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Someone left house paper
The following information was gained through much research involving men and women from all backgrounds and walks of life, but mostly from hanging out at bike shows, bars, and studio's (and i mean music studio not here in cc) well maybe here some too-cool.
Well actually i did read this one time in this forum so disregard the other statement above, but i did shared these things with some friends at those places mention above at they all laugh at me when I told them I wrote these down from someone who wrote these before in here. I did try these things out,, but it didn't work for me, so I passed it back to the room and let you think about it and have them back-cool.
It consists of the most often five questions of women in relationships, sex and in life in general. All you women and men who read this are encouraged to use the wisdom contained therin to change their behavior in accordance with the truths established below:
1. Question: How do you know if I'm ready for sex?
Answer: Ask your boyfriend, He'll know when the time is right. When it comes to love and sex, men are much responsible, since they're not emotionally confused as women. It's a proven fact.
2. Question: Should I have sex on the first date?
Answer:: YES, before if possible or to late
3. Question: What exactly happens during the act of sex?
Answer: Again, this is entirely up to man. The important thing to remember is that you must do whatever he tells you to do without a question. Sometimes, however, he may ask you to do things that may at first seem strange to you. Do them anyway.
4. Question: How long should the sex act last?
Answer: This is a natural and normal past of nature, so don't feel ashamed or embarrassed. After your man has finished making love, he'll have a natural desire to leave suddenly to go out with his friends to play golf or go out to a bar and heck maybe a nap. Don't feel left-don't feel left out while he's gone you can busy yourself by doing laundry, cleaning the house or perhaps even going out to buy him an expensive gift. He'll come back when he's ready.
5. Question: What is "afterplay"?
Answer: After a man has finished making love, he needs to replenish his manly energy. "Afterplay" is simply a list of important activities for you to do after lovemaking. This includes lighting his cigarette, making him a sandwich or pizza, bringing him a few beers, or leaving him alone to sleep.
Oh by the way my question was who is falling in love with whom here-cool-
Well actually i did read this one time in this forum so disregard the other statement above, but i did shared these things with some friends at those places mention above at they all laugh at me when I told them I wrote these down from someone who wrote these before in here. I did try these things out,, but it didn't work for me, so I passed it back to the room and let you think about it and have them back-cool.
It consists of the most often five questions of women in relationships, sex and in life in general. All you women and men who read this are encouraged to use the wisdom contained therin to change their behavior in accordance with the truths established below:
1. Question: How do you know if I'm ready for sex?
Answer: Ask your boyfriend, He'll know when the time is right. When it comes to love and sex, men are much responsible, since they're not emotionally confused as women. It's a proven fact.
2. Question: Should I have sex on the first date?
Answer:: YES, before if possible or to late
3. Question: What exactly happens during the act of sex?
Answer: Again, this is entirely up to man. The important thing to remember is that you must do whatever he tells you to do without a question. Sometimes, however, he may ask you to do things that may at first seem strange to you. Do them anyway.
4. Question: How long should the sex act last?
Answer: This is a natural and normal past of nature, so don't feel ashamed or embarrassed. After your man has finished making love, he'll have a natural desire to leave suddenly to go out with his friends to play golf or go out to a bar and heck maybe a nap. Don't feel left-don't feel left out while he's gone you can busy yourself by doing laundry, cleaning the house or perhaps even going out to buy him an expensive gift. He'll come back when he's ready.
5. Question: What is "afterplay"?
Answer: After a man has finished making love, he needs to replenish his manly energy. "Afterplay" is simply a list of important activities for you to do after lovemaking. This includes lighting his cigarette, making him a sandwich or pizza, bringing him a few beers, or leaving him alone to sleep.
Oh by the way my question was who is falling in love with whom here-cool-
dear "chaser"
Once you have 2 or 3 girls like this in your address book your life is set. But you forgot about the job she needs to have to support you.
RE: Someone left house paper
chase are you ok---you sound like something is bothering you-not cool and to you j---you want something interested--come to my room and show me your shaft and wake me up
RE: Someone left house paper
why don't you post something interesting instead of complaining ?
RE: Someone left house paper
hello eyes--im alright nothing wrong here--i think it is about other people here getting out of control (hehe) look above,-so when are you coming back on-line---cool, by the way have you seen the new custom Z475--sharp
RE: Someone left house paper
ok....let me ask u,don,do u really believe this is the way things must work out in a relation?i mean im not sure if this is ur truly point or ...anyway why u post it here this?i think u were much funny when u sow bugs.Lately i dont get ur points and this make me verry confuse about u.By the way i never lied or treat u without respect and im telling u this coz ive sow some other 2 posted messages from here and i was verry surprised and dissapointed that ive coudnt even answer to u then but i do it now if may i.So i never ask anyone and i'll never will to get in my video or 121 to have some private conversation with me.This is only theyr free option and they shoud not blame me if they think they spend too much money in 121 just to show me they respect or treat me like they do.ok?and......if i ever do a private session for smb this is my free option as well.!!!I mean its my right to decide if smb deserve or not this ok?If u want a private session and u think has been a long time u visit me in video and u have this right to ask its ok if i think the same but dont blame me im doing that with smb and i dont do that with u ok?Maybe i will with u one day u just have to be a lil patient.Was the verry first time and u cant be so unpatient(only my opinion)If i am wrong with that pls let me know ...ok?
Ps:by the way u dont know me that good if u think i share with everibody same things or thoughts or feelings or whatever i am(u know me in a way ....and things ive told u about me nobody knows them but nvm now-cool)stay cool!!and listen for me if u give a single damn shit the lirycs from Goo Goo Dolls-iris(they will tell u more about my mood right now)
Ps:by the way u dont know me that good if u think i share with everibody same things or thoughts or feelings or whatever i am(u know me in a way ....and things ive told u about me nobody knows them but nvm now-cool)stay cool!!and listen for me if u give a single damn shit the lirycs from Goo Goo Dolls-iris(they will tell u more about my mood right now)
RE: Someone left house paper
no, i dont believe this, it was passed on to me from someone,, me still trying to figure it out--cool, and me confused,,, nahhh me ok and bugs now thats what i need,, cheers and drink up...
RE: Someone left house paper
i dont think you know him to well,, chaser has never ask for a free video and I am one of his friends here and chaser if its ok I will take that list back you copy it seems it got you in trouble man.
RE: Someone left house paper
now claudia, you didnt have to say that,,,and the list didnt come from you,,, by the way,, have you seen the new harly bike out--cool
The way I am
"The circumstances of life, the events of life,
and the people around me in life,
do not make me the way I am
...but reveal the way I am."
~Dr. Sam Peeples~
and the people around me in life,
do not make me the way I am
...but reveal the way I am."
~Dr. Sam Peeples~
RE: The way I am
Psy I'm not as well read as you so I have never heard that before but it did remind me of the comment The Wizard of Oz says to the Tin Man.
A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others.
Either that or I have completely misunderstood your post :D
A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others.
Either that or I have completely misunderstood your post :D
RE: The way I am
I'm not well read either, just getting nice emails :)
And your quote is beautiful as well.. you're a great person then..
And your quote is beautiful as well.. you're a great person then..
RE: The way I am
That reminds me of a quote I was told back when I was a teenager (I think it was the same week they invented fire)...
Love isn't measured by how often you've touched each other, but by how often you've reached each other.
Love isn't measured by how often you've touched each other, but by how often you've reached each other.
RE: The way I am
Hey,Psy,u r not the only one who feel its loosing herself or her identity or even the life before but its just a matter of time ....u'll get ur every simple joys that u used to have and the way u r its still there trust me u'll see that.Deep inside u r the same dont blame urself too much or dont be so hard with urself,ok>U r not alone and this is all that matters>Try to realise that and hope u be better soon.kiss u :)
ps:by the way u reminded me some lirycs from Juwel'somebody who give a damn,smb more like my self""
ps:by the way u reminded me some lirycs from Juwel'somebody who give a damn,smb more like my self""
RE: The way I am
Psy, The quote is akin to what my grandmother used to say: "Tell me who you go with, and I'll tell you who you are."
dear "me"
I am friendly with some hosts and I'm sure some are in the same studio talking about me. And with some of them I make very hot, very emotional conversation. I don't know what they say about me to each other.
There are some that I would LOVE to try a relationship with but I assume they are "all talk, no reality" because this IS a fanatsy site. What would such a hot girl do with a guy old enough to be her dad and not very attractive, too?
There are some that I would LOVE to try a relationship with but I assume they are "all talk, no reality" because this IS a fanatsy site. What would such a hot girl do with a guy old enough to be her dad and not very attractive, too?
RE: dear
i know - i was teasing - but it would be interesting to know - because I am *truly* single and available and I would come and try to sweep you away if we liked each other
RE: IN LOVE
good lord,girl!!!i cant be so misterious or hope that guy its so clever to see that u talk about him(my opinion by the way its that u r in love with a chaser man,if u know what i mean;))and sad but true smtimes we get in love too even if it seems a silly thing to get in love with some pers from a ''cyber world''ok?
and the most stupid thing its that smtimes we dont even know how they look like.Anyway its true that if u r a deep person u may fall in love with the inner beauty,personality but.........anyway its kinda too much i mean we r not anymore some kids and we should be more realistic but we keep be some dreamers afterall and maybe this is the way we live our lifes until the end.Who knows if we ever will grow up?take care of u and wish u luck with smb who truely deserve u(K)
and the most stupid thing its that smtimes we dont even know how they look like.Anyway its true that if u r a deep person u may fall in love with the inner beauty,personality but.........anyway its kinda too much i mean we r not anymore some kids and we should be more realistic but we keep be some dreamers afterall and maybe this is the way we live our lifes until the end.Who knows if we ever will grow up?take care of u and wish u luck with smb who truely deserve u(K)
RE: IN LOVE
never fall for the"if you love me you'd send me free cam"member scam.if they like you they will be happy just chatting to you in yahoo.i can chat for hours with some cool friends here in yahoo without seeing each other.
RE: IN LOVE
Didn't you see the post from the host ready to leave her husband and take their child to be with the member that she never even met in real life yet?
Falling in love can happen both ways, but you shouldn't surrender to the emotion until you have the chance to meet the other in real and begin a REAL relationship.
Falling in love can happen both ways, but you shouldn't surrender to the emotion until you have the chance to meet the other in real and begin a REAL relationship.
RE: IN LOVE
Well, been there too, i fell in love with one guy who used to be a member here, went to meet him, we tried relationships in real...Now we are apart, gng to meet again soon, and its very hard, i mean long distance realtionships..It was much easier for the both of us untill we met...
RE: IN LOVE
if u bouth r in love truely why u dont do smt for be together??i mean love must be stronger than world's obstacles.Just be strong and fight for love if deserve it!!!Wish u luck(K)
RE: IN LOVE
Once you meet , then relationships can go well or not- can last or not,, so many things can effect this.. most relationships fail.. and we try again.. sometime we get a second chance.. sometimes not..
Sometimes a second chance is confusing,, are we just trying to prove something ? and if it failed once wont it again..
also .. with life I think best not to make rules ..
as we live and learn ,. most of them need to be broken..
Let yourself be free from rules ,,
they might be the thing that hold you back from what u really need ..
be open..
be happy..
and remember life is not supposed to be easy , or all fun..
if it was we would never appreciate the good times..
Sometimes a second chance is confusing,, are we just trying to prove something ? and if it failed once wont it again..
also .. with life I think best not to make rules ..
as we live and learn ,. most of them need to be broken..
Let yourself be free from rules ,,
they might be the thing that hold you back from what u really need ..
be open..
be happy..
and remember life is not supposed to be easy , or all fun..
if it was we would never appreciate the good times..
RE: IN LOVE
Verry nice and honestly words,M<i believe u totaly right!We must open our eyes ,heart and soul to realise how beautiful life is even in small thigs wich make us a lil joy or happiness.And by the way every god thing in word come to the ones who r patient enough with life coz life have hers own rules dont matter what .If smt its really good for u or deserve all ur pain will happend but.................if its wrong (even if u cant see that coz u r blinded of passion inside u) this its not meant to be and never will become true.Think deep on this point,iMPY!!!!
RE: IN LOVE
i feel hosts and members dont fall in love witheachother they love the idea of what they think the other really is.
RE: IN LOVE
they say the best place to meet people on the internet are either chatrooms and/or online dating agencies. Chatrooms are good because you can talk to several women and find out which one you get along with the most. There are different kinds of chatrooms depending on your interest. Heck now days you can even open up a chat window and see her and speak privately. Dating services well thats another story, but hey I did hear it works best for some. You already know before you speak to her because the agency finds out information on everyone that signs up.They're also good because you are more likely to find someone with the same interest as you that lives in the same area as you. So room all I got to say,, if people are falling in love on here in cc room--thats cool--and if you people here are playing mind games and playin people--thats not coo, hmmm im beginning to sound like a expert on dating... darn i need a drink (hehe).
P.S. By the way I hope I have helped you people out and feel free to ask anymore advice, but remember after the two of you have talked and get to know each other better (which takes time-not just a few chat talks) i wish you the best in your life-and Impy if your in love with that host--its cool.
P.S. By the way I hope I have helped you people out and feel free to ask anymore advice, but remember after the two of you have talked and get to know each other better (which takes time-not just a few chat talks) i wish you the best in your life-and Impy if your in love with that host--its cool.
RE: IN LOVE
Exactly! That's why the real meetings are so important. I am "in love" with tens of hosts here, but I am IN LOVE with only one.
RE: IN LOVE
Interesting subject... I agree with those of you who said that meeting a person in real is very important. Typing things in chat are different from spoken words and can easily be misunderstood. In person meetings give us the chance to see the other's reaction to something we say and vice versa. Also, there is a certain "vibe" one gets when talking directly to the other person that cannot be explained and that cannot be felt through written words on a computer.
Anyways, that's my five cents' worth...
Good luck, Impy!!!
Anyways, that's my five cents' worth...
Good luck, Impy!!!
my cc girlfriend
Sometimes when I go to textchat with my cc girlfriend she is in video and that nasty little slut talks in open while the Viewer is (private to...). She talks so dirty and slutty and it makes me hard as I try to figure out what he is saying. Oh! She is sooooooooo nasty.
RE: my cc girlfriend
That is the best when you are trying to figure out when to jump into an open video to catch hot action without paying for the upfront nonsense. Keep up the good work.
RE: my cc girlfriend
There was one host I used to know who insisted that a Viewer must type in open text. This served as an advertisement to what was going on and often 2 or 3 more guys would pop into the room. She insisted that THEY just watch while she obeyed the first guy.
But on the other hand I once jumped into an open video and the host was going hot at it. It was great until she realized she had a second Viewer and she jumped up and run as if she was caught by her parents. I never figured that one out.
But on the other hand I once jumped into an open video and the host was going hot at it. It was great until she realized she had a second Viewer and she jumped up and run as if she was caught by her parents. I never figured that one out.
RE: my cc girlfriend
either she enjoys fucking with ur mind or she wants to make u her cuckold and when ur together she will pick up other men bring them back to ur flat and fuck them in ur bedroom as u have to listen outside the door. all good honest fun
RE: my cc girlfriend
Yeah for pussy men with no self esteme. How could any man with self-respect let another man fook his girl?
RE: my cc girlfriend
babies i only laugh about it because it's only fantasy - in real i would NEVER do such a thing
want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
I know it wont be easy....
So help me God:)
So help me God:)
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
yes vick, just pray a lot or think about what you can do with all that money you save if you don't have to buy smokes, and if that don't work, hang out at the bars were other people are smoking and catch the second-hand smoke, I found that one works better-cool
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
If the two of you are serious about quitting I have the perfect answer.
Every time you smoke a ciggy you have to have sex with me afterwards.
I guarantee you will never touch another cigarette again :D
Every time you smoke a ciggy you have to have sex with me afterwards.
I guarantee you will never touch another cigarette again :D
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
I think I'll stick to the smoking habbit afterall=)))
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
Willpower. I had my last one 6 July 2006. No patches, no gum, no more. Go Girl, Go
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
Yeah ... trying stopping!!!
Just do it and stop delaying by asking for advice and wondering what to do. You want to stop? Then just STOP!!!
That's it, end of story.
STOP SMOKING NOW!!
Just do it and stop delaying by asking for advice and wondering what to do. You want to stop? Then just STOP!!!
That's it, end of story.
STOP SMOKING NOW!!
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
wow..thx ...tho I didnt say '' Im trying''...plus...some advice wont hurt...so....stop "yelling " at me lol
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
http://whyquit.com/joel/Joel_Index_03_Quitting_Smoking.html
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
Identify what you like and can reward yourself with when you stop. Then totally quit all smoking but the first time you get an real urge to smoke give yourself that same reward.
Compulsive addictions can only be defeated with a total withdrawal and substitution; there is little success in just cutting back but in a short time your body will rid itself of the majority of the former pleasure of it and replace it with the one you have substituted.
Compulsive addictions can only be defeated with a total withdrawal and substitution; there is little success in just cutting back but in a short time your body will rid itself of the majority of the former pleasure of it and replace it with the one you have substituted.
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
A very close friend of mine was trying to quit for 10 years ,,,
he used this word ...............im "trying ....."
and then he used i cant ......
and but ............
then 1 year ago he was diagnosed with throat cancer ...
he came to see me 1 hour after he was tld he had this..
I asked him ,, will u stop smoking ?
he said I have .. i said oh since when ?
he said 1 min after i was told ..
im not trying anymore
IM stopped .. quit .!!
and maybe 10 years and a few 1,000 £ to late ,,
and he cried..
he has survived , 3 operations , half his throat and tongue removed, radiation therapy .....
eating witha straw for many months,,,
and some very nasty looking scars ...
he is alive and thankful,,,,
dont wait till that happens ,,
dont " TRY"
just stop!!!!
..
he used this word ...............im "trying ....."
and then he used i cant ......
and but ............
then 1 year ago he was diagnosed with throat cancer ...
he came to see me 1 hour after he was tld he had this..
I asked him ,, will u stop smoking ?
he said I have .. i said oh since when ?
he said 1 min after i was told ..
im not trying anymore
IM stopped .. quit .!!
and maybe 10 years and a few 1,000 £ to late ,,
and he cried..
he has survived , 3 operations , half his throat and tongue removed, radiation therapy .....
eating witha straw for many months,,,
and some very nasty looking scars ...
he is alive and thankful,,,,
dont wait till that happens ,,
dont " TRY"
just stop!!!!
..
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
I tried that theory and rewarded myself for giving up cigarettes by having a cigar. The outcome can be easily guessed at:(
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
thank you:) a lot...apreciate the fact that u answered:) even tho..some of you were really harsh ( dont mind tho)
peace out!
peace out!
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
Get somebody to hide your lighter.. suck on something eles.. :D
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
suck on smth else.... hmmm...what would that be???
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
Kate, What makes you think it "won't be easy?" As Mark Twain said, "Giving up smoking is the easiest thing in the world. I've done it hundreds of times."
On a serious note, you must have great resolve---enough to resist the urges you will have for some time. As you well know, the greatest urges occur after a meal and when you're having a drink. I can tell you the urges will go away. I quit smoking well over 20 years ago and I have no desire for a cigarette. It was probably about a year or more before the desire left me, but it did.
It also helps to quit with a buddy. The mutual encouragement and the competiton can really help you through. As others have pointed out, "cutting back" is not the ticket; THAT is self-deception. Also, the various aids (gum, patches, 12 step programs, hypnosis, etc.) will not help one bit if you do not have the inner resolve to quit. You also have the advantage of your youth. It will be much easier to give it up now than it will be if you continue to smoke and try to give it up 20 years from now. Bon courage Kate. :)
On a serious note, you must have great resolve---enough to resist the urges you will have for some time. As you well know, the greatest urges occur after a meal and when you're having a drink. I can tell you the urges will go away. I quit smoking well over 20 years ago and I have no desire for a cigarette. It was probably about a year or more before the desire left me, but it did.
It also helps to quit with a buddy. The mutual encouragement and the competiton can really help you through. As others have pointed out, "cutting back" is not the ticket; THAT is self-deception. Also, the various aids (gum, patches, 12 step programs, hypnosis, etc.) will not help one bit if you do not have the inner resolve to quit. You also have the advantage of your youth. It will be much easier to give it up now than it will be if you continue to smoke and try to give it up 20 years from now. Bon courage Kate. :)
RE: want to quit drinking........(any ideas???..........ty)
im not a smoker unless I been drinking, so thats easy to quit,, but tell me how to quit drinking--any ideas ---and back to kate,
QUIT SMOKING ITS BAD ON YOUR GIRLY FIGURE
QUIT SMOKING ITS BAD ON YOUR GIRLY FIGURE
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
Figure out chat triggers you to smoke (stress, drinking alcohol, friends, sex :) and try to cut down those things till you stop smoking compleatly.
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
Kate... like with any addiction, it'll take a lot of willpower! That and some things that will slowly get you off the nicotine addiction: nicotine gum, "the patch", etc. I have gotten to know you as a strong person, so I am certain you can kick the addiction! Good luck!
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
while reading all posts,I felt how much I want to smoke now:) When I have read till the middle(about a guy with a cancer of his throat) I dressed and left for cigarettes.Yes,I felt no good.Many times i gave up.And..nothing..But,guys,thank you!:) I dont know how about Kate,if she gives up or not with your help,but it seems to me I have managed it now.Just several thoughts appeared in my head.First,there is a great difference between ''I want to want to give up'' and ''I want to give up''sometimes we WANT to wish,sometimes we just WISH..and second variant only works.Second,I found myself thinking how much in common I have with a donkey,which always needs a carrot in front of its eyes(stop cigarettes,start candies or other substitutions).So,three words:DEEP INNER STRENGTH..It was a solution for me,when I threw my second cigarette without finishing it.Freedom of choices is a wonderful thing:):) DONT TRY TO SUBSTITUTE,JUST FIND FREEDOM OF YOUR CHOICE INSIDE AND GIVE UP.:)
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
i read Alan Carrs - "how to give up smoking" and i stopped the habbit.
but when i quit - i suddenly created a Cam viewing habbit instead... Although i am sure healthier - my bank balance is not
but when i quit - i suddenly created a Cam viewing habbit instead... Although i am sure healthier - my bank balance is not
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
lol
still health is more important, right?;)
still health is more important, right?;)
RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)
yes...do tell ;) ( I want bigger tits too) =))
last spring break story
Spring Break is about over, darn I will have to go back to work, so here's to all you love birds out there in the world. This story for today is dedicated to you:
This man had a dream that somehow, someday, there might be her and him. He kept dreaming, hoping, wishing someday that she would look at him. Then the moment came, they got together for the first time and then later he was down and left out in the dark. She didn't pay no attention to him, she became one of them. Oh sugar why'd did you do that to him, he will neverunderstand. He thought you were his friend. He cherished you, he care for you and you knew he had feelings for you. Why'd did you have to pretend. He believed that one day you two will meet again, and then the moment came and it passed right on by.
Hmm-this story is kind of sad in a way, but it happens everyday in the real world so to all cheers, have fun, party on and stay cool
This man had a dream that somehow, someday, there might be her and him. He kept dreaming, hoping, wishing someday that she would look at him. Then the moment came, they got together for the first time and then later he was down and left out in the dark. She didn't pay no attention to him, she became one of them. Oh sugar why'd did you do that to him, he will neverunderstand. He thought you were his friend. He cherished you, he care for you and you knew he had feelings for you. Why'd did you have to pretend. He believed that one day you two will meet again, and then the moment came and it passed right on by.
Hmm-this story is kind of sad in a way, but it happens everyday in the real world so to all cheers, have fun, party on and stay cool
RE: last spring break story
ohhhhhhh hun, im in tears now that reminded me of someone that use to be close to me...Well as the story goes, dont give up....kisses
RE: cheer up story
sorry hun didn't mean to put tears in your eyes (not cool) so here is a better story for last spring break story:
a man and a woman met during spring break, had a wonderful time sharing stories and laughter, before you knew it, they fell in love with each other and became best friends and started to share each other hearts and life together---hmmm, now did you believe that story (hehe)
a man and a woman met during spring break, had a wonderful time sharing stories and laughter, before you knew it, they fell in love with each other and became best friends and started to share each other hearts and life together---hmmm, now did you believe that story (hehe)
RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)
cool birthday wishes here.never met you but happy birthday to you.
RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DOMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!! hugs and kisses to you on your special day.hope you have a great day and hope you have many more to come.
RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)
Thanks for the birthday wishes from all but its a sad day when you see your first gray public hair on your birthday!
RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)
"first gray public hair",the first one that is seen by the world?
RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)
i keep the non-public hairs shaved so you can't see the gray ones.
RE: women friendship
of course you can have women friends...
you may fancy them as well which is kind of cool - it makes superb flirting:D
RE: women friendship
of course,it can be the best friendship.like most things it depends on the people,i think.
RE: women friendship
avrOra, I'm not sure whether you are asking if we believe in friendship between two women or between a man and a woman, or both. I believe friendship is possible in all cases, but I think it's fair to say that friendship among women only is different than friendship among men only, and friendship between men and women is yet another thing.
What they all have in common, of course, is the element of care and concern for the other without looking to any advantage for oneself. Men, it seems, place a higher premium on comradery, whereas women seem more inclined toward emotional intimacy. Perhaps friendship (without a sexual bond) between a man and woman combines these two sensibilities in some mysterious way.
What's clear is that men and women find each other both irresistable and maddening. It's mankind's longest running love/hate story. Women---especially feminists---often accuse men of misogyny. No doubt many men are misogynists. However, I like H.L. Mencken's definition of a misogynist: "A man who hates women as much as they hate each other." lol! Ain't nothin' more viscious than a cat fight, right?
What they all have in common, of course, is the element of care and concern for the other without looking to any advantage for oneself. Men, it seems, place a higher premium on comradery, whereas women seem more inclined toward emotional intimacy. Perhaps friendship (without a sexual bond) between a man and woman combines these two sensibilities in some mysterious way.
What's clear is that men and women find each other both irresistable and maddening. It's mankind's longest running love/hate story. Women---especially feminists---often accuse men of misogyny. No doubt many men are misogynists. However, I like H.L. Mencken's definition of a misogynist: "A man who hates women as much as they hate each other." lol! Ain't nothin' more viscious than a cat fight, right?
RE: women friendship
Your words fill me with confidence - that there are some sensible and considered people here ,, thx Charlotte
RE: just me
The best place to get any dog is from a reliable breeder. A good breeder will guarantee the puppy will not have health problems. A good breeder will aslo make sure that the dog you are interested in is also the right type of dog for you. Make sure the kind of dog you want is a dog you can actually take care of... don't get a dog as a fashion statement! Here is a primer on Pit Bulls:
http://www.aspca.org/site/PageServer?pagename=pets_pitbull
http://www.aspca.org/site/PageServer?pagename=pets_pitbull
RE: just me
lol sorry that was not my intention.i was just trying to show that an i.o.u. was usally something that was written rather than just spoken.
RE: to professor of yesterdays post
The ideas are best dealt with in a discussion as they are not tried and proven. I'm waiting to see when we are both online to start the brainstorming.
RE: to professor of yesterdays post
Brainstorming? I thought you had this wonderful marketing plan already thought out.
Tell us the truth, you are just looking for a cheap way to chat with the girls aren't you? Girls, be weary of this snake oil salesman.
Tell us the truth, you are just looking for a cheap way to chat with the girls aren't you? Girls, be weary of this snake oil salesman.
RE: to professor of yesterdays post
No. I never said it was vetted fully. It's a list of marketing and promotional ideas that need to be fine-tuned and prioritized. That's why I asked for volunteers.
RE: to professor of yesterdays post
A wise move Charlotte. He sounds nearly as creepy as me :P
RE: :)
this should bethe purposeof this forum ...u members noticing hosts easier..ifit turns u off u should try different kind of "hobby"
hmmmm
If a man is talking..................and there is no women around.....is he still worng?
RE: hmmmm
Looks like some woman spelled "wrong" wrong...lol
women, can't live with them can't fook em for free
women, can't live with them can't fook em for free
RE: question
wow i just read what i wrote--what was i drinking.
Question was: have you ever been taken as a fool...
and to you JD and fatboy, I hope you understood the question right
Question was: have you ever been taken as a fool...
and to you JD and fatboy, I hope you understood the question right
RE: question
thanks to you all for answering, i feel a little better now to see i wasnt the only one -cool
RE: I wonder
No, it has absolutely nothing to do with a fictional character's mood. The air can't hold anymore moisture, the moisture then condenses and is released as water droplets..
RE: I wonder
Then how do you explain thunder Mr Smarty Pants? My momma said thunder is when the gods are bowling, so it must be true. So tthhppptt :P
RE: I wonder
Rain = God\'s having a piss
Thunder = God\'s having a fart
God knows what happens when he has a shit!!
Thunder = God\'s having a fart
God knows what happens when he has a shit!!
RE: I wonder
Yes, I'm sure he is. However, God must have a multiple personality disorder because 50 km away it is clear and sunny, which no doubt shows he is happy and smiling. In yet another place on the planet there is a fierce snow storm, so he must be in a terribly cold-hearted mood. And finally, on another part of the earth there is scorching sun and drought that kills all that grows there. So clearly he is in a wrathful mood. So, I'm not sure what to make of this God!
RE: Question for viewers
Think u need to read the category description ''InstantAction'' does what it says on the tin ... but if it was me i wouldnt enter if someone was already in vid ...its not right in my opinion..
RE: Question for viewers
This is a difficult one. The main thing is you told the second guy the situation. He was probably hoping that by joining an instant action vid when someone was in there he would find you naked. I suppose if you wanted to offer the best customer sevice possible you could have told him that he could get a refund for the time he spent.
RE: Question for viewers
simple, legs a kimbo cam looking up at u, so u can chat and the other guy can watch u play, u need 2b multi-functional in instant action, and please many...
but.
if the first guy had just requested her to move the camera from her pussy that he was just paying to see, and as he is the 1st member having the priority, and he now desires to view her smiling face for a moment before asking to see the next part of his ''show''
when all of a sudden the ''fuck you'' guy walks into the play after the actor has completed scene 1 and demands that the actor start over from the begining....see my ticket its for the whole play start it again!!
and they say im rude to hosts :O
when all of a sudden the ''fuck you'' guy walks into the play after the actor has completed scene 1 and demands that the actor start over from the begining....see my ticket its for the whole play start it again!!
and they say im rude to hosts :O
RE: Question for viewers
lol he was deffo rude, but pay no heed - Laugh it off x the f word flows freely in instant action x
RE: Question for viewers
You were most correct. The one thing I might suggest it to have a note on the screen saying "You are welcome to enter and watch but the first guy is the Director any more viewers will be Voyeurs if I can't work your request in."
Either that or give 1to1 at the same price as Open.
Either that or give 1to1 at the same price as Open.
RE: Question for viewers
why funny ?
some are there and back again,
some have 2 names 1 for hot days other for shy days..
some do non adult here and adult other places lol..
when u consider they are all adults,,,,(over 18) and most have some adult experience -( however angelic they might behave here- i did find 2 who had kids....) so sometime will want to express their sexuality......( some seem to have had it removed tho lol)
but not weird
all normal ..
and they are women ..
and change minds a lot lol
some are there and back again,
some have 2 names 1 for hot days other for shy days..
some do non adult here and adult other places lol..
when u consider they are all adults,,,,(over 18) and most have some adult experience -( however angelic they might behave here- i did find 2 who had kids....) so sometime will want to express their sexuality......( some seem to have had it removed tho lol)
but not weird
all normal ..
and they are women ..
and change minds a lot lol
RE: Question for viewers
Well, I see the CC removed the definitions of what to expect in Adult categories, but in Instant Action a Viewer can expect quick nudity.
However in this case another guy was giving his instructions, which the host was following. The second guy can't expect his wishes to be followed if they were in direct opposition to what was already happening.
In this case you should discretely left and requested a refund.
However in this case another guy was giving his instructions, which the host was following. The second guy can't expect his wishes to be followed if they were in direct opposition to what was already happening.
In this case you should discretely left and requested a refund.
i DEMAND
CC to ban his pitiful ass.
You did the right thing by telling him that your busy with a member that is first in line. if he wants you all for himself then there is something called 121.
You did the right thing by telling him that your busy with a member that is first in line. if he wants you all for himself then there is something called 121.
RE: Question for viewers
Doesn't Instant Action mean INSTANT ACTION?? Who gives a shit if some guy was there 1st, he didn't choose 1-2-1 so he will lose out in the "I was here 1st" rhetoric. A paying member visits a host in instant action, he has the right to complain espically if the host tells him 'fuck you". I know one thing for sure, you should stay in little shy if you aren't ready for the big league.
RE: Question for viewers
read her post again..she didnt say "fuck u"...he did..."He says he'll report me and then he tells me "fuck you"."
RE: Question for viewers
The first Viewer ALWAYS has priority and in the case of dueling instruction HE is the one wh directs things. You should NEVER enter a video without textchatting first to be sure she is willing/able to give what you want. In your case the first Viewer defined and was satisfied with the action he wa getting.
What if he didn't WANT her to strip and his desire was exactly what you saw? Who does HE complain to? Does he get the refund from YOUR credit card.
First guys gets dibs.
What if he didn't WANT her to strip and his desire was exactly what you saw? Who does HE complain to? Does he get the refund from YOUR credit card.
First guys gets dibs.
RE: Question for viewers
first off, if you re-read the original post, it was the viewer that told the host to fuck off, not the host that said it.
secondly, your logic is flawed... it has always been first come first served in video and that is the position that CC has always taken on the matter when viewer complaints are made. since viewers are made keenly aware of when a host is in a video session already by the video options available to them... BEFORE they enter video... they have the ability to decide whether to enter or come back later before they spend any of their money with the host. any viewers entering after the first video has already started are gambling with their money and know they might not get the show they want. nobody forced them to enter video. their choice and they have no right to complain afterwards.
thirdly, again your logic is flawed and furthermore, your stance as "paying member" is narcissistic. Every member in a chargable video session is a paying member, including the guy that was already in video before you entered, so why should your dollar be more important and get preferential treatment over his? u say that if the first guy wanted to have control and run the show, then he should have paid more and opted for 1-2-1, yet you as a second viewer in video believe you should be able to barge into a session, take it over and be able to run it and only pay the lower open session prices. explain to me, exactly what makes you more important than all other viewers and not required to opt for the 1-2-1 session, which you say all other viewers must pay for if they want to run the show? you give one set of rules for yourself and a completely different set of rules for all other viewers. to be honest, you sound like a spoiled child who thinks the world revolves around them and that stamps their feet and cries " paying member" when they don't get what they want. is that what constitutes as being a "man" nowadays? God, I hope not.
secondly, your logic is flawed... it has always been first come first served in video and that is the position that CC has always taken on the matter when viewer complaints are made. since viewers are made keenly aware of when a host is in a video session already by the video options available to them... BEFORE they enter video... they have the ability to decide whether to enter or come back later before they spend any of their money with the host. any viewers entering after the first video has already started are gambling with their money and know they might not get the show they want. nobody forced them to enter video. their choice and they have no right to complain afterwards.
thirdly, again your logic is flawed and furthermore, your stance as "paying member" is narcissistic. Every member in a chargable video session is a paying member, including the guy that was already in video before you entered, so why should your dollar be more important and get preferential treatment over his? u say that if the first guy wanted to have control and run the show, then he should have paid more and opted for 1-2-1, yet you as a second viewer in video believe you should be able to barge into a session, take it over and be able to run it and only pay the lower open session prices. explain to me, exactly what makes you more important than all other viewers and not required to opt for the 1-2-1 session, which you say all other viewers must pay for if they want to run the show? you give one set of rules for yourself and a completely different set of rules for all other viewers. to be honest, you sound like a spoiled child who thinks the world revolves around them and that stamps their feet and cries " paying member" when they don't get what they want. is that what constitutes as being a "man" nowadays? God, I hope not.
RE: Question for viewers
Ok, I re-read her post and see it was the member that said F/U. My bad.
As for the other stuff you said, I'm not saying the other guy is allowed to take over the show and he should have done some texting 1st to see what's up (that's what I would have done). But come on, you/me/he enters a instant action room, shouldn't there be instant action? If the 1st guy wanted to chat for a few minutes he should have either taken her in 1-2-1 or realized he is taking a instant action host in open vid and he is rolling the dice on his show as well as the 2nd guy joining afterwards.
As for the other stuff you said, I'm not saying the other guy is allowed to take over the show and he should have done some texting 1st to see what's up (that's what I would have done). But come on, you/me/he enters a instant action room, shouldn't there be instant action? If the 1st guy wanted to chat for a few minutes he should have either taken her in 1-2-1 or realized he is taking a instant action host in open vid and he is rolling the dice on his show as well as the 2nd guy joining afterwards.
RE: Question for viewers
HE was paying for what HE wanted. Therefore since HE is first HE calls the shots.
It is true that MOST guys going into Instant Action expect a naked broad spread-eagled on the bed. God knows, that what I expect when I jump into an active session.
But I'm also grown-up enough to know that when I jump into a video without setting the parameters in text that I am taking my chances. I have never asked for a refund after I jumped into a video unless the cam was not working.
Grow up, Paying Member. You wasted maybe one minute viewtime? That's the chance you take. Learn from it.
It is true that MOST guys going into Instant Action expect a naked broad spread-eagled on the bed. God knows, that what I expect when I jump into an active session.
But I'm also grown-up enough to know that when I jump into a video without setting the parameters in text that I am taking my chances. I have never asked for a refund after I jumped into a video unless the cam was not working.
Grow up, Paying Member. You wasted maybe one minute viewtime? That's the chance you take. Learn from it.
RE: Question for viewers
I'm wondering if it was one of her regulars that was the first guy? This way she gets to play the game ,and doesnt have to strip
RE: Question for viewers
With that in mind dear Charlotte4U we can be sure I will NEVER ask you to take a single thing off in a video.
RE: Question for viewers
You handled the situation correctly, the second viewer was just getting pissy and throwing a tantrum because he did not get his way. Very childish... thought this was an adult site... anyway, even if he does report you to CC, they will not issue you any penalites because he was not the first viewer in your video and you informed him that you were already in the middle of a show with someone that did not want to see u naked and gave him the option to wait or to come back later, so after that point it was his choice to stay in video, knowing he would not see u naked until the the first viewer left, and it was his choice to continue spending money in vid to argue about it, so they will not give him a refund either.
but after reading your profile and seeing what you wrote under expectations.... i.e. "Please don't ask for nudity, not even in one2one, because you won't see it" i would advise you to stay out of the instant action category. the instant action category was created for action, not talk and nudity is expected without delay if a viewer asks for it. if you do not want to take your clothes off, stay in the non-adult category or at the most, the little shy category. if you refuse to strip ever, as your profile inplies, and have your session open in instant action, CC can and will give you penalty points and refund viewers if they ask you to strip and you refuse to do it. if however, you have changed your hosting policy and now do nudity in video, then update your profile accordingly. the categories can be confusing enough for viewers trying to find what they are looking for, don't make it harder for them... stay in the appropriate category for the show you choose to offer.
but after reading your profile and seeing what you wrote under expectations.... i.e. "Please don't ask for nudity, not even in one2one, because you won't see it" i would advise you to stay out of the instant action category. the instant action category was created for action, not talk and nudity is expected without delay if a viewer asks for it. if you do not want to take your clothes off, stay in the non-adult category or at the most, the little shy category. if you refuse to strip ever, as your profile inplies, and have your session open in instant action, CC can and will give you penalty points and refund viewers if they ask you to strip and you refuse to do it. if however, you have changed your hosting policy and now do nudity in video, then update your profile accordingly. the categories can be confusing enough for viewers trying to find what they are looking for, don't make it harder for them... stay in the appropriate category for the show you choose to offer.
RE: Question for viewers
She was not reluctant to perform. It was just no possible to do what both members wanted. A final point is that, although she does not say, the guy who just wanted to talk is probably a regular whereas the guy who wanted the strip may be new to her. If the choice is to upset a regular or a new guy then the best business descision is to upset the new guy.
RE: Question for viewers
She is great there ,,, and did a very cute show ,, i waited till she was free .. thats all .. was simple ..
very good too
very good too
RE: Question for viewers
You were right to tell him to return later and you would give him a show then. He was rude to you.
RE: Question for viewers
personally id of thought that if u click in2 a show already in IA youd be seeing pussy & nudity, ACTION, chat is for the other categories, of course we chat in IA, but nudity and playing is something thats already going on in my room, even b4 any1 enters, but yeah the 1st viewer is the Director..
RE: Question for viewers
and personally Id block him 4 rudeness, and when he returns get an apology b4 u let him enter your vid again.
RE: Question for viewers
U did right .. If your busy .. he waits his turn....
You did right .. and advised him quick,, so , he can stay or go..
and he would have known your busy before he entered cam.... so he is always taking a chance what your doing ..
sometimes u get lucky sometimes not - HIS risk
and your very cute still .!!! hehe
You did right .. and advised him quick,, so , he can stay or go..
and he would have known your busy before he entered cam.... so he is always taking a chance what your doing ..
sometimes u get lucky sometimes not - HIS risk
and your very cute still .!!! hehe
RE: Question for viewers
First of all thank you all for taking time and reply to my question. That was very nice of you and I appreciate it :) (K)
About profile: I am in non-adult usually, yesterday it was the only day I was in instant action. I was there for 3 reasons:
1. I was dieing to try the game :D
2. I wanted to keep some of my old promises to some guys and since I respect the rules, I had to be in an adult category.
3. I needed a bit more money because now I have to pay the immigration papers and they r damn expencive.
This being said - the only day in adult - I didn't changed the profile, because being in Instant Action is a very good clue that I WILL get naked, right? As I said: I respect the rules CC has for their categories. Plus I really didn't have time to change the profile at all, as I have been very very busy..
Now: I don't usually ask people to come in one 2 one. As a matter of fact I ask only one guy, but that is a part of the roleplay we play. One of my personal rules is NOT to ask for 1 2 1. If someone wants that, he will come there without me asking it. I don't find it fair to ask people to pay more when I don't provide anything different in one to one than open session, no matter the category I am in. I think at one 2 one exactly as CC said it is supposed to be: privacy, nothing more. And I pesonaly don't like the girls who use 1 2 1 to milk more money, is NOT fair!!
Now, even if it is Instant Action, I believe that the guy who wants to just talk is entitled to talk at the lower price in open session as well as the guys who want to see a show in open session. Why would I ask the guy to come in one 2 one and pay more for just talk? That isn't fair again!
The other guys who come are warned that there is already someone else in there, I don't force anyone to come to my room, so I expect a little bit of understanding from them as well as they expect from me. I told him that I WILL give him a show after the other guy leaves. And I do keep my word, especially because I knew the category I was in and I knew what it is expected there.
And I would have given him a refund if I could. In fact I think I'll write CC to give him a refund. After all the guy didn't saw what he was paying for.
Thanks again for all your replies and any critics that u might have, please feel free to share, is the only way I can improve my performance here :)
About profile: I am in non-adult usually, yesterday it was the only day I was in instant action. I was there for 3 reasons:
1. I was dieing to try the game :D
2. I wanted to keep some of my old promises to some guys and since I respect the rules, I had to be in an adult category.
3. I needed a bit more money because now I have to pay the immigration papers and they r damn expencive.
This being said - the only day in adult - I didn't changed the profile, because being in Instant Action is a very good clue that I WILL get naked, right? As I said: I respect the rules CC has for their categories. Plus I really didn't have time to change the profile at all, as I have been very very busy..
Now: I don't usually ask people to come in one 2 one. As a matter of fact I ask only one guy, but that is a part of the roleplay we play. One of my personal rules is NOT to ask for 1 2 1. If someone wants that, he will come there without me asking it. I don't find it fair to ask people to pay more when I don't provide anything different in one to one than open session, no matter the category I am in. I think at one 2 one exactly as CC said it is supposed to be: privacy, nothing more. And I pesonaly don't like the girls who use 1 2 1 to milk more money, is NOT fair!!
Now, even if it is Instant Action, I believe that the guy who wants to just talk is entitled to talk at the lower price in open session as well as the guys who want to see a show in open session. Why would I ask the guy to come in one 2 one and pay more for just talk? That isn't fair again!
The other guys who come are warned that there is already someone else in there, I don't force anyone to come to my room, so I expect a little bit of understanding from them as well as they expect from me. I told him that I WILL give him a show after the other guy leaves. And I do keep my word, especially because I knew the category I was in and I knew what it is expected there.
And I would have given him a refund if I could. In fact I think I'll write CC to give him a refund. After all the guy didn't saw what he was paying for.
Thanks again for all your replies and any critics that u might have, please feel free to share, is the only way I can improve my performance here :)
you said...
"I miss being online when I am not" and I said "Many hosts get as hooked as members." I meant both hosts and member get hooked on being online.
RE: Question for viewers
If only more had your thought for customer care .!!!
there are many hosts that can learn a lot from you !!
Im sure there are many here who honestly believe they cannot improve...
like thats ever possible ..
Great attitude..
Great girl
wish you much luck ..
was nice talking to u again last night too.
there are many hosts that can learn a lot from you !!
Im sure there are many here who honestly believe they cannot improve...
like thats ever possible ..
Great attitude..
Great girl
wish you much luck ..
was nice talking to u again last night too.
RE: Question for viewers
Hi Lotte, just wanted to say that I think u acted perfectly right! I feel that way, that if i was first i can have the kind of show I want - even in instantaction ;) Take Care and good luck with everything!
Heart
hello neighbors and friends, after last night in chat room a topic came up on how some people hurt some people feelings long time ago and it seems today it like it never happen so the saying is:
love the heart that hurts but never hurt the heart that loves, when you see your love deeply divided in her mind about whom to love despite all your love flowing to her nothing can be more painful than watching her loving someone else:
stay cool and open your heart up
love the heart that hurts but never hurt the heart that loves, when you see your love deeply divided in her mind about whom to love despite all your love flowing to her nothing can be more painful than watching her loving someone else:
stay cool and open your heart up
RE: Heart
Dude, I fell in love with a chathost here, but she had two guys chasing her. The other guy won. I can still be open to her, as she has since said she made a big mistake and should have chosen me. She is on her way back to Constanta and wants me to stay in touch with her.
RE: Heart
(sniffle) and last night night someone said a bad word....bad words make me feel bad (sobbing). Forget non-adult category, I'm living proof of a "non-adult"
Seeking a raise
I, the Penis, hereby request a raise in salary for the following reasons:
I do physical labour
I work at great depths
I work head first
I do not get RDO's, weekends off or public holidays
I work in a damp environment
I work in a dark workplace that has poor ventilation
I work in high temperatures
My work exposes me to contagious diseases
Response from People & Quality:
After assessing your request, and considering the arguments you have raised, the administration rejects your request for the following reasons:
You do not work 8 hours straight
You fall asleep on the job after brief work periods
You do not always follow the order of the management team
You do not stay in your allocated position, and often visit other areas
You take a lot of non-rostered breaks
You do not take initiative - you need to be pressured and stimulated in order to start working
You leave the workplace rather messy at the end of your shift
You don't always observe OH&S measures, such as wearing the correct protective outfits
You don't wait till pension age before retiring
You don't like working double shifts
You sometimes leave your position before you have completed the day's work
And if that were not all, you have been seen constantly entering and leaving the work place carrying 2 suspicious looking bags
I do physical labour
I work at great depths
I work head first
I do not get RDO's, weekends off or public holidays
I work in a damp environment
I work in a dark workplace that has poor ventilation
I work in high temperatures
My work exposes me to contagious diseases
Response from People & Quality:
After assessing your request, and considering the arguments you have raised, the administration rejects your request for the following reasons:
You do not work 8 hours straight
You fall asleep on the job after brief work periods
You do not always follow the order of the management team
You do not stay in your allocated position, and often visit other areas
You take a lot of non-rostered breaks
You do not take initiative - you need to be pressured and stimulated in order to start working
You leave the workplace rather messy at the end of your shift
You don't always observe OH&S measures, such as wearing the correct protective outfits
You don't wait till pension age before retiring
You don't like working double shifts
You sometimes leave your position before you have completed the day's work
And if that were not all, you have been seen constantly entering and leaving the work place carrying 2 suspicious looking bags
chat and inteligence and fun..
I wonder if anyone has the same experience as me ..
after 3 years here and many 100's of chats..
I have still not found any non adult hosts , that can chat , have intelligent conversations , humour and have fun. as much as adult hosts. I have tried all sections ..
and continue to find the best chats in adult..
more honesty , and less attitude, more relaxed, and often far more appreciative.. and often a genuine interest , and often much smarter..
many non adult , certainly any that think they are pretty, seem to feel they are doing you a favour just letting you chat..
I am guessing this is a reflection of their -" real " personality... as it seems natural to them..
and some are so touchy if u even start to flirt , however innocently...
What do you find ?
is this how you find it too ?
after 3 years here and many 100's of chats..
I have still not found any non adult hosts , that can chat , have intelligent conversations , humour and have fun. as much as adult hosts. I have tried all sections ..
and continue to find the best chats in adult..
more honesty , and less attitude, more relaxed, and often far more appreciative.. and often a genuine interest , and often much smarter..
many non adult , certainly any that think they are pretty, seem to feel they are doing you a favour just letting you chat..
I am guessing this is a reflection of their -" real " personality... as it seems natural to them..
and some are so touchy if u even start to flirt , however innocently...
What do you find ?
is this how you find it too ?
RE: chat and inteligence and fun..
<<is this how you find it too ?>>
No. I too have been here for years and have had a lot of experience. IMO, you are seeing something that isn't there. You have made a mental distinction between non-adult and adult hosts, and have proven your theory by introducing your preconceptions to the mix. It's no different than in "the real world." You can find sexy intelligent women anywhere.
No. I too have been here for years and have had a lot of experience. IMO, you are seeing something that isn't there. You have made a mental distinction between non-adult and adult hosts, and have proven your theory by introducing your preconceptions to the mix. It's no different than in "the real world." You can find sexy intelligent women anywhere.
RE: chat and inteligence and fun..
I dont think anyone is more intelligent, funny, genuine and engaging than Monikababe, Juliane, Triksy, Chickory Blue and many others. Adult hosts are business women. Non adult hosts are women.
RE: chat and inteligence and fun..
I have chatted to all those, seen in cam too, and yes chick can be ok, the others , often seem bored ,, in my opinion..
and far to expensive for just a chat...
and usually not that interested to chat without cam. hard to chat for any time as they seem to have a few fav that they leave u waiting for replies / or forget where the conversation was .. or even do the one word replies .., then you look and they are often also chatting in com chat ...( yes even while u wait for a reply in their room , try it sometime ;) ) we know some of them do adult .. but at a price well beyond their performance , 4 sure..
in my opinion.!!!
and far to expensive for just a chat...
and usually not that interested to chat without cam. hard to chat for any time as they seem to have a few fav that they leave u waiting for replies / or forget where the conversation was .. or even do the one word replies .., then you look and they are often also chatting in com chat ...( yes even while u wait for a reply in their room , try it sometime ;) ) we know some of them do adult .. but at a price well beyond their performance , 4 sure..
in my opinion.!!!
RE: chat and inteligence and fun..
Non-adult are also business women as they are here to make money too (a generalisation)
RE: chat and inteligence and fun..
lol
is there a way to make a distinction thats not mental ?
I am saying as i find it...
I still have not found what I assumed was suposed to be interesting girls looking for nice chats " non adult " ao if non adult what else can they be here for ??? must be their sole purpose ..
only reason to be here is = make new friends .. yes ?
so you would thing they would be expert at this...
But I find the opposite ...
more wanting to be friendly , and chat , in adult ...
less asking for vid in adult..
more patience.. and less attitude ..
thats my experience..
I am certain u can find nice people in all sections..
( and a lot here work both, or have changed names and moved both ways - eg abovex , charlotte4u, emanuelle69 / 20 )
But still I find it easier and nicer with adult , for a non adult time ..
thats my experience..
here and also on IM
a few more NOn adult refuse to use IM also, lol. so who is really after making a friend ?
is there a way to make a distinction thats not mental ?
I am saying as i find it...
I still have not found what I assumed was suposed to be interesting girls looking for nice chats " non adult " ao if non adult what else can they be here for ??? must be their sole purpose ..
only reason to be here is = make new friends .. yes ?
so you would thing they would be expert at this...
But I find the opposite ...
more wanting to be friendly , and chat , in adult ...
less asking for vid in adult..
more patience.. and less attitude ..
thats my experience..
I am certain u can find nice people in all sections..
( and a lot here work both, or have changed names and moved both ways - eg abovex , charlotte4u, emanuelle69 / 20 )
But still I find it easier and nicer with adult , for a non adult time ..
thats my experience..
here and also on IM
a few more NOn adult refuse to use IM also, lol. so who is really after making a friend ?
RE: chat and inteligence and fun..
Did you try chatting with RedPassion? Very friendly, good fun and definitely very intelligent. You should also remember that a non-adult host who is truly interested in making friends may decide she does not want to chat with those she feels have nothing in common with her. I have chatted with hosts like this some of whom became good friends. Others we realised that friendship was never going to happen.
to wonder
Have you ever thought that your level of intelligence may not be sufficient for some girls?
Seems you think you're too intelligent for the girls.But maybe you didn't show yourself as an intelligent person so they decided not to have an intelligent discussion. So they decided you 're here not for intelligent chat and just for fun.
To this situation you can apply the words of "A Viewer" : "You should also remember that a non-adult host who is truly interested in making friends may decide she does not want to chat with those she feels have nothing in common with her."
I'd like to add that you can't always judge a persons intelligence, humor, etc. in a 5 minute chat. Everyone is different.Some people may be too inhibited with strangers.
They can not show you their sense humour as they don't know you and can't be sure about your reaction to some specific jokes.They can not start an intelligent chat with you as they don't know your level of intellegence and what you're interested in, why you entered their chat, ...
I have chatted with many hosts from non-adult and adult categories.I haven't noticed that the level of intelligence does not correspond with the category that the host is in.
Seems you think you're too intelligent for the girls.But maybe you didn't show yourself as an intelligent person so they decided not to have an intelligent discussion. So they decided you 're here not for intelligent chat and just for fun.
To this situation you can apply the words of "A Viewer" : "You should also remember that a non-adult host who is truly interested in making friends may decide she does not want to chat with those she feels have nothing in common with her."
I'd like to add that you can't always judge a persons intelligence, humor, etc. in a 5 minute chat. Everyone is different.Some people may be too inhibited with strangers.
They can not show you their sense humour as they don't know you and can't be sure about your reaction to some specific jokes.They can not start an intelligent chat with you as they don't know your level of intellegence and what you're interested in, why you entered their chat, ...
I have chatted with many hosts from non-adult and adult categories.I haven't noticed that the level of intelligence does not correspond with the category that the host is in.
RE: chat and inteligence and fun..
I forget 1 host,,, one you know well too .. tata ,,one of the sexiest dressed or undressed ... smart too...and made u feel very welcome... a real woman..
she was exception... but also could be adult,,
she was exception... but also could be adult,,
RE: chat and inteligence and fun..
I agree. One host in non-adult even says in her profile she expects viewers to entertain her. Adult hosts are at least honest , many non-adult consider themselves superior to the rest.
RE: chat and inteligence and fun..
I've always enjoyed my chats with Gortensia and Triksy. And also StormAngel when she was here.
RE: HiLo
lol Charlotte why the sad face. You can always move to adult permanently :P I was too late to give you my number :(
Great answer to the Not in the mood question below :D
Monikababe I hope you are paying attention :)
Great answer to the Not in the mood question below :D
Monikababe I hope you are paying attention :)
RE: HiLo
does this mean when you go back 2 non adult you'll only be stripping in 121 there ??? if so wot is your 121 price in non adult 4 the strip show, and whats the price in IA when you make a guest appearance?
RE: HiLo
presumably not allowed by cc as that would be an admission that non-adult is not really what it says - though at least it would make it clearer which girls are prepared to strip.
personally i am slightly to surprised to see an "adult" host who i understand does not strip fully in video (unless maybe it is just me she doesn't like! :) ) who is playing the card game with 3 cards.
though i am not going to bother entering video to find out the 3 items are hat, scarf and jumper or something like that
personally i am slightly to surprised to see an "adult" host who i understand does not strip fully in video (unless maybe it is just me she doesn't like! :) ) who is playing the card game with 3 cards.
though i am not going to bother entering video to find out the 3 items are hat, scarf and jumper or something like that
RE: HiLo
I would assume everyone knows this is a means of extending video time? I mean there may be a few who think it is just great fun but I would guess it will add a lot of time.
RE: HiLo
Not if u r smart u won't waste time. Its a different way to spend time, I agree, but its fun when u love games, hehehe
if...
if you were kidnapped and had to choose between ur gf/wife/bf/husbands life or ur childs life...what would u do??
RE: if...
i would always think that would have to be your child's life (though i haven't got any).
and that is not just because of the hassle you would get from your wife over letting your child die!
and that is not just because of the hassle you would get from your wife over letting your child die!
RE: if...
errrr '' if you were kidnapped'' hmm if i was kidnapped they wouldnt be holding my wife or child ......
RE: Hmmm
Evil.... me and one of my friends talk about this all the time lol... Good vs Evil
Dark Side vs Light Side
Evil is winning at the moment because lets face it the majority of the world has gone to shit lol!
Dark Side vs Light Side
Evil is winning at the moment because lets face it the majority of the world has gone to shit lol!