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if he cant understand after ur explaining his pride is preventing him trying. . its oviously a deal breaker

well my gf wouldnt mind if me was on here,, she in costa rica and me here in america,,as longs as me not putting me part inside a host here it ok she says. so if your bf has a problem with that, tell him give me a call and me explain this is for fun and money

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You have two problems:

1. You were not honest with him from the beginning. That will be difficult to forgive and even harder to forget if he does forgive you. You have undermined his ability to trust you and trust is a key to a relationship.

2. I don't think it would be easy for a guy that is not a member of a site to understand your job. I doubt I could ever have a relationship with someone from a site if I hadn't learned firsthand what it truly was about, and I doubt he will ever understand either. It is no different than a guy telling his gf that he goes to a site and telling her not to be jealous. It is not likely to work. It is hard enough to avoid jealously issues when both a host and a member are in a relationship and understand things... When only one person understands, it will be even worse.

Your only hope is to apologize for not telling him and say you were afraid of how he would react. Then you can explain what sites are about and why you are working on one. (I assume money is the answer.) Try to make him understand that you are just stripping or chatting or whatever... nothing too hard core... just like a stripper at a club. There is no touching or anything, and your heart is with him. Let him know many hosts have bfs (sorry members, it is true, lol), and are here just to pay for school, rent, et cetera. And let him know that if you had another job where you actually were with other men every day and getting to know them "in real", that in some ways that is a lot bigger threat than some stranger saying "hey baby.... let me see you strip." I would try to leave out the idea you have friends on the site since this may be too much for him to accept. Let him think it is just a bunch of guys you want nothing to do with, and you probably want to forget about ever meeting any friends you have made unless you are sure he believes you are just friends. I would postpone any such meetings for a long time, however.

Good luck.

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Sorry to tell you, but if you're serious about your BF, you don't belong in here. It's insincere to tell someone you love him, then spend hours flirting with guys for money. Time for a different job.

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I say tough!... maybe you mean stiff? :--)

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Thought you did anybody ANNUEx, even if you are a gender bender.

Put yourself in his place. How would you react if he never told you his job is to strip for other women? It's a hard to understand. Some men dont mind, but I dont know if that's really love. I know I dont mind knowing my gfs strips, but I wouldn't like my gf chatting with another man for hours. Long relaxing chatting between a man and a woman can be a good start for a good friendly relation that can later lead to a platonic romance. Platonic romances are flawless fantasies and can sometime become our reality. On the other hand, it's shocking for a man to find out that his lover is an internet stripper and the thoughts that cross his head are not so good. Sorry, but I don't think you will have a 2nd chance with your bf. You should had told him "before" accepting this job. He must be heartbroken now... Perhaps love between you two is strong and he will try to forget. Who knows. Time will tell. Good Luck!

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He sounds a little insecure..and rightfully so...I would imagine you spend long hours giving attention to other men, and then go home tired. I think you have to ask yourself...am I proving to him that he means more to me than my members?
You just can't expect him to think of this as just another job.....its a very unique job, that can bring unique challenges to a relationship.
good luck

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I would not have a problem with it because it is only online and I would be sleeping with you in real life.

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Heh is right about ignoring most of member comments. Members will say they would not want their gf's working on here because in the back of our minds we wwant to believe all the flirting and sweet things you say are for real. It is unfortunate if you had lied to him about what you did and he didn't find out from you. That would upset me and I would always advise hosts to tell any bf they are serious about what they do. However I would not consider it unforgivable. However this is basically due to his insecurity. I am not sure how to help him understand your job. If you think you and he could handle it you could have him sit in the room off cam while you are on line so he can see what actually happens.There is a potential vicious circle in that the more you emphasise that you do not mean what you tell members on here the more he will get the impression you are good at deception.

A good friend of mine, who happens to be a host, once asked me would I ever consider going out with a host? I told her the truth. And that was, I go out with someone who I have feelings for not because of their job. She asked me why would I not get jealous of all the men she would talk to as a host, implying that if I did not get jealous I did not really care. I replied, it has always been my philosophy that good relationships are built on trust and understanding with a smattering of compromise in between. To me what she would do in a chatroom with her members has nothing to do with me, as no matter how many fantasies and dreams members might have of her, at the end of the day it is I who gets to keep her happy in the real world.

Of course this may just be about confidence in oneself but to me it is just an honest approach to a complex issue.

So yes, it is a shame he reacted so badly and perhaps that just reflects a trust issue he has in you. It could be that you don't communicate as much as is needed and don't sufficiently know each other well enough to have blind faith in your partner. I don't think you are necessarily to blame but it is not my place to make you feel any more of any less guilty. Sometimes guys can just be totally inflexible and never see it from anyone elses' point of view but their own. I've never understood the attraction of these sorts of men but then again I am not a woman so perhaps there is something else I am missing.

Oh well....

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I met a host here. We chatted for 6 months. We met and fell in love and got married in our 2nd meeting. Then we met again 4 more times in 6 months while she got her visa. She got her visa, we lived like a happy couple the first 3 months. Of course, I worked and supported her while she was perfecting english at a school nearby. She never stopped chatting with "her online friends" she met on while she worked as a host. No problem, she had all my trust, besides i understood I was not home 10 hours each day from Mon-Fridays while I work and she was home all alone all this time. I put myself in her place and thought poor baby. I thought, we come a long way now and internet chatting can't hurt our relationship. Well, it became a problem when "one of her old online friends" decided to meet her. I asked her if I could come to what she definitely answered: I need to go alone. He is my friend and why can't you trust me? He is only a friend. I did not say anything else, she took a taxi and came back late at night drunk. I waited until she was sober next morning. She admitted having sex after some drinks and begged me to forgive her. I said: No way. She said: Fine, I have a real man that I can go to. She called "this friend" on my presence on speaker conference and her friend to what her friend said: Thanks for the great night we had, but I can't take you with me, sorry, but i have other plans. She cried and begged me it will never happen again, but "trust" was broken. She went back to her home country. So there you go, Trust is not about your self-confidence or own pride. It's just depends on who you are with and you never get to know it.

trust can always be broken,by everyone.noone is perfect.but trust can be rebuilt if you have love,hope,love,honesty,love,forgiveness,love,
strength,love,understanding & love :--)

thank you o wise one.

no problem, i enjoy helping the less fortunate here and imparting my years of wisdom. Gets the chicks too.

Get Chicks?! Damn!! Where HAVE I been going wrong then?

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I can understand your reaction but the situation is totally different from one unhappy host. She is not planning on meeting members. To me the killer thing in your case was your wifes reaction after she begged forgiveness and you said "no". She may have said what she did out of pride but for her to say "Fine, I have a real man that I can go to." made even her request for forgiveness seem insincere.

tell him the person on screen has a different name to the person he loves and the one and the other are two different people,like putting a mask on when you work.

plenty more fish in the sea

That would only be helpful if she was a mermaid.

still plenty more fish in the sea whether or not shes a mermaid

if you people need a cab ride on your date-just call me up

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LMAO -

Good one, I made have to do this

GREAT !!!
i WILL BORROW THIS !!

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happy bday AFS have a great time

Happy birthday, i hope u have a nice day, more bday to come....

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excellent idea!

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LOL. The contest is something fun, I just got 22 pieces from the last vid I did and they were all doubles. Don't take it serious and have fun with it. I can understand that it gets frustrating to be in com chat and hear certain hosts complain about not winning but they forget to mention that they have made more money during the contest period. Just enjoy it for what it is, something silly that cc does to bring some fun to people.

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I like how hosts I thought were nice, sweet people raise their price during the contest. I know that sometimes members like this under the theory that they can win faster (wonder how often that works, lol) but many hosts seem to do it on their own.

If it is all about fun, then a host should keep her price the same as always. On the other hand, I like when they raise their price... Not to win, but so I learn who is just a host to see for a show and who is someone to visit for a nice longgggggggg chat since she is worthy of my respect.

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i raise price couse my fans suggest e2 do it.i will back2 normal later/

I don't disagree, but some hosts raise their prices so that both the viewer and the host get their pieces faster. That might be both party's objective, if that's how they are playing the game.

I'm just saying a higher price at contest time isn't necessarily a sign of ill intent. You could ask her to lower it, and maybe she will.

good god, educate yourself a bit or you look like an idiot.
global warming isn't about looking out your window at the rest of the trailer park and seeing what the temperature happens to be today.

And what is it about? Climate Change yes. Naturally occurring yes. Part of the cyclical warming/cooling trends of mother earth yes. Global warming because of human activity. doubtful, inconclusive.

Well, the media & politicians tell us that the majority of scientists believe that man made global warming is undeniable fact. Are you suggesting that media & political types would lie to us? Surely not !!

imho the global warming scam is being used to modify our behavior(social control) & more importantly it is being used to modify & manipulate the behavior of developing countries, their politicians & their population.

Those who use political correctness to bully intimidate, manipulate & control people also seem to be very big on man made global warming.
Maybe I been spending too much time at David Icke's website. Ho Hum.

PS maybe I'm talking out of my ass. However Al Gore may also be taking out of his ass.

I don't know if global warming has anything to do with snow storms, but my understanding of things is that most scientists believe in global warming. That doesn't mean the oceans will start boiling in the next decade, but scientsts are saying we are getting to the point where it will soon be too late for any pollution and other restrictions to be effective to reverse the process.

Most leaders in most countries seem to accept the theory behind global warming. That doesn't mean they are right, but I would think a long time before calling people nuts when most of the evidence is on their side. I know you are talking about snow storms, but I think it is clear you thought these people were nuts before you heard anything about snow storms.

The real objection about global warming theories is that some countries and businesses think it will lead to unnecessary restrictions that will hurt economic growth. When I look at who objects to restrictions in the USA and who supports them, I think I will side with those that are not of the same make that lead to the global economic crisis. A lack of regulation as a result of a law passed in 2000 led to the whole banking crisis and housing crisis due to greed going unchecked. I have no idea who is right about global warming, but if I were to guess, a lack of regulation will continue to allow big business to pollute our atmosphere and lead to significant climate problems for future generations. I will trust "the nuts" over greedy, unethical corporations almost ever time. And the worst that will happen is we will have a cleaner environment even if global warming theories are wrong.

its a scam. global warming is now big business, as everyone pays extra for "green" products, energy and services.

China is the biggest CO2 polluter in the world, and if they don't buy into the global warming fanaticism, then nothing the rest of us do will matter much.

The earth has been here longer than us and will be here long after we are gone, it can take care of itself without help or interference from us. Halleluah for the planet, lol.

i prefer the theory that we have too many cows creating methane gas. therefor we must kill all cattle and have one final world bbq, after which we eat no beef

crisis solved........lol

Dont kill all the cattle just leave a few good cattle for me pls...

I like my steak...:P

Might have to keep them my backyard...hmmm backyard is 3m x 4m geez it is going to crowded in there...lmao !!!

Hmmmm. No more milk from cows? :(

Could we just kill old fat guys that fart too much or would that cause CC to shut down?

would shut down cc

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Very well said. She was amazing((

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Fair enough, it's not as if I actively seek out this genre myself. But when it's done well, I do like it.

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I like that, except she never actually played a vampire; it was just a persona for her TV show in the '50's.

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Near Dark

yes, love that movie - maybe no coincidence that the director was a woman

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Good question. I don't think Barbara Steele has ever played a proper vampire, though she's played plenty of vengeful ghosts and possessed women. Ironically, in the '90's revival of "DARK SHADOWS," she played the doctor/assistant to vampire Barnabas Collins.

Without a doubt Kate Beckinale in the first two Underworld movies!

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Blood Rayne , the movie was more of a B-movie on SciFi but Kristanna Loken is pretty hot.

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I wish you all the best wherever your life takes you :)

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May the wind behind you always be your own.

Good luck and all happiness for the future.

wait... did I get to meet you?

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well this is my member name. I probably will not meet you if I haven't already. But I wish you well, and hope life will be good for you.

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it does....really....

The history of the world has been influenced most often by the opinon of only one person. Think of all the great men of the world and many started as a single lonely voice until their idea caught hold and changed the world.

sure but only if that hundred really wants. if they just sit and wait nothing will change.

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A relationship established on lies is doomed to fail, indeed has already failed, because trust and love are the foundations of a solid relationship.

Do you really ask advice, or just want affirmation for a decision you have already made?

I'll admit upfront I may be biased in this sense but hey, what the use in being an honest man if I can't rag on those that are not?!

Drop him like a ton of hot bricks. He is faithless, careless and conceited. He spared you none of the hurt he knew this would cause and toyed with your emotions, hopes and dreams not to mention stole a part of you life as well.

For someone to really care about you they need to demonstrate it in ways that are honest not impressive. I have friends for over 15 years whom I have never met but care about greatly and they know I do and would be willing to say so in a heartbeat. I am honest with them and so they have faith in me and I have faith in them and so it works.

I feel sorry you have been cheated and no words of comfort are every going to wipe away the pain but don't blame yourself for any of it. It is better to be a be honest with an open heart and run the risk of disappointment than it is to be cold and manipulative. At least with an open heart you have the chance to make two people happy, selfish hearts make no one happy.

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u r always so smart, so polite, so nice, and so sweet in our chats and in here. this is why i like u soooo muuuuch!!! kiss u TNT! my lovely Einstein!

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dear failed host calm down, u dont know me, but TNT know me. ;-)

Hehe.. I don't know much, but I know that you are sweet. Thank you :)


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How come no host ever says that to me :(

I would add, your "from" name implies that you think you have failed. not at all. It is your man who failed. He failed you when he failed to be honest. He failed you when he failed to love you enough to care about your feelings. He failed you when he failed to respect you enough to tell you about his real situation. He failed you when he led you down the path of promised love and faithfulness, while all the time cheating not only on his wife, but also you. You are not the one who failed. He is.

Men are often afraid of admitting their previous failures. They assume that you might think if they had one bad marriage all of them will be bad. If he is divorced or legally separated (ask to see the legal document stating it) then that should be good enough to prove he is still not married. An annulment is a difficult thing to get and may take time. In the meantime if he is saying he is seeking an annulment then guess what he is still married and of course he didn't want you to know that. I believe you can get a legal separation while you are waiting for an annulment. That effectively states the parties are no long living as man and wife and for legal purposes are two separate entities. As for accepting the fact he kept it a secret. Ask him why. If he gives you a good answer then ask yourself is the anwer truthfull enough to overlook this and continue the relationship and drop the issue? If you bug him about this and hold it over his head then you two will be the next people getting an annulment.

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If you haven't dumped him yet, dump him now and run like hell away from him!!!! He will never change this behaviour and you'll always wonder if he speaks the truth. Which he probably won't. Find someone honest that deserves you.

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Yipee !!! I'm a fifth of the way there :)

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Yes that is the one I have got well and truly covered :D

I am 23 and want a man:
1) younger than 35
2) tall at least 185 cm
3) brunette
4) has a perfect body with nice abs
5) rich
6) big spender
7) clean
8) never smokes
9) loyal
10) and never drinks beers or vodka :-P

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..... and with you I achieve 10% :P

Big Spender?
Dont worry, I also got 10% LOL!

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I wish I did. :-(

I actually thought it was you she was describing ally :P

It's posts like these that make me loose faith in humanity...

Never drink beer!? Come on!!! :S

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That wud be boring lol))

I rather be sober and happy my own way than drinking alcohol and say foolish things and looking ridiculous.Sure, everyone say they can control alcohol. Yeah right! lol.

So....Ure saying ure looking rediculous and say stupid things after 1-2 bottles of beer? Wow)))) Sux)

I would have no problem having a couple beers or other drinks with you. Now that sounds like a great idea, so I guess I will be seeing you at the meeting that is being set up, a couple threads up. :P :))

Hahahah deal) But if ure thinking to take advantage of the drunk me-dont))) I always have my head on my shoulders:) Never had drunken sex and not planning to lol))))

Never say Never. Beer or alcohol losen up tensions and restraints, especially on girls. Just a couple of drinks and things warm up and that's when i am the most charming of them all :-P

Lol i wasnt born yesterday. And lets see....In all my life i have never had drunken sex with a stranger or anyone at all..Ive never lost my keys, mobile, wallet etc when im drunk. Never danced on the bar stripping...hmmm..And never woke up in the morning thinkin-omg what have i done...And nowdays i drink way less than in my 18-22. So yeah i guess i know myself pretty well))) And know that i keep my mind str8 when im drunk))

I wont take advantage of you, I promise. However, there is a correlation between the number of drinks you have and how good looking I am. The more you drink, the better I look. :)

Some people don't need to drink alcohol to say foolish things and look ridiculous.

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The point of the post was that a HOST was complaining prices were too low. She wanted a petition to raise the minimum price on CC. Her reason was because the dollar was low. This was about a week ago. Since that time, the dollar has gone up significantly, and since I am sure all of you hosts want to be fair to members, I was asking if all of the hosts would be lowering prices.

Don't you think it is fair that if you raise prices when the dollar goes down, that you should lower prices when the dollar goes up? Or do you want everything your way?

Hosts constantly complain about prices and the dollar. Don't limit your comments to members. You need to be fair. And that is the true point of my sarcastic post.

$0.20-0.30 does make a big difference when I spend 3 hours in video ;)

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It is only down a little, and it is because the European Central Bank is trying to head of a debt crisis there. The dollar is more likely to go up than down in the next few months.

Anyway, as the dollar goes down, the stock market in the USA is going up, so I am making money either way. :p

Seems to me then you can afford it, either way... lol

Or perhaps a host who prices her time according to currency exchanges gets your rocks off for that very reason?

As fetishes go, how bizarre

It again comes down to some simple math. Does the host make as much per hour charging 3 dollars a minute and doing 10 minutes of video an hour or 1 dollar a minute and doing 30 minutes of video an hour. Which would you choose? However, if the host does 30 minute of video at 1 dollar a minute and no videos at 3 dollars a minute then she is charging too much and wasting her time. The price must be considered fair and providing a value for the service rendered. If you are not getting a lot of videos either the product (you) needs improvement or your price needs to come down. Supply and demand.....

yeah..funny..and i lost my card today LOL

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What about a cheap man like me ?

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I want to send flowers to a Romanian host too.
What if we're all sending things to the same girl?

All our flowers or presents will arrive on Valentine's Day at the same time. She'll get things from us as her admirers, yet she has a secret Romanian BF we never knew about. Then she'll take HIM out for Valentine's Day on OUR money. That's happened to me before!

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Taking flowers from only one person?
What if I can't live without you & want to send flowers too?

After all, it would break my romantic heart not to send a beautiful host something... ;)

Don't waste your money, it's just a fantasy site.

You may be right, who knows. But I am thinking she will love it, for real. If not, I've blown money in worse ways...lol

I am right, these girls get so many flowers, you wouldn't believe how many! And each guy thinks he's the first. Didn't you read the "Good Luck to Us All" post a while back? And these Internet flower "shops" are 3 to 5 times more expensive than normal flowers cost in the various countries.

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Dear sweetie, i treat someone special, very special! With flowers plus caresses delivered personally, a bottle of nice wine, two glasses, in front of a nice fire. No fantasy there, only reality dear. :-)

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Jules will be busy

Don't worry our dears ,I also expect flowers just from a single man .

Don't know if it would be funny...more of just a dose of reality...lol

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Many moons ago I sent Chocolates to Yaroslavl, Russia through one of those online shops. It was her birthday. She didn't know what I sent, it was supposed to be a surprise. I asked the people to write: You know who as the sender. That same day, I entered her video and asked her if she liked my gift. She said: YESSS!!! She pulled out a Teddy Bear with a "I love you" written on his heart. I said: No, wrong gift. She got embarrased. She then pulled out a flowers arrangement. I didn't say it was mine, but I asked: Can I see the card? She read it and hid the flowers. She then asked: What did you send? I have many gifts here and about 7 of them say: You know who in the card. Never I will send a gift again. LMAO!

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Ph like in fairy tales...3 gifts :P Sure a true story!

I sent my ex-gf host flowers on her birthday and I signed FROM YOUR ONLY LOVE. She never said thanks. One week later I told her I sent her flowers and she said oh I thought it was someone else. Girls, girls, they will always be girls.

That gives me an idea.... I will not send any gifts but say to hosts "Did you like my gift?" and get credit from other members' gifts. :p

Seriously, I don't have a problem with a host I like getting presents from viewers. Why would I? Let other guys send money and presents all they want. It keeps her happy and keeps her from asking for presents and money from me, lol. As long as I am nice and do some things too, there is no problem. And if she wants to compare me to another guy based on how much I spend on her or whose present is nicer, I don't need her.

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Never sent flowers to Russia yet, but did send some to a girl in Florida once. Sent two dozen roses, when I got home there was a message on my Yahoo, " Get in my room!! "

I was the first to ever send her anything and she was telling everyone that day about it :) Hard to believe that was 10 years ago.

If I am still doing this after 10 years, please kill me.

Uh oh.... more than half way there . :(

Ahh that does happen :)

I remember the first time >I< got sent flowers, apart from the actual shock of it I was giddy for days.

That was a little more than 10 years ago now though :P

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Unfortunately members like the funny "oh, i love u" and send anything after they hear these words :-P

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i been using:

http://www.floraqueen.com

I have been sent to Russia and Ukraine with them without problems,
and they deliver to Romania too. They work worldwide

well they sure as hell aren't cheap! sheesh! their prices are unreal!

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I prefer hosts that give an honest answer. Many, espeically in studios, say bi when it is not true. I chat with both bi and straight hosts. It is not an important factor.

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My experience is the vast majority of hosts who claim they are bi are straight. It is a marketing strategy to extend their market penetration. A few do find it interesting when female members approach them and do videos. The member generally clearly knows the host is not really bi but the experience of "turning" a straight girl is a turn-on for the member. Everyone wins....party on.

congrats alsandra...happy b-day to you

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Lol it's a java script error that is sometimes generated by the use of special characters like ` & '.

Correct. The amp stands for ampersand or the & character and usually means someone has used un-escaped html somewhere.

It seems to have appeared after CC revised the host profile information so maybe it is connected with that. I can't imagine so many hosts have suddenly started playing with Java.

In the the fetish world , amp can be abbreviation for amputee, though idoubt many hosts would know this

I understand as soon as you change to the new profile this disappears...

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i visited your vid 2 times . your cam quality was bad . youre beautiful but fix ur cam and i might return

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My guess is your comment is probably more of a reaction against her frequent named posts. As a member, I couldn't care less if a host uses her screenname in the forums or doesn't use them. Actually, I prefer she does use it, because I know then who is posting, and if I want to check her out, I can. As a member, I also prefer to stay with the girls I've become familiar with, and to return again and again. They know me and what I want, and hopefully, I have come to know them as well. I find visits with familiar favorites is much more satisfying and much less strained than with a new host. And I find usually a better connection and communication with someone I know as opposed to someone new. Occasionally, the connection is immediate with a new host and she then becomes a familiar favorite, While I may explore someone new, I tend to stay with and return to someone familiar.

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Ok I misunderstood, no, I assumed wrong. Hope you forgive me :)

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zlata!!! try to buy new cam,like logfiteck 9000. ur cam quality is realy poor.ur pictures looking dark.try to move in category where is less hosts. try to do price lower.then u will get more members.!!!and stop to waste ur time in forum!! go do new pics better :D.OR BUY some sexy outfit.hope my advice not offended u.,

Hello, Young Lady.I looked at your pictures for the first time and I dont think you should buy new webcam. Try one dollar red lipstick first.It would be enough, for such a nice blonde.Me, when I have nobody I make twenty cents cheaper and somebody is coming.
Good luck from an old lady.

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List of things to do....

Make sure you look as good in video as you do in your pics.
(hair down, awake, smiling, dressed sexy, good lighting, enough space so the member can get a look at you, etc.)
Keep the pics current. As often as possible take new pics.
Keep your profile accurage as possible.
Do not play games with the member. Don't answer a members question about whether or not you strip with..maybe..come and find out...or a little...answer the question.
Do what you promise. Make sure you understand what is expected of you before the video.
Offer phone..even one way phone where the host does not speak much or at all. It is an option for members without cams or mics.
Charge a reasonable price and if a member says your price is too high negotiate.
Go to comm chat now and then and talk to members. They will look at your profile, pictures and price and often tell you what is wrong. You will never know unless you ask.
Send a thank you email to past members. Thank them for the video. Invite them to come back. Offer a special price.
Keep a list of members ( a few hosts do this) with their nicknames, age, job, likes and dislikes....it can work wonders and make members a regular.
I can also evaluate you if you wish.....just ask and I will cc mail you.

Good luck. Dont get down on yourself..it is a tough economy for everyone..member and host. Things will look up eventually.

I haven't seen you in video, but if your video quality is comparable to the quality of your pictures, it is not bad. Could probably be clearer and sharper, but not bad. Lighting is everything. Consult someone who knows lighting to find the optimum Some of your pictures are dark and grainy, but not all. This is usually a lighting problem, not a cam problem.

As for your English, I'm judging only from your posts here in this thread. Your English is great, I don't understand why some said it is bad. Hell, even Americans don't use perfect English. Maybe elsewhere your English skills are lacking but not in this thread..

As for your appearance, you are a very pretty, very attractive woman. You have a great and desirable figure. I find nothing wrong at all with your appearance.

Couple of things to remember, it's not always about you ( I mean it is not necessarily because of you that your earnings / members in videochat are less) We have a helluva terrible economy right now especially here in the USA, and frankly this kind of activity is a luxury which some may no longer be able to afford. While the sex-industry is booming, there a tremendous amount of competition (not just with other hosts here in this site, but also between sites) You are not the only one experiencing a decline in viewership.

Some suggestions:

(1) Utilize your Forum. Invite feedback, interaction from your viewers there. A host's forum can be a good indicator of the host's interaction abilities if utilized well. Most hosts on this site neglect and under-use their forums which is a pity, a valuable tool wasted.

(2) Make sure your price per minute is reasonable and competitive. The cheapest price is not always the best. The highest price will limit you only to those who can afford it and will prevent others who may wish to visit you. So play with your price.

(3) Identify the best time to be online here. Does CC provide tracking information for the hosts? Times when traffic is at its peak?

(4) Update your pictures frequently. Delete poor shots. Only use the best in quality. Some hosts, I notice, upload pictures taken off site. Sometimes you can get much better quality pics that way. An active picture archives says to me, the host cares about what she is doing and is actively involved and excited about her work here. An inactive archive, with old pictures only, says to me the host doesn't really do much.... which then, in my opinion, translates to what her show will be like.

(5) Always give a good show. Be creative, be expressive, be conversational (but be careful about over-doing it with those members who want more action than talk LOL) Make sure your cam and video quality are at their best, your room attractive. Show genuine interest in your member.

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u might b right...pass on the cards LoL

who are you

In support of my fav's response, I will now reveal the secret of the CC Valentine :D

(C)lever
(C)uties

(V)ery
(A)ctively
(L)ooking to
(E)ngage
(N)aive
(T)argets
(I)n
(N)umerous
(E)xpenditures

$-)

Ummm...did I spell all those right? ;))

you spolied the surprise..not only a card but one of your famous 121 sesswions.i already have the puppy & the matches :--)),but it is only sexual remember,no romantic valentines stuff...oh wtf you're so sexy imnotsoshy,please be my valentine!! hug & kiss big boy!

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I want to send a card to my favorite host - but she is being awkward at the moment Perhaps if she considered what i asked her to do !! That could be her present to me !!!

changed my mind..dont want anything from anyone unless its a gun and a bullet with my name on :)

uhm wayne, YOU only get the bullet

You'll be getting love messages aplenty soon enough...

Tories, Labour, Lib Dems ........ etc etc

http://www.seatwave.com/andrea-bocelli-tickets/season/?affid=0100&gclid=CNLO5-zt258CFYGDzAodrjA2Hg

Do you need a date? I can bring flowers.

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Hey L.
Have a nice time in Italy :-P

Its located in Lajatico which is between Florence and Pisa. The cheapest way would be to fly Bueair from Bucuresti to Florence and take train and bus from there. At the moment the round trip flight is less than 100 euros.

Thank you very much ''traveler '' ! :)

I forgot to add that he is blind. Would love to go with you hosty if you will sleep with me afterwatds. An evening of Bocelli's music in the warm Italian open air to raise the passions followed by a night of great love making to quench them. Sounds perfect to me.

How charming. A bald-faced offer. How can anyone resist?

The are tickets around but expect to pay a lot. at least 300 euros

300 euros? for someone i never heard of? who is she? LOL

He is one of the hottest opera singers around at the moment. Recently duested with Mary J Blige at the Grammy's singing "Bridge Over Troubled Waters" which is to raise money for the Haiti disaster fund.

just did a search.. correction... who is he?

omg wha tan amazing voice he has!!! just listened to the duet of Eros Ramazzotti and Andrea ...they sing 'Musika E' song , it lasts 9:45 mins - i can't get enough of their voices and the spitit of the song
God created so talented people)))

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hosty i love ur style :)

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yeah....all my friends and family left...sob sob :(

Im still here for ya hun:*=))

awww ur too kind.....thx babe :* :))

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im too shy to make new friends *BLUSHES*

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If you let me spend the night with you I'll pretend I have it :P

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lol It certainly sounds like you know how to take care of a man :D

It is a real condition -- in fact, it's estimated that as many as 1 out of 10 men might have it. It's also more common in men than in women. To date, studies show that 2/3 of reported or diagnosed cases have been men.

Sexsomnia is what is known an N-REM parasomnia. To explain what that means, I'll break it down into its two parts. N-REM means it is a "non-rapid eye movement" disorder, which means a person's eyelids don't move in an accelerated manner as it takes place. As an example, the direct opposite --- which most people are familiar with -- would be a true REM (rapid eye movement) condition such as dreaming, where your eyelids DO flutter in a rapid manner as you sleep and drift off into your dream state.

"Parasomnia" is simply a disorder that takes place either (1) while you are asleep OR (2) it happens in that transitional time between sleeping and when you start to wake up.

Some researchers believe Sexsomnia might be a true genetic disorder -- however, most scientists (to date) believe it is really an emotional issue, since those who either experience or suffer from it tend to overwhelmingly be people undergoing heavy bouts of stress, anger, fear, guilt and shame. As a result, the most common way that a doctor will treat Sexsomnia is to advise a person to seek counseling AND for them to alter much of their daily lifestyle, in order to drastically reduce or eliminate their stress, anger, fear, guilt of shame that they might be feeling at the time. Medication is also used, with anti-anxiety meds being the usual prescription.

I have been working in the sleep disorder field for almost 4 years now, and everything Bio teacher said is correct. I have researched it myself before reading this. But I would like to take it one step farther.

At this point, Sexomnia is NOT considered a true sleep disorder. However, I have information by doctors on the AASM (American Academy of Sleep Medicine) that the next time they will gather to offically diagnose some new sleep disorder conditions, Sexomnia is on top of the list. It should be later this year.

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Impulsive men :-P

Well first I would make him believe I am enjoying it more than he does, just to keep it growing, and to have him feel completely relaxed and enthusiastic about it. Then I suddenly move away, making sure as many people as possible notice his "condition". I will most likely point and laugh, too. And other fun things... Fun for me.

usually i expect it,being the hotty i am,but the last time was embarrassing.i told my uncle it wasn't right,we're related

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I was dancing with a girl, not at all good looking, when it happened. My pecker popped up... took a look at what i was dancing with and immediately ran back between my legs to hide!

If your pecker runs you should see your doctor