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I think that soldiers have access to the internet to communicate with their families back home. That doesn't mean that they can get to a PC every day, but enough time has passed that I think he would have contacted you if 1) he wanted to and 2) he was okay. Unfortunately, that means either way, your relationship is probably over.

I suppose that there is a chance that he was wounded so badly that he is not even able to communicate to a friend or family member that he wants to contact you. Or maybe he has fallen into enemy hands or is missing in action. All of these are horrible possibilities, of course. Unfortunately, unless you have someone to contact in the military or a friend/family member of his, there is really no way to find out. Maybe you can google for a list of deceased/missing soldiers. Or maybe a member with military connections can help you.

Your first duty is to your child, not to yourself or to this man. That means that you may need to move on even though one day you may hear from this man and learn that he simply was not able to contact you and still wants to be together. But so much time has based, it seems like if you were going to be together, you would have heard something by now. Plus, it seems he didn't even make arrangements for you to know of his fate if something were to happen such as give a friend or family member your email address to let you know the situation. That in itself would be a good enough reason for you to move on although maybe your contact information got lost or the family member or friend never bothered to contact you.

I think that you need to move on and consider yourself free to find someone else. That doesn't mean get married to another guy tomorrow, but especially with a child, you need to start getting on with your life. At least stop talking about this man with your child and if your child asks about him, change the subject. Get rid of all pictures, et cetera. Like I said, your child comes first.

cc email me and i will try to help u.

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Good grief, ur married to a military man and working on an adult site while he's away? I bet he feels great about that! And by the way, most if the military wives and families here get to see their. Loved ones via web cam every few days.

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dawned on anyone that he might be dead and she doesnt know cuz she doesnt know the family

Dawned on anyone that if he was truly planning on marrying this girl he would have told his family and friends about her. (and they would have the decency to let her know if he was alive or not).

I agree, she must forget about him. I dont think he really loves her. I have been married for a little more than 2 years with a military man and I am happy with him. I understand his dedication to the military. He already served in Afghanistan, but had to go back about 2 months ago. He calls me every 3 or 4 days and sends me email when he can.

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I can tell ypu one thing based on my exprerience. When a looser guy been online having a gf and he told her lots of fantasy stuff and lies about his success in life for a long time the easiest way get out of it is to fake his death and what is better than a 'heroic' death in afghanistan. I know one guy who serve as military there he have pc contact with his family same as when at any other work.

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I agree, i also hate bisex not only lesbians.
Bisex are not good for men and not good women, no fish no meat!

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You are talking about threesomes, and that's a little different. (A lot different)

I get turned on by two men having sex, preferably one is me :-))

Just because it doesn't turn you on, there is no reason to discount it being a genuine turn on for others: merely one you cannot share or understand. For instance the videos of Japanese women kissing each other, which can readily be found on the leading video-sharing site, are incredibly erotic.

1 naked woman + 1 naked woman = more naked women!!!

what's so hard to understand, or to like? :p

a few times, I have had a three way with 2 women. Every time it has been incredibly hot. It also has been different each time. Once it was 2 women that were serious lesbian lovers, but liked to bring in a man occasionally. I felt completely used, but in the best ways possible! Another time, the 2 women would hardly touch each other, both wanted me. they were straight friends, but finally they loosened up, but only a little. but both had a great time and both orgasmed. so, do not knock it until you try it!

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u probably have more in common with 2nd member because age difference is less however you owe it to member 1 to be honest
follow your heart but be aware why is 2nd member still single if he's so good ??? . where was he between age 18-30 ?

it seems member 1 has kept no secrets from you . (in my opinion)

So if a person is not married by 30, something is wrong with him or her? Next time think before you type, or at least before you hit the "post message" button.

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send him to me maybe he will love me:)))

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So, if I read all that correctly... and I think I did... the point is this:
You have great eyes and a great smile and you'll get naked for me in vid?

lmao

Me too, LMAO!

Well, I dont understand..this is just not supposed to happen. I'm sooo confused?!?! ;)

First thoughts ...

Guy 1 - considerably older, carrying baggage of divorce and children, has ex-wife with influence due to kids. He is bound to be a little emotionally damaged. Without physically living with him you have no way of finding out just how much.

Guy 2 - Younger, single (at least we think so), educated, able to make decisions without repercussions.... but can't seem to get a relationship with local women

You will most likely do what most would do, go with the one who lights your fire and if the fire goes out you will maybe still have a safety net in the second older guy .... he's used to being second best already ... and wont turn you away if you come back to him.

Make life as stimulating as possible while you can!!

Why is younger guy on this site if he's so handsome? Is he a loser? Think twice about it

Many thx, I think I will meet the younger member and see if he really is a good man. BTW, he is not a loser. He says he works too much and gets home too tired to go out again. He dated a girl. She never wanted to marry and told him she was single, but the truth is that she was dating an older man at the same time. Deja Vu? hahahaha!

maybe member2 is member1 with a different nickname testing you :)

It is obvious that the first member is not the right guy for you. I can tell that just based on how you write about him as opposed to how you talk about the second member. Be honest with the first member, and explain that it is better that you found this out now instead of after having been married. Don't let his attempts at keeping you together change your mind. Your marriage to him will not work. I can tell this just from you post, and I think everyone else can too.

Meet the second member, and take it from there. Good luck.

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You know you can learn to love him? Do yourself and this guy a favor and....

WAITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!! DON'T GET MARRIED YET UNTIL YOU ALREADY LOVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What is going on with people here????

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Five years ago I met a very nice member, younger than me.I already had a boyfriend and I decided to be honest with both.My boyfriend bought a diamond ring and asked my hand in marriage and I was very confused.He adviced me to meet this online guy, even was 7 years younger than me and to spend some time to see if we fit, otherwise I would dream for the whole life..
He was right..and the young guy was soo boring in real and I called immediately and talked to my boyfriend in our own language:"SOMETHING is VERY small.I come home tomorrow"

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I'm sure it's great to feel 15 again and have Guy #2 rocking your world. No matter what, I wish you the best in finding happiness. But based on your post, you've been involved with Guy #1 for quite some time. You also said "He helped me every time I needed", so he's obviously been good to you. Plus, he traveled to meet you, your family and friends...and you admit you hit it off in person. So Guy #1 has definitely done all he can to prove his love. But here's what has me worried...

This is NOT a casual thing anymore. According to your post, Guy #1 asked you to marry him -- and you said YES. So Guy #1 believes you love him too, so much so that you're willing to be his wife. And even though you're still working online, if you said YES to marrying him, I'm sure Guy #1 trusts you and believes you wouldn't even THINK of another man now.

So it's going to come as pretty BIG shock to hear you've fallen for a guy in your chat room. I think you should be honest with Guy #1, since he respected you and treated you right. You shouldn't do things in secret and behind his back. Otherwise beware of bad Karma. These things have a way of eventually coming around.

If you said YES to marrying Guy #1… but now want to hook up with Guy #2… you're going to crush Guy #1 BIG TIME. Speaking as a guy, here's some advice. In the long run, it will help Guy #1 to prepare for any bad news (about breaking up) if you tell him NOW about Guy #2 and how you met and how its left you with conflicting emotions…etc.

Whenever a person gets dumped out of the blue -- when you least expect it -- it always hurts extra bad. And when you betray a trust like an engagement, it destroys everything. Guy #1 will become very bitter because he'll always wonder how long you were fooling around with Guy #2 behind his back, all while he was loving you and helping you every time you needed it (like you wrote). And it will hurt all the more because he trusted you as his fiancee.

So do the decent thing. If you decide you want to meet Guy #2, than tell Guy #1 what's going on. Tell him you need to meet Guy #2 to figure out "who" you like most and to decide "what" you REALLY want in life. As others have said, you could meet Guy #2 and suddenly realize he's NOT what you thought he'd be. And then you might suddenly find yourself wishing you had left some kind of door open, so you could go back to a good man like Guy #1.

Ask him if he is married. If a sexy host finds him so alluring, then many other women probably do too. So you have to ask why is here. I'm guessing maybe because he is married and bored and and is looking for a little adventure, but is maybe doesn't want to take such a risk of doing it in real, so he sticks to online fun where it is safer.

life eh...you rolls the dice and takes your chances. ))
I see some good advice here for you already....like be honest with guy #1 ... I would suspect that guy#2 is a player....and your affair with him will last about as long as it will take for him to find another girl on a chat site.

I have been in this situation before. I was guy#1. You made a commitment to a marriage. obviously you have no clue what that means if you are considering backing out of that promise the first time a cute guy walks by.
For that reason, you should never get married, because you will not be a good partner and you will cheat and lie to a devoted man who will do all for you. In my opinion, you already lost your soul, you might as well take what you can get now , becasue you will end up having no man, and sad face and a reputaion as a cheater. The question you should have asked , is how do i keep my promise when i faced with temptation such as this. Do guy#1 a favor, and tell him thank you for all the help and tell him the truth, that you are a sinner and cant be trusted.

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Put a notice in a local shop window or University - 2 lovely good natured cats free to good home.

Or just buck the hairy little feckers out at nights when you go to bed ...

I had a cat and I never had this problem.I wanted to give her to somebody and that person complained the cat would wake up very early and disturb their sleep.With us, she slept until 12.We took her back and she was very quiet...so I fear your cats are not at home.You can let an announcement in the local newspaper to offer them to another family.Families with children are often in searching for cats.
If you want to keep them and to have peace, you can search for a doctor that could give homeopathics to animals.They are making miracles and your animals become angels, very sweet and loving and peaceful after the treatment.Good luck

You are probably right...maybe I am not used to keeping cats...I have tried for over 1.5 years now...
I simply feel that I have to choose between the university, because it's hard to study there, combining it with the CC job or the cats and their problems...
I have already started calling my friends and relatives...need someone who has a house perhaps...I am afraid to give my cats to the wrong hands... there have been so many stories about cats being killed for fur or by sadists....that's why it is dangerous to give an ad on the internet or on the local store window...

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same with my humster.im sleeping bad for2 years.couse my humster Miva running on her wheel and then start to eat somthing very loud,,, even own house:)) im even put pillow on my head:))its only help me:P...but still love my baby and will never give2 nobody:P,keep ur cats4 urself... u can find a solution i belive:P...as i found a pillow:))

most cats like to clean and sleep after eating , feed them before you go to bed. theres a good chance they might sleep after eating for most the night .i have 3 cats that sleep all night after a nice big meal.

let the cats chase the hamster in a winner takes all contest :) . we could have bets on how long lil hamster lasts

I do feed them before going to bed and in the middle of the night and it often works...but not always...
and I started sleeping with the pillow on my head as well but when the male cat starts scratching or running around- I perfectly hear it through the pillow:((
The main problem is actually the male cat- he is simply always in action , at days and nights. His mother was " wild Norwegian forest cat or so"..we took him from a farmer family who have a big house...and I have only a 70 square meter flat...
... the female cat is "normal"- she is quiet and understanding to my needs so to say...

I am no expert, but has the male cat been snipped? I am told this calms them down normally.

Yes, he has been on time and the female cat too... He doesn't p... around or so...
They have got all the necessary vaccinations and medical help as well.
They eat well and have 2 cat toiletts...

Oh it didnt calm down my cat, he is still as crazy as he was before the sergery))) And i have another cat, female, and they are so in love, but to avoid sleepless nights, i keep them separate at night time, Oscar sleeps with me in the room, and Liza sleeps in the hall:) Works good for me:) And yes-to feed them before sleeping its a good idea) As for the hair on clothes-buy antiseptic))))) Good luck)

surgery ofc*))

Mmm is this antistatic a spray which makes the cat hairs do not stick to the clothes? I have never seen such a thing before...

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oh I have 2 scratching trees... and all my walls and the sofa are scratched anyway...numerous bird-mouses which they like to play with because they make noises, a "logical play"- where you can hide snackes and they have to find them...also a special brush which does a good job and sticky strips for the hairs but I cannot leave the clothes somewhere anyway- if I do not watch out- they will be full of hairs....and how about the sweaters?... would be a new house with a yard be a way out as well?
How do you manage to combine the stressful work and the cats? Or they do not disturb you at all?

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Thank you for the research- you are right, the male cat doesn't like to be alone- when I leave the flat- he stands at the door and tryes to squeeze himself out of the flat and go with me...And he needs extra attention LOL. When I read a book- he sits onto the book or brings the plastik bird and puts it right onto the book then starts rubbing his back at me- he wants me to throw the bird again so that he can catch it and bring back to me- just like a dog:) To catch it, he easily jumps onto the capboards or wardrobe (where he usually sleeps) to bring the bird back.
As you adviced, I played for around 20 mins with the cats yesterday and they DID NOT wake me up tonight. I will try playing different games with them before going to bed even if it sounds a bit nutty:)

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Is the fixed? It will slow him down if he isnt

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my cats like hamsters casa

I would rather have a hamster over a cat but I am much more of a dog person and I love my lab, he is the best!

I love my lab, too, brews. Some of my best experiments have been performed there LOL

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I'll join! I have two Labs myself.

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No rats......Lab short for Labrador Retriever

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oops it's a hamster :)
A carpet is also a nice idea:P Thx

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You shouldn't stay with someone just because they try to blackmail you emotionally. From what you say he is unlikely to change especially while you stay with him. As for getting him out of your house i do not know how you will achieve this.

I think u know the answer urself.

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Call 911 (police)

exactally. call the police and have him taken to spend the night in jail, where he will end up permanantly if he keeps up his behaviour. This will make everything more clear for you both. He will either get his act together, or get really mad. either way, you need to document it all.

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Dear ..where r u from? xoxoxo

Adios , Auf Wiedersehn , Au Revoir , Goodbye , See ya , ....... whichever language you use the only option is bye bye and look for something better in your life ........ its that simple

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It is a sad but true fact that domestic violence is not uncommon in relationships. That does not make it right though. Be it the man or the woman who is the aggressor it is a devastating and confidence shaking experience. Both men and women justify the attacks out of some deluded sense of love but the truth is that one side or the other is controlling and manipulative and highly likely to be possessive too. These are not good traits to have in any relationship let alone a happy one.

Yesterday in the UK there was a news story about how the incidences of violence in teenage relationships is on the rise. The statistics are horrifying.

In a survey commissioned by the NSPCC and sampled from 1353 teenagers aged between 13-17 a quarter of girls and 18% of boys reported physical partner violence and 1 in 3 girls and 13% of boys reported sexual partner violence.

This just goes to show it is a trend from a very early age but that does NOT mean it is right.

For yourself you should protect you sanity and your safety and find a way to cut out this horror from your life. Start asking yourself what it is you really feel when he is unreasonable uncaring hurtful or self destructive. Is it really about him? Or is it really about trying to control you? In which case don't you think you have a right to be in charge of your own life for a change?

I realise there are a whole bunch of reasons women stay with abusive men, be it financial, emotional, even physiological or physical addiction. But if you want to have a chance at a happy and fulfilling life you have to break that hold and stand up on your own. How you do that I cannot say but maybe you have friends, maybe relatives maybe even a womans abuse charity can give you the help you need. No one should have to suffer physical mental and emotional torture.

TNT

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Today, here in the States, there's a story that's become a big debate all over the news. It centers on a woman who wanted to stay away from an abusive man who was constantly losing his temper and threatening her, so she went to court to get a restraining order. Unfortunately, the Judge didn't think the man's threats seemed so bad, so he told the woman and man to come back in a few more days, when he would have more time to hear all the details. That court hearing would have been today...

...Except sadly the man, in a moment of anger, got a gun and killed the girl and then shot himself. So now the story is all over the news and people are asking questions like -- Why didn't the judge order the man to stay away when he had the chance? Why didn't the girl do a better job defending herself if she knew he was this angry and bitter? Why didn't her family or friends do more to protect her since they knew the guy was a psycho? Even the girl's Father was on the news saying this should serve as a warning for anyone who finds themself in an abusive situation -- and they should NOT wait until things get SO bad and something tragic happens.

What caught my eye was the way you ended your post. If he's constantly acting this way, even in public... and if its reached the point where you're even afraid to say something because it will set him off... then something is SERIOUSLY wrong. Because a wife should always be able to talk to her husband -- that's what a healthy and emotionally sound marriage is based on.

My advice? Pack a bag... go to family or a friend... but GET OUT NOW. And DON'T wait. Send him the message that you WON'T tolerate being abused anymore. And frankly -- fuck him if he continues to treat you this way. Just like all the other hosts have said, no woman deserves to be treated this badly by a man. It's not a healthy relationship and it will make you an emotional wreck... then it will start to take a toll on you and make feel physically sick... or worst of all something really bad might happen, like the story I told above.

Your first responsibility is to yourself and being safe. And do NOT feel any guilt or shame. There's never anything wrong with a person simply being cautious and protecting them self.

In the end -- at best -- he'll realize you are finally standing up to him and he can't be a bully anymore. And then hopefully you can talk to him like a wife should be able to speak up. Then you can try to resolve these problems somehow -- ideally with professional help, especially if he really suffers from deep anger issues.

At worst -- he'll continue to rant and have anger fits, but at least you'll be safely away. But at least you'll have some distance between the two of you, so you won't feel intimidated or threatened. Then you'll be able to think more clearly about what you want to do next. But that really IS the most important thing you need to do right now. You need to put some space between you -- and right away -- so you are safe and able to collect your thoughts properly.

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We do ??????

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Oh okay. Hosts I really appreciate you all. Kisses and hugs and may all your dreams come true.

Same for you, Old Sport

Thank you very much. I hope you are well :)

Who cares about a smile :P

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You naughty girl i put you on my favorite list ;)

Your best chance to get a member's attention is to have a great main profile pic. That is what we usually see first. Even if we see your name in the forums, when we search for who you are, it is still our first impression after anything we've read about you. Then, depending on the member, he will either read your profile or check your archives or both. Personally, I find most profiles a waste of my time and don't usually read them too carefully, but many guys make their choices from them. I look at the main pic and then check the archives to see if I like them. I might also check the written profile but just for a few moments. Then I check the price, and if the pics look worthy of the price, I'm in video.

Profile photo is most important. Then i look at archive photos, including oldest ones. I like to see the evolution of your looks, if there ae old archive photos. Then, finally, i like to text chat a little first. If i think i will have an enjoyable time, I'm into video soon thereafter.

and how long host need2 chat with u,for?

It wouldn't be you since you had to ask :P

thx god:P

Glad you know ur not from me :D It's ur type I avoid, the one's with the "Wanna see me?" that follows their "Hi". Most uninteresting, and not eager to "learn" more than how many dollars/Euros/rubles/Insert ur denomination here they can suck me dry for.

For me just long enough to answer yes or no to the question "Do you get naked?"

Now that's what I call foreplay!

I doooooooooooooooooo....

or my question: do you get naked in open and use all your toys?

so what would be the ideal profile pic? what would you like to see in it? :)

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A smile. If a host looks in her pics like she is here under sufferance, or not enjoying the experience (even though that may be the reality), it is not a great draw.

I search the catagory I'm after, find girls I like, and try the least expensive first

Yeah a bit scary...But i love scary stuff))))))))

Some claim the painting by Stoneham is haunted and carries a curse. ))

that one's pretty cool
I like paintings/portraits that have the eerie effect of an otherwise normal scene where something is just subtly wrong.

creepy?
i would call it plain UGLY

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what joke?

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It could be any other girl, same as it could be any other member for any other girl. Dude, this isn't the way to show her that you really love her. At least post with your real member screen name. Don't be afraid.... I did it long time ago, it didn't work out, but at least she knew i didn't like any other girl.... or perhaps you tell other girls the same until one of them say "yes" to you?

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Maybe she doesn't respond because she is married 8)

I don't want destroy ur dreams, but for sure she has many others who tell her the same, and with all she flirts and makes them dream about anything impossible. It's just a business and women, all women, are cruel business makers!

Infatuation ? Lust ? Delusion ? ...... Although i think love is found here its a risky place to try and find it ........ and the internet feeds your dreams and hopes whereas reality is what matters . Have you met this host ?
I may like someone , care for them , love them as a friend but like anyone genuine love will only happen by being with them .. There are many single girls here and you have to question why is that ? Many here who dont have a proper ' normal ' relationship , again why is that ? ............. I know you are being yourself and expressing yourself but dont set yourself up for a fall , however that said its better you know if you are wasting your time :)))

come back to 121 and tell me more romantic feelings muuuuahh!!!

This is fun and interesting. Some people are showing they are really romantic at heart too. They're rooting us on and wishing us luck. So thank you! But others are being cynical. Perhaps because we met online or maybe because of your job. So boo on you!

I think we'll beat the odds because true love always wins.
But is this REALLY the girl I love? Hmm...let's find out.
I'm supposed to mail you something sexy to wear -- What is it? :)

Indeed! You were supposed to send me some hot tigh high boots!!

oh dear lover, you know you are mailing me a strapon......you know who wears the pants in this relationship....now back to 121 lover!

LMAO!!! Look at this -- a list of requests from hosts over what presents I should mail them begins. Well, I'm always open to sending a beautiful woman presents. So let's see -- "CG" wants thigh high boots, so she must have great legs to show off. And "Girl you love" wants a strap-on, so she can order me around. So it looks like we've got a mistress here too.

I have to admit both are sexy, playful requests. And visually thigh high boots and a strap-on would go together. Hmm...maybe I'll have to put you two together for a threesome and see what happens then! :)

You didnt seem like the man who would be here flirting with other women, or so you said. Maybe I really don't know you.

LOL who did I flirt with? I just answered the 2 posts above and wished another host well! Besides, if you're REALLY the girl I love, you get to flirt and play with other men all the time. So fair is fair. Can't I have a little fun on a message board, where all I'm doing is talking, but NOT doing anything?

Hmm...or could it be that the girl I love is JEALOUS if I talk to another woman? Could it be that the girl I love is very PASSIONATE and POSSESSIVE? Maybe she cares so much for me now -- as much as she hates to admit it -- that she now only wants me for herself? But if that's true, then where is the post I most wanted to see? After all, I was bold and daring. I shouted from the highest mountain I LOVE YOU!!! So where is a post where she simply says I LOVE YOU TOO?

So maybe I don't know you either.
>sniff< now you've made me so sad I will cry.
>HONK< See? That's me blowing my nose I'm SO sad!!!

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Well hopefully it sounds familiar because you've got a romantic guy saying sweet things to you too. Someone who will tell you how beautiful you are as a woman and as a real person inside.

But your profile is blocked to me "based on Viewers’ location, language or other demographical details" -- so it can't be me!

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LOL well, no -- not her. You're right, I wasn't planning to send HotAsian anything, but I AM planning to send my real love a few things for fun. After all, I've already done the shopping and have things piled up in the other room!

I was just making a light joke since HotAsian answered my original post. So out of curiosity, I called up her profile and its not even accessible to me because of where I live. So as I said before...and to be a gentleman... I wish her all the best and hope she has someone doing nice things for her -- but it's obviously not gonna be me since I can't even read her profile!

You are SO generous.

ccMail her yourself. Blocking countries does not mean you are on her email blacklist. Unless you have really annoyed her and you are..

thanks...but there is no profile info or way to click on email....apparently the uk is blocked to...i am in USA

You do not need to see her profile to email her. Click on ccMail and at the top you have button marked compose.. It will open up a blank email into which you put the hosts name as the recipient. Type your message and send. If the profile is deleted it will not allow you to send to a non-existent name.

Mike, I thought for one wonderful moment asianpie had returned but no...: -((
This host blocks UK (or me!). You in UK?

USA?? (:((

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i will email her but not tell any of you guys muahhahahahah

The arrows are only on Firefox and Google Chrome. On IE the cover girl pics scroll across automatically.
You really have to be almost blind to not notice the two arrows on each side of the 3 cover girl pics. Also the girls who appeart change each time a member goes on the home page. The EMail cc sent to all members annoincing the competition states that there are 10 cover girls and 50 cupids. What more could CC do?

The only way I can recreate your problem with the pics is by having a small window open when I click to open the gallery. If i do this even making the window larger or putting it to full screen does not change things and I still have to scroll. Make sure your browser is full screen when you open the gallery. If it still happens then maybe you have a very small display. BTW isn't it a bit late to post this. Contest has basically finished.

First, who cares if it is at the end of the contest? It is important for CC to know that not everyone noticed all the cover girls and to consider a new layout in the future for the home page (and the cover galleries).

Second, not everyone checks their emails all the time.

Third, I use IE and the covers did not always scroll automatically, unlike say the xmas contest two years ago where they always scroll in a circle.

Fourth, depending on browsers, resolution, et cetera, I can see someone not noticing the arrows. I like bigger icons and fonts so I use 800X600 most of the time, for example.

Fifth, I will try what you said to see if that helps view the gallery. Thanks.

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in IE6 i could only see the first two names, not even pictures of those two. I had to use "view source" to see winner names. (not pleasant, lol)

The arrows are blue on my PC.

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If your display is 800 x 600 this could be the reason for you having to scroll the cover girl gallery pics.

dont like that cant see all 10girls same time.many of guys even didnt knew that there r 10 covergirls.also pics looking very pale.like a ghosts:P...wouldb better when all 10 r visible.and when all girls are stand,so can c from toes to head..

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It would be nice if the thread stayed on topic, and the topic was about being able to view the pics and the home page layout, not who was the best covergirl or the quality of the pics. Unfortunately, you chose to jump at the chance to criticize your fellow hosts, some of whom obviously worked very, very hard on the pics.

Hosts such as you need to remember that the pics are ultimately for the members. It isn't about pleasing the hosts and giving them what they want. It is about giving the members what they want. After all, members are the customers and the point of pics and contests is to draw them to the site.

Hosts need to only feel that they have a fair chance to be chosen. It isn't about what they like or don't like in terms of pics. And in terms of your criticisms, first, there were new faces, just as CC promised. In fact, there were a few hosts that I never even noticed before. Second, some of the hosts pics were creative and were not boring, and often, less is more.

Personally, I liked three hosts in particular. Obviously, I liked AxB's pics, and they don't get old to me regardless of how many times she is chosen to be a cover. The same goes for Casablancka. She is a natural exotic beauty, and I believe she was the only one to take pics outside in the snow. Finally, I liked HoneyKET. Her pics may appear to be boring to some, but she came off as a sweet innocent young woman and for her look, the pics were perfect.

All three of these hosts did an excellent job in this member's opinion and should be praised, not criticized.

The pictures weren't taken outside in the snow. It's photoshop:)

With all due respect to everyone, I work very, very hard on my pictures each contest, and the pictures were taken outside in the cold and the snow. It was not some special effect with photoshop. It was -25 C and I was only outside about 2 minutes. My fotographer took many many pics very fast, and I picked the best ones:)

Damn you mean I could have peaked over the fence and seen you naked for two minutes for free and for real not on cam :P

Stop it!!! You are going to make it so nobody wants to be a cover girl if they think INYF will be spying on them. :p

Oh ok, sorry me then:) They just looked a bit unreal thats why i thought it was photoshop:) Well done:)

:)np

First, I wasn't there any more than you were so there is no way for either of us to know. She does seem to be behaving like someone that is cold so it seems like she was outside to me. Second, they look very realistic to me, be them outside for real, in front of a glass window, or with photoshop. Third, they are great pics regardless of the use of photoshop. Fourth, the main issue was originality of pics, and she is the only one with those type of pics.

There is entirely too much jealously amongst hosts and the members that support them. At least if you are going to attack someone's pics or the person herself, make sure you have the evidence to back it up, and like I said, I don't think you were there any more than I was.

Jealousy? No way. I like Casa, and i think she is great. And i've already appologized to her, everyone can be mistaken;)

thank u:) all is ok :D

nice pics she made this time... ofcouse its not fotoshop... im professional in fotoshop and i see her skin have light of sun,what is impossible2 make in fotoshop, ,,,if u dont know.better dont say :-)

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I agree Casablancka's pictures are the best in my opinion,, my poor baby caught a cold next day after this outside photosession.,I pleaded with her not to do outside pics,its crazy I meant too cold. Casablankca's pictures are the most original and she is a natural beauty,,I love my Bambi. Alexa is absolutely gorgeous

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hehe

I didn't know she was Chanel's friend, lol, but gfs need to stick up for each other I guess.

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Find a host that has a complete heart.

To do this, click on "Heart Puzzle" on the left column, then the "See the status of your puzzle" button in the center, then "see chathosts completing their puzzles" button in the center again.

Pick one you like. (such as HottiEssex) .Go to her profile, See if yours is a match by clicking on the "see if we can combine hearts" button

congrats. how to finish the puzzle is a puzzle in itself. Ive spent 4500 - 5500 dollars so far and still need one piece. But who's counting. Th host I wanna join with already compleated her heart so I'm left with a broken one.

and you keep spending?...LOL...left with a broken virtual heart and broken wallet too.

I am paid about 8000 .- 9000 usd per week so it doesnt break the wallet that much. Its more a question of the annoyed feeling of unsettlement and someone holding u back. Know the feeling ?

i need one too.:P got stuck on one peice.maybe you can join me?:P

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Mmmm i wudnt mind Robbie to be my Valentine;)

Dont worry, be happy :-)

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My pal foot foot - The Shaggs

poor dear i think the contest has made you a little crazy

Money Can't Buy Me Love :)

Songs for my valentine
Give the game away
In rhyme I make you mine
Sing all I cannot say
I known mine are the tears I never cry
I know mine is a love I must deny

Songs for my valentine
Give the game away

I see you every day
With happy home and child
I look the other way
Cold on the outside
I know mine are the arms you'll never hold
I know mine is a love remains untold
Songs for my valentine
Oh they give the game away

T'pau

TNT

I use to love her......but i had to kill her, GNR

The bitch is back - Elton John

Love Stinks

At least that is what it was after my last valentines day I celebrated in 2003

"I Don't Believe in Love" Queensryche

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yes !! very hard ... u made me cry

wish u win baby!
good luck!!

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