HAVE HAD ONE FOR SURE.IS THERE ANY OTHER BRAVE FEMALES TO COMMENT ON THIS SUBJECT.I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR FROM YOU.

THX...........JL

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Do NOT listen to others. keep all for yourself and have faith!I saw the list of cc videos of my boyfriend, with my own eyes!..and none of them
was so honest as me, none of them helped him to make MORE money, none of them feeded him...and he is with me!If you love her, please, understand her!...we are jealous, we are not perfect..are you?

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There is such a thing as having more than one viewer name.

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RE: is it cheating?

the comment below is not from me but another viewer. thank you for your comments i appreciate your point of view. thx..................JL

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RE: Who

not again?

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RE: Who

never been to this city.

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RE: Who

i hear it's a beautiful city jay, and full of beautiful girls!

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RE: Who

Where I can stay in rostov?

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RE: Who

don't know jay, never been there, but I'm surprised with as many girls on this site from Rostov, they haven't answered your post yet?

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no one answered. (

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What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl a question: "What do u do for yr income?" Is it just question to know the occupation of a girl or u try to less her self-confidence, or may be u would like to help her ;)?! Thanks in advance for yr honest answers!
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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

whatever reasons might be given, i would think every last one of them would boil down to an attempt to try to make the woman being asked feel of less worth than the guy doing the asking.
if you're a host here and he's asking in chat, well then, i'd have to say that he very well might be mildly retarded.

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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

If i ask that question it means i am interested if she is only working online or if she has other job besides working online..... as simple as that....it has nothing to do with selfrespect.....

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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

Agreed. Besides how could it be an attempt to undermine the hosts self respect when asked by someone visiting the same site? That's like saying it's OK for viewers to be here, but not hosts. Take away the hosts and the viewers won't be here long either.

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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

believe it or not, many people tie feelings of self-worth to the amount of money they make... it's not a matter of making her feel ashamed about working here, i see such a question as more a play to the idea, or the subtle suggestion, that she couldn't possibly make as much as the member who asks..
in that respect, yeah, i can see how there may at least seem to be some condescension behind the question.. i can understand how it might cause offense even if none is actually meant..
if a member has a genuine interest in what a host does outside of cc, i just think there are more tactful ways of asking.

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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

John, the post by the anonymous above you just "slammed dunked" the answer to the original question! What Is There Not To Understand?!

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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

<If i ask that question it means i am interested if she is only working online or if she has other job >
Why u r interested in it, justme? what r u thinking about girls who are works only here and what do u thinking about the girls who has the other job too? That was my question and i'll be tankful to hear the answer.

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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

If i ask that it is just to get an idea of her local situation....is it possible to find a job she has learned for and does it make enough money for living or is working online a way of supplementing her income from another job......or is working online about the only way to earn a living...i do not think differently about women that get all their income from working online. i agree with JustCruising that if i were looking down on women that work online then i should look down on myself.
These are hard times for lot of people to find the job they would really like to have. When i am in a chat i want to have a good time , not just for me, but for both of us.....
And i expect no answer to any question; its up to a host to answer wich question she wants to answer; i never will blame her for not answering any question.

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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

well i never ask a girl here what she does for her income. i assume she talks, or strips.
all i ever read here is the girls saying this is just thier job.
i lost my trane of thought when i typed 'strips' so i think i'll go see someone about getting naked now.
what was thequestion again?

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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

If u don't like the topic just don't take a part. I need only concrete answers of my question! Come on, guys, i just wanna know the answer - i'm not blaming u for it! I just wanna know what do u think about a girls who works only here /for me that is just fun and never "work" buy the way/ and what do u think about girls who has the "other" jobs too?

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RE: What do u expect, guys, when u r asking a girl...

Kathy it makes no difference to me whether the girl has another job besides being a host on cc or what category she is in.

It is the person inside that is important :)

Having said that it is not a question I really ask so my apologies if I shouldn't gave replied. :(

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jealousy

if member would have gf on sites like cc what would u prefer, her working in non-adult or her working in adult. or what about host who have bf/husband from city where they live .which category would ur bf/husband want u to work if he knows about ur work?
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it would depend on how strong the relationship - and - wether it was a 9-5 job and if both parties were coool with it all -
disater looms if not comletely 100%

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RE: jealousy

only a person with no self confidence and trust would even care about this issue.

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"only a person with no self confidence and trust would even care about this issue."

I disagree. Sex and sexuality, at their best, are private expressions of deeper emotion. Keeping it private is a simple matter of respect for eachother, and your relationship... in my opinion, of course.

I understand that there are many ways to look at the issue, but not wanting your gf to strip does not automatically equate with lacking self confidence or trust. Rather, the opposite, I should think.

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I disagree also. I fail to see how not wanting your girlfriend to strip, has absolutely anything at all to do with lacking self confidence or trust? I should also think it would be the exact complete opposite......Completely and Absolutely!

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RE: jealousy

The catagory where she made the most money - save me having to work :)

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RE: jealousy

its all about the money,
some nonadults make plenty with thier clothes on,
some make plenty stripping.
i wouldnt care which she was, as long as plenty of money was the end result. as long as she is happy with her job.

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good point Decameron. I sometimes refer to sites such as CC, as "Virtual Reality." It's not physical in the sense of it being real, because these are projected images that come through a pc monitor. The marvels of technology, YES, physical reality, NO.....

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RE: jealousy

Jealousy isn't always born from a lack of trust. Jealousy can symbolize a protective instinct, really deep emotions, and care. (That does not say that non-jealous folks dont care).

But even if jealousy was entirely based on a lack of trust, I can't think of a more severe breaking of trust than the sharing of sex with others, be it real or virtual, when one partner has expressed opposition to such sharing.

Being jealous of your wife/gf visiting with friends, some of which include men, is very different than being jealous of your wife/gf taking off her clothes (or more) when somebody plunks down a gold coin.

Of course, heavily associating with a community of strippers and wankers tends to dull the idea of morality of any sort. Maybe taking off your clothes is as normal as grabbing lunch with a friend. Maybe it really is that stupid for a bf to be jealous of it.

Different strokes, for different folks.

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RE: jealousy

how strange that a wanker can come here and fall in love with a stripper, and then be jealous of her work because he thinks her suddenly HIS property. thats just bs, and it clearly demonstrates a lack of self confidence and trust. grow up or go to church to find your women.

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RE: jealousy

Lucky Mr Milena :)

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RE: jealousy

...would be a right way to leave cc...

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Friends


A man and his dog were walking along a road. The man was enjoying the scenery, when it suddenly occurred to him that he was dead. He remembered dying, and that the dog had been dead for years.

He wondered where the road was leading them. After a while, they came to a high, white stone wall along one side of the road. It looked like fine marble. At the top of a long hill, it was broken by a tall arch that glowed in the sunlight. When he was standing before it, he saw a magnificent gate in the arch that looked like mother of pearl, and the street that led to the gate looked like pure gold. He and the dog walked toward the gate, and as he got closer, he saw a man at a desk to one side. When he was close enough, he called out, "Excuse me, where are we?"

"This is heaven, sir," the man answered.
"Wow! Would you happen to have some water?" the man asked.
"Of course, sir. Come right in, and I'll have some ice water brought right up."
The man gestured, and the gate began to open.
"Can my friend," gesturing toward his dog, "come in, too?" the traveler asked.
"I'm sorry, sir, but we don't accept pets."
The man thought a moment and then turned back toward the road and continued the way he had been going.

After another long walk, and at the top of another long hill, he came to a dirt road which led through a farm gate that looked as if it had never been closed. There was no fence. As he approached the gate, he saw a man inside, leaning against a tree and reading a book.

"Excuse me!" he called to the reader. "Do you have any water?"
"Yeah, sure, there's a pump over there" The man pointed to a place that couldn't be seen from outside the gate. "Come on in."
"How about my friend here?" the traveler gestured to the dog.
"There should be a bowl by the pump."
They went through the gate, and sure enough, there was an old fashioned hand pump with a bowl beside it. The traveler filled the bowl and took a long drink himself, then he gave some to the dog. When they were full, he and the dog walked back toward the man who was standing by the tree waiting for them.

"What do you call this place?" the traveler asked.
"This is heaven," was the answer.
"Well, that's confusing," the traveler said. "The man down the road said that was heaven, too."
"Oh, you mean the place with the gold street and pearly gates? Nope. That's hell."
"Doesn't it make you mad for them to use your name like that?"
"No. I can see how you might think so, but we're just happy that they screen out the folks who'll leave their best friends behind".
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RE: Friends

always nice to hear from you Psy :))).... I missed your entries

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RE: Friends

Very sad just like my friend Wally the Whale :(

I promise Triksy I am only feeling sorry for Wally a tiny teensy weensy little bit :)

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RE: ImNotYourFriend

then u need to join ur friends for fish and chips......

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RE: ImNotYourFriend

The fish and chips maybe :)

The friends ?????? I'll get back to you on that one :(

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"Sicilian Message?"

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RE: ImNotYourFriend

Did not feel like reading psy but glad to see you are here and well....

I've just bout given up on this place :-)

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RE: ImNotYourFriend

Sort of, dear anon. When I find nice things, I remember to share with some nice people :)

I didn't see AssMan around, though.

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RE: Friends

where did you paste that one from? lol

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

Maintain a professional relationship at all times. That's my only advice.

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

Bang him and leave him... or bang him and don't teach him :)

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

I'm also a teacher. You are there to teach him not fuck him!

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you're not a professor of any classes where the subject is ethics, i hope:P
seriously, are you only asking for "advice" from strangers here just so you can receive some kind of tacit permission to go ahead and actually try to break up this guy's marriage without feeling too bad about it?
so he's good looking, so he's smart... so he's the kind of guy who can commit to a life-long monogamous relaitionship with the woman he loves.. sure, all those things must be attractive to a woman, but if you succeed in getting him to leave his wife you eliminate that last quality, and if he would dare throw away a relationship that meant enough to him to make him want to marry this other woman, well, that wouldn't be too smart of him, now would it? ..leaving him with only his good looks.. if you were a guy, i would understand if you just wanted to fuck someone you found physically attractive, hell, i would give you all the advice in the world to make that happen, but you're not a guy... so all i'm left wondering is what the hell do you think you're doing? ..what the hell do you really want from this guy?

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

The man is married so I would say hands off.

On the other hand I am available and your not my teacher so lets hook up :D

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thanks everybody on their comments. Yes, the idea of having an affair with your student is a luring one...But ... there are too many buts here, so i better quit. By the way he became a father today. Congratulations, Paul! Who can console me?;)

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

Hey I already offered :(

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

dear Im Not Your Friend- how can u console me if you are Not My Friend?hehe change ur nick and come visit me;)

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

having an affair with a married man who just TODAY became a father is alluring to you?
and to think that women generally bitch about men being the heartless, horny type... holy shit:P

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

he has no friends, therefore he can't change his nickname. However if he could work on having friends, and become socially acceptable even to the slightest degree, then there maybe hope for him marina. But I agree with you marina, I certainly wouldn't want any advice from someome with a nickname as that! Negative Connotations, is a complete turn off (in my opinion)!

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

Now that was just mean and nasty :(

There's hope for you yet lol

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

nope, wasn't intended to be mean and nasty. It was good advice, the problem is, you won't take a little "positive" advice. Marina has an excellent point, and so do others for that matter!

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

Okay if it wasn't meant to be mean and nasty you can't be in my gang :(

When the membership form I posted out to you arrives just rip it up :)

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

Fall in love with me.:)) Problem solved

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RE: falling in love with your teacher/student

my dearest easy, yu ahve always been a consolation to me. Of course if you are Easy who i know...

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Im sorry i had to have a baby to prove to you that im not available to you and that i Love my wife :(

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