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i like iNOTanANGELS pics most also. AboveXBeyonds are always hot too , i dont know the other hosts but theyre all very beautiful and wouldnt kick them out of bed for farting .

You can probably only dream about these farts dear.

...and you will never end up with Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp either

correct, i'm much younger and a woman :)

This was a positive thread, why spoil it?

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I haven't looked at them all yet. I got stuck on the second photo of AboveX and haven't been able to move on :D

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I like Misterygodes,..inotanangel,..axb.

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u are welcome Angelika:)xxx

I wonder how many of the girls will be thanking photoshop :)))

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you don't need photoshop.you are beautiful and sexy just the way you are emma!

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xEmmax Pic No. 4.

Now that I would like to spank spank spank :P

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All girls have photoshop in pics, and some girls have much more than AXB. I use photoshop myself and can see what they did and some pics of girls are just blured too much so impossible even to see clear lines!

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I think of all the cupids and covergirls ....... PureMiracle is the sweetest of all. She is so beautiful, so kind and really great conversation. She gets my vote for sure!!

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sexy girl of all is darlinghelen ...of course

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i like Chaneldoll , ABX and Inotanangel pics . great work girls ;))

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i like theme of her pics in cover girls pics most best photos good work Shezel xxxxx

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l like photos of best bliss

AsianHotSolo has so many pics... and she looks great in most of them! INOTanANGEL photos are Extra sexy! Long hair really suits her great... ( nice that we live in the same city) hehe

i like Chanel ...she is an effective girl:).. above is very beautiful and doesnt need to be advertised ... shezel has taken very creative pics really cute girl too..angel is just an angel:) good luck to everyone in this not easy contest and congratulations for winners ...xxx

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in my opinion bestbliss in cupids by a long mile, she just looks so tempting, in stockings her legs are wow, delicious bottom too

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lol That could be me :P

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Sounds like someone got hold of a bad hallucinogenic.

I agree with you on that, but she's not beautiful only pics, in video too. She is a great friend. I am glad she's one of the favorites in cc. She deserves that and more.

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I think most guys are trying to help their favourites. Hosts raise their price to get pieces faster and members agree to visit their favourites in hopes of helping them and maybe winning themselves.

It does not make a lot of sense to me. And since there have yet to be any winners, I don't think it makes sense to any logical person. But you know how guys think, and they will do anything to impress a beautiful woman.

I am not participating in this contest, but when I do, I always visit as many hosts as I can. I figure if I am going to spend more than usual, I might as well meet as many hosts as possible and decide which ones to chat with once the contest is over. And when you meet a host for the first time during a contest, she is always a little bit more friendly because she is hoping you will stick around longer and help her out.

I would not feel too bad. I know some top hosts that are much slower than usual during this contest, and it has also happened other times during previous contests. You probably have some members that like you a lot.... The key is to find a way to convert their feelings of liking you a lot to making them view you as one of their top favourites, and soon you will be very busy during future contests.

thank you - im glad if its so!

euuughhh lol

i didnt find my soul mate...but that could b coz im a cold hearted bastard....anyone wanna try and tame me? :p

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well guys i have found my soulmate here, i dont know i could nt have found a better girl, have been with her for long extended holidays and each time i love her more and i know in the next 2 yrs will have married and settld down, so i think u guys here can find the rite person if u perservere

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I would tell them that i meet him in holiday:)))))))
.I think I never would tell my childs I worked on a date/sex site.Not because I'm ashamed of that but just because are my childs and I don't think they ever can find in that something to apreciate. :)))))))).
Theoretical I wouldn't try to meet someone in real that I meet here,is not about trrusting persons but I wouldn't feel good about a member to be my bf or my husband.
But never say never...You never know what the future have for you :)))
Kissssssssssss

I am sure that you have been hurt before, and I would guess that the guy that hurt you lived near you and was not someone on the internet. The point is, people are people regardless of whether you meet them online or in real. Obviously, the chances of success, or at least the chances of stopping a relationship before you get too hurt, are better if you meet in real, but you are never completely safe either way.

I think hosts have a big advantage here. There are many stories about a host lying to a member to get money. But I think I can recall just one story where a host said she actually sent money to help a member and got hurt in my 3 years of viewing the forums.

The worst that can happen to a host (ignoring the ax murderer scenario) is that she has sex and has her heart broken. The worst that can happen to a member (ignoring the host's bf kick's his ass or her friends rob him scenarios) are that he has his heart broken and pays big money for the privilege of having that happen.

You have little to worry about if you are careful. Meet the guy in a public place just like you should do with any first date, and use your instincts. Once you meet in real, it does not matter how you first started to communicate. And may I add that I sure would like to meet you. :))

Well Geeny I promise you that you can trust me.

You can trust me never to remeber your birthday.
You can trust me to cheat on you with other girls.
You can trust me to go out drinking with the boys every weekend.

So do you want to be my valentine ? :P

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ImNotYourFriend now has a friend!!! Surely this means there is hope for all of us to find someone special. A Valentine's Day Miracle!!! Unfortunately, he probably sitll isn't a friend to the rest of us. :(

Sorry having one friend is way too much for me so the rest of you can't be my friend :D

You don't have me yet....
I might be easy, but I'm not cheap! :P

Ahh, dear Sheridon... While true you may be spending the day alone, you will have the company of many in spirit, as the day is not only for lovers walking hand in hand but for those who dream as well. Happy Valentines Day to you also and may a dream come to you befitting your desire. Cheers.

congratuliere all members and hosts with valentine day and wish ro find ur second half or heart

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I once took a trip and met a number of chathosts and friends of chathosts (some of which had also been chathosts). I had a great time, and I still chat online and on the phone with many of them, and some I hope to visit again soon (plus maybe a few new ones). A few are married now and some have kids. I almost went to one of their weddings.

There was one woman in particular that I was interested in to be more than a friend and had a great time with, but the age difference and our life's goals were so different that things didn't work out and we have since lost touch. But I still have found memories of being with her. She was a young, sweet, beautiful, intelligent, real life model (not just online model) that made everybody turn and look at her when we walked by. I liked the time a group of young guys on the metro said in their language "What's she doing with him?" Who cared? She was with me!!! But we really didn't belong together long-term. It was a good learning experience to help an older guy learn that there is a big difference between a woman in her early 20's and a guy in his late 30's or older. It was definitely a lesson worth learning. Plus, nothing better than a hot woman telling you "I love to f..." while your inside of her. :)) Seriously, though, it hurt a lot because I really cared about her, but it just wasn't meant to be.

So meeting a chathost/member is no different than meeting someone else that you had only talked to on the phone, internet, email, et cetera before. People are people, and if you got along well on sites, you should get along well in real. Now if the member (or, I suppose the host,) is just looking for sex instead of a real relationship, be it friendship or a romantic one, then I suppose things might not end up too well, but other than that, if it is just two people who like each other meeting for the first time in person, everything should be okay. The real issue would be whether it as a friend or because you love each other, does spending lots of time in person and going out to movies and restaurants and museums and stuff make you start to think that you do not have as much in common as you think. Like I said, as much as I felt that I loved one particular woman and wanted to be with her, the age thing just didn't make it possible. She was young and just starting out with her life, and wanted to finish school and explore the world and life's possibilities whereas I was closer to being in family mode. Plus, another problem was she caught me on the rebound after another host really f*cked me over so I wasn't in the best position to be falling in love.

By the way, young, hot, beautiful models often expect to be spoiled so be ready, members. They won't all just marry a rich guy for his money, but they want the guy they end up with to be able to get them what they want, and they know they will sooner or later find one that will do it. I can still hear this model saying "Shoes. I love shoes. Please, please, buy me shoes." Of course, I did, hehehe, but I didn't buy a lot. One pair shoes, a nice pair jeans, some inexpensive jewelry.... I let her know I wanted her to love me for me. And I also let her know to stop being such a princess in so many words, lol. I told her to stop complaining about having to walk, get out of her high heels, put on some comfortable shoes, and enjoy walking throughout the city instead expecting a taxi to drive her everywhere, lol.

Even if things didn't work out, it was a great trip and a great experience, and I would recommend it. But if someone is just going for sex, I suggest stay home and get an escort, or take a trip to someplace like Amsterdam or Germany where prositution is legal. Unless the host and member are on the same page about just having sex, then somebody will get hurt and there are plenty of hot young escorts out there to give you what you want. In fact, I think at least two or three work on CC so maybe you can easily arrange for sex with a host if that is what you really are after.

A well written and articulated reply which should be mandatory reading for anyone thinking of such an adventure. Especially in the case of significant age differences. Ahh yes, it is truly amazing how we sometimes allow our perspective to be skewed by the dream. But then again, perspective is relative, dreams are important and nothing ventured is nothing gained. Who knows, your story may be the exception and the foundation of the greatest love story of all time, ad infinitum. Cheers

You said: "By the way, young, hot, beautiful models often expect to be spoiled. They won't all just marry a rich guy for his money, but they want the guy they end up with to be able to get them what they want, and they know they will sooner or later find one that will do it."

I knew a host and we fell in love, but I wanted to be sure it was really about love and NOT only money for my own reasons. So I told her I was just an average working guy... I'd take her private from time to time (like expected)... I even offered to send SOME money for something I felt was genuinely needed to help her out. But once she got into the whole act of "If you loved me then you'd help me out even more" I started to grow suspicious, especially given how many guys a Host could be working across the internet. So, one day I told her I had lost my job just to see how she'd react...if she'd stand by me through a tough period...and sure enough not long after she dumped me cold and immediately said she was with another guy, someone who could give her all the things she wanted. So I asked her if money was really THAT much more important over true feelings and she said it was -- which is too bad since I am actually rich. In fact one day soon (given my family's wealth) I'll inherit over $5 million. So sorry, babe. You should've picked love because that's much harder to find in life while money can always take care of itself in the end.

I will agree, I had the last laugh with a host from here too :)))

She kept playing the "if you love me, you will help me blah blah" I sent the odd £100 here and there, but never let on that my entertainment budget alone for one month was more than she could imagine. She did the disappearing act like they do. Too cut a long story short, I went too Russia on business to spb, and I was staying at the top hotel in spb in its most expensive suite ( I like to treat myself) and who should be working at the reception, you guessed it the disappearing host (she told me she lived in another city) I greeted her using her nickname from the site which was very amusing to say the least, especially her reaction when she realised who I was. She tried to be my best friend in the world all the time I was there, it was great for the ego lol

uhmm that was a long story to read member..let me keep it shorter.
Yes, i had. A couple of times and all great experiences. If you have a nice connection in chat/video and you dont feel like she is screwing with you then you probably will have a nice time in reality too. If you have any doubts if she is being honest dont bother to meet..trust your feelings.

Did you have a date with a member HarleyDGirl / Date4fun?

I meet in 2006 a host after 3 months speaking on cc.She was from Romania.I was very scared I will be left in airport.I was then also in late 30's and she was in early 20's :)))
Since 2007 we are married and now we have a child.
So...can be nice if you really find your half if not i think can be disapointing.
Is just my luck. :))))

Why are you still here?

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Like the Hotel California. Once you check in, you can never leave . It's the twilight zone of the internet.

Because I'm a man.... :)))))))))

....and it is not a good one for your marriage.

Sure you don't mean No One Here Gets Out Alive? :p

"Alive" can be a relative term.. Broke is universally accepted as having no money. :P

but then you kill yourself ... broken wallet and broken heart :p

I met my true love and husband here who is a dozan years older than I am... Our happily-ever-after has happened. The best love is the one that is the hardest to get

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A classic. Great story , complete with character development , story line, plot and finale. LOL .... Life is good.

Speaking as someone who made the classic mistake of falling for a Host that after several months of romance and I love you's and all that good stuff then proceeded to rip my heart out, I'm still stuck on A, B, C, D... have to deal with her wanting F (though even there I do all the work)... J really is my mortal enemy now (Grrr!!!)... and R, T and U are still factoring into my emotional state! But I'm sure I'll get over it once I manage to forget how much I still love her!

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LOL............ Thanks

Sooo coooool :P

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First I fully agree with Faerlina that it is how they make you feel that is most important. My own opinion is that I do not like them. In many cases they do not look right and they feel weird. However I admit this does depend on the skill of the surgeon who carries out the op. Who knows maybe I have known girls who had had boob jobs and i never relised.
Footnote: Who are you Faerlina? You suddenly appeared in the forums and every post I have read from you was both articulate and expressed reasonable opinions.

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I want to join the connoisseurs but i need some help. Which category are you in?

Only one of me ))

I'd have to say that is some pretty good advice, buy, since you asked, I'll throw in my humble opinion for whatever it's worth. Firstly, consider your body proportion in your natural appearance . Bigger is not always better. I have seen (and felt) some outrageous examples which truly detracting from the persona of the individual. If your present breast shape is distorted or disproportionate, then a corrective procedure might be a really good thing. If you are considering the procedure for enhancement only , I would think it would be best to keep the concept of balance in mind. If you do it, just really think about how you will feel with the new look. Good Luck...

Whatever you choose, remember the best bodies are those that are in proportion. Don't go bigger than looks natural and clothes will fit you well and others who see you will be saying "wow - what a great body" instead of "did you see the size of those fake boobs".

I think just about every guy prefers natural to fake. The key though is how do you look now? Even though I prefer bigger breasts, some women look great just as they are with small boobs. Others could really use the implants. Without seeing you, I cannot give an opinion. Just make sure you get a good doctor who knows what he is doing. Surgery can be dangerous, plus a bad boob job is a lot worse than small natural ones.

they are terrible and will always be a health risk, I don't understand why women take this risk for bigger tits

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Does this work for other parts of the body too? :p

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i hate them and avoid them at all cost

...about mindless, meaningless sex, what do you think?

Thinking with the small brain probably. It actually overrules the big brain quite often.. Then again, there is "Whiskey Brain" and that overrules everything... Cheers :)

What do you want? Dinner and a movie?

Nope,, Just stating a case for what makes males sometimes act the way we do. If we wanted dinner and a movie, we wouldn't be here, now would we? Perhaps someone should start a thread on why women freak when they see a 50% off sale on Prada or Louis Vuitton. Might be a connection insofar as the stimuli for impulsive behavior.. .LOL Cheers

not you, DQ, her! what, does she want to be romanced??

Perhaps so......After all, it is a fantasy site ... LOL

I must try that i suppose one head or the other is fine )) No need to say can i see you too ))

LOL sorry I have no idea but thanks for the laugh.
Oh, that's a bit mean, please no offence, good luck with the marriage.

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whos the lucky girl ??
good luck and best wishes...
and answer to your questions.. mm sorry.. I can not help you with answers.. not sure

well a lot easier than if she was Russian. she wont need a visa to usa so send her there and just get married. simple.

I would think someone from there would need a visa to USA but maybe I am wrong.

You ARE right and "me" is absolutely WRONG about Russia and Visas. If anything, Russia is actually one of the most RESTRICTIVE countries when it comes to allowing people in and out. And yes, you DO need an Exit Visa to leave the country.

In fact, Russia is so strict that (taken from a visa information site): Travelers departing Russia by train should be aware that if they board a train on the last day of a visa’s validity, Russian immigration officials may consider the visa to have expired if the train crosses the international border after midnight on the day of expiry. The Embassy and Consulates General are aware of cases in which travelers have been detained at border crossings, unable to leave Russia, because their visas were expired by a matter of hours or minutes.

My post wasn't clear.... I meant you would need a visa to enter the USA from Philippines, but obviously you would need one from Russia too.

Didn't know about the exit visa thing with Russia. I think other countries just fine you a lot and maybe make it harder to go back there.

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As long as it is not NightofAkina, I wish you years of happiness. If it is, then excuse me while I go kill myself. I love her!

get in line...and there is 3 other guys behind me

So I'm gonna have all ur deaths on my conscience, she and I got married secretly 3 weeks ago.

You too )))

mmmm hate to tell you CockneyRebel.. but
she and I got married secretly 4 weeks ago.
one week b4 you.....mmmm
hehehee

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so she a multi-bigamist then...:-(((

As long as she is multi-orgasmic, that's fine with me. I can share as long as I get to go first.

Check with the U.S. embassy in the Philippines - they have a web-page, but I forgot it's address.

I do know that if you get married there, she will need a Visa to permanently come to the U.S.; or a tourist Visa to just visit. The permanent Visa involves LOTS of paper-work and significant time before approval.

I'm not sure, but I think there is a Fiance Visa that is less restrictive than tourist Visa.

For whatever reason, I have always heard that the fiance visa is easier to get. Seems like should be easier to get a visa if you're already married, but maybe there is some type of logical reason. for how things work.

Anyway, I recommend getting the fiance visa and marrying her in the USA. You can have a big party like an engagement party in the Philippines before she leaves. I know it isn't ideal, but the key is that you two will be together. Plus, after you are married, as long as you get permission for her to leave the USA and re-enter (MAKE SURE YOU DO THIS BEFORE SHE LEAVES THE USA!!!), you can go visit and have a post wedding party. My cousin and his wife got married in a small ceremony and a few weeks later they had a party. It was nice. (although you might need to wait a few months before it is okay for her to leave and then return... I am not sure, but the U.S. government might be suspicious if she get married and then tries to leave the country right away.... Maybe you might have to wait a year... not sure.)

Yes, getting Fiance Visa (FV) is much easier. I think the reason is 2-fold.

1) the FV is not a permanent visa - there is a time-limit on its validity, though I don't know what it is.

2) the government (US) is very concerned about Filipinas (and other nationalities also) marrying a US citizen in order to just get a permanent visa - and having the marriage dissolved. Therefore the difficulty in getting a permanent visa for one's spouse.

Also, if you have been married for less than 2 years (I think), the requirements for a permanent visa are even more strict than if you are married longer than that.

Is this the romantic conclusion of the couple who argued over red roses from another guy thread earlier?

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I am sure there are a few other soap operas that the story can apply too.... Just change the country and the type of flowers.

It is easier than some, but the K1 Fiancee Visa will not work if you have not met in person. If you want to petition for her to enter the US as your fiancee , the process is pretty straightforward. You will have to visit her there and have plenty of documentation, like pictures of you together, to supply with the K1 application. Once she enters you will have 90 days to marry . If you do not, she must return. The US sees this as a "trial period". You will also have to file a statement of financial responsibility and guarantee she will be a good girl while here and also accept responsibility , within reason, for her departure if you do not marry. There is a bunch of other stuff but everything you need can be obtained though the US Gov. immigration website. An option is to go there and marry but it does not automatically give her US entry rights. Good Luck.....

Adding to the sage advise from SAGE above, a filipino marriage is not recognized in the USA for a USA citizen, and will cause many many nightmares of paperwork to get her a visa here, best is the K1 fiance visa, get married here, honeymoon in PI with a family wedding there, to satisfy the PI family, have her go to the Manila USA embassy, with all supporting docs, that you have had long term contacts, letters, recipts of packages you sent, copies of NOT so personal emails,( no sexy talk), and you must prove that you have visited her in real.

and don`t forget,,,,if you do a K-1 visa ( fiancee) you are financially responsible for her for 10 years even if you divorce .
Overall ,,the k-1 visa is the fasted and easiest ,marrying overseas can take a year to get a visa after the marriage.
The speed of the visa processing also depends on the area of the USA you live in,,,southern states have a larger population for the processing center to contend with. Where I live,,,smaller area ,,, visa was allowed in 30 days,,went thru visa center in a week,then was actually in eastern europe when i called my fiancee to let her know i got the notice .
Total time from applying for visa to her getting it was about 4 months.

i am not sure about your post been there done that. southern states take longer is what you are saying? if you got approval in 30 days then why did it take 4 months? please explain your post!!!!!

OK,,,initial approval is from the regional office of USCIS .
That took 30 days,,,then it went to the visa center ( one of which happens to be in my city )that took less than a week,,,then the approved packet is sent to the embassy in the country of the fiancee.
I was planning a trip to her country anyway,,,so it worked out well,,i brought her the final papers from my side of the paperwork, helped her with hers. Stayed two weeks, before i left i called the US embassy,identified myself as a US citiizen and asked about her medical exam. When she and her mom came with me to the airport they went to the embassy after and were given the papers for medical exam which she got done that day. The following week she called for her interview ,went in with all her papers. Interview lasted less than 10 minutes and she had her visa. My mistake on the 4 months time line.4 months was because she stayed for her birthday :) I`d recommend using a lawyer for the process if possible, if you make one mistake during the process,,,,you have to start over and pay all your filing fees again.I live in New England which is smaller area for the local office to service ( which is in Vermont) Good luck,,,any questions i`d be happy to help

thank you for all the information been there done that. i sent my info to her already and sent to a place specializing in visa's. he told me that it takes about 30 - 45 days. then they schedule an interview with her. may i ask you if she should go ahead of time to get the medical exam information form? would you recommend it? i gave them all the information they needed. everything should work out i would assume.

I`m not sure about doing the medical ahead of time. This would be a question for the embassy. The medical exam must be done at approved places , the embassy will let her know where they are. My wife had her exam first thing in the morning and was able to get her results and papers from clinic that day. The were given to her in a sealed envelope and must stay sealed untill embassy opens them .
The reason I mentioned using a lawyer or professional was because I met a couple at the airport on a return trip who tried to do it themselves. They had to repeat the process 3 times before they did it correct . I was lucky and found a great lawyer who helped us including the citizenship applications.Good luck to you both ,sounds as if you are doing ok .

fiance visa is fastest

so if u wont take money off me does that mean us young ones get free vids from ya?

What if we are mature as measured by age but young as measured by personality? :p Or what if we are mature by age standards, but young at heart? :)

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It's not a general thing but I do agree that *most* older guys are more mature and more interesting/enjoyable to talk to (and not only) than *most* younger guys, where younger = 19-late 20s and older = 30+ and above, directly related to my age of course, which is 27.

Here i saw nice rich smart young men and keep great conversation and I also ugly boring old men. It depend in personality.

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Dude, its obvious the host needs to be pleasant and say nice words to keep you in video. They want you to feel great. What do you think that keeps me coming back? I feel like a movie star every time I come here even if in real I could be "the monster" of horror movies, lol.

My question was tongue-in-cheek, but I figured that I would post it and see what hosts say.

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I always get that answer "nice age", too.

As an experiment once I picked a much older age - 88 . . . after a moment I got the same response as usual, "nice age".

I couldnt resist and said "baby of course - at my age any age is a 'nice age' !!

At 51 I get this all the time too. It means "you're way to old for me but I'll pretend you're Harrison Ford". it doesn't bother me a bit. This is a fantasy site and I'm not so silly as to think these girls have any interest in a relationship with an old dog like me. If their acting is good enough to keep my fantasy alive then all the more power to them.

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i'll be any age u want me to be...lol

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kids of 45 are old, they are not even middle aged. c'mon charming klem

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looool.
I nver use this expression "nice age" sound a bit silly...
But is more important the age you feel then the age you have in papers.Is just a number...I saw men at 67 that can have in less then 1 hour 2 times orgasm...
From my own experience ... I never had that in real with a young one :)))))))
Why is so important the age?The first thing someone ask in chat with me is "How old are you?"...is so boring...

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You will be surprised to find out that hosts did not learn it from "Cam School" but from "Members Daily".
The conversation goes like this:
Member: Hi
Host: Hello
Member: How are you?
Host: Great, thanks, was thinking about grabbing my Spiderman costume and jump on the walls, and yourself?
Member: fine "bb" ( i HATE this bb, it irritates me to death, why do MEMBERS use it? too lazy to type i know, bla bla) How old are you "bb"?
Host: I'm *whatever* (Same age as my profile states, if only you cared to read it)
Member: NICE AGE BB.

Now, since hosts get this "nice age" stereotype each day, every day, they can only assume the members would enjoy the same answer in return. Note that, like I said, in 90% of the cases it's the member who starts the age topic.
I don't even ask, don't care, don't wanna know, but what can I do when, after stating my age, I get a reply like: NICE AGE "bb", I am 53. Too old for you?
As if there is such thing over the internet anyway. The age thing is just small talk. As small as the typical conversation depicted above.
On a side note, any age is nice. And if you are in your late 50s - early 60s and can STILL come here and get a hard on, you truly have a NICE AGE, and it's a compliment.

So,,,,,at 52 years i have wife 34 and daughter from first marriage 18 years old.
And,,,,,,,the most problem I have,,is it NOT getting hard :P
So,I guess ,,,,, 52 is a " nice age " :)

Maybe you smoke and drink, maybe led a not so friendly erection lifestyle. I was shocked to hear my mom bought a pregnancy test to check if she's pregnant, I thought omg crazy people, they r 48 and 55, do they still have sex. Obviously they are still very active even after 28 years of being married. WOW

I dont smoke or drink,,,and the meaning was,,,,,it gets hard all the time,,,,,lol
BTW,.,,,,,i`m always mistaken for being in my late 30`s early 40`s

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Oh AWESOME age, keep it up and... keep "it" up! :P

So late 60s is even more impressive then? )))

Just as "nice age" is used by members as well as hosts so bb is used by hosts. And like you i hate it.
But enough of this boring stuff. I would certainly pay to see you put your spiderman costume on and climb the walls. What is yr host name? :D

When host says "nice age", it means:

1. "Wow, you can still get it up at that age? This I have got to see. Come in private."
2. "Wow, you're older than my dad!"
3. "Wow, I sure hope that I make it to that age."
4. "Cool. Maybe he is rich and will stay a long time in video."

When a member says "nice age", it means:

1. "Mmmmm. I bet she's tight."
2. "Mmmmm. I can finally look at a woman without wrinkles all over her body, droppy tits, and a saggy ass. I am tired of my wife."
3. "Mmmmm. She reminds me of my 18 year old daughter's girlfriend... The one that I always wanted to f...."

Oh yeah, I've heard that one, after responding to the “how old are you” question. While innocuous enough in itself, the ambiguity implies a certain “Damn, I don’t know what to say“ connotation.

It makes me laugh when I see or hear it as I wonder what the alternative thought might be behind it . Perhaps somewhere between ; “Damn, aren’t you afraid your mother is going to catch you on this site?” to “ OMG, you are older than my father". Oh well, life
is good , and age is what it is. Cheers………

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you got it just right umi...funny thing is, if a host doesn't see me or know, she never guesses my age correctly within 20 years or so...I think that applies to other guys here too, not just me...some men talk old, others talk young, depends on their humour maybe.

One thing is for sure, when young I knew absolutely why I scored with chicks and why much older guys stood no chance. Now old, I know they mostly being kind. :-) You are so incredibly cute, I'll vid you but not be on cam, just to maintain the illusion. kisses

is good to take experience from the old guys and marry a young one.
loooooooool

While you may say this from a witty perspective, the stories abound of older men marrying younger women in which the young lady eventually learns everything the man has to teach, becomes bored and then departs to explore her new found sense of self. Perhaps exactly why marrying a much younger girl , no matter now cool and in love we are, is really a bad idea for an oldie like myself.. :) Cheers........................

I think it was Ann Nicole Smiths 90 year husband who was asked. "Why would an old guy like you want to marry a woman 60 years younger than yourself?" His reply was "I don't understand the question."

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Pardon the pun....but it takes BIG BALLS to pull something like that off. A sexy women with a sense of humour!!! Nothing better. Cheers Miss A,

Sort of thing you may be lucky to find on UTUBE , i am impressed with her acting ........ she really loves that rubber cock , i hope she realises they arent that elastic in real :)))))))

It's because in that part of the world -- in the Asiatic countries -- they are far more respectful and accepting of transgenders. They are also treated and looked upon far more nicely in nearby countries like Thailand (where many Filipino TS will travel to get various things done, like breast implants). However, the big difference is that in Thailand most TS who are willing to do sex work will actually do sex work (hence the booming industry there) versus in the Philippines prostitution and escorting carries heavy criminal charges and fines. Which is why so many Filipino TS work privately and secretively out of their apartments or in studios centered on the cam business.

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So you are saying then they are not truly transexuals -- because they feel a woman trapped in man's body -- but only for economic reasons?

It may not really be about "wanting" the change as much as being forced into changing. Let's face the facts in that this world has some unsavory sides to it. There are many countries that have a large "racket" in the trafficking and merchandising of people. These people are sometimes essentially "slaves" and are forced into doing these things for the profit of their "owner".

I'm not picking on any particular person or country, rather just stating a simple fact.

I went to Thailand and met a Ts from here, have to say it was my 1st time i arranged to meet a Ladyboy. And it was Very enjoyable. However it is all about the money. But I guess we all know that. Can't wait for the next trip.....

I think is not nice to tell her but to make her fell it.To go at her not so often anymore...or things like that.Depends after all what kind of relation you still want to have with her.

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yes it's hard being bored at work getting paid!...happens to 90% of us everyday in outside jobs

How can a host become bored of a viewer when he is in vid? Geez! I will be greatful to see him/her everyday even if its Matilda that comes to me for 1 hour everyday and pays me $50.00 every time!!!

sometimes when i've made more than enough for the day and some booooring guys enters, the only things that keeps me going is seeing the dollars rolling in every time i refresh the revenue page. But OMG the cents go sooo slowly in, and i keep repeating to myself, come on you can handle few more minute, come on and I yawn through my nose. I'm glad I mastered this :)))

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yep, especially those guys that think that are funny with stupid jokes and we have to laugh pretending we understood all, hahahahaha!!!!

scary to hear these words

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The same way you tell your wife.

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hahaha as if she's put a gun on your head ordering you to go private.

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Euhm why would you want to explain yourself anyway? It's not like you had a contract with said host. Just stop visiting her as often as you used to, or simply stop visiting her at all. Depends on the type of "relationship" you have, if you still like chatting to her as friends do that, it's all up to you.
How do you tell your wife you don't find her as sexually attractive as you used to? Easy: You don't. She knows it, you know it, life goes on. Too bad you can't "stop seeing her" like you can and should do with a host. Lol.

Thank you sooooo much for the post. I understand completely and I have been trying to think of a way to ask you to not come to the room so often. You are a nice friend but please .......... The same thing's every time is become soooo boring. Please take a rest... :)

it wont happen again

Well that took care of that ))) thnx forum

my favorite's now are
Leona Lewis
Maroon 5
Coldplay
and yes.. my all time favorite is the Beatles

my favorite are AEROSMITH fOrEvEr!:D Also like bon jovi

Bruno Pelletier has the best voice EVER!

No he doesn't, lol, but now I know why you want to learn French.

Try again, Sherlock:)He is canadian actually;) And abt the voice -just my opinion, and btw i didnt say he was handsome or smth, he just has an amazing voice))))))))

He is from Quebec, i.e., French Canadian.

Whatever!

Don't worry, being wrong doesn't make you any less hot. :p

Well M wasnt me, if u were referring to me;) But thx))))

Right, she's still hot and doable even if she's a complete ignorant, hahahaha!

I am with you. He is not even half a singer. All show and pretending. He reminds me of Michael Bolton, lol

Yawn:)

I only wish Yoko had met John 10 years sooner.

You have got to be kidding !!!! Like so many great artists the best music they wrote was when they were young , keen , ambitious , anxious , cocky , confident . Okay they later wrote good stuff but that was when they were already seasoned music writers , If there had been a yoko or linda earlier they would have not happened and i think linda and yoko had their part to play in breaking up and keeping apart the best two music writers of the century .

I think your last sentence was what barfin' meant by wishing Yoko had met John 10 years earlier. Although I disagree with him.

Hmm, i think their respective talents weren't that equal. Lennon = Imagine...Macca = The Frog Chorus....nuff said

I like pretty much anything Chris Moyles plays :))) and Scott Mills lol .. i like radio 1

Impossible question for me. Too many groups. Too many styles. Too many singers.... I can go from Frank Sinatra to Barbara Streisand to Johnny Cash to Miles Davis to John Coltrane to Buddy Guy to the Grateful Dead to The Who to Bjork to Nightwish to the Scorpions to Evanescene to The Beatles to Yes to Depeche Mode to the Cure to Pavarotti to Tori Amos to Metallica to Bartok to Beethoven to Chicane to the Supremes to the Clash to ..... I don't want to pick just one as my favourite any more than I want to pick just one host as my favourite.

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how about a lil HOOTIE AND THE BLOWFISH :)

Every person has more than one fav band or singer i think... As for me my fav old ones they are Depeche Mode, a-ha, Erasure, Falco, Alphaville, Bryan Ferry ...some others. From new ones...hmm... its more difficult... Am I getting older.? lol De-Phazz, Robbie Wiliams,Moby

Mine is Enigma wonderful bed room music!perfect for making love:P.

Popular music is very age-dependent, don't you think? I had a party trick of guessing a person's age by their fav artist or group. They could tell mine too by my favs, Elvis's Sun recordings followed by the Doors.

Guitar stylings of Santana, Music of BOSTON, HEART,Rob Thomas, HINDER, Lynrd Skynrd, and any good dance music you can shake your (_/_) (_l_) (_\_) too

I'n confused how your theory can work... when there are about a dozen years between the Sun recordings and the Doors, how would they be a pointer to your age?

yes, badly worded - Doors are a retrospective interest after I'd seen the Oliver Stone film so nothing to do with my age.

and my grandpa listens to britney spears, explain that.

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Nina Simone the best.

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I love all types of music ,
country . rock . some rap . easy listing
from Alan Jackson to Cheap Trick to Kanye West
but over all the Beatles still remain top !

Modern Talking

I just seen Paul McCartney on the Grammys
Dang !!! that dude can still sing good !

singing songs he first performed when he was in his 20s, right?
man, peaking like that so young and doing nothing that even compares since has to be damn depressing for the poor old guy.

Nine Inch Nails is one of the best live shows I've seen.
I've always been into hard rock, grunge, metal, early 80's hardcore punk (ie. DRI, Circle Jerks)
Don't really have a "favourite" band, but I like sound with a high energy, aggresive feel to it.

I agree with you on a last bit. Better find another guy. If my real man visits hosts in video he'll have his balls bitten off, and I don't care if he's jealous of me talking to viewers. I hope to find somebody with enough in the head not to be jealous.

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Let me get this straight, Milena. You think its okay for you to fool around all day long flashing yourself...leading guys on...having sex on cam...talking to other men off site on Yahoo or trading emails or getting presents from them, but if your guy gets a little jealous of that or simply wants to have fun himself, then he's not worthy of you and deserves to be kicked to the curb.

Sounds to me like you don't want a real man with a spine or any real sense of convictions, but only want an obedient foot stool that you can order around and take advantage of whenever you want.

Exactly on the first bit, very wrong on the second one!

wrong answer Harley, shes here to make money not for pleasure and this make the difference

my gf also works on here and i trust her to do her job, if i didnt trust her would be no ponit me bein with her. I met her on another site and have ben twice to see her, i love her very much and i know she loves me. I would never go in a girls vid but have chatted to some that i met bfore i met my gf and she says she doesnt mind

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hmmm--very interesting, way you people think....

we're talking brain surgery here...lol

Damn and I thought you were really starting to fall in love with me in comm chat :P

i fell in love with you the first time i heard your postman's whistle inyf :--)

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general generalisations you speak only from your perspective & express only your opinion.

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Well said...I learned smething similar not long ago.
All in all, I would say that a relationship here is very difficult to maintain, but if you find the right person, it is also worth your effort. Some would probably call my opinion foolish...and they might be right.

well said...sadly it will fall on deaf ears...lol

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LMAO!!! That is hilarious! :D

I posted this topic in part because there is some truth to what I say and in part just to provoke debate. But there is one key point that should be made.

A lot of members have the idea that "Well, my host-gf sees other guys so I should be able to see other girls." Oh, how I wish this was true, lol. But I have to disagree with this philosophy. The reality is that women and men look at sex and being a host much differently.

When a woman works here, she comes here to make money. When a man comes here, he comes for pleasure. Therefore, the man is coming (and cumming, lol), in order to feel closer to a woman, even if it is just for sex. The female host is coming here (and yes, sometimes cumming,) in order to make money. Her motivation is different than the male member's (and his member's :p) motivation.

Many hosts just pretend to play or at least, if they do play, they don't enjoy it. A guy can cum pretty easily.... Just give him a Victoria Secret catelogue, and he's there. But a woman very often must feel relaxed and be in the mood. Seeing some random c*ck on cam probably isn't going to do it for most women so even if she is playing, she's probably isn't enjoying herself whereas the guy always does enjoy video or he wouldn't even be in video. And there's the rub (pardon the pun :p).

I would expect that most members that have chathost gfs are looking for a sweet, beautiful, young, intelligent woman that they can marry one day, otherwise, why be in a long distance relationship? (Okay, I know why... sex in real one day, but then why care if she plays with other men?) They don't want to see or know about their future brides enjoying themselves with other guys. But if the female host truly loves the member, she probably isn't really enjoying herself very much in video. She does not have the closeness to that random guy that she needs to feel relaxed and have that great orgasm. It is just a job to her so there isn't really much to be jealous about. Whereas like I said, the guy really is enjoying himself in video, each and every time. He doesn't need to feel any other connection other than the physical one.

And that is the difference.... The "connection". A guy only really needs to feel jealous and get concerned when the host has established that connection that allows her to relax and enjoy herself, but if she truly loves her boyfriend, that connection probably is not occurring with her members.

This does not mean that hosts, including hosts with bfs, never enjoy themselves in video and cum. But if the member truly found the right female host to one day marry, he probably does not need to worry about this. He can probably visit her in video and satisfy her sexual needs until they are together. And if this is not good enough for her, then the member, unless he believes in open marriages where having sex with other people is allowed, probably would be happier with another woman because not too many men are going to be happy with a woman that wants to have sex with everyone. I know that this will sound like a double standard, but men and women are wired differently. Men, even deeply in love and faithful to their wives, still desire other women much more than women desire other men because sex is such a huge motivating factor for the man. Women pretty much have to accept that, as I said, we are all pigs and just be happy if we are faithful, loving, non-cheating pigs. Men, on the other hand, can easily find a woman that will be loyal to him and not desire other men as long as he makes her feel secure in his love and faitfulness to her.

Women seek security in relationships, and that is why they get much more emotional when they feel that the relationship is threatened. It is like chopping off one of their legs, and that is why she wants to chop off one of the man's legs... particularly his third leg, lol. This is why you see so many hosts going crazy at the thought that a member boyfriend is visiting other hosts whereas guys have this attitude "Well, I don't like her playing, but if she's going to play, then I get to also." Notice how what you typically don't hear is "I wish my girlfriend would just quit CC and find another job.... It hurts me so much when she is with other men." I think some guys with girlfriends here are just happy that they have an excuse to go private with other women.

None of this means that there are not women here who love to cum 5 times a day with different guys, even if they have a boyfriend or husband. But that probably isn't the type of woman most guys want especially an older guy that is a member here. Guys want that sweet, little angel that they can take care of and be the mother of their children to be their bride. They don't want some hot babe that is just good for sex. Of course, if they can have the sweet, little angel that is also a hot babe, then all the better.

The bottom line is that members with host girlfriends are just going to have to accept that hosts are doing their jobs here and not think too much about the fact that she is talking to other guys all the time and giving shows. Just give her the love and attention she needs, and if she truly loves you, that will probably keep you in her heart. If a guy cannot control his jealously, then he either needs to ask his gf to quit being a host (and maybe help her to do so) or find another gf. Hosts on the other hand just need to be happy if the member is not "cheating" on her by visiting other hosts and playing in video and be happy if we pigs are able to take care of our urges by looking at free porn. And in terms of the idea of the member bf just playing with his host gf each day, my experience is that this cheapens the relationship in some way and makes it less special, although if this works for both, then that is good too. Personally, I rather not think of my host gf as just some girl I see in video and the free porn option as better since I can preserve the notion that the woman is my angel and just not think too much about her being with other guys as opposed to looking at her as my personal play thing, but others may look at things differently.

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Well, obviously I was speaking in generalizations because there are always exceptions to every rule. But personally, I would not want to be in a relationship with someone that has your philosophy. There is nothing morally wrong with your coming here to "have fun" by cumming with random cocks, but that is not how most women think.

I think the approach that you take undermines the closeness that I desire in a relationship. And even though as a guy, I am ready to cum at any time with any decently attractive woman that I am not related to, I still have found my best orgasms to be those when I have a connection to the woman and she has one to me. The feeling that the two of you are "one" together is what makes it special. And in terms of desiring other women, I have always just tried to put those feelings aside, not that it is always easy, and focus on my love for the woman in my life.

I do would wonder why you would come here for two reasons: money and to have fun. If you had said you came here for money and you felt fortunate that you were able to have fun at the same time, I would understand. But to choose to be a chathost so that you can see random cocks and cum in order to have fun, again, would push me towards another woman. In other words, I would not want to marry a woman that thinks about having sex with multple partners like I do, lol. I understand that way of thinking for a guy, but once again, I don't think that is how most women ultimately feel.

While my post might sound judgmental, I am just saying that personally I don't like your choice because it doesn't work for me and I have difficulty seeing how it would work for anyone in the long-term. But to each his own. If you are happy, that is great. And it is interesting that you seem to think like most men do in terms of having multple partners, even if just in video, but your husband thinks just about you. Kind of a role reversal. Maybe you are a dungeon host where you are a mistress, hehe.

Nicely put. Glad there is still someone who thinks and verbalises thoughts beyond the obvious stereotypes of CC. Been a long while methinks...

Bravo.

TNT

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Maybe. Are you hot? Can I have other gfs? Can I at least go into video with other women? Oink. Oink. :))

If the other members don't want the hot babes that are just good for sex can I have them ? Please please please :D

inyf if you did get them would you 1 know what to do with them & 2 be able to do it with them :--)

The Fundamental Difference... (from original poste )
you win the award for longest post I ever seen.. and I have been in CC 3 years
and all you said.. I have to agree !!!

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i met few hosts in real, just for sex, so what? i'm not gonna fall in love with a bird who has camsex with the world!

I thought that love is a feeling that can appear anytime, anywhere and it doesn't follow any rules.Wrong i must have been!

now you know why men are crazy.we are more interested in perceptions than feelings.we spend most of our lives suppressing,ignoring etc our feelings :--)

Nah, men aren't so crazy...i find them lovely the way they are.I know very well the male nature and how important the perception is for them :D...my point was that nobody can dictate when and where and with who will fal inlove.It's just happening, no matter of our principies and conceptions...sometimes happen to fall when we wouldnt expect at all...and with who we wouldnt even imagine.The brain cannot control the heart..and the brain and heart togheter cannot control the d__k lol.

I always thought Yoda was a guy. :p

From many points of view this Yoda is a guy lol...wish I was from ALL points of view, but we can't command mother nature.I still think about changing my sex though.
Men might be pigs, but they are usually better friends, they are funnier,less envious,more straightforward...they hate shopping, they atleast ramble about cars,sport and chicks and not about nail polish and losing weight...i find myself having more in common with guys than with the girls usually...i say usually because there are a very few exceptions.Just my opinion, now you can shoot me:P

I guess those exceptions are girls with man minds, like us, lol :)

Amen bro'! lol

well u must consider cultural norms as a factor...in different cultures different practices r accepted and in other not.

Are we speaking avbout LOVE here or something else ?Love strikes, love happens...it's not something logical...we dont command it to appear and we can't control it.Its a feeling..the feelings are not logical, they just appear no matter if we want or not.How many times we hear " I didn't want to fall for "X", i knew that was the wrong girl/guy but it just happened".Anyway...i was striclty reffering at the love as a feeling...i dont talk about having a relationship or about marriages.Only in this case we could consider the differences you mentioned.

agree

with respect, disagree :-)

i agree, far better to fall in love with a girl that has had real sex with the rest of the world mmmm

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without being ironic also, i doubt anyone here is curious about who i could fall for, but as you asked... past experience has shown that i normally fall for the wrong girl, i look for someone clever, funny, honest, kind, attractive to my eyes and sexy to another part of my body...but what normally happens is a girl says she likes me and i throw all my ideals out the window and jump at the chance.
This time i am trying to be faithful to my ideals and chasing a woman that is far too good for me.
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