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Wow, this was one of my favorite songs from Alice Cooper :-P

it happened to me. I thought to gain the girls' trust and confidence by being Mr. Good and listen to their problems and lies about their lives. I though that if I was a friend to them they could perform for me without regrets and more freely and have a better interaction in a show with them. Wrong!!! Everyone else was watching them naked and I was the dumb to stay in their vids just chatting for long time. I ask one of these girls why would they not perform for me? she said she was shy to do it for me becuase i was only a friend to her. hello? these girls are so funny . So I changed favorites and went straight to what I really wanted and bingo. Now I enjoy the shows as anyone else does :-D

Actually I can understand why a host would find it more difficult to strip for someone she had built a relationship with than with someone who is visiting her for the first time. Unfair but understandable.

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I never visit non-adults. I visit Not So Shy and Instant Action

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u can always block like u have many times before.

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I shouldn't let it anger you. Some members feel the fact of their spending money also brings with it some power or right of control over the hosts. When they are blocked they take it to heart because they feel that power is being usurped, and worst of all by the hosts themselves. It is the belittling which they cannot cope with. The act of blocking is in essence a matter which should only be of concern (because of the perceived need) to the host, not any member. xx

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Yes you're right. In my experience the more you build a "relationship" with a girl here the less likely you are to see that girl strip. Although I do not agree with you that you have to be rude. But I do understand your frustration.

That wouldn't be too bad if the relationship were real but I think, as can be seen from the posts below, in the vast majority of cases it is nothing more than a ploy to get your money. But you can't really blame the hosts for that because they are only telling the members what they want to hear.

INYF, You make, as usual, a good observation. I recall being in Live Vid and another guest entered, who did not elect the "private" option. The host spoke with him using dirty, overtly sexual language that she had never used with me. When I asked her why she never talked to me that way she replied, "Because I like you."

I agree with you that you can be openly sexual without being rude. At bottom both parties see the site --or ought to see--for what it is. But that does not mean we need to be rude or degrading in our interactions.

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I never said i tried to be a friend,,,i just tried to show some respect....and do you normaly think abotu sex with friend? or rude people? i do not understand what you mean

it means... by trying to show respect you interracted with the woman in a completely non sexual way... as if you did not have an sexual desire for you. when you act like that women think of you as just a friend not as a possible lover. then when you suddenly want some kind of sexual interraction with the woman it comes as a shock to her and she is uninterested because she has already labeled you as a friend in her mind. and here is a question for you... why do so called "nice guys" believe that "being respectful" to a woman means that the guy is not allowed to express any attraction or sexual desire for the woman?

I think Captaincaveman gave the best reply to those men who think that "nice guy" can easily change his "good" behavior and forget about respect if the last ones didn't work for his goals with a certain host. All those changings "I can be rude or I can be nice, according to what I want to achieve" are nothing else but pretending and lie. If you are really nice, you cannot be rude by default...it would be just not natural for you to act rudely.

And yes, as a woman I agree that the best partner would be a man who has a talent to mix both qualities of a friend and a lover into the harmonic combination of caring+passionate person and who can make a woman feel comfortable and enjoy her sexual activity. I bet it is possible to stay being 50% of a "nice guy" (or friend) along with being 50% of a sexually attractive lover. Alike any man would prefer to have a woman not only as a great friend but also as a perfect lover. In my opinion it is still the best balance and win-win relationship for most of adult men and women, and could be applied in member/host relationship as well.

All you need is to learn to "feel" your partner because every girl here is different. But well, if you finally have got what you wanted it means you were successful in being rude and have picked a right host. Just don't expect every host on CC to enjoy rudiness and to execute any commands.

I agree that friendly relationship make it more difficult for a girl to strip, even more - I made the experience - if you meet them in reality over a friendly beer or dinner and then get in touch again later on line.
Would a friend of yours in real life strip for you?
Don't you think such relationships are worth as well?

"Would a friend of yours in real life strip for you? "
How about this? Would a freind in real life charge you by the minute to be their friend? That's what confuses me about this whole thread.

Always have been Mr. Nice Guy. Never had any problems, stalling, scamming. What is your problem? Had the occasional spat, but mainly in comchat, so never needed be anything else with hosts. Peace and Love Sisters and brothers.

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I am betting you are here because you experience the same kind of results in real life with women. It's not unusual, in fact it is a very common behavior among "nice guys". The problem is not with the women, but with yourself. As you illustrated in your post, you met these women and avoided being sexual with them in an attempt to make them feel closer to you so that later you could see them naked and get a hotter show. So let's be honest here and talk about what is really happening... the nice guy as you call him was not really nice at all... it was simply you being dishonest about your true intentions and desires... in a sense, you were trying to manipulate these women into lowering their defenses so that you could achive your ulterior motives. So really the nice guy, who really was not being nice at all, and the rude guy were the same guy... the only difference was that rude guy was honest about what he really wanted. Personally, when you meet someone which do you prefer... someone that is pretending to someone their not in order to get something they want from you later, or someone that is upfront with you about who they are and what they want? I think most people would choose the latter.

I hope the "nice guys" reading this will finally get it... if you want to be sexual with a woman you cannot do it by pretending you do not have sexual desires and only want to be a friend.... because women will see you as a man with no sexual possibilities and you will be complaining to your friends about her only viewing you as a friend while she is out having sex with the guy who had the guts to be honest with her about his own sexual desires for her. You don't have to be rude to achieve the results you want... but you do have learn how to flirt and to get a woman thinking about you as lover. The nice guys make women feel comfortable being themselves, but unsexual... the jerks excite women because they are confident, take charge and don't care what anyone thinks about them, but they cause too much drama and emotional pain for the women... it's the guys in the middle of the spectrum that learn to take the best qualities from the nice guys and the jerks and put them together to sexually excite women and make them fall in love with them without causing them emotional pain... they are called "good guys" and they always finish first.

before there was any misunderstanding, just wanted to say my earlier post was not directed at you Mondo, but at "used to be a nice guy" and "on the same wagon".

No need to explain [well, not to me, anyway], as I fully understood to whom you referred. Also nice to see I am not being sniped, for a change. lol. I still stand by my original statement, and, NO, "nice guys" do not always come last. And to add to my previous, and the host who said that the more familiar they become with a guest, the less they feel like doing for them, I have found exactly the opposite. The more nice, friendly and familiar I become with a host, the more they are willing to do for me.

from my experience I would say that being nice makes you last. I was always nice trying to build friendship and trust and I only got constant messages in yahoo asking me to come to vid to chat in cc becuase they wanted to see me. then i ask for a little strip and they will say sorry i like you in other way not for sex. yeah right!

Sorry, Karl. That makes you a loser. I have had that too, and sms, but still get treated well even when I don't respond to these felicitations. I have never been anything but nice [as I said before], and I have always got what I want in the end.

I heard the girls I visited say they perform better when the men are really ugly. They dont feel shy and feel in control. I am not saying you are ugly, but they always go shy with me.

lol Peter. I'll need to buy a cam then because I'll be getting the hottest shows on here by a mile :D

Good one, LOL.

i read what you said and the person you describe is not me...i never tried to be ladies freind never wanted to be...i have my own friends..but i was frindley and respectful.......maybe too much, i will take this on board...this is not to you but some have said i never went cam to can..i always did...until i changed name...i would not say i am beautiful...but i am tall ex-rugby player and still have my eyes and teeth ;-)..i maybe wrote what i said in furstration...not sexuly furstration......but i take back somethings i said...i will not be rude...but i will be more to the point...not as friendly....maybe when i used to go to metart i knew the ropes. spasibo

well said captain, i remember nice and hot experiences with you in the past, the way you take what you want- you absolutely lovely:)

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Captain,

For a primitive "caveman" you are quite perceptive in your analyses. Always a pleasure to read your astute comments. I quite agree with you that there is something disingenuous about the "nice guy" who poses as one not interested primarily in something sexual. I think any host with a three digit IQ can immediately sense that and some take advantage of such types, subscibing to the old P.T. Barnum dictum, "Never give a sucker an even break."

What the "nice guy" doesn't realize is the balance you suggest between being a "nice guy" and a "jerk." To me that translates into being able to be honest about one's sexual desires and humane at the same time.

so let me get this straight. nice guys finish last...jerks r confident winner take all type a guys? sounds simplistic at best. jerks r usually not confident...that's why they're jerks. nice guys with boundaries have nothing to prove and will find healthy women they deserve every time. Manipulating your personality to suit your sexual appetite is false, disingenuous and an exhausting excercise in trying to be someone your not.

Somehow you seemed to have gotten what I said twisted a bit hmm. So let's clarify... jerks, whether they are actually confident or just putting on a fascade to mask their insecurities, are still percieved by women to be confident, atleast in the short term, because they do what they want and show little regard for what others think about it. That's what makes them jerks. I don't recall saying jerks were "winners take all" either... but I will say that jerks do get more women than nice guys do because they do not hide their sexuality and go after what they want. However their success is short lived as women quickly get tired of the drama and the heartache they create in their lives and dump them. And lastly, your comment about it being tiresome putting on a false personality, is true, but your logic pertaining to it is backwards. The "nice guy" is the false personality... hiding their desires and parts of their personalities. That is what is tiresome and frustrating and rarely gets any successful results. Yet they seem to revel in their misery and continue to use the same tactic over and over again... instead of looking at the situation and trying to find a better way. When the guy stops trying to be a "nice guy", stops trying to hide the fact that he is a sexual being with sexual desires and is just himself... it's actually quite freeing and his confidence level will begin to increase naturally. Now as a far as things between women and men being simple... well actually they are... it's people that try to over-complicate and over-think things... never trying the simple things because they believe that it's just too simple to work. In their ignorance they believe that the real answer must be very complex.... that there is some magical secret that has been hidden from them and if they could only discover that secret then they would have great success. I could go on more about this but my post has already gotten much longer than I had intended so I will stop here.

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This is a site for fun, for good time. But difficult to understand who get fun, members or hosts.

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It's not so simple... assholes pay the bills too. I'm just saying, not everyone has a simple choice to make.

I was always Mr. Friendly Gentleman with the hosts and they would always stall, said they were tired, said they love me and too shy to undress. Some would say they felt bad to do a show for me since they saw me as their best friend. All that was BS to take advantage of me. Dont trust them. Now I am rude and I only wait 1 min. for them to be naked. I guess they dont understand good manners.....

interesting approach. wonder if it works.

well he still sounds angry, so it's likely, that as most people would expect, his new approach doesn't work any better and now he is frustrated by women that refuse to be naked within the first minute of interraction with them.

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I have yr same problem, polite and friendly, no shows to me.. I read late yr post. I'll try to be rude1

Interesting approach, which also indicates you didn't show your face on cam when you were Mr. Nice Guy. Only this way you could cheat on those girls and play a guy you aren't.
Don't you think you would be more convincing with your cam on?

Hi,
I understand your situation. Although I am in NA, members usually tried to drag me into nonadult category. The friendlier they were the more I knew I would never go nude for them. I would have felt embarrassed in front of people who were "friends" and knew me relatively well. Needless to say I didn't change category.
I don't think it's a good idea to be rude to anyone, but if you behaved in a more sexual manner and stepped up more determined, you would reach what you want more easily. Of course, people are different, some girls like it this or that way.

Sorry, correction. First line: drag me into ADULT

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I know, mainly because I haven't been online for a long time.. Only come to read forum. You know very well,I am doing a job now that requires 10 eyes and 10 hands at a time :)))))

Yes, we must find time to chat soon. We are both so busy

Drop me an instant message, I will only work on Tuesday next time, until then studying studying studying. Hopefully tomorrow I find a sauna open, to start the detox. You didn't answer for my detox question :P

Cos I only tox, not detox :D

jeezzzz, will you stop that, you almost made me make my own creamy egg sauce

First I start kissing around the egg so it gets very moist and wet. Then with the tip of my tongue I tickle the end of the egg. It gets wetter and wetter as my tongue goes in deeper and deeper. So wet and warm and tight inside. Mmmmm....tastes so good. The egg starts to wiggle and I can almost here it moan and finally the sweet liquid inside squirts in my mouth....thank god the egg was well shaved.

they only sell them in England and Ireland...so your joke will be lost on most people

What a negative, unpleasant person you are.

There is quite a market for them in North America too.

i did not know i am so sorry Mr Willwanker ;-)

Well, now you are enlightened:-)

Milena, I don't really know what exactly is that you're talking about, but Milka has special chocolate eggs for Easter, filled up with cream..Could it be something like that? They mustn't have thought of dirty little girls like you, because they added 2 lilac mini spoon with them :-P

Yes shybabee. It is a small chocolate egg filled with mainly white but also a little yellow fondant (creme). The advertising slogan is "How do you eat yours ?"

Is called "Cadbury's Cream Egg" in UK, Ariana. :-)

We have Cadbury's products in Hungary too, but don't know if we have exactly this...but I will check it out VERY QUICKLY !! Milka doesn't have the yellow part inside , but...it won't stop me from eating that too!! ...maybe after Easter I can start diet.. :-D

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Yes it's spring so I think detox would be useful for everyone. I read 2 books from Victoria Boutenko:the raw family and another one on green smoothies. Her whole family went raw and they experienced extraordinary well-being and fitness.They are full of energy. I know it sounds frightening for carnivores, but maybe it's worth trying:) maybe after a few months of eating raw, my skin will be so beautiful that I will change my age to the magic 18 :)) :PP

I forgot to ask how you detox? I will start detox after Easter. Anyway, what is your typical Easter food over there? In my country it's ham, preferably smoked ham, hard boiled egg and sour cream mixed with shredded horse radish. Then we eat a special kind of pastry, that I don't know in English. Definitely not detox food :))

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any of u ladies want ur eggs fertilized ???

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Basic insecurity between host and member, Wanda. See also "About lie" below. :D

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Oh come on Wanda how can you be so cynical. The only thing stopping me from marrying any one of the numerous girls whose name, dob, city and cellphone number I know is that I can't afford to pay a private detective to tail them all and I don't want to invest the time and money in a private detective for it to be wasted in vain. :P

But seriously of course you are right. Spying on a girl he has yet to meet in real life and is already talking about maybe marrying.

The nasty side of me hoped the private detective would not find anything, he would meet her several times and fall in love with her and only then would he find out she had been cheating on him with the local football team and all it's supporters. The nice side of me hoped it would just be the local football team she was cheating on him with.

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I agree...Love must begin with trust. If that does not exist then a true relationship will never exist. Sometimes a relationship may start with trust, but for some reason the trust is lost. When this ocurs both individuals must work to regain that trust if the relationship is to continue. If the trust can't be found again, the relationship is over. That is my opinion.

how can you secure trust with either person that is involved with this type of interaction. if you're prepared to spend the time/money/travel and thnk you can maintain a long distance affair sure it may be possible but its a maochistic endearvor in the first place instead of finding someone in your own vicinity...looks always greener on the otherside but is it really?

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well dear wanda my favourite qoute is: "trust can eighter kill you or set you free"...and it is up to you who to trust or not but like a wise man has once said for most people you are not who you really are but you are only what you let others see.....so i say, it is better to have a certain degree of trust for everyone and increase it or decrease it after the relationship continues...so in that way no one can say that you have lied and if realationship is good in future it will be based on good thing
good luck to all
and take care

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Is it the Russians who like to say "Trust but Verify"?

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Trust, but Verify its true and must always be done to find true lies. I trusted, verified and the results weren't satisfactory. I chatted with a host for many months. We talked on the phone, chatted in messengers, and saw each other in vid everyday. I sent the investigator and the truth wasn't nice... Not 1, but 2!!!

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Yes, exactly that saying we Russians use every time when imply that any person, or thing, or action should be verified even if you think you trust it...Just in Russian it sounds cool because it is rhymed.

was it the russians or ron

When you fall in love ... it just happens , you dont ask yourself why did it happen, when why ... but then when you have signs the other person might not be the way you thought ... you cant just let it go , some days you feel better and you think you are crazy, other days you just go crazy ... you feel there s something. You love but there are signs you trust someone you shouldnt and you need proofs . From my experience ... GO FOR IT but be careful do not be ripped off , find a good investigator. And be prepared for what you will find out, it will break your heart. Usually the instincts are right but you need the proof to be able to move on and heal your heart.

that's a big problem and failure with human nature. next time u supposedly fall in love or anything befalls u of some nature...do pull yourself aside and do ask yourself some questions and make some objective decisions based on common sense and maybe you won't constantly be repeating over and over the same mistakes you've made all your life.

Before making and enjoyng fun of judging others, first tell us please about your own saint life and prove that...

Outside of Xellex and juliane I dont think there is a legtimate nonadult host in the group. I know there are more so don't start but the majority of them will indeed bump up to Glamour or little shy or more if you want to see more than you are allowed in Nonadult which is nothing. Kind of the ultimate bait and switch tactic. The crazy part is that even in nonadult they have adult prices. Many are over 2 dollars. Amazing. And yes it is interesting how over a 24 hour period the hosts change ...day shift and night shift. Give me the night shift anytime.

celebrate is legit too

Ahhhh... The old "those who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones" reply, huh?

Yes, that is exactly what I mean. "You, who are without a sin, throw your stone at her"...

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What else in Long term and marriage?Long term money?

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When I referred to what you said, I only meant the word "business" that this is where girls make money.. What I wrote after that was my own opinion/experience. Unfortunately I only met desperate old men here, good for you that you know strong handsome boys here :))) I wish I met them LOL!

The perfect reply to the question posed. You are completely right.
Cheers :)))

If you are driving a car and there is traffic jam, what do you do? You look for another way to reach destination. Some girls do same and look how many others are on line in various categories and try their luck where competition is less intensive. What's wrong with it, if pictures, rates and behaviour are adjusted accordingly?

Sure, I'll play :D With appologies to the many hosts I have met and not lied to and who have not lied to me. We lie because we tell you what you want to hear. We match your lies with ours, of course we fall in love with you, of course you are the only host we will ever vid with, of course you are the most beautiful/have the best body/turn me on more than any other girl in the World. We are here for one reason, to get you naked as quickly and as cheaply as possible, to have our pleasure and leave.

Almost forgot, if they believe all these lies and give a massive discount, you get cheap sex as well. LOL

Very candid appraisal but what a sad business model.

Well, business is business. :D If it works, then it works.

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what a load of garbage,in more ways than one.

We members let hosts believe that we believe that they believe our bullshit. The truth is as long as you get naked and put on a good show you can bullshit me all you want and the only person I care about cumming properly in a video session is me. As for those with a pussy ruling the world. That was some bullshit made up by men that women were daft enough to believe :P

In this everlasting competition between men and women there are no winners at all. None is smart when they lie and humiliate each other. Any gender's competition is actually a nonsense and fuss, so really smart people are always far above that stupid fighting.

To buy surrogates and be proud of that, or to sell surrogates and be proud of that...what is the difference? Members and hosts just deserve each other if you have your money to buy and they have their beauty to sell. Who is a winner and who is a loser here? It is just a pure cheap swap having nothing to do with what men and women were created for.

About pussy ruling, no man told me, but my gf did, and by now I share the same opinion . It might offend some members or hosts with less luck in life, but I just wrote my experience what I reached here and other sites in the past years.:-P I am happy that you accept this is just a "show" here, and don't overcomplicate it, but many members are whining because they expect everything to be real.

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Sad but true....
There is a lot of hosts like her in this business.....

Mondo - Host: 1 - 1
It's a matter of personal choice, but if a relationship becomes closer than expected, lies cannot be managed in long term. I prefer that a host tells me it's a private matter rather than giving a false indication.
And it's my own attitude towards questions I receive. I guess sincerity can be perceived to a certain extent. Try it!

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mondo thinks he can manage his

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i could care less if u care but the point is plain as day

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Not a single host has ever told me the complete truth about themselves, what they do on CC and how they feel about me. I lie as was mentioned to appear more appealing to a host who will give a hotter, cheaper show to a younger member than an older member. Same reason you lie to us to get us to keep coming back and spend more money on your video. A tango of lies. Let me lead.

Have never lied to a host and have no reason to. Makes no sense to lie. if they don't like me then they don't like me but i usually don't have that problem. So to HostyX not all members lie and not all host lie.

The players somehow forget that any game has its end and the result very often can be not the same that was expected...

Both men and women lie because they think that with their lies they could take an advantage and get all the things easily...could evade responsibilities...could justify and hide their own poor nature...

But the truth is that we pay for every of our wrong...even when seems it was insignificant and harmless. We all finally pay in one or another way for not keeping and executing the fundamental human laws.

And sooner or later we are forced to figure out what our wrongs were..

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I feel that not all hosts and viewers will tell lies. Some will, but as an individual each must make that choice themselves. To me I feel that I approach all in a manner of caution and let the trust develop.

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Thanks for your fair comment. Cynicism is bred on sites like this, with all due respect to those who deserve it.

Happy Birthday, Anja!

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Happy Birthday, Anja. Kiss and Hug.

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Happy Birthday Sunny. I hope all your birthday wishes come true! Kiss on your ancient cheek :P

happy birthday adoor.hope that this year sees your hopes & dreams closer to reality :--) p.s i will have a drink or eight to celebrate tonight.

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maybe you can't read, i said i gave her 5 stars. read it again. i not tell anyone to give her 5 stars. i did say show luv n support. why are u hating?? if u have a favorite let us know and we will check her out.. read carefully next time.

Therein lies the problem. Some members don't take the time to read a message thoroughly before rushing to reply.

Easter bunny you are completely right.

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why everyone hating, why would u say that sexyseduce. people here are so harsh. well at least i know of one member i won't be visiting. thanks for letting me know how you are sexyseduce. lol

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all i hear is blah blah blah. Who cares if it self advertising or not.

wow why is everyone here so cynical. i just thought i would share my experiance. and help a host at the same time, i would do the same with you if i had a good experiance with u. and if i had a bad one i won't even post a comment. i believe in the saying , if u have nothing good to say then no say it at all. last time i post in here. maybe better if i just posted in viewers only section. guess u have to bring somebody down so u can bring yourselfs up.

hey lift your chin,don't let it drag you down.just keep on keeping on & do what you do do :--)

Nah don't let it be the last time you post in here. If you do you just let them win.

becoz of cost? anyone who cant afford 1.69 for instant should not be here.

I think you'll find that $1.69 is the minimum price and that's for open session.

I prefer 1-2-1 sessions as I cannot be botheered with stupid members jumping in and ruining my session.

I checked 4 random hosts - two were at $2.98, one at $3.58 and one at $3.74 for 1-2-1. All rather more than your $1.69.

It's not really a matter of being able to afford it but rather that why pay the extra price when you can find girls in little shy and not so shy who give "Instant Action" shows at a much cheaper price and who are just as hot or hotter than some of the girls in IA.

Although there are some IA girls that are so hot that they are worth the extra price.

ive had host in all catagories and most strip some dont doesnt matter the catagory, i like the naked host .

I don't have a favourite category as I tend to base my choices on the person and the show that she will provide rather than the category.

no matter what category, my favour depends on the host. Of course price is important too, but not very much.

I am glad some for some of you members price is no object. For some of us however, espcially those who do several videos a week, it is an object. I like little shy and not so shy. While it is harder and harder to do you can find some very nice, hot hosts in both categories who give you a decent show for under 1 dollar a minute. I also agree it is the host and not the category as well however. I have spent up to 3-4 dollars a minute for a host I think looks incredible. Some of those videos were worth every penny. Most were not.

Dear Curious,

I agree with the majority here. I have no favourite category as such, but I most frequently choose Not So Shy. For an interesting and related thread, see the post titled "WHY?", posted by "gentleman" on March 19.

I do not have a favorite, but I choose the host. The one that I end up coming back to for a second visit is either little shy or glamour most of the time.

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You bet !! that howwible wabbit says awful things to me , i wanna shove cawwots into its mouth to shut it up sometimes :-))))

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Last week, my dog killed her second adult wabbit and her total kill wate is at 9. I think she could help you with your wascally wabbit pwoblem.

Yeah shes a wascally wabbit but is not a wobber , fwaudster , twesspasser , wapist but is a wongdoer and she has a weal wicked stweak and makes my life a misewy .............. ohhhh wabbit am i going to twap you ........... :))))))))))) ( ok enough !! hehe )

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Well in my case it is certainly "Baby carrots"

Damn that's me talking about food yet again :( What a moron :P

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another bun in the oven ???

policeman's whistle inyf :--)

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î'm aquadorable.....hehehe

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role played very convincing ;) .

If any host publishes my screen name. Bye!

oh oh oh i scared lol

chickoryblue

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the duo of Fergi and OMP what a team

"Wit," for me, is not synonymous with "funny," even if witty people are often funny as well. Wit also means having a perceptive mind. (In fact the word derives from the Old English word, "witan," meaning to know or see. Thus the word "witness.")

Having said that, I believe two of the wittiest hosts are 18DeepInMe and Nikolletta. Both are--besides being beautiful--quite intelligent and possessed of a subtle wit. And that subtlety distinguishes them from those with ordinary wit.

As to the wisest, my sense is there is little wisdom found here.

that makes no sense,wisdom is everywhere.wisdom is a personal & individual thing it just depends on each individuals receptiveness.to provoke thinking is to impart wisdom.

I think one can "provoke thinking" and not be wise. One who is wise not only prokes thinking, but right thinking. And I intend no offense to anyone here when I say if one were wise, one would not be here. Though I do grant the possibility one can possess wisdom in spite of having faulty judgement--or a blind spot-- in regard of one thing.

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lol I enjoyed it

I think that only happens seconds before they close the lid of the casket and even then its iffy.

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Now there is a real business woman :)

Life begins at 60.

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0-10...lol

25-30

45 to 75,, give and take a few years,, you want to know why:
45-to 55: haven't really experience the true meaning of sex .
55-to 65: think they have experience the true meaning of sex and don't know there is much more to come.
65-to 70: (notice here the age bracket cut back 5 years-age catching up) but she is willing to give more sex.
70-to 75: life has begun, not wanting to share with others,makes a good lifetime partner with love, passion, caring, and not wanting to beg no more for sex, we can finally sit down and have a dinner and be quiet the rest of the night: Rest In Peace: -cool

how old are you chaser?

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same goes for women ! but some never ever grow up in responsible ways.

sweety, i have seen men over 40 behave like little boys in life and in this site. men never grow up or mature.

of course I meant that both ways.

20-25 for me. I dont like grannies, lol

i agree with chaser--sweet spot for women over 35

35 and long road behind....

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I really think that the best age is 40 to 50. Man is experienced and able to go for best enjoyment of both partners in the relationship.

And would that "right place" be their big toe?? :D

you wish us to send you some so you can wear??

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Seems Cosmopolitan magazine agrees with both of you. I recall a question on a game show that according to Cosmopolitan the "perfect woman" is 26 years old.

How old are you, eboy?

I don't think you can generalize this way. Older women may have more experience, sexually, and more maturity: not necessarily cynicism, but a surer sense of themselves and a good sense of what you're talking about... perhaps more understanding. Younger women may have more curiosity, playfulness. Cuteness. They can all be sweet :-)

And scammers or manipulators can be of any age...

under the arms and sometimes between buttocks

lol

yes. i prefer the "sweet" spot to the "sweat" spot.

Do you mean "sweet spot " ? lol !!!!!!!

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Very generalized statement at best. Depends on the needs, expectations, maturity of both people. If you're same age range looking for sex romp possibly ideal because thats about all you're interested at that age. In-n-out...and on to the next conquest. Ultimately not emotionally satisfying for your soul. Maturity and 30+ opens new realizations and other propects of true friendship as you learn to develop the head on top of you shoulders. Women start to seek self-respect, not allow themselves to be used strickly as a sex object, seek family, stability and a more fulfilling life for themselves. If you're a guy and can't grow with the program...you'll stay as a kid all your life jumping in an out of superficial relations. Your choice.

yes sweaty spots can be different at different ages :P

If you want a dam good ride, wait till they are 30+

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very limiting sexual world ur living in there and incredibly broad generalization of the age groups and what the bring sexually and emotionally

There are nice things to be said for every age..

very hard to define, and of course all are unique..

My current lover is 41 , and very passionate , confident and a succesful business lady. All of that has its apeal of course.
My prev lovers were 27, 45, 21, 29. and all had wonderful good points.

I think as with Guys, we should all enjoy the individual woman,, and sharing intimacy as well as just hanging out together at every age has its good sides..

Amen M :))

18 to 80.

I come here for youth. 18-21 is the perfect age for a host.

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in search of your lost youth ?? ;)

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just me, I enjoyed the story. it was very funny

That's enough to make me glad I'm not married :)

Hi. Your jokes just keep getting better and better. This one made me cry with laughter !!!! More please and thanks for sharing.
Cheers :)))

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damn i dont get it--please write it again--maybe i missed the funny part

HAHAHAHAHAAHAHJAHAHAHAHHAAH X

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the shoes are sneakers, it is important to be a certain kind, the plain type, like Keds style.

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could you please send me your profile page, so i can contact you? MissT3ase.

Is there a "usual" type of shoe fetish? To me any shoe/foot fetish is unusual.

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I was a bit disappointed that they spelt your name Origami instead of ORIGAMI :(

ORIGAMI, I notice that from time to time a member chides you--usually all in good fun--for always using upper case letters. I too wonder why you always write in upper case letters. Is your "Caps Lock" key stuck?

But here's the trivia question: Why are capital letters and small letters often referred to as "upper case" and "lower case" respectively?

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???...Your inane reply has nothing to do with the questions I respectfully posed. The only thing I am "MISSING" is an answer to these questions.

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The terms refer to the arrangement of drawers in the traditional printer's cabinets in which movable type was originally stored.

Bingo! Isn't it interesting how such terms remain in the language long after the practice that gave rise to them ceased? Let's hope that the cold, steely language borrowed from the computer age (e.g. "networking," "input," etc.) is not likewise retained.

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I see what you are trying to say... My list certainly would have been different and would probably not have included ORIGAMI in it if that is what you are trying to say. It was great to see her in it because the others I had never heard of and I didn't expect them to pick a dungeon bunny. :P

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it'sa bout time they had some new people and other categories. cc is not built on axb and sophie alone

kudos to cc in picking different girls. i will not be here for contest but wish good luck to all.

but the did forget the one real bunny on site, naughtybunny should be a covergirl i think :p

Pleased the cover girls r not the same bunch a "plastic barbie dolls" that seem to always elbow their way into contention.

Congratulations to Akina and Origami. I think they were very good choices.

I agree tat is great to see different gir s theeateer girls but wonderr whais the selection process as wil always creae nepotism unless open

Its nice to see a black girl in these finally.

and i couldn't possibly pick a winner from them............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................oh ok then xblondyxx
:p

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Another very funny joke, thanks a lot.
Cheers :)))

While dining at a fine London resturant Dr. Watson proposed a challenge to Sherlocks skills of deductive reasoning. "Holmes, I propose a challenge. I'll pick a gentlemen at random from amongst the diners and you see if you can deduce his occupation by observing him." With a sly grin Sherlock agreed. Watson looked about the room until he located the perfect candidate, a former neighbor of his who he was sure Holmes didn't know and as a bonus he had a rather unusual profession. With a nod to Holmes Dr. Watson Indicates the man having dinner with a stunning and slightly intoxicated beauty about 15 years his junior.

Holmes observes him for barely 30 seconds and turns to Watson and declares, "Dr. Watson, that gentleman is a taxidermist.' Aghast Watson replys, "That's absolutely right Holmes, but how did you know?"

With a wry smile Holmes replies, "Elementary my dear Watson, he's abviously stuffing the bird before he mounts her."

Hi. Ha ha ha. great joke. Thanks for sharing, it made my day.
Cheers :)))

Thanks for that! Really good laugh and I needed that today! Thanks!

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coz they think we are stupid.

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Hosts must'n do! They aren't slaves. But they can be sincere and tell what they agree or not.

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I move when i want dirty games........In glamour I don't ask for it.

if u don't ask for it then how do you know they keep claiming they can't, its the rules

Is nude a dirty game? No close images to genitals, only simple nude.

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Maybe I am

Ya right!!!
no gentleman asks a woman for nude.

Thank God I am no gentleman :P

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Origami I'm a pervert who thinks of the women here as mere sexual play things to fulfil my twisted sexual desired and fantasies :P

Now Origami just relax and put your hands up for Detroit.

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Could be her studio's rules, her pesonal rules or just ignorance on her part...or....as usual she is trying to get away with doing the least for the most. And besides discussing the rules with you in video eats up some expensive video minutes...so who is dumb?

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not a problem he just wants to complain

I always ask in free chat

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I agree that hosts are human and can chose what they want to do. I only would like that when I ask for something, they answer me sincerly that they don't like nude, not 'cause rules. We know that rules aren't the real reason. And if they go upset when I ask, after invitation in 121, I would like to know why It's impossible for me to ask. And btw, I didn't ask for real meet, no one time.

you planning to complain about this until summer?

why not? Good idea, just to pass time!

if this is how we get to pass the time we are in trouble. wiat that includes me.....nvm

Why not? You sure seem to have alot of input on this subject.

AA is a white knight (PW)

Gent,

There is something about human nature that inclines most of us to want most what we CAN'T have. Which fruit did Adam & Eve want most?----the one they couldn't have, the "forbidden fruit."

I have always found something slightly disingenuous about the Non-Adult categories, especially "Friends & Family." (Would anyone charge a real friend to chat? It would be altogether contrary to the nature of true friendship! Or a family member? Can you imagine a host charging her father to chat?!!)

The more interesting thing is the psychology that plays out between hosts and guests in the Non-Adult vs. Adult categories. First off, the elements of sexual allure and titillation are present in both. The only difference is the restriction regarding nudity and other overtly sexual acts. What is most interesting, however, is something several women---who have worked in both Non-Adult & Adult categories---told me. Without exception, every woman reported that she had more requests for nudity when she worked in Non-Adult than when she worked in Adult, confirming the human desire for the “forbidden fruit” over what is allowed. Gent, I agree, these women are not slaves, but in their defense, I believe it is CC’s policy to fine women in Non-Adult who engage in nudity. And Gortensia is right, CC’s policies do not dictate what a host MUST do, but simply what they CANNOT do within a given category.

P.S. Gorty, you are unhesitant in revealing your mind, but since you are in a Non-Adult category, we naturally desire to see what is forbidden: your body. Pajalsta 

Thanks! This is the most balanced commet.

Comet? where? hahaha!

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You are welcome. You posed an interesting question (complaint?) that is not uncommon here. The party that suggested you simply move to another category is, practically speaking, right, but fails to see the underlying psychology. This is not to say that the psychology is preferable to the practical wisdom recommended by the fellow Forum member. It is not, for it is more often met with frustration than fulfillment. My only point was to say that people often prefer the challenge of violating an "ideal" (which is forbidden) to what is easily obtained.

In the "Instant Action" category, for example, there is no such challenge. It is no surprise, therefore, that "Instant Action" --with its implied promise of immediate gratification--is not the most popular. "Not So Shy" always seems to have more members and I would suggest it is because it has some element of challenge and at the same time some reasonable prospect of “fulfillment,” in a very limited sense, for in the end no matter what category one is in, all are predicated on fantasy and illusion.

I suspect that while what you say may be true, more so in real life than on a site like this, the reason the Instant Action catagory is not as popular has at least as much to do with prices as the psychology of "the chase".

INYF, You make a valid point, since in general the hosts in Instant Action charge more. However, there are some hosts in "Glamour" who ask just as much as those in "Instant Action." It would be interesting to see the average price per minute for each of the categories and see if there was a direct correlation of price and degree of nudity.

Aha, and go that far...and to compare a physical jobs with an intellectual ones, and who must earn more. Do you have the answer what is harder? I'm not sure anyone knows a right answer and could be fair in such a dispute "what level of nudity lets a host to put a higher price" without a simple thought that otherwise this site could consist of only an *instant action* category with a constant price...

this is the end!

why? only becuase you say so? a real gentleman you are, yeah right, hahaha!

just 'cause the comet landed

thought u were going til summer?, now how do we pass the time

It isn't my busness I suppose

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This is an interesting topic. The simple question. Do the rules of CamContacts allow a host to get naked and and do sexual acts in a certain category? It is intriguing because you get hosts that tell the rules of CamContacts forbid them to do certain things. I agree that no host should have to anything they do not want to do, but that point being made all that is being asked is tell us that you do not want or will do, rather than tell us CamContacts does not allow it.

No matter the category, from many hours of research, there are basically, only 2 sets of rules here. One set for non-adult categories which are Friends and Family, Make New Friends, and Long Term or Marriage> Where the category is restricted in which there is absolutely no nudity allowed. Now this does not mean the host can not change categories and get naked, but while she is in a non-adult category she is supposed stay clothed.

The other set of rules is for the Adult Categories. Yes, Glamour Girls is an adult category as referenced by an site administrator somewhere lost in the forums. Now, while these categories may have a description of what to expect in the category, that in no way implies a rule. There is huge difference between a description of a category and rule for the category. The rules as far as I can see on the adult categories is unrestricted which basically means anything can be done in video as agreed to by the host and the viewer. Notice I said as AGREED to by the host and the viewer.

Now if there is a set of rules that says any different please show us were we can find them. IF an administrator wants to clarify please clarify for us.

The simple answer Non Adult = No Nudity. Adult (Glamour Girls and above) = Whatever the host and the viewer agree.

Thanks for listening. Rant away.

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Yes, Milena..I do not like them, either.....for the hands, I have beautiful nails, a bit long, but for the feet, I do not like that!

there are lot of ppl having a fetish for toenails(long ones)

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i have noticed most russians have long toes :P

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kansas ...

UCLA 79, UNC 68.

My UNLV Rebels lose to Kansas :-( ....

i.m.

Kansas

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zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

There is indeed a difference on the selection of hosts based on the time you are online. I like during the day...USA time as well. I woke up around 2 am once because I couldnt sleep and lo and behold there was an entire group of hosts I had never seen before. 27/7....like 7/11...stop in for a snack anytime.

I think the amount of hosts doubles in the evening UK time. Not sure why russian and romanian girls seem to prefer working all night long. Are there more viewers then?

I am Russian. I tried to work at daytime and I had less visitors yes. The best time for me is 7-11pm (UK time)... my regulars know when I am online and seems its ok for them too. New ones also come mostly at that time, so I work usually till 2-3am (Moscow time).

I gotta try to be here then ;)

I don't mind :-p
Just curious how you could find me?
Well, try...and good luck :-)

Heheh i liked that :)

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lol yes there would be a lot of advantages in living life backwards. One big disadvantage though the day after your 18th birthday you wouldn't be allowed on cc anymore :(

thank god there's a way out !!

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same for you.

...and now i can't shake the mental image of my mother and father sharing an orgasm.
gross.

Yeah..and also after you became a baby you can watch, touch, even suck those breasts and dont have to pay for that... :P

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Only real problem is there's no payoff. You simply go from being fairly intelligent, somewhat wise, experienced and acceptance to regressing backwards to youthful, dumb, impetuous, irresponsible behaviour and ultimately drooling, crying, crapping and peeing yourself into contented oblivion. I'd think twice about it.

Isn't that what happens when we live our lives forward lol.

precisely, but backwards you don't get to savor the what went before.

imagine how horrible sex would be backwards.....an orgasm followed by a very tedious 3 minutes of physical exertion......talk about a bother.

3 mins ...

lucky me measured in seconds heheh