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RE: So many..

Boy, you are right! Almost 800 girls to choose from today! It's a great day to be a member here at c.c.

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RE: So many..

hehehe... and I think I've done pvts with about 600 for them so far.. :D

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RE: So many..

i have been in turkey and had a great time)))

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RE: Joke

haha i liked that

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RE: Joke

Sad and angry joke in fact

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RE: Joke

LOL! Very funny. It is ok to have vulgar words when they serve the purpose of the joke, like this one.

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RE: Room's look

Makes no difference to me. As long as the light is good and you are comfortable...Good luck and have fun!

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RE: Room's look

hehe))) btw i bought new big bed recently)))

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RE: Room's look

I don't like it when it's is so small that the girl can't show everything. It's nice to get some variety. Sometimes I'm in the mood for close ups, but I like the whole package.

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RE: Room's look

I dont like chairs at all and never go to prv if no bed available and space in room

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RE: Hello !!! I am here

Wow sensational pics at the beach. Nice to finally see a photographer who understands the proper angle of the sun for great pictures. An hour or 2 after dawn or an hour before sunset ladies.
Of course, I am not sure you could possibly take a bad picture Anita. You are stunning!

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RE: Hello !!! I am here

welcome back baby boo:Pim back also after 3 weeks of seaside :D :p

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RE: hey, im back

hello)) good luck being here

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Stay Cool

well i been a member for 4 years now and had enjoy it so much and thanks to all at cc for having a cool site and making it a place to chat with women from all around the world, this stay here as made me feel right at home and it seems the women here I chatted with and video with were top class women and very beautiful and caring in every way they could have to made this man feel right at home with. CC I will say you have a top rated site and always stay cool and good luck in the future as your site continues to get better as always. To the host here I have enjoy my stay here over the years and wish you all the best from the host that have been here to the new host that come around-cool, so I must say bye now, time to check out and see other things out there in the jungle-cool,, love and many kisses and hugs, stay cool, love your neighbors and keep on smiling, i will drop in sometimes to check you out, so don't get caught with your pants down -wouldn't be a pretty site to see from you members (hehe) but would for the beautiful women here. Thanks again -Peace
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Rating

When I rate a host, can they tell if I rated them or not? And can they see the number of stars?
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RE: Can anyone explain me ...

Your archive pics do not show your face so it may be that when some members enter vid and see you they decide you are not the type they are looking for.

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RE: Can anyone explain me ...

yes i think it is normal here in CC, even if i do not like doind it
Because there is no free chat video first, the member can be disapointed by the outfit, the qualty of the video or ur general looking compared with ur pics.
U r not the girl that he is searching, so he leaves!

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RE: Can anyone explain me ...

exactly

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RE: Can anyone explain me ...

I must confess that I do that when I am checking out girls that I may take private for 30 or 60 mins. I know I should say hi and bye but it can become awkward if the model isn't the one for me.

Looks are important but just as important are the chat host's manner, how she treats guests, smiles etc.

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RE: Can anyone explain me ...

It's not easy to tell a model that she is not for you. If you want to be delicate it takes some minutes. Much easier to just click end since nothing has happened between you yet.

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RE: Can anyone explain me ...

That confused me a lot, but im new here - so it s good to know now why it happens so...thx for question

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RE: Can anyone explain me ...

We have been over this before....they didn't like your looks...the lighting, camera speed, or setting was not to their liking...they got shy...remember many members here are not exactly social butterflies...they had second thoughts...there is a nice mixture of guilt and shame in this for some people....all in all....they decided to leave. Don't take it personally...it is a business.

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RE: Can anyone explain me ...

The only time I do this is when I enter a chat and for whatever reason the girl looks like this is the last thing in the world she wants to be doing. Looks like she just rolled out of bed, hair mussed up, no makeup,bad clothes, bad lighting, bad cam. In other words if she looks like she doesn't give a rat's ass then either do I. I don't even care about being polite in these cases. In there pics they look like Marilyn Monroe and in vid chat they look like my Aunt Mathilda.

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RE: Can anyone explain me ...

sometimes it's quickly very clear there isn't a good understanding of English by the host. The whole encounter then becomes stilted and unsatisfactory. I'm sure they're trying their best but if I'm in the mood I need things to go smoothly.

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RE: Welcome back for me

Wellcome back dear)) i havent been on few days as well))
and came back too)))

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RE: Welcome back for me

Good that u r finally here)))
muahhh

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Too many favorites?

I just checked and I have 309 Favorites! To all my dearies, thanks for all the wonderful videos! To my banker, sorry you don't have as much of my money, I'm "investing" it elsewhere!
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RE: Too many favorites?

wow! seems you like being here))

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RE: Too many favorites?

Just added you, now 310 :P

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RE: Too many favorites?

WOW!!!! I have one favorite on my list. :)

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RE: Too many favorites?

Much as I'd like to think I'm somebody's favorite, I'll never really know, for this reason and others.

Just gotta keep smiling.

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RE: Too many favorites?

I have a bunch of "favs" I've never visited - just added them for future reference and never got around to chatting as I keep going back to the or 4 I feel i actually have some sort of friendship with. Have you actually cahtted with all these girls?

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RE: Too many favorites?

I 'prune' my favourites after a month or so of absence, to keep it to a manageable group that I can more or less remember.

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RE: Too many favorites?

I should prune them! Sometimes one will come online, I'll see her name in Favorites and I'll say, who is she and why did I add her? Some I add after reviews here to "check out later"

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RE: EQUAL BUT NOT THE SAME

Nikolletta, your profile says you were last online August 9 2008; what is up with that?? I like your pics and your "book" here. ;)

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RE: How do you know?

Oh yes, that shows that kids are more smart than adults used to think)))

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Poll: Host with the most sad eyes

I know, 'sad" is differently expressed by everyone else. and to me, i find 'sad' always close to 'deep'. So i am curious, who looks sad in your eyes?

A mysterium in sadness is still RusDelight.

Also i remember, Saosin played once around and made very dark pictures. UUuuh.

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RE: Poll: Host with the most sad eyes

Dont try to steal this thread from me. I wanted to start a poll about "sad" :P

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RE: Poll: Host with the most sad eyes

Ahhhhh, Saosin gets my vote! So incredibly diverse is she! I have many dreams about her delectable eyes and body!

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RE: Poll: Host with the most sad eyes

Which eyes are viewers prefer actually? Can we say that sad eyes can be intrigue? What is aatractive part in sad eyes of girl for viewer?:P

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RE: Poll: Host with the most sad eyes

I would say the important part is that a girls eyes are melancholic! Melancholy adds depth to a persons personality, and thats one thing we are looking for in a superficial world. Melancholy also reveals that a person has a deep longing. Sadness or melancholy also seems to reveal some kind of seriousness in a girls personality. And i think depth, real longingn and seriousness are things we are looking for cause we lack them in the modern western world. And dont we guys come here to find something we lack in our real lifes?

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RE: Poll: Host with the most sad eyes

Are there any hosts with sad tits?

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RE: Poll: Host with the most sad eyes

what else does RusDelight do apart from sad? sad and naked is still good!

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Back

Helllo everyone! Hope some of you still remember me)) I just came back from my long long trip))) Tanned and happy)) I wonder if someone alredy had holidays and where? muahhhhhhhhhhh
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RE: Back

Wellcom back dear)))everyone missed you

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Flu

thats pity to hear!!! where you live?

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RE: Flu

Don't kiss them ;)!

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RE: multiple personality for the Viewer's forum

about the black promo as it made me check out your profile :P

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RE: multiple personality for the Viewer's forum

Tempted me to look too, but there the temptation ended.

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RE: multiple personality for the Viewer's forum

Come now, children! Let's play nicely. Let's see who can be the better person and turn the other cheek. Now, let's all go out and get some ice cream! Who wants chocolate?

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RE: multiple personality for the Viewer's forum

That is cute, but you seem to be suggesting that the host should turn the other cheek and not make this post. I think she was right on the mark. The original poster took this issue public.

Hers is a simple post, defending specific accusations, at least one of which was inaccurate. She was honest about the fact that some viewers get more from her, and I find that refreshing.

I haven't checked out the pics, but I like the attitude so I might.

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RE: multiple personality for the Viewer's forum

I agree with you that hosts have rights to defend themselves and show they are not weak, however who has more to lose when showing the bad attitude? Not the member. The member can always go to another host and everything is fine. Sure, some of you like to be whipped, spit on, burn, and torture by a Dom, but not me! I know I don't want to visit hosts with a bad attitude ;-)

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calm down smitten

Jeez people! I've been here long enough and it gets very old when people complain. Especially when it's the same old thing. A viewer is upset that a host won't do what he/she wants. Then a host gets pissed off because that viewer made it the complaint public in the viewer's forum.

First of all, do you think these negative comments stop other viewers from seeing a host? Heck no! In fact, many viewers become so intrigued that they go and see what this host is like for themselves. So, if anything all of these comments, both good and bad are giving you hosts business, which is the main reason why all of you are working here. Am I correct? Damn, people! Lighten up! I'm just trying to make light the situation. Everyone here has a right to bitch about something. I'm not taking anyone's side. I just want to have fun.

Now, who still wants ice cream? I heard someone wants cantaloupe. Anybody else? Smitten, what do you want? Don't worry I'm buying.

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RE: calm down smitten

Hmmmm, I FEEL calm . . . . I don't SOUND calm?

Baskin Robins world class chocolate with the white and dark chocolate please . . . in fact I'm starting to crave it.

(I do like it when hosts explain themselves though.)

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RE: multiple personality for the Viewer's forum

you are a funny girl, quickly changing the profiles after my post. The fetish section didn't please you anymore? Pretending to be so mature while you only play games with people, and that includes the "poor" guys that defend you here. You can write anything about me, but you have a dangerous mind.

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RE: multiple personality for the Viewer's forum

Calm down dude,,,you are seeming just a little obsessive here...if she ticked you off so much, go get infatuated with another actress on the site.

This place is about fantasies not reality.

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Question

I making sociological interrogation, write please your favourite book and its author, and be so kind as to write the age and the country where u live)) thx
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but ones that spring to mind are ......

The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis (When I was a child)
Watership Down by Richard Adams *
Kane and Abel by Jeffrey Archer
The Rats, The Lair and Domain by James Herbert

* If I had to pick just one this would probably be it

UK 47

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RE: Question

What a difficult question. The favourite would change as my mood does, so perhaps my favourite choice should be something that caters for all moods. In which case, as you want one title and not 1001 it has to be Remembrance of Things Past, Marcel Proust. 48 and in England.

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Shadows of the Wind by Carlos Ruiz Zaffon. 29/USA

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1. How to get beautiful women into bed by neil strauss
2. the art of seduction by robert green
3. The defector by daniel silva
4 Lost in Uganda by howard french
5. Harry Potter Collection by JK Rowling

well thats a few for now, 20 from costa rica, studying in america-kola my name, add me

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RE: Question

i read all Byron in childhood and since then its my favourite. Alevtina,25 russia

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"Prooved Innocent" by Scott Turow.
Best legal thriller I've ever read

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opps sorry !!! age 46 country Engand

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It must be....

All books written by Hayek, Friedman, or Ayn Rand

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Pump me up before you go written by Kitty Bush

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RE: Vaccines

Generally "experts" who campaign against inoculations because of claimed adverse side-effects are subsequently discredited along with their research and supposed evidence. They also do a great deal of harm. The diseases which are prevented by vaccines are very serious, but unless a sufficient percentage of people take the vaccines the diseases can become prevalent in a community. So when "experts" encourage people to shun vaccinations they actually become complicit in the spread of disease: so much for medical or scientific ethics. Of course no medical procedure is 100% guaranteed, but is important not to rush to assumptions that anything which subsequently goes wrong has the vaccination as its cause. The problem (at least in the context of parents making decisions for their children) is that it's easier to blame oneself for having followed a course of action with tragic repercussions, than it is to suffer those same repercussions but through having failed to take an action, where the blame can be directed elsewhere (or to fate), and the parent can have a clearer conscience. Thus the choices are often made in the parent's self-interest, not the child's, and that is wrong.

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RE: Vaccines

In UK there is a timetable for children from 2 months to 13 months old where they can have free inoculations against TB, Tetanus, Meningitis C, Hib (bacteria which can cause meningitis), Whooping Cough, Polio, Diptheria, PCV (pneumonial bacteria associated with septicaemia, meningitis and a lot of ear infections) and also a 3 in 1 MMR vaccination for children (Measles Mumps and Ruebella).

However a few years ago, someone released information that the vaccine had sometimes adverse effects on a few children (very very few) - this meant that a lot of parents decided not to give their children the inoculation. Now today in the UK you can see areas where outbreaks of TB, whooping cough, measles, mumps and Ruebella are sweeping through schools and their populations - causing strain on medical resources, workplaces, the older generations etc.

No matter what these anti-vaccination groups say - the sad fact is that no child has died from any complications after receiving the vaccinations - however, Measles *has* killed children in the past - and will again if allowed to take hold of the population. Ruebella is a terrible risk to unborn babies, Mumps are serious risk to male children's future fertility ... and if you've ever seen a child with whooping cough you know the distress it causes everyone. As for TB .... no need to say more ...

I appreciate every parent wants the best for their child and some have decided that just because the diseases have been missing for so many years it's not worth distressing or risking possible complications with the baby to get the vaccinations ..... but soon parents will be standing beside very small graves and they will be thinking the risk would have been worth it.

If I'm ever blessed with kids, they will be inoculated - just like I was, then they can grow up just like me ... healthy, handsome and wonderfully modest :p :)

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Very interesting question, well im a not a doctor for me its hard to say how all that goes, but the one thing what confused me its that the vaccine supplied by alive bacteria passes mucous membranes gets at once in a blood-groove immidiately, it seems to me our organism evolutionary is not ready to such things. If here any doctor maybe?

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Shocks

Been here a few years now. Had 2 terrible shocks in CC in that time and both involved the loss of a good friend, one through tragedy and the other through mistaken trust.

We keep saying it's only virtual yet it involves real people and genuine feelings. Well, such is life where virtual and real seem like the same thing at times.

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RE: Shocks

Doesn't it though? I agree with you and have had similar experience. They say it's just a fantasy site, but it's real people with real feelings. All the best to all of you.

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RE: Shocks

what tragedy if i can ask?

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RE: Shocks

I must agree, experienced the same disappointment, no matter what people say real people with true feelings and emotions exist here, and sadly dishonesty and betrayal of trust is all to possible in this virtual world we create here too, i sometimes wonder how i stay an optimist

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RE: Shocks

Most of us know that this is a fantasy place. We are "supposed to" keep our feelings in check. We are also human so we don't always do what we are supposed to do. Sometimes we start to care. We get hurt. We heal. Hopefully we don't become cynical.

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RE: Shocks

sounds sad, i wish you big luck and much positive

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Corazon Aquino

Thinking of my filipina and filipino friends today and pay my respects to a great lady. RIP Tita Cory.....
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RE: Corazon Aquino

I liked the lady with all the shoes....yum

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RE: wildest place:)

lol - reminds me of the time I was 17 or 18 in back of car sitting between my gf and her friend, getting a lift back home from a club. My coat was over my lap and when we were on the dark country road my gf slipped her hand under and gave me a hand job - not that exciting except for the fact both her parents were sitting in front driving the damn car ... and I was expected to answer all their polite questions sensibly!

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RE: wildest place:)

wildest place i had sex was when i was visiting a girlfriend who was in jail, first dont get any ideas why she was in jail for, she was in jail for some reason, but anyway, when i went to visit her she was hot and wanting to have sex between the jail cell bars,, I look around to see if anyone was looking and other immates there were sleeping at this time, so i said ok--so we had sex right there between the jail cell bars and it was wild and crazy--all the sudden a girl next to her cell woke up and seen what we were doing and ask me could i have sex with her too--i said mmm, yes, so we did and then another girl woke up and ask me the same thing and we had sex, well you can get the picture now were this is heading, before the night was up I had sex with 7 girls at the jail all between the cell bars--mmmm,,, memories..

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And...Unfortunately the alarm clock rang and you woke up ...

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only 7? your not the man you used to be Unclejoe

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not sure he is there yet,rumor has it he is only 20.his wild adventure.imagine his cv when he's 60.the legend of unclejoe.

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RE: wildest place:)

'In the butt Bob" would have been the old USA gameshow response

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well i actually have two.one was while driving my truck down the main street of my city in the middle of the day while my gf at the time was naked and riding me. the other was with the same gf on the seventh tee of a mini golf course at night near closing time.damn i miss her. lol

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aha, that's why my golf ball got stuck, just when i was on course for a under par round

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i hope you replaced your divot paco :--)

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the legend uncle joe continues---another wildest place was when I was first year in college I was working after school to earn some money and I was cleaning up this Teacher Lounge Room, where 3 women teachers were having coffee and when I was in there, we all had sex together and we didn't realize it was on camera and later on we seen the tape.......well to say,, i was given 30 days notice and the 3 teachers were giving leave of absent for 30 days, but that didn't stop us from seeing each other again during that 30 days.

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We were riding horse, unsaddled to let them cool off, spread out the horse blankets which were a little sweaty, and made love on them. my girl was extremely excited. She really loved riding, and i think getting fucked on her horse blankets was an extra turn on. She never was as loud in bed.

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ok i have yh--add me-i tell more

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RE: wildest place:)

i made it under a tree on a desert island with a host of cc and this is not dream but real

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i have another one...i was playing in a soccer game during the game i notice these 2 women in the crowd that was giving me a smile and blowing kisses at me so after the game they jump the stadium rails and approach me and ask me would I like to have sex with them,, mmmm,, what could i say, but yes, so we went under the bleachers and had sex together during this time i heard a man call out, diane where are you, and all the sudden diane look at me and said hush be quiet, and then later i heard another man voice call out, carlene where are you and guess what,,, carlene hollar back and said get lost you two, diane and I are having sex with Joe, and you can imagine what happen next,,, noooooooooo the 2 men did not join in on the sex--they told me good luck ---never figure out why they actually said good luck for, but it was wild

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RE: wildest place:)

Lol, wow, guy, you have such a nice fantasy! But...just try to be more real....just sometimes lol

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never had it, thats why in here :P

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well i can get real, but not going to share those stories here, who knows i might need to do this again and don't wont to spoil the fun with the woman or women

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The old Skyway cable car ride at Disney World. I ate her out first trip, she blew me coming back.

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No members of the mile high club on CC? Or doesn't that count as wild any more?

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RE: thank u

what the??...well i feel pretty insignificant...what do i got to do to get some credit around here, especially from the dear, sweet Gem??!! Gem gives credit where credit is due, i just wish i was thought of as well. lol or i'm just feeling sorry for myself, who knows?

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now your number 2 to 10 are going to be upset

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RE: AT MY FEET SLAVE!!!

No thanks, my car boot is full of porn.. :-)

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RE: AT MY FEET SLAVE!!!

are you a true MILF--mmm, one of my fantasy is the messed around with a MILF woman,, i heard they can give a good party

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Delicate topic

Hi all,
this goes out to all members and hosts...especially the members.
Let's talk about a delicate topic: erection problems.
What about you all? Girls, what do you think, if men got problems?

I will start talking about me. A member, 33 years old.

Sometimes it happens to me...no erection. I am aroused but my little friend stays little...
if I continue playing, I got an orgasm, but as said no erection or not hard enough.
Sometimes even when I am with a girl...and especially when using condoms.
On the other hand the typicall erection in the morning - no problem and hard as steal....

Strange thing! I used to remember when I was younger - just a thought or a touch of a girl
and no problems.

What about you guys? All potent stallions or also some normal guys?
Girls? How do you react when you are with a man and you try everything but it doesn't "work"...

Maybe that is not the suitable topic for an adult site, but well, it's part of the life :P
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RE: Delicate topic

I am 59 and still going strong. The only problem that I have had is the day after a good drunk, oh man nothing seems to work right. I do think sometimes too much concentration can screw a good thing up. Good luck

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RE: Delicate topic

I guess if someone has same prob here it wil not be desicion for u)))
i think u need individual specialist
and have a good luck and health
kisses

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RE: Delicate topic

First: You still experience the 'morning glory' - which probably means its up and down all night as you sleep - the normal man thing - so you should rule out any thoughts of impotence.

Like it or not, the urgency of youth leaves us all at some stage, so relying on a rod of iron at a moments notice sometimes just ain't gonna happen. You are at that age where (assuming you've had a fairly active sex life to date) you've built up a bit of sexual sophistication - ie there are things that rock your boat - and things that might leave you bored.

Go deeper again, and sometimes you find might yourself in situations where your interest is disturbed by stress - something niggling you - and we think a bit of sex is what will help us de-stress - but you might end up feeling guilt about that ... making the whole thing worse!

Aim to heighten your pleasure - increase foreplay - discuss and experiment with any fantasies you and your partner have not tried before - they are only fantasies at that point, so nobody gets upset just talking about them first. Don't try to be the porno stud - porno sex was invented to be a stimulus - it's not the holy grail we must try to emulate.
Remember the story of the Old Bull and the Young Bull who were walking together across a field when they came to the top of a steep hill and saw a herd of sexy cows down in the valley below. The young bull said to the Old Bull "Hey ... lets run down there and shag a few cows!"
But the Old Bull just shook his head and said "No .... let's walk down and shag them all"

Take your time man!! You're starting to build up a psychological barrier - stop concentrating on your todger and pay attention to the thing you are about to use it on! :) Once upon a time I guess I was guilty of just thinking a woman was a life support system for a vagina - but now ...... well I just like to balance sensualness with sex. Sorry for being such a ponce in some macho guys' eyes - but fuck you - it's something between me and her and it seems to work with most girls I know - some just want a wild romp - but I know exactly when to call them to see if they are still single :)

Good luck!

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RE: Delicate topic

Don’t let anybody tell you that this doesn’t happen to guys who are 33. I recently saw a study somewhere that claimed that ED in younger men was increasing. Apparently it has been blamed on lots of things including stress, diet, porn (yes porn), depression, anxiety and others.

I’ve had the problem on and off for years. Fortunately every woman that it has happened with has been remarkably understanding and has been willing to wait until things work out – sometimes it has taken weeks. Women are usually good that way, at least the women I have dated.

I’ve turned down sex because of it. I refuse to C2C on this site because of it.

My 2 cents: discuss it with your doctor if you comfortable with that. He may not give you pills. He may require lifestyle changes. If he doesn’t help you, find another doc if the option is available to you.

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Thank's for your answers. But funny is, that almost everyone says it's not normal having problems with 33 (except of Hmmmmm ;)). I recalled the last view weeks and realized a lot of stress in at the work (even tomorrow on Saturday I need to work)....:(
And I realized that I havent been here for some weeks. There are times when I am here almost every day and sometimes weeks pass by and I am not here...

Anyway I think for almost all men this topic is too delicate and nobody like to admit "problems"...and I don't talk about problems if nothing goes anymore. I am talking of problems which occur sometimes - and I think no man is a machine who can be switched on and "et voila"...

Well, thanks for all the answers again :)

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Stress can be one answer, exhaustion another, but sometimes it just ain't gonna happen. One possible solution is a cock ring, which keeps your cock head fuller and your erection longer. Or you could go the Viagra route, which I hesitate to do.

Or, I just enter my woman soft and make love that way. I may get hard inside her, or I may not; my focus is more about pleasing my woman in other ways if maintaining an erection is a problem. Love-making isn't always about climaxing hard.

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it's because they treated it as an honest question & have more class & compassion than you give them credit for.

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just make sure if you have erection problem dont tell your girlfriend unless she not in the mood, but serious,, they are things out there that can help with this problem, we are studying in school some exercises, the right diet and some minor comestic surgery that can be fixed

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There is also the pharmaceutical solution. The little blue pill helped me get through a bout of ED, and did wonders for my ego. My GF was amazed, I felt 20 years younger and had no problems after!

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Tripple, thanks for bringing up this topic!
I am having problems with erection since some months.
Can it come from watching porno/cam-girls and too much wanking?
Anyone has sound knowledge bout that?

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I am no expert, but there is a potential causal link. The wanking can de-sensitise the big fella, or rather means it needs greater pressure to stimulate it, which a hand can give but not necessarily conventional sex (though there are positions which can help). Also certain interactions with the hosts, visual stimuli etc. may become a necessary part of your arousal, which again can't be replicated in a real context. Or it might just be stress/anxiety from a multitude of causes. Could also be a symptom of something physical, like the onset of diabetes, so makes sense to get to the source of the problem.

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just, thanks for ur answer, i will work on it

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LatinLolita???

My sweetheart. Stefania, from Medellin Colombia suddanly disappeard.
Sombody who knows what happend to her?
One day everything was allright, the other day she disappeard without any message.
Her profile seems to be changed from Little shy to friend and family, same time as all her pics are removed aswell....
Very strange...
Open thread

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RE: LatinLolita???

Nothing strange about it; these signs are all indicative of somebody who has left cc and has no intention of returning. That she didn't tell you about it in advance does not imply there was any problem in her life, it just means you meant less to her than she does to you. Sorry for my frankness, just my honest interpretation of events.

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RE: LatinLolita???

Thank you for answer..
Ok I realize all that, and i didnt visit her very much, but i visit her the day before she left, and we had a deal that I should come to see her the next day. So therefor i think its a bit peculiarly.
I also see profiles for hosts who have left years ago are still in the site with all pics.
Someone told me that pics and profils here in the site belongs to cc and cant be removed by the hosts.. Is that correct? im just curious.....

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RE: LatinLolita???

yes pics and profiles stay. i didnt check your gf but if she hid her pics its usually good sign that they do not intend to return.

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RE: LatinLolita???

all is fine, dont worry, was just time to move on, is what she said to me...not coming back, sorry

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