General Forum

he he

my littlon said 2 granny 2day, "Granny can u make a noise like a frog?" Granny said whys that hunny? littlon said "Cause Mummy says when u croak it, we're all going 2 Disneyland" xx
Open thread

Reply

RE: he he

lol he he indeed

Reply

RE: he he

hehe, kids so cute...waiting for granny to die just to get some money, so charming, his parents must have taught him well.

Reply

RE: he he

i think the whole point is the kid doesn't realise what it means

Reply

Confused

Are there members that actually come here and pay $2--$3--$4/min to just chat? What I mean is.....................you really pay this much to JUST TALK?? .......................................I am just amazed at the number of non-adult hosts that say they DO NOT do anything BUT chat...and they charge $3-4/minute. WOW
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Confused

there used to be a viewer here that asked non-adult hosts to raise their price to $5, then chat only to them for an hour.

go figure. remember, to some, $4 is like $40, but to the next it might be as insignificant as .40

Reply

RE: Confused

Not surprising. Guys like this are not rare. Sadly, their whole sense of self is predicated on money, just as some women ARE their (often just purchased) tits. For them Being=Money (or Tits). Strip them of these things and they, in effect, disappear.

I remember being in an open chatroom (not CC) of a woman. There were perhaps 5 guys in the room. We all offered our two cents. I managed to engage the woman's interest, but it did not sit well with some ill-bred fellow in our midst. Suddenly, out of nowhere, he verbally attacks me in a sadly laughable way: "I've got more money in my left pocket than you are worth!" he said. Apart from the obvious fact that he had no knowledge of my "worth"--as it is curiously called--it was a ludicrous thing to say and not really worthy of a response. Still, I could not help but respond with mocking, dripping sarcasm. "Wow, what a man!!," I said. "I am so impressed that you equate your manhood on how much money you have in your pocket!" I then asked him, "Hey man, do you think you could get a hard-on if you had no money in your pocket?" He left the room, presumably to impress some other host with his money. Sad.

Reply

RE: Confused

I share your amazement, Dav, but Unique Angel is right. If a host has maintained this high price for some time it must mean there are those who will pay it. So, it's a simple law of economics: seeing what the market will bear. For some it's no doubt a calculated risk to forego the business of the many in the lower price range in the belief that they will find a few high-rollers (for whom money is the only measure of worth) who are willing to pay top dollar.

The psychology at work here for hosts and guests alike is amusing because unlike a car, for example, one cannot point to materials and superior engineering as the basis for the higher cost. However, there are those guests who believe that because a host charges more she must be superior. I frankly see little, if any, correlation between a host's price and her collective virtues of beauty, charm, intelligence, wit, etc. I have met some delightful women who charge very little and some very nasty, sarcastic, self-satisfied snots, utterly without charm and not endowed with more than ordinary looks, whose inflated opinion of themselves is reflected in their price. But hey, I guess they must have a clientele. Together they play out their complementary illusions---a sort of 'folie a deux.'

Reply

RE: Confused

I understand that Angel is saying...and EasyTouch also, but I am still amazed. Yes there are some BEAUTIFUL girls here, but to drop $100 just to talk with someone is CRAZY. (TO ME .) :))

Reply

RE: Confused

There are suckers born every minute and like the sheep they pay without thinking and the wolves are here to eat em up.

Reply

RE: Confused

Lol! Mr. Barnum, Its uncanny that you should make an appearance here. I was going to quote your famous line, "Never give a sucker an even break," but I did not! Perhaps you know H.L.Mencken's works. He once remarked, "No one has ever gone broke underestimating the intelligence of the general public." (Are you old enough to remember that guy that sold "pet rocks"? )

Reply

RE: Confused

Melomane you may laugh at people like me who bought "pet rocks".

But my friend bought a dog two years after I bought my pet rock which I called Rocky (ok I know I have no imagination). Now sadly his dog has passed away but Rocky is still here with me.

See I don't look so stupid now do I ? :D Best £1,000 I ever spent.

Still haven't taught Rocky to fetch yet though :(

Reply

Re: Your pet rock

INYF, I don't know if it is true, but I read or heard somewhere that the guy that marketed the rocks, did so on a bet with his fellow businessmen.
I heard the guy was in and remarked, "The public is so stupid, I could sell them rocks."
His colleages protested, "The public isn't that stupid. They're not gonna buy rocks."

The guys said, "Wanna bet?".....and the rest is history. This guy won the bet and made a tidy little sum to boot! It's all in the advertising.

Orwell's definition of "Advertising" : "The rattling of a stick inside a swill bucket." Cheers!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

Advice

Advice
=======

Be careful from whom you get your advice.

Make sure they are where you want to go
or at least headed there.

For sooner or later, their advice will take you
where they are.

Make sure you want to go there.


~A MountainWings Original~
Open thread

Reply

RE: Advice

good advice

Reply

RE: Advice

Glad to see you are still around Psy

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: new members for me?

silly me......sounds like fun

Reply

"Bodybuilder"

ok room,, my spring break is up,, and this has been one of those weeks it seems i lost my head and was thinking to much,,hmmm,, to much time was on my hand,, I should had been working on my bike more.. Well anyway to get back to normal and my mind I think is cleared up, wanted to share this with you. I had someone ask me last night at the bar,,,do you think you want to trim your body up, eat well, quit drinking and maintain a relatively lean physique. Be able to prove that I have the mental and physical ability to get it done...they were preferring me to take bodybuilding classes.
...hmmmmm, well ny first thought was are you crazy,, and then my second thought was,,, this sounds like hard work and I have to reach goals,,, then my third thought was yes, why not, that would be great,, and then after that fourth beer,, reality kick in and said what are you thinking man....................just start drinking lite beer.....
Open thread

Reply

RE:

bodybuilders---i love women bodybuilders

Reply

RE:

Light beer from Miller...................Tastes Great!!

Reply

RE:

............and less filling

Reply

RE:

TASTE GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Reply

Rus Women are so Beautiful

Rus women are so beautiful but their noses are sort of big............
Open thread

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

Quit looking at the face, when a stunning rack is on view.

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

Only one Russian lady is special for me,she knows who she is. She is very beautiful.

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

nose mmmm--mine is big too,,,,,

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

they say, beauty is within,, not on the outside

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

I just adore Russian women. They are gorgeous and always nice, never sarcastic or uninterested. Three cheers for Russian women !!!!!!!!!!!!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

I looked at your pix.......your nose is normal size so you are on my fav list now :)

BTW..........I agree rus women are best looking on planet :)

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

Im russian but my nose is not big its perfect lol) I don't look russian tho:P Kisss davedavemyslave)

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

kiss on your perfect nose monikamyslave:P

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful to russian host

You have a big nose Gorty :-))))))))))

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful to russian host

I'm surprised you didn't quote measurements :-))))))))))))))

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

yes, i know who you are, now get back to 121!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

what a load of bollocks....

Reply

RE: Rus Women are so Beautiful

I presume you are referring to your own post

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

Can you...

...salsa dance?
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Can you...

no..can u?

Reply

RE: Can you...

do you really care or do you ask silly questions for no reason?

Reply

RE: Can you...

Of course one cares. I could start fights instead, but what do we learn from that?

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Can you...

No, but I can peei potatoes with my toes !!!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Can you...

yes, Cuban friend taught me

Reply

Credit card commercial

This may be in connection of previous post "Just one hypotetical question" and some answers there. Few days ago i saw on tv one commercial for credit card, and at the end of that there was a message:
"Some things u cant buy with money, for everything else there is ....that credit card"
Open thread

Reply

RE: Credit card commercial

Yeah, it's a bullshit marketing campaign for Master Card. Was the ad in English, or in your native tongue? If I recall, the ad says something like, "Some things are priceless," or "beyond price," or something like that. The originial English version does not actually say, "can't pay with money,"

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: card game

It's fixed!

Reply

RE: card game

fixed?! and I thought I was just good at cards - I like playing it - give CC some credit for trying to liven things up a little

Reply

RE: card game

you say that like it's a bad thing...lol

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: 8 Comments for Success

Tanya...........I love you..........but will you PLEASE go to the "adult" catagory???

Reply

Meets

Many viewers on CC try to arrange meets with chathosts

and when they arrange a holiday visit they invite many chathosts in the hope 1 will turn up

I wonder if any viewers ended up with more than one chathost turning up at the apartment ??? How did you all get on :) ??
Open thread

Reply

RE: Meets

let's just say I had a busy week washing my sheets

Reply

RE: Meets

Six hosts from one studio threw me a birthday party in Bucharest once.

Reply

RE: Meets

now thats cool

Reply

RE: Meets

wow - invite Me to the next party - which hosts?

Reply

RE: Meets

The host i met with for a few nights walked into a bar (after i had told her i just wanted a quiet night at my hotel because i felt unwell) and found me meeting another girl there.. after some unplesant scenes security removed them both and I never heard from either again.. just as well I had a third as a back-up :P

Reply

from a host to AustinP?

wow i got this in my ccMail box from a host and she told me I can shared this with all-so here it goes:
Austin, why don't you try a new approach on how to get free privates instead of telling people you don't have any money or just $2. I have some hints for you that might work:
1. Tell the woman she is the only one you come here to see.
2. Tell the woman you will take care of her
3. Tell her you get jealous when you see her talking to other people.
4. Tell her you want to spend the rest of your life with.
5. Tell her if she only talks to you in chat, that someday you will come to meet her in real.
6. Call her sugar, sweety,baby, honey and not just call her crappie names.
7. Tell her that you are not a pervert and not like the rest of the men here, that you are looking for a relationship.
8. Give her all your attention and not to others in room
9. Tell her if she only talks to you, that you will video her more.
10. Sometimes it might be wise to tell her especially if your old, that you want to married her and you have a great high amount of life insurance.
11. Tell her you are about to die or have a illness and want someone to talk to.
12. I can go on and on,, but I think you got the point.
"Okay-Good Luck Man" see you around and maybe next time I will give you a freebie if you act right.

that was the end: first of I want to thank you for giving me some pointers,, but I have to admit you kinda sounded like my mother on some of them and on the ones toward the end especially the sick, die, life insurance, i think those are sick ones.... and also honey, sugar, sweety and any other ones I left off I had more than $2, I said I had $3--okie dokie, but thank you anyway i will try to do better,,,ohhh by the way you forgot to leave me your password (hehe)
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: from a host to AustinP?

that is the most silly but also funny thing ive heard here for a while(LOL)ty,sean ,u share that with us (K)u r verry okie dokie and dont think u have need any adviced from anyone:Dbe urself man and will be okie dokie as well:P.see u soon;)

Reply

Webcam Man

Police have found a man's body after a tip-off from an internet user that he appeared to self-harm while using a messaging service.

The body of 42-year-old Kevin Neil Whitrick was discovered at a property in Orleton Lane, Wellington, Telford, at about 11.15pm after police forced their way in.

West Mercia Police said he was found dead after another internet user dialled 999 as Mr Whitrick had appeared to self-harm while using a messaging service late on Wednesday.

A spokesman said: "Police were alerted to the incident by colleagues from West Midlands Police but despite attempts to resuscitate Mr Whitrick, he was pronounced dead at the scene.

"An investigation into all the circumstances surrounding his death has been launched and police can now confirm that Mr Whitrick was using a webcam in an internet chat room at the time of his death."

No one else is being sought in connection with the death, which is being officially treated as unexplained.

Detective Chief Inspector Jon Groves, who is leading the investigation, added: "Our enquiries to date have revealed that Mr Whitrick was using a chat room with a number of other people at the time of his death.

"We are liaising with the internet service provider to contact other users who were online at the time of this incident and who may have information that could assist our enquiries.

"We are also working to ensure that witness support facilities are available to those who may have been affected by what they saw."

© Independent Television News Limited 2007. All rights reserved
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Webcam Man

im all for watching a snuff film, but to see a man die by his own potato has me thinking to aviod such activities, being found by the local police and reports reads died but yam. isnt what i had in mind. how would you least want to be found?

Reply

Just "one" hypotetical question

What do you think if someone join cc to make contact with person (chathost) which he/she really likes from before, but cant afford video for that chathost (just promise maybe one day). He or she is really crazy about that host and cc is only way to make contact. Do you think that it would be unfair from that person to came just for chat, without video, knowing that host is trying to earn or living from cc money? And do you think it would be unfair from chasthost side to ignore that person, even person is nice, non provocative..., just some chat when host is not in pvt? Maybe those questions are stupid but im really interesting about your opinion:-)
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Just

Truthfully I think it depends on the relationship that the two people have together.

I don't think it is unfair to chat for free to a host when she is not busy with other members as long as that is also what the host wants.

From your post the member and host obviously have some sort of history but the fact that cc is the only place they can make contact suggets the feelings of adoration only flow one way. If the host is ignoring the member it makes me suspect that the host has probably tried to let the member down gently but he is not taking the hint and this is the only option left open to her.

This may not apply in this situation but if you were to ask most stalkers what they feel about the person they are stalking they will invariably tell you they that they worship that person but those feelings are never reciprocated.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Just

Just rememner a host is here to make money and a customer spending money will get better treatment over a member that is trying to free chat. These host (many working multiple sites) must get hundreds of guys trying to chat for free and asking for thier yahoo address. If you want to be a "nice guy" and chat for free try the other chat rooms and you won't get labeled a freeloader or cheap charlie.

Reply

RE: Just

If she really likes you too , don't think it would be a problem to just chat ...... i've been there ..

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Just

Thanks a lot for answers til now, and those which may be expect. I found those answers really truly and sincere. Im thinking the same way like some answers implies because that "someone" is ME :-) (nothin hypotetical:-)). I truly respect all host here or from some other webcam sites, after all this is just a bussines with more or less luck for a viewer (who spent some) at the end:-). I should be lucky cause i find that host here after all and manage to contact her at least. To bad she is not lucky with me just coming for chat but i completly understand that (who the f**** im i:-)). Who knows maybe some day...

Reply

dear "UniqueAngel"

Imagine you spoke with him 30 minutes every day....
1.50 x 30 x 30 x 6 = $8100
You get $3300 if you work from home and maybe $1000-1500 if you are in a studio.
If he makes average American wage he makes $17 per hour and about 1/3 of that goes for various income taxes so that would be about 80% of his salary.

I have had hosts holler at me for going into video with her too much and one even told cc to return my money. Most hosts who actually think they are building a romances won't let their boyfriends video very much and members who have affection for a host NEVER asks for a "show" and won't ask for free video either.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: dear

I only pretend romance when they petend romance. Fantasy affairs are kind of cool once in a while. How do I know it's fantasy for her? She say "I love you" in our first textchat.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: dear

Accountant, Let me make sure I understand your accounting, your English and your point here.

I assume your hypothetical case of a host chatting every day for 30 minutes @ $1.50 per minute is for 6 months, right? ($1.50 x 30 [min] x 30 [days] x 6 [months?] = $8100) I ask because you do not identify what the "6" refers to.

Also, are we to assume that your pronominal reference in the phrase, "...THAT would be 80% of his salary,” refers to the gross earnings of $8100? If that is the case, my calculation puts the figure at more like 70%. (Guy working 40 hr week @ $17 hr = approx. $34,000 per year or $17,000 for six months. Taking a third in taxes leaves a net of about $11,400. And $8100 is closer to 70% than 80%.

But I am not here to quibble over the accounting. I would like to know your larger point. Are you simply pointing out that a host's gross earnings amount to nearly what an ordinary working stiff in America earns? I ask this because I know you have maintained in other discussions here that contrary to what some people claim---hosts and guests alike---the hosts are paid well. No doubt relative to other jobs available this is handsome pay, but we must also compare apples to apples. Thus we must compare net income to net income. So, to be fair, we must compare the American worker's after tax income ($11,400) to the host's after cc commission ($3000) or cc+studio ($1500). Of course, even this measure is not fair since the cost of living is different in the respective countries. Thus it is not so simple a matter of just adding up the numbers and doing a comparative analysis without considering the other factors.

Reply

RE: dear

1 - One host said "If he cant afford video, how will he afford supporting me?" I was making a wild attempt to show that what might be considered the attention of a regular viewer would actually empty his bank account and leave him in debt and unable to support her anyway.

Whereas if he spent that money visiting her, courting her and financing her emigration he could support them both nicely.

2 - In her home country most hosts that work at this with any time/skill outearns all of her peers by a HUGE margin.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: dear

LOL - I thought we were talking about a regular viewer as compared to a romance.

1.50 per minute
x
30 minutes per show
x
30 days per month
x
6 months
=
$8100

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: dear

$100 is never a GREAT sum of money in a major city but the CIA Factbook page shows the per capita GDP in Russia is 28% of that in the USA. It's not meaningful on an individual level, but does show the discrepancy in the economies.

Of course, many hosts hope/try to live at the level of the "western norm" which is very expensive in any economy.

Reply

RE: Just

i think its wrong of him because if he can't even afford video,they will never meet etc he is wasting both their lives

Reply

RE: Just

yes its wrong......but by the way, tell me more, how do you do it without paying

Reply

RE: Just

I don't video much, but I will gladly visit a host if she is patient and doesn't require me to be rich.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Just

Yes, but ONLY if the member goes away when the host is busy. If a member does not allow her to do her work then he doesn't respect her.

Reply

RE: Just

if he understands she is working and doesnt get jelous, and she doesnt lead him on, friends dont need to pay eachother.
lets see how long the friendship lasts before he wants a free show with ''promises of payment later''

Reply

RE: Just

good point,john(K)hahaha u always make me feel amused by ur jokes and ur lines ty again,my friend:)

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Dont get mad please!

Everything you say i completly undersand, at first i want to say this all is not about beign CHEAP!!!!!!!! I have 24 years about to finish studying and searching for a job. Unfortunately im coming from a country when i was working over summer 4 months to earn somethin i get paid less than 2.5$ for hour, workin 9 hours a day, hard job!!! All "that" money i was prepare to spent here to get some attention for that chathost, but eventually in bank they give me a card which cannot be billed this way. I use one old just for registering here and cant put money on that so i only spent that welcome bonus when i registered. I would be most happiest person on this world if i could find a way to offer video from time to time, belive me. IM NOT CHEAP!!!

Reply

RE: Dont get mad please!

then find another web site where you can stalk a girl ooppss, I mean chat with her for free,

Reply

RE: Just

while i agree that the member should at least try to go to video for a few minutes sometimes i think you have to realise that not everybody is rich here - even for many people who live in US/UK going to video for 30 minutes a week is a lot of money (30@say 1.5 = $45) - i am sure some members here are students themsleves or have not very well paid jobs too and if they were only working part time at say $10 per hour then that is a lot of money to find (after taxes, food, books, travel etc).
also i assume from this story that the memver and host are probably both from an eastern european country and if life is as hard for people/hosts in these countries that you cannot earn proper money without doing a job like this then surely men from your countries must be in the same position without lots of money to spare for videos here. remember that for hosts in a studio although you may possibly only receive $9 (half of 40% of $45) he is having to pay $45 - five times as much as you earn in a job that you feel is better paid than another job you could get in your country.

Reply

RE: Just

If you can't afford to eat at a nice restraunt do you go around back and ask for free food? If you can't afford to drink at the local bar do you ask the staff for free ice water? If you can't afford to go in vid do you ask the host for free chats? jeezzz

Reply

RE: Just

but at the fancy restaurant and bar you can peep through the window and watch to see what the other people are enjoying.so perhaps the host should let him watch her video so he can see what all the other guys are enjoying :P

Reply

RE: Just

When i met a host we just said hi a few times ,, then after all the customers left ...........she jioned me outside ...... and the rest was a nice time ... friends not customers .. -it does happen and many want this to happen........

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Just

I visit many places ,, palaces, castles, beautiful places ,, and In Russia , met a few lovely ladies ,, have friends there , even had a lover .. but that was not to do with cc, or my $$ , but I did meet them here originally... people are here for many reasons ... some .. adult and some non adult - yes even some in make new friends ,, are also here open to the idea that just maybe ... someone might take their fancy and just maybe .... might become a real friend..... and thats very different from a customer..- with some here after just a few chats we moved away from cc and became friends.... - its obvious to me that we could not - become real friends , and chat properly .. if out only conversations were - a) when she was working b) costing $$ and C) dependent on only me visiting her..

a real friendship has to be 2 way ..!!
if the girl needs to chat to u .. it cant depend just on when she happens to be working .............can it ...

Reply

RE: Just

well.........i had some experiences wiyh guys like that.my honest opinion its they dont respect us if they do that and it will be ok if this kind of guys desapear from here anyway.Im tired to listen wankers like that who jerk them self only watching my pics and telling me'wow u r so hot,bb,i need u so much''in text.Why they dont imagine the conversation as well???hope to not offend too many .........from here im just honest ALWAYS WILL BE SO

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Just

hehehe i understand u verry well.Just try to ignore them cuz i dont think the will not be anymore around not even after we did say here so................patient and have fun!Try to amuse urself when they do that next time!A good joke ,sarcastic one maybe,can make miracles:P

Reply

RE: Just

just ignore them they will go away or block them.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Just

if you are crazy about her and you followed her here from another site and this is the only way you can communicate with her and you can't afford to go in vid with her, I'd say you sound like a poor stalker. You think just becuse you are nice you should be allowed to sit in her room and text chat for hours?? Get real.

Reply

RE: Just

no i found i could see she was online and sometime just jump into chat and say HI , hows your evening .. and of course move away swiftly - if she was busy .. after all .............i dont want to disturb her while she is working .... .. but of course sometimes ... even the nicest sexiest busiest host ... has a few quiet times , and appreciates someone saying Hi .... when she was free , she would of course call, sms , or say hi on IM ... - i would say anyone who did not do that ............... could not be called a friend ....

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Just

the point is that girl is here, if i could find her elswhere i wouldnt trying here on cc for sure, without video, but any further contact like yahoo or icq is mission impossible

Reply

RE: Just

Who sad anything sitting in room about hours, saying hi or hru and expect at least some answer do not take hours. It is not that u must lift 100 kg to do that, just type somethin when not in pvt, some of us are not fuckin old perverts with extra cash even all thing is about that

Reply

RE: Just

The simple answer is if the host is happy for you to sit there then there is no problem. However I get the impression from your opening post that this is not the case.

Have you also considered that when a host is not in video perhaps the last thing she would want to do is continue sitting at her computer.

And lastly and in my opinion the most important point. Leave us old perverts alone :P

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: End of post

I think i get it, NO MONEY NO HONEY!!!!!!!!!!!, and it is not for HOURS, and not EVERYDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE END!!!!!!!!!!!

Reply

Someone left house paper

The following information was gained through much research involving men and women from all backgrounds and walks of life, but mostly from hanging out at bike shows, bars, and studio's (and i mean music studio not here in cc) well maybe here some too-cool.
Well actually i did read this one time in this forum so disregard the other statement above, but i did shared these things with some friends at those places mention above at they all laugh at me when I told them I wrote these down from someone who wrote these before in here. I did try these things out,, but it didn't work for me, so I passed it back to the room and let you think about it and have them back-cool.
It consists of the most often five questions of women in relationships, sex and in life in general. All you women and men who read this are encouraged to use the wisdom contained therin to change their behavior in accordance with the truths established below:
1. Question: How do you know if I'm ready for sex?
Answer: Ask your boyfriend, He'll know when the time is right. When it comes to love and sex, men are much responsible, since they're not emotionally confused as women. It's a proven fact.
2. Question: Should I have sex on the first date?
Answer:: YES, before if possible or to late
3. Question: What exactly happens during the act of sex?
Answer: Again, this is entirely up to man. The important thing to remember is that you must do whatever he tells you to do without a question. Sometimes, however, he may ask you to do things that may at first seem strange to you. Do them anyway.
4. Question: How long should the sex act last?
Answer: This is a natural and normal past of nature, so don't feel ashamed or embarrassed. After your man has finished making love, he'll have a natural desire to leave suddenly to go out with his friends to play golf or go out to a bar and heck maybe a nap. Don't feel left-don't feel left out while he's gone you can busy yourself by doing laundry, cleaning the house or perhaps even going out to buy him an expensive gift. He'll come back when he's ready.
5. Question: What is "afterplay"?
Answer: After a man has finished making love, he needs to replenish his manly energy. "Afterplay" is simply a list of important activities for you to do after lovemaking. This includes lighting his cigarette, making him a sandwich or pizza, bringing him a few beers, or leaving him alone to sleep.

Oh by the way my question was who is falling in love with whom here-cool-
Open thread

Reply

dear "chaser"

Once you have 2 or 3 girls like this in your address book your life is set. But you forgot about the job she needs to have to support you.

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

wake me up when something interesting here ...

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

chase are you ok---you sound like something is bothering you-not cool and to you j---you want something interested--come to my room and show me your shaft and wake me up

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

wheres ur room ?

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

why don't you post something interesting instead of complaining ?

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

hello eyes--im alright nothing wrong here--i think it is about other people here getting out of control (hehe) look above,-so when are you coming back on-line---cool, by the way have you seen the new custom Z475--sharp

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

hey chaser man,,, is it about time for trip

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

ok....let me ask u,don,do u really believe this is the way things must work out in a relation?i mean im not sure if this is ur truly point or ...anyway why u post it here this?i think u were much funny when u sow bugs.Lately i dont get ur points and this make me verry confuse about u.By the way i never lied or treat u without respect and im telling u this coz ive sow some other 2 posted messages from here and i was verry surprised and dissapointed that ive coudnt even answer to u then but i do it now if may i.So i never ask anyone and i'll never will to get in my video or 121 to have some private conversation with me.This is only theyr free option and they shoud not blame me if they think they spend too much money in 121 just to show me they respect or treat me like they do.ok?and......if i ever do a private session for smb this is my free option as well.!!!I mean its my right to decide if smb deserve or not this ok?If u want a private session and u think has been a long time u visit me in video and u have this right to ask its ok if i think the same but dont blame me im doing that with smb and i dont do that with u ok?Maybe i will with u one day u just have to be a lil patient.Was the verry first time and u cant be so unpatient(only my opinion)If i am wrong with that pls let me know ...ok?
Ps:by the way u dont know me that good if u think i share with everibody same things or thoughts or feelings or whatever i am(u know me in a way ....and things ive told u about me nobody knows them but nvm now-cool)stay cool!!and listen for me if u give a single damn shit the lirycs from Goo Goo Dolls-iris(they will tell u more about my mood right now)

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

no, i dont believe this, it was passed on to me from someone,, me still trying to figure it out--cool, and me confused,,, nahhh me ok and bugs now thats what i need,, cheers and drink up...

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

i dont think you know him to well,, chaser has never ask for a free video and I am one of his friends here and chaser if its ok I will take that list back you copy it seems it got you in trouble man.

Reply

RE: Someone left house paper

now claudia, you didnt have to say that,,,and the list didnt come from you,,, by the way,, have you seen the new harly bike out--cool

Reply

The way I am

"The circumstances of life, the events of life,
and the people around me in life,
do not make me the way I am

...but reveal the way I am."

~Dr. Sam Peeples~
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: The way I am

Psy I'm not as well read as you so I have never heard that before but it did remind me of the comment The Wizard of Oz says to the Tin Man.

A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others.

Either that or I have completely misunderstood your post :D

Reply

RE: The way I am

I'm not well read either, just getting nice emails :)

And your quote is beautiful as well.. you're a great person then..

Reply

RE: The way I am

That reminds me of a quote I was told back when I was a teenager (I think it was the same week they invented fire)...

Love isn't measured by how often you've touched each other, but by how often you've reached each other.

Reply

RE: The way I am

Hey,Psy,u r not the only one who feel its loosing herself or her identity or even the life before but its just a matter of time ....u'll get ur every simple joys that u used to have and the way u r its still there trust me u'll see that.Deep inside u r the same dont blame urself too much or dont be so hard with urself,ok>U r not alone and this is all that matters>Try to realise that and hope u be better soon.kiss u :)
ps:by the way u reminded me some lirycs from Juwel'somebody who give a damn,smb more like my self""

Reply

RE: The way I am

Psy, The quote is akin to what my grandmother used to say: "Tell me who you go with, and I'll tell you who you are."

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

dear "me"

I am friendly with some hosts and I'm sure some are in the same studio talking about me. And with some of them I make very hot, very emotional conversation. I don't know what they say about me to each other.

There are some that I would LOVE to try a relationship with but I assume they are "all talk, no reality" because this IS a fanatsy site. What would such a hot girl do with a guy old enough to be her dad and not very attractive, too?

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: dear "me"

Maybe you should mention your name to see if you are talking about me.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: dear

i know - i was teasing - but it would be interesting to know - because I am *truly* single and available and I would come and try to sweep you away if we liked each other

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: dear

UNLESS it is ME that you are in love with and you didn't tell me. What a dilemma!!

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

good lord,girl!!!i cant be so misterious or hope that guy its so clever to see that u talk about him(my opinion by the way its that u r in love with a chaser man,if u know what i mean;))and sad but true smtimes we get in love too even if it seems a silly thing to get in love with some pers from a ''cyber world''ok?
and the most stupid thing its that smtimes we dont even know how they look like.Anyway its true that if u r a deep person u may fall in love with the inner beauty,personality but.........anyway its kinda too much i mean we r not anymore some kids and we should be more realistic but we keep be some dreamers afterall and maybe this is the way we live our lifes until the end.Who knows if we ever will grow up?take care of u and wish u luck with smb who truely deserve u(K)

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

Hey, Val, who is this loser???

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

never fall for the"if you love me you'd send me free cam"member scam.if they like you they will be happy just chatting to you in yahoo.i can chat for hours with some cool friends here in yahoo without seeing each other.

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

Didn't you see the post from the host ready to leave her husband and take their child to be with the member that she never even met in real life yet?

Falling in love can happen both ways, but you shouldn't surrender to the emotion until you have the chance to meet the other in real and begin a REAL relationship.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: to allas

easy sis, the girl was joking!

Reply

RE: to allas

blimey I hope it isn't me?

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

Well, been there too, i fell in love with one guy who used to be a member here, went to meet him, we tried relationships in real...Now we are apart, gng to meet again soon, and its very hard, i mean long distance realtionships..It was much easier for the both of us untill we met...

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

if u bouth r in love truely why u dont do smt for be together??i mean love must be stronger than world's obstacles.Just be strong and fight for love if deserve it!!!Wish u luck(K)

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

Impy! what about ur boyfrend?no love anymore?

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

Once you meet , then relationships can go well or not- can last or not,, so many things can effect this.. most relationships fail.. and we try again.. sometime we get a second chance.. sometimes not..
Sometimes a second chance is confusing,, are we just trying to prove something ? and if it failed once wont it again..

also .. with life I think best not to make rules ..
as we live and learn ,. most of them need to be broken..

Let yourself be free from rules ,,
they might be the thing that hold you back from what u really need ..

be open..

be happy..

and remember life is not supposed to be easy , or all fun..
if it was we would never appreciate the good times..

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

Verry nice and honestly words,M<i believe u totaly right!We must open our eyes ,heart and soul to realise how beautiful life is even in small thigs wich make us a lil joy or happiness.And by the way every god thing in word come to the ones who r patient enough with life coz life have hers own rules dont matter what .If smt its really good for u or deserve all ur pain will happend but.................if its wrong (even if u cant see that coz u r blinded of passion inside u) this its not meant to be and never will become true.Think deep on this point,iMPY!!!!

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

i feel hosts and members dont fall in love witheachother they love the idea of what they think the other really is.

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

they say the best place to meet people on the internet are either chatrooms and/or online dating agencies. Chatrooms are good because you can talk to several women and find out which one you get along with the most. There are different kinds of chatrooms depending on your interest. Heck now days you can even open up a chat window and see her and speak privately. Dating services well thats another story, but hey I did hear it works best for some. You already know before you speak to her because the agency finds out information on everyone that signs up.They're also good because you are more likely to find someone with the same interest as you that lives in the same area as you. So room all I got to say,, if people are falling in love on here in cc room--thats cool--and if you people here are playing mind games and playin people--thats not coo, hmmm im beginning to sound like a expert on dating... darn i need a drink (hehe).
P.S. By the way I hope I have helped you people out and feel free to ask anymore advice, but remember after the two of you have talked and get to know each other better (which takes time-not just a few chat talks) i wish you the best in your life-and Impy if your in love with that host--its cool.

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

Exactly! That's why the real meetings are so important. I am "in love" with tens of hosts here, but I am IN LOVE with only one.

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

That can be also true,john(K)

Reply

RE: IN LOVE

Interesting subject... I agree with those of you who said that meeting a person in real is very important. Typing things in chat are different from spoken words and can easily be misunderstood. In person meetings give us the chance to see the other's reaction to something we say and vice versa. Also, there is a certain "vibe" one gets when talking directly to the other person that cannot be explained and that cannot be felt through written words on a computer.
Anyways, that's my five cents' worth...
Good luck, Impy!!!

Reply

Can you...

...give up either beer or women?
Open thread

Reply

RE: Can you...

can u?

Reply

RE: Can you...

yes both but can't give up beer-flavored women :D

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Can you...

YEP don't drink beer, and gave up sex got married

Reply

my cc girlfriend

Sometimes when I go to textchat with my cc girlfriend she is in video and that nasty little slut talks in open while the Viewer is (private to...). She talks so dirty and slutty and it makes me hard as I try to figure out what he is saying. Oh! She is sooooooooo nasty.
Open thread

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: my cc girlfriend

It's funny to guess.

Reply

RE: my cc girlfriend

That is the best when you are trying to figure out when to jump into an open video to catch hot action without paying for the upfront nonsense. Keep up the good work.

Reply

RE: my cc girlfriend

There was one host I used to know who insisted that a Viewer must type in open text. This served as an advertisement to what was going on and often 2 or 3 more guys would pop into the room. She insisted that THEY just watch while she obeyed the first guy.

But on the other hand I once jumped into an open video and the host was going hot at it. It was great until she realized she had a second Viewer and she jumped up and run as if she was caught by her parents. I never figured that one out.

Reply

RE: my cc girlfriend

either she enjoys fucking with ur mind or she wants to make u her cuckold and when ur together she will pick up other men bring them back to ur flat and fuck them in ur bedroom as u have to listen outside the door. all good honest fun

Reply

RE: my cc girlfriend

Yeah for pussy men with no self esteme. How could any man with self-respect let another man fook his girl?

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: my cc girlfriend

babies i only laugh about it because it's only fantasy - in real i would NEVER do such a thing

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

it depends

on what catag you are in, if your a slave your next reply should be yes Sir or yes Master. if your nonadult you would said something like, get the hell out of my room.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: Wayne forgive me plzz!!

it's too late for apologies, the doctor said my spinchter is wrecked for good. I told you, you were going to far with dildo, but noooo, you had to see much would go in. Thanks to you I will not be able to sit down for a month.

Reply

want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

I know it wont be easy....
So help me God:)
Open thread

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

Plenty of sex

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

yes vick, just pray a lot or think about what you can do with all that money you save if you don't have to buy smokes, and if that don't work, hang out at the bars were other people are smoking and catch the second-hand smoke, I found that one works better-cool

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

If the two of you are serious about quitting I have the perfect answer.

Every time you smoke a ciggy you have to have sex with me afterwards.

I guarantee you will never touch another cigarette again :D

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

I think I'll stick to the smoking habbit afterall=)))

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

lol A very wise choice Kate :)

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

Willpower. I had my last one 6 July 2006. No patches, no gum, no more. Go Girl, Go

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

Yeah ... trying stopping!!!

Just do it and stop delaying by asking for advice and wondering what to do. You want to stop? Then just STOP!!!
That's it, end of story.

STOP SMOKING NOW!!

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

wow..thx ...tho I didnt say '' Im trying''...plus...some advice wont hurt...so....stop "yelling " at me lol

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

http://whyquit.com/joel/Joel_Index_03_Quitting_Smoking.html

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

Identify what you like and can reward yourself with when you stop. Then totally quit all smoking but the first time you get an real urge to smoke give yourself that same reward.

Compulsive addictions can only be defeated with a total withdrawal and substitution; there is little success in just cutting back but in a short time your body will rid itself of the majority of the former pleasure of it and replace it with the one you have substituted.

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

A very close friend of mine was trying to quit for 10 years ,,,

he used this word ...............im "trying ....."

and then he used i cant ......

and but ............

then 1 year ago he was diagnosed with throat cancer ...
he came to see me 1 hour after he was tld he had this..

I asked him ,, will u stop smoking ?

he said I have .. i said oh since when ?

he said 1 min after i was told ..

im not trying anymore

IM stopped .. quit .!!

and maybe 10 years and a few 1,000 £ to late ,,

and he cried..

he has survived , 3 operations , half his throat and tongue removed, radiation therapy .....

eating witha straw for many months,,,
and some very nasty looking scars ...

he is alive and thankful,,,,

dont wait till that happens ,,

dont " TRY"

just stop!!!!
..

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

I tried that theory and rewarded myself for giving up cigarettes by having a cigar. The outcome can be easily guessed at:(

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

thank you:) a lot...apreciate the fact that u answered:) even tho..some of you were really harsh ( dont mind tho)
peace out!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

Get somebody to hide your lighter.. suck on something eles.. :D

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)


suck on smth else.... hmmm...what would that be???

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

a stick of gum :D

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

aha:D

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

I have handcuffs. Maybe more?

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

www.quitplan.com has some good info

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

Kate, What makes you think it "won't be easy?" As Mark Twain said, "Giving up smoking is the easiest thing in the world. I've done it hundreds of times."

On a serious note, you must have great resolve---enough to resist the urges you will have for some time. As you well know, the greatest urges occur after a meal and when you're having a drink. I can tell you the urges will go away. I quit smoking well over 20 years ago and I have no desire for a cigarette. It was probably about a year or more before the desire left me, but it did.

It also helps to quit with a buddy. The mutual encouragement and the competiton can really help you through. As others have pointed out, "cutting back" is not the ticket; THAT is self-deception. Also, the various aids (gum, patches, 12 step programs, hypnosis, etc.) will not help one bit if you do not have the inner resolve to quit. You also have the advantage of your youth. It will be much easier to give it up now than it will be if you continue to smoke and try to give it up 20 years from now. Bon courage Kate. :)

Reply

RE: want to quit drinking........(any ideas???..........ty)

im not a smoker unless I been drinking, so thats easy to quit,, but tell me how to quit drinking--any ideas ---and back to kate,
QUIT SMOKING ITS BAD ON YOUR GIRLY FIGURE

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

Figure out chat triggers you to smoke (stress, drinking alcohol, friends, sex :) and try to cut down those things till you stop smoking compleatly.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

Kate... like with any addiction, it'll take a lot of willpower! That and some things that will slowly get you off the nicotine addiction: nicotine gum, "the patch", etc. I have gotten to know you as a strong person, so I am certain you can kick the addiction! Good luck!

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

(K)(K)(K)(K)(K) thank you guys:)

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

while reading all posts,I felt how much I want to smoke now:) When I have read till the middle(about a guy with a cancer of his throat) I dressed and left for cigarettes.Yes,I felt no good.Many times i gave up.And..nothing..But,guys,thank you!:) I dont know how about Kate,if she gives up or not with your help,but it seems to me I have managed it now.Just several thoughts appeared in my head.First,there is a great difference between ''I want to want to give up'' and ''I want to give up''sometimes we WANT to wish,sometimes we just WISH..and second variant only works.Second,I found myself thinking how much in common I have with a donkey,which always needs a carrot in front of its eyes(stop cigarettes,start candies or other substitutions).So,three words:DEEP INNER STRENGTH..It was a solution for me,when I threw my second cigarette without finishing it.Freedom of choices is a wonderful thing:):) DONT TRY TO SUBSTITUTE,JUST FIND FREEDOM OF YOUR CHOICE INSIDE AND GIVE UP.:)

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

i stopped by taking up smoking bongs...

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

i read Alan Carrs - "how to give up smoking" and i stopped the habbit.

but when i quit - i suddenly created a Cam viewing habbit instead... Although i am sure healthier - my bank balance is not

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

lol
still health is more important, right?;)

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: want to quit smoking(any ideas???..........ty)

yes...do tell ;) ( I want bigger tits too) =))

Reply

last spring break story

Spring Break is about over, darn I will have to go back to work, so here's to all you love birds out there in the world. This story for today is dedicated to you:
This man had a dream that somehow, someday, there might be her and him. He kept dreaming, hoping, wishing someday that she would look at him. Then the moment came, they got together for the first time and then later he was down and left out in the dark. She didn't pay no attention to him, she became one of them. Oh sugar why'd did you do that to him, he will neverunderstand. He thought you were his friend. He cherished you, he care for you and you knew he had feelings for you. Why'd did you have to pretend. He believed that one day you two will meet again, and then the moment came and it passed right on by.
Hmm-this story is kind of sad in a way, but it happens everyday in the real world so to all cheers, have fun, party on and stay cool
Open thread

Reply

RE: last spring break story

ohhhhhhh hun, im in tears now that reminded me of someone that use to be close to me...Well as the story goes, dont give up....kisses

Reply

RE: cheer up story

sorry hun didn't mean to put tears in your eyes (not cool) so here is a better story for last spring break story:
a man and a woman met during spring break, had a wonderful time sharing stories and laughter, before you knew it, they fell in love with each other and became best friends and started to share each other hearts and life together---hmmm, now did you believe that story (hehe)

Reply

n/a

n/a
Open thread

Reply

RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)

thanks Gort, I can't believe I am 37! Time flies!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)

Happy birthday sweetie! :*

Reply

RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)

happy bithday dom and many more, hmm 37 thats cool

Reply

RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)

cool birthday wishes here.never met you but happy birthday to you.

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DOMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!! hugs and kisses to you on your special day.hope you have a great day and hope you have many more to come.

Reply

RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)

Thanks for the birthday wishes from all but its a sad day when you see your first gray public hair on your birthday!

Reply

n/a

n/a

Reply

RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)

"first gray public hair",the first one that is seen by the world?

Reply

RE: Happy Birthday AdorableDomik:)

i keep the non-public hairs shaved so you can't see the gray ones.

Reply