General Forum
One less rat to deal with
I thought of posting this in viewer only forum, but I thought it would be fair to place it here in case some hosts want to comment on how some members are actually very fond of hosts and appreciate the time they spent with us.
As a parting gift to you my fellow members, I would like to give a list of hosts who I have frequented here from time to time. Please note that for the non-adult or even glamour hosts I will chose not to tell what they do or do not do. I would hate to give the wrong impression on any of these hosts.
TheCharming - smart, cool, sexy. my best late night company.
Dakota/Cimonna - a good person to spend time with. behind the great smile is a real down to earth gal.
Sunclear/Sunclear4u - she had a lot of negative remarks in the past, but she will always be my best.
SUNNYGIRLL/alisa18 - so cute. had many a good nights sleep after spending time with her.
SunnyJenny/darkangel222 - spunky. lots of attitude. an overall cool girl.
Agatha8 - ahhh Brazil.
UCallMeBabe - by far one of the most erotic, sensual woman here. stimulating mentally and sexually. also great if u have a foot fetish.
SMILESTAR - always nice to just look at her even when she's just chatting. exotic.
bonbonxx/ellexx - just want to put in her in my pocket. cute, but can be oh so sexy.
xNookiex - cool chick. love her smile.
and those who are no longer here:
AsianAllure/Gabriele18 - takes sexuality to a whole other level. made me want to be a lesbian in the worst possible way.
Soulmategirl/mellowsky - my first host. my first addiction. i thought my fantasy was real when i was with her.
AnnaLovely/AnnaSweet - ahhh Brazil.
DallilaXXX - a friend of Sunclear who used to perform with her. also had bad press, but very nice to be with.
Anyway, not sure if anyone will care, but these were my faves. Of course there were others, but these girls were tops for me. As you may have noticed, most of them are in glamour. I will never tell what they did or did not do. Just know that in the fraternal bond of cc membership, I will never deliberately try to mislead you into visiting a host who is ultimately a scammer.
Take care all! Hope to return when the economy is better.
As a parting gift to you my fellow members, I would like to give a list of hosts who I have frequented here from time to time. Please note that for the non-adult or even glamour hosts I will chose not to tell what they do or do not do. I would hate to give the wrong impression on any of these hosts.
TheCharming - smart, cool, sexy. my best late night company.
Dakota/Cimonna - a good person to spend time with. behind the great smile is a real down to earth gal.
Sunclear/Sunclear4u - she had a lot of negative remarks in the past, but she will always be my best.
SUNNYGIRLL/alisa18 - so cute. had many a good nights sleep after spending time with her.
SunnyJenny/darkangel222 - spunky. lots of attitude. an overall cool girl.
Agatha8 - ahhh Brazil.
UCallMeBabe - by far one of the most erotic, sensual woman here. stimulating mentally and sexually. also great if u have a foot fetish.
SMILESTAR - always nice to just look at her even when she's just chatting. exotic.
bonbonxx/ellexx - just want to put in her in my pocket. cute, but can be oh so sexy.
xNookiex - cool chick. love her smile.
and those who are no longer here:
AsianAllure/Gabriele18 - takes sexuality to a whole other level. made me want to be a lesbian in the worst possible way.
Soulmategirl/mellowsky - my first host. my first addiction. i thought my fantasy was real when i was with her.
AnnaLovely/AnnaSweet - ahhh Brazil.
DallilaXXX - a friend of Sunclear who used to perform with her. also had bad press, but very nice to be with.
Anyway, not sure if anyone will care, but these were my faves. Of course there were others, but these girls were tops for me. As you may have noticed, most of them are in glamour. I will never tell what they did or did not do. Just know that in the fraternal bond of cc membership, I will never deliberately try to mislead you into visiting a host who is ultimately a scammer.
Take care all! Hope to return when the economy is better.
Reality check
When my very special friend of 2 years told me she now hates me because I had other obligations in my life I became distraught. I lamented and sulked, debating whether or not I should try to see her in video again. Then, during my deep depression I inadvertently went to my session statistics and saw how often I was online with her. Lo and behold I realized that in the 2 years that I had known her I could have bought myself a 2009 fully loaded honda accord. I dont know how much a college education is where she is from, but I bet I funded her remaining years at her university. It was at this time when my lamenting came to a halt and reality set in. I realized that I have become one of the many members who got lost in this fantasy world we call cc. My congratulations to you hosts. You ladies are good at what you do, and you deserve whatever money you get from us members. As for us members, we should not complain if we do not get what we want from hosts. We dont need to spend anything we dont want to. We just need to be more careful in how we go about doing things. Anyway, I just wanted to vent.
RE: Reality check
Excellent post. Well put.
My advice: If you're really interested in a host, try to meet her as soon as practicably possible (within 3-6 months of first contact). If she agrees and you meet and get along well (including sex, of course), then there's something real there. If she stalls in meeting you or won't get romantic when you do meet, it's all about the benjamins and you move on. Just my opinion.
My advice: If you're really interested in a host, try to meet her as soon as practicably possible (within 3-6 months of first contact). If she agrees and you meet and get along well (including sex, of course), then there's something real there. If she stalls in meeting you or won't get romantic when you do meet, it's all about the benjamins and you move on. Just my opinion.
RE: Reality check
and you'er exactly the kind of host that he wouldn't want to waste time on. i think you made his point dear:)
RE: Reality check
If you develop feelings for a host, definitely see how she reacts to the idea of a meeting. I agree that if she stalls saying she needs months and months and months of time "to be sure" about meeting you, it's a bad sign and the first clue to a stall tactic designed to drag the money game out.
Also see how much she's willing to talk to you off site -- but without money being exchanged. If she wants some coin for any time you talk at all -- it's another nail in the coffin.
Best way of all to find out? Lie and say that you lost your job for the time being due to the current economic downturn. But tell her you'd still like to chat and stay in touch because you love her. If she dumps you cold or finds all-new reasons to NOT spend any time with you...since (apparently) the money has run dry...then you'll REALLY know it was always about the Benjamins.
Also see how much she's willing to talk to you off site -- but without money being exchanged. If she wants some coin for any time you talk at all -- it's another nail in the coffin.
Best way of all to find out? Lie and say that you lost your job for the time being due to the current economic downturn. But tell her you'd still like to chat and stay in touch because you love her. If she dumps you cold or finds all-new reasons to NOT spend any time with you...since (apparently) the money has run dry...then you'll REALLY know it was always about the Benjamins.
to ECG
I mostly agree with you here, but...
I think it's a little draconian and unrealistic to think that the issue of money should be 100% completely removed from the equation. Yes, it should be limited. But I'm no idealist and I know that in the eyes of most women money represents success, security, power, etc. And women are attracted to these things as a result of evolution. And I don't blame them for that. All I'm saying is that the issue of money needs to be diminished somewhat with women that a guy meets here, not necessarily eliminated entirely. Personally I wouldn't expect a woman to find me very attractive if I didn't have a job, as it's more than the job and the money - it's what the lack of the job and money say about the person's future prospects, which gets back to the issue of "attractiveness" in the eyes of a woman.
But perhaps I'm nitpicking. Again, I basically agree with you.
I think it's a little draconian and unrealistic to think that the issue of money should be 100% completely removed from the equation. Yes, it should be limited. But I'm no idealist and I know that in the eyes of most women money represents success, security, power, etc. And women are attracted to these things as a result of evolution. And I don't blame them for that. All I'm saying is that the issue of money needs to be diminished somewhat with women that a guy meets here, not necessarily eliminated entirely. Personally I wouldn't expect a woman to find me very attractive if I didn't have a job, as it's more than the job and the money - it's what the lack of the job and money say about the person's future prospects, which gets back to the issue of "attractiveness" in the eyes of a woman.
But perhaps I'm nitpicking. Again, I basically agree with you.
RE: Reality check
Good post. You can keep this sort of thing going for a while but at some point reality bites ))
RE: Reality check
Its business. And business is money. How mad would you be if the best customer of the business you own or work for decided to stop buying from you? Nothing emotional. There is no affection. Read some of the excellent books on the market about strippers and topless bars. The method used by the girls is the same. Real eye openers.
RE: Reality check
I do love you but you keep pushing me away. So I have to assume you only care about money and really don't care for any member beyond that even me.
RE: Reality check
And So, you find these books in the Business section? Or the Self-Improvement section? LOL....
RE: Reality check
Thanks for the reality check. I checked my own spending and realized it was all a farce, false hopes and dreams. Now i know better
RE: FOR MEMBERS AND OF COURSE NOT FOR THEM ONLY
what every happen to the multi-choices questions with answers A, B , C, D or none above
RE: FOR MEMBERS AND OF COURSE NOT FOR THEM ONLY
Because we want to know who is worth seeing or not. Members have expectations, and a lot of money is spent just to find out their expectations are not met by certain hosts.
RE: FOR MEMBERS AND OF COURSE NOT FOR THEM ONLY
We're just placing our bets on a sure thing. Why should we risk spending more money on something we know we're not going to be satisfied with? It's just business. Don't take it personally. You hosts have your ways of taking advantage of us. This is just our way of "securing our investments." As long as money is being exchanged, there is nothing going on here but business transactions.
RE: FOR MEMBERS AND OF COURSE NOT FOR THEM ONLY
Why cant u juts ask a host? Ofc some of the girls will say-maybe, come and see, and all that stuff, and if u dont have a lot of money-just skip this gilr and move to another one who will say clear what she does and what she will not do. A lot of member lie in viwers forum, not sure what for. And ofc its personal. With one guy a host will feel comfortable enough to do something, another guy will come and say instead of HI-pussy pls, ofc she will not show him anything, and he will go to the viwers forum, and write abt her-she is a scammer, she doesnt show, dont go to her room. Lol and u guys listen to such "advice")) Silly)
RE: FOR MEMBERS AND OF COURSE NOT FOR THEM ONLY
I'm a member and take what I read in our forum with so many "pinches of salt" my blood pressure should be through the roof! Thankfully with experience it eventually becomes possible to distinguish the credible (1%) from the nonsense (99%).
RE: FOR MEMBERS AND OF COURSE NOT FOR THEM ONLY
Sound advice, Monika. Let me give it a try.
Hey, Monika! How are you doing? I hope you dont take this the wrong way, and I'm sorry for being too forward, but Im wondering if i could ask you something. Do you happen to do any nudity in your videos? :P
Hey, Monika! How are you doing? I hope you dont take this the wrong way, and I'm sorry for being too forward, but Im wondering if i could ask you something. Do you happen to do any nudity in your videos? :P
RE: FOR MEMBERS AND OF COURSE NOT FOR THEM ONLY
This is a good example how it shud be;)Well done lol)))
And if u really wanna know and not mocking-come and ask me in my room.Or ure brave only in public?;)
And if u really wanna know and not mocking-come and ask me in my room.Or ure brave only in public?;)
RE: FOR MEMBERS AND OF COURSE NOT FOR THEM ONLY
We're just looking out for each other. If we want to know more about a host then we communicate with each other. We can't disclose everything because we know you hosts look at what we write in viewers forum.
RE: FOR MEMBERS AND OF COURSE NOT FOR THEM ONLY
I choose to tell because if I had a great experience with someone then I want to share the moment. Then again, if I want to be greedy and keep a host to myself, then I wont tell a soul.
Homeless
On Tuesday, 4 November 2008, the citizens of the USA will choose a new president. Then, on Tuesday, 20 January 2009, their choice will take office.
I am very unhappy with the two main candidates for the office of president, as well as the direction that my country is going in. I know that every election gives us the hope that there will be change for the better, but I have no reason to think that this positive change will actually occur.
While I will never give up my citizenship, I feel that I must live in another country, at least until things are better here. I am currently looking for a wife that lives in a country with good leadership. I have enough money saved that I will be able to help support us even without my working. This will allow me time to learn a new language and adjust to my new home.
If anyone is interested in marrying me, please let me know. You do not need to enter my video session countless times to rate me since I do not have a session, and you do not need to send me money since I have plenty. I am just looking for a sweet, wonderful woman to share my life with.
If interested, please post your replies here. Thank you.
I am very unhappy with the two main candidates for the office of president, as well as the direction that my country is going in. I know that every election gives us the hope that there will be change for the better, but I have no reason to think that this positive change will actually occur.
While I will never give up my citizenship, I feel that I must live in another country, at least until things are better here. I am currently looking for a wife that lives in a country with good leadership. I have enough money saved that I will be able to help support us even without my working. This will allow me time to learn a new language and adjust to my new home.
If anyone is interested in marrying me, please let me know. You do not need to enter my video session countless times to rate me since I do not have a session, and you do not need to send me money since I have plenty. I am just looking for a sweet, wonderful woman to share my life with.
If interested, please post your replies here. Thank you.
RE: Homeless
hmm------just make sure you vote before you leave our country--I need my candidate to win--every vote counts--well the electoral vote anyway
RE: Homeless
Are you serious? You may as well get rid of your citizenship. For you to bail out on your country, even when it is in trouble is pathetic. Have some pride. I live in a developing nation where there are only rich and poor. For most of my life I was literally living in squalor, but i finished school, started a career, and now make enough to foolishly spend on beautiful women online. I wish you the best in finding a woman who is willing to marry a deserter.
Suggestion
I won't comment on your political polemic, but...
I'd recommend you move to Baja California. Tijuana is 15 minutes from downtown San Diego; Rosarito is another 30 minutes south, and Ensenada another 45 minutes beyond Rosarito. 320+ days of sunshine each year; fantastic weather all year around and very inexpensive. You can buy a 2bedroom/2 bathroom oceanfront condo for $150K these days. And you can slip back into SD whenever the need arises.
Yeah, there's been a lot of news about the violence in Mexico over the last few years, but 98% of it is drug related. If you're not mixed up in drugs or on the police force, the odds of having any problems are extraordinarily low. I love Baja. And if you can pick up spanish - which is a pretty easy language - you will be able to pick up the hottest latinas on the planet. Hot young latin women everywhere. Anyhow, that's for what it's worth.
I'd recommend you move to Baja California. Tijuana is 15 minutes from downtown San Diego; Rosarito is another 30 minutes south, and Ensenada another 45 minutes beyond Rosarito. 320+ days of sunshine each year; fantastic weather all year around and very inexpensive. You can buy a 2bedroom/2 bathroom oceanfront condo for $150K these days. And you can slip back into SD whenever the need arises.
Yeah, there's been a lot of news about the violence in Mexico over the last few years, but 98% of it is drug related. If you're not mixed up in drugs or on the police force, the odds of having any problems are extraordinarily low. I love Baja. And if you can pick up spanish - which is a pretty easy language - you will be able to pick up the hottest latinas on the planet. Hot young latin women everywhere. Anyhow, that's for what it's worth.
RE: Suggestion
Politics politics politics...are you trying to make me fall asleep?? Gimme a break...im here to shower hosts with my $$$ whille a enjoy their lovely bodies...Take your politics and puttem where the sun dont shine :P
RE: Homeless
dishin your country on a porn site = free(dom)
blind advertising for a wife on a porn site - priceless.
defect to N Korea already will ya?
blind advertising for a wife on a porn site - priceless.
defect to N Korea already will ya?
u will love ur country again and even more
after u will live with me in romania at least for one whole year and loose all ur savings paying the heat during first winter >:D<
RE: Loving in Vain...
I dont really know what to say Angel,Love can be the best thing you will ever fel in life and it can also be the most painful thing your ever Experience.
I hope you can stay strong and that you have good friends around you what ever happens.
I feel the pain you are going through as i have felt it myself in the past but your relationship still has a chance Angel,maybe he is just not good at showing his Emotions or maybe he is scared to show them because of past Experiences with previous partners who knows,but maybe you should sit down and talk to him.
Be Brave and talk to him in calmly and ask for his feelings towards you.
I wish you luck and all the best.
as the previos guy said "Hugs"
I hope you can stay strong and that you have good friends around you what ever happens.
I feel the pain you are going through as i have felt it myself in the past but your relationship still has a chance Angel,maybe he is just not good at showing his Emotions or maybe he is scared to show them because of past Experiences with previous partners who knows,but maybe you should sit down and talk to him.
Be Brave and talk to him in calmly and ask for his feelings towards you.
I wish you luck and all the best.
as the previos guy said "Hugs"
RE: Loving in Vain...
i think there's a chance that you may be setting yourself up for a bit of a fall.
RE: Loving in Vain...
yea I guess I have to be strong... keeping my fingers crossed and hope for the best, just "bothered" when I post this poem, my mind ang heart expresses it and I just let it go... but I'll be fine really. thanks for all the reply ppl. huggers!
It's a little disturbing...
when a host completely forgets who you are, one week later. Understandable, I guess, but still. Oh well...
RE: It's a little disturbing...
I see your point... but we don't have the benefit of viewers notes. Wish we had host notes.
RE: It's a little disturbing...
As I said, it's understandable... I am telling myself now not to scatter my affections too widely, and, when madness overcomes me, to think of a cold shower instead... :-)
RE: It's a little disturbing...
It is easy for members to become infatuated or even believe they are in love with hosts. Sure they are paying money and deep down they know they girls are only here to make money but it is the nature of human relationship that men will fall under the spell of women and firmly believe something that could not possibly be true. Dont feel bad. We have all been there. Make some nice friends, have some fun and when the time is ready...move on...just do not invest a lot of emption into this place.
RE: It's a little disturbing...
So... I completely agree. Some nice friends would be great. I just found it a little disturbing not to be remembered at all. A little disturbing... and a reality check. Thanks for the kind words.
RE: It's a little disturbing...
Karina... it went beyond "come play with me"; I like to cultivate the relationship first, and will only go to vid if we connect. But, just to be clear, I'm not blaming the host. She may have been tired, working long hours, or her mind just slipped for a moment. And obviously I am not special enough, at least not yet I guess...
Thank you for taking time to reply...
Thank you for taking time to reply...
Banking 101
What's the difference between a regular bank, and a sperm bank? After you make a deposit in a sperm bank, you lose interest.
Volunteer work
Curious to know if anyone here has done Volunteer work abroad and where would be the best place to go so i can do both Volunter work and have a vacation too.
Ive looked on several internet sites and i found alot of the programmes are very expenisve,would be grateful for any good advice.
Thank you
Ive looked on several internet sites and i found alot of the programmes are very expenisve,would be grateful for any good advice.
Thank you
RE: Volunteer work
Come to me, Gentleman!!..as work, I will ask you to get naked with me...and to be volunteer, I will let the money into my account.LOL
You will have three rooms and a small kitchen upstairs only for yourself and I will feed you, do not worry!
When are you coming, then?
You will have three rooms and a small kitchen upstairs only for yourself and I will feed you, do not worry!
When are you coming, then?
RE: Volunteer work
gentleman, i have worked on many volunteer programs. all are in the united states, but one program i have worked with through church is the presbyterian disaster assistance program. i worked after hurricanes in usa. But they have programs all over the world. check out presbyterian disaster assistance. good luck and hope for the best for you. great program
RE: Volunteer work
Guatemala needs a lot of volunteer work gent--and also a cool place to see volcano's and big mountains
RE: Volunteer work
Thank you kindly Jewel.ill look into the information you have given me in the morning when im not so tired,
Thx again
Thx again
RE: Volunteer work
my pleasure gent, it is nice to have a higher calling sometimes. It refreshes the soul. Good luck.
RE: Volunteer work
Just a word of caution to choose very wisely. A lot of people who volunteer for such international projects actually find that on arrival they are surplus to requirements, don't have the right skills etc. etc. and find themselves contributing very little.
RE: Volunteer work
There are actually some travel agencies that organize and coordinate volunteer travel. There are few. Just Google to find them.
RE: Volunteer work
in my country most people who do volunteer work do it in Brazil there are a lot of poor people there.....and i guess Brazil is a nice place for u to see
good luck my friend
good luck my friend
RE: Volunteer work
Thank you to all have posted comments on here so far im very very thankful to you for all the help and information you have given me so far,please keep the comments coming as id like as much information as possible please,would be interested to here some more from people who have done volunteer work in the past to.
Thx Again
Thx Again
RE: Volunteer work
I worked as a volunteer in England for a charity which helps socially isolated people. One of my tasks was to visit women who needed company for the night. It was enjoyable and satisfying work.
Voluntary Services Overseas are a good place to start in UK for working abroad.
Voluntary Services Overseas are a good place to start in UK for working abroad.
riddle
every man in a village of 100 married couples has cheated on his wife...every wife in the village instantly knows when a man other than her husband has cheated...but does not know when her own husband has...the village has a law that does not allow for adultery...any wife who can prove that her husband is unfaithful must kill him that very day...the women of the village would never disobey this law....one day the queen of the village visits and announces that at least one husband has been unfaithful...what happens?
RE: riddle
wife cant prove it. it says they instantly know when a man OTHER than her husband has cheated. nothing happens
RE: riddle
The wife whose husband has cheated knows that no other husbands have cheated. Since she now knows that one husband has cheated she knows it must be her husband so she kills him.
RE: riddle
since the wife of the cheating husband would have known already if any of the other husbands was the cheating husband, then the announcement would let her know that her husband was the cheating husband and she would kill him.
well done Lewis Hamilton
methinks Timo Glock will be driving for McLaren next season ;o)
RE: well done Lewis Hamilton
5th just what he needed to be the world champion. It was on the background while doing shows and the last guy was so hot i missed the final lap LOL
RE: well done Lewis Hamilton
Yes indeed well done Lewis,so glad he done it after all the Racism he Recieved and he was the best driver and deserved it,He left it very late and had us all biting our nails but good on you Lewis..
R.I.P. Opus
To all those folks who are old enough to remember the old Bloom County and Outland comic strips, and to those who may have been following the newer adventures in the Sunday-only "Opus" strips, I say a heartfelt "rest in peace" to Opus the Penguin. Berkeley Breathed provided many years of entertainment through the irreverent adventures of Opus, Bill the Cat, Milo Bloom, Cutter John, Binkley, Steve Dallas, etc.; but, alas it has come to an end. Today's final strip has Opus passing into the great beyond to finally rest.
We'll miss you, old Pudgepot.
Good night Opus
Good night Air
Good night noises everywhere
We'll miss you, old Pudgepot.
Good night Opus
Good night Air
Good night noises everywhere
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
Sarted with fantasy vourism sex but .... i ended up really growing close to host and stayed ))
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
1)coz i can
2)coz im bored
3)damn hot sexy women here!!!!
2)coz im bored
3)damn hot sexy women here!!!!
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
to see LATINHOTT, play with LATINHOTT, and all for LATINHOTT
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
yes baby, u are cutie, sweet , but i love brazil girls, and she is fantastic!
see u baby :)
see u baby :)
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
So that I can set up rendezvous with hot young women (more easily than walking into a bar) when I'm in eastern europe.
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
1. LONLEY
2. WANTED TO TALK TO A BEAUTIFUL LADY
3. BECAUSE IHAD TOO MUCH MONEY ...NOW....VERY LITTLE ...AS MOST LONG TERM MEMBERS....LOL
2. WANTED TO TALK TO A BEAUTIFUL LADY
3. BECAUSE IHAD TOO MUCH MONEY ...NOW....VERY LITTLE ...AS MOST LONG TERM MEMBERS....LOL
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
I prefer a real man like you, not a boy. Lube yourself, I'm coming in!
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
cuz i am too lazy to go out at night and meet girls at my own city. here is easy and dont have to kick them out in the morning :-P
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
-Access to young, attractive sexy women.
-Getting to know on a semi personal basis a person who is about to be the object of your lust.
-Sexual gratification.
-Getting to know on a semi personal basis a person who is about to be the object of your lust.
-Sexual gratification.
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
I. I'm a right ugly bastard who gets ignored by every woman I have ever met. here girld talk to me and like me (or so they tell me :P).
2. The beautiful girls on here show me their naked bums.
3. It's either come here or do some housework (no housework done for over 3 years).
2. The beautiful girls on here show me their naked bums.
3. It's either come here or do some housework (no housework done for over 3 years).
RE: 4members:why do you use this cam sites?
discuss politics
exchange recipes
to compare breast sizes
exchange recipes
to compare breast sizes
Stop Smoking
There were two priests in a Vatican toilet using the urinals. One of them looked over at the other one's family jewels and noticed there was a Nicorette patch on it. He turned to the other priest and said advisedly, "I believe you're supposed to put that patch on your arm or shoulder, not there." The other priest replied, "It's working just fine where it is, I'm down to two butts a day!" :--)
RE: A Question to ALL...
The one emotion doesn't change to the other, on the contrary they co-exist.
RE: A Question to ALL...
There is a very thin line Between Love and Hate,so it is very possible to hate the person you once loved.
to Gentleman123
yeah ur right there's a thin line between love and hate, they're both a powerful feelings! Sometimes we love to hate. And hate to love (winks!)
RE: A Question to ALL...
Spurned love. Betrayed love. Love that turns out to have been a lie. All of these can often trigger the opposite emotion...hate. If you give all of yourself to someone and they ignore it, insult it or throw it away....then you tend to get pissed.
RE: A Question to ALL...
I think it's easier to hate than to love, Strangely when you think about it negative is easier than anything positive. Probably bcoz with the negative there is no responsibility.
to Anon Angel
Yeah I totally agree with you. There is no responsibility with being negative, and it's easier to hate. Probably bcoz you can blame whatever you're hating, and it's easier to be negative, bcoz it takes the load off yourself and puts it elsewhere. Actually it's selfish. Humans are selfish creature anyways, so that makes sense. With love it's much harder bcoz you have to be more selfless... Or know how to show it. Etc... etc.. etc.. It's always nice to give your love though, so I'd rather choose loving than to hate someone. Cheers Everyone! Thanks for all your responses guys/gals
RE: A Question to ALL...
absolutely
think how you feel when viewers go in videochat from txt chat and from videochat to txt chat LOL
think how you feel when viewers go in videochat from txt chat and from videochat to txt chat LOL
RE: A Question to ALL...
Ye and when u feel the 2 feelings at the same time it makes it so hotttttt, i had this once in my life, was the brightest relationships ever..Now just hate is left tho lol))
RE: A Question to ALL...
too easily i am affraid its just happened to me after years with a host and i will never understand why and she wont say which is a pity
RE: Meeting with hosts
Been a member for 5 years. My work involves traveling to Eastern European countries. Met an average of 10 or 12 girls per year. Some with sex others just friends. You can't know until you meet them. Romanians, Russians, Latvians, and Ukranians all beautiful girls. I can't complain.
RE: Meeting with hosts
It depends on how you define "common place." I've met 7 hosts from this and one other site. (Had sex with 5 of the 7, just for perspective.) I've had plans to meet a few others over the years but for whatever reason our schedules just didn't coordinate. Anyhow, based on what these girls told me about themselves and their friends that work on these sites, I'd guess that 80% of the hosts in major cities - Bucharest, St. Pete, Moscow, etc. - have met at least one member. Most of this group have probably met more than one. And a few have probably met several. So, I think it's fairly common place for the typical big city host to occasionally meet members. But while there are several thousand active hosts at any one time, there are millions of members, and even of those members that might want to meet a host, the vast majority don't have the money, work schedule, or flexibility to do these sort of adventures. I'd be surprised if any host meets more than a couple of members each year at most simply because it requires a lot of coordination and it takes a good bit of time for a host to get comfortable with a member before she decides to meet him. I assume that any host I'm planning on meeting has already met other members. That's just for what it's worth (which may not be much).
Weirdest request ))
What was the weirdest request you got from host or guest and did it )))
RE: Weirdest request ))
host asked me to sit on a cucumber, rotate until I was dizzy and then remove and eat the cuke! It has now become part of my normal reportoire.
RE: moving on
Everthing in life is a two way thing. if you give give give and never get you in trouble you do the right thing move on )) It will pass
RE: moving on
In My humble Opinion,i think if the relationship is only 1 sided it is not working,its not fair on you to give give give all the time and not get anything back,love is about give and take and comprimise,and your partner should enjoy doing things to make you happy.
Some people find it hard to share their feelings and Emotions but if you are not happy maybe you should talk to him and give him the reasons why.
Hope all works out for you.
Some people find it hard to share their feelings and Emotions but if you are not happy maybe you should talk to him and give him the reasons why.
Hope all works out for you.
RE: moving on
He siad he love me,.i feel it also i noticed he change alot just to make me happy ,just to please=), but i didnt feel how importand me or if i am important to him...We already broke up and i did the desicion but it really hurts me...I still thinking him if his ok.what he doin.:(
RE: moving on
thanks for the advice jells....I already gived up also we already broke up...Its really hurt coz he become part of my evryday life in cc..We always talk in yahoo in comchat..He's kind and very funny to talk to but like u said im tired..IM always the one who understand his attitude..always moody:(.. I think its really time to move on....What ever happen he always been in my heart...Thanks for the advice all...
RE: moving on
Few things more painful than unrequited love but after awhile you have to put aside self denial and face reality.
The advice to sit down with your lover and tell him your true feelings is the way to go. If he can't explain the reason its time to move on.............very simple
The advice to sit down with your lover and tell him your true feelings is the way to go. If he can't explain the reason its time to move on.............very simple
RE: moving on
yeah, be careful not to do this especially with women who r attractive seem to love to plan this power-game.
RE: moving on
"i Love You" these words are used too often. some people do not know the meaning or power of these words and some use it to get what they want....i have been in love here too and have been hurt...also i am sure i have hurt people here too "which i regret"....very difficult if someone loves you....but they do not feel the same?...one sided love never works and will only turn to hate....this is my humble opinion
it's funny because it's true
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cans of beer from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognise that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things - your family, your children, your health, your friends, your favourite passions - good things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
"The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, your car. The sand is everything else - the small stuff.
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house, and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented.
The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked," he said. "It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of beers." :--)
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cans of beer from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognise that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things - your family, your children, your health, your friends, your favourite passions - good things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
"The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, your car. The sand is everything else - the small stuff.
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house, and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented.
The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked," he said. "It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of beers." :--)
RE: Best place to visit in winter
Australia is nice this time of year if you can stand the flies :-)
bring lots of water too .. lol, just kiddin'
bring lots of water too .. lol, just kiddin'
RE: Best place to visit in winter
she asked not too expensive;)australia for us cost 5000euro.minimum.
RE: Best place to visit in winter
Well at least she won't freeze in 35c and the Aussie $ is cheap right now, so get in while the gettin' is good :-)
RE: Best place to visit in winter
Mexico is pretty nice but Got a very good friend Living in Australia its Aproaching Their Summer very soon and its getting pretty hot there.
RE: Best place to visit in winter
hello just 1 host :)if you want wonderful not expensive place you can go in tailand) its will be for you from moscow 1800-2500$ maybe 10days 4-5 stars.)dont try to be so econom for going in egipt -there in winter realy bad weather+20 tonbight and cold winds water cold too inspite that many russian going there,but whats for me-i like realy hot weather and water minimum 23-25..all europe countries are cold also.my suggestion to you to go in thailand or cuba.its will be minimum 1800-2000$ for you..others hot countries as australia,maldives islands cost minimum 5000-7000 $ for 1 person from moscow.what about me i will wait appril,:)good luck.
RE: Best place to visit in winter
anybody check prices in morocco lately? bit closer to russia and should be warm
RE: Best place to visit in winter
you can try going to Malta its a small island which doesnt has good weather and it is in europe too.
i went there in summer and had good time
i went there in summer and had good time
RE: Best place to visit in winter
Argentina. Their economy is still recovering and things are still relatively cheap. It is in the southern hemisphere to it is summer in January. Their beaches are not bad. Their clubs are awesome. Their beer is decent about $1.14 for a 970 cm bottle. Lot of hot guys or if you swing the other way lots of hot women. A few Russians there as well.
RE: Best place to visit in winter
my house..i won`t charge rent..and I will put the heating on.
RE: Best place to visit in winter
floridaaaa is great november-march and american dollar isn't very expensive now.
RE: Best place to visit in winter
For a Russian you should check out Cuba in the Mediterranean. Because of its previous connection to the USSR you can get really cheap flights there and its cheap because the country is so poor but the people are very warm and friendly.
Dominican Republic is a second choice but not as cheap as Cuba.............check it out
Dominican Republic is a second choice but not as cheap as Cuba.............check it out
RE: Best place to visit in winter
I know its not winnter but there is no where better than Sy Petersburg in autumn whenn the leaves change colour in the Grand Palace. Espc oif you a with a wonderful girl !!
Nobodys Child
Let me tell you a very brief story about why i wanted to add this sone to the Forum.
When i was alot yoiunger ,i was attacked outside a club by 6 men and left for dead in the gutter,a few months later i had lost all but 5 percent of my eyesight,so i decided to pick up a guitar and learn to play,a song that always used to choke me up inside was the song Nobodys child,which i learnt to sing and play on guitar.
Its probably one of the saddest song ive ever heard
NOBODYS CHILD
As i was slowly passingva orphans home one day
i stopped for just a little while to watch the children play
Alone a boy was standing and when i asked him why
he turned with eyes that could not see and he began to cry
Im nobodys child,Im nobodys child just like a flower imgrowing wild
no mummys kisses and no daddys smile nobody wants me
im nobodys child.
No mothers arems to hold me or sooth me when i cry
sometimes it gets so lonesome here i wish that i could die
id walk the streets of heaven where all the blind can see
and just like all the other kids there would be a home for me
im nobodys child,im nobodys child just like a flower
im growing wild
no mummys kisses and no dadys smile,nobody wants me
im nobodys child.
My eyes are a lot better now and although still not 100 percent im so thankfull for the improvement.
Wanted to share that sone with you all,hope you like the words.
When i was alot yoiunger ,i was attacked outside a club by 6 men and left for dead in the gutter,a few months later i had lost all but 5 percent of my eyesight,so i decided to pick up a guitar and learn to play,a song that always used to choke me up inside was the song Nobodys child,which i learnt to sing and play on guitar.
Its probably one of the saddest song ive ever heard
NOBODYS CHILD
As i was slowly passingva orphans home one day
i stopped for just a little while to watch the children play
Alone a boy was standing and when i asked him why
he turned with eyes that could not see and he began to cry
Im nobodys child,Im nobodys child just like a flower imgrowing wild
no mummys kisses and no daddys smile nobody wants me
im nobodys child.
No mothers arems to hold me or sooth me when i cry
sometimes it gets so lonesome here i wish that i could die
id walk the streets of heaven where all the blind can see
and just like all the other kids there would be a home for me
im nobodys child,im nobodys child just like a flower
im growing wild
no mummys kisses and no dadys smile,nobody wants me
im nobodys child.
My eyes are a lot better now and although still not 100 percent im so thankfull for the improvement.
Wanted to share that sone with you all,hope you like the words.
RE: Nobodys Child
Grrr sorry about some of the typing errors,hope you can understand what i wass supposed to say.
RE: Nobodys Child
Thank you for those Kind Words Gentlewoman and thank you for not only reading my words but for taking the time to write a response.
I have Experienced alot so far in my life,and had many painful memories and heataches but amoungst all that i have also had some good times and when i get down,;onely and upset like all people do i try to think of the people who are worse off than myself and alot of the time i dont need to look to far.
Thx again for all those who have read my post and thx again Gentlewoman for your respomce
Happy Halloween!!
I have Experienced alot so far in my life,and had many painful memories and heataches but amoungst all that i have also had some good times and when i get down,;onely and upset like all people do i try to think of the people who are worse off than myself and alot of the time i dont need to look to far.
Thx again for all those who have read my post and thx again Gentlewoman for your respomce
Happy Halloween!!
RE: Nobodys Child
I have to admit that I had to restrain my nasty side when I saw the spelling mistakes.
But then I remembered my mum singing that song to me when I was young and had been misbehaving and I knew she wouldn't approve so I behaved myself. :D
But then I remembered my mum singing that song to me when I was young and had been misbehaving and I knew she wouldn't approve so I behaved myself. :D
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
for a per minute fee you can't even fake a smile?
damn, that's gansta.
damn, that's gansta.
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
Depends what u think is funny. If i ask for instance * can u smile with ur ass also * will you be insulted or laugh?
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
If you can only smile in response to something funny, rather than in response to being alive and vital, then i'll pass thanks and find someone who is less of a sourpuss
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
i've have just tried to keep smiling for 2 hours in videochat and OMG do my cheeks hurt now.
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
and i have wrinkles from too much smiling...especially around the eyes
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
I support what angie said.
That sounds like a professional host.
On the other hand, the amateur hosts with bitchy moods have their charm, too :D
That sounds like a professional host.
On the other hand, the amateur hosts with bitchy moods have their charm, too :D
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
I don't treat this as a job. I'm here cause I love the fact that someone pays to see me, and I love the extra cash, but generally I enjoy being paid and entertained :)))))))))))
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
I'd like to pay and be entertained. :))))) Gawd, i wanna see you. :P :P
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
I'd rather see a genuine smile than a fake orgasm.
Is faking a smile more difficult than faking an orgasm?
Is faking a smile more difficult than faking an orgasm?
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
should say "WOULD YOU SMILE?" unless you think they are physically incapable of smiling, then "CAN YOU SMILE" is proper.
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
Good point... some hosts do seem incapable of smiling.
RE: Hey guys, before asking 'CAN YOU SMILE'...
if its not geniunine what is the point ? i want a real smile
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CONGRATULATONS PHILADELPHIA PHILLIES
Congratulations to the Philadelphia Phillies on winning the Major League Baseball Championship in the USA.