General Forum
Men with Broken Hearts
Just wanted to share something with the people on here,Maybe your just ignore this or maybe you wont like it but,i i just liked the words and wanted to share them with you all.
There was a guy who said one time,he said you never stood in that man's shoes or saw things through his eyes or stood and watched with helpless hands while the heart inside you dies,so help your brother along the way no matter where he starts from for the same GOD that made you made him to,These men with Broken hearts.
There was a guy who said one time,he said you never stood in that man's shoes or saw things through his eyes or stood and watched with helpless hands while the heart inside you dies,so help your brother along the way no matter where he starts from for the same GOD that made you made him to,These men with Broken hearts.
RE: Men with Broken Hearts
I've heard it said a different way: never judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes. Then, in the end, at least you have his shoes...
RE: Men with Broken Hearts
If you're going to walk a mile, make sure you have a good pair of shoes. :)
RE: Men with Broken Hearts
I wouldn't know how comfortable another man's shoes will be. That's the point, yes?
Of course, if they're comfortable, I'm keeping them :-)))
Of course, if they're comfortable, I'm keeping them :-)))
profiles
Ladies, members here DO read your profiles when they are looking for a new favorite host. Some pointers:
1.The more pics the better..if I see pics taken today in a great outfit I will enter just to see more. Nothing is worse than one pic in the profile zoomed in and out. Means the girl just dont care.
2. yes, everyone hates rudeness and smelly feet. nothing new here
3. under body type, "supermodel" is not the default. u may be beautiful and have a superb body, (and most of you do!) but if you are over 50kg, unless you are 2 meters tall, you ARE not a supermodel. Look up Adriana Lima or Marisa Miller.
4. 3 whole paragraphs telling me what you will block people for makes you sound like not very much fun.
Hey if you already have all the traffic you can handle, ignore me, I'm just speaking for what I like, and I come here somewhat often :)
1.The more pics the better..if I see pics taken today in a great outfit I will enter just to see more. Nothing is worse than one pic in the profile zoomed in and out. Means the girl just dont care.
2. yes, everyone hates rudeness and smelly feet. nothing new here
3. under body type, "supermodel" is not the default. u may be beautiful and have a superb body, (and most of you do!) but if you are over 50kg, unless you are 2 meters tall, you ARE not a supermodel. Look up Adriana Lima or Marisa Miller.
4. 3 whole paragraphs telling me what you will block people for makes you sound like not very much fun.
Hey if you already have all the traffic you can handle, ignore me, I'm just speaking for what I like, and I come here somewhat often :)
RE: profiles
Sasha... I see nothing wrong with it either. Especially when there's absolutely nothing on...
RE: profiles
If a real supermodel were describing her body on this site and wanted to make it sound better than it really was she would say it is Sashaesque.
RE: profiles
Now please stop blocking everyone. lol There has to be a way to let your fans through while keeping the rift raft that you don't want contacting you out!
RE: profiles
"if u have more than 50 kg-ure not a supermodel"-LMAO))))))Are u an expert in modelling business or something? Well lemme tell u somethging, genius-im a model and im more than 50 kg,and trust me, standarts change))) If for u-a bone soup means supermodel-well thats ur opinion, not a world standart.
RE: profiles
you might be a plus size model for all i know or care...SUPERMODEL is something different. and if you are a model times must be tough...
RE: profiles
Lol))) Im doing pretty fine))) And u know, i doubt that Naomy Campbell, Cindy or Leticia Casta are less than 50 kg))) Dont tell me what is a super model, for sure super model is something more than a bones soup) By the way, do u know that Adriana Lima is 59 kg?;) I weight 5 kg less than her))) If its a size plus model, well then i dunno where this world is going to...)))
RE: profiles
she's 52 when working. she's also almost 6 feet tall. i didn't say you can't have a great body and be over. I said u cant be a supermodel and be over. Girls that have supermodel bodies here are ChickoryBlue, AboveXBeyond, LadyKaroline, AchtungBaby, Kellis, Marika and AnitaBella. When someone asks my body type I dont say Vin Diesel or Jason Statham. I say Jim Belushi :)
RE: profiles
U have some perverted understanding of this word "supermodel". Supermodel doesnt mean super skinny))) Twiggy time is history now) Supermodel is a girl who has a body to die for, fit and slim sure, but not anorexic type.With some meat in the right places id say;) There are a few exceptions of course, like Kate Moss for example. But all hottest well-known models have something on their bones. At least a lil lol. And A FEW have their weight less than 50 kg. Anyway i think cc admins, when creating those features, didnt mean that a gilr should look like Kate or twiggy, and be less than 50 kg to be considered a supermodel;) Its not even healthy;)Its not a Vogue magazin and not a catwalk;)
RE: profiles
I also think you are right. Lets look at all those modells wearing lingerie at the "Victoria's Secrets Show". Noone of them is particularly skinny.
The directors of the show admit themselves that they chose girls who have curvy bodies as it is sexier and I doubt that those curvy models weight 50 kg!
I myself weight 54kg now and am 173 cm tall. I don't really want to lose any weight:) even if "A Nony Mouse" thinks I am fat:)
The directors of the show admit themselves that they chose girls who have curvy bodies as it is sexier and I doubt that those curvy models weight 50 kg!
I myself weight 54kg now and am 173 cm tall. I don't really want to lose any weight:) even if "A Nony Mouse" thinks I am fat:)
RE: profiles
Thx))) Well id suggest "James Belishi" or whatever he is, to look in the mirror before judging others, and pointing them what to do and how to set their work on this site))
And me, myself dont have a body of Woopy Goldberg, but i also dont have a body of Kate Moss (thx God) And for me Victoria Secret models are so much more of a "supermodels" than Kate or Nicole Richie(im sure she is less than 50 kg lol) or Vickie Becks ( her body looks so unhealthy these days).
And me, myself dont have a body of Woopy Goldberg, but i also dont have a body of Kate Moss (thx God) And for me Victoria Secret models are so much more of a "supermodels" than Kate or Nicole Richie(im sure she is less than 50 kg lol) or Vickie Becks ( her body looks so unhealthy these days).
RE: profiles
I quite agree curvy girls are so much better than the very skinny girls. Also as we can see what your figure looks like in your photos I have no problem with girls putting supermodel in their profiles. Especially as I very rarely read them after finding the 1000th host who finds smelly feet a turn off :(
RE: profiles
if im 55kg and 171 cm im not a supermodel?i think i am:)) super model its not only podium model,its could be photomodel:)btw photomodel not need to be 2 metrs tall:)
RE: profiles
I don't know if you looked sexy before at 48kg but I agree you look very sexy now. In fact I'm asking myself how I never noticed you before.
RE: profiles
point 3 is so wrong
go and see GOK WAN shows.
girls don't need to starve themselves to be supermodels.
go and see GOK WAN shows.
girls don't need to starve themselves to be supermodels.
Email from God
One day God was looking down at Earth and saw all the inappropriate behaviour that was going on.
He decided to send an angel down to Earth to check it out.
When the angel returned, he told God, "Yes, it is bad on Earth; 95% are misbehaving and 5% are not."
God thought for a moment and said, "Maybe I had better send down a second angel to get another opinion."
So God called another angel and sent him to Earth for a time.
When that angel returned he went to God and said, "Yes, it's true. The Earth is in decline; 95% are misbehaving and 5% are being good."
God was not pleased. So while he was debating what to do about the 95%
He decided to E-mail the 5% that were good to encourage them - give them a little something to help them keep going.
Do you know what that E-mail said?
No?
I didn't get one either. :--)
He decided to send an angel down to Earth to check it out.
When the angel returned, he told God, "Yes, it is bad on Earth; 95% are misbehaving and 5% are not."
God thought for a moment and said, "Maybe I had better send down a second angel to get another opinion."
So God called another angel and sent him to Earth for a time.
When that angel returned he went to God and said, "Yes, it's true. The Earth is in decline; 95% are misbehaving and 5% are being good."
God was not pleased. So while he was debating what to do about the 95%
He decided to E-mail the 5% that were good to encourage them - give them a little something to help them keep going.
Do you know what that E-mail said?
No?
I didn't get one either. :--)
RE: Solo Girl or threesome??
I would cjoose 1 solo Girl for $1.00 per minute..... I could not handle 3 at the same time.... They would be handling me...lol
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
I for one am sorry to hear of your disappointment. I think you'll find most men are not very complicated, foreign or no...
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
men aren't complicated,we are just pigs.always wanting to eat at different troughs :--)
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
You said that he just did oral on you and that was all? Maybe that is what he is really into, but that seems like just step one for me I am sure he has another trip planned soon. :p
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
Weren't you saying he only did oral sex to you? LOL
And yeah, men do say they wanna be friends, so they can get more sex in the future, it's not rocket science, lol.
And yeah, men do say they wanna be friends, so they can get more sex in the future, it's not rocket science, lol.
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
Run Seph!!!! Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn like the wind!!!!
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
I would not brag much if I was in your situation.
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
I'd like some sexy talk with you in a video. I'm totally turned on by your posts.
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
That all depends on your definition of "bad" :P
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
I agree with Sasha... don't lose heart, dear Host. Love has a way of sneaking up on you when you're not looking. And men may not be complicated, but relationships with them are another story...
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
I just wish I could meet a woman who was not afraid of a commitment. Seems to be all I can find. :(
RE: Hey, I am the girl who was bragging on Saturday
One host told me one of her customers came to her country to visit her, he was nice on text chatting but in the hotle roomhe tried to force himself on her for sex. becareful ladies, some sick guys out there.
bear on the roof
a man wakes up one morning in alaska to find a bear on his roof.so he looks in the phone book & finds an ad for"bear removers".he calls the number & the bear remover says he'll be over in 30 minutes.
the bear remover arrives & gets out of his van.he's got a ladder,a baseball bat,a shotgun & a mean,old pit bull.
"what are you going to do?"the home owner asks.
"i'm going put this ladder up against the roof,then i'm going to climb up there & knock the bear off the roof with this baseball bat.when the bear falls off,the pit bull is trained to grab his testicles in his teeth & not let go.the bear will then be subdued enough for me to put him in the cage in the back of the van."
he hands the shotgun to the home owner,who asks"what's the shotgun for?"
"if the bear knocks me off the roof,shoot the dog!!" :--)
the bear remover arrives & gets out of his van.he's got a ladder,a baseball bat,a shotgun & a mean,old pit bull.
"what are you going to do?"the home owner asks.
"i'm going put this ladder up against the roof,then i'm going to climb up there & knock the bear off the roof with this baseball bat.when the bear falls off,the pit bull is trained to grab his testicles in his teeth & not let go.the bear will then be subdued enough for me to put him in the cage in the back of the van."
he hands the shotgun to the home owner,who asks"what's the shotgun for?"
"if the bear knocks me off the roof,shoot the dog!!" :--)
RE: hello all....someone from milano or just passing_
and don't tell me you are from UK originally LOL
I'm going to Milan soon :)
I'm going to Milan soon :)
RE: To members and hosts
Wasn't all that funny but I once "cried out" another chat host name in a moment of passion. I thought that only happened in the movies but I have to say I was pretty embarrassed and the host I was with at the time was a little put off. We patched it up quickly but it's not something I want to repeat.
RE: To members and hosts
i put password on my session-and forget about it on 7 hours:))))))was realy shoked why nobody in my room,till not get 6 ccmail"bb give me pls ur password":)))))
RE: To members and hosts
Met a Russian host from St P she is blonde and stunning was chatting and i she ask me to guess age i said 60 she was so upset she cursed me in russian i cursed back in greek ,she answered me in greek , so i cursed in dutch so did she i was so taken aback i left she spoke ten languages blonde and not so dumb ))) We are mates now
was chatting
was chatting
RE: To members and hosts
Some great stories,dont really have any myself but just wanted to say how much im enjoying reading them.
RE: To members and hosts
I fell asleep once. I had been drinking and I was waiting forever for a favorite host to finish a long video. Finally she was ready for me and I started the video and a minute or two later I woke up and she was typing...hey are you there?
I also was surprised by doing a video with a TS. For some reason I thought he/she was a she. Again a late night with a few brews under the belt. I was a bit shocked. I left pretty damn quick. We plan to marry in the spring..kidding.
I also was surprised by doing a video with a TS. For some reason I thought he/she was a she. Again a late night with a few brews under the belt. I was a bit shocked. I left pretty damn quick. We plan to marry in the spring..kidding.
RE: To members and hosts
4years ago i meet a guy on cc,later he became my bf on 2years,,(but its another story),its was our first meeting on cc,he was celebrated birthdays,and tonight was drunk,come in my vid.he was too drunk and fall asleep(as i understand later)3hours he was sleeping in 121,but i was scared if he will hate me in the morning,that he spend too much money,i closed session-otherday he said me thank you-couse he usualy sleeing 10hours.otherway this night sleeping could cst him 700$:)))(tw after this we became our relations);)))
RE: To members and hosts
I once had a friend who was a host, back before home cams around 2001, and one of her favorite stunts in video was to do a handstand on the back of the sofa in the studio. One night she was drunk and tried it, she fell behind the sofam stuck between it and the wall. After she crawled out from behind the sofa we laughed so much we were both exhausted. Bad thing is she did it again a week later lol.
Then another time after she started shows from home, she tried a hand stand against the wall, but was too far away and her feet hit the wall very very hard. Her neighbor in the next apartment came to the door angry because she had knocked photos off his wall lol.
Then another time after she started shows from home, she tried a hand stand against the wall, but was too far away and her feet hit the wall very very hard. Her neighbor in the next apartment came to the door angry because she had knocked photos off his wall lol.
To Alex aka XextasyX
XextasyX???? Was that you, babe????
Sounds so much like you hahahahahahah.Should I tell them how you have tried to climb your door ???? hahahahahahahah
Sounds so much like you hahahahahahah.Should I tell them how you have tried to climb your door ???? hahahahahahahah
RE: To Alex aka XextasyX
LoL...you shouldn't mention that episode :D OUCH!...painful for me and for the ears of my poor neighbours aswell :)).But i must say that what hurt me the most was my stomach...from laughing so much after.
RE: revived hopes
That is so good to hear,i love hearing great stories likeyours andi hope you can make all your dreams come true with this guy.
I split with my Gf about 18 months ago and for a long period every time i closed my eyes i would see her and hear her voice,i cried so much other her and still do now somedays,everything used to remind me of her,a song,a film,a smell,she was so special to me and the love of my life,hearing you story has really given me some believe that maybe there is someone out there for me to love again.
Thank you so much and i wish youu all the best.
I split with my Gf about 18 months ago and for a long period every time i closed my eyes i would see her and hear her voice,i cried so much other her and still do now somedays,everything used to remind me of her,a song,a film,a smell,she was so special to me and the love of my life,hearing you story has really given me some believe that maybe there is someone out there for me to love again.
Thank you so much and i wish youu all the best.
RE: revived hopes ~ happy host
Well there are many reasons to be cautious if not necessarily careful. It is true people can click on first meeting and quite often it can blow you away how much you seem to have in common, however there is also the danger that like a shooting star it burns bright for a while and then fades away to be nothing but ashes.
That is not to say you may find this but do not confuse novelty with longevity. The Internet has a strange affect on people in relationships not least of which is to somehow accelerate time to the point where days seems like weeks, weeks seem like months and months like years. If you get beyond a year of such dynamism you are doing well, if you get beyond two years you are a rarity. Cumulatively your chances improve with every successive REAL year that passes.
Am I a cynic? Not really. Perhaps a little jaded by experience but then my experience admittedly goes back a lot further than most of the people on CC.
I do wish you all the best for the future though as it is rare enough that we find people who make us smile and feel good about ourselves. The one's who do it unbidden and without thought for recompense are truly the kind of friends we need to help us though the good time and the bad times in out lives.
Have fun, be happy and let us know how it all works out in a years time :)
TNTDOFMTSHEBTWN
That is not to say you may find this but do not confuse novelty with longevity. The Internet has a strange affect on people in relationships not least of which is to somehow accelerate time to the point where days seems like weeks, weeks seem like months and months like years. If you get beyond a year of such dynamism you are doing well, if you get beyond two years you are a rarity. Cumulatively your chances improve with every successive REAL year that passes.
Am I a cynic? Not really. Perhaps a little jaded by experience but then my experience admittedly goes back a lot further than most of the people on CC.
I do wish you all the best for the future though as it is rare enough that we find people who make us smile and feel good about ourselves. The one's who do it unbidden and without thought for recompense are truly the kind of friends we need to help us though the good time and the bad times in out lives.
Have fun, be happy and let us know how it all works out in a years time :)
TNTDOFMTSHEBTWN
RE: revived hopes ~ happy host
You're welcome. I am touched I am even remembered, let alone listened to :) For what it is worth that alone made me smile and so I really do wish you all the happiness you deserve.
It is not impossible to find love here, but I would say it is a rarity for the most part, which I suppose, when you think about true love, is only natural. Do we not all feel true love is something special and precious?
Anyway, thank you for your comments and I hope you have a lovely day.
TNT
It is not impossible to find love here, but I would say it is a rarity for the most part, which I suppose, when you think about true love, is only natural. Do we not all feel true love is something special and precious?
Anyway, thank you for your comments and I hope you have a lovely day.
TNT
RE: revived hopes
Well i think its possible to find Love here.not easy but not impossible,so all i can say to people is follow your heart and make your own decisions.i think if were honest a few of us would love to find that certain someone special here,lets face it alot of the hosts are Gorgeous and if they have a personality to match Wow!!!.
So good luck to anyone who finds love here .
So good luck to anyone who finds love here .
RE: revived hopes
Agree - it is mostly BS, from the members and hosts. I know because I have tricked hosts and they have tricked me. Best to look elsewhere if you want love not sex.
Another Joke!
A vicar books into a hotel and says to the hotel clerk"I hope the porn channel in my room is disabled"she replies"its just regular porn you sick Ba_tard".
Colombiana18 - Missing in Action
5 months ago one of my favourites - Colombiana18 - abruptly quit cc and according to a chathost friend of hers, she moved suddenly to Hong Kong. Hard to believe unless maybe she was lured there by some "escort" business. Anyone heard from her recently? I'd be happy to hear news of her well-being. Thanks
smth to make u chuckle
A man decides to have a face-lift for his birthday. He spends $5,000 and feels really good about the results. On his way home, he stops at a newsstand and buys a paper.
Before leaving, he says to the sales clerk, "I hope you don't mind me asking, but how old do you think I am?"
"About 35," was the reply.
"I'm actually 47," the man says, feeling really happy.
After that, he goes into McDonalds for lunch and asks the clerk the same question.
The reply is, "Oh, you look about 29".
"I am actually 47."
Later, while standing at a bus stop, he asks an old woman the same question.
She replies, "I am 85 years old, and my eyesight is going. But when I was young, there was a sure way of telling a man's age. If I put my hand down your pants and play with your balls for 10 minutes, I will be able to tell you your exact age."
As there was no one around, the man thinks, What the hell and lets her slip her hand down his pants.
Ten minutes later, the old lady says, "Okay, it's done. You are 47."
Stunned, the man says, "That was brilliant. How did you do that?"
The old lady replies, "I was behind you at McDonalds."
RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME :P
best wishes on your special day,1cat.may your kitty litter be fresh,& warm :--)
RE: I just had to brag
What a nice story. You will be able to tell your grandchildren someday.
RE: I just had to brag
And yes, I prefer Western men to Eastern European local guys, too:)
mmmm well thats good to know , but I am already taken by a sweet asain girl . Seems like woman love western men & we western men love Asian , Russian & european woman. What a wonderful world !!!
mmmm well thats good to know , but I am already taken by a sweet asain girl . Seems like woman love western men & we western men love Asian , Russian & european woman. What a wonderful world !!!
RE: I just had to brag
The style of delivery might tend to suggest its bs, but the content is perfectly plausible and not in the least questionable
RE: I just had to brag
Your English is very good and you are to be congratulated on it. By style I think is meant more genre: that it reads perhaps like a reader's letter to Playboy magazine.
RE: I just had to brag -- I believe you
I believe you ....
I have not met any girl from CC yet , ( hope to meet my asian love soon )
but .. met many from Mirc and yahoo chat rooms
took to dinner and talked and a few had sex . But greatest moment was just meeting them face to face , and talking.
I have not met any girl from CC yet , ( hope to meet my asian love soon )
but .. met many from Mirc and yahoo chat rooms
took to dinner and talked and a few had sex . But greatest moment was just meeting them face to face , and talking.
RE: chicago - hmmm
what are you talking about hmmm
most members don't care if we have b/f's or are married
just here for sexual pleasure and chat anyway.
most members don't care if we have b/f's or are married
just here for sexual pleasure and chat anyway.
RE: chicago - hmmm
Most hosts will meet"selected" members here i am sure....even just for a coffee or lunch and a chit chat.
I'm sure Akina is no different in this regard but asking her or other hosts is fine expecting to get sex is is hopelessly far from reality.
The "classier" girls expect to be treated like princesses i'm a sugardaddy so i understand this.When i meet a host you can be sure i'm not hiding my wallet.
I'm sure Akina is no different in this regard but asking her or other hosts is fine expecting to get sex is is hopelessly far from reality.
The "classier" girls expect to be treated like princesses i'm a sugardaddy so i understand this.When i meet a host you can be sure i'm not hiding my wallet.
RE: I just had to brag
I'm from the US and traveled to many countries and ofter hear from the women they don't like the men in thier own country coz they are rude or no respect for the women. I say yeah, keep it up guys, makes me look that much better.
Rules
I recently started reading the forums here and quite often see members talking about the rules of each category. 'If the host refused to do this or that she is breaking the rules of the category she is in' ect ect.
I wasnt aware that any of the categories had rules as to what could or could not take place, let alone what the host was bound to do if asked.
Can anyone offre some insight into this?
I wasnt aware that any of the categories had rules as to what could or could not take place, let alone what the host was bound to do if asked.
Can anyone offre some insight into this?
RE: Rules
1. Hosts can do nothing sexual in non-adult categories.
2. For other categories (adult categories), there are non-restricted and restricted sessions. Hosts can do whatever they want other than a few extreme things like use animals in shows in these non-restricted adult sessions. If restricted, such as when a member is from a certain country, there are limits. These limits depend upon the category but are less restrictive as you move from glamour to instant action. If you are in a country like USA or western Europe and accessing CC from your PC there, I doubt you would ever be in a restricted session, but I am not sure.
3. Even though hosts can do pretty much what they want in adult, non-restricted sessions, they do not have to. In glamour and little shy, they do not need to get naked unless they tell the member that they will (i.e., no lying). In not so shy and instant action, they must get naked if the member wants them to since they are adult hardcore but in not so shy, they can chat a few minutes first whereas instant aciton means strip right away. Not sure about fetish, dungeon, and escort and exactly what a host is supposed to do.
4. I do not believe that 1 2 1 changes the rules or limits, although adult softcore hosts (glamour and little shy) often will tell members they only strip in 121. Some have said this is a violation of the rules since 121 is for privacy only, not as a way to get a member to pay more for a strip. Clearly it is a violation if not so shy or instant action, but I do not think it breaks the rules if the host is in glamour or little shy since she can choose if and when she will strip, but I am not sure.
2. For other categories (adult categories), there are non-restricted and restricted sessions. Hosts can do whatever they want other than a few extreme things like use animals in shows in these non-restricted adult sessions. If restricted, such as when a member is from a certain country, there are limits. These limits depend upon the category but are less restrictive as you move from glamour to instant action. If you are in a country like USA or western Europe and accessing CC from your PC there, I doubt you would ever be in a restricted session, but I am not sure.
3. Even though hosts can do pretty much what they want in adult, non-restricted sessions, they do not have to. In glamour and little shy, they do not need to get naked unless they tell the member that they will (i.e., no lying). In not so shy and instant action, they must get naked if the member wants them to since they are adult hardcore but in not so shy, they can chat a few minutes first whereas instant aciton means strip right away. Not sure about fetish, dungeon, and escort and exactly what a host is supposed to do.
4. I do not believe that 1 2 1 changes the rules or limits, although adult softcore hosts (glamour and little shy) often will tell members they only strip in 121. Some have said this is a violation of the rules since 121 is for privacy only, not as a way to get a member to pay more for a strip. Clearly it is a violation if not so shy or instant action, but I do not think it breaks the rules if the host is in glamour or little shy since she can choose if and when she will strip, but I am not sure.
Cam host & member evolution
Speaking for myself as a member I know I evolved from a shy new member (nervous to ask to see the goods) to a hardened veteran member (cam-2-cam play or if she doesn't agree to get naked within minutes I move on),
I'm just curious how hosts evolve over time.
I'm just curious how hosts evolve over time.
RE: Cam host & member evolution
When I first learned of cam sites, I didn't want to enter video chat for three reasons. First, I was worried about my credit card info. Second, I didn't want to take advantage of someone who was forced to strip online to survive (although looking back, I guess I could have just chatted but the sites I knew of until then were 100% adult and the idea never really occurred to me to be honest). And third, I didn't want to humiliate myself by paying for sex. (I had watched porn on tv of course but never paid for anything sexual, not even a magazine.)
Then, a chathost that I only chatted with in free chat and on yahoo broke my heart. I had sent her money and really loved her. I thought that we would get married. (No, I was not stupid enough not to consider the idea that she was lying, but I took a chance since I could afford to lose the money, and if she was not lying, I thought I would be very happy with her.) After that experience, I said "Wtf" and started to have fun online.
I don't think I was ever shy about asking a woman to strip once I started entering video chat. There was no need to be. Like I said, I only knew of adult only sites, and the hosts never did the stall thing back in the good old days about 4 or 5 years ago.
I do try to be nice and polite, and sometimes I won't even ask for a show, but if I am in the mood to see the goods, I will ask.
Then, a chathost that I only chatted with in free chat and on yahoo broke my heart. I had sent her money and really loved her. I thought that we would get married. (No, I was not stupid enough not to consider the idea that she was lying, but I took a chance since I could afford to lose the money, and if she was not lying, I thought I would be very happy with her.) After that experience, I said "Wtf" and started to have fun online.
I don't think I was ever shy about asking a woman to strip once I started entering video chat. There was no need to be. Like I said, I only knew of adult only sites, and the hosts never did the stall thing back in the good old days about 4 or 5 years ago.
I do try to be nice and polite, and sometimes I won't even ask for a show, but if I am in the mood to see the goods, I will ask.
RE: Cam host & member evolution
Your attitude now is much better as you'll get better shows and spend less money getting them.
RE: Cam host & member evolution
At the beginning of my "career" as a camgirl I actually wanted to try many things on here...and if I didn't like what member wanted I sometimes did it anyway (for money reasons and to get new regulars.)
Now I am not afraid to say NO if members ask for something what I don't like. And now I make difference between men. Those who stay long are usually quite pleasant and not too pervert.
In comparison to the beginning I am became not naive now, what maybe some members like, but I do other kind of shows now- less sex and more sexy talks :)
I have members who have been with me for years and make quite good money on here....but still I am going to quit soon:)
Now I am not afraid to say NO if members ask for something what I don't like. And now I make difference between men. Those who stay long are usually quite pleasant and not too pervert.
In comparison to the beginning I am became not naive now, what maybe some members like, but I do other kind of shows now- less sex and more sexy talks :)
I have members who have been with me for years and make quite good money on here....but still I am going to quit soon:)
RE: Cam host & member evolution
I have seen quite a few go from being totally nonadult to being almost instant action over the course of a few months. I think it is peer pressure and the desire to make more money that drives them. If the studio has a lot of successful adult hosts it is tough to compare pay checks. Plus many realize that they will never see the members in real life so who cares. It is like exposing yourself to a mirror. Of course these girls are the exception. I think by a larger margin are the girls who try CC for a few weeks and then decide not to compromise their ethics and quit. Damn it.
parking the car
Norman and his wife live at Mt Buller. One winter morning while listening to the radio, they hear the announcer say, "We are going to have 8 to 10 centimetres of snow today. You must park your car on the even numbered side of the street, so the snow plough can get through."
Norman's wife goes out and moves her car. A week later while they are eating breakfast, the radio announcer says, "We are expecting 10 to 12 centimetres of snow today. You must park your car on the odd numbered side of the street, so the snow plough can get through." Norman's wife goes out and moves her car again.
The next week they are having breakfast again, when the radio announcer says, "We are expecting 12 to 14 centimetres of snow today. You must park..........." then the electric power goes out.
Norman's wife is very upset, and with a worried look on her face she says, "Honey, I don't know what to do. Which side of the street do I need to park on so the plough can get through?"
With the love and understanding in his voice like all men who have partners, Norman says, "Why don't you just leave it in the garage this time sweety?" :--)
Norman's wife goes out and moves her car. A week later while they are eating breakfast, the radio announcer says, "We are expecting 10 to 12 centimetres of snow today. You must park your car on the odd numbered side of the street, so the snow plough can get through." Norman's wife goes out and moves her car again.
The next week they are having breakfast again, when the radio announcer says, "We are expecting 12 to 14 centimetres of snow today. You must park..........." then the electric power goes out.
Norman's wife is very upset, and with a worried look on her face she says, "Honey, I don't know what to do. Which side of the street do I need to park on so the plough can get through?"
With the love and understanding in his voice like all men who have partners, Norman says, "Why don't you just leave it in the garage this time sweety?" :--)
RE: So hard..
When you try so hard and yet still 'stay' with someone that deceived you. Even after that person created a BIG story to hide the truth of where SHE really was. Even after more little deceptions and 'white lies' were uncovered about other things she said.....Even after those, to still want to be with her....that was love, real love. And now, he told a 'white lie', one time.... and she does not forgive so easily. Everything he said to her before was true, and now, of course, understandably, she will never trust or believe him again..... Yet he forgot/forgave her 'lies' so readily, because she is worth it, because she is the one. Because he loved her. Still does. His fault, for being lonely and not wanting to admit it, for not wanting to admit he was weak. But, even in that weakness, he didn't say anything to the allegra that meant there was anything other than chat...... I was all to her, now I am nothing. Thanks for listening everyone, feel free to berate all I said. Goodbye CC
RE: So hard..
True love is not based on receiving love in return. If you must receive love before you can love, then you do not know love. Love is never about what can I get, it is about what can I give. Emotions that can not withstand difficult times is only attachment not love.
What good is a love based only on love returned? When you can love those who hate you, those who take you for granted and those who would use you, then you are capable of True Love. It never means you should let them harm you, you must stand up for yourself, but you can still confront them in love and walk away.
Love is giving, caring, tender, hopeful, never selfish, and compassionate, but also strong.
Think of a soldier who would throw himself on a grenade to protect not only his friends, but also innocent strangers around him. He can hope for nothing in return for his act of love. If this can be done for a stranger and yet one can not "love" someone unless they receive "love" in return, they do not know what love is.
What good is a love based only on love returned? When you can love those who hate you, those who take you for granted and those who would use you, then you are capable of True Love. It never means you should let them harm you, you must stand up for yourself, but you can still confront them in love and walk away.
Love is giving, caring, tender, hopeful, never selfish, and compassionate, but also strong.
Think of a soldier who would throw himself on a grenade to protect not only his friends, but also innocent strangers around him. He can hope for nothing in return for his act of love. If this can be done for a stranger and yet one can not "love" someone unless they receive "love" in return, they do not know what love is.
RE: So hard..
Chill out guys. dont think cc is right place to be saying this. U'll be beaten up by all the judges here who dont know the detail. I learned it a long time ago. Anyways we all lie here, thats what cc does to u. talk to each other heart to heart and face to face without distractions from all us other bystanders that dont have nuthin better to do.
RE: So hard..
wow u know so much from just a few words ella said. Amazing!!! You got special powers. Or maybe, Ur ella too??? LOL
RE: So hard..
We are social animals we crave attention on cc you get attention . We interprit this attention for love . I have never loved till cc i realize now it was just my human nature getting attention , We need to be hard and treat cc for waht it is a porn site
RE: So hard..
"No longer a member ))" you are so right. I got burned twice here, it hurt, but now i live and learn. it IS just a porn site, no matter what category a girl is in, it's all about money and pretend
Happy Birthday - xxMiladyxx
Happy Birthday -- xxMiladyxx
Hope you have a great day
and party all night long !!!
Hope you have a great day
and party all night long !!!
serching for Escada55
hi people. Does anyone know how I can find Escada55? She just desappeared... maybe she changed hostname? Can u help me? Thanks!