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photoshooting
I am planning a new photo shooting after New Years and would be great to get some opinions. What you guys would love? Any ideas and suggestions would be great. Thanks
RE: photoshooting
thank you for suggestion. considering is winter here,my neighbours will see a very dressed smile only :D
RE: photoshooting
I'm in agreement with "thirtyone". I would add, not only dressed in casual wear, but out of the studio or room where you normally host, and in a park, or on the street. Out in the world, basically. It's nice to see host pictures showing her everyday beauty in everyday life settings. Having said this, I have to confess, I get a bit put out when a certain host shows pictures of her world travels. Can't help but feel that my hard-earned money and that of other members is providing her with a lavish lifestyle that I can't afford -- like the doctor who drives around in his $80,000 Porsche, when his patients can barely afford the medical care they need. Enough pet-peeve soapbox LOL
I would also suggest a variety of poses. Some hosts have almost nothing but head shots, some nothing but fingernail shots, some nothing but nudity. Too much of anything gets boring, even vagina shots. Only so many ways you can photograph a vagina ;)
I would also suggest a variety of poses. Some hosts have almost nothing but head shots, some nothing but fingernail shots, some nothing but nudity. Too much of anything gets boring, even vagina shots. Only so many ways you can photograph a vagina ;)
RE: Merry Christmas, Happy Yuletide
Wonderful thoughts, dear Kerry. You particularly are someone who makes this site special. I hope you have a great Christmas, play great music and have lots of love and laughs. xxx
RE: Merry Christmas, Happy Yuletide
Kerry, I hope you enjoy the festive season as much as you can. A lady such as you deserves the best. Santa has been briefed to find his way to you and treat you right ;) - Seasons Greetings to a wonderful host.
RE: Merry Christmas, Happy Yuletide
The most festive of holidays to you too dear Kerry. You show us the best of who we can be. May your generous spirit be always merry and bright.
RE: Merry Christmas, Happy Yuletide
Oooh, Kerry, I promised you to be back on your last day here of this year, but we were late back from hospital. Nevertheless, you'll read this later, I wish you the best of seasonal days, spend together with family and/or friends. And let us not forget the true meaning of Christmas: "love and understanding". The world and this community needs it more than ever now. With a wild shaking hug, Fil
RE: finally snowing !
mmmmm, walking in the snow, the muting of sounds, just the cracking of the snow under the shoes, warmly dressed, with a companion close side by side, followed by an hot chocomilk somewhere....
RE: finally snowing !
Makes me f*cking depressed and low, we have snow here for 6-7 months a year so no thx. Im a 100% summer person, i need heat at least 363 days a year.. I need to freaking move.
RE: finally snowing !
Or you could set yourself on fire. Less expensive but wouldn't get rid of the snow. Also, it's supposed to be painful :P
RE: private writing mode
Yes, if they write using non-private mode, others can read it, Does not matter what it is, 121, open session, text chat. It will be visible untill you clear the history of messages. So, you would better to remind your members to write you pvt messages because they forget sometimes if only it is not collective discussion :)
RE: private writing mode
Yes, members who came from some CC associated sites don't have the option to chat in private chat mode, you can either ( clear chat history) after reading each sentence or exclude these associated sites, telling your members to join CC where they spend less and you get more.
The use of a profile
Guys, what importance do you give to a profile. And which item do you read first: her nickname, her photos, writings on topics such as 'Turn-Ons:', 'Why I am here', or...whatever.
I'm just curious, and thanks in advance for your help!
I'm just curious, and thanks in advance for your help!
RE: The use of a profile
I read everything and I usually go through the photo album too. Bad grammar, no info, and no face pics = no visit.
Humour, personality and good pics = visit
Humour, personality and good pics = visit
RE: The use of a profile
I agree with the drunkenscot and would add that if it looks like the host has put little effort into the profile then I assume she'll put little effort into the chat too. Perhaps not a fair assumption but the profile is her resume and introduction to the CC nation. First impressions are powerful.
Struck
"what have I become?
my sweetest friend
everyone I know
goes away in the end
and you could have it all
my empire of dirt"
my sweetest friend
everyone I know
goes away in the end
and you could have it all
my empire of dirt"
RE: Struck
imho: this version of Johnny Cash is more authentic and intelligible: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vt1Pwfnh5pc
RE: Struck
Just pointing out that Johnny Cash covered the NIN song. And not the other way around.
oh..Santa baby :)
u sent puckish song darling))))
as for me, this song accociated with xmas..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMPSSVzQMNE
as for me, this song accociated with xmas..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMPSSVzQMNE
RE: oh..Santa baby :)
For me thise one...;
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgrywU-IJHs
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgrywU-IJHs
RE: oh..Santa baby :)
Eartha Kitt sang it first. Madonna and Kylie Minogue are nothing more than cheap imitation knock-offs -- and not very good ones at that. They should have made it uniquely their own instead of trying to mimic the original and best
RE: oh..Santa baby :)
i know..all the good songs ever made are singed over and over again by different artists...i like to think its a way for them to say that they appreciate so much the songs..that they bring it up to the tops again, so people wont forget about them :)
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Never swear in eternal love, it is only those who have passed on to another world. Living among this impossible, the feeling still grows in any respect, either in habit or in hatred. But everyone in life needs to happen in a strong love. At least for a few hours, for a moment, but it should. Those who have not experienced mental impotent.
RE: .....
Men do not like love without sex , women - sex without love . Woman eating in conversation , the men talk of food. Women bathe, swim and men . Therefore, in some swimsuits , while others - heat. Women - dreams of men - plans. The man loves his eyes , a woman - the ears. Women lie about their age, men - their income . The way to a man's heart is through his stomach , but to a woman's heart - through a registry office . Divorced men - free. A divorced woman - alone. Other we ...
RE: .....
omg! Julia...
so much strong words from a woman who enjoys a soft conversation...
alright dear?
so much strong words from a woman who enjoys a soft conversation...
alright dear?
RE: .....
Eternal love is like my nickname...Forever...No matter what in life or time...We love our first and last,
RE: .....
I think we have to deal with a betrayed lady here, and disappointed: this is the message, I think, she wants to share for who understands her well.
And love can suddenly stand unexpectedly behind the near corner, Dolly!!!
Sincerely, Fil
And love can suddenly stand unexpectedly behind the near corner, Dolly!!!
Sincerely, Fil
RE: .....
dears u all here dontunderstand me here with that post :(
i am sorry
i dont want upsed nnobody
kisses
i am sorry
i dont want upsed nnobody
kisses
RE: .....
I not swear eternal love...I not believe eternal love. Eternal love means today. Today I remember my late brother...today I remember my late goldfish...tomorrow I will remember you. Means eternal our life time
RE: Happy Birthday MysteryEmerald!
Dear Emska, Happy Birthday! May you celebrate it with love and laughter.
RE: Happy Birthday MysteryEmerald!
Happy Belated Birthday to you MysteryEmerald. ;)
I hope you had a beautiful day and that you were surrounded by loving family and friends. :) huggggg
I hope you had a beautiful day and that you were surrounded by loving family and friends. :) huggggg
RE: Happy Birthday MysteryEmerald!
Thank you very much for your warm words people:)
Kisses and hugs:)
Kisses and hugs:)
RE: Сommunication is an integral part of eroticism!
Absolutely.
Now, what were you saying? I got distracted... :P
Now, what were you saying? I got distracted... :P
RE: Сommunication is an integral part of eroticism!
Waiwera is a locality situated in the north of the Auckland Region in New Zealand. The name is of Māori origin and means "Hot Water" (Wai = Water and Wera = Hot).
RE: Сommunication is an integral part of eroticism!
It is hard to define viewers as a whole and what they like, and actually futile to try doing so. All are unique in our ways supprising as this might sound, some viewers are actually scared and shocked by deep and more Intellectual communication and can be rude and pushy in any category including friends it is varied from person to person the outcome of things is not merely by category some of the most rude men hover about in friends looking to find a host that will strip off her clothing and will taunt her push and push even harrass.
Jessica i truelly hope that sort of viewer never bothers you, indeed one can find some lovely people here that are deep, thoughtful, respectful and honest with lovely communication! However do not be shocked if you are greeted with the likes of a few rough edges along the way that clearly would not know the means of how to communicate in polite and respectful manner! many guys may not share your and my thoughts about communication being a key integral part of eroticism and show u something altogether quite different by their actions.
Jessica i truelly hope that sort of viewer never bothers you, indeed one can find some lovely people here that are deep, thoughtful, respectful and honest with lovely communication! However do not be shocked if you are greeted with the likes of a few rough edges along the way that clearly would not know the means of how to communicate in polite and respectful manner! many guys may not share your and my thoughts about communication being a key integral part of eroticism and show u something altogether quite different by their actions.
RE: Сommunication is an integral part of eroticism!
I was joking of course, but sometimes Eroticism is in the Eye of the Beholder :))))
To answer you, as I see it communication is a skill, learned best by listening. And what could more erotic than someone who is sensitive, attentive, and responsive to you?
But first you have to make a connection with that someone. And as Sofia points out with her usual effusive eloquence, that may not be so easy at times here.
To answer you, as I see it communication is a skill, learned best by listening. And what could more erotic than someone who is sensitive, attentive, and responsive to you?
But first you have to make a connection with that someone. And as Sofia points out with her usual effusive eloquence, that may not be so easy at times here.
RE: Сommunication is an integral part of eroticism!
Of course. Our biggest erogenous zone is inside our head.
RE: Сommunication is an integral part of eroticism!
With such a nickname as mine :-))), I'm almost compelled to give my humble opinion, Jessica. First: turn your question in reverse: eroticism IS communication in it's most pure form, albeit non-verbal: the expression 'body language' is most appropriate here. With eroticism the purest question is: 'do you like me?', 'do you want me?' 'can I seduce you?': it's a mating dance so to speak. With one depressing remark: what can be the intention here on CC? No need to answer all this: it's just old men's thoughts, Jessica
thanks for the messages :)
i am safe.
thanks for the good heart friends who found time to drop a note to me and to reach me out to see if i was safe though the worst flood my city has seen over the years. i got a long way to recovery though. :)
will take time to return back to forum. gotta pick up my life after the horrific dance of the floods and restore some normalcy....
once again, thanks for the wishes :)
-P
thanks for the good heart friends who found time to drop a note to me and to reach me out to see if i was safe though the worst flood my city has seen over the years. i got a long way to recovery though. :)
will take time to return back to forum. gotta pick up my life after the horrific dance of the floods and restore some normalcy....
once again, thanks for the wishes :)
-P
RE: thanks for the messages :)
I didn't hear about that flood Anand (shame on me) but I am sorry it happened to your city and it's inhabitans and I sincerely hope you won't survive it once again and will recover soon. Wish you all the very best..
RE: thanks for the messages :)
Aaaah, Hades, good to know you're safe, although I needed you those days. A friend of mine was also stuck in Chennay in different hotels, updating and repairing machinery. It was also difficult to evacuate him (to Bangalore). But meanwhile he is safely at home here since saturday. Keep it up, friend. Greetz
RE: thanks for the messages :)
glad that ur friend is safe FIL. The last week really horrible. The entire city was cut off from rest of the world (more than 90%). imagine a week with no vehicle plying on the roads :D, no banks, no atm, no petrol / diesel :D
thanks Kerry. Restoring is gonna take time. for now, i am back home. no place is same as home sweet home no matter how much is lost and needs to be replaced :)
-P
thanks Kerry. Restoring is gonna take time. for now, i am back home. no place is same as home sweet home no matter how much is lost and needs to be replaced :)
-P
RE: Mistress Belle23 owns me and my sub kinky slut gf
What you find in the bottom of Santa's bag :)
RE: Mistress Belle23 owns me and my sub kinky slut gf
this thread reminds me of something from The Twilight Zone
RE: Mistress Belle23 owns me and my sub kinky slut gf
She's a great lady, have talked to her a couple of times. And I'm glad to see I'm not the only one with this fetish. :)
dear host :)
do you feel it is ok for you to talk to other members on other sites while a member is in your video paying for your attention? i personally think its rude..but thats just me :)
RE: dear host :)
dear member : why didnt u say that to the host that talked with other members on other sites? just saying...
RE: dear host :)
dear temptress..i did....why did you think i said i consider it rude? and i wanted others opinions..geez
RE: dear host :)
I completely agree with Obi Rog: it's elementary politeness to focus on the member when you see him. And more than one host disregard this unwritten rule! Greetz
RE: dear host :)
i think its hard for hosts that are working in studios not sure if they are ones to have the control of that stuff the studio or if its there boss in the studio that decides on how things go ask a studio host about it. u can normally tell whos in a studio and who is not from there pictures and such or if they have a video upload on there profile. i suggest mailing your host when u have issues and then maybe u can resolve the issue in question :)
RE: dear host :)
Yes, agree, CC 1-2-1 is supposed to mean just that, it's what we pay extra for. Those hosts I vid know that, those that don't, I never vidded again.
RE: dear host :)
there is a difference with camhosting from home and from a studio there are good and bad things as with all things when a host is working from home more often then not she is not streaming simultaneously thats the difference with a studio host and one that is in her apartment, the studio hosts in studios have powerful net and cams powerful enough to stream simultaneously.
more often and hosts that stream from home pause there sessions elsewhere reason being net and also there pc and such the fps ( frames per sec) would be affected badly for the host working from home.
The plus is you get a perfect setting in a studio the look of the studio the lighting and such ideal penthouse theme the minus is what this post was talking about.
streaming from home u get the host alone more often the minus is the enviroment and lighting in some cases the hosts home might not be as plush as the cam studio or her net speed there are plus and minus it all is down to what the viewer whats.
more often and hosts that stream from home pause there sessions elsewhere reason being net and also there pc and such the fps ( frames per sec) would be affected badly for the host working from home.
The plus is you get a perfect setting in a studio the look of the studio the lighting and such ideal penthouse theme the minus is what this post was talking about.
streaming from home u get the host alone more often the minus is the enviroment and lighting in some cases the hosts home might not be as plush as the cam studio or her net speed there are plus and minus it all is down to what the viewer whats.
RE: dear host :)
I care more about the quality of communication than the setting and home alone has an intimacy about it I really like. :)
RE: dear host :)
camming from your own home gives a privacy im glad to not be in a studio
RE: dear host :)
if you were in 121 with the girl, you have the liberty to report her or better yet, never visit her again. if not, then it was implied that you were willing to share her attention. have fun and enjoy! :D
RE: dear host :)
my guess is the part beginning with "if not." When i read what you wrote initially it sounded like you were saying that not reporting implies acceptance of her talking to others on other sites.
RE: dear host :)
not at all, i wrote it like that so it doesn't seem like i'm shoving my oppinon and what i'd do in the man's face :P i don't want to seem mean by telling him to report her and for the record, i don't do vids with more than one guy because i like the intimacy, but sometimes, members categoricaly refuse 121 and another one comes in open session and the first one still requires full attention. Anyway, we can't judge without knowing the full story and that won't happen because we weren't there.
RE: dear host :)
It's certainly fair that you should get the attention you pay for and I completely agree with it. But... you should unerstand that the financial situation makes some hosts work on other sites or rooms here as well (thats what you are just talking about). And if you enter a host's video session while she is having a free conversation with another member in another window she must elementary finish that chat to stay polite with everyone. I mean you'd better give her that one minute to say good-bye to that guy to totally enjoy your paid time together. I think hosts realise the situation actually and pause their extra rooms for the guest who comes for money. Wish you to be treated well here ;)
RE: dear host :)
Yes, its rude but, if youre in open session, its not illegal but I still agree its rude and if a host does this to me and then denies it when I mention it (it really is too obvious when youre typing to another person or in comm chat or on another site), I just do not visit again. if it was a 121 session then report host to CC as its more than plain rude, its against rules.
RE: dear host :)
i am not talking about another member coming into video...im saying the host is talking to others on other sites while im paying for her attention..that is what im saying..it has nothing to do with open or 121 vid...from my understanding when a host gets a vid...she is supposed to "pause" other sites....im just saying do you think its rude..regardless of what vid a person is in....if im paying for attention and she is not in any other vid on other sites and yet keeps talking to others...im saying that is rude :)
RE: dear host :)
How do you know she is not in vid on other sites? not all members are desiring nudity, or sexual play. Many are paying but content for casual conversation. It's just as rude to be entertaining a pay visitor on another site, while chatting with you on cc. CC is not some god over all other sites, They have just as much right to expect the same treatment for their pay customers as here. The problem is the system. Unless there is some way to only do one site at a time, preventing multiple simultaneous video sessions, it's going to happen. Of course the dynamic changes with 1-to-1 -- there you are paying for exclusive attention.
RE: dear host :)
im not complaining....i just wanted host opinions...and i see i have gotten a wide spectrum of them....thx...now i see where some host stand and some dont :)
RE: dear host :)
roger you been around long enough to know it happens all the time. and im betting u were the other member more then once, i know was many times.
RE: dear host :)
That says it, Thomas! Spot on! Ol' Rog kind of surprised me there with his invective.
RE: dear host :)
With all do respect,
Whether a host is in a studio or at home, the chat host rules are very clear, that when a member enters a chat host's video she is to pause or close all other rooms.
When I use to work in studios, three of the first things that my studio bosses told me when I started with them, was to read all the chat host rules, to follow all chat host rules and to always pause or close any other rooms if someone enters video, unless the person in your video asks you to be in more then one place at the same time, so he can watch you in both places and if the later happens, to make sure that I let anyone else in a paying session know that I am in session on another place as well by request, so they have to the choice to either stay, or wait until you are finished, or to find someone else.
I am quite sure that all studio owners read the rules to the sites that they have their ladies working on, just like the studio bosses I use to work for before I started working from home on my own.
Members spend a lot of money on this site, so they have the right to enjoy and should be able to enjoy a paid session with a host knowing that she is not also on other sites at the same time.
The only time a member should have to worry about sharing a host's time is if he enters an open session, because then he knows he will have to share her.
Have a great day everyone. :)
Whether a host is in a studio or at home, the chat host rules are very clear, that when a member enters a chat host's video she is to pause or close all other rooms.
When I use to work in studios, three of the first things that my studio bosses told me when I started with them, was to read all the chat host rules, to follow all chat host rules and to always pause or close any other rooms if someone enters video, unless the person in your video asks you to be in more then one place at the same time, so he can watch you in both places and if the later happens, to make sure that I let anyone else in a paying session know that I am in session on another place as well by request, so they have to the choice to either stay, or wait until you are finished, or to find someone else.
I am quite sure that all studio owners read the rules to the sites that they have their ladies working on, just like the studio bosses I use to work for before I started working from home on my own.
Members spend a lot of money on this site, so they have the right to enjoy and should be able to enjoy a paid session with a host knowing that she is not also on other sites at the same time.
The only time a member should have to worry about sharing a host's time is if he enters an open session, because then he knows he will have to share her.
Have a great day everyone. :)
RE: dear host :)
roger, you're right to a point. darling ashley, thank you for your spot on post.
howevr, roger, you been here a million years now and while i think everyone made to much of your honest post.........get over it, it is a fact of life here and you're not going to change it
howevr, roger, you been here a million years now and while i think everyone made to much of your honest post.........get over it, it is a fact of life here and you're not going to change it
Annuex is great at roleplay
Annuex is a great chat hostess. Sexy and willing to explore role play. A sub but does have her limits.
Living your life
Ladies: which virtues of the 3 do you prefer?
Faith, Hope or Love in your life?
Faith, Hope or Love in your life?
RE: Living your life
Mousetrap your answer shows bravery. You may be the exception and I say that in a good way. I think most people would rather "believe" than know the truth. There are many ways I could support my statement but I think the easiest may be that few people are capable of changing their minds or opinions no matter what facts are put in front of them. Another illustration may be the difficult topic of religion. For most people religion involves "faith." And faith is basically saying I believe in something without verifiable scientifically supported facts.
RE: Living your life
Pete, respectfully, you are making a false distinction. Ultimately "truth" is based on what we feel is right, what is "obvious." We can agree on what truth is once we are satisfied we know.
For me, I don't think honesty and faith are opposed, necessarily. Instead, honesty, love, and faith are aspects of living mindfully. And so none is more important than the others, because that would be to follow an idea of how to live... a principle... rather than simply living as a whole person.
But I do like Caramelli's answer :).
For me, I don't think honesty and faith are opposed, necessarily. Instead, honesty, love, and faith are aspects of living mindfully. And so none is more important than the others, because that would be to follow an idea of how to live... a principle... rather than simply living as a whole person.
But I do like Caramelli's answer :).
RE: Living your life
Interesting reply. Especially this line: Ultimately "truth" is based on what we feel is right, what is "obvious."
Some believe we literally create our own reality. Even some theoretical physicists are moving towards this position postulating that the universe is a hologram or there are an infinite number of universes.
So..a big part of me says there is only "one truth," but I am happy to contemplate that we all create our own universe.
Always fun to talk to you Seems......keep on posting.
Some believe we literally create our own reality. Even some theoretical physicists are moving towards this position postulating that the universe is a hologram or there are an infinite number of universes.
So..a big part of me says there is only "one truth," but I am happy to contemplate that we all create our own universe.
Always fun to talk to you Seems......keep on posting.
RE: Living your life
Thanks Pete! always good to hear what you have to say.
My reference... going a bit too far afield... is the skeptic philosopher David Hume, who held that any rational argument boils down in the end to what your gut instinct tells you. There are no innate ideas, he maintained, there is only that which you experience in life and the relations of ideas you apprehend.
Perhaps that is also to say if there is one Truth it can't be found by rational thinking.
As for the notion that you create your own reality, I prefer to think of it as a dance. Perhaps (likely in my case) you just improvise as you go :)
My reference... going a bit too far afield... is the skeptic philosopher David Hume, who held that any rational argument boils down in the end to what your gut instinct tells you. There are no innate ideas, he maintained, there is only that which you experience in life and the relations of ideas you apprehend.
Perhaps that is also to say if there is one Truth it can't be found by rational thinking.
As for the notion that you create your own reality, I prefer to think of it as a dance. Perhaps (likely in my case) you just improvise as you go :)
RE: Living your life
In Russia we have three Saints corresponding to those three virtues: Vera (Faith), Nadezhda (Hope), Lubov (Love). And their mother Sofiya, which means Wisdom. So, to my mind - no use to choose between all good things if you are wise ;).
questions that shouldn't be asked
I know hosts want to have a sense of who the person is they are hosting. But some personal questions seem inappropriate to me.
Questions like: "Are you married?" - I imagine many of the guys who come here are married. And if they are they may be dealing with some underlying guilt in visiting a host here. Or maybe they don't want to be thinking about their wife when they are enjoying -- or hoping to enjoy -- virtual sex with a beautiful host. Is it really necessary for the host to know this?
Questions like: "Are you married?" - I imagine many of the guys who come here are married. And if they are they may be dealing with some underlying guilt in visiting a host here. Or maybe they don't want to be thinking about their wife when they are enjoying -- or hoping to enjoy -- virtual sex with a beautiful host. Is it really necessary for the host to know this?
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
Agreed. That question is a real turn off for me. I would add also, What is your work? and also saying I love you and acting as if they are boyfriend and girlfriend. Seriously? on the first visit?
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
i could see that some people would want to keep that information private, particularly those whose occupation would suggest they should not be visiting this kind of site.
Perhaps a better question to ask is "Tell me about yourself" and leave it up to the person to say what he or she thinks is important to share. Pointed questions, specific questions, can be very uncomfortable when a person wants to remain anonymous and protect his/her privacy
I'm sure the hosts, too, have questions that make them uncomfortable.
Perhaps a better question to ask is "Tell me about yourself" and leave it up to the person to say what he or she thinks is important to share. Pointed questions, specific questions, can be very uncomfortable when a person wants to remain anonymous and protect his/her privacy
I'm sure the hosts, too, have questions that make them uncomfortable.
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
what is wrong about asking what are you doing for life? nobody asking you how much do you earn :P i like to know what my members are doing for living for sure:)
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
I think from his post, it's not so much that YOU would know more about him, but that it reminds him of who he is, and maybe he feels guilty being here when he is married, you know that he is being unfaithful to his wife or something.
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
OOPS! my reply was meant for StrawberryKitty not Casablancka
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
If he feels guilty about being here then maybe he shouldn't be here
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
Well, im a very curious person and i ask both question, not like i care about your profession, but im interested which field you re occupied in, maybe to ask some advices, personally i see nothing wrong with it and all the information stays between us only i guess? you can keep it in a secret if you like anyway, why not to say it direct that you wont discuss something ? im sure we all have topics not to be discussed on here
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
I personally would feel I was being rude telling someone i don't want to discuss something.
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
ARE YOU MARRIED?:D:D:D:D:D:))))))))(diablo)
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked(except:hey baby want take off your panties?)
Awww dear, u a sooo sensitive man, better i will put your name to block list, for no way offend your delicate soul, with sooo horrible questions about ur marriage status))))
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked(except:hey baby want take off your panties?)
Coming from a girl who places herself in the "A little shy" category? lol
If you're not going to be understanding to what this guy is saying, don't be a hypocrite either :) .
If you're not going to be understanding to what this guy is saying, don't be a hypocrite either :) .
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked(except:hey baby want take off your panties?)
If you're not going to be understanding irony between words - don't be a hypocrite either :) ;)
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
if im asked if im single or taken i will answer however i will return the same question to my viewer i never ask that questionn first. its not something u outright ask a person but then again varies from person to person and is built on a mutual trust. Trust is earnt between two people and is fragile thing. and one can't behave like a bull in a china shop if you get my drift , asking about someones career i dont see the issue in that at all.
also its good to know if a person is married in the case they might need to vanish in a session and it comes across as very rude if they just vanish from a chat same goes with a host also. mutual understanding and respect we are all humans after all treat others as we ourselves like to be treated. Mutual respect goes a long way and diplomacy super important in every aspect of life and todays society. some of us are getting intimate physically so what on earth is the issue to embark on a Psychological intimacy with the right person even if he or she is a host or viewer?
also its good to know if a person is married in the case they might need to vanish in a session and it comes across as very rude if they just vanish from a chat same goes with a host also. mutual understanding and respect we are all humans after all treat others as we ourselves like to be treated. Mutual respect goes a long way and diplomacy super important in every aspect of life and todays society. some of us are getting intimate physically so what on earth is the issue to embark on a Psychological intimacy with the right person even if he or she is a host or viewer?
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
I really don't care what a host asks me , no need to make this a big issue on the forum
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
Doesn't appear that anyone is making it a "big issue". IMHO the question is a good one, and has generated more responses than most. For that reason alone, the post should probably be commended.
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
Who cares what question you are asked? If you don't want to answer don't answer sounds pretty simple to me. Its normal conversation really with anyone. If you meet someone on the street and they ask something do you get all bent out of shape?
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
Personally, I find no fault in anyone asking any question of me at all. And to take offense at questions of the kind that anyone would normally ask of anyone else when first meeting them seems weirdly sensitive of a person - a guy especially. Hell, this place is meant for indulging fantasies anyway, right? Yeah, of course - so just construct a persona and play a part while you're here - leave your real life for the real world and answer any question in whatever way you find most amusing.
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
Sounds like you are having your own issues about your presence here. If you feel "guilty", that's your problem, and not the host's. If it bothers you, figure out an answer you are comfortable with - an honest one might be a first choice. Seems to me that many viewers' fantasies ultimately lie in true friendship, forgiveness, and yes...maybe even love. An important - maybe the most important - element in that "fantasy" is honesty. Of all places, why would anyone be afraid to discuss that here? Do you fear that a host may take advantage of your honesty? Would it make you feel too vulnerable to be honest?
That said, your post has generated some good discussion, which has often been lacking ever since screen names were required to make a post. This board used to be much more honest when unregistered pseudonyms were permitted.
That said, your post has generated some good discussion, which has often been lacking ever since screen names were required to make a post. This board used to be much more honest when unregistered pseudonyms were permitted.
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
Well said & very insightful. I can understand that a host or member might want to keep some aspect of themselves quiet and hidden. But I think part of what sets CC apart is the potential to make intimate and strong connections here. You can define that however you want, or not at all. What do you need, what do you desire, what do you offer? And I would say that honesty and openness offers a way to the deepest of connections..
RE: OK, now it's MY turn to weigh-in
Very off topic but ........... Maybe you dont use the metric system very much -10lbs 14 ozs = 4.93Kgs
RE: OK, now it's MY turn to weigh-in
that was a rather judgmental statement. Obviously he intended it as humor. and as he said, mis-typed the 2nd reply, which should have been evident because the last two digits were accurate
RE: questions that shouldn't be asked
Gee, you guys, no idea I would set off such a firestorm of discussion.